Expressing what remains unspoken. - Lynbrook Aletheia
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March 2012— Controlled Substances<br />
Volume 2: Issue 6<br />
Submissions<br />
Mission<br />
<strong>Aletheia</strong> (ah-LAY-thee-uh), which means “truth” in Greek, is a student outreach<br />
publication that strives to provide a voice for all students at <strong>Lynbrook</strong> High<br />
School. Inspired by Los Gatos High’s Reality Check and Monta Vista’s , <strong>Aletheia</strong><br />
was created to facilitate communication and overcome stigmas concerning<br />
prevalent and taboo issues within the <strong>Lynbrook</strong> community.<br />
About<br />
At the beginning of the school year, the <strong>Aletheia</strong> staff designates a list of<br />
monthly topics pertaining to the realities of high school. Each issue comprises of<br />
firsthand experiences submitted anonymously by <strong>Lynbrook</strong> students and alumni,<br />
professional articles relating to that month’s theme, and resources compiled<br />
by the student staff. Finalized newsletters are uploaded online and emailed to<br />
<strong>Lynbrook</strong> families. Back issues can be found on our website, www.lhsaletheia.<br />
org, under Archives.<br />
The content in <strong>Aletheia</strong> is composed by the students of <strong>Lynbrook</strong> High School<br />
in San Jose, California. Ideas and opinions expressed within the publication are<br />
not necessarily reflected by members of the school administration or faculty.<br />
This is the sixth issue of <strong>Aletheia</strong> for the 2011-12 school year.<br />
All <strong>Lynbrook</strong> students and alumni are eligible to submit stories. We publish<br />
all submissions that adhere to our guidelines, which are posted on the website.<br />
The <strong>Aletheia</strong> staff is committed to preserving the integrity of your content<br />
and will not make any changes, with exception to certain profanity (which are<br />
asterisked-out) and basic spelling errors. We do not edit stories for grammar or<br />
syntax.<br />
Our April topic is Rumors and Secrets; stories are due by March 10. If you are<br />
interested in contributing, a submission box and a suggestion form for future<br />
topics are both available online.<br />
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www.lhsaletheia.org<br />
Student Staff: Aishwarya Nene,<br />
Austin Yu, Daniel Kao, David Lu,<br />
Eileen Bang, Erica Yin, Frances Guo,<br />
Gloria Lin, Hana Zait, Helen Jun,<br />
Kimberly Vaz, Jane Jun,<br />
Jessica Cao, Steven Chao,<br />
Varshaya Visvanathan<br />
Advisers: Cindy Wen & Miko Otoshi
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Hip hop made me do it. Well, hip hop and<br />
just about every single one of my lunchtime<br />
friends. Marijuana first entered my life when I was biking<br />
past Rainbow Park with my friends during freshman<br />
year; the pungent smell of an indigestive skunk<br />
and the—at the time—unfamiliar sight of a bunch of<br />
people sitting around passing around a homemade<br />
cigarette. What I didn't know at the time though was<br />
that within a matter of months, I would be doing the<br />
same exact thing only with a different group of people.<br />
What made me go back upon my firm beliefs against<br />
drugs was a mixture of peer influence (not really pressure),<br />
the widespread availability of weed in San Jose,<br />
and the idea that weed was more of a benefit than a<br />
detriment to society and individuals—an idea instilled<br />
upon me by today's pop-culture and rap music.<br />
It's really hard to avoid using drugs, especially when<br />
all of your friends at school begin to use it and constantly<br />
talk about it during brunch and lunch. It began<br />
with only one person out of our group who had used<br />
it and slowly expanded until I was the only one who<br />
hadn't taken a hit before. The more they talked about<br />
it, the more idealized it seemed, but in my heart, I still<br />
believed that it was wrong and that it would be better<br />
for me to avoid trying it at all costs. But as school<br />
got harder and as I became increasingly stressed and<br />
frustrated with school grades and the workload of my<br />
extracurriculars, it began to dawn on me that it might<br />
actually be worth it to try. Deep into the second semester<br />
of my sophomore year is when I first started smoking<br />
weed and <strong>what</strong> began as a "once a month" ordeal<br />
slowly evolved into a "once a week", "twice a week",<br />
and on rare, but existent occasions, "twice a day" rituals.<br />
It was a way for me to slip away from my stresses<br />
and worries and let me enjoy life like any other partying<br />
American teenager. Life was good for then, but it<br />
was only a matter of time before reality caught back up<br />
with me.<br />
What made me decide to quit smoking marijuana<br />
was that it became too much of a crutch of mine.<br />
Whenever something went wrong, simply wait for the<br />
parents to leave or ask, "Mom, I'm gonna go on a jog,<br />
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“Drugs are a bet with your mind.”<br />
- Jim Morrison<br />
be back in 20!" and secretly smoke a few bowls from a<br />
DIY apple pipe, or from a tightly packed joint of weed.<br />
When weed wasn't available to me, I simply wasn't able<br />
to cope with much by my own willpower anymore. I<br />
would be all depressed and mopey unless I had a good<br />
dime bag hidden in my sock drawer.<br />
In addition to my difficulty with living without a<br />
stash, I lost many of my friends to disappointment and<br />
sorrow that I wasn't able to rise above the influence.<br />
Between the loss of friends and my personal troubles,<br />
it became painfully obvious that the effect that marijuana<br />
began having on me was one that was benefiting<br />
myself, but not of many of those who were around me<br />
which was <strong>what</strong> lead me to the decision to set aside<br />
smoking pot for good. Despite everything that happened<br />
however, one thing is certain for me: I do not<br />
regret my brief tango with Mary Jane. It certainly did<br />
help me and hurt me during my period of usage, there<br />
was a lot of lessons that I took from it that will undoubtedly<br />
follow me for the rest of my life.<br />
~ ~ ~<br />
Puff puff pass, puff puff pass, puff puff pass. A<br />
symbolic drug of our generation, and any generation<br />
that's been born in America for the past century<br />
or so. The green sticky herb with that pungent<br />
smell, also known as marijuana. It's not really something<br />
that the law looks out for, unless you're part of<br />
the drug cartel, but it's been becoming a bigger and<br />
bigger epidemic as of late. For me, it was hard to avoid<br />
getting into the whole drug scene because of how it<br />
surrounded me in all aspects of my life. Movies (Pineapple<br />
Express, Dazed and Confused, etc.), music (Mac<br />
Miller, Wiz Khalifa, Kendrick Lamar), and teenage<br />
Californian-American culture. Weed is mentioned in<br />
basically everything I do or partake in and available in<br />
all of the parties that I go to so it only becomes natural<br />
for me to try it out once or twice… or thrice… or so<br />
many times that I can't even remember.<br />
But honest to God, my usage of weed stems purely<br />
from my addictive and extremist way of living. Once I<br />
start something that I find is beneficial to me, I won't<br />
bother stopping or trying to moderate it. I mean, if<br />
it's good for me, why would I stop, right? That's how I<br />
see my usage of weed or any other drug for that matter.<br />
My goal for my usage isn't as much as to get hella<br />
stoned or tweaked at parties so much as it is to find
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some time to escape into my own little world and running<br />
away from all of my problems. My mind just goes<br />
crazy sometimes because of all the work I have to do<br />
for school and I use drugs as an outlet for the pent up<br />
pressure. To cool my teapot down, just add drugs.<br />
As far as I’m concerned, and I know this is a largely<br />
biased viewpoint, if I’m not bothering you when I’m<br />
doing my thing with drugs, you really shouldn’t give<br />
a f*ck. Unless I’m out in the neighborhood and doing<br />
some hoodrat sh*t, it’s not justifiable for anyone<br />
to tell me that I shouldn’t do drugs. Honestly, no one<br />
aside from my group of friends even know that I am<br />
a frequent user. I don’t come to school high and the<br />
few times that I have, I’ve been in complete control of<br />
myself and haven’t given anyone a reason to question<br />
my sobriety.<br />
Smoke weed, do drugs if you want. But if you do, do<br />
it responsibly and moderate yourself. Don’t make a fool<br />
of yourself by doing it all in public and don’t bother<br />
anyone while on that stuff. You wouldn’t want some sky<br />
high kid coming up to YOU asking YOU for munchies<br />
would you?<br />
“Our national drug is alcohol. We tend<br />
to regard the use of any other drug with<br />
special horror.”<br />
- William S. Borroughs<br />
Today was quite a trip. School ended at 12 something<br />
and everything was perfect. The sun was<br />
shining, the birds were chirping, and we had all the<br />
right utensils. I brought the papers and the lighter,<br />
my friend brought the weed, and all my other friends<br />
brought themselves; the only things you need for a<br />
great stoning session. It wasn't unlike any other postschool<br />
Friday, just a few kids getting high out of their<br />
lives after a week or stress to unwind and have a great<br />
time with a few great friends. many people tell me<br />
that weed is just a waste of time and money, but the<br />
many that tell me that really have not even tried it<br />
themselves. They are just reading off of <strong>what</strong>ever our<br />
freshman p.e. program taught them. Basically, in the<br />
minds of most people, weed is a super addictive drug<br />
that will kill your lung cells and destroy your brain, but<br />
in reality, weed is nothing like that. Sure it might take<br />
a toll on your lungs, but when compared to cigarettes,<br />
weed barely makes a dent. And in many scientific<br />
researches, weed has been found to reduce the chances<br />
of cancer because of how it kills off old cells to prevent<br />
them from degenerating into cancer cells. Quite amazing<br />
stuff… so why is it still illegal? Now, I'm not going<br />
to go off and preach to everyone why weed should<br />
be legalized and how everyone should get high 25/8,<br />
but <strong>what</strong> I can say is this: do your mo fuggn research.<br />
Weed is no elixir of life, but at the same time, it's not<br />
the root of all evil and the devil of all herbs. Katt Williams<br />
said it best, "it's just a plant! it just grows like<br />
that and if you just so happen to set it on fire, there are<br />
some effects!" For me personally, I smoke marijuana<br />
on the sixth afternoon of every week in order to leave<br />
life for a few hours. Unwind after all of those hours<br />
spent fighting and toiling over my loads upon loads of<br />
<strong>Lynbrook</strong> homework. LHS and Cupertino in general is<br />
such a high stress environment, many people just blow<br />
up and breakdown when things go wrong. I just prefer<br />
to sit back, relax and escape for a few hours, and come<br />
back and face the world when my head is clearer and<br />
my mood is… quite happier. It brings out the optimist<br />
in me in times that seem hopeless here at LHS.<br />
And weed is just so f*cking cheap… living in San Jose<br />
means we're literally in the weed capitol of the world<br />
where getting caught seems to be a nonexistent thing<br />
so long as you're smart about it. $10 for a gram and $5<br />
for half, you cant really go wrong with prices like that.<br />
At the end of the day it doesn't hurt nobody; it's just a<br />
tool that some people use to escape. There aren't any<br />
fights at school for weed, there aren't any incidents of<br />
people dying because of weed irresponsibility. If anything,<br />
some people just pass out, but they wake up a bit<br />
later (again as Katt said), "hungry enough to eat everything<br />
in your house. That's the side effects, hungry<br />
happy, sleepy, THAT'S IT!"<br />
Now don't go out to your local drug dealer and ask<br />
for a dime bag quite yet. Weed isn't for everyone, and<br />
I'm just trying to justify why I do it, and prolly why my<br />
friends and other do it at <strong>Lynbrook</strong>.<br />
“When you smoke the herb,<br />
it reveals you to yourself.”<br />
- Bob Marley<br />
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“Alcohol is a very patient drug. It will wait<br />
for the alcoholic to pick it up one more<br />
time..”<br />
- Mercedes McCambridge<br />
am not, nor will I ever will be, involved in using<br />
I controlled substances, but I grew up in around<br />
moderate use of alcohol and tobacco. I cannot recall<br />
a single moment when I have seen someone from my<br />
mom's side of the family take a single sip of an alcohol<br />
beverage or smoke a cigarette, but my dad's side of the<br />
family is very alcohol-oriented. Even when I do something<br />
as simple as going out to dinner with my dad's<br />
side of the family, we would all go to one of my uncle's<br />
house where the adults would down at least two bottles<br />
of Tsing Tao beer. I dislike the bitter, unpleasant smell<br />
of alcohol, but due to the typical enjoyment of drinking<br />
among my family, I was forced to get used to the<br />
smell.<br />
As little as two years ago, my dad still had his drinking<br />
under control; however, within the past year or so,<br />
my dad has dramatically increased his alcohol intake.<br />
His increase of alcohol first started when my dad<br />
would lose a significant amount of money when doing<br />
online business trading. He would be stressed throughout<br />
the day, and he would come home after work and<br />
drink a very small amount from the new 1 liter bottle<br />
of Asian rice wine he bought. As time went on, my dad<br />
drank when he earned money while drinking twice as<br />
much when he lost money. Eventually, my dad would<br />
come home with random bottles of beer or wine, and<br />
he could finish 1 liter bottles within one to one and a<br />
half weeks. My mom and I were very displeased and<br />
worried about my dad's drinking, so we would sometimes<br />
hide his beer or wine bottles as an attempt to<br />
make my dad stop drinking. Even if my mom and I<br />
begged my dad to take some responsibility and control<br />
his mindless drinking, he would still have at least 1-2<br />
drinks per day. Whenever I talk to my dad, the bitter<br />
smell of alcohol lingers in my dad's breath. His room<br />
and clothes started to accumulate a stronger smell of<br />
alcohol everyday, and sniffing the lung-burning odor<br />
leaves a horrible idea in my mind that my dad is on the<br />
edge of having a minor drinking problem.<br />
Although I know that my dad drinks to relieve his<br />
stress, it saddens me to think that my dad would rather<br />
turns towards a controlled substance for comfort<br />
rather than his own family.<br />
“Drugs are a waste of time. They destroy<br />
your memory and your self-respect and<br />
everything that goes along with your self<br />
esteem.”<br />
- Kurt Cobain<br />
It's 3am and my roommate is banging a jar of<br />
dip as hard as he can on his mattress. I'm trying<br />
to sleep, but he's eating chips so loud I can hear<br />
them through both earplugs and noise cancelling<br />
headphones. He gets high practically every night and<br />
keeps me up by cramming his mouth full of food. He's<br />
already been cited twice for possession by the police<br />
here, and it's only been one semester. I have nothing<br />
against the use of marijuana, as long as it's being used<br />
far away from me. I'm very sensitive to strong odors,<br />
so the first time I walked in on my roommate and his<br />
friends smoking in our room, I couldn't breathe at all.<br />
After exaggerating my suffering in front of them all, at<br />
least now they don't use our room... but occasionally<br />
he'll fart significantly louder than usual when leaving<br />
the room and say something along the lines of, "I<br />
hope you don't get nauseous," before closing the door.<br />
He's walked over to me and breathed right in my face<br />
without warning, afterwards asking if I could smell pot<br />
on his breath. It made me feel sick. He didn't do it with<br />
malicious intent, but he has horrible judgment skills<br />
when he's high. He likes his alcohol too. I think he has<br />
about twenty cans of beer in his refrigerator and occasionally<br />
I see him stashing a huge jug of whiskey in<br />
his backpack. He's come back drunk quite a few times<br />
and each time it's been a catastrophe. He'll fall out of<br />
bed and knock over anything in his way to the door,<br />
and if I'm lucky he'll figure out how to open it before<br />
he releases a torrent of urine in <strong>what</strong>ever direction he's<br />
facing. Other times he'll throw up all over the sink, in<br />
the recycling bin... or everywhere. I'm the one who has<br />
to clean any sort of mess, since I don't trust him with<br />
proper sanitation, and I really don't want urine saturating<br />
and drying on my homework or clothing.<br />
I don't care if you use them, just don't use them<br />
carelessly.
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tried pot a couple of times. There, I said it. Pot is<br />
I so prevalent in our pop culture today that I just<br />
had to, I was just so curious.<br />
What was it like?<br />
Underwhelming. I think a lot of people have the<br />
misconception that when you're high you have no<br />
control over yourself. That's <strong>what</strong> being drunk feels<br />
like. Being high is a controlled feeling, you can choose<br />
whether you want to act totally stupid or completely<br />
normal. It's practically undetectable by parents.<br />
It also mellows you out. Suddenly things are f*cking<br />
funny, you're in a great mood and all your troubles are<br />
gone.<br />
Then there's the usual side effects—time takes so<br />
long to pass, food tastes f*cking great and the feeling<br />
like you're walking through a dream.<br />
Though I did like the feeling, in the end I decided<br />
it wasn't really worth it. However, I did become a lot<br />
less judgmental about it. Honestly, people who do pot<br />
aren't bad people. Pot is the least physically addictive<br />
out of all the drugs, and when you're high, you're still<br />
in control unlike when you're drunk. People need to<br />
stop stigmatizing and judging. If someone uses pot,<br />
it doesn't make them a bad person. It doesn't harm<br />
anyone but themselves. It's just a choice they made<br />
with their body. Unless they're using it responsibly—as<br />
in not letting it take over their life and not trying to get<br />
others into it—then don't judge so harshly.<br />
“Character is determined more by the<br />
lack of certain experiences than by those<br />
one has had.”<br />
- Friedrich Nietzsche<br />
I've never done drugs before. Never wanted to.<br />
And I doubt I ever will.<br />
But I've always wondered how that high feels. How<br />
it feels to escape reality. And I've always wanted to find<br />
that escape, maybe not in drugs but in some other way.<br />
I feel like kids at our school do them to escape the<br />
pressure. The pressure from parents, teachers, friends,<br />
everything. It's their way of building up this wall that<br />
screams "I don't care <strong>what</strong> people think!" even though<br />
they really do.<br />
My best friend built that wall, and now I can't talk to<br />
her. It's been a few years, but I miss her.<br />
We used to be so alike and do everything together.<br />
Drugs changed her. But at least she found her escape.<br />
She used to be my escape. The one I told everything<br />
to. The one who didn't judge me for my b*tchy<br />
thoughts or embarrassing stories. What do I have now?<br />
“I don't do drugs. If I want a rush I just<br />
stand up when I'm not expecting it.”<br />
- Dylan Moran<br />
am determined to avoid controlled substances, no<br />
I matter <strong>what</strong> kind of judgment I receive. I am fully<br />
aware that numerous students at <strong>Lynbrook</strong> use controlled<br />
substances quite frequently. Most people know<br />
exactly who these people are. They do a terrible job of<br />
hiding the fact that everyday they sit at Rainbow park<br />
and smoke weed. We can even smell it from several<br />
yards away.<br />
The use of controlled substances, no matter how<br />
"harmless" they seem, is plain wrong, no matter <strong>what</strong><br />
anyone else says. Though most people are under the<br />
impression that marijuana is a harmless drug and it's<br />
non-addictive, they are completely misinformed. It is<br />
widely known that there are harmful chemicals in marijuana,<br />
and the amount of tar in one joint is horrifying.<br />
There are other ways to relieve stress besides smoking,<br />
though it appears nobody is aware of this. Normally,<br />
when I am stressed, I listen to music, ride my bike,<br />
exercise, read, paint. There are so many ways to relieve<br />
stress about school or about home issues without doing<br />
harm to your body. In fact, going outside and just wandering<br />
is doing your body good. Though drugs may<br />
seem like an escape to these problems, they are making<br />
them worse. By ignoring the issues and using drugs<br />
to escape, problems become intensified. New ones are<br />
added. It is also important to consider your future. Do<br />
you want to have healthy children? How important is it<br />
to you to have a long and fulfilled life? All these questions<br />
should run through a person's mind before they<br />
smoke even a cigarette or decide to do drugs. Because<br />
the truth is, there are more opportunities and freedom<br />
offered to those who refrain from drug use. In the end,<br />
though, it is a person's own decision <strong>what</strong> they are getting<br />
themselves into.<br />
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My friend Excalibur (not her real name) encourages<br />
me to seize the day, carpe diem and<br />
enjoy life. And one of the ways I will be doing that is by<br />
going outside to visit restaurants, shopping and NOT<br />
using any controlled substances. Life on this earth is<br />
dangerous enough without having to drink alcohol and<br />
absinthe and <strong>what</strong>ever else they consume these days.<br />
Richard Dawkins once said "We are going to die, and<br />
that makes us the lucky ones. Most people are never<br />
going to die because they are never going to be born.<br />
The potential people who could have been standing in<br />
my place but who will never see the light of day outnumber<br />
the sand grains of Sahara—more, the atoms<br />
in the universe. Certainly those unborn ghosts include<br />
greater poets than Donne, greater scientists than<br />
Newton, greater composers than Beethoven. We know<br />
this because the set of possible people allowed by our<br />
DNA so massively outnumbers the set of actual people.<br />
In the teeth of these stupefying odds it is you and I<br />
that are privileged to be here, privileged with eyes to<br />
see where we are and brains to wonder why." I am not<br />
going to tread those odds by drinking. That is <strong>what</strong><br />
motivates me.<br />
“Herb is the healing of a nation, alcohol is<br />
the destruction.”<br />
- Bob Marley<br />
find it relaxing, the high I get from smoking weed.<br />
I All through life all I get is stress and sometimes I<br />
need to relax and my body doesn't allow it. So I smoke<br />
and I feel myself relax and any headaches fade to the<br />
background, my muscles one by one lose their tenseness<br />
and I feel content. Even when I become hyperactive<br />
I am still relaxed, it feels as if my life is spent<br />
with my mind curled in a protective ball too tense to<br />
do anything. And when I relax it unfolds and I feel<br />
at ease, I don't even care about the impairment as it<br />
never makes me lose control, I just revel in the feeling<br />
of complete abandonment of care even if it is just<br />
for a short while. I tried drinking with much the same<br />
result, I drank just the right amount and I simply felt<br />
happy, not tipsy or impaired, everything was just happy.<br />
When I talked I felt an actual laugh always on the<br />
verge of bubbling through my voice because I was so<br />
happy. I don't get hangovers, I just wake up a little tired<br />
and shake it off, I make sure I still retain control and I<br />
never hurt anyone in an impaired state. I may even be<br />
more careful while I am not in my right mind, I have<br />
always feared hurting someone and my basic instinct<br />
is to preserve and help at any cost, so I don't do things<br />
that could end with people hurt. My life was ruined by<br />
people who could not let go of their drink, so I make<br />
sure to never become dependent or addicted. I would<br />
hate myself if I ever had to rely on something beyond<br />
myself, so I take everything in moderation, smoking<br />
occasionally, drinking rarely. I wish everyone were like<br />
this, it would make the world so much nicer. There<br />
would be fewer drunks and burnouts, less addicts and<br />
less money wasted on controlling substances that control<br />
their user. Maybe then I could feel relaxed when<br />
needed and I wouldn't have to wade through so much<br />
just to make my body do something it can't do itself.<br />
“You realize that people take drugs<br />
because it's the only real personal adventure<br />
left to them in their time-constrained,<br />
law-and-order, property-lined<br />
world. It's only in drugs or death we'll see<br />
anything new, and death is just<br />
too controlling.”<br />
- Chuck Palahniuk<br />
My parents graduated from Stanford, my mother<br />
with a PhD. My sister is majoring in Astrophysics<br />
at Yale University. Current GPA? 4.0. Current<br />
classes? All AP's.<br />
But you know <strong>what</strong>? I love LSD, and I'm not talking<br />
about <strong>Lynbrook</strong> Speech and Debate.<br />
My sister first introduced it to me when I was in<br />
middle school. Life was hard and I was frustrated<br />
with my B in Woodshop, so my sister took me outside<br />
and introduced me to a world of beautiful sights and<br />
sounds, colors and sensation... a place where gravity<br />
was a mere figment of my imagination.<br />
But I'm not a rapper.<br />
I keep up my grades, lead a healthy (for the most<br />
part) social life, and don't let my substance usage get in<br />
the way of high school.<br />
The only time my LSD usage has caused a problem<br />
in my life was when I almost killed my boyfriend, by
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accident of course. We had just come back from an<br />
intense debate tournament and wanted to relax with<br />
a nice Lucy in the Sky with Diamonds session, so we<br />
drove to an empty parking lot to have some fun.<br />
Once we started feeling the full effects of the drug,<br />
we got out of the car and started running around the<br />
parking lot, taking interest in the smallest and mundane<br />
things. My boyfriend started playfully pushing<br />
me around, and in response, I pushed him into the<br />
street. He fell down hard and couldn't move (an effect<br />
of the LSD), but we just started laughing uncontrollably,<br />
not seeing the imminent danger of a 3-ton truck<br />
approaching. To us, at our current state, the situation<br />
could only have been made better in I also jumped into<br />
the street and started rolling around on the ground.<br />
Luckily, the truck driver saw us and swerved around,<br />
honking at our stupidity. Yet this experience hasn't<br />
encouraged me to quit LSD, instead it motivates me to<br />
do it even more! Life is a collection of learning experiences,<br />
and how can I learn from my mistakes if I don't<br />
take a risk once in a while?<br />
~ ~ ~<br />
am a <strong>Lynbrook</strong> alumni. My exposure to controlled<br />
I substances didn't really occur until I came to college.<br />
Coming from <strong>Lynbrook</strong> I feel, no wait, I KNOW<br />
that I lived an extremely sheltered life. I didn't even<br />
know "pot" and "weed" were the same thing until I<br />
came here. I guess I should have paid better attention<br />
during Drug/Alcohol education in PE. But honestly,<br />
learning about these things from a handout and experiencing<br />
it in person are two very different things.<br />
A lot of students in college smoke and drink. The<br />
majority of us are adults and we are old enough to<br />
make decisions for ourselves. It took me a while but<br />
I can finally recognize the smell of marijuana if it is<br />
being smoked in the dorms. The smell is strong and<br />
lingers for a while and I find it very unpleasant. RAs<br />
have a certain radar for trouble and all they have to do<br />
is follow the scent of the "pot" or alcohol.<br />
I do not smoke or drink. I choose not to drink<br />
because I am underage, and I choose not to smoke/<br />
do drugs because of its negative effects on the body. I<br />
don't mind people who do as long as their habits do<br />
not interfere with me or my personal property (for<br />
example, as long as they don't throw up on my bed or<br />
something after a night of partying).<br />
My first semester of college was rough and unpleasant<br />
because of my roommate, who was paired with me<br />
at random. He smoked cigarettes in our room (which<br />
is illegal), attempted to tamper with smoke detectors<br />
(also illegal), and drank excessively (illegal in dorms,<br />
plus he is underage). I wanted to be a good roommate<br />
so I compromised and told him that he could drink<br />
in our room by himself and not with a group of 20<br />
people, at the risk of my own record being tarnished<br />
(when someone is caught for doing something illegal,<br />
everyone in the room/suite gets written up by the<br />
RA, regardless of whether they were involved in the<br />
act or not. I could be sleeping while my roommate is<br />
drinking and if he were caught, it would still go on my<br />
record).<br />
Several times, he came home extremely intoxicated,<br />
with a girl, to the point where he would not notice my<br />
presence in the room (although the lights were on).<br />
They would proceed to take steps towards fornication,<br />
resulting in my forced exiling from my own bedroom<br />
(hence the term "sexile").<br />
He broke many agreements between the both of us<br />
and was discourteous in every area imaginable—he let<br />
his friends sleep in my bed one evening when I was not<br />
home. I returned to my room to find it a melting pot of<br />
booze and cigarette smoke.<br />
My experiences with substances has been quite<br />
negative, as they have greatly influenced how I see college<br />
and some of the people I'm around.<br />
Of course, I do have friends who use controlled<br />
substances/drink and it is not a bother to me in any<br />
way because they are courteous and smart about it.<br />
My boyfriend told me he tried alcohol and weed; it's<br />
really damaged our relationship. I don't know, but I<br />
wish I could turn back time. Then I would have told<br />
him he doesn't need to experience either. I know some<br />
may say that's stupid of me and that teenagers "do that<br />
stuff," but <strong>what</strong> the heck! It's against the law for one<br />
thing, and <strong>what</strong> do you gain from it? A cockeyed view<br />
of popularity? Do you FEEL good? Alcohol tastes disgusting<br />
and weed smells horrible. There are other ways<br />
to have fun, and if you think getting high and drunk<br />
are the means to entertainment—you're just a boring<br />
person.<br />
“First you take a drink, then the drink<br />
takes a drink, then the drink takes you.”<br />
- F. Scott Fitzgerald<br />
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smoke 2 packs of cigarettes a day. I blaze a few<br />
I times every week to be social. I drink copiously<br />
at parties. And I still have nearly a 4.0 GPA. There's a<br />
stigma that people have of those who frequently use<br />
controlled substances: we're stupid, lazy, and not going<br />
to get anywhere in life. And, to be fair, many of my<br />
friends fit that stereotype. But just looking at me, you<br />
wouldn't guess that I've even gotten near drugs or alcohol.<br />
I have no regrets about my choice in lifestyle, and I<br />
hope you won't judge me for that.<br />
“Today's students can put dope in their<br />
veins or hope in their brains. If they<br />
can conceive it and believe it, they can<br />
achieve it. They must know it is not their<br />
aptitude but their attitude that will determine<br />
their altitude.”<br />
- Jesse Jackson<br />
There's a reason why people say "Don't do drugs."<br />
It f*cking messes up your life. I have never done<br />
them myself (except this one time during the summer<br />
but that doesn't count because it was just hookah and<br />
it didn't get me high or anything. It's basically flavored<br />
water vapor), but I know someone who did and it<br />
completely changed him. It turns you into a person<br />
that doesn’t care about anything except when your next<br />
hit is going to be. You stop caring about your appearances,<br />
your grades, your life in general. You turn from<br />
a eloquent bright-eyed kid into this hairy, disgusting,<br />
smelly caveman. Why would anyone voluntarily do<br />
that to themselves? If you can’t live a life without drugs,<br />
<strong>what</strong> are you living for anyway? Is that hour of fleeting<br />
happiness so important to you that you would sacrifice<br />
your entire life for it? If you work hard, have goals,<br />
and have love and people you care about in your life,<br />
you could have the chance to make that happiness be<br />
everlasting, and isn’t that better than that superficial<br />
high you could get from drugs? And besides, no girls<br />
are attracted to druggies.<br />
I've only ever done drugs twice in my life, and only<br />
out of curiosity. Before I tried it, I was wondering<br />
how I would feel afterwards. Everyone else seems<br />
to enjoy getting high, and hallucinations can only be<br />
fun, right? I wanted to experience that, I guess. After<br />
I took the pills, I did not feel any different, but my<br />
friends told me otherwise. I suppose that talking about<br />
raining grapes and running around the pavement<br />
with your laptop held over your head is not exactly<br />
something a fully rational person would do. Whatever.<br />
I had fun. My friends had fun. I did not die. In<br />
fact, I slept very well that night. Obviously, I can have<br />
fun without being high, seeing as I've only ever been<br />
high a few times but have had fun many times, but the<br />
sorts of fun a person can have are entirely different.<br />
Drugs give you a more heightened sense perception,<br />
and help you think and see things you probably would<br />
not have seen or thought if you are not stoned, and to<br />
be honest, that feeling is fun. I want to ramble about<br />
nonsensical philosophical sh*t and see the universe<br />
inside-out. I want to fool around without caring. I like<br />
drugs. Big deal. They have never affected any of my<br />
relationships, seeing as I am not a stoner, and most<br />
of my friends do not even know that I have experimented.<br />
It is actually rather nice being able to rant on<br />
<strong>Aletheia</strong> with anonymity, because if I dared to say half<br />
the stuff I've said here in front of my friends/family, I<br />
will surely be judged negatively, grounded for life, and<br />
deprived of my dessert after dinner. Some people are<br />
complete idiots when it comes to drugs though. Apparently,<br />
some kids smoke pot only because their friends<br />
do it? Lame. Do drugs because you like it, not because<br />
other people do. And apparently, they use over and<br />
over and over again? Stupid. Drugs are like alcohol, or<br />
calorie-packed, fat-people food–fine in moderation,<br />
and terrible when you overdose, and DIE. So, I guess<br />
the lesson to be learned is, do <strong>what</strong> you want. Don't<br />
kill yourself. Don't kill anyone else in a crazed frenzy<br />
of unjustifiable, stoner rage. And, preferably, don't get<br />
caught.<br />
“It's only in drugs or death we'll see anything<br />
new, and death is just too controlling.”<br />
- Chuck Palahniuk
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I'm a good kid. A really good kid, actually, and a<br />
studious one at that. But fortunately or unfortunately,<br />
I was introduced to controlled substances<br />
towards the end of junior year (which most people<br />
would call rather late, but maybe not so much at <strong>Lynbrook</strong>).<br />
What motivated me to do it was not a desire to<br />
be "cool", not a will to prove anything to anyone, not<br />
an escape from all of the stress from school. Rather, it<br />
was just another way to have fun, but a different kind<br />
of fun.<br />
Substances like weed and alcohol do different things<br />
to different people. For me, they just make me more<br />
social and talkative, which helps me interact with<br />
people in a way that I might not otherwise interact<br />
with them. I guess you could say I drink and smoke<br />
just to be more friendly around people. Also, smoking<br />
or drinking makes ordinary things seem funny or<br />
exaggerated, which I like. It also allows me to do or<br />
say things that I otherwise wouldn't (good or bad, of<br />
course, but I'm still always sober enough not to cross<br />
the line), which just makes for an even better time for<br />
me and my friends.<br />
Obviously, not everyone needs to do these things<br />
for the above reasons, and I usually don't NEED to do<br />
these things around my friends to have fun, but I think<br />
these things definitely do make gatherings or hangouts<br />
less awkward and more fun. I'm not advocating<br />
either way, but I'm just explaining my reasoning for<br />
using substances.<br />
Maybe you think I'm stupid for doing it, maybe you<br />
agree with me. But <strong>what</strong>ever the case is, I encourage<br />
everyone to try it before judging others who use it, or<br />
just stop judging others, period.<br />
~ ~ ~<br />
once thought that <strong>Lynbrook</strong> was a place where I<br />
I could be safe from drugs, safe from all of the horrors<br />
associated with them. My freshman year, I only<br />
knew a couple of people in my grade who used controlled<br />
substances. As I moved on to higher grades,<br />
the amount of people who use controlled substances<br />
started to skyrocket, and I noticed more of my friends<br />
were slowly starting to fall into that pit. I sometimes<br />
ask myself why I don't follow them in; I ask myself<br />
why I don't take the easy way out of all of the stress<br />
placed on a <strong>Lynbrook</strong> student.<br />
I believe the main reason why I do not used controlled<br />
substances is that I've seen <strong>what</strong> these drugs<br />
can do to people first hand, and how they can change<br />
the people you know/love so dearly. I've seen my<br />
siblings change drastically; the people who were once<br />
so caring, loving and dedicated to studying suddenly<br />
turned into people who just cared about partying. I<br />
think it's interesting how people start to use controlled<br />
substances, and I think it is absolutely absurd that<br />
people start using these hazardous drugs to be "cool"<br />
or be accepted in their crowd.<br />
Bitter experience has taught us how fundamental<br />
our values are and how great<br />
the mission they represent.<br />
- Jan Peter Balkenende<br />
can’t write hooks, but let me tell you this is the<br />
I best essay in this issue. Anyways,<br />
Weed? It’s probably a topic many people can talk<br />
on end about, whether it’s for or against it, there’s no<br />
denying controlled substances like this are a topic of<br />
great debate. My experience with them hasn’t been too<br />
out of the ordinary. I began with smoking weed about<br />
a year ago, drank a couple times here or there, quit<br />
weed, smoked some more, quit again, and as of now…<br />
to be honest, I’m writing this alone, in my room, high.<br />
So do I support weed? Do I support weed and not<br />
harder drugs? Am I one of those “weed’s not a drug<br />
man,” people? The answer to all these is a simple, but<br />
contradictory, no. I believe certain drugs have benefits,<br />
however, all of them have their pitfalls. I would like to<br />
start however, by stating that health wise, I could care<br />
less about the effects of weed and it’s safe to say people<br />
don’t blindly do drugs without knowing their health effects.<br />
With this out of the way, this proposition is kind<br />
of left open ended.<br />
Just to get it out of the way, weed IS a drug. Can I see<br />
it has helped my life? Yes, and very much so. Without<br />
seeming too much of a stoner/fan boy (you know <strong>what</strong><br />
type of people I’m talking about), marijuana has completely<br />
broadened my horizons. I learned about many<br />
people and things through this questionable curiosity.<br />
This drug provides open-mindedness, something kids<br />
of this age lack. It is rare however that even people that<br />
smoke weed apply this way of thinking into their life<br />
positively. This is because unlike most people,<br />
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I did most of my weed alone. Alone in my house,<br />
with no parents, no friends, no Facebook. Nothing.<br />
It was just me and <strong>what</strong>ever thoughts inhabited my<br />
mind. Through this mediation of sorts(without seeming<br />
like a preachy, Bob Marley worshiper), I learned<br />
one of the most important things to this day.<br />
Before this experience, I used to blindly learn things;<br />
Nothing wrong with that. I would read things, absorb<br />
knowledge, and just learn. Whether it be from teachers,<br />
parents, students, or anyone. These are often things<br />
that are praised but I believe, they shouldn’t be. With<br />
weed, I realized this. I think we shouldn’t be focused<br />
on reading and learning, but rather asking. Questioning<br />
everything. Wondering why things are and thinking<br />
for oneself instead of blindly following. It opened<br />
my mind to EVERYTHING. Why do I believe in some<br />
god? I never met him. I’ve never seen him. Why? Why<br />
am I putting countless hours into my schoolwork? To<br />
be an engineer? To make it to the college of my (parent’s)<br />
dreams? And why do I blindly follow rules?<br />
Because they’re rules?<br />
I started to put my time to use, trying to gain knowledge.<br />
Ironically enough, now I actually spent time<br />
LEARNING. Learning about life, anything I wanted to<br />
know. I learned about Islam, Buddhism, the cosmos,<br />
quantum physics, astronomy… I learned about time<br />
and space, crystal meth, prisons, Jeffery Dahmer…<br />
there’s too many to name. Probably not <strong>what</strong> you<br />
would expect to see in somebody’s Google Chrome<br />
history.<br />
Most importantly, I saw my own life through an<br />
observer’s eye. I realized all the flaws I have been living<br />
with. I realized that we all enter this world bare, no<br />
money, nothing. We leave in the same fashion, with<br />
nothing. Why am I surrounding myself with these<br />
people I don’t even like? Just some guys and girls that<br />
would look good talking to me… on Facebook. People<br />
that don’t even like me more than my jokes. People<br />
that probably wouldn’t scratch my back. I really questioned<br />
the way I was living and the reason I was as well<br />
(not in the depressing way). This really opened my<br />
eyes to <strong>what</strong>, and who really mattered in life. I started<br />
to hang out with the people I genuinely liked, and<br />
the people that cared for me as well. Funny enough,<br />
I actually stopped smoking. That was a fun couple of<br />
weeks. I started learning things, enjoying myself, really<br />
appreciating my parents, and just experienced a better<br />
quality of life in general. There wasn’t much that could<br />
go wrong.<br />
Okay. Now for the fun part. Weed hasn’t been a walk<br />
in the park this WHOLE time. In fact, it has probably<br />
brought me to my lowest of lows. I can thank weed<br />
for the days I have come to school quiet and sad, for<br />
the loss of trust with my family and me, and lastly, for<br />
amounting to nothing. Yep, for being nothing at all.<br />
To be honest, this is my life right now. 3.2 GPA, no<br />
extracurricular activities at the moment, same amount<br />
of community service hours a lamp, and for having a<br />
boatload of wisdom… there sure isn’t a lot to show for.<br />
All this I can thank weed for. Without a doubt. After<br />
all I have said, you’d think I was some smart kid. Some<br />
weird weed using, but yet smart guy. One of those<br />
liberal, “Occupy Wall Street” kinda guys. Far from it.<br />
I would be too busy watching Gangland and eating<br />
Coldstone to go protest anyways. I digress. Now there<br />
is no denying I have learned so much and that I find<br />
myself arrogantly thinking I am smarter than everyone<br />
else (honestly, I am). But, knowing the path is only half<br />
of it; you have to actually hike it. Like I said, I can attribute<br />
marijuana for the great knowledge I have gained. I<br />
learned how to go about life, how to accomplish everything<br />
I ever would want, how to live life, but it takes a<br />
different man to go through with these ideas.<br />
Late at night, you’re working on a project. You have<br />
to finish it by tomorrow. You have two options, to<br />
work hard and finish or just blow it off. Well, weed<br />
really pushes that seconds option. It becomes hard to<br />
pass up. It gives you no ambition and lets you justify<br />
everything by thinking you are smarter than everyone<br />
else. Instead of admitting you are weak, you will tell<br />
yourself that its not “gonna affect my life in the future.”<br />
Pretty funny how it works. I’m not just speaking for<br />
the time in which one is under the influence but even<br />
afterwards. It changes the way you think, but also the<br />
way you act, or lack thereof.<br />
Because of this “great plant” I have understood the<br />
world. I understood the people around me, the things<br />
around me, everyone’s purpose in life, everything. I<br />
have understood everything. Like I said before, my<br />
mind was open to EVERYTHING. What have I become<br />
of it? nothing.<br />
Should you go try weed? Be my guest. I couldn’t give<br />
a rats ass to you. Hell, I don’t even know you. BUT at<br />
least take this from me. If you want something in life<br />
the way to get it isn’t through drugs, it’s through hard<br />
work and doing <strong>what</strong> you don’t want to do. It’s through<br />
the boring stuff in life. It’s hard to pass up drugs these<br />
days, but know that whether or not you take it has no<br />
effect on <strong>what</strong> you become. None. Just keep in mind<br />
that if your reading this (or wrote this), you probably
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don’t know sh*t.<br />
We all don’t know anything and we all have yet to<br />
live at ALL. I’ve hit this specific road block many times<br />
and it’s a good thing I KNOW the solution. I’ll prolly<br />
go smoke some more. never infer, keep hypothesising.<br />
it's life.<br />
“All experience is an arch to build upon.”<br />
- Henry B. Adams<br />
don't do drugs.<br />
I But I wonder how they feel. I wonder if they<br />
really do make you happy. Is it worth it? Is it worth that<br />
moment, when you get to forget?<br />
If it does, maybe it is worth a try. Maybe all this<br />
pressure we get for straight A's, 2400s on the SAT, and<br />
keeping a social life can be cured by it.<br />
I'm probably not going to do drugs. I don't have the<br />
balls to, and I'll probably end up hurting myself somehow.<br />
But a girl can dare to dream, right? To dream of a<br />
moment when she can forget everything.<br />
~ ~ ~<br />
I've never smoked pot before, but I know a bunch<br />
of people definitely do smoke it. For those of you<br />
who I am referring to, and you know who you are,<br />
please do not smoke during school. Save it for the<br />
weekends, because to be honest, pot smells like sh*t,<br />
and I do not want to breathe in that stench while you<br />
are sitting next to me in class. It does not even seem<br />
fair that you get to feel high and happy, while I only get<br />
to feel nauseous. Furthermore, when you smell bad, I<br />
smell bad. Do you know? Because clothing ABSORBS<br />
smells. And I do not want to smell like pot, though you<br />
treat it like your cologne of choice. Be considerate is all<br />
I ask. If it is absolutely necessary for you to be stoned<br />
to feel good, then pick an odorless drug, for god's sake.<br />
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Tamara Wade LCSW is a therapist<br />
with a private practice in Los<br />
Gatos serving teens, families and<br />
women. In addition, Ms. Wade is<br />
employed by the County of Santa<br />
Clara Alcohol and Drug Services,<br />
Children Family and Community<br />
Services division. The focus is providing<br />
services to Adolescent girls<br />
and their families. Ms. Wade has<br />
extensive training in substance use<br />
and abuse, trauma, families, and<br />
mental health disorders.<br />
You can contact Ms. Wade at<br />
twadetherapy.com for information<br />
or services.<br />
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Controlled Substances March 2012<br />
Tamara Wade,<br />
LCSW<br />
This subject of Controlled Substances submitted to <strong>Aletheia</strong> seemed to be a<br />
very spirited debate/discussion full of opinions, admissions, negative and positive<br />
influences, need for development of healthy coping skills and a clear thread<br />
of students stating either way, they did not want to be judged. As I read through<br />
the submissions with the group and over the next several days after the meeting<br />
with the group from <strong>Aletheia</strong>, one thing is clear that there is no consensus<br />
among the submissions. I appreciated the candidness of the submissions and<br />
hopefully this article will provide you with information and resources in order<br />
for you to make an informed decision of whether or not to use controlled substances.<br />
In addition, to provide students and parents with clear and appropriate<br />
information and resources.<br />
I am sure most teens know that their parents do not want them to use drugs<br />
or alcohol, as it may have a negative effect on your current and future decisions.<br />
I am also sure that most of you know using drugs and drinking alcohol is illegal.<br />
I am also sure that most of you know on some level that using substances<br />
can have an effect on your physical and emotional health in some way. I am<br />
also thinking that the majority of students at this school have chosen not to use<br />
substances of any kind for many of these reasons.<br />
The bulk of the submissions to <strong>Aletheia</strong> spoke to using marijuana, alcohol<br />
and tobacco. These three substances are the most commonly used among adolescents.<br />
The reasons for the use of these three substances vary from availability,<br />
peer acceptance, popular cultural influence and curiosity. Throughout this article<br />
I will encourage all of you to use an open mind.<br />
Why would someone choose to use substances? In addition to reasons listed<br />
above, basically substances are mood altering and make us feel good. Substances<br />
affect neurotransmitters in the brain. Not only do drugs make us feel good<br />
but also they sometimes help people escape for a brief period of time, have fun<br />
with their friends, and satisfy a curiosity. All drugs that are addicting (yes I<br />
am including marijuana as it is possible to become addicted) can activate the<br />
brain’s pleasure circuit. So <strong>what</strong> happens if you use drugs for a long period of<br />
time? This causes changes in the brain in fundamental and lasting ways. Problems<br />
with memory, concentration, and judgment have been associated with all<br />
drugs, including marijuana and alcohol. When someone becomes addicted,<br />
they cannot control their use any longer, use for longer periods than intended,<br />
experience withdrawal symptoms and continue to use despite negative consequences.<br />
For teens these negative consequences may include declining academic<br />
performance, change in mood or behavior, negative peer associations, loss<br />
of important relationships, family issues, depression, anxiety or other mental<br />
health issues. It should be noted that casual users of substances could experience<br />
a lot of these negative consequences as well.<br />
Education:<br />
What do we mean by controlled substances? A controlled substance is generally<br />
a drug or chemical whose manufacture, possession, or use are regulated<br />
by a government. Controlled substances are substances that are the subject of<br />
legislative control. This may include illegal drugs and prescription medications.<br />
I will also include alcohol into this discussion and although it is not considered<br />
a controlled substance by the DEA, it has a high potential for abuse.
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Marijuana: Marijuana is a mixture of the dried and shredded leaves, stems,<br />
seeds, and flowers of the cannabis sativa plant. Marijuana’s strength or potency<br />
is related to the amount of THC it contains. Some people mistakenly believe that<br />
“everybody’s doing it” and use that as a reason to start using marijuana themselves.<br />
According to NIDA’s 2010 Monitoring the Future study, about 8 percent of<br />
8th graders, 17 percent of 10th graders, and 21 percent of 12th graders had used<br />
marijuana in the month before the survey. In fact, marijuana use declined from<br />
the late 1990s through 2007, with a decrease in past-year use of more than 20 percent<br />
in all three grades combined from 2000 to 2007. (drugabuse.org).<br />
Alcohol: We know you’ve heard how dangerous drinking alcohol is, especially<br />
if you’re underage. You might even hear from those who pressure you at parties<br />
and out-of-school gatherings that “everyone’s doing it.” But the truth is, not everyone’s<br />
doing it—take it from the scientists who know. NIDA’s 2010 Monitoring<br />
the Future Survey of teen drug use and attitudes shows that alcohol use, especially<br />
among 12th graders, declined significantly in the past year. The large annual study<br />
notes that alcohol use among 12th graders is now at the lowest reported percentage<br />
since the study began in 1975 (drugabuse.org).<br />
Tobacco: In 2010, rates for smoking in the past month were reported as 19.2<br />
percent for 12th graders, 13.6 percent for 10th graders, and 7.1 percent for 8th<br />
graders (drugabuse.org).<br />
For parents:<br />
How do you talk to your teens about drugs and alcohol? It is very important to<br />
keep an open line of communication with your teen. Usually parents are the first<br />
to notice changes in their teen and may be hesitant to talk with them about the<br />
changes. Your teen may be frustrated with you, however they will certainly thank<br />
you later. Parental involvement is the single most important factor in determining<br />
whether or not teens use substances. So parents do not underestimate your influence<br />
on your children.<br />
When to seek help? If you notice any changes, negative consequences as listed<br />
above, had your teen admit they are using or have seen them under the influence.<br />
All of these may be signs that your teen needs help. Is it time to panic? Absolutely<br />
not, call a professional for a consultation; go online for information, or look to<br />
your school, which may have counseling resources available on campus.<br />
For teens:<br />
Think about the effect substances will have on your physical and emotional<br />
health, how it will fit in with your image, how it will effect your relationships with<br />
others, how will drugs and alcohol interfere with your academic performance,<br />
and your ability to participate in sports or other clubs on campus. If you are already<br />
using and want to stop, you may be able to do so on your own. However if<br />
you are having difficulty stopping, you can talk to a parent or responsible adult in<br />
order to seek help.<br />
Use positive coping skills: participate in substance free activities with friends,<br />
choose friends that don’t use, do fun things that make you happy, act your age,<br />
stay focused at school and on your future goals.<br />
What if you think a friend is in trouble? Talk to your friend, talk to a responsible<br />
adult, talk to a counselor, or talk to a teacher.<br />
I would like to thank all of the students who submitted to <strong>Aletheia</strong>. I hope this<br />
article was not only informative but will provide a conversation for parents and<br />
teens.<br />
Additional<br />
Resources<br />
National Institute on Drug<br />
Abuse<br />
www.nida.com<br />
National Institute on Alcohol<br />
and Drug Addiction<br />
www.niaaa<br />
Substance Abuse and Mental<br />
Health Services Act<br />
www.samhsa<br />
Santa Clara County Department<br />
of Alcohol and Drug<br />
Services<br />
www.sccdads.org<br />
Palo Alto Medical Foundation<br />
www.pamf.org<br />
Parents the Anti-Drug<br />
www.theantidrug.com<br />
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