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uildings, etc. and later back in Germany he joined the group that build the bunkers for the German<br />

Government, now museums!!). Arriving in Argentina was arriving in paradise, a flourishing economy, no<br />

war, no destruction, nice people, fine weather. A beautiful country. Nevertheless my parents separated two<br />

years later and decided to leave me with my father and my brother and sister with the mother. My father<br />

had a new partner, Ilse Bogner, who became so my stepmother. We moved then to the South close to Mar<br />

del Plata, but in the Pampa. I had to walk to school every day about 12 KM one way to reach and visit a<br />

small land-school. At home we spoke Dutch and at school and on the street Spanish. It was a great time<br />

for me as a kid in the nature with an own owl, cats, dogs, hens and chicken, and a lot of room for fantasy<br />

and creativity. In 1956 my brother and sister joined us. In 1957 my father married Ilse who, due to<br />

Argentine laws, had to change her name into Elsa. In 1958 my parents decided first to go for a year to<br />

Antonio K<strong>amerman</strong>s<br />

Uruguay, were they have constructed some remarkable buildings in Punta del Este, and then came the<br />

(1973- )<br />

decision to go back to Europe. For us children a very sad and painful moment. To stay on a ship and see<br />

disappear your “home” in the distance, to lose a lot of your friends, to leave so much of you there.<br />

In January 1960 we arrived in Cologne, Germany.<br />

The time in South America left a lot of deep marks to me / us. A lot of family troubles, political and<br />

economic problems, problems in the family as well, left behind a lot of hardness and also a kind of toughness. Our life was very<br />

restless. We were always confronted with changes and new challenges!! But it still didn’t end.<br />

In Cologne I had to go again to school, because the school systems didn’t recognize each other. Not knowing German and with<br />

complete different school subjects. New cultures and mentalities, new faces and awful winter weather in Europe. In the beginning it<br />

was just to become depressive. And, additionally my parents again divorced. 1962 my father went to Holland, and settled with Joost<br />

and my sister, who changed her name from Elisabeth to Christina after joining us in 1956, in s’Gravenzande, The Netherlands,<br />

where another line of the K( C)<strong>amerman</strong>s lived already since long ago.<br />

I stood in Cologne and finished my school with university qualification. But, I had to forget about my plans to become a physician,<br />

because I had no support at all from anybody. And further I was a foreigner and not still adult alone in Cologne. I went to work as an<br />

assistant to engineers at an investigation centre for Aeronautics and Rockets. There I learned technical computing from the very<br />

beginning. I changed later to Commercial IT till after 44 years working in an area of continuous changes I went into retirement last<br />

year in October. In parallel to my job I studied economy and became Master of Business Administration.<br />

Now I made a big jump. Going back to 1962. My father married again, Arien de Jong, and adopted later an orphan young girl,<br />

Joke van Zandvliet now called also K<strong>amerman</strong>s. As I know, she is still unmarried, living in The Netherlands, but doesn’t have any<br />

interest to be in contact with me.<br />

My brother married a Spanish lady, Isabel Sanchez, and went together with her to live in Spain, since 1972. Their son Antonio,<br />

born 1973, is the last K<strong>amerman</strong>s of this line. He is still unmarried, works also in the IT area and lives close to his parents in Madrid.<br />

We have a good contact together.<br />

My sister Christina married Henk van Roest, who brought in a girl from his first marriage, and they have a son also named Henk.<br />

This family travelled also a lot around the world due to the work, activities and company, where Henk was working for. They live now<br />

in Great Britain, but nobody of us has any contact with them. Which is on one side a pity, but we have no interest in further family<br />

troubles any more.<br />

From Left: Kirsten Oborny, Nils-Peter, Anna-Lena, Jàrg Lâbkert ( my son),<br />

Florian, Lukas, Katja ( my daughter) and Markus Steibrenner (Picture from<br />

2003)<br />

I will take with me newer pictures to the reunion!<br />

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I married Peter Lâbkert (born June 6, 1939 in Itzehoe,<br />

Germany) July 24, 1964 in Cologne. My children Katja,<br />

born 1965, and Jàrg, born 1967. We lived in several<br />

places in Germany depending on the work of my husband<br />

as a photo-engineer. He was in charge for very technical,<br />

high-frequency photography in investigation. We divorced<br />

and remarried, but then we divorced definitely 1977, and<br />

since then I cared for the education of our children all by<br />

my own. It was a hard task to organize the education of<br />

the children, housework and my job to earn the needed<br />

money for us three. I am proud to have afforded that,<br />

together with their own strong engagement, both children<br />

could make a university career, have now good work,<br />

good partners beautiful children and make their lives very<br />

good.<br />

All looks like this is a Happy End !!! ….<br />

Wouldn’t be there my health. The first serious illness in<br />

my life was breast cancer, which I hope after surgery and<br />

all kind of medication and post-medication will have gone<br />

forever.<br />

And newly, visiting and snorkeling at the Barrier Reef in<br />

Australia, I was bitten by a very dangerous jellyfish. It’s<br />

poison caused a very dangerous intoxication and injured<br />

heavily my right leg. This is still healing!!<br />

So, I try to enjoy my life as much as possible!<br />

And now I will answer the question, why I’m so engaged with the genealogy of the K(C)<strong>amerman</strong>(s) family:<br />

One day my children were asking me: “Mother, tell us something about you, we know so few about you!”<br />

First I was astonished, than I understood the question and realized, that I didn’t know that much about myself and that we were<br />

living quite isolated from the rest of the family. That was the start to a “tour” through databases, archives, visits to till then unknown<br />

relatives, internet, and so on. It is an amazing “tour”, that engages you more and more, discovering every time more info and data.<br />

The visit to this reunion in Canada is part of that “tour” and surely will be a great family experience!!!

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