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Homeless Court Program<br />

Hear ye, hear ye! Court <strong>is</strong> now in session<br />

Page 8<br />

The ways people give<br />

No deed <strong>is</strong> too small<br />

Centerpiece<br />

By Patricia M. Walsh<br />

The Regional Task Force on<br />

the Homeless (RTFH) will<br />

conduct a homeless count on<br />

Friday, Jan. 23, 2009, to provide<br />

current and accurate information<br />

on the homeless throughout the<br />

San Diego region.<br />

In addition to updating the<br />

profile on homeless people in<br />

San Diego, the count will be used<br />

to secure funding and provide<br />

needed services for homeless<br />

programs in the San Diego<br />

Boulevard<br />

Apartments<br />

Affordable housing in<br />

North Park nears completion<br />

Page 5<br />

San Diego homeless count<br />

Volunteers needed throughout the county<br />

area. Individuals and groups<br />

such as churches, universities,<br />

community groups, and service<br />

clubs are invited to volunteer and<br />

ass<strong>is</strong>t with the count.<br />

“Th<strong>is</strong> count <strong>is</strong> of great<br />

importance to <strong>Father</strong> Joe’s<br />

<strong>Villages</strong>,” says Mary Case, vice<br />

president of programs for <strong>Father</strong><br />

Joe’s <strong>Villages</strong>. “The count helps<br />

provide funding and resources<br />

so we can continue to help our<br />

neighbors in need.”<br />

RTFH spokesman Kiefer Rich<br />

Continued on page 19<br />

Western Roundup March 5, 2009<br />

Mayor Jean Benson, Robert Pond †<br />

Janne and Henry Burdick to be honored<br />

By <strong>St</strong>ephanie Tr<strong>is</strong>tan<br />

A group of individuals who have<br />

been instrumental in supporting<br />

Martha’s Village & Kitchen will be<br />

honored with the Heart and Spirit<br />

of Martha’s Award th<strong>is</strong> spring.<br />

The awards will be presented on<br />

Thursday, March 5, 2009, at the 9th<br />

Annual Western Roundup at the<br />

NoN-Profit<br />

U.S. Po<strong>St</strong>age<br />

Paid MaiL<br />

MaNageMeNt<br />

groUP<br />

Rena<strong>is</strong>sance Esmeralda Resort in<br />

Indian Wells.<br />

Honorees are City of Palm Desert<br />

Mayor Jean Benson, Robert Pond<br />

Continued on page 19<br />

† ,<br />

and Janne and Henry Burdick.<br />

Henry <strong>is</strong> chairman of the board of<br />

directors for Martha’s, and Janne <strong>is</strong><br />

a member of the board.<br />

The annual event – where<br />

<strong>St</strong>. Vincent de Paul Village<br />

3350 E <strong>St</strong>reet<br />

San Diego, CA 92102-3332<br />

Safe and sound<br />

Capt. Greg Mahoney has kept the<br />

Village secure for 20 years<br />

Page 7<br />

VILLAGE NEWS Emily Velez-Confer<br />

Susan Hall and her daughter Evelyn were among the MADCAPs – Mothers<br />

and Daughters Club Ass<strong>is</strong>ting Philanthropies – who volunteered to sort new<br />

toys collected from your toy drives. Once sorted, toys are arranged at the<br />

Village Ladies Guild Santa’s Workshop. Thanks to your donations, parents<br />

regaining their lives at <strong>Father</strong> Joe’s <strong>Villages</strong> are able to “shop” with dignity for<br />

Chr<strong>is</strong>tmas gifts for their children in Santa’s Workshop. To learn more about<br />

how you can host a drive for new toys, clothes and food, see page 5.<br />

’Twas just before Chr<strong>is</strong>tmas<br />

T’was just before Chr<strong>is</strong>tmas<br />

when a call for help went out<br />

to all MADCAP mother and daughters,<br />

<strong>Father</strong> Joe said,<br />

“Laura, give them a shout!”<br />

“I need you kind ladies<br />

a sorting to do.<br />

These toys and these gifts,<br />

PLEASE don’t include shoes.”<br />

MADCAP moms with their daughters<br />

came to volunteer their time.<br />

As busy as they get,<br />

“Th<strong>is</strong> Saturday <strong>is</strong> fine!”<br />

Giant boxes with toys<br />

were a jumble, a mess.<br />

“What’s in them?” they asked.<br />

“… It’s only my guess!”<br />

By Emily Velez-Confer<br />

Young ladies were wearing<br />

Santa hats and wide smiles,<br />

they picked and selected<br />

from large boxes and piles.<br />

“Come here Mary Sue,<br />

and Alice you, too!<br />

<strong>At</strong> Santa’s Workshop<br />

these toys will be used!”<br />

Phew, th<strong>is</strong> sorting <strong>is</strong> hard<br />

but needed indeed.<br />

Come Chr<strong>is</strong>tmas th<strong>is</strong> helps our<br />

“Elves,” the Ladies Guild, Oh, si!<br />

The sorting allows for<br />

quick stacking on shelves.<br />

There’s no Workshop without it,<br />

Thank YOU for your HELP!<br />

Winter 2008 • Volume 18, Issue 3<br />

<strong>At</strong> <strong>St</strong>.Vinny’s<br />

<strong>life</strong> <strong>is</strong> <strong>rebuilt</strong><br />

Editor’s note: Once a month a<br />

graduation <strong>is</strong> held at <strong>St</strong>. Vincent de<br />

Paul Village to celebrate residents’<br />

completion of programs on their<br />

path to self-sufficiency. Graduation<br />

begins with a speech by a resident<br />

who has made notable achievements.<br />

In October, DeAnn T. gave the<br />

following speech.<br />

By DeAnn T.<br />

Hi, my name <strong>is</strong><br />

DeAnn – I was<br />

born and ra<strong>is</strong>ed<br />

in a small town<br />

north of here<br />

called V<strong>is</strong>alia.<br />

My drug of<br />

choice <strong>is</strong> meth.<br />

Before coming to <strong>St</strong>. Vinny’s<br />

I was living on the streets, place<br />

to place, shelter to shelter with<br />

my three children – my thoughts<br />

cons<strong>is</strong>ting of when and how I<br />

could get my next fix – and how I<br />

could add to my chaos. Of course<br />

with my mindset and the situation<br />

I was in, I ended up in jail and the<br />

loss of my children.<br />

Recovery was my first step to so<br />

many other things. Coming here to<br />

<strong>St</strong>. Vinny’s was very scary for me.<br />

I’m going to talk about fear and<br />

recovery, which <strong>is</strong> good because<br />

I’m afraid of doing th<strong>is</strong> right now!<br />

Fear <strong>is</strong>n’t about what you already<br />

know. If you know it, you won’t be<br />

afraid of it.<br />

In recovery, you already know<br />

what drug use does for you, so you<br />

are not afraid of it.<br />

Fear <strong>is</strong> about the unknown.<br />

Fear to me <strong>is</strong> about the possibility<br />

of positive things in my <strong>life</strong>. Part<br />

of my recovery has been about<br />

addressing that fear.<br />

Continued on page 19


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VillAGE NEWS, DECEMBER 2008<br />

<strong>is</strong> publ<strong>is</strong>hed by<br />

<strong>Father</strong> Joe’s <strong>Villages</strong>®<br />

3350 E <strong>St</strong>reet<br />

San Diego, CA 92102-3332<br />

P: 619.446.2100<br />

F: 619.446.2129<br />

www.neighbor.org<br />

Publ<strong>is</strong>her/President<br />

<strong>Father</strong> Joe Carroll<br />

Editor<br />

Patricia M. Walsh<br />

Associate Editor<br />

Miriam H. DiBiase<br />

Editorial<br />

Martha’s Village & Kitchen<br />

Gloria Gomez<br />

Claudia Castorena<br />

John Wolohan<br />

<strong>St</strong>ephanie Tr<strong>is</strong>tan<br />

Graphic Design<br />

Hernando Marquez<br />

Kathleen W<strong>is</strong>e<br />

Production Coordinator<br />

Emily Velez-Confer<br />

Web Design<br />

John Bradley<br />

We welcome your comments and<br />

suggestions. Please send to:<br />

villagenews@neighbor.org<br />

or Village News, 3350 E <strong>St</strong>reet,<br />

San Diego, CA 92102-3332<br />

In accordance with Federal law<br />

and U.S. Department of Agriculture<br />

policy, <strong>Father</strong> Joe’s <strong>Villages</strong>® <strong>is</strong><br />

prohibited from d<strong>is</strong>criminating on<br />

the bas<strong>is</strong> of race, color, national<br />

origin, sex, age, or d<strong>is</strong>ability. To file<br />

a complaint of d<strong>is</strong>crimination, write<br />

USDA, Director, Office of Civil<br />

Rights, 1400 Independence Avenue,<br />

SW, Washington, D.C. 20250-9410<br />

or call 800.795.3272 or 202.720.6382<br />

(TTY). USDA <strong>is</strong> an equal opportunity<br />

provider and employer.<br />

<strong>St</strong>. Vincent de Paul Village, Inc.<br />

Martha’s Village & Kitchen, Inc.<br />

Toussaint Youth <strong>Villages</strong>, Inc.<br />

National AIDS Foundation, Inc./<br />

Josue Homes are partners of<br />

<strong>Father</strong> Joe’s <strong>Villages</strong>®, a reg<strong>is</strong>tered<br />

trademark of S.V.D.P. Management, Inc.<br />

Neighbors Helping Neighbors®<br />

<strong>is</strong> a reg<strong>is</strong>tered trademark of<br />

<strong>St</strong>. Vincent de Paul Village, Inc.<br />

© 2008 S.V.D.P. Management, Inc.<br />

Inbox<br />

High school graduation<br />

To TAAS graduates:<br />

Congratulations on your wonderful<br />

achievement in getting a high school<br />

education! You must feel very proud of<br />

yourself. (You should be!)<br />

I finally got my degree in Liberal <strong>St</strong>udies at<br />

SDSU when I was 50 years old. It’s never too late<br />

for anyone to pursue a goal and a dream.<br />

Good luck in all your future endeavors. We’ll<br />

pray for success for all you grads.<br />

Pat Cole<br />

I pray that you will have great success in<br />

college and <strong>life</strong>.<br />

Dwight Cole<br />

Yes!<br />

$75<br />

$120<br />

$200<br />

$300<br />

other $<br />

<strong>Father</strong> Joe’s <strong>Villages</strong> FAST<br />

I want to help <strong>Father</strong> Joe th<strong>is</strong><br />

Chr<strong>is</strong>tmas.<br />

$500<br />

$750<br />

$1,500<br />

$2,500<br />

$5,000<br />

$7,500<br />

$10,000<br />

<strong>St</strong>. Vincent de Paul Village<br />

3350 e <strong>St</strong>., San Diego, Ca 92102-3332<br />

Household pickups<br />

To <strong>Father</strong> Joe:<br />

Thank you for your generous pick-up service.<br />

As a d<strong>is</strong>abled senior, there was no way I could<br />

have dropped off the items I donated. I’m glad<br />

for the opportunity to help pay for the gas for<br />

your service. God bless you.<br />

Mary Sudikatus<br />

Kids helping kids<br />

Dear Children:<br />

Me and my friend made a lemonade stand to<br />

earn some money for the charity. We got $30<br />

but wanted to share the money with you.<br />

Love,<br />

Darby & Sophie<br />

Two 9-year-olds<br />

Thank you for helping<br />

To <strong>Father</strong> Joe:<br />

Thank you for helping people. I am sending<br />

toothpaste and soap for your residents. It <strong>is</strong><br />

important to get people private places to live<br />

and help them to be OK – financially and<br />

emotionally.<br />

I was homeless for two years and lived in a<br />

car, but I got work in Korea. I have paid off my<br />

debts and lived inside and worked since 2002. I<br />

m<strong>is</strong>s the U.S. some but I don’t regret not being<br />

homeless.<br />

Thank you for caring about the poor.<br />

Evan S.<br />

Gimcheon, South Korea<br />

thank you for your tax-deductible donation! Save a stamp! donate online www.neighbor.org<br />

Clip out and mail to:<br />

VN-Winter 08<br />

FACTS<br />

<strong>Father</strong> Joe’s <strong>Villages</strong> provides support services for all the agency’s <strong>Villages</strong>. Services<br />

include but are not limited to food service, security, maintenance, property acqu<strong>is</strong>ition<br />

and development, human resources, accounting, and general management.<br />

Dear Neighbors,<br />

The halls are decked and the tables are set<br />

throughout the Village, the only home many<br />

neighbors in need will have th<strong>is</strong> holiday season.<br />

As they continue their journey to a new <strong>life</strong> we<br />

are always mindful and forever thankful for your<br />

generosity, which makes everything possible –<br />

including Chr<strong>is</strong>tmas & a bright New Year.<br />

Thank you and God bless,<br />

We welcome your letters<br />

Please address letters to <strong>Father</strong> Joe Carroll,<br />

<strong>Father</strong> Joe’s <strong>Villages</strong>, 3350 E <strong>St</strong>., San Diego,<br />

CA 92102-3332.<br />

The halls are decked.<br />

The tables are set.<br />

PLEASE PRINT USING A BALLPOINT PEN (Required for cash, checks and credit cards)<br />

Name<br />

Address City<br />

<strong>St</strong>ate<br />

Please email me at<br />

Donation $<br />

Zip Phone ( )<br />

c Check enclosed made payable to <strong>St</strong>. Vincent de Paul Village<br />

c V<strong>is</strong>a<br />

Credit Card #<br />

c MasterCard c American Express c D<strong>is</strong>cover<br />

Code (on back of card) Exp Date<br />

Please print cardholder name<br />

Signature<br />

(required for credit cards)<br />

c FAThER JOE, PLEASE USE mY GIFT FOR YOUR FAVORITE PROGRAmS AS NEEdEd.


By Patricia M. Walsh<br />

The smallest of gardens <strong>is</strong><br />

growing under the shade of a<br />

short tree on 17th <strong>St</strong>reet. The row<br />

of chilies and onions was planted<br />

by Sandra Sanchez and Thomas<br />

Alvarez, two homeless adults who<br />

spend their days safely inside the<br />

yard of the Neil Good Day Center.<br />

Like most neighbors, Sandra and<br />

Thomas want to work, have a safe<br />

place to live and be able to afford<br />

food. But because they haven’t<br />

been able to find work, they don’t<br />

have money for either. For them,<br />

Sandra says, the Neil Good Day<br />

Center <strong>is</strong> home.<br />

In September, the center<br />

at 299 17th <strong>St</strong>. managed by<br />

<strong>St</strong>. Vincent de Paul Village began<br />

operating on weekends thanks<br />

to emergency funding from the<br />

City of San Diego and United<br />

Way of San Diego County. To<br />

mark the occasion, <strong>Father</strong> Joe<br />

Carroll hosted a meal on Sept.<br />

27 in honor of <strong>St</strong>. Vincent de<br />

Paul, the date of Vincent’s death<br />

in 1660. <strong>Father</strong> Joe was joined by<br />

San Diego Mayor Jerry Sanders,<br />

Councilman Kevin Faulconer and<br />

Doug Sawyer, president of United<br />

Way of San Diego County.<br />

Sandra, who has been using the<br />

center since she lost her residence<br />

in July, says she feels welcome<br />

and part of the family at the Day<br />

Center. “It’s a blessing. We are<br />

able to eat and not be dirty,” she<br />

says of the laundry facilities at the<br />

center, the showers at <strong>St</strong>. Vincent<br />

de Paul Village and the lunch she<br />

and Thomas eat seven days a week<br />

at the Village just blocks away. “We<br />

wouldn’t eat if it was not for <strong>Father</strong><br />

Joe,” she says.<br />

While they look for work, Sandra<br />

and Thomas spend their days at the<br />

Neil Good Day Center – 6 a.m. to 4<br />

p.m. Monday through Friday, and<br />

6 a.m. to 2:30 p.m. on weekends.<br />

“We appreciate everything here,”<br />

Sandra says, mentioning she has<br />

used the medical services available<br />

once a week. “There’s a lot of love;<br />

we feel safe and protected.”<br />

<strong>At</strong> night the couple sleeps under<br />

a nearby bridge, but says they’ll<br />

probably be moving because the<br />

police said they had to.<br />

“Our number-one priority <strong>is</strong><br />

to find work,” Sandra says. <strong>At</strong><br />

the center they have received bus<br />

tokens to aid in their job search. “If<br />

you get a job you can advance. It<br />

should be easy for us; we don’t use<br />

drugs or alcohol.” Thomas eagerly<br />

l<strong>is</strong>ts h<strong>is</strong> skills – construction,<br />

plumbing, painting, flooring,<br />

leatherwork, and gardening.<br />

Thomas has taken to gardening<br />

at the day center. He proudly<br />

VillAGE NEWS, DECEMBER 2008 3<br />

<strong>Father</strong> <strong>Joe's</strong> <strong>Villages</strong><br />

Neil Good Day Center open on weekends<br />

Hope grows on 17th <strong>St</strong>.<br />

“<br />

It’s a blessing.<br />

We wouldn’t eat<br />

if it was not for<br />

<strong>Father</strong> Joe.<br />

Sandra Sanchez<br />

Charitable Events Benefiting<br />

<strong>Father</strong> Joe’s <strong>Villages</strong><br />

Martha’s Village<br />

& Kitchen<br />

Polo Classic<br />

Saturday, Feb. 7, 2009<br />

Western Round Up<br />

Thursday, March 5, 2009<br />

Rena<strong>is</strong>sance Esmeralda Resort in Indian Wells<br />

Honoring City of Palm Desert Mayor<br />

Jean Benson, Robert Pond † ,<br />

and Janne and Henry Burdick<br />

Annual Golf Classic<br />

Monday, April 20, 2009<br />

For more information,<br />

call 760.347.4741<br />

† Deceased<br />

<strong>St</strong>. Vincent de<br />

Paul Village<br />

25th Annual<br />

Red Boudreau Dinner<br />

Saturday, March 28, 2009<br />

M<strong>is</strong>sion Bay Hilton<br />

Birdies for Babies<br />

Golf Tournament<br />

Monday, April 20, 2009<br />

Bernardo Heights Country Club<br />

Corporate Challenge<br />

Cup Golf Tournament<br />

Location, time TBD<br />

For more information,<br />

contact Ryan Pocock 619.446.2119<br />

ryan.pocock@neighbor.org<br />

For Sandra Sanchez and Thomas Alvarez the Neil Good Day Center <strong>is</strong> home.<br />

VILLAGE NEWS Patricia M. Walsh<br />

shows off the sprinklers he fixed<br />

and the trees he’s been watering.<br />

On the ground in the midst of the<br />

now mo<strong>is</strong>t dirt lies a tidy layer of<br />

blankets and pillows that make up<br />

Thomas and Sandra’s home. <strong>St</strong>eps<br />

away the little garden they planted<br />

with onions received from a large<br />

donation made to the Village<br />

grows hopefully. <br />

For Chr<strong>is</strong>tmas, backpacks of joy<br />

By Earlene Thompson<br />

The first time I worked on Chr<strong>is</strong>tmas morning<br />

at the Paul Mirabile Center (PMC) it was very<br />

heartwarming. I must say I was not ready for the<br />

magnitude of residents and neighbors in need we<br />

served that day.<br />

Everyone <strong>is</strong> welcomed on Chr<strong>is</strong>tmas morning to the<br />

tune of a magnificent sit-down breakfast in the PMC<br />

dining room where the tables are all adorned with<br />

festive décor. Our guests are greeted by volunteers –<br />

some who look forward to th<strong>is</strong> day throughout the<br />

entire year – all who are proud neighbors helping<br />

neighbors spreading holiday cheer.<br />

The menu usually cons<strong>is</strong>ts of sausage and bacon,<br />

eggs, hash brown potatoes, fresh rolls, juice and milk.<br />

Our neighbors in need who have only <strong>St</strong>. Vincent de<br />

Paul Village to turn to for their holiday meal are seated<br />

at tables and served by volunteers. After breakfast they<br />

exit the cafeteria to receive their wonderful, and often<br />

unexpected, gift.<br />

Each year we d<strong>is</strong>tribute approximately 1,500<br />

backpacks full of basic necessities. <strong>Father</strong> Joe Carroll<br />

sees to it that not only do our current residents<br />

receive a backpack, but our neighbors in need in the<br />

community as well. <strong>St</strong>aff members, who have also<br />

taken time out of their Chr<strong>is</strong>tmas morning to bring<br />

joy to others, hand out the backpacks one by one.<br />

Backpacks contain items such as a sweatshirt, socks,<br />

knitted hat, hygiene kit, water bottle, and pocket<br />

organizer. Some years there has been an extra added<br />

surpr<strong>is</strong>e such as a wr<strong>is</strong>t watch.<br />

To see the joy in our neighbors’ faces when they<br />

receive th<strong>is</strong> most precious gift <strong>is</strong> a joy in itself. I have<br />

been coming to the Chr<strong>is</strong>tmas morning backpack<br />

give away for five<br />

years, and each year it<br />

truly <strong>is</strong> a blessed and<br />

heartwarming beginning<br />

to my holiday. <br />

Earlene Thompson <strong>is</strong><br />

the Paul Mirabile Center<br />

program manager.


4<br />

By Patricia M. Walsh<br />

VillAGE NEWS, DECEMBER 2008<br />

<strong>Father</strong> <strong>Joe's</strong> <strong>Villages</strong><br />

Chuck Valverde, former board member<br />

Chuck Valverde’s<br />

knowledge could fill<br />

volumes in any library.<br />

The owner of the<br />

venerable Wahrenbrock’s<br />

Book House and former<br />

board member of <strong>St</strong>. Vincent de Paul Village<br />

died on August 24 after a brief illness. He<br />

was 73.<br />

Officiating at Mr. Valverde’s memorial<br />

service at the Scott<strong>is</strong>h Rite Center, <strong>Father</strong><br />

Joe Carroll recalled Chuck’s dec<strong>is</strong>ion to join<br />

<strong>St</strong>. Vincent’s board.<br />

Chuck would come to work at the<br />

bookshop in the morning to find homeless<br />

people sleeping on the steps of h<strong>is</strong> business.<br />

So he decided the best way to address the<br />

situation of homelessness was to join the<br />

one man who was doing an effective job.<br />

That was Chuck, always finding an answer<br />

for anyone with a question and sharing it<br />

unconditionally – with a smile and a story.<br />

For more than 40 years Chuck ran<br />

Wahrenbrock’s, the oldest antiquarian<br />

bookstore in the city. The three-story,<br />

250,000-volume shop, founded in 1935<br />

by Vernon Wahrenbrock, was h<strong>is</strong> slice<br />

Making<br />

of parad<strong>is</strong>e; a monument of passion<br />

that he used to make the world a better<br />

place through h<strong>is</strong> person-to-person<br />

exchange that created and strengthened<br />

the community. He shared h<strong>is</strong> books and<br />

knowledge with all who entered or asked –<br />

readers, collectors and other independent<br />

book store owners.<br />

“He was extremely supportive of local<br />

writers,” says Jan Tonnesen, a 30-year<br />

employee of Wahrenbrock’s. “They would<br />

come in looking for references they couldn’t<br />

find anywhere else. He knew exactly where<br />

to find what they wanted, and always found<br />

more. He could quote books and give you<br />

information about books. He understood<br />

the commerce of books; being able to get<br />

the right books into the right hand.”<br />

Before owning Wahrenbrock’s, Chuck<br />

was involved with the University of<br />

California’s expansion to San Diego, Irvine<br />

and Santa Cruz, helping start campus<br />

bookshops and libraries.<br />

In addition to being a board member<br />

of <strong>St</strong>. Vincent de Paul Village from 1995-<br />

2007, Chuck was a supporter and former<br />

president of the Central Library Friends of<br />

the Library.<br />

H<strong>is</strong> love of words also made him the<br />

The Season<br />

Bright<br />

New toys collected at your drives.<br />

1. Host a drive<br />

Businesses, youth groups, churches and individuals host<br />

drives to collect new toys, clothes, canned goods and other<br />

gift items for our neighbors in need.<br />

quintessential storyteller.<br />

“He was a raconteur,” Tonnesen says. “He<br />

could weave stories and could tell jokes<br />

really well. Chuck left big shoes to fill, if<br />

that’s even possible … I have questions that<br />

only he had answers to.”<br />

Chuck <strong>is</strong> survived by h<strong>is</strong> wife, Teri Anne<br />

of El Cajon; three children, Chuck Valverde<br />

of San Diego, Tara Rettig of El Cajon<br />

and Tricia Valverde of El Cajon; and six<br />

grandchildren.<br />

The family suggests donations to<br />

<strong>St</strong>. Vincent de Paul Village, 3350 E <strong>St</strong>.,<br />

San Diego, Calif. 92102-3332. <br />

Kindly remember in prayer these friends<br />

of <strong>Father</strong> Joe’s <strong>Villages</strong> who left<br />

legacies to help our neighbors in need.<br />

Dorothy Cool<br />

Loraine Gant<br />

Lillian Kerr<br />

John Knudsen<br />

Xania Marcellus<br />

Joseph McGreevy<br />

Loretto O’Donnell<br />

McGreevy<br />

Will<strong>is</strong> Mev<strong>is</strong><br />

Nicolai Family<br />

Trust<br />

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MADCAP volunteers Sandy Baranski and her daughter Taylor<br />

help sort toys.<br />

2. Sorting it out<br />

Manuel Rebelo<br />

Murray R<strong>is</strong>ch<br />

Tiefel Family<br />

Trust<br />

John Wahl<br />

Volunteers like the MADCAPs – Mothers and Daughters<br />

Club Ass<strong>is</strong>ting Philanthropies – literally dive into deep boxes<br />

to retrieve toys and gifts from your drives so they can be<br />

organized appropriately by age and interest on racks for<br />

Santa’s Workshop.


AT A GLANCE<br />

• Four stories<br />

• 24 apartments<br />

• Ground floor parking garage<br />

• Laundry room on each<br />

residential floor<br />

• Three 1-bedroom apartments<br />

• Eighteen 2-bedroom<br />

apartments<br />

• Three 3-bedroom apartments<br />

• Nine apartments set aside<br />

for families that are homeless<br />

or at r<strong>is</strong>k of becoming<br />

homeless and have at least<br />

one adult either living with<br />

mental illness or HiV/AiDS,<br />

or recovering from chronic<br />

substance abuse.<br />

• Every apartment includes<br />

a dining and living room,<br />

bathroom, kitchen and balcony.<br />

• Rooftop garden and<br />

children’s play area with<br />

playground equipment<br />

Village Ladies Guild brings Santa’s Workshop to <strong>life</strong>.<br />

By Emily Velez-Confer<br />

On Friday, Sept. 26, <strong>Father</strong><br />

Joe’s <strong>Villages</strong> celebrated<br />

the topping off of Boulevard<br />

Apartments. Mathew Packard, vice<br />

president of development at <strong>Father</strong><br />

Joe’s <strong>Villages</strong>, and Luke Ninteman,<br />

representing KD <strong>St</strong>ahl/Ninteman<br />

Construction, were joined at the<br />

celebration by all the agencies and<br />

subcontractors instrumental in<br />

making the project a reality.<br />

Boulevard Apartments, located<br />

in North Park, <strong>is</strong> an affordable<br />

housing development of <strong>Father</strong><br />

Joe’s <strong>Villages</strong>. When complete,<br />

the four-story building will have<br />

24 apartments that will provide<br />

housing for very low-income<br />

families, those who earn 30 to<br />

40 percent of the San Diego area<br />

median income, or between<br />

$16,600 and $39,200 a year.<br />

During lunch Ninteman, D<strong>is</strong>trict<br />

3 Councilwoman Toni <strong>At</strong>kins, and<br />

3. Santa’s Workshop<br />

Boulevard Apartments<br />

nears 2009 completion<br />

<strong>Father</strong> Joe’s Elves – a.k.a. the Village ladies Guild – bring<br />

Santa’s Workshop to <strong>life</strong> in a warehouse at <strong>Father</strong> Joe’s<br />

home office. ladies Guild members help parents select<br />

toys, clothes and gift items from organized racks of your<br />

donations. After toys are selected, ladies Guild members<br />

wrap each gift to add sparkle to the surpr<strong>is</strong>e.<br />

<strong>Father</strong> Joe Carroll, president of<br />

<strong>Father</strong> Joe’s <strong>Villages</strong>, spoke to the<br />

guests and invited them to tour<br />

floors that had been framed out.<br />

After lunch everyone in<br />

attendance including <strong>Father</strong> Joe’s<br />

<strong>Villages</strong> development staff signed<br />

the last wooden panel that was<br />

to be installed on the top floor<br />

as a symbolic topping off step.<br />

The wooden panel was lifted into<br />

position and hammered into place<br />

allowing the contractors to begin<br />

A donated toy brings a truck load of smiles.<br />

the final construction phase for a<br />

February 2009 completion date.<br />

Supporters and representatives<br />

from some of the agencies involved<br />

in the project joined the ceremony,<br />

including Michelle <strong>St</strong>. Bernard<br />

and Michelle Rosenthal from the<br />

Redevelopment Agency of the City<br />

of San Diego, Joe Correia from the<br />

San Diego Housing Comm<strong>is</strong>sion,<br />

Paul Shipstead from US Bank,<br />

Simonne Ruff and Tricia Tasto<br />

Levien from the Corporation<br />

for Supportive Housing, Jordan<br />

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4. A Merry Chr<strong>is</strong>tmas<br />

Children and families throughout the Village enjoy a<br />

traditional Chr<strong>is</strong>tmas celebration thanks to the contributions<br />

collected at drives.<br />

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<strong>Father</strong> Joe Carroll and City Councilmember Toni <strong>At</strong>kins.<br />

Penn from Chelsea Investment<br />

Corporation and architects Jim<br />

Holmberg and Sillman Wright.<br />

Immediate neighbors of<br />

Boulevard Apartments also<br />

attended. Esteban Dorado, manager<br />

of Hollywood Video; Dereck Ford,<br />

manager of Signs for Less; Joe<br />

Orueta, owner of Car Quit Auto<br />

Repair; and Mardie Schroeder,<br />

neighboring apartment manager,<br />

all welcomed the development<br />

and extended full cooperation and<br />

support during construction. <br />

HOST A DRIVE<br />

Thanks to the loyal help<br />

and support of businesses,<br />

youth groups, churches and<br />

individuals who take the time<br />

to host a drive to collect new<br />

toys, clothes, canned goods<br />

and other gift items, staff<br />

are able to make Chr<strong>is</strong>tmas<br />

brighter for homeless<br />

families and teens who live<br />

at the <strong>Villages</strong>. Please join us<br />

th<strong>is</strong> holiday season and host<br />

a drive.<br />

In San Diego<br />

For more information on hosting<br />

a drive, contact Oscar labiano:<br />

619.446.2702 or<br />

oscar.labiano@neighbor.org.<br />

In Indio, Palm Desert<br />

For more information on<br />

hosting a drive, contact<br />

760.347.4741 ext 308


Homeless count<br />

Continued from page 1<br />

says, “We rely on volunteers<br />

throughout the county to go into<br />

the streets, alleys and canyons<br />

and count the number of homeless<br />

people they see.”<br />

The count <strong>is</strong> done in teams of two<br />

that do a walking or rolling count<br />

and includes no direct contact with<br />

homeless persons. In addition to<br />

ass<strong>is</strong>ting with the count, volunteers<br />

Western Roundup<br />

Continued from page 1<br />

supporters leave their tuxes and gowns at home and<br />

don denim and diamonds to kick up their heels for<br />

a night of fun and fundra<strong>is</strong>ing – ra<strong>is</strong>es money for<br />

Martha’s programs that help save lives, inspire lives and<br />

change lives in the Coachella Valley.<br />

The Western Roundup, once again chaired by Janne<br />

Burdick, begins with a silent auction and cocktails at<br />

6 p.m. A gourmet dinner, dancing and live auction<br />

follow at 7:30 p.m.<br />

Sponsorship opportunities for tables of 10 include:<br />

Recovery<br />

Continued from page 1<br />

The hard part wasn’t quitting the drugs.<br />

The hard part was learning about commitment,<br />

which meant learning all the other things that come<br />

along with it such as effective communication and<br />

l<strong>is</strong>tening, healthy boundaries and relationships, as<br />

well as learning how to be assertive.<br />

I took the Healthy Relationships class here and it<br />

was a great class where I learned about some of the<br />

things I just mentioned.<br />

I also took Process Education with Cheryl (Knight),<br />

Relapse Prevention with <strong>St</strong>eve (Masters), and<br />

Aftercare with Jon (Lutack). I definitely got the benefit<br />

of having three different counselors and learned from<br />

each of them.<br />

Processing helped me to change my ways of<br />

thinking.<br />

When you take the time to think you are able to use<br />

the mental tools like breathing before just reacting.<br />

Just reacting only makes things worse.<br />

Taking time to think allows you to make better<br />

choices.<br />

Once I took the steps to address my recovery, it gave<br />

me all the tools I needed to make changes in other<br />

areas of my <strong>life</strong>. Living <strong>life</strong> on <strong>life</strong>’s terms allows you<br />

the ability to maneuver.<br />

Bottom line: It’s OK to be scared.<br />

attend a two-hour training session<br />

prior to the count.<br />

With more than 7,500 homeless<br />

individuals in the region at any<br />

given time, efforts to reduce<br />

homelessness depend, in part, on<br />

accessible information, according to<br />

the RTFH, which serves as a central<br />

clearinghouse on homelessness in<br />

San Diego County. <br />

Volunteer for the count<br />

To volunteer or to obtain more information on the homeless count,<br />

contact the Regional Task Force on the Homeless.<br />

www.rtfhsd.org<br />

E: taskforce@rtfhsd.org • P: 858.292.7627 ext 16<br />

• Diamond Dudes: $10,000<br />

• Trail Bosses: $5,000<br />

• Red Kickin’ Boots: $3,500<br />

• Ridin’ Silver Saddles: $2,500<br />

• Workin’ Iron Spurs: $2,000<br />

• Individual tickets: $200<br />

For more information and tickets, please call<br />

760.347.4741 ext 308. Reservations are requested by<br />

Feb. 26, 2009. <br />

†<br />

Deceased<br />

<strong>St</strong>ephanie Tr<strong>is</strong>tan <strong>is</strong> the fundra<strong>is</strong>ing and public<br />

relations coordinator at Martha’s Village & Kitchen.<br />

Fear itself <strong>is</strong>n’t so bad.<br />

Using everything that you learn from addressing<br />

your fears, you can make better choices and see<br />

progress in your <strong>life</strong>.<br />

Since I have been here at Vinny’s I have learned<br />

to utilize all that Vinny’s has to offer and with their<br />

help I’ve <strong>rebuilt</strong> many relationships that included<br />

my children, family and friends. As well as getting<br />

married, keeping the same job of a year now.<br />

These are just some of the things that I’ve done with<br />

my <strong>life</strong> since coming to <strong>St</strong>. Vinny’s.<br />

In closing I’d like to read a quote from Ralph<br />

Waldo Emerson:<br />

To laugh often and much<br />

To laugh often and much; To win the respect of<br />

intelligent people and the affection of children; To<br />

earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure<br />

the betrayal of false friends; To appreciate beauty,<br />

to find the best in others; To leave the world a bit<br />

better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch, or<br />

a redeemed social condition; To know even one <strong>life</strong><br />

has breathed easier because you have lived. Th<strong>is</strong> <strong>is</strong> to<br />

have succeeded. <br />

- Ralph Waldo Emerson<br />

1803 – 1882 American Essay<strong>is</strong>t & Poet<br />

Freelancers needed<br />

<strong>Father</strong> Joe’s <strong>Villages</strong> occasionally has projects that need the support of designers and video<br />

producers to produce logos, brochures, direct mail, ads, radio, TV and e-communications.<br />

if you are a graphic designer with experience in print or electronic media, or video<br />

producer, please submit your electronic portfolio to emily.velez@neighbor.org for review<br />

and consideration.<br />

VillAGE NEWS, DECEMBER 2008 19<br />

Thanks for Giving<br />

With great appreciation to the sponsors, participants<br />

and volunteers in th<strong>is</strong> year’s <strong>Father</strong> Joe’s <strong>Villages</strong><br />

Thanksgiving Day 5K Run/Walk. Your support makes<br />

it possible for <strong>Father</strong> Joe to provide 1.7 million meals<br />

a year to our neighbors in need.<br />

Ninteman<br />

Construction Services LLC<br />

Please mark your calendar for next year’s 5K on<br />

Thursday, Nov. 26, 2009.<br />

For th<strong>is</strong> year’s results, please v<strong>is</strong>it<br />

www.thanksgivingrun.org

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