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<strong>February</strong> – <strong>March</strong><br />

The Parish Magazine for<br />

Droxford, Exton, Meonstoke and Corhampton


List of Advertisers<br />

Most page numbers refer to the coloured advertising pages at the<br />

front and back of the magazine, prefixed Ad<br />

ACCOMMODATION Farmhouse B & B 10<br />

ACCOUNTANTS & TAX ADVISERS RG Walker 16: Nicholas Ridge 13<br />

ANTIQUES Droxford Antiques 6<br />

ARCHITECTS R & G Design 4: Engineering Architecture Ltd 9<br />

BUILDERS & BUILDING MATERIALS Elliotts 3: Steven Hurdle 6<br />

Steve Such (Property Maint) 2: R & G Gamblin 3: Alan Reeves 5<br />

KJN Home Improvements 7: Peter Garber (inside front cover)<br />

T R Chase & Son 8: Saunders Surfacing Ltd (inside front cover)<br />

C Jones General Builder 10: Frontwood Ltd 13<br />

CARPENTERS & WOOD PRODUCTS Shoreline Fencing 13<br />

Southwick Garden Offices (inside back cover)<br />

CATERERS Food For All Occasions 9: Casey’s Kitchen (inside front cover)<br />

CHILDCARE GROUPS Jo Jingles 9<br />

COMPUTERS & INTERNET Punchedcard Ltd 5<br />

Octagon Blue 10: Chris Guenier (inside back cover)<br />

DECORATORS, PAINTERS , TILERS & HANDYMAN SERVICES Brian Mellor 13<br />

Peter Moore (Handyman) 9: Droxford Interiors & Tiling 14<br />

Daniel Parker (Handyman) (back cover): M & J Mason 6: Top Marks 15<br />

DOMESTIC APPLIANCES, HEATING & PLUMBING Alan Shawyer 12<br />

Pipe Dreams Services 8: Adept Plumbing Services 2<br />

B Eastman 4: R A Redman 7: Syd Taylor (oil burners) 15<br />

DOMESTIC SERVICES Cynthia Tester Curtains & Blinds 12<br />

Curtains by Mary 9: Klean Sweep (chimneys) 11<br />

Chimney Sweep Christian Oliver 9: PestOFF Pest Control 10<br />

Advanced Clean (Carpet & Upholstery) 15: Local Cleaning Services 11<br />

ELECTRICIANS & ELECTRICAL SERVICES Richard Ayres 1<br />

Assure Electrical Ltd (inside back cover): Ray Burbidge 13: Derek Pilcher 6<br />

ESTATE AGENTS Taylor Garnier 14: Andrew Ross Prop. Agents 11<br />

FINANCIAL Retirement Investment Solutions (Inside back cover): Charles Stanley 2<br />

FUEL SUPPLIES H.B.S. Fuels 3<br />

FUNERAL DIRECTORS & MEMORIALS Langfords 12<br />

Co-operative (Fareham) 3: Nigel Chamberlain 14<br />

GARAGES & CARS Taylors Garage 1: Andrews Autosource 5<br />

A1 Learn to Drive 10: Auto Brite 6<br />

GARDENS & GARDEN MACHINERY Newleaf Landscapes 5<br />

Joe Ellerker 15: Anita Foy Garden Design 15<br />

HAIRDRESSERS Peggy Abbot Hair Design 12<br />

HEALTH & WELL-BEING Fithyan & Saxby (opticians) 4<br />

Peter Franckeiss Osteopath 10: Foot Care (Ann-Marie Elliott) 1<br />

Beauty Therapist 15: Foot Health Practioner (Karen Jordan) 8<br />

JEWELLERS Simon Lawson 13<br />

LETTINGS & LAND MANAGEMENT Pimp My Paddock (back cover)<br />

Paddock Maintenance (inside front cover)<br />

Andrew Ross Property Agents 11:The Country House Company 12<br />

Michael Peagram (inside front cover)<br />

PRINTING & STATIONERY Meon Valley Printers 11<br />

Studio 6 (inside front cover)<br />

PUBS White Horse 2: The Shoe Inn 16<br />

RIDING & EQUESTRIAN Merrie Stud 5<br />

SCHOOLS; EDUCATION & LEARNING Valley Pre-school 1<br />

Sustainability Centre 1<br />

SHOPS & STORES Droxford PO 2: Meonstoke PO 4<br />

SOLICITORS Chamberlains 12: Biscoes 11: Driver Belcher 8<br />

Blake Lapthorn (back cover)<br />

SPORT Hazelholt Indoor Tennis Court 7<br />

TRANSPORT & DRIVING TUITION Gamblin Cars 14: A1 Learn to Drive 10<br />

TREE SURGEONS TreeTek Ltd (inside front cover)<br />

Greenfellers Ltd (inside back cover)<br />

UPHOLSTERY Newlook Upholstery 16<br />

VETS & PETS The Village Cattery 5: Shield Veterinary Centre 16<br />

The Dog Room (inside front cover)<br />

2<br />

THE BRIDGE<br />

<strong>February</strong> - <strong>March</strong><br />

Contents<br />

Parish Lists . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2<br />

Rector’s Newsletter . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3<br />

Look-in Book-out . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4<br />

Churches Together Quiet Half hours . . . . . . . . . 4<br />

Singing for Fun . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4<br />

M/Stoke & Corhampton PCC . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4<br />

Meon Ladies . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 5<br />

Meon <strong>Bridge</strong> Benefice Lent Lunch . . . . . . . . . . 5<br />

Exton Church Fabric Fund Draw . . . . . . . . . . . 5<br />

Annual Parochial Church Council Meetings . . . . . . 5<br />

Wanted: Advertising Manager . . . . . . . . . . . . 5<br />

Meonstoke Village Band Concert . . . . . . . . . . 6<br />

Valentine Day’s Concert . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 6<br />

Keep Calm Quiz . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 6<br />

Meon Valley Garden Club . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7<br />

In the Garden . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7<br />

Mid-week Communion . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7<br />

Server vacancy . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7<br />

Are you interested in crafts . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7<br />

Churches Together Lent Lunches . . . . . . . . . . 8<br />

Village Fete – Your Village Needs You . . . . . . . . 8<br />

The Meon Hall . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 8<br />

Royal British Legion . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9<br />

Studwell in Wartime (cont’d) . . . . . . . . . . . . 9<br />

Help needed. Droxford Village Market . . . . . . . 9<br />

Local Services Information . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10<br />

William Collins Charity . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10<br />

Good News Library . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10<br />

Droxford & District Comm. Care . . . . . . . . . . 11<br />

Minor Injuries Unit . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 11<br />

Meon Valley Community Bus . . . . . . . . . . . 11<br />

CAB . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12<br />

Droxford Village Hall News . . . . . . . . . . . . 13<br />

Droxford Village Hall events . . . . . . . . . . . . . 13<br />

Droxford Village Market . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 13<br />

Droxford Junior School . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14<br />

Hampshire & IoW Wildlife Trust . . . . . . . . . . 15<br />

U3A . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 15<br />

Meon Valley Carers Group . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16<br />

The Rain . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16<br />

Meon Valley Lions . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17<br />

Hackney & Bishops Waltham Deanery Link . . . . . 18<br />

News from the Preschool . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18<br />

Meonstoke & Corhampton Parish Council . . . . . 18<br />

We Welcome . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18<br />

From the Registers . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18<br />

District Diary . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 19<br />

Church Services Chart . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 20<br />

Bishop’s Waltham Deanery helpers packing up the Christmas<br />

gifts for delivery to Hackney (see report, page 18).


The Magazine for The Parish Churches of<br />

Droxford, Exton, Meonstoke & Corhampton, & Preshaw<br />

RECTOR Reverend Stuart Holt 01489 877512<br />

The Rectory, Meonstoke, SO32 3NF E-mail: revstuartholt@btinternet.com<br />

Note: The Rector’s day off is Friday .<br />

ASSISTANT PRIEST Rev Canon Marion Mort<br />

LICENSED LAY MINISTERS<br />

Reader emeritus Pauline Quarendon 877392<br />

DROXFORD<br />

Churchwardens: Elizabeth Stewart 877419<br />

Ann Symes 877643<br />

Secretary: Sarah Collins 877808<br />

Treasurer & Gift<br />

Aid secretary: Paul Harris 878622<br />

Organist: John Martin 877385<br />

Sacristan: Laura Jerosch 01329 231956<br />

Verger: Norman Bell 877230<br />

EXTON<br />

Churchwardens: Felicity Hindson MBE 877673<br />

Bob Miles –<br />

Treasurer & Gift<br />

Aid secretary: David Frere-Cook 877838<br />

Organists:<br />

(Morning) Frances Keppel 878774<br />

(Evening) Dr Alan Hibbert OBE 878564<br />

Sacristan: Jill Cassels 877469<br />

Verger: Bob Miles –<br />

OTHER DENOMINATIONS<br />

Roman Catholic Church (Bishop’s Waltham)<br />

Father John Buckley 895889<br />

METHODIST & UNITED FREE CHURCH<br />

(Bishop’s Waltham)<br />

The Reverend David Moss MA 01329 833518<br />

Cover picture: The bridge over the River<br />

Meon near St Andrew’s Church green.<br />

If you take a photograph that you think would make<br />

a good cover picture, send it to the editor (note that<br />

it must be digital and high resolution).<br />

MEONSTOKE WITH CORHAMPTON<br />

Churchwardens: Joanna Buchanan 877737<br />

Dr Paul Buxton 877335<br />

Deputy Churchwarden<br />

(Corhampton): Maggie Howard 877540<br />

Treasurer (& Gift<br />

Aid secretary): Ewart Wood 877398<br />

Organists:<br />

(Meonstoke) Dr Alan Hibbert OBE 878564<br />

(Corhampton) John Martin (am) 877385<br />

Richard Martin (pm) 872980<br />

Sacristan Pauline Quarendon 877392<br />

PRESHAW<br />

Coordinator Position vacant –<br />

THE BRIDGE is delivered at the start of the months of<br />

<strong>February</strong>, April, June, August, October, and December.<br />

Ideally, <strong>copy</strong> should be sent by e-mail to The <strong>Bridge</strong> editor at<br />

the address shown above, preferably attached as an MS Word<br />

document. The page set-up (with 10 or 10.5 pt font size)<br />

should be defined as an A4 page – with 1.2 cm left and right<br />

margins. Typed or handwritten hard<strong>copy</strong> is also acceptable.<br />

If you are responsible for village activities, diaries, and<br />

schedules, please note that material received after the <strong>copy</strong><br />

date might not be included (see page 19).<br />

3<br />

THE BRIDGE MAGAZINE<br />

Editor Norman Bell, Briar Cottage,<br />

South Hill, Droxford, SO32 3PB<br />

Tel: 877230<br />

E-mail: thebridgeeditor@gmail.com<br />

Advertising: Position vacant<br />

E-mail: bridge.advertisingmanager@gmail.com<br />

Treasurer Alison Stott 877293<br />

Printed by: Meon Valley Printers,<br />

Church Road,<br />

Swanmore


The Rectory, November CAP Money by Christians Against Poverty<br />

What is CAP Money?<br />

CAP Money is a revolutionary<br />

money management course that<br />

teaches people budgeting skills<br />

and a simple, cash-based system<br />

that really works. This course will<br />

help anyone to get more control<br />

over their finances, so they can<br />

save, give and prevent debt. CAP<br />

Money is a course devised by the<br />

award winning debt-counselling<br />

charity, Christians Against<br />

Poverty.<br />

It’s run by a church, does that<br />

means it’s only for Christians?<br />

No. The CAP Money course is<br />

designed to help anyone,<br />

regardless of their religious<br />

beliefs.<br />

Do I have to pay?<br />

No. The course is completely free.<br />

I have a variable income can the<br />

course help me smooth that out?<br />

The basic course is designed for<br />

those with a regular income,<br />

however there are additional<br />

materials and resources available<br />

online for those who are self<br />

employed or a university student.<br />

I am worried I have debt issues,<br />

will the course help me?<br />

The course is designed to be<br />

applicable to all financial<br />

situations. If you do find at the<br />

end of the course you are not able<br />

to make your budget balance then<br />

there is the option for additional<br />

support through CAP Money Plus<br />

(see over leaf for further details).<br />

Do I need access to the Internet?<br />

You will get the most out the<br />

course if you have Internet<br />

connection, however it is not<br />

mandatory. If you want to access<br />

CAP Money Plus you will need<br />

regular access to the Internet.<br />

What does CAP Money teach?<br />

CAP Money is a three-session<br />

course that features DVD<br />

presentations by John Kirkby,<br />

CAP’s Founder and International<br />

Director, and Matt Barlow, CAP’s<br />

UK Chief Executive.<br />

During the three sessions,<br />

delegates will learn:<br />

1. How to build and live on a<br />

budget. This is the<br />

cornerstone of managing<br />

money well. The session<br />

includes advice on how to<br />

increase income and cut costs.<br />

2. The CAP Money system. This<br />

system helps to simplify a<br />

budget and to make it<br />

understandable. It operates<br />

using three accounts for our<br />

money: a regular payments<br />

account, a cash account, and a<br />

savings account.<br />

3. How to live from week to<br />

week using cash. Living on<br />

cash and getting away from<br />

cards helps delegates to know<br />

exactly where they are and<br />

helps them to spend less<br />

money: cash revalues money<br />

and your purchases. Studies<br />

have found that people spend<br />

up to 18% more when they pay<br />

by card than when using cash<br />

(Dun and Bradstreet).<br />

Additional support through<br />

CAP Money Plus<br />

If, once you have completed the<br />

CAP Money course, you find<br />

yourself in a situation of<br />

unmanageable debt and want to<br />

work within a budget to achieve a<br />

debt-free future, then CAP Money<br />

Plus is for you. CAP Money Plus<br />

will provide additional support in<br />

managing your secondary debts<br />

(loans, credit cards, store cards<br />

etc). We will also provide you with<br />

advice on how to contact some<br />

priority creditors (mortgage<br />

arrears, rent arrears, council tax<br />

arrears, etc) with a repayment<br />

proposal yourself. The service is<br />

a mixture of self-help and support<br />

4<br />

from the CAP Money Plus team.<br />

In this way it differs from the full<br />

debt counselling service offered<br />

through our CAP Debt Centres. If<br />

you feel like you may benefit more<br />

from help through a CAP Debt<br />

Centre then please call 0800 328<br />

0006.<br />

“Before I got help from CAP<br />

Money Plus, I was depressed<br />

trying to bring up two children<br />

while my husband was<br />

unemployed. Now, through CAP<br />

Money Plus, I feel confident,<br />

relieved and optimistic about the<br />

future.” - CAP Money Plus client<br />

“I think the great thing about the<br />

CAP Money Course is that it<br />

doesn’t blame you for getting into<br />

difficulties with money, but<br />

focuses on how you can get back<br />

in control.” - Caroline.<br />

“Our finances were in such a<br />

mess and we didn’t know which<br />

way to turn. We attended the CAP<br />

Money Course, which changed<br />

our complete outlook to our life<br />

and finances and, best of all,<br />

showed us that there was hope<br />

out there. Now we are turning our<br />

life around thanks to CAP and<br />

Gateway Church.” – Rod and Bea<br />

The nearest CAP Money course<br />

will be starting on 7th <strong>March</strong> in<br />

Droxford Village Hall. Your<br />

money coaches will be Sally<br />

Holt and Becky <strong>Bridge</strong>n. If you<br />

would like to book a place on<br />

the course please log on to<br />

www.capmoney.org and find<br />

the Droxford course ; or if you<br />

do not have access to the<br />

Internet telephone Sally on<br />

01489 877512 leaving your<br />

contact details. Places are<br />

limited so please book early to<br />

avoid disappointment.


Look-in!<br />

Do look in for a chat and<br />

refreshment on the 1st and 3rd<br />

Wednesdays of the month between<br />

10.00 and midday in Meonstoke<br />

Church. Everyone is welcome –<br />

the more the merrier!<br />

<strong>February</strong>: 1st & 15th<br />

<strong>March</strong>: 7th & 21st<br />

Book-out !<br />

Please feel free to borrow books<br />

(fiction and non-fiction, thrillers and<br />

all other genres), jigsaws and CDs<br />

and return them when you have<br />

finished with them. There is no<br />

charge. The Library in<br />

Meonstoke Church is available<br />

to everyone whenever the<br />

Church is open, which is from<br />

early morning until early<br />

evening. Do come and have a<br />

browse in the peaceful<br />

surroundings.<br />

Lorna Allured, 01489 877718<br />

For the person who has everything…<br />

...a gift of friendship with<br />

CORHAMPTON SAXON CHURCH<br />

From the era before the Conquest<br />

A 1000 yr old centre of Christian worship<br />

A living icon of Saxon culture and heritage<br />

Your gift will help the Church<br />

serve the Meon Valley for<br />

another 1000 years<br />

A Gift of Friendship of Corhampton Saxon Church<br />

is available for just £15<br />

from<br />

Guy Liardet – chairman of the Friends<br />

liardet@meonstoke33.freeserve.co.uk<br />

01489 877583<br />

www.bridgechurches.org.uk/church_corhampton_friends<br />

Churches together<br />

Quiet half hours<br />

28th <strong>February</strong><br />

St Mary & All Saints Church,<br />

Droxford<br />

20th <strong>March</strong> (3rd Tuesday)<br />

Waltham Chase Methodist<br />

Church,<br />

Curdridge Lane<br />

All held on Tuesdays, starting at<br />

7.30 pm, lasting 30 minutes.<br />

These are times of quiet<br />

contemplation of the type so<br />

often overlooked in this busy<br />

world<br />

With the superb activities<br />

around the Church Green and<br />

progress with the renovation<br />

programmes, the PCC would like to<br />

keep up the momentum and involve as<br />

many local people in St Andrew’s and<br />

Corhampton churches as possible. We<br />

are particularly keen for more to join us<br />

on the PCC itself and for others to join<br />

the Renovation Steering Group.<br />

Neither bodies are arduous (PCC meets<br />

quarterly) but it is important that we get<br />

views from outside the small clusters we<br />

have at the moment and develop a<br />

younger profile – more skills and new<br />

ideas. The PCC needs a treasurer and<br />

secretary in particular, and the<br />

renovation group needs people<br />

with creative imagination for perhaps<br />

making the buildings more functional<br />

and/or with experience in design or<br />

home improvement.<br />

Ewart Wood has full details of the<br />

treasurer's role and Anne Morrice the<br />

responsibilities of the secretary. Both<br />

are interesting jobs and broadly involve<br />

coordinating the business of the PCC<br />

with the rector and the churchwardens<br />

5<br />

Singing<br />

for Fun<br />

Come and sing your favourite<br />

songs and learn some new ones.<br />

No talent required.<br />

Refreshments<br />

The Stables,<br />

Bishops Waltham<br />

Every 1st & 3rd Friday<br />

at 2.00 – 3.30 pm<br />

Next dates are:<br />

3rd and 17th <strong>February</strong><br />

2nd and 16th <strong>March</strong><br />

There will be a small charge.<br />

Further information from<br />

Annabel 01489 877130<br />

or 07732 329792<br />

Meonstoke and Corhampton Parochial Church Council<br />

– the treasurer looks after the our<br />

financial well-being (no need to be an<br />

accountant) and the secretary arranges<br />

the meeting agenda, writes minutes, and<br />

keeps the church Electoral Roll up to<br />

date. The renovation programme is<br />

being led by Paul Buxton.<br />

Please give this some thought – the<br />

churches play a central part in the life of<br />

Meonstoke and Corhampton and we<br />

need your voice and support to sustain<br />

their place in the community in the most<br />

suitable way.<br />

For more details, do have a chat with<br />

� JoJo Buchanan on 877737 or<br />

any of us about joining the PCC<br />

� Anne about the secretary on<br />

878505<br />

� Ewart about the treasurer on<br />

877398<br />

� Paul about the renovation<br />

programme on 877335<br />

Come and join us as soon as you can!<br />

Peter Mosse


The December meeting was a<br />

wonderful pre-Christmas treat.<br />

Gerry Hayles, Helen Mitchell,<br />

Jenny Liardet, and Becky Newsom<br />

provided us with some hilarious<br />

entertainment and we all enjoyed<br />

mulled wine and mince pies.<br />

The following is the outline programme<br />

for the first half of 2012 (all events are<br />

on a Thursday):<br />

12th January Homestart talk<br />

9th <strong>February</strong> Quiz with a difference!!<br />

15th <strong>March</strong> Air Ambulance talk<br />

19th April Swap evening (clothes,<br />

jewellery, china etc.)<br />

17th May Local treasure hunt<br />

All meetings begin at 7.30 pm and end<br />

at approximately 9.00 pm. They are<br />

held in the Meon Hall, Meonstoke and<br />

the cost is £2.00. Ladies of all ages<br />

from the Meon villages are very<br />

welcome: do come – you'll be able to<br />

catch up with old friends and make new<br />

Annual Parochial Church Council<br />

Meetings<br />

7.30 pm on Wednesday, 25th April<br />

at<br />

The Meon Hall, Meonstoke<br />

There will be a single Joint Benefice Annual Parochial<br />

Church Meeting which will be immediately followed by the<br />

individual parishes’ APCMs.<br />

To come to the annual meetings you will need to be on the<br />

Electoral Roll of one of the churches. If you have not already<br />

joined and would like to do so, forms are available at the<br />

back of the four churches. The completed Electoral Roll<br />

forms need to be returned to the rector, the relevant church<br />

electoral roll officer, or to a churchwarden, at least 15 days<br />

before the annual meetings. The Electoral Roll is then<br />

available in each church for inspection.<br />

Church electoral roll officers are as follows:<br />

MEON LADIES Meon <strong>Bridge</strong> Benefice<br />

Exton Anne Morrice 878505<br />

Droxford Sarah Collins 877808<br />

Meonstoke<br />

& Corhampton Anne Morrice 878505<br />

Official notices will be placed on the church notice boards<br />

during <strong>March</strong> giving full details.<br />

ones. If you are new to the villages this<br />

is an excellent opportunity to meet<br />

people and begin to feel at home. We<br />

are supporting the Valley Preschool and<br />

any funds we raise will be shared with<br />

this important project and equipment for<br />

the Meon Hall.<br />

For more information please phone any<br />

one of the following:<br />

Lorna Allured 877718<br />

Claire Ablitt 878074<br />

Denise Bury 877756<br />

Lesley Daysh 877327<br />

Caroline Harris 877522<br />

Adele Jones 877620<br />

Carol Jones 878560<br />

Moya Trew 877308<br />

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Wanted<br />

Lent Lunch<br />

on<br />

Monday, 5th <strong>March</strong><br />

in<br />

Droxford Village Hall<br />

12.15 - 13.30<br />

Proceeds in aid of the<br />

Bishop's Lent Appeal<br />

EXTON CHURCH FABRIC<br />

FUND DRAW<br />

Sam and Chris FitzSimmons have<br />

taken on the running of the draw,<br />

which makes much needed money for<br />

the church fabric.<br />

The first draw under under their new<br />

management will be in <strong>February</strong> and the<br />

results for that and the <strong>March</strong> draw will<br />

be published in the April-May issue<br />

of The <strong>Bridge</strong>.<br />

Advertising Manager<br />

The <strong>Bridge</strong> needs an advertising manager<br />

to take over control of advertising:<br />

� To maintain a waiting list of potential<br />

advertisers<br />

� To send out renewal reminder letters at<br />

the end of each year<br />

� To keep a check list of renewals and<br />

details of payments<br />

� To follow up overdue replies and<br />

payments<br />

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submitted by advertisers.<br />

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Meonstoke Village<br />

Band<br />

presents<br />

A concert of light-hearted music<br />

to raise money for the<br />

Valley Preschool<br />

with performances from<br />

Hindhead Wind Band<br />

and<br />

solos from local professionals<br />

Cathy Mathews, Eva Csala,<br />

and Russel Shipley<br />

Sunday, 25th <strong>March</strong> at 6.00 pm<br />

in The Meon Hall<br />

Tickets £8, £5 concessions<br />

to include refreshments<br />

Available from Corhampton Stores or<br />

on the door<br />

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Sunday, 12th <strong>February</strong>, at 3.00 pm<br />

Droxford Village Hall<br />

VALENTINE’S DAY<br />

Chamber Concert<br />

Cathy Mathews – violin<br />

Éva Csala – violoncello<br />

Russel Shipley – clarinet<br />

and friends<br />

Programme:<br />

Classical and Romantic music<br />

Refreshments included<br />

Tickets on the door<br />

£8 for adults and<br />

£6 for children and OAPs<br />

If you are a fan of Classical and Romantic music<br />

or you know someone who is, then look no further<br />

for the perfect Valentine’s Day concert!<br />

Friends of Meonstoke School’s<br />

Annual Quiz Night<br />

Friday, 23rd <strong>March</strong><br />

The Meon Hall, 7.30 pm<br />

This year it’s the<br />

Austerity Quiz:<br />

no fancy dress, just questions,<br />

picnics and prizes.<br />

Tickets from<br />

The Village Stores<br />

£4 each or £30 for a table of 8<br />

Phone: 01489 878282


Meon Valley Garden Club<br />

It seems amazing that I am already putting into the diary<br />

notice of the Spring Show. As usual, the weather is giving<br />

us problems as there are daffodils already in bloom in some<br />

places and I have a primrose in flower in my garden. So will<br />

everything be over by the time of the Show? We worry every<br />

year and every year we have a wonderful display. So no doubt<br />

there will be a cold snap soon that will put everything right again!<br />

We have started our winter season of talks. Gardeners Question<br />

Time has become an annual event, with Chris Bird, from<br />

Sparsholt College, giving us the benefit of his wisdom and wit.<br />

So if you have a gardening problem, whether you are a member<br />

or not, please let me have details and I will put it on the list for<br />

Chris to answer. Then either come along to the meeting or look<br />

on our <strong>Web</strong> site for the result.<br />

Our membership now stands at 230 but there is room for more.<br />

Our yearly subscription is only £3 and you cannot get better<br />

value than that.<br />

Olive Hathaway, Chairman<br />

meon-valley-garden-club.co.uk<br />

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SPRING SHOW<br />

SATURDAY 31ST MARCH<br />

Soberton Village Hall<br />

2.00 pm<br />

Entrance 60p,<br />

Children Free<br />

A Great Display<br />

Refreshments<br />

Mid-week Communion<br />

Although it is always in The <strong>Bridge</strong><br />

District Diary, some of you may not<br />

be aware that there is a short service<br />

of Holy Communion (CW) every<br />

Thursday morning at 10.00, held in<br />

Sprinkle some balanced fertiliser around<br />

In the garden the base of fruit trees and bushes before<br />

applying a mulch of well-rotted manure.<br />

– <strong>February</strong><br />

��<br />

& <strong>March</strong> Herbaceous border: Clean up dead<br />

leaves and stems that might harbour<br />

the Lady Chapel in St. Mary’s<br />

unwanted pests, and complete any<br />

Church, Droxford.<br />

Do come along and and share this<br />

quiet time with us.<br />

Pauline Quarendon<br />

Vacancy – Server<br />

I am a server in the church. My name is<br />

James and I like doing my job. I have<br />

been doing it for over 2 years.<br />

I carry a book called the Gospel and I<br />

help the rector with pouring the wine and<br />

I carry the Cross and I do lots of other<br />

things.<br />

It makes me feel happy and it makes<br />

everyone happy. I don't do it all the<br />

time, that's why we need some more<br />

servers to help. You don't have to do<br />

it, but it would be nice if you did. So if<br />

you are interested,<br />

Please call me or Rev. Stuart Holt on<br />

01489 877867 or 01489 877512<br />

James Matthissen<br />

Are you interested in crafts<br />

such as patchwork?<br />

Do come and join us at Tithes on<br />

alternate Wednesdays from<br />

10.30 am to 12.30 pm<br />

<strong>February</strong> 8th; 22nd; 29th<br />

<strong>March</strong> 14th; 28th<br />

More information from<br />

Rosemary Frere-Cook on 877769<br />

transplanting not done in the autumn.<br />

The mild winter and recent wet Plant roses and hardy lilies, plant gladioli<br />

weather, apart from delaying after mid-<strong>March</strong>, prune climbing roses<br />

some jobs in the garden, has also and hardy shrubs. Do not prune forsythia<br />

allowed many pests to overwinter<br />

and other spring flowering shrubs or<br />

successfully, so extra vigilance is<br />

spring flowering clematis such as<br />

Montana, Alpina, or Armandii, otherwise<br />

required to spot aphids and eggs of slugs<br />

there will be no flowers this year. Apply<br />

and snails before despatching them by<br />

mulch of composted horse manure around<br />

whatever means. As soon as the soil is<br />

shrubs.<br />

workable priority should be given to<br />

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getting bare rooted trees, shrubs and awns: In <strong>March</strong>, re-seed worn are-<br />

fruit canes planted while they are still as after first levelling, repair any<br />

dormant. It is also time to give the damaged edges and aerate the whole lawn<br />

vegetable plot a final dig over before with an aerator or fork. At the end of the<br />

preparing for sowing.<br />

month apply lawn fertiliser and after a<br />

V<br />

��<br />

few days lightly mow, remembering to<br />

egetables: First sowings of broad set the mower blades high so that the<br />

beans, peas, and parsnips may be grass is not cut too short. If there has<br />

made, and shallot sets planted. At this been a build-up of perennial weeds and<br />

time early sowings of spring onions and moss since the autumn use proprietary<br />

lettuce can also be made. A layer of fleece weed and feed with moss killer.<br />

will provide some protection against frost,<br />

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mice, and birds.<br />

n the greenhouse: Sow tomato,<br />

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ruit: Summer fruiting raspberries;–<br />

cucumber, sprouts, cauliflower, and<br />

shorten canes to 5 feet and cut newly-<br />

summer bedding annuals such as petunia,<br />

planted canes to about 6 inches. Cut<br />

tagetes, asters, and nicotiana. Start<br />

autumn fruiting varieties down to ground<br />

tuberous rooted begonias in pots or trays,<br />

level. Prune gooseberries, white and red<br />

start dahlias in trays of slightly damp peat<br />

currants – cut back half of last year’s new<br />

or soil free compost. Chit early potato<br />

growth and trim side shoots to about 2<br />

tubers, eyes uppermost in shallow boxes<br />

inches. Remove all wood 4 years old or<br />

of sand, ready for planting out in midmore<br />

(these stems will be very dark in<br />

<strong>March</strong>.<br />

colour) from black currant bushes.<br />

John Owen


LENT LUNCHES 2012<br />

<strong>February</strong><br />

Friday, 24th St Nicholas’ Wickham, Church Hall<br />

Wednesday, 29th United Free Church,<br />

Bishop’s Waltham<br />

<strong>March</strong><br />

Wednesday, 7th Durley Memorial Hall<br />

Wednesday, 14th Swanmore Methodist Hall<br />

Wednesday, 21st St Peter's, Soberton, Church Room<br />

All at 12.30 pm onwards<br />

Menu<br />

Soup, bread and cheese,<br />

tea/coffee<br />

No charge, but donations invited to be sent to<br />

charities that are yet to be decided<br />

CTWBA is in association with Churches Together in<br />

Hampshire and the Isle of Wight<br />

The 2011 200 Club Prize Draw:<br />

Drawn at the Beetle Drive in<br />

November, the winners of the 2011 big<br />

prizes were: £300 Liz Whiting £150<br />

Stephen Blakey £100 Mark Masterman<br />

This year's 200 Club: The monthly<br />

£25 Prize draws are made on the<br />

first Saturday of each month. During the<br />

year there will be a £50 Midsummer<br />

Prize, and the special draw for the £300,<br />

£150, and £100 prizes will take place at<br />

the 2012 Beetle Drive, which will be<br />

held at the Meon Hall on Saturday, 24th<br />

November – put the event in your diary<br />

now ! The 200 Club raises money to<br />

help with purchases of new equipment<br />

and other improvements for the Meon<br />

Hall. If you want to join this year’s 200<br />

Club and take part in the prize draws,<br />

contact James Morrice (877916).<br />

A<br />

huge “Thank you”: to everyone<br />

who has joined the 200 Club in<br />

2012 – you may win one of the prizes,<br />

but just as importantly, by joining the<br />

200 Club you are helping the Meon Hall<br />

Management Committee to make some<br />

much needed equipment purchases and<br />

general improvements.<br />

Showcase time! In this and future<br />

<strong>Bridge</strong> editions the Meon Hall<br />

Committee will be publicising the<br />

groups and weekly activities that go on<br />

in the Hall. First of all Keeping Fit –<br />

don't just go a walk, good for you as that<br />

is. Join a fitness group at the Meon Hall<br />

as well. We have a range of fitness<br />

groups to suit different personal needs<br />

and capabilities :<br />

� On Monday evenings come along<br />

at 7.30 pm for Aerobics in the Main<br />

Hall – Patrick leads this group for<br />

Aerobics to music; there's lots of<br />

floor space. Contact Michelle<br />

Waktare (878582) for information<br />

and cost per session. Patrick is a<br />

qualified instructor (contact him on<br />

07905 524063)<br />

� On Tuesday evenings at 7.00 pm<br />

Andy Roberts runs a large and<br />

enthusiastic circuit training group in<br />

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VILLAGE FÊTE – YOUR VILLAGE NEEDS YOU!<br />

The Meonstoke/Corhampton/Exton Village Fete is scheduled<br />

for Saturday, 14th July at The Meon Hall wet or fine, and it<br />

is hoped that, with planning starting now, we can surpass all<br />

previous fetes!<br />

Please will everyone note 14th July in your diaries, and start<br />

thinking NOT where else you might hive off to, but HOW and with<br />

what you can contribute? It is only by the good graces of, often<br />

the same old, and getting older(!), people, that the fêtes bring<br />

cohesion to the Community and badly needed funds to the<br />

Benefice. We have, joyously, an increasingly younger<br />

population around us, some of whom may shrink from coming<br />

forward from their busy lives. Please will they volunteer to run<br />

or help run stalls, pony and slow bike rides, bouncy castle,<br />

erecting tents, tossing the straw, dog show and so on? This is a<br />

great day out for the children especially. We need a Volunteer<br />

Band. Remember the less we need to pay for the more charity<br />

funds we raise.<br />

We have never been defeated by the weather, which is always a<br />

challenge. Early moans go with the territory, but on the day it is<br />

always fun and varyingly productive. Start thinking up original,<br />

and traditional, stalls/events and whether you have a connection<br />

to draws like vintage car or aerobatic displays, fairground<br />

apparatus, hot air balloon operators, helicopter rides, parachute<br />

drops, model aeroplane and birds of prey demonstrations, sheep<br />

dog displays , etc etc. Please volunteer early to avoid being<br />

press-ganged into something you would rather not do!<br />

Any ideas, suggestions, commitments, or queries should be<br />

submitted to Mike Hutchinson on 878702, or by e-mail at<br />

yandmhutch1@btinternet.com , the earlier the better. Repeat,<br />

together we can make this the best one.<br />

VOLUNTEER NOW!<br />

the Main Hall. In addition to the<br />

static exercises , Andy has got some<br />

boxing exercise kit – you can really<br />

get stuck into these, and punch them<br />

about. Andy is a professionally<br />

qualified personal trainer; you can<br />

contact him on 07521 692061 for<br />

information and cost per session.<br />

� On Friday mornings, if the other<br />

sessions are too tough for you, come<br />

along and enjoy something very<br />

different - a relaxed calm and gentle<br />

Workout with Wendy in the Small<br />

Hall – exercising to music. Body<br />

conditioning, stretching, hula<br />

hooping. You can contact Wendy<br />

Laurenson on 07876 361120.<br />

Finally – Are you planning a<br />

family party ...? Can we help<br />

you ? Why not order those extra<br />

tables, chairs, champagne flutes, wine<br />

glasses, china and cutlery for your<br />

entertaining from The Meon Hall.<br />

Contact the bookings secretary,<br />

Richard Booth on 877820 or at:<br />

meonhallbookings@yahoo.co.uk<br />

James Morrice


Our first talk<br />

of the year<br />

was given<br />

by Rear Admiral Guy<br />

Liardet, who spoke<br />

on the Gallipoli Campaign. This, he<br />

made very clear, was one of the great<br />

disasters of the First World War. Whilst<br />

there were many acts of individual<br />

heroism, overall the campaign was<br />

doomed by lack of proper planning,<br />

poor leadership, and bad decisions. One<br />

could say that with hind-sight it was a<br />

series of ‘if onlies’.<br />

Things started to go wrong with the<br />

decision being made to make the attack<br />

by sea alone. After an initial<br />

bombardment, 17 British and French<br />

ships made their way through the<br />

Dardanelle Straits. These had been<br />

heavily mined, and attempts to clear the<br />

mines had failed completely. The<br />

combination of the mines and gun fire<br />

from the shore had a devastating effect,<br />

with three British battleships sunk and<br />

three more withdrawn. Throughout the<br />

Victorian years, the British Navy had<br />

ruled the waves, and was not<br />

accustomed to losing ships and the<br />

effect on morale was profound. In fact,<br />

the Turks were virtually out of<br />

The Royal British Legion Droxford Branch<br />

ammunition, fully expecting that the<br />

attack would be resumed the next day<br />

and were on the point of surrendering.<br />

However, there was no follow up and in<br />

Guy’s words: “So twenty mines and a<br />

lack of naval grit decided the outcome of<br />

the Gallipoli campaign and lengthened<br />

the First World War.”<br />

The arrangements for the subsequent<br />

amphibious assault were chaotic and the<br />

delay gave the Turks ample opportunity<br />

to bring up reinforcements and make<br />

defensive preparations. The Australian<br />

and New Zealand forces, the Anzacs,<br />

were due to land at a bay called Gaba<br />

Tepe but due to a navigational error<br />

landed further north in very difficult<br />

terrain, an area now known as Anzac<br />

cove. The Turkish troops, although outnumbered,<br />

were led by the brilliant<br />

Mustapha Kemel Bey and taking full<br />

advantage of the inhospitable terrain<br />

pinned down the Anzacs in increasingly<br />

awful and insanitary conditions.<br />

The 29th division landed on five<br />

beaches further to the south of the<br />

Gallipoli peninsular and although one or<br />

two of the landings appeared to start<br />

well, all eventually became a blood bath,<br />

with the fighting settling down to trench<br />

Studwell in Wartime (cont’d)<br />

I read the Studwell in Wartime article<br />

in the last issue with some interest.<br />

A reply, as invited, gives me a<br />

welcome opportunity to pay tribute to<br />

my kind godfather, Captain the Hon.<br />

John Bruce, Royal Navy, and his dear<br />

wife ‘Aunt’ Helen.<br />

John Bruce was my father’s<br />

Commander in the cruiser HMS<br />

Dauntless, from which my parents were<br />

married in Bermuda in 1932.<br />

Subsequently, at my baptism in HMS<br />

Effingham in Portsmouth ‘Uncle’ John<br />

consented to be a godfather. He<br />

continued to be both supportive and<br />

generous throughout my childhood and<br />

my entry into RNC Dartmouth, and I<br />

treasure the Bible he gave me at my<br />

Confirmation which has travelled the<br />

world with me to this day.<br />

Studwell Lodge – happy memories of<br />

mother and me staying with Aunt Helen<br />

during the war. My two strongest were<br />

the wonderfully equipped playroom,<br />

such toys! Then the mysterious garden<br />

tunnel which housed all the gardener’s<br />

tackle. This had huge appeal for a five<br />

year old future submariner! I believe it<br />

is still in use.<br />

Later, as a teenager I was again a guest<br />

at Studwell, where staff had returned<br />

and life was approaching what it had<br />

been pre-war. The whole family was as<br />

ever kind and I recall Victor driving me<br />

through the night returning through<br />

darkened lanes from a party, maybe<br />

Celia’s “coming out”?<br />

As finale, I was later pleased to present<br />

my family. Our son Charles, aged about<br />

five, and briefed to be on best<br />

behaviour, smartly marched up to Uncle<br />

John and said “How do you do, Captain<br />

Boots”! I do indeed remember “those<br />

times” with gratitude for much<br />

generosity and kindness, and always<br />

have a warm feeling when I pass by<br />

Studwell.<br />

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Mike Hutchinson.<br />

warfare like the Western front. The<br />

official history suggests that the 29th<br />

Division did well to take the beaches but<br />

that once ashore, a lack of initiative<br />

among subordinate commanders and<br />

casualties among the best officers meant<br />

that insufficient progress was made. The<br />

troops also suffered from the<br />

inhospitable climate, with terrific heat<br />

and appalling plagues of flies in the<br />

summer, and intense cold in the winter.<br />

Eventually, after nine months the<br />

decision was made to withdraw, with the<br />

Allied forces having suffered over<br />

140,000 casualties and the Turks over<br />

251,000. Although the Turks had<br />

suffered the greater number of<br />

casualties, there was little doubt that it<br />

was the Allies who had been defeated.<br />

This is only a very brief and sketchy<br />

outline of Guy’s very detailed and<br />

comprehensive account of a truly<br />

terrible event, which he brilliantly<br />

illustrated with some 200 slides. He<br />

vividly brought home to us the sheer<br />

horror of the Gallipoli Campaign and we<br />

are indebted to him for a fascinating<br />

evening.<br />

John Martin<br />

Droxford Village Market<br />

Help Needed!<br />

We are urgently in need of<br />

more volunteers for the<br />

Market. Two of our long<br />

serving members have resigned and we<br />

need to fill their shoes. We need people<br />

to serve on the produce counter and also<br />

to make the refreshments. It involves<br />

attending on a Friday from 1.00 p.m. to<br />

3.30 p.m. so just 2 ½ hours. At present<br />

the produce volunteers have to attend 2<br />

Fridays out of 3, and the refreshment<br />

volunteers every other Friday. The<br />

more volunteers that we have, the less<br />

the commitment for the existing group<br />

and for new volunteers. We work on a<br />

rota that is drawn up by mutual<br />

agreement, so even 1 Friday a month<br />

would be acceptable. Nothing is set in<br />

stone as we all live busy lives and<br />

Friday swapping goes on. If you can<br />

help, please either come along to the<br />

Market and have a chat or ring me<br />

878768.<br />

Olive Hathaway


POST OFFICES<br />

Some local services & useful telephone numbers<br />

DROXFORD – High Street 878811<br />

MEONSTOKE – Allens Lane, Corhampton 877374<br />

STORES<br />

DROXFORD STORES, High Street 878811<br />

THE VILLAGE STORES, Allens Lane,Corhampton 877374<br />

MERINGTONS STORES, Garrison Hill, Droxford 878043<br />

DROXFORD ANTIQUES, High Street, Droxford 878800<br />

PUBLIC HOUSES<br />

THE BAKER’S ARMS, Droxford 877533<br />

THE BUCKS HEAD, Meonstoke 877313<br />

THE HURDLES, Droxford 877451<br />

THE SHOE, Exton 877526<br />

THE WHITE HORSE, Droxford 877490<br />

GARAGES<br />

MERINGTONS , Droxford 877431<br />

TAYLORS GARAGE LTD, Droxford 877433<br />

SCHOOLS<br />

DROXFORD JUNIOR SCHOOL, Secretary 877537<br />

MEONSTOKE SCHOOL, Secretary 877568<br />

VALLEY PRE-SCHOOL 878019<br />

SWANMORE COLLEGE OF TECHNOLOGY 892256<br />

LIBRARY (Bishop’s Waltham)<br />

Free Street, Bishops Waltham 892871<br />

CITIZEN’S ADVICE BUREAU (Bishop’s Waltham)<br />

Well House, 2 Brook Street 896376<br />

CAB e-mail: bishopswaltham@cabnet.org.uk<br />

PARISH COUNCILS<br />

Corhampton & Meonstoke.<br />

Clerk: Mrs J Brooks 891660<br />

Droxford. Clerk: Mrs R Hoile 877470<br />

Exton Parish Meeting:<br />

Honorary Secretary: Paul Garner 877781<br />

DROXFORD VILLAGE HALL<br />

Bookings: Mrs Terry Crowfoot 877631<br />

William Collins Charity<br />

Can we help you? Our charity was set up to assist children<br />

and students from the <strong>Bridge</strong> parishes, requiring financial<br />

help for educational purposes (not fees). Call one of our<br />

trustees in confidence:<br />

Ann Symes, Droxford 877643<br />

Jan Dobson Meonstoke 877672 Diana Arthur Exton 877390<br />

Julia Keitley Droxford 877414<br />

Monika Thwaites Corhampton 877939<br />

The Trustees of the William Collins Trust are delighted to<br />

announce that they were able to make awards allowing a<br />

number of Droxford school children to go away to residential<br />

camps. Other awards have been made in respect of Duke<br />

of Edinburgh Award Scheme fees and music lessons.<br />

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THE MEON HALL, Meonstoke<br />

Bookings: Richard Booth 877820<br />

E-mail: meonhallbookings@yahoo.co.uk<br />

COMMUNITY CARE TRANSPORT CO-ORDINATORS:<br />

Droxford: Sheila Hilary 07977 096586<br />

Exton: Jill Freemantle 877379<br />

Meonstoke & Corhampton: Patricia Howe 877528<br />

MEON VALLEY CARERS GROUP<br />

The Paterson Centre (see p. 20 for details) 895444<br />

NEIGHBOURHOOD WATCH<br />

If you see anything suspicious, ring the Police immediately<br />

on 0845 045 4545, or, if you need advice, phone any of the<br />

following people straight away. If a vehicle is involved, it<br />

can help enormously if you can get its number.<br />

Corhampton & Meonstoke:<br />

Ian Gilchrist (chairman) 877238<br />

Rectory Lane Norah Burrage 878708<br />

High Street Janet Dobby 878657<br />

Bucks Head Hill Carol Jones 878560<br />

Oxendown Ian Gilchrist 877238<br />

Warnford Road Mike Camp 877180<br />

Jerry Pett 877633<br />

Corhampton Lane Charles Hall 877506<br />

Pound Lane, W. of Meon Hall<br />

Pearl Hazzard 877075<br />

Pound Lane, E. of Meon Hall<br />

Linda Foot 877763<br />

Chapel Road & Fry’s Lane Marcia Gillespie 877472<br />

New Road Jenny Liardet 877583<br />

Allen’s Lane and St Andrew’s Green.<br />

Lorna Allured 877718<br />

Stocks Lane Roger Howard 877540<br />

Brockbridge Road Frances Keppel 878774<br />

Millside Phil Butler 877596<br />

Droxford Gordon Hope 877751<br />

Exton Joan Starkie 878698<br />

Eleanor & Paul Garner 877781<br />

POLICE (non-emergency calls) 0845 045 4545<br />

NHS DIRECT (24 hour response) 0845 4647<br />

For help on community safety and to report<br />

anti-social behaviour, etc, ring 101<br />

Good News Travelling Library<br />

At<br />

The Paterson Centre<br />

Church Road, Swanmore<br />

Normally 2nd Tuesday of each month from 10.30 am to<br />

12.15 pm:<br />

Next visits: 14th <strong>February</strong> : 13th <strong>March</strong><br />

Everyone welcome ~ refreshments served


Our main activity is the provision of<br />

private transport for essential<br />

purposes such as hospital and doctor<br />

appointments and we endeavour to keep<br />

our charges well below cost. We rely on<br />

the continuing support of volunteer<br />

drivers. Nearly all our current drivers are<br />

retired and have been with us for at least<br />

five years and to keep the service going<br />

we do urgently need some new volunteers.<br />

At present the costs of operating the<br />

service are by fund raising and donations.<br />

Donations are always welcome and we<br />

acknowledge with thanks the<br />

contributions that have recently been<br />

received.<br />

In addition to transport, we provide a<br />

service to new arrivals in the villages with<br />

The Group exists to provide support within the villages of<br />

Droxford, Meonstoke, Exton and Corhampton.<br />

MINOR INJURIES<br />

UNIT<br />

Petersfield Hospital<br />

Swan Street, Petersfield<br />

GU32 3LB<br />

� 01730 263221<br />

a welcome note and later a visit to assist<br />

them in settling in. It is important to us<br />

that we welcome all newcomers but<br />

occasionally we are not made aware of<br />

new arrivals. If we have not been in<br />

touch please make contact with the New<br />

Arrivals co-ordinator Za Rowe 877732.<br />

We can also provide assistance with<br />

completion of forms and documents on a<br />

confidential basis and may also be able to<br />

offer assistance to those in need of<br />

specialized equipment to make life easier<br />

around the home. We may be able to help<br />

resolve the problems of restoring landline<br />

telephones of the elderly when they are<br />

not working properly. The switchover to<br />

Digital Television takes place next<br />

<strong>February</strong> or <strong>March</strong> depending upon which<br />

Open 8 am to 6 pm<br />

365 days a year<br />

As a dedicated Minor Injuries Team, we can treat many minor injuries<br />

for all ages including:<br />

Cuts & Abrasions<br />

Burns<br />

Ear & nose injuries<br />

Eye injuries<br />

Foreign bodies<br />

Head Injuries<br />

Minor Fractures<br />

Nosebleeds<br />

Splinters, Sprains & Strains<br />

If we cannot treat your injury, we will refer you to another member<br />

of our multi-disciplinary team. These can include.<br />

� Accident & Emergency Department<br />

� Dentist<br />

� Fracture Clinic<br />

� General Practitioner<br />

� Ophthalmic Optician<br />

We have X-ray facilities Monday to Friday from 9.00 am to midday.<br />

Waiting times vary, but most patients are seen, treated and discharged within<br />

an hour.<br />

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transmitter your TV aerial is directed.<br />

Help is available to ensure you are tuned<br />

to the new digital service but do not wait<br />

until your TV screen goes blank. If you<br />

need help please contact your transport<br />

coordinator who can put you in touch with<br />

the experts.<br />

If you require transport to your doctor,<br />

hospitals including the Minor Injuries<br />

Unit at Petersfield Hospital etc. please<br />

always contact your transport coordinator<br />

whose telephone number is on the Local<br />

Services page and do not contact drivers<br />

direct.<br />

If you would like to volunteer as a<br />

driver, please get in touch with the<br />

chairman, John Shaw, on 877564.<br />

Meon Valley Community Bus<br />

Fares for all destinations:<br />

Adult: £4.00 return.<br />

Children: Under 16 ½ fare: Under 5 free<br />

Winchester City Council bus passes accepted<br />

For Minibus bookings ring Stuart Attrill on<br />

01489 878500.<br />

TIMETABLES:<br />

MONDAY to FAREHAM<br />

Leaves Return<br />

1001 Droxford Square 1314<br />

1005 Meonstoke, Pound Cottages 1310<br />

1007 Corhampton Stores 1308<br />

1009 Meonstoke, Old Post Office 1306<br />

WEDNESDAY to FAREHAM<br />

1000 Droxford Square 1309<br />

1003 Meonstoke, Pound Cottages 1306<br />

1005 Corhampton Stores 1304<br />

1007 Meonstoke, Old Post Office 1302<br />

THURSDAY to FAREHAM<br />

0926 Exton, The Shoe 1239<br />

0927 Corhampton, The Butts 1238<br />

0929 Meonstoke, Pound Cottages 1236<br />

0931 Corhampton Stores 1234<br />

0933 Meonstoke, Old Post Office 1232<br />

FIRST FRIDAY OF MONTH TO WINCHESTER<br />

0925 Droxford Square 1246<br />

0930 Meonstoke, Old Post Office 1241<br />

0932 Meonstoke, Pound Cottages 1239<br />

0934 Corhampton Stores 1237<br />

0936 Exton, The Shoe 1234<br />

SECOND FRIDAY OF MONTH TO WATERLOOVILLE<br />

0935 Meonstoke, Pound Cottages 1250<br />

0939 Droxford Square 1245<br />

THIRD FRIDAY OF MONTH TO HEDGE END<br />

0926 Exton, The Shoe 1220<br />

0929 Meonstoke, Pound Cottages 1217<br />

0932 Corhampton Stores 1214<br />

0937 Droxford Square 1209


QI’m looking for ways to cut<br />

my gas and electricity bills<br />

before the winter sets in,<br />

and I’ve heard there are<br />

government grants available to<br />

make your home more energy<br />

efficient. Do you have any details?<br />

AAt the moment, half of the<br />

UK's carbon emissions come<br />

from the energy used to<br />

generate heat. As a result, a switch to<br />

low carbon heating is vital to meet the<br />

UK’s carbon targets.<br />

A new government scheme, which runs<br />

from 1st August 2011 to 31st <strong>March</strong><br />

2012, has been set up to help people<br />

install green energy heating systems.<br />

The scheme is particularly for those<br />

households who don't have mains gas<br />

heating. You can get grants for the<br />

following amounts, for the following<br />

products:<br />

� A ground source or water source<br />

heat pump - £1,250 (for homes<br />

without mains gas heating)<br />

� A biomass boiler - £950 (for<br />

homes without mains gas heating)<br />

� An air source heat pump - £850<br />

(for homes without mains gas<br />

heating)<br />

� Solar thermal hot water panels -<br />

£300 (available to all households).<br />

The scheme for householders is mainly<br />

aimed at the 5.5 million households in<br />

Great Britain not heated by mains gas.<br />

Rather than mains gas, these<br />

households have to rely on expensive<br />

and higher carbon forms of heating<br />

such as heating oil and electric fires to<br />

keep warm. To qualify, householders<br />

will need to ensure they have basic<br />

Contacting the CAB<br />

Citizens Advice Bureau<br />

energy efficiency measures in place<br />

before they apply.<br />

Up to 25,000 new installations will be<br />

supported over the next year. The<br />

grants will be given out on a firstcome,<br />

first-served basis, and providers<br />

of social housing can also apply. For<br />

more information, including how to<br />

register early, go to www.directgov.uk<br />

or call the Energy Saving Trust on<br />

0800 512 012<br />

The Energy Saving Trust is at:<br />

http://www.energysavingtrust.org.uk/<br />

QMy pensioner father<br />

recently had someone<br />

knock on his door saying<br />

they'd been doing work in the area<br />

and had spotted his roof needed<br />

repairing. This got Dad worried as<br />

he can’t afford any major work,<br />

but I’m suspicious about the whole<br />

thing. What would you advise?<br />

AYou’re right to be wary. The<br />

approach you describe is a<br />

classic con. Rogue traders<br />

often call unannounced<br />

offering help with roofing, paving, or<br />

general building work they say needs<br />

doing, or offering to do insulation or<br />

install burglar alarms. They often end<br />

up running off with your money<br />

without ever doing the work, doing a<br />

very poor job, or doing work that never<br />

actually needed doing.<br />

Follow these top tips to avoid getting<br />

involved with a dodgy trader:<br />

For more information about these questions, contact your local CAB at:<br />

Well House, 2 Brook Street, Bishop's Waltham, SO32 1AX,<br />

Tel: 01489 896376, open from 10.00 am to 2.00 pm on Monday, Tuesday,<br />

Wednesday, and Friday.<br />

There is also an advice surgery at Wickham Community Centre<br />

(in Mill Lane) on Thursdays from 10.30 am to 1.30 pm.<br />

If this is not convenient, try our Thursday evening appointments-only<br />

session (from 4 to 7 pm) at the Bishop’s Waltham Bureau.<br />

You can also e-mail us at: bishopswaltham@cabnet.org.uk.<br />

You can also go to our local website at: www.bishopswalthamcab.org.uk<br />

or you can go to the national Citizens Advice Bureau website at<br />

www.adviceguide.org.uk<br />

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� Don't ever agree to work or<br />

sign anything on the spot –<br />

take their full details and say<br />

you'll get back to them .<br />

� Check their details – they should<br />

give you their business name and<br />

address and not just a mobile<br />

phone number. Check these<br />

details to see if they are genuine.<br />

� Check if they are a member of a<br />

professional trade body, belong<br />

to a local authority assured trader<br />

scheme, or to the TrustMark<br />

scheme, which can help you find<br />

trustworthy tradesmen in your<br />

area. For more details about these<br />

schemes, go to www.direct.gov.uk<br />

or www.trustmark.org.uk/<br />

� Ask them for details of other<br />

customers they did work for and<br />

contact them to check this out.<br />

� Don't get taken in by their sales<br />

banter – they might claim there is<br />

a special offer on only for that<br />

day, or that they'll get sacked if<br />

you don’t employ them. This<br />

kind of talk is likely to be a sales<br />

pitch and you shouldn’t take it<br />

seriously.<br />

� Always get more than one quote<br />

before employing anyone – it’s<br />

usually best to contact other<br />

traders your friends or family<br />

have recommended.<br />

� Don’t ever make a cash<br />

payment up front – a reliable<br />

trader won’t ask for money before<br />

doing the job – not even if they<br />

need materials. If they run a<br />

business, they should have enough<br />

money to cover these costs<br />

themselves and only ask for<br />

payment once they’ve completed<br />

the job, or done a reasonable<br />

amount of work.<br />

� If you think a trader is trying to<br />

con you – speak to Consumer<br />

Direct on 08454 040506. They<br />

can report anything suspicious to<br />

your local Trading Standards<br />

Department.<br />

� If the trader becomes aggressive<br />

or threatens you, this is criminal<br />

behaviour and you should call the<br />

police straight away


How very different the Christmas<br />

period has been over recent weeks,<br />

compared with the same time last year.<br />

Snowdrops, and even daffodils in some<br />

places, are already in bloom, and<br />

presently little deters the progress of<br />

early growth in trees, plants, and<br />

flowers. The snow might yet fall, but at<br />

this stage, we hope that the winter<br />

weather of the last two years will remain<br />

but a possibility as the days lengthen.<br />

Something which we can all look<br />

forward to is our Quiz Evening on<br />

Saturday, 4th <strong>February</strong>. This is a much<br />

anticipated annual event, and usually<br />

our biggest fund-raising occasion, and<br />

we do hope that all those teams who<br />

regularly participate will be in the hall<br />

once again, to enjoy the fun, the<br />

competition, and the super chilli supper.<br />

We can promise good-natured team<br />

cooperation, exercise of the brain cells,<br />

and a good evening’s entertainment.<br />

Our forthcoming films should attract<br />

plenty of support. Following Jane Eyre<br />

in January, we will be showing Tinker,<br />

Tailor, Soldier, Spy in <strong>February</strong>, The<br />

Help in <strong>March</strong>, and The Iron Lady in<br />

April. Take advantage of the comfort<br />

and nearness of the village hall as a<br />

Saturday, 4th <strong>February</strong><br />

Quiz night<br />

With John Martin as our inimitable<br />

Quizmaster<br />

7.30 pm<br />

Strictly teams of 6<br />

Tickets £6 per head to include supper<br />

Licensed bar<br />

Wednesday, 29th <strong>February</strong><br />

Tinker Tailor Soldier<br />

Spy A film rated 15<br />

Big screen version of John Le Carre’s<br />

espionage classic, starring Gary Olman<br />

as Smiley, and with Colin Firth, John<br />

Hurst, Ciaran Hinds, and Toby Jones<br />

7.30 pm doors open at 7 pm<br />

Tickets £5<br />

Licensed bar and refreshments<br />

Droxford Village Hall News<br />

cinema, and come along to enjoy the<br />

films.<br />

Whilst we all favour the advancement of<br />

spring, and wish for long summer days<br />

ahead, it is necessary to look back to<br />

2011 and to express appreciation to all<br />

those concerned with the Friday market.<br />

The market brings in substantial funds to<br />

our coffers all year round, and without<br />

the commitment of so many village folk<br />

to set up the hall, provide the goods,<br />

man the tables, collect produce, and deal<br />

with the accounts, there would be no<br />

market. Many who live outside our<br />

village speak highly of this facility.<br />

The year ended for this willing and<br />

happy band of volunteers, with the<br />

Christmas Market at the end of<br />

November, which was a great success,<br />

and afforded an even larger contribution<br />

to our funds. If you did not find yourself<br />

a little gem on the ‘bling’ stall, you<br />

Forthcoming events at Droxford Village Hall<br />

Wednesday 28 th <strong>March</strong><br />

The Help<br />

A film rated 12a<br />

Based on the novel by Kathryn<br />

Stockett and set in 60’s Mississipi. A<br />

must see – this movie will inspire you<br />

while making you both laugh and cry.<br />

Thought by some to be one of the very<br />

best films of 2011<br />

7.30 pm doors open at 7 pm<br />

Tickest £5<br />

Licensed bar and refreshments<br />

STOP PRESS!<br />

The Iron Lady<br />

comes to Droxford at the<br />

end of April!<br />

Tickets for all events from the Post Office<br />

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certainly missed something special. On<br />

behalf of the committee, and the<br />

residents of Droxford, a huge thank you<br />

is extended to all who participate so<br />

regularly and with such commitment.<br />

The Christmas pantomime, Cinderella,<br />

at the King’s Theatre, Southsea, proved<br />

to be a most enjoyable and entertaining<br />

evening for the group who took<br />

advantage of the very cut-price tickets<br />

that Tim Crowfoot had secured. Both<br />

audience and players reacted in the<br />

inimitable, responsive way, and a good<br />

time was had by all.<br />

The annual membership renewal and<br />

recruitment drive for the 200 Club has<br />

taken place and newcomers to the<br />

village will be most welcome as<br />

members. For £12 only, yours is the<br />

chance to win a £40 prize any and<br />

indeed every month. Please support this<br />

very worthwhile fund-raising operation.<br />

Latest 200 club winners are:<br />

December – Alison Gauntlett<br />

January – Jenny Dover<br />

We wish everyone a Happy and Healthy<br />

2012.<br />

Jackie Hibbert<br />

Secretary<br />

Droxford Village<br />

Market<br />

� Vegetables, Cakes,<br />

� Eggs<br />

� Jams, Chutneys, &<br />

Marmalade<br />

� Cards and Books<br />

� Dog Biscuits<br />

� Flowers<br />

� Refreshments<br />

All at very reasonable prices<br />

The emphasis is on<br />

homemade and local grown<br />

in Droxford Village Hall<br />

Every Friday<br />

2.00 pm to 3.30 pm


ur pupils<br />

ODroxford at<br />

Junior School have<br />

been busy raising<br />

money for this<br />

year’s chosen charity, ShelterBox.<br />

Firstly, all pupils took part in Cool<br />

Planet week which had World<br />

Heritage sites as its theme. Each<br />

learning Base spent the week<br />

studying one incredible place from<br />

anywhere in the world and then<br />

worked through a week long creative<br />

curriculum. At the end of the week all<br />

the pupils produced a piece of artwork<br />

which was given to their parents. The<br />

stunning artwork ranged from<br />

watercolour Killer Whales off the<br />

Argentinian coast; underwater<br />

collages based on the Great Barrier<br />

Reef; colourful pastel images of<br />

Stonehenge, stunning silhouettes of<br />

Ankarwat in Thailand; Paul Klee<br />

inspired paintings of a Mosque in<br />

Tunisia; and digital macro photographs<br />

of fossils found at the Dorset and<br />

Devon Jurassic coast (see picture far<br />

right). Parents could, if they wished,<br />

donate money to buy the artwork,<br />

which was mounted and framed.<br />

Monies raised went towards the<br />

ShelterBox charity.<br />

The school also had a fantastic festive<br />

Christmas production at the local<br />

A heart warming start to the New Year!<br />

church. This was led by Years 3 and<br />

4 and Reverend Stuart Holt kindly<br />

read a Christmas blessing. Parents<br />

were very generous and donated<br />

monies to the ‘silver plate’ which also<br />

went towards the ‘Shelterbox’ appeal.<br />

Every donated total of £590 will<br />

allow ShelterBox to deliver<br />

emergency shelter and other<br />

lifesaving equipment to a family who<br />

has lost everything following a<br />

disaster. More details can be found<br />

at:<br />

http://www.youngshelterbox.org/<br />

A typical box contains the following.<br />

� The plastic box itself<br />

� Custom designed family tent<br />

� Waterproof ground mats<br />

� Thermal fleece blankets<br />

� Mosquito nets<br />

� Children’s activity pack<br />

� Stove<br />

� Cooking equipment<br />

� Tool kit<br />

� Water containers & purification<br />

� Warm hats and gloves<br />

A big thank you to the parents of our<br />

school pupils who made donations<br />

and the members of the local<br />

community who attended our<br />

15<br />

Christmas performance; we managed<br />

to raise £847.48! This was enough to<br />

buy one large shelterbox and also a<br />

family tent and provisions. Through<br />

this donation of support, we are<br />

making a difference to those in need,<br />

in whatever way we can, which makes<br />

all the hard work worthwhile!<br />

Matthew Dampier<br />

Deputy Headteacher<br />

Some of the Dorset fossils<br />

School council with the ShelterBox


the management<br />

work we do on our<br />

“Sometimes<br />

nature reserves looks<br />

more like destruction than<br />

conservation,” says Elliott Fairs,<br />

Wildlife Trust Reserves Officer.<br />

“But there’s always a good reason.”<br />

Throughout nature there are species<br />

with extremely complicated and somewhat<br />

fussy needs that allow them to<br />

thrive. Then there are those that require<br />

bare ground: just nice, simple, bare<br />

ground. It is the latter that the Wildlife<br />

Trust has been helping recently to<br />

ensure these species have their place on<br />

our heaths. And we’ve employed the<br />

help of a different type of plant –<br />

mechanical plant.<br />

Bare ground provides some wildlife<br />

with an ideal opportunity for<br />

colonisation. Seeds falling onto bare<br />

soil have a much better chance of<br />

germinating than on grassy areas. The<br />

bare mud or sand soaks up much more<br />

of the sun’s heat than surrounding<br />

vegetation, so provides excellent<br />

basking points for insects and reptiles.<br />

The high level of insect activity on<br />

localised areas of bare ground provides<br />

perfect hunting for insect-eating birds,<br />

such as woodlarks.<br />

Historically, bare areas of heathland<br />

would have been created and<br />

maintained by large grazing herds,<br />

which roamed wild across the heathy<br />

landscapes, churning up the ground as<br />

Meon Valley U3A’s programme of<br />

twice-monthly illustrated talks on<br />

the theme Here and There will continue<br />

through until April 2012, with the AGM<br />

on 1st May. Meeting at Wickham<br />

Community Centre, Mill Lane, at 2.00<br />

pm, the next four dates (all Tuesdays)<br />

are:<br />

Feb 7 The South Downs National<br />

Park by Barbara Holyome<br />

and Nick Heasman of the new<br />

Trust Us by Elliott Fairs<br />

they went. More recently, bare ground<br />

was created by humans, as commoners<br />

practised turbary – the right to dig up<br />

heather turfs to burn as a fuel. With<br />

turbary rarely exercised these days and<br />

large roaming herds a thing of the past,<br />

the wildlife that evolved to live on<br />

these bare patches has suffered a<br />

dramatic decline.<br />

Grasses and scrub covered the bare<br />

ground within just a few years and with<br />

adequate grazing disappearing from<br />

many of our heaths, the scrub has been<br />

replaced with trees and the bare ground<br />

has become birch woodland.<br />

However, all is not lost. By identifying<br />

an area known to have once been<br />

species-rich heathland, we know that<br />

there will be dormant, yet viable, seeds<br />

from these plants in that location. This<br />

means we can quickly and costeffectively<br />

create a specialised and<br />

incredibly important habitat, and then<br />

watch the species return within a<br />

matter of months. We create this bare<br />

ground, commonly called ‘scrapes’, by<br />

using machinery to scrape back the<br />

vegetation, leaf-litter and the top few<br />

inches of soil. The remaining exposed,<br />

bare ground is full of dormant seeds,<br />

deposited decades before, and has<br />

abundant potential and promise.<br />

Some of the species that are being<br />

helped include bog pimpernel, the<br />

insect-eating sundew and marsh<br />

clubmoss (see the magazine cover for<br />

a photograph of the sundew). These<br />

National Park Authority<br />

Feb 21 The Natural History of<br />

Swanmore by Alan Green,<br />

local enthusiast and speaker<br />

Mar 6 Meon Valley Villages – My<br />

Book by Peter Watkins, well<br />

known local author<br />

Mar 20 Secrets of London by June<br />

Imber, former London guide<br />

In addition to the talks, various small<br />

groups, whose members meet in each<br />

others’ houses, usually monthly, are also<br />

continuing. Current groups’ subjects<br />

include:<br />

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bare areas also offer a place where the<br />

insects can burrow and lay their eggs.<br />

Heath tiger beetles, the mottled beefly<br />

are two examples.<br />

For more information, visit the<br />

Wildlife Trust’s <strong>Web</strong> site at:<br />

www.hwt.org.uk<br />

Hampshire and Isle of<br />

Wight Wildlife Trust<br />

events<br />

Wednesday, 15th <strong>February</strong> 7.30pm:<br />

Nature in Close-Up. Andrew<br />

Watts, our brilliant local photographer,<br />

will give a presentation on close-up<br />

pictures of insects, invertebrates,<br />

amphibians, wild flowers, etc, with<br />

comments on the techniques and tricks of<br />

the trade. A must for anyone interested<br />

in wildlife photography. At St Wilfrid’s<br />

Church Hall, Padnell Road, Cowplain,<br />

PO8 8DZ. Parking available to the rear<br />

of the church. For more details, contact<br />

Peter Leversha on 023 9259 2711.<br />

Admission £2.50 including refreshments.<br />

Non-members welcome.<br />

Monday, 27th <strong>February</strong> 7.30 pm:<br />

Poisonous Plants. An illustrated talk by<br />

Dr Rosemary Hopewell on weeds, both<br />

garden and agricultural – the law, their<br />

downside and their uses through the ages.<br />

At Church Hall, Free Street, Bishops<br />

Waltham. Parking is available at the<br />

library next door. For more details,<br />

contact Jane Gentry on 01489 890961.<br />

Admission £2.50 including refreshments,<br />

children free.<br />

� Reading<br />

� Poetry<br />

� Art<br />

� Art appreciation<br />

� Music appreciation<br />

� Geology<br />

� Walking<br />

A bridge group has recently been started.<br />

There is a small annual U3A membership<br />

subscription; new members, and visitors,<br />

are welcome.<br />

Enquiries to the secretary:<br />

Julia Field on 01489 891353


You have to begin to lose your<br />

memory, if only in bits and pieces,<br />

to realise that memory is what makes<br />

our lives. Life without memory is no<br />

life at all....Our memory is our<br />

coherence, our reason, our feeling, even<br />

our action. Without it we are<br />

nothing.....Luis Bunuel<br />

It has been encouraging to see so much<br />

coverage of dementia in the press over<br />

the past months; we can only hope that<br />

we will start to see some real progress<br />

in dealing with this terrible condition in<br />

the very near future. It’s a sad fact that,<br />

as our general health improves and we<br />

find treatments for other health issues,<br />

more and more of us could fall prey to<br />

this horrific fate.<br />

The field of dementia has always lagged<br />

behind other conditions in just about<br />

every way. Research funding is around<br />

6 times less than for cancer research and<br />

the resources to help dementia sufferers<br />

are also far less well developed. Almost<br />

everyone knows about Macmillan<br />

Nurses and the help they give to cancer<br />

sufferers and their families, but little<br />

seems to be known about Admiral<br />

Nurses and the work they do to support<br />

dementia sufferers, their carers and<br />

their families. Fortunately, their profile<br />

is rising and the praise they received in<br />

John Suchet’s book My Bonnie has<br />

certainly helped, but there is still a lot of<br />

work to be done, especially since<br />

Admiral Nurses are not available in all<br />

areas. Here in Hampshire there are only<br />

Admiral nurses in the larger urban<br />

areas, such as Southampton. Here in<br />

the Meon Valley we do not currently<br />

have access to an Admiral Nurse.<br />

Admiral Nursing was established as a<br />

result of the experiences of family<br />

carers and is named after Joseph Levy<br />

The Rain<br />

It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly<br />

gentleman in his 80's arrived to have stitches removed from<br />

his thumb.<br />

He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00<br />

am. I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it<br />

would be over an hour before someone would to able to see<br />

him.<br />

Meon Valley Carers Group News<br />

Promoting a positive way of living with dementia<br />

who had vascular dementia and was<br />

known as ‘Admiral Joe’ due to his keen<br />

interest in sailing.<br />

Admiral Nurses are mental health<br />

nurses specialising in dementia care and<br />

employed within NHS Mental Health<br />

Trusts and/or Integrated Health and<br />

Social Care Trusts and supported by the<br />

charity Dementia UK. They support<br />

people with dementia and their<br />

families, and work collaboratively with<br />

other professionals to improve the<br />

experience of those affected by<br />

dementia. The individualised support<br />

entails comprehensive assessment of<br />

need and provision of a range of<br />

therapeutic approaches designed to<br />

promote well being and equip family<br />

carers with skills and information.<br />

They also provide psychological<br />

support to help family carers and people<br />

with dementia understand and deal with<br />

their feelings and emotions as they live<br />

with this terrible condition. As part of<br />

their role, Admiral Nurses provide an<br />

educational supportive role to other<br />

professionals in promoting best practice<br />

A key objective of Dementia UK is to<br />

expand the network of Admiral Nurse<br />

teams across the whole country. This<br />

could be achieved through<br />

collaborative working with other<br />

organisations in health and social care<br />

and the successful roll-out of the model<br />

will be dependent on these partnerships<br />

being supported at local level. The<br />

17<br />

Meon Valley Carers Group has started<br />

to work with Dementia UK to explore<br />

ways in which we can secure access to<br />

our own Admiral Nurse. It is the PCT’s<br />

who decide whether to commission an<br />

Admiral Nurse Service and so we will<br />

benefit in their experience in<br />

convincing our own local PCT to<br />

support the project.<br />

As part of this project, we will be<br />

hosting a coffee morning at the<br />

Paterson Centre, Swanmore on<br />

Saturday, 11th <strong>February</strong> at 10.30 am to<br />

allow us to increase awareness and to<br />

raise funds for MVCG and Dementia<br />

UK. Please do come along and support<br />

us and learn more.<br />

Are you creative, or have a hobby that<br />

you could show and teach in a<br />

simplistic way at just one of our group<br />

meetings for two hours? You need to<br />

have empathy for the elderly and those<br />

with dementia. We are hoping to<br />

provide a variety of sessions to our<br />

members that will help them develop<br />

new skills and interests.<br />

Diary events:<br />

14th Feb: Pub Lunch at The Forge,<br />

Shedfield. 12 noon<br />

28th Feb: Group Meeting at the<br />

Paterson Centre. 2.00 pm<br />

13th Mar Pub Lunch at The Forge,<br />

Shedfield 12 noon<br />

27th Mar Group Meeting at the<br />

Paterson Centre 2.00 pm<br />

Are you or someone you know caring for someone suffering from memory<br />

difficulties? Meon Valley Carers Group is a voluntary organisation supporting<br />

carers and their families. It provides an opportunity to mix socially,<br />

together with their cared-for, with people in a similar situation on a regular basis.<br />

The Carers Centre for Memory Concerns<br />

The Paterson Centre, Church Road, Swanmore<br />

Monday & Thursday 9.00 am - 1.00 pm<br />

Tel: 01489 895444<br />

E-mail: meon-valley@btconnect.com<br />

I saw him looking at his watch and decided, since I was not<br />

busy with another patient, I would look at his wound myself.<br />

On examination, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the<br />

doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and<br />

redress his wound.<br />

While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had<br />

another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such<br />

a hurry.<br />

(Continued opposite . . )


Thank you for<br />

all your support<br />

At a time of great economic<br />

uncertainty, and when many<br />

people are facing financial hardship, it<br />

has been fantastic to witness the<br />

generous response of the Meon<br />

Valley residents to our annual charity<br />

Christmas collections. Father Christmas<br />

in his sleigh clocked up many miles<br />

during December, covering the<br />

villages from East and West Meon in<br />

the north to Wickham in the south,<br />

plus all the areas in between. Over a<br />

period of three weeks the Lions<br />

amassed a record £4,900 in our<br />

Christmas collection buckets, as well<br />

as an amazing variety of foreign<br />

currency including euro, pfennigs,<br />

Canadian cents, US cents, Swiss<br />

cents, pesetas, new halfpennies, old<br />

halfpennies, a farthing, and 29 old<br />

sixpences, including four pre-1947!<br />

The foreign change aside, all this<br />

money will go into the Meon Valley<br />

Lions charity account for redistribution<br />

over the coming year to people in<br />

need and local causes in our area.<br />

The way Lions operate means that<br />

every single penny we collect from<br />

donations like this, or profit from our<br />

fund-raising events, is used to help<br />

others. Unlike many other organisations,<br />

we use absolutely NONE of<br />

the money for salaries or<br />

administration. The Meon Valley may<br />

be in one of the more prosperous<br />

areas of the UK but that doesn’t mean<br />

to say that poverty and hardship don’t<br />

exist. Each month we consider<br />

numerous requests from individuals<br />

and groups in need of support of<br />

financial help – if you think we can<br />

The Rain (cont’d from previous page)<br />

The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the<br />

nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife. I inquired as to<br />

her health. He told me that she had been there for a while<br />

and that she was a victim of Alzheimers.<br />

As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit<br />

late. He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that<br />

she had not recognized him in five years now.<br />

I was surprised, and asked him, “And you still go every<br />

morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?”<br />

He smiled as he patted my hand and said, “She doesn't know<br />

me, but I still know who she is.”<br />

I had to hold back tears as he left, I had goose bumps<br />

on my arm, and thought, “That is the kind of love I want in<br />

my life.'”<br />

Life isn't about how to survive the storm,<br />

But how to dance in the rain.'<br />

Meon Valley Lions Club<br />

help you or someone you know,<br />

please get in touch.<br />

The mild winter weather has been a<br />

blessing this year, making the<br />

Christmas collections less of a ‘Scott<br />

of the Antarctic’ endurance test and<br />

swelling the visitor numbers at a<br />

number of other events we’ve been<br />

supporting. In the Bere Forest, the<br />

Naomi House Hospice Christmas<br />

bauble hunt attracted hundreds of<br />

hungry people to our barbecue stall,<br />

helping us raise around £700 for the<br />

Winchester based children’s charity.<br />

On Boxing Day, the annual<br />

Hampshire Bowman BBQ also proved<br />

as popular as ever with walkers<br />

looking to blow away the festive<br />

cobwebs. They were joined by bikers<br />

and classic vehicle owners dropping<br />

by following their early morning rally<br />

in Wickham Square. Lion Pete<br />

Meadows’ renowned hot dogs and<br />

burgers proved the ideal antidote to<br />

the Christmas hangover and as a<br />

result we raised over £100 for<br />

18<br />

McMillan Nurses, the Bowman’s<br />

favourite charity. Thank you!<br />

The New Year brings plenty of work<br />

and many new activities for the<br />

Lions – starting with the annual Ford<br />

Motor Company, Sports and Social<br />

club Sea Angling Fishing festival on<br />

Weston Shore. Also, plans are well<br />

underway for the Swanmore Carnival<br />

and Fete which this year is on<br />

Saturday July 14 – pop the event in<br />

your diary now!<br />

We’ve just launched our new <strong>Web</strong><br />

site at:<br />

www.meonvalleylionsclub.org.uk.<br />

Why don’t you check it out to see just<br />

how we use the money you give us<br />

and learn more about what we do?<br />

There are also details of our fun social<br />

programme. The Meon Valley Lions<br />

Club meets officially on the first<br />

Monday of each month (excepting<br />

bank holidays) at the Upland Park<br />

Hotel in Droxford. If you'd like to come<br />

along and meet us, please contact us<br />

on 01489 894932.<br />

Photograph:<br />

Pete burning<br />

Boxing Day<br />

bangers at the<br />

Hampshire<br />

Bowman


From the Registers<br />

Baptisms<br />

Meonstoke 8th January Jasmine Ruth Hewson<br />

Thanksgiving for birth<br />

Droxford 18th December Tia Maye Adjua Hodder<br />

Weddings<br />

None<br />

Hackney and Bishop’s Waltham<br />

Deanery Link (Christmas Delivery 2011)<br />

Once again the Christmas delivery showed the parishes of<br />

the deanery working together in a heartening way. Those<br />

who gave gifts had taken care to send what had been requested,<br />

including a good number of tins with ring pulls, a significant<br />

supply of small sachets of shampoo, and some catering size tins,<br />

all of which we’d been told were needed for the Hackney<br />

Churches ministry to homeless people and rough sleepers. As<br />

well as this a large number of items of food, clothes, toiletries,<br />

and the items requested for the babies of trafficked women<br />

came to each of our churches and were then taken to Swanmore<br />

Village Hall for a great day of sorting and packing. Over thirty<br />

people from all our parishes came to help which meant there<br />

was time this year to pack the van systematically, so that when<br />

we arrived in Hackney the next day everything was ready for<br />

offloading in just the right order. Noble Argue again provided<br />

and drove the van so effectively that we were able to get home<br />

in time for Noble to turn out for a rugby match in Eastleigh at<br />

Funerals<br />

CORHAMPTON &<br />

MEONSTOKE PARISH<br />

COUNCIL<br />

Chairman: Jeremy Pett<br />

PARISH<br />

T<br />

PRECEPT 2012/13<br />

he Parish Council has, in line with many other local authorities,<br />

voted not to increase the total amount of Council Tax, known as<br />

the Precept, that it asks Winchester City Council to collect on its<br />

behalf. Given the slight annual increase in the number of properties<br />

that are liable for Council Tax, individual tax payers should see a small<br />

reduction in the Parish element of their bills in April.<br />

DOGS ON THE RECREATION GROUND<br />

Despite the request a few months ago there has been little if any<br />

reduction in the number of incidents of dogs being allowed to foul the<br />

recreation ground, causing a danger to children and an inconvenience<br />

and unpleasantness to all. Notices will shortly be going up around the<br />

ground ‘encouraging’ dog owners to exercise consideration for others<br />

and clean up after their pets; if there is still no improvement then the<br />

Parish Council will have little alternative but to ban all dogs from the<br />

Recreation Ground and actively seek assistance to enforce this.<br />

INCONSIDERATE PARKING<br />

The triangle at the junction of Shavards Lane and Stocks Lane is part<br />

of our village road system, like any other. There are a few who appear<br />

to regard one side of it as a legitimate parking place for vehicles and<br />

trailers. Again, this is simply a case of lack of consideration for others<br />

– and in this instance, an offence of obstructing the highway.<br />

www.candm-pc.gov.uk<br />

West End 3rd October Elizabeth Mary Wade, aged 86,<br />

followed by Thanksgiving<br />

Service St Andrew’s , Meonstoke<br />

19<br />

2.00 pm. As well as these gifts a good many people gave money<br />

and tokens which were sent from the Deanery to The Priory,<br />

St James and the Hackney Churches Night Shelter for their<br />

work.<br />

Sisters Elizabeth and Moira at The Priory have written: “To all<br />

our friends in Bishop’s Waltham Deanery a very heartfelt<br />

THANK YOU for your splendid and thoughtful gifts for us to the<br />

homeless and needy folk who come though our doors in<br />

increasing numbers. They and we are all so grateful for your<br />

generosity”. The Revd Rosèmia Brown from St James’ Clapton<br />

which is the clearing church to which others come to pick up<br />

goods writes: “Thank you so much Bishop’s Waltham Deanery<br />

for the goods you kindly delivered”.<br />

The essence of the Link is that we in rural Hampshire recognise<br />

that the work being done for the Kingdom of God in inner city<br />

areas such as Hackney makes demands on the churches there<br />

that we very rarely have to meet ourselves so we reach out in a<br />

spirit of love to do what we can to help.<br />

Norman Chatfield<br />

Chairman of the Bishop’s Waltham Committee<br />

News from the Valley<br />

Preschool<br />

New Building Update<br />

Thank you very much to everyone who has been so generous<br />

in donating so far. We are very grateful for this and the<br />

ongoing support from George Holingbery MP and his<br />

associates. We have made very good progress in negotiating<br />

a land lease with the Diocese and in reducing the transport fee<br />

we need to pay in order to receive our planning permission.<br />

We realise that we are asking for money in difficult times both<br />

with the economic climate and Christmas. We still need your<br />

support, so please donate if you meant to in the new year or<br />

pledge money if it would be easier to donate in the early spring.<br />

Our fundraising total to date is £14,000. This obviously falls<br />

far short of our target £170,000 for the new building and the<br />

committee is meeting to investigate alternatives. We will<br />

keep you informed in the next edition of The <strong>Bridge</strong>.<br />

Cait Horn and Isabelle Regent-Ngwata<br />

We welcome. . .<br />

Abigail and Craig Strike, who have come with Holly and<br />

Matilda, from Wiltshire to Stedham House, South Hill,<br />

Droxford.<br />

Dr Katherine and Dr Alexander Taylor, who have come<br />

with their 20 month baby girl, to The Coach House,<br />

Droxford.<br />

Nicky and Bruce Collins, who have come with Abbie (10<br />

years) to 5 Park Villas, Droxford.<br />

Joanna and Mark Selwood, who have come with<br />

Pollyanna (3years) to 2 Park Villas, Droxford.<br />

Sally and Nick Walmsley who have come with Oscar<br />

(4 years) and Chloe (2 years) from Twickenham to<br />

Meon House, Droxford.


<strong>February</strong><br />

Wed. 1 Look-in for coffee and chat, 10.30 –12.00 noon<br />

St Andrew’s Church, Meonstoke<br />

Corhampton & Meonstoke Parish Council 7.30 pm<br />

Meeting, The Meon Hall<br />

Thu. 2 Holy Communion, Droxford 10.00 am<br />

Thu. 2 Riverside Players, at The Meon Hall 7.30 pm<br />

performing It Could Be Any One of Us<br />

(for 3 days – ends Saturday)<br />

Fri. 3 Singing for Fun, The Stables (see page 4) 2.00 pm<br />

Sat. 4 Droxford Village Hall Quiz Night (see p.13) 7.30 pm<br />

Sun. 5 Third Before Lent (Septuagesima)<br />

(1st) Holy Communion (BCP), Droxford 8.30 am<br />

Family Christingle Service, Exton 9.30 am<br />

Holy Communion (CW),Meonstoke 11.00 am<br />

Evensong, Exton 6.30 pm<br />

Mon. 6 Farmers for Action meeting, The Meon Hall 7.30 pm<br />

Tue. 7 Friends of Meonstoke School 10.30 –12.00 noon<br />

Coffee Morning: The Meon Hall<br />

U3A: S. Downs National Park (see page 15) 2.00 pm<br />

MV Flower Club; AGM, The Meon Hall 7.30 pm<br />

Thu. 9 Holy Communion, Droxford 10.00 am<br />

Meon Ladies: Quiz night, The Meon Hall, 7.30 pm<br />

Sat. 11 CADENCE Youth <strong>March</strong>ing Band stay at<br />

to Sun. The Meon Hall all weekend<br />

Sun. 12 Second Before Lent<br />

(2nd) Holy Communion (BCP), Meonstoke 8.30 am<br />

Family Service, Meonstoke 9.30 am<br />

Holy Communion (CW),Droxford 11.00 am<br />

Evensong, Corhampton 6.30 pm<br />

Valentine’s Day Concert, Droxford (see p.6) 3.00 pm<br />

Tue. 14 MV Decorative & Fine Arts group. 10.00 -12.00 am<br />

The Meon Hall<br />

Wed. 15 Look-in for coffee and chat, 10.30 –12.00 noon<br />

St Andrew’s Church, Meonstoke<br />

Thu. 16 Holy Communion, Droxford 10.00 am<br />

MV Garden Club: Candlelight Snowdrop 6.15 pm<br />

Visit to Yew Tree Cottage, Soberton<br />

Meet In Droxford Square<br />

Droxford Parish Council Meeting, Fire Station 7.30 pm<br />

Fri. 17 Singing for Fun, The Stables (see page 4) 2.00 pm<br />

Sun. 19 Next Before Lent<br />

(3rd) Holy Communion (BCP), Corhampton 8.30 am<br />

Café Lite, Droxford Village Hall 9.30 am<br />

Holy Communion (CW),Exton 11.00 am<br />

Tue. 21 U3A: The Natural History of Swanmore 2.00 pm<br />

by Alan Green (see page 15)<br />

Thu. 23 Holy Communion, Droxford 10.00 am<br />

Sun. 26 Lent One<br />

(4th) Holy Communion (BCP), Exton 8.30 am<br />

Puppets & Praise, Meonstoke School 9.30 am<br />

Matins , Corhampton 11.00 am<br />

Tue. 28 CTBWA: Quiet Half-hour, St Mary and 7.30 pm<br />

All Saints, Droxford (see page 4)<br />

DISTRICT DIARY<br />

20<br />

Wed. 29 MV Garden Club: Iran, Land of Contrasts 7.30 pm<br />

Talk in Soberton Village Hall<br />

Film Night, Droxford Village Hall (see p.13) 7.30 pm<br />

<strong>March</strong><br />

Thu. 1 Holy Communion, Droxford 10.00 am<br />

Fri. 2 Singing for Fun, The Stables (see page 4) 2.00 pm<br />

Sat. 3 CADENCE Youth <strong>March</strong>ing Band stay at<br />

to Sun The Meon Hall all weekend<br />

Sun. 4 Lent Two<br />

(1st) Holy Communion (BCP), Droxford 8.30 am<br />

Family Service, Exton 9.30 am<br />

Holy Communion (CW),Meonstoke 11.00 am<br />

Evensong, Exton 6.30 pm<br />

Mon. 5 Lent Lunch, Droxford Village Hall (see p.5) 12.15 pm<br />

Tue. 6 U3A: Meon Valley Villages (see page 15) 2.00 pm<br />

Wed. 7 Look-in for coffee and chat, 10.30 –12.00 noon<br />

St Andrew’s Church, Meonstoke<br />

Corhampton & Meonstoke Parish Council 7.30 pm<br />

Meeting, The Meon Hall<br />

Thu. 8 Holy Communion, Droxford 10.00 am<br />

MV Garden Club: Gardeners Question Time 7.30 pm<br />

The Meon Hall<br />

Sun. 11 Lent Three<br />

(2nd) Holy Communion (BCP), Meonstoke 8.30 am<br />

Family Service, Meonstoke 9.30 am<br />

Holy Communion (CW),Droxford 11.00 am<br />

Evensong, Corhampton 6.30 pm<br />

Wed. 14 Latest <strong>copy</strong> date for April-May <strong>Bridge</strong><br />

Thu. 15 Holy Communion, Droxford 10.00 am<br />

Meon Ladies: Hants & IOW Air Ambulance 7.30 pm<br />

The Meon Hall<br />

Droxford Parish Council Meeting, Fire Station 7.30 pm<br />

Fri. 16 Singing for Fun, The Stables (see page 4) 2.00 pm<br />

Fri. 16 Denmead Cub Scouts weekend stay at<br />

to Sun. The Meon Hall<br />

Sun. 18 Lent Four (Mothering Sunday)<br />

(3rd) Holy Communion (BCP), Corhampton 8.30 am<br />

Café Lite, Droxford Village Hall 9.30 am<br />

Holy Communion (CW),Exton 11.00 am<br />

Mon. 19 Joint PCCs meeting at Droxford Village Hall 7.00 pm<br />

RBL Meeting: Talk by Cdr Rob Scott on the 7.00 pm<br />

1st Battle of Narvik; Upland Park Hotel<br />

Tue. 20 U3A: Secrets of London (see page 15) 2.00 pm<br />

Wed. 21 Look-in for coffee and chat, 10.30 –12.00 noon<br />

St Andrew’s Church, Meonstoke<br />

Thu. 22 Holy Communion, Droxford 10.00 am<br />

Fri. 23 Friends of Meonstoke School Quiz, 7.30pm<br />

The Meon Hall (see page 6)<br />

Sun. 25 Passion Sunday<br />

Clocks change to British Summer ti<br />

(4th) Holy Communion (BCP), Exton 8.30 am<br />

Puppets & Praise, Meonstoke School 9.30 am<br />

Matins, Corhampton 11.00 am<br />

Meonstoke Village Band Concert 6.00 pm<br />

The Meon Hall (see page 6)


Sun. 25 West Meon Youth Theatre rehearse 2.00 - 6.00 pm<br />

The Meon Hall<br />

Mon. 26 Joint Benefice & individual PCCs meeting, 7.30 pm<br />

Droxford Village Hall<br />

Tue. 27 Friends of Meonstoke School 10.30 –12.00 noon<br />

Coffee Morning: The Meon Hall<br />

MV Flower Club: The Meon Hall 2.00 pm<br />

Meon Hall Management Committee 7.30 pm<br />

The Meon Hall<br />

Wed. 28 Film Night, Droxford Village Hall (see p.13) 7.30 pm<br />

Sat. 31 MV Garden Club: Spring Show 2.00 pm<br />

Soberton Village Hall (see page 7)<br />

Thu. 29 Holy Communion, Droxford 10.00 am<br />

April<br />

Sun. 1 Palm Sunday (start of Holy Week)<br />

(1st) Holy Communion (BCP), Droxford 8.30 am<br />

Remember to visit The <strong>Bridge</strong> parishes <strong>Web</strong> site<br />

for information about who’s who<br />

and church services: www.bridgechurches.org.uk<br />

You will also find there brief histories of the four<br />

parish churches.<br />

The <strong>Web</strong> site was designed and implemented, and is<br />

hosted by, the local Internet services company,<br />

Wizbit, Corhampton Lane Farm, Corhampton,<br />

01489 872980.<br />

First<br />

Sunday<br />

Second<br />

Sunday<br />

Third<br />

Sunday<br />

Fourth<br />

Sunday<br />

Benefice<br />

Holy Communion<br />

(BCP 1)<br />

8.30 am<br />

Droxford<br />

8.30 am<br />

Meonstoke<br />

8.30 am<br />

Corhampton<br />

8.30 am<br />

Exton<br />

DISTRICT DIARY<br />

THE MEON BRIDGE BENEFICE<br />

Family and other<br />

services<br />

9.30 am<br />

Family<br />

Exton<br />

9.30 am<br />

Family<br />

Meonstoke<br />

9.30 am<br />

Café Lite<br />

Droxford V. Hall<br />

9.30 am<br />

Meonstoke School<br />

Puppets & Praise<br />

21<br />

Family Communion (CW),Meonstoke<br />

with procession of palms and donkey<br />

10.00 am<br />

Evensong, Exton 6.30 pm<br />

Mon. 2<br />

to }<br />

Compline, Corhampton<br />

Wed. 4<br />

7.00 pm<br />

Thu. 5 Holy Communion, Droxford 10.00 am<br />

Maundy Thursday, Corhampton 7.00 pm<br />

Commemoration of Last Supper & Vigil<br />

Fri. 6 Good Friday. Meonstoke 10.00 am<br />

Children’s workshop<br />

Liturgy of The Cross, Droxford 2.00 pm<br />

Sat. 7 Easter Eve Vigil, Corhampton 7.00 pm<br />

Sun. 8 Easter Day<br />

Holy Communion (BCP), Exton 8.30 am<br />

Family Communion, Meonstoke 9.30 am<br />

Family Communion, Droxford 11.00 am<br />

REGULAR SUNDAY & WEEK DAY CHURCH SERVICES<br />

See the District Diary for details of variations.<br />

Have you been on the St Wilfrid Pilgrimage<br />

Walk?<br />

Don’t even know about it?<br />

Go to www.wilfrid-meon-pilgrimage.co.uk<br />

and find a wealth<br />

of information about the<br />

Benefice<br />

Holy Communion<br />

(CW 2)<br />

11.00 am<br />

Meonstoke<br />

11.00 am<br />

Droxford<br />

11.00 am<br />

Exton<br />

Meon Valley Pilgrimage Trail<br />

Evensong<br />

(BCP 1)<br />

6.30 pm<br />

Exton<br />

6.30 pm<br />

Corhampton<br />

–<br />

– –<br />

Matins<br />

11.00 am<br />

Corhampton<br />

1 BCP – Book of Common Prayer<br />

2 CW – Common Worship<br />

Weekday services: 1. Morning prayers daily (Monday to Friday) in St Andrew’s, Meonstoke at 8.30 am<br />

2. Holy Communion (Common Worship) each Thursday morning in<br />

St Mary & All Saints, Droxford at 10.00 am

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