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Counting the Omer<br />

Inspiration, Insights & Ideas<br />

Bringing Torah lessons to LIFE!<br />

Halacha of the Week<br />

By Rabbi Dov Schochet<br />

Starting from the day the Omer offering was brought in the Temple<br />

(it was a meal offering of barley brought on the second day of<br />

Passover) the Torah commands us to count seven weeks (which<br />

bridge the Omer offering and the festival of Shavuos). This<br />

commandment was actually a matter of great contention between<br />

those who accept the Oral Law and the sects which only believed in<br />

the Written Law and not willing to accept any oral tradition.<br />

The issue was the language the Torah uses in this week’s portion,<br />

“And you shall count unto you from the morrow after the Shabbat,<br />

from the day that you brought the sheaf of the waving; seven weeks<br />

shall there be complete". While a literal reading would obviously<br />

imply that the counting must always begin on a Sunday (the day<br />

after the Shabbat) the Mosaic tradition was to understand this word<br />

as referring to the festival of Passover (which can also be referred to<br />

as Shabbat) and not the seventh day of the week. Obviously the<br />

Halacha follows this tradition and therefore, starting from the<br />

second day of Passover, for 49 nights, there is an obligation to count<br />

the Omer.<br />

The proper way to count is to mention the days and the weeks e.g.<br />

from day 1 through 6 one should say "today is day 1 to the Omer etc.<br />

from day 7 and on one should mention the weeks as well e.g. on day<br />

13 one should say "today is 13 days which are 1 week and 6 days to<br />

the Omer"<br />

It is proper to count while standing although if one counts sitting<br />

down they do not have to count again.<br />

The counting can be done in any language one understands. If one<br />

does not understand what they're saying even if they are counting<br />

in Hebrew they have not fulfilled their obligation.<br />

As this is an individual obligation one is required to fulfill the<br />

Mitzvah on their own and not rely on an emissary. Although if one<br />

hears their friend counting and has in mind to exempt their<br />

obligation it is sufficient, it is preferable for one to count every night<br />

on their own.<br />

Like all Mitzvot which are time bound, women are exempt although<br />

if they wish they can count the Omer with its requisite blessing.<br />

Sefardic women do not recite the blessing.<br />

There is a dispute if the counting can only be done at night or if one<br />

can count the following day as well, therefore in the event one<br />

forgot to count at night they should count the following day (to<br />

fulfill the Mitzvah according to the second opinion) but do so<br />

without the prior blessing.<br />

There are two opinions as to the nature of this Mitzvah, one holding<br />

that every day is an independent commandment while the second<br />

holds that one can only count any of the days if they have counted<br />

all the prior ones. The accepted practice if one forgot to count one of<br />

the days is to continue counting the rest of the days like the first<br />

opinion (as one might be fulfilling a Mitzvah) but to do so without<br />

the prior blessing as the rule is anytime one is not certain if a<br />

blessing must be recited we do not recite it. It is important to note<br />

the Mitzvah is not the blessing but the counting and therefore if<br />

one missed a day it is not a reason to be lax with the counting of<br />

the rest of the Omer. (In a case where one is uncertain if they<br />

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missed a night or not or where one forgot to count at night but<br />

counted the following day without the blessing they can count the<br />

following days with the blessing).<br />

The lesson of the Omer is clear, all days must be counted. Every<br />

moment of our lives has meaning and purpose and must be<br />

properly accounted for. And as the first counting culminated with<br />

receiving the Torah by us all "counting our days" may we merit to<br />

the revelation of the coming of Moshiach.<br />

<br />

Your Guide to Personal Freedom<br />

Counting the Omer: Week Three<br />

This is an excerpt from “Counting the Omer – A Spiritual Guide” by<br />

Rabbi Simon Jacobson<br />

Day 18 - Netzach of Tiferet: Endurance in Compassion<br />

Is my compassion enduring and consistent? Is it reliable or<br />

whimsical? Does it prevail among other forces in my life? Do I have<br />

the capacity to be compassionate even when I'm busy with other<br />

activities or only when it's comfortable for me? Am I ready to stand<br />

up and fight for another?<br />

Exercise for the day: In the middle of your busy day take a moment<br />

and call someone who needs a compassionate word. Defend<br />

someone who is in need of sympathy even if it's not a popular<br />

position.<br />

Day 19 - Hod of Tiferet: Humility in Compassion<br />

If compassion is not to be condescending, it must include humility.<br />

Hod is recognizing that my ability to be compassionate and giving<br />

does not make me better than the recipient; it is the<br />

acknowledgment and appreciation that by creating one who needs<br />

compassion G-d gave me the gift of being able to bestow<br />

compassion. Thus there is no place for haughtiness in compassion.<br />

Do I feel superior because I am compassionate? Do I look down at<br />

those that need my compassion? Am I humble and thankful to G-d<br />

for giving me the ability to have compassion for others?<br />

Exercise for the day: Express compassion in an anonymous fashion,<br />

not taking any personal credit.<br />

Day 20 - Yesod of Tiferet: Bonding in Compassion<br />

For compassion to be fully realized, it needs bonding. It requires<br />

creating a channel between giver and receiver; a mutuality that<br />

extends beyond the moment of need. A bond that continues to live<br />

on. That is the most gratifying result of true compassion.<br />

Do you bond with the one you have compassion for, or do you<br />

remain apart? Does your interaction achieve anything beyond a<br />

single act of sympathy?<br />

Exercise for the day: Ensure that something eternal is built as a<br />

result of your compassion.<br />

Day 21 - Malchut of Tiferet: Nobility in Compassion<br />

Examine the dignity of your compassion. For compassion to be<br />

complete (and enhance the other six aspects of compassion) it must<br />

recognize and appreciate individual sovereignty. It should boost<br />

self-esteem and cultivate human dignity. Both your own dignity and<br />

the dignity of the one benefiting from your compassion.<br />

Is my compassion expressed in a dignified manner? Does it elicit<br />

dignity in others? Do I recognize the fact that when I experience<br />

compassion as dignified it will reflect reciprocally in the one<br />

who receives compassion?

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