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<strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong><br />

Ramakrishna <strong>Math</strong><br />

<strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong><br />

Howrah-711202<br />

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Ramakrishna <strong>Math</strong><br />

<strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong><br />

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SWAMI PRAMEYANANDA<br />

As is well known, the partition of India in 1947 brought in its wake<br />

communal disturbances on a massive scale in various parts of the country.<br />

The small town of Karimganj in Assam on the Bangladesh border (then<br />

East Pakistan) played host in 1950 to thousands of hapless refugees from<br />

across the border. At the earnest request of the government, the Karimganj<br />

centre of the Ramakrishna Mission undertook refugee relief work. <strong>Swami</strong><br />

Gopeshwarananda, head of the centre, deputed his able assistant <strong>Swami</strong><br />

Shivaramananda to take charge of the relief operations. With <strong>Swami</strong>s<br />

Prathamananda, Udgeethananda, and Ekananda (who were all brahmacharins<br />

then), and youthful volunteers from the local schools and colleges, relief<br />

activities proceeded in right earnest. Though many jobs had to be attended<br />

to, the main tasks were to bring truckloads of displaced people from the<br />

East Pakistan border to the sprawling makeshift bamboo shelters, supply<br />

drinking water, arrange for sanitation, distribute food coupons, and last but<br />

not the least, provide medical help wherever necessary. Among the many<br />

volunteers was one thinly built, fair complexioned student who was working<br />

enthusiastically with the team without respite. Word soon spread that this<br />

shy lad had passed the matriculation examination. On learning of this <strong>Swami</strong><br />

Shivaramananda, camp-in-charge, asked the boy to go back home and try<br />

for college admission. The dejected boy had to reluctantly trudge back<br />

home (which was close to the Karimganj centre). He conveyed to his parents<br />

that he had no more interest in studies and that he had decided the path<br />

he wanted to tread in life. Soon after, he came and confided to <strong>Swami</strong><br />

Gopeshwarananda that he wanted to join the Order.<br />

This lad was later to be <strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong>, one of the Vice-Presidents<br />

of the Ramakrishna Order. Ramgopal Bhattacharya was his earlier<br />

name; he was born in April 1933 in the village of Kani-shail (Dhakadakhin<br />

section) in Sylhet district of today’s Bangladesh—the place of Chaitanya<br />

Mahaprabhu’s ancestry. His parents Sasadhar Bhattacharya and Nistarini<br />

Devi were quite orthodox. His father would not touch food or drink without<br />

first finishing the Narayana-shila puja. Ramgopal was endearingly called<br />

“Gopal” in the family. He manifested a religious temperament even from<br />

very early days; he attended to the Narayana-shila puja at their home soon<br />

after he was invested with the sacred thread (upanayana). His mother<br />

Nistarini Devi was noted for her magnanimity, forbearance, compassion<br />

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and helping nature. Gifted with ample fortitude, she would face life’s trials<br />

and tribulations smilingly. On many an occasion she parted with her meal<br />

to feed a hungry guest. The boy Ramgopal imbibed many of his noble<br />

parents’ noble qualities. His Sylhet days he utilized equally for studies and<br />

religious rituals.<br />

Having been displaced from his roots in Sylhet, Sasadhar Bhattacharya<br />

settled in a rented house in Karimganj and, despite dire poverty, displayed<br />

his unshakeable faith in Divine Providence. Ramgopal was the sixth of<br />

eight brothers and had two younger sisters. He could study up to class eight<br />

in the Dhakadakhin High School at Sylhet and now got admitted to the<br />

Government High School in Karimganj.<br />

As it turned out, all the seven friends of Ramgopal who participated in the<br />

relief operations embraced the monastic life and thus earned for <strong>Swami</strong><br />

Shivaramananda the reputation as a child-lifting sadhu. To sustain the relief<br />

operations, a large pot would be kept in every house in the locality. Every<br />

day the lady of the house would deposit one fistful of rice in the pot; the<br />

pots would be collected on the seventh day and the rice thus collected<br />

would be utilized to feed the residents of the relief camp.<br />

Since he had completed his schooling by now, his elder brothers were eager<br />

to get Ramgopal admitted to college. However, young Ramgopal was lost<br />

in thoughts of Sri Ramakrishna and the Ramakrishna Mission. The affection<br />

of the sadhus at the Karimganj centre too seemed to draw him like a magnet.<br />

The world lost its charm for him. He opened his heart to his eldest sisterin-law<br />

and without much ado renounced hearth and home to join the Mission<br />

in 1951. His parents were naturally heart broken; but, fortunately for<br />

Ramgopal, his eldest brother wrote to their parents that if indeed one of<br />

their children could become a monk, it would be a boon to fourteen<br />

generations of the family. The sadhus at the Karimganj centre too played<br />

their part in consoling the doting parents and assured them that Ramgopal’s<br />

further education was now the Mission’s responsibility.<br />

<strong>Swami</strong> Gopeshwarananda welcomed young Ramgopal to the Ramakrishna<br />

Mission with open arms; he was asked to continue his work in the relief<br />

camp. As the disturbances lessened and normalcy was returning, many of<br />

the camp residents were being settled in various parts of the country. The<br />

settlers had to be issued identity coupons for this. It was no easy job;<br />

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Ramgopal poured his heart out in this operation of distributing coupons to<br />

about 56,000 persons. The relief work also now took a new turn: for those<br />

who could not (or did not want to) move elsewhere, the government<br />

requested the Ramakrishna Mission to undertake a massive rehabilitation<br />

project. For this, in the district of Cachar, about 30-35 miles away from<br />

Karimganj, a land mass measuring 10 x 3 miles was earmarked at Sunbill.<br />

Developing the area took about three years of rigorous labour for the monks<br />

and volunteers. The entire area was occupied by muslims prior to partition;<br />

now Kaivarta Brahmins from the neighbouring Habiganj were being settled<br />

here. Slowly the settlement grew into a vibrant town.<br />

<strong>Swami</strong> Udgeethananda reminisces about those days: “The work was carried<br />

out with the help of seven boats as large as houses. Sometimes the waves<br />

would be so huge that we would be scared to stay on board. Preeti Maharaj<br />

(<strong>Swami</strong> Prathamananda) would be at the helm. Surprisingly Ramgopal had<br />

learnt to manouvre the rudder with much skill. We were much older than<br />

them (and also, we thought ourselves more daring) but without Ramgopal<br />

holding the rudder we would not use the boats.”<br />

An important incident occurred at this time. <strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda, then<br />

one of the Assistant Secretaries of the Ramakrishna <strong>Math</strong> and Ramakrishna<br />

Mission, came to the Sunbill site for inspection and stayed for several hours.<br />

Ramgopal undertook the responsibility of serving Maharaj at the site. His<br />

seva attitude was on display once again when, during the rehabilitation<br />

work, <strong>Swami</strong> Udgeethananda broke his arm and Ramgopal volunteered to<br />

feed him daily. From May 1951 to August 1953 Ramgopal participated in<br />

this relief and rehabilitation operation.<br />

A new life began when Ramgopal was thence transferred to Shillong centre.<br />

<strong>Swami</strong> Shankarananda, President of the Sangha, visited Shillong at that<br />

time to consecrate the marble statue of Sri Ramakrishna. Ramgopal received<br />

mantra diksha from him on this occasion. It may also be mentioned that he<br />

received brahmacharya vows and a new name Brahmachari Premeshachaitanya<br />

from <strong>Swami</strong> Shankarananda a little later in 1957. During this<br />

stay at Shillong, Ramgopal participated in the many ashrama activities like<br />

daily puja, Durga Puja, cooking, hostel supervision and fund collection. In<br />

addition to getting the guidance of <strong>Swami</strong> Saumyananda, head of Shillong<br />

centre, he also had the opportunity of working with seniors like <strong>Swami</strong><br />

Gahanananda (later the 14 th President of the Order) and <strong>Swami</strong> Bhavyananda.<br />

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From <strong>Swami</strong> Gahanananda he specially learnt to look after sick employees<br />

about whom the swami would say “Are they too not our brothers?” He<br />

stayed in Shillong up to 1960. He was also fortunate to once do Kumari<br />

Puja at the Kamakhya temple (Guwahati) on the initiative and under the<br />

supervision of <strong>Swami</strong> Vishuddhananda.<br />

For a few months in 1960-61 he was assigned to Tamluk centre. Afterwards,<br />

owing to health problems he was brought to <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong>. However, doctors<br />

could not diagnose his ailment; his condition was such that he could<br />

eat nothing more than two biscuits daily. Around this time <strong>Swami</strong><br />

Yatiswarananda came to <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> from Bangalore and was worried to<br />

see his poor health. He requested his disciple Dr. Sanat Sarkar of South<br />

Kolkata to treat this young brahmacharin. Next he requested the then<br />

Secretary of the Institute of Culture to host Ramgopal at the Gol Park centre<br />

for ease of treatment. Meanwhile, Sri Ramakrishna’s tithi puja in 1961 was<br />

fast approaching; all were wondering whether Ramgopal would be fit<br />

enough for the sannyasa ceremony. Fortunately Dr. Sarkar successfully<br />

treated him, and subsequently Br. Premeshachaitanya got sannyasa and the<br />

name <strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong> from his diksha guru <strong>Swami</strong> Shankarananda<br />

in 1961. From April 1961 he served <strong>Swami</strong> Yatiswarananda for a few<br />

months. He was then posted to headquarters office. During that time he<br />

stayed at the headquarters’ building with <strong>Swami</strong>s Gitananda, Mahananda<br />

and others.<br />

On the Ekadashi day after Durga Puja in 1965, the ninth President of the<br />

Sangha, <strong>Swami</strong> Madhavananda, attained Mahasamadhi. <strong>Swami</strong><br />

Vireswarananda succeeded him as the tenth President in February 1966.<br />

At that time <strong>Swami</strong> Premeshananda (Holy Mother’s disciple) was staying<br />

at Varanasi. <strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda went to Varanasi to meet him and took<br />

<strong>Prameyananda</strong> with him. On returning from Varanasi, <strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong><br />

was made <strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda’s secretary. <strong>Prameyananda</strong>’s many noble<br />

qualities started manifesting after this. Many devotees came to understand<br />

and appreciate the ideas and ideals of the Ramakrishna Movement during<br />

<strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda’s tenure as President. <strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong>’s<br />

sharp intellect, good memory, sense of humour and sweet but firm dealings<br />

contributed in no small measure to this.<br />

<strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda relied totally on <strong>Prameyananda</strong> for diksha dates,<br />

places, candidates and travel modes. And <strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong> too always<br />

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lived up to Vireswarananda’s expectations in this regard. Many sevaks<br />

came and went but <strong>Prameyananda</strong> stuck to his post through rain and shine,<br />

never going on pilgrimage or for tapasya. His young shoulders carried<br />

a mature head and he always had an air of seriousness about him, his<br />

lightheartedness notwithstanding. His unbroken stay with Prabhu Maharaj<br />

(<strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda) enabled him to familiarize himself with the tasks<br />

of the Sangha’s President and Vice-Presidents. He had the rare gift of<br />

conveying harsh truths sweetly. He was very disciplined in his work and<br />

always very punctual. Not the one to waste anything of Thakur’s, he would<br />

correspond wherever possible through postcards or inland letters. Once an<br />

inland letter was used to reply to a devotee’s inland. At this he remarked,<br />

“You could have used a postcard rather than the inland letter. Learn to be<br />

thrifty. Whatever you can save can be used for Thakur’s seva.” He would<br />

write on the inner portions of used envelopes rather than use fresh paper.<br />

He was known for his brief but complete replies; brevity of speech was<br />

one of his hallmarks. He was also instrumental in arranging for interactions<br />

between the Training Centre brahmacharins with President Maharaj.<br />

On the 13 March 1985, <strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda attained Mahasamadhi.<br />

<strong>Prameyananda</strong> then for the first time ventured on a pilgrimage to the<br />

Himalayas. But he was very soon called back by the <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> authorities<br />

and sent to Baghbazar <strong>Math</strong>, Kolkata, as editor of Udbodhan the Bengali<br />

journal of the Order. He served in this capacity from November 1985 to<br />

September 1987. The editorials of the Udbodhan during this period bear<br />

ample testimony to his mastery of the Bengali language. He was an expert<br />

in tracing the source of the quotations cited by various writers. It was during<br />

this time that Vishwa-chetanaaye Sri Ramakrishna was published as a part<br />

of Sri Ramakrishna’s 150 th birthday celebrations. He has authored two<br />

books in Bengali: (a) Seva-adarshe Ramakrishnananda, and (b) Puja Vijnan.<br />

Some errors of omission and commission noticed in the first edition of<br />

<strong>Swami</strong> Shankaranandajir jeevanee o smriti Katha were rectified by<br />

<strong>Prameyananda</strong> before the second edition was published.<br />

His Udbodhan days were cheerfully spent in the company of monastic<br />

brothers and devotees. He was known always for not losing his temper.<br />

He was ever keen to finish the task at hand promptly, without keeping<br />

any work pending. He also strengthened the financial position of the<br />

Udbodhan. He was one of the pioneers in organizing the National Youth<br />

Day programmes.<br />

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In April 1987 <strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong> was made a trustee of the Ramakrishna<br />

<strong>Math</strong> and a member of the Governing Body of the Ramakrishna Mission.<br />

In September of the same year he came to stay at <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> as its manager.<br />

Subsequently, in March 1997 he was made treasurer of the <strong>Math</strong> and the<br />

Mission.<br />

As manager he spent a long twenty-two years at the <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> and was<br />

associated with a variety of programmes relating to the <strong>Math</strong> and the<br />

Mission. All through his life he maintained a strict routine of rising early,<br />

doing japa and meditation, making pranams at the various shrines, and<br />

attending to his office work. Every morning he would assign the daily tasks<br />

to the section heads. Over the years the number of devotees coming to<br />

<strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> kept on increasing. <strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong> was responsible for<br />

bringing about comprehensive changes in the arrangements for prasad<br />

distribution, contributing to the convenience of devotees. Under his able<br />

supervision, the centenary of the Chicago Parliament of Religions and that<br />

of the Ramakrishna Mission were celebrated at <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> in 1994 and<br />

1998. Always a votary for a change for the better, he would never lose<br />

sight of the Sangha’s traditions in this regard. The new Training Centre<br />

for brahmacharins, the Water Treatment Plant, Sadhu Niwas for visiting<br />

monks, renovation of the guesthouse for devotees, construction of the<br />

Sanskriti Bhawan (Cultural Hall) and shifting the Ramakrishna Museum<br />

to its new building were some of the noteworthy projects undertaken during<br />

his time. The Ramakrishna Sangha has always had a tradition of devotional<br />

singing. In keeping with this tradition, he appointed music teachers for the<br />

brahmacharins of Training Centre and also kept a room free for daily music<br />

practice after evening meditation.<br />

He always encouraged planting of trees and plants which help to maintain<br />

a serene ashrama atmosphere. His ever watchful gaze would help the timely<br />

treatment of diseased trees. He would express displeasure if trees or plants<br />

were cut or felled without any reason. He knew the name of every plant and<br />

tree in <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> and the history behind them. As at the Udbodhan, at<br />

<strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> also he contributed in substantial measure to strengthening the<br />

<strong>Math</strong>’s financial base. Needless to say, the goodwill of numberless devotees<br />

that he built over his long stay at <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> stood him in good stead in<br />

this regard. In many an adverse situation and in his dealings with monastics<br />

of various backgrounds, cultures, nationalities and temperaments, and the<br />

<strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong>’s army of volunteers, he displayed ample fortitude and adroitness.<br />

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He cherished great shraddha for the elders of the Order, and so also for the<br />

holy traditions of the Sangha. Rather than giving his own solution to a<br />

vexed problem, he would narrate an incident from the life of the Sangha’s<br />

stalwarts, especially <strong>Swami</strong>s Premeshananda, Saumyananda, Yatiswarananda,<br />

Vishuddhananda and, above all, <strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda, to shed light thereon.<br />

Those who had the privilege to work closely with <strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong><br />

could not fail to marvel at his forbearance. When faced with any challenge<br />

or a differing viewpoint, he would never give vent to his frustration or<br />

anger but would deal with it as a matter of routine. An incident that occurred<br />

at Shillong is worth recalling in this respect. A sannyasin at that centre<br />

had once not done the work assigned to him at which <strong>Prameyananda</strong><br />

expressed his displeasure. After a little while, the concerned monk went<br />

to <strong>Prameyananda</strong>’s room and was surprised to find the swami who had<br />

been upset just a little while ago, quietly reading Dharma Prasange<br />

Brahmananda (The Eternal Companion). Seeing him <strong>Prameyananda</strong> simply<br />

remarked, “Come, come,” as if nothing had happened.<br />

Gifted with a keen sense of humour, he could easily wriggle out of unpleasant<br />

situations and mix freely with the young and old alike. As manager of <strong>Belur</strong><br />

<strong>Math</strong> he saw to it that all sadhus and brahmacharins closed the office in<br />

time and attended the evening aarti. If anyone was found at his job or<br />

in the pantry, Maharaj would ask, “Have you given up your religious<br />

aspirations?”<br />

Once a sadhu was going for Ganga-bath with a towel thrown over his<br />

shoulder. Maharaj was coming from the opposite direction. The sadhu<br />

asked Maharaj, “Won’t you go for Ganga-snan?” And immediately Maharaj<br />

replied, “I have not committed any sin.” The sadhus present burst out<br />

laughing. This notwithstanding, on special occasions he would bathe in the<br />

Ganga, especially before and after a lunar or solar eclipse. He once joked<br />

with a monk of almost his own age, “Dada, you do receive a lot of Pranami!<br />

Let me make a suggestion. Deposit all your pranami in a box and lock it,<br />

but keep the keys with me!”<br />

During <strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda’s tenure as President of the Sangha, many<br />

of the branches of the <strong>Math</strong> and Mission were not financially strong. So,<br />

before visiting any branch for giving mantra diksha, he would instruct<br />

Ramgopal Maharaj to carry necessary items from <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong>. Accordingly,<br />

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Ramgopal Maharaj would even carry items like tea leaves, sugar, etc from<br />

the <strong>Math</strong>; while returning from such centres Prabhu Maharaj would donate<br />

some amount from his personal pranami. <strong>Prameyananda</strong> also followed this<br />

practice during his Vice-Presidentship.<br />

We have seen above how <strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong> stuck to his daily routine.<br />

Meeting the President of the Sangha daily and enquiring about his welfare<br />

was part of this routine. He would also daily meet the office-bearers (the<br />

General Secretary and the four Assistant Secretaries) to exchange notes.<br />

A daily walk from <strong>Swami</strong>ji’s room to <strong>Swami</strong>ji’s temple was part of his<br />

afternoon routine.<br />

As manager of <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong>, he saw four Presidents of the Order attain<br />

Mahasamadhi; such events would make him indrawn and he would seem<br />

to lose all interest in work. After Gambhirananda’s Mahasamadhi he<br />

remarked, “It was as if he had brought the military discipline from the army<br />

to the Sangha.” (It was well known that <strong>Swami</strong> Gambhirananda was a<br />

strict disciplinarian.) Again after <strong>Swami</strong> Bhuteshananda’s departure he<br />

commented, “It seems I have lost my mother for the second time!” After<br />

<strong>Swami</strong> Ranganathananda’s passing away, a youth from Digboi came and<br />

requested <strong>Prameyananda</strong> for late President Maharaj’s footprints. At this<br />

<strong>Prameyananda</strong> remarked in a sorrowful voice, “I have lost interest in<br />

everything now.” The words were uttered with so much of feeling that all<br />

could sense that they had indeed lost their guardian angel. And lastly, after<br />

<strong>Swami</strong> Gahanananda’s passing he remarked, “From him one should learn<br />

how to love the Sangha.”<br />

<strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong> knew the details and intricacies of Thakur Seva and<br />

kept himself well informed in this regard. He would very often talk of the<br />

one-pointed dedication of an earlier Thakur bhandari, <strong>Swami</strong> Diptananda<br />

(Prabodh Maharaj, a disciple of Mahapurush Maharaj). Once he asked a<br />

brahmacharin engaged in Thakur Seva, “How is your work going on? Do<br />

you get some prasad daily?” On getting no reply from the brahmacharin,<br />

he instructed the monk in charge of prasad distribution to give some prasad<br />

daily to all sadhus and brahmacharins engaged in Thakur Seva in the shrine.<br />

For the past several years he was the acharya for the brahmacharya and<br />

sannyasa ceremonies. He would take the brahmacharya classes with deep<br />

feeling.<br />

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<strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong> was a member of the Committee formed at <strong>Belur</strong><br />

<strong>Math</strong> for re-arranging <strong>Swami</strong>ji’s Complete Works.<br />

When Marie Louise Burke (Sister Gargi) had completed her marathon work<br />

<strong>Swami</strong> Vivekananda in America—New Discoveries, <strong>Prameyananda</strong> was<br />

very keen to get the books translated into Bengali. He entrusted the translation<br />

of the first volume to Nalini Ranjan Chatterjee.<br />

He was keen to know details about other countries in the world and would<br />

often study maps of different nations and always kept a globe close at hand.<br />

To further the Sangha’s work he visited many countries like Russia, the<br />

USA, Canada, Japan, Singapore, Mauritius, Brazil, Argentina, Uruguay<br />

and several countries in Europe. When in America he was once requested<br />

to address the audience at a centre. He then spoke earnestly about the early<br />

days at <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong>. He referred to <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> in that speech as the Vatican<br />

and the White House put together; the Vatican because <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> was a<br />

spiritual storehouse and the White House because <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> was also the<br />

pioneer in the practice of ‘Service to man is Worship of God’.<br />

Daily study was an integral part of his routine; he would feel out of sorts<br />

if he could not do some reading on any day. Possessed of wonderful retention<br />

capacity, he would often surprise some young monk by commenting<br />

objectively on an article authored by the latter, which he had come across<br />

in some magazine. He always encouraged people to write on a variety of<br />

topics. It had been a tradition in the Ramakrishna Sangha to restrict one’s<br />

writing to Sri Ramakrishna, the Holy Mother, <strong>Swami</strong>ji and the other direct<br />

disciples. However, acknowledging that this could create a void in the<br />

future about the history of the Sangha, <strong>Prameyananda</strong> encouraged others<br />

to write about other senior swamis of the Order also. With this encouragement,<br />

Dr. Satchidananda Dhar compiled a volume titled Sannyasir Smriti.<br />

After serving as manager of <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> for long twenty-two years, <strong>Swami</strong><br />

<strong>Prameyananda</strong> was made a Vice-President of the Sangha on 27 February<br />

2009. He continued to serve the Sangha in this capacity till his last breath.<br />

In his role as Vice-President he gave mantra diksha to 13,066 aspirants.<br />

The first initiation was given to 45 seekers at Jayrambati on 22 April 2009<br />

and the last one to 93 persons at Rajarhat (the birthplace of <strong>Swami</strong><br />

Niranjanananda) on 24 May 2011. Four of his initiated young men joined<br />

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the Ramakrishna Order during his lifetime. His initiated disciples include<br />

3 non-Indians, 7 khasis, and 1 person from a scheduled tribe in Arunachal<br />

Pradesh. Two non-Hindus have also taken diksha from him.<br />

He toured Bangladesh from 20 October to 27 November 2009 giving<br />

initiation to 1871 candidates in the branches of the Sangha at Chittagong,<br />

Comilla, Dhaka, Dinajpur, Mymensingh, Narayanganj and Sylhet.<br />

In November 2010 he complained of acute chest pain and had to undergo<br />

angioplasty. Since this did not reduce his pain, Coronary Artery By-pass<br />

Grafting (CABG) surgery had to be performed on 18 June 2011. Ever since<br />

he experienced the first pain in the chest, he had an intuitive feeling that<br />

his work was drawing to an end. Even when others were unaware of his<br />

serious condition, <strong>Prameyananda</strong> was sure that his health was fast<br />

deteriorating. A swami from Gujarat said to Maharaj in 2010, “Maharaj,<br />

we are eagerly waiting for you. Please come to Vadodara.” Maharaj simply<br />

replied, “Let’s see if the body lasts till then.” In September 2011 the editor<br />

of the Udbodhan came to see him. Maharaj said to him, “Hello! How are<br />

you? I have seen the Puja edition and have read a part of it. It has come out<br />

well. I wonder whether I will be able to read it fully.”<br />

Maharaj enjoyed a few bouts of good health, notwithstanding his occasional<br />

suffering on account of hypoxaemia (diminished oxygen in the blood). On<br />

9 October 2011, just two days after Vijaya Dashmi, he was admitted to the<br />

Seva Pratishthan hospital in a serious condition. He then remarked, “I could<br />

come to the <strong>Math</strong> and see the Durga Puja.” On the 11 October his breathing<br />

was helped with the aid of a device which helps to breathe in oxygen and<br />

also to breathe out carbon dioxide. On 17 October he was put on ventilator.<br />

His health was steadily sinking and the end came at 8.25 am on 20 October.<br />

An early morning bath (around 3 am) was his lifelong habit. So much so,<br />

that even during his last illness at Seva Pratishthan he asked his sevak to<br />

bathe him around that time. When the sevak argued against this, Maharaj<br />

said, “This body will not last forever. I want to hold on to at least one<br />

practice until the last. Won’t you allow me to do even this much?” After<br />

a while when his body was sponged, he gave a contented smile.<br />

As Holy Mother has said, Sri Ramakrishna’s crown jewel was renunciation.<br />

This virtue seemed to manifest spontaneously in <strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong>.<br />

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Humility was second nature to him. Going slowly but steadily was his trait.<br />

A gentleman to the core, he never spoke loudly but always slowly and<br />

softly. Owing to his firmness, no one dared to speak lightly or irrelevantly<br />

in his presence. By a mere glance he could silence people. An interesting<br />

incident brings out some of his qualities. A brahmacharin from <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong><br />

was to be sent to Barasat to perform Durga Puja. He did not want to go and<br />

therefore said that the devotees there create a lot of difficulties. He was<br />

brought to the presence of <strong>Prameyananda</strong>. Maharaj simply asked him, “Is<br />

it not our responsibility to take care of the birthplace of one of Thakur’s<br />

direct disciples?” When the brahmacharin answered, “Yes, it is our<br />

responsibility,” Maharaj simply said, “Then go.”<br />

One of the senior monks narrated the following reminiscences: (a) I first<br />

saw <strong>Prameyananda</strong> at Sargachhi centre. He and <strong>Swami</strong> Bhaskarananda<br />

(both of whom were brahmacharins then) had been sent there by <strong>Swami</strong><br />

Saumyananda of Shillong to meet <strong>Swami</strong> Premeshananda. I had the occasion<br />

to be present when they put many questions to Premeshananda. The questions<br />

clearly showed that both the boys were quite keen to lead ideal monastic<br />

lives.<br />

(b) In 1972 I sent a letter written on birch bark (Bhurjya patra) from<br />

Gangotri to <strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda, the then President of the Order. I did<br />

not expect any reply. But <strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong> sent me an encouraging<br />

reply signed by President Maharaj.<br />

(c) Once a young sannyasin who had been just assigned to serve the then<br />

President Maharaj, approached me and asked, “What are the things I should<br />

be careful about in sadhu life?” I replied, “You go to Ramgopal Maharaj.<br />

He has served <strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda for many years and has been very<br />

particular to keep his monastic life untarnished. This is worth emulating.<br />

Go to him; he will answer all your queries.”<br />

<strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong> was very actively involved in Ramakrishna-<br />

Vivekananda Bhava Prachar activities. Through the member-ashramas of<br />

Bhava Prachar Parishads, he was ever keen to spread the teachings of<br />

Thakur, Maa, and <strong>Swami</strong>ji, for character-building. This concept of Bhava<br />

Prachar was <strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda’s brainchild, and <strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong><br />

inherited Prabhu Maharaj’s enthusiasm in this regard. <strong>Prameyananda</strong> was<br />

always full of encouragement for people involved in Prachar activities.<br />

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And having been associated with <strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda for a long time<br />

he knew many of the Sangha’s devotees of long standing which helped the<br />

cause of Bhava Prachar.<br />

Just like <strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda, <strong>Prameyananda</strong> also was an ardent champion<br />

of relief and Pallimangal activities. An initiated lady devotee of <strong>Swami</strong><br />

Vireswarananda had started the Pallimangal Sarada Samity at <strong>Belur</strong>.<br />

<strong>Prameyananda</strong> helped her in whatever way possible and would tell her, “It<br />

is difficult for sadhus to work for women’s welfare. Such work should be<br />

done by women. You must make poor women competent to stand on their<br />

own feet.”<br />

<strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> was very dear to him. So long as he was manager of the <strong>Math</strong><br />

he would keep a watchful eye on everything. He had come to identify<br />

himself with the <strong>Math</strong> and this would be reflected in his behaviour and<br />

talk. One could talk with him freely on any topic, and even suggestions<br />

from juniors would be well received.<br />

Whenever he talked about the earlier days at <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong>, his face would<br />

be flushed. He would say, “How many senior sadhus I have seen! During<br />

our early days the <strong>Math</strong> was full of the disciples Holy Mother and those<br />

of Thakur’s direct disciples.” <strong>Prameyananda</strong> would always tell devotees,<br />

“Don’t forget to visit <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong>. Whether I am here or not does not matter.<br />

You must come and see Thakur in the <strong>Math</strong>.” He has shown through his<br />

life how one should live at <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong>.<br />

He had studied a number of books on the Tantra to understand scriptural<br />

prescriptions regarding puja and was an adept in ritualistic worship. He<br />

was alert to the details of all special pujas at the <strong>Math</strong>.<br />

In 2001 the Durga Puja at <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> was shifted from Thakur’s temple<br />

to the eastern lawn for the convenience of thousands of devotees. At this<br />

some sadhus commented that this would reduce the solemnity of the puja.<br />

To this <strong>Prameyananda</strong> replied, “Why will the solemnity be reduced? Can’t<br />

we through our prayers to Mother and through japa convert the Pandal<br />

itself into a temple?” Once he said to a pujari, “Look, devotion and spirit<br />

of puja are more important than mantras and formalities.” He considered<br />

puja to be an essential part of sadhana. He would often say that the newly<br />

joined brahmacharins should be engaged in worship or in the shrine bhandar.<br />

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He would always point out that in our Sangha, all puja traditions are linked<br />

to Thakur’s puja. This should be remembered when doing Durga Puja and<br />

the like. Our Sangha traditions should prevail all the time. Two examples<br />

will suffice to illustrate the meaning of this.<br />

(1) In Durga Puja, the bodhan ceremony has to be performed in the evening<br />

on shashti tithi. But in our Sangha this is invariably done after Thakur’s<br />

evening aarti, when it is almost night and not evening. Technically this<br />

goes against scriptural injunctions. However, in our Sangha, Thakur is the<br />

Living Deity. Daily worship and evening aarti have been going on at regular<br />

timings for many years. In keeping with this tradition, the bodhan<br />

prescriptions are performed after Sri Ramakrishna’s evening service. Such<br />

departures notwithstanding, he was nonetheless a stickler to scriptural<br />

prescriptions. If for example the shashti tithi was available only for a short<br />

while after Thakur’s aarti, he would insist that all the bodhan rituals must<br />

be completed within that tithi itself.<br />

(2) At <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> and in many branches of the Sangha, Kali Puja is<br />

performed during the Deepanvita amaavasyaa night. This is as per the<br />

injunction in the Vishwasara-tantra. Though there is no sacrifice offered<br />

in the Sangha’s Kali Pujas, detailed nyasas, food offering, the homa<br />

(fire offering) are all performed in right earnest. This enables the puja<br />

to continue the whole night. The presence of many sadhus, brahmacharins<br />

and devotees, and the Kali Kirtan (singing of Mother’s songs) add to<br />

the solemnity of the occasion. The final offering of the homa ritual, the<br />

purnaahuti, is invariably done immediately after Thakur’s mangal-aarti.<br />

This is the practice that prevails almost every year. During some years<br />

it so happens that the amaavasyaa tithi lasts only up to 1 or 2 am. The<br />

scripture requires that all puja formalities have to be completed within<br />

this time. In such cases Maharaj, giving more weight to Sangha traditions,<br />

would say that it is important to do the purnaahuti and visarjana when<br />

the shrine of the established Deity (Thakur in our case) has been opened.<br />

The puja can be continued through the night as is done every year;<br />

otherwise many devotees who come to keep vigil at night would be<br />

inconvenienced.<br />

As a Vice-President of the Sangha, he became an inspiration to the youth.<br />

Many students of our Purulia centre and some from the Vidyamandir at<br />

<strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> received mantra diksha from him. Many times it was noticed<br />

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that at the <strong>Math</strong> several young boys, after finishing their pranams, would<br />

be sitting round him listening to some spiritual topic.<br />

He was always alert to speak the right things to the right persons. As a<br />

result young and old, whether monastic or lay, could all talk with him<br />

freely. Thus many came to him for his opinion on something, some came<br />

seeking consolation, some for solution to problems, and again some for<br />

spiritual guidance.<br />

As has already been said, Maharaj had great shraddha for the traditions of<br />

our Sangha. He would point out that these traditions had not been built all<br />

at once; they are the result of the sacrifices made by countless sadhus of<br />

the Order over the years. Many have heard from him that if one reflects on<br />

our Sangha’s unique traditions, one gets great help in spiritual life. He<br />

would say in this connection, “Just as you study the scriptures, you should<br />

also read about the early days of our Sangha.”<br />

He never liked sadhus going out of the <strong>Math</strong> after evening. One evening<br />

a sadhu said to him that he wanted to visit Dakshineswar. Maharaj<br />

commented, “Why do you want to go now in the evening? It is always<br />

good to go during the daytime.” Once he was in Seva Pratishthan hospital<br />

in a serious condition. Some young sadhus had come to see him late in the<br />

evening. Even in that condition he cautioned them, “It was not right on<br />

your part to leave the <strong>Math</strong> at this hour.”<br />

Once Maharaj was getting ready to go abroad. An identification tag was<br />

being pasted on his bag. He noticed that his name on the label was in large<br />

letters; the next line in smaller letters read “Ramakrishna <strong>Math</strong>.” And the<br />

third line containing the postal address was in still smaller letters. At this<br />

Maharaj commented, “Why so much importance to the name? The<br />

Ramakrishna <strong>Math</strong> and Ramakrishna Mission should always be in bold<br />

letters. Our names should be in smaller letters. How many people know<br />

us? We are respected only because we belong to the <strong>Math</strong> and Mission.”<br />

Maharaj had once come to visit a branch centre. A sadhu said to him,<br />

“Maharaj, our pressure of work has increased considerably. We hardly get<br />

any time for ourselves. How much more should I work?” And Maharaj<br />

smilingly replied, “When we left our homes to join the Sangha, we came<br />

to give the full 24 hours of each day to the <strong>Math</strong> and Mission. We did not<br />

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calculate that we would allot some time to the Sangha and keep some time<br />

for ourselves. Why does this thought arise now? Unless you can feel<br />

identified with the Sangha, you cannot feel joy. We must try to live ideal<br />

monastic lives. We should entertain only pure thoughts; we must struggle<br />

to attain purity. We must become one with the Sangha. That’s the secret.”<br />

He once said to a sadhu about karma yoga, “Karma yoga is supposed to<br />

reduce work. How is it that your work is increasing?” The person understood<br />

that if the job is done with full attention, one does not have to do it over<br />

again. Rectifying a job done haphazardly, and spending extra time for that,<br />

is equivalent to increase of work. That is not dexterity in work or karma<br />

yoga, but simply working.<br />

During his last illness, the <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> authorities decided to assign an extra<br />

sevak (assistant) to Maharaj. When asked what kind of sevak was required,<br />

Maharaj said, “It must be someone who can pour his heart into the work.<br />

He should willingly work 24 hours a day.”<br />

In the evening aarti at all centres of the <strong>Math</strong> and Mission, <strong>Swami</strong>ji’s<br />

composition Om Hrim Ritam…is repeated. There are two versions of some<br />

of the stanzas. Owing to this, Training Centre brahmacharins faced difficulties.<br />

To overcome this <strong>Prameyananda</strong> selected one version from the old edition<br />

books in the <strong>Math</strong> library and circulated this in the Training Centre. It is not<br />

known to many that Maharaj had in-depth knowledge of music; he could play<br />

the Pakhawaj quite well. All functions held at <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> start with an opening<br />

song and similarly there is also a closing song. Maharaj would always want<br />

to know which songs would be sung at any function.<br />

Many incidents reveal that Maharaj had a premonition that his end was fast<br />

approaching. On the evening of Mahalaya a young sadhu from <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong>,<br />

who had gone to see Maharaj at Seva Pratishthan, said to him, “Maharaj<br />

you have never been out of <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> during any Durga Puja.” Maharaj<br />

replied, “Yes, this time also I will see the Puja and then depart.” The<br />

surprised sadhu said, “Where will you go, Maharaj? You will stay in the<br />

<strong>Math</strong>.” To this Maharaj just smiled and said, “Let’s see.”<br />

Maharaj returned to <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> on 30 September. On 1 October a sadhu<br />

went to make Pranams and Maharaj said to him, “I had thought of writing<br />

about my memories of the early days at the <strong>Math</strong>. That’s not possible now.”<br />

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The sadhu assured him that he would get well soon and finish the task. But<br />

Maharaj said twice with emphasis, “No, that is no longer possible. My time<br />

has run out.”<br />

When <strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong> first became <strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda’s secretary,<br />

the Upasana Paddhati booklet was not available in printed form. Maharaj<br />

would write these instructions on stencil paper and make copies himself<br />

for distribution.<br />

Once when a brahmacharin with high educational qualifications joined the<br />

Order, a sadhu had remarked that the Sangha would benefit if the boy was<br />

assigned to work in any of our colleges. But Maharaj immediately said,<br />

“Wait, Wait. Let the foundation of his monastic life be laid first.” He<br />

continued, “In earlier days newcomers would invariably be asked to work<br />

in Thakur’s shrine. All shrine-related work is to be done with care and<br />

diligence. Only later, the use of his educational qualifications would be<br />

considered. Unless the proper foundation is laid for monastic life, everything<br />

becomes meaningless.”<br />

He would often reminisce about the past Sangha gurus and inspire<br />

brahmacharins. He would narrate to them how three or four advanced<br />

sadhakas would stay in the room without problems even though they were<br />

all of different temperaments. Thus he would encourage all to adjust to<br />

community life. (It so happened that 4 <strong>Swami</strong>s, namely Shuddhananda,<br />

Madhavananda, Vimuktananda [very likely] and Saradeshwarananda,<br />

were staying together below <strong>Swami</strong>ji’s room in the <strong>Math</strong>. Shuddhananda<br />

would discuss scriptures with several monks; Madhavananda would be<br />

studying scriptures by himself; Vimuktananda would practice music, and<br />

Saradeswarananda would be poring over the <strong>Math</strong> land records. None of<br />

them would feel disturbed by the others!!).<br />

In our Sangha tradition, Sri Ramakrishna is both the guru and the ishta<br />

(chosen deity). The various Sangha gurus represent Sri Ramakrishna and<br />

Him alone. <strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda was very particular that the guru cult<br />

should not take root in the Ramakrishna tradition. He had given strict<br />

instructions to <strong>Prameyananda</strong> not to divulge his (President Maharaj’s) date<br />

of birth during his life time. Following in his footsteps, <strong>Prameyananda</strong><br />

would point out this tradition to others also and, true to the tradition handed<br />

down to him, we do not know his date of birth.<br />

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One of <strong>Prameyananda</strong>’s outstanding qualities was that he would promptly<br />

reply to the letters, regardless of who the writer was. Another of his notable<br />

qualities was to make his juniors comfortable by saying, “Hello! How are<br />

you?” He would not talk much with devotees, but whatever little he spoke<br />

in his soft sweet style would fill the listener’s heart with joy. In the worka-day<br />

world, clashes often occur; however, never was any feeling of disgust<br />

apparent on <strong>Prameyananda</strong>’s features.<br />

During the valedictory function of the outgoing batch of Training Centre<br />

brahmacharins, a first-year brother is sent to escort senior sadhus to the<br />

function and to again go with them after the ceremony. When anyone went<br />

to escort <strong>Prameyananda</strong>, he would invariably say, “Don’t worry. I know<br />

the way to get there.” And indeed every year he would come on his own<br />

at the appointed time.<br />

Maharaj would never give long speeches; he always spoke briefly and to<br />

the point. This has been noticed in all his addresses whether they were<br />

before sadhus or in Bhava Prachar meetings or elsewhere.<br />

Maharaj was once returning to the <strong>Math</strong> from New Delhi by Kalka Mail.<br />

Owing to torrential rains and the resultant floods, Kolkata-bound trains<br />

were being stopped at Hazaribagh (Bihar). Maharaj and his monastic<br />

companion got down from the train and were walking to the platform to<br />

see what could be done, since Maharaj had to return to the <strong>Math</strong> as early<br />

as possible for some urgent work. A devotee also got down from the<br />

Kolkata-bound Rajdhani Express, and was walking unawares towards them.<br />

On meeting Maharaj, he requested him to board the Rajdhani Express since<br />

this train would reach the destination earlier. The station master was kind<br />

enough to issue the tickets for this. All through the journey the devotee<br />

noticed that not even once did Maharaj lose his composure.<br />

A young sadhu who had come to <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> to attend the annual conference<br />

of Heads of Centres (in 1990 or 1991) narrated the following incident:<br />

Maharaj asked me to stay in a common room since all other rooms were<br />

occupied by senior sadhus. The next morning Maharaj came to the door of<br />

my room and said, “I am very sorry that I could not give you better<br />

accommodation. All other rooms are occupied.” I said that it did not matter<br />

at all and that I was not inconvenienced. I was surprised that he was so<br />

upset for the sake of such a junior monk.<br />

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Another sadhu narrated the following incident: I was sick for some time<br />

during January-February 2011. On the doctor’s advice I was bed-ridden<br />

for some days. Having not seen me for a few days, Maharaj made enquiries<br />

and, on learning that I was sick, he came direct to my room to see me. I<br />

was really taken aback since he was one of the Vice-Presidents of the<br />

Sangha and I was quite junior to him. He sat down in my room and spoke<br />

without any formalities for a long time. Everything about <strong>Prameyananda</strong><br />

was unostentatious. That day he suddenly said to me, “Listen, my body<br />

won’t last for long.” I just blurted out, “What are you saying, Maharaj?”<br />

To which he again replied, “No, this body will not last long.” How could<br />

I know that his words would prove so true!<br />

A well-established, longstanding devotee of Maharaj talks about<br />

<strong>Prameyananda</strong>’s sense of humour: Once the devotee said to Maharaj, “My<br />

father unnecessarily bothers about his health. I know that nothing is wrong<br />

with him.” And Maharaj smilingly replied, “Just wait. When you reach his<br />

age you will understand this thoroughly!”<br />

To the mother of the same devotee Maharaj had once firmly said, “Come<br />

for Pranams only on special days,” because Maharaj knew that by coming<br />

regularly and doing Pranams, the lady’s spondylitis would worsen.<br />

One of <strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda’s disciples who knew <strong>Prameyananda</strong> for<br />

many years reminisced: “Ramgopal Maharaj used to feel a lot for devotees<br />

of Thakur. I have heard my mother saying that it is only because of him<br />

that our entire family could get initiation from Prabhu Maharaj. It seems<br />

that Ramgopal Maharaj had said to my mother, ‘You all belong to this<br />

place. Where else will you go?’”<br />

When any devotee would do Pranams to <strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong>, after<br />

enquiring about the welfare of the members of the family, he would also<br />

ask about the others who had not come to the <strong>Math</strong> for long. And the last<br />

question would invariably be, “You will have prasad. Won’t you?” He<br />

would always make special enquiries about the overseas devotees and those<br />

coming from distant parts of the country.<br />

When Ramgopal Maharaj visited Hollywood centre (before becoming<br />

Vice-President) a devotee who had settled in the USA came to see him.<br />

The devotee had received initiation from <strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda when he<br />

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was a young boy of 16. Ramgopal Maharaj had always given him timely<br />

guidance and mental strength. At Hollywood the devotee complained to<br />

Maharaj that even after 30 years of initiation, he had not had any vision of<br />

Thakur which means that he had not made any spiritual progress.<br />

<strong>Prameyananda</strong> simply said to him, “Then leave Thakur.” At this the devotee<br />

said, “No Maharaj, I cannot do that. I cannot leave Thakur whatever<br />

happens.” Maharaj then smiled and said, “If you can’t leave Thakur then<br />

how can you say you have not made progress?”<br />

This Hollywood incident relates to a doctor. He had recently joined work<br />

in a new hospital. For his new office he requested Maharaj to send a picture<br />

of Thakur and the Holy Mother which had been sanctified by touching it<br />

to the altars in the two temples. The devotee was very happy when Maharaj<br />

sent him what he had sought.<br />

Another devotee who is also settled in the USA narrates an interesting<br />

incident which reflects the subtle sense of humour which Ramgopal Maharaj<br />

had. This devotee was privileged to have diksha from <strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda<br />

at <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> in 1971. Thereafter he visited many branches of the <strong>Math</strong><br />

and Mission whenever <strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda happened to be camping<br />

there. He had the good fortune of being present at the Hyderabad <strong>Math</strong>’s<br />

temple consecration ceremony in 1976. Seeing him <strong>Prameyananda</strong> remarked,<br />

“Ana... keeps chasing his guru all over the country…We have to keep an<br />

eye on him!”<br />

Once a devotee asked Maharaj about the condition of her parents-in-law<br />

who stay near <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong>. Maharaj replied, “Don’t worry. They are<br />

now under our care. They will not be inconvenienced at all.” This concern<br />

and feeling for the <strong>Math</strong>’s devotees was a unique trait of Ramgopal<br />

Maharaj.<br />

Even the employees at <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> were under his watchful gaze and<br />

enjoyed his loving protection. After his passing away, an employee said<br />

sorrowfully, “It seems like one of our guardians is no more.”<br />

A lady devotee who had seen Maharaj from his Shillong days reminisced<br />

as follows: “I have no doubt that my parents were very close to Ramgopal<br />

Maharaj. My father would address him as Mahaprabhu. At this Maharaj’s<br />

face would light up with joy. Despite many attempts my parents never<br />

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succeeded in making Pranams to Maharaj. He would laugh away their<br />

attempts and say in the Sylhet accent A-ee tay-ee hoe-i-boe i.e. this is<br />

enough. He would always share our family’s joys and sorrows with utmost<br />

feeling. When I lost my mother, the first person I called to give the news<br />

was Maharaj. He remained silent for a minute or two and then said in a<br />

calm voice, Don’t grieve.Your mother has indeed gone to Ramakrishnaloka.”<br />

A couple staying at the <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> guesthouse would make Pranams<br />

morning and evening to Ramgopal Maharaj. On the day they were to leave<br />

for home it was announced that Maharaj was suffering from toothache and<br />

hence would not sit for accepting Pranams that morning. After having their<br />

noon prasad, the couple vacated the guesthouse but spent the afternoon<br />

sitting on the bank of the Ganga with the hope that they would make<br />

Pranams to Maharaj later and then go. At long last when one full hour had<br />

elapsed after the regular evening Pranam-timing, they could offer their<br />

Pranams. They said to Maharaj, “How could we go without seeing you?”<br />

And Maharaj replied smilingly, “That’s the reason I’m sitting here. Stay<br />

well and come again.” They later said that they had wept a lot on the return<br />

journey. They felt that Maharaj knew that they would not be able to bear<br />

the pain of separation and it was hence that he decided to see them.<br />

Once, a youth’s book review had been published in the Udbodhan. Maharaj<br />

had read it and when the youth came to see him he said to him that the<br />

review was well written. The youth was surprised that a Vice-President of<br />

the Ramakrishna <strong>Math</strong> & Ramakrishna Mission had read something written<br />

by him and remembered it. He said that this revealed Maharaj’s humanism.<br />

Maharaj also told him to read Ramakrishna-Sarada-Vivekananda literature<br />

more and more, and also to write on these topics.<br />

The following incident shows how Maharaj could draw volunteers towards<br />

himself: <strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda was once to go to Digboi (Assam);<br />

everything had been arranged. However, as two of the sevaks fell ill, his<br />

programme became uncertain. Devesh Maharaj, a disciple of the Holy<br />

Mother, was then staying at the Digboi ashrama (unaffiliated to the<br />

Ramakrishna <strong>Math</strong>/Mission even on this date). He was very keen that<br />

<strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda should visit the ashrama once to bless the local<br />

devotees. <strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong> then wrote to Devesh Maharaj that if Apu,<br />

a young devotee staying in Guwahati, could go to Digboi to attend to seva<br />

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of <strong>Swami</strong> Vireswarananda, then possibly President Maharaj could go there.<br />

Devesh Maharaj accordingly wrote to Apu’s father and Apu left for Digboi<br />

soon after. Apu felt very much blessed for this favour that came his way.<br />

Even today he remembers <strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong> with gratitude for this<br />

singular opportunity.<br />

Once in 1990, Ramgopal Maharaj was discussing with the <strong>Math</strong> volunteers,<br />

the arrangements to be made during Thakur’s tithi puja. After one or two<br />

sadhus had spoken, Maharaj simply said to the volunteers, “Just put yourself<br />

in the place of the devotee. You will then easily understand what the devotee<br />

wants from you.”<br />

A volunteer attached to <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> and the Bamunmura ashrama (at the<br />

birthplace of <strong>Swami</strong> Shankarananda), who is himself a disciple of <strong>Swami</strong><br />

Shankarananda, remembers the following incidents:<br />

(1) “<strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong> would come to stay at the Bamummura ashrama<br />

on many occasions; the serene atmosphere here pleased him much. Once<br />

on his way to Taki centre, he spent the night at Bamunmura. After returning<br />

to <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> from Taki, he called me to convey that he had enjoyed his<br />

stay at Bamunmura very much.”<br />

(2) When he was manager of <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong>, Maharaj would stay in Mahapurush<br />

Maharaj’s room. This room would get very hot in summer and draughts of<br />

warm air would fill the room from the northern terrace. It was suggested<br />

to him that if a thick coir screen (khus khus purda) could be fixed outside<br />

the door, the heat could be reduced. Maharaj replied that many Mahapurushas<br />

had stayed in the same room. He did not allow anything to be done about<br />

the heat.<br />

(3) On one occasion <strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong> had gone to stay one night in<br />

the Bamunmura ashrama along with Gopal Maharaj (<strong>Swami</strong> Dhyeyananda).<br />

He requested Gopal Maharaj to stay in the larger room and he himself<br />

stayed in the smaller room. (This incident took place about 20 years ago<br />

when the ashrama was yet not affiliated to the Ramakrishna <strong>Math</strong>).<br />

(4) A pocket watch used by <strong>Swami</strong> Shankarananda was given to me by<br />

Ramgopal Maharaj, to be preserved at the Bamunmura centre. The watch<br />

is still kept in <strong>Swami</strong> Shankarananda’s room there.<br />

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Maharaj had gone to the Baghbazar <strong>Math</strong> (Mayer Bari/Udbodhan) in April<br />

2011 for giving diksha. A few days before going there he had told the<br />

Mayer Bari sadhus that he would give diksha this time to the small daughter<br />

of a devotee. After he became a Vice-President, Maharaj was asked to give<br />

initiation to a little girl, who was about 8 years old. Maharaj then replied<br />

that the girl should wait for some more time. During this visit to the<br />

Udbodhan, Maharaj asked the girl from whom she wanted to take mantra<br />

diksha. The girl replied, “I will take diksha from Ramgopal Maharaj.”<br />

Maharaj laughed at this and said, “Oh! You will take initiation from<br />

Ramgopal Maharaj?” And the next morning he did give her the holy mantra.<br />

Everybody was surprised at this; but Maharaj knew that this was the last<br />

chance for him to fulfill the girl’s desire, for he would not again come to<br />

Mayer Bari.<br />

On the morning of 20 October the news of his Mahasamadhi spread fast<br />

through the various media channels. Devotees started streaming into the<br />

Seva Pratishthan hospital to have the final glimpse of his body. Around 3<br />

pm that afternoon his body was brought to the <strong>Math</strong> and kept for darshan<br />

in the cultural hall adjoining the Ganga. Many sadhus, brahmacharins,<br />

sannyasinis from the Sarada <strong>Math</strong> and devotees came to pay their last<br />

respects until 11.15 am the next day. The Chief Minister of West Bengal<br />

sent a wreath through a representative.<br />

The funeral pyre was set on fire at about 12.40 pm. The cremation was<br />

accompanied with the traditional songs and Kali Kirtan. A few timely<br />

showers marked the end of the cremation rituals.<br />

<strong>Swami</strong> <strong>Prameyananda</strong> had said on the Mission’s Foundation Day Anniversary<br />

at <strong>Belur</strong> <strong>Math</strong> on 1 May 2010, “The Lord’s Chariot (literally Jagannath’s<br />

Rath) is on the move. Whoever holds on to it will indeed be blessed.” He<br />

had himself held on to this Ramakrishna Mission chariot and attained eternal<br />

Bliss.<br />

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