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was in a mountainous region and the houses were made of adobe.<br />

There was no running water, and they would lead their family’s cows<br />

to pasture as they walked to school,” says Peggy.<br />

In addition, Nayda’s mother, who suffers from mental illness,<br />

abandoned her at the age of 1. When Peggy started sponsoring<br />

Nayda in 1998, she had been living with her father, his wife and her<br />

half siblings, along with her grandmother.<br />

Peggy says that the girl’s letters spoke of her loneliness. “She even<br />

wrote to me that she felt I was the only one who had ever looked after<br />

her and cared about her. She had a very difficult life.”<br />

Because she wanted to see where her money was going and how it was<br />

helping Nayda, Peggy made arrangements through World Vision to<br />

travel to Peru in 1999. At their first meeting, Peggy says Nayda was shy,<br />

yet affectionate. An interpreter helped bridge the gap between English<br />

and Nayda’s native language, Quechua. Meeting face-to-face cemented<br />

their friendship. “She was dressed in the best thing she owned and she<br />

just fell into my arms and clung to me,” remembers Peggy.<br />

When Peggy returned to visit again in 2004, she found that<br />

Nayda’s father had moved on, leaving her in the care of her<br />

grandmother, who was ill. Peggy gave the grandmother money to go<br />

to a clinic for treatment. Moved by her generosity, the frail woman<br />

told Peggy, “Never forget me, and never forget Nayda.” She died<br />

three months later.<br />

“After she died, Nayda disappeared,” says Peggy, who subsequently<br />

received a letter from World Vision informing her that Nayda had<br />

38 spring.summer 2009 | spirit<br />

Peggy and Nayda in 1999.<br />

left the program to enter the workforce. They offered to match her<br />

with another child.<br />

That spurred Peggy to action. After months of phone calls and<br />

attempts to locate Nayda from here in the United <strong>St</strong>ates, Peggy decided<br />

to travel to Peru. “I needed to go down there and find her,” she<br />

explains. “She had been in my life for 10 years, and I couldn’t let it go.”<br />

On Peggy’s first visit to the country, she had befriended the couple<br />

who were assigned by World Vision to meet her at the airport. They<br />

have remained friends ever since. On her 2007 trip, they offered to<br />

transport her to places where Nayda might be, including orphanages,<br />

schools, churches, and the village where she had last visited Nayda.<br />

When they arrived in the village, local children led them to Nayda’s<br />

aunt, who had information about Nayda’s whereabouts—she was now<br />

living 450 miles away, near the town of Tacna, close to the Chilean border.<br />

Peggy returned to Lima to catch another flight to Tacna. There, she<br />

found Nayda living with her biological mother and her sister and her<br />

family in a building that houses a small grocery. While they are still<br />

impoverished, the building has running water and electricity—an<br />

improvement from the conditions in her former home.<br />

After Peggy returned home, she kept in touch with Nayda through<br />

occasional letters and e-mails. Today, Nayda, 20, is married and recently<br />

gave birth to her first child, a daughter. During a Peruvian vacation last<br />

September, Peggy was able to visit and offer the then-expectant mother<br />

some monetary and emotional support. She plans to return yet again.<br />

“I enjoy going there—there is so much to see, do and experience, and<br />

the people are wonderful,” she says. “And I have to go see that baby.”<br />

Peggy says she intends to sponsor another child someday and<br />

encourages others to do so as well. “Having been there, I have seen<br />

what can be done for $26 a month—it’s really quite impressive.”<br />

Peggy and Nayda in 2008.

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