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<strong>February</strong> – <strong>March</strong><br />
The Parish Magazine for<br />
Droxford, Exton, Meonstoke and Corhampton
List of Advertisers<br />
Most page numbers refer to the coloured advertising pages at the<br />
front and back of the magazine, prefixed Ad<br />
ACCOMMODATION Farmhouse B & B 10<br />
ACCOUNTANTS & TAX ADVISERS RG Walker 16: Nicholas Ridge 13<br />
ANTIQUES Droxford Antiques 6<br />
ARCHITECTS R & G Design 4: Engineering Architecture Ltd 9<br />
BUILDERS & BUILDING MATERIALS Elliotts 3: Steven Hurdle 6<br />
Steve Such (Property Maint) 2: R & G Gamblin 3: Alan Reeves 5<br />
KJN Home Improvements 7: Peter Garber (inside front cover)<br />
T R Chase & Son 8: Saunders Surfacing Ltd (inside front cover)<br />
C Jones General Builder 10: Frontwood Ltd 13<br />
CARPENTERS & WOOD PRODUCTS Shoreline Fencing 13<br />
Southwick Garden Offices (inside back cover)<br />
CATERERS Food For All Occasions 9: Casey’s Kitchen (inside front cover)<br />
CHILDCARE GROUPS Jo Jingles 9<br />
COMPUTERS & INTERNET Punchedcard Ltd 5<br />
Octagon Blue 10: Chris Guenier (inside back cover)<br />
DECORATORS, PAINTERS , TILERS & HANDYMAN SERVICES Brian Mellor 13<br />
Peter Moore (Handyman) 9: Droxford Interiors & Tiling 14<br />
Daniel Parker (Handyman) (back cover): M & J Mason 6: Top Marks 15<br />
DOMESTIC APPLIANCES, HEATING & PLUMBING Alan Shawyer 12<br />
Pipe Dreams Services 8: Adept Plumbing Services 2<br />
B Eastman 4: R A Redman 7: Syd Taylor (oil burners) 15<br />
DOMESTIC SERVICES Cynthia Tester Curtains & Blinds 12<br />
Curtains by Mary 9: Klean Sweep (chimneys) 11<br />
Chimney Sweep Christian Oliver 9: PestOFF Pest Control 10<br />
Advanced Clean (Carpet & Upholstery) 15: Local Cleaning Services 11<br />
ELECTRICIANS & ELECTRICAL SERVICES Richard Ayres 1<br />
Assure Electrical Ltd (inside back cover): Ray Burbidge 13: Derek Pilcher 6<br />
ESTATE AGENTS Taylor Garnier 14: Andrew Ross Prop. Agents 11<br />
FINANCIAL Retirement Investment Solutions (Inside back cover): Charles Stanley 2<br />
FUEL SUPPLIES H.B.S. Fuels 3<br />
FUNERAL DIRECTORS & MEMORIALS Langfords 12<br />
Co-operative (Fareham) 3: Nigel Chamberlain 14<br />
GARAGES & CARS Taylors Garage 1: Andrews Autosource 5<br />
A1 Learn to Drive 10: Auto Brite 6<br />
GARDENS & GARDEN MACHINERY Newleaf Landscapes 5<br />
Joe Ellerker 15: Anita Foy Garden Design 15<br />
HAIRDRESSERS Peggy Abbot Hair Design 12<br />
HEALTH & WELL-BEING Fithyan & Saxby (opticians) 4<br />
Peter Franckeiss Osteopath 10: Foot Care (Ann-Marie Elliott) 1<br />
Beauty Therapist 15: Foot Health Practioner (Karen Jordan) 8<br />
JEWELLERS Simon Lawson 13<br />
LETTINGS & LAND MANAGEMENT Pimp My Paddock (back cover)<br />
Paddock Maintenance (inside front cover)<br />
Andrew Ross Property Agents 11:The Country House Company 12<br />
Michael Peagram (inside front cover)<br />
PRINTING & STATIONERY Meon Valley Printers 11<br />
Studio 6 (inside front cover)<br />
PUBS White Horse 2: The Shoe Inn 16<br />
RIDING & EQUESTRIAN Merrie Stud 5<br />
SCHOOLS; EDUCATION & LEARNING Valley Pre-school 1<br />
Sustainability Centre 1<br />
SHOPS & STORES Droxford PO 2: Meonstoke PO 4<br />
SOLICITORS Chamberlains 12: Biscoes 11: Driver Belcher 8<br />
Blake Lapthorn (back cover)<br />
SPORT Hazelholt Indoor Tennis Court 7<br />
TRANSPORT & DRIVING TUITION Gamblin Cars 14: A1 Learn to Drive 10<br />
TREE SURGEONS TreeTek Ltd (inside front cover)<br />
Greenfellers Ltd (inside back cover)<br />
UPHOLSTERY Newlook Upholstery 16<br />
VETS & PETS The Village Cattery 5: Shield Veterinary Centre 16<br />
The Dog Room (inside front cover)<br />
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THE BRIDGE<br />
<strong>February</strong> - <strong>March</strong><br />
Contents<br />
Parish Lists . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2<br />
Rector’s Newsletter . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3<br />
Look-in Book-out . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4<br />
Churches Together Quiet Half hours . . . . . . . . . 4<br />
Singing for Fun . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4<br />
M/Stoke & Corhampton PCC . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4<br />
Meon Ladies . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 5<br />
Meon <strong>Bridge</strong> Benefice Lent Lunch . . . . . . . . . . 5<br />
Exton Church Fabric Fund Draw . . . . . . . . . . . 5<br />
Annual Parochial Church Council Meetings . . . . . . 5<br />
Wanted: Advertising Manager . . . . . . . . . . . . 5<br />
Meonstoke Village Band Concert . . . . . . . . . . 6<br />
Valentine Day’s Concert . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 6<br />
Keep Calm Quiz . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 6<br />
Meon Valley Garden Club . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7<br />
In the Garden . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7<br />
Mid-week Communion . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7<br />
Server vacancy . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7<br />
Are you interested in crafts . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7<br />
Churches Together Lent Lunches . . . . . . . . . . 8<br />
Village Fete – Your Village Needs You . . . . . . . . 8<br />
The Meon Hall . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 8<br />
Royal British Legion . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9<br />
Studwell in Wartime (cont’d) . . . . . . . . . . . . 9<br />
Help needed. Droxford Village Market . . . . . . . 9<br />
Local Services Information . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10<br />
William Collins Charity . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10<br />
Good News Library . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10<br />
Droxford & District Comm. Care . . . . . . . . . . 11<br />
Minor Injuries Unit . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 11<br />
Meon Valley Community Bus . . . . . . . . . . . 11<br />
CAB . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12<br />
Droxford Village Hall News . . . . . . . . . . . . 13<br />
Droxford Village Hall events . . . . . . . . . . . . . 13<br />
Droxford Village Market . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 13<br />
Droxford Junior School . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14<br />
Hampshire & IoW Wildlife Trust . . . . . . . . . . 15<br />
U3A . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 15<br />
Meon Valley Carers Group . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16<br />
The Rain . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16<br />
Meon Valley Lions . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17<br />
Hackney & Bishops Waltham Deanery Link . . . . . 18<br />
News from the Preschool . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18<br />
Meonstoke & Corhampton Parish Council . . . . . 18<br />
We Welcome . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18<br />
From the Registers . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18<br />
District Diary . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 19<br />
Church Services Chart . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 20<br />
Bishop’s Waltham Deanery helpers packing up the Christmas<br />
gifts for delivery to Hackney (see report, page 18).
The Magazine for The Parish Churches of<br />
Droxford, Exton, Meonstoke & Corhampton, & Preshaw<br />
RECTOR Reverend Stuart Holt 01489 877512<br />
The Rectory, Meonstoke, SO32 3NF E-mail: revstuartholt@btinternet.com<br />
Note: The Rector’s day off is Friday .<br />
ASSISTANT PRIEST Rev Canon Marion Mort<br />
LICENSED LAY MINISTERS<br />
Reader emeritus Pauline Quarendon 877392<br />
DROXFORD<br />
Churchwardens: Elizabeth Stewart 877419<br />
Ann Symes 877643<br />
Secretary: Sarah Collins 877808<br />
Treasurer & Gift<br />
Aid secretary: Paul Harris 878622<br />
Organist: John Martin 877385<br />
Sacristan: Laura Jerosch 01329 231956<br />
Verger: Norman Bell 877230<br />
EXTON<br />
Churchwardens: Felicity Hindson MBE 877673<br />
Bob Miles –<br />
Treasurer & Gift<br />
Aid secretary: David Frere-Cook 877838<br />
Organists:<br />
(Morning) Frances Keppel 878774<br />
(Evening) Dr Alan Hibbert OBE 878564<br />
Sacristan: Jill Cassels 877469<br />
Verger: Bob Miles –<br />
OTHER DENOMINATIONS<br />
Roman Catholic Church (Bishop’s Waltham)<br />
Father John Buckley 895889<br />
METHODIST & UNITED FREE CHURCH<br />
(Bishop’s Waltham)<br />
The Reverend David Moss MA 01329 833518<br />
Cover picture: The bridge over the River<br />
Meon near St Andrew’s Church green.<br />
If you take a photograph that you think would make<br />
a good cover picture, send it to the editor (note that<br />
it must be digital and high resolution).<br />
MEONSTOKE WITH CORHAMPTON<br />
Churchwardens: Joanna Buchanan 877737<br />
Dr Paul Buxton 877335<br />
Deputy Churchwarden<br />
(Corhampton): Maggie Howard 877540<br />
Treasurer (& Gift<br />
Aid secretary): Ewart Wood 877398<br />
Organists:<br />
(Meonstoke) Dr Alan Hibbert OBE 878564<br />
(Corhampton) John Martin (am) 877385<br />
Richard Martin (pm) 872980<br />
Sacristan Pauline Quarendon 877392<br />
PRESHAW<br />
Coordinator Position vacant –<br />
THE BRIDGE is delivered at the start of the months of<br />
<strong>February</strong>, April, June, August, October, and December.<br />
Ideally, <strong>copy</strong> should be sent by e-mail to The <strong>Bridge</strong> editor at<br />
the address shown above, preferably attached as an MS Word<br />
document. The page set-up (with 10 or 10.5 pt font size)<br />
should be defined as an A4 page – with 1.2 cm left and right<br />
margins. Typed or handwritten hard<strong>copy</strong> is also acceptable.<br />
If you are responsible for village activities, diaries, and<br />
schedules, please note that material received after the <strong>copy</strong><br />
date might not be included (see page 19).<br />
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THE BRIDGE MAGAZINE<br />
Editor Norman Bell, Briar Cottage,<br />
South Hill, Droxford, SO32 3PB<br />
Tel: 877230<br />
E-mail: thebridgeeditor@gmail.com<br />
Advertising: Position vacant<br />
E-mail: bridge.advertisingmanager@gmail.com<br />
Treasurer Alison Stott 877293<br />
Printed by: Meon Valley Printers,<br />
Church Road,<br />
Swanmore
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CAP Money is a revolutionary<br />
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It’s run by a church, does that<br />
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Do I have to pay?<br />
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I have a variable income can the<br />
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I am worried I have debt issues,<br />
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Do I need access to the Internet?<br />
You will get the most out the<br />
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mandatory. If you want to access<br />
CAP Money Plus you will need<br />
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What does CAP Money teach?<br />
CAP Money is a three-session<br />
course that features DVD<br />
presentations by John Kirkby,<br />
CAP’s Founder and International<br />
Director, and Matt Barlow, CAP’s<br />
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During the three sessions,<br />
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1. How to build and live on a<br />
budget. This is the<br />
cornerstone of managing<br />
money well. The session<br />
includes advice on how to<br />
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2. The CAP Money system. This<br />
system helps to simplify a<br />
budget and to make it<br />
understandable. It operates<br />
using three accounts for our<br />
money: a regular payments<br />
account, a cash account, and a<br />
savings account.<br />
3. How to live from week to<br />
week using cash. Living on<br />
cash and getting away from<br />
cards helps delegates to know<br />
exactly where they are and<br />
helps them to spend less<br />
money: cash revalues money<br />
and your purchases. Studies<br />
have found that people spend<br />
up to 18% more when they pay<br />
by card than when using cash<br />
(Dun and Bradstreet).<br />
Additional support through<br />
CAP Money Plus<br />
If, once you have completed the<br />
CAP Money course, you find<br />
yourself in a situation of<br />
unmanageable debt and want to<br />
work within a budget to achieve a<br />
debt-free future, then CAP Money<br />
Plus is for you. CAP Money Plus<br />
will provide additional support in<br />
managing your secondary debts<br />
(loans, credit cards, store cards<br />
etc). We will also provide you with<br />
advice on how to contact some<br />
priority creditors (mortgage<br />
arrears, rent arrears, council tax<br />
arrears, etc) with a repayment<br />
proposal yourself. The service is<br />
a mixture of self-help and support<br />
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from the CAP Money Plus team.<br />
In this way it differs from the full<br />
debt counselling service offered<br />
through our CAP Debt Centres. If<br />
you feel like you may benefit more<br />
from help through a CAP Debt<br />
Centre then please call 0800 328<br />
0006.<br />
“Before I got help from CAP<br />
Money Plus, I was depressed<br />
trying to bring up two children<br />
while my husband was<br />
unemployed. Now, through CAP<br />
Money Plus, I feel confident,<br />
relieved and optimistic about the<br />
future.” - CAP Money Plus client<br />
“I think the great thing about the<br />
CAP Money Course is that it<br />
doesn’t blame you for getting into<br />
difficulties with money, but<br />
focuses on how you can get back<br />
in control.” - Caroline.<br />
“Our finances were in such a<br />
mess and we didn’t know which<br />
way to turn. We attended the CAP<br />
Money Course, which changed<br />
our complete outlook to our life<br />
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out there. Now we are turning our<br />
life around thanks to CAP and<br />
Gateway Church.” – Rod and Bea<br />
The nearest CAP Money course<br />
will be starting on 7th <strong>March</strong> in<br />
Droxford Village Hall. Your<br />
money coaches will be Sally<br />
Holt and Becky <strong>Bridge</strong>n. If you<br />
would like to book a place on<br />
the course please log on to<br />
www.capmoney.org and find<br />
the Droxford course ; or if you<br />
do not have access to the<br />
Internet telephone Sally on<br />
01489 877512 leaving your<br />
contact details. Places are<br />
limited so please book early to<br />
avoid disappointment.
Look-in!<br />
Do look in for a chat and<br />
refreshment on the 1st and 3rd<br />
Wednesdays of the month between<br />
10.00 and midday in Meonstoke<br />
Church. Everyone is welcome –<br />
the more the merrier!<br />
<strong>February</strong>: 1st & 15th<br />
<strong>March</strong>: 7th & 21st<br />
Book-out !<br />
Please feel free to borrow books<br />
(fiction and non-fiction, thrillers and<br />
all other genres), jigsaws and CDs<br />
and return them when you have<br />
finished with them. There is no<br />
charge. The Library in<br />
Meonstoke Church is available<br />
to everyone whenever the<br />
Church is open, which is from<br />
early morning until early<br />
evening. Do come and have a<br />
browse in the peaceful<br />
surroundings.<br />
Lorna Allured, 01489 877718<br />
For the person who has everything…<br />
...a gift of friendship with<br />
CORHAMPTON SAXON CHURCH<br />
From the era before the Conquest<br />
A 1000 yr old centre of Christian worship<br />
A living icon of Saxon culture and heritage<br />
Your gift will help the Church<br />
serve the Meon Valley for<br />
another 1000 years<br />
A Gift of Friendship of Corhampton Saxon Church<br />
is available for just £15<br />
from<br />
Guy Liardet – chairman of the Friends<br />
liardet@meonstoke33.freeserve.co.uk<br />
01489 877583<br />
www.bridgechurches.org.uk/church_corhampton_friends<br />
Churches together<br />
Quiet half hours<br />
28th <strong>February</strong><br />
St Mary & All Saints Church,<br />
Droxford<br />
20th <strong>March</strong> (3rd Tuesday)<br />
Waltham Chase Methodist<br />
Church,<br />
Curdridge Lane<br />
All held on Tuesdays, starting at<br />
7.30 pm, lasting 30 minutes.<br />
These are times of quiet<br />
contemplation of the type so<br />
often overlooked in this busy<br />
world<br />
With the superb activities<br />
around the Church Green and<br />
progress with the renovation<br />
programmes, the PCC would like to<br />
keep up the momentum and involve as<br />
many local people in St Andrew’s and<br />
Corhampton churches as possible. We<br />
are particularly keen for more to join us<br />
on the PCC itself and for others to join<br />
the Renovation Steering Group.<br />
Neither bodies are arduous (PCC meets<br />
quarterly) but it is important that we get<br />
views from outside the small clusters we<br />
have at the moment and develop a<br />
younger profile – more skills and new<br />
ideas. The PCC needs a treasurer and<br />
secretary in particular, and the<br />
renovation group needs people<br />
with creative imagination for perhaps<br />
making the buildings more functional<br />
and/or with experience in design or<br />
home improvement.<br />
Ewart Wood has full details of the<br />
treasurer's role and Anne Morrice the<br />
responsibilities of the secretary. Both<br />
are interesting jobs and broadly involve<br />
coordinating the business of the PCC<br />
with the rector and the churchwardens<br />
5<br />
Singing<br />
for Fun<br />
Come and sing your favourite<br />
songs and learn some new ones.<br />
No talent required.<br />
Refreshments<br />
The Stables,<br />
Bishops Waltham<br />
Every 1st & 3rd Friday<br />
at 2.00 – 3.30 pm<br />
Next dates are:<br />
3rd and 17th <strong>February</strong><br />
2nd and 16th <strong>March</strong><br />
There will be a small charge.<br />
Further information from<br />
Annabel 01489 877130<br />
or 07732 329792<br />
Meonstoke and Corhampton Parochial Church Council<br />
– the treasurer looks after the our<br />
financial well-being (no need to be an<br />
accountant) and the secretary arranges<br />
the meeting agenda, writes minutes, and<br />
keeps the church Electoral Roll up to<br />
date. The renovation programme is<br />
being led by Paul Buxton.<br />
Please give this some thought – the<br />
churches play a central part in the life of<br />
Meonstoke and Corhampton and we<br />
need your voice and support to sustain<br />
their place in the community in the most<br />
suitable way.<br />
For more details, do have a chat with<br />
� JoJo Buchanan on 877737 or<br />
any of us about joining the PCC<br />
� Anne about the secretary on<br />
878505<br />
� Ewart about the treasurer on<br />
877398<br />
� Paul about the renovation<br />
programme on 877335<br />
Come and join us as soon as you can!<br />
Peter Mosse
The December meeting was a<br />
wonderful pre-Christmas treat.<br />
Gerry Hayles, Helen Mitchell,<br />
Jenny Liardet, and Becky Newsom<br />
provided us with some hilarious<br />
entertainment and we all enjoyed<br />
mulled wine and mince pies.<br />
The following is the outline programme<br />
for the first half of 2012 (all events are<br />
on a Thursday):<br />
12th January Homestart talk<br />
9th <strong>February</strong> Quiz with a difference!!<br />
15th <strong>March</strong> Air Ambulance talk<br />
19th April Swap evening (clothes,<br />
jewellery, china etc.)<br />
17th May Local treasure hunt<br />
All meetings begin at 7.30 pm and end<br />
at approximately 9.00 pm. They are<br />
held in the Meon Hall, Meonstoke and<br />
the cost is £2.00. Ladies of all ages<br />
from the Meon villages are very<br />
welcome: do come – you'll be able to<br />
catch up with old friends and make new<br />
Annual Parochial Church Council<br />
Meetings<br />
7.30 pm on Wednesday, 25th April<br />
at<br />
The Meon Hall, Meonstoke<br />
There will be a single Joint Benefice Annual Parochial<br />
Church Meeting which will be immediately followed by the<br />
individual parishes’ APCMs.<br />
To come to the annual meetings you will need to be on the<br />
Electoral Roll of one of the churches. If you have not already<br />
joined and would like to do so, forms are available at the<br />
back of the four churches. The completed Electoral Roll<br />
forms need to be returned to the rector, the relevant church<br />
electoral roll officer, or to a churchwarden, at least 15 days<br />
before the annual meetings. The Electoral Roll is then<br />
available in each church for inspection.<br />
Church electoral roll officers are as follows:<br />
MEON LADIES Meon <strong>Bridge</strong> Benefice<br />
Exton Anne Morrice 878505<br />
Droxford Sarah Collins 877808<br />
Meonstoke<br />
& Corhampton Anne Morrice 878505<br />
Official notices will be placed on the church notice boards<br />
during <strong>March</strong> giving full details.<br />
ones. If you are new to the villages this<br />
is an excellent opportunity to meet<br />
people and begin to feel at home. We<br />
are supporting the Valley Preschool and<br />
any funds we raise will be shared with<br />
this important project and equipment for<br />
the Meon Hall.<br />
For more information please phone any<br />
one of the following:<br />
Lorna Allured 877718<br />
Claire Ablitt 878074<br />
Denise Bury 877756<br />
Lesley Daysh 877327<br />
Caroline Harris 877522<br />
Adele Jones 877620<br />
Carol Jones 878560<br />
Moya Trew 877308<br />
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Wanted<br />
Lent Lunch<br />
on<br />
Monday, 5th <strong>March</strong><br />
in<br />
Droxford Village Hall<br />
12.15 - 13.30<br />
Proceeds in aid of the<br />
Bishop's Lent Appeal<br />
EXTON CHURCH FABRIC<br />
FUND DRAW<br />
Sam and Chris FitzSimmons have<br />
taken on the running of the draw,<br />
which makes much needed money for<br />
the church fabric.<br />
The first draw under under their new<br />
management will be in <strong>February</strong> and the<br />
results for that and the <strong>March</strong> draw will<br />
be published in the April-May issue<br />
of The <strong>Bridge</strong>.<br />
Advertising Manager<br />
The <strong>Bridge</strong> needs an advertising manager<br />
to take over control of advertising:<br />
� To maintain a waiting list of potential<br />
advertisers<br />
� To send out renewal reminder letters at<br />
the end of each year<br />
� To keep a check list of renewals and<br />
details of payments<br />
� To follow up overdue replies and<br />
payments<br />
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waiting list<br />
� To pass to the editor any adverts<br />
submitted by advertisers.<br />
Note: This is an unpaid position, more suited<br />
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Apply to the editor or write to<br />
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Meonstoke Village<br />
Band<br />
presents<br />
A concert of light-hearted music<br />
to raise money for the<br />
Valley Preschool<br />
with performances from<br />
Hindhead Wind Band<br />
and<br />
solos from local professionals<br />
Cathy Mathews, Eva Csala,<br />
and Russel Shipley<br />
Sunday, 25th <strong>March</strong> at 6.00 pm<br />
in The Meon Hall<br />
Tickets £8, £5 concessions<br />
to include refreshments<br />
Available from Corhampton Stores or<br />
on the door<br />
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Sunday, 12th <strong>February</strong>, at 3.00 pm<br />
Droxford Village Hall<br />
VALENTINE’S DAY<br />
Chamber Concert<br />
Cathy Mathews – violin<br />
Éva Csala – violoncello<br />
Russel Shipley – clarinet<br />
and friends<br />
Programme:<br />
Classical and Romantic music<br />
Refreshments included<br />
Tickets on the door<br />
£8 for adults and<br />
£6 for children and OAPs<br />
If you are a fan of Classical and Romantic music<br />
or you know someone who is, then look no further<br />
for the perfect Valentine’s Day concert!<br />
Friends of Meonstoke School’s<br />
Annual Quiz Night<br />
Friday, 23rd <strong>March</strong><br />
The Meon Hall, 7.30 pm<br />
This year it’s the<br />
Austerity Quiz:<br />
no fancy dress, just questions,<br />
picnics and prizes.<br />
Tickets from<br />
The Village Stores<br />
£4 each or £30 for a table of 8<br />
Phone: 01489 878282
Meon Valley Garden Club<br />
It seems amazing that I am already putting into the diary<br />
notice of the Spring Show. As usual, the weather is giving<br />
us problems as there are daffodils already in bloom in some<br />
places and I have a primrose in flower in my garden. So will<br />
everything be over by the time of the Show? We worry every<br />
year and every year we have a wonderful display. So no doubt<br />
there will be a cold snap soon that will put everything right again!<br />
We have started our winter season of talks. Gardeners Question<br />
Time has become an annual event, with Chris Bird, from<br />
Sparsholt College, giving us the benefit of his wisdom and wit.<br />
So if you have a gardening problem, whether you are a member<br />
or not, please let me have details and I will put it on the list for<br />
Chris to answer. Then either come along to the meeting or look<br />
on our <strong>Web</strong> site for the result.<br />
Our membership now stands at 230 but there is room for more.<br />
Our yearly subscription is only £3 and you cannot get better<br />
value than that.<br />
Olive Hathaway, Chairman<br />
meon-valley-garden-club.co.uk<br />
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SPRING SHOW<br />
SATURDAY 31ST MARCH<br />
Soberton Village Hall<br />
2.00 pm<br />
Entrance 60p,<br />
Children Free<br />
A Great Display<br />
Refreshments<br />
Mid-week Communion<br />
Although it is always in The <strong>Bridge</strong><br />
District Diary, some of you may not<br />
be aware that there is a short service<br />
of Holy Communion (CW) every<br />
Thursday morning at 10.00, held in<br />
Sprinkle some balanced fertiliser around<br />
In the garden the base of fruit trees and bushes before<br />
applying a mulch of well-rotted manure.<br />
– <strong>February</strong><br />
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& <strong>March</strong> Herbaceous border: Clean up dead<br />
leaves and stems that might harbour<br />
the Lady Chapel in St. Mary’s<br />
unwanted pests, and complete any<br />
Church, Droxford.<br />
Do come along and and share this<br />
quiet time with us.<br />
Pauline Quarendon<br />
Vacancy – Server<br />
I am a server in the church. My name is<br />
James and I like doing my job. I have<br />
been doing it for over 2 years.<br />
I carry a book called the Gospel and I<br />
help the rector with pouring the wine and<br />
I carry the Cross and I do lots of other<br />
things.<br />
It makes me feel happy and it makes<br />
everyone happy. I don't do it all the<br />
time, that's why we need some more<br />
servers to help. You don't have to do<br />
it, but it would be nice if you did. So if<br />
you are interested,<br />
Please call me or Rev. Stuart Holt on<br />
01489 877867 or 01489 877512<br />
James Matthissen<br />
Are you interested in crafts<br />
such as patchwork?<br />
Do come and join us at Tithes on<br />
alternate Wednesdays from<br />
10.30 am to 12.30 pm<br />
<strong>February</strong> 8th; 22nd; 29th<br />
<strong>March</strong> 14th; 28th<br />
More information from<br />
Rosemary Frere-Cook on 877769<br />
transplanting not done in the autumn.<br />
The mild winter and recent wet Plant roses and hardy lilies, plant gladioli<br />
weather, apart from delaying after mid-<strong>March</strong>, prune climbing roses<br />
some jobs in the garden, has also and hardy shrubs. Do not prune forsythia<br />
allowed many pests to overwinter<br />
and other spring flowering shrubs or<br />
successfully, so extra vigilance is<br />
spring flowering clematis such as<br />
Montana, Alpina, or Armandii, otherwise<br />
required to spot aphids and eggs of slugs<br />
there will be no flowers this year. Apply<br />
and snails before despatching them by<br />
mulch of composted horse manure around<br />
whatever means. As soon as the soil is<br />
shrubs.<br />
workable priority should be given to<br />
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getting bare rooted trees, shrubs and awns: In <strong>March</strong>, re-seed worn are-<br />
fruit canes planted while they are still as after first levelling, repair any<br />
dormant. It is also time to give the damaged edges and aerate the whole lawn<br />
vegetable plot a final dig over before with an aerator or fork. At the end of the<br />
preparing for sowing.<br />
month apply lawn fertiliser and after a<br />
V<br />
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few days lightly mow, remembering to<br />
egetables: First sowings of broad set the mower blades high so that the<br />
beans, peas, and parsnips may be grass is not cut too short. If there has<br />
made, and shallot sets planted. At this been a build-up of perennial weeds and<br />
time early sowings of spring onions and moss since the autumn use proprietary<br />
lettuce can also be made. A layer of fleece weed and feed with moss killer.<br />
will provide some protection against frost,<br />
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mice, and birds.<br />
n the greenhouse: Sow tomato,<br />
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ruit: Summer fruiting raspberries;–<br />
cucumber, sprouts, cauliflower, and<br />
shorten canes to 5 feet and cut newly-<br />
summer bedding annuals such as petunia,<br />
planted canes to about 6 inches. Cut<br />
tagetes, asters, and nicotiana. Start<br />
autumn fruiting varieties down to ground<br />
tuberous rooted begonias in pots or trays,<br />
level. Prune gooseberries, white and red<br />
start dahlias in trays of slightly damp peat<br />
currants – cut back half of last year’s new<br />
or soil free compost. Chit early potato<br />
growth and trim side shoots to about 2<br />
tubers, eyes uppermost in shallow boxes<br />
inches. Remove all wood 4 years old or<br />
of sand, ready for planting out in midmore<br />
(these stems will be very dark in<br />
<strong>March</strong>.<br />
colour) from black currant bushes.<br />
John Owen
LENT LUNCHES 2012<br />
<strong>February</strong><br />
Friday, 24th St Nicholas’ Wickham, Church Hall<br />
Wednesday, 29th United Free Church,<br />
Bishop’s Waltham<br />
<strong>March</strong><br />
Wednesday, 7th Durley Memorial Hall<br />
Wednesday, 14th Swanmore Methodist Hall<br />
Wednesday, 21st St Peter's, Soberton, Church Room<br />
All at 12.30 pm onwards<br />
Menu<br />
Soup, bread and cheese,<br />
tea/coffee<br />
No charge, but donations invited to be sent to<br />
charities that are yet to be decided<br />
CTWBA is in association with Churches Together in<br />
Hampshire and the Isle of Wight<br />
The 2011 200 Club Prize Draw:<br />
Drawn at the Beetle Drive in<br />
November, the winners of the 2011 big<br />
prizes were: £300 Liz Whiting £150<br />
Stephen Blakey £100 Mark Masterman<br />
This year's 200 Club: The monthly<br />
£25 Prize draws are made on the<br />
first Saturday of each month. During the<br />
year there will be a £50 Midsummer<br />
Prize, and the special draw for the £300,<br />
£150, and £100 prizes will take place at<br />
the 2012 Beetle Drive, which will be<br />
held at the Meon Hall on Saturday, 24th<br />
November – put the event in your diary<br />
now ! The 200 Club raises money to<br />
help with purchases of new equipment<br />
and other improvements for the Meon<br />
Hall. If you want to join this year’s 200<br />
Club and take part in the prize draws,<br />
contact James Morrice (877916).<br />
A<br />
huge “Thank you”: to everyone<br />
who has joined the 200 Club in<br />
2012 – you may win one of the prizes,<br />
but just as importantly, by joining the<br />
200 Club you are helping the Meon Hall<br />
Management Committee to make some<br />
much needed equipment purchases and<br />
general improvements.<br />
Showcase time! In this and future<br />
<strong>Bridge</strong> editions the Meon Hall<br />
Committee will be publicising the<br />
groups and weekly activities that go on<br />
in the Hall. First of all Keeping Fit –<br />
don't just go a walk, good for you as that<br />
is. Join a fitness group at the Meon Hall<br />
as well. We have a range of fitness<br />
groups to suit different personal needs<br />
and capabilities :<br />
� On Monday evenings come along<br />
at 7.30 pm for Aerobics in the Main<br />
Hall – Patrick leads this group for<br />
Aerobics to music; there's lots of<br />
floor space. Contact Michelle<br />
Waktare (878582) for information<br />
and cost per session. Patrick is a<br />
qualified instructor (contact him on<br />
07905 524063)<br />
� On Tuesday evenings at 7.00 pm<br />
Andy Roberts runs a large and<br />
enthusiastic circuit training group in<br />
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VILLAGE FÊTE – YOUR VILLAGE NEEDS YOU!<br />
The Meonstoke/Corhampton/Exton Village Fete is scheduled<br />
for Saturday, 14th July at The Meon Hall wet or fine, and it<br />
is hoped that, with planning starting now, we can surpass all<br />
previous fetes!<br />
Please will everyone note 14th July in your diaries, and start<br />
thinking NOT where else you might hive off to, but HOW and with<br />
what you can contribute? It is only by the good graces of, often<br />
the same old, and getting older(!), people, that the fêtes bring<br />
cohesion to the Community and badly needed funds to the<br />
Benefice. We have, joyously, an increasingly younger<br />
population around us, some of whom may shrink from coming<br />
forward from their busy lives. Please will they volunteer to run<br />
or help run stalls, pony and slow bike rides, bouncy castle,<br />
erecting tents, tossing the straw, dog show and so on? This is a<br />
great day out for the children especially. We need a Volunteer<br />
Band. Remember the less we need to pay for the more charity<br />
funds we raise.<br />
We have never been defeated by the weather, which is always a<br />
challenge. Early moans go with the territory, but on the day it is<br />
always fun and varyingly productive. Start thinking up original,<br />
and traditional, stalls/events and whether you have a connection<br />
to draws like vintage car or aerobatic displays, fairground<br />
apparatus, hot air balloon operators, helicopter rides, parachute<br />
drops, model aeroplane and birds of prey demonstrations, sheep<br />
dog displays , etc etc. Please volunteer early to avoid being<br />
press-ganged into something you would rather not do!<br />
Any ideas, suggestions, commitments, or queries should be<br />
submitted to Mike Hutchinson on 878702, or by e-mail at<br />
yandmhutch1@btinternet.com , the earlier the better. Repeat,<br />
together we can make this the best one.<br />
VOLUNTEER NOW!<br />
the Main Hall. In addition to the<br />
static exercises , Andy has got some<br />
boxing exercise kit – you can really<br />
get stuck into these, and punch them<br />
about. Andy is a professionally<br />
qualified personal trainer; you can<br />
contact him on 07521 692061 for<br />
information and cost per session.<br />
� On Friday mornings, if the other<br />
sessions are too tough for you, come<br />
along and enjoy something very<br />
different - a relaxed calm and gentle<br />
Workout with Wendy in the Small<br />
Hall – exercising to music. Body<br />
conditioning, stretching, hula<br />
hooping. You can contact Wendy<br />
Laurenson on 07876 361120.<br />
Finally – Are you planning a<br />
family party ...? Can we help<br />
you ? Why not order those extra<br />
tables, chairs, champagne flutes, wine<br />
glasses, china and cutlery for your<br />
entertaining from The Meon Hall.<br />
Contact the bookings secretary,<br />
Richard Booth on 877820 or at:<br />
meonhallbookings@yahoo.co.uk<br />
James Morrice
Our first talk<br />
of the year<br />
was given<br />
by Rear Admiral Guy<br />
Liardet, who spoke<br />
on the Gallipoli Campaign. This, he<br />
made very clear, was one of the great<br />
disasters of the First World War. Whilst<br />
there were many acts of individual<br />
heroism, overall the campaign was<br />
doomed by lack of proper planning,<br />
poor leadership, and bad decisions. One<br />
could say that with hind-sight it was a<br />
series of ‘if onlies’.<br />
Things started to go wrong with the<br />
decision being made to make the attack<br />
by sea alone. After an initial<br />
bombardment, 17 British and French<br />
ships made their way through the<br />
Dardanelle Straits. These had been<br />
heavily mined, and attempts to clear the<br />
mines had failed completely. The<br />
combination of the mines and gun fire<br />
from the shore had a devastating effect,<br />
with three British battleships sunk and<br />
three more withdrawn. Throughout the<br />
Victorian years, the British Navy had<br />
ruled the waves, and was not<br />
accustomed to losing ships and the<br />
effect on morale was profound. In fact,<br />
the Turks were virtually out of<br />
The Royal British Legion Droxford Branch<br />
ammunition, fully expecting that the<br />
attack would be resumed the next day<br />
and were on the point of surrendering.<br />
However, there was no follow up and in<br />
Guy’s words: “So twenty mines and a<br />
lack of naval grit decided the outcome of<br />
the Gallipoli campaign and lengthened<br />
the First World War.”<br />
The arrangements for the subsequent<br />
amphibious assault were chaotic and the<br />
delay gave the Turks ample opportunity<br />
to bring up reinforcements and make<br />
defensive preparations. The Australian<br />
and New Zealand forces, the Anzacs,<br />
were due to land at a bay called Gaba<br />
Tepe but due to a navigational error<br />
landed further north in very difficult<br />
terrain, an area now known as Anzac<br />
cove. The Turkish troops, although outnumbered,<br />
were led by the brilliant<br />
Mustapha Kemel Bey and taking full<br />
advantage of the inhospitable terrain<br />
pinned down the Anzacs in increasingly<br />
awful and insanitary conditions.<br />
The 29th division landed on five<br />
beaches further to the south of the<br />
Gallipoli peninsular and although one or<br />
two of the landings appeared to start<br />
well, all eventually became a blood bath,<br />
with the fighting settling down to trench<br />
Studwell in Wartime (cont’d)<br />
I read the Studwell in Wartime article<br />
in the last issue with some interest.<br />
A reply, as invited, gives me a<br />
welcome opportunity to pay tribute to<br />
my kind godfather, Captain the Hon.<br />
John Bruce, Royal Navy, and his dear<br />
wife ‘Aunt’ Helen.<br />
John Bruce was my father’s<br />
Commander in the cruiser HMS<br />
Dauntless, from which my parents were<br />
married in Bermuda in 1932.<br />
Subsequently, at my baptism in HMS<br />
Effingham in Portsmouth ‘Uncle’ John<br />
consented to be a godfather. He<br />
continued to be both supportive and<br />
generous throughout my childhood and<br />
my entry into RNC Dartmouth, and I<br />
treasure the Bible he gave me at my<br />
Confirmation which has travelled the<br />
world with me to this day.<br />
Studwell Lodge – happy memories of<br />
mother and me staying with Aunt Helen<br />
during the war. My two strongest were<br />
the wonderfully equipped playroom,<br />
such toys! Then the mysterious garden<br />
tunnel which housed all the gardener’s<br />
tackle. This had huge appeal for a five<br />
year old future submariner! I believe it<br />
is still in use.<br />
Later, as a teenager I was again a guest<br />
at Studwell, where staff had returned<br />
and life was approaching what it had<br />
been pre-war. The whole family was as<br />
ever kind and I recall Victor driving me<br />
through the night returning through<br />
darkened lanes from a party, maybe<br />
Celia’s “coming out”?<br />
As finale, I was later pleased to present<br />
my family. Our son Charles, aged about<br />
five, and briefed to be on best<br />
behaviour, smartly marched up to Uncle<br />
John and said “How do you do, Captain<br />
Boots”! I do indeed remember “those<br />
times” with gratitude for much<br />
generosity and kindness, and always<br />
have a warm feeling when I pass by<br />
Studwell.<br />
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Mike Hutchinson.<br />
warfare like the Western front. The<br />
official history suggests that the 29th<br />
Division did well to take the beaches but<br />
that once ashore, a lack of initiative<br />
among subordinate commanders and<br />
casualties among the best officers meant<br />
that insufficient progress was made. The<br />
troops also suffered from the<br />
inhospitable climate, with terrific heat<br />
and appalling plagues of flies in the<br />
summer, and intense cold in the winter.<br />
Eventually, after nine months the<br />
decision was made to withdraw, with the<br />
Allied forces having suffered over<br />
140,000 casualties and the Turks over<br />
251,000. Although the Turks had<br />
suffered the greater number of<br />
casualties, there was little doubt that it<br />
was the Allies who had been defeated.<br />
This is only a very brief and sketchy<br />
outline of Guy’s very detailed and<br />
comprehensive account of a truly<br />
terrible event, which he brilliantly<br />
illustrated with some 200 slides. He<br />
vividly brought home to us the sheer<br />
horror of the Gallipoli Campaign and we<br />
are indebted to him for a fascinating<br />
evening.<br />
John Martin<br />
Droxford Village Market<br />
Help Needed!<br />
We are urgently in need of<br />
more volunteers for the<br />
Market. Two of our long<br />
serving members have resigned and we<br />
need to fill their shoes. We need people<br />
to serve on the produce counter and also<br />
to make the refreshments. It involves<br />
attending on a Friday from 1.00 p.m. to<br />
3.30 p.m. so just 2 ½ hours. At present<br />
the produce volunteers have to attend 2<br />
Fridays out of 3, and the refreshment<br />
volunteers every other Friday. The<br />
more volunteers that we have, the less<br />
the commitment for the existing group<br />
and for new volunteers. We work on a<br />
rota that is drawn up by mutual<br />
agreement, so even 1 Friday a month<br />
would be acceptable. Nothing is set in<br />
stone as we all live busy lives and<br />
Friday swapping goes on. If you can<br />
help, please either come along to the<br />
Market and have a chat or ring me<br />
878768.<br />
Olive Hathaway
POST OFFICES<br />
Some local services & useful telephone numbers<br />
DROXFORD – High Street 878811<br />
MEONSTOKE – Allens Lane, Corhampton 877374<br />
STORES<br />
DROXFORD STORES, High Street 878811<br />
THE VILLAGE STORES, Allens Lane,Corhampton 877374<br />
MERINGTONS STORES, Garrison Hill, Droxford 878043<br />
DROXFORD ANTIQUES, High Street, Droxford 878800<br />
PUBLIC HOUSES<br />
THE BAKER’S ARMS, Droxford 877533<br />
THE BUCKS HEAD, Meonstoke 877313<br />
THE HURDLES, Droxford 877451<br />
THE SHOE, Exton 877526<br />
THE WHITE HORSE, Droxford 877490<br />
GARAGES<br />
MERINGTONS , Droxford 877431<br />
TAYLORS GARAGE LTD, Droxford 877433<br />
SCHOOLS<br />
DROXFORD JUNIOR SCHOOL, Secretary 877537<br />
MEONSTOKE SCHOOL, Secretary 877568<br />
VALLEY PRE-SCHOOL 878019<br />
SWANMORE COLLEGE OF TECHNOLOGY 892256<br />
LIBRARY (Bishop’s Waltham)<br />
Free Street, Bishops Waltham 892871<br />
CITIZEN’S ADVICE BUREAU (Bishop’s Waltham)<br />
Well House, 2 Brook Street 896376<br />
CAB e-mail: bishopswaltham@cabnet.org.uk<br />
PARISH COUNCILS<br />
Corhampton & Meonstoke.<br />
Clerk: Mrs J Brooks 891660<br />
Droxford. Clerk: Mrs R Hoile 877470<br />
Exton Parish Meeting:<br />
Honorary Secretary: Paul Garner 877781<br />
DROXFORD VILLAGE HALL<br />
Bookings: Mrs Terry Crowfoot 877631<br />
William Collins Charity<br />
Can we help you? Our charity was set up to assist children<br />
and students from the <strong>Bridge</strong> parishes, requiring financial<br />
help for educational purposes (not fees). Call one of our<br />
trustees in confidence:<br />
Ann Symes, Droxford 877643<br />
Jan Dobson Meonstoke 877672 Diana Arthur Exton 877390<br />
Julia Keitley Droxford 877414<br />
Monika Thwaites Corhampton 877939<br />
The Trustees of the William Collins Trust are delighted to<br />
announce that they were able to make awards allowing a<br />
number of Droxford school children to go away to residential<br />
camps. Other awards have been made in respect of Duke<br />
of Edinburgh Award Scheme fees and music lessons.<br />
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THE MEON HALL, Meonstoke<br />
Bookings: Richard Booth 877820<br />
E-mail: meonhallbookings@yahoo.co.uk<br />
COMMUNITY CARE TRANSPORT CO-ORDINATORS:<br />
Droxford: Sheila Hilary 07977 096586<br />
Exton: Jill Freemantle 877379<br />
Meonstoke & Corhampton: Patricia Howe 877528<br />
MEON VALLEY CARERS GROUP<br />
The Paterson Centre (see p. 20 for details) 895444<br />
NEIGHBOURHOOD WATCH<br />
If you see anything suspicious, ring the Police immediately<br />
on 0845 045 4545, or, if you need advice, phone any of the<br />
following people straight away. If a vehicle is involved, it<br />
can help enormously if you can get its number.<br />
Corhampton & Meonstoke:<br />
Ian Gilchrist (chairman) 877238<br />
Rectory Lane Norah Burrage 878708<br />
High Street Janet Dobby 878657<br />
Bucks Head Hill Carol Jones 878560<br />
Oxendown Ian Gilchrist 877238<br />
Warnford Road Mike Camp 877180<br />
Jerry Pett 877633<br />
Corhampton Lane Charles Hall 877506<br />
Pound Lane, W. of Meon Hall<br />
Pearl Hazzard 877075<br />
Pound Lane, E. of Meon Hall<br />
Linda Foot 877763<br />
Chapel Road & Fry’s Lane Marcia Gillespie 877472<br />
New Road Jenny Liardet 877583<br />
Allen’s Lane and St Andrew’s Green.<br />
Lorna Allured 877718<br />
Stocks Lane Roger Howard 877540<br />
Brockbridge Road Frances Keppel 878774<br />
Millside Phil Butler 877596<br />
Droxford Gordon Hope 877751<br />
Exton Joan Starkie 878698<br />
Eleanor & Paul Garner 877781<br />
POLICE (non-emergency calls) 0845 045 4545<br />
NHS DIRECT (24 hour response) 0845 4647<br />
For help on community safety and to report<br />
anti-social behaviour, etc, ring 101<br />
Good News Travelling Library<br />
At<br />
The Paterson Centre<br />
Church Road, Swanmore<br />
Normally 2nd Tuesday of each month from 10.30 am to<br />
12.15 pm:<br />
Next visits: 14th <strong>February</strong> : 13th <strong>March</strong><br />
Everyone welcome ~ refreshments served
Our main activity is the provision of<br />
private transport for essential<br />
purposes such as hospital and doctor<br />
appointments and we endeavour to keep<br />
our charges well below cost. We rely on<br />
the continuing support of volunteer<br />
drivers. Nearly all our current drivers are<br />
retired and have been with us for at least<br />
five years and to keep the service going<br />
we do urgently need some new volunteers.<br />
At present the costs of operating the<br />
service are by fund raising and donations.<br />
Donations are always welcome and we<br />
acknowledge with thanks the<br />
contributions that have recently been<br />
received.<br />
In addition to transport, we provide a<br />
service to new arrivals in the villages with<br />
The Group exists to provide support within the villages of<br />
Droxford, Meonstoke, Exton and Corhampton.<br />
MINOR INJURIES<br />
UNIT<br />
Petersfield Hospital<br />
Swan Street, Petersfield<br />
GU32 3LB<br />
� 01730 263221<br />
a welcome note and later a visit to assist<br />
them in settling in. It is important to us<br />
that we welcome all newcomers but<br />
occasionally we are not made aware of<br />
new arrivals. If we have not been in<br />
touch please make contact with the New<br />
Arrivals co-ordinator Za Rowe 877732.<br />
We can also provide assistance with<br />
completion of forms and documents on a<br />
confidential basis and may also be able to<br />
offer assistance to those in need of<br />
specialized equipment to make life easier<br />
around the home. We may be able to help<br />
resolve the problems of restoring landline<br />
telephones of the elderly when they are<br />
not working properly. The switchover to<br />
Digital Television takes place next<br />
<strong>February</strong> or <strong>March</strong> depending upon which<br />
Open 8 am to 6 pm<br />
365 days a year<br />
As a dedicated Minor Injuries Team, we can treat many minor injuries<br />
for all ages including:<br />
Cuts & Abrasions<br />
Burns<br />
Ear & nose injuries<br />
Eye injuries<br />
Foreign bodies<br />
Head Injuries<br />
Minor Fractures<br />
Nosebleeds<br />
Splinters, Sprains & Strains<br />
If we cannot treat your injury, we will refer you to another member<br />
of our multi-disciplinary team. These can include.<br />
� Accident & Emergency Department<br />
� Dentist<br />
� Fracture Clinic<br />
� General Practitioner<br />
� Ophthalmic Optician<br />
We have X-ray facilities Monday to Friday from 9.00 am to midday.<br />
Waiting times vary, but most patients are seen, treated and discharged within<br />
an hour.<br />
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transmitter your TV aerial is directed.<br />
Help is available to ensure you are tuned<br />
to the new digital service but do not wait<br />
until your TV screen goes blank. If you<br />
need help please contact your transport<br />
coordinator who can put you in touch with<br />
the experts.<br />
If you require transport to your doctor,<br />
hospitals including the Minor Injuries<br />
Unit at Petersfield Hospital etc. please<br />
always contact your transport coordinator<br />
whose telephone number is on the Local<br />
Services page and do not contact drivers<br />
direct.<br />
If you would like to volunteer as a<br />
driver, please get in touch with the<br />
chairman, John Shaw, on 877564.<br />
Meon Valley Community Bus<br />
Fares for all destinations:<br />
Adult: £4.00 return.<br />
Children: Under 16 ½ fare: Under 5 free<br />
Winchester City Council bus passes accepted<br />
For Minibus bookings ring Stuart Attrill on<br />
01489 878500.<br />
TIMETABLES:<br />
MONDAY to FAREHAM<br />
Leaves Return<br />
1001 Droxford Square 1314<br />
1005 Meonstoke, Pound Cottages 1310<br />
1007 Corhampton Stores 1308<br />
1009 Meonstoke, Old Post Office 1306<br />
WEDNESDAY to FAREHAM<br />
1000 Droxford Square 1309<br />
1003 Meonstoke, Pound Cottages 1306<br />
1005 Corhampton Stores 1304<br />
1007 Meonstoke, Old Post Office 1302<br />
THURSDAY to FAREHAM<br />
0926 Exton, The Shoe 1239<br />
0927 Corhampton, The Butts 1238<br />
0929 Meonstoke, Pound Cottages 1236<br />
0931 Corhampton Stores 1234<br />
0933 Meonstoke, Old Post Office 1232<br />
FIRST FRIDAY OF MONTH TO WINCHESTER<br />
0925 Droxford Square 1246<br />
0930 Meonstoke, Old Post Office 1241<br />
0932 Meonstoke, Pound Cottages 1239<br />
0934 Corhampton Stores 1237<br />
0936 Exton, The Shoe 1234<br />
SECOND FRIDAY OF MONTH TO WATERLOOVILLE<br />
0935 Meonstoke, Pound Cottages 1250<br />
0939 Droxford Square 1245<br />
THIRD FRIDAY OF MONTH TO HEDGE END<br />
0926 Exton, The Shoe 1220<br />
0929 Meonstoke, Pound Cottages 1217<br />
0932 Corhampton Stores 1214<br />
0937 Droxford Square 1209
QI’m looking for ways to cut<br />
my gas and electricity bills<br />
before the winter sets in,<br />
and I’ve heard there are<br />
government grants available to<br />
make your home more energy<br />
efficient. Do you have any details?<br />
AAt the moment, half of the<br />
UK's carbon emissions come<br />
from the energy used to<br />
generate heat. As a result, a switch to<br />
low carbon heating is vital to meet the<br />
UK’s carbon targets.<br />
A new government scheme, which runs<br />
from 1st August 2011 to 31st <strong>March</strong><br />
2012, has been set up to help people<br />
install green energy heating systems.<br />
The scheme is particularly for those<br />
households who don't have mains gas<br />
heating. You can get grants for the<br />
following amounts, for the following<br />
products:<br />
� A ground source or water source<br />
heat pump - £1,250 (for homes<br />
without mains gas heating)<br />
� A biomass boiler - £950 (for<br />
homes without mains gas heating)<br />
� An air source heat pump - £850<br />
(for homes without mains gas<br />
heating)<br />
� Solar thermal hot water panels -<br />
£300 (available to all households).<br />
The scheme for householders is mainly<br />
aimed at the 5.5 million households in<br />
Great Britain not heated by mains gas.<br />
Rather than mains gas, these<br />
households have to rely on expensive<br />
and higher carbon forms of heating<br />
such as heating oil and electric fires to<br />
keep warm. To qualify, householders<br />
will need to ensure they have basic<br />
Contacting the CAB<br />
Citizens Advice Bureau<br />
energy efficiency measures in place<br />
before they apply.<br />
Up to 25,000 new installations will be<br />
supported over the next year. The<br />
grants will be given out on a firstcome,<br />
first-served basis, and providers<br />
of social housing can also apply. For<br />
more information, including how to<br />
register early, go to www.directgov.uk<br />
or call the Energy Saving Trust on<br />
0800 512 012<br />
The Energy Saving Trust is at:<br />
http://www.energysavingtrust.org.uk/<br />
QMy pensioner father<br />
recently had someone<br />
knock on his door saying<br />
they'd been doing work in the area<br />
and had spotted his roof needed<br />
repairing. This got Dad worried as<br />
he can’t afford any major work,<br />
but I’m suspicious about the whole<br />
thing. What would you advise?<br />
AYou’re right to be wary. The<br />
approach you describe is a<br />
classic con. Rogue traders<br />
often call unannounced<br />
offering help with roofing, paving, or<br />
general building work they say needs<br />
doing, or offering to do insulation or<br />
install burglar alarms. They often end<br />
up running off with your money<br />
without ever doing the work, doing a<br />
very poor job, or doing work that never<br />
actually needed doing.<br />
Follow these top tips to avoid getting<br />
involved with a dodgy trader:<br />
For more information about these questions, contact your local CAB at:<br />
Well House, 2 Brook Street, Bishop's Waltham, SO32 1AX,<br />
Tel: 01489 896376, open from 10.00 am to 2.00 pm on Monday, Tuesday,<br />
Wednesday, and Friday.<br />
There is also an advice surgery at Wickham Community Centre<br />
(in Mill Lane) on Thursdays from 10.30 am to 1.30 pm.<br />
If this is not convenient, try our Thursday evening appointments-only<br />
session (from 4 to 7 pm) at the Bishop’s Waltham Bureau.<br />
You can also e-mail us at: bishopswaltham@cabnet.org.uk.<br />
You can also go to our local website at: www.bishopswalthamcab.org.uk<br />
or you can go to the national Citizens Advice Bureau website at<br />
www.adviceguide.org.uk<br />
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� Don't ever agree to work or<br />
sign anything on the spot –<br />
take their full details and say<br />
you'll get back to them .<br />
� Check their details – they should<br />
give you their business name and<br />
address and not just a mobile<br />
phone number. Check these<br />
details to see if they are genuine.<br />
� Check if they are a member of a<br />
professional trade body, belong<br />
to a local authority assured trader<br />
scheme, or to the TrustMark<br />
scheme, which can help you find<br />
trustworthy tradesmen in your<br />
area. For more details about these<br />
schemes, go to www.direct.gov.uk<br />
or www.trustmark.org.uk/<br />
� Ask them for details of other<br />
customers they did work for and<br />
contact them to check this out.<br />
� Don't get taken in by their sales<br />
banter – they might claim there is<br />
a special offer on only for that<br />
day, or that they'll get sacked if<br />
you don’t employ them. This<br />
kind of talk is likely to be a sales<br />
pitch and you shouldn’t take it<br />
seriously.<br />
� Always get more than one quote<br />
before employing anyone – it’s<br />
usually best to contact other<br />
traders your friends or family<br />
have recommended.<br />
� Don’t ever make a cash<br />
payment up front – a reliable<br />
trader won’t ask for money before<br />
doing the job – not even if they<br />
need materials. If they run a<br />
business, they should have enough<br />
money to cover these costs<br />
themselves and only ask for<br />
payment once they’ve completed<br />
the job, or done a reasonable<br />
amount of work.<br />
� If you think a trader is trying to<br />
con you – speak to Consumer<br />
Direct on 08454 040506. They<br />
can report anything suspicious to<br />
your local Trading Standards<br />
Department.<br />
� If the trader becomes aggressive<br />
or threatens you, this is criminal<br />
behaviour and you should call the<br />
police straight away
How very different the Christmas<br />
period has been over recent weeks,<br />
compared with the same time last year.<br />
Snowdrops, and even daffodils in some<br />
places, are already in bloom, and<br />
presently little deters the progress of<br />
early growth in trees, plants, and<br />
flowers. The snow might yet fall, but at<br />
this stage, we hope that the winter<br />
weather of the last two years will remain<br />
but a possibility as the days lengthen.<br />
Something which we can all look<br />
forward to is our Quiz Evening on<br />
Saturday, 4th <strong>February</strong>. This is a much<br />
anticipated annual event, and usually<br />
our biggest fund-raising occasion, and<br />
we do hope that all those teams who<br />
regularly participate will be in the hall<br />
once again, to enjoy the fun, the<br />
competition, and the super chilli supper.<br />
We can promise good-natured team<br />
cooperation, exercise of the brain cells,<br />
and a good evening’s entertainment.<br />
Our forthcoming films should attract<br />
plenty of support. Following Jane Eyre<br />
in January, we will be showing Tinker,<br />
Tailor, Soldier, Spy in <strong>February</strong>, The<br />
Help in <strong>March</strong>, and The Iron Lady in<br />
April. Take advantage of the comfort<br />
and nearness of the village hall as a<br />
Saturday, 4th <strong>February</strong><br />
Quiz night<br />
With John Martin as our inimitable<br />
Quizmaster<br />
7.30 pm<br />
Strictly teams of 6<br />
Tickets £6 per head to include supper<br />
Licensed bar<br />
Wednesday, 29th <strong>February</strong><br />
Tinker Tailor Soldier<br />
Spy A film rated 15<br />
Big screen version of John Le Carre’s<br />
espionage classic, starring Gary Olman<br />
as Smiley, and with Colin Firth, John<br />
Hurst, Ciaran Hinds, and Toby Jones<br />
7.30 pm doors open at 7 pm<br />
Tickets £5<br />
Licensed bar and refreshments<br />
Droxford Village Hall News<br />
cinema, and come along to enjoy the<br />
films.<br />
Whilst we all favour the advancement of<br />
spring, and wish for long summer days<br />
ahead, it is necessary to look back to<br />
2011 and to express appreciation to all<br />
those concerned with the Friday market.<br />
The market brings in substantial funds to<br />
our coffers all year round, and without<br />
the commitment of so many village folk<br />
to set up the hall, provide the goods,<br />
man the tables, collect produce, and deal<br />
with the accounts, there would be no<br />
market. Many who live outside our<br />
village speak highly of this facility.<br />
The year ended for this willing and<br />
happy band of volunteers, with the<br />
Christmas Market at the end of<br />
November, which was a great success,<br />
and afforded an even larger contribution<br />
to our funds. If you did not find yourself<br />
a little gem on the ‘bling’ stall, you<br />
Forthcoming events at Droxford Village Hall<br />
Wednesday 28 th <strong>March</strong><br />
The Help<br />
A film rated 12a<br />
Based on the novel by Kathryn<br />
Stockett and set in 60’s Mississipi. A<br />
must see – this movie will inspire you<br />
while making you both laugh and cry.<br />
Thought by some to be one of the very<br />
best films of 2011<br />
7.30 pm doors open at 7 pm<br />
Tickest £5<br />
Licensed bar and refreshments<br />
STOP PRESS!<br />
The Iron Lady<br />
comes to Droxford at the<br />
end of April!<br />
Tickets for all events from the Post Office<br />
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certainly missed something special. On<br />
behalf of the committee, and the<br />
residents of Droxford, a huge thank you<br />
is extended to all who participate so<br />
regularly and with such commitment.<br />
The Christmas pantomime, Cinderella,<br />
at the King’s Theatre, Southsea, proved<br />
to be a most enjoyable and entertaining<br />
evening for the group who took<br />
advantage of the very cut-price tickets<br />
that Tim Crowfoot had secured. Both<br />
audience and players reacted in the<br />
inimitable, responsive way, and a good<br />
time was had by all.<br />
The annual membership renewal and<br />
recruitment drive for the 200 Club has<br />
taken place and newcomers to the<br />
village will be most welcome as<br />
members. For £12 only, yours is the<br />
chance to win a £40 prize any and<br />
indeed every month. Please support this<br />
very worthwhile fund-raising operation.<br />
Latest 200 club winners are:<br />
December – Alison Gauntlett<br />
January – Jenny Dover<br />
We wish everyone a Happy and Healthy<br />
2012.<br />
Jackie Hibbert<br />
Secretary<br />
Droxford Village<br />
Market<br />
� Vegetables, Cakes,<br />
� Eggs<br />
� Jams, Chutneys, &<br />
Marmalade<br />
� Cards and Books<br />
� Dog Biscuits<br />
� Flowers<br />
� Refreshments<br />
All at very reasonable prices<br />
The emphasis is on<br />
homemade and local grown<br />
in Droxford Village Hall<br />
Every Friday<br />
2.00 pm to 3.30 pm
ur pupils<br />
ODroxford at<br />
Junior School have<br />
been busy raising<br />
money for this<br />
year’s chosen charity, ShelterBox.<br />
Firstly, all pupils took part in Cool<br />
Planet week which had World<br />
Heritage sites as its theme. Each<br />
learning Base spent the week<br />
studying one incredible place from<br />
anywhere in the world and then<br />
worked through a week long creative<br />
curriculum. At the end of the week all<br />
the pupils produced a piece of artwork<br />
which was given to their parents. The<br />
stunning artwork ranged from<br />
watercolour Killer Whales off the<br />
Argentinian coast; underwater<br />
collages based on the Great Barrier<br />
Reef; colourful pastel images of<br />
Stonehenge, stunning silhouettes of<br />
Ankarwat in Thailand; Paul Klee<br />
inspired paintings of a Mosque in<br />
Tunisia; and digital macro photographs<br />
of fossils found at the Dorset and<br />
Devon Jurassic coast (see picture far<br />
right). Parents could, if they wished,<br />
donate money to buy the artwork,<br />
which was mounted and framed.<br />
Monies raised went towards the<br />
ShelterBox charity.<br />
The school also had a fantastic festive<br />
Christmas production at the local<br />
A heart warming start to the New Year!<br />
church. This was led by Years 3 and<br />
4 and Reverend Stuart Holt kindly<br />
read a Christmas blessing. Parents<br />
were very generous and donated<br />
monies to the ‘silver plate’ which also<br />
went towards the ‘Shelterbox’ appeal.<br />
Every donated total of £590 will<br />
allow ShelterBox to deliver<br />
emergency shelter and other<br />
lifesaving equipment to a family who<br />
has lost everything following a<br />
disaster. More details can be found<br />
at:<br />
http://www.youngshelterbox.org/<br />
A typical box contains the following.<br />
� The plastic box itself<br />
� Custom designed family tent<br />
� Waterproof ground mats<br />
� Thermal fleece blankets<br />
� Mosquito nets<br />
� Children’s activity pack<br />
� Stove<br />
� Cooking equipment<br />
� Tool kit<br />
� Water containers & purification<br />
� Warm hats and gloves<br />
A big thank you to the parents of our<br />
school pupils who made donations<br />
and the members of the local<br />
community who attended our<br />
15<br />
Christmas performance; we managed<br />
to raise £847.48! This was enough to<br />
buy one large shelterbox and also a<br />
family tent and provisions. Through<br />
this donation of support, we are<br />
making a difference to those in need,<br />
in whatever way we can, which makes<br />
all the hard work worthwhile!<br />
Matthew Dampier<br />
Deputy Headteacher<br />
Some of the Dorset fossils<br />
School council with the ShelterBox
the management<br />
work we do on our<br />
“Sometimes<br />
nature reserves looks<br />
more like destruction than<br />
conservation,” says Elliott Fairs,<br />
Wildlife Trust Reserves Officer.<br />
“But there’s always a good reason.”<br />
Throughout nature there are species<br />
with extremely complicated and somewhat<br />
fussy needs that allow them to<br />
thrive. Then there are those that require<br />
bare ground: just nice, simple, bare<br />
ground. It is the latter that the Wildlife<br />
Trust has been helping recently to<br />
ensure these species have their place on<br />
our heaths. And we’ve employed the<br />
help of a different type of plant –<br />
mechanical plant.<br />
Bare ground provides some wildlife<br />
with an ideal opportunity for<br />
colonisation. Seeds falling onto bare<br />
soil have a much better chance of<br />
germinating than on grassy areas. The<br />
bare mud or sand soaks up much more<br />
of the sun’s heat than surrounding<br />
vegetation, so provides excellent<br />
basking points for insects and reptiles.<br />
The high level of insect activity on<br />
localised areas of bare ground provides<br />
perfect hunting for insect-eating birds,<br />
such as woodlarks.<br />
Historically, bare areas of heathland<br />
would have been created and<br />
maintained by large grazing herds,<br />
which roamed wild across the heathy<br />
landscapes, churning up the ground as<br />
Meon Valley U3A’s programme of<br />
twice-monthly illustrated talks on<br />
the theme Here and There will continue<br />
through until April 2012, with the AGM<br />
on 1st May. Meeting at Wickham<br />
Community Centre, Mill Lane, at 2.00<br />
pm, the next four dates (all Tuesdays)<br />
are:<br />
Feb 7 The South Downs National<br />
Park by Barbara Holyome<br />
and Nick Heasman of the new<br />
Trust Us by Elliott Fairs<br />
they went. More recently, bare ground<br />
was created by humans, as commoners<br />
practised turbary – the right to dig up<br />
heather turfs to burn as a fuel. With<br />
turbary rarely exercised these days and<br />
large roaming herds a thing of the past,<br />
the wildlife that evolved to live on<br />
these bare patches has suffered a<br />
dramatic decline.<br />
Grasses and scrub covered the bare<br />
ground within just a few years and with<br />
adequate grazing disappearing from<br />
many of our heaths, the scrub has been<br />
replaced with trees and the bare ground<br />
has become birch woodland.<br />
However, all is not lost. By identifying<br />
an area known to have once been<br />
species-rich heathland, we know that<br />
there will be dormant, yet viable, seeds<br />
from these plants in that location. This<br />
means we can quickly and costeffectively<br />
create a specialised and<br />
incredibly important habitat, and then<br />
watch the species return within a<br />
matter of months. We create this bare<br />
ground, commonly called ‘scrapes’, by<br />
using machinery to scrape back the<br />
vegetation, leaf-litter and the top few<br />
inches of soil. The remaining exposed,<br />
bare ground is full of dormant seeds,<br />
deposited decades before, and has<br />
abundant potential and promise.<br />
Some of the species that are being<br />
helped include bog pimpernel, the<br />
insect-eating sundew and marsh<br />
clubmoss (see the magazine cover for<br />
a photograph of the sundew). These<br />
National Park Authority<br />
Feb 21 The Natural History of<br />
Swanmore by Alan Green,<br />
local enthusiast and speaker<br />
Mar 6 Meon Valley Villages – My<br />
Book by Peter Watkins, well<br />
known local author<br />
Mar 20 Secrets of London by June<br />
Imber, former London guide<br />
In addition to the talks, various small<br />
groups, whose members meet in each<br />
others’ houses, usually monthly, are also<br />
continuing. Current groups’ subjects<br />
include:<br />
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bare areas also offer a place where the<br />
insects can burrow and lay their eggs.<br />
Heath tiger beetles, the mottled beefly<br />
are two examples.<br />
For more information, visit the<br />
Wildlife Trust’s <strong>Web</strong> site at:<br />
www.hwt.org.uk<br />
Hampshire and Isle of<br />
Wight Wildlife Trust<br />
events<br />
Wednesday, 15th <strong>February</strong> 7.30pm:<br />
Nature in Close-Up. Andrew<br />
Watts, our brilliant local photographer,<br />
will give a presentation on close-up<br />
pictures of insects, invertebrates,<br />
amphibians, wild flowers, etc, with<br />
comments on the techniques and tricks of<br />
the trade. A must for anyone interested<br />
in wildlife photography. At St Wilfrid’s<br />
Church Hall, Padnell Road, Cowplain,<br />
PO8 8DZ. Parking available to the rear<br />
of the church. For more details, contact<br />
Peter Leversha on 023 9259 2711.<br />
Admission £2.50 including refreshments.<br />
Non-members welcome.<br />
Monday, 27th <strong>February</strong> 7.30 pm:<br />
Poisonous Plants. An illustrated talk by<br />
Dr Rosemary Hopewell on weeds, both<br />
garden and agricultural – the law, their<br />
downside and their uses through the ages.<br />
At Church Hall, Free Street, Bishops<br />
Waltham. Parking is available at the<br />
library next door. For more details,<br />
contact Jane Gentry on 01489 890961.<br />
Admission £2.50 including refreshments,<br />
children free.<br />
� Reading<br />
� Poetry<br />
� Art<br />
� Art appreciation<br />
� Music appreciation<br />
� Geology<br />
� Walking<br />
A bridge group has recently been started.<br />
There is a small annual U3A membership<br />
subscription; new members, and visitors,<br />
are welcome.<br />
Enquiries to the secretary:<br />
Julia Field on 01489 891353
You have to begin to lose your<br />
memory, if only in bits and pieces,<br />
to realise that memory is what makes<br />
our lives. Life without memory is no<br />
life at all....Our memory is our<br />
coherence, our reason, our feeling, even<br />
our action. Without it we are<br />
nothing.....Luis Bunuel<br />
It has been encouraging to see so much<br />
coverage of dementia in the press over<br />
the past months; we can only hope that<br />
we will start to see some real progress<br />
in dealing with this terrible condition in<br />
the very near future. It’s a sad fact that,<br />
as our general health improves and we<br />
find treatments for other health issues,<br />
more and more of us could fall prey to<br />
this horrific fate.<br />
The field of dementia has always lagged<br />
behind other conditions in just about<br />
every way. Research funding is around<br />
6 times less than for cancer research and<br />
the resources to help dementia sufferers<br />
are also far less well developed. Almost<br />
everyone knows about Macmillan<br />
Nurses and the help they give to cancer<br />
sufferers and their families, but little<br />
seems to be known about Admiral<br />
Nurses and the work they do to support<br />
dementia sufferers, their carers and<br />
their families. Fortunately, their profile<br />
is rising and the praise they received in<br />
John Suchet’s book My Bonnie has<br />
certainly helped, but there is still a lot of<br />
work to be done, especially since<br />
Admiral Nurses are not available in all<br />
areas. Here in Hampshire there are only<br />
Admiral nurses in the larger urban<br />
areas, such as Southampton. Here in<br />
the Meon Valley we do not currently<br />
have access to an Admiral Nurse.<br />
Admiral Nursing was established as a<br />
result of the experiences of family<br />
carers and is named after Joseph Levy<br />
The Rain<br />
It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly<br />
gentleman in his 80's arrived to have stitches removed from<br />
his thumb.<br />
He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00<br />
am. I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it<br />
would be over an hour before someone would to able to see<br />
him.<br />
Meon Valley Carers Group News<br />
Promoting a positive way of living with dementia<br />
who had vascular dementia and was<br />
known as ‘Admiral Joe’ due to his keen<br />
interest in sailing.<br />
Admiral Nurses are mental health<br />
nurses specialising in dementia care and<br />
employed within NHS Mental Health<br />
Trusts and/or Integrated Health and<br />
Social Care Trusts and supported by the<br />
charity Dementia UK. They support<br />
people with dementia and their<br />
families, and work collaboratively with<br />
other professionals to improve the<br />
experience of those affected by<br />
dementia. The individualised support<br />
entails comprehensive assessment of<br />
need and provision of a range of<br />
therapeutic approaches designed to<br />
promote well being and equip family<br />
carers with skills and information.<br />
They also provide psychological<br />
support to help family carers and people<br />
with dementia understand and deal with<br />
their feelings and emotions as they live<br />
with this terrible condition. As part of<br />
their role, Admiral Nurses provide an<br />
educational supportive role to other<br />
professionals in promoting best practice<br />
A key objective of Dementia UK is to<br />
expand the network of Admiral Nurse<br />
teams across the whole country. This<br />
could be achieved through<br />
collaborative working with other<br />
organisations in health and social care<br />
and the successful roll-out of the model<br />
will be dependent on these partnerships<br />
being supported at local level. The<br />
17<br />
Meon Valley Carers Group has started<br />
to work with Dementia UK to explore<br />
ways in which we can secure access to<br />
our own Admiral Nurse. It is the PCT’s<br />
who decide whether to commission an<br />
Admiral Nurse Service and so we will<br />
benefit in their experience in<br />
convincing our own local PCT to<br />
support the project.<br />
As part of this project, we will be<br />
hosting a coffee morning at the<br />
Paterson Centre, Swanmore on<br />
Saturday, 11th <strong>February</strong> at 10.30 am to<br />
allow us to increase awareness and to<br />
raise funds for MVCG and Dementia<br />
UK. Please do come along and support<br />
us and learn more.<br />
Are you creative, or have a hobby that<br />
you could show and teach in a<br />
simplistic way at just one of our group<br />
meetings for two hours? You need to<br />
have empathy for the elderly and those<br />
with dementia. We are hoping to<br />
provide a variety of sessions to our<br />
members that will help them develop<br />
new skills and interests.<br />
Diary events:<br />
14th Feb: Pub Lunch at The Forge,<br />
Shedfield. 12 noon<br />
28th Feb: Group Meeting at the<br />
Paterson Centre. 2.00 pm<br />
13th Mar Pub Lunch at The Forge,<br />
Shedfield 12 noon<br />
27th Mar Group Meeting at the<br />
Paterson Centre 2.00 pm<br />
Are you or someone you know caring for someone suffering from memory<br />
difficulties? Meon Valley Carers Group is a voluntary organisation supporting<br />
carers and their families. It provides an opportunity to mix socially,<br />
together with their cared-for, with people in a similar situation on a regular basis.<br />
The Carers Centre for Memory Concerns<br />
The Paterson Centre, Church Road, Swanmore<br />
Monday & Thursday 9.00 am - 1.00 pm<br />
Tel: 01489 895444<br />
E-mail: meon-valley@btconnect.com<br />
I saw him looking at his watch and decided, since I was not<br />
busy with another patient, I would look at his wound myself.<br />
On examination, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the<br />
doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and<br />
redress his wound.<br />
While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had<br />
another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such<br />
a hurry.<br />
(Continued opposite . . )
Thank you for<br />
all your support<br />
At a time of great economic<br />
uncertainty, and when many<br />
people are facing financial hardship, it<br />
has been fantastic to witness the<br />
generous response of the Meon<br />
Valley residents to our annual charity<br />
Christmas collections. Father Christmas<br />
in his sleigh clocked up many miles<br />
during December, covering the<br />
villages from East and West Meon in<br />
the north to Wickham in the south,<br />
plus all the areas in between. Over a<br />
period of three weeks the Lions<br />
amassed a record £4,900 in our<br />
Christmas collection buckets, as well<br />
as an amazing variety of foreign<br />
currency including euro, pfennigs,<br />
Canadian cents, US cents, Swiss<br />
cents, pesetas, new halfpennies, old<br />
halfpennies, a farthing, and 29 old<br />
sixpences, including four pre-1947!<br />
The foreign change aside, all this<br />
money will go into the Meon Valley<br />
Lions charity account for redistribution<br />
over the coming year to people in<br />
need and local causes in our area.<br />
The way Lions operate means that<br />
every single penny we collect from<br />
donations like this, or profit from our<br />
fund-raising events, is used to help<br />
others. Unlike many other organisations,<br />
we use absolutely NONE of<br />
the money for salaries or<br />
administration. The Meon Valley may<br />
be in one of the more prosperous<br />
areas of the UK but that doesn’t mean<br />
to say that poverty and hardship don’t<br />
exist. Each month we consider<br />
numerous requests from individuals<br />
and groups in need of support of<br />
financial help – if you think we can<br />
The Rain (cont’d from previous page)<br />
The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the<br />
nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife. I inquired as to<br />
her health. He told me that she had been there for a while<br />
and that she was a victim of Alzheimers.<br />
As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit<br />
late. He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that<br />
she had not recognized him in five years now.<br />
I was surprised, and asked him, “And you still go every<br />
morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?”<br />
He smiled as he patted my hand and said, “She doesn't know<br />
me, but I still know who she is.”<br />
I had to hold back tears as he left, I had goose bumps<br />
on my arm, and thought, “That is the kind of love I want in<br />
my life.'”<br />
Life isn't about how to survive the storm,<br />
But how to dance in the rain.'<br />
Meon Valley Lions Club<br />
help you or someone you know,<br />
please get in touch.<br />
The mild winter weather has been a<br />
blessing this year, making the<br />
Christmas collections less of a ‘Scott<br />
of the Antarctic’ endurance test and<br />
swelling the visitor numbers at a<br />
number of other events we’ve been<br />
supporting. In the Bere Forest, the<br />
Naomi House Hospice Christmas<br />
bauble hunt attracted hundreds of<br />
hungry people to our barbecue stall,<br />
helping us raise around £700 for the<br />
Winchester based children’s charity.<br />
On Boxing Day, the annual<br />
Hampshire Bowman BBQ also proved<br />
as popular as ever with walkers<br />
looking to blow away the festive<br />
cobwebs. They were joined by bikers<br />
and classic vehicle owners dropping<br />
by following their early morning rally<br />
in Wickham Square. Lion Pete<br />
Meadows’ renowned hot dogs and<br />
burgers proved the ideal antidote to<br />
the Christmas hangover and as a<br />
result we raised over £100 for<br />
18<br />
McMillan Nurses, the Bowman’s<br />
favourite charity. Thank you!<br />
The New Year brings plenty of work<br />
and many new activities for the<br />
Lions – starting with the annual Ford<br />
Motor Company, Sports and Social<br />
club Sea Angling Fishing festival on<br />
Weston Shore. Also, plans are well<br />
underway for the Swanmore Carnival<br />
and Fete which this year is on<br />
Saturday July 14 – pop the event in<br />
your diary now!<br />
We’ve just launched our new <strong>Web</strong><br />
site at:<br />
www.meonvalleylionsclub.org.uk.<br />
Why don’t you check it out to see just<br />
how we use the money you give us<br />
and learn more about what we do?<br />
There are also details of our fun social<br />
programme. The Meon Valley Lions<br />
Club meets officially on the first<br />
Monday of each month (excepting<br />
bank holidays) at the Upland Park<br />
Hotel in Droxford. If you'd like to come<br />
along and meet us, please contact us<br />
on 01489 894932.<br />
Photograph:<br />
Pete burning<br />
Boxing Day<br />
bangers at the<br />
Hampshire<br />
Bowman
From the Registers<br />
Baptisms<br />
Meonstoke 8th January Jasmine Ruth Hewson<br />
Thanksgiving for birth<br />
Droxford 18th December Tia Maye Adjua Hodder<br />
Weddings<br />
None<br />
Hackney and Bishop’s Waltham<br />
Deanery Link (Christmas Delivery 2011)<br />
Once again the Christmas delivery showed the parishes of<br />
the deanery working together in a heartening way. Those<br />
who gave gifts had taken care to send what had been requested,<br />
including a good number of tins with ring pulls, a significant<br />
supply of small sachets of shampoo, and some catering size tins,<br />
all of which we’d been told were needed for the Hackney<br />
Churches ministry to homeless people and rough sleepers. As<br />
well as this a large number of items of food, clothes, toiletries,<br />
and the items requested for the babies of trafficked women<br />
came to each of our churches and were then taken to Swanmore<br />
Village Hall for a great day of sorting and packing. Over thirty<br />
people from all our parishes came to help which meant there<br />
was time this year to pack the van systematically, so that when<br />
we arrived in Hackney the next day everything was ready for<br />
offloading in just the right order. Noble Argue again provided<br />
and drove the van so effectively that we were able to get home<br />
in time for Noble to turn out for a rugby match in Eastleigh at<br />
Funerals<br />
CORHAMPTON &<br />
MEONSTOKE PARISH<br />
COUNCIL<br />
Chairman: Jeremy Pett<br />
PARISH<br />
T<br />
PRECEPT 2012/13<br />
he Parish Council has, in line with many other local authorities,<br />
voted not to increase the total amount of Council Tax, known as<br />
the Precept, that it asks Winchester City Council to collect on its<br />
behalf. Given the slight annual increase in the number of properties<br />
that are liable for Council Tax, individual tax payers should see a small<br />
reduction in the Parish element of their bills in April.<br />
DOGS ON THE RECREATION GROUND<br />
Despite the request a few months ago there has been little if any<br />
reduction in the number of incidents of dogs being allowed to foul the<br />
recreation ground, causing a danger to children and an inconvenience<br />
and unpleasantness to all. Notices will shortly be going up around the<br />
ground ‘encouraging’ dog owners to exercise consideration for others<br />
and clean up after their pets; if there is still no improvement then the<br />
Parish Council will have little alternative but to ban all dogs from the<br />
Recreation Ground and actively seek assistance to enforce this.<br />
INCONSIDERATE PARKING<br />
The triangle at the junction of Shavards Lane and Stocks Lane is part<br />
of our village road system, like any other. There are a few who appear<br />
to regard one side of it as a legitimate parking place for vehicles and<br />
trailers. Again, this is simply a case of lack of consideration for others<br />
– and in this instance, an offence of obstructing the highway.<br />
www.candm-pc.gov.uk<br />
West End 3rd October Elizabeth Mary Wade, aged 86,<br />
followed by Thanksgiving<br />
Service St Andrew’s , Meonstoke<br />
19<br />
2.00 pm. As well as these gifts a good many people gave money<br />
and tokens which were sent from the Deanery to The Priory,<br />
St James and the Hackney Churches Night Shelter for their<br />
work.<br />
Sisters Elizabeth and Moira at The Priory have written: “To all<br />
our friends in Bishop’s Waltham Deanery a very heartfelt<br />
THANK YOU for your splendid and thoughtful gifts for us to the<br />
homeless and needy folk who come though our doors in<br />
increasing numbers. They and we are all so grateful for your<br />
generosity”. The Revd Rosèmia Brown from St James’ Clapton<br />
which is the clearing church to which others come to pick up<br />
goods writes: “Thank you so much Bishop’s Waltham Deanery<br />
for the goods you kindly delivered”.<br />
The essence of the Link is that we in rural Hampshire recognise<br />
that the work being done for the Kingdom of God in inner city<br />
areas such as Hackney makes demands on the churches there<br />
that we very rarely have to meet ourselves so we reach out in a<br />
spirit of love to do what we can to help.<br />
Norman Chatfield<br />
Chairman of the Bishop’s Waltham Committee<br />
News from the Valley<br />
Preschool<br />
New Building Update<br />
Thank you very much to everyone who has been so generous<br />
in donating so far. We are very grateful for this and the<br />
ongoing support from George Holingbery MP and his<br />
associates. We have made very good progress in negotiating<br />
a land lease with the Diocese and in reducing the transport fee<br />
we need to pay in order to receive our planning permission.<br />
We realise that we are asking for money in difficult times both<br />
with the economic climate and Christmas. We still need your<br />
support, so please donate if you meant to in the new year or<br />
pledge money if it would be easier to donate in the early spring.<br />
Our fundraising total to date is £14,000. This obviously falls<br />
far short of our target £170,000 for the new building and the<br />
committee is meeting to investigate alternatives. We will<br />
keep you informed in the next edition of The <strong>Bridge</strong>.<br />
Cait Horn and Isabelle Regent-Ngwata<br />
We welcome. . .<br />
Abigail and Craig Strike, who have come with Holly and<br />
Matilda, from Wiltshire to Stedham House, South Hill,<br />
Droxford.<br />
Dr Katherine and Dr Alexander Taylor, who have come<br />
with their 20 month baby girl, to The Coach House,<br />
Droxford.<br />
Nicky and Bruce Collins, who have come with Abbie (10<br />
years) to 5 Park Villas, Droxford.<br />
Joanna and Mark Selwood, who have come with<br />
Pollyanna (3years) to 2 Park Villas, Droxford.<br />
Sally and Nick Walmsley who have come with Oscar<br />
(4 years) and Chloe (2 years) from Twickenham to<br />
Meon House, Droxford.
<strong>February</strong><br />
Wed. 1 Look-in for coffee and chat, 10.30 –12.00 noon<br />
St Andrew’s Church, Meonstoke<br />
Corhampton & Meonstoke Parish Council 7.30 pm<br />
Meeting, The Meon Hall<br />
Thu. 2 Holy Communion, Droxford 10.00 am<br />
Thu. 2 Riverside Players, at The Meon Hall 7.30 pm<br />
performing It Could Be Any One of Us<br />
(for 3 days – ends Saturday)<br />
Fri. 3 Singing for Fun, The Stables (see page 4) 2.00 pm<br />
Sat. 4 Droxford Village Hall Quiz Night (see p.13) 7.30 pm<br />
Sun. 5 Third Before Lent (Septuagesima)<br />
(1st) Holy Communion (BCP), Droxford 8.30 am<br />
Family Christingle Service, Exton 9.30 am<br />
Holy Communion (CW),Meonstoke 11.00 am<br />
Evensong, Exton 6.30 pm<br />
Mon. 6 Farmers for Action meeting, The Meon Hall 7.30 pm<br />
Tue. 7 Friends of Meonstoke School 10.30 –12.00 noon<br />
Coffee Morning: The Meon Hall<br />
U3A: S. Downs National Park (see page 15) 2.00 pm<br />
MV Flower Club; AGM, The Meon Hall 7.30 pm<br />
Thu. 9 Holy Communion, Droxford 10.00 am<br />
Meon Ladies: Quiz night, The Meon Hall, 7.30 pm<br />
Sat. 11 CADENCE Youth <strong>March</strong>ing Band stay at<br />
to Sun. The Meon Hall all weekend<br />
Sun. 12 Second Before Lent<br />
(2nd) Holy Communion (BCP), Meonstoke 8.30 am<br />
Family Service, Meonstoke 9.30 am<br />
Holy Communion (CW),Droxford 11.00 am<br />
Evensong, Corhampton 6.30 pm<br />
Valentine’s Day Concert, Droxford (see p.6) 3.00 pm<br />
Tue. 14 MV Decorative & Fine Arts group. 10.00 -12.00 am<br />
The Meon Hall<br />
Wed. 15 Look-in for coffee and chat, 10.30 –12.00 noon<br />
St Andrew’s Church, Meonstoke<br />
Thu. 16 Holy Communion, Droxford 10.00 am<br />
MV Garden Club: Candlelight Snowdrop 6.15 pm<br />
Visit to Yew Tree Cottage, Soberton<br />
Meet In Droxford Square<br />
Droxford Parish Council Meeting, Fire Station 7.30 pm<br />
Fri. 17 Singing for Fun, The Stables (see page 4) 2.00 pm<br />
Sun. 19 Next Before Lent<br />
(3rd) Holy Communion (BCP), Corhampton 8.30 am<br />
Café Lite, Droxford Village Hall 9.30 am<br />
Holy Communion (CW),Exton 11.00 am<br />
Tue. 21 U3A: The Natural History of Swanmore 2.00 pm<br />
by Alan Green (see page 15)<br />
Thu. 23 Holy Communion, Droxford 10.00 am<br />
Sun. 26 Lent One<br />
(4th) Holy Communion (BCP), Exton 8.30 am<br />
Puppets & Praise, Meonstoke School 9.30 am<br />
Matins , Corhampton 11.00 am<br />
Tue. 28 CTBWA: Quiet Half-hour, St Mary and 7.30 pm<br />
All Saints, Droxford (see page 4)<br />
DISTRICT DIARY<br />
20<br />
Wed. 29 MV Garden Club: Iran, Land of Contrasts 7.30 pm<br />
Talk in Soberton Village Hall<br />
Film Night, Droxford Village Hall (see p.13) 7.30 pm<br />
<strong>March</strong><br />
Thu. 1 Holy Communion, Droxford 10.00 am<br />
Fri. 2 Singing for Fun, The Stables (see page 4) 2.00 pm<br />
Sat. 3 CADENCE Youth <strong>March</strong>ing Band stay at<br />
to Sun The Meon Hall all weekend<br />
Sun. 4 Lent Two<br />
(1st) Holy Communion (BCP), Droxford 8.30 am<br />
Family Service, Exton 9.30 am<br />
Holy Communion (CW),Meonstoke 11.00 am<br />
Evensong, Exton 6.30 pm<br />
Mon. 5 Lent Lunch, Droxford Village Hall (see p.5) 12.15 pm<br />
Tue. 6 U3A: Meon Valley Villages (see page 15) 2.00 pm<br />
Wed. 7 Look-in for coffee and chat, 10.30 –12.00 noon<br />
St Andrew’s Church, Meonstoke<br />
Corhampton & Meonstoke Parish Council 7.30 pm<br />
Meeting, The Meon Hall<br />
Thu. 8 Holy Communion, Droxford 10.00 am<br />
MV Garden Club: Gardeners Question Time 7.30 pm<br />
The Meon Hall<br />
Sun. 11 Lent Three<br />
(2nd) Holy Communion (BCP), Meonstoke 8.30 am<br />
Family Service, Meonstoke 9.30 am<br />
Holy Communion (CW),Droxford 11.00 am<br />
Evensong, Corhampton 6.30 pm<br />
Wed. 14 Latest <strong>copy</strong> date for April-May <strong>Bridge</strong><br />
Thu. 15 Holy Communion, Droxford 10.00 am<br />
Meon Ladies: Hants & IOW Air Ambulance 7.30 pm<br />
The Meon Hall<br />
Droxford Parish Council Meeting, Fire Station 7.30 pm<br />
Fri. 16 Singing for Fun, The Stables (see page 4) 2.00 pm<br />
Fri. 16 Denmead Cub Scouts weekend stay at<br />
to Sun. The Meon Hall<br />
Sun. 18 Lent Four (Mothering Sunday)<br />
(3rd) Holy Communion (BCP), Corhampton 8.30 am<br />
Café Lite, Droxford Village Hall 9.30 am<br />
Holy Communion (CW),Exton 11.00 am<br />
Mon. 19 Joint PCCs meeting at Droxford Village Hall 7.00 pm<br />
RBL Meeting: Talk by Cdr Rob Scott on the 7.00 pm<br />
1st Battle of Narvik; Upland Park Hotel<br />
Tue. 20 U3A: Secrets of London (see page 15) 2.00 pm<br />
Wed. 21 Look-in for coffee and chat, 10.30 –12.00 noon<br />
St Andrew’s Church, Meonstoke<br />
Thu. 22 Holy Communion, Droxford 10.00 am<br />
Fri. 23 Friends of Meonstoke School Quiz, 7.30pm<br />
The Meon Hall (see page 6)<br />
Sun. 25 Passion Sunday<br />
Clocks change to British Summer ti<br />
(4th) Holy Communion (BCP), Exton 8.30 am<br />
Puppets & Praise, Meonstoke School 9.30 am<br />
Matins, Corhampton 11.00 am<br />
Meonstoke Village Band Concert 6.00 pm<br />
The Meon Hall (see page 6)
Sun. 25 West Meon Youth Theatre rehearse 2.00 - 6.00 pm<br />
The Meon Hall<br />
Mon. 26 Joint Benefice & individual PCCs meeting, 7.30 pm<br />
Droxford Village Hall<br />
Tue. 27 Friends of Meonstoke School 10.30 –12.00 noon<br />
Coffee Morning: The Meon Hall<br />
MV Flower Club: The Meon Hall 2.00 pm<br />
Meon Hall Management Committee 7.30 pm<br />
The Meon Hall<br />
Wed. 28 Film Night, Droxford Village Hall (see p.13) 7.30 pm<br />
Sat. 31 MV Garden Club: Spring Show 2.00 pm<br />
Soberton Village Hall (see page 7)<br />
Thu. 29 Holy Communion, Droxford 10.00 am<br />
April<br />
Sun. 1 Palm Sunday (start of Holy Week)<br />
(1st) Holy Communion (BCP), Droxford 8.30 am<br />
Remember to visit The <strong>Bridge</strong> parishes <strong>Web</strong> site<br />
for information about who’s who<br />
and church services: www.bridgechurches.org.uk<br />
You will also find there brief histories of the four<br />
parish churches.<br />
The <strong>Web</strong> site was designed and implemented, and is<br />
hosted by, the local Internet services company,<br />
Wizbit, Corhampton Lane Farm, Corhampton,<br />
01489 872980.<br />
First<br />
Sunday<br />
Second<br />
Sunday<br />
Third<br />
Sunday<br />
Fourth<br />
Sunday<br />
Benefice<br />
Holy Communion<br />
(BCP 1)<br />
8.30 am<br />
Droxford<br />
8.30 am<br />
Meonstoke<br />
8.30 am<br />
Corhampton<br />
8.30 am<br />
Exton<br />
DISTRICT DIARY<br />
THE MEON BRIDGE BENEFICE<br />
Family and other<br />
services<br />
9.30 am<br />
Family<br />
Exton<br />
9.30 am<br />
Family<br />
Meonstoke<br />
9.30 am<br />
Café Lite<br />
Droxford V. Hall<br />
9.30 am<br />
Meonstoke School<br />
Puppets & Praise<br />
21<br />
Family Communion (CW),Meonstoke<br />
with procession of palms and donkey<br />
10.00 am<br />
Evensong, Exton 6.30 pm<br />
Mon. 2<br />
to }<br />
Compline, Corhampton<br />
Wed. 4<br />
7.00 pm<br />
Thu. 5 Holy Communion, Droxford 10.00 am<br />
Maundy Thursday, Corhampton 7.00 pm<br />
Commemoration of Last Supper & Vigil<br />
Fri. 6 Good Friday. Meonstoke 10.00 am<br />
Children’s workshop<br />
Liturgy of The Cross, Droxford 2.00 pm<br />
Sat. 7 Easter Eve Vigil, Corhampton 7.00 pm<br />
Sun. 8 Easter Day<br />
Holy Communion (BCP), Exton 8.30 am<br />
Family Communion, Meonstoke 9.30 am<br />
Family Communion, Droxford 11.00 am<br />
REGULAR SUNDAY & WEEK DAY CHURCH SERVICES<br />
See the District Diary for details of variations.<br />
Have you been on the St Wilfrid Pilgrimage<br />
Walk?<br />
Don’t even know about it?<br />
Go to www.wilfrid-meon-pilgrimage.co.uk<br />
and find a wealth<br />
of information about the<br />
Benefice<br />
Holy Communion<br />
(CW 2)<br />
11.00 am<br />
Meonstoke<br />
11.00 am<br />
Droxford<br />
11.00 am<br />
Exton<br />
Meon Valley Pilgrimage Trail<br />
Evensong<br />
(BCP 1)<br />
6.30 pm<br />
Exton<br />
6.30 pm<br />
Corhampton<br />
–<br />
– –<br />
Matins<br />
11.00 am<br />
Corhampton<br />
1 BCP – Book of Common Prayer<br />
2 CW – Common Worship<br />
Weekday services: 1. Morning prayers daily (Monday to Friday) in St Andrew’s, Meonstoke at 8.30 am<br />
2. Holy Communion (Common Worship) each Thursday morning in<br />
St Mary & All Saints, Droxford at 10.00 am