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<strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> <strong>Handbook</strong><br />

Revised April 2012<br />

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Contents<br />

Requirements .............................................................................................................................................................. 6<br />

Hebrew and Cantillation Proficiency ....................................................................................................................... 6<br />

Torah and Haftarah ................................................................................................................................................. 6<br />

Drasha (Interpretation)............................................................................................................................................ 6<br />

<strong>Mitzvah</strong> Project........................................................................................................................................................ 6<br />

Meditational Reading .............................................................................................................................................. 7<br />

Sermon Topic........................................................................................................................................................... 7<br />

Continuing Jewish Education................................................................................................................................... 7<br />

Liturgy Schedule ...................................................................................................................................................... 7<br />

Preparing for <strong>Bat</strong>/<strong>Bar</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong>..................................................................................................................................... 7<br />

Wearing a Tallit and Kippah..................................................................................................................................... 7<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> First Meeting ................................................................................................................................ 8<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> Final Run-­‐Through ........................................................................................................................ 8<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> Service and Celebration................................................................................................................ 8<br />

The Service ........................................................................................................................................................... 8<br />

Invitations............................................................................................................................................................. 8<br />

Decorum............................................................................................................................................................... 8<br />

Special Shabbat Morning Music ........................................................................................................................... 9<br />

The Custodian....................................................................................................................................................... 9<br />

The <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Micah</strong> Community ............................................................................................................................ 9<br />

Story in the “Vine”................................................................................................................................................ 9<br />

Kiddush Reception-­‐Set-­‐Up ................................................................................................................................... 9<br />

Kiddush Reception-­‐Food .................................................................................................................................... 10<br />

Other Rentals ..................................................................................................................................................... 10<br />

Oneg Shabbat..................................................................................................................................................... 10<br />

Bimah Decoration............................................................................................................................................... 10<br />

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Ushers................................................................................................................................................................. 10<br />

Voice Recording.................................................................................................................................................. 10<br />

Photography and Video Recording..................................................................................................................... 10<br />

Wine and Challah ............................................................................................................................................... 11<br />

Seating Arrangements........................................................................................................................................ 11<br />

Service Participation........................................................................................................................................... 11<br />

Participation of non-­‐Jews................................................................................................................................... 11<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> Fees ................................................................................................................................................ 12<br />

Audio Files ................................................................................................................................................................. 12<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> Supplier Suggestions....................................................................................................................... 13<br />

<strong>Mitzvah</strong> project ideas ................................................................................................................................................ 14<br />

If you’re interested in:........................................................................................................................................ 14<br />

You might want to… ........................................................................................................................................... 14<br />

Contact: .............................................................................................................................................................. 14<br />

J-­‐Connect <strong>Mitzvah</strong> Project List .................................................................................................................................. 16<br />

Hunger/Homelessness/Poverty............................................................................................................................. 16<br />

DC ....................................................................................................................................................................... 16<br />

Montgomery County .......................................................................................................................................... 16<br />

Northern Virginia................................................................................................................................................ 16<br />

Animals .................................................................................................................................................................. 17<br />

Environment .......................................................................................................................................................... 17<br />

Seniors ................................................................................................................................................................... 17<br />

Special Needs......................................................................................................................................................... 18<br />

Helping soldiers/veterans...................................................................................................................................... 18<br />

In-­‐house Projects................................................................................................................................................... 18<br />

Donation/Tzedakah ............................................................................................................................................... 18<br />

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Oneg Guidelines for B’nai <strong>Mitzvah</strong> Families .............................................................................................................. 20<br />

Saturday Kiddush Guidelines for B’nai <strong>Mitzvah</strong> Families........................................................................................... 21<br />

Usher Guidelines ....................................................................................................................................................... 22<br />

Prayers and Blessings ................................................................................................................................................ 23<br />

<strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Micah</strong> <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> checklist .................................................................................................................. 33<br />

For the Student...................................................................................................................................................... 33<br />

For the Family........................................................................................................................................................ 33<br />

Honors – Saturday Morning ...................................................................................................................................... 34<br />

<strong>Bat</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> Instructions for Custodial Staff....................................................................................................... 35<br />

Liturgy Schedule ........................................................................................................................................................ 36<br />

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Requirements<br />

Hebrew and Cantillation Proficiency<br />

Machon <strong>Micah</strong> provides students with individualized Hebrew instruction via Skype and a half hour weekly class on<br />

Tuesdays at 4:30 p.m. to teach blessing, prayer and chanting skills. Parents are expected to ensure that students<br />

are keeping regular Skype appointments, practicing Hebrew five minutes each day and attending Machon <strong>Micah</strong><br />

regularly. In order to begin the B’nai <strong>Mitzvah</strong> tutoring program, students will be expected to demonstrate<br />

proficiency in decoding and reading Hebrew text and prayer, and chanting Torah. The Education Director can<br />

provide parents with a list of private Hebrew tutors should one be necessary.<br />

All students must be enrolled in Machon <strong>Micah</strong> and attending regularly.<br />

Torah and Haftarah<br />

The student will learn to chant approximately 20 verses of the Torah portion and will learn to chant a portion of<br />

the corresponding Haftarah. They will also learn to chant the Torah and Haftarah blessings. The blessings can be<br />

found at the back of this booklet and on the <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Micah</strong> website (For audio visit<br />

http://www.templemicah.org/youth-­‐education/bnai-­‐mitzvah-­‐audio-­‐clips, for text see Prayers and Blessings,<br />

page 30-­‐32)<br />

The student will meet regularly with Teddy Klaus or Meryl Weiner, Ken Goldstein, and with one of the rabbis. The<br />

sessions with the tutors will begin approximately six months before the <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> date. The sessions with a<br />

rabbi will begin approximately three months before the <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> date. Please leave Tuesdays 4:00-­‐5:00<br />

and Thursdays 4:00-­‐6:30 open for tutoring sessions and Tuesdays 4:30-­‐6:30 for Machon <strong>Micah</strong>. During the<br />

summer months tutoring usually takes place on Fridays.<br />

It is expected that students will make steady progress in preparation for their <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong>. It is the student’s<br />

responsibility to practice daily and complete the homework given to them. It is the tutor’s responsibility to keep<br />

the parents informed of the student’s progress. The tutors will regularly assess the student’s progress.<br />

Drasha (Interpretation)<br />

Working with Ken Goldstein, the student will prepare an interpretation of the Torah. The rabbi will work with the<br />

student on an introductory statement for the Haftarah.<br />

<strong>Mitzvah</strong> Project<br />

In order to create a complete sense of mitzvah in the <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> celebration at <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Micah</strong>, each student<br />

is required to undertake a mitzvah project. Please see enclosed list for ideas, but you should feel free to choose<br />

your own project. See <strong>Mitzvah</strong> project ideas, page 14-­‐18.<br />

The student will participate in a project that is meaningful. The project gives the student the sense that <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong><br />

<strong>Mitzvah</strong> is part of a lifetime of Jewish involvement. Students will inform the congregation of their mitzvah project<br />

during the Saturday morning service as part of their speech and in the announcement of their upcoming <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong><br />

<strong>Mitzvah</strong> in the Vine.<br />

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Meditational Reading<br />

The student will select a poem, a passage from a favorite book, or write some other selection to read during the<br />

Friday evening service the night before the <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> service.<br />

Sermon Topic<br />

The student will pose a question to the rabbi which will become the basis for the rabbi’s sermon that will be<br />

delivered at the Shabbat morning service. Family discussion is strongly encouraged to help develop an<br />

appropriate question.<br />

Continuing Jewish Education<br />

An explicit requirement for the <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> is that each <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> student will remain registered and<br />

regularly attend Machon <strong>Micah</strong> through ninth grade.<br />

Liturgy Schedule<br />

In the months prior to the <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> service, students will be asked to lead three different parts of the<br />

worship on Shabbat morning. This will help the entire family become more familiar with Shabbat morning worship<br />

and will give the student an opportunity to become comfortable on the bimah. You will be given a schedule in<br />

advance (see page 34) and also receive email reminders the week before the student is leading prayers. At least<br />

one parent should accompany the student when it is his/her turn to lead part of the worship. It is expected that<br />

you will remain for the full Shabbat service. The more a family is familiar with our worship, the more meaningful<br />

and joyous the <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> experience will be.<br />

The three prayers the student will be learning are the Nisim, the V’ahavtah and the Avot/G’vurot. These can be<br />

found on pages 24-­‐29 and the audio can be found at http://www.templemicah.org/youth-­‐education/bnai-­‐<br />

mitzvah-­‐audio-­‐clips<br />

Preparing for <strong>Bat</strong>/<strong>Bar</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong><br />

Reviewing the portion at home with your child daily will greatly assist in your child’s success. Listening to him/her<br />

read and/or chant out loud (even if you do not know Hebrew) is part of the preparation process. This creates a<br />

supportive environment and also aids the student in building the confidence necessary to chant in front of many<br />

people.<br />

Students and their families are asked to attend Shabbat worship on a regular basis during the <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong><br />

year. Becoming familiar with Shabbat worship is an essential part of the <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> experience.<br />

Wearing a Tallit and Kippah<br />

The wearing of a tallit or kippah is not required for Shabbat morning worship at <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Micah</strong>. However, many<br />

students choose to wear a tallit and/or kippah when they become <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong>. Please note: in the case of<br />

kippah, if one decides to wear a kippah when they become <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong>, they should begin now and continue<br />

for all worship services. Should a student decide to wear a tallit when they become <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong>, they are<br />

committing to the wearing of a tallit after the <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> for Shabbat morning and holiday morning worship.<br />

(As well as for Kol Nidre and evening services when the Torah is read, such as Simchat Torah.) Neither a kippah<br />

nor a tallit is worn as a one-­‐time <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> accessory. The Judaica shop has a nice variety of taillitot for<br />

sale.<br />

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<strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> First Meeting<br />

The first meeting with the tutor will be held approximately six months before the <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> date. It is<br />

expected that the student will be accompanied by their parent(s). All parties involved (student, parent[s], and<br />

tutor) will have a chance to start the process “on the same page.”<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> Final Run-­‐Through<br />

The final run-­‐through with the rabbi will be held on the Thursday prior to the <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> at 3:30 p.m. unless<br />

the family is otherwise notified. The <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> student and parent(s) must be present; other service<br />

participants do not need to attend.<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> Service and Celebration<br />

The Board of Directors has adopted the following policies in connection with <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> services.<br />

The Service<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> services are held on Shabbat mornings and include the participation of our choir. Services begin<br />

at 10:15 a.m. and last approximately 2 hours.<br />

Invitations<br />

ALL members of the B’nai <strong>Mitzvah</strong> class and their parents should receive an invitation to each others’ <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong><br />

<strong>Mitzvah</strong> services, as well as to any celebration at <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Micah</strong> held directly following the service. While this may<br />

place a financial burden on the family, we suggest that a scaled down menu for young guests is a simple way to<br />

lessen the cost in favor of promoting inclusiveness and strong community bonds.<br />

For any celebration held outside of <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Micah</strong>, the entire class should be invited. The spirit of this policy is<br />

that no student at <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Micah</strong> should feel excluded, and we want this year to be one during which the<br />

classmates can really bond socially at the parties. While this may place a financial burden on your family, we<br />

suggest that a scaled down menu for young guests is a simple way to lessen the cost. It's our experience that<br />

young guests spend very little time at the table so a slice of pizza and two flavors of ice cream usually are more<br />

than enough! We feel that the importance of inclusiveness and strong class relationships far outweighs the<br />

importance of the menu at these celebrations. This is the only policy we can think of that will prevent any<br />

members of the class from being marginalized.<br />

Please remember the invitation should reflect the dignity of the religious service. This is an invitation to a worship<br />

service.<br />

It is customary for the class and families to attend the Friday evening service prior to the <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong>.<br />

Decorum<br />

If your guests are unfamiliar with <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Micah</strong>, you may wish to let them know what to expect. Your guests,<br />

especially younger ones, may need to be reminded of proper attire and decorum. <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> services are<br />

religious ceremonies and should be respected as just that.<br />

The following are some guidelines to help your guests understand what's appropriate in this setting.<br />

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Behavior:<br />

• Turn off all cell phones or electronics before the service starts. Texting is not OK during the service.<br />

• Don’t talk to the people sitting next to you during the service. It is a religious ceremony and the noise<br />

can disturb people who are praying.<br />

• No eating or drinking in the sanctuary. This includes things like candy, gum, and water.<br />

Clothing Choices:<br />

The clothes you wear must be appropriate for anyone's worship service, whether it's in a church, a<br />

mosque, or a synagogue. The following clothes are not appropriate: jeans, cut offs, t-­‐shirts, crop tops,<br />

baseball caps, flip flops, or strapless tops.<br />

Special Shabbat Morning Music<br />

The choir enhances the beauty of our worship. The Music Director will contact you to discuss a special choir<br />

selection for the Shabbat morning service.<br />

The Custodian<br />

It is customary that the family give a gratuity to the custodian for the regular set up of a <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> Kiddush<br />

following Shabbat morning services. Gratuities in the $100 -­‐ $150 range are customary. In the case of a more<br />

extensive Kiddush luncheon, Friday night dinner at the temple, and/or Saturday evening party at the temple, it is<br />

recommended that a larger gratuity be given to the custodian. Please contact the executive director for more<br />

information.<br />

The <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Micah</strong> Community<br />

The beauty of our worship depends upon a regular weekly Shabbat morning service. This atmosphere of prayer<br />

can be maintained only if there are a number of congregants present who know our customs and participate in<br />

the worship. Every worship service at <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Micah</strong> is a community service and we encourage congregational<br />

attendance.<br />

It is our custom to welcome the entire congregation to the kiddush following Shabbat morning services.<br />

Provisions should be made to have enough food for all community members. Usually, that means adding 50<br />

people to the number of your invited guests. There may, in fact, be other s’machot (celebrations) or life-­‐cycle<br />

observances being held at this service. These families may wish to participate in hosting the kiddush with you.<br />

Should that be the case, you will be contacted. Please speak with one of the rabbis if you have any financial<br />

concerns.<br />

Story in the “Vine”<br />

A short profile of your child will be printed in the Vine.<br />

Kiddush Reception-­‐Set-­‐Up<br />

The <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> fee covers the set-­‐up of a standard stand-­‐up Kiddush using <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Micah</strong> furniture. This<br />

includes buffet tables for the food and minimal seating. To request a particular set up see <strong>Bat</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong><br />

Instructions for Custodial Staff, page 35.<br />

Fuller seating and any reception that involves rental furniture carries additional fees. (See Facilities Reservation<br />

Request Form, separate document). All rental equipment must be removed by 5:00 p.m. Saturday unless the<br />

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family has reserved and rented the social hall for a Saturday evening reception. If furniture remains past 5:00<br />

p.m., extra fees will be incurred.<br />

Kiddush Reception-­‐Food<br />

Any food served at <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Micah</strong> may not include pork products or shellfish. There should be no mixing of milk<br />

and meat in the same dish. Please have a vegetarian option. All leftover food must be removed from the kitchen<br />

the day of the <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong>. We have no storage facilities. Please inform your caterer.<br />

The Kiddush Reception is your opportunity to share your celebration with the <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Micah</strong> community, as well<br />

as with your invited guests. Our hope is that every family will create a warm and welcoming atmosphere, allowing<br />

members of the congregation and invited guests to celebrate with them and share their joy. If you are having an<br />

additional luncheon offsite, we encourage you to participate in <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Micah</strong>’s Kiddush first. We’d like you to<br />

view the Kiddush you are hosting as an opportunity to deepen your relationship with the <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Micah</strong><br />

community. Please review the Kiddush guidelines on Page 21 in this booklet for details.<br />

Other Rentals<br />

The family should request a reservation from the Executive Director at least six months in advance if it wishes to<br />

use the building for any evening event (Friday Shabbat dinner or Saturday evening party) held in conjunction with<br />

the <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong>. Please See the form and fee schedule (separate document).<br />

Oneg Shabbat<br />

The B’nai <strong>Mitzvah</strong> class is responsible for the Friday evening Oneg Shabbat prior to each <strong>Bat</strong>/<strong>Bar</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong>. The<br />

class organizes its own schedule. The responsibilities include providing the food, setting it up, and cleaning up<br />

after services. Every family should be helping with every job during the evenings they are assigned. See Oneg<br />

Guidelines for B’nai <strong>Mitzvah</strong> Families, page 20.<br />

Bimah Decoration<br />

The family may want to have bimah flowers or potted plants. Delivery to the <strong>Temple</strong> must be between 10:00 a.m.<br />

and 1:00 p.m. on Friday (the day before the <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> date). NO heavily scented flowers, like eucalyptus,<br />

lilies, freesia or forsythia, are allowed. Please be sensitive to the allergies of the congregation and its leaders.<br />

In lieu of flowers some families have chosen to further enrich their celebration by adorning the bimah with<br />

baskets of non-­‐perishable food or other charitable items which are later donated to the charity of their choice.<br />

Ushers<br />

The family should invite five people – three <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Micah</strong> classmates and two parents of <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Micah</strong><br />

classmates -­‐ to act as ushers for the Shabbat morning service. Ushers should be members of <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Micah</strong> who<br />

are familiar with Shabbat morning worship. The families hosting the Friday evening Oneg will usher for that<br />

service. See Usher Guidelines, page 22.<br />

Voice Recording<br />

The <strong>Temple</strong> provides an audio recording of the Shabbat morning service.<br />

Photography and Video Recording<br />

Both photography and video recording are absolutely forbidden during Shabbat worship services, both Friday and<br />

Saturday. You may take photos of the blessings over wine and challah at the conclusion of the Shabbat morning<br />

service and at the Kiddush. Some families choose to retain a photographer to take pictures in the sanctuary after<br />

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services are concluded. Please note that there is no photography before the service or during the Thursday run-­‐<br />

through. Some make arrangements to have a photographer come to the building for a photo session during the<br />

week prior to services. If you choose to do this, please make appropriate arrangements with the <strong>Temple</strong> office.<br />

The Torah may not be used during photo sessions. Bima microphones may not be moved.<br />

Wine and Challah<br />

The Shabbat morning <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> service concludes with the blessings over wine and challah. The <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong><br />

<strong>Mitzvah</strong> family is required to provide a 4-­‐5 pound Challah (or two 2 pound challot). The challah should be made<br />

available to the ushers at least a half hour before the start of the service.<br />

Seating Arrangements<br />

Seating at services is unassigned, with the exception of the choir which sits in the section to the left (Ark) side of<br />

the bimah. The <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> family customarily sits in the front row on the right side facing the bimah.<br />

To facilitate the flow of the service, it is suggested that the family inform persons who will be participating in the<br />

service to sit near an aisle.<br />

Please inform your guests that families with babies or small children may choose to sit near the quiet room.<br />

Service Participation<br />

The <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> family selects individuals for the Shabbat morning service honors. The form on page 34 must<br />

be submitted to the office no less than 10 days prior to the <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> date.<br />

The family chooses the Torah blessers for aliyot two, three, and four. These individuals must be Jewish and 13<br />

years or older. For guidelines regarding non-­‐Jewish participation, please see the next section. The first aliyah is<br />

assigned by the <strong>Temple</strong> to a community member who is commemorating or celebrating an event. The fourth<br />

aliyah includes the parents of the <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> student. The fifth aliyah is reserved for the <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong><br />

student.<br />

The Friday evening candle blessing and the Kiddush for the wine are led by the <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> family. Other<br />

<strong>Temple</strong> events sometimes necessitate that the Friday honors be shared with others. You will be notified if this is<br />

the case.<br />

The candle blessing and Kiddush can be found on page 23 and the audio can be found at<br />

http://www.templemicah.org/youth-­‐education/bnai-­‐mitzvah-­‐audio-­‐clips.<br />

During the Torah service, the parents and grandparents are invited to the bimah for the passing of the scroll.<br />

At the end of the Torah service, the <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> parents are invited to the bimah to sing the “Shehecheyanu”<br />

blessing with the congregation to celebrate the sacred occasion. See separate sheet<br />

Participation of non-­‐Jews<br />

It is the goal of <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Micah</strong> to create a congregation that welcomes everyone, Jew and non-­‐Jew, while at the<br />

same time preserving the integrity of Jewish ritual and tradition. Participation of non-­‐Jewish relatives in <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong><br />

<strong>Mitzvah</strong> services must be in accordance with the following guidelines:<br />

Non-­‐Jewish family members may not lead prayers whose words presuppose that the reader is Jewish (i.e.,<br />

prayers, such as the Torah blessings, which contain such language as “who has commanded us...” or “who has<br />

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chosen us...” or “who has sanctified us...”) or where the ritual action implies that the doer of the action is Jewish<br />

(i.e. symbolically passing or carrying the Torah)<br />

We distinguish between participation as a congregant and as a leader on behalf of the congregation. There is no<br />

restriction on the participation of non-­‐Jews in the midst of the congregation. Ritual participation in a leadership<br />

role is limited to those situations or contexts where the words and /or actions of the non-­‐Jewish participant do<br />

not compromise either that person’s own beliefs or the integrity of the Jewish service.<br />

Non-­‐Jewish family members can do the following:<br />

1. Accompany the Jewish spouse to the bimah while the Jewish spouse blesses the Torah<br />

2. Come to the bimah while the Torah is passed by the Jewish family members<br />

3. Open the ark<br />

4. Accompany the family for the blessings over the wine and candles<br />

5. Participate in the family Shehecheyanu blessing<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> Fees<br />

Each family will be charged a <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> fee. The fee for 2012-­‐2013 is $2000. This fee is subject to annual<br />

review by the Board of Directors. The synagogue invests a great amount of resources into the <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong><br />

experience. This fee helps to defray some of the costs associated, which include tutoring, individual meetings and<br />

rehearsals with the rabbis, and administrative and custodial support. If the staff assesses that your child needs<br />

tutoring beyond the traditional six month preparation time, arrangements will be made on an individual basis and<br />

additional fees will apply.<br />

These fees, which include payment for your child’s <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> tutoring, must be paid in full six (6) months<br />

prior to the <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> date.<br />

Audio Files<br />

All prayers and blessings associated with <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> preparation can be found on the <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Micah</strong> website<br />

at this link: http://www.templemicah.org/religschool/bnai-mitzvah-audio-clips. To listen click on the link<br />

and open with your default audio file program (Windows Media Player, iTunes, etc.)<br />

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<strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> Supplier Suggestions<br />

These lists are here to help you, but we don’t necessarily endorse these vendors.<br />

Five Pound Challahs<br />

• Wagshall's<br />

• Bethesda Bagel<br />

• Heidelberg Bakery<br />

• Breads Unlimited<br />

• Marvelous Market<br />

Caterers<br />

• <strong>Micah</strong> Cooks -­‐ Contact Adrienne Umansky: (202) 543-­‐566, <strong>Micah</strong>Cooks@<strong>Temple</strong><strong>Micah</strong>.org<br />

• 3rd and Eats<br />

o This caterer works with a social agency to provide training and employment for those in need<br />

• Bethesda Bagels -­‐ (301) 652-­‐8990<br />

• Cafe Ole -­‐ (202) 244-­‐1330<br />

• Lebanese Taverna -­‐ (703) 841-­‐1503<br />

• Matters of Taste-­‐Alexandria – (702) 685-­‐6555<br />

• Artistry Catering (Kosher) – (703) 502-­‐7620, www.artistrycatering.com<br />

• Spring Valley Catering (Wagshall’s) – (202) 363-­‐8807<br />

• Gourmet by Karen – (301) 518-­‐1319<br />

• Helen’s Catering – (202) 483-­‐4444<br />

Florist<br />

• Chevy Chase Florist -­‐ (301) 986-­‐0986<br />

• Amaryllis – www.amaryllisdesigns.com<br />

Places to Shop for Tallitot<br />

• <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Micah</strong> Gift Shop<br />

o Contact Ellen Sommer: judaica@templemicah.org<br />

• The Jewish Bookstore in Wheaton -­‐ (301) 942-­‐2237, www.levinejudaica.com<br />

• Reeva Schaeffer -­‐ www.reevas.com<br />

DJs<br />

• David Rastatter -­‐ A <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Micah</strong> “graduate” www.myspace.com/DavidRas<br />

• Jared Rosen -­‐ (301) 785-­‐5393, djjaredrosen@gmail.com<br />

• DJ Ricky Bullis from Bialek's Music<br />

Photographers<br />

• Daniel Rosenbaum<br />

o 202-­‐337-­‐0896, derosenbaum@gmail.com, www.rosetreephotography.com<br />

• Jerry Frishman -­‐ 301-­‐948-­‐1329, www.jfphoto.com/index2.php<br />

• Greg Whitesell -­‐ gregwhitesell@comcast.net<br />

• Andrew Harnick -­‐ andrew@andrewharnik.com<br />

• Michael Kress and Associates – http://mymbkphoto.com/<br />

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<strong>Mitzvah</strong> project ideas<br />

If you’re interested in: You might want to… Contact:<br />

<strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Micah</strong> • Volunteer at Tot Shabbat<br />

• Do odd jobs around the <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Micah</strong><br />

building<br />

• Help maintain the website<br />

Expanding your Jewish<br />

Knowledge<br />

• Commit to reading one Jewish book each<br />

month for a year.<br />

• Make challah each week; have some on<br />

Shabbat and give some to another family.<br />

Homelessness • Make fleece scarves and hats and distribute<br />

them.<br />

• Make bagged lunches or dinners and<br />

distribute them.<br />

Hunger • Contribute 3% of the cost of your party (or<br />

the gifts you receive) to Mazon<br />

• Share your celebration with someone -­‐ bake<br />

a cake for a soup kitchen<br />

• Deliver meals to the men at St. Luke’s<br />

Shelter<br />

Jews in Other Countries • Help provide school supplies for Ethiopian<br />

children<br />

• Find out what synagogues worldwide need<br />

and help to fill those needs.<br />

Children’s Issues • Knit scarves and mittens for orphans in<br />

Eastern Europe.<br />

• Become a volunteer tutor.<br />

• Become a volunteer coach.<br />

• Find out about your local freecycling group<br />

Poverty<br />

or redistribution center and get involved.<br />

Health Issues • Bring Shabbat care packages to people who<br />

are hospitalized.<br />

• Record books on tape for children who are<br />

hospitalized.<br />

• Sponsor an event to raise money &<br />

awareness about an illness that’s important<br />

to you.<br />

Environmental Issues • Plant trees<br />

• Make your own bar/bat mitzvah invitations<br />

using recycled paper.<br />

• Hold a clean up day at a local park.<br />

• Learn about where all of the food you eat<br />

comes from and think about changing<br />

anything that doesn’t live up to your ethical<br />

standards<br />

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Meryl Weiner<br />

Susie Blumenthal<br />

David Diskin<br />

www.mazon.org<br />

North American Conference<br />

on Ethiopian Jewry<br />

World Union for Progressive<br />

Judaism<br />

Warm Woolies<br />

www.freecycle.org


Senior Citizens • Use your talents at a residential care facility<br />

for senior citizens –sing, paint portraits, do a<br />

magic show.<br />

• Volunteer to take oral histories.<br />

People with Disabilities • Serve as a classroom, camp, or activity aide.<br />

• Figure out how you can help someone with a<br />

disability have greater access to one of your<br />

favorite activities or places; then make it<br />

happen.<br />

Immigrants • Help some study for the citizenship test.<br />

• Create welcome packets for the new<br />

immigrants in your neighborhood, helping<br />

them understand the most recent American<br />

trends.<br />

<strong>Bat</strong>tered women • Hold a cell phone drive.<br />

• Hold a clothing drive among your parent’s<br />

friends for gently worn business clothing.<br />

Saving a Life • Learn CPR.<br />

• Organize a blood drive or a bone marrow<br />

registration drive.<br />

Caring for Members of the<br />

Community<br />

• Organize a cemetery cleanup.<br />

• Work with Hineni to bring meals or serve as<br />

a friendly visitor to <strong>Micah</strong> members who are<br />

lonely or ill.<br />

Animals • Volunteer at an animal shelter.<br />

• Adopt and train a dog for the blind.<br />

Worker’s Rights • Compile a list of all of the restaurants or<br />

businesses in your area that treat their<br />

workers fairly.<br />

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Dress for Success<br />

American Red Cross<br />

www.marrow.org<br />

hineni@templemicah.org


J-­‐Connect <strong>Mitzvah</strong> Project List<br />

For more details and contact information for any of the opportunities<br />

listed below please contact Jewish Volunteer Connection 1-­‐888-­‐246-­‐<br />

1818 volunteer@shalomdc.org<br />

Hunger/Homelessness/Poverty<br />

DC<br />

• Capital Area Food Bank – Food sorting. Suitable for school/teen groups.<br />

• DC Central Kitchen -­‐ Volunteers can do food service/kitchen work onsite or prepare meals off-­‐site. Min.<br />

Age 12, maximum group size 25. Suitable for school/ teen groups.<br />

• Food and Friends – Meal program and Food bank for people with HIV/AIDS and serious illness. Prepare<br />

food onsite, work in food pantry, deliver food packages. Suitable for school/ teen groups.<br />

• So Others May Eat – Food service/kitchen work onsite or prepare meals off-­‐site. Min. Age 13/Gr. 7 for<br />

Food Service, Gr. 10+ for Kitchen Work. Maximum Group size 8, 1 adult for every 5 students. Suitable for<br />

school/ teen groups.<br />

• Suited for Change – Sort donated clothes and help with mailings. Usually on Saturdays but weekdays can<br />

be arranged. Suitable for high-­‐school/teen groups.<br />

• Washington DCJCC Morris Cafritz Center for Community Service – Behrend Builders – Repair, rebuild, and<br />

renovate homes, shelters, and community centers; Hunger Action – Prepare food for homeless shelters.<br />

Suitable for families, school/ teen groups.<br />

• Yachad – Repair and renovate low-­‐income homeowner’s houses. Min. Age 14. Suitable for high-­‐<br />

school/teen groups.<br />

Montgomery County<br />

• Interfaith Clothing Center – Rockville/Gaithersburg. Sort, fold, and display donated clothing and house<br />

wares. Collect & donate clothing & household items. Rockville hours MWTh 9-­‐5, Sa 9-­‐2. Suitable for<br />

school/teen groups.<br />

• Interfaith Works Community-­‐Based Shelter/Community Vision/Horizon House – Rockville/Silver<br />

Spring/Gaithersburg -­‐ Prepare meals or bag lunches offsite & dinner service for homeless clients. Lawn<br />

Maintenance/Clean-­‐up. Collect & donate food, toiletries & household items. Suitable for young<br />

children/families, school/ teen groups.<br />

• Montgomery County Coalition For The Homeless – Rockville. Prepare weekend meals or weekday bag<br />

lunches offsite for homeless clients. Collect & donate food, toiletries & household items. Suitable for<br />

young children/families, school/ teen groups.<br />

• Shepherd's Table – Silver Spring. Food preparation and service onsite. Volunteering and/or activities for<br />

High school/College, Middle School and Elementary School students. Collect & donate clothing, food,<br />

toiletries, OTC medications & household items. Suitable for school/teen groups.<br />

Northern Virginia<br />

• Capital Area Food Bank – Lorton. Food sorting. Suitable for school/teen groups.<br />

• Food for Others – Fairfax. Food sorting. Suitable for school/teen groups.<br />

• Reston Interfaith – Reston VA. Purchase, prepare, and deliver bag lunches to the Embry Rucker<br />

Community Shelter for their homeless clients. Collect & donate clothing, toiletries & household items.<br />

Suitable for young children/families, school/ teen groups.<br />

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Animals<br />

• All-­‐Breed rescue & Referral. MD. Adoption events, fundraising, collect pet supplies. Children/ young<br />

teens can come to adoption events with adult accompaniment.<br />

• Lucky Dog Animal Rescue. DC, VA. Adoption events, fundraising, collect pet supplies. Min. age 12 to<br />

volunteer with a parent at adoption events, and 16 to handle a dog solo.<br />

• Partnership for Animal Welfare (PAW Rescue). MD. Adoption events, fundraising, collect pet supplies.<br />

Volunteers under 18 can come to adoption events with adult accompaniment. Min age17 for walking<br />

kenneled dogs w/out adult accompaniment.<br />

• People Animals Love (PAL).DC. Pet visits, animal companionship and education, fundraising, online<br />

shopping. No minimum age for volunteers; however, anyone under 18 must be accompanied by an adult.<br />

• PetConnect Rescue. MD, VA. Adoption events, fundraising, collect pet supplies. Children/ young teens<br />

can come to adoption events with adult accompaniment.<br />

• Tara's House Animal Rescue, Inc. MD. Adoption events, fundraising, collect pet supplies. Children/ young<br />

teens can come with adult accompaniment.<br />

• Washington Animal Rescue League. DC. Adoption events, fundraising, collect pet supplies, dog-­‐walking,<br />

cat socializing. Minimum age 12 to volunteer -­‐ volunteers 12 through 17 will need to be accompanied by<br />

a parent or guardian who will also become a volunteer. Those between 16 and 17 may work with our cats,<br />

administrative, and cleaning without supervision.<br />

Environment<br />

• Anacostia Watershed Clean-­‐up – DC. Suitable for school/teen groups.<br />

• Casey Trees – DC – Tree planting and stewardship. Suitable for school/teen groups<br />

• Claude Moore Colonial Farm at Turkey Run – NoVA. National PK historical reenactment site.<br />

Maintenance, greenhouse work, special events help. Suitable for young children/families, school/teen<br />

groups.<br />

• Fairfax Releaf – NoVA -­‐ Tree planting and stewardship. Suitable for school/teen groups.<br />

• Maryland – National Capital Parks & Planning Commission Mont. Cty – Parks Cleanup & Weed Warriors -­‐<br />

picking up litter and/or weeding invasive plants. Many convenient locations. Suitable for young<br />

children/families, school/teen groups.<br />

• Northern Virginia Regional Park Authority – NoVA. Trail cleanup and/or weeding invasive plants. Many<br />

convenient locations. Suitable for young children/families, school/teen groups.<br />

• Red Wiggler Community Farm – Clarksburg MD. Working farm with job training for adults with<br />

developmental disabilities. Environmental advocacy & education. Suitable for school/teen groups.<br />

Seniors<br />

• Charles E. Smith Life Communities – Rockville. Nursing Home/Assisted & Independent Living/Rehab Unit.<br />

Help with activities/visit residents. Help out with Shabbat services/Holidays. Many group opportunities<br />

available. Any size group, Min. Age 14 w/out adults. Suitable for young children/families, school/teen<br />

groups.<br />

• Goodwin House Bailey’s Crossroads. – Falls Church VA. Nursing Home/Assisted & Independent Living.<br />

Help with activities/visit residents. Provide entertainment – concerts, plays, reading etc. Art projects w/<br />

Health Care Unit residents. Minimum Age: 8 w/ adult accompaniment. Suitable for young<br />

children/families, school/teen groups.<br />

• IONA Senior Services. – NE DC. Weekend Meal Delivery. Every Saturday from 10:15 am to 12:30pm<br />

volunteers work in teams of at least two (a driver and a deliverer) to assemble & deliver meals to<br />

homebound seniors. Car and driver required. Suitable for young children/families, small school/ teen<br />

groups.<br />

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• Jewish Social Service Agency. – Mont. Cty & NoVA. Seasonal opportunities for groups in Montgomery<br />

County and Northern Virginia – food basket delivery for Passover and Rosh Hashanah and donating<br />

items/gift cards for seniors and needy families. Suitable for young children/families, school/teen groups.<br />

• Jewish Social Service Agency Chaplaincy. – GW Area -­‐ Visit residents/ celebrate Shabbat & Holidays in<br />

nursing homes & assisted living residences.<br />

• Senior Kosher Lunch Programs – Bowie, DC, Rockville, Silver Spring, Wheaton. Provide entertainment,<br />

help with food service. Suitable for young children/families, school/teen groups.<br />

Special Needs<br />

• Friendship Circle. Metro DC area. Matches teens and children with special needs in the Greater<br />

Washington area. Visits, activities, special events, Holidays etc.<br />

• Jewish Foundation for Group Homes – Locations in Rockville, Silver Spring, Potomac, Gaithersburg and<br />

Reston VA. Cook Shabbat/Holiday meals, celebrate Shabbat & Holidays (i.e., Chanukah/Purim party,<br />

Pesach seders etc). Host residents for Shabbat/Holiday meals. Arts & crafts activities and singalongs,<br />

outings/picnics with residents in warmer weather. Suitable for young children/families, school/teen<br />

groups.<br />

• Ronald McDonald House – DC & Falls Church VA. Groups of up to 15 to help with gardening, yard-­‐work,<br />

vehicle washing, interior cleaning, organizing, etc. Minimum age 14, 1 adult for every 5 kids. Suitable for<br />

young children/families, school/teen groups.<br />

Helping soldiers/veterans<br />

• Fare ShareDC -­‐ collects donated Metro cards which are then distributed to homeless veterans, need<br />

donated cards as well as volunteers.<br />

• Jewish War Veterans: send letters/cards, care packages.<br />

In-­‐house Projects<br />

• Books Bears and Bonnets – Helps children and adults with life-­‐threatening illnesses -­‐ volunteers provide<br />

and assemble gifts and cards etc. -­‐ those who are more craft-­‐oriented can do knitting, crocheting, sewing,<br />

etc. and others can design and write cards and bookmarks, color and assemble gift boxes etc<br />

• Glorie’s Happy Hats – Make hats to donate to children in hospitals.<br />

• Letters/Care Packages for Soldiers (see above)<br />

• Montgomery County Coalition For The Homeless – Prepare meals off-­‐site (see above).<br />

• Reston Interfaith -­‐ Prepare meals off-­‐site (see above)<br />

• Shepherd's Table -­‐ Projects for students, facility tours. (see above).<br />

• So Others May Eat -­‐ Prepare meals off-­‐site (see above)<br />

• Thoughtful Treasures – Helps children undergoing medical treatment who are staying at the Children’s Inn<br />

at NIH. Make craft items to be used as treasure. During the child's stay, a special treasure is placed in the<br />

child's mailbox each day.<br />

Donation/Tzedakah<br />

• American Jewish World Service -­‐ Fundraising and advocacy for grass-­‐roots alleviation of poverty and<br />

world hunger.<br />

• AMIT <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong>-­‐<strong>Mitzvah</strong> Twinning. Matching program with low-­‐income Israeli <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong>-­‐<strong>Mitzvah</strong> celebrants.<br />

• Bikes for The World – GW area. Collects unwanted bicycles and equipment and delivers to community<br />

development programs in developing countries or in the Washington DC metropolitan area.<br />

• Boys & Girls Clubs of Greater Washington. GW area. Helps at-­‐risk youth. Donate school/art supplies,<br />

electronics, sporting equipment, services such as landscaping, construction, etc., tickets for local shows &<br />

sporting events.<br />

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• Elie Ronen Scott Memorial Magen David Adom Paramedic Scholarship Fund – Raise funds for MDA<br />

paramedic training course scholarships; can supply Tzedakah boxes and speakers to present at<br />

organizations.<br />

• Food Drives -­‐ Manna Food Center – Rockville; Capital Area Food Bank – DC/Lorton; Food for Others –<br />

Fairfax.<br />

• HAMA (Humans and Animals in Mutual Assistance). Israel organization committed to the healing of<br />

human violence directed towards people and animals alike through Animal Assisted Therapy (AAT).<br />

• Heifer International. Donate livestock, seeds and training to impoverished International communities.<br />

• Hungry for Music. GW Area. Works with underprivileged children (and others) by bringing positive<br />

musical and creative experiences into their lives. Donate musical instruments.<br />

• Homeless Shelter Help. GW Area. Prepare hot meals or bag lunches offsite for homeless clients. Collect &<br />

donate clothing, toiletries & household items.<br />

• Israeli Guide Dogs – Sponsor Guide dog puppies for blind Israelis.<br />

• JCADA (Jewish Coalition Against Domestic Abuse). Donate gift cards and/or new and used/broken cell-­‐<br />

phones.<br />

• Jewish Women International. Domestic violence advocacy, education/literacy, child-­‐care programs locally<br />

& Israel.<br />

• JSSA (Jewish Social Service Agency). Rockville/Gaithersburg/NoVA. Adopt-­‐a-­‐Family -­‐ donate items/gift<br />

cards for seniors and needy families.<br />

• Just Like Henry – Joint Distribution Committee educational module for students to collect and donate<br />

funds to high-­‐need International Jewish populations.<br />

• Linkages to Learning – MC – Donate new and used books, new school supplies (incl. backpacks, calculators<br />

etc.) for low-­‐income students in Montgomery County Public Schools.<br />

• <strong>Mitzvah</strong> Heroes Fund. Collection and distribution of funds to various little-­‐known Tzedakah projects.<br />

Jewish service educational materials.<br />

• National Center for Children and Families – MC – Serves Homeless or vulnerable children, youth and<br />

families. Donate clothing, computers, household linens, school supplies, cleaning supplies, infant<br />

supplies, party supplies, sporting goods, toys. Accepting volunteers over the age of 14.<br />

• Partnership for Jewish Life and Learning JYPI -­‐ Teens Gr 8-­‐12 participate in a semester or year long<br />

curriculum of philanthropy training. Teens contribute to a communal fund that JYPI matches dollar-­‐for-­‐<br />

dollar. Programs are available in Maryland, Washington, DC and Northern VA beginning in October and<br />

January.<br />

• Perpetual Prosperity Pumps Foundation – Donate used athletic shoes for sale to raise funds to donate<br />

water pumps, organic farming techniques & supplies & livestock to impoverished African farmers.<br />

• Schneider Children's Medical Center of Israel. Only comprehensive Tertiary care facility in Israel/Middle-­‐<br />

East. Raise funds and/or send cards and crafts etc.<br />

• Sharsheret. Breast cancer awareness and support. Raise funds, tribute cards, community activities.<br />

• The Jade <strong>Bar</strong>-­‐Shalom Books for Israel Project – Collect/donate books for Israeli schools.<br />

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Oneg Guidelines for B’nai <strong>Mitzvah</strong> Families<br />

Thank you for performing the mitzvah of hosting a simcha for your classmate’s family as well as the <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Micah</strong><br />

community. The Oneg is our chance to host each other and our guests. It should feel warm and gracious. Feel<br />

free to bring flowers, tablecloths from home, or even serving pieces that would make the Oneg feel personal and<br />

inviting. Consider yourself the Jewish Martha Stewart for the evening!<br />

Quarterback Duties:<br />

1. Contacting the <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> family to see if they have any special dietary needs and determining the<br />

number of attendees they expect;<br />

2. Checking with the <strong>Temple</strong> to see if there is anything else scheduled that night that may change the number of<br />

attendees (202-­‐342-­‐9175);<br />

3. Setting-­‐up and cleaning-­‐up;<br />

4. Bringing flowers or serving pieces to make it beautiful,<br />

5. Bringing tablecloths (3) – there are cloth tablecloths in the <strong>Temple</strong> kitchen that you can use, provided that you<br />

wash them and then return them to the kitchen by Thursday<br />

6. Coordinating members of your team<br />

Suggestion: The quarterback divides up the food/drink/other responsibilities into 5 fairly even categories, list<br />

them as the various options, (eg., 1) drinks, 2) baked goods, etc.) and have the other host families select what<br />

they will contribute.<br />

Quantities<br />

(this is very basic for about 75-­‐80 people-­‐ please try to add to this and make it nice for the family):<br />

1. Three challahs -­‐ one whole, two sliced for the cart. CHALLAH is a MUST bring item; it will be used for the<br />

blessing)<br />

2. Four pounds washed, cut fruit and vegetables<br />

3. Three pounds cubed or sliced cheese (and/or hummus)<br />

4. Three boxes of crackers/sliced pita bread or bagel bites, mini-­‐bagels, pizza squares<br />

5. Three to four plates (at least) of baked goods (homemade is nice)<br />

6. Four to six gallons juice, lemonade, iced tea, soda or sparkling water<br />

7. A few bottles of wine or sparkling cider/juice<br />

Host Duties<br />

1. The Oneg starts at 6 pm on Friday evening; please arrive by 5:30 pm to set up. You may drop off food at the<br />

<strong>Temple</strong> earlier in the day if this is easier for you and then return to set up.<br />

2. All families sponsoring the Oneg should plan to attend.<br />

3. Serving trays and vases are in the kitchen. Remove food items from their containers and arrange on serving<br />

trays. Napkins, cups, plates, cutlery are in the kitchen.<br />

4. The tables will already be set up.<br />

5. You are also the ushers for the evening. Hand out service sheets before the 6:30 p.m. service begins.<br />

6. After the service begins and people go into the sanctuary, consolidate the food on to a few trays for people to<br />

snack on after the service.<br />

7. Soon after the service has concluded, please clean up all food (do not leave it at the <strong>Temple</strong>), wash any items<br />

used, and clean the kitchen surfaces. Take the tablecloths home and wash them and return them by<br />

Thursday. You should be able to start cleanup between 7:45 and 8 pm, depending on when the service ends.<br />

8. Thank you!<br />

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Saturday Kiddush Guidelines for B’nai <strong>Mitzvah</strong> Families<br />

Thank you for performing the <strong>Mitzvah</strong> of hosting the <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Micah</strong> Kiddush on Saturday. The Kiddush is our<br />

chance to host each other and our guests. It should feel warm and gracious. Feel free to bring flowers, tablecloths<br />

from home, or even serving pieces that would make the Kiddush feel personal and inviting. Consider yourself the<br />

Jewish Martha Stewart for the evening!<br />

Catering:<br />

Please let the Executive Director know in advance how you will be catering, if you will be using <strong>Micah</strong> Cooks,<br />

another caterer, if you will have food delivered, or if you will be catering yourself. Caters other than <strong>Micah</strong> Cooks<br />

are required to sign a contract with the temple and provide a certificate of insurance. Any food served at <strong>Temple</strong><br />

<strong>Micah</strong> may not include pork products or shellfish. We also discourage mixing milk and meat. All leftover food<br />

must be removed from the kitchen the day of the <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong>. We have one refrigerator and are not able to<br />

store large food deliveries prior to the event. Please inform your caterer. Please do not store drinks in the<br />

refrigerator because the weight of the drinks damages the shelves. You must provide paper goods and linens for<br />

the Kiddush.<br />

Setup and Fees<br />

The <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> fee covers the set-­‐up of a standard stand-­‐up Kiddush using <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Micah</strong> furniture. This<br />

includes buffet tables for the food and minimal seating. To request a particular set up the setup form in the<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> handbook on page 34. Fuller seating and any reception that involves rental furniture carries<br />

additional fees. Please request a Facilities Reservation Request Form. All rental equipment must be removed by<br />

5:00 p.m. Saturday unless the family has reserved and rented the social hall for a Saturday evening reception. If<br />

furniture remains past 5:00 p.m., extra fees will be incurred. Please inform the Executive Director of any vendors<br />

such as florists, linens or furniture rentals to coordinate deliveries.<br />

Quantities<br />

1) You should provide food for your guests plus 50 people<br />

2) One 5 lb challah or Two 2 lb challahs -­‐ (CHALLAH is a MUST bring item; it will be used for the blessing)<br />

3) Paper goods for your guests plus 50 people, table cloths<br />

4) If you have a coffee setup, we have sugar and sweetener, but you provide the coffee, tea, cups, & cream.<br />

Setup<br />

1) The service starts at 10:15 am. The Kiddush is served downstairs after the service, and you should set up<br />

before the service begins.<br />

2) The tables will already be set up.<br />

3) You may use the serving trays and vases in the kitchen. Please wash, dry and put away anything you use.<br />

Cleanup and Departure<br />

When the Kiddush has concluded, please clean up all food (do not leave it at the <strong>Temple</strong>), wash and put away any<br />

items used, and clean the kitchen surfaces. If you use the temple’s linen, please take the tablecloths and dish<br />

towels home, wash them and return them by WEDNESDAY so they are available for the next Shabbat.<br />

Before the caterer departs, the custodian must walk through the kitchen with the caterer to determine that the<br />

kitchen is being left in proper condition. If the kitchen is left in poor condition, a fee of $100 will be assessed for<br />

cleanup.<br />

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Usher Guidelines<br />

The mitzvah of ushering or greeting can make the difference between someone feeling welcomed into our<br />

community, or feeling isolated. When you are a new or infrequent synagogue attendee, the greeting you receive<br />

from an usher or greeter can go a long way towards creating a positive experience. Continuing the Jewish tradition<br />

of welcoming, like Abraham and Sarah in their open tent, ushers and greeters can help our community be inclusive<br />

and warm by being present, helpful, and attentive.<br />

We hope that these guidelines will help us all to be even more successful in welcoming people to <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Micah</strong>.<br />

Thank you for representing <strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Micah</strong> and being our partners in this sacred work.<br />

Before Services Begin<br />

1. Arrive at services about 30 minutes early so you have time to prepare and be available to greet people as<br />

they arrive. Plan to be here by 6:00 pm for Friday evening, 9:45 am for Shabbat morning.<br />

2. Prepare Torah books and service sheets. Torah books are on the shelves in lobby as well as shelves and<br />

book cart inside sanctuary, and prayerbooks can be found under each upholstered chair in the sanctuary<br />

as well as on the bookshelves and book cart both in the lobby and sanctuary.<br />

3. Reserve rows in the middle for young guests of the <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong>. The “reserved” signs are kept in the<br />

kippah box near the entrance to the sanctuary.<br />

4. Shabbat morning only—When choir rehearsal in the sanctuary ends, open the doors to allow people to<br />

enter. Encourage people socializing in lobby to start entering sanctuary 15 minutes prior to the service<br />

(approximately 10AM). This will avoid a last minute rush.<br />

Greeting<br />

1. Greet each person warmly with a “welcome” or a “Shabbat Shalom.” Hand each person a service sheet as<br />

they enter the sanctuary. Offer those that wish a Chumash (Torah) book.<br />

2. Offer to help with assistance or directions. If someone is unfamiliar with the building, offer to escort<br />

them.<br />

a. Direct young worshippers without parents (friends of the <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> student) toward the<br />

middle rows of the sanctuary<br />

b. Let families with young children know that the quiet room is available to them.<br />

c. Let guests know that coat racks and bathrooms are downstairs.<br />

d. When greeting an unaccompanied elderly person, please do not wait for them to ask you for<br />

assistance-­‐ just offer an elbow and begin walking them to a seat. This is one of the sweetest<br />

mitzvoth of ushering. Likewise, if a senior needs help getting to the bathroom, please accompany<br />

him or her all the way there, and provide necessary assistance.<br />

3. When service begins make sure sanctuary doors are closed. Remain in lobby for about fifteen minutes<br />

after the worship service begins to greet any latecomers. Leave service sheets, prayer books and Torah<br />

books on the lobby table for latecomers to see.<br />

At the End of Services<br />

1. Saturday mornings only-­‐-­‐ Help prepare cart for challah and wine– A Board member should be there to<br />

assist. (Board member on duty for the morning is listed on service sheet as “greeter”.) At end of service<br />

during closing song wheel challah\kiddush cart into sanctuary.<br />

2. After the blessings over the wine and challah are completed, roll the cart out to the lobby and slice the<br />

challah.<br />

3. After services, clean up the sanctuary and the quiet room.<br />

a. Recycle service sheets -­‐ Make sure to remove all service sheets from the prayer books. If you do<br />

not do that, there is more work for the next week. Recycle the service sheets in the Quiet Room.<br />

b. Make sure prayer books are under every chair in the sanctuary<br />

c. Torah books and other prayer books go back on the bookcases.<br />

d. In general, leave the sanctuary clean. Do not leave this work for the custodian.<br />

4. Thank you!<br />

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Prayers and Blessings<br />

1. Blessing for lighting the candles on Shabbat<br />

ר ֵנ קי ִלדְ ַה ְל UנֽUָ ִצוְ 'ויתI<br />

ָ ְצמִ ְC Uנֽ ָשׁ Sְ<br />

קִ<br />

ר ֶשׁ אֲ<br />

'ם<br />

ָלIע ָה Q ֶלמֶ<br />

Uניֽ ֵהO אֱ<br />

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יָ יְ<br />

התָּ אַ<br />

. ת ָC ַשׁ<br />

QUר ָC<br />

Blessed are You, Adonai our God, Sovereign of the universe, who hallows us with mitzvot, commanding us to<br />

kindle the light of Shabbat.<br />

2. Shabbat Kiddush<br />

. ןפֽ ֶ Dָ ַה<br />

ירִפְּ ארIC ֵ<br />

'ם<br />

ָלIע ָה Q ֶלמֶ<br />

Uניֽ ֵהO אֱ<br />

יָ יְ<br />

התָּ אַ<br />

ל ֶשׁ<br />

QUר ָC<br />

ת ַC ַשׁ וְ<br />

'Uנֽ<br />

ָב ה ָצֽרָוְ ויתI ָ ְצמִ ְC Uנֽ ָשׁ Sְ קִ<br />

ר ֶשׁ אֲ<br />

'ם<br />

ָלIע ָה Q ֶלמֶ<br />

Uניֽ ֵהO אֱ<br />

יָ יְ<br />

התָּ אַ<br />

QUר ָC<br />

ה ָלּחִ תְּ<br />

םIי אUה י ִכּ 'תי<br />

ִשׁא רֵ ְב ה ֵשׂ עֲ מַ ְל ןIר ָכּזִ Uנֽ ָליחִ ְנ ִה ןIצרָ ְבU ה ָבהֲ אַ ְC Iשׁדְ קָ<br />

'םימִּ<br />

עַ ָה ל ָכּמִ תָּ ְשֽׁ Sַ קִ<br />

UנֽתIא ָ וְ<br />

תָּ רֽ ְחַ<br />

ָב Uנֽ ָב י ִכּ 'םיֽ<br />

ִרָ<br />

ְצמִ תאי ַ ִצי ִל ר ֶכֽזֵ 'שׁדֽ<br />

ֶ ֹק יאֵ רָקְ מִ ְל<br />

/ ת ָCַשּׁ ַה שׁSֵ קַ מְ<br />

'יָ<br />

יְ<br />

התָּ אַ<br />

QUר ָC / Uנֽתָּ ְלחַ ְנ ִה ןIצרָ ְבU ה ָבהֲ אַ ְC W ְשׁ דְ קָ<br />

ת ַC ַשׁ וְ<br />

Praise to You, Adonai our God, Sovereign of the universe, Creator of the fruit of the vine. Praise to You, Adonai<br />

our God, Sovereign of the universe who finding favor with us, sanctified us with mitzvot. In love and favor, You<br />

made the holy Shabbat our heritage as a reminder of the work of Creation. As first among our sacred days, it<br />

recalls the Exodus from Egypt. You chose us and set us apart from the peoples. In love and favor You have given<br />

us Your holy Shabbat as an inheritance. Praise to You, Adonai, who sanctifies Shabbat.


Nisim B’Chol Yom -­‐ Daily Miracles<br />

3. For awakening<br />

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יָ יְ<br />

התָּ אַ<br />

QUר ָC<br />

'ם<br />

ָלIע ָה Q ֶלמֶ<br />

Uניֽ ֵהO אֱ<br />

ה ָני ִב יוִ ְכֶֽשּׂ<br />

ַל ןתַ ָנ ר ֶשׁ אֲ<br />

. ה ָליֽ ְ ָל ןי ֵבU םIי ןי ֵC ןיחִ ְב ַה ְל<br />

Praise to You, Adonai our God, Sovereign of the universe, who has given the mind the ability to distinguish day<br />

from night.<br />

4. For vision<br />

Praise to You, Adonai our God, Sovereign of the universe, who opens the eyes of the blind.<br />

5. For the ability to stretch<br />

Praise to You, Adonai our God, Sovereign of the universe, who frees the captive.<br />

6. For rising to the new day<br />

Praise to You, Adonai our God, Sovereign of the universe, who lifts up the fallen.<br />

7. For firm earth to stand upon<br />

יָ יְ<br />

התָּ אַ<br />

QUר ָC<br />

'ם<br />

ָלIע ָה Q ֶלמֶ<br />

Uניֽ ֵהO אֱ<br />

. םירִוְ עִ<br />

חֽ ַ קIפּ ֵ<br />

יָ יְ<br />

התָּ אַ<br />

QUר ָC<br />

'ם<br />

ָלIע ָה Q ֶלמֶ<br />

Uניֽ<br />

ֵהO אֱ<br />

. םירUס ִ אֲ<br />

ריתִּ מַ<br />

יָ יְ<br />

התָּ אַ<br />

QUר ָC<br />

'ם<br />

ָלIע ָה Q ֶלמֶ<br />

Uניֽ ֵהO אֱ<br />

. םיפUפ ִ ְכּ ףֵ קIז<br />

יָ יְ<br />

התָּ אַ<br />

QUר ָC<br />

'ם<br />

ָלIע ָה Q ֶלמֶ<br />

Uניֽ ֵהO אֱ<br />

. םיֽ ִמָּ<br />

ַה לעַ ץרֽ ֶאָ<br />

ָה עַ קIר<br />

Praise to You, Adonai our God, Sovereign of the universe, who stretches the earth over the waters.


8. For the gift of motion<br />

Praise to You, Adonai our God, Sovereign of the universe, who strengthens our steps.<br />

9. For clothing the body<br />

Praise to You, Adonai our God, Sovereign of the universe, who clothes the naked.<br />

10. For renewed enthusiasm for life<br />

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'ם<br />

ָלIע ָה<br />

. ר ֶבֽגָ Praise to You, Adonai our God, Sovereign of the universe, who gives strength to the weary.<br />

11. For awakening<br />

יָ יְ<br />

התָּ אַ<br />

QUר ָC<br />

Q ֶלמֶ<br />

Uניֽ ֵהO אֱ<br />

ידֵ עֲ ְצמִ ןי ִכמֵּ ַה<br />

יָ יְ<br />

התָּ אַ<br />

QUר ָC<br />

'ם<br />

ָלIע<br />

ָה Q ֶלמֶ<br />

Uניֽ ֵהO אֱ<br />

. םימִּ רעֻ ֲ שׁי ִCְל מַ<br />

יָ יְ<br />

התָּ אַ<br />

QUר ָC<br />

'ם<br />

ָלIע ָה Q ֶלמֶ<br />

Uניֽ ֵהO אֱ<br />

. חֽ ַ ֹכּ ףעֵ Hָ ַל ןתIנּ ֵ ַה<br />

יָ יְ<br />

התָּ אַ<br />

QUר ָC<br />

'ם<br />

ָלIע ָה Q ֶלמֶ<br />

Uניֽ ֵהO אֱ<br />

י ָניעֵ מֵ<br />

ה ָנ ֵשׁ רי ִבעֲ מַּ ַה<br />

/ יפָּ עַ פְ עַ מֵ<br />

המUנ ָ תU ְ<br />

Praise to You, Adonai our God, Sovereign of the universe, who removes sleep from the eyes, slumber from the<br />

eyelids.<br />

12. For being in the image of God<br />

Praise to You, Adonai our God, Sovereign of the universe, who made me in the image of God.<br />

יָ יְ<br />

התָּ אַ<br />

QUר ָC<br />

'ם<br />

ָלIע ָה Q ֶלמֶ<br />

Uניֽ ֵהO אֱ<br />

םי ִהO א ֶ ם ֶל ֶצC י ִנ ַשׂ עָ ֶשׁ


13. For being a free person<br />

Praise to You, Adonai our God, Sovereign of the universe, who has made me free.<br />

14. For being a Jew<br />

Praise to You, Adonai our God, Sovereign of the universe, who has made me a Jew.<br />

15. For purpose<br />

Praise to You, Adonai our God, Sovereign of the universe, who girds Israel with strength.<br />

16. For harmony<br />

Praise to You, Adonai our God, Sovereign of the universe, who crowns Israel with splendor.<br />

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יָ יְ<br />

התָּ אַ<br />

QUר ָC<br />

'ם<br />

ָלIע ָה Q ֶלמֶ Uניֽ ֵהO אֱ<br />

ןירIח ִ ת ָC \ ן ֵC י ִנ ַשׂ עָ ֶשׁ<br />

יָ יְ<br />

התָּ אַ<br />

QUר ָC<br />

'ם<br />

ָלIע ָה Q ֶלמֶ<br />

Uניֽ ֵהO אֱ<br />

לאֵ רָ<br />

ְשׂ י ִ י ִנ ַשׂ עָ ֶשׁ<br />

יָ יְ<br />

התָּ אַ<br />

QUר ָC<br />

'ם<br />

ָלIע ָה Q ֶלמֶ<br />

Uניֽ ֵהO אֱ<br />

. הרUב ָ גְ ִC לאֵ רָ ְשׂ יִ<br />

רזIא ֵ<br />

יָ יְ<br />

התָּ אַ<br />

QUר ָC<br />

'ם<br />

ָלIע ָה Q ֶלמֶ<br />

Uניֽ ֵהO אֱ<br />

. הרָאָ פְ תִ ְC לאֵ רָ ְשׂ יִ<br />

ר ֵטIע


17. V’ahavtah<br />

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'Wיֽ<br />

ֶהO אֱ<br />

יָ יְ<br />

תאֵ תָּ ְב ַה אָ וְ<br />

ל ָכ ְבU 'W<br />

ְשׁ פְ ַנ ל ָכ ְבU 'W<br />

ְב ָבְל ל ָכ ְC<br />

'ה<br />

ֶלּאֵ<br />

ָה םירִ ָבSְ ַה Uי ָה וְ<br />

/ Wֽדֹא ֶ מְ<br />

לעַ 'םIH<br />

ַה WUְ ַצמְ י ִכֹנ אָ<br />

ר ֶשׁ אֲ<br />

תָּ רְ ַCדִ וְ<br />

'Wיֽ<br />

ֶנ ָבְל םתָּ ְנ ַנּ ִשׁ וְ<br />

/ Wֽ ֶב ָבְל<br />

Wתְּ ְכ ֶל ְבU 'Wֽתי<br />

ֶ ֵב ְC Wתְּ ְב ִשׁ ְC 'ם<br />

ָC<br />

/ WֽמUק<br />

ֶ ְבU 'W<br />

ְC ְכ ָשׁ ְבU 'Qרֽ<br />

ֶSֶ<br />

ַב<br />

Uי ָה וְ<br />

'Wֽדֶ<br />

יָ<br />

לעַ תIא ְל םתָּ רְ ַשׁ קU ְ<br />

םתָּ ְבתַ ְכU / Wיֽ ֶניעֵ ןי ֵC תֹפ ָטֹט ְל<br />

. Wיֽרֶעָ ְשׁ ִבU Wֽתי ֶ ֵC תIזזֻמְ לעַ You shall love Adonai your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your might. Take to heart these<br />

instructions with which I charge you this day. Impress them upon your children. Recite them when you stay at<br />

home and when you are away, when you lie down and when you get up. Bind them as a sign on your hand and let<br />

them serve as a symbol on your forehead; inscribe them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.<br />

תאֶ םתי ֶ ִשׂ עֲ וַ<br />

Uר ְכּזְ תִּ<br />

ןעֽ ַ מַ ְל<br />

םי ִשֹׁדקְ םתי ֶ יִ ְה וִ<br />

'יתI<br />

ָ ְצמִ ל ָכּ<br />

ר ֶשׁ אֲ<br />

'ם<br />

ֶכי ֵהO אֱ<br />

יָ יְ<br />

י ִנאֲ / ם ֶכי ֵהOא ֵל<br />

ץרֽ ֶאֶ<br />

מֵ<br />

ם ֶכתְ אֶ<br />

יתאֽ ִ ֵצIה<br />

'םי<br />

ִהOא ֵל ם ֶכ ָל תIי ְה ִל 'םיֽ<br />

ִרַ<br />

ְצמִ / ם ֶכי ֵהO אֱ<br />

יָ יְ<br />

י ִנאֲ Thus you shall remember to observe all My commandments and to be holy to your God. I am Adonai, your God,<br />

who brought you out of the land of Egypt to be your God: I am Adonai your God.


18. Avot v’Imahot<br />

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Uניֽ ֵהO אֱ<br />

יָ יְ<br />

התָּ אַ<br />

QUר ָC<br />

י ֵהO אֱ<br />

'Uני<br />

תIמּ ֵ אִ ו ְ UניֽתIב ֵ אֲ<br />

י ֵהOא וֵ<br />

'בֹקעֲ<br />

יַ<br />

י ֵהOא וֵ<br />

'קחָ<br />

ְציִ י ֵהO אֱ<br />

'ם<br />

ָה רָ ְבאַ י ֵהO אֱ<br />

'הקָ<br />

ְברִ י ֵהO אֱ<br />

'הרָ<br />

ָשׂ י ֵהO אֱ<br />

לIדDָ ַה לאֵ ָה /האָ ֵל י ֵהOא וֵ<br />

'לחֵ<br />

רָ<br />

למID ֵ 'ןIי<br />

ְלעֶ לאֵ 'ארIנּ<br />

ָ ַה וְ<br />

רICDִ ַה<br />

ר ֵכIזוְ 'לֹכּ<br />

ַה ה ֵנֹקוְ 'םי<br />

ִבIט םידִ סָ חֲ<br />

ה ָלּאֻ Dְ<br />

אי ִבמU ֵ 'תIהמָּ<br />

אִ ו ְ תIבאָ ידֵ סְ חַ<br />

. ה ָבהֲ אַ ְC Iמ ְשׁ ןעֽ ַ מַ ְל 'ם<br />

ֶהי ֵנ ְב י ֵנ ְבִל<br />

/ ןגֵ מU ָ עיֽ ַ ִשׁIמU רזIע ֵ Q ֶלֽמֶ 'יָ<br />

יְ<br />

התָּ אַ<br />

QUר ָC<br />

. הרָ ָשׁ תרַזְ עֶ ו ְ ם ָה רָ ְבאַ ןגֵ מָ<br />

Blessed are You, Adonai our God, God of our fathers and mothers, God of Abraham, God of Isaac, and God of<br />

Jacob, God of Sarah, God of Rebecca, God of Rachel, and God of Leah, the great, mighty and awesome God,<br />

transcendent God who bestows lovingkindness, creates everything out of love, remembers the love of our fathers<br />

and mothers, and brings redemption to their children’s children for the sake of the Divine Name.<br />

Sovereign, Deliverer, Helper and Shield, Blessed are You, Adonai, Sarah’s Helper, Abraham’s Shield.


19. G’vurot<br />

You are forever mighty, Adonai; You give life to all (revive the dead).<br />

Winter: You cause the wind to shift and rain to fall.<br />

Summer: You rain dew upon us.<br />

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. ם ֶשֽׁ Dֶ ַה<br />

'י<br />

ָנֹדאֲ ם ָלIע ְל רICDִ התָּ אַ<br />

'התּֽ<br />

ָ אַ<br />

(םיתִ מ) ֵ לֹכּ ַה הHֵ חַ מְ<br />

עיֽ ַ ִשׁIה ְל ברַ דירIמU ִ חUֽר ַ ָה ביִשּׁמַ ל ַY ַה דירִIמ<br />

:Winter<br />

:Summer<br />

'דסֽ<br />

ֶ חֶ ְC םיHִ חַ<br />

ל ֵכּ ְל ַכמְ (םיתִ מ) ֵ לֹכּ ַה הHֵ חַ מְ<br />

'םי<br />

ִלפIנ ְ QמIס ֵ 'םי<br />

ִCרַ םימִ חֲ רַ ְC<br />

'םירUס<br />

ִ אֲ<br />

ריתִּ מU ַ 'םי<br />

ִלIח אפIר ֵ וְ<br />

'רפָ<br />

עָ<br />

י ֵנ ֵשׁי ִל Iת ָנUמאֱ םHֵ קַ מU ְ<br />

תIרUבDְ לעֽ ַ ַC WIֽמ ָכ ימִ תימִ מֵ<br />

Q ֶלמֶ 'Q<br />

ָלּ המIֽS ֶ ימU ִ<br />

. העUשׁ ָ יְ<br />

חיֽ ַ מִ ְצמU ַ הHֶ חַ מU ְ<br />

/ (םיתִ מ) ֵ לֹכּ ַה תIיחֲ ַה ְל<br />

. (םיתִ מֵּ ַה) לֹכּ ַה הHֵ חַ מְ<br />

'יָ<br />

יְ<br />

התָּ אַ<br />

התָּ אַ<br />

ןמָ אֱ ֶנוְ QUר ָC<br />

You sustain life through love, giving life to all (reviving the dead) through great compassion, supporting the fallen,<br />

healing the sick, freeing the captive, keeping faith with those who sleep in the dust. Who is like You, Source of<br />

mighty acts? Who resembles You, a Sovereign who takes and gives life, causing deliverance to spring up and<br />

faithfully giving life to all (reviving that which is dead)?<br />

Blessed are You, Adonai, who gives life to all (revives the dead).


20. Blessing before the reading of the Torah<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>’chu et Adonai ham’vorach.<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>uch Adonai ham’vorach l’olam<br />

va-­‐ed.<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>uch atah, Adonai<br />

Eloheinu, Melech haolam,<br />

Asher bachar banu mikol haamim,<br />

V’natan lanu et Torato.<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>uch atah, Adonai, notein<br />

haTorah<br />

Bless Adonai who is blessed.<br />

Blessed is Adonai who is blessed now and forever.<br />

. דעֶ וָ<br />

ם ָלIע ְל<br />

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Qרֹב ָ מְ ַה<br />

. Qרֹב ָ מְ ַה<br />

יָ יְ<br />

QUר ָC<br />

יָ יְ<br />

תאֶ Uכרְ ָC<br />

:Congregation<br />

. דעֶ וָ<br />

ם ָלIע ְל Qרֹב ָ מְ ַה יָ יְ<br />

QUר ָC<br />

יָ יְ<br />

התָּ אַ<br />

QUר ָC<br />

םימִּ עַ ָה<br />

. הרIתּ ָ ַה<br />

'ם<br />

ָלIע ָה<br />

Q ֶלמֶ ל ָכּמִ Uנֽ ָC רחֽ ַ ָC<br />

/ IתרIתּ ָ תאֶ Uנֽ ָל<br />

ןתIנ ֵ<br />

'יָ<br />

יְ<br />

התָּ אַ<br />

Uניֽ ֵהO אֱ<br />

ר ֶשׁ אֲ<br />

ןתֽ ַ ָנוְ QUר ָC<br />

Blessed is Adonai who is blessed now and forever.Blessed are You, Adonai our God, Sovereign of the universe,<br />

who has chosen us from among the peoples, and given us the Torah. Blessed are You, Adonai, who gives the<br />

Torah.<br />

21. Blessing after the reading of the Torah<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>uch atah, Adonai<br />

Eloheinu, Melech haolam,<br />

Asher natan lanu Torat emet,<br />

V’chayei olam nata b’tocheinu.<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>uch atah, Adonai, notein haTorah<br />

'תמֶ<br />

אֱ<br />

'ם<br />

ָלIע ָה<br />

תרIתּ ַ<br />

/ Uנ ֵכIת ְC<br />

. הרIתּ ָ ַה<br />

ןתIנ ֵ<br />

יָ יְ<br />

התָּ אַ<br />

Q ֶלמֶ Uנֽ ָל<br />

QUר ָC<br />

Uניֽ ֵהO אֱ<br />

ןתֽ ַ ָנ<br />

ע ַט ָנ ם ָלIע<br />

'יָ<br />

יְ<br />

התָּ אַ<br />

ר ֶשׁ אֲ<br />

יHֵ חַ וְ<br />

QUר ָC<br />

Blessed are You, Adonai our God, Sovereign of the universe, who has given us a Torah of truth, implanting<br />

within us eternal life. Blessed are you, Adonai, who gives the Torah.


22. Blessing before the reading of the Haftarah<br />

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יָ יְ<br />

התָּ אַ<br />

QUר ָC<br />

'ם<br />

ָלIע ָה Q ֶלמֶ Uני ֵהO אֱ<br />

'םי<br />

ִבIט םיאי ִ ִב ְנ ִC רחַ ָC ר ֶשׁ אֲ<br />

ם ֶהי רֵ ְבדִ ְב ה ָצרָ וְ<br />

'תמֶ<br />

אֱ ֶC םירִמָ אֱ ֶנּ ַה<br />

הרIתּ ָ ַC רחIC ֵ ַה 'יָ<br />

יְ<br />

התָּ אַ<br />

QUר ָC<br />

'Iמּעַ<br />

לאֵ רָ ְשׂ יִ ְבU 'IS<br />

ְבעַ ה ֶשֹׁמ ְבU<br />

. קדֽ ֶ ֶצוָ תמֶ אֱ ָה יאי ֵ ִב ְנ ִבU<br />

Praise to You, Adonai our God, Sovereign of the universe, who has chosen faithful prophets to speak words of<br />

truth. Praise to You, Adonai, for the revelation of Torah, for Your servant Moses, for Your people Israel and for<br />

prophets of truth and righteousness.


23. Blessing after the reading of the Haftarah<br />

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Q ֶלמֶ Uניֽ ֵהO אֱ<br />

יָ יְ<br />

התָּ אַ<br />

QUר ָC<br />

קיSִ ַצ 'םימִ<br />

ָלIע ָה ל ָכּ רUצ 'ם<br />

ָלIע ָה<br />

ןמָ אֱ ֶנּ ַה לאֵ ָה 'תIרIS<br />

ַה ל ָכ ְC<br />

'םHֵ<br />

קַ מU ְ ר ֵCדַ מְ ַה 'ה<br />

ֶשֹׂעוְ רמIא ֵ ָה<br />

. קדֽ ֶ ֶצוָ תמֶ אֱ<br />

וירָ<br />

ָבSְ ל ָכּ ֶשׁ<br />

לעַ וְ<br />

'הדIב<br />

ָ עֲ ָה לעַ וְ<br />

'הרIתּ<br />

ָ ַה לעַ 'הZֶ<br />

ַה ת ָCַשּׁ ַה םIי לעַ וְ<br />

'םיאי<br />

ִ ִב ְנּ ַה<br />

הָשּׁדֻקְ ִל 'Uני<br />

ֵהO אֱ<br />

יָ יְ<br />

'Uנֽ<br />

ָלּ תּֽ ָ תַ ָנּ ֶשׁ<br />

/ תרֽ ֶאָ<br />

פְ תִ ְלU דIב ָכ ְל 'החUנ<br />

ָ מְ ִלוְ םידIמ ִ Uנחֽ ְ ַנאֲ 'Uני<br />

ֵהO אֱ<br />

יָ יְ<br />

'לֹכּ<br />

ַה לעַ Wמְ ִשׁ Qרַ ָCתְ יִ<br />

'QתIא<br />

ָ םי ִכרְ ָבמU ְ 'Q<br />

ָל<br />

/ דעֶ וָ<br />

ם ָלIע ְל דימִ תָּ<br />

יחַ ל ָכּ יפִ ְC<br />

/ ת ָCַשּׁ ַה שׁSֵ קַ מְ<br />

'יָ<br />

יְ<br />

התָּ אַ<br />

QUר ָC<br />

Praise to You, Adonai our God, Sovereign of the universe, Rock of all creation, Righteous One of all<br />

generations, the faithful God whose word is deed, whose every command is just and true. For the Torah, for<br />

the privilege of worship, for the prophets, and for this Shabbat that You, Adonai our God, have given us. For<br />

holiness and rest, for honor and glory: we thank and bless you. May Your name be blessed for ever by every<br />

living being. Praise to You, Adonai, for the Sabbath and its holiness.


<strong>Temple</strong> <strong>Micah</strong> <strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> checklist<br />

For the Student<br />

Lead Saturday morning prayer 1 st time ______<br />

Lead Saturday morning prayer 2 nd time ______<br />

Lead Saturday morning prayer 3 rd time ______<br />

Drasha (Interpretation) 1 st draft ______<br />

Chanting of Torah Blessings ______<br />

Drasha (Interpretation) 2 nd draft ______<br />

Chanting of Torah Portion ______<br />

Drasha (Interpretation) 3 rd draft ______<br />

Sermon Topic question ______<br />

Chanting of Haftarah Portion ______<br />

Chanting of Haftarah Blessings ______<br />

Haftarah introduction ______<br />

<strong>Mitzvah</strong> Project added to speech ______<br />

Meditational Reading (Friday evening) ______<br />

Chanting of Torah Portion from the scroll ______<br />

For the Family<br />

Friday Evening Blessings (candles and wine) ______<br />

Invitations ______<br />

Vine Article ______<br />

Kiddush (after Shabbat morning service – see Shabbat Kiddush, page 23) ______<br />

Bimah Decoration ______<br />

Challah (after Shabbat morning service) ______<br />

Ushers – Saturday morning ______<br />

Service Participants (see Honors – Saturday Morning, page 34) ______<br />

Tallit and Kippah, if desired ______<br />

Special Musical Selection (with Music Director) ______<br />

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Honors – Saturday Morning<br />

THE FOLLOWING NAMES SHOULD BE ADDED TO THE SERVICE SHEET:<br />

SATURDAY, (date) ____________________________________________________________________<br />

BAR/BAT MITZVAH OF _______________________________________________________________<br />

PETICHA 1 (NO MORE THAN 2 PEOPLE)<br />

(Ark opening)<br />

_____________________________________________________________________________________<br />

ALIYAH I Community Member (pre-assigned by <strong>Temple</strong>)<br />

ALIYAH II<br />

_____________________________________________________________________________________<br />

ALIYAH III<br />

_____________________________________________________________________________________<br />

ALIYAH IV<br />

_____________________________________________________________________________________<br />

(Typically aliyah IV includes parents)<br />

ALIYAH V BAR/ BAT MITZVAH STUDENT<br />

HAGBAH (TORAH LIFTER) _________________________________________________________<br />

GELILAH (TORAH HOLDER) _________________________________________________________<br />

PETICHA II (NO MORE THAN 2 PEOPLE)<br />

(Ark opening)<br />

_____________________________________________________________________________________<br />

USHERS<br />

_____________________________________________________________________________________<br />

_____________________________________________________________________________________<br />

_____________________________________________________________________________________<br />

PLEASE SUBMIT THIS FORM TO THE OFFICE<br />

NO LATER THAN 10 DAYS BEFORE THE BAR/BAT MITZVAH DATE.<br />

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<strong>Bat</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> Instructions for Custodial Staff<br />

DATE ___________________________________________________<br />

FAMILY ________________________________________________<br />

HOME PHONE ___________________________________________<br />

EMAIL __________________________________________________<br />

OFFICE PHONE (Parent 1) _________________________________<br />

OFFICE PHONE (Parent 2) _________________________________<br />

SET UP THE DOWNSTAIRS IN THE FOLLOWING MANNER (Draw a Diagram):<br />

PLEASE SUBMIT THIS FORM TO THE OFFICE<br />

NO LATER THAN 10 DAYS BEFORE THE BAR/BAT MITZVAH DATE.<br />

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Liturgy Schedule<br />

Students must arrive at least ten (10) minutes before the service begins and check in with Meryl Weiner and/or<br />

Teddy Klaus.<br />

Student will NOT be called to the Bimah -­‐ they must be responsible for walking up at the right time.<br />

If your name appears in the NISIM column, you are responsible for leading the Nisim B’Chol Yom -­‐ Daily Miracles<br />

(page 24) – pp. 198, 200, 202. {START WALKING TO THE BIMAH ON P. 196.}<br />

If your name appears in the V’AHAVTAH column, you are responsible for leading the V’ahavtah (page 27)– p. 234.<br />

{START WALKING TO THE BIMAH ON P. 232.}<br />

If your name appears in the AVOT/GVUROT column, you will lead the Avot v’Imahot (page 28) and G’vurot (page<br />

29)– pp. 244, 246. {START WALKING TO THE BIMAH ON P. 240.}<br />

If you are unable to be present on the day of your assignment, trade with someone else and notify the office.<br />

<strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> Student Date NISIM V’AHAVTA AVOT/GVUROT<br />

Anna Ustun 12-­‐May-­‐12 A. Thompson K. Newman S. Burch<br />

Hannah Wyatt 19-­‐May-­‐12 E. Wilder A. Langsam M. Schechter<br />

Marina Schechter 2-­‐Jun-­‐12 Z. Stern A. Thompson A. Langsam<br />

Sarah Burch 9-­‐Jun-­‐12 D. Katz E. Wilder N. Stein<br />

15-­‐Sep-­‐12 A. Langsam K. Newman N. Stein<br />

22-­‐Sep-­‐12 A. Thompson E. Wilder Z. Stern<br />

29-­‐Sep-­‐12 D. Katz F. Sewell Z. Taswell<br />

6-­‐Oct-­‐12 K. Newman N. Stein K. Newman<br />

13-­‐Oct-­‐12 I. Rosenthal H. Watts-­‐Rich M. Watts-­‐Rich<br />

20-­‐Oct-­‐12 R. Pollock J. Parry D. Rothschild<br />

Alex Langsam 27-­‐Oct-­‐12 F. Sewell Z. Stern A. Thompson<br />

Keith Newman 3-­‐Nov-­‐12 Z. Taswell D. Katz E. Wilder<br />

Nina Stein 10-­‐Nov-­‐12 I. Rosenthal F. Sewell Z. Stern<br />

17-­‐Nov-­‐12 B. Stern S. Blumenfeld C. Sahr<br />

Alex Thompson 1-­‐Dec-­‐12 H. Watts-­‐Rich M. Watts-­‐Rich D. Katz<br />

Ellis Wilder 8-­‐Dec-­‐12 R. Pollock Z. Taswell F. Sewell<br />

Zack Stern 15-­‐Dec-­‐12 M. Watts-­‐Rich I. Rosenthal H. Watts-­‐Rich<br />

5-­‐Jan-­‐12 J. Cohen I. Rosenblum-­‐Sellers H. Magnus<br />

David Katz 12-­‐Jan-­‐12 J. Parry H. Watts-­‐Rich M. Watts-­‐Rich<br />

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<strong>Bar</strong>/<strong>Bat</strong> <strong>Mitzvah</strong> Student Date NISIM V’AHAVTA AVOT/GVUROT<br />

19-­‐Jan-­‐12 S. Carleton E. Pansegrouw N. Soltes<br />

Franny Sewell 2-­‐Feb-­‐13 D. Rothschild R. Pollock Z. Taswell<br />

Zoe Taswell 9-­‐Feb-­‐13 B. Stern J. Parry I. Rosenthal<br />

16-­‐Feb-­‐13 G. Ruck M. Hua B. Werb<br />

Isabel Rosenthal 23-­‐Feb-­‐13 S. Blumenfeld D. Rothschild R. Pollock<br />

Halli and Mason Watts-­‐Rich 2-­‐Mar-­‐13 C. Sahr B. Stern J. Parry<br />

Rachel Pollock 9-­‐Mar-­‐13 J. Cohen S. Blumenfeld D. Rothschild<br />

Jordi Parry 16-­‐Mar-­‐13 I. Rosenblum-­‐Sellers C. Sahr B. Stern<br />

23-­‐Mar-­‐13 E. Klein S. Fox-­‐Halperin R. Shapiro<br />

Dylan Rothschild 6-­‐Apr-­‐13 H. Magnus J. Cohen S. Blumenfeld<br />

Benjamin Stern 13-­‐Apr-­‐13 S. Carleton I. Rosenblum-­‐Sellers C. Sahr<br />

Sam Blumenfeld 20-­‐Apr-­‐13 E. Pansegrouw H. Magnus J. Cohen<br />

Carly Sahr 27-­‐Apr-­‐13 N. Soltes S. Carleton I. Rosenblum-­‐Sellers<br />

Jacob Cohen 4-­‐May-­‐13 G. Ruck E. Pansegrouw H. Magnus<br />

Isaac Rosenblum-­‐Sellers 11-­‐May-­‐13 M. Hua N. Soltes S. Carleton<br />

Hero Magnus 18-­‐May-­‐13 B. Werb G. Ruck E. Pansegrouw<br />

Sarah Carleton 1-­‐Jun-­‐13 E. Klein M. Hua N. Soltes<br />

Eliana Pansegrouw 8-­‐Jun-­‐13 S. Fox-­‐Halperin B. Werb G. Ruck<br />

Nadav Soltes 15-­‐Jun-­‐13 E. Klein M. Hua<br />

Griffith Ruck 5-­‐Oct-­‐13 S. Fox-­‐Halperin B. Werb<br />

Matthew Hua 12-­‐Oct-­‐13 R. Shapiro E. Klein<br />

Ben Werb 19-­‐Oct-­‐13 R. Shapiro<br />

Ethan Klein 26-­‐Oct-­‐13 S. Fox-­‐Halperin<br />

Sam Fox-­‐Halperin 2-­‐Nov-­‐13 R. Shapiro<br />

Rebecca Shapiro 14-­‐Dec-­‐13<br />

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