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Wanstead Village Directory<br />

A TESTING YEAR?<br />

As we venture into <strong>2024</strong>, we must remember to limit the pressure<br />

we put on the youth in our community, says Wanstead resident and<br />

A level student Zadie Larsson<br />

As an A level student, it becomes<br />

hard not to associate this New<br />

Year with impending exams and<br />

uncertainty over my next steps. Whether<br />

you are choosing to go to university, an<br />

apprenticeship or straight into the field<br />

of work, the prospects of moving on from<br />

school into the adult world can be scary.<br />

There is also the added pressure of being<br />

sure of what career you want to pursue. Many<br />

young people have an immense feeling of<br />

uncertainty over choosing their prospective<br />

career options. It is important to normalise the<br />

feelings of uncertainty that many youths feel.<br />

For a lot of us, <strong>2024</strong> marks the most important<br />

exam year yet, the impending dread of<br />

A levels looms, and instead of being excited<br />

for the New Year, young students in the<br />

community can feel extremely anxious. I invite<br />

the adults reading this to limit that pressure<br />

as much as possible and to feel compassion<br />

towards your children, grandchildren or<br />

friends. Anxiety can show itself in a myriad of<br />

ways, the NHS saying that signs of anxiety can<br />

be seen in ‘irritable’ behaviour, demonstrating<br />

how easy it is to confuse ‘acting out’ with<br />

genuine worry. Children who find schoolwork<br />

a struggle, or those with special educational<br />

needs or mental health difficulties, may be<br />

more likely to experience academic anxiety.<br />

However, so can high achievers, particularly<br />

children who are overly perfectionist or whose<br />

parents have very high ambitions for them.<br />

No one is exempt from these feelings; there<br />

is such a broad spectrum of what anxiety can<br />

look like for each individual person. For a lot of<br />

people, exams add to – or actually cause – the<br />

anxiety that a lot of students feel. Academic<br />

anxiety is likely to increase as children get<br />

older, although primary school teachers have<br />

reported anxiety in their pupils too. It can be<br />

argued whether such young children need<br />

this academic pressure put on them. However,<br />

the only thing we can control is the way in<br />

which we help our children and young adults<br />

through these difficult times.<br />

In this New Year, I urge you and your families<br />

to pay attention to the small signs that you<br />

may miss in your children and to understand<br />

that <strong>2024</strong> might not hold the same excitement<br />

for everyone.<br />

To the youth of our community, this year<br />

might seem scary and full of change, but<br />

with change comes excitement! If we try to<br />

have the most positive mindset we can and<br />

flip the negatives into positives, then this<br />

year won’t seem so daunting. If we start to<br />

mentally prepare ourselves now, then one<br />

big change can be broken down into small,<br />

manageable ones, ultimately resulting in an<br />

easier transition into adulthood.<br />

Wishing everyone the most fabulous New<br />

Year! If you feel scared or nervous about<br />

exams, don’t worry. We are all in this together.<br />

For information and support on the issues<br />

covered, visit wnstd.com/youngminds<br />

To advertise, call 020 8819 6645 or visit wnstd.com

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