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this, just like our leadership (Saddam) caused the death of so<br />

many Kuwaitis back in 1991.<br />

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http://www.quora.com/l/boq-wael-al-sallami<br />

misogyny<br />

Is Islam misogynistic?<br />

Anon User<br />

As an Arab American woman raised in a conservative Muslim<br />

family, I would say that yes, Islam is a misogynistic religion.<br />

The messages about gender that I received from my parents,<br />

extended family, family friends, religious teachers, and<br />

so on ranged from subtle to extreme. I was told, among other<br />

things, that<br />

• women can't speak during prayer to correct an Imam<br />

(men can) because their voices are too "distracting" (This<br />

is based on the hadith, see http://www.alahazrat.net/islam/the-mode-of-prayer-(salaat)-for-women.php)<br />

• women should lower their eyes in the presence of men<br />

(http://quran.com/24/30-31, to be fair the stuff about<br />

lowering one's gaze is also directed towards men, not the<br />

other stuff though. This surah is significant in that it is often<br />

cited as evidence that hijab is a requirement of Islam,<br />

which is a subject of debate within the religion.)<br />

• women shouldn't wear tampons to preserve their "purity"<br />

(no quotes from the Qur'an on this as tampons weren't<br />

around in those days, this is another topic of debate and<br />

from my understanding, people outside of Islam also debate<br />

the issue. So I have only anecdotal comments here<br />

in that every Muslim woman I've known has been told<br />

something to this effect, and on a personal level, when<br />

my mom discovered I was using tampons, she completely<br />

freaked out, started screaming, and threatened to take me<br />

to the doctor and have them check to see if my hymen was<br />

still intact, which seems to be not infrequent behavior — a

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