25.10.2013 Views

November - The Western Montana Community Center

November - The Western Montana Community Center

November - The Western Montana Community Center

SHOW MORE
SHOW LESS

You also want an ePaper? Increase the reach of your titles

YUMPU automatically turns print PDFs into web optimized ePapers that Google loves.

out words<br />

the voice of <strong>Montana</strong>’s LGBTIQ community<br />

noveMBer 2012


Editors: Suzie Reahard<br />

A.D. Seibel<br />

127 North Higgins, Suite 202<br />

Missoula, MT 59802<br />

Phone: 406-543-2224<br />

E-mail: wmglcc@gaymontana.org<br />

Website: www.gaymontana.org<br />

Contributors: A.D. Seibel, J. Stevens, Ron Blake,<br />

Sissy Spaceship, Scot Schoettes<br />

Cover Art: Owen Riordon<br />

Advertising: Suzie Reahard & A.D. Seibel<br />

Monthly Circulation: 3,000 copies<br />

Serving the<br />

LGBTIQ<br />

<strong>Community</strong><br />

Since 1998 <strong>The</strong> <strong>Western</strong><br />

<strong>Montana</strong><br />

<strong>Community</strong><strong>Center</strong> Inside<br />

Annual subscriptions cost $25. Mail a check to Out Words<br />

via the <strong>Center</strong> address.<br />

Submit letters to the editor at outwords@gaymontana.org<br />

<strong>Center</strong> Board Members<br />

Mija mija@gaymontana.org<br />

David Herrara david.herrara@gaymontana.org<br />

Jim Prendergast jim.prendergast@gaymontana.org<br />

Acton Seibel acton.seibel@gaymontana.org<br />

Bree Sutherland bree.sutherland@gaymontana.org<br />

Donald Stuker donald.stuker@gaymontana.org<br />

Erin Scott erin.scott@gaymontana.org<br />

One copy of Out Words is available free of charge for each reader at current<br />

distribution locations. Copies of Out Words which have not been picked up for<br />

the purpose of reading them are the property of the <strong>Center</strong>. Any unauthorized<br />

person who takes or moves multiple copies of Out Words to prevent other people<br />

from seeing or reading them shall be considered guilty of theft. Violators will<br />

be prosecuted.<br />

Multiple copies can be sent to any distribution location. Please call or email us<br />

for information.<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Western</strong> <strong>Montana</strong> Gay & Lesbian <strong>Community</strong> <strong>Center</strong> is a 501(c)3 organization<br />

and cannot endorse any candidate for public office. Articles or advertising is strictly<br />

the opinion of the writers or advertisers, not that of the Board of Directors,<br />

members of the editorial staff of the Out Words, nor the <strong>Western</strong> <strong>Montana</strong> Gay<br />

& Lesbian <strong>Community</strong> <strong>Center</strong>. Those who contribute, advertise and distribute Out<br />

Words do not necessarily identify as LGBTIQ.<br />

Out Words is distributed at the following locations:<br />

Billings: Barjon Books, Hastings, YAP, <strong>The</strong> Loft, Good Earth Market<br />

Bozeman: Bozeman <strong>Community</strong> Food Co-Op, Bridger Clinic, City Brew Coffee,<br />

Gallatin <strong>Community</strong> Clinic, Leaf and Bean, Nova Café, Plonk<br />

Helena: Bert & Ernie’s Restaurant , Birds & Beaslies , No Sweat Café , Real<br />

Food Market & Deli , Staggering Ox , Taco Del Sol , Tori’s Antiques & Exquisite<br />

Jewelry, GamePODS, Gaia’s Galleria<br />

Kalispell: City Brew Coffee, Dolce Villa, Flathead Valley Alliance, Starbucks<br />

Livingston: Coffee Crossing, <strong>Montana</strong> Cup Coffee House and Bakery, <strong>The</strong> Owl<br />

Missoula: <strong>The</strong> Badlander/Palace Billiards, Bernice’s Bakery, Betty’s Divine, Butterfly<br />

vHerbs, Catalyst, Chocolat, Crystal Video, Dan Fox Foster Homes, Dauphine’s, Ear<br />

Candy Records, Fact and Fiction, FDH & Associates, Forward <strong>Montana</strong>, Front<br />

Street Pasta and Wraps, Taco Del Sol, Staggering Ox, <strong>The</strong> Good Food Store, <strong>The</strong><br />

Jeanette Rankin Peace <strong>Center</strong>, Liquid Planet, Missoula AIDS Council, Midnight<br />

Dreams, Missoula <strong>Community</strong> Food Coop, Pita Pit, Public Library, ClubQ<br />

Also distributed to: Havre MT, Browning MT, Butte MT, Culbertson MT, Victor MT,<br />

Ancorage AK, Tacoma WA, Boise ID, Portland OR<br />

This Edition of Out Words<br />

News Briefs . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3-4<br />

Fountain of Youth. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 5<br />

Sissy Spaceship Breaks it Down. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .6-7<br />

<strong>The</strong> Fringe on the Outskirts . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 8<br />

Ask Lambda Legal . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9<br />

<strong>Community</strong> Resources . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10<br />

Calendar of Events. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 11<br />

An era ends,<br />

are you next?<br />

I laid out the very first issue of Out<br />

Words in the back seat of my<br />

car on the way to Seattle for<br />

Pride. I remember thinking<br />

“This is the gayest thing I<br />

have ever done.” Well 5<br />

½ years later with many<br />

more gay adventures<br />

under my belt, it is time<br />

to pass the honor on<br />

to another bright-eyed,<br />

adventure-seeking and<br />

community loving<br />

queer. It has been<br />

amazing serving you.<br />

Interested in being the<br />

next design guru? Call<br />

the <strong>Center</strong> 543-2224<br />

or email outwords@<br />

gaymontana.org


N e w s<br />

Briefs<br />

by A.D. Seibel<br />

October 1, 2012. <strong>The</strong> Jamaica Forum for Lesbians,<br />

All-sexuals & Gays (J-Flag) announces the closure of<br />

Jamaica’s only drop-in center, for homeless LGBT youth.<br />

J-Flag managed the center with another organization the<br />

Jamaica Aids Support (JAS). Maurice Tomilson, a lawyer<br />

and prominent LGBT rights advocate told GSN that the<br />

organizations have struggled for years to manage the<br />

huge influx of homeless LGBT youth and have repeatedly<br />

sought government assistance to no avail. Jamaica is<br />

well known for its high levels of homophobia with many<br />

youth taking to the streets and sex work after being<br />

rejected by their families and communities.<br />

October 1, 2012. Manhattan Family Court Judge Gloria<br />

Sosa-Lintner awards custody of a six-year-old girl to<br />

her adoptive mother, real estate attorney Allison Scollar,<br />

over the objections of her biological mother, television<br />

producer Brook Altman, after a bitter legal battle. Sosa-<br />

Lintner ruled that Scollar, “is indeed the more responsible<br />

parent looking out for the child’s best interests, not her<br />

own,” while Altman, “behaved more as a friend or older<br />

sister than a responsible parent. Altman is the biological<br />

parent; this does not give her automatic priority over<br />

the adoptive parent.” Sosa-Lintner’s ruling makes it a<br />

first for same-sex couples in New York.<br />

October 2, 2012. Paul Ramscar introduces his Pink<br />

Dollar app, a smartphone application that seeks to<br />

put members of the LGBT community in Hong Kong<br />

in touch with LGBT friendly businesses in the socially<br />

conservative metropolis. Ramscar believes that the<br />

software will also help breakdown cultural barriers in<br />

the city where homosexuality was just decriminalized<br />

only 20 years ago. Over 100 companies ranging from<br />

restaurants, to gyms, to real estate agents will participate<br />

in the Pink Dollar with users rating the businesses<br />

‘friendliness’ from light pink to hot pink. As Ramscar<br />

states, “Where money flows, it can influence policy.”<br />

October 2, 2012. Bruce Springsteen has been an<br />

advocate for the LGBT community for several years but<br />

the singer/song writer has amped it up by staring in a<br />

new media push called <strong>The</strong> Four 2012, which is focused<br />

on passing same-sex marriage ballots measures in Maine,<br />

Maryland, Minnesota, and Washington. Founder of <strong>The</strong><br />

Four 2012, Brian Ellner, stated that the media push is<br />

essential because, “We have never won one of these<br />

votes of the people. This is really a moment to make a<br />

statement.”<br />

October 3, 2012. Although two of the four openly<br />

gay members of Congress are leaving their seats, this<br />

election year promises some awesome potential<br />

changes as there is a record number of LGBT people<br />

vying to win seats in Congress. <strong>The</strong>re are a total of eight<br />

openly LGBT candidates running as party nominees for<br />

the House of Representatives, the most ever including<br />

two who are incumbents who are favored in their<br />

races- Democrat Jared Polis of Colorado, and David<br />

Cicilline of Rhode Island. This also includes the openly<br />

gay Republican, Richard Tisei of Massachusetts. <strong>The</strong> only<br />

long shot of the group is probably, Idaho State Senator,<br />

Nicole Lefavour, the first openly LGBT legislator ever in<br />

her state, is running against incumbent, Republican Mike<br />

Simpson, who won re-election in 2010 with 69% of the<br />

vote.<br />

October 5, 2012. Featherweight boxer, Orlando Cruz,<br />

comes out as a proud gay man. As Cruz stated during<br />

an Associated Press interview, “I don’t want to hide any<br />

of my identities. I want people to look at me for the<br />

human being that I am. I am a professional sportsman<br />

that always brings his best to the ring. I want for people<br />

to continue to see me for my boxing skills, my character,<br />

my sportsmanship. But I also want kids who suffer from<br />

bullying to know that you can be whoever you want to<br />

be in life, including a professional boxer, that anything<br />

is possible and that who your are or whom you love<br />

should not be an impediment to achieving anything in<br />

life.”<br />

October 5, 2012. GLAAD announces that the number<br />

of LGBT characters in scripted broadcast network TV<br />

is at an all time high as well as on cable television. <strong>The</strong><br />

17th annual, “Where We Are<br />

on TV” report found that 4.4%<br />

of actors appearing regularly<br />

on prime-time network<br />

dramas and comedy series<br />

during the 2012-13 season<br />

will portray LGBT characters,<br />

up from the 2.9% in 2011.<br />

ABC has the highest amount<br />

with 5.2% of their regular<br />

characters identified as LGBT.<br />

FOX came in second with<br />

5.1% and CBS was nominated<br />

as the most improved having<br />

come up 2.8% from last year’s<br />

0.7%. However, HBO’s “True<br />

Blood” series remains the<br />

most inclusive cable show with, count’em six, six LGBT<br />

characters.<br />

October 5, 2012. California’s recent ban on ‘Ex-gay’<br />

therapy for minors already has two lawsuits seeking<br />

to overturn the legislation. <strong>The</strong> Christian legal group,<br />

Liberty Counsel filed a civil rights suit in federal court<br />

naming two So-Cal boys, ages 14 and 15 who have<br />

been undergoing ‘reparative therapy’ with psychologist,<br />

Joseph Nicolosi. <strong>The</strong> suite claims the ban violates the<br />

boys right to free speech and freedom of religion by<br />

denying them the chance to be cured of “unwanted<br />

same-sex attraction.” <strong>The</strong> Pacific Justice Institute filed<br />

the second suit in Sacramento on behalf of a psychiatrist<br />

and a marriage and family therapist and another man<br />

who claims that ‘reparative therapy’ helped him. <strong>The</strong><br />

ban was signed in to law by Governor Jerry Brown who<br />

stated that ‘ex-gay’ therapies, “have no basis in science<br />

or medicine and they will now be relegated to the dust<br />

bin of quackery.”<br />

October 11, 2012. Continuing with the WTF this<br />

month, organizers of the Anoka city Halloween parade<br />

decline to allow Justin’s Gift, an LGBT teen suicide<br />

prevention youth group, from walking the parade<br />

because the parade was ‘full.’ Justin’s Gift was formed<br />

after a string of gay teen suicides in the area, including<br />

gay teenager Justin Aaberg who killed himself after<br />

being the victim of anti-gay bullying. A petition was<br />

started on the website, change.org to allow the group<br />

to walk the parade. In the mean time, Justin’s Gift plans<br />

to hold a Halloween dance as an alternative activity for<br />

the students who had planned to be in the parade.<br />

October 17, 2012. <strong>The</strong> India Times on-line reports that<br />

there might be an “erotically charged” scene in recently<br />

released “SkyFall” between a Javier Bardem’s bad guy<br />

character, Silva and Daniel Craig’s James Bond. That<br />

Out Words 3


is all.<br />

October 18, 2012. Grundy County Deputy Clerk of<br />

Court, Brigitte Van Nice of Iowa, is arrested at work<br />

and charged with two counts of forgery and one count<br />

of perjury for falsely officiating a wedding for two men<br />

from Florida, even though she had not met the men and<br />

they had not traveled to the state for the ceremony.<br />

Investigators discovered the false certificate after one<br />

of the men contacted an attorney in Florida for a<br />

divorce. Van Nice came in contact with the men after<br />

they searched the Internet for states to get a marriage<br />

document in. <strong>The</strong> couple was unaware that you had<br />

to be present in the state that you’re married in. Van<br />

Nice is accused of filing a false document and forging the<br />

signatures of the witnesses of the non-existent ceremony.<br />

Van Nice charged the men $150 for her efforts.<br />

October 18, 2012. A Gallup survey determines that<br />

3.4% of American adults identify as LGBT. <strong>The</strong> survey,<br />

considered one of the largest of its kind, interviewed<br />

more than 121,000 people. Demographer, Gary Gates<br />

of the UCLA School of Law’s Williams Institute stated,<br />

“Contemporary media often think of LGBT people<br />

as disproportionately white, male, urban and pretty<br />

wealthy. But this data reveals that the relative to the<br />

general population, the LGBT population has a larger<br />

proportion of nonwhite people who are clearly not<br />

overly wealthy.” According to the survey, 4.6% of African<br />

Americans identify as LGBT, 4% of Hispanics, 4.3% of<br />

Asians, and 3.2% of whites. Unfortunately, the survey<br />

failed to take into account the LGBT people who did<br />

not want to acknowledge their sexual orientation during<br />

the interviews.<br />

October 21, 2012. Rep. Jan Pauls, a Democrat who<br />

wrote the Kansas ban against same-sex marriage fears<br />

for her safety this election year because as she states,<br />

“<strong>The</strong>y’re trying to intimidate and bully people who don’t<br />

agree with them.” Of course, Pauls is speaking of the<br />

nefarious gays in her district. Pauls has a 21 year history<br />

of being a social conservative and casting several votes<br />

against equal rights legislation for the LGBT community.<br />

Pauls even compared herself to Gabby Giffords and<br />

that her friends worry that she too will be shot, but<br />

by a marauding homosexual gunman. Pauls has run<br />

uncontested for over 20 years until August when, gasp,<br />

an openly gay man ran against her, she won by eight votes.<br />

This <strong>November</strong> she has a 20-year-old challenger, Dakota<br />

Bass, who switched parties just so he could run against<br />

her. So lets put Pauls in our prayers and hope that she<br />

looses this year so that she may be spared from the fear<br />

of the omnipotent GAY AGENDA [insert maniacal gay<br />

laughter here].<br />

October 23, 2012. Bill and Melinda Gates drop half<br />

a million dollars on the gay marriage campaign in<br />

Washington. Bill and Melinda donated 250,000K each<br />

on the campaign that will be decided on Washington’s<br />

<strong>November</strong> 6th ballot. That brings the total cash raised<br />

in support of same-sex marriage to almost a 11 million<br />

dollars. Washington voters will be asked to either<br />

approve or reject gay marriage under Referendum 74.<br />

October 23, 2012. <strong>The</strong> Illinois Dept. of Public Health<br />

is no longer allowed to require applicants, who wish to<br />

change their gender markers on the birth certificate,<br />

to have genital reassignment surgery. <strong>The</strong>re is still a<br />

requirement to have some form of sexual reassignment<br />

procedure, but the specifics of the required procedures<br />

are left up to the individual’s physician. <strong>The</strong> policy change<br />

comes as a result of a settlement reached in July in a<br />

class action legal challenge involving three transgender<br />

individuals who filed suit in 2010 after they were denied<br />

corrected birth certificates from the IDPH because they<br />

did not undergo genital surgery.<br />

October 24, 2012. Helena residents pack the room at<br />

a Helena City Commission administrative meeting to<br />

discuss a proposed ordinance to prohibit discrimination<br />

based on sexual orientation. <strong>The</strong> ordinance is heading<br />

for a formal public hearing as the commissioners spent<br />

the evening tying up loose ends. <strong>The</strong> commissioners, led<br />

by Mayor Jim Smith, directed City Attorney Jeff Hindoien<br />

to draw up a completed<br />

draft that include the new<br />

changes by the next city<br />

commission administrative<br />

meeting by October 31.<br />

<strong>The</strong> commission will likely<br />

address the ordinance by<br />

December 3, and, if it moves<br />

forward, have a public<br />

hearing on December 17.<br />

<strong>The</strong> ordinance was almost<br />

dead a couple of weeks<br />

ago when the MT Dept. of<br />

Labor and Industry stated<br />

that a federal ruling opened<br />

the door of the MT Human<br />

Rights Bureau to complaints<br />

of discrimination based on<br />

sexual orientation which<br />

would have rendered<br />

the ordinance seemingly<br />

unnecessary. However,<br />

the chief of the Human<br />

Rights Bureau indicated last<br />

week that the fates of such<br />

complaints are in limbo.<br />

October 24, 2012.<br />

According to ABC.com<br />

Chaz Bono is voted off<br />

“Dancing with the Stars.”<br />

Bono danced the tango<br />

to the theme from “<strong>The</strong><br />

Phantom of the Opera,”<br />

but still only received 19 points, the lowest score of the<br />

evening. Oh well.<br />

October 25, 2012. <strong>The</strong> two groups who represent<br />

the LGBT community in the military, Servicemembers<br />

Legal Defense Network and OutServe, are planning to<br />

merge and have chosen Allyson Robinson to lead the<br />

new organization. Robinson is a trans woman and an<br />

Army veteran, having graduated from the U.S. Military<br />

Academy in 1994. She also commanded a patriot missile<br />

unit in Europe and the Middle East before resigning her<br />

commission in 1999 to become a Christian minister.<br />

Robinson’s selection for the post highlights that even<br />

though DADT has been repealed they still feel that<br />

work needs to be done, specifically the inclusion of<br />

transgender military personnel and DOMA, which<br />

prevents same-sex couples from receiving the same<br />

benefits as of couples. Stated Robinson, “We cannot<br />

stop until we reach the day when all qualified Americans<br />

who wish to wear the uniform of our armed forces have<br />

the opportunity to do so with honor and integrity and<br />

without fear of discrimination or harassment-whether<br />

they are gay, bisexual or transgender.”<br />

Out Words 4


FOuntaIn OF<br />

YOuth<br />

by Ron Blake<br />

Most of us exercise to maintain a youthful appearance or to feel younger than<br />

our age. Get in a healthy mindset by turning back the clock and looking at all<br />

the old memories. Retrieve those boxes of nostalgia from your elementary<br />

school days. Life was so simple and so much fun when you were reading<br />

comic books by flashlight on top of the bunk bed. It was also full of wellness<br />

and promise for the future.<br />

In a recent survey in Reader’s Digest, older adults said they would worry<br />

much less about so many things in life if they had the chance to go back<br />

and do it again. <strong>The</strong>y looked at all those problems that were allegedly such<br />

problems when they were in their prime adult working years. <strong>The</strong>y now<br />

realize it all wasn’t worth the additional stress they put upon themselves.<br />

You are only a memory away from that youthful vigor and wellness. Get out<br />

an old painting you did when you were in 2nd grade. Dust off the snowman<br />

sculpture you created in art class when you were 9 years old. Look at the<br />

class picture from 1980 and imagine being back in a time when all that<br />

mattered was the baseball game at the next recess.<br />

Find your Peter Pan moment and use it to create your current foundation<br />

for healthiness and happiness. I will share a poem I wrote in the fall of 1978<br />

in Mrs. McCollough’s 4th grade class at Foreman Elementary back in Hobart,<br />

Indiana. It reminds me of all that was good back then…and still can be now.<br />

What is Orange?<br />

Orange is a firecracker glowing at night.<br />

Orange is the sunset sparkling so bright.<br />

Orange is the flame after a rocket ship.<br />

Orange is the pumpkin that can hop and skip.<br />

Orange is the car painted so beautiful.<br />

Orange is your hair on your skull.<br />

Orange is the leaves that fall off trees.<br />

Orange is the stripes on cougars, tigers, and bees.<br />

Orange is a rainbow so bright and clear.<br />

Orange is the paint you smudge and smear.<br />

It’s 3:15PM and the bell is about to ring; I’ve got to go now. My friends Rick<br />

and Dave already have their jackets and homework in hand and are lining up<br />

at the door. <strong>The</strong> crisp autumn air and the afternoon possibilities await our<br />

arrival outside. Life is really good!<br />

This wellness article is brought to you by that guy with diamond dreams.<br />

That guy with his hat of hope is Ron Blake and he can be found wishing upon<br />

a star at rblake5551@hotmail.com.<br />

W O R D E N T H A N E P. C.<br />

A T T O R N E Y S A T L A W<br />

Shane A. Vannatta<br />

Jane E. Cowley<br />

Suite 600 <strong>The</strong> Florence • 111 N Higgins Ave<br />

P.O. Box 4747 • Missoula, MT 59806<br />

Suite 600 <strong>The</strong> (406) Florence 721-3400 • 111 N Higgins Ave<br />

P.O. Box 4747 • Missoula, MT 59806<br />

(406) 721-3400 • svannatta@wthlaw.net<br />

How about a quickie?<br />

RAPID HIV TESTING<br />

We offer a safe, confidential and anonymous environment for free HIV testing with gay men testing and counseling other<br />

gay and bisexual men. Accurate results in 20 minutes.9am-5pm M-F (weekend and evenings by appointment).<br />

Call 829.8075 or e-mail fdh@mtgayhealth.org, or just stop by127 N. Higgins, Suite 205.<br />

A service of the <strong>Montana</strong> Gay Men’s Task Force, FDH & Associates, and the MT Dept. of Public Health and Human Services.<br />

Out Words 5


s I s s y<br />

SPaceShIP<br />

breakS It dOWn<br />

rYan MurPhY:<br />

When caMP and<br />

cOMMercIal cOllIde<br />

by Sissy Spaceship<br />

Camp is defined by www.dictionary.com as the following:<br />

“Something that provides sophisticated, knowing<br />

amusement, as by virtue of its being artlessly mannered<br />

or stylized, self-consciously artificial and extravagant,<br />

or teasingly ingenuous and sentimental.” In the 1960s<br />

and 70s, the face of camp in the mainstream was Paul<br />

Lynde, and occasionally, Liberace. In the 1980s and 90s,<br />

that mantle was snatched up by John Waters. Today, the<br />

legacy of camp has infiltrated the mainstream thanks<br />

to Ryan Murphy, the writer/director/producer, who is<br />

responsible for such television programs as “Nip/Tuck,”<br />

and “Glee,” and such cinematic disasters as “Running<br />

With Scissors” and “Eat/Pray/Love.” His is a story<br />

worth explicating, because it says so much about the<br />

attention span of our society, and how camp can collide<br />

with popular culture in spectacular ways, and crash and<br />

burn just as tremendously.<br />

I have always believed that Ryan Murphy was<br />

hatched from a glittery space egg, or was discovered<br />

like a foundling, under a coke-strewn table at Studio<br />

54. However, Murphy, creator of some of the most<br />

gay-friendly and groundbreaking television in our time,<br />

was actually hatched in not-so-fabulous Indianapolis.<br />

He was born relatively normal, and attended Catholic<br />

school, which seems to be a breeding ground for most<br />

ambassadors of Camp. His mother, a former beauty<br />

queen, forced her children to hang out with nuns, and<br />

often included them on family vacations. As a child,<br />

Ryan recalled sleeping in a single bed with a nun in a<br />

hotel room in Florida. Thus, it is not surprising that he<br />

turned out to be a homosexual.<br />

Murphy started his career as a journalist, and<br />

eventually worked at Entertainment Weekly, a magazine<br />

that has proven to be a gay incubator. He began<br />

writing scripts in his free time, and his first completed<br />

film project (rejected by none other than Steven<br />

Spielberg himself) was titled “Why Can’t I Be Audrey<br />

Hepburn?”-- Which I believe is the inner bumper<br />

sticker of most gay men.<br />

In 1998, Murphy earned a production deal at the<br />

fledgling WB Network, home of “Dawson’s Creek” and<br />

“Buffy <strong>The</strong> Vampire Slayer.” His show, “Popular,” was<br />

a perfect fit—a snarky, outrageous depiction of high<br />

school. It lasted for one season, mostly because the<br />

teenaged girls that tuned in to watch James Van Der<br />

Beek could not grasp irony. Murphy parlayed the good<br />

notices from “Popular” to get a shot to develop a show<br />

on another young network, FX. Ryan came up with<br />

“Nip/Tuck,” and television was never the same again.<br />

“Nip/Tuck” was the first of its kind—compelling<br />

enough to hook the soap opera lover, but delivered<br />

with an arched brow, filtered through a surrealistic,<br />

outrageous lens. <strong>The</strong>re was nothing else like it on<br />

television. <strong>The</strong> story of two plastic surgeons (who<br />

were in all actuality, the first mainstream “bromance”),<br />

“Nip/Tuck” featured outré storylines, but was somehow<br />

believable, and compulsively watchable. Every episode<br />

was structured around some sort of freakshow plastic<br />

surgery disaster, and the two hot male plastic surgeons<br />

photo by Gage Skidmore<br />

Out Words 6


would interrogate each new patient at the start of<br />

the episode with “Tell me what you don’t like about<br />

yourself.” For self-loathing gays, this was catharsis; for<br />

self-confident gays, this was fabulous. <strong>The</strong> first few<br />

seasons were absolutely brilliant, and “Nip/Tuck” was<br />

in all actuality the first mainstream show to successfully<br />

deal with plots that included transgender characters.<br />

(Willam Belli, probably the finest contestant to ever<br />

compete on “Rupaul’s Drag Race” featured in a string<br />

of unforgettable episodes about gay bashing.)<br />

Sexuality was over the top on “Nip/Tuck,” but<br />

unfortunately, so was the tone. <strong>The</strong> charm of the show<br />

was the absence of soul, but it proved to be its undoing,<br />

as well. We just stopped caring about the characters.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re were no heart-warming episodes, because the<br />

heart had been surgically removed. When success<br />

hit Ryan Murphy, his singular vision was derailed as<br />

the money started coming in. “Nip/Tuck” was nearly<br />

unwatchable by the time the show re-jiggered and<br />

relocated the surgeons to California. It ended with a<br />

kinky whisper. (During the early 2000s, queer show<br />

runners had a renaissance: Alan Ball brought us “Six<br />

Feet Under,” and Marc Cherry brought us “Desperate<br />

Housewives,” two shows that successfully married<br />

camp, outrageous behavior, soap opera, and heart.<br />

Murphy could never quite get that combination right.)<br />

During the heyday of “Nip/Tuck,” Murphy bought<br />

the rights to the cinematic adaptation of “Running<br />

With Scissors,” the superb queer memoir written by<br />

Augusten Burroughs. Ryan stacked the movie with a<br />

stellar cast—Gwyneth Paltrow, Jill Clayburgh, Annette<br />

Bening, and Alec Baldwin—but the end result was a<br />

resounding disappointment. Murphy seemed invested<br />

in the subversive themes of the book and in the<br />

minutiae of props from the 1970s, but he lost the depth<br />

and resonance entirely. At times, the film seemed to<br />

have been directed by a dirty minded grade school boy.<br />

When the movie tanked, Ryan went back to his<br />

television roots, and came up with a doozy: “Glee.”<br />

Murphy merged camp and the zeniths of top 40<br />

pop culture, and came up with a show that is striking<br />

in its originality, and utterly ballsy in its progressive<br />

nature. “Glee” is essentially a musical/drama/comedy<br />

hybrid, and at its best, it is better than anything else<br />

on television, but unfortunately, it can also be an utter<br />

train-wreck. <strong>The</strong> show unleashed the brilliant Chris<br />

Colfer upon the world, an openly gay young actor<br />

portraying an openly gay high school student, and Jane<br />

Lynch, the massively underrated lesbian character<br />

actress, devouring each scene as a genderless, evil<br />

shrew. “Glee” was the first of Murphy’s shows to have<br />

a soul—the scenes between Colfer and Mike O’Malley,<br />

who plays Colfer’s awesomely accepting father, always<br />

make me cry.<br />

Colfer won an Emmy for Best Supporting Actor,<br />

and he took pains to thank all of the bullied gay kids<br />

in his acceptance speech; Lynch, predictably won<br />

Best Supporting Actress, and she gets extra credit<br />

for wearing bejeweled track pants on the red carpet.<br />

“Glee” is essentially about Broadway babies, an unlikely<br />

group to root for, but somehow the outcast, teenaged<br />

glee club became a cultural touchstone. It was a huge<br />

commercial hit—it landed on the cover of Rolling Stone,<br />

and sold millions upon millions of i-Tunes downloads.<br />

It also introduced the Murphy trademark of providing<br />

a halfway house for A-list divas looking to rehab their<br />

image. Gwyneth, Kate Hudson, Lindsay Lohan and<br />

Ricky Martin have all provided delicious guest starring<br />

performances, especially Gwyneth, who finally lived up<br />

to her gay-icon potential.<br />

One awesome side effect of “Glee” was the<br />

introduction of show tune standards to young<br />

teenagers—I never in my wildest dreams thought a<br />

mainstream show could contain homages to “Cabaret,”<br />

“West Side Story,” “Funny Girl,” “Les Miserables,”<br />

“Rent,” and “Wicked.” <strong>The</strong>re was an entire episode<br />

devoted to the “Rocky Horror Picture Show.” <strong>The</strong>re<br />

was talk of scissoring, and an episode narrated by<br />

Dame Helen Mirren, providing the interior monologue<br />

of a character with a developmental disability. Most<br />

fabulously of all, the gay characters were not saints and<br />

martyrs; they were complicated, and sometimes sinister,<br />

but not in the traditional Hollywood predatory way.<br />

Murphy’s distractions started in Season 2—“Glee”<br />

went awry when Murphy got some Hollywood power<br />

back, and moved on to other projects. <strong>The</strong> show was<br />

derailed by the orphaned writing staff, who engaged in<br />

the worst kind of after-school special treacle. Entire<br />

plot threads were forgotten; characters would change<br />

personality traits in the middle of an episode, and most<br />

unforgivably, the show became predictable.<br />

Ryan’s distraction at the time was “Eat/Pray/Love,”<br />

the adaptation of another beloved book—the movie<br />

managed to make Julia Roberts appear even more uninteresting<br />

and self-involved than she is in real life. It<br />

tanked.<br />

Murphy, however, was unstoppable—“<strong>The</strong> Glee<br />

Project” began airing in 2010—here was the reality<br />

show version of the casting couch. Murphy’s only role<br />

on the show was that of judge—real life kids competed<br />

week after week for a guest starring role on “Glee,” and<br />

I’ll be damned if it isn’t one of the best reality shows on<br />

television. <strong>The</strong>re was no camp here, just earnestness<br />

and choreography. Murphy could not ruin it, because<br />

it was not his show—his comments as a judge revealed<br />

just how bitchy and distracted he is in real life. It is<br />

telling that the winners of both seasons were hot,<br />

straight young men, as Murphy had the ultimate say.<br />

But thank god for Murphy’s obsession with man<br />

candy—“American Horror Story” began airing on FX,<br />

and was full of male nudity. Dylan McDermott, crying,<br />

naked and masturbating in front of an open window:<br />

does it get any better than that? Airing on FX, “AHS”<br />

was an immediate sensation—Murphy fully unleashed,<br />

finally. It was not only campy, it was filthy and cluttered<br />

with sexual fetishes. I adore it. When working in a<br />

specific genre, in this case horror, Murphy is at his<br />

best. <strong>The</strong>re is no real world, everything is unbelievable<br />

and audacious, and it’s okay. Jessica Lange continued<br />

Murphy’s hot streak with diva re-invention, and Connie<br />

Britton proved that she was willing to do ANYTHING,<br />

and us gay men got to fall in love with her all over again,<br />

as we were still broken hearted after the cancellation<br />

of the hunktastic “Friday Night Lights.” “AHS” is<br />

twisted and dark and fantastic, mostly because it is selfcontained—each<br />

season is essentially a mini-series, and<br />

meticulously plotted beforehand. Sex with ghosts and<br />

sex with strangers in gimp suits, as well as gay men<br />

flipping houses: <strong>The</strong>se are a few of our favorite things.<br />

Even my straight Republican sister adores the show—I<br />

pray that Murphy doesn’t fuck up Season 2.<br />

I tuned into Murphy’s most recent offering, the gaythemed<br />

sitcom “<strong>The</strong> New Normal.” While it is well<br />

intentioned, it has been focus grouped to death. It’s<br />

offensive to me because it is so inoffensive. I want it to<br />

succeed, but not enough to carve out the DVR space.<br />

Because I am a Bitter Betty, I asked my friend Laramie,<br />

who has the same issues with “Glee” as I do, for a<br />

much kinder perspective. According to Laramie: “”<strong>The</strong><br />

New Normal’” successfully showcases a married gay<br />

male couple—albeit a gay, upper class couple—as they<br />

begin the long journey toward parenthood. As a newly<br />

married gay man myself, one of the things I most love<br />

about the show is the feeling of legitimacy my husband<br />

and I experience by watching a couple, similar to us in<br />

many ways, fight the same battles we fight, laugh like<br />

we laugh, and kiss like we kiss. <strong>The</strong>re’s a lot of reason<br />

to celebrate Murphy’s newest series, despite some<br />

freshman year flaws.”<br />

For me, a glimmer of hope arrived last week with<br />

the Season 4 premiere of “Glee,” which was actually<br />

much, much better than any of Season 3. Let’s<br />

hope Murphy can sustain the magic. If not, I beg the<br />

television gods to let him take over “True Blood,” or<br />

“Dexter,” or “Dallas,” all shows within his skill sets—<br />

the supernatural, the deviant, the soap opera. Unleash<br />

that man on cable television, and he’s magic.<br />

Ultimately, Ryan Murphy represents the best<br />

and worst of gay male culture—he excels at camp,<br />

at showmanship, at razzle dazzle, at music, at the<br />

objectification of the male body. He fails miserably<br />

when he attempts to preach, when he defaults to shock<br />

for the sake of shock alone, and when his attention<br />

span is diverted.<br />

Murphy has done so much for television, and for<br />

the visibility of the queer lifestyle in mainstream media.<br />

Here’s hoping that he finds another nun to be near him<br />

at all times and keep him on track.<br />

Out Words 7


<strong>The</strong> friNge oN<br />

<strong>The</strong> ouTskirTs<br />

VacaTioN<br />

By J. Steven<br />

Shortly after writing and submitting my last column<br />

Ben and I left <strong>Montana</strong> to spend two weeks of absolute<br />

bliss camping and hiking in the Canadian Rockies.<br />

To anyone who had been to those mountains, mere<br />

mention of them evokes images of miles and miles<br />

of rugged, jagged peaks so magnificent and numerous<br />

it seems as though the gods took all the best peaks<br />

from around the world and pressed them all together<br />

along the border of Alberta and British Columbia. To<br />

anyone who has not seen them it is very difficult to<br />

describe them without sounding redundant, maudlin<br />

and semi-illiterate with gross abuse of hyperventilating<br />

superlatives.<br />

Undoubtedly my instant, intense love-at-firstsight<br />

response to the Canadian Rockies was partly<br />

due to being in that unreal and unrealistic state of<br />

being called vacation. Ben and I camped every night<br />

in our tent, cooked our dinners and breakfasts on a<br />

Coleman stove in the open air, and ate lunch as we<br />

hiked on as many days as we could have. We both love<br />

hiking as much as we love anything, so the time up<br />

north was spent entirely doing nothing but providing<br />

for our most basic needs of food and water to do only<br />

that which we dearly love to do.<br />

Were it possible, we could joyfully live that way<br />

for the rest of our lives – or at least for as long as our<br />

bodies have enough vigor to hike in the mountains.<br />

<strong>The</strong> unreality of that fantasy, of course, is that we were<br />

spending money we had previously earned and saved<br />

and were not doing anything to replace it. I have often<br />

believed I could have been happier if I was living in a<br />

different time or place far, far away; but while we were<br />

in the Canadian Rockies there was no other time or<br />

place in the entire universe I could have preferred.<br />

I was high on life and there was no other life more<br />

worthwhile than my own.<br />

When we drove south out of Banff toward<br />

Waterton National Park to spend our last night in<br />

Canada, I felt a nearly overwhelming sense of grief.<br />

At that point I realized that if it was possible I not<br />

only could live a life of camping and hiking every<br />

day, some deep part of me seriously wanted that as<br />

a permanent lifestyle. We camped two nights in the<br />

Lewis and Clark National Forest and got in one last<br />

hike up to the border of the Bob Marshall Wilderness<br />

before heading home, but the closer we got to home,<br />

the less grief I felt and the more I began to think about<br />

being back home and taking care of things there.<br />

At the time I’m writing this column Ben and I<br />

have been home for nearly a month and I still think of<br />

those mountains every day. <strong>The</strong>y were truly beautiful<br />

and during quiet moments my mind quickly and easily<br />

brings back the peaks, valleys, glaciers, creeks, rivers,<br />

and high mountain lakes as well as the trails we hiked<br />

to see them all. But while the mountain ranges up<br />

north have more picturesque peaks than ours have<br />

here, I can look out the studio windows every day<br />

right from home and gaze upon mountains I love even<br />

more deeply than I love the glitter and glitz of the<br />

Canadian Rockies. Ben and I would both go back to<br />

Canada in a hasty moment to explore deeper and<br />

farther, but I am a part of these <strong>Montana</strong> mountains<br />

and they are part of me. And not only that, all the<br />

people we love and who love us are close by us here.<br />

Ben and I are finished with our summer landscape<br />

work and are back into the pottery studio full time<br />

again, leading our monastic lifestyle of providing for<br />

our most basic needs by feeding ourselves with the<br />

fruit of our labors in the garden so we can do the<br />

work we both love so dearly, but which also sustains<br />

us and our lifestyle through the winter.<br />

It doesn’t take much thinking to know I couldn’t<br />

be happy trading this lifestyle for any other. Sometimes<br />

a happy, albeit inevitably temporary, moment tricks me<br />

into forgetting how good our life is. <strong>The</strong>re are issues<br />

that get me down – politics, irrational and intolerant<br />

neighbors, national screamers – but none of them has<br />

anything to do with or even any real effect on my<br />

personal lifestyle, which is the only thing I have that<br />

is truly my own. Yes, on occasion I have an unrealistic<br />

view of almost anyplace else being better than where<br />

I’m at because of some beautiful vignette which my<br />

imagination allows me, in a moment of frustration, to<br />

believe shows the entire life of a place, but I know<br />

perfectly well, when I allow myself to think it through,<br />

that every other place on this earth has problems<br />

of its own. Perhaps someday, then, I’ll learn to stop<br />

complaining and wishing away everything I love for<br />

something unreal, unrealistic and a long way from the<br />

only place I can honestly call home.<br />

Check out more from J. Steven at http://beyondthecrux.<br />

blogspot.com<br />

Out Words 8


ask lamBda legal<br />

Blood<br />

doNaTioNs<br />

by Scott Schoettes, HIV Project Director for<br />

Lambda Legal<br />

Q; : I’m a gay man and have wanted to donate<br />

blood for some time. I heard the policy banning<br />

blood donations from men who have sex with men<br />

may be changing, is that true?<br />

A: Since 1983, gay men have been banned from<br />

donating blood – the actual policy says that if<br />

you are a man and have had sex with another<br />

man since 1977, you are not allowed to give.<br />

While intended to minimize transmission of HIV<br />

through a blood transfusion, this discriminatory<br />

policy is not supported by medical science.<br />

Earlier this year, the Department of Health and<br />

Human Services (HHS) asked for comments<br />

on a pilot study to assess alternative policies<br />

that would allow some gay and bisexual men<br />

to donate blood. In the pilot program, men<br />

who have sex with men (MSM) would be able<br />

to donate blood after a five-year or one-year<br />

waiting period after their last sexual encounter<br />

with a man. Lambda Legal and a number of other<br />

HIV and LGBT advocacy organizations recently<br />

submitted comments to HHS about how to<br />

improve the pilot program because it does not<br />

adequately differentiate between lower and<br />

higher risk sexual behaviors and its proposal of<br />

a five-year or one-year deferral period isn’t in<br />

line with current medical science.<br />

Regardless of sexual orientation, the risk of<br />

acquiring a sexually transmitted infection like<br />

HIV varies based upon the frequency and type<br />

of sexual behavior, as well as an individual’s safesex<br />

practices. <strong>The</strong>refore, screening questions<br />

should identify those who are at low risk for<br />

HIV and other sexually transmitted infections—<br />

including MSM who are in monogamous<br />

relationships or those who consistently practice<br />

safer sex— and allow them to donate blood.<br />

In addition, Lambda Legal strongly suggests<br />

that the waiting period for all donors whose<br />

behavior is considered higher risk be consistent<br />

with—and not significantly longer than—the<br />

“window” period of a blood bank’s testing<br />

method. For some HIV tests, the window period<br />

for HIV detection can be as short as three<br />

weeks, while other HIV tests have a window<br />

period of about three months. For all available<br />

HIV testing, however, the waiting period would<br />

be considerably shorter than the one-year or<br />

five-year delays currently proposed. Deferral<br />

periods that are four to fifteen times the length<br />

of the relevant window period will continue to<br />

unnecessarily restrict the available blood supply<br />

by turning away donors based on stereotypes<br />

instead of science.<br />

While no changes have yet been made to the<br />

blood donation policy, we are hopeful that HHS<br />

will adopt new policies based on current medical<br />

knowledge and testing technology, instead of<br />

unjustified discriminatory stereotypes about<br />

gay and bisexual men.<br />

If you have any questions, or feel you have been<br />

discriminated against because of your gender,<br />

sexual orientation, or HIV status, contact Lambda<br />

Legal’s Help Desk at 1-866-542-8336, or see<br />

http://lambdalegal.org/help<br />

Out Words 9


KIsMIF<br />

Keep It Simple Make It Fun AA meeting for gay<br />

lesbian transgender queer intersex and friends every<br />

Monday 7 - p.m. at UCC 405 University Avenue.<br />

Contact Randy at 406- 542-4744<br />

Gay Men’s Chorus<br />

Meeting every Monday 7 - 9 p.m. at <strong>The</strong> <strong>Center</strong>,<br />

127 N. Higgins Ave., Suite 202 - Contact Gary at<br />

406-370-9876<br />

Gay Men’s Task Force<br />

406-829-8075<br />

Imperial Sovereign court of the State of<br />

<strong>Montana</strong><br />

Call Rosalinda de la Luna at 406-499-0078 or visit:<br />

http://www.iscsm.org<br />

keep It Simple al-anon Family Group<br />

LGBT and friends meeting every Thursday 5:30 -<br />

6:30 p.m. at 1st Methodist Church, 300 E. Main, alley<br />

entrance, classroom 3. Contact Randy at 406- 542-<br />

4744<br />

living Forward Group: Men Who are living With<br />

hIV<br />

Meet Wednesday evenings 7 - 9 p.m. Call Andrew<br />

Laue at 406-327-9445<br />

Open aid alliance<br />

406-543-4770<br />

Open aid alliance housing assistance<br />

Program<br />

Short-term and long-term housing assistance is<br />

available for HIV+ individuals living in <strong>Western</strong> MT.<br />

Call Annette or Jordan at 543-4770.<br />

Missoula city health department<br />

406-258-4745<br />

Missoula PFlaG<br />

pflagmissoula@gmail.com or 406-240-2881.<br />

Officer nicole Pifari<br />

LGBTI Liaison Officer Missoula Police Department<br />

435 Ryman Street • Missoula, MT 59802<br />

(406) 552-6300 (main)<br />

Outfield alliance<br />

A Coalition of LGBTI faculty, graduate students, staff<br />

and their supporters at the University of <strong>Montana</strong>.<br />

Email caseycharles@umontana.edu or call 406-243-<br />

2762<br />

Transgender support Group<br />

Contact the Clinical Psychology <strong>Center</strong> at (406)-<br />

243-2367 and ask for Nick or Leslie.<br />

youth Forward<br />

youthforward@ncbimissoula.org<br />

u of M lambda alliance<br />

406-243-5922<br />

university congregational church<br />

405 University Avenue, Missoula<br />

http://www.uccmsla.org • 406-543-6952<br />

commuNiTy resourcesMissoula<br />

<strong>Montana</strong><br />

bozeman GlbtIQ resource center<br />

www.BozemanRC.org, 406-600-3608,<br />

info@BozemanRC.org<br />

Butte Men’s support Group<br />

Last Monday of the month 406-491-1378 or 406-490-<br />

6125<br />

Butte AIDs support services<br />

Meets 2nd Wednesday of each month at Blaine<br />

<strong>Center</strong> BASS office. Call Rick 406-491-1378 or 406-<br />

490-6125. www.buttebassonline.org<br />

Flathead Valley Gay alliance<br />

www.flatheadvalleygayalliance.org • 406-794-FVGA<br />

Flathead Valley PFlaG<br />

Call Robert Blair @ (406) 890-0173<br />

Gallatin Valley human rights task Force<br />

www.EmbraceDiversity.org<br />

Glacier unitarian universalists Fellowship<br />

www.glacieruu.org • 406-755-9255<br />

hamilton PFlaG<br />

Monthly Chapter Meetings. Every 4th Thursday @<br />

7 P.M. Contact Terry at 406-363-7656 for more<br />

information.<br />

hIV Positive Support Group - butte<br />

For information call 406-491-1378 or 406-490-6125<br />

for time and location.<br />

hIV Positive Support Group - helena<br />

Meets monthly-Call Greg at 596-2013 for more info<br />

lewis & clark aIdS Project<br />

530 S. Harris • Helena • 406-447-6030<br />

Metropolitan community church<br />

1220 17th Street South • Great Falls<br />

406-771-1070 • www. mccmontana.org<br />

Rev. Gina L. Hartung, Pastor<br />

Sunday Worship: 10:30 a.m.<br />

E-mail: bishman59401@hotmail.com<br />

<strong>Montana</strong> department of Public health &<br />

human Services<br />

www.dphhs.state.mt.us/hpsd<br />

Open hands Foundation - Great Falls<br />

www.openhandsfoundation.org • 406-868-8382<br />

PFlaG Great Falls/Golden triangle<br />

Meets on the 3rd Tue. of each month at the MCC<br />

Church located at 1220 17th St. So. (406) 868-1064.<br />

QSa - MSu<br />

www.montana.edu/qsa •406-994-4636<br />

Seeker’s harbor Faith community<br />

Billings<br />

www.seekersharbor.org • 406-661-1584<br />

S.h.O.u.t aIdS (Students helping Others<br />

understand teen aids) meets every Thursday<br />

in BILLINGS at the yap office at 4pm ages 15-24. Any<br />

questions contact Dustin (406)-591-0169<br />

Yellowstone aIdS Project housing<br />

assistance Program<br />

Becky Taylor • beckyt@yapmt.org<br />

Victorian – hIV testing<br />

406- 245-4293<br />

Yellowstone city-county health<br />

department<br />

406-247-3376<br />

Yellowstone aids Project<br />

406-245-2029<br />

Pacific northwest &<br />

national resources<br />

advocates for Youth<br />

www.advocatesforyouth.org<br />

AEGIs: AIDs Education Global<br />

Information Systems<br />

www.endAIDSnow.org<br />

Gay Men’s health crisis<br />

www.gmhc.org<br />

human rights campaign<br />

www.hrc.org<br />

Out Spokane<br />

www.outspokane.com<br />

Pacific northwest Gay rodeo association<br />

www.pacificnwgra.org<br />

Pride Foundation<br />

www.pridefoundation.org<br />

Wyoming rural aIdS Prevention Project<br />

www.wrapp.net<br />

Do you have LGBTI resources you want listed?<br />

Email us by the 20th of each month for the next<br />

issue!<br />

Serving the<br />

LGBTIQ<br />

<strong>Community</strong><br />

Since 1998<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Western</strong><br />

<strong>Montana</strong><br />

<strong>Community</strong><strong>Center</strong><br />

Weekly Events<br />

Thursday<br />

7 p.m. -<br />

Gay Men Together, A safe and affirming place for gay &<br />

bisexual men to meet.<br />

Friday (except 1st Fridays)<br />

6:30 p.m.<br />

Womyn’s Night for persons who identify as women, twospirit,<br />

or gender non-conforming & are interested in<br />

spending time with other womyn.


Recurring Events Around<br />

<strong>Montana</strong><br />

<strong>Center</strong> Board Meeting, 3 rd Wednesday,<br />

6 p.m. at the <strong>Center</strong> [Missoula]<br />

christian lGbtI Support Group meets on the 4th Wednesday of the month<br />

7p.m. at the <strong>Center</strong> [Missoula]<br />

lGbtI community Potluck, 3 rd Saturday every month, 7 p.m. at the University<br />

Congregational Church - Fireside Room (405 University Avenue) [Missoula]<br />

PFlaG Missoula / Five Valleys meeting, 3 rd Saturday every month prior to<br />

potluck at the University Congregational Church, call 406-721-5013 or 406-541-0163<br />

for more information. [Missoula]<br />

hIV+ Monthly dinner, 3 rd Tuesday of every month, 6:30 p.m. at the University<br />

Congregational Church, call Mike or Annette at 543-4770 [Missoula]<br />

Gay & lesbian aa Meeting, every Monday 7 to 8:30 p.m., call Randy at 406-<br />

726-3525 [Missoula]<br />

keep It Simple / al-anon Family Group LGBT and friends meeting<br />

every Thursday 5:30 - 6:30 p.m. at 1st Methodist Church, 300 E. Main, alley entrance,<br />

classroom 3. Contact Randy at 406-726-3525 [Missoula]<br />

university of <strong>Montana</strong> laMbda alliance General Meetings, every<br />

Tuesday, 7 p.m. at the UC (Room 330), call 406-243-5922 for more information.<br />

[Missoula]<br />

living Forward Group: Men Who are living With hIV, every<br />

Wednesday from 7 to 9 p.m., call Andrew Laue, LCSW for more information at 406-<br />

327-9445. [Missoula]<br />

hot Springs, <strong>Montana</strong>, a Gay & bisexual Men’s Support Group<br />

meets on Sunday evenings at 6 p.m.. Call 741-2810 for directions and information.<br />

[Missoula]<br />

youth Forward meets the every Tuesday at the NCBI Office from 5:30-7:30pm<br />

Capitol City Gay Men meet every Thursday at 7pm. Location: 80 East<br />

Lawrence Street, Room 105, Helena MT 59601. For more information visit www.<br />

capitalcitygaymen.org [Helena]<br />

Women’s coffee and chat meets on Thursdays at 7 p.m. Location: Fireside<br />

Coffee House 1446 Euclid Ave, [Helena]<br />

Women’s Potluck, 1st Wednesday of the month at 6:30pm. Location changes.<br />

Contact Sandy at 406-442-0200. [Helena]<br />

Glbt Open aa Meeting Every Thursday 7:30 p.m.<br />

1417 13 St. West. Call Duane Nez at 406-861-8478 [Billings]<br />

Cancer Patient support Group Every Other Friday: 12 p.m. 2835 Fort<br />

Missoula Rd., Ste. 301, Call Joni or Susie at 406-721-1118 E-mail joni@drjudyschmidt.<br />

com [Missoula]<br />

Billings AIDspirit Meeting 2nd Tuesday of the month at Holy Rosary Church,<br />

521 Custer at 7:00 p.m. [Billings]<br />

billings PFlaG Meeting 2nd Wednesday of the month held at the UCC<br />

Church in Conference office located at 2016 Alderson at 7:00 p.m [Billings]<br />

Client Advisory Board Meeting 4th Monday of the Month at YAP at 6:00<br />

PM [Billings]<br />

POZ night Monthly opportunity for socializing and fun! For more information<br />

contact the Client Action Body at cab@yapmt.org or staff at (406) 245-2029. [Billings]<br />

community night at Julian’s bar happens the last Saturday of the month. [Butte]<br />

QSa General Forum Meetings Every Monday In the Strand Union Building<br />

room 276 at 7 p.m. [Bozeman]<br />

JavaQ coffee Social - 7 p.m., every first, third, and fifth Thursday at International<br />

Coffee Traders, 720 S 10th Ave. [Bozeman]<br />

the bozeman resource center bi-weekly meetings. At International Coffee<br />

Traders, 720 S 10th Ave, the 2nd and 4th Mondays of each month. Contact John at<br />

600-3608 or at info@bozemanrc.org [Bozeman]<br />

bozeman PFlaG Meeting 2nd Thursday of the month. Check out:<br />

bozemanpflag.com for more information. [Bozeman]<br />

bozeman hIV/aIdS Support Group meets the 1st Monday of each month.<br />

Call Greg at 406-596-2013 for time and location. [Bozeman]<br />

Poz affected Pot luck occurs on the 3rd Sunday of each month in<br />

BOZEMAN. Contact AIDS Outreach at 406-551-1016 for details.[Bozeman]<br />

Flathead Valley Gay alliance monthly meeting, 1st Tuesday of the month at 7<br />

p.m. in the Flathead Count Library basement. [Kalispell]<br />

Flathead Valley PFlaG 4th Tuesday of every month at the Flathead Valley United<br />

Christ of Christ. Call Roger Blair (406) 890-0173 [Kalispell]<br />

Pride committee meeting every Sunday – Call Dee or DJ at 756-0050 for time<br />

and location – volunteers needed [Kalispell]<br />

eVentS:<br />

Friday, <strong>November</strong> 2: <strong>The</strong> <strong>Western</strong> <strong>Montana</strong><br />

<strong>Community</strong> <strong>Center</strong> hosts, the Trans-Lives Art<br />

Exhibit for First Friday at 127 N. Higgins Ave, Suite<br />

202, Missoula, MT. 5:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. Free.<br />

Saturday, <strong>November</strong> 3: I.S.C.S.M hosts Investiture<br />

Drag Show, “Let the Ride Begin” at <strong>The</strong> Broadway Inn,<br />

1609 W. Broadway St., Missoula, MT. Tis the time that<br />

we get the honor to introduce the Imperial Family<br />

of Reign 18 of the I.S.C.S.M. and officially let the ride<br />

of this year begin. So come out for a fun night of<br />

Drag entertainment followed by dancing with music<br />

provided by DJ Tigerlilly. Cover is 18-20 $10, 21+ $5.<br />

Door at 9:00 p.m. Show at 10:00 p.m. Protocol for<br />

open performances 9:00 p.m. to 9:30 p.m.<br />

Tuesday, <strong>November</strong> 6: Election Night! <strong>The</strong> Missoula<br />

County Democrats will be hosting a Chili Feed at<br />

the Union Club Bar, 208 E. Main St, in Missoula, MT<br />

at 7:00 p.m. So get your feed on and watch your<br />

local favorites and federal mainstays duke it out on<br />

prime time. No cover.<br />

Friday, <strong>November</strong> 9: <strong>The</strong> Fish Stix-Settle Down!<br />

<strong>The</strong> Fish Stix are returning to Billings and <strong>The</strong> Loft.<br />

Stop down and enjoy your favorite entertainers<br />

including Jennifer Jett, Lana Caine, Falesha Savage,<br />

Domonique Divamoore, and Erica Joy as they tear<br />

up the dance floor. Doors at 8:00 p.m, show at 9:00<br />

p.m. $10 cover. <strong>The</strong> Loft Night Club, 1123 1st Ave.<br />

N, Billings, MT.<br />

Saturday, <strong>November</strong> 10: Night two of the Fish Stix,<br />

“We Run the Night.” Find all those girls bringing<br />

Billings to its knees a second night in a row with<br />

the likes of Domonique, Erica, Jennifer, Falesha, and<br />

Lana. Doors at 8:00 p.m., show at 9:00 p.m. <strong>The</strong><br />

Loft Night Club, 1123 1st Ave. N, Billings, MT.<br />

Tuesday, <strong>November</strong> 13: Pride Foundation hosts a<br />

Scholarship Application Training at the UM. Learn<br />

how to craft a stellar scholarship application at<br />

this one-hour training during the Lambda Alliance<br />

meeting. High school seniors and non-UM students<br />

pursuing post-secondary education are welcome<br />

join. Meet in room 326 in the U.C. <strong>Center</strong> at 7:00<br />

p.m. 32 Campus Drive, Missoula, MT. Contact Caitlin<br />

at Caitlin@pridefoundation.org for more info.<br />

Thursday, Friday, and Saturday, <strong>November</strong> 15-17:<br />

<strong>The</strong> Broads are back with an all-new show. And<br />

literally “back” this time, as writer-directors Katie<br />

Goodman and Soren Kisiel are in New York with<br />

Katie’s solo show running at several venues across<br />

Manhattan including in the NY Comedy Festival<br />

with the likes of Robin Williams and, well, everyone<br />

you’ve ever heard of. If you haven’t seen ‘em, Broad<br />

Comedy is Bozeman’s loveable and provocative<br />

women’s musical satire and sketch comedy show.<br />

See them at <strong>The</strong> Emerson <strong>Center</strong>, in Bozeman, MT.<br />

All shows start at 8:00 p.m..<br />

Friday, <strong>November</strong> 16: <strong>Montana</strong>TDOR hosts the 4th<br />

Annual Transgender Day of Recognition in Missoula,<br />

MT. This year’s event is to feature many new aspects<br />

and is fully inclusive of all gender identities. Events<br />

include a Trans-Lives Art Exhibit, Tabling at the UC,<br />

several workshops, a panel discussion, and candle<br />

light vigil. Please check for times and locations on<br />

<strong>Montana</strong>TDOR’s Facebook events page at www.<br />

facebook.com/<strong>Montana</strong>tdor.<br />

Saturday, <strong>November</strong> 17: <strong>The</strong> <strong>Western</strong> <strong>Montana</strong><br />

<strong>Community</strong> <strong>Center</strong> hosts “A Very Merry Time”<br />

Twelfth Annual Holiday Soiree at Caras Nursery<br />

and Landscape, 2727 3rd St. W. in Missoula, MT. 6:00<br />

p.m. to 9:00 p.m. Each year in <strong>November</strong>, Caras<br />

Nursery is kind enough to allow WMCC to take<br />

over their space for a night to raise funds for the<br />

<strong>Center</strong>. A portion of all proceeds from holiday<br />

ornaments and decorations is donated back to<br />

the <strong>Center</strong> if purchased during the evening. Board<br />

Members, volunteers and staff are usually on hand<br />

to provide entertainment and social interaction.<br />

Thursday, <strong>November</strong> 22. Lambda Alliance will be<br />

hosting its 2nd Annual Queergiving for those who<br />

will be in Missoula, MT over Thanksgiving. This<br />

will be a potluck style dinner and all are welcome.<br />

Please contact Lambda Alliance for location and<br />

time at umlambda@gmail.com.<br />

Sunday, <strong>November</strong> 23: <strong>The</strong> WMCC will be hosting its<br />

first Black & White Planning Committee meeting at<br />

3:00 p.m. at 127 N. Higgins, Suite 202 in Missoula, MT.<br />

Our annual Black & White Ball and Black & White<br />

After Hours Party serve collectively as the <strong>Center</strong>’s<br />

annual fundraiser and help the <strong>Center</strong> to provide its<br />

space, resources, OutWords and one of the largest<br />

LGBTQQI lending libraries in the state. For more<br />

info please check it out www.gaymontana.org.<br />

Friday, <strong>November</strong> 30. Join AIDS Outreach of Bozeman<br />

for the Second Annual Red Ribbon Ball. This charity<br />

event, which coincides with World Aids Day 2012, will<br />

take place in the Emerson Cultural <strong>Center</strong> Ballroom<br />

at 111 S. Grand Ave, Bozeman, MT, from 7:00 p.m. to<br />

11:00 p.m. Funds raised from the event will support<br />

the mission of AIDS Outreach throughout the year.<br />

Please visit www.aidsoutreachmt.org for ticket prices<br />

and sponsor information.


A very merry time<br />

<strong>The</strong> 12th Annual Holiday Soiree<br />

Saturday, <strong>November</strong> 17<br />

Caraas Nursery<br />

6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m.<br />

Proceeds benefit :

Hooray! Your file is uploaded and ready to be published.

Saved successfully!

Ooh no, something went wrong!