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<strong>Jewish</strong><br />

THE<br />

<strong>Georgian</strong><br />

Volume 21, Number 5 Atlanta, Georgia JULY-AUGUST 20<strong>09</strong> FREE<br />

What’s Inside<br />

iSeder Breaks<br />

New Ground<br />

An innovative Seder at <strong>The</strong> Temple<br />

explores how technology can enhance<br />

religious experience.<br />

By Scott Janovitz<br />

Page 29<br />

AIPAC’s Policy<br />

Conference<br />

More than a meeting to plan and strategize,<br />

this annual event is also rich with<br />

meaning and emotion.<br />

By Renee Brody Levow<br />

Page 13<br />

One Good Deed<br />

A small but formidable organization helps<br />

people with physical challenges remain in<br />

their homes.<br />

By Leon Socol<br />

Page 30<br />

Giving Back to Israel<br />

A grateful Dr. David Whiteman found<br />

love in Israel; years later, Israeli doctors<br />

saved his life.<br />

By Bill Sonenshine<br />

Page 28<br />

Coming Together<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>August</strong>a Federation’s Annual<br />

Meeting is a celebration of community<br />

connections and accomplishments.<br />

See Page 30<br />

Breaking the Silence<br />

Talking about the problem of substance<br />

abuse in the <strong>Jewish</strong> community is the first<br />

step toward solving it.<br />

By Mark Weinstein and Jeff Diamond<br />

Page 15<br />

Sophie Knapp (Photo: Cyndi Sterne)<br />

By Stuart Rockoff<br />

W<br />

aycross,<br />

Georgia,<br />

developed<br />

Exhibition introduces children to<br />

<strong>Jewish</strong> culture around the world<br />

O<br />

n <strong>August</strong> 30, <strong>The</strong> Sophie Hirsh<br />

Srochi <strong>Jewish</strong> Discovery Museum of<br />

the Marcus <strong>Jewish</strong> Community<br />

Center of Atlanta (MJCCA) will open a<br />

temporary exhibition, “Your <strong>Jewish</strong><br />

World.” This exhibition, which follows<br />

the museum’s successful “Your <strong>Jewish</strong><br />

Home” and “Your <strong>Jewish</strong> Town,” introduces<br />

children ages 2 to 12 to the wide<br />

array of <strong>Jewish</strong> culture from the Diaspora.<br />

Designed by Museum Director Cyndi<br />

Sterne and Harley Gould, “Your <strong>Jewish</strong><br />

World” will run through <strong>July</strong> 31, 2010.<br />

In this exhibition, children will discover<br />

an imaginative world of different foods,<br />

costumes, and culture from South Africa<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Jewish</strong> community<br />

of Waycross<br />

economically due to<br />

its location at the confluence<br />

of nine railroads<br />

and five highways,<br />

which gave Waycross Hebrew Center<br />

the town its name.<br />

As Waycross grew, Jews began to come to the area in small numbers,<br />

seeking to take advantage of the town’s economic opportunities.<br />

Perhaps the first Jew to live in the Waycross area was Alex<br />

Gilmore, who left Russia in 1900, when he was only 14 years old.<br />

By 1902, he had settled in Blackshear, just north of Waycross. By<br />

1910, he owned a dry goods store in Blackshear and had earned<br />

enough money to bring over two of his siblings and his widowed<br />

mother, all of whom lived with him. Soon, thereafter, a number of<br />

Russian <strong>Jewish</strong> immigrants followed Gilmore into this area, some<br />

of whom settled in Waycross.<br />

Of the <strong>Jewish</strong> immigrants who initially settled in Waycross,<br />

few set down deep roots in the community. According to the 1912<br />

city directory, there were 18 Jews in Waycross who were involved<br />

in commercial trade, either as dry goods merchants, shoemakers, or<br />

tailors. By 1921, all but three of these <strong>Jewish</strong> immigrants had left<br />

Waycross; many moved to other cities in Georgia.<br />

See WAYCROSS, page 5<br />

to South America, Eastern Europe to the United<br />

Kingdom. Each interactive display will have<br />

personal photographs and stories depicting<br />

<strong>Jewish</strong> experiences in these areas.<br />

Cyndi Sterne says, “When children learn<br />

about their differences, it is inevitable they will<br />

discover similarities as well. On a personal note,<br />

I know that my children love learning about different<br />

customs and traditions and also enjoy<br />

teaching their friends about their own heritage.”<br />

<strong>The</strong> Sophie Hirsh Srochi <strong>Jewish</strong> Discovery<br />

Museum is a children’s museum that focuses on<br />

integrating Judaism through interactive play,<br />

wonder, and exploration. <strong>The</strong> museum also<br />

See SOPHIE HIRSH SROCHI, page 14


Page 2 THE JEWISH GEORGIAN <strong>July</strong>-<strong>August</strong> 20<strong>09</strong><br />

Who are the builders?<br />

T<br />

his past May, Pope Benedict XVI<br />

visited Israel and the West Bank.<br />

During the visit, he spoke of the<br />

“wall,” a subject that is continuously<br />

brought up by many people in discussing<br />

the conflict between Israel and its adjacent<br />

neighbors in the West Bank.<br />

While the pope is not the person who<br />

decided to refer to this partition as a wall, it<br />

is a term that I, as well as many others,<br />

have objected to, since it conjures up a<br />

vision of the Berlin Wall and all the negative<br />

happenings that accompanied and<br />

resulted from its construction.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re is no denying that a barrier is<br />

being constructed, but since “more than<br />

97% of the planned 720 km. (480 mile)<br />

security fence will consist of a chain-link<br />

fence system” (see www.palestinefacts.org),<br />

it would be more correct to talk about a<br />

fence rather than a wall. <strong>The</strong> mental picture<br />

evoked by the word “fence” is that of a partition<br />

that would not visually block the<br />

landscape, while the mental picture summoned<br />

by the word “wall” is that of a concrete<br />

structure intended not only to limit<br />

access but also to limit any tie to the other<br />

side.<br />

But what this did for me was to raise<br />

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BY Marvin<br />

Botnick<br />

even a more interesting question. Who are<br />

the builders of the fence?<br />

Is it the party that contracted for the<br />

construction, the State of Israel? Is it the<br />

general contractor, which certainly was<br />

legally authorized to do business in Israel?<br />

Is it the parties who designed the project?<br />

Is it the actual workers who physically<br />

erected the fence, some of whom, no doubt,<br />

were Arabs? Or is it the groups and individuals<br />

whose actions resulted in the murder<br />

of and injury to innocent, non-combatant<br />

Israelis and visitors to Israel, destruction<br />

of property in the State of Israel, and<br />

unnecessary and unproductive deployment<br />

of assets that could have been used for constructive<br />

purposes?<br />

Consider the following information<br />

from <strong>Jewish</strong> Virtual Library:<br />

• “Approximately 75 percent of the<br />

suicide bombers who attacked targets<br />

inside Israel came from across the border<br />

where the first phase of the fence was<br />

built.”<br />

• “During the 34 months from the<br />

beginning of the violence in September<br />

2000 until the construction of the first continuous<br />

segment of the security fence at the<br />

end of <strong>July</strong> 2003, Samaria-based terrorists<br />

carried out 73 attacks in which 293 Israelis<br />

were killed and 1,950 wounded.”<br />

• “In the 11 months between the erection<br />

of the first segment at the beginning of<br />

<strong>August</strong> 2003 and the end of June 2004,<br />

only three attacks were successful, and all<br />

three occurred in the first half of 2003.”<br />

• “Since construction of the fence<br />

began, the number of attacks has declined<br />

by more than 90%. <strong>The</strong> number of Israelis<br />

murdered and wounded has decreased by<br />

more than 70% and 85%, respectively, after<br />

erection of the fence.<br />

“Even the Palestinian terrorists have<br />

admitted the fence is a deterrent. On<br />

November 11, 2006, Islamic Jihad leader<br />

Abdallah Ramadan Shalah said on Al-<br />

Manar TV that terrorist organizations had<br />

every intention of continuing suicidebombing<br />

attacks, but that their timing and<br />

the possibility of implementing them from<br />

Just fix’n to<br />

woke up during the night recently in a<br />

cold sweat, realizing that they had Istruck<br />

again. When would this insidi-<br />

ous plot end?<br />

I first became aware of this alien<br />

incursion into that sacred realm of tradition<br />

some years ago. I was visiting cousin<br />

Bobby Lee in Westabutchie, and he served<br />

grits with “toast” that had been made in<br />

the oven and browned on only one side.<br />

As if that was not bad enough, the butter<br />

had been put on the bread before it was<br />

toasted, so that the middle was mushy.<br />

In utter disbelief, I asked Bobby Lee<br />

why he had strayed from his heritage. Did<br />

he not realize that he was becoming a<br />

party to creating a two-class society? Not<br />

only was he using white bread, but he had<br />

lost the art of scraping. All of our lundsmen,<br />

especially those of us who were first<br />

generation, knew that the proper way to<br />

make toast was to brown it sufficiently so<br />

that the presentation was finished off by<br />

scraping the burnt portion immediately<br />

preceding the serving of the dish. <strong>The</strong><br />

whole secret was in the wrist. It was only<br />

through using this method that the proper<br />

crunching noise could be made while consuming<br />

the delicacy.<br />

As you can guess, it was not long<br />

before this dastardly conspiracy had<br />

BY Bubba<br />

Meisa<br />

spread to rye bread. <strong>The</strong>y had tried to hide<br />

this by printing “<strong>Jewish</strong>” rye on the wrapper,<br />

but one bite quickly told you that it<br />

was another Madison Avenue (that’s in<br />

New York, not Westabutchie) trick. Where<br />

was that hard crust that helped develop the<br />

jaw muscle? Where was that body that<br />

allowed a slice to stand tall, rather than<br />

slump over like a limp washrag?<br />

As you can see, partaking of the staff<br />

of life for the Jew is a total experience. We<br />

all know that suffering adds a special<br />

ingredient to life for the Jew. Eating bread<br />

is no different. Do we not eat matzoh at<br />

Passover to remind us of the suffering we<br />

endured as slaves in Egypt? I ask you<br />

then, how can any self-respecting Jew<br />

enjoy eating these modern transgressions<br />

against what we know to be right? How<br />

can we truly enjoy bread that can be consumed<br />

with no effort?<br />

And now we are confronted with the<br />

latest invasion into our proprietary realm<br />

of breads—the commercial bagel.<br />

the West Bank depended on other factors.<br />

‘For example,’ he said, ‘there is the separation<br />

fence, which is an obstacle to the<br />

resistance, and if it were not there, the situation<br />

would be entirely different.’”<br />

So, who really are the builders?<br />

Unlike the Berlin Wall and the walls<br />

built around the <strong>Jewish</strong> ghettos, this fence<br />

was not constructed to keep people in, but<br />

rather it is being put in place solely for the<br />

purpose of keeping terrorists out and preserving<br />

life. Just as jails are built by criminals,<br />

the fence is being built by the terrorists.<br />

<strong>The</strong> present population of Israel is<br />

approximately 75% <strong>Jewish</strong>, 20% Arab, and<br />

5% other. It is not a <strong>Jewish</strong> state, but a state<br />

for the Jews, and non-<strong>Jewish</strong> citizens have<br />

the same legal rights as the Jews—unlike<br />

the status of dhimmis for Jews and<br />

Christians under Muslim law. It is not a<br />

theocracy, as are some of its neighbors, any<br />

more than England is a Christian country,<br />

even though the monarch is the supreme<br />

governor of the Church of England and, as<br />

such, is the titular leader over the Church<br />

of England. Israel not only has the right,<br />

but it has the duty to protect its citizens,<br />

regardless of ethnicity or religion, and the<br />

fence has proven its validity as a tool<br />

towards this responsibility. <strong>The</strong> defensive<br />

measures, including the fence, would not<br />

be present if the terrorists had not built<br />

them.<br />

While the bagel does not go back to<br />

the days of the Temple, it has been with us<br />

for a long time. As we know it, the bagel<br />

is not suppose to have the consistency of a<br />

croissant, nor was it ever meant to have<br />

the same continental flare or pronunciation.<br />

It is more blue-collar in both taste<br />

and name. Those of us who are fans can<br />

eat a bagel right off the shelf, just as we<br />

would consume a pastry, or we can eat it<br />

toasted. In either case, eating a true bagel<br />

would be the ultimate Poligrip commercial.<br />

Until this point, I have sat by and said<br />

nothing about these changes, but I can no<br />

longer keep silent. Enough is enough;<br />

wake up before it is too late! <strong>The</strong> round<br />

roll with a hole in the middle that is being<br />

foisted on you from the frozen foods case<br />

is a conspiracy to weaken your jaw muscles<br />

so that you will not be able to open<br />

your mouth in protest. This donut-shape<br />

creation is an attempt to produce a whitebread<br />

generation. <strong>The</strong> uniformity of the<br />

impostor is an attempt to subvert individualism.<br />

You let them redefine toast and said<br />

nothing. You let them perpetrate the<br />

“<strong>Jewish</strong>” rye hoax and said nothing. Don’t<br />

let this bagel bamboozle spread without a<br />

loud protest. Join with me in speaking out<br />

against them while we still have developed<br />

jaw muscles to use.


<strong>July</strong>-<strong>August</strong> 20<strong>09</strong> THE JEWISH GEORGIAN Page 3<br />

What’s<br />

HAPPENING<br />

HE ST. REGIS ATLANTA. St. Regis<br />

Atlanta developer Paul Freeman has<br />

T<br />

hit a home run with his stunning new<br />

resort-like complex in Buckhead.<br />

Located on West Paces Ferry at<br />

Peachtree, the magnificent hotel has condo<br />

residences, restaurants, and bars that are<br />

attracting crowds of Atlantans.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Wall Street Journal calls the<br />

Starwood Hotels-managed St. Regis “by far<br />

the prettiest hotel in town, a modern take on<br />

traditional Southern grandeur, with spectacular<br />

public spaces and spacious rooms and<br />

baths decorated in soothing cream and aqua<br />

shades.” Reporter Laura Landro says she<br />

was also impressed by “the lobby’s 750pound<br />

chandelier and two marble staircases<br />

sweeping up to a second-story lounge<br />

area... <strong>The</strong> vast outdoor piazza with cascading<br />

waterfall...19th-century Venetian mirrors,<br />

antiqued-glass vases filled with tall<br />

pussy willows, silver plated objets d’ art,<br />

and paintings by Atlanta artists, many commissioned<br />

for the hotel. My favorite ‘green’<br />

feature: a toilet with one flush button for<br />

‘half’ and one for ‘full.’”<br />

<strong>The</strong> St. Regis has it all: <strong>The</strong> Paces 88<br />

American Bistro; the St. Regis Bar,<br />

designed after the legendary King Cole Bar<br />

and Lounge at the St. Regis New York;<br />

afternoon tea in the lobby; a wine-tasting<br />

room; the Poolside Cafe and Bar, with fireplace;<br />

the Grotto Bar and Cafe, tucked into<br />

the Grand Terrace—and each space with its<br />

own special cuisine, atmosphere, culture,<br />

and style.<br />

Overlooking the pool are the five-star<br />

Remede Spa, a<br />

billiards and card<br />

room, a well<br />

equipped gym and<br />

health center, plus<br />

a lovely ballroom,<br />

all giving the St.<br />

Regis a resort feel.<br />

Paul says that he<br />

has spent the last<br />

five years of his<br />

life focused on the<br />

project, “...build-<br />

St. Regis Developer<br />

Paul Freeman<br />

ing an Intown<br />

resort, a landmark<br />

facility with time-<br />

less architecture that will benefit Atlanta,<br />

serve its guests, and provide a wonderful<br />

place for people to live and visit.”<br />

POWER DINERS. Spotted power-dining at<br />

Hal Novak’s popular eatery, Hal’s on Old<br />

Ivy: Native Atlantans Richard Alterman,<br />

Jerry Gordon, and Paul Ehrlich, haggling<br />

over the bill and debating whether to leave<br />

a 5% or 10% tip. Here’s “What’s<br />

BY Reg<br />

Regenstein<br />

Happening” with these legendary Native<br />

Atlantans:<br />

• Paul’s father-in-law, Stedman Shropshire,<br />

a World War II Marine veteran of Iwo Jima,<br />

just turned 90. He is an active architect who<br />

still draws by hand. Paul’s wife, Gray, is his<br />

only living child. Congratulations to Mr.<br />

Shropshire, thanks for serving our country,<br />

and Semper fi.<br />

• Jerry’s son Brandon is getting married to<br />

the lovely and delightful Leila Mansouri.<br />

Both are students working on their Ph.D.s at<br />

the University of California-Irvine.<br />

• Richard just took a trip to New York City<br />

with his wife, Marty, and his 91-year-old<br />

mother, Sara. <strong>The</strong>y went to see his prodigy<br />

son, Joseph, perform on the piano at the<br />

world-renowned Blue Note Jazz Club with<br />

Grammy-winning saxophonist Ralph<br />

Lalama. After the performance, Bubbie<br />

Sara (whom Richard describes as “the<br />

spryest one of the lot”) jumped up on stage<br />

to have her picture taken, saying, “Now I<br />

feel fulfilled, having seen Joseph play at the<br />

Blue Note.”<br />

Ralph Lalama, Joseph Alterman, and<br />

Sara Alterman, at the Blue Note<br />

DON OBERDORFER HONORED. We ran<br />

into our friend, insurance magnate Gene<br />

Oberdorfer, who is always gracious, charming,<br />

and sporting a big smile. Gene tells us<br />

that his distinguished brother, Native<br />

Atlantan Don, has just been awarded the<br />

prestigious James A. Van Fleet Award by<br />

the Korea Society, the first journalist ever<br />

chosen for this prize.<br />

In his four decades in journalism, Don<br />

has established a reputation as one of the<br />

world’s foremost experts on North Korea,<br />

and his articles on his visits there are classic<br />

accounts of life in a country that, in many<br />

ways, is like a medieval monarchy.<br />

Don has served successively as <strong>The</strong><br />

Washington Post’s White House, Northeast<br />

Asia, and diplomatic correspondent. His<br />

books <strong>The</strong> Two Koreas and Tet are considered<br />

among the best ever written about the<br />

conflicts in Korea and Vietnam.<br />

GRADY HIGH’S CLASS OF ‘59. Grady<br />

High School’s renowned class of 1959,<br />

which has contributed some of our city’s<br />

most colorful figures, just celebrated its<br />

50th anniversary.<br />

Martha Jo Katz, who is much too<br />

young to have graduated way back then, but<br />

her husband, Jerry, did, told us all about the<br />

reunion.<br />

Coming in from out of town were such<br />

notables as Michael and Eleanor Blass from<br />

Waleska, Georgia; Charles and Gail<br />

Herman, from Birmingham, Alabama; and<br />

Marsha Siegel Belson and Harvey Belson<br />

from Columbia, South Carolina.<br />

Also in attendance were Alan<br />

Alterman; Larry Cooper; Gail Feldser<br />

Natter; Larry Fine; Daniel Hirsh, his twin<br />

Martha Jo Katz and Marcia Siegel<br />

Belson<br />

Jerry Katz, Ronnie Goings, and Jan<br />

Jackson<br />

Jerry Katz; Mr. Overton, chemistry<br />

teacher; and Gary Goldstein<br />

bro, Marvin, and Marvin’s wife, Rita; Cary<br />

and Sherry Adelman King; Nancy Mitzner<br />

Markle; Charles and Ann Marie Rosenfeld;<br />

Charles and Bunny Rothberg Rosenberg;<br />

Alice Isenberg Sanders; Eleanor Leff<br />

Schwartz; Marilyn Makover Shapiro; and<br />

Dick Sokol.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Varsity truck catered the Friday<br />

night event at Garden Hills Park, so the<br />

food was great. And when one guest<br />

thought he might be having a heart attack,<br />

guess who came up with a much-needed<br />

aspirin? Jerry! He was the only one at the<br />

party who was prepared for a medical emergency.<br />

But what would you expect from<br />

someone smart and lucky enough to marry<br />

Martha Jo?<br />

Those were great days, back then,<br />

which we did not appreciate at the time, but<br />

we’ll always have those wonderful memories.<br />

STAN LEWIS, P.I. We love to write about<br />

Atlanta’s colorful characters and interesting,<br />

offbeat people. And we knew we’d<br />

found one when we recently met Stan<br />

Lewis at an anti-dogfighting event hosted<br />

by <strong>The</strong> Humane Society of the United<br />

States. First of all, Stan does the best<br />

Rodney Dangerfield imitation we’ve ever<br />

heard. We asked him how he was doing, and<br />

he replied, in perfect Rodneyese, “I’m OK<br />

now, but last night was rough.”<br />

But his main gig is as a private investigator,<br />

and as head of ICU Investigations, he<br />

has worked to locate missing and runaway<br />

children, serve summonses to hard-to-find<br />

defendants, and check up on cheating<br />

spouses.<br />

Stan was featured a while back in an<br />

article in the<br />

Atlanta Journal-<br />

Constitution, saying<br />

that when<br />

men cheat, it’s<br />

usually with<br />

someone they’ve<br />

met through<br />

work. “But they<br />

are horrible at<br />

covering their<br />

tracks. I had a<br />

husband going to<br />

Private investigator<br />

Stan Lewis<br />

his girlfriend’s<br />

house five days a<br />

week at the same<br />

time every day. Monday through Friday,<br />

quarter to six, he was there. It was like<br />

shooting fish in a barrel.”<br />

Stan’s son Adam works with him.<br />

“Adam once served papers to a gentleman<br />

in Midtown Atlanta, who came to the door<br />

wearing nothing but his socks and shoes,”<br />

Stan recalls. “Adam was shocked, and after<br />

he told me about it, I said, ‘I have the same<br />

outfit.’”<br />

BASEBALL CHAMP JOSH FARBER.<br />

Josh’s team, the Mountain Park Marlins,<br />

just won their 3rd-grade league championship<br />

in Lilburn in the Mountain Park<br />

league, with Josh playing outfield and scoring<br />

lots of runs. Josh rocks, and thank goodness<br />

he takes after Mom Roberta “Rocky”<br />

See HAPPENING, page 4


Page 4 THE JEWISH GEORGIAN <strong>July</strong>-<strong>August</strong> 20<strong>09</strong><br />

Happening<br />

From page 3<br />

Rochman, instead of Dad Jerry. Josh is an<br />

honor roll student at Arcado Elementary<br />

School, where he was also voted friendliest<br />

in class.<br />

Baseball champ Josh Farber<br />

SOUTHERN FRIED SCHMALTZ. Jerry<br />

has also been busy, headlining<br />

Congregation B’nai Torah’s Southern Fried<br />

Schmaltz event, where he entertained over<br />

400 people to benefit the <strong>Jewish</strong> Family &<br />

Career Services Emergency Fund. <strong>The</strong><br />

event, sponsored by the Hebrew Order of<br />

David Carmel Lodge, raised $6,500 for<br />

JF&CS.<br />

Jerry had a couple of tough acts to follow.<br />

David Cohen emceed the event, beginning<br />

with<br />

Dunwoody’s<br />

Saul Sloman, a<br />

native Atlantan<br />

who lived for<br />

five years in<br />

Israel, graduated<br />

from Georgia<br />

State University,<br />

and has appeared<br />

at the Punchline<br />

and the Funny<br />

Farm locally.<br />

Jerry Farber Saul did a hilarious<br />

40-minute<br />

schtick of jokes<br />

and stories in the<br />

Borscht Belt<br />

style. <strong>The</strong> crowd<br />

loved it and<br />

wondered why<br />

Saul was not the<br />

headliner<br />

instead of Jerry.<br />

As for Jerry, he<br />

said it was the<br />

best <strong>Jewish</strong><br />

audience he<br />

Saul Sloman<br />

ever had, at<br />

least since his bar mitzvah in 1950. Jerry<br />

did his usual adult humor—all the jokes<br />

were at least 21 years old.<br />

One guest told Saul that the event was<br />

a real mitzvah, since everyone had a ball<br />

and forgot for an hour and a half about the<br />

recession and world turmoil and all the<br />

other troubles on their minds.<br />

“<strong>The</strong> event was such a roaring success,”<br />

says Saul, “that we plan to make it an<br />

annual event.”<br />

GOLDBERG’S DELI. Goldberg’s has<br />

always been one of our favorite places to<br />

dine, schmooze, and kibbitz.<br />

Apparently, lots of other folks also<br />

enjoy Goldberg’s, since they now have five<br />

locations: West Paces Ferry at Northside<br />

Parkway; Roswell Road in Buckhead; East<br />

Cobb; Colony Square; and Chamblee-<br />

Dunwoody at I-285. <strong>Jewish</strong> dining at its<br />

best.<br />

R<br />

uby Jones is a bundle of perpetual<br />

motion. She never walks when she<br />

can run. And she is on the run 12-14<br />

hours a day.<br />

If there is a star at <strong>The</strong> <strong>Jewish</strong> Tower, it<br />

is Ruby. This 5’ 2”, 66-year-old lady (she<br />

looks 20 years younger) has a heart of gold.<br />

She does not play cards or bingo or sit<br />

around <strong>The</strong> Tower lobby. She has no time<br />

for schmoozing. What she does have time<br />

for is driving Tower residents to the hospital,<br />

doctor’s office, and supermarket.<br />

At Henri’s Bakery, where she works<br />

three days a week, she averages about<br />

37,000 steps a day.<br />

She sometimes<br />

opens and closes<br />

the bakery. In<br />

between, she runs<br />

from the front to<br />

the kitchen, where<br />

she prepares sandwiches,<br />

cakes, and<br />

assorted delicacies,<br />

and then races<br />

back to the front,<br />

where she welcomes<br />

customers<br />

with her milliondollar<br />

smile.<br />

You seldom<br />

see Ruby without<br />

her seven-year-old<br />

Yorkie, Weston.<br />

She walks Weston<br />

daily, 2-5 miles, rain or shine. <strong>The</strong> only people<br />

who come before Weston are sisters<br />

Belenda and Shirley, brother Harold, and<br />

nephews Eddie, Jim, Johnny, and Tyson.<br />

Ruby was born in Knoxville,<br />

Tennessee, worked her way through the<br />

University of Tennessee, and is a loyal<br />

Volunteer supporter. She moved to Atlanta<br />

18 years ago and has been running ever<br />

since. She managed the Sweet Auburn Curb<br />

Market for the City of Atlanta and was<br />

assistant manager of the State Farmers<br />

Market in Forest Park.<br />

FROM SAM MASSELL’S SCRAP-<br />

BOOK. Mayor Sam Massell and his<br />

lovely daughter, Melanie, now a popular<br />

singer, welcome Michael<br />

Jackson and the rest of the Jackson<br />

5 to his office at City Hall, on April 7,<br />

1971.<br />

Ruby better than gold<br />

Ruby Jones (Photo: Phil Slotin)<br />

BY Gene<br />

Asher<br />

After she moved into <strong>The</strong> Tower two<br />

years ago, she found she could not stay busy<br />

enough, so she took a job at Henri’s. Cream<br />

rises to the top, and it certainly is true of<br />

Ruby Jones. It was scarcely one year before<br />

she assumed the<br />

duties of opening<br />

and closing. Most<br />

of her work days<br />

start at 6:00<br />

a.m.—and end at<br />

10:00 p.m.<br />

She gets her<br />

energy and motivation<br />

to excel<br />

from her mother,<br />

who worked two<br />

jobs to literally<br />

bring home the<br />

bacon.<br />

“My spare time<br />

is spent with family,”<br />

says Ruby.<br />

“My sisters and<br />

nephews are the<br />

most important<br />

people in my life.”<br />

Weston comes next.<br />

Besides her work, Ruby is strong on<br />

volunteering. She is the No. 1 Tower resident<br />

in promoting the Sunshine Fund,<br />

founded the Men’s Clothing Closet for<br />

Atlanta’s First United Methodist Church,<br />

and serves on the Council for Aging Persons<br />

for the Community Outreach Program.<br />

When I think of Ruby Jones, I think of<br />

passages from our old Union Prayer Book:<br />

“...receive the helpless and despondent with<br />

sympathy and love.”


<strong>July</strong>-<strong>August</strong> 20<strong>09</strong> THE JEWISH GEORGIAN Page 5<br />

Waycross<br />

From page 1<br />

Despite this extreme level of population<br />

turnover, the <strong>Jewish</strong> community of<br />

Waycross began to organize in the 1920s.<br />

Jews in the area first gathered to pray<br />

together in 1920. Four years later, thirteen<br />

men officially organized a congregation,<br />

with Alex Gilmore as its first president. All<br />

but one of these founders were immigrants<br />

from Russia or Poland. Half of them owned<br />

dry goods stores, though their numbers also<br />

included peddlers, store clerks, and a<br />

lawyer. In 1924, Waycross Jews traveled to<br />

Valdosta or Brunswick for the High Holy<br />

Days; the local newspaper noted that the<br />

<strong>Jewish</strong> merchants in town closed their<br />

stores for the occasion.<br />

Between 1926 and 1953, the congregation<br />

rented space in the Knights of Pythias<br />

Hall, on Plant Avenue. Alex Gilmore bought<br />

a Torah for the group in the 1920s; the<br />

Gilmore family<br />

donated a second<br />

Torah to the congregation<br />

in 1935, after<br />

Alex’s death. <strong>The</strong><br />

congregation would<br />

often bring in visiting<br />

rabbis to lead<br />

services on the High<br />

Holy Days.<br />

By 1937, 47<br />

Jews lived in<br />

Waycross, and they<br />

began to discuss the<br />

possibility of building<br />

a synagogue.<br />

Due to the effects of<br />

the Great<br />

Depression, the congregation<br />

had to<br />

postpone its plans<br />

for a permanent<br />

home. Finally, on<br />

May 22, 1952, the congregation broke<br />

ground on the Waycross Hebrew Center, on<br />

Screven Avenue. <strong>The</strong>y were able raise<br />

money from local Jews, family members<br />

who lived in other cities, <strong>Jewish</strong>-owned<br />

wholesale firms in other cities that did business<br />

with the area’s <strong>Jewish</strong> merchants, and<br />

local gentiles. When the synagogue was<br />

dedicated in the summer of 1953, the congregation<br />

held an open house in which the<br />

non-<strong>Jewish</strong> neighbors were invited to tour<br />

the synagogue and learn about Judaism.<br />

Local Christian ministers announced the<br />

open house from their pulpits and encouraged<br />

their members to attend.<br />

<strong>The</strong> congregation was Conservative in<br />

practice, though it has never officially affiliated<br />

with any of the <strong>Jewish</strong> movements. A<br />

kosher kitchen was maintained in the building,<br />

even though most members did not<br />

keep kosher at home. For some members,<br />

walking to shul was not possible, as the<br />

Waycross Hebrew Center attracted Jews<br />

from several of the small towns in the area.<br />

At the time of the synagogue’s dedication,<br />

members lived in Alma, Blackshear,<br />

Douglas, Homerville, Jessup, and Baxley, in<br />

addition to Waycross.<br />

A cemetery sign<br />

Like all Southern Jews, the members of<br />

the Waycross Hebrew Center had to adapt to<br />

the local culture while working to maintain<br />

their religious traditions. In many cases,<br />

Waycross Jews had to make compromises.<br />

Since so many of them owned stores, the<br />

congregation held services only on Friday<br />

nights, as members had to work on<br />

Saturdays, the busiest trading day of the<br />

week. Al Jacobson recalls moving the start<br />

time for Friday night services from 8:00<br />

p.m. to 7:30 p.m. during high school football<br />

season when there were several<br />

teenagers in the congregation. Since the<br />

congregation was conservative, they insisted<br />

on waiting until sundown, and thus, even<br />

with the earlier start time and shortened<br />

service, they still arrived late at the game.<br />

As they entered the stands, other fans would<br />

shout, “I hope you prayed for us!”<br />

Soon after the congregation settled into<br />

its own building, members discussed hiring<br />

a full-time rabbi to lead the congregation,<br />

but they came to the conclusion that it was<br />

beyond their financial<br />

means. In 1961, they<br />

made an arrangement<br />

with the <strong>Jewish</strong> congregation<br />

in Valdosta,<br />

that its rabbi, Samuel<br />

Zakuto, would drive<br />

the 60 miles to<br />

Waycross each week<br />

to teach Hebrew to the<br />

children in the religious<br />

school. Rabbi<br />

Zakuto also officiated<br />

at the Waycross congregation’s<br />

lifecycle<br />

events. He served the<br />

congregation into the<br />

1970s. Since then,<br />

Waycross has relied on<br />

student rabbis from the<br />

<strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>The</strong>ological<br />

Seminary for the High<br />

Holy Day services and<br />

lay readers for the rest of the year.<br />

In 1948, 35 <strong>Jewish</strong> families belonged to<br />

the Waycross Hebrew Center. By 1968, this<br />

number had dropped to 24, as children<br />

raised in Waycross moved away in search of<br />

greater economic and social opportunities.<br />

Historically, Jews had been concentrated in<br />

retail trade in Waycross. By the 1970s, most<br />

of these stores began to close, including<br />

Weisser’s Jewelry Store, which had been in<br />

business for over fifty years. Jacobson’s<br />

Department Store closed in 1981, after 58<br />

years in operation. Today, there are no more<br />

<strong>Jewish</strong>-owned retail businesses in<br />

Waycross.<br />

In 2005, the congregation’s newsletter<br />

declared, “We are shrinking.” After the<br />

community Seder drew 47 people in 2008,<br />

congregation President Al Jacobson noted,<br />

“We were saddened by the fact that there<br />

was not one <strong>Jewish</strong> child to ask the four<br />

questions. We need youth.”<br />

Despite this decline, the small but<br />

close-knit membership of the Waycross<br />

Hebrew Center has persevered and continues<br />

to hold weekly lay-led Friday night<br />

services. About 11 or 12 members regularly<br />

attend, with some driving as much as 70<br />

miles to get to Waycross. If they cannot<br />

make a minyan, they hold an abbreviated<br />

service.<br />

<strong>The</strong> congregation still brings down a<br />

student rabbi from the <strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>The</strong>ological<br />

Seminary for the high holidays. <strong>The</strong> synagogue’s<br />

kitchen is still kosher, and the<br />

members bring in kosher meat from<br />

Jacksonville for special events. Al Jacobson<br />

continues to edit the congregation’s<br />

Inside the synagogue<br />

newsletter, which he has done since 1968.<br />

Rich Luskin serves as the lay leader of the<br />

weekly services, and Ann Jacobson, Al’s<br />

wife, often adds a Torah commentary.<br />

This small but dedicated group has<br />

worked hard to ensure that <strong>Jewish</strong> life continues<br />

in Waycross, Georgia.<br />

Dr. Stuart Rockoff is historian at the<br />

Goldring/Woldenberg Institute of Southern<br />

<strong>Jewish</strong> Life.


Page 6 THE JEWISH GEORGIAN <strong>July</strong>-<strong>August</strong> 20<strong>09</strong><br />

MJCCA NEWS<br />

GOLF CLASSIC. <strong>The</strong> MJCCA’s Harry<br />

Maziar Classic, which took place June 22,<br />

drew more than 110 golfers to the Atlanta<br />

National Golf Club, including Billi and<br />

Bernie Marcus, Steve Selig, and, of course,<br />

the tournament’s namesake, Harry Maziar.<br />

<strong>The</strong> event raised more than $50,000, which<br />

will be used to enhance vital MJCCA programs<br />

such as preschool and camping<br />

scholarships, Alzheimer’s daycare services,<br />

developmental disabilities programming,<br />

and much more. Each year, the tournament<br />

honors an outstanding member of the community.<br />

This year’s tournament honored<br />

Harry Maziar, co-chair of the MJCCA<br />

Governance Board, past MJCCA president,<br />

native Atlantan, and dedicated member of<br />

the community.<br />

Retired chairman of the chemical division<br />

of National Service Industries, Harry<br />

Maziar has been active in a wide variety of<br />

philanthropic and social programs, including<br />

Junior Achievement, the Atlanta<br />

Humane Society, the <strong>Jewish</strong> Federation of<br />

Greater Atlanta, <strong>Jewish</strong> Family & Career<br />

Services, <strong>The</strong> William Breman <strong>Jewish</strong><br />

Home, and United Way. He is executive-inresidence<br />

at the Michael J. Coles College of<br />

Business at Kennesaw State University and<br />

former president of Zep Manufacturing<br />

Company. Maziar lives in Buckhead with<br />

his wife, Sherry.<br />

Harry Maziar enjoyed a day of good<br />

sports and good friends. (Photo<br />

courtesy of Heidi Morton<br />

Photography)<br />

Bernie Marcus and Robert Paller get<br />

ready for a day on the links. (Photo<br />

courtesy of Heidi Morton<br />

Photography)<br />

Harry Maziar, surrounded by his loving<br />

family, was presented the Scroll<br />

of Honor following his namesake<br />

golf tournament, the Harry Maziar<br />

Classic, Monday, June 22. Pictured:<br />

(front row, from left) Josh Philipson,<br />

Cory Philipson, Lisa Philipson,<br />

Sherry Maziar, Paige Philipson, and<br />

Neal Maziar; (back row, from left)<br />

Jake Maziar, Harry Maziar, Joey<br />

Maziar, Susan Maziar, Todd Maziar,<br />

Hal Philipson, Bram Philipson, and<br />

Amy Sue Maziar. (Photo courtesy of<br />

Heidi Morton Photography)<br />

THE MIRACLE OF JEWISH CUBA. This<br />

winter, fifteen Atlantans will travel to Cuba<br />

to deliver donations to the <strong>Jewish</strong> community.<br />

<strong>The</strong> trip, which runs December 28,<br />

20<strong>09</strong>-January 4, 2010, will give participants<br />

the opportunity to explore Judaism through<br />

another culture while experiencing the trip<br />

of a lifetime. While traveling, participants<br />

will stop along the way to deliver donations;<br />

visit landmarks such as Patronato,<br />

Old Havana, Templo Sepharadi, and<br />

Revolution Square; and have the unique<br />

experience of celebrating Shabbat and ringing<br />

in the New Year in a different country.<br />

Participants will solicit donations of pharmaceuticals<br />

and deliver items ranging from<br />

baby aspirin to adult diapers. Monetary<br />

donations will also be delivered to the community.<br />

Fees are $2,950 for a double occupancy<br />

room or an additional $300 for a single<br />

occupancy room. <strong>The</strong> trip includes flight,<br />

hotel, transportation, guides, some meals,<br />

and medical insurance. <strong>The</strong> deposit and<br />

application are due October 15.<br />

For more information, contact<br />

Shaindle Schmuckler at 678-812-3983 or<br />

Shaindle@atlantajcc.org.<br />

April 20<strong>09</strong> MJCCA Humanitarian<br />

Mission to <strong>Jewish</strong> Cuba participants


<strong>July</strong>-<strong>August</strong> 20<strong>09</strong> THE JEWISH GEORGIAN Page 7<br />

(front row, from left) MJCCA Guide<br />

Shaindle Schmuckler, Charmaine<br />

Weber, Christa Taunton, Diana<br />

Silverman, and Loretta Winter; (back<br />

row, from left) Beth Sugarman and<br />

Maudi Taunton<br />

———<br />

Teen Community Service (TCS)<br />

Camp participants Aaron Itzkovitz,<br />

Shira Lubinsky, and Talya Gordon<br />

visit with Betty Shapiro at the<br />

William Breman <strong>Jewish</strong> Home.<br />

(Photo courtesy of the MJCCA)<br />

TCS campers Max Mager, Ben Getty,<br />

and Sam Shapiro help pack medical<br />

supplies at MedShare International<br />

for shipment around the world.<br />

(Photo courtesy of the MJCCA)<br />

TCS campers (front to back, left)<br />

Ariella Bland, Talya Gordon, Katie<br />

Cohen, Josh Shapiro, Sammy<br />

Martinez, Jared Kerker, and (right<br />

front) Leo Mager help pack food at<br />

Project Open Hand.<br />

(Photo courtesy of the MJCCA)<br />

———<br />

ALTA KOCKER SOFTBALL GAME.<br />

Despite temperatures nearing 100 degrees,<br />

75 alums from the MJCCA Adult Men’s<br />

Softball Leagues from the years 1975-90<br />

came together for the 2nd annual MJCCA<br />

Alta Kocker Softball Game, on June 28.<br />

<strong>The</strong> group, organized by Gene Benator and<br />

Marcus Katz, enjoyed an afternoon of<br />

camaraderie, sportsmanship, and trading<br />

stories. While minor injuries were reported,<br />

the chief complaint of the day seemed to the<br />

ubiquitous bruised ego.<br />

Program Benefactor Marcus Katz<br />

(left) and Program Coordinator Gene<br />

Benator<br />

———<br />

EXHIBITION CELEBRATES TEL<br />

AVIV’S 100 YEARS. “Hidden Corners of<br />

Tel Aviv,” an exhibition featuring the photography<br />

of Gideon Spiegel, Michal Peleg,<br />

and Shifra Levyathan, is on display at the<br />

MJCCA’s Katz Family Mainstreet Gallery,<br />

through <strong>August</strong> 18.<br />

Gideon Spiegel was born and raised in<br />

Petah Tikvah, Israel. He studied at the<br />

Bezalel School of Art in Jerusalem and currently<br />

lives and works in Tel Aviv. An artist<br />

as well as a photographer, Spiegel created a<br />

special technique called “photo-painting,”<br />

which combines his photographs of hidden<br />

places in his community with photographs<br />

of his paintings.<br />

Michal Peleg was born in Israel and<br />

currently lives in Hod Hasharon. She<br />

received her bachelors’ degree in architecture<br />

and town planning at the Technion-<br />

Israel Institute of Technology. Peleg began<br />

her photography career photographing<br />

design and architecture for Globes<br />

Publisher Supplements. Today, she works<br />

as a freelance photographer, specializing in<br />

social event photography and editorial documentary.<br />

Shifra Levyathan was born in Petah<br />

Tikva, Israel. She studied at the Bezalel<br />

School of Art in Jerusalem and was owner<br />

and curator of the Carlyle Art Gallery, in Tel<br />

Aviv. From her home alongside the Ramat-<br />

Gann National Park to the streets of Tel<br />

Aviv to the Golan Heights, Levyathan<br />

always has her camera within reach. Her<br />

work has been shown in numerous exhibitions<br />

across Israel, including “Art At<br />

Home,” “White Night,” and “At Eye<br />

Level,” in Tel Aviv; and “Frame Stories,” in<br />

Ramat Gan.<br />

Shifra Levyathan, Trio<br />

Michal Peleg, Triathalon<br />

<strong>The</strong> Katz Family Mainstreet Gallery is<br />

located at the MJCCA, 5342 Tilly Mill<br />

Road, Dunwoody. For more information,<br />

contact Arts & Culture Director Kim<br />

Goodfriend at 678-812-4071 or kim.goodfriend@atlantajcc.org.<br />

———<br />

At the MJCCA, campers can enjoy a<br />

summer of safe and meaningful fun,<br />

choosing from more than 100 day<br />

camp options including travel,<br />

drama, sports, and arts camps at<br />

locations in Dunwoody, North Metro,<br />

and East Cobb. (Photos courtesy of<br />

the MJCCA)<br />

———<br />

CELEBRATE ISRAEL. A little inclement<br />

weather didn’t dampen the spirits of the<br />

3,000+ festivalgoers who came to celebrate<br />

the 61st anniversary of Israel’s statehood<br />

and the 100th birthday of Tel Aviv. <strong>The</strong><br />

Celebrate Israel! Festival, May 17, at the<br />

MJCCA, moved indoors when a rainy forecast<br />

threatened the mostly outdoor event.<br />

<strong>The</strong> festival featured community organizations;<br />

the Suntrust Shuk, filled with enticing<br />

vendors selling everything from recycled Tshirts<br />

to fashion jewelry; a myriad of children’s<br />

activities, including inflatables and a<br />

dance party; an Eastern European pavilion;<br />

an Israeli museum; and delicious food from<br />

area vendors and restaurants.<br />

CELEBRATE ISRAEL! Pictured, from<br />

left: Event Co-chairs Hadara Ishak<br />

and Leah Blum and MJCCA<br />

President Sherie Gumer (Photo:<br />

Heidi Morton Photography)<br />

Celebrating the sweetness of 61<br />

years of existence of the state of<br />

Israel (Photo: Heidi Morton<br />

Photography)<br />

Barbara and Ed Mendel cut the ribbon<br />

at the Barbara and Ed Mendel<br />

Splash Park Grand Opening and<br />

Dedication Ceremony, held during<br />

the Celebrate Israel! Festival, May<br />

17. (Photo courtesy of Heidi Morton<br />

Photography)<br />

Kids stay cool at the Barbara and Ed<br />

Mendel Splash Park. (Photo courtesy<br />

of Heidi Morton Photography)<br />

See MJCCA NEWS, page 14


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4455 Roswell Road<br />

Atlanta, Georgia 30342<br />

404-255-4312<br />

www.presstine.com<br />

Upon my honor, I will try<br />

A<br />

friend brought me a delicious<br />

casserole that tasted even better<br />

than it looked, and she hit not only<br />

my taste buds but also my heartstrings<br />

when she said, “This is a Girl Scout dish,<br />

and I knew you were an old Girl Scout and<br />

would appreciate it. We were taught to wrap<br />

all of the layers in aluminum foil and take it<br />

on our hike and cook it over hot coals.”<br />

I said, “Lordy, chile, there was no such<br />

thing as aluminum foil when I was a scout.”<br />

<strong>The</strong>re were my early childhood years,<br />

when I just dreamed of being a Girl Scout.<br />

We didn’t have Brownies and might never<br />

have had a scout troop if one of the schoolteachers<br />

hadn’t become interested because<br />

of her daughter. And then, for the rest<br />

of my grammar and high school<br />

days (almost), I was first a Girl<br />

Scout and then a person.<br />

My whole world<br />

became organized around<br />

the olive green of the uniform<br />

and the three fingers<br />

held high in a pledge. It<br />

was all-important: the<br />

merit badges, passing the<br />

tests, the hikes, the camping,<br />

the projects; and I adored it.<br />

My friends adored it, and we<br />

became even closer friends.<br />

But here comes a “however”: Although<br />

my fondest memories involve being a<br />

scout, and we were all so appreciative of<br />

our leader, who gave unmeasured time, she<br />

was a stern lady, unyielding and unforgiving.<br />

She preached to us constantly about the<br />

evils and sins of the world, such as speaking<br />

to a male classmate as he rode by on his<br />

bike. Her assistant was warmer and laughed<br />

more easily, but our leader was a forceful<br />

disciplinarian. We were innocent children<br />

and needed to learn discipline mainly as it<br />

involved our natural surroundings. She was<br />

fearless in those times when you could<br />

afford to be, and we experienced many<br />

wondrous things.<br />

We should not have been surprised<br />

when the day came that she announced, as<br />

we stood at attention, that, since her daughter<br />

was finishing school that spring, she<br />

would no longer be our scout leader. Her<br />

assistant could not take on the responsibility.<br />

We cried and wandered the residential<br />

streets, going in and calling, unannounced,<br />

on those ladies we thought might adopt us.<br />

Sympathetic ears all, but no one wanted<br />

such a commitment. We had been blessed<br />

with our stern mistress; it was too much to<br />

hope that she might have mellowed like Mr.<br />

Belvedere.<br />

BY<br />

Shirley<br />

Friedman<br />

A lifetime later (actually only eight<br />

years), I returned to my high school as a<br />

teacher and had the most wonderful students<br />

possible. One afternoon after classes,<br />

a group of young girls came to my room<br />

and said, “Our scout leader had to quit. Will<br />

you take us?” Deja vu! I pressed my lips<br />

together and tried to blink away the tears. I<br />

said, “Let me tell you a little story about<br />

what happened when I was your<br />

age, and you’ll know why I<br />

can’t possibly say ‘No’ to<br />

you.”<br />

I said “yes,” and, once<br />

again, scouting became<br />

an important part of my<br />

life. I was there only a<br />

year, and we didn’t do as<br />

many outstanding things<br />

as I had done under my<br />

efficient leader, whom I<br />

could not duplicate. I was many<br />

years younger and not nearly as brilliant.<br />

But we were properly organized, our<br />

activities were well-planned and controlled,<br />

and we had some wonderful, wonderful<br />

times. My last memory was of winding up<br />

in the hospital with a terrible ear infection<br />

from swimming in a “not too clear” pond.<br />

Many, many years later, I went down<br />

home for the centennial of our town. At a<br />

reception, I was talking to a young friend<br />

who is a mountain climber of great note. I<br />

told her how thrilled and astounded I was at<br />

her prowess. “Well, you got me started,”<br />

she said. My husband spilled his punch and<br />

lifted an eyebrow.<br />

“But,” I said, “I could never climb a<br />

mountain.”<br />

She said, “Don’t you remember all of<br />

the great hikes we took when you were our<br />

scout leader? I just loved them, and that’s<br />

what made me become interested in mountain<br />

climbing.”<br />

That one remark was worth the ear<br />

infection and all of the weekends spent<br />

camping and hiking instead of partying or<br />

sleeping late.<br />

Here’s to Juliette Low and hiking and<br />

cooking on coals (and aluminum foil!)—<br />

and to love and warmth and understanding,<br />

mixed with merit badges.


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No sanction to bigotry, no assistance to persecution<br />

T<br />

his is the month we celebrate the<br />

anniversary of the establishment of the<br />

United States as an independent, sover-<br />

eign nation. This holiday also is a reminder to<br />

us as Jews to take time to recall our good fortune<br />

in being granted citizenship in this wonderful<br />

country and to rejoice in the many privileges<br />

and opportunities that have flowed to us<br />

from this citizenship.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re is nothing more symbolic of our<br />

membership in the citizenship fold of the<br />

United States than the historic Touro<br />

Synagogue in Newport, Rhode Island. This<br />

structure is home to Congregation Jeshuat<br />

Israel, a small Orthodox congregation. This is<br />

the same congregation that erected this building,<br />

the oldest <strong>Jewish</strong> synagogue building still<br />

standing in the country and the only such pre-<br />

Revolutionary structure that survives.<br />

In 1790, Moses Seixas, the synagogue’s<br />

warden, wrote to President George<br />

Washington words that still ring true today.<br />

<strong>The</strong> following is an excerpt from this letter:<br />

“Deprived as we heretofore have been of<br />

the invaluable rights of free Citizens, we now<br />

with a deep sense of gratitude to the Almighty<br />

disposer of all events behold a Government,<br />

erected by the Majesty of the People—a<br />

Government, which to bigotry gives no sanction,<br />

to persecution no assistance—but generously<br />

affording to all Liberty of conscience,<br />

and immunities of Citizenship: deeming every<br />

one, of whatever Nation, tongue, or language<br />

equal parts of the great governmental<br />

BY Marvin<br />

Botnick<br />

Machine. This so ample and extensive Federal<br />

Union whose basis is Philanthropy, Mutual<br />

confidence and Public Virtue, we cannot but<br />

acknowledge to be the work of the Great God,<br />

who ruleth in the Armies of Heaven, and<br />

among the Inhabitants of the Earth, doing<br />

whatever seemeth him good.<br />

“For all these Blessings of civil and reli-<br />

Touro Synagogue<br />

gious liberty which we enjoy under an equal<br />

benign administration, we desire to send up<br />

our thanks to the Ancient of Days, the great<br />

preserver of Men—beseeching him, that the<br />

Angel who conducted our forefathers through<br />

the wilderness into the promised Land, may<br />

graciously conduct you through all the difficulties<br />

and dangers of this mortal life. And,<br />

when, like Joshua full of days and full of honour,<br />

you are gathered to your Fathers, may you<br />

be admitted into the Heavenly Paradise to partake<br />

of the water of life, and the tree of immortality.”<br />

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continue to merit and enjoy the good will of<br />

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there shall be none to make him afraid. May<br />

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some of whom were the very people that<br />

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Dachau Artist Colony exhibition continues at Oglethorpe<br />

T<br />

he groundbreaking exhibitions<br />

“Dachau Before Dachau: European<br />

Artist Colony 1860-1914” and<br />

“Dachau Concentration Camp: Years of<br />

Destruction 1933-1945” are at the<br />

Oglethorpe University Museum of Art<br />

(OUMA) through <strong>August</strong> 30.<br />

When Chloe Edwards, president<br />

of Oglethorpe’s <strong>Jewish</strong> Student Union,<br />

first heard that the exhibition was coming<br />

to the school, she “was intrigued but also<br />

apprehensive, “ she wrote in the <strong>The</strong><br />

Stormy Petrel, the student newspaper.<br />

“What could this mean to me, as a Jew and<br />

the current president of the <strong>Jewish</strong> Student<br />

Union, and also as an art lover, someone<br />

who attends the opening of new OUMA<br />

exhibits religiously each semester? Could<br />

I, in good conscience, attend this exhibit,<br />

let alone endorse it? While I have heard<br />

arguments for supporting and shunning<br />

the Dachau exhibit, having thought long<br />

and hard about it, I find that I must support<br />

the efforts of the museum in bringing<br />

this exhibit to campus. “<br />

<strong>The</strong> following essays are reprinted,<br />

with permission, from the exhibition catalogue<br />

accompany the Dachau Artist<br />

Colony exhibition at the OUMA.<br />

—————<br />

It was during the twentieth century<br />

that the name “Dachau” became famous<br />

throughout Europe and the world in association<br />

with horror. For Dachau was the<br />

location of the concentration camp that<br />

bore the city’s name from the very beginning.<br />

<strong>The</strong> name “Dachau” will always go<br />

hand in hand with memories of the<br />

National Socialist crimes against humanity,<br />

a circumstance placing a special<br />

responsibility on the city which it must—<br />

and will—never evade. This responsibility<br />

means, among other things, that Dachau<br />

must do everything in its power to ensure<br />

that the memory of the abominable crimes<br />

of National Socialism is kept alive for the<br />

generations that did not witness the events<br />

first-hand. <strong>The</strong> first and foremost obligation<br />

assigned the city of Dachau by its<br />

own history is to be a city of peace and a<br />

place of learning and commemoration for<br />

the world’s youth.<br />

As a site of remembrance, Dachau<br />

actively confronts its history. One concrete<br />

expression of this is the Dachau<br />

Youth Guesthouse, which invites young<br />

people from Germany and abroad to study<br />

National Socialist despotism and organizes<br />

discussions with persons who experienced<br />

the historical events. <strong>The</strong> town has<br />

furthermore established a Department of<br />

Contemporary History in addition to hosting<br />

an annual symposium on the same<br />

subject.<br />

Yet Dachau was and is also a city of<br />

culture. Already in the late nineteenth century,<br />

due to its proximity to Munich, one<br />

of the most important artists’ colonies of<br />

Europe emerged here. Attracted by the<br />

fascinating landscape of the Dachau<br />

Moor, a substantial number of artists—<br />

Adolf Hoelzel, Ludwig Dill, Arthur<br />

Langhammer, and others—moved to<br />

Dachau. And thanks to the unusually large<br />

number of artists presently living and<br />

working here, the city is still a vibrant<br />

artists’ centre today. What is more,<br />

Dachau has become increasingly active in<br />

the Federation of European Artists’<br />

Colonies EuroArt.<br />

In the coming years, by means of a<br />

traveling exhibition in English, Dachau<br />

would like to introduce itself internationally<br />

as a place of commemoration and culture.<br />

In the process, it will decidedly not<br />

use culture as a means of distracting from<br />

the city’s history. On the contrary: the city<br />

of Dachau wants to show how important<br />

the interplay of commemoration and culture<br />

is for a peaceful and open world.<br />

In Dachau, culture and commemoration<br />

are inseparable. Along with the city’s<br />

active commemoration and remembrance<br />

work, art and culture serve as responses to<br />

its history and act as its ambassadors to<br />

the world. <strong>The</strong> city of Dachau, whose<br />

name has become synonymous with the<br />

atrocities committed during the Third<br />

Reich, is opening its doors and presenting<br />

itself to the world as a cosmopolitan and<br />

international city of culture.<br />

—Peter Bürgel, Mayor, City of Dachau<br />

—————-<br />

<strong>The</strong> Artists of Dachau<br />

<strong>The</strong> Dachau Painting Gallery is situated<br />

in the middle of the picturesque historic<br />

city of Dachau, right opposite the city<br />

hall. Its permanent collection provides<br />

documentary evidence of the artists’<br />

movement in the 19th century, which gave<br />

an important stimulus to the development<br />

of art in Germany. It was here in Dachau<br />

that the open-air painting found one of its<br />

origins, the discovery of the landscape as<br />

an independent motif.<br />

Due to its location in the vicinity of<br />

Munich, Dachau became a popular meeting<br />

point for landscape painters in the 19th<br />

century. First, they were enthusiastic<br />

about the atmospheric landscape of the<br />

Dachau Moss, with its changing natural<br />

light. Later, the painters began to show<br />

interest in the picturesque city, the village<br />

life, and the people in their traditional costumes.<br />

Besides purely artistic reasons<br />

which made the landscape painters leave<br />

the Munich art scene and go to Dachau,<br />

some of them came because of economic<br />

considerations. In comparison to Munich,<br />

living in Dachau was cheaper and the<br />

rents for studios were reasonable. Dachau<br />

became an artists’ location where the<br />

painters tried to portray the landscape in a<br />

true-to-life way. This was successfully<br />

achieved by painting right in front of the<br />

motif, in the landscape itself. Nature had<br />

become a work of art.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Dachau Moss (or moor) was discovered<br />

in the first half of the nineteenth<br />

Gustav Keller (1860-1911),<br />

Heimweg/Way home, oil on<br />

cardboard, 28 x 34.5 cm<br />

Museumsverein Dachau<br />

century, by Johann Georg von Dillis, who<br />

was a teacher in landscape painting at the<br />

Munich Academy from 1804 to 1814. He<br />

visited the Dachau Moss together with his<br />

students and encouraged them to paint<br />

from nature. It was only in the middle of<br />

the nineteenth century that artists like<br />

Eduard Schleich the Older, Carl Spitzweg,<br />

and Christian Morgenstern came to<br />

Dachau. <strong>The</strong>y were strongly influenced by<br />

the artists from Barbizon, whom they had<br />

visited in 1851. <strong>The</strong> style in painting of<br />

the second half of the century was characterized<br />

by Adolf Lier and Wilhelm von<br />

Diez, two famous teachers in landscape<br />

painting at the Munich Academy. Among<br />

their students were painters like Fritz<br />

Baer, Josua von Gietl, Richard von<br />

Poschinger, Joseph Wenglein, Ludwig<br />

Willroider, Hans am Ende, Ludwig<br />

Herterich, Fritz Mackensen, Max Slevogt,<br />

and Wilhelm Trübner.<br />

Around 1900, Dachau became an<br />

artistic colony through the work of art of<br />

Ludwig Dill, Adolf Hölzel, and Arthur<br />

Langhammer and an art center from which<br />

an important new style developed. From<br />

Hans von Hayek<br />

(1869-1940),<br />

Verschneiter Bauernhof/Snow<br />

Covered Farm, 1904, oil on<br />

canvas, 60.5 x 80 cm<br />

Stadt Dachau<br />

Otto Rau (1869 – 1900s),<br />

Winterlandschaft/Wintery<br />

Landscape, oil on canvas,<br />

49.5 x 65.7 cm<br />

Dachauer Galerien und<br />

Museen<br />

Dr. Ulrich und Gertrude<br />

Lechner Stiftung<br />

1893 until 1905, they met in Dachau to<br />

discover new styles in painting and<br />

expressions. <strong>The</strong>ir breakthrough came in<br />

1898, when the three artists had a joint<br />

exhibition as “<strong>The</strong> Dachauer“ in Berlin.<br />

With the outbreak of World War I in 1914,<br />

Dachau, as many other artistic colonies,<br />

lost its importance. New, sensational fashions<br />

in painting were created in the big<br />

cities, and only a small group of painters<br />

remained in Dachau. Nevertheless,<br />

besides the traditional open-air painting<br />

which still was continued by some artists,<br />

there were also avant-garde-style painters<br />

in Dachau, like <strong>August</strong> Kallert, Adolf<br />

Schinnerer, and Paula Wimmer, all artists<br />

who were looking for development out of<br />

the regional boundaries.<br />

OUMA is located on the campus of<br />

Oglethorpe University, 4484 Peachtree<br />

Road N. E. Hours are 12:00 noon-5:00<br />

p.m., Tuesday-Sunday. Admission is $5.<br />

For additional information, visit<br />

http://museum.oglethorpe.edu, or call<br />

404-364-8555.


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<strong>July</strong>-<strong>August</strong> 20<strong>09</strong> THE JEWISH GEORGIAN Page 13<br />

Why I missed my best friend’s birthday and went to Washington, D.C., with AIPAC<br />

I<br />

missed my best friend’s 60th birthday<br />

party on the West Coast to be at AIPAC’s<br />

Policy Conference in Washington D.C. I<br />

called her when I returned home and told her<br />

why.<br />

I began with how it felt to hear African-<br />

American leaders from across our nation<br />

speak before 6,500 pro-Israel activists and<br />

name the <strong>Jewish</strong> Americans who lost their<br />

lives in the Civil Rights Movement. <strong>The</strong>se<br />

leaders, who aim to bring back the principals<br />

of Martin Luther King’s road to freedom,<br />

declared they stand with Israel.<br />

I told her about the Honorable Anthony<br />

Villaraigosa, a Hispanic high school dropout<br />

who was taken in by <strong>Jewish</strong> educators, mentored,<br />

and sent to college. He is now the<br />

mayor of Los Angeles, and he stands with<br />

Israel.<br />

I told her about the <strong>Jewish</strong>-American<br />

citizen whose company has the TV rights to<br />

the Woman’s Tennis Championship in<br />

Dubai. Upon finding out that Dubai officials<br />

banned a ranking Israel player, he knew<br />

something had to be done. Despite the<br />

prospect of substantial financial losses and<br />

negative PR, he decided that the network<br />

would not broadcast the tournament. To his<br />

astonishment, his actions inspired others,<br />

including Andy Roddick, who pulled out of<br />

the tournament, and <strong>The</strong> Wall Street Journal,<br />

which withdrew its sponsorship. In addition,<br />

the World Tennis Association fined the tournament<br />

$300,000. I cried and remembered<br />

how one person can make a difference. At<br />

that point, my husband turned to me—when<br />

the lights dimmed upon 6,500 Americans<br />

who share our core beliefs, and you could<br />

feel the full strength and force of the pride to<br />

be an American Jew in the land of the free—<br />

and he whispered in my ear, “Next year, both<br />

our boys will be here with us.” Never mind<br />

that their exams and college commitments<br />

prohibited their attendance. I knew what he<br />

O<br />

n a Sunday in the middle of May, I<br />

set out to see my business partner’s<br />

new baby, who was born a few days<br />

before. I did not know it was raining until I<br />

pulled out of my garage. Oh, well, I thought,<br />

what is a little rain? However, the more I<br />

drove, the less I could see, because it was<br />

one of those downpours that does make it<br />

hard to see. Even with the defroster going. I<br />

kept wondering if this trip was really necessary.<br />

I kept at it and was very proud when I<br />

got to the right street and the right subdivision<br />

in one piece. I parked my car, ran up to<br />

the front door, and rang the doorbell. No one<br />

answered. I then realized I was supposed to<br />

be at #110 and not #1101. You are probably<br />

feeling all wet just reading this. I was cer-<br />

BY Renee<br />

Brody Levow<br />

meant. <strong>The</strong>y’ll be here soon enough, I said to<br />

myself, as I held dear his hidden tears of<br />

emotion.<br />

I told her about the talent and strength of<br />

this organization, which has existed for over<br />

50 years, that attracts the best and the brightest<br />

Ph.D.s, present and former government<br />

officials, and experts from around the world,<br />

who brief us on a wide range of topics, from<br />

energy independence to world politics.<br />

I told her about the evening Sir Nigel<br />

Sheinwald, the British ambassador to the<br />

U.S.; Kay Hagan, the freshman Senator from<br />

North Carolina; and Kip Holden, the<br />

African-American mayor of Baton Rouge,<br />

who all stand with Israel, were at my dinner<br />

table. <strong>The</strong> British ambassador had to step<br />

away several times to chat with the British<br />

minister for the Middle East, who, because<br />

of AIPAC’s reputation, flew in on a “red eye”<br />

to be with us for dinner.<br />

<strong>The</strong>n, Vice President Joe Biden spoke.<br />

He spoke movingly to all 6,500 of us, including<br />

over 1,000 college students and almost<br />

200 student body presidents. He told a story<br />

about being a freshman senator and having<br />

the opportunity to visit Israel and meet privately<br />

with then-Prime Minister Golda Meir.<br />

“She painted a detailed and dire picture of<br />

the constant struggle for survival for a country<br />

surrounded by enemies,” said the vice<br />

president. As they walked down the hallway<br />

from her office, shoulder-to-shoulder, the<br />

prime minister turned to him and said,<br />

“Don’t look so worried. We’ll be fine.” And<br />

the young senator said, “But I have reason to<br />

BY<br />

Marice<br />

Katz<br />

tainly drenched. I slushed my way back to<br />

my car and finally arrived at the right house.<br />

<strong>The</strong> minute I walked in and was given<br />

a towel to dry off, I immediately fell in love.<br />

This little baby boy was beautiful. <strong>The</strong><br />

father had told me that, but I thought that<br />

was just daddy talk.<br />

However, this baby was, indeed, really<br />

gorgeous, and I now knew my trip had been<br />

worthwhile. I held him for about an hour. I<br />

did not move. He peacefully slept, and I was<br />

in seventh heaven.<br />

Just one more thing. Every time<br />

Mozart, the family’s little dog, came up to<br />

me and the baby and put his little paw on<br />

my knee, I fell in love with him, too. I might<br />

not get a baby, but this doggie was so very,<br />

very cute, that maybe....<br />

Maybe....<br />

Alan Levow, AIPAC’s Atlanta<br />

Campaign Chair<br />

be worried. Your enemies are real and<br />

strong.” And Meir replied, “But senator, we<br />

have a secret weapon. We have nowhere else<br />

to go!” Again, I cried.<br />

I told my friend how we went to Capitol<br />

Hill with two other couples and their son,<br />

who are close friends. Both couples became<br />

involved in AIPAC as a result of a parlor<br />

meeting at our home. I shared with her how<br />

moving it was to lobby with them. We took<br />

pictures as a group before the majestic capital<br />

buildings that bright sunny day. I cried<br />

again when I told their 22-year-old son that<br />

this is democracy at its finest, a government<br />

for the people and by people. And that this<br />

precious freedom can never be taken for<br />

granted. Just as we would fight to our last<br />

dying breath to save America, our home, we<br />

would do the same for Israel’s precious<br />

democracy and land of the free, for Jews all<br />

over the world. Later that day, our friends<br />

sent us an e-mail: “We have never felt closer<br />

to you than when we spoke our minds,<br />

together, to urge two senators and two congressmen<br />

on the Hill to take specific steps to<br />

insure the survival of Israel.” <strong>The</strong> wife is a<br />

child of Holocaust survivors.<br />

Finally, I urged my best friend to meet<br />

me next year at AIPAC’s 2010 Policy<br />

Conference in our nation’s capital—to experience<br />

with me the high that rocks my world<br />

each time I go, to fight for what I cherish. I<br />

told her what our friend Seth Cohen, who<br />

also just returned from the conference, told<br />

my husband and me when we saw him the<br />

next weekend at the movies, “If you don’t<br />

go, you don’t get it.”<br />

So, I say to all of you who have never<br />

been or who missed this year: If you don’t go,<br />

you don’t get it. Join Alan, me, and 6,500 of<br />

your closest friends at the next Policy<br />

Conference, March 21-23, 2010. To make<br />

reservations and take advantage of the earlybird<br />

special, call 770-541-7610, or visit<br />

www.aipac.org.<br />

Renee Brody Levow is a retired senior vice<br />

president and corporate client group director<br />

at Smith Barney, has been an Atlanta resident<br />

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MJCCA NEWS continued<br />

from page 7<br />

AUTHOR, AUTHOR. A page from the<br />

Book Festival of the MJCCA, a series of<br />

year-round author events, recently welcomed<br />

Larry King and Gene Wilder to the<br />

Zaban Park campus.<br />

On May 31, CNN talk show legend<br />

Larry King discussed and signed his latest<br />

memoir, My Remarkable Journey.<br />

For a half-century, the world’s most<br />

influential figures have been telling King<br />

their stories. In My Remarkable Journey,<br />

King shares his story, from his humble roots<br />

in Depression-era Brooklyn to the heights<br />

of celebrity as host of “CNN’s Larry King<br />

Live.”<br />

King writes candidly about the many<br />

luminaries he has interviewed in the fifty<br />

years since his first broadcast. Among them<br />

are Presidents Richard Nixon, Gerald Ford,<br />

Jimmy Carter, Ronald Reagan, George<br />

H.W. Bush, Bill Clinton, George W. Bush,<br />

and Barack Obama; political and cultural<br />

leaders Martin Luther King Jr., Bobby<br />

Kennedy, Nelson Mandela, Hillary Clinton,<br />

John McCain, Eleanor Roosevelt, Malcolm<br />

X, and the Dalai Lama; entertainers Frank<br />

Sinatra, Oprah Winfrey, Johnny Carson,<br />

Elizabeth Taylor, Paul McCartney, Jane<br />

Fonda, Bono, and Madonna; and noted athletes<br />

such as Muhammad Ali and Pete<br />

Rose.<br />

Larry King, pictured with his wife,<br />

Shawn, signs copies of his new<br />

book, My Remarkable Journey.<br />

(Photo: Chris Savas Photography)<br />

———<br />

On June 28, actor, screenwriter,<br />

comedic genius, and author Gene Wilder<br />

discussed and signed copies of his second<br />

novel, <strong>The</strong> Woman Who Wouldn’t.<br />

Wilder’s novel has been praised as<br />

“poignant and whimsically romantic,” by<br />

Publisher’s Weekly. According to <strong>The</strong><br />

Boston Globe, “<strong>The</strong> story exudes the same<br />

sweetness that characterizes his screen persona.”<br />

Gene Wilder won the hearts of a<br />

standing-room-only audience<br />

(Photo: Chris Savas Photography)<br />

From page 1<br />

Celebrating the<br />

20<strong>09</strong> Harris Jacobs Dream Run<br />

To the Community:<br />

“Runners to your mark, get set, go!!” Those are the words my<br />

family and I love to hear....<br />

<strong>The</strong> 16th annual Harris Jacobs Dream Run was a huge success,<br />

thanks to the efforts of the fabulous HJDR committee, volunteers,<br />

the wonderful MJCCA staff, and the many participants<br />

who ran and walked this fun race.<br />

Harris would be thrilled with this exciting yearly event in his<br />

memory...I’m excited as we have another extremely hard working<br />

and helpful member of the HJDR committee...the weather man!<br />

We truly appreciate all your efforts, and we look forward to<br />

seeing you again next year on the first Sunday in June.<br />

Most sincerely,<br />

Kitty Jacobs and Family<br />

Sophie Hirsh Srochi<br />

hosts fun and thought-provoking field trips,<br />

play groups, and birthday parties throughout<br />

the year. For information about field trip<br />

packages, contact<br />

discoverymuseum@atlantajcc.org.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Sophie Hirsh Srochi <strong>Jewish</strong><br />

Discovery Museum is located at the<br />

MJCCA, 5342 Tilly Mill Road, Dunwoody.<br />

Hours are Sunday, 10:30 a.m.-4:30 p.m.,<br />

Monday-Thursday, 10:00 a.m.-5:30 p.m.,<br />

and Friday, 10:00 a.m.-1:00 p.m. Admission<br />

is free; donations are appreciated.<br />

For additional information, contact<br />

Kitty Jacobs pictured with her two<br />

daughters, Faye Kent (left) and<br />

Marsha Freudenberg (right) under a<br />

portrait of Harris Jacobs following<br />

this year’s successful Harris Jacobs<br />

Dream Run, Sunday, June 7. (Photo:<br />

Victor Rachael Photography)<br />

Sophie Knapp (Photo: Cyndi Sterne)<br />

Cyndi Sterne at 678-812-4171 or<br />

cyndi.sterne@atlantajcc.org, or visit<br />

www.atlantajcc.org.


<strong>July</strong>-<strong>August</strong> 20<strong>09</strong> THE JEWISH GEORGIAN Page 15<br />

<strong>Jewish</strong> Denial, <strong>Jewish</strong> Recovery<br />

W<br />

hen you get together with your<br />

friends, we bet the biggest topic<br />

of conversation is the economy.<br />

Everywhere we go people are talking about<br />

friends and family whose lives have been<br />

tragically impacted by job loss. <strong>The</strong> current<br />

jobless rate (as of May) in Georgia is 9.2%.<br />

Why wouldn’t we want to talk about it? In<br />

any room, almost 1 in 10 people are out of<br />

work. We all talk about who’s out of work,<br />

and how we can help them.<br />

ALCOHOL & DRUG ABUSE IMPACTS<br />

AS MANY JEWS AS JOBLESSNESS<br />

Does the topic of alcohol or drug abuse<br />

come up in the same conversation? We bet<br />

not often. Did you know the incidence of<br />

alcoholism and substance abuse is as pervasive<br />

as unemployment? Ten percent of U.S.<br />

adults have alcohol and substance-abuse<br />

problems. <strong>The</strong> general assumption about<br />

substance abuse among Jews is, “Not in my<br />

house!” We assume our ethical values,<br />

<strong>Jewish</strong> mores and religious beliefs prevent<br />

substance abuse from impacting us. Not<br />

true!<br />

<strong>The</strong> reality is that alcohol and drug<br />

abuse knows no demographic, racial or religious<br />

bounds. Studies of drug abuse and<br />

alcoholism within the <strong>Jewish</strong> community<br />

show that substance abuse in the <strong>Jewish</strong><br />

BY Mark &<br />

Weinstein<br />

Jeff<br />

Diamond<br />

community is 12% in New York and an estimated<br />

10% in the Seattle. It’s here, too. In<br />

any room of Jews, 1 in 10 is suffering from<br />

substance abuse in Atlanta’s <strong>Jewish</strong> community.<br />

Yet, our <strong>Jewish</strong> brethren rarely<br />

speak openly about helping our friends, colleagues,<br />

and family nearly as easily or often<br />

as joblessness.<br />

A common cliché is that alcoholism is<br />

“a disease of denial.” <strong>The</strong> Atlanta <strong>Jewish</strong><br />

community is denying this problem. We’ve<br />

got our head in the sand! It’s a problem we<br />

firmly feel needs to be addressed as openly<br />

as possible. Imagine, if we come to terms<br />

with the problem, speak openly about it,<br />

and come together as a community, we<br />

could help close to 10,000 Jews suffering<br />

from alcohol and substance abuse right here<br />

in Fulton County!<br />

FAITH-BASED RECOVERY<br />

Recently, there has developed a radical<br />

new way of helping Jews work through<br />

their substance-abuse problems that has<br />

proven dramatically effective — “Faithbased<br />

recovery houses,” such as the <strong>Jewish</strong><br />

Recovery Houses (JRH) in Baltimore. A<br />

recovery house is a home for people in the<br />

early stages of recovery from addiction.<br />

Unlike halfway houses, which are “selfgoverned”<br />

by their residents, recovery<br />

houses are managed independently by a set<br />

of working rules and parameters that are<br />

developed by professional therapists and<br />

recovery counselors.<br />

House of Hope, a <strong>Jewish</strong> Recovery<br />

House in Baltimore<br />

<strong>The</strong> focus at JRH is to help people<br />

learn how to foster a normal, productive life<br />

- learning basic life skills that many of us<br />

take for granted, like holding down a job,<br />

managing household chores, lighting shabbos<br />

candles, and how to interact with the<br />

world around them.<br />

“Before I came here, I really didn’t<br />

know how to live on my own,” said Rachel,<br />

a current JRH “graduating” resident moving<br />

into her own house. “<strong>The</strong> focus on avoiding<br />

idle time, simplified my life. Now, I have a<br />

car, insurance, and a bank account. JRH<br />

taught me how to take responsibility and be<br />

accountable for managing my life.” <strong>The</strong> rigorous<br />

expectations of residents at JRH<br />

include documented attendance to<br />

Alcoholics Anonymous and Narcotics<br />

Anonymous meetings. Residents must get a<br />

job or attend school. <strong>The</strong>y have to pay rent<br />

and they have to adhere to house rules pertaining<br />

to random testing, visitation, chores<br />

and curfews.<br />

What is unique, since uniqueness can’t<br />

be measured in degrees at JRH, is that the<br />

“residents” are all <strong>Jewish</strong>. Addiction is a<br />

disease of isolation. So, any method of<br />

helping people with addiction connect with<br />

other addicts is critical to the success of<br />

recovery. JRH accepts this premise, and its<br />

residents’ similarities are based on their<br />

<strong>Jewish</strong> backgrounds, upbringing, belief systems<br />

and sensibilities. So, they are more<br />

able to offer and accept support to and from<br />

each other.<br />

Brett Goldenberg, a JRH chemical-<br />

See DENIAL, page 16


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Denial<br />

From page 15<br />

dependency counselor, says that, “Because<br />

the residents are<br />

<strong>Jewish</strong>, they build<br />

a bond quicker. If<br />

they are able to<br />

bond well, then<br />

they’re more likely<br />

to be there for<br />

each other.”<br />

Jason, a former<br />

resident who is<br />

now a successful<br />

attorney says that,<br />

Brett Goldenberg<br />

“having one positive<br />

thing in common<br />

was a power-<br />

ful thing. Because we related so well to<br />

each other, it got to the point that I felt that<br />

I had a family of 8 or 12 people to help me.”<br />

“Repairing the spirit,” or Tikkun<br />

Hanefesh is a <strong>Jewish</strong> way of stating the<br />

obvious spiritual goal of most 12-step programs.<br />

Another reason for JRH success is<br />

that 12-step programs are steeped in <strong>Jewish</strong><br />

Talmudic teachings. Accepting a higher<br />

power over your life. Taking inventories of<br />

your weaknesses and strengths, correcting<br />

character defects, making amends to those<br />

harmed are some of the powerful concepts<br />

we all acknowledge during the high-holidays.<br />

As Jews in recovery, it’s easy to<br />

understand why JRH residents relate so<br />

well to doing mitzvoth to help others.<br />

How effective is the <strong>Jewish</strong> Recovery<br />

Houses’ treatment model? Enormously<br />

effective. <strong>The</strong> most widely accepted form<br />

of treatment, AA-style support groups,<br />

which 56% of all people grappling with<br />

addiction use, has a five-year sobriety rate<br />

that ranges from 10-12%. That means that<br />

of all the people going to AA meetings, only<br />

15% remain sober after five years. <strong>The</strong><br />

<strong>Jewish</strong> Recovery House’s 5-year sobriety<br />

rate has been clinically gauged at 40-56%.<br />

Because this style of helping people is<br />

not non-denominational, it is unable to<br />

accept government or insurance support.<br />

Thus, the JRH in Baltimore depends on<br />

charitable gifts. That’s a big challenge when<br />

you consider that the Chronicles of<br />

Philanthropy says that charitable giving is<br />

down 15.9% in the last year due to our<br />

struggling economy.<br />

BRINGING JEWISH RECOVERY<br />

HOUSES TO ATLANTA<br />

In Atlanta, we are starting an effort to<br />

establish a <strong>Jewish</strong> Recovery House using<br />

Baltimore’s model. We have sought out<br />

guidance from JRH’s board of directors, as<br />

well as its professional leaders, which<br />

include Michael Rokos, a well-respected<br />

expert in faith-based recovery.<br />

Our goal is to open the Atlanta <strong>Jewish</strong><br />

Recovery House by the end of 2010.<br />

Currently, our efforts revolve around forming<br />

our advisory board, which already has<br />

six prominent businessmen to help formulate<br />

our fundraising and organizational<br />

effort, clergy to help gain broader awareness<br />

and acceptance of the problem here in<br />

Atlanta and some of our community’s<br />

respected psychiatrists specializing in drug<br />

and alcohol addiction to oversee operational<br />

and programmatic development.<br />

Operationally, the focus will be on fundraising<br />

to purchase the house, hire appropriate<br />

staff and launch the recruitment effort. Our<br />

fundraising effort is in its formative stages<br />

but we have already received a $100,000<br />

matching gift challenge.<br />

Have you or someone you know been<br />

touched by alcohol or drug abuse? Our<br />

advisory board will meet again on Sunday,<br />

<strong>August</strong> 30. We urge anyone interested to<br />

attend. Please call either Jeff Diamond at<br />

770-402-5664 or Marc Weinstein at 404-<br />

303-4982, and we will give you the details.<br />

Because of her experiences at the<br />

<strong>Jewish</strong> Recovery Houses, Rachel has reunited<br />

with her family. “I never dreamed<br />

that my relationship with my Mom and Dad<br />

could be as good as it is! More importantly,<br />

thanks to <strong>Jewish</strong> Recovery Houses, I am<br />

back to the person I was meant to be.”<br />

Imagine bringing these kinds of results<br />

for 10% of our community. With your help<br />

we can repair the world.<br />

About the Authors: Mark Weinstein,<br />

Executive Vice President of firstPRO, Inc,<br />

and Jeff Diamond, Managing Director of<br />

Bear Stearns, a division of J.P. Morgan,<br />

both serve on the Atlanta <strong>Jewish</strong> Recovery<br />

Houses’ Advisory Board and are both<br />

visionaries in bringing the faith-based<br />

sober living model to Atlanta. Both Mark<br />

and Jeff also serve on the board of directors<br />

of the <strong>Jewish</strong> Recovery Houses of<br />

Baltimore.<br />

Sensations <strong>The</strong>raFun opens doors to<br />

the Amit Program for summer fun<br />

N<br />

ewly opened Sensations<br />

<strong>The</strong>raFun, a multi-sensory activi-<br />

ty center, recently held a special<br />

day of summer fun for kids and families<br />

who utilize services through <strong>The</strong> Amit<br />

Program. As kids took advantage of all the<br />

many activities throughout the warehouse-sized<br />

facility, parents joined in<br />

feeding their inner child by ziplining into<br />

the ball pit, while kids scaled the rock<br />

climbing wall, jumped on the two trampolines,<br />

climbed in the parachute swing,<br />

maneuvered through the obstacle courses,<br />

enjoyed the multicolored lights in the sensory<br />

room, did arts and crafts, and even<br />

played board games for a few minutes of<br />

cooling off.<br />

Sensations <strong>The</strong>raFun offers a wide<br />

range of services to families to satisfy the<br />

sensory needs of their children. It gives<br />

parents, kids, and therapists an additional<br />

place for therapy, outside of the therapist’s<br />

office, that is fun for kids and their families.<br />

Sensations <strong>The</strong>raFun is a great place<br />

for kids, ranging from those currently in<br />

therapy to typical kids in search of a great<br />

place to play. Open to all ages and physical<br />

abilities, Sensations also offers private<br />

rooms for therapists to meet with patients,<br />

after-school and summer groups, meeting<br />

space for the community, a large kitchen<br />

for cooking camps, and a floortime room.<br />

<strong>The</strong> retail store offers products any family<br />

can benefit from, including books, therapeutic<br />

tools, and more.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Amit Program is the central<br />

resource in the <strong>Jewish</strong> community for special<br />

education, ensuring that each child is<br />

able to reach his or her individual potential,<br />

while learning in a <strong>Jewish</strong> environment.<br />

With the help of Amit, children with<br />

learning and developmental disabilities<br />

have the opportunity to learn alongside<br />

their peers, while receiving the individu-<br />

Rachel Jay, daughter of Jan and<br />

Gregory Jay, enjoys squeezing<br />

through the rollers at the Amit<br />

Sensations <strong>The</strong>raFun Play Day.<br />

alized attention they need to succeed academically.<br />

“Amit wants to offer programming to<br />

their students and families throughout the<br />

summer, and what better way than to<br />

come experience all that this new facility<br />

has to offer,” says Karen Paz, director of<br />

programming and development for Amit.<br />

“One of our many goals is to offer<br />

children with special needs the ability to<br />

have some of the same experiences that<br />

their mainstream friends have, but in a<br />

completely supportive environment.<br />

Some of my greatest joys stem from<br />

watching kids with CP or other physical<br />

challenges enjoying the ziplines in our<br />

special apparatuses that will allow them to<br />

participate in ways they had only dreamed<br />

of previously,” says Jay Perkins, owner of<br />

Sensations.<br />

<strong>The</strong> play day was a win-win-win for<br />

Sensations, Amit, and all those who participated.<br />

For more information on <strong>The</strong><br />

Amit Program and Sensations <strong>The</strong>raFun,<br />

visit www.amitatlanta.org and www.sensationstherafun.com.


<strong>July</strong>-<strong>August</strong> 20<strong>09</strong> THE JEWISH GEORGIAN Page 17<br />

Milestones amid the keepsakes<br />

ome days, I get the “urge to purge,”<br />

but so much good stuff has been Ssquirreled<br />

away over the years that I<br />

find more goodies to keep rather than toss.<br />

Here’s a clipping, yellowed with age—<br />

a birth announcement from the North China<br />

Daily News: “On <strong>July</strong> 12, 1925, at St.<br />

Marie’s Hospital, Shanghai, to Mr. and Mrs.<br />

J. Friend, a daughter.” By golly, that’s me!<br />

<strong>The</strong> hospital was run by the French<br />

Catholic nuns and located in the French<br />

Concession, or Frenchtown as we called it,<br />

miles away from where we lived. I regret<br />

now that I never asked my parents why I<br />

wasn’t delivered at our general hospital,<br />

also run by Catholic nuns, but located closer<br />

to our house in Hongkew.<br />

Years later, in the 1930s and ‘40s,<br />

Hongkew became the famous ghetto for the<br />

thousands of European refugees who fled to<br />

China and were lucky to have missed the<br />

Holocaust by a whisker, so to speak.<br />

Another milestone: My kindergarten<br />

report shows, among other remarks,<br />

“Balfoura is rather shy about taking part in<br />

dramatization...is a well-behaved girl, both<br />

in the classroom and on the<br />

playground...excellent work in reading and<br />

phonetics.”<br />

<strong>The</strong>n prizes and commendations in<br />

years to follow, a prefect in my senior year,<br />

but no honors in gym or sports—I was a<br />

puny, sickly geek!<br />

In my old scrapbook, I have the ticket<br />

stub for my 1947 trip on the General B.<br />

Gordon ocean liner, bringing me to the<br />

United States. Attached to the ticket is the<br />

Shanghai Quarantine Service certificate<br />

showing I received the necessary vaccinations<br />

to board the ship.<br />

Framed on my wall is a most precious,<br />

15” x 18” (real sheepskin, y’all), 1950<br />

University of Georgia diploma. Artium in<br />

Journalismo Baccaclaurei, dated X June<br />

Annoque Domini MCML. A proud milestone....<br />

And there are more: the 1953 invitation<br />

to my wedding to Hans R. Mayer, in<br />

Savannah—I became an American citizen<br />

later that year, a major milestone; our first<br />

child, Sandra Mayer, born in 1954 in<br />

Eastman, the first grandchild for my parents,<br />

Frieda and Jacob Friend, and a huge<br />

milestone for all of us.<br />

Most checks I’ve shredded, but one<br />

that I’ve saved, for $50, is dated March 26,<br />

1956. It is made out to Bernard Jacobson,<br />

the mohel who drove in from Savannah to<br />

perform the bris for our son, Ronnie Mayer,<br />

at our new home in Hawkinsville. My husband,<br />

Hans, taught me how to make<br />

German potato salad, to serve with the<br />

luncheon for our family and guests that day.<br />

Our family doctor, who delivered Ronnie,<br />

was invited to the bris, and he later told me<br />

that he was quite impressed, witnessing this<br />

ritual for the first time.<br />

I also found a 1962 bulletin from the<br />

Fitzgerald Hebrew Congregation, where<br />

our small-town Middle Georgia <strong>Jewish</strong><br />

families worshipped and socialized. Noted<br />

BY Balfoura Friend<br />

Levine<br />

in the bulletin: “ A Mazel Tov to Mr. & Mrs.<br />

Hans Mayer of Hawkinsville, on the birth<br />

of daughter Laurie Kay.” My youngest,<br />

Laurie Mayer Coffey, is now 47 and mother<br />

of 11-year-old Tom.<br />

In front of me is a yellowed copy of<br />

<strong>The</strong> Jerusalem Post, September 18, 1978.<br />

<strong>The</strong> banner headline screams out, “Pact for<br />

Peace at Camp David.” My daughter Sandy<br />

and I are on board El Al, winging our way<br />

to our odyssey in Israel. Besides meeting<br />

my paternal cousins for the first time, I<br />

recall holding my breath at my first sight of<br />

the Western Wall (which I always think of<br />

as the Wailing Wall) and then touching the<br />

actual stones, where thousands of years ago<br />

one of our ancestors may have stood as<br />

well. If this trip wasn’t a mind-shattering<br />

milestone, I don’t know what else it could<br />

be.<br />

Another biggie, in November 1992,<br />

was my trip to Russia with the Friendship<br />

Force and the first time meeting my mother’s<br />

family. Hugs, kisses, and tears of joy in<br />

celebrating that milestone.<br />

And then there was the summer of<br />

1996, when Atlanta hosted the Summer<br />

Olympics. I am stroking the beautiful silk<br />

scarf, part of my dress uniform as envoy to<br />

the Republic of Moldova (formerly the<br />

Moldavian SSR) team in the Paralympic<br />

Games, which followed the Olympic<br />

Games. I gulped down tears as I marched<br />

with the Moldovan standard bearer and the<br />

nine-member team in both the opening and<br />

closing ceremonies—another milestone.<br />

During the decades of my adult life,<br />

there have also been sad milestones. I have<br />

obituaries of my parents, my husbands, and<br />

some dear friends, as time winged its way<br />

through the years.<br />

<strong>The</strong>n many more joyous milestones:<br />

the childrens’ marriages; my presence in<br />

1984 at the birth of my first grandchild,<br />

Erica (who is now in law school; how time<br />

flies), followed in four years by the<br />

awesome and unforgettable<br />

experience of actually<br />

watching the birthing<br />

of her younger brother,<br />

Scott. He is now in<br />

his second year at<br />

UGA. Wow!<br />

I’m not<br />

claiming originality<br />

in reciting<br />

personal<br />

milestones. I<br />

am, however,<br />

genuinely<br />

amazed to<br />

find all these old cards, photos, and documents<br />

of those interesting and life-altering<br />

times and events in my life.<br />

One thing I’ve noticed: Throughout the<br />

1950s and ‘60s, I was referred to as Mrs.<br />

Hans Mayer (I signed the check to the<br />

mohel that way, too), as though I were only<br />

a half-part of my husband. I guess most<br />

married women were so addressed then. We<br />

are now taught to have our own credit cards<br />

and bank accounts. I’m not a rabid feminist,<br />

but I think it’s about time we have our own<br />

personal identities. And that, too, is a huge<br />

milestone.<br />

Each birthday is a milestone of sorts,<br />

and I have passed 84 such markers in my<br />

lifetime. Which interesting celebrations are<br />

yet to come? I’m ready—bring them on!


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inger Emas is the author of the new<br />

book Back On Top: Fearless Dating<br />

After Divorce, and I am so glad I dis-<br />

covered her. She has such a wonderful<br />

writer’s voice—Ginger is funny and warm,<br />

irreverent and wise. Reading Back On Top<br />

makes the reader feel as if she’s having a con-<br />

A<br />

sustainable way to address homelessness<br />

has resulted in a $10,000 grant for<br />

its creator, David Baron of Atlanta, a<br />

sophomore at the University of North Carolina<br />

at Chapel Hill.<br />

David’s Homeless Outreach Poverty<br />

Eradication (HOPE) Garden was one of more<br />

than 100 student-initiated projects to receive a<br />

Davis Projects for Peace grant from philanthropist<br />

Kathryn W. Davis.<br />

HOPE Garden is a partnership of Carolina<br />

students and the Town of Chapel Hill, working<br />

in collaboration with the North Carolina State<br />

University Department of Horticultural<br />

Science. In this project, homeless people will<br />

versation with a good girlfriend, which is an<br />

amazing experience. <strong>The</strong> mixture of practical<br />

advice, laugh-out-loud humor, and unique<br />

insight is very compelling. Even the disclaimer<br />

at the front of the book cracked me<br />

up!<br />

Ginger breaks down online dating into<br />

doable steps—none of it is overwhelming, but<br />

all of it is stuff a woman needs to know for<br />

savvy dating. I am making all of my friends<br />

who are currently single—divorced or not—<br />

add it to their must-read list.<br />

As helpful and insightful as the tips are—<br />

it’s clear that she’s been doing this for<br />

awhile—it’s Ginger’s humor and honesty that<br />

make the book a truly great, fun read.<br />

train and work alongside volunteers and mentors<br />

in a community garden, with land donated<br />

by the town. <strong>The</strong> workers will gain valuable job<br />

skills and income, while the organic produce<br />

they grow will be sold on the UNC campus and<br />

given to disadvantaged families, who could not<br />

otherwise afford to buy this fresh, high-quality,<br />

and nutritious food.<br />

“HOPE Garden will promote employment<br />

security, food security, and the overall security<br />

that comes from strong community ties,” Baron<br />

said. “It will promote peace by bridging the<br />

gaps that exist in the Chapel Hill community,<br />

while providing program participants and the<br />

community at large with a greater sense of com-<br />

Some of it was validating. I loved hearing<br />

Ginger confirm that it was a good idea for me<br />

to take a few years off to really get to know<br />

myself and date differently, and it has certainly<br />

paid off in my current relationship with a<br />

wonderful man.<br />

Some of it was eye-opening. <strong>The</strong> dating<br />

stories themselves are hilarious—I love the<br />

one about Chad, the fitness guy who Ginger<br />

turned to “the dark side” with her chocolate<br />

espresso martini. This is a very timely, scintillating<br />

read—so appealing, it is sure to<br />

become a social phenomenon.<br />

For more information on Ginger, her<br />

workshops and the book, visit backontopthebook.com.<br />

David Baron receives a Projects for Peace grant for HOPE Garden<br />

David Baron<br />

BUSINESS BITS<br />

By Marsha Liebowitz<br />

FAMILY MATTERS. Marvin L.<br />

Solomiany, managing partner at KSS<br />

Family Law, has been selected chair of<br />

the Family Law Section of the Atlanta<br />

Bar Association. Solomiany joined KSS<br />

Family Law in<br />

1995 and became a<br />

partner in 2003.<br />

His numerous honors<br />

include Georgia<br />

Trend Legal Elite<br />

(2008) and Georgia<br />

Super Lawyers,<br />

Rising Stars (2005,<br />

2006, 2007, 2008).<br />

Marvin L.<br />

Solomiany<br />

Solomiany graduated<br />

with a B.A. with<br />

distinction from the<br />

University of Michigan, Ann Arbor, and<br />

received his J.D. degree from Emory<br />

University School of Law. He is married<br />

to Kerry Solomiany and has two children.<br />

BRINGING GOLDBERG’S TO YOU.<br />

Goldberg’s Group of companies, with<br />

five locations in Atlanta, has launched a<br />

catering division, headed by Linda<br />

Baron. A Georgia native, Baron studied<br />

with James Beard, managed a Buckhead<br />

catering company for 17 years, led workshops<br />

for <strong>The</strong> Scarlett Tassel, and taught<br />

cooking classes at <strong>The</strong> Delectable Fig.<br />

GRILL THRILLS. FuegoMundo (“world<br />

of fire”), a South American wood-fire<br />

grill restaurant, recently opened at the<br />

newly redeveloped <strong>The</strong> Prado in Sandy<br />

Springs. <strong>The</strong> restaurant offers flavorful,<br />

affordable, and healthy South American<br />

cuisine that is geared to meat lovers and<br />

vegetarians alike. FuegoMundo is owned<br />

by Udi and Masha Hershkovitz. Udi,<br />

born in Israel to Romanian and Polish<br />

parents, came to America as a teenager.<br />

Masha was born in Barranquilla,<br />

Colombia, and came to Atlanta in 1972 at<br />

Udi and Masha Hershkovitz<br />

the age of 9. <strong>The</strong>y have three children,<br />

Arie, Tali, and Ariele. For hours and<br />

menus, visit www.fuegomundo.com.<br />

SMILE FOR THE CAMERA. Ilan<br />

Regenbaum recently returned from<br />

Washington, D.C., where he was recognized<br />

as one of six finalists, out of 6,000<br />

entrants, in the Young Entrepreneur<br />

Foundation’s entrepreneurial scholarship<br />

competition. At 13, Ilan began taking<br />

pictures at events around Atlanta for Ilan<br />

Event Photographer, his own company.<br />

At 14, he founded Flash Foto Events<br />

(www.flashfotoevents.com). This studio<br />

specializes in digital green screen photography;<br />

at events, Ilan takes pictures of<br />

Ilan Regenbaum<br />

munal security.”<br />

Davis Projects for Peace invited all students<br />

from partner schools in the Davis United<br />

World College (UWC) Scholars Program, plus<br />

students at International Houses worldwide and<br />

Future Generations, to submit plans for grassroots<br />

projects for peace, to be implemented during<br />

the summer of 20<strong>09</strong>. University students<br />

from nearly 100 campuses collectively received<br />

over $1 million in funding during the summer<br />

of 20<strong>09</strong> for projects in all regions of the world.<br />

David is the son of Roy and Karen Baron,<br />

and a grandson of Alvin Brown and the late<br />

Doris Brown and Henry and Elizabeth Strauss.<br />

guests against a green screen, superimposes<br />

the images on one of many digital<br />

backgrounds, and then prints pictures onsite<br />

for guests.<br />

PLANNING AND EVALUATION. Rick<br />

Aranson, of <strong>Jewish</strong> Family & Career<br />

Services, has published a paper in <strong>The</strong><br />

American Review of Public<br />

Administration. <strong>The</strong> paper he coauthored,<br />

“Mission-Market Tensions and<br />

Nonprofit Pricing,” was published in<br />

early May. <strong>The</strong> paper is based on JF&CS’<br />

comprehensive program planning and<br />

evaluation methodologies.<br />

AICC LEADERSHIP. <strong>The</strong> American-<br />

Israel Chamber of Commerce, Southeast<br />

Region, has elected its officers and board<br />

members for 20<strong>09</strong>-2010. Officers are<br />

Charlie Harrison, chairman; Lorin Coles,<br />

chairman-elect; Joel Neuman, vice chairman;<br />

Benjamin Fink, vice chairman;<br />

Jonathan Minnen, secretary; and Steve<br />

Horn, treasurer. Tom Glaser continues as<br />

president and chief professional officer.<br />

New to the Executive Committee are<br />

Randall Foster, Saar Bracha, Arie<br />

Goldshlager, and Maggie Bellville. New<br />

board members are Ben Taube, Robin<br />

Spratlin, Heith Rodman, Warren<br />

Binderman, Robert Kadoori, Ken<br />

Anderson, Ted Schwartz, Philip Cooper,<br />

Ralph Jordan, Kobi Margolin, Gilly<br />

Segal, Gadi Shapira, Diane Weiner,<br />

Robyn Fritz, and Rebecca Chang.


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<strong>Jewish</strong><br />

THE<br />

<strong>Georgian</strong><br />

Twittering goes kosher for Roberta Scher and Lois Held<br />

By Suzi Brozman<br />

W<br />

here do you get your kosher<br />

news? From the newspaper?<br />

From the Atlanta Kashruth<br />

Commission’s newsletter or website? From<br />

cookbooks? From friends? From walking<br />

up and down the kosher aisles at the grocery<br />

store? Today, there’s a new option,<br />

called KosherEye—tweet about it at<br />

Twitter.com, or follow it on Facebook,<br />

courtesy of Roberta Scher and Lois Held.<br />

Not too many years ago, we all marveled<br />

at something called the Internet; we<br />

were fascinated by our cellphones. Before<br />

that, we thought Dick Tracy’s two-way<br />

wrist radio was pure fantasy, never to be<br />

made real. How wrong we were!<br />

<strong>The</strong>n came e-mail and instant messaging,<br />

and we found communication to be<br />

both instantaneous and addictive. Or am I<br />

the only one who’ll admit I stay in touch via<br />

e-mail far more than I ever did when I had<br />

to buy stamps and go to the Post Office to<br />

mail a letter?<br />

<strong>The</strong>n came Facebook, and suddenly<br />

people we didn’t even know were aware of<br />

our existence are popping up, asking us to<br />

be their friends. Craigslist and e-Bay and<br />

internet shopping let us browse without<br />

ever setting foot in the mall.<br />

And now there’s the new sensation—<br />

Twitter.com, a site that lets you “tweet”<br />

about anything at all, as long as you can<br />

keep your message<br />

under 140 characters.<br />

Track a person or a<br />

product, talk about politics<br />

or whatever interests<br />

you. And it’s all<br />

free.<br />

But how to make it<br />

matter, and<br />

not just<br />

substitute<br />

for gossip<br />

or e-mail?<br />

That was<br />

the question<br />

facing<br />

Roberta<br />

Scher and<br />

Lois Held when they decided to put their<br />

many years of volunteer experience to use.<br />

<strong>The</strong> two women had been friends for<br />

some 39 years, since they met as volunteers<br />

in a Hadassah chapter. Like many women,<br />

they’d joined to meet people and do good at<br />

the same time. Scher remembers,<br />

“Hadassah was an outlet for us. Women’s<br />

roles have changed. You can judge a person<br />

by working with her on a volunteer basis.”<br />

Held agrees. “We formed so many<br />

friendships in Hadassah,” she says. “<strong>The</strong>n I<br />

Atlanta Group Home<br />

celebrates its 25th anniversary<br />

Lois Held and Roberta Scher<br />

went back to school and Roberta went into<br />

business. Recently, we’ve worked on Beth<br />

Jacob things together,<br />

including many things<br />

related to food—the<br />

Kosher Festival, dinners<br />

of honor, and so forth.<br />

We love to eat, cook,<br />

and read cookbooks.<br />

And Roberta has had her<br />

kosher<br />

food column<br />

in<br />

T h e<br />

<strong>Jewish</strong><br />

<strong>Georgian</strong><br />

for six<br />

years.”<br />

After<br />

Scher<br />

sold Paper Parlour, her store for over 25<br />

years, and Lois retired from her career as an<br />

information technology specialist, they<br />

began to search for a new project and soon<br />

settled on one that had been germinating in<br />

Scher’s mind for some months. “We believe<br />

there is an audience that wants to know<br />

about the newest and the best in kosher<br />

products, gadgets, wine, beverages, and<br />

edibles,” says Scher. “We decided we wanted<br />

to highlight products for chefs, restaurants,<br />

foodies, and cooks, both <strong>Jewish</strong> and<br />

By Evie Wolfe<br />

In 1984, <strong>The</strong> Atlanta Group<br />

Home opened its doors to young<br />

adults with mental disabilities.<br />

At the time, there was no<br />

other facility in Fulton<br />

County like it. Twenty-five<br />

years later, three of its original<br />

residents have lived happily<br />

in this remarkable home.<br />

It all began years earlier,<br />

when Harry and Frances<br />

Kuniansky were given the news that<br />

their newborn daughter, Jill, had<br />

Down syndrome. Six doctors<br />

strongly recommended placing<br />

her in an institution. Harry and Frances followed<br />

the advice of a seventh and took Jill<br />

home, where she lived until she was 24.<br />

In her heart, Frances knew that life at<br />

home would be difficult for a child with a<br />

mental disability, even though her three siblings<br />

adored her.<br />

Born in 1959, Jill had a typical child-<br />

non-<strong>Jewish</strong>, who are looking for kosher<br />

items.”<br />

Held added to her friend’s statement,<br />

“<strong>The</strong>re is a preconceived notion of what<br />

kosher is—Manischewitz—but that’s not<br />

the case anymore. <strong>The</strong>re are a lot of mainstream<br />

and gourmet products. It’s not like<br />

what our grandmothers used.” In the old<br />

days, the women point out, you had very<br />

few options available, like a single brand of<br />

kosher parve margarine. Now there are<br />

many, and people need to be made aware of<br />

the choices and their advantages and disadvantages.<br />

Scher shared her philosophy, “We’re<br />

looking for healthy, delicious products for<br />

anyone wishing to cook kosher—it’s a<br />

whole new world out there—milks, preserves,<br />

much more, and they’re not in the<br />

kosher department.” Held calls their service<br />

an informational network: they walk up and<br />

down every aisle in the supermarket, virtually<br />

survey products, and contact manufacturers<br />

and distributors, looking for new<br />

items. <strong>The</strong>ir adviser is Rabbi Reuven Stein,<br />

of the Atlanta Kashruth Commission.<br />

<strong>The</strong> women decided to test their concept<br />

on Twitter.com. It’s free, it’s easy, and<br />

it’s open to anyone. It’s a fast and convenient<br />

way to communicate and get your mes-<br />

hood until it became time for school. No<br />

schools would take children<br />

known to have Down syndrome,<br />

and there were no<br />

training centers available.<br />

Frances placed a<br />

personals ad in the<br />

newspaper, in which<br />

she encouraged<br />

protests, and she was<br />

able to convince Fulton<br />

County to come up with<br />

funds for a day-training cen-<br />

ter for children who needed<br />

help. Eventually, it<br />

became possible to send<br />

Jill and others like her to<br />

Fulton County schools.<br />

At 21, Jill graduated from Northside<br />

High School. She announced to her parents<br />

that she wanted to move out and live on her<br />

own. Frances was against it, but knew<br />

change was necessary.<br />

Jill and Frances<br />

Kuniansky<br />

See TWITTER, page 25<br />

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Kosher Affairs<br />

I<br />

t’s summer, and Atlanta’s kosher selection<br />

is hot!<br />

Kosher Gourmet continues its focus on<br />

catering and takeout. <strong>The</strong> store is now<br />

stocking Israel’s Pereg Gourmet spices and<br />

products, including the hard-to-find za’atar<br />

spice. (Rub olive oil and za’atar on chicken;<br />

roast or grill, and pretend you are in<br />

Yerushalayim.)<br />

Although still under construction, the<br />

Toco Hill Kroger has remodeled and<br />

enlarged its kosher department. In addition<br />

to a full parve bakery, there is an expanded<br />

selection of catered foods and salads, fish,<br />

and meat. Many of the items are made inhouse.<br />

And, while you’re there, pick up<br />

some Chai Peking Chinese takeout.<br />

Return to Eden has a delicious new<br />

product. I am already addicted. It is Wax<br />

Orchards’ classic fudge sauce, sweetened<br />

with fruit juice. <strong>The</strong> product is parve and<br />

especially great for topping dairy-free ice<br />

cream. I plan to try the other Wax Orchards<br />

fudge flavors as well. Sign up for Return to<br />

Eden’s kosher products e-letter at<br />

return@eden.com, or visit the store at 2335<br />

Cheshire Bridge Road.<br />

Kudos to Trader Joe’s for offering so<br />

many kosher and Israeli products, especially<br />

in the wake of a targeted propaganda<br />

campaign by those unfriendly to Israel.<br />

BY Roberta<br />

Scher<br />

Trader Joe’s is known to offer superb products<br />

at value prices, and happily, many of<br />

these are kosher and some from Israel! If<br />

you enjoy shopping there, and like their<br />

selection, do let them know.<br />

Goodfriend’s Grill is now open at the<br />

MJCCA. Off Broadway meat restaurant has<br />

closed. Broadway dairy restaurant has<br />

expanded and moved across the street.<br />

Whew—lots happening in Hotlanta.<br />

BOOKS FOR COOKS<br />

Whipped cream, custard, chocolate<br />

mousse, meringue—everything rich, gooey<br />

and delicious can be found in the 60 recipes<br />

of this sweet new cookbook, Mrs. Rowe’s<br />

Little Book of Southern Pies by Mollie Cox<br />

Bryan (Ten Speed Press). <strong>The</strong> legendary<br />

Mrs. Rowe was known as the Pie Lady of<br />

Virginia’s Shenandoah Valley. She died in<br />

2003 at the age of 89, but the recipes for her<br />

handmade pies continue as a cherished family<br />

tradition. <strong>The</strong> cookbook presents simple<br />

instructions<br />

and tips for<br />

making<br />

delectable<br />

pie fillings<br />

a n d<br />

piecrusts.<br />

But keep in<br />

mind, if you<br />

have no time<br />

to make a<br />

crust, just<br />

buy one!<br />

We met<br />

on Twitter (yes, I said Twitter), and now I<br />

am truly a fan of her cookbook. Pam Reiss’<br />

Soup—A Kosher Collection is a comprehensive,<br />

simple-to-follow cookbook on making<br />

just about any type of soup you can imagine.<br />

This Toronto-based author provides<br />

150 varied recipes, even one for chocolate<br />

soup! I guarantee that you will find a soup<br />

appropriate for just about any season, meal,<br />

or occasion. By the way, soup can be a very<br />

budget-friendly, healthful meal all year<br />

long. Think about cold soups in summer<br />

(gazpacho, fruit soup, borscht) and more<br />

hearty soups in colder weather. But who can<br />

think about cold weather right now? Soup<br />

can be ordered at Amazon.com. Pam is currently<br />

working on a Passover cookbook.<br />

So, how is my organic garden growing?<br />

Please check out the photos. <strong>The</strong> salad<br />

table is flourishing; although I have had to<br />

share some of the bok choy and arugula<br />

with a few resident insects, we certainly are<br />

enjoying salads straight from the raised<br />

Our flourishing salad table<br />

Topsy Turvey<br />

tomato planter<br />

salad table.<br />

As for the<br />

raised garden<br />

bed created<br />

with Farmer<br />

D soil—the<br />

buzz has<br />

started, and I<br />

have had visits<br />

from local<br />

“tourists”<br />

who are<br />

amazed at<br />

how tall the<br />

veggies have<br />

grown and<br />

how prolific they are. <strong>The</strong> tomato plants are<br />

taller than I am; squash leaves are tropical<br />

in size, and the remainder of the veggies—<br />

peppers, cukes, and eggplant—seem very<br />

happy.<br />

See KOSHER AFFAIRS, page 34


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Kosher Korner AKC<br />

Approved<br />

WHAT’S NEW IN KOSHER<br />

ATLANTA?<br />

THE JUNE 20<strong>09</strong> “KOSHER<br />

WITHOUT A SYMBOL” LIST<br />

Whenever possible, it is always best<br />

to purchase items with reliable kosher<br />

supervision. However, there are many<br />

items that are kosher even if they lack a<br />

symbol, although some may require<br />

additional checking for insect infestation.<br />

<strong>The</strong> following items are currently<br />

and generally assumed kosher (when<br />

there are no other additives) and can be<br />

purchased even if they don’t bear a<br />

kosher symbol. This list is subject to<br />

change.<br />

FOOD ITEMS<br />

Applesauce—unflavored<br />

Baking powder<br />

Baking soda<br />

Barley<br />

Beans—dry<br />

Beer—domestic, unflavored<br />

Buckwheat (kasha)<br />

Caramel color<br />

Cocoa—plain<br />

Coconut<br />

Coffee—plain or decaf, unflavored<br />

Cornstarch, corn grits, corn syrup, and<br />

cornmeal<br />

Couscous—unseasoned and uncooked<br />

Dextrose<br />

Edamame<br />

Eggs—raw, whole, and unprocessed.<br />

However, they should be checked for<br />

blood spots.<br />

Farina—raw<br />

Flaxseed<br />

Flour—without enzymes<br />

Food additives—citric acid, EDTA, high<br />

fructose corn syrup, potassium sorbate,<br />

riboflavin, sorbitol, sodium benzoate,<br />

sodium bisulfate, sodium citrate, sulfur<br />

dioxide<br />

Food colors—F.D. & C. colors with<br />

propylene glycol<br />

Fruit, canned—without added flavors,<br />

colors, or grape juice. (Note: Fruit cocktail<br />

needs reliable kosher supervision,<br />

because some brands contain carmine, a<br />

non-kosher natural color derived from<br />

the cochineal insect.)<br />

Fruit, dried—the following are acceptable<br />

with no certification when there are<br />

no additional oils or flavors listed:<br />

sliced, diced, or whole apricots, dates,<br />

figs, peaches, nectarines, pears, prunes,<br />

BY Rabbi Reuven<br />

Stein<br />

and domestic raisins.<br />

Fruit, frozen—without added flavors or<br />

coloring. (Some berries require special<br />

checking for infestation.)<br />

Honey<br />

Juices, fresh or frozen—100% orange,<br />

apple, grapefruit, pineapple, and lemon.<br />

(Tomato and grape juices need supervision.)<br />

Maple syrup—mass-produced. Private<br />

farms need to be checked individually<br />

for use of animal fat in production.<br />

Milk—In the U.S. and Canada,<br />

Vitamilk, buttermilk, and chocolate milk<br />

need supervision.<br />

Molasses<br />

Nuts, raw—with no oil or additives<br />

(some contain gelatin), unflavored,<br />

including blanched almonds, Brazil<br />

nuts, hazelnuts, macadamia nuts,<br />

pecans, and walnuts. Dry roasted nuts<br />

require certification.<br />

Oats—unflavored<br />

Oat bran<br />

Olive oil—100% extra virgin<br />

Polenta—non-processed, unseasoned<br />

Popcorn kernels<br />

Quinoa<br />

Rice—white or brown, including con-<br />

verted or parboiled, no seasonings<br />

added. Arborio, basmati, sushi rice, and<br />

other varieties are acceptable without<br />

added flavorings.<br />

Seltzer—plain, non-flavored<br />

Soy grits<br />

Spices—<strong>The</strong> following dried spices<br />

(ground, chopped, powdered, or whole)<br />

are acceptable: allspice, anise, basil, bay<br />

leaf, black pepper, caraway, cardamom,<br />

chervil, chives, cilantro, cinnamon,<br />

cloves, coriander, cumin, dill, fennel,<br />

fenugreek, lemongrass, mace, marjoram,<br />

nutmeg, oregano, parsley, peppercorns<br />

(any color), rosemary, saffron, sage, salt,<br />

savory, sesame seed (raw only), tarragon,<br />

thyme, turmeric, and white pepper.<br />

Spice blends require certification.<br />

Ginger, fresh or dried, is acceptable.<br />

(Other fresh spices may have insect<br />

infestation.)<br />

Sugar—brown, cane, and powdered confectioner’s<br />

Tea—plain, orange pekoe, unflavored<br />

(regular and decaf)<br />

Tofu—without additives<br />

Vegetables, frozen—All are acceptable,<br />

excluding artichoke, asparagus, and<br />

Brussels sprouts, which require special<br />

checking for infestation. (Supervision is<br />

preferred for broccoli and spinach.)<br />

Vegetables, pre-washed and/or precut<br />

packaged—Broccoli slaw, carrots, celery,<br />

coleslaw, onions, and potatoes are<br />

acceptable, but may require checking.<br />

Water—unflavored<br />

NON-FOOD ITEMS<br />

Aluminum foil and foil pans<br />

Baking or parchment paper—Siliconetype<br />

is acceptable. Quilon-based paper,<br />

which may contain animal fat, requires<br />

certification.<br />

Cupcake liners<br />

Dental floss<br />

Lipstick, lip balm—Some authorities<br />

prefer those without glycerin.<br />

Oven cleaner<br />

Plastic bags and wraps<br />

Toothpaste, mouthwash—Some kosher<br />

authorities prefer those without glycerin.<br />

(Breath spray and breath sticks require<br />

certification.)<br />

Silver polish<br />

Steel wool pads—plain. (Those with<br />

soap requires certification.)<br />

Rabbi Reuven Stein is director of supervision<br />

for the Atlanta Kashruth<br />

Commission, a non-profit organization<br />

dedicated to promoting kashruth<br />

through education, research, and supervision.


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COMMUNITY OUTREACH PROJECTS HELP FEED THE HUNGRY. This spring,<br />

Rabbi Joshua Lesser, of Congregation Bet Haverim, introduced an inspired Seder program<br />

that he called “Pay it Forward.” Attendees were encouraged to bring grocery store gift cards,<br />

which were then donated to the Atlanta Community Food Bank and <strong>Jewish</strong> Family & Career<br />

Services. More than 125 congregants, including 40 children, participated in this special<br />

Seder. Rabbi Lesser presented gift cards worth $2,080 to JF&CS CEO Gary Miller and<br />

Outreach Director Linda Briks. He hopes to do this program again next year.<br />

Congregation Etz Chaim completed a Social Action Committee project in which they<br />

sold <strong>The</strong> Holocaust Survivor Cookbook. <strong>The</strong> book contains more than 120 stories of<br />

Holocaust survivors and more than 200 recipes. A portion of the cookbooks’ profits will go<br />

to the Carmel Ha-ir Soup Kitchen in Jerusalem; additional proceeds will go to the Atlanta<br />

Community Food Bank and the JF&CS Kosher Food Pantry.<br />

Congregation Bet Haverim and Congregation Etz Chaim are two of the 11 synagogues<br />

that the JF&CS Community Outreach Team works with to bring services and programming<br />

to people in their neighborhoods and synagogue communities.<br />

RECOGNIZING A LEADER. JF&CS Board Member Lynn Redd received the Leadership<br />

Award from the Association of <strong>Jewish</strong> Family & Children’s Agencies at the 37th Annual<br />

AJFCA Conference, May 3-5, in Chicago. Lynn became eligible for this honor after she<br />

received the 20<strong>09</strong> Herbert Kohn Meritorious Service Award from JF&CS.<br />

Lynn Redd has been an active JF&CS volunteer for approximately 13 years, serving on<br />

the Board of Directors for 10 of those years. Most recently, she successfully chaired the<br />

agency’s first $1 million Annual Campaign. Previously, she chaired the Marketing<br />

Committee and the Volunteer Committee. She developed business plans that resulted in the<br />

establishment of the organization’s Synagogue Outreach Program and Legacy Home Care.<br />

She recently assumed the position of vice president of Resource Development.<br />

Redd has professional experience in the healthcare industry, including management<br />

consulting, venture capital, strategic planning, and information technology. She also worked<br />

for the federal government developing national health care policy. She has a bachelor’s<br />

degree in biology from Brown University and an MBA from the Wharton School of the<br />

University of Pennsylvania. Redd lives with her husband and two teenage children in<br />

Atlanta.<br />

Novel sheds light on little-examined<br />

piece of WWII history<br />

<strong>The</strong> Guernsey Literary and<br />

Potato Peel Pie Society<br />

By Mary Ann Shaffer and Annie Barrows 2008<br />

Random House<br />

288 pp., $22<br />

BY Carolyn<br />

Gold<br />

hat a wonderful book! <strong>The</strong> Guernsey<br />

Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society Wis<br />

charming, quirky, and yet serious in an easy-to-read way. This novel by Mary<br />

Ann Shaffer and Annie Barrows is made up entirely of correspondence.<br />

<strong>The</strong> year is 1946. In these letters, you meet the characters who lived through the German<br />

occupation of the British Island of Guernsey in the English Channel<br />

during World War II.<br />

<strong>The</strong> deprivation of the island’s inhabitants accounts for the<br />

“Potato Peel Pie” part of the title. Much of the story tells how these<br />

occupants survived. Some of it touches on German concentration<br />

camp victims and their treatment at the hands of the Nazis, but the<br />

main story takes place after the war.<br />

Juliet Ashton, a writer, goes to the island to learn more and to<br />

write a book about the occupation and its aftermath. <strong>The</strong> people she<br />

meets are members of the Guernsey Literary Society; they formed<br />

the group to circumvent the German curfew and, through their book<br />

discussions, developed lasting bonds with one another. Running<br />

through the story is a romance that takes a surprising turn at the end<br />

of the book.<br />

Mary Ann Shaffer passed away when her book was in its final stages, and her niece<br />

Annie Barrows finished the work. <strong>The</strong> language and thoughts are so everyday, quite British,<br />

and delightfully humorous, as well as touching. <strong>The</strong> island’s occupants observed the good<br />

and bad of humankind with resignation, kindness, and some small efforts to outsmart their<br />

captors when possible. <strong>The</strong>y watched German planes flying over to bomb London, slave<br />

laborers building bunkers on their shores, and even German soldiers scrounging for food as<br />

the islanders themselves had done.<br />

<strong>The</strong> book, in a most creative way, brings a period in history down to a very small island<br />

and a small group of people, yet touches universal emotions.


<strong>July</strong>-<strong>August</strong> 20<strong>09</strong> THE JEWISH GEORGIAN Page 25<br />

Twitter<br />

From page 21<br />

sage across. After just two months, over<br />

1,400 people interested in food signed up to<br />

follow Held and Scher at KosherEye. You<br />

can do it, too—visit Twitter.com, sign in,<br />

click the “find people” button, put in<br />

kosher, and you’ll get a list of twitterers,<br />

people talking about the subject. If you<br />

click on KosherEye, you’ll see a brief<br />

description.<br />

And what will you find? Here are a few<br />

recent topics:<br />

• Is BaconSalt kosher? (Yes, absolutely<br />

Kof-K kosher.)<br />

• Does extra-virgin olive oil need<br />

kosher certification? (No, and it’s even<br />

Group Home<br />

From page 21<br />

When the idea of a group home was<br />

suggested to Frances, she found a small<br />

house and persuaded Harry to buy it. “If we<br />

buy it now, we can spend all our time on<br />

getting approval and funding,” she told<br />

him.<br />

After four years of hard work by<br />

Frances and others who were eager to help,<br />

<strong>The</strong> Atlanta Group Home opened. With a<br />

HUD loan, the tiny house was more than<br />

doubled in size, with six bedrooms, four<br />

baths, and all the modern conveniences.<br />

<strong>The</strong> tour I just took proved to me how wise<br />

the founders were in combining privacy and<br />

a pleasing ambiance. <strong>The</strong> huge living room<br />

accommodates the group and can be used<br />

for special gatherings as well.<br />

“No one lacks anything he or she<br />

needs,” explains Deborah Lowe, who has<br />

been the house parent for 23 years. Many of<br />

the residents refer to her as “mother.”<br />

Deborah says, “We are a family. Our siblings<br />

range in age from 44 to 57. We eat<br />

together, we go places together. Everyone<br />

has daily chores and a routine to follow.<br />

Some of our residents still continue to<br />

work, while the others stay busy at home<br />

with planned activities.”<br />

<strong>The</strong> residents consider <strong>The</strong> Atlanta<br />

kosher for Passover.)<br />

• Is Bone Suckin’ Sauce just for pork<br />

ribs? (Try it on beef; it’s terrific.)<br />

• Is there kosher sausage? Why buy<br />

kosher certified bagged lettuce? Are Burger<br />

King Onion Ring Snacks kosher?<br />

One of their newest finds are dried<br />

capers in sea salt!<br />

Held and Scher not only search the grocery<br />

stores. <strong>The</strong>y also attend food trade<br />

shows, looking for new products they can<br />

showcase—anything that happens to be certified<br />

kosher, as well as gadgets and appliances<br />

designed to make kosher cooking easier<br />

and more fun.<br />

“We’re in another phase of life,” they<br />

explained. “We’ve raised our kids, retired<br />

from business, and we’re pursuing a new<br />

Group Home their real home. “My daughter<br />

would rather sleep here than at our house,”<br />

says Nanci Berger’s mother, Rachiel. “My<br />

feelings were hurt when she first revealed<br />

this to me. But, as I realized that she loved<br />

every part of her life at <strong>The</strong> Group Home, I<br />

came to my senses.”<br />

<strong>The</strong> home can accommodate four<br />

female and two male residents. <strong>The</strong> women<br />

share semi-private baths; the men also share<br />

a bath. At least three of the current residents<br />

have Down syndrome. All of the residents<br />

maintain their own rooms, do their own<br />

laundry, and share in joint chores. <strong>The</strong>y also<br />

enjoy many activities, such as bowling<br />

together every Sunday night.<br />

One question that comes up inevitably<br />

when discussing <strong>The</strong> Group Home’s 25 successful<br />

years is how it is funded. <strong>The</strong> system<br />

is somewhat complicated, but it<br />

includes regular contributions from parents,<br />

the residents’ income, the Federal<br />

Government, and donations from the community.<br />

Frances Kuniansky, as chair emeritus<br />

of the board, continues her interest and<br />

input after her many years of working with<br />

individuals who have mental disabilities.<br />

Long may she continue!<br />

Unfortunately, Jill Kuniansky passed<br />

away on June 19. Everyone at <strong>The</strong> Atlanta<br />

Group Home will miss her and her contagiously<br />

happy personality.<br />

avenue of technology. We’re going with a<br />

frontier we didn’t grow up with. We’re<br />

embracing the wave of the future,<br />

and getting on it. We’re mature,<br />

vital women—we are not what<br />

we see in the mirror, but what we<br />

see in our heads—out there seeking,<br />

learning, doing. We want<br />

our minds to continue and create.<br />

It’s so much fun—being active,<br />

constantly thinking and doing. We<br />

have a lot to give. We want to represent<br />

the consumer, to make a shidduch<br />

with the manufacturers, help<br />

businesses get their word out to<br />

our targets, the kosher consumers.”<br />

Held and Scher estimate that only<br />

about 5% of their audience is local. <strong>The</strong>y<br />

A letter from Jill<br />

have people in Australia, Europe,<br />

New Zealand, and even Israel,<br />

following their site. So,<br />

next time you have to go<br />

to the store, Twitter<br />

first, and you may find<br />

something new to serve<br />

your family. If you’re<br />

into Facebook, join the<br />

KosherEye Facebook<br />

group. And watch for the<br />

upcoming contest to name<br />

KosherEye’s pink pig<br />

mascot on the Twitter<br />

site.<br />

You can reach Held and Scher at<br />

koshereye@gmail.com.<br />

KosherEye’s<br />

pink pig mascot<br />

In the summer of 2000, Jill Kuniansky sent the following letter to <strong>The</strong> <strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Georgian</strong>.<br />

It was published in the September/October 2000 issue.<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Georgian</strong>:<br />

I love your articles. I read <strong>The</strong> <strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Georgian</strong> all the<br />

time. I enjoy reading it a lot. Could I put an article in about<br />

my family and friends I live with? How I love them so so so<br />

much, my sisters and my brother, even my boyfriend, the one<br />

I love so much. I live with the nicest friends I ever had. I love<br />

them so so much.<br />

Here is my article about my family, who is more important<br />

to me. And my friends from where I live and I love living<br />

there. I love my family and my daddy Harry P. Kuniansky<br />

and my mom Frances and my sisters Carol and Laura and my<br />

brother Alan.<br />

And my other family I love so much, the Group Home.<br />

I love my friends. I have Deborah, my house mother, and my<br />

sister Susie, Tracy, and my other friend Nanci, and my brother<br />

Ted and my boyfriend Steve. I love them all. <strong>The</strong>y are my<br />

family. And my brother Dennis and my best friend I ever had<br />

is Deborah Lowe.<br />

My name is Jill Kuniansky.


Page 26 THE JEWISH GEORGIAN <strong>July</strong>-<strong>August</strong> 20<strong>09</strong><br />

Law-enforcement officers learn lessons of Leo Frank lynching case<br />

M<br />

MISH MASH<br />

By Erin O’Shinskey<br />

the first assistant rabbi for the congregation<br />

in more than a generation and the first<br />

FIRST. Rabbi Elana Zelony is the woman to serve as a rabbi in the synagogue’s<br />

newest clergy member at 105-year history. Rabbi Zelony earned a<br />

Congregation Shearith Israel. She is B.A. in geology from Occidental College,<br />

A<br />

ore than 100 Georgia officers<br />

from federal, state, and local<br />

agencies participated in a train-<br />

ing program that examined lessons to be<br />

learned from the lynching of Leo Frank in<br />

Marietta, Georgia, in 1915. <strong>The</strong> training<br />

was provided by <strong>The</strong> Anti-Defamation<br />

League, one of the nation’s largest nongovernmental<br />

trainers of law enforcement<br />

officers.<br />

<strong>The</strong> program coincided with the<br />

ADL’s April 30 world premiere presentation<br />

of <strong>The</strong> People v. Leo Frank, a PBS<br />

television documentary shedding important<br />

new light on the trial and subsequent<br />

lynching of <strong>Jewish</strong> Atlanta businessman<br />

Leo Frank. <strong>The</strong> premiere was held at the<br />

Cobb Energy Performing Arts Centre,<br />

located just two miles from the site where<br />

Frank was hanged after being abducted<br />

from a prison cell in Milledgeville.<br />

Michael Mears, associate dean of<br />

academic affairs and associate professor<br />

at Atlanta’s John Marshall Law School,<br />

taught the course. As an attorney, Mears<br />

has served as lead defense counsel in<br />

more than 27 Georgia death penalty cases<br />

and was founding director of the Multi-<br />

County Public Defenders Office,<br />

Georgia’s first statewide death penalty<br />

public defender’s office. He was joined<br />

by Bill Nigut, Southeast regional director<br />

of ADL.<br />

“<strong>The</strong> Leo Frank case was an extreme<br />

example of how bigotry unleashed can<br />

undermine citizen respect for the law,”<br />

Nigut said. “When Georgia Governor<br />

John Slayton commuted Leo Frank’s sentence<br />

from death to life in prison, he and<br />

his wife were forced to flee the state<br />

under police protection because angry<br />

mobs stormed Slayton’s home and hanged<br />

him in effigy; Leo Frank’s lynching was<br />

organized by a group of some of<br />

Marietta’s leading citizens.<br />

“While lynching is now a relic of a<br />

dark past here in the South, law enforcement<br />

officials are nevertheless still called<br />

upon to deal with community tensions<br />

created by hatred and bigotry,” Nigut continued.<br />

“Our class [gave] them the opportunity<br />

to examine how they resolve issues<br />

of this kind.”<br />

<strong>The</strong> officers also participated in one<br />

of ADL’s highly acclaimed briefings on<br />

current extremist activity in this region.<br />

Chairs for the world premiere of <strong>The</strong><br />

People v. Leo Frank, were former<br />

Georgia Governor Roy Barnes; Cobb<br />

County Chairman Sam Olens, the first<br />

<strong>Jewish</strong> chairman of Cobb County; and<br />

Emory University Associate Professor of<br />

Law Julie Seaman, a board member of the<br />

Georgia Innocence Project.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Leo Frank case is widely regarded<br />

as one of the most infamous episodes<br />

in American judicial history. Frank, the<br />

manager of a downtown Atlanta pencil<br />

factory, was accused of murdering Mary<br />

studied in a Jerusalem yeshiva, and received<br />

her rabbinic training at the Ziegler School of<br />

Rabbinic Studies in Los Angeles, where she<br />

was ordained last month. She is married to<br />

Adiv Zelony; they have one daughter, Nesya.<br />

NEW SPIRITUAL LEADER. Rabbi<br />

Michael Bernstein has joined Congregation<br />

Gesher L’Torah. Ordained by the <strong>Jewish</strong><br />

<strong>The</strong>ological<br />

Seminary in<br />

1999, he served<br />

as senior rabbi at<br />

Congregation<br />

Beth Am Israel,<br />

in Penn Valley,<br />

Pennsylvania,<br />

a n d<br />

Congregation<br />

B’nai Jacob, in<br />

Longmeadow,<br />

Rabbi Michael<br />

Bernstein<br />

Massachusetts.<br />

He has designed<br />

and facilitated<br />

programs at the National <strong>Jewish</strong> Center for<br />

Learning and Leadership, served as chaplain<br />

at the Springfield (MA) College Campus<br />

Ministry and Spiritual Life Center, and<br />

recently served as a senior educator fellow at<br />

the Melton Centre at Hebrew University.<br />

Rabbi Bernstein and his wife, Tracie, have<br />

three children, Ayelet, 10, Yaron, 8, and<br />

Liana, 4.<br />

EASING THE WAY. <strong>The</strong> Epstein School<br />

and <strong>The</strong> Weber School have signed an agreement<br />

providing Epstein students with preferential<br />

admission status, a seamless transition,<br />

and a continuous <strong>Jewish</strong> day school education<br />

for students 2 years old through 12th<br />

grade. Epstein and Weber will work closely<br />

together to align academic and enrichment<br />

curricula to ensure the goal of seamless transition<br />

is met for Epstein students who choose<br />

to attend Weber. Earlier this year, <strong>The</strong> Alfred<br />

& Adele Davis Academy signed a similar<br />

agreement with Weber with great success,<br />

serving as a model for other <strong>Jewish</strong> institutions<br />

to follow.<br />

Phagan, a 13-year-old employee of the<br />

factory. Sensational coverage by daily<br />

newspapers whipped the emotions of<br />

Atlanta citizens into a frenzy, and Tom<br />

Watson, a Georgia political leader and<br />

magazine editor, stirred powerful anti-<br />

Semitic feelings with his lurid articles<br />

attacking Frank.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Frank case catapulted the Anti-<br />

Defamation League into prominence as<br />

one of the nation’s leading civil rights<br />

organizations. Ironically, it also sparked a<br />

rebirth of the Ku Klux Klan.<br />

<strong>The</strong> People v. Leo Frank, written,<br />

produced, and directed by award-winning<br />

filmmaker Ben Loeterman, will be shown<br />

on PBS stations across the country in the<br />

fall. Loeterman is one of public television’s<br />

most prolific producers of historical<br />

and public affairs documentaries and<br />

has produced numerous films for such<br />

prestigious PBS programs as “American<br />

Experience” and “Frontline.”<br />

EPSTEIN AND WEBER SIGN AGREE-<br />

MENT. Pictured: (front, from left)<br />

Robert Franco, president, <strong>The</strong><br />

Epstein School Board of Trustees;<br />

Stan Beiner, head of school, <strong>The</strong><br />

Epstein School; Dr. Simcha Pearl,<br />

head of school, <strong>The</strong> Weber School;<br />

Harold Kirtz, president, <strong>The</strong> Weber<br />

School Board of Trustees; (back,<br />

from left) Steve Rakitt, president,<br />

<strong>Jewish</strong> Federation of Greater Atlanta;<br />

Carol Cooper, chair of the board,<br />

<strong>Jewish</strong> Federation of Greater Atlanta;<br />

Felicia Weber, naming benefactor,<br />

<strong>The</strong> Weber School; and Joe Weber,<br />

naming benefactor, <strong>The</strong> Weber<br />

School<br />

SANTA FOR SENIORS. On <strong>July</strong> 22, Santa<br />

for Seniors held its annual “Christmas in<br />

<strong>July</strong>” cocktail party at the TEW Galleries.<br />

Party organizers were Jill Berry; Dottie<br />

Smith, executive director; and Jade Sykes.<br />

Senior Citizen Services of Metropolitan<br />

Atlanta, through its Santa for Seniors program,<br />

collects new, unwrapped, “seniorfriendly”<br />

items such as large-print books,<br />

bath or personal hygiene products, small<br />

blankets, slip-resistant slippers, personal<br />

fans, flashlights, and stationery.<br />

A JOB WELL DONE. Gail Solomon recently<br />

received the Cantor Isaac Goodfriend<br />

Award from Ahavath Achim Synagogue. She<br />

was given this recognition in thanks for her<br />

efforts in making the City Wide Blood Drive,<br />

which she chaired, a success.


<strong>July</strong>-<strong>August</strong> 20<strong>09</strong> THE JEWISH GEORGIAN Page 27<br />

Fighting for <strong>Jewish</strong> education in a highly Unorthodox way<br />

Who would ever have thought a professional<br />

wrestler named Demon Hellstorm<br />

would be a strong advocate of <strong>Jewish</strong> day<br />

schools? Or that a nice <strong>Jewish</strong> boy would<br />

have in his fingers the magic to fix whatever<br />

ails a car? Or that these two statements<br />

would be describing the same man?<br />

<strong>The</strong>y are, of course, as anyone who has<br />

ever dropped his or her car off for service at<br />

Gann-El Auto can attest. Owner Greg<br />

Herman not only knows what’s wrong with<br />

cars, he keeps at the job until the owner is<br />

satisfied that the job has been done right.<br />

But, beyond that, Herman has another<br />

passion. He believes in the right of every<br />

<strong>Jewish</strong> child to receive a superior <strong>Jewish</strong><br />

education. And as a parent of two elementary<br />

school-age boys, he knows that today’s<br />

sluggish economy, combined with the cost<br />

of day school, is keeping kids out of<br />

Atlanta’s day schools. He has seen that<br />

directly this year: Rambam Atlanta, the<br />

city’s Modern Orthodox elementary school,<br />

closed its doors, and other schools have not<br />

always had the funds to offer sufficient<br />

financial aid to prospective families. So<br />

Herman has devised a way to use his first<br />

passion, wrestling, to benefit the parents<br />

struggling to keep their children in <strong>Jewish</strong><br />

day schools.<br />

On Sunday, September 13, Yeshiva<br />

Atlanta will host a family fun day featuring<br />

not only an antique car show, but also a professional<br />

wrestling show featuring Greg<br />

Herman, a.k.a. Demon Hellstorm, “the<br />

Madman from Miami,” as well as Yeshiva<br />

Atlanta’s own wrestling coach, Jan “<strong>The</strong><br />

Man” Siegelman and an assortment of<br />

heavyweight champion professional<br />

wrestlers, including Big Daddy Goth and<br />

England’s heavyweight champion, Simon<br />

Serom.<br />

How, you might ask, did a nice <strong>Jewish</strong><br />

boy come to be known as Demon<br />

Hellstorm? Herman started as a youngster,<br />

in Miami, watching wrestling on television.<br />

By the age of 16, he had begun to attend<br />

matches, and, at 21, working out one day in<br />

a gym, he was approached by a man who<br />

offered him the opportunity to attend<br />

wrestling school. “He told me to show up in<br />

school and he’d sponsor me if I could make<br />

it through the first lesson,” Herman remembers.<br />

“I went. <strong>The</strong>re were 64 of us. <strong>The</strong><br />

instructor asked who’d take a fall flat on his<br />

back. I was the only volunteer. Four months<br />

later, I was on TV. I didn’t know what I was<br />

doing, but the money was good, better than<br />

being an auto mechanic, which was my day<br />

job. I was the bad guy, inciting the crowd so<br />

they’d come watch me get killed.”<br />

He chose the name Demon Hellstorm<br />

because he’d been told to pick a demonic<br />

BY<br />

Suzi<br />

Brozman<br />

name. Demon Hellstorm was lifted right out<br />

of Marvel Comics, where a character who<br />

was the son of Satan was called Demon<br />

Hellstorm. But, insists Herman, he was<br />

actually a good guy in the comics.<br />

Travel and wrestling became a way of<br />

life, until Herman married and became a<br />

father. “<strong>The</strong>re’s nothing more important<br />

than my kids,” he says. His two boys, Ariel<br />

Shlomo, 7, and Natanel Yakov, 5, got to see<br />

their dad wrestle live for the first time on<br />

Super Bowl Sunday last year. Until then,<br />

they’d only seen him on tape.<br />

Herman was not brought up in a religious<br />

household, but being involved<br />

throughout his career with born-again<br />

Christians made him want to find out who<br />

he was. At age 36, with a serious muscle<br />

injury, he went back to being a mechanic.<br />

One day, a black man came into the shop.<br />

He was wearing a kippah and tzitzis. He<br />

explained to Herman what they were, and<br />

took him to the Young Israel synagogue in<br />

Tamarac, Florida. Herman began going on<br />

Sundays, since he was working on<br />

Saturdays.<br />

Moving to Atlanta, he began studying<br />

with Rabbi Hirshy Minkowitz at what is<br />

now Chabad of Alpharetta. He got a job in<br />

a mechanic shop, soon opening his own in<br />

Decatur. But, he didn’t like dealing with the<br />

city. So he moved to Toco Hill and opened<br />

Gann-El, God’s Garden. He’s happier here,<br />

and the community is happy to have him,<br />

judging by the number of cars waiting for<br />

service and by the praise spread on<br />

Frum_Atlanta, the Toco Hill listserv. <strong>The</strong><br />

shop offers a full array of services, from<br />

tune-ups to restorations and paint and body<br />

work.<br />

But, his children are the focal points of<br />

his life. When their school closed at the end<br />

of the school year, leaving teachers and parents<br />

uncertain about the future, Herman<br />

asked himself what he could do to help.<br />

Finances were a problem for many former<br />

Rambam families.<br />

Herman’s own sons will attend public<br />

school in the fall. But many others needed<br />

help to allow them to make the best choices<br />

for their children. Soon, the idea of a<br />

wrestling show to benefit them was born.<br />

He told <strong>The</strong> <strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Georgian</strong>, “People are<br />

donating their time to try to help. Half of the<br />

money we raise will be going to Yeshiva<br />

Atlanta to help with tuition, and half will go<br />

to parents sending their kids from Rambam<br />

to other schools. I want people to know this<br />

is a show. It’s entertainment, for fun. <strong>The</strong>re<br />

will be no cursing, no spitting, no intentional<br />

blood. And there will be some really cool<br />

cars to look at.” Visit his website,<br />

DemonHellstorm.com, to learn more about<br />

Herman and his wrestling career.<br />

Another focus of his life is his fiancée,<br />

Ilana Melnick. <strong>The</strong> couple will be married<br />

about a week before the wrestling extravaganza.<br />

When Yeshiva Atlanta’s wrestling<br />

coach, Jan Siegelman, volunteered his services,<br />

Herman was apprehensive. “Jan thinks<br />

he’s going to win. I think he’s going to get<br />

broken in half.”<br />

But Siegelman, who has coached the<br />

school’s wrestlers for 17 years, is confident.<br />

“My life is a study of what it is to be human.<br />

My commitment is that young men should<br />

grow up to be adults that their parents and<br />

they themselves can be proud of, that they<br />

should be competent in outdoor skills, in<br />

defending themselves, and in standing up<br />

for themselves as Jews. <strong>The</strong>y should leave<br />

the world a better place because they were<br />

here. That’s why I was born, to live that philosophy<br />

and help others to.”<br />

Siegelman has been wrestling for 45<br />

years. “I always thought a real wrestler<br />

could beat these so-called pros, these television<br />

guys who I see as all muscle and<br />

mouth—most of their muscle is in their<br />

mouths. <strong>The</strong> guy I’m going to wrestle is a<br />

loudmouth, trying to intimidate me.”<br />

<strong>The</strong> community can judge his words<br />

for themselves at the wrestling exhibition,<br />

September 13, at Yeshiva Atlanta. Tickets<br />

are just $10. <strong>The</strong> gates open at 10:00 a.m.<br />

with wrestling starting at noon. For more<br />

information, or to enter your car in the<br />

antique car show, call Greg Herman at<br />

Gann-El, 404-733-1555 or 770-826-1660.<br />

Sponsorships are still available, with current<br />

sponsors including Return to Eden,<br />

Bagel Break, C&N Auto Parts, Allan Shaw,<br />

D.D.S., and Kosher Gourmet.


Page 28 THE JEWISH GEORGIAN <strong>July</strong>-<strong>August</strong> 20<strong>09</strong><br />

In Israel, two miracles for one Atlantan<br />

Recently, I had the opportunity to hear a<br />

fascinating story at the Marcus <strong>Jewish</strong><br />

Community Center of Atlanta, told by Dr.<br />

David Whiteman, a local plastic surgeon.<br />

David grew up in a small <strong>Jewish</strong> community<br />

in Windsor, Ontario, Canada, where<br />

he was involved in B’nai B’rith youth activities.<br />

As a teenager, he took a trip to Israel,<br />

where he met a girl from Detroit, Sheri, who<br />

was also on a youth trip. A romance blossomed,<br />

and several years later, they were<br />

married.<br />

Fast-forward to 2006. David and Sheri<br />

traveled to Israel with their two children,<br />

ages 12 and 15, to celebrate their 19th wedding<br />

anniversary. <strong>The</strong>y were accompanied by<br />

close Atlanta friends Mark and Teri<br />

Edelstein, Gary and Kathy Tuchman, and all<br />

of their children.<br />

<strong>The</strong>y had been traveling for about a<br />

week and made arrangements to sleep in a<br />

Bedouin tent in the Negev Desert. One night,<br />

during a camel ride at sunset, David felt a<br />

crushing sensation in his chest. <strong>The</strong> pain kept<br />

getting worse. Since he was a doctor, he suspected<br />

he was having a heart attack. <strong>The</strong><br />

group returned to the tent, where there was a<br />

contingent of teenagers. A medic was there;<br />

however, David said he was not much help.<br />

Fortunately, the guide was still there, but<br />

they were about a half hour from civilization.<br />

David finally got an aspirin from someone in<br />

the group, which helped save his life. <strong>The</strong>y<br />

then traveled to the town of Arad, where they<br />

found an ambulance, and the medics started<br />

working on him.<br />

David said he received quality care and<br />

that the ambulance had medicines that ambulances<br />

do not ordinarily carry. <strong>The</strong>y gave him<br />

morphine and a complete electrocardiogram;<br />

however, nothing relieved his pain.<br />

It was very dark outside. David started<br />

praying, even though he wondered if it was<br />

Dr. David Whiteman<br />

pointless; there were plenty of people all<br />

over the world who needed God’s help. “I<br />

was shaking so badly, and I wanted to lower<br />

my metabolism, but could not.” To try to get<br />

his mind off his pain, David jokingly said to<br />

his friend Gary, “When I get to the hospital,<br />

I know I will have a <strong>Jewish</strong> doctor.”<br />

After about 30 minutes, the ambulance<br />

stopped, and the medics said they wanted to<br />

take another EKG. When David asked how<br />

the electrocardiogram looked, the medics<br />

said it looked worse than the first one.<br />

<strong>The</strong> ambulance took David to the<br />

Soroka Medical Center in Beersheva. Upon<br />

arrival, he saw Sheri and Gary looking at the<br />

ambulance door in surprise. “Did you see<br />

that?” one of them said. David did not know<br />

what they were talking about at the time, but<br />

it turned out to be an important part of this<br />

powerful experience.<br />

David was taken immediately to the<br />

catheter lab. One of the doctors was a very<br />

large Russian. David joked that if the doctor<br />

saved him, he would give him a free liposuction.<br />

<strong>The</strong> doctors told him they were going to<br />

do a balloon dilation. David asked when he<br />

would receive a sedative, and they told him<br />

he would not need one. Once they did the<br />

balloon dilation, the pain went away.<br />

As David was being treated, Gary used<br />

his Blackberry to contact an Atlanta cardiologist,<br />

who was a friend and neighbor. <strong>The</strong><br />

Israeli doctors communicated with the cardiologist,<br />

telling him about David’s condition<br />

and treatment. <strong>The</strong> cardiologist then communicated<br />

to David and Sheri that David was<br />

getting exceptional care. This information<br />

proved to be a great relief to everyone.<br />

David soon learned what Sheri and Gary<br />

had seen on the ambulance door. As it turned<br />

out, the ambulance was donated by friends of<br />

Sheri’s parents in Michigan. Sheri saw this as<br />

a sign that they had to do something in return<br />

for the lifesaving treatment David was<br />

receiving.<br />

David spent the next week in intensive<br />

care. In the hospital, he met Arabs and<br />

Israelis. “Truly a melting pot,” he said. He<br />

was becoming depressed, until a man point-<br />

ed out to him that David experienced two<br />

miracles in Israel: he met his wife there<br />

almost 20 years earlier, and his life was saved<br />

there.<br />

Just before his discharge, David was<br />

scheduled for a stress test. With him in the<br />

waiting room were a Bedouin woman covered<br />

from head to toe, an Arab wearing a<br />

headdress, and another person speaking<br />

French. It was “amazing,” David said. “Here<br />

we were, people of different cultures, relating<br />

to each other and not shouting.” To top it off,<br />

David said there was a cooking program on<br />

TV with English subtitles. “This is a side of<br />

Israel that people do not know about,” David<br />

pointed out. “It is not shown on the news.”<br />

A strange coincidence further convinced<br />

David that he had to do something for Israel.<br />

After his discharge, he saw in the parking lot<br />

of his hotel a dedication ceremony for an<br />

ambulance donated by the Westin Club in<br />

Chicago, which has an annual fundraising<br />

dinner for Magen David Adom (MDA).<br />

When David told Gary about what he had<br />

seen, Gary said, “I cannot believe it. I was a<br />

guest speaker at one of their dinners, and my<br />

dad is member of that group.”<br />

All of the things that happened to David<br />

convinced him and Sheri that they had to do<br />

something for MDA. <strong>The</strong>y decided on a<br />

fundraising campaign to purchase an ambulance.<br />

Sheri began writing to her friends.<br />

Some people at Davis Academy also raised<br />

money, and eight months later, in October<br />

2007, they bought the ambulance. <strong>The</strong>re was<br />

a dedication ceremony, and the ambulance<br />

was sent to Israel.<br />

David’s story was covered by the media,<br />

but since then, things have been quiet.<br />

However, it is important to keep this story<br />

alive, because, in Israel, MDA depends on<br />

donations, not only for ambulances, but also<br />

for blood services, as well as supplies of all<br />

types.<br />

David’s story was riveting. He told of<br />

his experiences in such detail that I felt as if<br />

I were there on the camel when he experienced<br />

the crushing pain in his chest, when he<br />

did not know if he could get any help, when<br />

he was in the ambulance praying. I kept asking<br />

myself how I would have handled the situation.<br />

Three years later, David asserts that the<br />

experience didn’t change him that much, but<br />

he does acknowledge that he exercises more,<br />

watches his diet more closely, and does not<br />

rush as much. And he said it definitely puts<br />

him more in touch with his patients.<br />

I then asked if it had changed him spiritually.<br />

He smiled, tilted his head a little, and<br />

gave what I thought was a honest response:<br />

“Some days, yes, and some days, no.”<br />

After what happened to him, David feels<br />

more supportive of Israel. His goal is to make<br />

people aware of MDA, and he encourages<br />

bar and bat mitzvah kids to make a project of<br />

donations.<br />

After his two miracles, David wants to<br />

help Israel make miracles for others.<br />

To learn more about MDA, call 1-800-<br />

266-0046, or visit www.AFMDA.org.


<strong>July</strong>-<strong>August</strong> 20<strong>09</strong> THE JEWISH GEORGIAN Page 29<br />

Temple’s iSeder sparks discussion<br />

about religion and technology<br />

As humans, our day-to-day lives are in<br />

perpetual flux. This is especially true for<br />

those living in nations built on progress,<br />

such as the United States. Specifically, our<br />

always-increasing contact with technology<br />

has transformed who we are as a people, our<br />

methods of communication, and how we<br />

send and retrieve information on a by-thesecond<br />

basis.<br />

While the advent of technology has<br />

certainly been responsible for countless<br />

social, medical, and scientific advancements,<br />

all of the beneficial kind, it is an<br />

aspect of life that has often, and intentionally,<br />

been removed from traditional religious<br />

practice.<br />

In Judaism in particular, there has forever<br />

been a conscious effort to separate<br />

technology and prayer, an unquestioned<br />

sense that interaction with technology<br />

somehow de-spiritualizes practices of piety.<br />

Torah scrolls and mezuzot must be written<br />

by the hands of expert scribes, the Hebrew<br />

Bible commands that no Temple be built<br />

with iron tools, most traditional forms of<br />

technology are put to rest once a week for<br />

Shabbat—the holiest day of the <strong>Jewish</strong><br />

week—and, to this day, Orthodox Jews seek<br />

out homes nearest their synagogue, so as to<br />

avoid driving there before sessions of<br />

prayer.<br />

Is this traditionally disharmonious relationship<br />

between Judaism and technology<br />

inherent or fundamental to the nature of<br />

religion? Or, rather, is it a condition that<br />

was developed, learned, and integrated over<br />

time, a superficial notion that is challenged<br />

more and more every day, as technology<br />

continues to creep into nearly every aspect<br />

of our lives?<br />

As this conflict rages on, <strong>The</strong> Temple,<br />

Atlanta’s largest and oldest Reform synagogue,<br />

used Passover 20<strong>09</strong> to add a new<br />

chapter to the ongoing discussion, taking a<br />

revolutionary step in not just allowing and<br />

accepting technology, but actually attempting<br />

to utilize it as a productive tool in<br />

<strong>Jewish</strong> tradition and ceremony.<br />

<strong>The</strong> idea, sparked by Rabbi Frederick<br />

Reeves—one of <strong>The</strong> Temple’s four clergy<br />

members—was to incorporate today’s most<br />

prevalent and popular forms<br />

of technology into the second<br />

night of Passover, an<br />

experiment Rabbi Reeves<br />

coined the iSeder. <strong>The</strong> rabbi<br />

set up a computer at each of<br />

four 10-person tables and a<br />

larger projector on which<br />

those present could follow<br />

the service. Each computer<br />

was connected to a wireless<br />

Internet network, while<br />

BlackBerrys and iPhones<br />

were welcomed as well.<br />

Over the course of the night,<br />

a PowerPoint presentation<br />

on the 15 steps of the Haggadah was given,<br />

various Internet polls on the ten plagues<br />

Rabbi Frederick Reeves<br />

BY<br />

Scott<br />

Janovitz<br />

were taken, YouTube and Facebook were<br />

scoured, and a virtual Internet search for the<br />

afikomen was conducted.<br />

But if technology has always been considered<br />

a roadblock to spiritualism, and<br />

Judaism is about achieving just that, why<br />

would a rabbi intentionally integrate the<br />

two on one of the holiest days of the <strong>Jewish</strong><br />

year?<br />

“<strong>The</strong> intent was to try and see how we<br />

could use new technology to engage people,”<br />

Reeves explained. “Partially, we did it<br />

because the Internet is fun and partially to<br />

reach the 20s-30s group; that group is not<br />

interested in the regular kinds of offerings<br />

that synagogues have, and so we thought<br />

this would be cool and get their attention, so<br />

that they would come and have a <strong>Jewish</strong><br />

experience.”<br />

Throughout the iSeder, those in attendance<br />

were encouraged to play active roles,<br />

as they were texted specific blessings via<br />

their phones when it was their turn to read.<br />

In this way, then, Reeves used technology<br />

as a sort of rallying point, as a method of<br />

attracting and involving Jews, rather than as<br />

barrier to <strong>Jewish</strong> practice.<br />

“We have in our mindset the idea that<br />

somehow technology and spirituality are<br />

separate. I think that part of that has to do<br />

with the fact that, after the Industrial<br />

Revolution and the dawn of the Information<br />

Age, there was a sense of depersonalization<br />

that came with the advent of mass technology,”<br />

explains Reeves. “<strong>The</strong> idea is that<br />

things are no longer individualized or personalized,<br />

and one of the big things that we<br />

try and do through the synagogue is make<br />

connections person-to-person. <strong>The</strong>re’s a<br />

general sense that technology puts a filter or<br />

a wall between people, and technology is<br />

only going to be successful in religious settings<br />

if it’s used to break down those walls<br />

and bring people together.”<br />

Through his carefully calculated<br />

attempt to integrate<br />

technology into traditional<br />

<strong>Jewish</strong> ceremony, Reeves<br />

has demonstrated a clear<br />

trust in this relationship,<br />

refusing to accept the two as<br />

inherently conflicting entities.<br />

With the future in mind,<br />

however, questioning the<br />

degree of compatibility<br />

between religion and technology<br />

may no longer be the<br />

most relevant concern.<br />

Simply put, technology will<br />

play an increasingly greater role in our liv<br />

See iSEDER, page 37


Page 30 THE JEWISH GEORGIAN <strong>July</strong>-<strong>August</strong> 20<strong>09</strong><br />

<strong>August</strong>a Federation’s annual meeting celebrates community involvement<br />

O<br />

n June 8, the <strong>August</strong>a <strong>Jewish</strong><br />

Federation held its annual meeting<br />

at the <strong>August</strong>a <strong>Jewish</strong> Community<br />

Center. <strong>The</strong> meeting was opened with welcoming<br />

remarks by Al Grinspun, president,<br />

followed by the singing of “<strong>The</strong> Star-<br />

Spangled Banner” and “Hatikvah,” led by<br />

Gary Katcoff.<br />

Leah Ronen, executive director of the<br />

Federation, reported that the 2008 campaign<br />

closed with a record 385 pledges. She<br />

highlighted the services that had been rendered<br />

to the members of the community<br />

because of the generosity of the <strong>August</strong>a<br />

kehillah. She and Al Grinspun challenged<br />

members to make every effort to encourage<br />

individuals to continue their support, even<br />

if the present economic climate makes that<br />

difficult. As Ronen said, “It is time for all<br />

hands on deck!”<br />

Officers and board members for the<br />

coming year were elected. Officers are: Al<br />

Grinspun, president; Louise Aronow, vice<br />

president—campaign chair; Debbie<br />

Katcoff, vice president—allocations; Bob<br />

Botnick, secretary; and Jack Weinstein,<br />

treasurer. Board members with terms ending<br />

2010 are Alyssa Bogorad, Lou Scharff,<br />

Jon Shoenholz, Joan Steinberg, and Jack<br />

Weinstein; those with terms ending 2011<br />

are Louise Aronow, Ziva Bruckner, Marc<br />

Gottlieb, Al Grinspun, and Margie Ruben;<br />

those with terms ending 2012 are Bob<br />

Botnick, Jeff Broder, Paul Graboff, Debbie<br />

Federation President Al Grinspun Executive Director Leah Ronen<br />

Anne Pomper receiving the<br />

Outstanding Volunteer 20<strong>09</strong> from Al<br />

Grinspun<br />

Katcoff, and Beverly Lowenstein. After the<br />

election, Sumner Fishbein conducted the<br />

installation.<br />

Anne Pomper was named Outstanding<br />

Volunteer 20<strong>09</strong> for her untiring efforts in<br />

telling the story of Federation to donors.<br />

Pomper, on her own, undertook the work of<br />

Stephen Steinberg presenting the<br />

Maurice Steinberg Achievement<br />

Award to Bob Botnick<br />

making personal contact with members of<br />

the community; as a result, there was a<br />

marked increase in participation.<br />

Bob Botnick was honored with the<br />

Maurice Steinberg Achievement Award.<br />

Stephen Steinberg, Maurice’s son, made the<br />

presentation, saying, “<strong>The</strong> recipient shares<br />

One Good Deed serves residents’ needs<br />

I<br />

t’s hard to know how a person with a<br />

disability or disadvantage feels, unless<br />

you have experienced that life yourself.<br />

Sharon Spiegelman experienced a typical,<br />

healthy life, until beset by physical ailments<br />

that landed her in a motorized chair. That<br />

may have slowed down others, but not<br />

Sharon, for she has continued to be an<br />

active and cheerful person who has found<br />

ways to help others in need of everyday<br />

services.<br />

Sharon was born in New Jersey and, at<br />

a tender age, moved to Georgia with her<br />

parents and<br />

two siblings.<br />

She went<br />

through the<br />

Atlanta<br />

school system<br />

and<br />

attended the<br />

University of<br />

Georgia,<br />

where she<br />

earned a<br />

degree in<br />

Sharon Spiegelman<br />

communications<br />

in 1981.<br />

She didn’t know what she might do with<br />

that degree, but shortly after graduation, she<br />

went to work for the CIBA optical company<br />

and rose from customer service rep to<br />

supervisor.<br />

Her next job took her to Florida, where<br />

BY Leon<br />

Socol<br />

she worked for Scott Foresman, the textbook<br />

publishing company. <strong>The</strong>n she<br />

returned to Atlanta and had a 15-year career<br />

with Perlis Real Estate Development<br />

Company, selling commercial real estate.<br />

After that, she developed a bone disorder<br />

that resulted in multiple leg fractures. Her<br />

doctors advised her to give up walking and<br />

use a wheelchair, in order to avoid more<br />

serious fractures in other parts of her body.<br />

Her younger sister, Lisa, had married<br />

Atlantan Marty Halpern, who was in commercial<br />

real estate. Four years ago, the<br />

Halperns took a trip to Israel and saw how<br />

volunteer programs worked and flourished<br />

there. Marty thought some of these programs<br />

might work for senior groups that<br />

didn’t qualify for programs then being<br />

offered in Atlanta.<br />

When they got home, he contacted<br />

Sharon and told her about the programs he<br />

had seen. He asked her to help him find<br />

people who were older or suffered long- or<br />

short-term disabilities and needed help with<br />

life’s daily tasks.<br />

Sharon had, by then, been reduced to<br />

working part time. Marty said that he would<br />

finance the venture for several years if she<br />

would organize and run it. Thus, One Good<br />

Deed was founded in February 2006. Its<br />

primary area of operations was Northeast<br />

Atlanta.<br />

<strong>The</strong> non-profit’s mission is to help seniors<br />

and other persons with physical or<br />

long-term health needs maintain their independence,<br />

remain in their homes longer,<br />

and avoid costly institutional care.<br />

Through friends and word of mouth,<br />

Sharon set about to enlist volunteers. Over<br />

the last three years, Sharon has gathered a<br />

group of 133 volunteers, whom she matches<br />

with clients. <strong>The</strong>re is no charge for One<br />

Good Deed’s services, and volunteers are<br />

rewarded with the joy they bring to those<br />

they serve. Satisfaction in serving others is<br />

truly a wonderful feeling, says Sharon.<br />

Sharon and Marty’s One Good Deed is<br />

partnering with the Toco Hill and Meyer<br />

Balser NORCs (naturally occurring retirement<br />

communities); <strong>Jewish</strong> Federation of<br />

Greater Atlanta; <strong>Jewish</strong> Family & Career<br />

Services; Life Enrichment Services; Center<br />

for the Visually Impaired; and Caregiver<br />

CARE Atlanta.<br />

Volunteers of all ages provide help<br />

such as changing a hard-to-reach light bulb<br />

or smoke alarm battery, shopping for groceries,<br />

running errands, doing household<br />

chores, preparing and/or delivering a meal,<br />

providing companionship, filling in for a<br />

Maurice’s belief in our tradition of tzedakah<br />

and his faith in the ability of the <strong>Jewish</strong> people<br />

for tikkun olam.”<br />

Botnick moved to <strong>August</strong>a in 1962 to<br />

begin his practice of medicine. During the<br />

ensuing years, he became a respected member<br />

of the medical community, but always<br />

found time to volunteer his time and energy<br />

in the service of others.<br />

Botnick has served as president of the<br />

Georgia Society of Internal Medicine,<br />

chairman of the Richmond County Health<br />

Department, board member of MAG<br />

Mutual Insurance Company, board member<br />

of the <strong>Jewish</strong> Educational Loan Fund, a<br />

founding physician of Doctors Hospital of<br />

<strong>August</strong>a, co-chairman of a Jaycees campaign<br />

that distributed free doses of the<br />

Sabin polio vaccine to residents of<br />

Richmond County, chairman of the Israel<br />

Bond Drive, board member of Adas<br />

Yeshurun Synagogue, and member of the<br />

board and president of the <strong>August</strong>a <strong>Jewish</strong><br />

Federation. In his retirement, he serves as a<br />

volunteer physician at the Faith Care<br />

Medical Clinic, a medical facility operated<br />

by Wesley United Methodist Church for<br />

indigent residents of Columbia County.<br />

After closing remarks by Rabbi David<br />

Sirull, of Adas Yeshurun, the meeting was<br />

adjourned.<br />

Volunteerism is alive and well in<br />

<strong>August</strong>a.<br />

caregiver, and providing transportation.<br />

Current plans are to extend services to<br />

residents living in the area north of the<br />

Meyer Balser Home, in Northwest Atlanta.<br />

Financing and expanding the services<br />

of One Good Deed is a daunting task, especially<br />

in the present economic climate, but<br />

Sharon and her helpers have received grant<br />

money from local and national sources.<br />

Sharon even sells sympathy cards, with all<br />

the proceeds going to One Good Deed.<br />

Sharon literally lives a life of service to<br />

others. She has spread the word about One<br />

Good Deed via the numerous organizations<br />

of which she is an active member. She and<br />

her husband (also named Marty) reside in<br />

Decatur, in a home modified to accommodate<br />

wheelchairs. Her husband, victim of a<br />

robbery years ago, uses a wheelchair, too.<br />

But that doesn’t hamper either Marty or<br />

Sharon Spiegelman. <strong>The</strong>y both lead active<br />

and productive lives that challenge individuals<br />

without disabilities.<br />

If you would like to volunteer with One<br />

Good Deed, it’s easy. Just contact Sharon<br />

Spiegelman at 404-460-7842 or<br />

www.1gooddeed.org. You will need to submit<br />

an application with references, participate<br />

in a brief interview, undergo a criminal<br />

background check, and spend 1-2 hours a<br />

month doing a good deed. No special training<br />

is required, and One Good Deed liability<br />

insurance protects both volunteers and<br />

clients.


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Rosh Hashanah 20<strong>09</strong><br />

A La Carte<br />

Matzoh Ball Soup (1 Ball, 6 oz. Broth) • $3.50 ea.<br />

Matzoh Balls Only • 2.50 ea.<br />

Brisket of Beef (House Specialty!) • $16.00 lb.<br />

Whole Traditional Roasted Chicken (Cut into Quarters) • $10.00 ea.<br />

Chopped Liver • $10.00 lb.<br />

1 Lb. Round Braided Challah • $5.00 ea.<br />

Sides<br />

Small (Serves 3-4) • $9.00<br />

Medium (Serves 6-8) • $18.00<br />

Large (Serves 12-14) • $28.00<br />

X-large (Serves 20-24) • $50.00<br />

Luchen Kugel • Potato Kugel • Broccoli Casserole • Squash Soufflé<br />

Roasted Vegetable Medley (Squash, Peppers, Carrots, Asparagus)<br />

Desserts<br />

Chocolate Mousse Cake with<br />

Chocolate Ganache Glaze (Serves 14-16) • $30.00<br />

Apple Walnut Poundcake (Serves 14-16) • $30.00<br />

Honey Gingerbread Poundcake (Serves 14-16) • $30.00<br />

Chocolate Pecan Tart (Serves 10-12) • $30.00<br />

French Apple Tart with Walnut Crumble Topping (Serves 10-12) • $30.00<br />

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September 18th. All foods will be cooked and<br />

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Page 34 THE JEWISH GEORGIAN <strong>July</strong>-<strong>August</strong> 20<strong>09</strong><br />

Kosher Affairs<br />

From page 22<br />

I have also added one more feature to<br />

the garden mix—couldn’t resist. I now have<br />

an “as seen on TV” Topsy Turvey tomato<br />

planter. No, I didn’t buy it off the TV—<br />

Home Depot now carries them. I filled my<br />

Topsy Turvey planter with soil and fertilizer,<br />

inserted one tomato plant, and, yes, it is<br />

growing nicely. If it is successful, I think that<br />

I will Topsy Turvey my yard next year!<br />

I am currently reviewing and<br />

testing the Zojirushi Bread<br />

machine and will feature it in our<br />

September/October issue. Please<br />

share your best bread machine<br />

recipes with me! I am particularly<br />

searching for the best challah,<br />

whole wheat, and oatmeal breads—<br />

all dairy free.<br />

KOSHEREYE—NEW PRODUCT<br />

DISCOVERIES<br />

BONE SUCKIN’ SAUCE. So delicious!<br />

Here’s how I used it. I pre-browned a 4-lb.<br />

top of the rib roast on my outdoor grill, about<br />

4 minutes per side. <strong>The</strong>n I followed the<br />

directions right on the jar—I mixed the<br />

sauce with 12 ounces of orange juice, poured<br />

it over the top of the rib roast, tightly covered<br />

the pan with foil, and roasted it for 3 hours at<br />

300 degrees. <strong>The</strong>n I uncovered it and roasted<br />

it for 20 minutes more. I let it cool, refrigerated<br />

it, sliced it, and served. (It is even better<br />

Original Bone<br />

Suckin’ Sauce<br />

the next day.) It was truly<br />

scrumptious. For those who<br />

like their heat, Bone Suckin’<br />

also makes a hot sauce. (I<br />

used the original in my<br />

recipe.) Go to<br />

Bonesuckin.com for<br />

more recipes.<br />

BACONNAISE AND BACONSALT. This<br />

is a kosher column, so why am I featuring<br />

these products? <strong>The</strong> company says it best—<br />

”BaconSalt is a zerocalorie,<br />

zero-fat, vegetarian,<br />

kosher certified<br />

(Kof-K) seasoning that<br />

makes everything taste<br />

like bacon!” Baconnaise<br />

can be substituted in any<br />

recipe that calls for may-<br />

BaconSalt<br />

assortment<br />

onnaise, such as potato<br />

or egg salad. For recipes<br />

and to learn more about<br />

these products, visit jdfoods.net and baconsalt.com.<br />

DRINK UP. Lemongrass, rhubarb, kumquat,<br />

juniper berry, vanilla bean, lavender—<br />

sounds like a garden collection, but these are<br />

actually flavors of the Dry Soda Company’s<br />

lightly carbonated, refreshing, non-alcoholic<br />

beverages. <strong>The</strong> Seattle-based company has<br />

recently introduced this unique line of allnatural<br />

sodas that are flavored with fruit,<br />

flower, and herb extracts and lightly sweet-<br />

ened with cane sugar. <strong>The</strong>se beverages can<br />

be enjoyed on their own or as a sophisticated<br />

meal accompaniment. All are<br />

OU certified. <strong>The</strong> consensus at my<br />

table was that the vanilla bean,<br />

kumquat, and lavender were the clear<br />

winners. Read about Dry Soda at<br />

drysoda.com.<br />

NEW BREW. I am not a fan of instant<br />

coffee. However, Starbucks may win<br />

me over with its new product,<br />

Starbucks VIA Ready Brew. (Even the<br />

name sounds better than instant!)<br />

<strong>The</strong>re are currently two rich vari-<br />

ALL IN THE TEA LEAVES. My new<br />

favorite bottled iced tea is Sweet Leaf Tea,<br />

particularly the mint-honey green tea and the<br />

peach tea. <strong>The</strong> teas are sweetened with cane<br />

sugar, the flavors are natural, and I even love<br />

the happy website! Buy these teas at Whole<br />

Foods, Return to Eden, and other local<br />

supermarkets, or order at sweetleaftea.com.<br />

MAMMA MIA! I have just discovered the<br />

delicious La Famiglia DelGrosso pasta<br />

sauces. <strong>The</strong> concept of bottled spaghetti<br />

sauce took root in 1943, with husband-andwife<br />

restaurateurs Ferdinand and Mafalda<br />

DelGrosso. This entrepreneurial Italian couple<br />

stirred, cooked, and bottled the sauce by<br />

hand. <strong>The</strong> products are now manufactured in<br />

a modern, 18,000-square-foot facility, under<br />

the certification of the OU.<br />

<strong>The</strong> family motto, “no<br />

short cuts,” is obvious<br />

once one tastes the rich,<br />

tomato flavor in each jar. It<br />

is a premium sauce and<br />

priced accordingly. My<br />

favorite, Aunt Mary Ann’s<br />

Sunday Marinara (I even<br />

love the name), is sold at<br />

Publix, Kroger, and Whole<br />

Foods. Deliziosa—what a<br />

Aunt Mary Ann’s<br />

treat! For recipes or more<br />

information, visit deleties—Colombian<br />

and Italian Roast. Sunday Marinara<br />

Both are micro-brewed and taste almost<br />

grossosauce.com.<br />

like the real thing!<br />

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kosher by following<br />

TWITTER.COM/KOSHEREYE. Building<br />

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the Facebook.com/koshereye group.<br />

This column is meant to provide the reader<br />

with current trends and developments in the<br />

kosher marketplace and lifestyle. Since standards<br />

of kashruth certification vary, check<br />

with the AKC or your local kashruth authority<br />

to confirm reliability. If you are searching<br />

for a hard-to-find kosher ingredient, need<br />

help with a kosher substitution, or have a<br />

kosher food question, please contact us, and<br />

we will do our best to find the answer. Also,<br />

we ask that you share your discoveries with<br />

us and look forward to hearing from you. Email<br />

kosheraffairs@gmail.com.


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What’s cooking?<br />

Mrs. Rowe’s Original Coconut Cream Pie<br />

Adapted from Mrs. Rowe’s Book of<br />

Southern Pies by Mollie Cox Bryan<br />

<strong>The</strong> most popular dessert at Mrs. Rowe’s<br />

Bakery!<br />

1 9-inch piecrust<br />

3 egg yolks (reserve the whites for the<br />

meringue)<br />

1 cup sugar<br />

1/4 cup cornstarch<br />

1/4-1/2 cup water<br />

3 cups milk<br />

1 cup sweetened flaked coconut<br />

1 tablespoon unsalted butter<br />

2 teaspoons vanilla extract<br />

Mrs. Rowe’s meringue (see recipe below)<br />

Preheat oven to 375 degrees.<br />

Whisk egg yolks, sugar, cornstarch,<br />

and just enough of the water to make a<br />

smooth paste. Warm the milk in a double<br />

boiler over simmering water. When the<br />

milk begins to steam, gradually whisk in<br />

the egg mixture. Simmer, stirring occasionally<br />

until very thick, about 4 minutes.<br />

Remove from heat and stir in 3/4 cup of<br />

coconut, butter, and vanilla.<br />

Pour the filling into the crust and top<br />

with the meringue, sealing the edges well.<br />

Sprinkle the remaining coconut over the<br />

meringue.<br />

Bake for approximately 30 minutes, or<br />

until the meringue is golden brown and<br />

firm to the careful, light touch. Cool on<br />

rack at least 2 hours. Serve the pie at room<br />

temperature, or, for a special treat, warm in<br />

the microwave for 10 seconds.<br />

—————<br />

Mrs. Rowe’s Meringue<br />

4 egg whites, at room temperature<br />

1/4 teaspoon cream of tartar<br />

3 tablespoons sugar<br />

In a chilled bowl, combine egg whites<br />

and cream of tartar and beat on slow to<br />

medium speed until soft peaks form. Add<br />

the sugar, one tablespoon at a time, and<br />

continue beating until whites form stiff<br />

peaks but are not dry. <strong>The</strong> meringue is now<br />

ready to pile lightly over pie.<br />

—————<br />

Spaghetti Carbonara<br />

Adapted from baconsalt.com<br />

1 stick unsalted butter<br />

1 cup milk<br />

2 tablespoons white wine vinegar<br />

1 lb. spaghetti<br />

2 eggs, whisked<br />

Recipes<br />

1/2 cup shredded Parmesan cheese<br />

BaconSalt<br />

chopped fresh parsley<br />

Heat butter and milk together until butter<br />

melts. Add vinegar, and cook over medium<br />

heat until smooth (approximately 15<br />

minutes).<br />

Cook pasta in boiling water; drain, and<br />

return to pot. Stir in eggs, cheese, and sauce<br />

immediately. Season with BaconSalt and<br />

sprinkle with parsley.<br />

—————<br />

Baconnaise Potato Salad<br />

Adapted from baconsalt.com<br />

2 lbs. small potatoes (preferably reds)<br />

2 tablespoons Dijon mustard<br />

1 cup Baconnaise<br />

3 stalks finely minced celery<br />

2 tablespoons chopped parsley<br />

Salt and pepper to taste<br />

Cut the potatoes into half-inch pieces,<br />

keeping the skin on. Place potatoes in a pot<br />

of boiling, salted water, and cook for<br />

approximately 15 minutes, until tenderfirm.<br />

Drain, and place in cold water immediately.<br />

Mix the Baconnaise and Dijon mustard,<br />

then add to potatoes along with<br />

minced celery and parsley until evenly<br />

coated. Add salt and pepper to taste, if<br />

desired. Garnish with additional parsley.<br />

—————<br />

Gazpacho<br />

Adapted from Soup: A Kosher Collection<br />

by Pam Reiss<br />

Serves 4<br />

3 medium Roma tomatoes, cored and seeded<br />

1 medium red pepper, cored and seeded<br />

1/2 medium red onion<br />

1 large seedless English cucumber<br />

1-2 cloves garlic, crushed<br />

1 tablespoon red wine vinegar<br />

2 tablespoons olive oil<br />

1 1/2 teaspoons salt<br />

1 teaspoon hot sauce<br />

1/2 cup low-sodium tomato juice<br />

2 tablespoons each fresh chives and fresh<br />

parsley<br />

Dice 1/3 of the tomatoes, peppers,<br />

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Using a food processor or immersion<br />

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<strong>The</strong> Blumberg Report<br />

I<br />

had hardly moved into my new digs on<br />

Peachtree when the phone rang with<br />

invitations to two very interesting<br />

events. One was the ceremony and luncheon<br />

at Morehouse College inaugurating the<br />

Rabin-King Initiative, a multifaceted program<br />

for strengthening ties between Jews<br />

and African Americans. <strong>The</strong> event featured<br />

the induction of a newly appointed Board of<br />

Preachers and Sponsors that included,<br />

among others, Rabbi Peter Berg of <strong>The</strong><br />

Temple, Ambassador Reda Mansour of<br />

Israel, and myself.<br />

<strong>The</strong> keynote speaker, also an inductee,<br />

was Rabbi David Saperstein, director of<br />

Reform Judaism’s Religious Action Center<br />

in Washington, recently listed as the<br />

nation’s most influential rabbi. He gave a<br />

dynamic, highly inspirational lecture recalling<br />

the life work of Martin Luther King Jr.<br />

and his connections with Atlanta Jewry, as<br />

BY<br />

Janice Rothschild<br />

Blumberg<br />

well as the courageous leadership of Israel’s<br />

martyred Nobel Prize laureate, Yitzhak<br />

Rabin.<br />

On the personal side, I was highly honored<br />

to have been included in such an<br />

august group. It was a wonderful experience,<br />

one that certainly motivated me to<br />

help further the objectives of the Rabin-<br />

King Initiative. Where that motivation will<br />

lead remains to be seen, but there is never a<br />

lack of opportunity for extending friendship<br />

and understanding.<br />

One such opportunity came to me in<br />

the form of a phone call from Michael<br />

Baker at Positive Impact, an organization<br />

devoted to providing services to HIV sufferers.<br />

He asked me to be the guest of<br />

Positive Impact at a benefit performance of<br />

Driving Miss Daisy at the Balzer <strong>The</strong>ater.<br />

He also asked me to speak at a post-performance<br />

reception for the donors, recounting<br />

personal experiences with <strong>The</strong> Temple<br />

bombing and other historical aspects of the<br />

play. I suggested a panel discussion rather<br />

than a solo performance (for which I lack<br />

the chutzpah) and thus gained the pleasure<br />

of appearing with professor and civil rights<br />

activist Lonnie King, Jr. His input was far<br />

more relevant than mine could ever have<br />

been, since he spoke from ongoing deep<br />

involvement with race relations, the issue at<br />

the core of Miss Daisy.<br />

Questions addressed to me were largely<br />

in the realm of reminiscence, and I found<br />

myself tempted to speak more about the<br />

play itself than about the general conditions<br />

that it mirrored. In my opinion, the production<br />

of Alfred Uhry’s prize-winning masterpiece<br />

by <strong>The</strong>atrical Outfit, whose executive<br />

director is Tom Key, was first-rate, and<br />

Robert J. Farley deserves enthusiastic<br />

kudos for his direction. Jill Jane Clements’<br />

portrayal of Miss Daisy was harsher than<br />

Mary Nell Santacroce’s in the play’s<br />

Atlanta debut or her daughter Dana Ivey’s<br />

in New York, but, nonetheless, gave the<br />

aging matriarch a character whose metamorphosis<br />

moved many of us to tears. Rob<br />

Cleveland was so good as Hoke that I<br />

immediately stopped comparing him to<br />

Morgan Freeman, and William Murphy was<br />

delightful as the <strong>Jewish</strong> “good old boy” trying<br />

to care for his mother. Most importantly,<br />

they drew the audience through laughter<br />

and heart tugs to a renewed awareness of<br />

the need for sensitivity to the feelings of<br />

others.<br />

Positive Impact is all about that.<br />

Founded in 1993, its mission is to provide<br />

people affected by HIV with culturally<br />

competent mental health counseling and<br />

prevention counseling, as well as with<br />

intensive substance abuse treatment. In<br />

addition to other services, it hosts an annual<br />

forum, the Cultural Diversity Institute,<br />

where mental health professionals come to<br />

learn about diversity issues affecting treatment<br />

of their own clients.<br />

Those of us who thought that education<br />

and life-preserving drugs had come close to<br />

wiping out the scourge of HIV/AIDS in<br />

America have been sadly mistaken. <strong>The</strong><br />

most recent data available indicate that<br />

there has actually been an increase of cases<br />

in Georgia in the present decade. In Atlanta,<br />

Positive Impact alone has serviced more<br />

than 4,100 clients so far this year. <strong>The</strong><br />

organization cites complacency as one of<br />

the main reasons for the increase and is trying<br />

to strengthen awareness of the danger in<br />

order to reverse this trend.<br />

To learn more about Positive Impact<br />

and ways in which to impact its mission<br />

directly, call Paul Plate or Michael Baker at<br />

404-589-9040. <strong>The</strong> scourge isn’t over yet,<br />

and in these times of reduced finances,<br />

agencies such as this need all the help they<br />

can get.


<strong>July</strong>-<strong>August</strong> 20<strong>09</strong> THE JEWISH GEORGIAN Page 37<br />

A Personal Memoir, part 1: Atlanta adolescence<br />

By David Macarov<br />

I<br />

grew up in the locker room of the<br />

Atlanta Braves—or, at least where the<br />

Braves locker room now stands. Of<br />

course, they weren’t called the Braves<br />

when I was growing up. <strong>The</strong>y were the<br />

Atlanta Crackers. <strong>The</strong> Atlanta team was<br />

named Crackers as a deliberate contrast to<br />

names like the enormous New York<br />

Giants, or, obviously, the victorious New<br />

York Yankees.<br />

iSeder<br />

From page 29<br />

—————<br />

Crackers were supposed to be<br />

unschooled, impolite, rather simple—in<br />

short, underdogs, and that was the image<br />

that the Atlanta team liked to portray,<br />

because it enlisted a lot of sympathy. It<br />

was also a humorous method of keeping<br />

alive the myth that the South was still<br />

fighting the War Between the States,<br />

which myth had already become an elaborate<br />

Southern joke. (“Never call it the Civil<br />

War, son,” a grizzled veteran at the State<br />

Capitol once said to me when I was a<br />

schoolboy, “because it was a most uncivil<br />

war.”)<br />

It was true that we probably learned<br />

more in school about that war than about<br />

the Revolution, and certainly more than<br />

the World War (this was before there was a<br />

World War II), but, as I remember it, we<br />

were taught that slavery was wrong and<br />

that maintaining the unity of the States<br />

was right.<br />

<strong>The</strong> War Between the States was simply<br />

taught as a fact of history, but there<br />

es with each passing day; no matter where<br />

we turn, it, or some facet of it, will forever<br />

be there.<br />

<strong>The</strong> question for the future then<br />

becomes: Can religion, absent of technological<br />

influence, especially in nations as<br />

progress-oriented and industrialized as the<br />

United States, ever truly exist on a mass<br />

scale? And if the answer is no, and you<br />

accept that technology does posses at least<br />

some de-spiritualizing qualities, what will<br />

all this mean for the American Jew in the<br />

future?<br />

In response to the first question,<br />

Reeves is clear about one thing: whether<br />

for good or bad, the ever-growing connection<br />

between religion and technology is an<br />

unavoidable condition of the future.<br />

“Young Jews today rely on technology<br />

in every aspect of their lives. <strong>The</strong> 25-yearold<br />

American Jew could not imagine not<br />

having technology; it would be unimaginable<br />

to not have a telephone, unimaginable<br />

to not have access to the Internet, unimaginable<br />

to not use e-mail,” Reeves said.<br />

And, at the suggestion that such a<br />

future relationship may have negative<br />

implications, Reeves showed no quit.<br />

were still enough short stories and novels<br />

and movies to make it seem like a glamorous<br />

war—Jeb Stuart’s cavalry;<br />

Stonewall Jackson’s last words; Pickett’s<br />

charge; Francis Marion, “the Swamp Fox”;<br />

noble Jefferson Davis; and, of course,<br />

angelic Robert E. Lee—were familiar to<br />

all of us. But we only put on the “proud<br />

Southerner” guise as an inside joke. It was<br />

all history, and rather ancient history.<br />

“Over fifty years ago,” to a youngster,<br />

is going back to the time of Noah. That’s<br />

why calling oneself a cracker had no historical<br />

connotation. Instead, its usage had<br />

become a form of reverse snobbery.<br />

“We’re crackers and proud of it,” had<br />

taken on an almost sly aspect. It was a<br />

method of deliberately exaggerating the<br />

characteristics that Northerners imputed to<br />

us, but which we knew weren’t there. At a<br />

later date, “redneck” took the place of<br />

“cracker,” but that was softened when<br />

Governor Gene Talmadge, of the red suspenders,<br />

began using the term “good ole<br />

boys.” Though Yankees never knew it and<br />

kept saying “cracker,” the really insulting<br />

phrase was “po’ white trash.”<br />

We never spoke of Yankees, by the<br />

way—that was a term they used themselves.<br />

To us, they were Northerners, or—<br />

when we deliberately wanted to exaggerate<br />

the differences—Nawtheners. I don’t<br />

imagine many people speak of Southerners<br />

and Northerners any more, and few people<br />

still use the term “cracker,” but, on the<br />

other hand, how many people in the United<br />

States—except in Atlanta—discuss what<br />

the Braves did last night, off an Indian<br />

reservation?<br />

“It would have been like saying, at the<br />

turn of the 20th century, if we engage people<br />

with the telephone, they’re going to be<br />

less <strong>Jewish</strong>. But the telephone became<br />

such an integral part of our society, we<br />

couldn’t imagine how we could possibly<br />

function without it. So I think these other<br />

functions of technology are the same;<br />

[young Jews] just can’t function without<br />

them, and so, by using these tools, we are<br />

reaching young people where they are,<br />

meeting them using a medium with which<br />

they are familiar.”<br />

Still, the telephone has been around<br />

for ages, and, in the lives of many Jews, its<br />

use at certain times—such as Shabbat—<br />

continues to be strictly prohibited and is<br />

done so specifically in the name of<br />

Judaism. So why, then, can we not prevent<br />

other forms of technology from finding<br />

their way into our prayers? Or, with anti-<br />

Semitism declining and intermarriage at an<br />

all-time high, is the increasingly closer<br />

connection between religion and technology<br />

merely the product of what is quickly<br />

becoming a larger and larger pool of<br />

Americanized Jews with a less traditional<br />

tilt?<br />

Only time can answer these questions,<br />

and what either conclusion would mean<br />

for the future of American Judaism<br />

—————<br />

We used to make fun of Northerners,<br />

of course, and the trick was to do it so that<br />

they didn’t know they were being made<br />

fun of. For the most part, the humor was<br />

harmless. We would show them the round<br />

water tower in Druid Hills and explain that<br />

it was a big golf ball—a tribute to Bobby<br />

Jones. On showing them the Cyclorama,<br />

the panoramic painting in Grant Park, we<br />

assured them that the German artists who<br />

made the memorial were later deliberately<br />

blinded so that they could never create<br />

another one. We always mentioned<br />

Sherman’s retreat through Georgia to the<br />

sea (and by then, most of them didn’t<br />

know enough history to catch the joke),<br />

and we showed them the Governor’s mansion,<br />

explaining that it was the seat of the<br />

Ku Klux Klan. Sometimes, though, we<br />

played into Northerners’ worst stereotypes<br />

of Southerners.<br />

After a while, the visitor usually realized<br />

he was being kidded, but I remember<br />

one particularly obnoxious visitor, who<br />

kept bragging about how much better and<br />

bigger and more interesting “<strong>The</strong> City”<br />

was. We became so annoyed with him that<br />

we pretended we were going to take him to<br />

view a lynching, to his horror. We were<br />

evidently very convincing, because when<br />

we paused for a traffic light, he leaped out<br />

of the car and ran. We watched him disappear<br />

and shook our heads at the naiveté<br />

and stupidity of supposedly sophisticated<br />

Nawtheners.<br />

remains equally unclear. Either way,<br />

though, one thing is for sure: Rabbi Reeves<br />

has an insightful and determined perspective<br />

on religion, its purpose, and what it<br />

should work to accomplish. Regardless of<br />

the future implications, he has incorporated<br />

technology into religious practice with<br />

the most pure and innovative intentions.<br />

“When we were coming up with how<br />

we would use technology for the iSeder,<br />

some people thought, ‘Oh, are people<br />

going to be in their own homes and connect<br />

into the Seder that way?’ I didn’t want<br />

to do that purposely, because then I don’t<br />

think that you would really connect with<br />

other people in the way that religion is<br />

supposed to bring people together and<br />

form community.”<br />

—————<br />

<strong>The</strong> girls of my generation would<br />

never date a boy who wore white shoes in<br />

the wintertime. White shoes were the style<br />

in the South as well as in the North, but<br />

Southerners wore black or brown when<br />

winter started, and the Northerners—mostly<br />

college boys going to Georgia Tech—<br />

continued with their whites. White shoes<br />

in the wintertime marked someone as not<br />

only from the North, which was bad, but<br />

specifically from New Jersey, which was<br />

even worse than New York. White shoes in<br />

the winter automatically meant no date.<br />

When we learned that New Yorkers<br />

never spoke of New York by name—it,<br />

was always “<strong>The</strong> City” (“In <strong>The</strong> City,<br />

we...” or, “One day, when I was in <strong>The</strong><br />

City...”) we used that to needle them, too.<br />

Whenever a New Yorker began sounding<br />

off about <strong>The</strong> City, we always looked<br />

dumb and asked innocently, “Kansas City?<br />

Jersey City? Salt Lake City?” We took<br />

pleasure in forcing him to specify “New<br />

York City,” and then our reply was invariably<br />

a disinterested, “Oh, that city.”<br />

Once we had created a good relationship<br />

with a visitor, however, we usually<br />

showed him the incomplete carving on<br />

Stone Mountain, Druid Hills, the Candler<br />

estate, the Fox <strong>The</strong>atre, the Cyclorama,<br />

and the Biltmore Hotel. But, regardless of<br />

whatever else we did with visitors, we<br />

always ended up at the Alliance.<br />

Next issue: Good times at the <strong>Jewish</strong><br />

Educational Alliance<br />

Finally, no matter where you fall on<br />

the issue, our overwhelming reliance on<br />

technology is, no doubt, here to stay.<br />

According to Rabbi Reeves, Judaism can<br />

either harness technology’s presence and<br />

use it to persist and grow even stronger in<br />

the years to come, or, through avoidance in<br />

the name of tradition, neglect the needs<br />

and demands of its future followers, while<br />

contributing to its own end.<br />

Reeves definitely believes technology<br />

will be important in keeping Judaism alive.<br />

“I think in 100 years, we’re going to have<br />

technologies in the synagogue that right<br />

now we can’t really imagine. I think that<br />

the use of technology, in the process of<br />

how we do everything, is only going to<br />

increase.”


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Schwartz on Sports<br />

A<br />

BY Jerry<br />

Schwartz<br />

few months ago, I ran into Bruce<br />

Weinstein at the MJCCA, and he<br />

updated me on one of my “Where<br />

Are <strong>The</strong>y Now?” guys. Arnie Fielkow<br />

played in the Men’s Basketball League in<br />

the ‘90s and was a terrific player. He even<br />

tried out and made the United States basketball<br />

team that played in the World<br />

Maccabiah Games in Israel.<br />

During the time Arnie lived in Atlanta,<br />

he was commissioner of the Southern<br />

Baseball Association. Bruce told me that,<br />

when they fined players, the money was<br />

given to charities, and Arnie determined<br />

which ones. He designated a lot of that fine<br />

money to the Marcus <strong>Jewish</strong> Community<br />

Center of Atlanta. Bruce, at that time, was<br />

chairman of the MJCCA’s Health,<br />

Recreation, and Wellness Department,<br />

which benefited from those donations.<br />

I lost contact with Arnie when he left<br />

Atlanta, so I asked Bruce to fill me in.<br />

Arnie, who is a lawyer, moved to New<br />

Orleans in the late ‘90s and took a job as a<br />

high-level administrator with the New<br />

Orleans Saints. When Katrina hit, the Saints<br />

were playing out of town, and the organiza-<br />

tion had to decide whether they were going<br />

to return to New Orleans to play. <strong>The</strong> owner<br />

of the Saints did not want them to return,<br />

and Arnie did.<br />

As a consequence of their disagreement,<br />

Arnie lost his job. But public opinion<br />

was on Arnie’s side, and he became a hero<br />

in New Orleans for the position he took. As<br />

a result, he decided to run for public office,<br />

for president of the New Orleans City<br />

Council, in 2006. Bruce’s daughter, Brook<br />

Weinstein Berger, who went to law school<br />

in New Orleans and lived near Arnie,<br />

worked on his campaign.<br />

Even though Arnie was running against<br />

an incumbent who was heavily favored, he<br />

won a very close election. So, if you know<br />

Arnie and go to New Orleans, he probably<br />

won’t be able to get you Saints’ tickets, but<br />

he might arrange a tour of City Hall.<br />

While talking with Bruce, I told him<br />

that I wrote a column in December of 2008<br />

about sports memorabilia and had interviewed<br />

Dean Zindler, who owns Zindler’s<br />

Sports Collectibles. I was also aware that<br />

Bruce had an extensive collection of baseball<br />

cards that he had collected in his youth,<br />

and I thought it would be interesting to follow<br />

up on that.<br />

Bruce grew up in Birmingham and<br />

started collecting baseball cards when he<br />

was about ten. From the period of 1956-<br />

1962, he collected a card for every major<br />

league baseball player. He was one kid<br />

whose mother did not throw away his col-<br />

Bruce Weinstein and his priceless possessions<br />

lection, which remains intact today. He was<br />

adamant when he told me he would never<br />

sell his cards. His favorite is Mickey<br />

Mantle’s rookie year. No telling how much<br />

that would be worth today.<br />

Bruce keeps his cards in large, plasticcovered<br />

albums. Friends often ask if they<br />

can bring their kids over to see the collection.<br />

When they get there, the kids usually<br />

end up watching TV, and it’s the fathers<br />

who spend time going through the cards.<br />

Bruce also told me that, when he<br />

moved to Atlanta in 1971, he started collecting<br />

autographed baseballs and now has<br />

approximately 100. He was most interested<br />

in getting Hall of Famers and has attended<br />

the Hall of Fame Induction ceremony the<br />

last two years in Cooperstown, New York.<br />

He has autographed baseballs from Joe<br />

DiMaggio, Ted Williams, Pete Rose,<br />

Mickey Mantle, Whitey Ford, Yogi Berra,<br />

and Don Larsen.<br />

Of course, I asked Bruce about Hank<br />

Aaron, and he said he had an autographed<br />

ball from him, too. Bruce was at the game<br />

when Hank hit homer number 715 to pass<br />

Babe Ruth as the home-run king. He has a<br />

certificate proving he was there. He even<br />

went back to an Old Timers Game to get a<br />

ball signed by Al Downing, the Dodger<br />

pitcher who gave up home run 715 to<br />

Aaron.<br />

Bruce is a longtime Braves season ticket<br />

holder. Now, he needs to be certain to get<br />

autographed balls from Gregg Maddux,<br />

Tom Glavine, John Smoltz, and Chipper<br />

Jones, because they’ll all be in the Hall of<br />

Fame one day.<br />

ALTA COCKER SOFTBALL GAME #2. I<br />

heard from Gene Benator that the second<br />

annual Alta Cocker Softball Game is scheduled<br />

for June 28 at the Marcus <strong>Jewish</strong><br />

Community Center of Atlanta (MJCCA).<br />

Once again, Marcus Katz has graciously<br />

offered to provide the refreshments for<br />

players, family, and friends.<br />

Gene is determined to have an even<br />

bigger tournament than last year, as evidence<br />

by his initial e-mail, sent out to about<br />

60 guys encouraging them to recruit other<br />

guys who played in the Men’s Softball<br />

League from 1971 to 1992. Last year, the<br />

guys were divided into 4- to 15-man teams,<br />

and we played 2- to 3-inning games.<br />

This year, Gene has planned for more<br />

guys and even greater athletic ability to be<br />

showcased. He joked that they had planned<br />

a Home Run Derby Contest, but the<br />

MJCCA said they didn’t have enough time<br />

to set up the “Kid Pitch” fences. He also<br />

wanted to have a “jugs gun”—a radar gun<br />

that measures the speed of the pitch—but<br />

the gun didn’t register in the teens.<br />

I told Gene that I would be at the game<br />

this year solely as a reporter, rather than a<br />

participant. I survived last year’s game with<br />

only a torn pair of blue jeans, managed to<br />

field most of the grounders hit my way at<br />

shortstop, and got the ball to first base without<br />

any bounces. I also was able to hit the<br />

modified pitch every time up, even though I<br />

didn’t get the ball out of the infield. I am<br />

going to leave the game to the guys who are<br />

still actually playing, but I look forward to<br />

seeing everyone again, and I’ll cover it in<br />

the next “Schwartz on Sports.”<br />

REMEMBRANCE. I was saddened to hear<br />

that Larry Wolfe had died. He was probably<br />

the best catcher who ever played in the<br />

Men’s Softball League. Larry was a fiery<br />

competitor who had all the qualities of a<br />

great player. He could hit for power and<br />

run, and he had a great arm. I had the opportunity<br />

to play against him in many Center<br />

League and City League games.


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Thought You’d Like to Know<br />

By Jonathan Barach<br />

STIMULATING SUMMER. <strong>The</strong> Marcus<br />

<strong>Jewish</strong> Community Center of Atlanta<br />

(MJCCA) is offering a number of summer<br />

programs for mature adults. Film Club:<br />

Enjoy contemporary and classic films and<br />

participate in a lively discussion, <strong>July</strong> 26,<br />

6:00 p.m.; admission is $8 for non-members,<br />

$5 for members. Edgewise Thursday:<br />

Leaders from the Atlanta area will speak on<br />

their particular areas of expertise and lead<br />

group discussions, Thursdays, 10:00 a.m.-<br />

12:00 noon; admission is $5 for non-members,<br />

free for members. For information on<br />

these and other programs, visit www.atlantajcc.org.<br />

ON THEIR OWN. On <strong>July</strong> 29, 7:00-8:30<br />

p.m., <strong>Jewish</strong> Family & Career Services’<br />

Tools for Independence program will host a<br />

free Transition Workshop for families of transition-age<br />

young adults with developmental<br />

disabilities. Topics will include transitioning<br />

from high school to adult services, as well as<br />

transitioning from living with parents to living<br />

independently. <strong>The</strong> workshop facilitator<br />

is Cheryl Rhodes, a licensed marriage and<br />

family therapist and mother of a young adult<br />

who has recently transitioned to adult services.<br />

<strong>The</strong> workshop will take place at JF&CS,<br />

4549 Chamblee Dunwoody Road. RSVP to<br />

Brenda Revere at revere@jfcs-atlanta.org.<br />

THEY’LL SHOP ‘TIL THEY DROP.<br />

Another Sunday Afternoon At Loehmann’s, a<br />

new comedy by Peachtree Battle playwrights<br />

John Gibson and Anthony Morris, is being<br />

held over through <strong>August</strong> 30 at the Ansley<br />

Park Playhouse, 1545 Peachtree Street,<br />

Peachtree Pointe Building, in Midtown<br />

Atlanta. Performances are Thursday-<br />

Saturday, at 8:00 p.m., and Sunday, at 3:00<br />

p.m. Tickets are $26.00, including tax; group<br />

rates and gift certificates are available. Call<br />

the Box Office at 404-875-1193, or visit<br />

www.AnsleyParkPlayhouse.com.<br />

ROLL UP YOUR SLEEVE. <strong>The</strong> next City<br />

Wide Blood Drive, sponsored by <strong>Jewish</strong> War<br />

Veterans Atlanta Post #112, is <strong>August</strong> 2, 9:00<br />

a.m.-2:00 p.m., at Ahavath Achim<br />

Synagogue, 600 Peachtree Battle Avenue<br />

N.W. Appointments can be made at<br />

https://www.givelife.org/index.cfm?Sponsor<br />

=jwv; use code JWV. Walk–ins are always<br />

welcome, but donors with appointments are<br />

given priority. Bring a picture ID. For questions<br />

about eligibility, contact the American<br />

Red Cross at 1-866-562-7156.<br />

SENSORY-SENSITIVE MOVIES. <strong>The</strong><br />

MJCCA is presenting Sensory-Sensitive<br />

Movies for children with autism at Zaban<br />

Park, one Sunday each month at the Morris<br />

and Rae Frank <strong>The</strong>atre. <strong>The</strong> next screening is<br />

<strong>August</strong> 9. Children with autism or sensory<br />

issues can now enjoy the movie theater experience.<br />

<strong>The</strong>se screenings are free to both<br />

members and non-members. For more information,<br />

contact Sammy Rosenberg at 678-<br />

812-4<strong>09</strong>2, e-mail sammy.rosenberg@atlantajcc.org,<br />

or visit atlantajcc.org.<br />

VOLUNTEER WITH JF&CS. JF&CS is<br />

offering free Volunteer Orientation sessions<br />

<strong>August</strong> 19 and October 20, 6:00 p.m., and<br />

September 16 and November 18, 12:00 noon.<br />

<strong>The</strong> orientation will provide a brief overview<br />

of the agency and volunteer opportunities.<br />

Sessions will take place at JF&CS, 4549<br />

Chamblee Dunwoody Road. RSVP to volunteer@jfcs-atlanta.org.<br />

CHANGING TIMES. <strong>The</strong> American-Israel<br />

Chamber of Commerce Professional<br />

Committee will present “Economic and<br />

Political Changes: Effects on U.S.-Israel<br />

Business,” a seminar for legal, accounting,<br />

financial, and real estate professionals,<br />

<strong>August</strong> 27, 7:30 a.m.-1:00 p.m. This event<br />

takes place at the Selig Center, 1440 Spring<br />

Street, Midtown. For details, visit<br />

www.aiccse.org/Event/EventInfo.aspx?Even<br />

tID=485.<br />

HIGH HOLY DAYS STUDY INSTITUTE.<br />

An evening of study to prepare for Rosh<br />

Hashanah and Yom Kippur will take place<br />

September 1, 7:00 p.m., at Congregation Etz<br />

Chaim. Participants can attend two classes,<br />

7:15-8:15 p.m. and 8:30-9:30 p.m. Chabad of<br />

Cobb, Congregation Etz Chaim, Temple Kol<br />

Emeth, Temple Beth Tikvah, and Temple<br />

Kehillat Chaim will join with the MJCCA’s<br />

Lisa Brill Institute to explore themes, prayers,<br />

and customs of the High Holy Days. <strong>The</strong> rabbis<br />

and cantors of the participating synagogues<br />

will lead study sessions. For more<br />

information, call Institute Chair Rabbi Paul<br />

Kerbel, 770-973-0137. Registration is $10.00<br />

per person.<br />

FIGHTING HUNGER. <strong>The</strong> Atlanta<br />

Rabbinical Association is hosting Hunger<br />

101, September 2, at Temple Sinai, 6:00-9:00<br />

p.m. This workshop will address the urgent<br />

need to fight hunger locally, nationally, and<br />

internationally. Atlanta Community Food<br />

Bank Executive Director Bill Bolling and<br />

Mazon President Dr. Eric Schockman will<br />

deliver the keynote addresses. For more<br />

information, call Temple Sinai, 404-252-<br />

3073.<br />

RELAX, REFLECT, CELEBRATE.<br />

LimmudFest is Labor Day Weekend,<br />

September 4-7, at Tumbling Waters Retreat<br />

& Conference Center at Ramah Darom,<br />

Clayton, Georgia. At LimmudFest, Jews of<br />

all ages can take a step in their personal<br />

<strong>Jewish</strong> journeys, explore their connections to<br />

See THOUGHT, page 41


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By Belle Klavonsky<br />

MOVING UP. At the end of each school<br />

year, 5th-grade students at <strong>The</strong> Davis<br />

Academy are ceremoniously welcomed to<br />

Middle School. In a symbolic gesture of<br />

l’dor v’dor, Middle School students pass the<br />

Torah to younger siblings who will next year<br />

move up to the Middle School. Pictured:<br />

(from left) Allie Teilhaber, Blake Teilhaber,<br />

Molli Botnick, Logan Botnick, Lynsey<br />

Maya, and Daniel Maya<br />

FIELD DAY SPIRIT. Davis Academy 3rdgrader<br />

Aaron Rice (pictured) leads the blue<br />

team’s effort at the rope pull on Lag B’Omer<br />

Field Day, May 12. This spirited day of fun<br />

and competition for Davis students in<br />

Mechina-4th grade was made possible by the<br />

generosity of Davis PTO volunteers.<br />

JOURNEY OF A LIFETIME. In May, Davis<br />

Academy 8th-graders capped off their years<br />

of study with a fantastic two-week adventure<br />

to Israel. From the Old City of Jerusalem to<br />

the museums of Tel Aviv to the top of<br />

Masada to rappelling down cliffs at the<br />

Golan Heights, students had many unforgettable<br />

experiences. Pictured: (top to bottom)<br />

Jordan Hirsch, Brandon Hirsch, and Jared<br />

Meline stretch out in the Red Canyon of the<br />

Negev Desert.<br />

GRADUATION DAY. On June 2, seventynine<br />

8th-graders, <strong>The</strong> Davis Academy’s<br />

largest class ever, graduated from the<br />

Reform <strong>Jewish</strong> day school. It was an exciting<br />

evening for the students and their families, as<br />

they recalled many memories from their<br />

years at Davis. Pictured: (from left) Jacob<br />

Saban, Jon Adelman, Carly Aronin, and<br />

Marisa Schiff present a gift of an awards case<br />

for the Middle School.<br />

EPSTEIN EAGLE AWARD. Epstein School<br />

8th-graders Hilit Jacobson and Geoffrey<br />

Nathan (pictured, with Coach Jim Battoglia)<br />

received the Epstein Eagle Athlete of the<br />

Year Award, given each year to one male and<br />

one female 8th-grade student. Candidates<br />

must play sports in all three seasons and<br />

exemplify high character in leadership,<br />

coachability, and sportsmanship. <strong>The</strong> award<br />

was presented by 2008 recipients and alumni<br />

Adina Beiner and Daniel Feinberg. Other<br />

recipients are: Sarah Arogeti and (tie) Daniel<br />

Yellin and Mitchell Alterman, 2007; Meghan<br />

Light and Eli Oppenheimer, 2006; Jessie<br />

Levitan and Justin Shemaria, 2005; and Liza<br />

Arogeti and Perry Bern, 2004.<br />

EPSTEIN IN THE NEWS. Sixth-grade students<br />

in Kendra Fabry’s advisory class at<br />

<strong>The</strong> Epstein School engaged in a servicelearning<br />

project as part of their yearlong<br />

study of hunger issues. <strong>The</strong>y recently<br />

unpacked, inspected, sorted, and packed<br />

food at the Atlanta Community Food Bank<br />

and also brought donations of food with<br />

them. Channel 2 News (WSB-Atlanta)<br />

videotaped the students at the Food Bank for<br />

a May 5 news segment; Carly Kaplan and<br />

Leah Greenberg (pictured) were interviewed.<br />

Parents Diane Lechter and Lori Peljovich<br />

chaperoned, helped at the Food Bank, and<br />

drove students.<br />

BECOMING A PART OF HISTORY. Go<br />

Where your Eyes Take You: Creating a New<br />

Future after the<br />

Holocaust, a<br />

hardbound book<br />

published by<br />

Epstein Middle<br />

School students<br />

(pictured) is<br />

being archived at<br />

<strong>The</strong> USC Shoah<br />

Foundation<br />

Institute for<br />

Visual History<br />

and Education.<br />

<strong>The</strong> book, which<br />

features stories<br />

written by 7th- and 8th-graders, was part of<br />

project designed to study and celebrate the<br />

stories of 23 Holocaust survivors and the<br />

rebuilding of their lives. <strong>The</strong> USC Shoah<br />

Foundation became interested in archiving<br />

the book after Epstein parent Meryl Stein<br />

contacted Linda Stern at the foundation to<br />

tell her about it.<br />

A QUAIL TALE. On the last day of school,<br />

<strong>The</strong> Epstein School welcomed new members<br />

to the Epstein family, when three quail<br />

chicks were born three days overdue. <strong>The</strong><br />

tiny friends are part of the elementary school<br />

students’ biological studies of lifecycles,<br />

under the direction and guidance of<br />

Elementary Science Specialist Donna<br />

Goodson (pictured) and Science Consultant<br />

Debbie Lanier. When students return in<br />

<strong>August</strong>, they will be able to see how the<br />

quails have grown over the summer. As the<br />

birds reach adolescence, they will be<br />

returned to the quail farm, where the cycle<br />

will begin again.<br />

DID KERMIT GET IT WRONG? <strong>The</strong><br />

Epstein School’s pre-K class, taught by Joan<br />

Lewis and Jackie Steinhauser, released classroom<br />

pet Lollipop, a red-eared slider turtle<br />

(pictured), into the Leah’s Pond, located in<br />

the Educational Garden. Lollipop apparently<br />

learned that Epstein’s Sustainable<br />

Educational Garden was recently designated<br />

a Certified Wildlife Habitat by the National<br />

Wildlife Federation and expressed his desire<br />

to be free from his cage and live the good<br />

life. <strong>The</strong> students enjoyed watching the turtle<br />

as he swam away. Lollipop is enjoying his<br />

new home and was recently sighted sunbathing.<br />

So maybe it is easy being green!<br />

A FATHER’S DAY MESSAGE FROM<br />

SUMMER CAMP. Seven-year-old Audrey<br />

Gruenhut (pictured) has fun hula-hooping at<br />

the Epstein Summer Adventure Camp carnival.<br />

At the face-painting station, she made a<br />

special request to have a love message to her<br />

dad, Mike Gruenhut, painted on her face, so<br />

she could surprise him for Father’s Day. For<br />

more information on Epstein Summer<br />

Adventure Camp, visit www.epsteinatlanta.org.<br />

ZOO SLEEPOVER. Greenfield Hebrew<br />

Academy 1st-graders ended their study of<br />

animals by participating in Zoo Atlanta’s<br />

Nightcrawler Program. <strong>The</strong>y enjoyed a guided<br />

tour, including behind-the-scene spaces<br />

and a night visit to the reptile house. At one<br />

point, the tour guide stopped Beth Intro’s<br />

group in front of the orangutans and asked if<br />

the children knew any sign language, which<br />

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sang a song that included sign language,<br />

which they learned in class, the orangutans<br />

moved closer to watch them. <strong>The</strong> children<br />

were thrilled with the reaction to their song.<br />

Pictured: Tamar Stein<br />

STUDYING CHEMICAL REACTIONS.<br />

GHA 5th-graders in Sarah Topper’s class<br />

studied chemical reactions by shooting off<br />

Alka-Seltzer rockets. <strong>The</strong>y formulated questions,<br />

examined what happens when baking<br />

soda and vinegar (acetic acid) combine to<br />

make carbon dioxide gas, and experimented<br />

with Alka-Seltzer and water. Questions<br />

included: Which type of film canister will go<br />

the highest? Does a larger amount of Alka-<br />

Seltzer cause the canister to go higher?<br />

Using the same amount of Alka-Seltzer, will<br />

a small amount of water or a large amount<br />

cause a bigger pop? Does it matter if you<br />

shake the container? Pictured: Jake Chesler<br />

and Carmela Horwitz<br />

A VISIT TO THE AQUARIUM. GHA students<br />

in Gan Aleph (pictured) concluded<br />

their studies of sea and ocean animals with a<br />

fantastic trip to the Georgia Aquarium on<br />

May 19. Each student had studied a specific<br />

creature. At the aquarium, the students had to<br />

find their sea creature, take a photo of it,<br />

draw it, and answer some questions about<br />

what they had observed about it. After touring<br />

the entire aquarium, the class ate lunch<br />

outside, then headed back to GHA.<br />

MATH MAVENS. Seventh-grader Adam<br />

Brasch (pictured with teacher Robyn<br />

Cooper) represented GHA at the MATH-<br />

COUNTS state competition, finishing 39th<br />

among 180 students. In the Georgia Math<br />

League contest, GHA placed 15th among 90<br />

schools at the 7th-grade level, with Adam<br />

Brasch placing 25th among the 41 top 7thgraders;<br />

of 84 schools participating at the<br />

8th-grade level, GHA was 22nd. Several<br />

GHA students were among nearly 150,000<br />

participants worldwide in this year’s Math<br />

Olympiad; Abby Stein placed in the top 2%,<br />

and Jake Belinky, Sam Viness, Adam<br />

Brasch, and Ross Berlin placed in the top<br />

10% at their grade levels.<br />

GOLF CHAMPS. <strong>The</strong> Greenfield Hebrew<br />

Academy Golf Team, coached by Manny<br />

Fialkow, won 1st place in the MAAC<br />

Conference, on April 22. Seventh-grader<br />

Harrison Brown took 1st place individually.<br />

Team members are Sam Viness, Elliot<br />

Schnabl, Harrison Brown, Dylan Shaban,<br />

and Ethan Fialkow.<br />

CONGRATULATIONS GRADUATES.<br />

Fifty-three Weber School seniors (pictured)<br />

graduated June 7, at a ceremony at<br />

Greenfield Hebrew Academy. Students were<br />

accepted to 74 colleges and universities; they<br />

will attend schools including American,<br />

Clemson, Emory, Georgia State, George<br />

Washington, Indiana, Northwestern, Ohio<br />

State, Tulane, Washington, and Wesleyan<br />

universities; universities of Alabama,<br />

Delaware, Florida, Georgia, Maryland,<br />

Michigan, and Pennsylvania; Oberlin,<br />

Gainesville State, and Guilford colleges;<br />

Raphael Recanati International School;<br />

College of Charleston; Fashion Institute of<br />

Technology; and Georgia Tech. <strong>The</strong>y have<br />

received almost $3 million in merit scholarships;<br />

in addition, of 19 students accepted at<br />

Georgia universities, 92% received HOPE<br />

scholarships totaling $926,000.<br />

GOVERNOR’S HONORS. Weber student<br />

Ariella Axler was selected to participate in<br />

the Georgia Governor’s Honors Program, a<br />

state-funded six-week summer instructional<br />

program designed to provide intellectually<br />

gifted and artistically talented high school<br />

students challenging and enriching educational<br />

opportunities. Students are nominated<br />

for the program by current teachers.<br />

DANFORTH SCHOLAR. Gideon Palte<br />

(pictured), <strong>The</strong> Weber School’s Class of<br />

2008 valedictorian, was one of fewer than 30<br />

students to be named a Danforth Scholar.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Danforth Scholars Program at<br />

Washington University in St. Louis honors<br />

the student who embraces high ideals and<br />

whose life choices are guided by personal<br />

integrity, selflessness, a commitment to community,<br />

and a dedication to leadership and<br />

academic excellence. It carries with it a yearly,<br />

renewable full scholarship.<br />

Thought<br />

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<strong>Jewish</strong> ideas and tradition, and meet people<br />

who share their enthusiasm and curiosity.<br />

This family-friendly weekend will include<br />

children’s programs and childcare. Register<br />

before June 1 for the early-bird discount.<br />

Accommodations and costs start at<br />

$239/adults and $149/children. For registration<br />

and addition information, visit<br />

www.limmudse.org.<br />

LEARN A LANGUAGE. Beginning<br />

September 14, Oglethorpe University will<br />

offer eight-week, evening, non-credit language<br />

courses in conversational French,<br />

Hebrew, Italian, Mandarin Chinese,<br />

Spanish, and Greek. Most are introductory<br />

level, with advanced classes offered in<br />

Spanish and French. Many courses will<br />

conclude with a trip to a restaurant, where<br />

students can order and converse in their<br />

chosen language. <strong>The</strong> cost per course is<br />

$150. To register, visit<br />

www.oglethorpe.edu, and type “noncredit”<br />

in the search bar, or call Rose Cunningham<br />

at 404-634-8016.<br />

MUSICAL AND CULTURAL DIVERSI-<br />

TY. <strong>The</strong> Idan Raichel Project will perform<br />

November 7, 8:00 p.m., at the Rialto<br />

Center for the Arts at Georgia State<br />

University. <strong>The</strong> Idan Raichel Project is an<br />

Israeli musical collaborative that has<br />

achieved success by looking beyond cultural<br />

differences and celebrating the value of<br />

diversity. Led by young keyboardist, composer,<br />

and producer Idan Raichel, <strong>The</strong><br />

Project blends traditional Ethiopian folk<br />

music, Arabic poetry, Yemenite chants,<br />

Biblical psalms, and Caribbean rhythms<br />

with sophisticated production techniques.<br />

For information, visit<br />

YOUNG JOURNALIST. Jason Feldman, a<br />

rising senior at <strong>The</strong> Weber School, was<br />

selected as a national youth correspondent to<br />

the 20<strong>09</strong> Washington Journalism and Media<br />

Conference at George Masion University.<br />

GREAT SEASON FOR BASEBALL. After<br />

enjoying its most successful season in recent<br />

memory, the Weber Rams baseball team finished<br />

the season tied for 4th place in Region<br />

1–AAA with Young Americans Christian<br />

School and Pinecrest Academy. Juniors<br />

Daniel Maloon (pictured), outfield/first base,<br />

and Jed Wasilewsky, catcher, earned All-<br />

Region honors. Jed also received Honorable<br />

Mention All–State honors.<br />

http://atlanta.mfa.gov.il/mfm/Web/main/do<br />

cument.asp?documentid=124299.<br />

ORT SOLIDARITY MISSION. ORT<br />

America is organizing a groundbreaking<br />

national <strong>Jewish</strong> solidarity mission to<br />

Argentina and Uruguay, November 9-15.<br />

<strong>The</strong> mission offers an insider’s view of the<br />

<strong>Jewish</strong> communities of Montevideo and<br />

Buenos Aires, featuring one-of-a-kind<br />

briefings, visits to awe-inspiring landmarks<br />

and famous beaches, an unforgettable<br />

Shabbat experience, and even an opportunity<br />

to learn tango at its birthplace.<br />

Participants will meet with educators, students,<br />

and community members who are<br />

successfully grappling with today’s challenges<br />

with assistance from ORT. <strong>The</strong>re is<br />

an optional extension to Santiago, Chile. To<br />

learn more, visit www.ortamerica.org/missions,<br />

or call 800-519-2678, ext. 360.<br />

RETRACING JEWISH FOOTSTEPS IN<br />

NEW YORK CITY. <strong>The</strong> first <strong>Jewish</strong> learning<br />

travel program will be led by Dr. Steve<br />

Chervin October 7-11, developed under the<br />

auspices of the MJCCA’s Lisa F. Brill<br />

Department of <strong>Jewish</strong> Learning. Highlights<br />

include visiting Ellis Island, Statue of<br />

Liberty, Temple Shearith Israel, Museum of<br />

<strong>Jewish</strong> Heritage, Tenement Museum,<br />

<strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>The</strong>ological Seminary, Hebrew<br />

Union College, and experience Kabbalat<br />

Shabbat services at B’nai Jeshurun. Prior to<br />

the trip, three mandatory classes will be<br />

held about the <strong>Jewish</strong> history of the sites to<br />

be visited, facilitated by Dr. Steve Chervin.<br />

<strong>The</strong> fee is $1,999, plus airfare. For more<br />

information, contact Cheri Levitan at<br />

cheri.levitan@atlantajcc.org.


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<strong>Jewish</strong> Marriage Initiative encourages happy families<br />

By Shoshana Cenker<br />

A<br />

s attendees gathered for the first<br />

<strong>Jewish</strong> Marriage Initiative (JMI)<br />

event, June 9, at Congregation B’nai<br />

Torah, they were greeted by the band Tevya,<br />

which played such fitting tunes as “Sunrise<br />

Sunset” and “Love and Marriage.”<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Jewish</strong> Marriage Initiative is a new<br />

marriage education and enrichment organization<br />

that focuses on delivering the message of<br />

shalom bayit (literally, peace at home) or<br />

domestic tranquility.<br />

“JMI is devoted to empowering relationships<br />

with timeless <strong>Jewish</strong> wisdom and modern<br />

psychology,” said Rabbi Mordechai<br />

Pollack, JMI’s associate director. “This<br />

organization was designed and developed to<br />

teach the skills needed to better relationships.”<br />

At this forum, entitled “Happy<br />

Relationships…<strong>The</strong> Foundation of Life,” a<br />

diverse panel—a senator, a <strong>Jewish</strong> educator, a<br />

rabbi, and a psychologist—presented valuable<br />

tools to help take relationships from<br />

good to great.<br />

Georgia State Senate Minority Whip<br />

David Adelman opened the discussion with a<br />

startling statistic. “Georgia leads the nation in<br />

the number of high school dropouts,” he said.<br />

“Fifty percent do not graduate on schedule, a<br />

tragically high rate.”<br />

But what does that have to do with<br />

healthy marriages? “Some of the failure in<br />

education is failure of happy families,”<br />

explained Senator Adelman.<br />

“You can increase the likelihood<br />

that your children will<br />

have a happy family if you<br />

have a happy family.”<br />

Senator Adelman<br />

acknowledged the pressures<br />

put on the modern family—<br />

the pull of career, community,<br />

and civic obligations; the<br />

needs of children and family—and<br />

offered suggestions<br />

on easing the pressure.<br />

“Involving your extended<br />

family is critical to making a<br />

good family great,” said<br />

Senator Adelman. “When<br />

families live within close<br />

proximity, families are better.”<br />

Next up on the panel was Epstein School<br />

Associate Head Roz Cohen, who just celebrated<br />

her 45th wedding anniversary.<br />

Mrs. Cohen challenged audience members<br />

to take responsibility in their relationships.<br />

“A husband is not responsible for his<br />

wife’s happiness; the wife has the power to<br />

do for herself, and the husband can help.<br />

Don’t expect all the gaps to be filled by<br />

someone else,” said Cohen. “Focus on what<br />

is, rather that what isn’t. Appreciate what you<br />

do have, and know that differences are okay.”<br />

Mrs. Cohen expressed the importance of<br />

being a good listener and asking the right<br />

questions. “It’s essential to make time to<br />

share ideas. Don’t assume we know what<br />

people want or need—you<br />

must verbalize. Your<br />

spouse wants to make you<br />

happy, so tell him or her<br />

how,” said Cohen. “Think<br />

about what you say before<br />

you say it, and know that<br />

how you react is very<br />

important. We don’t want<br />

to make a mistake in how<br />

we communicate. It takes<br />

ten compliments to make<br />

up for just one insult.”<br />

Rabbi David<br />

Silverman addressed the<br />

crowd next with an interjection<br />

of Torah: ‘It is not<br />

good for man to be alone,<br />

I will make a helpmate to oppose him.”<br />

“We learn from this that G-d was showing<br />

Adam that we must make room for others,”<br />

explained Rabbi Silverman. “G-d also<br />

introduced conflict in a controlled area.<br />

Conflict is the best thing for change and<br />

growth—conflict creates the opportunity to<br />

become better. We must embrace differences,<br />

hope for resolution, and know that through<br />

challenges, there is self-discovery. A partnership<br />

is about giving to others; giving creates<br />

a profound sense of love.”<br />

Licensed Clinical Psychologist Dr.<br />

Aaron Feldman rounded out the panel presentations<br />

by reminding the audience that to<br />

build and sustain a healthy relationship,<br />

“Each partner must be committed to meeting<br />

Dr. Aaron Feldman<br />

the needs of their spouse.”<br />

Dr. Feldman spoke about <strong>The</strong> Five Love<br />

Languages as described in the book of the<br />

same name by Dr. Gary Chapman. “How we<br />

feel loved is different to everyone—identify<br />

what makes you feel loved and what makes<br />

your spouse feel loved,” said Dr. Feldman.<br />

<strong>The</strong> five love languages are:<br />

• Words of Affirmation—expressing<br />

appreciation verbally.<br />

• Quality Time—expressing love with<br />

the gift of time.<br />

• Receiving Gifts—notes, favorite flowers,<br />

etc.<br />

• Acts of Service—making life easier for<br />

your spouse by anticipating your spouse’s<br />

needs and stepping in.<br />

• Physical Touch—hugging, giving<br />

shoulder rubs, holding hands.<br />

“To find which love language is yours,<br />

ask: when you want to show love, what’s<br />

your first instinct? <strong>The</strong>n ask what your<br />

spouse would like,” said Dr. Feldman.<br />

“Know that your love language may be different<br />

from your spouse’s.”<br />

<strong>The</strong> dynamic panel concluded the forum<br />

with audience questions. Mrs. Cohen ended<br />

with the words, “<strong>The</strong>re is no magic to making<br />

relationships work; it’s a job every day.<br />

Respect and love each other, and focus on<br />

pleasing your spouse.”<br />

“JMI is the beginning of something very<br />

special,” added Senator Adelman.<br />

“Remember, the journey of 1,000 miles<br />

begins with one step.”


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