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Seton Hall Magazine, Winter 2003 - Seton Hall University

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Reverend Christina Hindley, J.D. ’84, M.Div. has found her<br />

calling in life: serving as chaplain and director of<br />

pastoral care at White Plains Hospital Center<br />

in New York State. But the road she traveled to<br />

become a spiritual leader in the healthcare field<br />

was anything but direct.<br />

Growing up in Mercer County, she<br />

attended Trenton State College (now<br />

The College of New Jersey), where she<br />

majored in music education. As a studentteacher<br />

in the early 1970s, she learned<br />

that she especially enjoyed working<br />

with adults — a revelation that led<br />

her upon graduation to forgo teaching<br />

music and instead enter the<br />

business world, first in banking<br />

and later as a paralegal.<br />

While working at the<br />

law firm of Destribats &<br />

Hamilton in Hamilton,<br />

New Jersey, she came into<br />

contact with several <strong>Seton</strong><br />

<strong>Hall</strong> <strong>University</strong> alumni —<br />

Jay Destribats, J.D. ’64,<br />

Richard Hamilton, J.D. ’74,<br />

Anthony Massi ’75/J.D. ’78<br />

and Michael Paglione, J.D.<br />

’78. “These colleagues<br />

encouraged me to go back to school for my<br />

law degree,” she says. “And they spoke so<br />

highly about <strong>Seton</strong> <strong>Hall</strong>’s law school.” So, she<br />

started making the trek to Newark for classes,<br />

not knowing that the law school experience<br />

would significantly change her life.<br />

“While I always considered myself to be a<br />

critical thinker, I often viewed the world in<br />

terms of black and white, right or wrong,<br />

good or evil,” Reverend Hindley explains. “ I quickly learned that<br />

no issue can be resolved that simply. The Law School courses<br />

opened my eyes to unending shades of gray, teaching me to argue<br />

both sides of an issue. Issues in law, just like issues in life, are not<br />

black and white. Critical thinking requires effort, humility and<br />

genuine care for others. <strong>Seton</strong> <strong>Hall</strong> School of Law elicited those<br />

qualities, challenged my world view and changed my life.”<br />

While her critical thinking skills were being challenged in the<br />

classroom at night, she was putting her education to good use<br />

during the day. She worked for the New Jersey Economic<br />

Development Authority (NJEDA), which provides loans and<br />

issues tax-exempt bonds to help the state’s companies start or<br />

expand businesses. She monitored whether the companies created<br />

jobs and did what they promised to do with these public funds.<br />

32 SETON HALL UNIVERSITY MAGAZINE<br />

Her Calling to Healthcare Ministry Began in Law and Music<br />

At the <strong>Seton</strong> <strong>Hall</strong> <strong>University</strong> School of Law, where she earned her law degree<br />

before becoming a minister, Reverend Christina Hindley, J.D. ’84, M.Div. found<br />

that a focus on ethics and accountability resonated throughout the curriculum.<br />

“I try to help people find<br />

answers to their questions<br />

about life, death, suffering<br />

and hope without imposing<br />

my beliefs on them.”<br />

“I remember being affected at <strong>Seton</strong> <strong>Hall</strong> by the Professional<br />

Responsibility and Ethics class,” Reverend Hindley<br />

says. “The essence of this course — the need to<br />

be vigilant in our efforts to behave ethically and<br />

to be accountable — resonates throughout<br />

the Law School curriculum, and applies not<br />

only to the legal profession but to the<br />

corporate world and religious life as well.”<br />

After graduating with a law degree in<br />

1984, she continued working for the<br />

NJEDA and launched a part-time, private<br />

law practice, specializing in estate<br />

settlements, wills and living wills.<br />

Looking back, she realizes that while<br />

meeting with clients whose loved<br />

ones had died, and listening to<br />

their family stories, she was<br />

facilitating their grief process.<br />

In 1989, Hindley turned<br />

39, the same age her mother<br />

was when she died. The<br />

attorney found herself doing<br />

some serious soul search-<br />

ing. “I was happy with<br />

my life,” she says, “but I felt<br />

that there was something else<br />

I was supposed to do.”<br />

In 1991, while in Atlanta<br />

for a conference, she spent a week at a<br />

Christian commune that ministers to the<br />

homeless. She later attended an open house<br />

at the Columbia Theological Seminary. At<br />

the end of her two-week stay in Atlanta, she<br />

was ready to enroll at the Presbyterian seminary.<br />

She says, “The education I received<br />

continued the education in ethics that I<br />

received at <strong>Seton</strong> <strong>Hall</strong>,” she says. “My<br />

world view and belief system were challenged once again. It was<br />

here that I learned how God is at work in the world and the part<br />

I was called to play in that work.”<br />

Her eyes were opened on many fronts at Columbia Theological<br />

Seminary. She calls a hospital visitation course a “redemptive<br />

experience,” for it made her realize, she recalls, how she could<br />

“bring all my life experience to ministry and help people find<br />

strength and cope with their illnesses.”<br />

Following graduation, Reverend Hindley completed a one-year<br />

residency with the Tri-Hospital Clinical Pastoral Education Center<br />

in Atlanta to prepare for a chaplaincy. That year, she suffered the<br />

loss of her seminary prayer partner, Vanessa Knight, to ovarian cancer.<br />

“I participated in her ordination in July 1995 and in her funeral<br />

just one month later,” she says quietly. “The focus of my seminary

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