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Page 40 The OSCAR - OUR 36 th YEAR DEC 2008<br />

SURROUND CIRCLE YOGA<br />

By Maureen Fallis,<br />

Surround Circle Yoga<br />

December is here, we will soon<br />

be gathering with family and<br />

friends. All will be well as we<br />

celebrate what is holy in each other<br />

and in the world. Ah, such peace and<br />

joy! What greater abundance than the<br />

love of family and friends celebrating<br />

together?<br />

Hmmmm... Perhaps it’s time<br />

for a reality check. This idyllic<br />

scene may well play out in a few<br />

fortunate families, however, let’s face<br />

it, for many of us the reality of the<br />

holiday season is something entirely<br />

different.<br />

For starters, the pace of life<br />

has gotten so frantic that the added<br />

demands of preparing for the<br />

holidays often seem to intensify life’s<br />

difficulties. As much as we love our<br />

families, being around familiar faces<br />

for an extended period of time may<br />

cause tempers to flare and old wounds<br />

to resurface. We may love giving<br />

and receiving gifts, but many of us<br />

end up buying items at the very last<br />

minute with a price tag well beyond<br />

our means. Materialism and debt<br />

creep in, despite our best intentions.<br />

Children are delighted with some<br />

gifts, but disappointed with others<br />

that didn’t meet their expectations.<br />

Seasonal food, although delicious,<br />

is often eaten with gusto and then<br />

guilt sets in rather than gratitude. For<br />

Holiday Spirit<br />

some people, the holidays can be the<br />

loneliest time of the year.<br />

Although at times the frenzy of<br />

the holiday season may feel like more<br />

than we can handle, the difficulties<br />

and challenges, the pain and suffering<br />

– amidst the joy and happiness – are<br />

what real life is all about. The truth<br />

is that holidays, and life, will continue<br />

to bring us challenging and joyful<br />

moments, tons of work, conflicts,<br />

and ‘stuff’ to deal with. They are<br />

supposed to! We all mess up from<br />

time to time, forget about the Spirit<br />

living inside of us, and go off track.<br />

Making mistakes is how we learn. The<br />

hidden gift of trouble and suffering is<br />

the opportunity to seek once again the<br />

grace within our soul.<br />

In short, amidst all the hectic<br />

demands of the season, we sometimes<br />

lose touch with what the holidays<br />

really mean, and they become anything<br />

but “holy days”. Yet, this time of year<br />

can be a time to go inside yourself and<br />

reconnect with what is important.<br />

True peace and joy is not about<br />

living a neatly sanitized, perfect life.<br />

It is about being totally authentic in<br />

every way, living life to the full – with<br />

sorrow and joy, pain and happiness,<br />

agony and ecstasy. So keep the<br />

holidays ‘holy’ by being fully YOU<br />

and knowing that the spirit, the<br />

innermost part of your nature, is with<br />

you and is always available to you.<br />

When thinking of deepening the<br />

connection with my family, friends<br />

and with myself ... it’s easy to get<br />

Maurenn Fallis by the Rideau Canal Photo by Brian Ure<br />

inspired. My gift to you is to share a<br />

list of the things that I personally have<br />

planned for the holidays. May this be<br />

an inspiration to you!<br />

• Share a romantic picnic in<br />

Gatineau Park with my partner<br />

• Volunteer to take a group of<br />

Seniors on a winter hike<br />

• Make homemade cinnamon<br />

buns to give to my supportive OOS<br />

business neighbours<br />

• Surprise a long-lost cousin with<br />

a phone call to catch up on the last<br />

30+ years<br />

• Invite my ‘little’ friend Kate<br />

over to bake shortbread with me<br />

• Spend time with my family<br />

doing all the things they like to do<br />

• Create a virtual photo album for<br />

my siblings<br />

• Visit<br />

local Christmas<br />

Bazaars for handcrafted<br />

gifts (ie.<br />

pottery by Marie<br />

Hennessy)<br />

• Finish<br />

reading my<br />

summer novel,<br />

“The Reluctant Prophet” by Joanne<br />

Proulx<br />

• Snuggle up by the crackling<br />

fireplace with my journal and a<br />

steaming cup of hot chocolate<br />

• Practice yoga in the snow ~ why<br />

not?!<br />

The list could go on and on and<br />

on ...<br />

My hope is to compile a BIG<br />

book of creative and magical ways<br />

where individuals spend time with<br />

loved ones (and others in need of a<br />

special hug) especially at this time of<br />

year. If you have an idea or two please<br />

send me a note via email maureen.<br />

fallis@sympatico.ca and we’ll see<br />

what happens.<br />

The class schedule is somewhat<br />

limited during the month of<br />

December. Please check the website<br />

www.surroundcircleyoga.com for<br />

the holiday schedule or call Maureen<br />

Fallis at 613-730-6649 to confirm.<br />

Surround Circle Yoga, in the spirit<br />

of the season, is offering a FREE yoga<br />

class to try Kripalu Yoga. Please see<br />

the ad in the OSCAR for details.<br />

Remembrance Day<br />

Nov 11, 2008<br />

Today,<br />

we do not remember and commemorate, and light a<br />

candle for the names and lives of “our” soldiers and<br />

“our” civilians killed in wars and conflicts ...<br />

Today,<br />

we remember and commemorate, and light a candle<br />

for the names and lives of all soldiers “theirs” and<br />

“ours” of all civilians victims “ours” and “theirs” and<br />

all surviving family members and loved ones of “us”<br />

and “them”<br />

Today,<br />

we dedicate ourselves, again, to ending all wars and<br />

other acts of political aggression and domination<br />

“ours” and “theirs”<br />

Today,<br />

we dedicate ourselves, again, to another world is<br />

possible and necessary<br />

No more “us” and “them”.<br />

* * *<br />

Thank-you / Gracias a la vida …<br />

Grahame Russell, Annie Bird

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