Out words - The Western Montana Community Center
Out words - The Western Montana Community Center
Out words - The Western Montana Community Center
Create successful ePaper yourself
Turn your PDF publications into a flip-book with our unique Google optimized e-Paper software.
Editors: Suzie Reahard<br />
A.D. Seibel<br />
127 North Higgins, Suite 202<br />
Missoula, MT 59802<br />
Phone: 406-543-2224<br />
E-mail: wmglcc@gaymontana.org<br />
Website: www.gaymontana.org<br />
Contributors: A.D. Seibel, Ron Blake, Tim Adams,<br />
Cody Leatzow<br />
Cover Art: Suzie Reahard<br />
Advertising: Suzie Reahard & Tim Adams<br />
Monthly Circulation: 3,000 copies<br />
Serving the<br />
LGBTIQ<br />
<strong>Community</strong><br />
Since 1998 <strong>The</strong> <strong>Western</strong><br />
<strong>Montana</strong><br />
<strong>Community</strong><strong>Center</strong> Inside<br />
Annual subscriptions cost $25. Mail a check to <strong>Out</strong> Words<br />
via the <strong>Center</strong> address.<br />
Submit letters to the editor at out<strong>words</strong>@gaymontana.org<br />
<strong>Center</strong> Board Members<br />
Mija mija@gaymontana.org<br />
Tim Adams tim.adams@gaymontana.org<br />
David Herrara david.herrara@gaymontana.org<br />
Angel Nordquist angel.nordquist@gaymontana.org<br />
Acton Seibel acton.seibel@gaymontana.org<br />
Bree Sutherland bree.sutherland@gaymontana.org<br />
Linda Tracy linda.tracy@gaymontana.org<br />
Kate Wenninger kate.wenninger@gaymontana.org<br />
One copy of <strong>Out</strong> Words is available free of charge for each reader at current<br />
distribution locations. Copies of <strong>Out</strong> Words which have not been picked up for<br />
the purpose of reading them are the property of the <strong>Center</strong>. Any unauthorized<br />
person who takes or moves multiple copies of <strong>Out</strong> Words to prevent other people<br />
from seeing or reading them shall be considered guilty of theft. Violators will<br />
be prosecuted.<br />
Multiple copies can be sent to any distribution location. Please call or email us<br />
for information.<br />
<strong>The</strong> <strong>Western</strong> <strong>Montana</strong> Gay & Lesbian <strong>Community</strong> <strong>Center</strong> is a 501(c)3 organization<br />
and cannot endorse any candidate for public office. Articles or advertising is strictly<br />
the opinion of the writers or advertisers, not that of the Board of Directors,<br />
members of the editorial staff of the <strong>Out</strong> Words, nor the <strong>Western</strong> <strong>Montana</strong> Gay<br />
& Lesbian <strong>Community</strong> <strong>Center</strong>. Those who contribute, advertise and distribute <strong>Out</strong><br />
Words do not necessarily identify as LGBTIQ.<br />
<strong>Out</strong> Words is distributed at the following locations:<br />
Billings: Barjon Books, Hastings, YAP, <strong>The</strong> Loft, Good Earth Market<br />
Bozeman: Bozeman <strong>Community</strong> Food Co-Op, Bridger Clinic, City Brew Coffee,<br />
Gallatin <strong>Community</strong> Clinic, Leaf and Bean, Nova Café, Plonk<br />
Helena: Bert & Ernie’s Restaurant , Birds & Beaslies , No Sweat Café , Real<br />
Food Market & Deli , Staggering Ox , Taco Del Sol , Tori’s Antiques & Exquisite<br />
Jewelry, GamePODS, Gaia’s Galleria<br />
Kalispell: City Brew Coffee, Dolce Villa, Flathead Valley Alliance, Starbucks<br />
Livingston: Coffee Crossing, <strong>Montana</strong> Cup Coffee House and Bakery, <strong>The</strong> Owl<br />
Missoula: <strong>The</strong> Badlander/Palace Billiards, Bernice’s Bakery, Betty’s Divine, Butterfly<br />
Herbs, Catalyst, Chocolat, Crystal Video, Dan Fox Foster Homes, Dauphine’s, Ear<br />
Candy Records, Fact and Fiction, FDH & Associates, Forward <strong>Montana</strong>, Front<br />
Street Pasta and Wraps, Taco Del Sol, Staggering Ox, <strong>The</strong> Good Food Store, <strong>The</strong><br />
Jeanette Rankin Peace <strong>Center</strong>, Liquid Planet, Missoula AIDS Council, Midnight<br />
Dreams, Missoula <strong>Community</strong> Food Coop, Pita Pit, Public Library, ClubQ<br />
Also distributed to: Havre MT, Browning MT, Butte MT, Culbertson MT, Victor MT,<br />
Ancorage AK, Tacoma WA, Boise ID, Portland OR<br />
This Edition of <strong>Out</strong> Words<br />
News Briefs . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4-5<br />
Kalispell Pride 2010. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .6<br />
<strong>The</strong> Future Belongs to Us . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 6<br />
Dance it <strong>Out</strong>: Fuse Caters to All . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 6<br />
<strong>Out</strong> Fest 2010 Preview . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7<br />
Fitness Column . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 8<br />
Trans Awareness . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9<br />
<strong>Community</strong> Resources . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10<br />
Calender of Events. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 11<br />
About thE CovEr Artist<br />
<strong>The</strong> <strong>Western</strong> <strong>Montana</strong> <strong>Community</strong> <strong>Center</strong> will<br />
be presenting Queer Bodies, featuring the work<br />
of Susan Reahard. Through reclaimed materials,<br />
metals, wood, various digital printing techniques,<br />
photography, light boxes, and interactive media<br />
Susan reveals her passion for the queer spirit and<br />
body. Queer Bodies intertwines the conflicting<br />
textures of salvaged wood and bamboo paper<br />
to translate the digital images of our friends<br />
and lovers. <strong>The</strong>se images are as comforting as<br />
they are striking as they offer up the question<br />
of “how is your body like and not like mine”,<br />
regardless of your gender expression or sexual<br />
identity. Susan has a BFA in Fiber Arts from<br />
the Savannah College of Art and Design and is<br />
currently studying Media Arts at the University<br />
of <strong>Montana</strong>.
News<br />
Briefs<br />
by A.D. Seibel<br />
June 1, 2010. McDonald’s releases a gay ad in France. It’s<br />
cute and adorable and you can check it out on YouTube,<br />
but all it really means is that McDonald’s will still serve<br />
you questionable food regardless of your sexuality. Oh<br />
well, one step at a time.<br />
June 6, 2010. Sao Paulo, Brazil reportedly throws the<br />
world’s biggest Gay Pride parade. Since, 1997 Brazil’s<br />
gay parade has eclipsed San Francisco and Sydney’s gay<br />
parades with this year’s attendance topping three million<br />
people. <strong>The</strong> state government finances the Sao Paulo<br />
parade with sponsorship from Brazil’s state run oil<br />
company, Petrobras.<br />
June 8, 2010. Umm…Elton John performs at Rush<br />
Limbaugh’s wedding for one million dollars? I guess I<br />
would do anything for a million dollars too.<br />
June 9, 2010. I don’t know if you know this, but you<br />
more than likely know someone who is, in fact, gay. CBS<br />
recently did a poll calculating that 77% of Americans say<br />
they know someone who is gay or lesbian. Long story<br />
short, those of us who know some gays are more likely<br />
to believe that gayness between consenting adults is<br />
a-ok. Thanks CBS for the heads up.<br />
June 10, 2010. <strong>The</strong> Church of Jesus Christ of Latterday<br />
Saints gets a slap on the wrist for failing to report<br />
contributions made to the Protect Marriage Coalition<br />
during the last two weeks before the vote that banned<br />
gay marriage in California. California’s Fair Political<br />
Practices Commission could have fined the church<br />
$5,000 for each violation but opted to make a deal for a<br />
one-time payment of $5,539.<br />
June 11, 2010. Tel Aviv, Israel holds two competing<br />
Gay Pride parades. Later, Al Krieger, mayor of Yuma<br />
AZ, calls the gays “lacy-drawered” and “limp-wristed”<br />
during a Memorial Day speech at a cemetery. <strong>The</strong>n<br />
Iceland unanimously votes to pass gay marriage and caps<br />
a seriously busy day.<br />
June 14, 2010. <strong>The</strong> ban on gay men donating blood<br />
is upheld. <strong>The</strong> Federal Advisory Committee on Blood<br />
Safety and Availability voted 9 to 6 against lifting the ban.<br />
Current FDA guidelines state that any dude who’s had<br />
gay sex since 1977, even once, cannot donate blood. <strong>The</strong><br />
American Red Cross and the National Gay and Lesbian<br />
Task Force expressed their extreme disappointment in<br />
the ruling by pointing out that 219,000 more pints of<br />
blood could have been available per year and that deferral<br />
periods should be, “applied fairly and consistently among<br />
donors who engage in similar risk activities.”<br />
June 16, 2010. <strong>The</strong> saga seemingly continues and<br />
we all wait with bated breath as closing arguments<br />
begin in a lawsuit challenging California’s ban on gay<br />
marriage. It’s the first federal trial to examine whether<br />
gay marriage bans violate our civil rights and is expected<br />
to go all the way to the Supreme Court. If that wasn’t<br />
enough, Prop. 8 supporters also want the state to stop<br />
recognizing the same-sex marriages that were granted<br />
before the measure took effect. <strong>The</strong>y filed the previous<br />
Tuesday asking the judge sitting on the case to rule that<br />
government agencies, courts, and businesses no longer<br />
have to recognize same-sex couples as married.<br />
June 17, 2010. Surprise. Southern Baptists are against<br />
the repeal of DADT. <strong>The</strong> Reverend Richard Land, the<br />
Southern Baptists’ public policy chief, announced at<br />
an annual meeting for the denomination, that the U.S.<br />
military would fall to ruin if gays were allowed to serve<br />
openly. Rev. Land also predicted that troops will resign<br />
in droves and that the Southern Baptists will be opposing<br />
any efforts to overturn California’s ban on gay marriage.<br />
June 18, 2010. <strong>The</strong> oldest gay bar in the U.S., <strong>The</strong> Cedar<br />
Brook Café, will be closing its doors as of June 26th.<br />
Clem Bellairs, the current owner of the 71- year- old<br />
institution, says that he can no longer afford to keep the<br />
place open after new owners doubled his rent. Bellairs<br />
pointed out that the bar was a life saver for him when he<br />
was 21 and that the bar had a natural way of attracting<br />
many from all walks of life.<br />
June 19, 2010. <strong>The</strong> <strong>Montana</strong> GOP jumps on the “do as<br />
we say not as we do” party wagon when they adopt their<br />
2010 platform and reiterate a previous statement that<br />
they support, “the clear will of the people of <strong>Montana</strong><br />
expressed by legislation to keep homosexual acts illegal.”<br />
If we ignore the fact that the current GOP stance violates<br />
everyone’s constitutional rights and start believing that<br />
the government has the right to legislate the behavior<br />
of consenting adults within the privacy of their own<br />
homes, then, yeah, the 2010 GOP policy platform sounds<br />
totally great. Check it out at www.mtgop.org/platform.<br />
aspx. Oh by the way there’s even a little love note at the<br />
end expressing their support to the state of Arizona for<br />
“securing their southern border” through intimidation<br />
and discrimination.<br />
June 20, 2010. Judith Butler refuses to accept the Civil<br />
Courage Prize awarded to her by Berlin Pride. Judith<br />
Butler, a philosopher well known for her works such as<br />
Gender Trouble and Frames of War: When Is Life Grievable?,<br />
stated that she would be unable to accept the award<br />
because of the event’s, “complicity with racism, including<br />
anti-muslim racism.” Hi-five to Butler for not just<br />
refusing to attend and releasing a boring press release<br />
stating why she could not accept the award, but for<br />
actually taking the opportunity to articulate her case<br />
before the media and completely scandalizing Berlin<br />
Pride. <strong>The</strong> lady has got some serious brass.<br />
June 21, 2010. <strong>The</strong> Labor Department plans to issue<br />
regulations ordering businesses to give gay employees<br />
equal treatment under a law permitting workers unpaid<br />
time off to care for newborns or loved ones. <strong>The</strong> Labor<br />
Department extended <strong>The</strong> Family and Medical Leave<br />
Act, which allows workers to take up to 12 weeks of<br />
unpaid leave each year to take care of their loved ones<br />
or themselves, based on a new interpretation of the law.<br />
<strong>The</strong>y don’t plan on asking Congress to change the law so<br />
future presidents could potentially reverse the decision.<br />
Labor Secretary, Hilda Solis announced the changes on<br />
the following Wednesday.<br />
June 22, 2010. Apparently, Texas Republicans forgot<br />
that we live in America and not Nazis Germany, when<br />
they recently unveiled part of a policy platform that<br />
would make it a felony to issue a marriage license to<br />
same-sex couples as well as for an official to perform<br />
a marriage ceremony for gay partners wishing to wed.<br />
<strong>The</strong> policy suggestion is part of a wider platform for<br />
the Texas GOP that also includes advocating to outlaw<br />
all “sexually-orientated businesses”, including strip clubs<br />
and “all pornography” while at the same time allowing<br />
unrestricted access to oil and gas drilling. Check out<br />
the Lone Star State’s Republican ridiculousness at http://<br />
static.texastribune.org/media/documents/FINAL_2010_<br />
STATE_REPUBLICAN_PARTY_PLATFORM.pdf.<br />
June 22, 2010. <strong>The</strong> government of Ireland withdraws<br />
its appeal against a ruling by the High Court that current<br />
Irish law violates transgender rights and is in breach of<br />
the European Convention on Human Rights. This ends<br />
a 13-year battle for Dr. Lydia Foy, a former dentist, who<br />
was born male and has sought for legal recognition to<br />
live as a woman. This will allow the government to<br />
propose new legislation that provides a process for legal<br />
recognition of transgender people, to set up a register for<br />
such persons so they may obtain legal birth certificates<br />
stating their reassigned gender, and an entitlement to<br />
allow trans people to marry under their chosen gender.<br />
Dr. Foy, who began her legal battle in 1997 stated, “I hope<br />
this achievement will help others who have endured<br />
the pain, abuse, isolation, humiliation, and fear that have<br />
been the lot of those who are transgender.” PS. Ireland,<br />
we highly doubt that there are only 600 transgender<br />
individuals in the country.<br />
<strong>Out</strong> Words 4
June 23, 2010. <strong>The</strong> Reverend Tom Brock finds<br />
himself outed by Lavender Magazine this month after<br />
an undercover reporter writes an expose on his<br />
attendance to Faith in Action meetings which seeks to, “<br />
assist men an women with same-sex attractions in living<br />
chaste lives in fellowship, truth and love.” Rev. Brock<br />
is well known for his anti-gay sentiments and regularly<br />
criticizes the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America<br />
for liberalizing its gay clergy policy. Lavender Magazine<br />
president, Stephen Rocheford said that although they<br />
have a policy of not outing people, the exception of the<br />
rule are public figures who say one thing and do another.<br />
Any way you cut it, it sounds like Faith in Action should<br />
have its members sign a confidentiality agreement just<br />
like real support groups do.<br />
June 23, 2010. <strong>The</strong> city of Philadelphia loses its case to<br />
evict a chapter of the Boy Scouts from a city building for<br />
refusing to allow gay members. <strong>The</strong> city had argued that<br />
nonprofits given free use of its property are expected<br />
to abide by local antidiscrimination laws. A federal<br />
jury, however, ruled on Wednesday the city’s argument<br />
violated the scouts’ First Amendment rights. <strong>The</strong> judge<br />
overseeing the case said he hoped that both “honorable<br />
institutions” would be able to work something out.<br />
<strong>Montana</strong> Cannabis<br />
& Hemp Foundation<br />
<strong>Montana</strong> 401 West Cannabis Broadway<br />
& Hemp Foundation<br />
Missoula <strong>Montana</strong><br />
401 West Broadway<br />
Missoula <strong>Montana</strong><br />
Part of <strong>Montana</strong>’s GLBT <strong>Community</strong> for over 30 years<br />
Licensed Medical Professionals Helping with Pain Management<br />
June 24, 2010. <strong>The</strong> Chicago Gay Hockey Association<br />
invited the Blackhawks to join in on Chicago’s Gay<br />
Pride Parade…and they said ‘yes.’ Defenseman, Brent<br />
Sopel and his wife will ride with the Cup who said he<br />
volunteered to honor the late son of Toronto general<br />
manager Brian Burke. Burke’s son had recently come<br />
out, but was killed in a tragic car accident three months<br />
later. <strong>The</strong> Blackhawks earlier this year won their first<br />
Stanley Cup title since 1961 and this will be the first<br />
ever presentation of the Stanley Cup at a gay-themed<br />
event. <strong>The</strong> Chicago Cubs will also loose their first gay<br />
pride cherry as Hall of Famer, Ernie Banks will be riding<br />
a float in this year’s parade.<br />
June 24, 2010. A Wisconsin court re-affirms what we<br />
already know, that same-sex parents do not have equal<br />
rights. Under Wisconsin law, a woman who raised two<br />
adopted children for years in a same-sex relationship<br />
is not considered their parent. <strong>The</strong> woman, identified<br />
only as Wendy, sought legal guardianship of their two<br />
adopted children after her partner and her decided to<br />
dissolve their relationship. Same-sex couples do not<br />
have adoption rights in Wisconsin, which means only<br />
Part of <strong>Montana</strong>’s GLBT <strong>Community</strong> for over 30 years<br />
Reliable * Responsive * Caring<br />
Licensed Medical Professionals Helping with Pain Management<br />
Home Delivery Available<br />
Reliable Mon-Fri 10-6, * Responsive Sat-Sun 10-4*<br />
Caring<br />
Home 728-1490<br />
Delivery Available<br />
Mon-Fri 10-6, Sat-Sun 10-4<br />
728-1490<br />
one of them can be considered the legal parent. Long<br />
story short, Wendy is considered neither a biological<br />
nor an adoptive parent, but the court did acknowledge<br />
that she still shares custody with her ex-partner under<br />
their previous and informal agreement. It’s just that<br />
Wendy potentially has no legal standing what so ever<br />
if her partner was ever incapacitated in some way and<br />
she needed to make key decisions about their kids.<br />
June 25, 2010. <strong>The</strong> European Court of Human Rights<br />
declares that same-sex marriage is not a universal<br />
right and that countries are not obligated to allow gay<br />
marriage. An Austrian couple, Horst Michael Schalk<br />
and Johann Franz Kopf sought to force their country<br />
to allow them to marry but the seven-judge panel<br />
ruled unanimously that the couple was not covered by<br />
the guarantee for the right to marry under Europe’s<br />
Human Rights Convention. <strong>The</strong> judges did concede<br />
that there was a, “… European consensus towards legal<br />
recognition of same-sex couples,” but ultimately it is<br />
up to individual European states to decide how that<br />
should take place.<br />
Hello Wonderful<br />
Volunteers!<br />
This is a note to let you in on the next volunteer orientation on<br />
Tuesday July 6th 6pm at <strong>The</strong> <strong>Western</strong> <strong>Montana</strong> <strong>Community</strong> <strong>Center</strong><br />
(127 N. Higgins suite 202). For some of you this will be your first time<br />
getting involved with the community center. Others of you have been<br />
involved in the past but maybe aren’t up to speed on today’s happenings.<br />
This orientation is for NEW & OLD volunteers. We are hoping<br />
that the new volunteers can gain some insight/inspiration from previous<br />
volunteers & maybe make some new friends! We also have a<br />
new confidentiality form for volunteers & would like to get signatures<br />
from the volunteers who have not had a chance to sign it. It should<br />
be about 45min long with time for questions & poking around. If you<br />
have any additional questions feel free to contact mija@gaymontana.<br />
org or call (406) 543-2224 box 2. See you all there!<br />
~Mija<br />
WMCC Board Member<br />
Volunteer Coordinator<br />
<strong>Out</strong> Words 5
y A.D. Seibel<br />
You know, I have to admit I was little reluctant to return to<br />
Gay Pride in Kalispell this year. Perhaps I was feeling a little<br />
gun shy after young men in big trucks sped by calling us faggots,<br />
or that we didn’t know our way around town very well and<br />
struggled to find restaurants to eat at. Perhaps, it was because<br />
I felt like a Gay Pride celebration should be more of a GAY<br />
PRIDE celebration. You know, drag queens with enormous<br />
headdresses dancing to Jennifer Lopez’s dance remix of “If You<br />
Had My Love,” or gaggles of topless men and women hooting,<br />
hollering, and waving multitudes of rainbow paraphernalia until<br />
you realize you have literally gone “over the rainbow.” But<br />
that’s just it, we don’t live in San Francisco, or Seattle, or New<br />
York, or anywhere close to a coast for that matter. We all live<br />
in <strong>Montana</strong> and we <strong>Montana</strong>ns have been doing it for ourselves<br />
since the government decided to make us a state.<br />
So I took my best friend’s advice, I sucked it up and got<br />
into the car to begin our journey to Gay Pride Kalispell 2010.<br />
I mean, where else where we going to go and celebrate with a<br />
bunch of queers at a fairground next door to a monster truck<br />
rally? Let me set the scene for you (if you were there and this<br />
is just rehash, just skip ahead), it was a gorgeous day in Kalispell,<br />
MT a few Saturdays ago. I believe it was June 19th. It was preparade<br />
line up. My co-pilot and I were late, as usual, but we<br />
were caffeinated and ready to show our gay pride if it killed<br />
us (it was more likely that our hangovers were killing us, but<br />
never mind, I digress). We put on our big girl panties, tied on<br />
our banner, and hung our rainbow tassels out the windows of<br />
a late model Cadillac SRX. We waved, smiled, and car danced<br />
through that parade as if we were in San Fran, Seattle, or New<br />
York Pride. We were greeted with smiling faces, happy couples<br />
and families, welcome signs and hoorays of encouragement. It<br />
was hard not to feel exuberant with all the gay celebration<br />
going on.<br />
Later, back at the rally, I was reminded that all though<br />
we struggle to obtain and maintain our rights to love who we<br />
want, we would not have gotten so far without the hard work<br />
of many individuals and organizations, such as Kim Abbott, Bree<br />
Sutherland, Bobbie Zenker, Jamee Greer, the <strong>Montana</strong> Human<br />
Rights Network, <strong>The</strong> <strong>Montana</strong> Pride Network, I.S.C.S.M,<br />
PFLAG, and the <strong>Western</strong> MT <strong>Community</strong> <strong>Center</strong> just to name<br />
a few. <strong>The</strong>se incredible organizations full of incredible people<br />
have put up with a lot a crap to win battles for the benefit of<br />
our friends and families. Without their diligence and fortitude<br />
the state of LGBTIQ rights in <strong>Montana</strong> might have been dismal.<br />
Also, these people and ultimately all of <strong>Montana</strong> would have<br />
missed the regulars, the locals, the everyday people who took<br />
time off of work or school to travel to Kalispell to remind<br />
everyone that they are here, they are queer, and their communities<br />
benefit everyday from their presence.<br />
<strong>The</strong> truth of the matter is I didn’t need outlandish drag<br />
queens with elaborate costumes, or miles of hot, hard-bodied<br />
eye candy, or even a DJ playing some awesome dance music- I<br />
just wanted, no, needed to be reminded that we’re not the only<br />
ones who are gay, lesbian, bisexual, or trans living in <strong>Montana</strong>. I<br />
needed to be reminded by the Giant Ass Drum Corp and the<br />
Gay Men’s Chorus, by Empress 15 Gabrielle and the Glacier<br />
UU Fellowship, and by the sweetest couple in all of Kalispell<br />
that day who got married on beautiful summer afternoon underneath<br />
a tree, that even though we might live far away from<br />
each other we all share common experiences and we all deserve<br />
the right to live free from oppression. We also deserve<br />
to party like the gayest rock stars in all of western <strong>Montana</strong>.<br />
by Tim Adams<br />
Sometimes it becomes difficult to tell if there are any gay people<br />
in <strong>Montana</strong>, or if there are gay people but they just prefer to<br />
stay in hiding. As we again see our brothers and sisters at Gay<br />
Pride and other local gay community events, I sometimes wonder<br />
about the people who've chosen to stay home. Even as<br />
current events conspire to cause the possible non-existence of<br />
a local gay bar, I still pose the question, have the gays evolved<br />
beyond physical space?<br />
Back in the days of old, it wasn't even a question whether<br />
or not a physical queer affirming space was important or not.<br />
Before when people were out much less and there were less<br />
ways to discretely meet other gay people, the importance of a<br />
gay bar, a community center, or a gay dance couldn't be considered<br />
more important. Even in 1998, just twelve short years ago,<br />
members of this community came together with such passion<br />
because of the importance they saw of having a physical gay<br />
space like the community center.<br />
How times have changed. Now, many cities and college<br />
campuses have disbanded their gay groups and community centers<br />
for lack of participation. Youth growing up today have so<br />
much more exposure to gay role models, community members<br />
and positive portrayals of gays in the media that things like coming<br />
out, and self-identifying as queer are no longer the crosses<br />
that their forefathers and mothers had to bear. <strong>The</strong> work of the<br />
past generations has finally come to fruit, but at what expense?<br />
In places like Missoula, it's almost an afterthought to go<br />
to a gay bar. While many still visit the space, I would argue<br />
the majority of queer folks here have managed to eek out fine<br />
existences either without the gay bar, or the gay community<br />
altogether. While past generations went on living their lives as<br />
lawyers or teachers or business owners not identifying as gay<br />
for fear of the repercussions, the new generation of gays do so<br />
entirely out of personal choice. Most see their sexual orientation<br />
as just one small aspect of their entire being, and not the<br />
entirety of their existence.<br />
Places like the <strong>Community</strong> <strong>Center</strong> no longer focus entirely<br />
on affirmation and coming out to its members. While these are<br />
still vital parts of our mission, we now look beyond, to things<br />
like mental and physical health, and issues of the day like medical<br />
marijuana, which isn't directly a gay issue, merely one that<br />
affects some gay people. And while some may see this as the<br />
disappearance of the gays, it would be better for organizations<br />
to see this more of an evolution, and evolve accordingly.<br />
While coming out resources are important and<br />
should be maintained for people who need to walk that<br />
journey, I believe we should keep an eye towards the current<br />
and future challenges the gay community will face. It's<br />
no surprise that as a generation of gays accepted themselves,<br />
they now move onto other issues relevant to latter<br />
stages of their lives. Gay marriage, gay adoption, medical<br />
care and the growing segment of aging gays and lesbians<br />
are issues which should be adapted to and focused on by<br />
all organizations which label themselves as gay-oriented<br />
and/or friendly.<br />
Events like Gay Pride and local gay events remind<br />
us of the great community we belong to, and the power<br />
we have when we come together. But we should also be<br />
mindful of our victories and the new challenges we now<br />
face. In celebrating our power in solving the past problems<br />
of the gay community, we can also focus that power<br />
on to the new issues arisen from our victories with equal<br />
passion and fire.<br />
by A.D. Seibel<br />
So, I don’t know if you’ve noticed, dear readers, Missoula<br />
sometimes comes up a little short when it comes to LGBTIQ<br />
dance parties. Club Q had a bit of something going on for a<br />
few years before losing their space at the Elk’s and Amvets, a<br />
popular dance spot in the past, has burned so many bridges one<br />
wonders how they even manage to get enough cash together<br />
to make so many Jell-O shots. Wait, I think I just answered my<br />
own question. Mini cups filled with fruity gelatinous goo create<br />
a stumbling cycle of young men and women buying 20 Jell-<br />
O shots at a dollar a piece before they head on to their real<br />
bar of choice, which is probably the only thing that keeps Amvets’<br />
doors open. Well, there’s always the Badlander, with their<br />
Dead Hipster Dance Party every Thursday and Absolutely with<br />
DJ Kris Moon and Monty Carlo every Saturday night. Between<br />
these two nights I’ve seen enough gay boys dancing without<br />
their shirts on and making out to almost make me want to do<br />
a line of coke and wear incredibly skinny jeans… almost. But,<br />
I want something gayer. <strong>The</strong> <strong>Western</strong> <strong>Montana</strong> <strong>Community</strong><br />
<strong>Center</strong> hosts dances, but nothing on a regular schedule as our<br />
next dance is scheduled August 6th down at the Palace, which<br />
brings me to Fuse Club at Deano’s Casino near Airway blvd.<br />
Now, Fuse Club describe themselves as a, “safe, alternative<br />
venue for <strong>Montana</strong>’s local community. We do not answer<br />
discrimination with discrimination. Our doors are open to all<br />
who wish to have fun and socialize in a clean, friendly environment.”<br />
I certainly felt safe when I attended the Summer Fun<br />
Drag Show a couple of Saturdays ago, as the place was well<br />
lit, had clean restrooms, and cold drinks. Plus, it was pretty<br />
gay. Empress 15 Gabrielle hosted the evening’s festivities as locals<br />
performed in drag to the hoots and hollers of the crowd.<br />
<strong>The</strong> music was danceable, there were pool tables, and at some<br />
point we all got push pops from the travel plaza next door to<br />
watch the rest of the show with. Some of my friends poo<br />
poo’d a little bit as they seemed a little put off at attending a<br />
drag show out by the airport. My response was, “So, what?<br />
We’ve traveled much farther to have good times?” After that,<br />
everyone settled back to have some fun. Seriously, it was<br />
pretty fun. So feel free to check them out on July 10th as they<br />
celebrate “<strong>The</strong> Boiz & Girlz of Rock ‘n’ Roll”, a drag show for<br />
kings and queens at Fuse (Deano’s Casino & Lounge)<br />
<strong>Out</strong> Words 6
In conjunction with the Missoula Downtown Association, the<br />
<strong>Western</strong> <strong>Montana</strong> <strong>Community</strong> <strong>Center</strong> proudly invites you to<br />
a celebration of GLBTIQ folk and the Missoula community in<br />
the heart of Downtown, Caras Park!<br />
From 10am to 10:30pm on Saturday, August 14th, WMCC<br />
will be hosting a festival to showcase the gay/queer musicians,<br />
crafters, artists, charities and business people and our<br />
allies! It's a chance for WMCC to show the great wealth of<br />
talent and work gay/queer folk and their allies do to keep<br />
our community the down to earth, supportive town it has<br />
become.<br />
One main stage will include a variety of music for the day.<br />
From bands to folk music to rock and disc jockeys, music will<br />
be provided throughout the day. If you are or know a gay/<br />
queer musician who would like to book a slot, please email<br />
outfest@gaymontana.org for more information, time slots<br />
are going fast! Later in the evening a special performance is<br />
scheduled by local drag superstars of the Imperial Sovereign<br />
Court of the State of <strong>Montana</strong>, as well as Super DJ Kris Moon<br />
who will be spinning during the day.<br />
<strong>The</strong> pavilion will include tables, tents, food and information<br />
from local gay/queer supportive food vendors, charities,<br />
political advocates and fundraisers. Bring the family down for<br />
a day of seeing what Missoula's gay/queer community has to<br />
offer here in Missoula.<br />
If you are interested in setting up a booth, download the<br />
Vendor Application from http://www.gaymontana.org/<br />
<strong>Out</strong>FestVendor.pdf<br />
Register before August 1st and your registration fee is only<br />
$25!<br />
Any other questions/concerns or information can be<br />
requested from:<br />
WMGLCC<br />
127 N. Higgins #202 • Missoula, MT 59802<br />
outfest@gaymontana.org • 406-543-2224<br />
Hope to see you out on what promises to be a great, sunny<br />
day in beautiful Missoula!<br />
August 14th<br />
caras park<br />
How about a quickie?<br />
RAPID HIV TESTING<br />
We offer a safe, confidential and anonymous environment for free HIV testing with gay men testing and counseling other<br />
gay and bisexual men. Accurate results in 20 minutes.9am-5pm M-F (weekend and evenings by appointment).<br />
Call 829.8075 or e-mail fdh@mtgayhealth.org, or just stop by127 N. Higgins, Suite 205.<br />
A service of the <strong>Montana</strong> Gay Men’s Task Force, FDH & Associates, and the MT Dept. of Public Health and Human Services.<br />
W O R D E N T H A N E P. C.<br />
A T T O R N E Y S A T L A W<br />
Shane A. Vannatta<br />
Jane E. Cowley<br />
Suite 600 <strong>The</strong> Florence • 111 N Higgins Ave<br />
P.O. Box 4747 • Missoula, MT 59806<br />
Suite 600 <strong>The</strong> (406) Florence 721-3400 • 111 N Higgins Ave<br />
P.O. Box 4747 • Missoula, MT 59806<br />
(406) 721-3400 • svannatta@wthlaw.net<br />
<strong>Out</strong> Words 7
Sun Tzu Once<br />
Said…<br />
by Ron Blake<br />
Sun Tzu was a management conflict philosopher and<br />
author who lived in a time and land far, far away. He<br />
had many grand things he laid out in his writings but<br />
we shall focus on only one of his wise sayings: “All<br />
battles are won before they are fought.” My task today<br />
is to make this relevant to your health and fitness<br />
mode in your life.<br />
You are on lunch hour and are driving down the<br />
boulevard of broken diets and you are hungry. Three<br />
of your best work buddies are in the car with you.<br />
“We don’t have much time and we need to just grab<br />
something now,” is the consensus from the backseat<br />
and shotgun positions. You’ve already lost this battle<br />
and you’ll end up eating out of that fat trough with<br />
Ronald, Hamburglar, and Grimace. This could have<br />
been avoided with a little pre-lunch menu planning or<br />
the sack lunch from home.<br />
You haven’t run in over five years but you used to<br />
be the All-Conference runner back in your university<br />
days. You grab those dusty Asics shoes and decide to<br />
give that five mile race the old college try at the old<br />
college pace. You’ve already lost this battle and will<br />
end up limping and muttering obscenities for the next<br />
four score and seven hours while you nurse that sore<br />
Achilles. This could have been avoided with a gradual<br />
training regimen and the purchase of some new shoes<br />
before entering that charity 5K race.<br />
After one round of Jose Cuervo you announce<br />
your retirement from cigarettes beginning tomorrow.<br />
After three rounds of Jose Cuervo you announce with<br />
mucho gusto your intention to banish Joe Camel from<br />
your life beginning tomorrow. After five rounds of Jose<br />
Cuervo you boisterously and vehemently declare your<br />
partnership with nicotine to be dissolved beginning<br />
tomorrow. You’ve already lost this battle even before<br />
the seventh round of Senor Tequila. This could have<br />
been avoided by making a signed declaration to stop<br />
smoking while you weren’t half in the bag with agave<br />
juice. <strong>The</strong> sober power of pen to paper has a great<br />
effect on action.<br />
Your class reunion is three months away and you<br />
want to shed that freshman fifty that you’ve put on<br />
since being named most likely to blah, blah, blah in<br />
the Quill and Scroll Yearbook. You’ve joined the health<br />
club and you want Donna Dixbottom to rue the day<br />
she turned you down to prom. You’ll show her the<br />
error of her ways with that great body and that rented<br />
Sebring convertible. You’ve already lost this battle<br />
and Ms. Dixbottom will only treat you to a haughty<br />
cursory glance at the festive soiree. You need more<br />
than just a health club membership and a desire. You<br />
need a daily workout routine and a trusty companion<br />
to guide you to your fitness goals.<br />
Think about what you want to accomplish in life.<br />
You don’t need to be Chinese, have a two syllable<br />
name, or be a philosopher to achieve successes in<br />
your time. You only need a well prepared plan and<br />
action.<br />
This health and fitness entrée is brought to you by<br />
that guy who likes to read his fortune cookies between<br />
the sheets or in his bed. That guy is Ron Blake and he<br />
can be unwrapped at www.myblakefitness.com.<br />
Fair Trade...Local Action...Peace of Mind…<br />
Missoula’s Birthplace of Peace.<br />
Save the date for our annual Peace Party<br />
Sunday, September 19, 2010<br />
LOCATED ON THE HIP STRIP<br />
519 S. HIGGINS AVE<br />
406-543-3955<br />
Visit us at JRPC.ORG and become a fan on<br />
<strong>Out</strong> Words 8
Trans Awareness<br />
By Cody Leatzow<br />
I had the pleasure of attending the Tranny Roadshow some time ago, witnessed a team<br />
of amazing, confident people, each bursting with creativity, each vibrant and beautiful in<br />
a way completely unique unto themselves. With individual attitudes, skills, and stories<br />
to tell, really the only thing binding this troupe together was a single shared experience,<br />
over the course of a lifetime: each, either personally or through a loved one, had been<br />
touched by the process of transition from one gender to another.<br />
Though this phenomenon might be relatively new to the mainstream and the uneducated<br />
conservative, transsexuality has actually been around for quite some time. Historically<br />
speaking, there is abundant evidence and common knowledge of the practice<br />
stretching back to Shakespeare's England, not to mention the comparatively sparse<br />
records of “two-spirits” of Native America going back even farther – the Natives were<br />
one of several spiritually advanced societies which regarded homosexuals and transsexuals<br />
with honor and understanding as opposed to the “civilized” world's legacy<br />
towards superstition and hate.<br />
Though it seems to go unmentioned alongside the other atrocities of the time, transsexuality<br />
was also a prominent target for the hell that was Nazi Germany. From the<br />
end of the nineteenth century well into the present, the nature of transsexuality has<br />
remained, being dealt with first as a curiosity, then as a form of mental illness, until<br />
finally, being addressed as an indisputable truth of the world at large.<br />
However they are regarded, the facts remain: there are people in this world, with each<br />
generation, who live feeling out-of-place in their own skin, constrained by their own<br />
bodies. <strong>The</strong>y have endured the world's condemnation, its disrespect, its open maliciousness,<br />
and society is finally reaching a place that will allow them to be who they truly are.<br />
Although this was not my first experience with the concept, or with people so touched<br />
by it, transsexuality is still relatively new to me. Ten years ago, I was completely unaware<br />
that a transgeneration existed. Five years ago, I was too concerned with the developing<br />
awareness of my own sexuality to focus too intently on anyone else. When the process<br />
was finally explained to me, it was like hearing of a strange custom from a foreign country:<br />
I had absolutely no basis of comparison, and I was inexplicably intrigued.<br />
I became absolutely fascinated with the subject after the first time I started seeing a<br />
beautiful young woman who was, shall we say, intimately aware of the process, and all<br />
that it entailed. She was a trans-woman and a model, a combination that created, in my<br />
eyes, an otherworldly beauty: she seemed beyond the reach of mortal men, and she<br />
carried the best attributes that humanity had to offer, from either sex, in a combination<br />
I have never seen before or since. She was confident and shy, nerdy and active, sweet<br />
and cruel, not to mention a body that could only be described as “divinely made”. I really<br />
started looking into transsexuality, reading all I could on the subject, admittedly all<br />
in an attempt to better understand her.<br />
It was the interest in the subject that remained, after all was said and done. Ironically,<br />
I think the sudden realization that one's gender could be changed helped me be more<br />
comfortable and accepting of my own. Growing up, I had been intimidated by the<br />
redneck “manly-man” mentality that was so common among my classmates. What's<br />
worse, I was assured by my elders at every turn that some day, I would understand<br />
such behavior.<br />
<strong>The</strong> masculinity I had been surrounded by, the masculinity I saw within myself, ceased<br />
to be a prisoner's chain as soon as I saw others shedding it like an unwanted burden.<br />
As soon as I realized that it could be lost, or more accurately, cast off, I began to really<br />
consider my latent masculinity, the series of little traits that still allowed me to define<br />
myself as male.<br />
Beyond my own experience, my continued interest in transsexuality would best be<br />
described as scientific and sociological optimism. As it was explained to me, I found<br />
it comparable to the idea of transhumanism: the idea that, through applied science,<br />
humanity could improve itself in drastic and almost magical ways. Although transhumanism<br />
typically refers to synthetically altering our selves to incorporate our tech-<br />
nological advances, it could also be taken to include the biological modifications or<br />
improvements medical science allows, that our bodies might better suit us. We remake<br />
ourselves in our own image.<br />
Humanity and science together have achieved the power previously held only by the<br />
Almighty: the physical nature of mankind is now that of a canvas and artist, together.<br />
Our identities as people are no longer constrained by the physical forms we inhabit.<br />
We are capable of change outwardly, just as we change internally. <strong>The</strong> metamorphosis<br />
is just as drastic, and just as difficult.<br />
<strong>The</strong> process of changing from one gender to the other is long and arduous. It requires<br />
a great deal of money, a level commitment that would benefit a married couple, and an<br />
even greater amount of patience. <strong>The</strong> experience itself tests the person enduring it in<br />
ways that most of us cannot fathom, honing their mind and spirit just as any rigorous<br />
training would hone the body.<br />
It has been said that God, in His wisdom, makes no mistakes. If this is to be believed,<br />
perhaps this is the purpose of the transsexual: by being born into the “wrong” body, a<br />
person experiences life differently than they would otherwise. <strong>The</strong>y develop a unique<br />
perspective from birth, and the process of claiming their true gender evolves their<br />
perspective even further. If transsexuals are designed as they are by Divine Will (and I,<br />
for one, believe this to be true) then surely this particular perspective is the intention.<br />
In hindsight, I think the conservative men and women I grew up with could learn a thing<br />
or two from the transgeneration that will soon surpass them; it seems to me that, in<br />
their passion to be themselves, a trans-male has learned more about what it is to be a<br />
man than any wife-beating redneck could ever imagine. It seems to me that the only remaining<br />
Ladies and Gentlemen in this world are those that have been made thoroughly<br />
aware of the alternative, and have deliberately chosen to be themselves.<br />
<strong>Out</strong> Words 9
<strong>Community</strong> ResouRCes<br />
Missoula<br />
KisMiF<br />
Keep It Simple Make It Fun AA meeting for gay lesbian<br />
transgender queer intersex and friends every Monday 7<br />
- p.m. at UCC 405 University Avenue. Contact Randy at<br />
406-726-3525<br />
Gay Men’s Chorus<br />
Meeting every Monday 7 - 9 p.m. at <strong>The</strong> <strong>Center</strong>,<br />
127 N. Higgins Ave., Suite 202 - Contact Gary at 406-<br />
370-9876<br />
Gay Men’s task Force<br />
406-829-8075<br />
imperial sovereign Court of the state of <strong>Montana</strong><br />
Call Rosalinda de la Luna at 406-499-0078 or visit:<br />
http://www.iscsm.org<br />
Keep it simple Al-Anon Family Group<br />
LGBT and friends meeting every Thursday 5:30 - 6:30<br />
p.m. at 1st Methodist Church, 300 E. Main, alley entrance,<br />
classroom 3. Contact Randy at 406-726-3525.<br />
Living Forward Group: Men Who Are Living With hiv<br />
Meet Wednesday evenings 7 - 9 p.m. Call Andrew Laue at<br />
406-327-9445<br />
Missoula Aids Council<br />
406-543-4770<br />
Missoula Aids Council housing Assistance<br />
Program<br />
Short-term and long-term housing assistance is available<br />
for HIV+ individuals living in <strong>Western</strong> MT. Call Annette<br />
or Jordan at 543-4770.<br />
Missoula City health department<br />
406-258-4745<br />
Missoula PFLAG<br />
pflagmissoula@gmail.com or 406-240-2881.<br />
Officer Nicole Pifari<br />
LGBTI Liaison Officer Missoula Police Department<br />
435 Ryman Street • Missoula, MT 59802<br />
(406) 552-6300 (main)<br />
<strong>Out</strong>field Alliance<br />
A Coalition of LGBTI faculty, graduate students, staff<br />
and their supporters at the University of <strong>Montana</strong>. Email<br />
caseycharles@umontana.edu or call 406-243-2762<br />
transgender support Group<br />
Contact the Clinical Psychology <strong>Center</strong> at (406)-243-<br />
2367 and ask for Nick or Leslie..<br />
u of M Lambda Alliance<br />
406-243-5922<br />
university Congregational Church<br />
405 University Avenue, Missoula<br />
http://www.uccmsla.org • 406-543-6952<br />
MoNtaNa<br />
bozeman GLbtiQ resource <strong>Center</strong><br />
www.BozemanRC.org, 406-600-3608,<br />
info@BozemanRC.org<br />
butte Men’s support Group<br />
Last Monday of the month 406-491-1378 or 406-490-6125<br />
butte Aids support services<br />
Meets 2nd Wednesday of each month at Blaine <strong>Center</strong><br />
BASS office. Call Rick 406-491-1378 or 406-490-6125.<br />
www.buttebassonline.org<br />
Flathead valley Alliance<br />
www.flatheadvalleyalliance.org • 406-758-6707<br />
Gallatin valley human rights task Force<br />
www.EmbraceDiversity.org<br />
Glacier unitarian universalists Fellowship<br />
www.glacieruu.org • 406-755-9255<br />
hamilton PFLAG<br />
Monthly Chapter Meetings. Every 4th Thursday @ 7 P.M.<br />
Contact Terry at 406-363-7656 for more information.<br />
hot springs, <strong>Montana</strong> Gay and bisexual Men’s<br />
support Group<br />
406-741-2810<br />
hiv Positive support Group - butte<br />
For information call 406-491-1378 or 406-490-6125 for<br />
time and location.<br />
hiv Positive support Group - helena<br />
Meets monthly-Call Greg at 596-2013 for more info<br />
LGbt - Friendly AA bozeman<br />
406-599-3230<br />
LGbt state-wide Events<br />
www.qnewsmontana.com<br />
Lewis & Clark Aids Project<br />
530 S. Harris • Helena • 406-447-6030<br />
MCC <strong>Montana</strong><br />
Great Falls • montanaboard@bresnan.net<br />
Metropolitan <strong>Community</strong> Church<br />
1220 17th Street South • Great Falls<br />
406-771-1070 • www. mccmontana.org<br />
Rev. Gina L. Hartung, Pastor<br />
Sunday Worship: 10:30 a.m.<br />
E-mail: bishman59401@hotmail.com<br />
<strong>Montana</strong> department of Public health &<br />
human services<br />
www.dphhs.state.mt.us/hpsd<br />
<strong>Montana</strong> targeted Prevention<br />
Free and anonymous 20 min rapid HIV testing and free<br />
Hepatitis C testing. www.bozemanrc.org/mtap.html for<br />
sites around state.<br />
open hands Foundation - Great Falls<br />
www.openhandsfoundation.org • 406-868-8382<br />
PFLAG Great Falls/Golden triangle<br />
Meets on the 3rd Tue. of each month at the MCC Church<br />
located at 1220 17th St. So. (406) 868-1064.<br />
QsA - Msu<br />
www.qsamsu.com •406-994-4636<br />
seeker’s harbor Faith <strong>Community</strong><br />
billings<br />
www.seekersharbor.org • 406-661-1584<br />
s.h.o.u.t Aids (students helping others<br />
understand teen Aids) meets every Thursday<br />
in BILLINGS at the yap office at 4pm ages 15-24. Any<br />
questions contact Dustin (406)-591-0169<br />
Yellowstone Aids Project housing Assistance<br />
Program<br />
Becky Taylor • beckyt@yapmt.org<br />
victorian – hiv testing<br />
406- 245-4293<br />
Yellowstone City-County health<br />
department<br />
406-247-3376<br />
Yellowstone Aids Project<br />
406-245-2029<br />
Pacific Northwest &<br />
NatioNal resources<br />
Advocates for Youth<br />
www.advocatesforyouth.org<br />
AEGis: Aids Education Global<br />
information systems<br />
www.endAIDSnow.org<br />
Gay Men’s health Crisis<br />
www.gmhc.org<br />
human rights Campaign<br />
www.hrc.org<br />
out spokane<br />
www.outspokane.com<br />
Pacific Northwest Gay Rodeo Association<br />
www.pacificnwgra.org<br />
Pride Foundation<br />
www.pridefoundation.org<br />
Queer Core<br />
www.queercore.org<br />
Stonewall News Northwest<br />
www.stonewallnews.net<br />
Wyoming rural Aids Prevention Project<br />
www.wrapp.net<br />
Do you have LGBTI resources you want listed? Email us<br />
by the 20th of each month for the next issue!<br />
<strong>The</strong> <strong>Western</strong><br />
<strong>Montana</strong><br />
<strong>Community</strong><strong>Center</strong><br />
Weekly Events<br />
Monday<br />
7 p.m. to 9 p.m. -<br />
Gay Men’s Chorus Rehearsal<br />
Thursday<br />
7 p.m. -<br />
Gay Men Together, A safe and affirming place for gay &<br />
bisexual men to meet.<br />
Saturday<br />
10 a.m. -<br />
Beginners Yoga Classes<br />
Serving the<br />
LGBTIQ<br />
<strong>Community</strong><br />
Since 1998
ecurring Events Around <strong>Montana</strong><br />
<strong>Center</strong> board Meeting, 3 rd Wednesday,<br />
6 p.m. at the <strong>Center</strong> [Missoula]<br />
Christian LGbti support Group meets on the 4th Wednesday of the month<br />
7p.m. at the <strong>Center</strong> [Missoula]<br />
LGbti <strong>Community</strong> Potluck, 3 rd Saturday every month, 7 p.m. at the University<br />
Congregational Church - Fireside Room (405 University Avenue) [Missoula]<br />
PFLAG Missoula / Five valleys meeting, 3 rd Saturday every month prior to<br />
potluck at the University Congregational Church, call 406-721-5013 or 406-541-0163 for<br />
more information. [Missoula]<br />
hiv+ Monthly dinner, 3 rd Tuesday of every month, 6:30 p.m. at the University<br />
Congregational Church, call Mike or Annette at<br />
543-4770 [Missoula]<br />
Gay & Lesbian AA Meeting, every Monday 7 to 8:30 p.m., call Randy at 406-726-<br />
3525 [Missoula]<br />
Keep it simple / Al-Anon Family Group LGBT and friends meeting every<br />
Thursday 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. at 1st Methodist Church, 300 E. Main, alley entrance, classroom 3.<br />
Contact Randy at 406-726-3525 [Missoula]<br />
university of <strong>Montana</strong> LAMbdA Alliance General Meetings, every<br />
Tuesday, 7 p.m. at the UC (Room 330), call 406-243-5922 for more information. [Missoula]<br />
Living Forward Group: Men Who Are Living With hiv, every Wednesday<br />
from 7 to 9 p.m., call Andrew Laue, LCSW for more information at 406-327-9445.<br />
[Missoula]<br />
hot springs, <strong>Montana</strong>, a Gay & bisexual Men’s support Group meets<br />
on Sunday evenings at 6 p.m.. Call 741-2810 for directions and information. [Missoula]<br />
Capitol City Gay Men meet every Thursday at 7pm. Location: 80 East Lawrence<br />
Street, Room 105, Helena MT 59601. For more information visit www.capitalcitygaymen.<br />
org [Helena]<br />
Women’s Coffee and Chat meets on Thursdays at 7 p.m. Location: Fireside Coffee<br />
House 1446 Euclid Ave, [Helena]<br />
Women’s Potluck, 1st Wednesday of the month at 6:30pm. Location changes.<br />
Contact Sandy at 406-442-0200. [Helena]<br />
GLbt open AA Meeting Every Thursday 7:30 p.m.<br />
1417 13 St. West. Call Duane Nez at 406-861-8478 [Billings]<br />
Cancer Patient support Group Every Other Friday: 12 p.m. 2835 Fort Missoula<br />
Rd., Ste. 301, Call Joni or Susie at 406-721-1118 E-mail joni@drjudyschmidt.com<br />
[Missoula]<br />
billings Aidspirit Meeting 2nd Tuesday of the month at Holy Rosary Church, 521<br />
Custer at 7:00 p.m. [Billings]<br />
billings PFLAG Meeting 2nd Wednesday of the month held at the UCC Church in<br />
Conference office located at 2016 Alderson at 7:00 p.m [Billings]<br />
Client Advisory board Meeting 4th Monday of the Month at YAP at 6:00<br />
PM [Billings]<br />
POZ Night Monthly opportunity for socializing and fun! For more information contact<br />
the Client Action Body at cab@yapmt.org or staff at (406) 245-2029. [Billings]<br />
QsA General Forum Meetings Every Monday In the Strand Union Building room<br />
276 at 7 p.m. [Bozeman]<br />
JavaQ Coffee social - 7 p.m., every first, third, and fifth Thursday at International<br />
Coffee Traders, 720 S 10th Ave. [Bozeman]<br />
the bozeman resource <strong>Center</strong> bi-weekly meetings. At International Coffee<br />
Traders, 720 S 10th Ave, the 2nd and 4th Mondays of each month. Contact John at 600-<br />
3608 or at info@bozemanrc.org [Bozeman]<br />
bozeman PFLAG Meeting 2nd Thursday of the month. Check out: bozemanpflag.<br />
com for more information. [Bozeman]<br />
bozeman hiv/Aids support Group meets the 1st Monday of each month.<br />
Call Greg at 406-596-2013 for time and location. [Bozeman]<br />
Poz Affected Pot Luck occurs on the 3rd Sunday of each month in<br />
BOZEMAN. Contact AIDS <strong>Out</strong>reach at 406-551-1016 for details.[Bozeman]<br />
Flathead valley Alliance monthly meeting, 1st Tuesday of the month at 7 p.m. in the<br />
Flathead Count Library basement. [Kalispell]<br />
Pride Committee meeting every Sunday – Call Dee or DJ at 756-0050 for time and<br />
location – volunteers needed [Kalispell]<br />
JuLY:<br />
thursday, July 8th: <strong>The</strong> Crystal <strong>The</strong>ater is<br />
proud to present NYC- based pianist/singersongwriter<br />
Anna Dagmar in co-bill with<br />
Missoula-based guitarist/singer-songwriter<br />
Amy Martin at 8:00pm. Dagmar and Martin<br />
have each released several original CD’s,<br />
performed and recorded with artists including<br />
Ani DiFranco, Brandi Carlilse and Lucy<br />
Kaplansky, and toured internationally.<br />
saturday, July 10th: Fuse/Deano’s presents<br />
Boiz & Girls of Old Rock N Roll. This is a rock<br />
and roll drag show/fundraiser, and a chance<br />
for the “kings” to shine too. All the tips made<br />
from the performances will be donated to the<br />
I.S.C.S.M. Costumes are encouraged. Protocol<br />
for performing is 8:30 PM so please bring your<br />
music on a CD with you then. <strong>The</strong> show will<br />
start at 10:00 followed by dancing until close.<br />
<strong>The</strong>re is no cover charge.<br />
Friday, July 16th: Since the closing of<br />
Snookums you know you are totally craving<br />
some booty shaking and drink making.<br />
From 8 pm to 1 am Kookie will be hosting<br />
Kookie’s 2010 Diva Reunion at Doug and<br />
Schylar’s Uptown Butte Loft @ 606 Utah Ave.<br />
$5 Cover is donated 100% to Charity.<br />
No Host Bar hosted By <strong>The</strong> Helsinki Bar<br />
saturday, July 17th: Butte Step Down at<br />
the Star Lanes Reception Hall in Butte. Jenny<br />
D’Beer and DWonno Catch will be celebrating<br />
their year in service and stepping down from<br />
their city titles. Come celebrate with and help<br />
elect Butte’s next representatives.<br />
saturday, July 17th: “We Love the 80’s”<br />
Dance at the Zebra: <strong>The</strong> Bozeman Resource<br />
<strong>Center</strong> will be sponsoring a “We Love the ‘80’s<br />
Dance Party” on Saturday, July 17th hosted by<br />
the Zebra Cocktail Lounge at 321 East Main<br />
Street in Bozeman starting at 10pm. Cover is<br />
$5.00 and is a 21+ event. Come have a totally<br />
rad time dancing to some new wave favorites<br />
and current hits. Poof up that hair and get<br />
that mullet ready for some fun at the Zebra<br />
Cocktail Lounge. Word to your mother! It<br />
will be totally tubular to the max! For more<br />
events: www.bozemanrc.org/Events.html<br />
thursday, July 29th: Game Night at Nova<br />
Cafe, 6-9pm: Looking for something fun to<br />
do? How about board and card game night?<br />
<strong>The</strong> Bozeman Resource <strong>Center</strong> will be<br />
sponsoring a game night hosted by the Nova<br />
Cafe, 312 East Main Street in Bozeman, as an<br />
opportunity to socialize, meet new people<br />
and play some games. We will be asking some<br />
people to bring some games. We already have<br />
Uno, Monopoly (Nintendo edition), Scrabble,<br />
and Dirty Minds. For more events: www.<br />
bozemanrc.org/Events.html<br />
Don’t see your event listed here?<br />
Email the details to<br />
out<strong>words</strong>@gaymontana.org<br />
by the 20th of each month.<br />
It’s free and a great way to draw a<br />
crowd to your next event!<br />
<strong>The</strong> <strong>Western</strong> <strong>Montana</strong> <strong>Community</strong><br />
<strong>Center</strong> will host a <strong>Community</strong> Dance<br />
Saturday August 6th Palace Billiards 8pm to 2am.<br />
With special guest DJ Kris Moon. $5 admission 21+
um......<br />
YES!<br />
Thanks for a<br />
great time Kalispell<br />
our fearless<br />
organizers<br />
dance it out!<br />
say cheese<br />
See you in<br />
Bozeman in 2011!<br />
love you Mom