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Young Adult Carers in the UK - The Princess Royal Trust for Carers

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Schools and FE colleges<br />

Chapter 11 Look<strong>in</strong>g <strong>for</strong>ward: meet<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong> needs and service development <strong>for</strong> carers aged 16-24 <strong>in</strong> transition<br />

Alongside be<strong>in</strong>g a place of teach<strong>in</strong>g and learn<strong>in</strong>g, schools and FE colleges can also be an<br />

important source of respite and sanctuary <strong>for</strong> young carers, giv<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong>m valued opportunities<br />

<strong>for</strong> develop<strong>in</strong>g peer networks and relationships, social skills and o<strong>the</strong>r <strong>in</strong>terests. Where young<br />

carers are recognised and treated respectfully by supportive teachers, this is valued highly<br />

by young carers. Where <strong>the</strong>y are ignored, or, at worst ‘punished’ <strong>for</strong> car<strong>in</strong>g with<strong>in</strong> schools,<br />

<strong>the</strong>n this can have significant negative outcomes both <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> short and longer-term,<br />

<strong>in</strong>clud<strong>in</strong>g <strong>for</strong> some carers challeng<strong>in</strong>g behaviour and/or disengagement with school and<br />

learn<strong>in</strong>g. Develop<strong>in</strong>g a supportive environment <strong>for</strong> young carers with<strong>in</strong> schools is often<br />

left to <strong>in</strong>dividual teachers, personality and chance ra<strong>the</strong>r than be<strong>in</strong>g a matter of policy<br />

or procedure. Schools need to th<strong>in</strong>k about how <strong>the</strong>y can identify and help young carers <strong>in</strong><br />

a supportive way, <strong>in</strong>clud<strong>in</strong>g strategies <strong>for</strong> prevent<strong>in</strong>g bully<strong>in</strong>g of young carers, to maximise<br />

positive educational outcomes and provide <strong>the</strong> respite and space that many young carers<br />

want from <strong>the</strong>ir school. <strong>The</strong>re is some evidence that young carers are more com<strong>for</strong>table <strong>in</strong> an<br />

FE environment than at school because of <strong>the</strong> ethos and approach, and sensitivity of FE staff.<br />

Friends, relationships and leisure<br />

Form<strong>in</strong>g mean<strong>in</strong>gful attachments and friendships are a necessary component of healthy<br />

psychosocial development and are resilience promot<strong>in</strong>g. Almost every young carer aged<br />

16 and 17 <strong>in</strong> our sample wanted to go out more and make friends but this was often<br />

constra<strong>in</strong>ed by <strong>the</strong>ir car<strong>in</strong>g roles and <strong>the</strong> grow<strong>in</strong>g expectations on <strong>the</strong>m to provide more<br />

care or take on more responsibility as <strong>the</strong>y got older. <strong>The</strong> issue of transport is also relevant<br />

here as many young carers and <strong>the</strong>ir families are reliant on public transport <strong>for</strong> gett<strong>in</strong>g out.<br />

Some young carers keep <strong>the</strong>ir car<strong>in</strong>g roles secret from exist<strong>in</strong>g friends; o<strong>the</strong>rs choose <strong>the</strong>ir<br />

friends carefully – mak<strong>in</strong>g bonds only with people <strong>the</strong>y th<strong>in</strong>k will be understand<strong>in</strong>g, sensitive<br />

and respectful. Some young carers are look<strong>in</strong>g to make <strong>in</strong>timate relationships at this age and<br />

some project workers expressed concern that certa<strong>in</strong> young carers were sexually vulnerable<br />

while o<strong>the</strong>rs were vulnerable to misuse of alcohol or drugs. <strong>The</strong> extent to which <strong>the</strong>se<br />

vulnerabilities differ from o<strong>the</strong>r young people of this age is unknown.<br />

<strong>Young</strong> carers projects had become a key source of friendships <strong>for</strong> every young carer <strong>in</strong><br />

our focus groups. Project activities have given <strong>the</strong>m an opportunity to make mean<strong>in</strong>gful<br />

friendships and attachments with people who ‘understand’ because of a shared, common<br />

experience. Consequently, when young carers become <strong>in</strong>eligible to attend <strong>the</strong>se projects<br />

due to <strong>the</strong>ir age, <strong>the</strong> loss of companionship is experienced <strong>in</strong> pa<strong>in</strong>ful ways. If projects have<br />

become sources <strong>for</strong> develop<strong>in</strong>g mean<strong>in</strong>gful friendships, <strong>the</strong>n service providers and project<br />

workers need to consider how (a) membership of a project can end without caus<strong>in</strong>g ‘loss’<br />

<strong>for</strong> young carers; (b) how friendships can be susta<strong>in</strong>ed; (c) how projects can operate<br />

without caus<strong>in</strong>g ‘dependency’. <strong>The</strong>se issues are explored <strong>in</strong> more detail later <strong>in</strong> this chapter.<br />

Leav<strong>in</strong>g home and <strong>in</strong>dependence<br />

<strong>Young</strong> carers aged 16 and 17 need <strong>in</strong><strong>for</strong>mation about <strong>the</strong>ir options <strong>for</strong> leav<strong>in</strong>g home.<br />

Like many young people of this age, <strong>the</strong>y will not want to leave home at this stage <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong>ir<br />

lives, and <strong>for</strong> young carers this is made more complex because of <strong>the</strong>ir car<strong>in</strong>g responsibilities<br />

and <strong>the</strong> ‘positives’ <strong>the</strong>y attach to car<strong>in</strong>g. However, <strong>for</strong> some, especially those who want to<br />

get jobs or apprenticeships or go to university, <strong>the</strong>re is a real issue about whe<strong>the</strong>r <strong>the</strong>y can<br />

leave home to fulfil <strong>the</strong>se aspirations and ambitions. <strong>The</strong>ir car<strong>in</strong>g responsibilities place <strong>the</strong>m<br />

at a disadvantage compared with o<strong>the</strong>r young people of <strong>the</strong> same age and aspirations.<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Carers</strong> (Equal Opportunities) Act 2004 (England and Wales), is <strong>in</strong>tended to give carers,<br />

through an assessment, an equal opportunity to access paid work, education and leisure<br />

(see Box 11.5). Some young carers <strong>in</strong> our sample were clearly disadvantaged by <strong>the</strong>ir<br />

car<strong>in</strong>g roles <strong>in</strong> terms of <strong>the</strong>m hav<strong>in</strong>g unequal opportunities to access paid work and<br />

fur<strong>the</strong>r/higher education.<br />

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