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BEAUTY<br />

CONFIDENTIAL<br />

* FEMME FATALE LIPS<br />

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080 AS THE CROW FLIES<br />

ON THE COVER<br />

046 LEADING WOMAN HEY GIRL<br />

Zooey Deschanel on being the<br />

A-Dork-able New Girl.<br />

048 COVER STORY LIV LIFE Liv Tyler on<br />

all that’s elegant and punk rock.<br />

144 MEN WE LOVE MAN APART The<br />

ultimate comeback kid, Robert<br />

Downey, Jr.<br />

118 HEALTH NUTRITION THE SPICES<br />

OF LIFE The unassuming spices<br />

that pack serious punch.<br />

122 FITNESS WORKOUT OFFICE<br />

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that can help to combat the<br />

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WOMAN Learn to unleash your<br />

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062<br />

052<br />

FEATURES<br />

055 NZ WOMAN FIVE FOOT AND<br />

UNDER FIRE When one woman<br />

decided to apply for the AOS.<br />

030 DEBUT STARLET GOL-DARNED<br />

GOOD Inge Rademeyer debuts<br />

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027 LOOKING BACK<br />

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executed in New Zealand history.<br />

FASHION<br />

034 FASHION TRENDS CUT & COLLAR,<br />

KNITTY GRITTY & CHECK MATE The<br />

newest to keep your eye out for.<br />

057 NZ STYLE IN THE BLACK Why black<br />

is ingrained in the psyche.<br />

060 FASHION REPORT iD IDENTITY The<br />

future of NZ’s iconic fashion week.<br />

JUNE/JULY 2012<br />

CONTENTS<br />

080 FASHION AS THE CROW FLIES<br />

Gothic glam with a pop of colour.<br />

088 FASHION 12:40 TO BRUGES<br />

Channelling the charm of the ‘40s.<br />

098 STYLE PHILE GET COSY<br />

We serve up our favourite delights.<br />

BEAUTY<br />

062 BEAUTY INSPIRATION SOFT<br />

CANDY The hottest candied hues<br />

for your wearing pleasure.<br />

068 BEAUTY HOW TO PERFECT<br />

PASTELS Bid adieu to the Winter<br />

blues with the prettiest of pastels.<br />

070 BEAUTY SKIN BEST IN BODY Keep<br />

your skin luscious as it gets colder.<br />

074 BEAUTY POUT RAVISHING RED<br />

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079 BEAUTY NEWS BEAUTY SPOT The<br />

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076 BEAUTY HAIR HOT HAIR HUES The<br />

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073 BEAUTY PICKS THE HOT LIST.<br />

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139 SPEED QUEEN<br />

104<br />

FITNESS & HEALTH<br />

120 WINTER WELLNESS BUILDING<br />

IMMUNITY Protect yourself from<br />

Winter bugs.<br />

125 FITNESS SOLUTION SHOULD I<br />

WORK OUT IF I HAVE A COLD?<br />

Does exercise hinder or<br />

help recovery?<br />

LIVING & TRAVEL<br />

042 TRAVEL STYLE SHIFTING SANDS<br />

The glittering opulence of Dubai.<br />

104 TASTE MAKERS CATERING TO<br />

TALENT Recipes from Sue Fleischl<br />

of The Great Catering Company.<br />

112 WINE TASTING PINOT PRIMA<br />

DONNA The rise of the Pinot.<br />

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114 WINE CONNOISSEUR ALL THAT<br />

SPARKLES The bubbling world<br />

of Champagne.<br />

116 FOOD NEWS CHECKOUT Our<br />

pick of the latest food news<br />

and trends.<br />

132 BOUTIQUE TRAVEL THE ARTISAN<br />

APPROACH The secret food<br />

haven of the Gold Coast.<br />

134 TRAVEL ABROAD TIME TRAVEL<br />

Discovering the past and present<br />

in Ephesus.<br />

SUCCESS<br />

130 SUCCESS NEWS ON THE RISE The<br />

latest in the business world.<br />

126 SUCCESS STRATEGY FACING<br />

YOUR FEARS IN FIVE (RELATIVELY)<br />

EASY STEPS How to face your<br />

fears to live your dreams.<br />

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016 EDITOR’S LETTER<br />

018 INBOX <strong>M2</strong>WOMAN READER<br />

LETTERS What you think.<br />

019 YOUR SAY Q&A: NEW ZEALAND<br />

WOMAN ON THE STREET<br />

021 OUT & ABOUT<br />

023 ENTERTAINMENT OPENER<br />

DEMOLITION WOMAN The rise<br />

of Zowie.<br />

025 ENTERTAINMENT DOWNTIME<br />

Books, Music & Film<br />

032 DIARY Our pick of the must-see<br />

events for June and July.<br />

102 DIRECTORY ONE STOP SHOP<br />

139 WHEELS SPEED QUEEN The Toyota<br />

Racing Series with Italian racer,<br />

Michela Cerruti.<br />

142 TECHNO PHILES THE WHITE STUFF.<br />

146 LAST SAY LOG ON FOR LOVE? Is<br />

internet dating our future?


V<br />

BEAUTIFUL at all.”<br />

With a mother who was a model and a father who was a rock<br />

star, Liv Tyler was always set for stardom. After a whirlwind<br />

career as a teen model and now a highly-regarded actress, the<br />

statuesque beauty may just be carving a new career in the<br />

footsteps of her rocker dad.<br />

LI<br />

“I don’t think I’m particularly<br />

Words by Nick Ward<br />

LIFE


050<br />

Recently, scientists have been trying to<br />

convince us that beauty can be whittled<br />

down to a few scant numbers. The<br />

distance between the nose and the<br />

mouth. The measurement from one eye<br />

to the other. The proportions of the face.<br />

Predictably and disappointingly, they<br />

declared that a blonde beauty pageant<br />

contestant from the UK was the most<br />

beautiful woman on the planet. A wholly unremarkable woman<br />

who perkily declared that she couldn’t see what all the fuss was<br />

about. Well, missy, neither could we. Her looks were vanilla.<br />

There was nothing striking about her at all.<br />

It was because the scientists, in their quest to define beauty,<br />

had failed to take into account that beauty, like art, comes from<br />

features that aren’t in perfect symmetry. Betty Davis’ eyes. Marilyn<br />

Monroe’s mole. Salma Hayek’s curves. Angelina Jolie’s lips. They<br />

all defy logic in order to defy beauty. Like a soulless poem written<br />

by a computer, science once again has failed to quantify art.<br />

Which brings us, naturally, to Liv Tyler’s mouth. Looking at her<br />

mouth and lips in isolation, you could be forgiven for thinking<br />

that there’s something not quite right there. In fact, just a cursory<br />

glance online will spit out an avalanche of hits on the subject. Did<br />

Liv Tyler’s lips bother you in the new Hulk movie? Is Liv Tyler<br />

ruining her lips with collagen? Are Liv Tyler’s lips bigger? And<br />

so on. Yes, her mouth is the most striking feature about her. It’s<br />

a defining element. There’s little doubt her mouth would fail the<br />

scientists’ test. It’s also what makes her so beautiful.<br />

“I don’t think I’m particularly beautiful at all.”<br />

Her mouth doesn’t sit perfectly on her face. If you were drawing<br />

a caricature of her, it is, without doubt, the feature you would put<br />

the most emphasis on. It even shapes the way she speaks. Without<br />

that mouth, she would just be another pretty actress in a sea of<br />

pretty actresses. In a world obsessed with<br />

the beauty myth, it is something women<br />

around the world should celebrate.<br />

Natural beauty is naturally off-centre.<br />

Enhanced, hair-brushed, plastic/perfect<br />

beauty is unnatural. The skinny, bleachblonde<br />

babes will never stand the test of<br />

time. They will be forever consigned to<br />

the shelves of imitations. Beauty such as<br />

Liv Tyler’s is timeless. Classical.<br />

It’s a beauty that, like Ms Tyler<br />

herself, would be nothing without her<br />

mouth. In fact, without her mouth, Liv Tyler would have no<br />

identity – literally.<br />

Liv Rundgren was born at Mount Sinai Hospital, New York<br />

on the 1 July 1977. She is the first-born daughter of Bebe Buell,<br />

a model, singer, and former Playboy Playmate (Miss November<br />

1974), and rock star, Todd Rundgren. Her mother named her<br />

after Norwegian actress, Liv Ullmann, after seeing Ullmann on<br />

the cover of the TV Guide.<br />

“My mum was so amazing. She was a singer and she’d been a<br />

model, so she had all these beautiful clothes and makeup, and<br />

in the bathroom all her jewellery was pinned to the wall... it was<br />

more than a little girl could ever dream of! When she went out,<br />

she would always say, ‘Don’t get into my stuff!’ and the first thing<br />

I would do was go mad dressing up.”<br />

Of course, already you know there’s something wrong with this<br />

story. Who on earth is Liv Rundgren? Well, it’s the person that Liv<br />

Tyler might well have remained if not for her distinctive mouth.<br />

Her father’s mouth as it happens.<br />

When she was just eight years old, Liv’s mother introduced her<br />

to Steven Tyler backstage at one of Todd’s shows. At the time,<br />

nothing was said about any possible biological connection. But<br />

Liv sensed there was something about him.<br />

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“I didn’t know what it was but I started to see him more, and it<br />

would mean so much to me that I would write about it in my<br />

diary. I was very confused.”<br />

Then in 1988, Liv met Mia (Steven’s daughter with his first<br />

wife, Cyrinda, who bares more than a passing resemblance to Liv)<br />

at an Aerosmith concert. The mouth sealed the deal. They both<br />

possessed the same distinctive mouth. Steven Tyler’s mouth.<br />

‘’I don’t think my Dad was in any position to be a father.<br />

Steven, that is. What an amazing thing Todd did for me… luckily,<br />

it just made me feel more loved. It meant that I had two dads<br />

instead of one.’’<br />

Buell’s stated reason for the initial decision not to tell Liv<br />

about her biological father was that Steven was too heavily<br />

addicted to drugs at the time of her birth. As we know, since<br />

learning the truth about her paternity, Liv and Steven have<br />

developed a close relationship.<br />

“I have these slumber parties with my father and when we can’t<br />

sleep, we stay up all night trading beauty tips. He knows all about<br />

the good creams and masks.”<br />

“I can smell my dad from a mile away. I can smell it whenever he’s<br />

worn my clothes. He has this ambery smell that just melts into him.”<br />

A father she didn’t realise was her father until she was eight<br />

years old. A father who gives her beauty tips and wears her clothes.<br />

DNA that is part playboy model, part rock star. Liv, like her<br />

mouth, is anything but standard.<br />

“Sure, my childhood was unusual. All these eccentric, wild<br />

people frequented our home: rock stars, drag queens, models,<br />

bikers, freaks. But I was not this little rich girl. My mum and I<br />

lived in an apartment.”<br />

While she built a fairly successful career as a teen model, it<br />

was her father who helped propel Liv towards stardom and into<br />

the public eye. In 1994, she starred in Aerosmith’s music video<br />

for their song, “Crazy”. Liv and Alicia Silverstone play a pair of<br />

schoolgirls who cut class, tease<br />

“When I was pregnant, I<br />

exercised and was healthy<br />

but it was also THE FIRST<br />

TIME SINCE I WAS 14<br />

that I wasn’t on a diet.”<br />

boys on the road, and hang out at<br />

a strip club.<br />

“Steven and I vetoed the first<br />

script,” Liv’s mother told the<br />

media. “Oh my god, it had some<br />

racy stuff in there. It had a kiss<br />

between Liv and Alicia. Steven<br />

and I just looked at each other and<br />

went; ‘Uh-huh, sure. When hell<br />

freezes over!’”<br />

Tyler and her 46-year-old father<br />

both appeared on the cover of Rolling Stone <strong>Magazine</strong>. In the<br />

accompanying article, she said, “I understand why people might<br />

have a problem with it but I have no problem with it, and Steven<br />

has no problem with it, and if other people have a problem with<br />

it, it’s their problem.” When Steven was in turn asked about his<br />

daughter’s growing status as a sex symbol, he had this to say, “As<br />

a father, I’m a realist. You can teach your children well and hope<br />

you’ve taught them some good sense... I told my daughters...<br />

‘Flaunt it. But if you lift your skirt, every little boy’s tongue’s<br />

gonna want to be up there.’”<br />

Forbidden lesbian kisses and inappropriate fatherly advice<br />

aside, this video made the world stand up and pay attention, and<br />

launched the careers of both actresses. Liz made her film debut the<br />

same year in Silent Fall, starring Richard Dreyfuss.<br />

By all accounts, the film was a thinly written whodunit that<br />

disappeared in the video bargain bins as quickly as it surfaced.<br />

But little matter because Liv had proved that she was more than<br />

just a pretty face. She could act. More than that, she could hold<br />

the screen.<br />

Soon she was taking roles that allowed her to step up from just<br />

being a pretty support face and into the spotlight.<br />

Notably Empire Records and Stealing Beauty.


&<br />

FIVE FOOT<br />

UNDER FIRE<br />

Growing up in the Deep South, Liz Williams dreamt of one day<br />

becoming the Milky Bar Kid. While that dream didn’t quite pan out,<br />

many of her other grand schemes have come to fruition – including being<br />

accepted into the highly specialised Armed Offenders Squad (AOS).<br />

It’s hard to imagine the blonde-maned Williams, all<br />

1.5 metres of her, decked out in official AOS gear that<br />

has to weigh almost as much as she does. It’s just one<br />

facet of Williams’ life that she accepts not everyone will<br />

comprehend, even though she has never felt hampered<br />

by her stature or her sex.<br />

Williams grew up in the rural Catlins coastal town<br />

of Pounawea. Her<br />

“not terribly traditional”<br />

outlook coupled with a rural,<br />

outdoorsy upbringing steered<br />

Williams towards careers<br />

that most women wouldn’t<br />

consider, the first being a<br />

motorbike mechanic in Otago<br />

when she was a teenager.<br />

“The first real job I wanted<br />

was to be a motorbike<br />

mechanic and I had a very<br />

early setback. When I went<br />

and did my interview, one<br />

of the questions was, ‘What<br />

would you do if a motorbike<br />

fell over and you had to pick<br />

it up?’ Because I was obviously<br />

very slight and I said, ‘Well,<br />

I’d try to pick it up or I’d get<br />

someone to help me.’ I missed<br />

out on the job and they wrote<br />

me a letter saying they didn’t<br />

think I’d be able to handle the<br />

physical aspect of the job.”<br />

While this may have been<br />

a blow to some people, Williams saw the criticism as a challenge<br />

and, like the critiques she was to receive later in life, used it to<br />

her advantage.<br />

“Negative comments like that have become real positives for me<br />

when achieving things because when people are telling you that<br />

you can’t do something based on your size, you’re probably going<br />

to go further out of your way to prove them wrong.”<br />

Growing up in the country, Williams was the third oldest of<br />

five children with an older brother and sister and two younger<br />

sisters. It was this middle child mentality that she says had a huge<br />

influence on her personal and professional life.<br />

“I’m a middle child and I often see middle children who<br />

become mediators, whether it’s in their professional or personal<br />

Words by Frances Gordon<br />

“…when people are telling you<br />

that you can’t do something<br />

BASED ON YOUR SIZE, you’re<br />

probably going to go further out of<br />

your way to prove them wrong.”<br />

life and I’ve found myself doing that… I don’t know why we<br />

become mediators but we do!”<br />

After high school, Williams moved straight into the Air Force,<br />

where the then 17-year-old served for nearly six years as a parachute<br />

packer, though she had grander goals going into it.<br />

“I had great aspirations to be a fighter pilot and many other<br />

glamorous things but I was so terrible at math and physics… it was<br />

as far from my desire as I could<br />

have gone but it afforded me an<br />

opportunity to get into sports<br />

through the military, which was<br />

something I hadn’t done much<br />

of growing up in the country.”<br />

While in the Air Force,<br />

Williams was recruited by the<br />

police force. Her decision to<br />

join the police was one that<br />

would change her life forever.<br />

She moved straight to her first<br />

posting in Palmerston North,<br />

where she lived and worked<br />

until 2009, moving up the<br />

ranks to become a negotiator<br />

and then a detective in the CIB.<br />

The AOS had always been a<br />

dream job for Williams, though<br />

she had never been recruited<br />

and her annual applications<br />

were never taken further than<br />

the first stage. Eventually,<br />

Williams put the AOS dream<br />

on the back burner, to focus<br />

on starting a family with her<br />

husband, Mike (also a police officer). But her dream to serve in the<br />

AOS was reignited when her husband was recruited, and with his<br />

encouragement, she started a new training regime with a goal to<br />

make it through the next selection process.<br />

This time around, Williams’ application was successful and<br />

she was admitted into the AOS training programme. What was<br />

to follow was a “brutal” period of training and selection, held<br />

over three separate sessions. The courses were a mix of theoretical<br />

knowledge along with hours of physical training exercises – all done<br />

on the least amount of sleep possible to test whether candidates<br />

could work under maximum pressure and little sleep (as most AOS<br />

call outs are in the middle of the night). This was all, of course,<br />

done while wearing more than 20 kilograms of body armour.<br />

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NOUR HASSAN. IMAGE COURTESY OF NOUR HASSAN. PHOTOGRAPHER HANNAH RICHARDS. BLACK: THE HISTORY OF BLACK IN FASHION, SOCIETY AND CULTURE IN NEW ZEALAND BY NEW ZEALAND FASHION MUSEUM. COURTESY OF PENGUIN GROUP (NZ), MARCH 2012.<br />

IN THE<br />

BLACK<br />

Th e colour black plays a predominant<br />

role in the New Zealand psyche.<br />

You may not agree at fi rst, but think<br />

about it; our fashion, sport, music<br />

and art are all largely infl uenced and<br />

supported by the colour black.<br />

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RAVISHING RED LIPS l BEST IN BODY l PERFECT PASTELS<br />

FASHION & BEAUTY<br />

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Soft Candy<br />

PHOTOGRAPHY: FIONA QUINN<br />

MAKEUP: AMBER CARROLL USING LEIGHTON DENNY<br />

HAIR: SHONTAL HEALEY Y @ STEPHEN MARR USING KEVIN MURPHY<br />

MODEL: LIV O’DRISCOLL @ RED11<br />

PHOTO ASSISTANT: LUKE DENNY<br />

RETOUCHING:<br />

RETOU MONICA CHAMORRO


Peach Pop ~ Use soft tones of peach and white<br />

liner on the eye for a look that’s fresh and light.<br />

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063


Skirt, $579, by Helen Cherry.<br />

Skirt (worn over), $400, by<br />

Jimmy D. Leather Jacket, $475,<br />

by COOP by Trelise Cooper.<br />

Ring, $395, by Wunderkammer<br />

Jewellery. Wedges, $389, by<br />

Chaos & Harmony.


082<br />

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This page: Skirt, $495, by<br />

Taylor. Top, $195, by Trelise<br />

Cooper. Collar, $410, by<br />

Zambesi. Fringe Collar, $410,<br />

by Lela Jacobs. Harness Back<br />

Pack, POA, by Jimmy D. Corset<br />

Belt, $285, by Kate Sylvester.<br />

Bow Cuff, $345, by Trelise<br />

Cooper Jewellery. Wedges,<br />

$389, by Chaos & Harmony.<br />

Opposite: Patchwork Leather<br />

Leggings, $450 & Mesh Top,<br />

$425, both by American Retro.<br />

Coat, $195, by Riddle Me This.<br />

Shirt, $338, by NOM*d. Fringe<br />

Collar, $450, by Lela Jacobs.


Cardigan, $485, by Twenty-<br />

Seven Names. Blouse, $349, by<br />

Liam. Headscarf, stylist’s own.


090<br />

Shirt (worn underneath dress), $199,<br />

by Turet Knuefermann. Dress, $540,<br />

by Karen Walker. Jacket, stylist’s own.<br />

Socks, $7.99, by Glassons. Pumps,<br />

$590, by Beau Coops for Karen Walker.<br />

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Dress (worn underneath),<br />

$210 & Knit Top, $150,<br />

both by Hi There From<br />

Karen Walker. Shift<br />

Dress, $199, by Liam.<br />

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Teapot, $137, by<br />

Jonathan Adler. Vase,<br />

$8, by Meluka. Candle,<br />

$49.90, by Mor. Glasses,<br />

$499, by Miu Miu. Ring,<br />

$165 & Necklace, $215,<br />

by Pandora. Placemat,<br />

$12.90, by Country Road.<br />

et<br />

When it’s cold out,<br />

we stay in. Here, we<br />

serve up our favourite<br />

delights to brighten up<br />

your Winter days...


STYLING BY GRETA VAN DER STAR. PHOTOGRAPHY BY ANDRE ROWELL.<br />

Top: Pear Tart, from Little & Friday. Platter, $158. Teapot, $135, by Simon James Design. Ring, $3,412, by Zoe &<br />

Morgan. Tablecloth, $79.90, by Country Road.<br />

Bottom: Cups, $6.90, by Meluka. Plate, $12.90 & Placemat, $12.90, both by Country Road. Kiss Pendant, $99 &<br />

Chain, from $62, both by Thomas Sabo. Ring, $650, from Stewart Dawsons. Lemon & Coconut Cake from Little & Friday.<br />

STYLE PHILE<br />

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DIRECTORY<br />

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Drain chickpeas, cover with fresh water and<br />

boil gently until soft. Drain and reserve the<br />

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lemon juice to bring out the flavour and<br />

some of the cooking liquid to get a creamy<br />

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ROASTED PUMPKIN:<br />

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50ml olive oil<br />

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Handful of chopped thyme, rosemary,<br />

parsley (or any other fresh herbs<br />

you have)<br />

3 tsp sumac<br />

1 tbs pumpkin blossom honey<br />

Cut four chunky wedges of pumpkin or<br />

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IMMUNITY<br />

Winter is looming and with it, the start of the cold and flu season. It’s a good<br />

time to start thinking about boosting your immune system. The immune system<br />

goes largely unnoticed until we fall ill, yet everyday, it is working overtime to<br />

protect us from all the pathogens we are continually exposed to.<br />

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Words by Jessica Bell


Taking care<br />

of Winter<br />

immunity<br />

means more<br />

than just an<br />

emergency<br />

response when<br />

we do catch a<br />

cold – although<br />

nutritional<br />

and natural medicine do provide us with<br />

lots of options here. True immunity has its<br />

foundations in a healthy lifestyle based on a<br />

clean diet, plenty of exercise and good sleep.<br />

When we are truly healthy, even when we<br />

fall acutely ill, our body is able to promptly<br />

fight off the illness.<br />

A healthy diet based around fresh fruit<br />

and vegetables, lean protein and low GI<br />

carbohydrates is the first step to a healthy<br />

immune system. Eating this way ensures<br />

that we receive all the nutrients we need<br />

to fight bugs and recover faster. While all<br />

nutrients work synergistically to promote<br />

good health, certain nutrients have a<br />

particular role in the functioning of the<br />

immune system:<br />

YOUR IMMUNITY<br />

PRESCRIPTION<br />

Key Immunity Nutrients<br />

Vitamin C / The old favourite,<br />

vitamin C increases production of<br />

interferon, one of the body’s main<br />

immune chemicals. It also enhances white<br />

blood cell activity. Get it from kiwifruit,<br />

strawberries, chillies, capsicum, tomatoes,<br />

green vegetables and citrus fruit.<br />

Zinc / Essential for normal immune<br />

function, as well as around 200 other<br />

enzymatic reactions in the body. It is also a<br />

potent antioxidant, helping to protect the<br />

body from harmful free radicals. Find it in<br />

oysters and other seafood, lean meat, eggs,<br />

almonds and pumpkin seeds. Many New<br />

Zealanders are deficient in this essential<br />

mineral – white spots on the fingernails are<br />

a classic sign – so make sure you include<br />

plenty of zinc-rich foods in your diet.<br />

Iron / Low iron levels are typically<br />

associated with frequent infections<br />

and poor wound healing. Many Kiwi<br />

women are low in iron and suffer from<br />

the associated symptoms of fatigue, low<br />

energy, cold, breathlessness and paleness.<br />

Boost your iron levels with lean beef and<br />

lamb, liver (patés), eggs, molasses, dried<br />

apricots and green vegetables. N.B. It is<br />

important not to take iron supplements<br />

without recommendation from a health<br />

practitioner as excess iron is highly prooxidative<br />

(promoting the production of<br />

oxidative free radicals). If you suspect you<br />

may suffer from low iron, get your levels<br />

tested with your doctor.<br />

Vitamin A / This often forgotten<br />

vitamin is a double-whammy for colds<br />

and flus. It improves overall immune<br />

function and also has an important role<br />

in maintaining the health of mucous<br />

membranes – meaning it will help soothe<br />

and heal inflamed nasal, throat and chest<br />

passages. Vitamin A can be found in egg<br />

yolks, liver, mackerel, cod liver oil, carrots,<br />

spinach and sweet potatoes. Vitamin A can<br />

be toxic if consumed in large doses, so it is<br />

better to obtain it from food sources rather<br />

than specific supplements.<br />

Vitamin D / Vitamin D, which we<br />

receive from sunlight, plays an integral role<br />

in maintaining the health and functioning<br />

of the immune system. Low levels of<br />

vitamin D are associated with a number of<br />

conditions related to immune dysfunction,<br />

including auto-immune diseases and poor<br />

immunity. To keep your vitamin D levels<br />

up, spend 15 to 20 minutes in the sunshine<br />

each day with arms and legs exposed. If<br />

your schedule does not allow this, consider<br />

taking a supplement.<br />

OTHER CONSIDERATIONS<br />

Exercise / Exercise improves<br />

circulation, keeps circulation up and<br />

seems to boost immunity. Aim to exercise<br />

for 30 to 60 minutes, five to six times<br />

per week, ideally a mix of cardiovascular<br />

and resistance. N.B. I generally do not<br />

recommend exercising when you have a<br />

cold or flu – rather than rushing off to the<br />

gym, you should focus on resting up to<br />

give your body a real chance to heal. When<br />

you are back to normal, definitely return<br />

to the gym but take it slow so as not to<br />

over-exert yourself too soon.<br />

Stress / Stress weakens the immune<br />

response, leaving us more prone to<br />

picking up infections and making them<br />

more difficult to kick if we are unlucky<br />

enough to fall ill. Only take on what you<br />

can realistically manage and incorporate<br />

relaxation techniques like meditation,<br />

exercise and time out with friends.<br />

Hydration / Adequate hydration<br />

is essential to both preventing and treating<br />

colds and flus. Water is essential for the<br />

health and function of every body cell<br />

and helps to flush out disease-causing<br />

toxins and microbes. Even if you don’t feel<br />

like eating or drinking when unwell, it is<br />

essential to stay hydrated. Drink at least<br />

two litres every day.<br />

Sleep / Adequate, good quality sleep<br />

is essential for recovery and recuperation.<br />

Periods of insufficient rest put the body<br />

under considerable stress, lowering our<br />

immune response and increasing our risk<br />

of picking up whatever is going around.<br />

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key nutritional<br />

insights and tips.<br />

WINTER WELLNESS<br />

Most people need between seven and nine<br />

hours per night for good health and wellbeing.<br />

Sleep is even more important when<br />

unwell – nothing will help you recover as<br />

fast as a good rest.<br />

Sugar / We all know the effect<br />

excess sugar has on our waistlines but what<br />

most of us don’t know is that sugar also<br />

places us at a much higher risk of picking<br />

up the office super-bug. This is because<br />

refined sugar reduces the function of<br />

white blood cells, our main immune cells.<br />

Within 30 minutes of consuming 100<br />

grams of sugar, the ability of white blood<br />

cells to engulf and destroy microbes and<br />

other dangerous particles can be reduced<br />

by as much as 50 percent. Reduce refined<br />

sugar in biscuits, cakes, chocolates, soft<br />

drinks and processed foods.<br />

Take Care of Your Digestion /<br />

You may be surprised to know that up<br />

to 70 percent of your immune system is<br />

found in your gut! This makes sense when<br />

you think about all the potential harmful<br />

substances in your food – as anybody<br />

who has ever had food poisoning will<br />

know. Therefore, good digestive health<br />

is essential to ensuring a good immune<br />

response. Stress, alcohol, sugar, fatty foods<br />

and antibiotics can all lead to impaired<br />

digestive function, leaving you with those<br />

all too familiar symptoms of bloating,<br />

discomfort, constipation and sluggishness<br />

– as well as impaired immunity. Improve<br />

your digestion and your immunity with<br />

a clean diet, including plenty of fibrerich<br />

foods, exercise and a probiotic<br />

supplement. These restore the delicate<br />

balance between good and bad bacteria in<br />

the gut, improving digestive health and<br />

with it, immunity. Probiotics are available<br />

from all good health food shops.<br />

Multivitamin and Mineral /<br />

Despite our best intentions, there are<br />

always times when we place ourselves<br />

under too much stress, take too much<br />

on and don’t eat properly. A high quality<br />

multi-vitamin and mineral supplement<br />

acts as an important nutritional guarantee<br />

during these busy times, ensuring we<br />

receive all the nutrients we need for good<br />

immunity and good health.<br />

Your Emergency Toolkit<br />

And if all else fails and you do come<br />

down with a cold or flu, here is your<br />

emergency tool kit:<br />

��3,000mg to 5,000mg of Vitamin<br />

C daily for a few days.<br />

��10g of Olive Leaf Extract daily.<br />

��1,500mg to 3,000mg of<br />

Echinacea daily.<br />

JESSICA BELL is an Auckland-based Clinical Nutritionist, whose<br />

private practice prides itself on taking a holistic, integrated approach to<br />

helping people achieve their nutrition and wellness goals.<br />

yournutritionyourhealth.com / 5b Glasgow Terrace, Grafton, Auckland<br />

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“Financial Independence” means lots of things to lots of<br />

women. It is diffi cult to be prescriptive on this point but what<br />

sorts of things should this include?<br />

Most women would claim to be “fi nancially independent” in that<br />

they have earned money in return for services for at least some<br />

portion of their working lives. Financial independence to me means<br />

economic strength; this is what we are gradually acquiring as we begin<br />

to dramatically infl uence 21st century businesses. In some important<br />

parts of the economy, we will even predominate. Why? Because<br />

current trends suggest that the world needs the female mind. Much<br />

of the international economy is shifting, from one based on natural<br />

resources and physical labour, to one based on goods and services.<br />

Additionally, fi nancial independence means not relying on a husband<br />

or partner for money, having no debt, a fi nancial umbrella and the<br />

ability to buy what we want without worrying about the cost – within<br />

reason, of course!<br />

Is it about more than just money – not so much about dollars<br />

and cents as an “independence of thought”, a sense of self?<br />

Yes, fi nancial independence is about “independence of thought,”<br />

a sense of your fi nancial self, the will and the knowledge to take<br />

charge of your own fi nancial life. How do you do this? Firstly<br />

educate yourself; understand how mortgages work, the eff ect of<br />

interest on your credit card or hire purchase debt, you must insure<br />

your income. Understand that retiring debt-free is a priority as is<br />

planning for retirement which, realistically, probably won’t happen<br />

until well after 65.<br />

We say “for richer and for poorer” and mean it, but what<br />

are some things women can do to make sure that, among<br />

everything you share with your partner, there is still something<br />

for ourselves?<br />

Th e following commandments should be internalised by every<br />

woman and engraved on their heart.<br />

Commandment One: Thou shalt protect thyself.<br />

Don’t rely on the white knight – he’s not coming today. Ensure<br />

you protect yourself legally, through the use of insurances, and<br />

through a well constructed fi nancial and life plan.<br />

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Commandment Two: Thou shalt anticipate disaster.<br />

Th is sounds like negativity, but it simply means you should be<br />

prepared for the emergencies that life can throw your way, when<br />

you are least expecting it.<br />

Commandment Three: Thou shalt act on thy<br />

best judgement.<br />

By all means listen to advice from friends, family or professional<br />

advisors but also listen to your intuition. Ask the person whose<br />

judgement is best for you – yourself.<br />

Commandment Four: Thou shalt be strong.<br />

All too often we are too soft – we nurture others at our own<br />

expense: emotional and fi nancial. We worry about our children’s<br />

education, our partner’s state of mind. Toughen up. You can be<br />

gentle but adamant.<br />

Can you give examples of some 5 common fi nancial myths?<br />

Money Myth #1: Someone will watch over me. Sorry,<br />

take a reality check. Your partner, father and fairy godmother<br />

are all busy. You will have to do without them. Despite all the<br />

press describing that pillar of society, the nuclear family, this is<br />

how it looks: 20 percent of women will never marry, 47 percent<br />

of fi rst marriages end in divorce and 75 percent of married<br />

women are eventually widowed. At some point, even if you<br />

marry and follow the conventional path, you will have to look<br />

after yourself fi nancially.<br />

Money Myth #2: I don’t have enough money to invest.<br />

You’ve got it backwards. You don’t have enough money not to<br />

invest. You can save $5 a day – that amounts to $150 a month.<br />

You must get into the habit of putting money aside for yourself.<br />

Don’t set yourself up for failure by wanting it all now!<br />

Money Myth #3: I don’t have enough time. You must put<br />

aside time for yourself. It is not as if you have to go it alone. Th ere<br />

are plenty of advisers who can help you create a plan and who will<br />

help you stick to it. Being a martyr is not a good look!<br />

Money Myth #4: I don’t know enough about investing.<br />

Studies have shown that once women learn how to invest, they


outperform men. Yes, it is true! As we are often told, education is<br />

the key. I sometimes think that money is the last permissible area<br />

of ignorance for women. Do not block out financial information.<br />

Money Myth #5: If I invest, my money will be tied up.<br />

Investing does not constrain your financial independence – it<br />

creates it for you! You sometimes have to wait for the things you<br />

really want in life. With money, self-control is something you<br />

need to learn to financially enable yourself.<br />

Women on average live longer, earn less, and have fewer years<br />

in the workforce – this adds up to quite a few years of “living”<br />

to finance. Should we be taking these facts more seriously<br />

when it comes managing our money? Does this mean we<br />

should be saving more than men for the long term?<br />

Saving more than men is pretty difficult given that we earn less.<br />

One of the important lessons we need to learn is to take more risk.<br />

Women are much more likely to describe themselves as<br />

conservative – unwilling to place any of their investments at<br />

risk. More than 23 percent of women – compared with about<br />

16 percent of men – say they invest conservatively. Having said<br />

that, in my experience, once women understand the relationship<br />

between risk and return they are more willing to take “risk.”<br />

Women are better long term investors as they are less prone to<br />

what I can only describe as testosterone driven behaviour.<br />

Are our efforts to build long-term financial independence<br />

hampered by the assumption that money is not a “female” thing?<br />

I am constantly amazed at the lack of interest and insight<br />

financial planners display towards women. Figures from the US<br />

show that women now<br />

control $18.4 trillion in<br />

consumer spending, hold<br />

approximately 30 percent<br />

of global wealth and are the<br />

sole heads of 32 percent<br />

of households. This makes<br />

women the largest emerging<br />

market in the world, twice<br />

as big as India and China<br />

combined. So it would seem that at a time when business growth<br />

is tepid, advisers would be finding great success in winning over<br />

female investors. Not quite.<br />

A study by The Boston Consulting Group in 2010 found that<br />

women were more dissatisfied with the financial services industry<br />

than any other that affected their daily lives. Women reported being<br />

treated with disrespect and condescension, and given poor advice<br />

specifically because of their gender. Clearly, there is a disconnect.<br />

It is tricky to make across-the-board generalisations about<br />

behaviour but do you think that too many women still see a<br />

man as a financial plan and tend to rely on men too much to<br />

bail them out?<br />

I don’t think women rely on men to “bail them out” as such but<br />

even if we are otherwise successful and self-reliant, many women<br />

fear money. There are several key factors that impact on our<br />

attitudes to money and investing:<br />

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financial decisions than men. A recent survey showed that 33<br />

percent of women investors avoided making a decision through<br />

fear of making a mistake.<br />

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worldwide phenomenon, which has impacted on our ability to<br />

accumulate assets and do the basics such as save for retirement.<br />

The concept of a woman owning her own home on retirement<br />

is still considered to be the pinnacle of a woman’s financial life.<br />

For each year a woman spends out of the workforce, it will take<br />

SUCCESS MONEY<br />

five years to recover lost income, replace savings for retirement<br />

and career advancement. It has been calculated that a woman who<br />

gives up business travel, training and promotions to spend time<br />

with her children, may sacrifice as much as a million dollars over<br />

her lifetime.<br />

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enablers. We nurture with our money, just as we nurture with our<br />

domestic care and emotional caring. Women feel a permanent<br />

obligation to their children. This puts our own financial security<br />

in grave danger. We need to understand it is okay to say “no” to<br />

our significant other, our children or other family members who<br />

have their hand out, wanting us to support them.<br />

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too but in our case, it interferes with good investment and<br />

financial planning decisions. A 1997 study found that women<br />

who were comfortable about maths in school were more<br />

confident about their finances.<br />

Is there a sort of default thinking that a lot of women fall into<br />

or grow up with, such as buying a house being something you<br />

do once you get married?<br />

A recent study out of Australia identified the issues prohibiting<br />

women from “settling down,” to quote their phrase, but<br />

found that it was rather for reasons outside their control than<br />

waiting for the right man. Interestingly the study revealed that<br />

women wanted to wait until they were comfortable with their<br />

financial security. This encapsulates a major change in thinking.<br />

Historically, women married for financial security and stability<br />

but now, according to the study’s responses, women are prepared<br />

to create their own.<br />

“You must get into the habit of<br />

putting money aside for yourself.<br />

Don’t set yourself up for failure by<br />

wanting it all now!”<br />

What would be the one<br />

over-arching piece of<br />

advice or call to action<br />

you would give to women<br />

about managing their<br />

money to be financially<br />

independent?<br />

Sex and food are the<br />

most discussed topics in relationships and in life. The most<br />

emotionally charged topic, and the most important, is money,<br />

yet it is most neglected.<br />

Money is connected with everything we do and feel. Money<br />

gives us choices in life or restricts those choices. Love is what<br />

brings couples together; money is often what drives them<br />

apart. And not necessarily lack of money; it can be financial<br />

success that destroys relationships. Each person has his or her<br />

own individual relationship with money, which in a successful<br />

partnership, needs to be explored. Until we understand why<br />

and how we handle money, we will find it difficult to invest<br />

on our own behalf, or to<br />

work financially with our<br />

significant other. Begin<br />

to experience the serenity<br />

that accompanies financial<br />

responsibility and integrity. I<br />

am at one with Joan Rivers,<br />

“People say that money is<br />

not the key to happiness but<br />

I always figured if you have<br />

enough money, you can have<br />

a key made.”<br />

Women’s Financial Strategies, strategies.co.nz<br />

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