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Page 40 The OSCAR - OUR 36 th YEAR DEC 2008<br />
SURROUND CIRCLE YOGA<br />
By Maureen Fallis,<br />
Surround Circle Yoga<br />
December is here, we will soon<br />
be gathering with family and<br />
friends. All will be well as we<br />
celebrate what is holy in each other<br />
and in the world. Ah, such peace and<br />
joy! What greater abundance than the<br />
love of family and friends celebrating<br />
together?<br />
Hmmmm... Perhaps it’s time<br />
for a reality check. This idyllic<br />
scene may well play out in a few<br />
fortunate families, however, let’s face<br />
it, for many of us the reality of the<br />
holiday season is something entirely<br />
different.<br />
For starters, the pace of life<br />
has gotten so frantic that the added<br />
demands of preparing for the<br />
holidays often seem to intensify life’s<br />
difficulties. As much as we love our<br />
families, being around familiar faces<br />
for an extended period of time may<br />
cause tempers to flare and old wounds<br />
to resurface. We may love giving<br />
and receiving gifts, but many of us<br />
end up buying items at the very last<br />
minute with a price tag well beyond<br />
our means. Materialism and debt<br />
creep in, despite our best intentions.<br />
Children are delighted with some<br />
gifts, but disappointed with others<br />
that didn’t meet their expectations.<br />
Seasonal food, although delicious,<br />
is often eaten with gusto and then<br />
guilt sets in rather than gratitude. For<br />
Holiday Spirit<br />
some people, the holidays can be the<br />
loneliest time of the year.<br />
Although at times the frenzy of<br />
the holiday season may feel like more<br />
than we can handle, the difficulties<br />
and challenges, the pain and suffering<br />
– amidst the joy and happiness – are<br />
what real life is all about. The truth<br />
is that holidays, and life, will continue<br />
to bring us challenging and joyful<br />
moments, tons of work, conflicts,<br />
and ‘stuff’ to deal with. They are<br />
supposed to! We all mess up from<br />
time to time, forget about the Spirit<br />
living inside of us, and go off track.<br />
Making mistakes is how we learn. The<br />
hidden gift of trouble and suffering is<br />
the opportunity to seek once again the<br />
grace within our soul.<br />
In short, amidst all the hectic<br />
demands of the season, we sometimes<br />
lose touch with what the holidays<br />
really mean, and they become anything<br />
but “holy days”. Yet, this time of year<br />
can be a time to go inside yourself and<br />
reconnect with what is important.<br />
True peace and joy is not about<br />
living a neatly sanitized, perfect life.<br />
It is about being totally authentic in<br />
every way, living life to the full – with<br />
sorrow and joy, pain and happiness,<br />
agony and ecstasy. So keep the<br />
holidays ‘holy’ by being fully YOU<br />
and knowing that the spirit, the<br />
innermost part of your nature, is with<br />
you and is always available to you.<br />
When thinking of deepening the<br />
connection with my family, friends<br />
and with myself ... it’s easy to get<br />
Maurenn Fallis by the Rideau Canal Photo by Brian Ure<br />
inspired. My gift to you is to share a<br />
list of the things that I personally have<br />
planned for the holidays. May this be<br />
an inspiration to you!<br />
• Share a romantic picnic in<br />
Gatineau Park with my partner<br />
• Volunteer to take a group of<br />
Seniors on a winter hike<br />
• Make homemade cinnamon<br />
buns to give to my supportive OOS<br />
business neighbours<br />
• Surprise a long-lost cousin with<br />
a phone call to catch up on the last<br />
30+ years<br />
• Invite my ‘little’ friend Kate<br />
over to bake shortbread with me<br />
• Spend time with my family<br />
doing all the things they like to do<br />
• Create a virtual photo album for<br />
my siblings<br />
• Visit<br />
local Christmas<br />
Bazaars for handcrafted<br />
gifts (ie.<br />
pottery by Marie<br />
Hennessy)<br />
• Finish<br />
reading my<br />
summer novel,<br />
“The Reluctant Prophet” by Joanne<br />
Proulx<br />
• Snuggle up by the crackling<br />
fireplace with my journal and a<br />
steaming cup of hot chocolate<br />
• Practice yoga in the snow ~ why<br />
not?!<br />
The list could go on and on and<br />
on ...<br />
My hope is to compile a BIG<br />
book of creative and magical ways<br />
where individuals spend time with<br />
loved ones (and others in need of a<br />
special hug) especially at this time of<br />
year. If you have an idea or two please<br />
send me a note via email maureen.<br />
fallis@sympatico.ca and we’ll see<br />
what happens.<br />
The class schedule is somewhat<br />
limited during the month of<br />
December. Please check the website<br />
www.surroundcircleyoga.com for<br />
the holiday schedule or call Maureen<br />
Fallis at 613-730-6649 to confirm.<br />
Surround Circle Yoga, in the spirit<br />
of the season, is offering a FREE yoga<br />
class to try Kripalu Yoga. Please see<br />
the ad in the OSCAR for details.<br />
Remembrance Day<br />
Nov 11, 2008<br />
Today,<br />
we do not remember and commemorate, and light a<br />
candle for the names and lives of “our” soldiers and<br />
“our” civilians killed in wars and conflicts ...<br />
Today,<br />
we remember and commemorate, and light a candle<br />
for the names and lives of all soldiers “theirs” and<br />
“ours” of all civilians victims “ours” and “theirs” and<br />
all surviving family members and loved ones of “us”<br />
and “them”<br />
Today,<br />
we dedicate ourselves, again, to ending all wars and<br />
other acts of political aggression and domination<br />
“ours” and “theirs”<br />
Today,<br />
we dedicate ourselves, again, to another world is<br />
possible and necessary<br />
No more “us” and “them”.<br />
* * *<br />
Thank-you / Gracias a la vida …<br />
Grahame Russell, Annie Bird