JGA July-August 09 - The Jewish Georgian
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<strong>Jewish</strong><br />
THE<br />
<strong>Georgian</strong><br />
Volume 21, Number 5 Atlanta, Georgia JULY-AUGUST 20<strong>09</strong> FREE<br />
What’s Inside<br />
iSeder Breaks<br />
New Ground<br />
An innovative Seder at <strong>The</strong> Temple<br />
explores how technology can enhance<br />
religious experience.<br />
By Scott Janovitz<br />
Page 29<br />
AIPAC’s Policy<br />
Conference<br />
More than a meeting to plan and strategize,<br />
this annual event is also rich with<br />
meaning and emotion.<br />
By Renee Brody Levow<br />
Page 13<br />
One Good Deed<br />
A small but formidable organization helps<br />
people with physical challenges remain in<br />
their homes.<br />
By Leon Socol<br />
Page 30<br />
Giving Back to Israel<br />
A grateful Dr. David Whiteman found<br />
love in Israel; years later, Israeli doctors<br />
saved his life.<br />
By Bill Sonenshine<br />
Page 28<br />
Coming Together<br />
<strong>The</strong> <strong>August</strong>a Federation’s Annual<br />
Meeting is a celebration of community<br />
connections and accomplishments.<br />
See Page 30<br />
Breaking the Silence<br />
Talking about the problem of substance<br />
abuse in the <strong>Jewish</strong> community is the first<br />
step toward solving it.<br />
By Mark Weinstein and Jeff Diamond<br />
Page 15<br />
Sophie Knapp (Photo: Cyndi Sterne)<br />
By Stuart Rockoff<br />
W<br />
aycross,<br />
Georgia,<br />
developed<br />
Exhibition introduces children to<br />
<strong>Jewish</strong> culture around the world<br />
O<br />
n <strong>August</strong> 30, <strong>The</strong> Sophie Hirsh<br />
Srochi <strong>Jewish</strong> Discovery Museum of<br />
the Marcus <strong>Jewish</strong> Community<br />
Center of Atlanta (MJCCA) will open a<br />
temporary exhibition, “Your <strong>Jewish</strong><br />
World.” This exhibition, which follows<br />
the museum’s successful “Your <strong>Jewish</strong><br />
Home” and “Your <strong>Jewish</strong> Town,” introduces<br />
children ages 2 to 12 to the wide<br />
array of <strong>Jewish</strong> culture from the Diaspora.<br />
Designed by Museum Director Cyndi<br />
Sterne and Harley Gould, “Your <strong>Jewish</strong><br />
World” will run through <strong>July</strong> 31, 2010.<br />
In this exhibition, children will discover<br />
an imaginative world of different foods,<br />
costumes, and culture from South Africa<br />
<strong>The</strong> <strong>Jewish</strong> community<br />
of Waycross<br />
economically due to<br />
its location at the confluence<br />
of nine railroads<br />
and five highways,<br />
which gave Waycross Hebrew Center<br />
the town its name.<br />
As Waycross grew, Jews began to come to the area in small numbers,<br />
seeking to take advantage of the town’s economic opportunities.<br />
Perhaps the first Jew to live in the Waycross area was Alex<br />
Gilmore, who left Russia in 1900, when he was only 14 years old.<br />
By 1902, he had settled in Blackshear, just north of Waycross. By<br />
1910, he owned a dry goods store in Blackshear and had earned<br />
enough money to bring over two of his siblings and his widowed<br />
mother, all of whom lived with him. Soon, thereafter, a number of<br />
Russian <strong>Jewish</strong> immigrants followed Gilmore into this area, some<br />
of whom settled in Waycross.<br />
Of the <strong>Jewish</strong> immigrants who initially settled in Waycross,<br />
few set down deep roots in the community. According to the 1912<br />
city directory, there were 18 Jews in Waycross who were involved<br />
in commercial trade, either as dry goods merchants, shoemakers, or<br />
tailors. By 1921, all but three of these <strong>Jewish</strong> immigrants had left<br />
Waycross; many moved to other cities in Georgia.<br />
See WAYCROSS, page 5<br />
to South America, Eastern Europe to the United<br />
Kingdom. Each interactive display will have<br />
personal photographs and stories depicting<br />
<strong>Jewish</strong> experiences in these areas.<br />
Cyndi Sterne says, “When children learn<br />
about their differences, it is inevitable they will<br />
discover similarities as well. On a personal note,<br />
I know that my children love learning about different<br />
customs and traditions and also enjoy<br />
teaching their friends about their own heritage.”<br />
<strong>The</strong> Sophie Hirsh Srochi <strong>Jewish</strong> Discovery<br />
Museum is a children’s museum that focuses on<br />
integrating Judaism through interactive play,<br />
wonder, and exploration. <strong>The</strong> museum also<br />
See SOPHIE HIRSH SROCHI, page 14
Page 2 THE JEWISH GEORGIAN <strong>July</strong>-<strong>August</strong> 20<strong>09</strong><br />
Who are the builders?<br />
T<br />
his past May, Pope Benedict XVI<br />
visited Israel and the West Bank.<br />
During the visit, he spoke of the<br />
“wall,” a subject that is continuously<br />
brought up by many people in discussing<br />
the conflict between Israel and its adjacent<br />
neighbors in the West Bank.<br />
While the pope is not the person who<br />
decided to refer to this partition as a wall, it<br />
is a term that I, as well as many others,<br />
have objected to, since it conjures up a<br />
vision of the Berlin Wall and all the negative<br />
happenings that accompanied and<br />
resulted from its construction.<br />
<strong>The</strong>re is no denying that a barrier is<br />
being constructed, but since “more than<br />
97% of the planned 720 km. (480 mile)<br />
security fence will consist of a chain-link<br />
fence system” (see www.palestinefacts.org),<br />
it would be more correct to talk about a<br />
fence rather than a wall. <strong>The</strong> mental picture<br />
evoked by the word “fence” is that of a partition<br />
that would not visually block the<br />
landscape, while the mental picture summoned<br />
by the word “wall” is that of a concrete<br />
structure intended not only to limit<br />
access but also to limit any tie to the other<br />
side.<br />
But what this did for me was to raise<br />
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even a more interesting question. Who are<br />
the builders of the fence?<br />
Is it the party that contracted for the<br />
construction, the State of Israel? Is it the<br />
general contractor, which certainly was<br />
legally authorized to do business in Israel?<br />
Is it the parties who designed the project?<br />
Is it the actual workers who physically<br />
erected the fence, some of whom, no doubt,<br />
were Arabs? Or is it the groups and individuals<br />
whose actions resulted in the murder<br />
of and injury to innocent, non-combatant<br />
Israelis and visitors to Israel, destruction<br />
of property in the State of Israel, and<br />
unnecessary and unproductive deployment<br />
of assets that could have been used for constructive<br />
purposes?<br />
Consider the following information<br />
from <strong>Jewish</strong> Virtual Library:<br />
• “Approximately 75 percent of the<br />
suicide bombers who attacked targets<br />
inside Israel came from across the border<br />
where the first phase of the fence was<br />
built.”<br />
• “During the 34 months from the<br />
beginning of the violence in September<br />
2000 until the construction of the first continuous<br />
segment of the security fence at the<br />
end of <strong>July</strong> 2003, Samaria-based terrorists<br />
carried out 73 attacks in which 293 Israelis<br />
were killed and 1,950 wounded.”<br />
• “In the 11 months between the erection<br />
of the first segment at the beginning of<br />
<strong>August</strong> 2003 and the end of June 2004,<br />
only three attacks were successful, and all<br />
three occurred in the first half of 2003.”<br />
• “Since construction of the fence<br />
began, the number of attacks has declined<br />
by more than 90%. <strong>The</strong> number of Israelis<br />
murdered and wounded has decreased by<br />
more than 70% and 85%, respectively, after<br />
erection of the fence.<br />
“Even the Palestinian terrorists have<br />
admitted the fence is a deterrent. On<br />
November 11, 2006, Islamic Jihad leader<br />
Abdallah Ramadan Shalah said on Al-<br />
Manar TV that terrorist organizations had<br />
every intention of continuing suicidebombing<br />
attacks, but that their timing and<br />
the possibility of implementing them from<br />
Just fix’n to<br />
woke up during the night recently in a<br />
cold sweat, realizing that they had Istruck<br />
again. When would this insidi-<br />
ous plot end?<br />
I first became aware of this alien<br />
incursion into that sacred realm of tradition<br />
some years ago. I was visiting cousin<br />
Bobby Lee in Westabutchie, and he served<br />
grits with “toast” that had been made in<br />
the oven and browned on only one side.<br />
As if that was not bad enough, the butter<br />
had been put on the bread before it was<br />
toasted, so that the middle was mushy.<br />
In utter disbelief, I asked Bobby Lee<br />
why he had strayed from his heritage. Did<br />
he not realize that he was becoming a<br />
party to creating a two-class society? Not<br />
only was he using white bread, but he had<br />
lost the art of scraping. All of our lundsmen,<br />
especially those of us who were first<br />
generation, knew that the proper way to<br />
make toast was to brown it sufficiently so<br />
that the presentation was finished off by<br />
scraping the burnt portion immediately<br />
preceding the serving of the dish. <strong>The</strong><br />
whole secret was in the wrist. It was only<br />
through using this method that the proper<br />
crunching noise could be made while consuming<br />
the delicacy.<br />
As you can guess, it was not long<br />
before this dastardly conspiracy had<br />
BY Bubba<br />
Meisa<br />
spread to rye bread. <strong>The</strong>y had tried to hide<br />
this by printing “<strong>Jewish</strong>” rye on the wrapper,<br />
but one bite quickly told you that it<br />
was another Madison Avenue (that’s in<br />
New York, not Westabutchie) trick. Where<br />
was that hard crust that helped develop the<br />
jaw muscle? Where was that body that<br />
allowed a slice to stand tall, rather than<br />
slump over like a limp washrag?<br />
As you can see, partaking of the staff<br />
of life for the Jew is a total experience. We<br />
all know that suffering adds a special<br />
ingredient to life for the Jew. Eating bread<br />
is no different. Do we not eat matzoh at<br />
Passover to remind us of the suffering we<br />
endured as slaves in Egypt? I ask you<br />
then, how can any self-respecting Jew<br />
enjoy eating these modern transgressions<br />
against what we know to be right? How<br />
can we truly enjoy bread that can be consumed<br />
with no effort?<br />
And now we are confronted with the<br />
latest invasion into our proprietary realm<br />
of breads—the commercial bagel.<br />
the West Bank depended on other factors.<br />
‘For example,’ he said, ‘there is the separation<br />
fence, which is an obstacle to the<br />
resistance, and if it were not there, the situation<br />
would be entirely different.’”<br />
So, who really are the builders?<br />
Unlike the Berlin Wall and the walls<br />
built around the <strong>Jewish</strong> ghettos, this fence<br />
was not constructed to keep people in, but<br />
rather it is being put in place solely for the<br />
purpose of keeping terrorists out and preserving<br />
life. Just as jails are built by criminals,<br />
the fence is being built by the terrorists.<br />
<strong>The</strong> present population of Israel is<br />
approximately 75% <strong>Jewish</strong>, 20% Arab, and<br />
5% other. It is not a <strong>Jewish</strong> state, but a state<br />
for the Jews, and non-<strong>Jewish</strong> citizens have<br />
the same legal rights as the Jews—unlike<br />
the status of dhimmis for Jews and<br />
Christians under Muslim law. It is not a<br />
theocracy, as are some of its neighbors, any<br />
more than England is a Christian country,<br />
even though the monarch is the supreme<br />
governor of the Church of England and, as<br />
such, is the titular leader over the Church<br />
of England. Israel not only has the right,<br />
but it has the duty to protect its citizens,<br />
regardless of ethnicity or religion, and the<br />
fence has proven its validity as a tool<br />
towards this responsibility. <strong>The</strong> defensive<br />
measures, including the fence, would not<br />
be present if the terrorists had not built<br />
them.<br />
While the bagel does not go back to<br />
the days of the Temple, it has been with us<br />
for a long time. As we know it, the bagel<br />
is not suppose to have the consistency of a<br />
croissant, nor was it ever meant to have<br />
the same continental flare or pronunciation.<br />
It is more blue-collar in both taste<br />
and name. Those of us who are fans can<br />
eat a bagel right off the shelf, just as we<br />
would consume a pastry, or we can eat it<br />
toasted. In either case, eating a true bagel<br />
would be the ultimate Poligrip commercial.<br />
Until this point, I have sat by and said<br />
nothing about these changes, but I can no<br />
longer keep silent. Enough is enough;<br />
wake up before it is too late! <strong>The</strong> round<br />
roll with a hole in the middle that is being<br />
foisted on you from the frozen foods case<br />
is a conspiracy to weaken your jaw muscles<br />
so that you will not be able to open<br />
your mouth in protest. This donut-shape<br />
creation is an attempt to produce a whitebread<br />
generation. <strong>The</strong> uniformity of the<br />
impostor is an attempt to subvert individualism.<br />
You let them redefine toast and said<br />
nothing. You let them perpetrate the<br />
“<strong>Jewish</strong>” rye hoax and said nothing. Don’t<br />
let this bagel bamboozle spread without a<br />
loud protest. Join with me in speaking out<br />
against them while we still have developed<br />
jaw muscles to use.
<strong>July</strong>-<strong>August</strong> 20<strong>09</strong> THE JEWISH GEORGIAN Page 3<br />
What’s<br />
HAPPENING<br />
HE ST. REGIS ATLANTA. St. Regis<br />
Atlanta developer Paul Freeman has<br />
T<br />
hit a home run with his stunning new<br />
resort-like complex in Buckhead.<br />
Located on West Paces Ferry at<br />
Peachtree, the magnificent hotel has condo<br />
residences, restaurants, and bars that are<br />
attracting crowds of Atlantans.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Wall Street Journal calls the<br />
Starwood Hotels-managed St. Regis “by far<br />
the prettiest hotel in town, a modern take on<br />
traditional Southern grandeur, with spectacular<br />
public spaces and spacious rooms and<br />
baths decorated in soothing cream and aqua<br />
shades.” Reporter Laura Landro says she<br />
was also impressed by “the lobby’s 750pound<br />
chandelier and two marble staircases<br />
sweeping up to a second-story lounge<br />
area... <strong>The</strong> vast outdoor piazza with cascading<br />
waterfall...19th-century Venetian mirrors,<br />
antiqued-glass vases filled with tall<br />
pussy willows, silver plated objets d’ art,<br />
and paintings by Atlanta artists, many commissioned<br />
for the hotel. My favorite ‘green’<br />
feature: a toilet with one flush button for<br />
‘half’ and one for ‘full.’”<br />
<strong>The</strong> St. Regis has it all: <strong>The</strong> Paces 88<br />
American Bistro; the St. Regis Bar,<br />
designed after the legendary King Cole Bar<br />
and Lounge at the St. Regis New York;<br />
afternoon tea in the lobby; a wine-tasting<br />
room; the Poolside Cafe and Bar, with fireplace;<br />
the Grotto Bar and Cafe, tucked into<br />
the Grand Terrace—and each space with its<br />
own special cuisine, atmosphere, culture,<br />
and style.<br />
Overlooking the pool are the five-star<br />
Remede Spa, a<br />
billiards and card<br />
room, a well<br />
equipped gym and<br />
health center, plus<br />
a lovely ballroom,<br />
all giving the St.<br />
Regis a resort feel.<br />
Paul says that he<br />
has spent the last<br />
five years of his<br />
life focused on the<br />
project, “...build-<br />
St. Regis Developer<br />
Paul Freeman<br />
ing an Intown<br />
resort, a landmark<br />
facility with time-<br />
less architecture that will benefit Atlanta,<br />
serve its guests, and provide a wonderful<br />
place for people to live and visit.”<br />
POWER DINERS. Spotted power-dining at<br />
Hal Novak’s popular eatery, Hal’s on Old<br />
Ivy: Native Atlantans Richard Alterman,<br />
Jerry Gordon, and Paul Ehrlich, haggling<br />
over the bill and debating whether to leave<br />
a 5% or 10% tip. Here’s “What’s<br />
BY Reg<br />
Regenstein<br />
Happening” with these legendary Native<br />
Atlantans:<br />
• Paul’s father-in-law, Stedman Shropshire,<br />
a World War II Marine veteran of Iwo Jima,<br />
just turned 90. He is an active architect who<br />
still draws by hand. Paul’s wife, Gray, is his<br />
only living child. Congratulations to Mr.<br />
Shropshire, thanks for serving our country,<br />
and Semper fi.<br />
• Jerry’s son Brandon is getting married to<br />
the lovely and delightful Leila Mansouri.<br />
Both are students working on their Ph.D.s at<br />
the University of California-Irvine.<br />
• Richard just took a trip to New York City<br />
with his wife, Marty, and his 91-year-old<br />
mother, Sara. <strong>The</strong>y went to see his prodigy<br />
son, Joseph, perform on the piano at the<br />
world-renowned Blue Note Jazz Club with<br />
Grammy-winning saxophonist Ralph<br />
Lalama. After the performance, Bubbie<br />
Sara (whom Richard describes as “the<br />
spryest one of the lot”) jumped up on stage<br />
to have her picture taken, saying, “Now I<br />
feel fulfilled, having seen Joseph play at the<br />
Blue Note.”<br />
Ralph Lalama, Joseph Alterman, and<br />
Sara Alterman, at the Blue Note<br />
DON OBERDORFER HONORED. We ran<br />
into our friend, insurance magnate Gene<br />
Oberdorfer, who is always gracious, charming,<br />
and sporting a big smile. Gene tells us<br />
that his distinguished brother, Native<br />
Atlantan Don, has just been awarded the<br />
prestigious James A. Van Fleet Award by<br />
the Korea Society, the first journalist ever<br />
chosen for this prize.<br />
In his four decades in journalism, Don<br />
has established a reputation as one of the<br />
world’s foremost experts on North Korea,<br />
and his articles on his visits there are classic<br />
accounts of life in a country that, in many<br />
ways, is like a medieval monarchy.<br />
Don has served successively as <strong>The</strong><br />
Washington Post’s White House, Northeast<br />
Asia, and diplomatic correspondent. His<br />
books <strong>The</strong> Two Koreas and Tet are considered<br />
among the best ever written about the<br />
conflicts in Korea and Vietnam.<br />
GRADY HIGH’S CLASS OF ‘59. Grady<br />
High School’s renowned class of 1959,<br />
which has contributed some of our city’s<br />
most colorful figures, just celebrated its<br />
50th anniversary.<br />
Martha Jo Katz, who is much too<br />
young to have graduated way back then, but<br />
her husband, Jerry, did, told us all about the<br />
reunion.<br />
Coming in from out of town were such<br />
notables as Michael and Eleanor Blass from<br />
Waleska, Georgia; Charles and Gail<br />
Herman, from Birmingham, Alabama; and<br />
Marsha Siegel Belson and Harvey Belson<br />
from Columbia, South Carolina.<br />
Also in attendance were Alan<br />
Alterman; Larry Cooper; Gail Feldser<br />
Natter; Larry Fine; Daniel Hirsh, his twin<br />
Martha Jo Katz and Marcia Siegel<br />
Belson<br />
Jerry Katz, Ronnie Goings, and Jan<br />
Jackson<br />
Jerry Katz; Mr. Overton, chemistry<br />
teacher; and Gary Goldstein<br />
bro, Marvin, and Marvin’s wife, Rita; Cary<br />
and Sherry Adelman King; Nancy Mitzner<br />
Markle; Charles and Ann Marie Rosenfeld;<br />
Charles and Bunny Rothberg Rosenberg;<br />
Alice Isenberg Sanders; Eleanor Leff<br />
Schwartz; Marilyn Makover Shapiro; and<br />
Dick Sokol.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Varsity truck catered the Friday<br />
night event at Garden Hills Park, so the<br />
food was great. And when one guest<br />
thought he might be having a heart attack,<br />
guess who came up with a much-needed<br />
aspirin? Jerry! He was the only one at the<br />
party who was prepared for a medical emergency.<br />
But what would you expect from<br />
someone smart and lucky enough to marry<br />
Martha Jo?<br />
Those were great days, back then,<br />
which we did not appreciate at the time, but<br />
we’ll always have those wonderful memories.<br />
STAN LEWIS, P.I. We love to write about<br />
Atlanta’s colorful characters and interesting,<br />
offbeat people. And we knew we’d<br />
found one when we recently met Stan<br />
Lewis at an anti-dogfighting event hosted<br />
by <strong>The</strong> Humane Society of the United<br />
States. First of all, Stan does the best<br />
Rodney Dangerfield imitation we’ve ever<br />
heard. We asked him how he was doing, and<br />
he replied, in perfect Rodneyese, “I’m OK<br />
now, but last night was rough.”<br />
But his main gig is as a private investigator,<br />
and as head of ICU Investigations, he<br />
has worked to locate missing and runaway<br />
children, serve summonses to hard-to-find<br />
defendants, and check up on cheating<br />
spouses.<br />
Stan was featured a while back in an<br />
article in the<br />
Atlanta Journal-<br />
Constitution, saying<br />
that when<br />
men cheat, it’s<br />
usually with<br />
someone they’ve<br />
met through<br />
work. “But they<br />
are horrible at<br />
covering their<br />
tracks. I had a<br />
husband going to<br />
Private investigator<br />
Stan Lewis<br />
his girlfriend’s<br />
house five days a<br />
week at the same<br />
time every day. Monday through Friday,<br />
quarter to six, he was there. It was like<br />
shooting fish in a barrel.”<br />
Stan’s son Adam works with him.<br />
“Adam once served papers to a gentleman<br />
in Midtown Atlanta, who came to the door<br />
wearing nothing but his socks and shoes,”<br />
Stan recalls. “Adam was shocked, and after<br />
he told me about it, I said, ‘I have the same<br />
outfit.’”<br />
BASEBALL CHAMP JOSH FARBER.<br />
Josh’s team, the Mountain Park Marlins,<br />
just won their 3rd-grade league championship<br />
in Lilburn in the Mountain Park<br />
league, with Josh playing outfield and scoring<br />
lots of runs. Josh rocks, and thank goodness<br />
he takes after Mom Roberta “Rocky”<br />
See HAPPENING, page 4
Page 4 THE JEWISH GEORGIAN <strong>July</strong>-<strong>August</strong> 20<strong>09</strong><br />
Happening<br />
From page 3<br />
Rochman, instead of Dad Jerry. Josh is an<br />
honor roll student at Arcado Elementary<br />
School, where he was also voted friendliest<br />
in class.<br />
Baseball champ Josh Farber<br />
SOUTHERN FRIED SCHMALTZ. Jerry<br />
has also been busy, headlining<br />
Congregation B’nai Torah’s Southern Fried<br />
Schmaltz event, where he entertained over<br />
400 people to benefit the <strong>Jewish</strong> Family &<br />
Career Services Emergency Fund. <strong>The</strong><br />
event, sponsored by the Hebrew Order of<br />
David Carmel Lodge, raised $6,500 for<br />
JF&CS.<br />
Jerry had a couple of tough acts to follow.<br />
David Cohen emceed the event, beginning<br />
with<br />
Dunwoody’s<br />
Saul Sloman, a<br />
native Atlantan<br />
who lived for<br />
five years in<br />
Israel, graduated<br />
from Georgia<br />
State University,<br />
and has appeared<br />
at the Punchline<br />
and the Funny<br />
Farm locally.<br />
Jerry Farber Saul did a hilarious<br />
40-minute<br />
schtick of jokes<br />
and stories in the<br />
Borscht Belt<br />
style. <strong>The</strong> crowd<br />
loved it and<br />
wondered why<br />
Saul was not the<br />
headliner<br />
instead of Jerry.<br />
As for Jerry, he<br />
said it was the<br />
best <strong>Jewish</strong><br />
audience he<br />
Saul Sloman<br />
ever had, at<br />
least since his bar mitzvah in 1950. Jerry<br />
did his usual adult humor—all the jokes<br />
were at least 21 years old.<br />
One guest told Saul that the event was<br />
a real mitzvah, since everyone had a ball<br />
and forgot for an hour and a half about the<br />
recession and world turmoil and all the<br />
other troubles on their minds.<br />
“<strong>The</strong> event was such a roaring success,”<br />
says Saul, “that we plan to make it an<br />
annual event.”<br />
GOLDBERG’S DELI. Goldberg’s has<br />
always been one of our favorite places to<br />
dine, schmooze, and kibbitz.<br />
Apparently, lots of other folks also<br />
enjoy Goldberg’s, since they now have five<br />
locations: West Paces Ferry at Northside<br />
Parkway; Roswell Road in Buckhead; East<br />
Cobb; Colony Square; and Chamblee-<br />
Dunwoody at I-285. <strong>Jewish</strong> dining at its<br />
best.<br />
R<br />
uby Jones is a bundle of perpetual<br />
motion. She never walks when she<br />
can run. And she is on the run 12-14<br />
hours a day.<br />
If there is a star at <strong>The</strong> <strong>Jewish</strong> Tower, it<br />
is Ruby. This 5’ 2”, 66-year-old lady (she<br />
looks 20 years younger) has a heart of gold.<br />
She does not play cards or bingo or sit<br />
around <strong>The</strong> Tower lobby. She has no time<br />
for schmoozing. What she does have time<br />
for is driving Tower residents to the hospital,<br />
doctor’s office, and supermarket.<br />
At Henri’s Bakery, where she works<br />
three days a week, she averages about<br />
37,000 steps a day.<br />
She sometimes<br />
opens and closes<br />
the bakery. In<br />
between, she runs<br />
from the front to<br />
the kitchen, where<br />
she prepares sandwiches,<br />
cakes, and<br />
assorted delicacies,<br />
and then races<br />
back to the front,<br />
where she welcomes<br />
customers<br />
with her milliondollar<br />
smile.<br />
You seldom<br />
see Ruby without<br />
her seven-year-old<br />
Yorkie, Weston.<br />
She walks Weston<br />
daily, 2-5 miles, rain or shine. <strong>The</strong> only people<br />
who come before Weston are sisters<br />
Belenda and Shirley, brother Harold, and<br />
nephews Eddie, Jim, Johnny, and Tyson.<br />
Ruby was born in Knoxville,<br />
Tennessee, worked her way through the<br />
University of Tennessee, and is a loyal<br />
Volunteer supporter. She moved to Atlanta<br />
18 years ago and has been running ever<br />
since. She managed the Sweet Auburn Curb<br />
Market for the City of Atlanta and was<br />
assistant manager of the State Farmers<br />
Market in Forest Park.<br />
FROM SAM MASSELL’S SCRAP-<br />
BOOK. Mayor Sam Massell and his<br />
lovely daughter, Melanie, now a popular<br />
singer, welcome Michael<br />
Jackson and the rest of the Jackson<br />
5 to his office at City Hall, on April 7,<br />
1971.<br />
Ruby better than gold<br />
Ruby Jones (Photo: Phil Slotin)<br />
BY Gene<br />
Asher<br />
After she moved into <strong>The</strong> Tower two<br />
years ago, she found she could not stay busy<br />
enough, so she took a job at Henri’s. Cream<br />
rises to the top, and it certainly is true of<br />
Ruby Jones. It was scarcely one year before<br />
she assumed the<br />
duties of opening<br />
and closing. Most<br />
of her work days<br />
start at 6:00<br />
a.m.—and end at<br />
10:00 p.m.<br />
She gets her<br />
energy and motivation<br />
to excel<br />
from her mother,<br />
who worked two<br />
jobs to literally<br />
bring home the<br />
bacon.<br />
“My spare time<br />
is spent with family,”<br />
says Ruby.<br />
“My sisters and<br />
nephews are the<br />
most important<br />
people in my life.”<br />
Weston comes next.<br />
Besides her work, Ruby is strong on<br />
volunteering. She is the No. 1 Tower resident<br />
in promoting the Sunshine Fund,<br />
founded the Men’s Clothing Closet for<br />
Atlanta’s First United Methodist Church,<br />
and serves on the Council for Aging Persons<br />
for the Community Outreach Program.<br />
When I think of Ruby Jones, I think of<br />
passages from our old Union Prayer Book:<br />
“...receive the helpless and despondent with<br />
sympathy and love.”
<strong>July</strong>-<strong>August</strong> 20<strong>09</strong> THE JEWISH GEORGIAN Page 5<br />
Waycross<br />
From page 1<br />
Despite this extreme level of population<br />
turnover, the <strong>Jewish</strong> community of<br />
Waycross began to organize in the 1920s.<br />
Jews in the area first gathered to pray<br />
together in 1920. Four years later, thirteen<br />
men officially organized a congregation,<br />
with Alex Gilmore as its first president. All<br />
but one of these founders were immigrants<br />
from Russia or Poland. Half of them owned<br />
dry goods stores, though their numbers also<br />
included peddlers, store clerks, and a<br />
lawyer. In 1924, Waycross Jews traveled to<br />
Valdosta or Brunswick for the High Holy<br />
Days; the local newspaper noted that the<br />
<strong>Jewish</strong> merchants in town closed their<br />
stores for the occasion.<br />
Between 1926 and 1953, the congregation<br />
rented space in the Knights of Pythias<br />
Hall, on Plant Avenue. Alex Gilmore bought<br />
a Torah for the group in the 1920s; the<br />
Gilmore family<br />
donated a second<br />
Torah to the congregation<br />
in 1935, after<br />
Alex’s death. <strong>The</strong><br />
congregation would<br />
often bring in visiting<br />
rabbis to lead<br />
services on the High<br />
Holy Days.<br />
By 1937, 47<br />
Jews lived in<br />
Waycross, and they<br />
began to discuss the<br />
possibility of building<br />
a synagogue.<br />
Due to the effects of<br />
the Great<br />
Depression, the congregation<br />
had to<br />
postpone its plans<br />
for a permanent<br />
home. Finally, on<br />
May 22, 1952, the congregation broke<br />
ground on the Waycross Hebrew Center, on<br />
Screven Avenue. <strong>The</strong>y were able raise<br />
money from local Jews, family members<br />
who lived in other cities, <strong>Jewish</strong>-owned<br />
wholesale firms in other cities that did business<br />
with the area’s <strong>Jewish</strong> merchants, and<br />
local gentiles. When the synagogue was<br />
dedicated in the summer of 1953, the congregation<br />
held an open house in which the<br />
non-<strong>Jewish</strong> neighbors were invited to tour<br />
the synagogue and learn about Judaism.<br />
Local Christian ministers announced the<br />
open house from their pulpits and encouraged<br />
their members to attend.<br />
<strong>The</strong> congregation was Conservative in<br />
practice, though it has never officially affiliated<br />
with any of the <strong>Jewish</strong> movements. A<br />
kosher kitchen was maintained in the building,<br />
even though most members did not<br />
keep kosher at home. For some members,<br />
walking to shul was not possible, as the<br />
Waycross Hebrew Center attracted Jews<br />
from several of the small towns in the area.<br />
At the time of the synagogue’s dedication,<br />
members lived in Alma, Blackshear,<br />
Douglas, Homerville, Jessup, and Baxley, in<br />
addition to Waycross.<br />
A cemetery sign<br />
Like all Southern Jews, the members of<br />
the Waycross Hebrew Center had to adapt to<br />
the local culture while working to maintain<br />
their religious traditions. In many cases,<br />
Waycross Jews had to make compromises.<br />
Since so many of them owned stores, the<br />
congregation held services only on Friday<br />
nights, as members had to work on<br />
Saturdays, the busiest trading day of the<br />
week. Al Jacobson recalls moving the start<br />
time for Friday night services from 8:00<br />
p.m. to 7:30 p.m. during high school football<br />
season when there were several<br />
teenagers in the congregation. Since the<br />
congregation was conservative, they insisted<br />
on waiting until sundown, and thus, even<br />
with the earlier start time and shortened<br />
service, they still arrived late at the game.<br />
As they entered the stands, other fans would<br />
shout, “I hope you prayed for us!”<br />
Soon after the congregation settled into<br />
its own building, members discussed hiring<br />
a full-time rabbi to lead the congregation,<br />
but they came to the conclusion that it was<br />
beyond their financial<br />
means. In 1961, they<br />
made an arrangement<br />
with the <strong>Jewish</strong> congregation<br />
in Valdosta,<br />
that its rabbi, Samuel<br />
Zakuto, would drive<br />
the 60 miles to<br />
Waycross each week<br />
to teach Hebrew to the<br />
children in the religious<br />
school. Rabbi<br />
Zakuto also officiated<br />
at the Waycross congregation’s<br />
lifecycle<br />
events. He served the<br />
congregation into the<br />
1970s. Since then,<br />
Waycross has relied on<br />
student rabbis from the<br />
<strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>The</strong>ological<br />
Seminary for the High<br />
Holy Day services and<br />
lay readers for the rest of the year.<br />
In 1948, 35 <strong>Jewish</strong> families belonged to<br />
the Waycross Hebrew Center. By 1968, this<br />
number had dropped to 24, as children<br />
raised in Waycross moved away in search of<br />
greater economic and social opportunities.<br />
Historically, Jews had been concentrated in<br />
retail trade in Waycross. By the 1970s, most<br />
of these stores began to close, including<br />
Weisser’s Jewelry Store, which had been in<br />
business for over fifty years. Jacobson’s<br />
Department Store closed in 1981, after 58<br />
years in operation. Today, there are no more<br />
<strong>Jewish</strong>-owned retail businesses in<br />
Waycross.<br />
In 2005, the congregation’s newsletter<br />
declared, “We are shrinking.” After the<br />
community Seder drew 47 people in 2008,<br />
congregation President Al Jacobson noted,<br />
“We were saddened by the fact that there<br />
was not one <strong>Jewish</strong> child to ask the four<br />
questions. We need youth.”<br />
Despite this decline, the small but<br />
close-knit membership of the Waycross<br />
Hebrew Center has persevered and continues<br />
to hold weekly lay-led Friday night<br />
services. About 11 or 12 members regularly<br />
attend, with some driving as much as 70<br />
miles to get to Waycross. If they cannot<br />
make a minyan, they hold an abbreviated<br />
service.<br />
<strong>The</strong> congregation still brings down a<br />
student rabbi from the <strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>The</strong>ological<br />
Seminary for the high holidays. <strong>The</strong> synagogue’s<br />
kitchen is still kosher, and the<br />
members bring in kosher meat from<br />
Jacksonville for special events. Al Jacobson<br />
continues to edit the congregation’s<br />
Inside the synagogue<br />
newsletter, which he has done since 1968.<br />
Rich Luskin serves as the lay leader of the<br />
weekly services, and Ann Jacobson, Al’s<br />
wife, often adds a Torah commentary.<br />
This small but dedicated group has<br />
worked hard to ensure that <strong>Jewish</strong> life continues<br />
in Waycross, Georgia.<br />
Dr. Stuart Rockoff is historian at the<br />
Goldring/Woldenberg Institute of Southern<br />
<strong>Jewish</strong> Life.
Page 6 THE JEWISH GEORGIAN <strong>July</strong>-<strong>August</strong> 20<strong>09</strong><br />
MJCCA NEWS<br />
GOLF CLASSIC. <strong>The</strong> MJCCA’s Harry<br />
Maziar Classic, which took place June 22,<br />
drew more than 110 golfers to the Atlanta<br />
National Golf Club, including Billi and<br />
Bernie Marcus, Steve Selig, and, of course,<br />
the tournament’s namesake, Harry Maziar.<br />
<strong>The</strong> event raised more than $50,000, which<br />
will be used to enhance vital MJCCA programs<br />
such as preschool and camping<br />
scholarships, Alzheimer’s daycare services,<br />
developmental disabilities programming,<br />
and much more. Each year, the tournament<br />
honors an outstanding member of the community.<br />
This year’s tournament honored<br />
Harry Maziar, co-chair of the MJCCA<br />
Governance Board, past MJCCA president,<br />
native Atlantan, and dedicated member of<br />
the community.<br />
Retired chairman of the chemical division<br />
of National Service Industries, Harry<br />
Maziar has been active in a wide variety of<br />
philanthropic and social programs, including<br />
Junior Achievement, the Atlanta<br />
Humane Society, the <strong>Jewish</strong> Federation of<br />
Greater Atlanta, <strong>Jewish</strong> Family & Career<br />
Services, <strong>The</strong> William Breman <strong>Jewish</strong><br />
Home, and United Way. He is executive-inresidence<br />
at the Michael J. Coles College of<br />
Business at Kennesaw State University and<br />
former president of Zep Manufacturing<br />
Company. Maziar lives in Buckhead with<br />
his wife, Sherry.<br />
Harry Maziar enjoyed a day of good<br />
sports and good friends. (Photo<br />
courtesy of Heidi Morton<br />
Photography)<br />
Bernie Marcus and Robert Paller get<br />
ready for a day on the links. (Photo<br />
courtesy of Heidi Morton<br />
Photography)<br />
Harry Maziar, surrounded by his loving<br />
family, was presented the Scroll<br />
of Honor following his namesake<br />
golf tournament, the Harry Maziar<br />
Classic, Monday, June 22. Pictured:<br />
(front row, from left) Josh Philipson,<br />
Cory Philipson, Lisa Philipson,<br />
Sherry Maziar, Paige Philipson, and<br />
Neal Maziar; (back row, from left)<br />
Jake Maziar, Harry Maziar, Joey<br />
Maziar, Susan Maziar, Todd Maziar,<br />
Hal Philipson, Bram Philipson, and<br />
Amy Sue Maziar. (Photo courtesy of<br />
Heidi Morton Photography)<br />
THE MIRACLE OF JEWISH CUBA. This<br />
winter, fifteen Atlantans will travel to Cuba<br />
to deliver donations to the <strong>Jewish</strong> community.<br />
<strong>The</strong> trip, which runs December 28,<br />
20<strong>09</strong>-January 4, 2010, will give participants<br />
the opportunity to explore Judaism through<br />
another culture while experiencing the trip<br />
of a lifetime. While traveling, participants<br />
will stop along the way to deliver donations;<br />
visit landmarks such as Patronato,<br />
Old Havana, Templo Sepharadi, and<br />
Revolution Square; and have the unique<br />
experience of celebrating Shabbat and ringing<br />
in the New Year in a different country.<br />
Participants will solicit donations of pharmaceuticals<br />
and deliver items ranging from<br />
baby aspirin to adult diapers. Monetary<br />
donations will also be delivered to the community.<br />
Fees are $2,950 for a double occupancy<br />
room or an additional $300 for a single<br />
occupancy room. <strong>The</strong> trip includes flight,<br />
hotel, transportation, guides, some meals,<br />
and medical insurance. <strong>The</strong> deposit and<br />
application are due October 15.<br />
For more information, contact<br />
Shaindle Schmuckler at 678-812-3983 or<br />
Shaindle@atlantajcc.org.<br />
April 20<strong>09</strong> MJCCA Humanitarian<br />
Mission to <strong>Jewish</strong> Cuba participants
<strong>July</strong>-<strong>August</strong> 20<strong>09</strong> THE JEWISH GEORGIAN Page 7<br />
(front row, from left) MJCCA Guide<br />
Shaindle Schmuckler, Charmaine<br />
Weber, Christa Taunton, Diana<br />
Silverman, and Loretta Winter; (back<br />
row, from left) Beth Sugarman and<br />
Maudi Taunton<br />
———<br />
Teen Community Service (TCS)<br />
Camp participants Aaron Itzkovitz,<br />
Shira Lubinsky, and Talya Gordon<br />
visit with Betty Shapiro at the<br />
William Breman <strong>Jewish</strong> Home.<br />
(Photo courtesy of the MJCCA)<br />
TCS campers Max Mager, Ben Getty,<br />
and Sam Shapiro help pack medical<br />
supplies at MedShare International<br />
for shipment around the world.<br />
(Photo courtesy of the MJCCA)<br />
TCS campers (front to back, left)<br />
Ariella Bland, Talya Gordon, Katie<br />
Cohen, Josh Shapiro, Sammy<br />
Martinez, Jared Kerker, and (right<br />
front) Leo Mager help pack food at<br />
Project Open Hand.<br />
(Photo courtesy of the MJCCA)<br />
———<br />
ALTA KOCKER SOFTBALL GAME.<br />
Despite temperatures nearing 100 degrees,<br />
75 alums from the MJCCA Adult Men’s<br />
Softball Leagues from the years 1975-90<br />
came together for the 2nd annual MJCCA<br />
Alta Kocker Softball Game, on June 28.<br />
<strong>The</strong> group, organized by Gene Benator and<br />
Marcus Katz, enjoyed an afternoon of<br />
camaraderie, sportsmanship, and trading<br />
stories. While minor injuries were reported,<br />
the chief complaint of the day seemed to the<br />
ubiquitous bruised ego.<br />
Program Benefactor Marcus Katz<br />
(left) and Program Coordinator Gene<br />
Benator<br />
———<br />
EXHIBITION CELEBRATES TEL<br />
AVIV’S 100 YEARS. “Hidden Corners of<br />
Tel Aviv,” an exhibition featuring the photography<br />
of Gideon Spiegel, Michal Peleg,<br />
and Shifra Levyathan, is on display at the<br />
MJCCA’s Katz Family Mainstreet Gallery,<br />
through <strong>August</strong> 18.<br />
Gideon Spiegel was born and raised in<br />
Petah Tikvah, Israel. He studied at the<br />
Bezalel School of Art in Jerusalem and currently<br />
lives and works in Tel Aviv. An artist<br />
as well as a photographer, Spiegel created a<br />
special technique called “photo-painting,”<br />
which combines his photographs of hidden<br />
places in his community with photographs<br />
of his paintings.<br />
Michal Peleg was born in Israel and<br />
currently lives in Hod Hasharon. She<br />
received her bachelors’ degree in architecture<br />
and town planning at the Technion-<br />
Israel Institute of Technology. Peleg began<br />
her photography career photographing<br />
design and architecture for Globes<br />
Publisher Supplements. Today, she works<br />
as a freelance photographer, specializing in<br />
social event photography and editorial documentary.<br />
Shifra Levyathan was born in Petah<br />
Tikva, Israel. She studied at the Bezalel<br />
School of Art in Jerusalem and was owner<br />
and curator of the Carlyle Art Gallery, in Tel<br />
Aviv. From her home alongside the Ramat-<br />
Gann National Park to the streets of Tel<br />
Aviv to the Golan Heights, Levyathan<br />
always has her camera within reach. Her<br />
work has been shown in numerous exhibitions<br />
across Israel, including “Art At<br />
Home,” “White Night,” and “At Eye<br />
Level,” in Tel Aviv; and “Frame Stories,” in<br />
Ramat Gan.<br />
Shifra Levyathan, Trio<br />
Michal Peleg, Triathalon<br />
<strong>The</strong> Katz Family Mainstreet Gallery is<br />
located at the MJCCA, 5342 Tilly Mill<br />
Road, Dunwoody. For more information,<br />
contact Arts & Culture Director Kim<br />
Goodfriend at 678-812-4071 or kim.goodfriend@atlantajcc.org.<br />
———<br />
At the MJCCA, campers can enjoy a<br />
summer of safe and meaningful fun,<br />
choosing from more than 100 day<br />
camp options including travel,<br />
drama, sports, and arts camps at<br />
locations in Dunwoody, North Metro,<br />
and East Cobb. (Photos courtesy of<br />
the MJCCA)<br />
———<br />
CELEBRATE ISRAEL. A little inclement<br />
weather didn’t dampen the spirits of the<br />
3,000+ festivalgoers who came to celebrate<br />
the 61st anniversary of Israel’s statehood<br />
and the 100th birthday of Tel Aviv. <strong>The</strong><br />
Celebrate Israel! Festival, May 17, at the<br />
MJCCA, moved indoors when a rainy forecast<br />
threatened the mostly outdoor event.<br />
<strong>The</strong> festival featured community organizations;<br />
the Suntrust Shuk, filled with enticing<br />
vendors selling everything from recycled Tshirts<br />
to fashion jewelry; a myriad of children’s<br />
activities, including inflatables and a<br />
dance party; an Eastern European pavilion;<br />
an Israeli museum; and delicious food from<br />
area vendors and restaurants.<br />
CELEBRATE ISRAEL! Pictured, from<br />
left: Event Co-chairs Hadara Ishak<br />
and Leah Blum and MJCCA<br />
President Sherie Gumer (Photo:<br />
Heidi Morton Photography)<br />
Celebrating the sweetness of 61<br />
years of existence of the state of<br />
Israel (Photo: Heidi Morton<br />
Photography)<br />
Barbara and Ed Mendel cut the ribbon<br />
at the Barbara and Ed Mendel<br />
Splash Park Grand Opening and<br />
Dedication Ceremony, held during<br />
the Celebrate Israel! Festival, May<br />
17. (Photo courtesy of Heidi Morton<br />
Photography)<br />
Kids stay cool at the Barbara and Ed<br />
Mendel Splash Park. (Photo courtesy<br />
of Heidi Morton Photography)<br />
See MJCCA NEWS, page 14
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4455 Roswell Road<br />
Atlanta, Georgia 30342<br />
404-255-4312<br />
www.presstine.com<br />
Upon my honor, I will try<br />
A<br />
friend brought me a delicious<br />
casserole that tasted even better<br />
than it looked, and she hit not only<br />
my taste buds but also my heartstrings<br />
when she said, “This is a Girl Scout dish,<br />
and I knew you were an old Girl Scout and<br />
would appreciate it. We were taught to wrap<br />
all of the layers in aluminum foil and take it<br />
on our hike and cook it over hot coals.”<br />
I said, “Lordy, chile, there was no such<br />
thing as aluminum foil when I was a scout.”<br />
<strong>The</strong>re were my early childhood years,<br />
when I just dreamed of being a Girl Scout.<br />
We didn’t have Brownies and might never<br />
have had a scout troop if one of the schoolteachers<br />
hadn’t become interested because<br />
of her daughter. And then, for the rest<br />
of my grammar and high school<br />
days (almost), I was first a Girl<br />
Scout and then a person.<br />
My whole world<br />
became organized around<br />
the olive green of the uniform<br />
and the three fingers<br />
held high in a pledge. It<br />
was all-important: the<br />
merit badges, passing the<br />
tests, the hikes, the camping,<br />
the projects; and I adored it.<br />
My friends adored it, and we<br />
became even closer friends.<br />
But here comes a “however”: Although<br />
my fondest memories involve being a<br />
scout, and we were all so appreciative of<br />
our leader, who gave unmeasured time, she<br />
was a stern lady, unyielding and unforgiving.<br />
She preached to us constantly about the<br />
evils and sins of the world, such as speaking<br />
to a male classmate as he rode by on his<br />
bike. Her assistant was warmer and laughed<br />
more easily, but our leader was a forceful<br />
disciplinarian. We were innocent children<br />
and needed to learn discipline mainly as it<br />
involved our natural surroundings. She was<br />
fearless in those times when you could<br />
afford to be, and we experienced many<br />
wondrous things.<br />
We should not have been surprised<br />
when the day came that she announced, as<br />
we stood at attention, that, since her daughter<br />
was finishing school that spring, she<br />
would no longer be our scout leader. Her<br />
assistant could not take on the responsibility.<br />
We cried and wandered the residential<br />
streets, going in and calling, unannounced,<br />
on those ladies we thought might adopt us.<br />
Sympathetic ears all, but no one wanted<br />
such a commitment. We had been blessed<br />
with our stern mistress; it was too much to<br />
hope that she might have mellowed like Mr.<br />
Belvedere.<br />
BY<br />
Shirley<br />
Friedman<br />
A lifetime later (actually only eight<br />
years), I returned to my high school as a<br />
teacher and had the most wonderful students<br />
possible. One afternoon after classes,<br />
a group of young girls came to my room<br />
and said, “Our scout leader had to quit. Will<br />
you take us?” Deja vu! I pressed my lips<br />
together and tried to blink away the tears. I<br />
said, “Let me tell you a little story about<br />
what happened when I was your<br />
age, and you’ll know why I<br />
can’t possibly say ‘No’ to<br />
you.”<br />
I said “yes,” and, once<br />
again, scouting became<br />
an important part of my<br />
life. I was there only a<br />
year, and we didn’t do as<br />
many outstanding things<br />
as I had done under my<br />
efficient leader, whom I<br />
could not duplicate. I was many<br />
years younger and not nearly as brilliant.<br />
But we were properly organized, our<br />
activities were well-planned and controlled,<br />
and we had some wonderful, wonderful<br />
times. My last memory was of winding up<br />
in the hospital with a terrible ear infection<br />
from swimming in a “not too clear” pond.<br />
Many, many years later, I went down<br />
home for the centennial of our town. At a<br />
reception, I was talking to a young friend<br />
who is a mountain climber of great note. I<br />
told her how thrilled and astounded I was at<br />
her prowess. “Well, you got me started,”<br />
she said. My husband spilled his punch and<br />
lifted an eyebrow.<br />
“But,” I said, “I could never climb a<br />
mountain.”<br />
She said, “Don’t you remember all of<br />
the great hikes we took when you were our<br />
scout leader? I just loved them, and that’s<br />
what made me become interested in mountain<br />
climbing.”<br />
That one remark was worth the ear<br />
infection and all of the weekends spent<br />
camping and hiking instead of partying or<br />
sleeping late.<br />
Here’s to Juliette Low and hiking and<br />
cooking on coals (and aluminum foil!)—<br />
and to love and warmth and understanding,<br />
mixed with merit badges.
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No sanction to bigotry, no assistance to persecution<br />
T<br />
his is the month we celebrate the<br />
anniversary of the establishment of the<br />
United States as an independent, sover-<br />
eign nation. This holiday also is a reminder to<br />
us as Jews to take time to recall our good fortune<br />
in being granted citizenship in this wonderful<br />
country and to rejoice in the many privileges<br />
and opportunities that have flowed to us<br />
from this citizenship.<br />
<strong>The</strong>re is nothing more symbolic of our<br />
membership in the citizenship fold of the<br />
United States than the historic Touro<br />
Synagogue in Newport, Rhode Island. This<br />
structure is home to Congregation Jeshuat<br />
Israel, a small Orthodox congregation. This is<br />
the same congregation that erected this building,<br />
the oldest <strong>Jewish</strong> synagogue building still<br />
standing in the country and the only such pre-<br />
Revolutionary structure that survives.<br />
In 1790, Moses Seixas, the synagogue’s<br />
warden, wrote to President George<br />
Washington words that still ring true today.<br />
<strong>The</strong> following is an excerpt from this letter:<br />
“Deprived as we heretofore have been of<br />
the invaluable rights of free Citizens, we now<br />
with a deep sense of gratitude to the Almighty<br />
disposer of all events behold a Government,<br />
erected by the Majesty of the People—a<br />
Government, which to bigotry gives no sanction,<br />
to persecution no assistance—but generously<br />
affording to all Liberty of conscience,<br />
and immunities of Citizenship: deeming every<br />
one, of whatever Nation, tongue, or language<br />
equal parts of the great governmental<br />
BY Marvin<br />
Botnick<br />
Machine. This so ample and extensive Federal<br />
Union whose basis is Philanthropy, Mutual<br />
confidence and Public Virtue, we cannot but<br />
acknowledge to be the work of the Great God,<br />
who ruleth in the Armies of Heaven, and<br />
among the Inhabitants of the Earth, doing<br />
whatever seemeth him good.<br />
“For all these Blessings of civil and reli-<br />
Touro Synagogue<br />
gious liberty which we enjoy under an equal<br />
benign administration, we desire to send up<br />
our thanks to the Ancient of Days, the great<br />
preserver of Men—beseeching him, that the<br />
Angel who conducted our forefathers through<br />
the wilderness into the promised Land, may<br />
graciously conduct you through all the difficulties<br />
and dangers of this mortal life. And,<br />
when, like Joshua full of days and full of honour,<br />
you are gathered to your Fathers, may you<br />
be admitted into the Heavenly Paradise to partake<br />
of the water of life, and the tree of immortality.”<br />
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Washington, a year before the Bill of Rights<br />
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<strong>The</strong> following is a portion of this document:<br />
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no assistance...May the children of the<br />
Stock of Abraham, who dwell in this land,<br />
continue to merit and enjoy the good will of<br />
the other Inhabitants; while every one shall sit<br />
in safety under his own vine and figtree, and<br />
there shall be none to make him afraid. May<br />
the father of all mercies scatter light and not<br />
darkness in our paths, and make us all in our<br />
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that drove the first <strong>Jewish</strong> settlers to America,<br />
some of whom were the very people that<br />
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Dachau Artist Colony exhibition continues at Oglethorpe<br />
T<br />
he groundbreaking exhibitions<br />
“Dachau Before Dachau: European<br />
Artist Colony 1860-1914” and<br />
“Dachau Concentration Camp: Years of<br />
Destruction 1933-1945” are at the<br />
Oglethorpe University Museum of Art<br />
(OUMA) through <strong>August</strong> 30.<br />
When Chloe Edwards, president<br />
of Oglethorpe’s <strong>Jewish</strong> Student Union,<br />
first heard that the exhibition was coming<br />
to the school, she “was intrigued but also<br />
apprehensive, “ she wrote in the <strong>The</strong><br />
Stormy Petrel, the student newspaper.<br />
“What could this mean to me, as a Jew and<br />
the current president of the <strong>Jewish</strong> Student<br />
Union, and also as an art lover, someone<br />
who attends the opening of new OUMA<br />
exhibits religiously each semester? Could<br />
I, in good conscience, attend this exhibit,<br />
let alone endorse it? While I have heard<br />
arguments for supporting and shunning<br />
the Dachau exhibit, having thought long<br />
and hard about it, I find that I must support<br />
the efforts of the museum in bringing<br />
this exhibit to campus. “<br />
<strong>The</strong> following essays are reprinted,<br />
with permission, from the exhibition catalogue<br />
accompany the Dachau Artist<br />
Colony exhibition at the OUMA.<br />
—————<br />
It was during the twentieth century<br />
that the name “Dachau” became famous<br />
throughout Europe and the world in association<br />
with horror. For Dachau was the<br />
location of the concentration camp that<br />
bore the city’s name from the very beginning.<br />
<strong>The</strong> name “Dachau” will always go<br />
hand in hand with memories of the<br />
National Socialist crimes against humanity,<br />
a circumstance placing a special<br />
responsibility on the city which it must—<br />
and will—never evade. This responsibility<br />
means, among other things, that Dachau<br />
must do everything in its power to ensure<br />
that the memory of the abominable crimes<br />
of National Socialism is kept alive for the<br />
generations that did not witness the events<br />
first-hand. <strong>The</strong> first and foremost obligation<br />
assigned the city of Dachau by its<br />
own history is to be a city of peace and a<br />
place of learning and commemoration for<br />
the world’s youth.<br />
As a site of remembrance, Dachau<br />
actively confronts its history. One concrete<br />
expression of this is the Dachau<br />
Youth Guesthouse, which invites young<br />
people from Germany and abroad to study<br />
National Socialist despotism and organizes<br />
discussions with persons who experienced<br />
the historical events. <strong>The</strong> town has<br />
furthermore established a Department of<br />
Contemporary History in addition to hosting<br />
an annual symposium on the same<br />
subject.<br />
Yet Dachau was and is also a city of<br />
culture. Already in the late nineteenth century,<br />
due to its proximity to Munich, one<br />
of the most important artists’ colonies of<br />
Europe emerged here. Attracted by the<br />
fascinating landscape of the Dachau<br />
Moor, a substantial number of artists—<br />
Adolf Hoelzel, Ludwig Dill, Arthur<br />
Langhammer, and others—moved to<br />
Dachau. And thanks to the unusually large<br />
number of artists presently living and<br />
working here, the city is still a vibrant<br />
artists’ centre today. What is more,<br />
Dachau has become increasingly active in<br />
the Federation of European Artists’<br />
Colonies EuroArt.<br />
In the coming years, by means of a<br />
traveling exhibition in English, Dachau<br />
would like to introduce itself internationally<br />
as a place of commemoration and culture.<br />
In the process, it will decidedly not<br />
use culture as a means of distracting from<br />
the city’s history. On the contrary: the city<br />
of Dachau wants to show how important<br />
the interplay of commemoration and culture<br />
is for a peaceful and open world.<br />
In Dachau, culture and commemoration<br />
are inseparable. Along with the city’s<br />
active commemoration and remembrance<br />
work, art and culture serve as responses to<br />
its history and act as its ambassadors to<br />
the world. <strong>The</strong> city of Dachau, whose<br />
name has become synonymous with the<br />
atrocities committed during the Third<br />
Reich, is opening its doors and presenting<br />
itself to the world as a cosmopolitan and<br />
international city of culture.<br />
—Peter Bürgel, Mayor, City of Dachau<br />
—————-<br />
<strong>The</strong> Artists of Dachau<br />
<strong>The</strong> Dachau Painting Gallery is situated<br />
in the middle of the picturesque historic<br />
city of Dachau, right opposite the city<br />
hall. Its permanent collection provides<br />
documentary evidence of the artists’<br />
movement in the 19th century, which gave<br />
an important stimulus to the development<br />
of art in Germany. It was here in Dachau<br />
that the open-air painting found one of its<br />
origins, the discovery of the landscape as<br />
an independent motif.<br />
Due to its location in the vicinity of<br />
Munich, Dachau became a popular meeting<br />
point for landscape painters in the 19th<br />
century. First, they were enthusiastic<br />
about the atmospheric landscape of the<br />
Dachau Moss, with its changing natural<br />
light. Later, the painters began to show<br />
interest in the picturesque city, the village<br />
life, and the people in their traditional costumes.<br />
Besides purely artistic reasons<br />
which made the landscape painters leave<br />
the Munich art scene and go to Dachau,<br />
some of them came because of economic<br />
considerations. In comparison to Munich,<br />
living in Dachau was cheaper and the<br />
rents for studios were reasonable. Dachau<br />
became an artists’ location where the<br />
painters tried to portray the landscape in a<br />
true-to-life way. This was successfully<br />
achieved by painting right in front of the<br />
motif, in the landscape itself. Nature had<br />
become a work of art.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Dachau Moss (or moor) was discovered<br />
in the first half of the nineteenth<br />
Gustav Keller (1860-1911),<br />
Heimweg/Way home, oil on<br />
cardboard, 28 x 34.5 cm<br />
Museumsverein Dachau<br />
century, by Johann Georg von Dillis, who<br />
was a teacher in landscape painting at the<br />
Munich Academy from 1804 to 1814. He<br />
visited the Dachau Moss together with his<br />
students and encouraged them to paint<br />
from nature. It was only in the middle of<br />
the nineteenth century that artists like<br />
Eduard Schleich the Older, Carl Spitzweg,<br />
and Christian Morgenstern came to<br />
Dachau. <strong>The</strong>y were strongly influenced by<br />
the artists from Barbizon, whom they had<br />
visited in 1851. <strong>The</strong> style in painting of<br />
the second half of the century was characterized<br />
by Adolf Lier and Wilhelm von<br />
Diez, two famous teachers in landscape<br />
painting at the Munich Academy. Among<br />
their students were painters like Fritz<br />
Baer, Josua von Gietl, Richard von<br />
Poschinger, Joseph Wenglein, Ludwig<br />
Willroider, Hans am Ende, Ludwig<br />
Herterich, Fritz Mackensen, Max Slevogt,<br />
and Wilhelm Trübner.<br />
Around 1900, Dachau became an<br />
artistic colony through the work of art of<br />
Ludwig Dill, Adolf Hölzel, and Arthur<br />
Langhammer and an art center from which<br />
an important new style developed. From<br />
Hans von Hayek<br />
(1869-1940),<br />
Verschneiter Bauernhof/Snow<br />
Covered Farm, 1904, oil on<br />
canvas, 60.5 x 80 cm<br />
Stadt Dachau<br />
Otto Rau (1869 – 1900s),<br />
Winterlandschaft/Wintery<br />
Landscape, oil on canvas,<br />
49.5 x 65.7 cm<br />
Dachauer Galerien und<br />
Museen<br />
Dr. Ulrich und Gertrude<br />
Lechner Stiftung<br />
1893 until 1905, they met in Dachau to<br />
discover new styles in painting and<br />
expressions. <strong>The</strong>ir breakthrough came in<br />
1898, when the three artists had a joint<br />
exhibition as “<strong>The</strong> Dachauer“ in Berlin.<br />
With the outbreak of World War I in 1914,<br />
Dachau, as many other artistic colonies,<br />
lost its importance. New, sensational fashions<br />
in painting were created in the big<br />
cities, and only a small group of painters<br />
remained in Dachau. Nevertheless,<br />
besides the traditional open-air painting<br />
which still was continued by some artists,<br />
there were also avant-garde-style painters<br />
in Dachau, like <strong>August</strong> Kallert, Adolf<br />
Schinnerer, and Paula Wimmer, all artists<br />
who were looking for development out of<br />
the regional boundaries.<br />
OUMA is located on the campus of<br />
Oglethorpe University, 4484 Peachtree<br />
Road N. E. Hours are 12:00 noon-5:00<br />
p.m., Tuesday-Sunday. Admission is $5.<br />
For additional information, visit<br />
http://museum.oglethorpe.edu, or call<br />
404-364-8555.
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Why I missed my best friend’s birthday and went to Washington, D.C., with AIPAC<br />
I<br />
missed my best friend’s 60th birthday<br />
party on the West Coast to be at AIPAC’s<br />
Policy Conference in Washington D.C. I<br />
called her when I returned home and told her<br />
why.<br />
I began with how it felt to hear African-<br />
American leaders from across our nation<br />
speak before 6,500 pro-Israel activists and<br />
name the <strong>Jewish</strong> Americans who lost their<br />
lives in the Civil Rights Movement. <strong>The</strong>se<br />
leaders, who aim to bring back the principals<br />
of Martin Luther King’s road to freedom,<br />
declared they stand with Israel.<br />
I told her about the Honorable Anthony<br />
Villaraigosa, a Hispanic high school dropout<br />
who was taken in by <strong>Jewish</strong> educators, mentored,<br />
and sent to college. He is now the<br />
mayor of Los Angeles, and he stands with<br />
Israel.<br />
I told her about the <strong>Jewish</strong>-American<br />
citizen whose company has the TV rights to<br />
the Woman’s Tennis Championship in<br />
Dubai. Upon finding out that Dubai officials<br />
banned a ranking Israel player, he knew<br />
something had to be done. Despite the<br />
prospect of substantial financial losses and<br />
negative PR, he decided that the network<br />
would not broadcast the tournament. To his<br />
astonishment, his actions inspired others,<br />
including Andy Roddick, who pulled out of<br />
the tournament, and <strong>The</strong> Wall Street Journal,<br />
which withdrew its sponsorship. In addition,<br />
the World Tennis Association fined the tournament<br />
$300,000. I cried and remembered<br />
how one person can make a difference. At<br />
that point, my husband turned to me—when<br />
the lights dimmed upon 6,500 Americans<br />
who share our core beliefs, and you could<br />
feel the full strength and force of the pride to<br />
be an American Jew in the land of the free—<br />
and he whispered in my ear, “Next year, both<br />
our boys will be here with us.” Never mind<br />
that their exams and college commitments<br />
prohibited their attendance. I knew what he<br />
O<br />
n a Sunday in the middle of May, I<br />
set out to see my business partner’s<br />
new baby, who was born a few days<br />
before. I did not know it was raining until I<br />
pulled out of my garage. Oh, well, I thought,<br />
what is a little rain? However, the more I<br />
drove, the less I could see, because it was<br />
one of those downpours that does make it<br />
hard to see. Even with the defroster going. I<br />
kept wondering if this trip was really necessary.<br />
I kept at it and was very proud when I<br />
got to the right street and the right subdivision<br />
in one piece. I parked my car, ran up to<br />
the front door, and rang the doorbell. No one<br />
answered. I then realized I was supposed to<br />
be at #110 and not #1101. You are probably<br />
feeling all wet just reading this. I was cer-<br />
BY Renee<br />
Brody Levow<br />
meant. <strong>The</strong>y’ll be here soon enough, I said to<br />
myself, as I held dear his hidden tears of<br />
emotion.<br />
I told her about the talent and strength of<br />
this organization, which has existed for over<br />
50 years, that attracts the best and the brightest<br />
Ph.D.s, present and former government<br />
officials, and experts from around the world,<br />
who brief us on a wide range of topics, from<br />
energy independence to world politics.<br />
I told her about the evening Sir Nigel<br />
Sheinwald, the British ambassador to the<br />
U.S.; Kay Hagan, the freshman Senator from<br />
North Carolina; and Kip Holden, the<br />
African-American mayor of Baton Rouge,<br />
who all stand with Israel, were at my dinner<br />
table. <strong>The</strong> British ambassador had to step<br />
away several times to chat with the British<br />
minister for the Middle East, who, because<br />
of AIPAC’s reputation, flew in on a “red eye”<br />
to be with us for dinner.<br />
<strong>The</strong>n, Vice President Joe Biden spoke.<br />
He spoke movingly to all 6,500 of us, including<br />
over 1,000 college students and almost<br />
200 student body presidents. He told a story<br />
about being a freshman senator and having<br />
the opportunity to visit Israel and meet privately<br />
with then-Prime Minister Golda Meir.<br />
“She painted a detailed and dire picture of<br />
the constant struggle for survival for a country<br />
surrounded by enemies,” said the vice<br />
president. As they walked down the hallway<br />
from her office, shoulder-to-shoulder, the<br />
prime minister turned to him and said,<br />
“Don’t look so worried. We’ll be fine.” And<br />
the young senator said, “But I have reason to<br />
BY<br />
Marice<br />
Katz<br />
tainly drenched. I slushed my way back to<br />
my car and finally arrived at the right house.<br />
<strong>The</strong> minute I walked in and was given<br />
a towel to dry off, I immediately fell in love.<br />
This little baby boy was beautiful. <strong>The</strong><br />
father had told me that, but I thought that<br />
was just daddy talk.<br />
However, this baby was, indeed, really<br />
gorgeous, and I now knew my trip had been<br />
worthwhile. I held him for about an hour. I<br />
did not move. He peacefully slept, and I was<br />
in seventh heaven.<br />
Just one more thing. Every time<br />
Mozart, the family’s little dog, came up to<br />
me and the baby and put his little paw on<br />
my knee, I fell in love with him, too. I might<br />
not get a baby, but this doggie was so very,<br />
very cute, that maybe....<br />
Maybe....<br />
Alan Levow, AIPAC’s Atlanta<br />
Campaign Chair<br />
be worried. Your enemies are real and<br />
strong.” And Meir replied, “But senator, we<br />
have a secret weapon. We have nowhere else<br />
to go!” Again, I cried.<br />
I told my friend how we went to Capitol<br />
Hill with two other couples and their son,<br />
who are close friends. Both couples became<br />
involved in AIPAC as a result of a parlor<br />
meeting at our home. I shared with her how<br />
moving it was to lobby with them. We took<br />
pictures as a group before the majestic capital<br />
buildings that bright sunny day. I cried<br />
again when I told their 22-year-old son that<br />
this is democracy at its finest, a government<br />
for the people and by people. And that this<br />
precious freedom can never be taken for<br />
granted. Just as we would fight to our last<br />
dying breath to save America, our home, we<br />
would do the same for Israel’s precious<br />
democracy and land of the free, for Jews all<br />
over the world. Later that day, our friends<br />
sent us an e-mail: “We have never felt closer<br />
to you than when we spoke our minds,<br />
together, to urge two senators and two congressmen<br />
on the Hill to take specific steps to<br />
insure the survival of Israel.” <strong>The</strong> wife is a<br />
child of Holocaust survivors.<br />
Finally, I urged my best friend to meet<br />
me next year at AIPAC’s 2010 Policy<br />
Conference in our nation’s capital—to experience<br />
with me the high that rocks my world<br />
each time I go, to fight for what I cherish. I<br />
told her what our friend Seth Cohen, who<br />
also just returned from the conference, told<br />
my husband and me when we saw him the<br />
next weekend at the movies, “If you don’t<br />
go, you don’t get it.”<br />
So, I say to all of you who have never<br />
been or who missed this year: If you don’t go,<br />
you don’t get it. Join Alan, me, and 6,500 of<br />
your closest friends at the next Policy<br />
Conference, March 21-23, 2010. To make<br />
reservations and take advantage of the earlybird<br />
special, call 770-541-7610, or visit<br />
www.aipac.org.<br />
Renee Brody Levow is a retired senior vice<br />
president and corporate client group director<br />
at Smith Barney, has been an Atlanta resident<br />
for 25 years, and is a member of<br />
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MJCCA NEWS continued<br />
from page 7<br />
AUTHOR, AUTHOR. A page from the<br />
Book Festival of the MJCCA, a series of<br />
year-round author events, recently welcomed<br />
Larry King and Gene Wilder to the<br />
Zaban Park campus.<br />
On May 31, CNN talk show legend<br />
Larry King discussed and signed his latest<br />
memoir, My Remarkable Journey.<br />
For a half-century, the world’s most<br />
influential figures have been telling King<br />
their stories. In My Remarkable Journey,<br />
King shares his story, from his humble roots<br />
in Depression-era Brooklyn to the heights<br />
of celebrity as host of “CNN’s Larry King<br />
Live.”<br />
King writes candidly about the many<br />
luminaries he has interviewed in the fifty<br />
years since his first broadcast. Among them<br />
are Presidents Richard Nixon, Gerald Ford,<br />
Jimmy Carter, Ronald Reagan, George<br />
H.W. Bush, Bill Clinton, George W. Bush,<br />
and Barack Obama; political and cultural<br />
leaders Martin Luther King Jr., Bobby<br />
Kennedy, Nelson Mandela, Hillary Clinton,<br />
John McCain, Eleanor Roosevelt, Malcolm<br />
X, and the Dalai Lama; entertainers Frank<br />
Sinatra, Oprah Winfrey, Johnny Carson,<br />
Elizabeth Taylor, Paul McCartney, Jane<br />
Fonda, Bono, and Madonna; and noted athletes<br />
such as Muhammad Ali and Pete<br />
Rose.<br />
Larry King, pictured with his wife,<br />
Shawn, signs copies of his new<br />
book, My Remarkable Journey.<br />
(Photo: Chris Savas Photography)<br />
———<br />
On June 28, actor, screenwriter,<br />
comedic genius, and author Gene Wilder<br />
discussed and signed copies of his second<br />
novel, <strong>The</strong> Woman Who Wouldn’t.<br />
Wilder’s novel has been praised as<br />
“poignant and whimsically romantic,” by<br />
Publisher’s Weekly. According to <strong>The</strong><br />
Boston Globe, “<strong>The</strong> story exudes the same<br />
sweetness that characterizes his screen persona.”<br />
Gene Wilder won the hearts of a<br />
standing-room-only audience<br />
(Photo: Chris Savas Photography)<br />
From page 1<br />
Celebrating the<br />
20<strong>09</strong> Harris Jacobs Dream Run<br />
To the Community:<br />
“Runners to your mark, get set, go!!” Those are the words my<br />
family and I love to hear....<br />
<strong>The</strong> 16th annual Harris Jacobs Dream Run was a huge success,<br />
thanks to the efforts of the fabulous HJDR committee, volunteers,<br />
the wonderful MJCCA staff, and the many participants<br />
who ran and walked this fun race.<br />
Harris would be thrilled with this exciting yearly event in his<br />
memory...I’m excited as we have another extremely hard working<br />
and helpful member of the HJDR committee...the weather man!<br />
We truly appreciate all your efforts, and we look forward to<br />
seeing you again next year on the first Sunday in June.<br />
Most sincerely,<br />
Kitty Jacobs and Family<br />
Sophie Hirsh Srochi<br />
hosts fun and thought-provoking field trips,<br />
play groups, and birthday parties throughout<br />
the year. For information about field trip<br />
packages, contact<br />
discoverymuseum@atlantajcc.org.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Sophie Hirsh Srochi <strong>Jewish</strong><br />
Discovery Museum is located at the<br />
MJCCA, 5342 Tilly Mill Road, Dunwoody.<br />
Hours are Sunday, 10:30 a.m.-4:30 p.m.,<br />
Monday-Thursday, 10:00 a.m.-5:30 p.m.,<br />
and Friday, 10:00 a.m.-1:00 p.m. Admission<br />
is free; donations are appreciated.<br />
For additional information, contact<br />
Kitty Jacobs pictured with her two<br />
daughters, Faye Kent (left) and<br />
Marsha Freudenberg (right) under a<br />
portrait of Harris Jacobs following<br />
this year’s successful Harris Jacobs<br />
Dream Run, Sunday, June 7. (Photo:<br />
Victor Rachael Photography)<br />
Sophie Knapp (Photo: Cyndi Sterne)<br />
Cyndi Sterne at 678-812-4171 or<br />
cyndi.sterne@atlantajcc.org, or visit<br />
www.atlantajcc.org.
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<strong>Jewish</strong> Denial, <strong>Jewish</strong> Recovery<br />
W<br />
hen you get together with your<br />
friends, we bet the biggest topic<br />
of conversation is the economy.<br />
Everywhere we go people are talking about<br />
friends and family whose lives have been<br />
tragically impacted by job loss. <strong>The</strong> current<br />
jobless rate (as of May) in Georgia is 9.2%.<br />
Why wouldn’t we want to talk about it? In<br />
any room, almost 1 in 10 people are out of<br />
work. We all talk about who’s out of work,<br />
and how we can help them.<br />
ALCOHOL & DRUG ABUSE IMPACTS<br />
AS MANY JEWS AS JOBLESSNESS<br />
Does the topic of alcohol or drug abuse<br />
come up in the same conversation? We bet<br />
not often. Did you know the incidence of<br />
alcoholism and substance abuse is as pervasive<br />
as unemployment? Ten percent of U.S.<br />
adults have alcohol and substance-abuse<br />
problems. <strong>The</strong> general assumption about<br />
substance abuse among Jews is, “Not in my<br />
house!” We assume our ethical values,<br />
<strong>Jewish</strong> mores and religious beliefs prevent<br />
substance abuse from impacting us. Not<br />
true!<br />
<strong>The</strong> reality is that alcohol and drug<br />
abuse knows no demographic, racial or religious<br />
bounds. Studies of drug abuse and<br />
alcoholism within the <strong>Jewish</strong> community<br />
show that substance abuse in the <strong>Jewish</strong><br />
BY Mark &<br />
Weinstein<br />
Jeff<br />
Diamond<br />
community is 12% in New York and an estimated<br />
10% in the Seattle. It’s here, too. In<br />
any room of Jews, 1 in 10 is suffering from<br />
substance abuse in Atlanta’s <strong>Jewish</strong> community.<br />
Yet, our <strong>Jewish</strong> brethren rarely<br />
speak openly about helping our friends, colleagues,<br />
and family nearly as easily or often<br />
as joblessness.<br />
A common cliché is that alcoholism is<br />
“a disease of denial.” <strong>The</strong> Atlanta <strong>Jewish</strong><br />
community is denying this problem. We’ve<br />
got our head in the sand! It’s a problem we<br />
firmly feel needs to be addressed as openly<br />
as possible. Imagine, if we come to terms<br />
with the problem, speak openly about it,<br />
and come together as a community, we<br />
could help close to 10,000 Jews suffering<br />
from alcohol and substance abuse right here<br />
in Fulton County!<br />
FAITH-BASED RECOVERY<br />
Recently, there has developed a radical<br />
new way of helping Jews work through<br />
their substance-abuse problems that has<br />
proven dramatically effective — “Faithbased<br />
recovery houses,” such as the <strong>Jewish</strong><br />
Recovery Houses (JRH) in Baltimore. A<br />
recovery house is a home for people in the<br />
early stages of recovery from addiction.<br />
Unlike halfway houses, which are “selfgoverned”<br />
by their residents, recovery<br />
houses are managed independently by a set<br />
of working rules and parameters that are<br />
developed by professional therapists and<br />
recovery counselors.<br />
House of Hope, a <strong>Jewish</strong> Recovery<br />
House in Baltimore<br />
<strong>The</strong> focus at JRH is to help people<br />
learn how to foster a normal, productive life<br />
- learning basic life skills that many of us<br />
take for granted, like holding down a job,<br />
managing household chores, lighting shabbos<br />
candles, and how to interact with the<br />
world around them.<br />
“Before I came here, I really didn’t<br />
know how to live on my own,” said Rachel,<br />
a current JRH “graduating” resident moving<br />
into her own house. “<strong>The</strong> focus on avoiding<br />
idle time, simplified my life. Now, I have a<br />
car, insurance, and a bank account. JRH<br />
taught me how to take responsibility and be<br />
accountable for managing my life.” <strong>The</strong> rigorous<br />
expectations of residents at JRH<br />
include documented attendance to<br />
Alcoholics Anonymous and Narcotics<br />
Anonymous meetings. Residents must get a<br />
job or attend school. <strong>The</strong>y have to pay rent<br />
and they have to adhere to house rules pertaining<br />
to random testing, visitation, chores<br />
and curfews.<br />
What is unique, since uniqueness can’t<br />
be measured in degrees at JRH, is that the<br />
“residents” are all <strong>Jewish</strong>. Addiction is a<br />
disease of isolation. So, any method of<br />
helping people with addiction connect with<br />
other addicts is critical to the success of<br />
recovery. JRH accepts this premise, and its<br />
residents’ similarities are based on their<br />
<strong>Jewish</strong> backgrounds, upbringing, belief systems<br />
and sensibilities. So, they are more<br />
able to offer and accept support to and from<br />
each other.<br />
Brett Goldenberg, a JRH chemical-<br />
See DENIAL, page 16
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Denial<br />
From page 15<br />
dependency counselor, says that, “Because<br />
the residents are<br />
<strong>Jewish</strong>, they build<br />
a bond quicker. If<br />
they are able to<br />
bond well, then<br />
they’re more likely<br />
to be there for<br />
each other.”<br />
Jason, a former<br />
resident who is<br />
now a successful<br />
attorney says that,<br />
Brett Goldenberg<br />
“having one positive<br />
thing in common<br />
was a power-<br />
ful thing. Because we related so well to<br />
each other, it got to the point that I felt that<br />
I had a family of 8 or 12 people to help me.”<br />
“Repairing the spirit,” or Tikkun<br />
Hanefesh is a <strong>Jewish</strong> way of stating the<br />
obvious spiritual goal of most 12-step programs.<br />
Another reason for JRH success is<br />
that 12-step programs are steeped in <strong>Jewish</strong><br />
Talmudic teachings. Accepting a higher<br />
power over your life. Taking inventories of<br />
your weaknesses and strengths, correcting<br />
character defects, making amends to those<br />
harmed are some of the powerful concepts<br />
we all acknowledge during the high-holidays.<br />
As Jews in recovery, it’s easy to<br />
understand why JRH residents relate so<br />
well to doing mitzvoth to help others.<br />
How effective is the <strong>Jewish</strong> Recovery<br />
Houses’ treatment model? Enormously<br />
effective. <strong>The</strong> most widely accepted form<br />
of treatment, AA-style support groups,<br />
which 56% of all people grappling with<br />
addiction use, has a five-year sobriety rate<br />
that ranges from 10-12%. That means that<br />
of all the people going to AA meetings, only<br />
15% remain sober after five years. <strong>The</strong><br />
<strong>Jewish</strong> Recovery House’s 5-year sobriety<br />
rate has been clinically gauged at 40-56%.<br />
Because this style of helping people is<br />
not non-denominational, it is unable to<br />
accept government or insurance support.<br />
Thus, the JRH in Baltimore depends on<br />
charitable gifts. That’s a big challenge when<br />
you consider that the Chronicles of<br />
Philanthropy says that charitable giving is<br />
down 15.9% in the last year due to our<br />
struggling economy.<br />
BRINGING JEWISH RECOVERY<br />
HOUSES TO ATLANTA<br />
In Atlanta, we are starting an effort to<br />
establish a <strong>Jewish</strong> Recovery House using<br />
Baltimore’s model. We have sought out<br />
guidance from JRH’s board of directors, as<br />
well as its professional leaders, which<br />
include Michael Rokos, a well-respected<br />
expert in faith-based recovery.<br />
Our goal is to open the Atlanta <strong>Jewish</strong><br />
Recovery House by the end of 2010.<br />
Currently, our efforts revolve around forming<br />
our advisory board, which already has<br />
six prominent businessmen to help formulate<br />
our fundraising and organizational<br />
effort, clergy to help gain broader awareness<br />
and acceptance of the problem here in<br />
Atlanta and some of our community’s<br />
respected psychiatrists specializing in drug<br />
and alcohol addiction to oversee operational<br />
and programmatic development.<br />
Operationally, the focus will be on fundraising<br />
to purchase the house, hire appropriate<br />
staff and launch the recruitment effort. Our<br />
fundraising effort is in its formative stages<br />
but we have already received a $100,000<br />
matching gift challenge.<br />
Have you or someone you know been<br />
touched by alcohol or drug abuse? Our<br />
advisory board will meet again on Sunday,<br />
<strong>August</strong> 30. We urge anyone interested to<br />
attend. Please call either Jeff Diamond at<br />
770-402-5664 or Marc Weinstein at 404-<br />
303-4982, and we will give you the details.<br />
Because of her experiences at the<br />
<strong>Jewish</strong> Recovery Houses, Rachel has reunited<br />
with her family. “I never dreamed<br />
that my relationship with my Mom and Dad<br />
could be as good as it is! More importantly,<br />
thanks to <strong>Jewish</strong> Recovery Houses, I am<br />
back to the person I was meant to be.”<br />
Imagine bringing these kinds of results<br />
for 10% of our community. With your help<br />
we can repair the world.<br />
About the Authors: Mark Weinstein,<br />
Executive Vice President of firstPRO, Inc,<br />
and Jeff Diamond, Managing Director of<br />
Bear Stearns, a division of J.P. Morgan,<br />
both serve on the Atlanta <strong>Jewish</strong> Recovery<br />
Houses’ Advisory Board and are both<br />
visionaries in bringing the faith-based<br />
sober living model to Atlanta. Both Mark<br />
and Jeff also serve on the board of directors<br />
of the <strong>Jewish</strong> Recovery Houses of<br />
Baltimore.<br />
Sensations <strong>The</strong>raFun opens doors to<br />
the Amit Program for summer fun<br />
N<br />
ewly opened Sensations<br />
<strong>The</strong>raFun, a multi-sensory activi-<br />
ty center, recently held a special<br />
day of summer fun for kids and families<br />
who utilize services through <strong>The</strong> Amit<br />
Program. As kids took advantage of all the<br />
many activities throughout the warehouse-sized<br />
facility, parents joined in<br />
feeding their inner child by ziplining into<br />
the ball pit, while kids scaled the rock<br />
climbing wall, jumped on the two trampolines,<br />
climbed in the parachute swing,<br />
maneuvered through the obstacle courses,<br />
enjoyed the multicolored lights in the sensory<br />
room, did arts and crafts, and even<br />
played board games for a few minutes of<br />
cooling off.<br />
Sensations <strong>The</strong>raFun offers a wide<br />
range of services to families to satisfy the<br />
sensory needs of their children. It gives<br />
parents, kids, and therapists an additional<br />
place for therapy, outside of the therapist’s<br />
office, that is fun for kids and their families.<br />
Sensations <strong>The</strong>raFun is a great place<br />
for kids, ranging from those currently in<br />
therapy to typical kids in search of a great<br />
place to play. Open to all ages and physical<br />
abilities, Sensations also offers private<br />
rooms for therapists to meet with patients,<br />
after-school and summer groups, meeting<br />
space for the community, a large kitchen<br />
for cooking camps, and a floortime room.<br />
<strong>The</strong> retail store offers products any family<br />
can benefit from, including books, therapeutic<br />
tools, and more.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Amit Program is the central<br />
resource in the <strong>Jewish</strong> community for special<br />
education, ensuring that each child is<br />
able to reach his or her individual potential,<br />
while learning in a <strong>Jewish</strong> environment.<br />
With the help of Amit, children with<br />
learning and developmental disabilities<br />
have the opportunity to learn alongside<br />
their peers, while receiving the individu-<br />
Rachel Jay, daughter of Jan and<br />
Gregory Jay, enjoys squeezing<br />
through the rollers at the Amit<br />
Sensations <strong>The</strong>raFun Play Day.<br />
alized attention they need to succeed academically.<br />
“Amit wants to offer programming to<br />
their students and families throughout the<br />
summer, and what better way than to<br />
come experience all that this new facility<br />
has to offer,” says Karen Paz, director of<br />
programming and development for Amit.<br />
“One of our many goals is to offer<br />
children with special needs the ability to<br />
have some of the same experiences that<br />
their mainstream friends have, but in a<br />
completely supportive environment.<br />
Some of my greatest joys stem from<br />
watching kids with CP or other physical<br />
challenges enjoying the ziplines in our<br />
special apparatuses that will allow them to<br />
participate in ways they had only dreamed<br />
of previously,” says Jay Perkins, owner of<br />
Sensations.<br />
<strong>The</strong> play day was a win-win-win for<br />
Sensations, Amit, and all those who participated.<br />
For more information on <strong>The</strong><br />
Amit Program and Sensations <strong>The</strong>raFun,<br />
visit www.amitatlanta.org and www.sensationstherafun.com.
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Milestones amid the keepsakes<br />
ome days, I get the “urge to purge,”<br />
but so much good stuff has been Ssquirreled<br />
away over the years that I<br />
find more goodies to keep rather than toss.<br />
Here’s a clipping, yellowed with age—<br />
a birth announcement from the North China<br />
Daily News: “On <strong>July</strong> 12, 1925, at St.<br />
Marie’s Hospital, Shanghai, to Mr. and Mrs.<br />
J. Friend, a daughter.” By golly, that’s me!<br />
<strong>The</strong> hospital was run by the French<br />
Catholic nuns and located in the French<br />
Concession, or Frenchtown as we called it,<br />
miles away from where we lived. I regret<br />
now that I never asked my parents why I<br />
wasn’t delivered at our general hospital,<br />
also run by Catholic nuns, but located closer<br />
to our house in Hongkew.<br />
Years later, in the 1930s and ‘40s,<br />
Hongkew became the famous ghetto for the<br />
thousands of European refugees who fled to<br />
China and were lucky to have missed the<br />
Holocaust by a whisker, so to speak.<br />
Another milestone: My kindergarten<br />
report shows, among other remarks,<br />
“Balfoura is rather shy about taking part in<br />
dramatization...is a well-behaved girl, both<br />
in the classroom and on the<br />
playground...excellent work in reading and<br />
phonetics.”<br />
<strong>The</strong>n prizes and commendations in<br />
years to follow, a prefect in my senior year,<br />
but no honors in gym or sports—I was a<br />
puny, sickly geek!<br />
In my old scrapbook, I have the ticket<br />
stub for my 1947 trip on the General B.<br />
Gordon ocean liner, bringing me to the<br />
United States. Attached to the ticket is the<br />
Shanghai Quarantine Service certificate<br />
showing I received the necessary vaccinations<br />
to board the ship.<br />
Framed on my wall is a most precious,<br />
15” x 18” (real sheepskin, y’all), 1950<br />
University of Georgia diploma. Artium in<br />
Journalismo Baccaclaurei, dated X June<br />
Annoque Domini MCML. A proud milestone....<br />
And there are more: the 1953 invitation<br />
to my wedding to Hans R. Mayer, in<br />
Savannah—I became an American citizen<br />
later that year, a major milestone; our first<br />
child, Sandra Mayer, born in 1954 in<br />
Eastman, the first grandchild for my parents,<br />
Frieda and Jacob Friend, and a huge<br />
milestone for all of us.<br />
Most checks I’ve shredded, but one<br />
that I’ve saved, for $50, is dated March 26,<br />
1956. It is made out to Bernard Jacobson,<br />
the mohel who drove in from Savannah to<br />
perform the bris for our son, Ronnie Mayer,<br />
at our new home in Hawkinsville. My husband,<br />
Hans, taught me how to make<br />
German potato salad, to serve with the<br />
luncheon for our family and guests that day.<br />
Our family doctor, who delivered Ronnie,<br />
was invited to the bris, and he later told me<br />
that he was quite impressed, witnessing this<br />
ritual for the first time.<br />
I also found a 1962 bulletin from the<br />
Fitzgerald Hebrew Congregation, where<br />
our small-town Middle Georgia <strong>Jewish</strong><br />
families worshipped and socialized. Noted<br />
BY Balfoura Friend<br />
Levine<br />
in the bulletin: “ A Mazel Tov to Mr. & Mrs.<br />
Hans Mayer of Hawkinsville, on the birth<br />
of daughter Laurie Kay.” My youngest,<br />
Laurie Mayer Coffey, is now 47 and mother<br />
of 11-year-old Tom.<br />
In front of me is a yellowed copy of<br />
<strong>The</strong> Jerusalem Post, September 18, 1978.<br />
<strong>The</strong> banner headline screams out, “Pact for<br />
Peace at Camp David.” My daughter Sandy<br />
and I are on board El Al, winging our way<br />
to our odyssey in Israel. Besides meeting<br />
my paternal cousins for the first time, I<br />
recall holding my breath at my first sight of<br />
the Western Wall (which I always think of<br />
as the Wailing Wall) and then touching the<br />
actual stones, where thousands of years ago<br />
one of our ancestors may have stood as<br />
well. If this trip wasn’t a mind-shattering<br />
milestone, I don’t know what else it could<br />
be.<br />
Another biggie, in November 1992,<br />
was my trip to Russia with the Friendship<br />
Force and the first time meeting my mother’s<br />
family. Hugs, kisses, and tears of joy in<br />
celebrating that milestone.<br />
And then there was the summer of<br />
1996, when Atlanta hosted the Summer<br />
Olympics. I am stroking the beautiful silk<br />
scarf, part of my dress uniform as envoy to<br />
the Republic of Moldova (formerly the<br />
Moldavian SSR) team in the Paralympic<br />
Games, which followed the Olympic<br />
Games. I gulped down tears as I marched<br />
with the Moldovan standard bearer and the<br />
nine-member team in both the opening and<br />
closing ceremonies—another milestone.<br />
During the decades of my adult life,<br />
there have also been sad milestones. I have<br />
obituaries of my parents, my husbands, and<br />
some dear friends, as time winged its way<br />
through the years.<br />
<strong>The</strong>n many more joyous milestones:<br />
the childrens’ marriages; my presence in<br />
1984 at the birth of my first grandchild,<br />
Erica (who is now in law school; how time<br />
flies), followed in four years by the<br />
awesome and unforgettable<br />
experience of actually<br />
watching the birthing<br />
of her younger brother,<br />
Scott. He is now in<br />
his second year at<br />
UGA. Wow!<br />
I’m not<br />
claiming originality<br />
in reciting<br />
personal<br />
milestones. I<br />
am, however,<br />
genuinely<br />
amazed to<br />
find all these old cards, photos, and documents<br />
of those interesting and life-altering<br />
times and events in my life.<br />
One thing I’ve noticed: Throughout the<br />
1950s and ‘60s, I was referred to as Mrs.<br />
Hans Mayer (I signed the check to the<br />
mohel that way, too), as though I were only<br />
a half-part of my husband. I guess most<br />
married women were so addressed then. We<br />
are now taught to have our own credit cards<br />
and bank accounts. I’m not a rabid feminist,<br />
but I think it’s about time we have our own<br />
personal identities. And that, too, is a huge<br />
milestone.<br />
Each birthday is a milestone of sorts,<br />
and I have passed 84 such markers in my<br />
lifetime. Which interesting celebrations are<br />
yet to come? I’m ready—bring them on!
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inger Emas is the author of the new<br />
book Back On Top: Fearless Dating<br />
After Divorce, and I am so glad I dis-<br />
covered her. She has such a wonderful<br />
writer’s voice—Ginger is funny and warm,<br />
irreverent and wise. Reading Back On Top<br />
makes the reader feel as if she’s having a con-<br />
A<br />
sustainable way to address homelessness<br />
has resulted in a $10,000 grant for<br />
its creator, David Baron of Atlanta, a<br />
sophomore at the University of North Carolina<br />
at Chapel Hill.<br />
David’s Homeless Outreach Poverty<br />
Eradication (HOPE) Garden was one of more<br />
than 100 student-initiated projects to receive a<br />
Davis Projects for Peace grant from philanthropist<br />
Kathryn W. Davis.<br />
HOPE Garden is a partnership of Carolina<br />
students and the Town of Chapel Hill, working<br />
in collaboration with the North Carolina State<br />
University Department of Horticultural<br />
Science. In this project, homeless people will<br />
versation with a good girlfriend, which is an<br />
amazing experience. <strong>The</strong> mixture of practical<br />
advice, laugh-out-loud humor, and unique<br />
insight is very compelling. Even the disclaimer<br />
at the front of the book cracked me<br />
up!<br />
Ginger breaks down online dating into<br />
doable steps—none of it is overwhelming, but<br />
all of it is stuff a woman needs to know for<br />
savvy dating. I am making all of my friends<br />
who are currently single—divorced or not—<br />
add it to their must-read list.<br />
As helpful and insightful as the tips are—<br />
it’s clear that she’s been doing this for<br />
awhile—it’s Ginger’s humor and honesty that<br />
make the book a truly great, fun read.<br />
train and work alongside volunteers and mentors<br />
in a community garden, with land donated<br />
by the town. <strong>The</strong> workers will gain valuable job<br />
skills and income, while the organic produce<br />
they grow will be sold on the UNC campus and<br />
given to disadvantaged families, who could not<br />
otherwise afford to buy this fresh, high-quality,<br />
and nutritious food.<br />
“HOPE Garden will promote employment<br />
security, food security, and the overall security<br />
that comes from strong community ties,” Baron<br />
said. “It will promote peace by bridging the<br />
gaps that exist in the Chapel Hill community,<br />
while providing program participants and the<br />
community at large with a greater sense of com-<br />
Some of it was validating. I loved hearing<br />
Ginger confirm that it was a good idea for me<br />
to take a few years off to really get to know<br />
myself and date differently, and it has certainly<br />
paid off in my current relationship with a<br />
wonderful man.<br />
Some of it was eye-opening. <strong>The</strong> dating<br />
stories themselves are hilarious—I love the<br />
one about Chad, the fitness guy who Ginger<br />
turned to “the dark side” with her chocolate<br />
espresso martini. This is a very timely, scintillating<br />
read—so appealing, it is sure to<br />
become a social phenomenon.<br />
For more information on Ginger, her<br />
workshops and the book, visit backontopthebook.com.<br />
David Baron receives a Projects for Peace grant for HOPE Garden<br />
David Baron<br />
BUSINESS BITS<br />
By Marsha Liebowitz<br />
FAMILY MATTERS. Marvin L.<br />
Solomiany, managing partner at KSS<br />
Family Law, has been selected chair of<br />
the Family Law Section of the Atlanta<br />
Bar Association. Solomiany joined KSS<br />
Family Law in<br />
1995 and became a<br />
partner in 2003.<br />
His numerous honors<br />
include Georgia<br />
Trend Legal Elite<br />
(2008) and Georgia<br />
Super Lawyers,<br />
Rising Stars (2005,<br />
2006, 2007, 2008).<br />
Marvin L.<br />
Solomiany<br />
Solomiany graduated<br />
with a B.A. with<br />
distinction from the<br />
University of Michigan, Ann Arbor, and<br />
received his J.D. degree from Emory<br />
University School of Law. He is married<br />
to Kerry Solomiany and has two children.<br />
BRINGING GOLDBERG’S TO YOU.<br />
Goldberg’s Group of companies, with<br />
five locations in Atlanta, has launched a<br />
catering division, headed by Linda<br />
Baron. A Georgia native, Baron studied<br />
with James Beard, managed a Buckhead<br />
catering company for 17 years, led workshops<br />
for <strong>The</strong> Scarlett Tassel, and taught<br />
cooking classes at <strong>The</strong> Delectable Fig.<br />
GRILL THRILLS. FuegoMundo (“world<br />
of fire”), a South American wood-fire<br />
grill restaurant, recently opened at the<br />
newly redeveloped <strong>The</strong> Prado in Sandy<br />
Springs. <strong>The</strong> restaurant offers flavorful,<br />
affordable, and healthy South American<br />
cuisine that is geared to meat lovers and<br />
vegetarians alike. FuegoMundo is owned<br />
by Udi and Masha Hershkovitz. Udi,<br />
born in Israel to Romanian and Polish<br />
parents, came to America as a teenager.<br />
Masha was born in Barranquilla,<br />
Colombia, and came to Atlanta in 1972 at<br />
Udi and Masha Hershkovitz<br />
the age of 9. <strong>The</strong>y have three children,<br />
Arie, Tali, and Ariele. For hours and<br />
menus, visit www.fuegomundo.com.<br />
SMILE FOR THE CAMERA. Ilan<br />
Regenbaum recently returned from<br />
Washington, D.C., where he was recognized<br />
as one of six finalists, out of 6,000<br />
entrants, in the Young Entrepreneur<br />
Foundation’s entrepreneurial scholarship<br />
competition. At 13, Ilan began taking<br />
pictures at events around Atlanta for Ilan<br />
Event Photographer, his own company.<br />
At 14, he founded Flash Foto Events<br />
(www.flashfotoevents.com). This studio<br />
specializes in digital green screen photography;<br />
at events, Ilan takes pictures of<br />
Ilan Regenbaum<br />
munal security.”<br />
Davis Projects for Peace invited all students<br />
from partner schools in the Davis United<br />
World College (UWC) Scholars Program, plus<br />
students at International Houses worldwide and<br />
Future Generations, to submit plans for grassroots<br />
projects for peace, to be implemented during<br />
the summer of 20<strong>09</strong>. University students<br />
from nearly 100 campuses collectively received<br />
over $1 million in funding during the summer<br />
of 20<strong>09</strong> for projects in all regions of the world.<br />
David is the son of Roy and Karen Baron,<br />
and a grandson of Alvin Brown and the late<br />
Doris Brown and Henry and Elizabeth Strauss.<br />
guests against a green screen, superimposes<br />
the images on one of many digital<br />
backgrounds, and then prints pictures onsite<br />
for guests.<br />
PLANNING AND EVALUATION. Rick<br />
Aranson, of <strong>Jewish</strong> Family & Career<br />
Services, has published a paper in <strong>The</strong><br />
American Review of Public<br />
Administration. <strong>The</strong> paper he coauthored,<br />
“Mission-Market Tensions and<br />
Nonprofit Pricing,” was published in<br />
early May. <strong>The</strong> paper is based on JF&CS’<br />
comprehensive program planning and<br />
evaluation methodologies.<br />
AICC LEADERSHIP. <strong>The</strong> American-<br />
Israel Chamber of Commerce, Southeast<br />
Region, has elected its officers and board<br />
members for 20<strong>09</strong>-2010. Officers are<br />
Charlie Harrison, chairman; Lorin Coles,<br />
chairman-elect; Joel Neuman, vice chairman;<br />
Benjamin Fink, vice chairman;<br />
Jonathan Minnen, secretary; and Steve<br />
Horn, treasurer. Tom Glaser continues as<br />
president and chief professional officer.<br />
New to the Executive Committee are<br />
Randall Foster, Saar Bracha, Arie<br />
Goldshlager, and Maggie Bellville. New<br />
board members are Ben Taube, Robin<br />
Spratlin, Heith Rodman, Warren<br />
Binderman, Robert Kadoori, Ken<br />
Anderson, Ted Schwartz, Philip Cooper,<br />
Ralph Jordan, Kobi Margolin, Gilly<br />
Segal, Gadi Shapira, Diane Weiner,<br />
Robyn Fritz, and Rebecca Chang.
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THE<br />
<strong>Georgian</strong><br />
Twittering goes kosher for Roberta Scher and Lois Held<br />
By Suzi Brozman<br />
W<br />
here do you get your kosher<br />
news? From the newspaper?<br />
From the Atlanta Kashruth<br />
Commission’s newsletter or website? From<br />
cookbooks? From friends? From walking<br />
up and down the kosher aisles at the grocery<br />
store? Today, there’s a new option,<br />
called KosherEye—tweet about it at<br />
Twitter.com, or follow it on Facebook,<br />
courtesy of Roberta Scher and Lois Held.<br />
Not too many years ago, we all marveled<br />
at something called the Internet; we<br />
were fascinated by our cellphones. Before<br />
that, we thought Dick Tracy’s two-way<br />
wrist radio was pure fantasy, never to be<br />
made real. How wrong we were!<br />
<strong>The</strong>n came e-mail and instant messaging,<br />
and we found communication to be<br />
both instantaneous and addictive. Or am I<br />
the only one who’ll admit I stay in touch via<br />
e-mail far more than I ever did when I had<br />
to buy stamps and go to the Post Office to<br />
mail a letter?<br />
<strong>The</strong>n came Facebook, and suddenly<br />
people we didn’t even know were aware of<br />
our existence are popping up, asking us to<br />
be their friends. Craigslist and e-Bay and<br />
internet shopping let us browse without<br />
ever setting foot in the mall.<br />
And now there’s the new sensation—<br />
Twitter.com, a site that lets you “tweet”<br />
about anything at all, as long as you can<br />
keep your message<br />
under 140 characters.<br />
Track a person or a<br />
product, talk about politics<br />
or whatever interests<br />
you. And it’s all<br />
free.<br />
But how to make it<br />
matter, and<br />
not just<br />
substitute<br />
for gossip<br />
or e-mail?<br />
That was<br />
the question<br />
facing<br />
Roberta<br />
Scher and<br />
Lois Held when they decided to put their<br />
many years of volunteer experience to use.<br />
<strong>The</strong> two women had been friends for<br />
some 39 years, since they met as volunteers<br />
in a Hadassah chapter. Like many women,<br />
they’d joined to meet people and do good at<br />
the same time. Scher remembers,<br />
“Hadassah was an outlet for us. Women’s<br />
roles have changed. You can judge a person<br />
by working with her on a volunteer basis.”<br />
Held agrees. “We formed so many<br />
friendships in Hadassah,” she says. “<strong>The</strong>n I<br />
Atlanta Group Home<br />
celebrates its 25th anniversary<br />
Lois Held and Roberta Scher<br />
went back to school and Roberta went into<br />
business. Recently, we’ve worked on Beth<br />
Jacob things together,<br />
including many things<br />
related to food—the<br />
Kosher Festival, dinners<br />
of honor, and so forth.<br />
We love to eat, cook,<br />
and read cookbooks.<br />
And Roberta has had her<br />
kosher<br />
food column<br />
in<br />
T h e<br />
<strong>Jewish</strong><br />
<strong>Georgian</strong><br />
for six<br />
years.”<br />
After<br />
Scher<br />
sold Paper Parlour, her store for over 25<br />
years, and Lois retired from her career as an<br />
information technology specialist, they<br />
began to search for a new project and soon<br />
settled on one that had been germinating in<br />
Scher’s mind for some months. “We believe<br />
there is an audience that wants to know<br />
about the newest and the best in kosher<br />
products, gadgets, wine, beverages, and<br />
edibles,” says Scher. “We decided we wanted<br />
to highlight products for chefs, restaurants,<br />
foodies, and cooks, both <strong>Jewish</strong> and<br />
By Evie Wolfe<br />
In 1984, <strong>The</strong> Atlanta Group<br />
Home opened its doors to young<br />
adults with mental disabilities.<br />
At the time, there was no<br />
other facility in Fulton<br />
County like it. Twenty-five<br />
years later, three of its original<br />
residents have lived happily<br />
in this remarkable home.<br />
It all began years earlier,<br />
when Harry and Frances<br />
Kuniansky were given the news that<br />
their newborn daughter, Jill, had<br />
Down syndrome. Six doctors<br />
strongly recommended placing<br />
her in an institution. Harry and Frances followed<br />
the advice of a seventh and took Jill<br />
home, where she lived until she was 24.<br />
In her heart, Frances knew that life at<br />
home would be difficult for a child with a<br />
mental disability, even though her three siblings<br />
adored her.<br />
Born in 1959, Jill had a typical child-<br />
non-<strong>Jewish</strong>, who are looking for kosher<br />
items.”<br />
Held added to her friend’s statement,<br />
“<strong>The</strong>re is a preconceived notion of what<br />
kosher is—Manischewitz—but that’s not<br />
the case anymore. <strong>The</strong>re are a lot of mainstream<br />
and gourmet products. It’s not like<br />
what our grandmothers used.” In the old<br />
days, the women point out, you had very<br />
few options available, like a single brand of<br />
kosher parve margarine. Now there are<br />
many, and people need to be made aware of<br />
the choices and their advantages and disadvantages.<br />
Scher shared her philosophy, “We’re<br />
looking for healthy, delicious products for<br />
anyone wishing to cook kosher—it’s a<br />
whole new world out there—milks, preserves,<br />
much more, and they’re not in the<br />
kosher department.” Held calls their service<br />
an informational network: they walk up and<br />
down every aisle in the supermarket, virtually<br />
survey products, and contact manufacturers<br />
and distributors, looking for new<br />
items. <strong>The</strong>ir adviser is Rabbi Reuven Stein,<br />
of the Atlanta Kashruth Commission.<br />
<strong>The</strong> women decided to test their concept<br />
on Twitter.com. It’s free, it’s easy, and<br />
it’s open to anyone. It’s a fast and convenient<br />
way to communicate and get your mes-<br />
hood until it became time for school. No<br />
schools would take children<br />
known to have Down syndrome,<br />
and there were no<br />
training centers available.<br />
Frances placed a<br />
personals ad in the<br />
newspaper, in which<br />
she encouraged<br />
protests, and she was<br />
able to convince Fulton<br />
County to come up with<br />
funds for a day-training cen-<br />
ter for children who needed<br />
help. Eventually, it<br />
became possible to send<br />
Jill and others like her to<br />
Fulton County schools.<br />
At 21, Jill graduated from Northside<br />
High School. She announced to her parents<br />
that she wanted to move out and live on her<br />
own. Frances was against it, but knew<br />
change was necessary.<br />
Jill and Frances<br />
Kuniansky<br />
See TWITTER, page 25<br />
See GROUP HOME, page 25
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Kosher Affairs<br />
I<br />
t’s summer, and Atlanta’s kosher selection<br />
is hot!<br />
Kosher Gourmet continues its focus on<br />
catering and takeout. <strong>The</strong> store is now<br />
stocking Israel’s Pereg Gourmet spices and<br />
products, including the hard-to-find za’atar<br />
spice. (Rub olive oil and za’atar on chicken;<br />
roast or grill, and pretend you are in<br />
Yerushalayim.)<br />
Although still under construction, the<br />
Toco Hill Kroger has remodeled and<br />
enlarged its kosher department. In addition<br />
to a full parve bakery, there is an expanded<br />
selection of catered foods and salads, fish,<br />
and meat. Many of the items are made inhouse.<br />
And, while you’re there, pick up<br />
some Chai Peking Chinese takeout.<br />
Return to Eden has a delicious new<br />
product. I am already addicted. It is Wax<br />
Orchards’ classic fudge sauce, sweetened<br />
with fruit juice. <strong>The</strong> product is parve and<br />
especially great for topping dairy-free ice<br />
cream. I plan to try the other Wax Orchards<br />
fudge flavors as well. Sign up for Return to<br />
Eden’s kosher products e-letter at<br />
return@eden.com, or visit the store at 2335<br />
Cheshire Bridge Road.<br />
Kudos to Trader Joe’s for offering so<br />
many kosher and Israeli products, especially<br />
in the wake of a targeted propaganda<br />
campaign by those unfriendly to Israel.<br />
BY Roberta<br />
Scher<br />
Trader Joe’s is known to offer superb products<br />
at value prices, and happily, many of<br />
these are kosher and some from Israel! If<br />
you enjoy shopping there, and like their<br />
selection, do let them know.<br />
Goodfriend’s Grill is now open at the<br />
MJCCA. Off Broadway meat restaurant has<br />
closed. Broadway dairy restaurant has<br />
expanded and moved across the street.<br />
Whew—lots happening in Hotlanta.<br />
BOOKS FOR COOKS<br />
Whipped cream, custard, chocolate<br />
mousse, meringue—everything rich, gooey<br />
and delicious can be found in the 60 recipes<br />
of this sweet new cookbook, Mrs. Rowe’s<br />
Little Book of Southern Pies by Mollie Cox<br />
Bryan (Ten Speed Press). <strong>The</strong> legendary<br />
Mrs. Rowe was known as the Pie Lady of<br />
Virginia’s Shenandoah Valley. She died in<br />
2003 at the age of 89, but the recipes for her<br />
handmade pies continue as a cherished family<br />
tradition. <strong>The</strong> cookbook presents simple<br />
instructions<br />
and tips for<br />
making<br />
delectable<br />
pie fillings<br />
a n d<br />
piecrusts.<br />
But keep in<br />
mind, if you<br />
have no time<br />
to make a<br />
crust, just<br />
buy one!<br />
We met<br />
on Twitter (yes, I said Twitter), and now I<br />
am truly a fan of her cookbook. Pam Reiss’<br />
Soup—A Kosher Collection is a comprehensive,<br />
simple-to-follow cookbook on making<br />
just about any type of soup you can imagine.<br />
This Toronto-based author provides<br />
150 varied recipes, even one for chocolate<br />
soup! I guarantee that you will find a soup<br />
appropriate for just about any season, meal,<br />
or occasion. By the way, soup can be a very<br />
budget-friendly, healthful meal all year<br />
long. Think about cold soups in summer<br />
(gazpacho, fruit soup, borscht) and more<br />
hearty soups in colder weather. But who can<br />
think about cold weather right now? Soup<br />
can be ordered at Amazon.com. Pam is currently<br />
working on a Passover cookbook.<br />
So, how is my organic garden growing?<br />
Please check out the photos. <strong>The</strong> salad<br />
table is flourishing; although I have had to<br />
share some of the bok choy and arugula<br />
with a few resident insects, we certainly are<br />
enjoying salads straight from the raised<br />
Our flourishing salad table<br />
Topsy Turvey<br />
tomato planter<br />
salad table.<br />
As for the<br />
raised garden<br />
bed created<br />
with Farmer<br />
D soil—the<br />
buzz has<br />
started, and I<br />
have had visits<br />
from local<br />
“tourists”<br />
who are<br />
amazed at<br />
how tall the<br />
veggies have<br />
grown and<br />
how prolific they are. <strong>The</strong> tomato plants are<br />
taller than I am; squash leaves are tropical<br />
in size, and the remainder of the veggies—<br />
peppers, cukes, and eggplant—seem very<br />
happy.<br />
See KOSHER AFFAIRS, page 34
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Kosher Korner AKC<br />
Approved<br />
WHAT’S NEW IN KOSHER<br />
ATLANTA?<br />
THE JUNE 20<strong>09</strong> “KOSHER<br />
WITHOUT A SYMBOL” LIST<br />
Whenever possible, it is always best<br />
to purchase items with reliable kosher<br />
supervision. However, there are many<br />
items that are kosher even if they lack a<br />
symbol, although some may require<br />
additional checking for insect infestation.<br />
<strong>The</strong> following items are currently<br />
and generally assumed kosher (when<br />
there are no other additives) and can be<br />
purchased even if they don’t bear a<br />
kosher symbol. This list is subject to<br />
change.<br />
FOOD ITEMS<br />
Applesauce—unflavored<br />
Baking powder<br />
Baking soda<br />
Barley<br />
Beans—dry<br />
Beer—domestic, unflavored<br />
Buckwheat (kasha)<br />
Caramel color<br />
Cocoa—plain<br />
Coconut<br />
Coffee—plain or decaf, unflavored<br />
Cornstarch, corn grits, corn syrup, and<br />
cornmeal<br />
Couscous—unseasoned and uncooked<br />
Dextrose<br />
Edamame<br />
Eggs—raw, whole, and unprocessed.<br />
However, they should be checked for<br />
blood spots.<br />
Farina—raw<br />
Flaxseed<br />
Flour—without enzymes<br />
Food additives—citric acid, EDTA, high<br />
fructose corn syrup, potassium sorbate,<br />
riboflavin, sorbitol, sodium benzoate,<br />
sodium bisulfate, sodium citrate, sulfur<br />
dioxide<br />
Food colors—F.D. & C. colors with<br />
propylene glycol<br />
Fruit, canned—without added flavors,<br />
colors, or grape juice. (Note: Fruit cocktail<br />
needs reliable kosher supervision,<br />
because some brands contain carmine, a<br />
non-kosher natural color derived from<br />
the cochineal insect.)<br />
Fruit, dried—the following are acceptable<br />
with no certification when there are<br />
no additional oils or flavors listed:<br />
sliced, diced, or whole apricots, dates,<br />
figs, peaches, nectarines, pears, prunes,<br />
BY Rabbi Reuven<br />
Stein<br />
and domestic raisins.<br />
Fruit, frozen—without added flavors or<br />
coloring. (Some berries require special<br />
checking for infestation.)<br />
Honey<br />
Juices, fresh or frozen—100% orange,<br />
apple, grapefruit, pineapple, and lemon.<br />
(Tomato and grape juices need supervision.)<br />
Maple syrup—mass-produced. Private<br />
farms need to be checked individually<br />
for use of animal fat in production.<br />
Milk—In the U.S. and Canada,<br />
Vitamilk, buttermilk, and chocolate milk<br />
need supervision.<br />
Molasses<br />
Nuts, raw—with no oil or additives<br />
(some contain gelatin), unflavored,<br />
including blanched almonds, Brazil<br />
nuts, hazelnuts, macadamia nuts,<br />
pecans, and walnuts. Dry roasted nuts<br />
require certification.<br />
Oats—unflavored<br />
Oat bran<br />
Olive oil—100% extra virgin<br />
Polenta—non-processed, unseasoned<br />
Popcorn kernels<br />
Quinoa<br />
Rice—white or brown, including con-<br />
verted or parboiled, no seasonings<br />
added. Arborio, basmati, sushi rice, and<br />
other varieties are acceptable without<br />
added flavorings.<br />
Seltzer—plain, non-flavored<br />
Soy grits<br />
Spices—<strong>The</strong> following dried spices<br />
(ground, chopped, powdered, or whole)<br />
are acceptable: allspice, anise, basil, bay<br />
leaf, black pepper, caraway, cardamom,<br />
chervil, chives, cilantro, cinnamon,<br />
cloves, coriander, cumin, dill, fennel,<br />
fenugreek, lemongrass, mace, marjoram,<br />
nutmeg, oregano, parsley, peppercorns<br />
(any color), rosemary, saffron, sage, salt,<br />
savory, sesame seed (raw only), tarragon,<br />
thyme, turmeric, and white pepper.<br />
Spice blends require certification.<br />
Ginger, fresh or dried, is acceptable.<br />
(Other fresh spices may have insect<br />
infestation.)<br />
Sugar—brown, cane, and powdered confectioner’s<br />
Tea—plain, orange pekoe, unflavored<br />
(regular and decaf)<br />
Tofu—without additives<br />
Vegetables, frozen—All are acceptable,<br />
excluding artichoke, asparagus, and<br />
Brussels sprouts, which require special<br />
checking for infestation. (Supervision is<br />
preferred for broccoli and spinach.)<br />
Vegetables, pre-washed and/or precut<br />
packaged—Broccoli slaw, carrots, celery,<br />
coleslaw, onions, and potatoes are<br />
acceptable, but may require checking.<br />
Water—unflavored<br />
NON-FOOD ITEMS<br />
Aluminum foil and foil pans<br />
Baking or parchment paper—Siliconetype<br />
is acceptable. Quilon-based paper,<br />
which may contain animal fat, requires<br />
certification.<br />
Cupcake liners<br />
Dental floss<br />
Lipstick, lip balm—Some authorities<br />
prefer those without glycerin.<br />
Oven cleaner<br />
Plastic bags and wraps<br />
Toothpaste, mouthwash—Some kosher<br />
authorities prefer those without glycerin.<br />
(Breath spray and breath sticks require<br />
certification.)<br />
Silver polish<br />
Steel wool pads—plain. (Those with<br />
soap requires certification.)<br />
Rabbi Reuven Stein is director of supervision<br />
for the Atlanta Kashruth<br />
Commission, a non-profit organization<br />
dedicated to promoting kashruth<br />
through education, research, and supervision.
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COMMUNITY OUTREACH PROJECTS HELP FEED THE HUNGRY. This spring,<br />
Rabbi Joshua Lesser, of Congregation Bet Haverim, introduced an inspired Seder program<br />
that he called “Pay it Forward.” Attendees were encouraged to bring grocery store gift cards,<br />
which were then donated to the Atlanta Community Food Bank and <strong>Jewish</strong> Family & Career<br />
Services. More than 125 congregants, including 40 children, participated in this special<br />
Seder. Rabbi Lesser presented gift cards worth $2,080 to JF&CS CEO Gary Miller and<br />
Outreach Director Linda Briks. He hopes to do this program again next year.<br />
Congregation Etz Chaim completed a Social Action Committee project in which they<br />
sold <strong>The</strong> Holocaust Survivor Cookbook. <strong>The</strong> book contains more than 120 stories of<br />
Holocaust survivors and more than 200 recipes. A portion of the cookbooks’ profits will go<br />
to the Carmel Ha-ir Soup Kitchen in Jerusalem; additional proceeds will go to the Atlanta<br />
Community Food Bank and the JF&CS Kosher Food Pantry.<br />
Congregation Bet Haverim and Congregation Etz Chaim are two of the 11 synagogues<br />
that the JF&CS Community Outreach Team works with to bring services and programming<br />
to people in their neighborhoods and synagogue communities.<br />
RECOGNIZING A LEADER. JF&CS Board Member Lynn Redd received the Leadership<br />
Award from the Association of <strong>Jewish</strong> Family & Children’s Agencies at the 37th Annual<br />
AJFCA Conference, May 3-5, in Chicago. Lynn became eligible for this honor after she<br />
received the 20<strong>09</strong> Herbert Kohn Meritorious Service Award from JF&CS.<br />
Lynn Redd has been an active JF&CS volunteer for approximately 13 years, serving on<br />
the Board of Directors for 10 of those years. Most recently, she successfully chaired the<br />
agency’s first $1 million Annual Campaign. Previously, she chaired the Marketing<br />
Committee and the Volunteer Committee. She developed business plans that resulted in the<br />
establishment of the organization’s Synagogue Outreach Program and Legacy Home Care.<br />
She recently assumed the position of vice president of Resource Development.<br />
Redd has professional experience in the healthcare industry, including management<br />
consulting, venture capital, strategic planning, and information technology. She also worked<br />
for the federal government developing national health care policy. She has a bachelor’s<br />
degree in biology from Brown University and an MBA from the Wharton School of the<br />
University of Pennsylvania. Redd lives with her husband and two teenage children in<br />
Atlanta.<br />
Novel sheds light on little-examined<br />
piece of WWII history<br />
<strong>The</strong> Guernsey Literary and<br />
Potato Peel Pie Society<br />
By Mary Ann Shaffer and Annie Barrows 2008<br />
Random House<br />
288 pp., $22<br />
BY Carolyn<br />
Gold<br />
hat a wonderful book! <strong>The</strong> Guernsey<br />
Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society Wis<br />
charming, quirky, and yet serious in an easy-to-read way. This novel by Mary<br />
Ann Shaffer and Annie Barrows is made up entirely of correspondence.<br />
<strong>The</strong> year is 1946. In these letters, you meet the characters who lived through the German<br />
occupation of the British Island of Guernsey in the English Channel<br />
during World War II.<br />
<strong>The</strong> deprivation of the island’s inhabitants accounts for the<br />
“Potato Peel Pie” part of the title. Much of the story tells how these<br />
occupants survived. Some of it touches on German concentration<br />
camp victims and their treatment at the hands of the Nazis, but the<br />
main story takes place after the war.<br />
Juliet Ashton, a writer, goes to the island to learn more and to<br />
write a book about the occupation and its aftermath. <strong>The</strong> people she<br />
meets are members of the Guernsey Literary Society; they formed<br />
the group to circumvent the German curfew and, through their book<br />
discussions, developed lasting bonds with one another. Running<br />
through the story is a romance that takes a surprising turn at the end<br />
of the book.<br />
Mary Ann Shaffer passed away when her book was in its final stages, and her niece<br />
Annie Barrows finished the work. <strong>The</strong> language and thoughts are so everyday, quite British,<br />
and delightfully humorous, as well as touching. <strong>The</strong> island’s occupants observed the good<br />
and bad of humankind with resignation, kindness, and some small efforts to outsmart their<br />
captors when possible. <strong>The</strong>y watched German planes flying over to bomb London, slave<br />
laborers building bunkers on their shores, and even German soldiers scrounging for food as<br />
the islanders themselves had done.<br />
<strong>The</strong> book, in a most creative way, brings a period in history down to a very small island<br />
and a small group of people, yet touches universal emotions.
<strong>July</strong>-<strong>August</strong> 20<strong>09</strong> THE JEWISH GEORGIAN Page 25<br />
Twitter<br />
From page 21<br />
sage across. After just two months, over<br />
1,400 people interested in food signed up to<br />
follow Held and Scher at KosherEye. You<br />
can do it, too—visit Twitter.com, sign in,<br />
click the “find people” button, put in<br />
kosher, and you’ll get a list of twitterers,<br />
people talking about the subject. If you<br />
click on KosherEye, you’ll see a brief<br />
description.<br />
And what will you find? Here are a few<br />
recent topics:<br />
• Is BaconSalt kosher? (Yes, absolutely<br />
Kof-K kosher.)<br />
• Does extra-virgin olive oil need<br />
kosher certification? (No, and it’s even<br />
Group Home<br />
From page 21<br />
When the idea of a group home was<br />
suggested to Frances, she found a small<br />
house and persuaded Harry to buy it. “If we<br />
buy it now, we can spend all our time on<br />
getting approval and funding,” she told<br />
him.<br />
After four years of hard work by<br />
Frances and others who were eager to help,<br />
<strong>The</strong> Atlanta Group Home opened. With a<br />
HUD loan, the tiny house was more than<br />
doubled in size, with six bedrooms, four<br />
baths, and all the modern conveniences.<br />
<strong>The</strong> tour I just took proved to me how wise<br />
the founders were in combining privacy and<br />
a pleasing ambiance. <strong>The</strong> huge living room<br />
accommodates the group and can be used<br />
for special gatherings as well.<br />
“No one lacks anything he or she<br />
needs,” explains Deborah Lowe, who has<br />
been the house parent for 23 years. Many of<br />
the residents refer to her as “mother.”<br />
Deborah says, “We are a family. Our siblings<br />
range in age from 44 to 57. We eat<br />
together, we go places together. Everyone<br />
has daily chores and a routine to follow.<br />
Some of our residents still continue to<br />
work, while the others stay busy at home<br />
with planned activities.”<br />
<strong>The</strong> residents consider <strong>The</strong> Atlanta<br />
kosher for Passover.)<br />
• Is Bone Suckin’ Sauce just for pork<br />
ribs? (Try it on beef; it’s terrific.)<br />
• Is there kosher sausage? Why buy<br />
kosher certified bagged lettuce? Are Burger<br />
King Onion Ring Snacks kosher?<br />
One of their newest finds are dried<br />
capers in sea salt!<br />
Held and Scher not only search the grocery<br />
stores. <strong>The</strong>y also attend food trade<br />
shows, looking for new products they can<br />
showcase—anything that happens to be certified<br />
kosher, as well as gadgets and appliances<br />
designed to make kosher cooking easier<br />
and more fun.<br />
“We’re in another phase of life,” they<br />
explained. “We’ve raised our kids, retired<br />
from business, and we’re pursuing a new<br />
Group Home their real home. “My daughter<br />
would rather sleep here than at our house,”<br />
says Nanci Berger’s mother, Rachiel. “My<br />
feelings were hurt when she first revealed<br />
this to me. But, as I realized that she loved<br />
every part of her life at <strong>The</strong> Group Home, I<br />
came to my senses.”<br />
<strong>The</strong> home can accommodate four<br />
female and two male residents. <strong>The</strong> women<br />
share semi-private baths; the men also share<br />
a bath. At least three of the current residents<br />
have Down syndrome. All of the residents<br />
maintain their own rooms, do their own<br />
laundry, and share in joint chores. <strong>The</strong>y also<br />
enjoy many activities, such as bowling<br />
together every Sunday night.<br />
One question that comes up inevitably<br />
when discussing <strong>The</strong> Group Home’s 25 successful<br />
years is how it is funded. <strong>The</strong> system<br />
is somewhat complicated, but it<br />
includes regular contributions from parents,<br />
the residents’ income, the Federal<br />
Government, and donations from the community.<br />
Frances Kuniansky, as chair emeritus<br />
of the board, continues her interest and<br />
input after her many years of working with<br />
individuals who have mental disabilities.<br />
Long may she continue!<br />
Unfortunately, Jill Kuniansky passed<br />
away on June 19. Everyone at <strong>The</strong> Atlanta<br />
Group Home will miss her and her contagiously<br />
happy personality.<br />
avenue of technology. We’re going with a<br />
frontier we didn’t grow up with. We’re<br />
embracing the wave of the future,<br />
and getting on it. We’re mature,<br />
vital women—we are not what<br />
we see in the mirror, but what we<br />
see in our heads—out there seeking,<br />
learning, doing. We want<br />
our minds to continue and create.<br />
It’s so much fun—being active,<br />
constantly thinking and doing. We<br />
have a lot to give. We want to represent<br />
the consumer, to make a shidduch<br />
with the manufacturers, help<br />
businesses get their word out to<br />
our targets, the kosher consumers.”<br />
Held and Scher estimate that only<br />
about 5% of their audience is local. <strong>The</strong>y<br />
A letter from Jill<br />
have people in Australia, Europe,<br />
New Zealand, and even Israel,<br />
following their site. So,<br />
next time you have to go<br />
to the store, Twitter<br />
first, and you may find<br />
something new to serve<br />
your family. If you’re<br />
into Facebook, join the<br />
KosherEye Facebook<br />
group. And watch for the<br />
upcoming contest to name<br />
KosherEye’s pink pig<br />
mascot on the Twitter<br />
site.<br />
You can reach Held and Scher at<br />
koshereye@gmail.com.<br />
KosherEye’s<br />
pink pig mascot<br />
In the summer of 2000, Jill Kuniansky sent the following letter to <strong>The</strong> <strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Georgian</strong>.<br />
It was published in the September/October 2000 issue.<br />
<strong>The</strong> <strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Georgian</strong>:<br />
I love your articles. I read <strong>The</strong> <strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Georgian</strong> all the<br />
time. I enjoy reading it a lot. Could I put an article in about<br />
my family and friends I live with? How I love them so so so<br />
much, my sisters and my brother, even my boyfriend, the one<br />
I love so much. I live with the nicest friends I ever had. I love<br />
them so so much.<br />
Here is my article about my family, who is more important<br />
to me. And my friends from where I live and I love living<br />
there. I love my family and my daddy Harry P. Kuniansky<br />
and my mom Frances and my sisters Carol and Laura and my<br />
brother Alan.<br />
And my other family I love so much, the Group Home.<br />
I love my friends. I have Deborah, my house mother, and my<br />
sister Susie, Tracy, and my other friend Nanci, and my brother<br />
Ted and my boyfriend Steve. I love them all. <strong>The</strong>y are my<br />
family. And my brother Dennis and my best friend I ever had<br />
is Deborah Lowe.<br />
My name is Jill Kuniansky.
Page 26 THE JEWISH GEORGIAN <strong>July</strong>-<strong>August</strong> 20<strong>09</strong><br />
Law-enforcement officers learn lessons of Leo Frank lynching case<br />
M<br />
MISH MASH<br />
By Erin O’Shinskey<br />
the first assistant rabbi for the congregation<br />
in more than a generation and the first<br />
FIRST. Rabbi Elana Zelony is the woman to serve as a rabbi in the synagogue’s<br />
newest clergy member at 105-year history. Rabbi Zelony earned a<br />
Congregation Shearith Israel. She is B.A. in geology from Occidental College,<br />
A<br />
ore than 100 Georgia officers<br />
from federal, state, and local<br />
agencies participated in a train-<br />
ing program that examined lessons to be<br />
learned from the lynching of Leo Frank in<br />
Marietta, Georgia, in 1915. <strong>The</strong> training<br />
was provided by <strong>The</strong> Anti-Defamation<br />
League, one of the nation’s largest nongovernmental<br />
trainers of law enforcement<br />
officers.<br />
<strong>The</strong> program coincided with the<br />
ADL’s April 30 world premiere presentation<br />
of <strong>The</strong> People v. Leo Frank, a PBS<br />
television documentary shedding important<br />
new light on the trial and subsequent<br />
lynching of <strong>Jewish</strong> Atlanta businessman<br />
Leo Frank. <strong>The</strong> premiere was held at the<br />
Cobb Energy Performing Arts Centre,<br />
located just two miles from the site where<br />
Frank was hanged after being abducted<br />
from a prison cell in Milledgeville.<br />
Michael Mears, associate dean of<br />
academic affairs and associate professor<br />
at Atlanta’s John Marshall Law School,<br />
taught the course. As an attorney, Mears<br />
has served as lead defense counsel in<br />
more than 27 Georgia death penalty cases<br />
and was founding director of the Multi-<br />
County Public Defenders Office,<br />
Georgia’s first statewide death penalty<br />
public defender’s office. He was joined<br />
by Bill Nigut, Southeast regional director<br />
of ADL.<br />
“<strong>The</strong> Leo Frank case was an extreme<br />
example of how bigotry unleashed can<br />
undermine citizen respect for the law,”<br />
Nigut said. “When Georgia Governor<br />
John Slayton commuted Leo Frank’s sentence<br />
from death to life in prison, he and<br />
his wife were forced to flee the state<br />
under police protection because angry<br />
mobs stormed Slayton’s home and hanged<br />
him in effigy; Leo Frank’s lynching was<br />
organized by a group of some of<br />
Marietta’s leading citizens.<br />
“While lynching is now a relic of a<br />
dark past here in the South, law enforcement<br />
officials are nevertheless still called<br />
upon to deal with community tensions<br />
created by hatred and bigotry,” Nigut continued.<br />
“Our class [gave] them the opportunity<br />
to examine how they resolve issues<br />
of this kind.”<br />
<strong>The</strong> officers also participated in one<br />
of ADL’s highly acclaimed briefings on<br />
current extremist activity in this region.<br />
Chairs for the world premiere of <strong>The</strong><br />
People v. Leo Frank, were former<br />
Georgia Governor Roy Barnes; Cobb<br />
County Chairman Sam Olens, the first<br />
<strong>Jewish</strong> chairman of Cobb County; and<br />
Emory University Associate Professor of<br />
Law Julie Seaman, a board member of the<br />
Georgia Innocence Project.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Leo Frank case is widely regarded<br />
as one of the most infamous episodes<br />
in American judicial history. Frank, the<br />
manager of a downtown Atlanta pencil<br />
factory, was accused of murdering Mary<br />
studied in a Jerusalem yeshiva, and received<br />
her rabbinic training at the Ziegler School of<br />
Rabbinic Studies in Los Angeles, where she<br />
was ordained last month. She is married to<br />
Adiv Zelony; they have one daughter, Nesya.<br />
NEW SPIRITUAL LEADER. Rabbi<br />
Michael Bernstein has joined Congregation<br />
Gesher L’Torah. Ordained by the <strong>Jewish</strong><br />
<strong>The</strong>ological<br />
Seminary in<br />
1999, he served<br />
as senior rabbi at<br />
Congregation<br />
Beth Am Israel,<br />
in Penn Valley,<br />
Pennsylvania,<br />
a n d<br />
Congregation<br />
B’nai Jacob, in<br />
Longmeadow,<br />
Rabbi Michael<br />
Bernstein<br />
Massachusetts.<br />
He has designed<br />
and facilitated<br />
programs at the National <strong>Jewish</strong> Center for<br />
Learning and Leadership, served as chaplain<br />
at the Springfield (MA) College Campus<br />
Ministry and Spiritual Life Center, and<br />
recently served as a senior educator fellow at<br />
the Melton Centre at Hebrew University.<br />
Rabbi Bernstein and his wife, Tracie, have<br />
three children, Ayelet, 10, Yaron, 8, and<br />
Liana, 4.<br />
EASING THE WAY. <strong>The</strong> Epstein School<br />
and <strong>The</strong> Weber School have signed an agreement<br />
providing Epstein students with preferential<br />
admission status, a seamless transition,<br />
and a continuous <strong>Jewish</strong> day school education<br />
for students 2 years old through 12th<br />
grade. Epstein and Weber will work closely<br />
together to align academic and enrichment<br />
curricula to ensure the goal of seamless transition<br />
is met for Epstein students who choose<br />
to attend Weber. Earlier this year, <strong>The</strong> Alfred<br />
& Adele Davis Academy signed a similar<br />
agreement with Weber with great success,<br />
serving as a model for other <strong>Jewish</strong> institutions<br />
to follow.<br />
Phagan, a 13-year-old employee of the<br />
factory. Sensational coverage by daily<br />
newspapers whipped the emotions of<br />
Atlanta citizens into a frenzy, and Tom<br />
Watson, a Georgia political leader and<br />
magazine editor, stirred powerful anti-<br />
Semitic feelings with his lurid articles<br />
attacking Frank.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Frank case catapulted the Anti-<br />
Defamation League into prominence as<br />
one of the nation’s leading civil rights<br />
organizations. Ironically, it also sparked a<br />
rebirth of the Ku Klux Klan.<br />
<strong>The</strong> People v. Leo Frank, written,<br />
produced, and directed by award-winning<br />
filmmaker Ben Loeterman, will be shown<br />
on PBS stations across the country in the<br />
fall. Loeterman is one of public television’s<br />
most prolific producers of historical<br />
and public affairs documentaries and<br />
has produced numerous films for such<br />
prestigious PBS programs as “American<br />
Experience” and “Frontline.”<br />
EPSTEIN AND WEBER SIGN AGREE-<br />
MENT. Pictured: (front, from left)<br />
Robert Franco, president, <strong>The</strong><br />
Epstein School Board of Trustees;<br />
Stan Beiner, head of school, <strong>The</strong><br />
Epstein School; Dr. Simcha Pearl,<br />
head of school, <strong>The</strong> Weber School;<br />
Harold Kirtz, president, <strong>The</strong> Weber<br />
School Board of Trustees; (back,<br />
from left) Steve Rakitt, president,<br />
<strong>Jewish</strong> Federation of Greater Atlanta;<br />
Carol Cooper, chair of the board,<br />
<strong>Jewish</strong> Federation of Greater Atlanta;<br />
Felicia Weber, naming benefactor,<br />
<strong>The</strong> Weber School; and Joe Weber,<br />
naming benefactor, <strong>The</strong> Weber<br />
School<br />
SANTA FOR SENIORS. On <strong>July</strong> 22, Santa<br />
for Seniors held its annual “Christmas in<br />
<strong>July</strong>” cocktail party at the TEW Galleries.<br />
Party organizers were Jill Berry; Dottie<br />
Smith, executive director; and Jade Sykes.<br />
Senior Citizen Services of Metropolitan<br />
Atlanta, through its Santa for Seniors program,<br />
collects new, unwrapped, “seniorfriendly”<br />
items such as large-print books,<br />
bath or personal hygiene products, small<br />
blankets, slip-resistant slippers, personal<br />
fans, flashlights, and stationery.<br />
A JOB WELL DONE. Gail Solomon recently<br />
received the Cantor Isaac Goodfriend<br />
Award from Ahavath Achim Synagogue. She<br />
was given this recognition in thanks for her<br />
efforts in making the City Wide Blood Drive,<br />
which she chaired, a success.
<strong>July</strong>-<strong>August</strong> 20<strong>09</strong> THE JEWISH GEORGIAN Page 27<br />
Fighting for <strong>Jewish</strong> education in a highly Unorthodox way<br />
Who would ever have thought a professional<br />
wrestler named Demon Hellstorm<br />
would be a strong advocate of <strong>Jewish</strong> day<br />
schools? Or that a nice <strong>Jewish</strong> boy would<br />
have in his fingers the magic to fix whatever<br />
ails a car? Or that these two statements<br />
would be describing the same man?<br />
<strong>The</strong>y are, of course, as anyone who has<br />
ever dropped his or her car off for service at<br />
Gann-El Auto can attest. Owner Greg<br />
Herman not only knows what’s wrong with<br />
cars, he keeps at the job until the owner is<br />
satisfied that the job has been done right.<br />
But, beyond that, Herman has another<br />
passion. He believes in the right of every<br />
<strong>Jewish</strong> child to receive a superior <strong>Jewish</strong><br />
education. And as a parent of two elementary<br />
school-age boys, he knows that today’s<br />
sluggish economy, combined with the cost<br />
of day school, is keeping kids out of<br />
Atlanta’s day schools. He has seen that<br />
directly this year: Rambam Atlanta, the<br />
city’s Modern Orthodox elementary school,<br />
closed its doors, and other schools have not<br />
always had the funds to offer sufficient<br />
financial aid to prospective families. So<br />
Herman has devised a way to use his first<br />
passion, wrestling, to benefit the parents<br />
struggling to keep their children in <strong>Jewish</strong><br />
day schools.<br />
On Sunday, September 13, Yeshiva<br />
Atlanta will host a family fun day featuring<br />
not only an antique car show, but also a professional<br />
wrestling show featuring Greg<br />
Herman, a.k.a. Demon Hellstorm, “the<br />
Madman from Miami,” as well as Yeshiva<br />
Atlanta’s own wrestling coach, Jan “<strong>The</strong><br />
Man” Siegelman and an assortment of<br />
heavyweight champion professional<br />
wrestlers, including Big Daddy Goth and<br />
England’s heavyweight champion, Simon<br />
Serom.<br />
How, you might ask, did a nice <strong>Jewish</strong><br />
boy come to be known as Demon<br />
Hellstorm? Herman started as a youngster,<br />
in Miami, watching wrestling on television.<br />
By the age of 16, he had begun to attend<br />
matches, and, at 21, working out one day in<br />
a gym, he was approached by a man who<br />
offered him the opportunity to attend<br />
wrestling school. “He told me to show up in<br />
school and he’d sponsor me if I could make<br />
it through the first lesson,” Herman remembers.<br />
“I went. <strong>The</strong>re were 64 of us. <strong>The</strong><br />
instructor asked who’d take a fall flat on his<br />
back. I was the only volunteer. Four months<br />
later, I was on TV. I didn’t know what I was<br />
doing, but the money was good, better than<br />
being an auto mechanic, which was my day<br />
job. I was the bad guy, inciting the crowd so<br />
they’d come watch me get killed.”<br />
He chose the name Demon Hellstorm<br />
because he’d been told to pick a demonic<br />
BY<br />
Suzi<br />
Brozman<br />
name. Demon Hellstorm was lifted right out<br />
of Marvel Comics, where a character who<br />
was the son of Satan was called Demon<br />
Hellstorm. But, insists Herman, he was<br />
actually a good guy in the comics.<br />
Travel and wrestling became a way of<br />
life, until Herman married and became a<br />
father. “<strong>The</strong>re’s nothing more important<br />
than my kids,” he says. His two boys, Ariel<br />
Shlomo, 7, and Natanel Yakov, 5, got to see<br />
their dad wrestle live for the first time on<br />
Super Bowl Sunday last year. Until then,<br />
they’d only seen him on tape.<br />
Herman was not brought up in a religious<br />
household, but being involved<br />
throughout his career with born-again<br />
Christians made him want to find out who<br />
he was. At age 36, with a serious muscle<br />
injury, he went back to being a mechanic.<br />
One day, a black man came into the shop.<br />
He was wearing a kippah and tzitzis. He<br />
explained to Herman what they were, and<br />
took him to the Young Israel synagogue in<br />
Tamarac, Florida. Herman began going on<br />
Sundays, since he was working on<br />
Saturdays.<br />
Moving to Atlanta, he began studying<br />
with Rabbi Hirshy Minkowitz at what is<br />
now Chabad of Alpharetta. He got a job in<br />
a mechanic shop, soon opening his own in<br />
Decatur. But, he didn’t like dealing with the<br />
city. So he moved to Toco Hill and opened<br />
Gann-El, God’s Garden. He’s happier here,<br />
and the community is happy to have him,<br />
judging by the number of cars waiting for<br />
service and by the praise spread on<br />
Frum_Atlanta, the Toco Hill listserv. <strong>The</strong><br />
shop offers a full array of services, from<br />
tune-ups to restorations and paint and body<br />
work.<br />
But, his children are the focal points of<br />
his life. When their school closed at the end<br />
of the school year, leaving teachers and parents<br />
uncertain about the future, Herman<br />
asked himself what he could do to help.<br />
Finances were a problem for many former<br />
Rambam families.<br />
Herman’s own sons will attend public<br />
school in the fall. But many others needed<br />
help to allow them to make the best choices<br />
for their children. Soon, the idea of a<br />
wrestling show to benefit them was born.<br />
He told <strong>The</strong> <strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Georgian</strong>, “People are<br />
donating their time to try to help. Half of the<br />
money we raise will be going to Yeshiva<br />
Atlanta to help with tuition, and half will go<br />
to parents sending their kids from Rambam<br />
to other schools. I want people to know this<br />
is a show. It’s entertainment, for fun. <strong>The</strong>re<br />
will be no cursing, no spitting, no intentional<br />
blood. And there will be some really cool<br />
cars to look at.” Visit his website,<br />
DemonHellstorm.com, to learn more about<br />
Herman and his wrestling career.<br />
Another focus of his life is his fiancée,<br />
Ilana Melnick. <strong>The</strong> couple will be married<br />
about a week before the wrestling extravaganza.<br />
When Yeshiva Atlanta’s wrestling<br />
coach, Jan Siegelman, volunteered his services,<br />
Herman was apprehensive. “Jan thinks<br />
he’s going to win. I think he’s going to get<br />
broken in half.”<br />
But Siegelman, who has coached the<br />
school’s wrestlers for 17 years, is confident.<br />
“My life is a study of what it is to be human.<br />
My commitment is that young men should<br />
grow up to be adults that their parents and<br />
they themselves can be proud of, that they<br />
should be competent in outdoor skills, in<br />
defending themselves, and in standing up<br />
for themselves as Jews. <strong>The</strong>y should leave<br />
the world a better place because they were<br />
here. That’s why I was born, to live that philosophy<br />
and help others to.”<br />
Siegelman has been wrestling for 45<br />
years. “I always thought a real wrestler<br />
could beat these so-called pros, these television<br />
guys who I see as all muscle and<br />
mouth—most of their muscle is in their<br />
mouths. <strong>The</strong> guy I’m going to wrestle is a<br />
loudmouth, trying to intimidate me.”<br />
<strong>The</strong> community can judge his words<br />
for themselves at the wrestling exhibition,<br />
September 13, at Yeshiva Atlanta. Tickets<br />
are just $10. <strong>The</strong> gates open at 10:00 a.m.<br />
with wrestling starting at noon. For more<br />
information, or to enter your car in the<br />
antique car show, call Greg Herman at<br />
Gann-El, 404-733-1555 or 770-826-1660.<br />
Sponsorships are still available, with current<br />
sponsors including Return to Eden,<br />
Bagel Break, C&N Auto Parts, Allan Shaw,<br />
D.D.S., and Kosher Gourmet.
Page 28 THE JEWISH GEORGIAN <strong>July</strong>-<strong>August</strong> 20<strong>09</strong><br />
In Israel, two miracles for one Atlantan<br />
Recently, I had the opportunity to hear a<br />
fascinating story at the Marcus <strong>Jewish</strong><br />
Community Center of Atlanta, told by Dr.<br />
David Whiteman, a local plastic surgeon.<br />
David grew up in a small <strong>Jewish</strong> community<br />
in Windsor, Ontario, Canada, where<br />
he was involved in B’nai B’rith youth activities.<br />
As a teenager, he took a trip to Israel,<br />
where he met a girl from Detroit, Sheri, who<br />
was also on a youth trip. A romance blossomed,<br />
and several years later, they were<br />
married.<br />
Fast-forward to 2006. David and Sheri<br />
traveled to Israel with their two children,<br />
ages 12 and 15, to celebrate their 19th wedding<br />
anniversary. <strong>The</strong>y were accompanied by<br />
close Atlanta friends Mark and Teri<br />
Edelstein, Gary and Kathy Tuchman, and all<br />
of their children.<br />
<strong>The</strong>y had been traveling for about a<br />
week and made arrangements to sleep in a<br />
Bedouin tent in the Negev Desert. One night,<br />
during a camel ride at sunset, David felt a<br />
crushing sensation in his chest. <strong>The</strong> pain kept<br />
getting worse. Since he was a doctor, he suspected<br />
he was having a heart attack. <strong>The</strong><br />
group returned to the tent, where there was a<br />
contingent of teenagers. A medic was there;<br />
however, David said he was not much help.<br />
Fortunately, the guide was still there, but<br />
they were about a half hour from civilization.<br />
David finally got an aspirin from someone in<br />
the group, which helped save his life. <strong>The</strong>y<br />
then traveled to the town of Arad, where they<br />
found an ambulance, and the medics started<br />
working on him.<br />
David said he received quality care and<br />
that the ambulance had medicines that ambulances<br />
do not ordinarily carry. <strong>The</strong>y gave him<br />
morphine and a complete electrocardiogram;<br />
however, nothing relieved his pain.<br />
It was very dark outside. David started<br />
praying, even though he wondered if it was<br />
Dr. David Whiteman<br />
pointless; there were plenty of people all<br />
over the world who needed God’s help. “I<br />
was shaking so badly, and I wanted to lower<br />
my metabolism, but could not.” To try to get<br />
his mind off his pain, David jokingly said to<br />
his friend Gary, “When I get to the hospital,<br />
I know I will have a <strong>Jewish</strong> doctor.”<br />
After about 30 minutes, the ambulance<br />
stopped, and the medics said they wanted to<br />
take another EKG. When David asked how<br />
the electrocardiogram looked, the medics<br />
said it looked worse than the first one.<br />
<strong>The</strong> ambulance took David to the<br />
Soroka Medical Center in Beersheva. Upon<br />
arrival, he saw Sheri and Gary looking at the<br />
ambulance door in surprise. “Did you see<br />
that?” one of them said. David did not know<br />
what they were talking about at the time, but<br />
it turned out to be an important part of this<br />
powerful experience.<br />
David was taken immediately to the<br />
catheter lab. One of the doctors was a very<br />
large Russian. David joked that if the doctor<br />
saved him, he would give him a free liposuction.<br />
<strong>The</strong> doctors told him they were going to<br />
do a balloon dilation. David asked when he<br />
would receive a sedative, and they told him<br />
he would not need one. Once they did the<br />
balloon dilation, the pain went away.<br />
As David was being treated, Gary used<br />
his Blackberry to contact an Atlanta cardiologist,<br />
who was a friend and neighbor. <strong>The</strong><br />
Israeli doctors communicated with the cardiologist,<br />
telling him about David’s condition<br />
and treatment. <strong>The</strong> cardiologist then communicated<br />
to David and Sheri that David was<br />
getting exceptional care. This information<br />
proved to be a great relief to everyone.<br />
David soon learned what Sheri and Gary<br />
had seen on the ambulance door. As it turned<br />
out, the ambulance was donated by friends of<br />
Sheri’s parents in Michigan. Sheri saw this as<br />
a sign that they had to do something in return<br />
for the lifesaving treatment David was<br />
receiving.<br />
David spent the next week in intensive<br />
care. In the hospital, he met Arabs and<br />
Israelis. “Truly a melting pot,” he said. He<br />
was becoming depressed, until a man point-<br />
ed out to him that David experienced two<br />
miracles in Israel: he met his wife there<br />
almost 20 years earlier, and his life was saved<br />
there.<br />
Just before his discharge, David was<br />
scheduled for a stress test. With him in the<br />
waiting room were a Bedouin woman covered<br />
from head to toe, an Arab wearing a<br />
headdress, and another person speaking<br />
French. It was “amazing,” David said. “Here<br />
we were, people of different cultures, relating<br />
to each other and not shouting.” To top it off,<br />
David said there was a cooking program on<br />
TV with English subtitles. “This is a side of<br />
Israel that people do not know about,” David<br />
pointed out. “It is not shown on the news.”<br />
A strange coincidence further convinced<br />
David that he had to do something for Israel.<br />
After his discharge, he saw in the parking lot<br />
of his hotel a dedication ceremony for an<br />
ambulance donated by the Westin Club in<br />
Chicago, which has an annual fundraising<br />
dinner for Magen David Adom (MDA).<br />
When David told Gary about what he had<br />
seen, Gary said, “I cannot believe it. I was a<br />
guest speaker at one of their dinners, and my<br />
dad is member of that group.”<br />
All of the things that happened to David<br />
convinced him and Sheri that they had to do<br />
something for MDA. <strong>The</strong>y decided on a<br />
fundraising campaign to purchase an ambulance.<br />
Sheri began writing to her friends.<br />
Some people at Davis Academy also raised<br />
money, and eight months later, in October<br />
2007, they bought the ambulance. <strong>The</strong>re was<br />
a dedication ceremony, and the ambulance<br />
was sent to Israel.<br />
David’s story was covered by the media,<br />
but since then, things have been quiet.<br />
However, it is important to keep this story<br />
alive, because, in Israel, MDA depends on<br />
donations, not only for ambulances, but also<br />
for blood services, as well as supplies of all<br />
types.<br />
David’s story was riveting. He told of<br />
his experiences in such detail that I felt as if<br />
I were there on the camel when he experienced<br />
the crushing pain in his chest, when he<br />
did not know if he could get any help, when<br />
he was in the ambulance praying. I kept asking<br />
myself how I would have handled the situation.<br />
Three years later, David asserts that the<br />
experience didn’t change him that much, but<br />
he does acknowledge that he exercises more,<br />
watches his diet more closely, and does not<br />
rush as much. And he said it definitely puts<br />
him more in touch with his patients.<br />
I then asked if it had changed him spiritually.<br />
He smiled, tilted his head a little, and<br />
gave what I thought was a honest response:<br />
“Some days, yes, and some days, no.”<br />
After what happened to him, David feels<br />
more supportive of Israel. His goal is to make<br />
people aware of MDA, and he encourages<br />
bar and bat mitzvah kids to make a project of<br />
donations.<br />
After his two miracles, David wants to<br />
help Israel make miracles for others.<br />
To learn more about MDA, call 1-800-<br />
266-0046, or visit www.AFMDA.org.
<strong>July</strong>-<strong>August</strong> 20<strong>09</strong> THE JEWISH GEORGIAN Page 29<br />
Temple’s iSeder sparks discussion<br />
about religion and technology<br />
As humans, our day-to-day lives are in<br />
perpetual flux. This is especially true for<br />
those living in nations built on progress,<br />
such as the United States. Specifically, our<br />
always-increasing contact with technology<br />
has transformed who we are as a people, our<br />
methods of communication, and how we<br />
send and retrieve information on a by-thesecond<br />
basis.<br />
While the advent of technology has<br />
certainly been responsible for countless<br />
social, medical, and scientific advancements,<br />
all of the beneficial kind, it is an<br />
aspect of life that has often, and intentionally,<br />
been removed from traditional religious<br />
practice.<br />
In Judaism in particular, there has forever<br />
been a conscious effort to separate<br />
technology and prayer, an unquestioned<br />
sense that interaction with technology<br />
somehow de-spiritualizes practices of piety.<br />
Torah scrolls and mezuzot must be written<br />
by the hands of expert scribes, the Hebrew<br />
Bible commands that no Temple be built<br />
with iron tools, most traditional forms of<br />
technology are put to rest once a week for<br />
Shabbat—the holiest day of the <strong>Jewish</strong><br />
week—and, to this day, Orthodox Jews seek<br />
out homes nearest their synagogue, so as to<br />
avoid driving there before sessions of<br />
prayer.<br />
Is this traditionally disharmonious relationship<br />
between Judaism and technology<br />
inherent or fundamental to the nature of<br />
religion? Or, rather, is it a condition that<br />
was developed, learned, and integrated over<br />
time, a superficial notion that is challenged<br />
more and more every day, as technology<br />
continues to creep into nearly every aspect<br />
of our lives?<br />
As this conflict rages on, <strong>The</strong> Temple,<br />
Atlanta’s largest and oldest Reform synagogue,<br />
used Passover 20<strong>09</strong> to add a new<br />
chapter to the ongoing discussion, taking a<br />
revolutionary step in not just allowing and<br />
accepting technology, but actually attempting<br />
to utilize it as a productive tool in<br />
<strong>Jewish</strong> tradition and ceremony.<br />
<strong>The</strong> idea, sparked by Rabbi Frederick<br />
Reeves—one of <strong>The</strong> Temple’s four clergy<br />
members—was to incorporate today’s most<br />
prevalent and popular forms<br />
of technology into the second<br />
night of Passover, an<br />
experiment Rabbi Reeves<br />
coined the iSeder. <strong>The</strong> rabbi<br />
set up a computer at each of<br />
four 10-person tables and a<br />
larger projector on which<br />
those present could follow<br />
the service. Each computer<br />
was connected to a wireless<br />
Internet network, while<br />
BlackBerrys and iPhones<br />
were welcomed as well.<br />
Over the course of the night,<br />
a PowerPoint presentation<br />
on the 15 steps of the Haggadah was given,<br />
various Internet polls on the ten plagues<br />
Rabbi Frederick Reeves<br />
BY<br />
Scott<br />
Janovitz<br />
were taken, YouTube and Facebook were<br />
scoured, and a virtual Internet search for the<br />
afikomen was conducted.<br />
But if technology has always been considered<br />
a roadblock to spiritualism, and<br />
Judaism is about achieving just that, why<br />
would a rabbi intentionally integrate the<br />
two on one of the holiest days of the <strong>Jewish</strong><br />
year?<br />
“<strong>The</strong> intent was to try and see how we<br />
could use new technology to engage people,”<br />
Reeves explained. “Partially, we did it<br />
because the Internet is fun and partially to<br />
reach the 20s-30s group; that group is not<br />
interested in the regular kinds of offerings<br />
that synagogues have, and so we thought<br />
this would be cool and get their attention, so<br />
that they would come and have a <strong>Jewish</strong><br />
experience.”<br />
Throughout the iSeder, those in attendance<br />
were encouraged to play active roles,<br />
as they were texted specific blessings via<br />
their phones when it was their turn to read.<br />
In this way, then, Reeves used technology<br />
as a sort of rallying point, as a method of<br />
attracting and involving Jews, rather than as<br />
barrier to <strong>Jewish</strong> practice.<br />
“We have in our mindset the idea that<br />
somehow technology and spirituality are<br />
separate. I think that part of that has to do<br />
with the fact that, after the Industrial<br />
Revolution and the dawn of the Information<br />
Age, there was a sense of depersonalization<br />
that came with the advent of mass technology,”<br />
explains Reeves. “<strong>The</strong> idea is that<br />
things are no longer individualized or personalized,<br />
and one of the big things that we<br />
try and do through the synagogue is make<br />
connections person-to-person. <strong>The</strong>re’s a<br />
general sense that technology puts a filter or<br />
a wall between people, and technology is<br />
only going to be successful in religious settings<br />
if it’s used to break down those walls<br />
and bring people together.”<br />
Through his carefully calculated<br />
attempt to integrate<br />
technology into traditional<br />
<strong>Jewish</strong> ceremony, Reeves<br />
has demonstrated a clear<br />
trust in this relationship,<br />
refusing to accept the two as<br />
inherently conflicting entities.<br />
With the future in mind,<br />
however, questioning the<br />
degree of compatibility<br />
between religion and technology<br />
may no longer be the<br />
most relevant concern.<br />
Simply put, technology will<br />
play an increasingly greater role in our liv<br />
See iSEDER, page 37
Page 30 THE JEWISH GEORGIAN <strong>July</strong>-<strong>August</strong> 20<strong>09</strong><br />
<strong>August</strong>a Federation’s annual meeting celebrates community involvement<br />
O<br />
n June 8, the <strong>August</strong>a <strong>Jewish</strong><br />
Federation held its annual meeting<br />
at the <strong>August</strong>a <strong>Jewish</strong> Community<br />
Center. <strong>The</strong> meeting was opened with welcoming<br />
remarks by Al Grinspun, president,<br />
followed by the singing of “<strong>The</strong> Star-<br />
Spangled Banner” and “Hatikvah,” led by<br />
Gary Katcoff.<br />
Leah Ronen, executive director of the<br />
Federation, reported that the 2008 campaign<br />
closed with a record 385 pledges. She<br />
highlighted the services that had been rendered<br />
to the members of the community<br />
because of the generosity of the <strong>August</strong>a<br />
kehillah. She and Al Grinspun challenged<br />
members to make every effort to encourage<br />
individuals to continue their support, even<br />
if the present economic climate makes that<br />
difficult. As Ronen said, “It is time for all<br />
hands on deck!”<br />
Officers and board members for the<br />
coming year were elected. Officers are: Al<br />
Grinspun, president; Louise Aronow, vice<br />
president—campaign chair; Debbie<br />
Katcoff, vice president—allocations; Bob<br />
Botnick, secretary; and Jack Weinstein,<br />
treasurer. Board members with terms ending<br />
2010 are Alyssa Bogorad, Lou Scharff,<br />
Jon Shoenholz, Joan Steinberg, and Jack<br />
Weinstein; those with terms ending 2011<br />
are Louise Aronow, Ziva Bruckner, Marc<br />
Gottlieb, Al Grinspun, and Margie Ruben;<br />
those with terms ending 2012 are Bob<br />
Botnick, Jeff Broder, Paul Graboff, Debbie<br />
Federation President Al Grinspun Executive Director Leah Ronen<br />
Anne Pomper receiving the<br />
Outstanding Volunteer 20<strong>09</strong> from Al<br />
Grinspun<br />
Katcoff, and Beverly Lowenstein. After the<br />
election, Sumner Fishbein conducted the<br />
installation.<br />
Anne Pomper was named Outstanding<br />
Volunteer 20<strong>09</strong> for her untiring efforts in<br />
telling the story of Federation to donors.<br />
Pomper, on her own, undertook the work of<br />
Stephen Steinberg presenting the<br />
Maurice Steinberg Achievement<br />
Award to Bob Botnick<br />
making personal contact with members of<br />
the community; as a result, there was a<br />
marked increase in participation.<br />
Bob Botnick was honored with the<br />
Maurice Steinberg Achievement Award.<br />
Stephen Steinberg, Maurice’s son, made the<br />
presentation, saying, “<strong>The</strong> recipient shares<br />
One Good Deed serves residents’ needs<br />
I<br />
t’s hard to know how a person with a<br />
disability or disadvantage feels, unless<br />
you have experienced that life yourself.<br />
Sharon Spiegelman experienced a typical,<br />
healthy life, until beset by physical ailments<br />
that landed her in a motorized chair. That<br />
may have slowed down others, but not<br />
Sharon, for she has continued to be an<br />
active and cheerful person who has found<br />
ways to help others in need of everyday<br />
services.<br />
Sharon was born in New Jersey and, at<br />
a tender age, moved to Georgia with her<br />
parents and<br />
two siblings.<br />
She went<br />
through the<br />
Atlanta<br />
school system<br />
and<br />
attended the<br />
University of<br />
Georgia,<br />
where she<br />
earned a<br />
degree in<br />
Sharon Spiegelman<br />
communications<br />
in 1981.<br />
She didn’t know what she might do with<br />
that degree, but shortly after graduation, she<br />
went to work for the CIBA optical company<br />
and rose from customer service rep to<br />
supervisor.<br />
Her next job took her to Florida, where<br />
BY Leon<br />
Socol<br />
she worked for Scott Foresman, the textbook<br />
publishing company. <strong>The</strong>n she<br />
returned to Atlanta and had a 15-year career<br />
with Perlis Real Estate Development<br />
Company, selling commercial real estate.<br />
After that, she developed a bone disorder<br />
that resulted in multiple leg fractures. Her<br />
doctors advised her to give up walking and<br />
use a wheelchair, in order to avoid more<br />
serious fractures in other parts of her body.<br />
Her younger sister, Lisa, had married<br />
Atlantan Marty Halpern, who was in commercial<br />
real estate. Four years ago, the<br />
Halperns took a trip to Israel and saw how<br />
volunteer programs worked and flourished<br />
there. Marty thought some of these programs<br />
might work for senior groups that<br />
didn’t qualify for programs then being<br />
offered in Atlanta.<br />
When they got home, he contacted<br />
Sharon and told her about the programs he<br />
had seen. He asked her to help him find<br />
people who were older or suffered long- or<br />
short-term disabilities and needed help with<br />
life’s daily tasks.<br />
Sharon had, by then, been reduced to<br />
working part time. Marty said that he would<br />
finance the venture for several years if she<br />
would organize and run it. Thus, One Good<br />
Deed was founded in February 2006. Its<br />
primary area of operations was Northeast<br />
Atlanta.<br />
<strong>The</strong> non-profit’s mission is to help seniors<br />
and other persons with physical or<br />
long-term health needs maintain their independence,<br />
remain in their homes longer,<br />
and avoid costly institutional care.<br />
Through friends and word of mouth,<br />
Sharon set about to enlist volunteers. Over<br />
the last three years, Sharon has gathered a<br />
group of 133 volunteers, whom she matches<br />
with clients. <strong>The</strong>re is no charge for One<br />
Good Deed’s services, and volunteers are<br />
rewarded with the joy they bring to those<br />
they serve. Satisfaction in serving others is<br />
truly a wonderful feeling, says Sharon.<br />
Sharon and Marty’s One Good Deed is<br />
partnering with the Toco Hill and Meyer<br />
Balser NORCs (naturally occurring retirement<br />
communities); <strong>Jewish</strong> Federation of<br />
Greater Atlanta; <strong>Jewish</strong> Family & Career<br />
Services; Life Enrichment Services; Center<br />
for the Visually Impaired; and Caregiver<br />
CARE Atlanta.<br />
Volunteers of all ages provide help<br />
such as changing a hard-to-reach light bulb<br />
or smoke alarm battery, shopping for groceries,<br />
running errands, doing household<br />
chores, preparing and/or delivering a meal,<br />
providing companionship, filling in for a<br />
Maurice’s belief in our tradition of tzedakah<br />
and his faith in the ability of the <strong>Jewish</strong> people<br />
for tikkun olam.”<br />
Botnick moved to <strong>August</strong>a in 1962 to<br />
begin his practice of medicine. During the<br />
ensuing years, he became a respected member<br />
of the medical community, but always<br />
found time to volunteer his time and energy<br />
in the service of others.<br />
Botnick has served as president of the<br />
Georgia Society of Internal Medicine,<br />
chairman of the Richmond County Health<br />
Department, board member of MAG<br />
Mutual Insurance Company, board member<br />
of the <strong>Jewish</strong> Educational Loan Fund, a<br />
founding physician of Doctors Hospital of<br />
<strong>August</strong>a, co-chairman of a Jaycees campaign<br />
that distributed free doses of the<br />
Sabin polio vaccine to residents of<br />
Richmond County, chairman of the Israel<br />
Bond Drive, board member of Adas<br />
Yeshurun Synagogue, and member of the<br />
board and president of the <strong>August</strong>a <strong>Jewish</strong><br />
Federation. In his retirement, he serves as a<br />
volunteer physician at the Faith Care<br />
Medical Clinic, a medical facility operated<br />
by Wesley United Methodist Church for<br />
indigent residents of Columbia County.<br />
After closing remarks by Rabbi David<br />
Sirull, of Adas Yeshurun, the meeting was<br />
adjourned.<br />
Volunteerism is alive and well in<br />
<strong>August</strong>a.<br />
caregiver, and providing transportation.<br />
Current plans are to extend services to<br />
residents living in the area north of the<br />
Meyer Balser Home, in Northwest Atlanta.<br />
Financing and expanding the services<br />
of One Good Deed is a daunting task, especially<br />
in the present economic climate, but<br />
Sharon and her helpers have received grant<br />
money from local and national sources.<br />
Sharon even sells sympathy cards, with all<br />
the proceeds going to One Good Deed.<br />
Sharon literally lives a life of service to<br />
others. She has spread the word about One<br />
Good Deed via the numerous organizations<br />
of which she is an active member. She and<br />
her husband (also named Marty) reside in<br />
Decatur, in a home modified to accommodate<br />
wheelchairs. Her husband, victim of a<br />
robbery years ago, uses a wheelchair, too.<br />
But that doesn’t hamper either Marty or<br />
Sharon Spiegelman. <strong>The</strong>y both lead active<br />
and productive lives that challenge individuals<br />
without disabilities.<br />
If you would like to volunteer with One<br />
Good Deed, it’s easy. Just contact Sharon<br />
Spiegelman at 404-460-7842 or<br />
www.1gooddeed.org. You will need to submit<br />
an application with references, participate<br />
in a brief interview, undergo a criminal<br />
background check, and spend 1-2 hours a<br />
month doing a good deed. No special training<br />
is required, and One Good Deed liability<br />
insurance protects both volunteers and<br />
clients.
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Rosh Hashanah 20<strong>09</strong><br />
A La Carte<br />
Matzoh Ball Soup (1 Ball, 6 oz. Broth) • $3.50 ea.<br />
Matzoh Balls Only • 2.50 ea.<br />
Brisket of Beef (House Specialty!) • $16.00 lb.<br />
Whole Traditional Roasted Chicken (Cut into Quarters) • $10.00 ea.<br />
Chopped Liver • $10.00 lb.<br />
1 Lb. Round Braided Challah • $5.00 ea.<br />
Sides<br />
Small (Serves 3-4) • $9.00<br />
Medium (Serves 6-8) • $18.00<br />
Large (Serves 12-14) • $28.00<br />
X-large (Serves 20-24) • $50.00<br />
Luchen Kugel • Potato Kugel • Broccoli Casserole • Squash Soufflé<br />
Roasted Vegetable Medley (Squash, Peppers, Carrots, Asparagus)<br />
Desserts<br />
Chocolate Mousse Cake with<br />
Chocolate Ganache Glaze (Serves 14-16) • $30.00<br />
Apple Walnut Poundcake (Serves 14-16) • $30.00<br />
Honey Gingerbread Poundcake (Serves 14-16) • $30.00<br />
Chocolate Pecan Tart (Serves 10-12) • $30.00<br />
French Apple Tart with Walnut Crumble Topping (Serves 10-12) • $30.00<br />
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September 14th, for pickup by noon Friday,<br />
September 18th. All foods will be cooked and<br />
chilled. Unfortunately, no changes can be<br />
accommodated after September 14th.<br />
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Kosher Affairs<br />
From page 22<br />
I have also added one more feature to<br />
the garden mix—couldn’t resist. I now have<br />
an “as seen on TV” Topsy Turvey tomato<br />
planter. No, I didn’t buy it off the TV—<br />
Home Depot now carries them. I filled my<br />
Topsy Turvey planter with soil and fertilizer,<br />
inserted one tomato plant, and, yes, it is<br />
growing nicely. If it is successful, I think that<br />
I will Topsy Turvey my yard next year!<br />
I am currently reviewing and<br />
testing the Zojirushi Bread<br />
machine and will feature it in our<br />
September/October issue. Please<br />
share your best bread machine<br />
recipes with me! I am particularly<br />
searching for the best challah,<br />
whole wheat, and oatmeal breads—<br />
all dairy free.<br />
KOSHEREYE—NEW PRODUCT<br />
DISCOVERIES<br />
BONE SUCKIN’ SAUCE. So delicious!<br />
Here’s how I used it. I pre-browned a 4-lb.<br />
top of the rib roast on my outdoor grill, about<br />
4 minutes per side. <strong>The</strong>n I followed the<br />
directions right on the jar—I mixed the<br />
sauce with 12 ounces of orange juice, poured<br />
it over the top of the rib roast, tightly covered<br />
the pan with foil, and roasted it for 3 hours at<br />
300 degrees. <strong>The</strong>n I uncovered it and roasted<br />
it for 20 minutes more. I let it cool, refrigerated<br />
it, sliced it, and served. (It is even better<br />
Original Bone<br />
Suckin’ Sauce<br />
the next day.) It was truly<br />
scrumptious. For those who<br />
like their heat, Bone Suckin’<br />
also makes a hot sauce. (I<br />
used the original in my<br />
recipe.) Go to<br />
Bonesuckin.com for<br />
more recipes.<br />
BACONNAISE AND BACONSALT. This<br />
is a kosher column, so why am I featuring<br />
these products? <strong>The</strong> company says it best—<br />
”BaconSalt is a zerocalorie,<br />
zero-fat, vegetarian,<br />
kosher certified<br />
(Kof-K) seasoning that<br />
makes everything taste<br />
like bacon!” Baconnaise<br />
can be substituted in any<br />
recipe that calls for may-<br />
BaconSalt<br />
assortment<br />
onnaise, such as potato<br />
or egg salad. For recipes<br />
and to learn more about<br />
these products, visit jdfoods.net and baconsalt.com.<br />
DRINK UP. Lemongrass, rhubarb, kumquat,<br />
juniper berry, vanilla bean, lavender—<br />
sounds like a garden collection, but these are<br />
actually flavors of the Dry Soda Company’s<br />
lightly carbonated, refreshing, non-alcoholic<br />
beverages. <strong>The</strong> Seattle-based company has<br />
recently introduced this unique line of allnatural<br />
sodas that are flavored with fruit,<br />
flower, and herb extracts and lightly sweet-<br />
ened with cane sugar. <strong>The</strong>se beverages can<br />
be enjoyed on their own or as a sophisticated<br />
meal accompaniment. All are<br />
OU certified. <strong>The</strong> consensus at my<br />
table was that the vanilla bean,<br />
kumquat, and lavender were the clear<br />
winners. Read about Dry Soda at<br />
drysoda.com.<br />
NEW BREW. I am not a fan of instant<br />
coffee. However, Starbucks may win<br />
me over with its new product,<br />
Starbucks VIA Ready Brew. (Even the<br />
name sounds better than instant!)<br />
<strong>The</strong>re are currently two rich vari-<br />
ALL IN THE TEA LEAVES. My new<br />
favorite bottled iced tea is Sweet Leaf Tea,<br />
particularly the mint-honey green tea and the<br />
peach tea. <strong>The</strong> teas are sweetened with cane<br />
sugar, the flavors are natural, and I even love<br />
the happy website! Buy these teas at Whole<br />
Foods, Return to Eden, and other local<br />
supermarkets, or order at sweetleaftea.com.<br />
MAMMA MIA! I have just discovered the<br />
delicious La Famiglia DelGrosso pasta<br />
sauces. <strong>The</strong> concept of bottled spaghetti<br />
sauce took root in 1943, with husband-andwife<br />
restaurateurs Ferdinand and Mafalda<br />
DelGrosso. This entrepreneurial Italian couple<br />
stirred, cooked, and bottled the sauce by<br />
hand. <strong>The</strong> products are now manufactured in<br />
a modern, 18,000-square-foot facility, under<br />
the certification of the OU.<br />
<strong>The</strong> family motto, “no<br />
short cuts,” is obvious<br />
once one tastes the rich,<br />
tomato flavor in each jar. It<br />
is a premium sauce and<br />
priced accordingly. My<br />
favorite, Aunt Mary Ann’s<br />
Sunday Marinara (I even<br />
love the name), is sold at<br />
Publix, Kroger, and Whole<br />
Foods. Deliziosa—what a<br />
Aunt Mary Ann’s<br />
treat! For recipes or more<br />
information, visit deleties—Colombian<br />
and Italian Roast. Sunday Marinara<br />
Both are micro-brewed and taste almost<br />
grossosauce.com.<br />
like the real thing!<br />
Come follow—see all that’s new in<br />
kosher by following<br />
TWITTER.COM/KOSHEREYE. Building<br />
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the Facebook.com/koshereye group.<br />
This column is meant to provide the reader<br />
with current trends and developments in the<br />
kosher marketplace and lifestyle. Since standards<br />
of kashruth certification vary, check<br />
with the AKC or your local kashruth authority<br />
to confirm reliability. If you are searching<br />
for a hard-to-find kosher ingredient, need<br />
help with a kosher substitution, or have a<br />
kosher food question, please contact us, and<br />
we will do our best to find the answer. Also,<br />
we ask that you share your discoveries with<br />
us and look forward to hearing from you. Email<br />
kosheraffairs@gmail.com.
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What’s cooking?<br />
Mrs. Rowe’s Original Coconut Cream Pie<br />
Adapted from Mrs. Rowe’s Book of<br />
Southern Pies by Mollie Cox Bryan<br />
<strong>The</strong> most popular dessert at Mrs. Rowe’s<br />
Bakery!<br />
1 9-inch piecrust<br />
3 egg yolks (reserve the whites for the<br />
meringue)<br />
1 cup sugar<br />
1/4 cup cornstarch<br />
1/4-1/2 cup water<br />
3 cups milk<br />
1 cup sweetened flaked coconut<br />
1 tablespoon unsalted butter<br />
2 teaspoons vanilla extract<br />
Mrs. Rowe’s meringue (see recipe below)<br />
Preheat oven to 375 degrees.<br />
Whisk egg yolks, sugar, cornstarch,<br />
and just enough of the water to make a<br />
smooth paste. Warm the milk in a double<br />
boiler over simmering water. When the<br />
milk begins to steam, gradually whisk in<br />
the egg mixture. Simmer, stirring occasionally<br />
until very thick, about 4 minutes.<br />
Remove from heat and stir in 3/4 cup of<br />
coconut, butter, and vanilla.<br />
Pour the filling into the crust and top<br />
with the meringue, sealing the edges well.<br />
Sprinkle the remaining coconut over the<br />
meringue.<br />
Bake for approximately 30 minutes, or<br />
until the meringue is golden brown and<br />
firm to the careful, light touch. Cool on<br />
rack at least 2 hours. Serve the pie at room<br />
temperature, or, for a special treat, warm in<br />
the microwave for 10 seconds.<br />
—————<br />
Mrs. Rowe’s Meringue<br />
4 egg whites, at room temperature<br />
1/4 teaspoon cream of tartar<br />
3 tablespoons sugar<br />
In a chilled bowl, combine egg whites<br />
and cream of tartar and beat on slow to<br />
medium speed until soft peaks form. Add<br />
the sugar, one tablespoon at a time, and<br />
continue beating until whites form stiff<br />
peaks but are not dry. <strong>The</strong> meringue is now<br />
ready to pile lightly over pie.<br />
—————<br />
Spaghetti Carbonara<br />
Adapted from baconsalt.com<br />
1 stick unsalted butter<br />
1 cup milk<br />
2 tablespoons white wine vinegar<br />
1 lb. spaghetti<br />
2 eggs, whisked<br />
Recipes<br />
1/2 cup shredded Parmesan cheese<br />
BaconSalt<br />
chopped fresh parsley<br />
Heat butter and milk together until butter<br />
melts. Add vinegar, and cook over medium<br />
heat until smooth (approximately 15<br />
minutes).<br />
Cook pasta in boiling water; drain, and<br />
return to pot. Stir in eggs, cheese, and sauce<br />
immediately. Season with BaconSalt and<br />
sprinkle with parsley.<br />
—————<br />
Baconnaise Potato Salad<br />
Adapted from baconsalt.com<br />
2 lbs. small potatoes (preferably reds)<br />
2 tablespoons Dijon mustard<br />
1 cup Baconnaise<br />
3 stalks finely minced celery<br />
2 tablespoons chopped parsley<br />
Salt and pepper to taste<br />
Cut the potatoes into half-inch pieces,<br />
keeping the skin on. Place potatoes in a pot<br />
of boiling, salted water, and cook for<br />
approximately 15 minutes, until tenderfirm.<br />
Drain, and place in cold water immediately.<br />
Mix the Baconnaise and Dijon mustard,<br />
then add to potatoes along with<br />
minced celery and parsley until evenly<br />
coated. Add salt and pepper to taste, if<br />
desired. Garnish with additional parsley.<br />
—————<br />
Gazpacho<br />
Adapted from Soup: A Kosher Collection<br />
by Pam Reiss<br />
Serves 4<br />
3 medium Roma tomatoes, cored and seeded<br />
1 medium red pepper, cored and seeded<br />
1/2 medium red onion<br />
1 large seedless English cucumber<br />
1-2 cloves garlic, crushed<br />
1 tablespoon red wine vinegar<br />
2 tablespoons olive oil<br />
1 1/2 teaspoons salt<br />
1 teaspoon hot sauce<br />
1/2 cup low-sodium tomato juice<br />
2 tablespoons each fresh chives and fresh<br />
parsley<br />
Dice 1/3 of the tomatoes, peppers,<br />
onion, and cucumber. Set aside.<br />
Using a food processor or immersion<br />
blender, puree remaining ingredients (except<br />
herbs) until smooth. If mixture seems too<br />
thick, add more tomato juice.<br />
Combine mixture with diced vegetables.<br />
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<strong>The</strong> Blumberg Report<br />
I<br />
had hardly moved into my new digs on<br />
Peachtree when the phone rang with<br />
invitations to two very interesting<br />
events. One was the ceremony and luncheon<br />
at Morehouse College inaugurating the<br />
Rabin-King Initiative, a multifaceted program<br />
for strengthening ties between Jews<br />
and African Americans. <strong>The</strong> event featured<br />
the induction of a newly appointed Board of<br />
Preachers and Sponsors that included,<br />
among others, Rabbi Peter Berg of <strong>The</strong><br />
Temple, Ambassador Reda Mansour of<br />
Israel, and myself.<br />
<strong>The</strong> keynote speaker, also an inductee,<br />
was Rabbi David Saperstein, director of<br />
Reform Judaism’s Religious Action Center<br />
in Washington, recently listed as the<br />
nation’s most influential rabbi. He gave a<br />
dynamic, highly inspirational lecture recalling<br />
the life work of Martin Luther King Jr.<br />
and his connections with Atlanta Jewry, as<br />
BY<br />
Janice Rothschild<br />
Blumberg<br />
well as the courageous leadership of Israel’s<br />
martyred Nobel Prize laureate, Yitzhak<br />
Rabin.<br />
On the personal side, I was highly honored<br />
to have been included in such an<br />
august group. It was a wonderful experience,<br />
one that certainly motivated me to<br />
help further the objectives of the Rabin-<br />
King Initiative. Where that motivation will<br />
lead remains to be seen, but there is never a<br />
lack of opportunity for extending friendship<br />
and understanding.<br />
One such opportunity came to me in<br />
the form of a phone call from Michael<br />
Baker at Positive Impact, an organization<br />
devoted to providing services to HIV sufferers.<br />
He asked me to be the guest of<br />
Positive Impact at a benefit performance of<br />
Driving Miss Daisy at the Balzer <strong>The</strong>ater.<br />
He also asked me to speak at a post-performance<br />
reception for the donors, recounting<br />
personal experiences with <strong>The</strong> Temple<br />
bombing and other historical aspects of the<br />
play. I suggested a panel discussion rather<br />
than a solo performance (for which I lack<br />
the chutzpah) and thus gained the pleasure<br />
of appearing with professor and civil rights<br />
activist Lonnie King, Jr. His input was far<br />
more relevant than mine could ever have<br />
been, since he spoke from ongoing deep<br />
involvement with race relations, the issue at<br />
the core of Miss Daisy.<br />
Questions addressed to me were largely<br />
in the realm of reminiscence, and I found<br />
myself tempted to speak more about the<br />
play itself than about the general conditions<br />
that it mirrored. In my opinion, the production<br />
of Alfred Uhry’s prize-winning masterpiece<br />
by <strong>The</strong>atrical Outfit, whose executive<br />
director is Tom Key, was first-rate, and<br />
Robert J. Farley deserves enthusiastic<br />
kudos for his direction. Jill Jane Clements’<br />
portrayal of Miss Daisy was harsher than<br />
Mary Nell Santacroce’s in the play’s<br />
Atlanta debut or her daughter Dana Ivey’s<br />
in New York, but, nonetheless, gave the<br />
aging matriarch a character whose metamorphosis<br />
moved many of us to tears. Rob<br />
Cleveland was so good as Hoke that I<br />
immediately stopped comparing him to<br />
Morgan Freeman, and William Murphy was<br />
delightful as the <strong>Jewish</strong> “good old boy” trying<br />
to care for his mother. Most importantly,<br />
they drew the audience through laughter<br />
and heart tugs to a renewed awareness of<br />
the need for sensitivity to the feelings of<br />
others.<br />
Positive Impact is all about that.<br />
Founded in 1993, its mission is to provide<br />
people affected by HIV with culturally<br />
competent mental health counseling and<br />
prevention counseling, as well as with<br />
intensive substance abuse treatment. In<br />
addition to other services, it hosts an annual<br />
forum, the Cultural Diversity Institute,<br />
where mental health professionals come to<br />
learn about diversity issues affecting treatment<br />
of their own clients.<br />
Those of us who thought that education<br />
and life-preserving drugs had come close to<br />
wiping out the scourge of HIV/AIDS in<br />
America have been sadly mistaken. <strong>The</strong><br />
most recent data available indicate that<br />
there has actually been an increase of cases<br />
in Georgia in the present decade. In Atlanta,<br />
Positive Impact alone has serviced more<br />
than 4,100 clients so far this year. <strong>The</strong><br />
organization cites complacency as one of<br />
the main reasons for the increase and is trying<br />
to strengthen awareness of the danger in<br />
order to reverse this trend.<br />
To learn more about Positive Impact<br />
and ways in which to impact its mission<br />
directly, call Paul Plate or Michael Baker at<br />
404-589-9040. <strong>The</strong> scourge isn’t over yet,<br />
and in these times of reduced finances,<br />
agencies such as this need all the help they<br />
can get.
<strong>July</strong>-<strong>August</strong> 20<strong>09</strong> THE JEWISH GEORGIAN Page 37<br />
A Personal Memoir, part 1: Atlanta adolescence<br />
By David Macarov<br />
I<br />
grew up in the locker room of the<br />
Atlanta Braves—or, at least where the<br />
Braves locker room now stands. Of<br />
course, they weren’t called the Braves<br />
when I was growing up. <strong>The</strong>y were the<br />
Atlanta Crackers. <strong>The</strong> Atlanta team was<br />
named Crackers as a deliberate contrast to<br />
names like the enormous New York<br />
Giants, or, obviously, the victorious New<br />
York Yankees.<br />
iSeder<br />
From page 29<br />
—————<br />
Crackers were supposed to be<br />
unschooled, impolite, rather simple—in<br />
short, underdogs, and that was the image<br />
that the Atlanta team liked to portray,<br />
because it enlisted a lot of sympathy. It<br />
was also a humorous method of keeping<br />
alive the myth that the South was still<br />
fighting the War Between the States,<br />
which myth had already become an elaborate<br />
Southern joke. (“Never call it the Civil<br />
War, son,” a grizzled veteran at the State<br />
Capitol once said to me when I was a<br />
schoolboy, “because it was a most uncivil<br />
war.”)<br />
It was true that we probably learned<br />
more in school about that war than about<br />
the Revolution, and certainly more than<br />
the World War (this was before there was a<br />
World War II), but, as I remember it, we<br />
were taught that slavery was wrong and<br />
that maintaining the unity of the States<br />
was right.<br />
<strong>The</strong> War Between the States was simply<br />
taught as a fact of history, but there<br />
es with each passing day; no matter where<br />
we turn, it, or some facet of it, will forever<br />
be there.<br />
<strong>The</strong> question for the future then<br />
becomes: Can religion, absent of technological<br />
influence, especially in nations as<br />
progress-oriented and industrialized as the<br />
United States, ever truly exist on a mass<br />
scale? And if the answer is no, and you<br />
accept that technology does posses at least<br />
some de-spiritualizing qualities, what will<br />
all this mean for the American Jew in the<br />
future?<br />
In response to the first question,<br />
Reeves is clear about one thing: whether<br />
for good or bad, the ever-growing connection<br />
between religion and technology is an<br />
unavoidable condition of the future.<br />
“Young Jews today rely on technology<br />
in every aspect of their lives. <strong>The</strong> 25-yearold<br />
American Jew could not imagine not<br />
having technology; it would be unimaginable<br />
to not have a telephone, unimaginable<br />
to not have access to the Internet, unimaginable<br />
to not use e-mail,” Reeves said.<br />
And, at the suggestion that such a<br />
future relationship may have negative<br />
implications, Reeves showed no quit.<br />
were still enough short stories and novels<br />
and movies to make it seem like a glamorous<br />
war—Jeb Stuart’s cavalry;<br />
Stonewall Jackson’s last words; Pickett’s<br />
charge; Francis Marion, “the Swamp Fox”;<br />
noble Jefferson Davis; and, of course,<br />
angelic Robert E. Lee—were familiar to<br />
all of us. But we only put on the “proud<br />
Southerner” guise as an inside joke. It was<br />
all history, and rather ancient history.<br />
“Over fifty years ago,” to a youngster,<br />
is going back to the time of Noah. That’s<br />
why calling oneself a cracker had no historical<br />
connotation. Instead, its usage had<br />
become a form of reverse snobbery.<br />
“We’re crackers and proud of it,” had<br />
taken on an almost sly aspect. It was a<br />
method of deliberately exaggerating the<br />
characteristics that Northerners imputed to<br />
us, but which we knew weren’t there. At a<br />
later date, “redneck” took the place of<br />
“cracker,” but that was softened when<br />
Governor Gene Talmadge, of the red suspenders,<br />
began using the term “good ole<br />
boys.” Though Yankees never knew it and<br />
kept saying “cracker,” the really insulting<br />
phrase was “po’ white trash.”<br />
We never spoke of Yankees, by the<br />
way—that was a term they used themselves.<br />
To us, they were Northerners, or—<br />
when we deliberately wanted to exaggerate<br />
the differences—Nawtheners. I don’t<br />
imagine many people speak of Southerners<br />
and Northerners any more, and few people<br />
still use the term “cracker,” but, on the<br />
other hand, how many people in the United<br />
States—except in Atlanta—discuss what<br />
the Braves did last night, off an Indian<br />
reservation?<br />
“It would have been like saying, at the<br />
turn of the 20th century, if we engage people<br />
with the telephone, they’re going to be<br />
less <strong>Jewish</strong>. But the telephone became<br />
such an integral part of our society, we<br />
couldn’t imagine how we could possibly<br />
function without it. So I think these other<br />
functions of technology are the same;<br />
[young Jews] just can’t function without<br />
them, and so, by using these tools, we are<br />
reaching young people where they are,<br />
meeting them using a medium with which<br />
they are familiar.”<br />
Still, the telephone has been around<br />
for ages, and, in the lives of many Jews, its<br />
use at certain times—such as Shabbat—<br />
continues to be strictly prohibited and is<br />
done so specifically in the name of<br />
Judaism. So why, then, can we not prevent<br />
other forms of technology from finding<br />
their way into our prayers? Or, with anti-<br />
Semitism declining and intermarriage at an<br />
all-time high, is the increasingly closer<br />
connection between religion and technology<br />
merely the product of what is quickly<br />
becoming a larger and larger pool of<br />
Americanized Jews with a less traditional<br />
tilt?<br />
Only time can answer these questions,<br />
and what either conclusion would mean<br />
for the future of American Judaism<br />
—————<br />
We used to make fun of Northerners,<br />
of course, and the trick was to do it so that<br />
they didn’t know they were being made<br />
fun of. For the most part, the humor was<br />
harmless. We would show them the round<br />
water tower in Druid Hills and explain that<br />
it was a big golf ball—a tribute to Bobby<br />
Jones. On showing them the Cyclorama,<br />
the panoramic painting in Grant Park, we<br />
assured them that the German artists who<br />
made the memorial were later deliberately<br />
blinded so that they could never create<br />
another one. We always mentioned<br />
Sherman’s retreat through Georgia to the<br />
sea (and by then, most of them didn’t<br />
know enough history to catch the joke),<br />
and we showed them the Governor’s mansion,<br />
explaining that it was the seat of the<br />
Ku Klux Klan. Sometimes, though, we<br />
played into Northerners’ worst stereotypes<br />
of Southerners.<br />
After a while, the visitor usually realized<br />
he was being kidded, but I remember<br />
one particularly obnoxious visitor, who<br />
kept bragging about how much better and<br />
bigger and more interesting “<strong>The</strong> City”<br />
was. We became so annoyed with him that<br />
we pretended we were going to take him to<br />
view a lynching, to his horror. We were<br />
evidently very convincing, because when<br />
we paused for a traffic light, he leaped out<br />
of the car and ran. We watched him disappear<br />
and shook our heads at the naiveté<br />
and stupidity of supposedly sophisticated<br />
Nawtheners.<br />
remains equally unclear. Either way,<br />
though, one thing is for sure: Rabbi Reeves<br />
has an insightful and determined perspective<br />
on religion, its purpose, and what it<br />
should work to accomplish. Regardless of<br />
the future implications, he has incorporated<br />
technology into religious practice with<br />
the most pure and innovative intentions.<br />
“When we were coming up with how<br />
we would use technology for the iSeder,<br />
some people thought, ‘Oh, are people<br />
going to be in their own homes and connect<br />
into the Seder that way?’ I didn’t want<br />
to do that purposely, because then I don’t<br />
think that you would really connect with<br />
other people in the way that religion is<br />
supposed to bring people together and<br />
form community.”<br />
—————<br />
<strong>The</strong> girls of my generation would<br />
never date a boy who wore white shoes in<br />
the wintertime. White shoes were the style<br />
in the South as well as in the North, but<br />
Southerners wore black or brown when<br />
winter started, and the Northerners—mostly<br />
college boys going to Georgia Tech—<br />
continued with their whites. White shoes<br />
in the wintertime marked someone as not<br />
only from the North, which was bad, but<br />
specifically from New Jersey, which was<br />
even worse than New York. White shoes in<br />
the winter automatically meant no date.<br />
When we learned that New Yorkers<br />
never spoke of New York by name—it,<br />
was always “<strong>The</strong> City” (“In <strong>The</strong> City,<br />
we...” or, “One day, when I was in <strong>The</strong><br />
City...”) we used that to needle them, too.<br />
Whenever a New Yorker began sounding<br />
off about <strong>The</strong> City, we always looked<br />
dumb and asked innocently, “Kansas City?<br />
Jersey City? Salt Lake City?” We took<br />
pleasure in forcing him to specify “New<br />
York City,” and then our reply was invariably<br />
a disinterested, “Oh, that city.”<br />
Once we had created a good relationship<br />
with a visitor, however, we usually<br />
showed him the incomplete carving on<br />
Stone Mountain, Druid Hills, the Candler<br />
estate, the Fox <strong>The</strong>atre, the Cyclorama,<br />
and the Biltmore Hotel. But, regardless of<br />
whatever else we did with visitors, we<br />
always ended up at the Alliance.<br />
Next issue: Good times at the <strong>Jewish</strong><br />
Educational Alliance<br />
Finally, no matter where you fall on<br />
the issue, our overwhelming reliance on<br />
technology is, no doubt, here to stay.<br />
According to Rabbi Reeves, Judaism can<br />
either harness technology’s presence and<br />
use it to persist and grow even stronger in<br />
the years to come, or, through avoidance in<br />
the name of tradition, neglect the needs<br />
and demands of its future followers, while<br />
contributing to its own end.<br />
Reeves definitely believes technology<br />
will be important in keeping Judaism alive.<br />
“I think in 100 years, we’re going to have<br />
technologies in the synagogue that right<br />
now we can’t really imagine. I think that<br />
the use of technology, in the process of<br />
how we do everything, is only going to<br />
increase.”
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Schwartz on Sports<br />
A<br />
BY Jerry<br />
Schwartz<br />
few months ago, I ran into Bruce<br />
Weinstein at the MJCCA, and he<br />
updated me on one of my “Where<br />
Are <strong>The</strong>y Now?” guys. Arnie Fielkow<br />
played in the Men’s Basketball League in<br />
the ‘90s and was a terrific player. He even<br />
tried out and made the United States basketball<br />
team that played in the World<br />
Maccabiah Games in Israel.<br />
During the time Arnie lived in Atlanta,<br />
he was commissioner of the Southern<br />
Baseball Association. Bruce told me that,<br />
when they fined players, the money was<br />
given to charities, and Arnie determined<br />
which ones. He designated a lot of that fine<br />
money to the Marcus <strong>Jewish</strong> Community<br />
Center of Atlanta. Bruce, at that time, was<br />
chairman of the MJCCA’s Health,<br />
Recreation, and Wellness Department,<br />
which benefited from those donations.<br />
I lost contact with Arnie when he left<br />
Atlanta, so I asked Bruce to fill me in.<br />
Arnie, who is a lawyer, moved to New<br />
Orleans in the late ‘90s and took a job as a<br />
high-level administrator with the New<br />
Orleans Saints. When Katrina hit, the Saints<br />
were playing out of town, and the organiza-<br />
tion had to decide whether they were going<br />
to return to New Orleans to play. <strong>The</strong> owner<br />
of the Saints did not want them to return,<br />
and Arnie did.<br />
As a consequence of their disagreement,<br />
Arnie lost his job. But public opinion<br />
was on Arnie’s side, and he became a hero<br />
in New Orleans for the position he took. As<br />
a result, he decided to run for public office,<br />
for president of the New Orleans City<br />
Council, in 2006. Bruce’s daughter, Brook<br />
Weinstein Berger, who went to law school<br />
in New Orleans and lived near Arnie,<br />
worked on his campaign.<br />
Even though Arnie was running against<br />
an incumbent who was heavily favored, he<br />
won a very close election. So, if you know<br />
Arnie and go to New Orleans, he probably<br />
won’t be able to get you Saints’ tickets, but<br />
he might arrange a tour of City Hall.<br />
While talking with Bruce, I told him<br />
that I wrote a column in December of 2008<br />
about sports memorabilia and had interviewed<br />
Dean Zindler, who owns Zindler’s<br />
Sports Collectibles. I was also aware that<br />
Bruce had an extensive collection of baseball<br />
cards that he had collected in his youth,<br />
and I thought it would be interesting to follow<br />
up on that.<br />
Bruce grew up in Birmingham and<br />
started collecting baseball cards when he<br />
was about ten. From the period of 1956-<br />
1962, he collected a card for every major<br />
league baseball player. He was one kid<br />
whose mother did not throw away his col-<br />
Bruce Weinstein and his priceless possessions<br />
lection, which remains intact today. He was<br />
adamant when he told me he would never<br />
sell his cards. His favorite is Mickey<br />
Mantle’s rookie year. No telling how much<br />
that would be worth today.<br />
Bruce keeps his cards in large, plasticcovered<br />
albums. Friends often ask if they<br />
can bring their kids over to see the collection.<br />
When they get there, the kids usually<br />
end up watching TV, and it’s the fathers<br />
who spend time going through the cards.<br />
Bruce also told me that, when he<br />
moved to Atlanta in 1971, he started collecting<br />
autographed baseballs and now has<br />
approximately 100. He was most interested<br />
in getting Hall of Famers and has attended<br />
the Hall of Fame Induction ceremony the<br />
last two years in Cooperstown, New York.<br />
He has autographed baseballs from Joe<br />
DiMaggio, Ted Williams, Pete Rose,<br />
Mickey Mantle, Whitey Ford, Yogi Berra,<br />
and Don Larsen.<br />
Of course, I asked Bruce about Hank<br />
Aaron, and he said he had an autographed<br />
ball from him, too. Bruce was at the game<br />
when Hank hit homer number 715 to pass<br />
Babe Ruth as the home-run king. He has a<br />
certificate proving he was there. He even<br />
went back to an Old Timers Game to get a<br />
ball signed by Al Downing, the Dodger<br />
pitcher who gave up home run 715 to<br />
Aaron.<br />
Bruce is a longtime Braves season ticket<br />
holder. Now, he needs to be certain to get<br />
autographed balls from Gregg Maddux,<br />
Tom Glavine, John Smoltz, and Chipper<br />
Jones, because they’ll all be in the Hall of<br />
Fame one day.<br />
ALTA COCKER SOFTBALL GAME #2. I<br />
heard from Gene Benator that the second<br />
annual Alta Cocker Softball Game is scheduled<br />
for June 28 at the Marcus <strong>Jewish</strong><br />
Community Center of Atlanta (MJCCA).<br />
Once again, Marcus Katz has graciously<br />
offered to provide the refreshments for<br />
players, family, and friends.<br />
Gene is determined to have an even<br />
bigger tournament than last year, as evidence<br />
by his initial e-mail, sent out to about<br />
60 guys encouraging them to recruit other<br />
guys who played in the Men’s Softball<br />
League from 1971 to 1992. Last year, the<br />
guys were divided into 4- to 15-man teams,<br />
and we played 2- to 3-inning games.<br />
This year, Gene has planned for more<br />
guys and even greater athletic ability to be<br />
showcased. He joked that they had planned<br />
a Home Run Derby Contest, but the<br />
MJCCA said they didn’t have enough time<br />
to set up the “Kid Pitch” fences. He also<br />
wanted to have a “jugs gun”—a radar gun<br />
that measures the speed of the pitch—but<br />
the gun didn’t register in the teens.<br />
I told Gene that I would be at the game<br />
this year solely as a reporter, rather than a<br />
participant. I survived last year’s game with<br />
only a torn pair of blue jeans, managed to<br />
field most of the grounders hit my way at<br />
shortstop, and got the ball to first base without<br />
any bounces. I also was able to hit the<br />
modified pitch every time up, even though I<br />
didn’t get the ball out of the infield. I am<br />
going to leave the game to the guys who are<br />
still actually playing, but I look forward to<br />
seeing everyone again, and I’ll cover it in<br />
the next “Schwartz on Sports.”<br />
REMEMBRANCE. I was saddened to hear<br />
that Larry Wolfe had died. He was probably<br />
the best catcher who ever played in the<br />
Men’s Softball League. Larry was a fiery<br />
competitor who had all the qualities of a<br />
great player. He could hit for power and<br />
run, and he had a great arm. I had the opportunity<br />
to play against him in many Center<br />
League and City League games.
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Thought You’d Like to Know<br />
By Jonathan Barach<br />
STIMULATING SUMMER. <strong>The</strong> Marcus<br />
<strong>Jewish</strong> Community Center of Atlanta<br />
(MJCCA) is offering a number of summer<br />
programs for mature adults. Film Club:<br />
Enjoy contemporary and classic films and<br />
participate in a lively discussion, <strong>July</strong> 26,<br />
6:00 p.m.; admission is $8 for non-members,<br />
$5 for members. Edgewise Thursday:<br />
Leaders from the Atlanta area will speak on<br />
their particular areas of expertise and lead<br />
group discussions, Thursdays, 10:00 a.m.-<br />
12:00 noon; admission is $5 for non-members,<br />
free for members. For information on<br />
these and other programs, visit www.atlantajcc.org.<br />
ON THEIR OWN. On <strong>July</strong> 29, 7:00-8:30<br />
p.m., <strong>Jewish</strong> Family & Career Services’<br />
Tools for Independence program will host a<br />
free Transition Workshop for families of transition-age<br />
young adults with developmental<br />
disabilities. Topics will include transitioning<br />
from high school to adult services, as well as<br />
transitioning from living with parents to living<br />
independently. <strong>The</strong> workshop facilitator<br />
is Cheryl Rhodes, a licensed marriage and<br />
family therapist and mother of a young adult<br />
who has recently transitioned to adult services.<br />
<strong>The</strong> workshop will take place at JF&CS,<br />
4549 Chamblee Dunwoody Road. RSVP to<br />
Brenda Revere at revere@jfcs-atlanta.org.<br />
THEY’LL SHOP ‘TIL THEY DROP.<br />
Another Sunday Afternoon At Loehmann’s, a<br />
new comedy by Peachtree Battle playwrights<br />
John Gibson and Anthony Morris, is being<br />
held over through <strong>August</strong> 30 at the Ansley<br />
Park Playhouse, 1545 Peachtree Street,<br />
Peachtree Pointe Building, in Midtown<br />
Atlanta. Performances are Thursday-<br />
Saturday, at 8:00 p.m., and Sunday, at 3:00<br />
p.m. Tickets are $26.00, including tax; group<br />
rates and gift certificates are available. Call<br />
the Box Office at 404-875-1193, or visit<br />
www.AnsleyParkPlayhouse.com.<br />
ROLL UP YOUR SLEEVE. <strong>The</strong> next City<br />
Wide Blood Drive, sponsored by <strong>Jewish</strong> War<br />
Veterans Atlanta Post #112, is <strong>August</strong> 2, 9:00<br />
a.m.-2:00 p.m., at Ahavath Achim<br />
Synagogue, 600 Peachtree Battle Avenue<br />
N.W. Appointments can be made at<br />
https://www.givelife.org/index.cfm?Sponsor<br />
=jwv; use code JWV. Walk–ins are always<br />
welcome, but donors with appointments are<br />
given priority. Bring a picture ID. For questions<br />
about eligibility, contact the American<br />
Red Cross at 1-866-562-7156.<br />
SENSORY-SENSITIVE MOVIES. <strong>The</strong><br />
MJCCA is presenting Sensory-Sensitive<br />
Movies for children with autism at Zaban<br />
Park, one Sunday each month at the Morris<br />
and Rae Frank <strong>The</strong>atre. <strong>The</strong> next screening is<br />
<strong>August</strong> 9. Children with autism or sensory<br />
issues can now enjoy the movie theater experience.<br />
<strong>The</strong>se screenings are free to both<br />
members and non-members. For more information,<br />
contact Sammy Rosenberg at 678-<br />
812-4<strong>09</strong>2, e-mail sammy.rosenberg@atlantajcc.org,<br />
or visit atlantajcc.org.<br />
VOLUNTEER WITH JF&CS. JF&CS is<br />
offering free Volunteer Orientation sessions<br />
<strong>August</strong> 19 and October 20, 6:00 p.m., and<br />
September 16 and November 18, 12:00 noon.<br />
<strong>The</strong> orientation will provide a brief overview<br />
of the agency and volunteer opportunities.<br />
Sessions will take place at JF&CS, 4549<br />
Chamblee Dunwoody Road. RSVP to volunteer@jfcs-atlanta.org.<br />
CHANGING TIMES. <strong>The</strong> American-Israel<br />
Chamber of Commerce Professional<br />
Committee will present “Economic and<br />
Political Changes: Effects on U.S.-Israel<br />
Business,” a seminar for legal, accounting,<br />
financial, and real estate professionals,<br />
<strong>August</strong> 27, 7:30 a.m.-1:00 p.m. This event<br />
takes place at the Selig Center, 1440 Spring<br />
Street, Midtown. For details, visit<br />
www.aiccse.org/Event/EventInfo.aspx?Even<br />
tID=485.<br />
HIGH HOLY DAYS STUDY INSTITUTE.<br />
An evening of study to prepare for Rosh<br />
Hashanah and Yom Kippur will take place<br />
September 1, 7:00 p.m., at Congregation Etz<br />
Chaim. Participants can attend two classes,<br />
7:15-8:15 p.m. and 8:30-9:30 p.m. Chabad of<br />
Cobb, Congregation Etz Chaim, Temple Kol<br />
Emeth, Temple Beth Tikvah, and Temple<br />
Kehillat Chaim will join with the MJCCA’s<br />
Lisa Brill Institute to explore themes, prayers,<br />
and customs of the High Holy Days. <strong>The</strong> rabbis<br />
and cantors of the participating synagogues<br />
will lead study sessions. For more<br />
information, call Institute Chair Rabbi Paul<br />
Kerbel, 770-973-0137. Registration is $10.00<br />
per person.<br />
FIGHTING HUNGER. <strong>The</strong> Atlanta<br />
Rabbinical Association is hosting Hunger<br />
101, September 2, at Temple Sinai, 6:00-9:00<br />
p.m. This workshop will address the urgent<br />
need to fight hunger locally, nationally, and<br />
internationally. Atlanta Community Food<br />
Bank Executive Director Bill Bolling and<br />
Mazon President Dr. Eric Schockman will<br />
deliver the keynote addresses. For more<br />
information, call Temple Sinai, 404-252-<br />
3073.<br />
RELAX, REFLECT, CELEBRATE.<br />
LimmudFest is Labor Day Weekend,<br />
September 4-7, at Tumbling Waters Retreat<br />
& Conference Center at Ramah Darom,<br />
Clayton, Georgia. At LimmudFest, Jews of<br />
all ages can take a step in their personal<br />
<strong>Jewish</strong> journeys, explore their connections to<br />
See THOUGHT, page 41
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By Belle Klavonsky<br />
MOVING UP. At the end of each school<br />
year, 5th-grade students at <strong>The</strong> Davis<br />
Academy are ceremoniously welcomed to<br />
Middle School. In a symbolic gesture of<br />
l’dor v’dor, Middle School students pass the<br />
Torah to younger siblings who will next year<br />
move up to the Middle School. Pictured:<br />
(from left) Allie Teilhaber, Blake Teilhaber,<br />
Molli Botnick, Logan Botnick, Lynsey<br />
Maya, and Daniel Maya<br />
FIELD DAY SPIRIT. Davis Academy 3rdgrader<br />
Aaron Rice (pictured) leads the blue<br />
team’s effort at the rope pull on Lag B’Omer<br />
Field Day, May 12. This spirited day of fun<br />
and competition for Davis students in<br />
Mechina-4th grade was made possible by the<br />
generosity of Davis PTO volunteers.<br />
JOURNEY OF A LIFETIME. In May, Davis<br />
Academy 8th-graders capped off their years<br />
of study with a fantastic two-week adventure<br />
to Israel. From the Old City of Jerusalem to<br />
the museums of Tel Aviv to the top of<br />
Masada to rappelling down cliffs at the<br />
Golan Heights, students had many unforgettable<br />
experiences. Pictured: (top to bottom)<br />
Jordan Hirsch, Brandon Hirsch, and Jared<br />
Meline stretch out in the Red Canyon of the<br />
Negev Desert.<br />
GRADUATION DAY. On June 2, seventynine<br />
8th-graders, <strong>The</strong> Davis Academy’s<br />
largest class ever, graduated from the<br />
Reform <strong>Jewish</strong> day school. It was an exciting<br />
evening for the students and their families, as<br />
they recalled many memories from their<br />
years at Davis. Pictured: (from left) Jacob<br />
Saban, Jon Adelman, Carly Aronin, and<br />
Marisa Schiff present a gift of an awards case<br />
for the Middle School.<br />
EPSTEIN EAGLE AWARD. Epstein School<br />
8th-graders Hilit Jacobson and Geoffrey<br />
Nathan (pictured, with Coach Jim Battoglia)<br />
received the Epstein Eagle Athlete of the<br />
Year Award, given each year to one male and<br />
one female 8th-grade student. Candidates<br />
must play sports in all three seasons and<br />
exemplify high character in leadership,<br />
coachability, and sportsmanship. <strong>The</strong> award<br />
was presented by 2008 recipients and alumni<br />
Adina Beiner and Daniel Feinberg. Other<br />
recipients are: Sarah Arogeti and (tie) Daniel<br />
Yellin and Mitchell Alterman, 2007; Meghan<br />
Light and Eli Oppenheimer, 2006; Jessie<br />
Levitan and Justin Shemaria, 2005; and Liza<br />
Arogeti and Perry Bern, 2004.<br />
EPSTEIN IN THE NEWS. Sixth-grade students<br />
in Kendra Fabry’s advisory class at<br />
<strong>The</strong> Epstein School engaged in a servicelearning<br />
project as part of their yearlong<br />
study of hunger issues. <strong>The</strong>y recently<br />
unpacked, inspected, sorted, and packed<br />
food at the Atlanta Community Food Bank<br />
and also brought donations of food with<br />
them. Channel 2 News (WSB-Atlanta)<br />
videotaped the students at the Food Bank for<br />
a May 5 news segment; Carly Kaplan and<br />
Leah Greenberg (pictured) were interviewed.<br />
Parents Diane Lechter and Lori Peljovich<br />
chaperoned, helped at the Food Bank, and<br />
drove students.<br />
BECOMING A PART OF HISTORY. Go<br />
Where your Eyes Take You: Creating a New<br />
Future after the<br />
Holocaust, a<br />
hardbound book<br />
published by<br />
Epstein Middle<br />
School students<br />
(pictured) is<br />
being archived at<br />
<strong>The</strong> USC Shoah<br />
Foundation<br />
Institute for<br />
Visual History<br />
and Education.<br />
<strong>The</strong> book, which<br />
features stories<br />
written by 7th- and 8th-graders, was part of<br />
project designed to study and celebrate the<br />
stories of 23 Holocaust survivors and the<br />
rebuilding of their lives. <strong>The</strong> USC Shoah<br />
Foundation became interested in archiving<br />
the book after Epstein parent Meryl Stein<br />
contacted Linda Stern at the foundation to<br />
tell her about it.<br />
A QUAIL TALE. On the last day of school,<br />
<strong>The</strong> Epstein School welcomed new members<br />
to the Epstein family, when three quail<br />
chicks were born three days overdue. <strong>The</strong><br />
tiny friends are part of the elementary school<br />
students’ biological studies of lifecycles,<br />
under the direction and guidance of<br />
Elementary Science Specialist Donna<br />
Goodson (pictured) and Science Consultant<br />
Debbie Lanier. When students return in<br />
<strong>August</strong>, they will be able to see how the<br />
quails have grown over the summer. As the<br />
birds reach adolescence, they will be<br />
returned to the quail farm, where the cycle<br />
will begin again.<br />
DID KERMIT GET IT WRONG? <strong>The</strong><br />
Epstein School’s pre-K class, taught by Joan<br />
Lewis and Jackie Steinhauser, released classroom<br />
pet Lollipop, a red-eared slider turtle<br />
(pictured), into the Leah’s Pond, located in<br />
the Educational Garden. Lollipop apparently<br />
learned that Epstein’s Sustainable<br />
Educational Garden was recently designated<br />
a Certified Wildlife Habitat by the National<br />
Wildlife Federation and expressed his desire<br />
to be free from his cage and live the good<br />
life. <strong>The</strong> students enjoyed watching the turtle<br />
as he swam away. Lollipop is enjoying his<br />
new home and was recently sighted sunbathing.<br />
So maybe it is easy being green!<br />
A FATHER’S DAY MESSAGE FROM<br />
SUMMER CAMP. Seven-year-old Audrey<br />
Gruenhut (pictured) has fun hula-hooping at<br />
the Epstein Summer Adventure Camp carnival.<br />
At the face-painting station, she made a<br />
special request to have a love message to her<br />
dad, Mike Gruenhut, painted on her face, so<br />
she could surprise him for Father’s Day. For<br />
more information on Epstein Summer<br />
Adventure Camp, visit www.epsteinatlanta.org.<br />
ZOO SLEEPOVER. Greenfield Hebrew<br />
Academy 1st-graders ended their study of<br />
animals by participating in Zoo Atlanta’s<br />
Nightcrawler Program. <strong>The</strong>y enjoyed a guided<br />
tour, including behind-the-scene spaces<br />
and a night visit to the reptile house. At one<br />
point, the tour guide stopped Beth Intro’s<br />
group in front of the orangutans and asked if<br />
the children knew any sign language, which<br />
the orangutans were learning. As the children
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sang a song that included sign language,<br />
which they learned in class, the orangutans<br />
moved closer to watch them. <strong>The</strong> children<br />
were thrilled with the reaction to their song.<br />
Pictured: Tamar Stein<br />
STUDYING CHEMICAL REACTIONS.<br />
GHA 5th-graders in Sarah Topper’s class<br />
studied chemical reactions by shooting off<br />
Alka-Seltzer rockets. <strong>The</strong>y formulated questions,<br />
examined what happens when baking<br />
soda and vinegar (acetic acid) combine to<br />
make carbon dioxide gas, and experimented<br />
with Alka-Seltzer and water. Questions<br />
included: Which type of film canister will go<br />
the highest? Does a larger amount of Alka-<br />
Seltzer cause the canister to go higher?<br />
Using the same amount of Alka-Seltzer, will<br />
a small amount of water or a large amount<br />
cause a bigger pop? Does it matter if you<br />
shake the container? Pictured: Jake Chesler<br />
and Carmela Horwitz<br />
A VISIT TO THE AQUARIUM. GHA students<br />
in Gan Aleph (pictured) concluded<br />
their studies of sea and ocean animals with a<br />
fantastic trip to the Georgia Aquarium on<br />
May 19. Each student had studied a specific<br />
creature. At the aquarium, the students had to<br />
find their sea creature, take a photo of it,<br />
draw it, and answer some questions about<br />
what they had observed about it. After touring<br />
the entire aquarium, the class ate lunch<br />
outside, then headed back to GHA.<br />
MATH MAVENS. Seventh-grader Adam<br />
Brasch (pictured with teacher Robyn<br />
Cooper) represented GHA at the MATH-<br />
COUNTS state competition, finishing 39th<br />
among 180 students. In the Georgia Math<br />
League contest, GHA placed 15th among 90<br />
schools at the 7th-grade level, with Adam<br />
Brasch placing 25th among the 41 top 7thgraders;<br />
of 84 schools participating at the<br />
8th-grade level, GHA was 22nd. Several<br />
GHA students were among nearly 150,000<br />
participants worldwide in this year’s Math<br />
Olympiad; Abby Stein placed in the top 2%,<br />
and Jake Belinky, Sam Viness, Adam<br />
Brasch, and Ross Berlin placed in the top<br />
10% at their grade levels.<br />
GOLF CHAMPS. <strong>The</strong> Greenfield Hebrew<br />
Academy Golf Team, coached by Manny<br />
Fialkow, won 1st place in the MAAC<br />
Conference, on April 22. Seventh-grader<br />
Harrison Brown took 1st place individually.<br />
Team members are Sam Viness, Elliot<br />
Schnabl, Harrison Brown, Dylan Shaban,<br />
and Ethan Fialkow.<br />
CONGRATULATIONS GRADUATES.<br />
Fifty-three Weber School seniors (pictured)<br />
graduated June 7, at a ceremony at<br />
Greenfield Hebrew Academy. Students were<br />
accepted to 74 colleges and universities; they<br />
will attend schools including American,<br />
Clemson, Emory, Georgia State, George<br />
Washington, Indiana, Northwestern, Ohio<br />
State, Tulane, Washington, and Wesleyan<br />
universities; universities of Alabama,<br />
Delaware, Florida, Georgia, Maryland,<br />
Michigan, and Pennsylvania; Oberlin,<br />
Gainesville State, and Guilford colleges;<br />
Raphael Recanati International School;<br />
College of Charleston; Fashion Institute of<br />
Technology; and Georgia Tech. <strong>The</strong>y have<br />
received almost $3 million in merit scholarships;<br />
in addition, of 19 students accepted at<br />
Georgia universities, 92% received HOPE<br />
scholarships totaling $926,000.<br />
GOVERNOR’S HONORS. Weber student<br />
Ariella Axler was selected to participate in<br />
the Georgia Governor’s Honors Program, a<br />
state-funded six-week summer instructional<br />
program designed to provide intellectually<br />
gifted and artistically talented high school<br />
students challenging and enriching educational<br />
opportunities. Students are nominated<br />
for the program by current teachers.<br />
DANFORTH SCHOLAR. Gideon Palte<br />
(pictured), <strong>The</strong> Weber School’s Class of<br />
2008 valedictorian, was one of fewer than 30<br />
students to be named a Danforth Scholar.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Danforth Scholars Program at<br />
Washington University in St. Louis honors<br />
the student who embraces high ideals and<br />
whose life choices are guided by personal<br />
integrity, selflessness, a commitment to community,<br />
and a dedication to leadership and<br />
academic excellence. It carries with it a yearly,<br />
renewable full scholarship.<br />
Thought<br />
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<strong>Jewish</strong> ideas and tradition, and meet people<br />
who share their enthusiasm and curiosity.<br />
This family-friendly weekend will include<br />
children’s programs and childcare. Register<br />
before June 1 for the early-bird discount.<br />
Accommodations and costs start at<br />
$239/adults and $149/children. For registration<br />
and addition information, visit<br />
www.limmudse.org.<br />
LEARN A LANGUAGE. Beginning<br />
September 14, Oglethorpe University will<br />
offer eight-week, evening, non-credit language<br />
courses in conversational French,<br />
Hebrew, Italian, Mandarin Chinese,<br />
Spanish, and Greek. Most are introductory<br />
level, with advanced classes offered in<br />
Spanish and French. Many courses will<br />
conclude with a trip to a restaurant, where<br />
students can order and converse in their<br />
chosen language. <strong>The</strong> cost per course is<br />
$150. To register, visit<br />
www.oglethorpe.edu, and type “noncredit”<br />
in the search bar, or call Rose Cunningham<br />
at 404-634-8016.<br />
MUSICAL AND CULTURAL DIVERSI-<br />
TY. <strong>The</strong> Idan Raichel Project will perform<br />
November 7, 8:00 p.m., at the Rialto<br />
Center for the Arts at Georgia State<br />
University. <strong>The</strong> Idan Raichel Project is an<br />
Israeli musical collaborative that has<br />
achieved success by looking beyond cultural<br />
differences and celebrating the value of<br />
diversity. Led by young keyboardist, composer,<br />
and producer Idan Raichel, <strong>The</strong><br />
Project blends traditional Ethiopian folk<br />
music, Arabic poetry, Yemenite chants,<br />
Biblical psalms, and Caribbean rhythms<br />
with sophisticated production techniques.<br />
For information, visit<br />
YOUNG JOURNALIST. Jason Feldman, a<br />
rising senior at <strong>The</strong> Weber School, was<br />
selected as a national youth correspondent to<br />
the 20<strong>09</strong> Washington Journalism and Media<br />
Conference at George Masion University.<br />
GREAT SEASON FOR BASEBALL. After<br />
enjoying its most successful season in recent<br />
memory, the Weber Rams baseball team finished<br />
the season tied for 4th place in Region<br />
1–AAA with Young Americans Christian<br />
School and Pinecrest Academy. Juniors<br />
Daniel Maloon (pictured), outfield/first base,<br />
and Jed Wasilewsky, catcher, earned All-<br />
Region honors. Jed also received Honorable<br />
Mention All–State honors.<br />
http://atlanta.mfa.gov.il/mfm/Web/main/do<br />
cument.asp?documentid=124299.<br />
ORT SOLIDARITY MISSION. ORT<br />
America is organizing a groundbreaking<br />
national <strong>Jewish</strong> solidarity mission to<br />
Argentina and Uruguay, November 9-15.<br />
<strong>The</strong> mission offers an insider’s view of the<br />
<strong>Jewish</strong> communities of Montevideo and<br />
Buenos Aires, featuring one-of-a-kind<br />
briefings, visits to awe-inspiring landmarks<br />
and famous beaches, an unforgettable<br />
Shabbat experience, and even an opportunity<br />
to learn tango at its birthplace.<br />
Participants will meet with educators, students,<br />
and community members who are<br />
successfully grappling with today’s challenges<br />
with assistance from ORT. <strong>The</strong>re is<br />
an optional extension to Santiago, Chile. To<br />
learn more, visit www.ortamerica.org/missions,<br />
or call 800-519-2678, ext. 360.<br />
RETRACING JEWISH FOOTSTEPS IN<br />
NEW YORK CITY. <strong>The</strong> first <strong>Jewish</strong> learning<br />
travel program will be led by Dr. Steve<br />
Chervin October 7-11, developed under the<br />
auspices of the MJCCA’s Lisa F. Brill<br />
Department of <strong>Jewish</strong> Learning. Highlights<br />
include visiting Ellis Island, Statue of<br />
Liberty, Temple Shearith Israel, Museum of<br />
<strong>Jewish</strong> Heritage, Tenement Museum,<br />
<strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>The</strong>ological Seminary, Hebrew<br />
Union College, and experience Kabbalat<br />
Shabbat services at B’nai Jeshurun. Prior to<br />
the trip, three mandatory classes will be<br />
held about the <strong>Jewish</strong> history of the sites to<br />
be visited, facilitated by Dr. Steve Chervin.<br />
<strong>The</strong> fee is $1,999, plus airfare. For more<br />
information, contact Cheri Levitan at<br />
cheri.levitan@atlantajcc.org.
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<strong>Jewish</strong> Marriage Initiative encourages happy families<br />
By Shoshana Cenker<br />
A<br />
s attendees gathered for the first<br />
<strong>Jewish</strong> Marriage Initiative (JMI)<br />
event, June 9, at Congregation B’nai<br />
Torah, they were greeted by the band Tevya,<br />
which played such fitting tunes as “Sunrise<br />
Sunset” and “Love and Marriage.”<br />
<strong>The</strong> <strong>Jewish</strong> Marriage Initiative is a new<br />
marriage education and enrichment organization<br />
that focuses on delivering the message of<br />
shalom bayit (literally, peace at home) or<br />
domestic tranquility.<br />
“JMI is devoted to empowering relationships<br />
with timeless <strong>Jewish</strong> wisdom and modern<br />
psychology,” said Rabbi Mordechai<br />
Pollack, JMI’s associate director. “This<br />
organization was designed and developed to<br />
teach the skills needed to better relationships.”<br />
At this forum, entitled “Happy<br />
Relationships…<strong>The</strong> Foundation of Life,” a<br />
diverse panel—a senator, a <strong>Jewish</strong> educator, a<br />
rabbi, and a psychologist—presented valuable<br />
tools to help take relationships from<br />
good to great.<br />
Georgia State Senate Minority Whip<br />
David Adelman opened the discussion with a<br />
startling statistic. “Georgia leads the nation in<br />
the number of high school dropouts,” he said.<br />
“Fifty percent do not graduate on schedule, a<br />
tragically high rate.”<br />
But what does that have to do with<br />
healthy marriages? “Some of the failure in<br />
education is failure of happy families,”<br />
explained Senator Adelman.<br />
“You can increase the likelihood<br />
that your children will<br />
have a happy family if you<br />
have a happy family.”<br />
Senator Adelman<br />
acknowledged the pressures<br />
put on the modern family—<br />
the pull of career, community,<br />
and civic obligations; the<br />
needs of children and family—and<br />
offered suggestions<br />
on easing the pressure.<br />
“Involving your extended<br />
family is critical to making a<br />
good family great,” said<br />
Senator Adelman. “When<br />
families live within close<br />
proximity, families are better.”<br />
Next up on the panel was Epstein School<br />
Associate Head Roz Cohen, who just celebrated<br />
her 45th wedding anniversary.<br />
Mrs. Cohen challenged audience members<br />
to take responsibility in their relationships.<br />
“A husband is not responsible for his<br />
wife’s happiness; the wife has the power to<br />
do for herself, and the husband can help.<br />
Don’t expect all the gaps to be filled by<br />
someone else,” said Cohen. “Focus on what<br />
is, rather that what isn’t. Appreciate what you<br />
do have, and know that differences are okay.”<br />
Mrs. Cohen expressed the importance of<br />
being a good listener and asking the right<br />
questions. “It’s essential to make time to<br />
share ideas. Don’t assume we know what<br />
people want or need—you<br />
must verbalize. Your<br />
spouse wants to make you<br />
happy, so tell him or her<br />
how,” said Cohen. “Think<br />
about what you say before<br />
you say it, and know that<br />
how you react is very<br />
important. We don’t want<br />
to make a mistake in how<br />
we communicate. It takes<br />
ten compliments to make<br />
up for just one insult.”<br />
Rabbi David<br />
Silverman addressed the<br />
crowd next with an interjection<br />
of Torah: ‘It is not<br />
good for man to be alone,<br />
I will make a helpmate to oppose him.”<br />
“We learn from this that G-d was showing<br />
Adam that we must make room for others,”<br />
explained Rabbi Silverman. “G-d also<br />
introduced conflict in a controlled area.<br />
Conflict is the best thing for change and<br />
growth—conflict creates the opportunity to<br />
become better. We must embrace differences,<br />
hope for resolution, and know that through<br />
challenges, there is self-discovery. A partnership<br />
is about giving to others; giving creates<br />
a profound sense of love.”<br />
Licensed Clinical Psychologist Dr.<br />
Aaron Feldman rounded out the panel presentations<br />
by reminding the audience that to<br />
build and sustain a healthy relationship,<br />
“Each partner must be committed to meeting<br />
Dr. Aaron Feldman<br />
the needs of their spouse.”<br />
Dr. Feldman spoke about <strong>The</strong> Five Love<br />
Languages as described in the book of the<br />
same name by Dr. Gary Chapman. “How we<br />
feel loved is different to everyone—identify<br />
what makes you feel loved and what makes<br />
your spouse feel loved,” said Dr. Feldman.<br />
<strong>The</strong> five love languages are:<br />
• Words of Affirmation—expressing<br />
appreciation verbally.<br />
• Quality Time—expressing love with<br />
the gift of time.<br />
• Receiving Gifts—notes, favorite flowers,<br />
etc.<br />
• Acts of Service—making life easier for<br />
your spouse by anticipating your spouse’s<br />
needs and stepping in.<br />
• Physical Touch—hugging, giving<br />
shoulder rubs, holding hands.<br />
“To find which love language is yours,<br />
ask: when you want to show love, what’s<br />
your first instinct? <strong>The</strong>n ask what your<br />
spouse would like,” said Dr. Feldman.<br />
“Know that your love language may be different<br />
from your spouse’s.”<br />
<strong>The</strong> dynamic panel concluded the forum<br />
with audience questions. Mrs. Cohen ended<br />
with the words, “<strong>The</strong>re is no magic to making<br />
relationships work; it’s a job every day.<br />
Respect and love each other, and focus on<br />
pleasing your spouse.”<br />
“JMI is the beginning of something very<br />
special,” added Senator Adelman.<br />
“Remember, the journey of 1,000 miles<br />
begins with one step.”
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