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The Bible and the Rod<br />

THE EPISTLES OF ST. PAUL<br />

St. Paul took a gloomier view of human nature. But he never favored "beating the sin out of<br />

kids". The chastisers of children were sinful themselves.<br />

"Whom the Lord loveth, He chastiseth and scourgeth. The Lord dealeth with you as with<br />

sons. If ye be without chastisement, ye are bastards and not sons ......"<br />

"The Lord chastiseth us for our profit, that we may partake of His Righteousness".<br />

But human fathers, he warned, "Chastise us after their own pleasure" (Hebrews 12:5-10).<br />

Certain elders, over the centuries, have misread this Epistle. Modestly, they have set<br />

themselves in the Lord's place and proceeded to chastise and scourge youth "for their own<br />

good". They failed to heed the warning of Jesus: "Judge not, that ye be not judged. For what<br />

measures ye mete out, so shall be meted out to you" (Matthew 7:1,2).<br />

Paul's Epistle shows great psychological insight. The punishing father (or teacher, master,<br />

guardian) may derive unwholesome pleasure out of chastising a culprit. The flogger gets<br />

enjoyment from his flogging, though he pretends it is a painful duty. This can be as sinful as<br />

the punished sin.<br />

Paul had only contempt for the human floggers who wielded their rods unjustly and for<br />

selfish reasons. He suffered from them, too. In Macedonia, Paul and a companion, Silas,<br />

were severely beaten, put in stocks and jailed, after being falsely accused of stirring up<br />

violence. Paul had freed a troubled girl from possession by an evil spirit that gave her<br />

psychic powers. The girl's master, who had made a lot of money from her fortune-telling,<br />

caused the whippings of Paul and Silas to get even (Acts 16:16-23).<br />

Sinful humans were not fit to chastise justly. Only divine punishments were righteous.<br />

Chastisements should be left to God.<br />

Again, Paul asks, "Which shall it be? Shall I come to you with the rod? Or with love and the<br />

spirit of meekness?" (I Corinthians 4:21).<br />

There is no hypocrisy here, as in the Proverbs, about beating somebody because you love<br />

him. The rod or love. It must be one or the other. It cannot be both. Paul does not doubt that<br />

love and meekness are the way of Christ.<br />

And Paul wrote:<br />

Fathers, provoke not your children to wrath, but bring them up in the nurture<br />

and admonition of the Lord. (Ephesians, 6:4).<br />

Ye Fathers, provoke not your children to anger....(Colossians, 3:21).<br />

We now know well that corporal punishments do provoke youth to anger, though the effects<br />

may be delayed. Many of such youths tend to be more violent and aggressive, more inclined<br />

to juvenile delinquencies, vandalism and adult crime. They also have lower achievements in<br />

learning and education. This has been confirmed many times by scientific studies.<br />

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