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TkP~MCC~<br />
How will you be<br />
remembered?<br />
By the Rev Robert E. Nelly<br />
St Mlchael's Episcopal Church<br />
Perhaps It IS because I am gettmg older and am more<br />
aware of my own mortahty, but I find the obItuary p,lge of<br />
the newspaper very fascInatmg to read<br />
It IS mterestmg to note what the per~ons \\ ho died are<br />
remembered for<br />
In almost any edItion of our area's papel s we can find notIces<br />
are about people who WIll never be noted III any hIstory<br />
books - people hke you and me<br />
There IS a kind of parlor game known as the obItuary<br />
game It sounds morbId, but It IS not The object IS for the<br />
players to state what they would hke to have dppem about<br />
them In the newspaper or on their gravestones The other<br />
players are to eIther affirm the chOIce, question It, 01 to<br />
suggest an alternative<br />
When played With some senousness, the game can be<br />
quite revealIng It ISa way of thmk1l1g about one's values,<br />
dreams and goals for the days that remam It reqUIres a<br />
statement of that which gives meanmg to a hfe, a nanung<br />
of the center by which a lIfe IS shaped and hved It reqUIres<br />
something hke' "he helped those In need" or "she was active<br />
In church and chantable affairs" 01' "he was known for<br />
generosIty and sound advice"<br />
Obltuanes cannot adequately measure a hfetlme, but<br />
they do say somethlllg about how we pelcelved oW'selves<br />
and how we are perceIved by others<br />
(I think I mIght hke to be remembered as "a personable<br />
pastor With a sense of humor ")<br />
The questIOn IS' How would my 01' yoUI'obituary look If It<br />
were publIshed tomorrow? That might suggest a kind of<br />
negative ego tnp, but It IS not meant to be such What IS<br />
ImplIed IS, What WIll my obltuarv be before God and before<br />
history?<br />
Does my true Inner hfe show In a meanmgful way? Have<br />
I contnbuted In some small way to the welfare of the world<br />
of which I am a part? Do I hve my lIfe In a fully human<br />
manner? WIll It be sald that I loved God by lOVingas many<br />
persons as I was capable? Are there some thIngs m my I1fe<br />
that need changing? Are my actIOns rooted In love and ethics<br />
or In convemence and selfishness?<br />
How WIllyou and I be remembered? Will we at least be<br />
remembered as someone who honestly tned?<br />
Lutheran center presents art fair<br />
The Lutheran Center's first pm at the Lutheran Center<br />
showmg of Chl'lstlan art.mlxed bUIlding, 579 East Nine MIle<br />
medIa Will be held on SatUlday, Road m Felndale<br />
"Oct 28, from 10 a m to 4 pm The publIc IS nWlted Thele IS<br />
~ and Sunday. Oct, 29, from 1 to 4 no charge<br />
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In the past 6 months<br />
HAVE YOU MOVED?<br />
BECOME ENGAGED?<br />
In the past 3 months<br />
HAD A BABY?<br />
We have lots of local infonnation and over 50 gifts • No strings!<br />
GROSSE POINTE 885.6103<br />
~fom~Oll<br />
Phone - even if you only moved next door!<br />
As seen m.<br />
\OGlE' · VANITY FAIR.<br />
19261 MACK AVENUE<br />
GROSSE POINTE. Ml<br />
88&7715<br />
WOODS<br />
PRESBYTERIAN<br />
b,Hlel and Mr and MI s Mlchul'l<br />
'I' 'I'IInl1118<br />
1'111"ye.1I the leat UIcd ",pcdkel<br />
\\ III [)(' '1'1111 'l'lmmoll'>, an mtel<br />
l1 Iecently pub<br />
lI"hed book. "Call It Love 01 Call<br />
It QUib A Smgles GUIde to<br />
MOlt> Meul1Ingful RelatIOnships"<br />
In Iellectmg on the gI owth of<br />
the semmar, Michael Tm1l1us.<br />
ol1e of ItS foundel s, said, "It has<br />
been excltlllg to "ee the contm<br />
ued bY)owth and success of the<br />
"ellllnar ovel the past five yeal s<br />
It" stl ength hes not only III the<br />
high quuhty of the speakel s we<br />
attract but also III the qualIty of<br />
the shm mg of mSlghts and expenences<br />
that takes place be<br />
t\\ een paltIcipants "<br />
The semmar weekend begIns<br />
With a Fnday evenmg dmner<br />
and e .... tends through a Sunday<br />
mornmg breakfast In addItIOn<br />
to a vallety of semmal presentatIOns,<br />
there IS ample fl ee time<br />
fm paltlclpants to enJoy both the<br />
ambiance and the amel1ltIeS of<br />
On Tuesday. Oct 31, GlOsse<br />
Pomte MemOl'lal Church women<br />
II III heal' up to the mmute MlraJ.<br />
IndIa, news from Judy Jewett<br />
who served two asslgIlments<br />
there WIth hel husband Paul,<br />
who IS a cardIOlOgist<br />
Jewell has been descllbed as a<br />
iii eball and an entertalllmg<br />
,>peakel - not SUl'pllsmg for who<br />
First Enghsh Ev Lutheran Church<br />
Vermel Rd at Wedgc\Vood DI<br />
GlOsse POlllte Woods<br />
8845040<br />
930 a m Sunday \VOl ship<br />
7 .lO ,\ m Thursday WOlshlP<br />
Paul F Keppler, Pastor<br />
Walter A Schmidt. Pa!>tor<br />
Christ the King<br />
Lutheran Church<br />
Mack at LochmoOl 884 5090<br />
900 a m Sunday School & Bible Classe,<br />
900 & 1030 a m Worship Senlces<br />
Supenlsed NUlsel\<br />
PI eschool call 884 5090<br />
Joseph P. Fabry, Pastor<br />
Randy S. Boelter, Pastor<br />
THE SUBJECT FOR THIS<br />
SU~DAY IS<br />
"Everlasting Punishment"<br />
First Church of Christ,<br />
Scientist<br />
Grosse Pointe Farms<br />
282 Chalfonte Ave,<br />
I 111m 1-,,, \\'l'"t 01 \11110--<br />
",lInd,1\ III W \:\1<br />
"lInd,l\ School 10 10 ,\ :\1<br />
\\ (.dlH'"d,1\ K 00 P :\1<br />
ALL ARE WELCOME<br />
5unday, October 7.9<br />
October 26, 1989<br />
Grosse Pointe News<br />
<strong>Local</strong> business leaders host executive seminar at St. Clair Inn<br />
In Hl84. cl glOUp 01 locdl blhl<br />
ne~~ .md profe~"lOnHI It>adel"<br />
clnd tht'll wive" 01gcllliled the<br />
E ....ecutlvt> SeIlHllcll The purPO~t'<br />
\la~ to plo\'lde cln oppOitunlty<br />
101 couples and Singles to t,lke<br />
t line out. In a 1e1J.:-.ed settmg, to<br />
c ....dl1Hne h(m to apply their f,lIth<br />
111 mcetmg thl' dUlly pn>s,>U1e"<br />
they fdce<br />
Thl~ )eal the Executl\e Semi<br />
ncll Will celebl ate It" fifth year<br />
\\ hen dpplo ....lmately 125 men<br />
,llld women gathel at the St<br />
CI,lII Inn III St Clan, Mlch Oct<br />
Lovetalk '89 continues<br />
Counselor and relIgIOUS educa<br />
tor Dayton Gnau wIll be the<br />
fourth and final speaker In Samt<br />
Ambrose ParIsh's adult educatIOn<br />
semmar, Lovetalk '89,<br />
Thursday, Oct 26, at 730 pm<br />
m Samt Ambrose Chw'ch<br />
Dayton's pi esentatlOn IS entl<br />
tIed, "How Do I Empower Lovmg<br />
RelatIOnshIps In My LIfe?"<br />
HIS expenence as counselOl<br />
and religIOUS educator equip"<br />
him With IIlslghts mto how we<br />
can build strong, endw-mg and<br />
pOSItive love relatIOnshIps In ow'<br />
lives Dayton will draw matellal<br />
from on~ of hiS most populal<br />
workshops, "Success Is Not An<br />
ACCIdent Plel cmg the IllUSIOn of<br />
RIsk, Feal and FallUi e "<br />
Dayton IS COfoundel and dlrec<br />
tOl of the Glowth Centel Inc, III<br />
Allen Pal k He has done exten<br />
slve mdlvldual and famIly coun<br />
sehng and IS legIOnalleplesenta<br />
tlVe of Effectiveness Tra1l1mg,<br />
Inc<br />
He IS also the MIChIgan producer<br />
of the "Sex, Love, and Intimacy"<br />
workshops sponsored by<br />
the Callforllla-based Human<br />
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St. Paul Ev. Lutheran<br />
JL Church<br />
c:;::;~~~ 881-6670<br />
II<br />
375 Lothrop at Chalfont.<br />
9 00 a m IAl.Qrshlp<br />
10 lOa m Sunday School<br />
11 15 Worship<br />
Nursery available<br />
::.:: ST. MICHAEL'S EPISCOPAL<br />
CHURCH<br />
204;5 "iunnmgddlr P,ll!.<br />
(,Io __r Pomlt' \\ ood, ~~4,4~20<br />
"1111 I III lI"h ~II< h " ,,,<br />
ll! lO ll1\ (IIDI al rUthlll ..t Illd ~tlm.ll<br />
(hLLLth'"-llhool 'lIl .... ll\ \\l1llhltl \I,d\\"h ~lIlh,,"t 9l11.1ll 1,1d<br />
Methodir;t Churl'h<br />
20571 Vernier Just W of 1-9,1<br />
~Jo~~"'et ~fJOCl i"<br />
p il/l 203'<br />
10 30 a m Worship<br />
9 15 a m Church SchOOl<br />
Grosse POinte Umtanan<br />
Church ..Ai<br />
"Have You Ever ~<br />
Been Lonely" ~<br />
11 00 a m Service & Church School<br />
17150 MAUMEE 8810420<br />
John Corrado Pastor<br />
St. James Lutheran<br />
Church "on the Hill"<br />
884-0511<br />
9:30<br />
Sunddy School<br />
Adu It & Childl en<br />
9:30<br />
Sunday WOI ship<br />
11:00<br />
Sunday \VOl ~hlP<br />
McMillan at Kercheval<br />
P,1~tOI Robel I A Rlmho<br />
Robm Abhott. J'vhm"tcl of NUL tlll e<br />
Grosse POinte<br />
Church<br />
19950 Mack (belween Morass & Vernl('r~<br />
900am<br />
'vVUI~lllP & Learndlg Center-<br />
1000 a m<br />
Adult EducallOn & Children s Hour<br />
Jr High Time<br />
1100 a m<br />
Worship & Church School<br />
Mr John Reagan,<br />
miSSionary to Japan<br />
600pm<br />
Semor High Challenge<br />
Nursery Services available ..<br />
trom 9 00 a m 10 Noon Lt!i1<br />
886-4300<br />
ARE YOU CLIMBING THE RIGHT LADDER?<br />
There IS only one ladder that brmg ...total satlsfactlOl1,<br />
fullfillment and mner peace Come to Church of the POInte