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<strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong><br />
Ramakrishna <strong>Math</strong><br />
<strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong><br />
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Ramakrishna <strong>Math</strong><br />
<strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong><br />
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SWAMI PRAMEYANANDA<br />
As is well known, the partition of India in 1947 brought in its wake<br />
communal disturbances on a massive scale in various parts of the country.<br />
The small town of Karimganj in Assam on the Bangladesh border (then<br />
East Pakistan) played host in 1950 to thousands of hapless refugees from<br />
across the border. At the earnest request of the government, the Karimganj<br />
centre of the Ramakrishna Mission undertook refugee relief work. <strong>Swami</strong><br />
Gopeshwarananda, head of the centre, deputed his able assistant <strong>Swami</strong><br />
Shivaramananda to take charge of the relief operations. With <strong>Swami</strong>s<br />
Prathamananda, Udgeethananda, and Ekananda (who were all brahmacharins<br />
then), and youthful volunteers from the local schools and colleges, relief<br />
activities proceeded in right earnest. Though many jobs had to be attended<br />
to, the main tasks were to bring truckloads of displaced people from the<br />
East Pakistan border to the sprawling makeshift bamboo shelters, supply<br />
drinking water, arrange for sanitation, distribute food coupons, and last but<br />
not the least, provide medical help wherever necessary. Among the many<br />
volunteers was one thinly built, fair complexioned student who was working<br />
enthusiastically with the team without respite. Word soon spread that this<br />
shy lad had passed the matriculation examination. On learning of this <strong>Swami</strong><br />
Shivaramananda, camp-in-charge, asked the boy to go back home and try<br />
for college admission. The dejected boy had to reluctantly trudge back<br />
home (which was close to the Karimganj centre). He conveyed to his parents<br />
that he had no more interest in studies and that he had decided the path<br />
he wanted to tread in life. Soon after, he came and confided to <strong>Swami</strong><br />
Gopeshwarananda that he wanted to join the Order.<br />
This lad was later to be <strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong>, one of the Vice-Presidents<br />
of the Ramakrishna Order. Ramgopal Bhattacharya was his earlier<br />
name; he was born in April 1933 in the village of Kani-shail (Dhakadakhin<br />
section) in Sylhet district of today’s Bangladesh—the place of Chaitanya<br />
Mahaprabhu’s ancestry. His parents Sasadhar Bhattacharya and Nistarini<br />
Devi were quite orthodox. His father would not touch food or drink without<br />
first finishing the Narayana-shila puja. Ramgopal was endearingly called<br />
“Gopal” in the family. He manifested a religious temperament even from<br />
very early days; he attended to the Narayana-shila puja at their home soon<br />
after he was invested with the sacred thread (upanayana). His mother<br />
Nistarini Devi was noted for her magnanimity, forbearance, compassion<br />
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and helping nature. Gifted with ample fortitude, she would face life’s trials<br />
and tribulations smilingly. On many an occasion she parted with her meal<br />
to feed a hungry guest. The boy Ramgopal imbibed many of his noble<br />
parents’ noble qualities. His Sylhet days he utilized equally for studies and<br />
religious rituals.<br />
Having been displaced from his roots in Sylhet, Sasadhar Bhattacharya<br />
settled in a rented house in Karimganj and, despite dire poverty, displayed<br />
his unshakeable faith in Divine Providence. Ramgopal was the sixth of<br />
eight brothers and had two younger sisters. He could study up to class eight<br />
in the Dhakadakhin High School at Sylhet and now got admitted to the<br />
Government High School in Karimganj.<br />
As it turned out, all the seven friends of Ramgopal who participated in the<br />
relief operations embraced the monastic life and thus earned for <strong>Swami</strong><br />
Shivaramananda the reputation as a child-lifting sadhu. To sustain the relief<br />
operations, a large pot would be kept in every house in the locality. Every<br />
day the lady of the house would deposit one fistful of rice in the pot; the<br />
pots would be collected on the seventh day and the rice thus collected<br />
would be utilized to feed the residents of the relief camp.<br />
Since he had completed his schooling by now, his elder brothers were eager<br />
to get Ramgopal admitted to college. However, young Ramgopal was lost<br />
in thoughts of Sri Ramakrishna and the Ramakrishna Mission. The affection<br />
of the sadhus at the Karimganj centre too seemed to draw him like a magnet.<br />
The world lost its charm for him. He opened his heart to his eldest sisterin-law<br />
and without much ado renounced hearth and home to join the Mission<br />
in 1951. His parents were naturally heart broken; but, fortunately for<br />
Ramgopal, his eldest brother wrote to their parents that if indeed one of<br />
their children could become a monk, it would be a boon to fourteen<br />
generations of the family. The sadhus at the Karimganj centre too played<br />
their part in consoling the doting parents and assured them that Ramgopal’s<br />
further education was now the Mission’s responsibility.<br />
<strong>Swami</strong> Gopeshwarananda welcomed young Ramgopal to the Ramakrishna<br />
Mission with open arms; he was asked to continue his work in the relief<br />
camp. As the disturbances lessened and normalcy was returning, many of<br />
the camp residents were being settled in various parts of the country. The<br />
settlers had to be issued identity coupons for this. It was no easy job;<br />
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Ramgopal poured his heart out in this operation of distributing coupons to<br />
about 56,000 persons. The relief work also now took a new turn: for those<br />
who could not (or did not want to) move elsewhere, the government<br />
requested the Ramakrishna Mission to undertake a massive rehabilitation<br />
project. For this, in the district of Cachar, about 30-35 miles away from<br />
Karimganj, a land mass measuring 10 x 3 miles was earmarked at Sunbill.<br />
Developing the area took about three years of rigorous labour for the monks<br />
and volunteers. The entire area was occupied by muslims prior to partition;<br />
now Kaivarta Brahmins from the neighbouring Habiganj were being settled<br />
here. Slowly the settlement grew into a vibrant town.<br />
<strong>Swami</strong> Udgeethananda reminisces about those days: “The work was carried<br />
out with the help of seven boats as large as houses. Sometimes the waves<br />
would be so huge that we would be scared to stay on board. Preeti Maharaj<br />
(<strong>Swami</strong> Prathamananda) would be at the helm. Surprisingly Ramgopal had<br />
learnt to manouvre the rudder with much skill. We were much older than<br />
them (and also, we thought ourselves more daring) but without Ramgopal<br />
holding the rudder we would not use the boats.”<br />
An important incident occurred at this time. <strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda, then<br />
one of the Assistant Secretaries of the Ramakrishna <strong>Math</strong> and Ramakrishna<br />
Mission, came to the Sunbill site for inspection and stayed for several hours.<br />
Ramgopal undertook the responsibility of serving Maharaj at the site. His<br />
seva attitude was on display once again when, during the rehabilitation<br />
work, <strong>Swami</strong> Udgeethananda broke his arm and Ramgopal volunteered to<br />
feed him daily. From May 1951 to August 1953 Ramgopal participated in<br />
this relief and rehabilitation operation.<br />
A new life began when Ramgopal was thence transferred to Shillong centre.<br />
<strong>Swami</strong> Shankarananda, President of the Sangha, visited Shillong at that<br />
time to consecrate the marble statue of Sri Ramakrishna. Ramgopal received<br />
mantra diksha from him on this occasion. It may also be mentioned that he<br />
received brahmacharya vows and a new name Brahmachari Premeshachaitanya<br />
from <strong>Swami</strong> Shankarananda a little later in 1957. During this<br />
stay at Shillong, Ramgopal participated in the many ashrama activities like<br />
daily puja, Durga Puja, cooking, hostel supervision and fund collection. In<br />
addition to getting the guidance of <strong>Swami</strong> Saumyananda, head of Shillong<br />
centre, he also had the opportunity of working with seniors like <strong>Swami</strong><br />
Gahanananda (later the 14 th President of the Order) and <strong>Swami</strong> Bhavyananda.<br />
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From <strong>Swami</strong> Gahanananda he specially learnt to look after sick employees<br />
about whom the swami would say “Are they too not our brothers?” He<br />
stayed in Shillong up to 1960. He was also fortunate to once do Kumari<br />
Puja at the Kamakhya temple (Guwahati) on the initiative and under the<br />
supervision of <strong>Swami</strong> Vishuddhananda.<br />
For a few months in 1960-61 he was assigned to Tamluk centre. Afterwards,<br />
owing to health problems he was brought to <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong>. However, doctors<br />
could not diagnose his ailment; his condition was such that he could<br />
eat nothing more than two biscuits daily. Around this time <strong>Swami</strong><br />
Yatiswarananda came to <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> from Bangalore and was worried to<br />
see his poor health. He requested his disciple Dr. Sanat Sarkar of South<br />
Kolkata to treat this young brahmacharin. Next he requested the then<br />
Secretary of the Institute of Culture to host Ramgopal at the Gol Park centre<br />
for ease of treatment. Meanwhile, Sri Ramakrishna’s tithi puja in 1961 was<br />
fast approaching; all were wondering whether Ramgopal would be fit<br />
enough for the sannyasa ceremony. Fortunately Dr. Sarkar successfully<br />
treated him, and subsequently Br. Premeshachaitanya got sannyasa and the<br />
name <strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong> from his diksha guru <strong>Swami</strong> Shankarananda<br />
in 1961. From April 1961 he served <strong>Swami</strong> Yatiswarananda for a few<br />
months. He was then posted to headquarters office. During that time he<br />
stayed at the headquarters’ building with <strong>Swami</strong>s Gitananda, Mahananda<br />
and others.<br />
On the Ekadashi day after Durga Puja in 1965, the ninth President of the<br />
Sangha, <strong>Swami</strong> Madhavananda, attained Mahasamadhi. <strong>Swami</strong><br />
Vireswarananda succeeded him as the tenth President in February 1966.<br />
At that time <strong>Swami</strong> Premeshananda (Holy Mother’s disciple) was staying<br />
at Varanasi. <strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda went to Varanasi to meet him and took<br />
<strong>Prameyananda</strong> with him. On returning from Varanasi, <strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong><br />
was made <strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda’s secretary. <strong>Prameyananda</strong>’s many noble<br />
qualities started manifesting after this. Many devotees came to understand<br />
and appreciate the ideas and ideals of the Ramakrishna Movement during<br />
<strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda’s tenure as President. <strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong>’s<br />
sharp intellect, good memory, sense of humour and sweet but firm dealings<br />
contributed in no small measure to this.<br />
<strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda relied totally on <strong>Prameyananda</strong> for diksha dates,<br />
places, candidates and travel modes. And <strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong> too always<br />
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lived up to Vireswarananda’s expectations in this regard. Many sevaks<br />
came and went but <strong>Prameyananda</strong> stuck to his post through rain and shine,<br />
never going on pilgrimage or for tapasya. His young shoulders carried<br />
a mature head and he always had an air of seriousness about him, his<br />
lightheartedness notwithstanding. His unbroken stay with Prabhu Maharaj<br />
(<strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda) enabled him to familiarize himself with the tasks<br />
of the Sangha’s President and Vice-Presidents. He had the rare gift of<br />
conveying harsh truths sweetly. He was very disciplined in his work and<br />
always very punctual. Not the one to waste anything of Thakur’s, he would<br />
correspond wherever possible through postcards or inland letters. Once an<br />
inland letter was used to reply to a devotee’s inland. At this he remarked,<br />
“You could have used a postcard rather than the inland letter. Learn to be<br />
thrifty. Whatever you can save can be used for Thakur’s seva.” He would<br />
write on the inner portions of used envelopes rather than use fresh paper.<br />
He was known for his brief but complete replies; brevity of speech was<br />
one of his hallmarks. He was also instrumental in arranging for interactions<br />
between the Training Centre brahmacharins with President Maharaj.<br />
On the 13 March 1985, <strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda attained Mahasamadhi.<br />
<strong>Prameyananda</strong> then for the first time ventured on a pilgrimage to the<br />
Himalayas. But he was very soon called back by the <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> authorities<br />
and sent to Baghbazar <strong>Math</strong>, Kolkata, as editor of Udbodhan the Bengali<br />
journal of the Order. He served in this capacity from November 1985 to<br />
September 1987. The editorials of the Udbodhan during this period bear<br />
ample testimony to his mastery of the Bengali language. He was an expert<br />
in tracing the source of the quotations cited by various writers. It was during<br />
this time that Vishwa-chetanaaye Sri Ramakrishna was published as a part<br />
of Sri Ramakrishna’s 150 th birthday celebrations. He has authored two<br />
books in Bengali: (a) Seva-adarshe Ramakrishnananda, and (b) Puja Vijnan.<br />
Some errors of omission and commission noticed in the first edition of<br />
<strong>Swami</strong> Shankaranandajir jeevanee o smriti Katha were rectified by<br />
<strong>Prameyananda</strong> before the second edition was published.<br />
His Udbodhan days were cheerfully spent in the company of monastic<br />
brothers and devotees. He was known always for not losing his temper.<br />
He was ever keen to finish the task at hand promptly, without keeping<br />
any work pending. He also strengthened the financial position of the<br />
Udbodhan. He was one of the pioneers in organizing the National Youth<br />
Day programmes.<br />
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In April 1987 <strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong> was made a trustee of the Ramakrishna<br />
<strong>Math</strong> and a member of the Governing Body of the Ramakrishna Mission.<br />
In September of the same year he came to stay at <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> as its manager.<br />
Subsequently, in March 1997 he was made treasurer of the <strong>Math</strong> and the<br />
Mission.<br />
As manager he spent a long twenty-two years at the <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> and was<br />
associated with a variety of programmes relating to the <strong>Math</strong> and the<br />
Mission. All through his life he maintained a strict routine of rising early,<br />
doing japa and meditation, making pranams at the various shrines, and<br />
attending to his office work. Every morning he would assign the daily tasks<br />
to the section heads. Over the years the number of devotees coming to<br />
<strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> kept on increasing. <strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong> was responsible for<br />
bringing about comprehensive changes in the arrangements for prasad<br />
distribution, contributing to the convenience of devotees. Under his able<br />
supervision, the centenary of the Chicago Parliament of Religions and that<br />
of the Ramakrishna Mission were celebrated at <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> in 1994 and<br />
1998. Always a votary for a change for the better, he would never lose<br />
sight of the Sangha’s traditions in this regard. The new Training Centre<br />
for brahmacharins, the Water Treatment Plant, Sadhu Niwas for visiting<br />
monks, renovation of the guesthouse for devotees, construction of the<br />
Sanskriti Bhawan (Cultural Hall) and shifting the Ramakrishna Museum<br />
to its new building were some of the noteworthy projects undertaken during<br />
his time. The Ramakrishna Sangha has always had a tradition of devotional<br />
singing. In keeping with this tradition, he appointed music teachers for the<br />
brahmacharins of Training Centre and also kept a room free for daily music<br />
practice after evening meditation.<br />
He always encouraged planting of trees and plants which help to maintain<br />
a serene ashrama atmosphere. His ever watchful gaze would help the timely<br />
treatment of diseased trees. He would express displeasure if trees or plants<br />
were cut or felled without any reason. He knew the name of every plant and<br />
tree in <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> and the history behind them. As at the Udbodhan, at<br />
<strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> also he contributed in substantial measure to strengthening the<br />
<strong>Math</strong>’s financial base. Needless to say, the goodwill of numberless devotees<br />
that he built over his long stay at <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> stood him in good stead in<br />
this regard. In many an adverse situation and in his dealings with monastics<br />
of various backgrounds, cultures, nationalities and temperaments, and the<br />
<strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong>’s army of volunteers, he displayed ample fortitude and adroitness.<br />
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He cherished great shraddha for the elders of the Order, and so also for the<br />
holy traditions of the Sangha. Rather than giving his own solution to a<br />
vexed problem, he would narrate an incident from the life of the Sangha’s<br />
stalwarts, especially <strong>Swami</strong>s Premeshananda, Saumyananda, Yatiswarananda,<br />
Vishuddhananda and, above all, <strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda, to shed light thereon.<br />
Those who had the privilege to work closely with <strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong><br />
could not fail to marvel at his forbearance. When faced with any challenge<br />
or a differing viewpoint, he would never give vent to his frustration or<br />
anger but would deal with it as a matter of routine. An incident that occurred<br />
at Shillong is worth recalling in this respect. A sannyasin at that centre<br />
had once not done the work assigned to him at which <strong>Prameyananda</strong><br />
expressed his displeasure. After a little while, the concerned monk went<br />
to <strong>Prameyananda</strong>’s room and was surprised to find the swami who had<br />
been upset just a little while ago, quietly reading Dharma Prasange<br />
Brahmananda (The Eternal Companion). Seeing him <strong>Prameyananda</strong> simply<br />
remarked, “Come, come,” as if nothing had happened.<br />
Gifted with a keen sense of humour, he could easily wriggle out of unpleasant<br />
situations and mix freely with the young and old alike. As manager of <strong>Belur</strong><br />
<strong>Math</strong> he saw to it that all sadhus and brahmacharins closed the office in<br />
time and attended the evening aarti. If anyone was found at his job or<br />
in the pantry, Maharaj would ask, “Have you given up your religious<br />
aspirations?”<br />
Once a sadhu was going for Ganga-bath with a towel thrown over his<br />
shoulder. Maharaj was coming from the opposite direction. The sadhu<br />
asked Maharaj, “Won’t you go for Ganga-snan?” And immediately Maharaj<br />
replied, “I have not committed any sin.” The sadhus present burst out<br />
laughing. This notwithstanding, on special occasions he would bathe in the<br />
Ganga, especially before and after a lunar or solar eclipse. He once joked<br />
with a monk of almost his own age, “Dada, you do receive a lot of Pranami!<br />
Let me make a suggestion. Deposit all your pranami in a box and lock it,<br />
but keep the keys with me!”<br />
During <strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda’s tenure as President of the Sangha, many<br />
of the branches of the <strong>Math</strong> and Mission were not financially strong. So,<br />
before visiting any branch for giving mantra diksha, he would instruct<br />
Ramgopal Maharaj to carry necessary items from <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong>. Accordingly,<br />
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Ramgopal Maharaj would even carry items like tea leaves, sugar, etc from<br />
the <strong>Math</strong>; while returning from such centres Prabhu Maharaj would donate<br />
some amount from his personal pranami. <strong>Prameyananda</strong> also followed this<br />
practice during his Vice-Presidentship.<br />
We have seen above how <strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong> stuck to his daily routine.<br />
Meeting the President of the Sangha daily and enquiring about his welfare<br />
was part of this routine. He would also daily meet the office-bearers (the<br />
General Secretary and the four Assistant Secretaries) to exchange notes.<br />
A daily walk from <strong>Swami</strong>ji’s room to <strong>Swami</strong>ji’s temple was part of his<br />
afternoon routine.<br />
As manager of <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong>, he saw four Presidents of the Order attain<br />
Mahasamadhi; such events would make him indrawn and he would seem<br />
to lose all interest in work. After Gambhirananda’s Mahasamadhi he<br />
remarked, “It was as if he had brought the military discipline from the army<br />
to the Sangha.” (It was well known that <strong>Swami</strong> Gambhirananda was a<br />
strict disciplinarian.) Again after <strong>Swami</strong> Bhuteshananda’s departure he<br />
commented, “It seems I have lost my mother for the second time!” After<br />
<strong>Swami</strong> Ranganathananda’s passing away, a youth from Digboi came and<br />
requested <strong>Prameyananda</strong> for late President Maharaj’s footprints. At this<br />
<strong>Prameyananda</strong> remarked in a sorrowful voice, “I have lost interest in<br />
everything now.” The words were uttered with so much of feeling that all<br />
could sense that they had indeed lost their guardian angel. And lastly, after<br />
<strong>Swami</strong> Gahanananda’s passing he remarked, “From him one should learn<br />
how to love the Sangha.”<br />
<strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong> knew the details and intricacies of Thakur Seva and<br />
kept himself well informed in this regard. He would very often talk of the<br />
one-pointed dedication of an earlier Thakur bhandari, <strong>Swami</strong> Diptananda<br />
(Prabodh Maharaj, a disciple of Mahapurush Maharaj). Once he asked a<br />
brahmacharin engaged in Thakur Seva, “How is your work going on? Do<br />
you get some prasad daily?” On getting no reply from the brahmacharin,<br />
he instructed the monk in charge of prasad distribution to give some prasad<br />
daily to all sadhus and brahmacharins engaged in Thakur Seva in the shrine.<br />
For the past several years he was the acharya for the brahmacharya and<br />
sannyasa ceremonies. He would take the brahmacharya classes with deep<br />
feeling.<br />
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<strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong> was a member of the Committee formed at <strong>Belur</strong><br />
<strong>Math</strong> for re-arranging <strong>Swami</strong>ji’s Complete Works.<br />
When Marie Louise Burke (Sister Gargi) had completed her marathon work<br />
<strong>Swami</strong> Vivekananda in America—New Discoveries, <strong>Prameyananda</strong> was<br />
very keen to get the books translated into Bengali. He entrusted the translation<br />
of the first volume to Nalini Ranjan Chatterjee.<br />
He was keen to know details about other countries in the world and would<br />
often study maps of different nations and always kept a globe close at hand.<br />
To further the Sangha’s work he visited many countries like Russia, the<br />
USA, Canada, Japan, Singapore, Mauritius, Brazil, Argentina, Uruguay<br />
and several countries in Europe. When in America he was once requested<br />
to address the audience at a centre. He then spoke earnestly about the early<br />
days at <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong>. He referred to <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> in that speech as the Vatican<br />
and the White House put together; the Vatican because <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> was a<br />
spiritual storehouse and the White House because <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> was also the<br />
pioneer in the practice of ‘Service to man is Worship of God’.<br />
Daily study was an integral part of his routine; he would feel out of sorts<br />
if he could not do some reading on any day. Possessed of wonderful retention<br />
capacity, he would often surprise some young monk by commenting<br />
objectively on an article authored by the latter, which he had come across<br />
in some magazine. He always encouraged people to write on a variety of<br />
topics. It had been a tradition in the Ramakrishna Sangha to restrict one’s<br />
writing to Sri Ramakrishna, the Holy Mother, <strong>Swami</strong>ji and the other direct<br />
disciples. However, acknowledging that this could create a void in the<br />
future about the history of the Sangha, <strong>Prameyananda</strong> encouraged others<br />
to write about other senior swamis of the Order also. With this encouragement,<br />
Dr. Satchidananda Dhar compiled a volume titled Sannyasir Smriti.<br />
After serving as manager of <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> for long twenty-two years, <strong>Swami</strong><br />
<strong>Prameyananda</strong> was made a Vice-President of the Sangha on 27 February<br />
2009. He continued to serve the Sangha in this capacity till his last breath.<br />
In his role as Vice-President he gave mantra diksha to 13,066 aspirants.<br />
The first initiation was given to 45 seekers at Jayrambati on 22 April 2009<br />
and the last one to 93 persons at Rajarhat (the birthplace of <strong>Swami</strong><br />
Niranjanananda) on 24 May 2011. Four of his initiated young men joined<br />
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the Ramakrishna Order during his lifetime. His initiated disciples include<br />
3 non-Indians, 7 khasis, and 1 person from a scheduled tribe in Arunachal<br />
Pradesh. Two non-Hindus have also taken diksha from him.<br />
He toured Bangladesh from 20 October to 27 November 2009 giving<br />
initiation to 1871 candidates in the branches of the Sangha at Chittagong,<br />
Comilla, Dhaka, Dinajpur, Mymensingh, Narayanganj and Sylhet.<br />
In November 2010 he complained of acute chest pain and had to undergo<br />
angioplasty. Since this did not reduce his pain, Coronary Artery By-pass<br />
Grafting (CABG) surgery had to be performed on 18 June 2011. Ever since<br />
he experienced the first pain in the chest, he had an intuitive feeling that<br />
his work was drawing to an end. Even when others were unaware of his<br />
serious condition, <strong>Prameyananda</strong> was sure that his health was fast<br />
deteriorating. A swami from Gujarat said to Maharaj in 2010, “Maharaj,<br />
we are eagerly waiting for you. Please come to Vadodara.” Maharaj simply<br />
replied, “Let’s see if the body lasts till then.” In September 2011 the editor<br />
of the Udbodhan came to see him. Maharaj said to him, “Hello! How are<br />
you? I have seen the Puja edition and have read a part of it. It has come out<br />
well. I wonder whether I will be able to read it fully.”<br />
Maharaj enjoyed a few bouts of good health, notwithstanding his occasional<br />
suffering on account of hypoxaemia (diminished oxygen in the blood). On<br />
9 October 2011, just two days after Vijaya Dashmi, he was admitted to the<br />
Seva Pratishthan hospital in a serious condition. He then remarked, “I could<br />
come to the <strong>Math</strong> and see the Durga Puja.” On the 11 October his breathing<br />
was helped with the aid of a device which helps to breathe in oxygen and<br />
also to breathe out carbon dioxide. On 17 October he was put on ventilator.<br />
His health was steadily sinking and the end came at 8.25 am on 20 October.<br />
An early morning bath (around 3 am) was his lifelong habit. So much so,<br />
that even during his last illness at Seva Pratishthan he asked his sevak to<br />
bathe him around that time. When the sevak argued against this, Maharaj<br />
said, “This body will not last forever. I want to hold on to at least one<br />
practice until the last. Won’t you allow me to do even this much?” After<br />
a while when his body was sponged, he gave a contented smile.<br />
As Holy Mother has said, Sri Ramakrishna’s crown jewel was renunciation.<br />
This virtue seemed to manifest spontaneously in <strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong>.<br />
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Humility was second nature to him. Going slowly but steadily was his trait.<br />
A gentleman to the core, he never spoke loudly but always slowly and<br />
softly. Owing to his firmness, no one dared to speak lightly or irrelevantly<br />
in his presence. By a mere glance he could silence people. An interesting<br />
incident brings out some of his qualities. A brahmacharin from <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong><br />
was to be sent to Barasat to perform Durga Puja. He did not want to go and<br />
therefore said that the devotees there create a lot of difficulties. He was<br />
brought to the presence of <strong>Prameyananda</strong>. Maharaj simply asked him, “Is<br />
it not our responsibility to take care of the birthplace of one of Thakur’s<br />
direct disciples?” When the brahmacharin answered, “Yes, it is our<br />
responsibility,” Maharaj simply said, “Then go.”<br />
One of the senior monks narrated the following reminiscences: (a) I first<br />
saw <strong>Prameyananda</strong> at Sargachhi centre. He and <strong>Swami</strong> Bhaskarananda<br />
(both of whom were brahmacharins then) had been sent there by <strong>Swami</strong><br />
Saumyananda of Shillong to meet <strong>Swami</strong> Premeshananda. I had the occasion<br />
to be present when they put many questions to Premeshananda. The questions<br />
clearly showed that both the boys were quite keen to lead ideal monastic<br />
lives.<br />
(b) In 1972 I sent a letter written on birch bark (Bhurjya patra) from<br />
Gangotri to <strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda, the then President of the Order. I did<br />
not expect any reply. But <strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong> sent me an encouraging<br />
reply signed by President Maharaj.<br />
(c) Once a young sannyasin who had been just assigned to serve the then<br />
President Maharaj, approached me and asked, “What are the things I should<br />
be careful about in sadhu life?” I replied, “You go to Ramgopal Maharaj.<br />
He has served <strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda for many years and has been very<br />
particular to keep his monastic life untarnished. This is worth emulating.<br />
Go to him; he will answer all your queries.”<br />
<strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong> was very actively involved in Ramakrishna-<br />
Vivekananda Bhava Prachar activities. Through the member-ashramas of<br />
Bhava Prachar Parishads, he was ever keen to spread the teachings of<br />
Thakur, Maa, and <strong>Swami</strong>ji, for character-building. This concept of Bhava<br />
Prachar was <strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda’s brainchild, and <strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong><br />
inherited Prabhu Maharaj’s enthusiasm in this regard. <strong>Prameyananda</strong> was<br />
always full of encouragement for people involved in Prachar activities.<br />
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And having been associated with <strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda for a long time<br />
he knew many of the Sangha’s devotees of long standing which helped the<br />
cause of Bhava Prachar.<br />
Just like <strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda, <strong>Prameyananda</strong> also was an ardent champion<br />
of relief and Pallimangal activities. An initiated lady devotee of <strong>Swami</strong><br />
Vireswarananda had started the Pallimangal Sarada Samity at <strong>Belur</strong>.<br />
<strong>Prameyananda</strong> helped her in whatever way possible and would tell her, “It<br />
is difficult for sadhus to work for women’s welfare. Such work should be<br />
done by women. You must make poor women competent to stand on their<br />
own feet.”<br />
<strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> was very dear to him. So long as he was manager of the <strong>Math</strong><br />
he would keep a watchful eye on everything. He had come to identify<br />
himself with the <strong>Math</strong> and this would be reflected in his behaviour and<br />
talk. One could talk with him freely on any topic, and even suggestions<br />
from juniors would be well received.<br />
Whenever he talked about the earlier days at <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong>, his face would<br />
be flushed. He would say, “How many senior sadhus I have seen! During<br />
our early days the <strong>Math</strong> was full of the disciples Holy Mother and those<br />
of Thakur’s direct disciples.” <strong>Prameyananda</strong> would always tell devotees,<br />
“Don’t forget to visit <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong>. Whether I am here or not does not matter.<br />
You must come and see Thakur in the <strong>Math</strong>.” He has shown through his<br />
life how one should live at <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong>.<br />
He had studied a number of books on the Tantra to understand scriptural<br />
prescriptions regarding puja and was an adept in ritualistic worship. He<br />
was alert to the details of all special pujas at the <strong>Math</strong>.<br />
In 2001 the Durga Puja at <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> was shifted from Thakur’s temple<br />
to the eastern lawn for the convenience of thousands of devotees. At this<br />
some sadhus commented that this would reduce the solemnity of the puja.<br />
To this <strong>Prameyananda</strong> replied, “Why will the solemnity be reduced? Can’t<br />
we through our prayers to Mother and through japa convert the Pandal<br />
itself into a temple?” Once he said to a pujari, “Look, devotion and spirit<br />
of puja are more important than mantras and formalities.” He considered<br />
puja to be an essential part of sadhana. He would often say that the newly<br />
joined brahmacharins should be engaged in worship or in the shrine bhandar.<br />
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He would always point out that in our Sangha, all puja traditions are linked<br />
to Thakur’s puja. This should be remembered when doing Durga Puja and<br />
the like. Our Sangha traditions should prevail all the time. Two examples<br />
will suffice to illustrate the meaning of this.<br />
(1) In Durga Puja, the bodhan ceremony has to be performed in the evening<br />
on shashti tithi. But in our Sangha this is invariably done after Thakur’s<br />
evening aarti, when it is almost night and not evening. Technically this<br />
goes against scriptural injunctions. However, in our Sangha, Thakur is the<br />
Living Deity. Daily worship and evening aarti have been going on at regular<br />
timings for many years. In keeping with this tradition, the bodhan<br />
prescriptions are performed after Sri Ramakrishna’s evening service. Such<br />
departures notwithstanding, he was nonetheless a stickler to scriptural<br />
prescriptions. If for example the shashti tithi was available only for a short<br />
while after Thakur’s aarti, he would insist that all the bodhan rituals must<br />
be completed within that tithi itself.<br />
(2) At <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> and in many branches of the Sangha, Kali Puja is<br />
performed during the Deepanvita amaavasyaa night. This is as per the<br />
injunction in the Vishwasara-tantra. Though there is no sacrifice offered<br />
in the Sangha’s Kali Pujas, detailed nyasas, food offering, the homa<br />
(fire offering) are all performed in right earnest. This enables the puja<br />
to continue the whole night. The presence of many sadhus, brahmacharins<br />
and devotees, and the Kali Kirtan (singing of Mother’s songs) add to<br />
the solemnity of the occasion. The final offering of the homa ritual, the<br />
purnaahuti, is invariably done immediately after Thakur’s mangal-aarti.<br />
This is the practice that prevails almost every year. During some years<br />
it so happens that the amaavasyaa tithi lasts only up to 1 or 2 am. The<br />
scripture requires that all puja formalities have to be completed within<br />
this time. In such cases Maharaj, giving more weight to Sangha traditions,<br />
would say that it is important to do the purnaahuti and visarjana when<br />
the shrine of the established Deity (Thakur in our case) has been opened.<br />
The puja can be continued through the night as is done every year;<br />
otherwise many devotees who come to keep vigil at night would be<br />
inconvenienced.<br />
As a Vice-President of the Sangha, he became an inspiration to the youth.<br />
Many students of our Purulia centre and some from the Vidyamandir at<br />
<strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> received mantra diksha from him. Many times it was noticed<br />
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that at the <strong>Math</strong> several young boys, after finishing their pranams, would<br />
be sitting round him listening to some spiritual topic.<br />
He was always alert to speak the right things to the right persons. As a<br />
result young and old, whether monastic or lay, could all talk with him<br />
freely. Thus many came to him for his opinion on something, some came<br />
seeking consolation, some for solution to problems, and again some for<br />
spiritual guidance.<br />
As has already been said, Maharaj had great shraddha for the traditions of<br />
our Sangha. He would point out that these traditions had not been built all<br />
at once; they are the result of the sacrifices made by countless sadhus of<br />
the Order over the years. Many have heard from him that if one reflects on<br />
our Sangha’s unique traditions, one gets great help in spiritual life. He<br />
would say in this connection, “Just as you study the scriptures, you should<br />
also read about the early days of our Sangha.”<br />
He never liked sadhus going out of the <strong>Math</strong> after evening. One evening<br />
a sadhu said to him that he wanted to visit Dakshineswar. Maharaj<br />
commented, “Why do you want to go now in the evening? It is always<br />
good to go during the daytime.” Once he was in Seva Pratishthan hospital<br />
in a serious condition. Some young sadhus had come to see him late in the<br />
evening. Even in that condition he cautioned them, “It was not right on<br />
your part to leave the <strong>Math</strong> at this hour.”<br />
Once Maharaj was getting ready to go abroad. An identification tag was<br />
being pasted on his bag. He noticed that his name on the label was in large<br />
letters; the next line in smaller letters read “Ramakrishna <strong>Math</strong>.” And the<br />
third line containing the postal address was in still smaller letters. At this<br />
Maharaj commented, “Why so much importance to the name? The<br />
Ramakrishna <strong>Math</strong> and Ramakrishna Mission should always be in bold<br />
letters. Our names should be in smaller letters. How many people know<br />
us? We are respected only because we belong to the <strong>Math</strong> and Mission.”<br />
Maharaj had once come to visit a branch centre. A sadhu said to him,<br />
“Maharaj, our pressure of work has increased considerably. We hardly get<br />
any time for ourselves. How much more should I work?” And Maharaj<br />
smilingly replied, “When we left our homes to join the Sangha, we came<br />
to give the full 24 hours of each day to the <strong>Math</strong> and Mission. We did not<br />
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calculate that we would allot some time to the Sangha and keep some time<br />
for ourselves. Why does this thought arise now? Unless you can feel<br />
identified with the Sangha, you cannot feel joy. We must try to live ideal<br />
monastic lives. We should entertain only pure thoughts; we must struggle<br />
to attain purity. We must become one with the Sangha. That’s the secret.”<br />
He once said to a sadhu about karma yoga, “Karma yoga is supposed to<br />
reduce work. How is it that your work is increasing?” The person understood<br />
that if the job is done with full attention, one does not have to do it over<br />
again. Rectifying a job done haphazardly, and spending extra time for that,<br />
is equivalent to increase of work. That is not dexterity in work or karma<br />
yoga, but simply working.<br />
During his last illness, the <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> authorities decided to assign an extra<br />
sevak (assistant) to Maharaj. When asked what kind of sevak was required,<br />
Maharaj said, “It must be someone who can pour his heart into the work.<br />
He should willingly work 24 hours a day.”<br />
In the evening aarti at all centres of the <strong>Math</strong> and Mission, <strong>Swami</strong>ji’s<br />
composition Om Hrim Ritam…is repeated. There are two versions of some<br />
of the stanzas. Owing to this, Training Centre brahmacharins faced difficulties.<br />
To overcome this <strong>Prameyananda</strong> selected one version from the old edition<br />
books in the <strong>Math</strong> library and circulated this in the Training Centre. It is not<br />
known to many that Maharaj had in-depth knowledge of music; he could play<br />
the Pakhawaj quite well. All functions held at <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> start with an opening<br />
song and similarly there is also a closing song. Maharaj would always want<br />
to know which songs would be sung at any function.<br />
Many incidents reveal that Maharaj had a premonition that his end was fast<br />
approaching. On the evening of Mahalaya a young sadhu from <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong>,<br />
who had gone to see Maharaj at Seva Pratishthan, said to him, “Maharaj<br />
you have never been out of <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> during any Durga Puja.” Maharaj<br />
replied, “Yes, this time also I will see the Puja and then depart.” The<br />
surprised sadhu said, “Where will you go, Maharaj? You will stay in the<br />
<strong>Math</strong>.” To this Maharaj just smiled and said, “Let’s see.”<br />
Maharaj returned to <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> on 30 September. On 1 October a sadhu<br />
went to make Pranams and Maharaj said to him, “I had thought of writing<br />
about my memories of the early days at the <strong>Math</strong>. That’s not possible now.”<br />
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The sadhu assured him that he would get well soon and finish the task. But<br />
Maharaj said twice with emphasis, “No, that is no longer possible. My time<br />
has run out.”<br />
When <strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong> first became <strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda’s secretary,<br />
the Upasana Paddhati booklet was not available in printed form. Maharaj<br />
would write these instructions on stencil paper and make copies himself<br />
for distribution.<br />
Once when a brahmacharin with high educational qualifications joined the<br />
Order, a sadhu had remarked that the Sangha would benefit if the boy was<br />
assigned to work in any of our colleges. But Maharaj immediately said,<br />
“Wait, Wait. Let the foundation of his monastic life be laid first.” He<br />
continued, “In earlier days newcomers would invariably be asked to work<br />
in Thakur’s shrine. All shrine-related work is to be done with care and<br />
diligence. Only later, the use of his educational qualifications would be<br />
considered. Unless the proper foundation is laid for monastic life, everything<br />
becomes meaningless.”<br />
He would often reminisce about the past Sangha gurus and inspire<br />
brahmacharins. He would narrate to them how three or four advanced<br />
sadhakas would stay in the room without problems even though they were<br />
all of different temperaments. Thus he would encourage all to adjust to<br />
community life. (It so happened that 4 <strong>Swami</strong>s, namely Shuddhananda,<br />
Madhavananda, Vimuktananda [very likely] and Saradeshwarananda,<br />
were staying together below <strong>Swami</strong>ji’s room in the <strong>Math</strong>. Shuddhananda<br />
would discuss scriptures with several monks; Madhavananda would be<br />
studying scriptures by himself; Vimuktananda would practice music, and<br />
Saradeswarananda would be poring over the <strong>Math</strong> land records. None of<br />
them would feel disturbed by the others!!).<br />
In our Sangha tradition, Sri Ramakrishna is both the guru and the ishta<br />
(chosen deity). The various Sangha gurus represent Sri Ramakrishna and<br />
Him alone. <strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda was very particular that the guru cult<br />
should not take root in the Ramakrishna tradition. He had given strict<br />
instructions to <strong>Prameyananda</strong> not to divulge his (President Maharaj’s) date<br />
of birth during his life time. Following in his footsteps, <strong>Prameyananda</strong><br />
would point out this tradition to others also and, true to the tradition handed<br />
down to him, we do not know his date of birth.<br />
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One of <strong>Prameyananda</strong>’s outstanding qualities was that he would promptly<br />
reply to the letters, regardless of who the writer was. Another of his notable<br />
qualities was to make his juniors comfortable by saying, “Hello! How are<br />
you?” He would not talk much with devotees, but whatever little he spoke<br />
in his soft sweet style would fill the listener’s heart with joy. In the worka-day<br />
world, clashes often occur; however, never was any feeling of disgust<br />
apparent on <strong>Prameyananda</strong>’s features.<br />
During the valedictory function of the outgoing batch of Training Centre<br />
brahmacharins, a first-year brother is sent to escort senior sadhus to the<br />
function and to again go with them after the ceremony. When anyone went<br />
to escort <strong>Prameyananda</strong>, he would invariably say, “Don’t worry. I know<br />
the way to get there.” And indeed every year he would come on his own<br />
at the appointed time.<br />
Maharaj would never give long speeches; he always spoke briefly and to<br />
the point. This has been noticed in all his addresses whether they were<br />
before sadhus or in Bhava Prachar meetings or elsewhere.<br />
Maharaj was once returning to the <strong>Math</strong> from New Delhi by Kalka Mail.<br />
Owing to torrential rains and the resultant floods, Kolkata-bound trains<br />
were being stopped at Hazaribagh (Bihar). Maharaj and his monastic<br />
companion got down from the train and were walking to the platform to<br />
see what could be done, since Maharaj had to return to the <strong>Math</strong> as early<br />
as possible for some urgent work. A devotee also got down from the<br />
Kolkata-bound Rajdhani Express, and was walking unawares towards them.<br />
On meeting Maharaj, he requested him to board the Rajdhani Express since<br />
this train would reach the destination earlier. The station master was kind<br />
enough to issue the tickets for this. All through the journey the devotee<br />
noticed that not even once did Maharaj lose his composure.<br />
A young sadhu who had come to <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> to attend the annual conference<br />
of Heads of Centres (in 1990 or 1991) narrated the following incident:<br />
Maharaj asked me to stay in a common room since all other rooms were<br />
occupied by senior sadhus. The next morning Maharaj came to the door of<br />
my room and said, “I am very sorry that I could not give you better<br />
accommodation. All other rooms are occupied.” I said that it did not matter<br />
at all and that I was not inconvenienced. I was surprised that he was so<br />
upset for the sake of such a junior monk.<br />
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Another sadhu narrated the following incident: I was sick for some time<br />
during January-February 2011. On the doctor’s advice I was bed-ridden<br />
for some days. Having not seen me for a few days, Maharaj made enquiries<br />
and, on learning that I was sick, he came direct to my room to see me. I<br />
was really taken aback since he was one of the Vice-Presidents of the<br />
Sangha and I was quite junior to him. He sat down in my room and spoke<br />
without any formalities for a long time. Everything about <strong>Prameyananda</strong><br />
was unostentatious. That day he suddenly said to me, “Listen, my body<br />
won’t last for long.” I just blurted out, “What are you saying, Maharaj?”<br />
To which he again replied, “No, this body will not last long.” How could<br />
I know that his words would prove so true!<br />
A well-established, longstanding devotee of Maharaj talks about<br />
<strong>Prameyananda</strong>’s sense of humour: Once the devotee said to Maharaj, “My<br />
father unnecessarily bothers about his health. I know that nothing is wrong<br />
with him.” And Maharaj smilingly replied, “Just wait. When you reach his<br />
age you will understand this thoroughly!”<br />
To the mother of the same devotee Maharaj had once firmly said, “Come<br />
for Pranams only on special days,” because Maharaj knew that by coming<br />
regularly and doing Pranams, the lady’s spondylitis would worsen.<br />
One of <strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda’s disciples who knew <strong>Prameyananda</strong> for<br />
many years reminisced: “Ramgopal Maharaj used to feel a lot for devotees<br />
of Thakur. I have heard my mother saying that it is only because of him<br />
that our entire family could get initiation from Prabhu Maharaj. It seems<br />
that Ramgopal Maharaj had said to my mother, ‘You all belong to this<br />
place. Where else will you go?’”<br />
When any devotee would do Pranams to <strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong>, after<br />
enquiring about the welfare of the members of the family, he would also<br />
ask about the others who had not come to the <strong>Math</strong> for long. And the last<br />
question would invariably be, “You will have prasad. Won’t you?” He<br />
would always make special enquiries about the overseas devotees and those<br />
coming from distant parts of the country.<br />
When Ramgopal Maharaj visited Hollywood centre (before becoming<br />
Vice-President) a devotee who had settled in the USA came to see him.<br />
The devotee had received initiation from <strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda when he<br />
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was a young boy of 16. Ramgopal Maharaj had always given him timely<br />
guidance and mental strength. At Hollywood the devotee complained to<br />
Maharaj that even after 30 years of initiation, he had not had any vision of<br />
Thakur which means that he had not made any spiritual progress.<br />
<strong>Prameyananda</strong> simply said to him, “Then leave Thakur.” At this the devotee<br />
said, “No Maharaj, I cannot do that. I cannot leave Thakur whatever<br />
happens.” Maharaj then smiled and said, “If you can’t leave Thakur then<br />
how can you say you have not made progress?”<br />
This Hollywood incident relates to a doctor. He had recently joined work<br />
in a new hospital. For his new office he requested Maharaj to send a picture<br />
of Thakur and the Holy Mother which had been sanctified by touching it<br />
to the altars in the two temples. The devotee was very happy when Maharaj<br />
sent him what he had sought.<br />
Another devotee who is also settled in the USA narrates an interesting<br />
incident which reflects the subtle sense of humour which Ramgopal Maharaj<br />
had. This devotee was privileged to have diksha from <strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda<br />
at <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> in 1971. Thereafter he visited many branches of the <strong>Math</strong><br />
and Mission whenever <strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda happened to be camping<br />
there. He had the good fortune of being present at the Hyderabad <strong>Math</strong>’s<br />
temple consecration ceremony in 1976. Seeing him <strong>Prameyananda</strong> remarked,<br />
“Ana... keeps chasing his guru all over the country…We have to keep an<br />
eye on him!”<br />
Once a devotee asked Maharaj about the condition of her parents-in-law<br />
who stay near <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong>. Maharaj replied, “Don’t worry. They are<br />
now under our care. They will not be inconvenienced at all.” This concern<br />
and feeling for the <strong>Math</strong>’s devotees was a unique trait of Ramgopal<br />
Maharaj.<br />
Even the employees at <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> were under his watchful gaze and<br />
enjoyed his loving protection. After his passing away, an employee said<br />
sorrowfully, “It seems like one of our guardians is no more.”<br />
A lady devotee who had seen Maharaj from his Shillong days reminisced<br />
as follows: “I have no doubt that my parents were very close to Ramgopal<br />
Maharaj. My father would address him as Mahaprabhu. At this Maharaj’s<br />
face would light up with joy. Despite many attempts my parents never<br />
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succeeded in making Pranams to Maharaj. He would laugh away their<br />
attempts and say in the Sylhet accent A-ee tay-ee hoe-i-boe i.e. this is<br />
enough. He would always share our family’s joys and sorrows with utmost<br />
feeling. When I lost my mother, the first person I called to give the news<br />
was Maharaj. He remained silent for a minute or two and then said in a<br />
calm voice, Don’t grieve.Your mother has indeed gone to Ramakrishnaloka.”<br />
A couple staying at the <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> guesthouse would make Pranams<br />
morning and evening to Ramgopal Maharaj. On the day they were to leave<br />
for home it was announced that Maharaj was suffering from toothache and<br />
hence would not sit for accepting Pranams that morning. After having their<br />
noon prasad, the couple vacated the guesthouse but spent the afternoon<br />
sitting on the bank of the Ganga with the hope that they would make<br />
Pranams to Maharaj later and then go. At long last when one full hour had<br />
elapsed after the regular evening Pranam-timing, they could offer their<br />
Pranams. They said to Maharaj, “How could we go without seeing you?”<br />
And Maharaj replied smilingly, “That’s the reason I’m sitting here. Stay<br />
well and come again.” They later said that they had wept a lot on the return<br />
journey. They felt that Maharaj knew that they would not be able to bear<br />
the pain of separation and it was hence that he decided to see them.<br />
Once, a youth’s book review had been published in the Udbodhan. Maharaj<br />
had read it and when the youth came to see him he said to him that the<br />
review was well written. The youth was surprised that a Vice-President of<br />
the Ramakrishna <strong>Math</strong> & Ramakrishna Mission had read something written<br />
by him and remembered it. He said that this revealed Maharaj’s humanism.<br />
Maharaj also told him to read Ramakrishna-Sarada-Vivekananda literature<br />
more and more, and also to write on these topics.<br />
The following incident shows how Maharaj could draw volunteers towards<br />
himself: <strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda was once to go to Digboi (Assam);<br />
everything had been arranged. However, as two of the sevaks fell ill, his<br />
programme became uncertain. Devesh Maharaj, a disciple of the Holy<br />
Mother, was then staying at the Digboi ashrama (unaffiliated to the<br />
Ramakrishna <strong>Math</strong>/Mission even on this date). He was very keen that<br />
<strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda should visit the ashrama once to bless the local<br />
devotees. <strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong> then wrote to Devesh Maharaj that if Apu,<br />
a young devotee staying in Guwahati, could go to Digboi to attend to seva<br />
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of <strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda, then possibly President Maharaj could go there.<br />
Devesh Maharaj accordingly wrote to Apu’s father and Apu left for Digboi<br />
soon after. Apu felt very much blessed for this favour that came his way.<br />
Even today he remembers <strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong> with gratitude for this<br />
singular opportunity.<br />
Once in 1990, Ramgopal Maharaj was discussing with the <strong>Math</strong> volunteers,<br />
the arrangements to be made during Thakur’s tithi puja. After one or two<br />
sadhus had spoken, Maharaj simply said to the volunteers, “Just put yourself<br />
in the place of the devotee. You will then easily understand what the devotee<br />
wants from you.”<br />
A volunteer attached to <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> and the Bamunmura ashrama (at the<br />
birthplace of <strong>Swami</strong> Shankarananda), who is himself a disciple of <strong>Swami</strong><br />
Shankarananda, remembers the following incidents:<br />
(1) “<strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong> would come to stay at the Bamummura ashrama<br />
on many occasions; the serene atmosphere here pleased him much. Once<br />
on his way to Taki centre, he spent the night at Bamunmura. After returning<br />
to <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> from Taki, he called me to convey that he had enjoyed his<br />
stay at Bamunmura very much.”<br />
(2) When he was manager of <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong>, Maharaj would stay in Mahapurush<br />
Maharaj’s room. This room would get very hot in summer and draughts of<br />
warm air would fill the room from the northern terrace. It was suggested<br />
to him that if a thick coir screen (khus khus purda) could be fixed outside<br />
the door, the heat could be reduced. Maharaj replied that many Mahapurushas<br />
had stayed in the same room. He did not allow anything to be done about<br />
the heat.<br />
(3) On one occasion <strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong> had gone to stay one night in<br />
the Bamunmura ashrama along with Gopal Maharaj (<strong>Swami</strong> Dhyeyananda).<br />
He requested Gopal Maharaj to stay in the larger room and he himself<br />
stayed in the smaller room. (This incident took place about 20 years ago<br />
when the ashrama was yet not affiliated to the Ramakrishna <strong>Math</strong>).<br />
(4) A pocket watch used by <strong>Swami</strong> Shankarananda was given to me by<br />
Ramgopal Maharaj, to be preserved at the Bamunmura centre. The watch<br />
is still kept in <strong>Swami</strong> Shankarananda’s room there.<br />
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Maharaj had gone to the Baghbazar <strong>Math</strong> (Mayer Bari/Udbodhan) in April<br />
2011 for giving diksha. A few days before going there he had told the<br />
Mayer Bari sadhus that he would give diksha this time to the small daughter<br />
of a devotee. After he became a Vice-President, Maharaj was asked to give<br />
initiation to a little girl, who was about 8 years old. Maharaj then replied<br />
that the girl should wait for some more time. During this visit to the<br />
Udbodhan, Maharaj asked the girl from whom she wanted to take mantra<br />
diksha. The girl replied, “I will take diksha from Ramgopal Maharaj.”<br />
Maharaj laughed at this and said, “Oh! You will take initiation from<br />
Ramgopal Maharaj?” And the next morning he did give her the holy mantra.<br />
Everybody was surprised at this; but Maharaj knew that this was the last<br />
chance for him to fulfill the girl’s desire, for he would not again come to<br />
Mayer Bari.<br />
On the morning of 20 October the news of his Mahasamadhi spread fast<br />
through the various media channels. Devotees started streaming into the<br />
Seva Pratishthan hospital to have the final glimpse of his body. Around 3<br />
pm that afternoon his body was brought to the <strong>Math</strong> and kept for darshan<br />
in the cultural hall adjoining the Ganga. Many sadhus, brahmacharins,<br />
sannyasinis from the Sarada <strong>Math</strong> and devotees came to pay their last<br />
respects until 11.15 am the next day. The Chief Minister of West Bengal<br />
sent a wreath through a representative.<br />
The funeral pyre was set on fire at about 12.40 pm. The cremation was<br />
accompanied with the traditional songs and Kali Kirtan. A few timely<br />
showers marked the end of the cremation rituals.<br />
<strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong> had said on the Mission’s Foundation Day Anniversary<br />
at <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> on 1 May 2010, “The Lord’s Chariot (literally Jagannath’s<br />
Rath) is on the move. Whoever holds on to it will indeed be blessed.” He<br />
had himself held on to this Ramakrishna Mission chariot and attained eternal<br />
Bliss.<br />
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