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<strong>Richmond</strong><br />
<strong>Wedding</strong><br />
<strong>Guide</strong>
INVESTOR IN PEOPLE<br />
Contents<br />
Congratulations . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .3<br />
Introduction . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .4<br />
<strong>Richmond</strong> Registration Service . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .4<br />
Legal Preliminaries . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .5<br />
Civil Ceremonies . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .5<br />
Religious Ceremonies . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .5<br />
Documents You Need To Produce . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .6<br />
A <strong>Richmond</strong> <strong>Wedding</strong> . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .6<br />
1 Spring Terrace . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .6<br />
Important Information . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .7<br />
Provisional Bookings . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .7<br />
On The Day . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .7<br />
Ceremony . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .8<br />
Music . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .8<br />
Rings . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .8<br />
Vows/Readings . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .8<br />
Video . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .8<br />
Confetti . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .8<br />
Photography . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .9<br />
Dress . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .9<br />
Entrance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .9<br />
Witnesses . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .9<br />
Guests . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .9<br />
Commemorative Certificate . . . . . . . . . . .9<br />
Fees . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .10<br />
Notes . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .10<br />
Advertisers . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .11-20<br />
Readings . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .21-23<br />
Quick Checklist . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .24<br />
Framework <strong>of</strong> Ceremony . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .24<br />
Optional Vows and Promises . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .25<br />
Venues Licensed for<br />
Civil <strong>Wedding</strong> Ceremonies in <strong>Richmond</strong> . . . . . . . . . .26<br />
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Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Thomas Photography<br />
Congratulations!<br />
You have decided to get married.<br />
This brochure has been written to guide you through<br />
the things you need to do next.<br />
Hopefully you will find it straightforward and easy to<br />
understand.<br />
All the staff at 1 Spring Terrace are here to help you<br />
make the best <strong>of</strong> your day and advise you in all aspects<br />
<strong>of</strong> your ceremony.<br />
Whether you are marrying in a religious or a civil<br />
ceremony we will advise and guide you. Please<br />
telephone, fax or e-mail us to clarify any points that<br />
may be worrying you.<br />
Our very warm wishes to you both.<br />
Win Whiting<br />
Superintendent Registrar<br />
Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> M. Fleming<br />
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Introduction<br />
Welcome to <strong>Richmond</strong> <strong>upon</strong> Thames, this most<br />
historic <strong>London</strong> borough.<br />
In 1501, Henry VII named <strong>Richmond</strong> after his favourite<br />
Yorkshire earldom. The gateway to his palace, also<br />
favoured by Elizabeth I still remains on <strong>Richmond</strong> Green.<br />
<strong>Richmond</strong> Bridge is the oldest <strong>London</strong> bridge across<br />
the river Thames and the view from <strong>Richmond</strong> Hill<br />
along the river is protected by an act <strong>of</strong> parliament.<br />
<strong>Richmond</strong> Park, the favourite hunting grounds <strong>of</strong><br />
James 1 and his son Charles, still has large herds <strong>of</strong> red<br />
and fallow deer roaming freely. The park is also home<br />
to the internationally acclaimed Royal Ballet School.<br />
<strong>Richmond</strong> is also home to the Rugby Football Union<br />
headquarters at Twickenham, known throughout the<br />
world as the heart <strong>of</strong> rugby.<br />
Hampton Court Palace, Henry VIII’s favourite home,<br />
with it’s 1000 rooms, formal gardens and world<br />
famous maze is situated within the borough <strong>of</strong><br />
<strong>Richmond</strong>. Nearby Bushy Park is one <strong>of</strong> <strong>Richmond</strong>’s 3<br />
royal parks, the other two being Home Park and<br />
<strong>Richmond</strong> Park.<br />
The Royal Botanic Gardens at Kew contain 40,000<br />
species <strong>of</strong> plants and 9000 trees. The national archive<br />
is also based in Kew where the Public Record Office<br />
holds 900 years <strong>of</strong> historical records including the<br />
Domesday Book.<br />
Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Simon Lewis Photography<br />
Along the river from Kew is Mortlake, the finishing<br />
point <strong>of</strong> the annual University boat race.<br />
<strong>Richmond</strong> <strong>upon</strong> Thames is the only <strong>London</strong> borough<br />
that has the river Thames flowing through its heart<br />
rather than forming a boundary.<br />
As well as being a truly historic wonderland,<br />
<strong>Richmond</strong> is also a modern thriving town with a<br />
bustling town centre, theatres, numerous restaurants,<br />
hotels, galleries and venues <strong>of</strong> all descriptions.<br />
<strong>Richmond</strong> Register Office is a grade II listed building<br />
and boasts the highest tree in the borough.<br />
All in all <strong>Richmond</strong> <strong>of</strong>fers the ideal location for a<br />
wedding. Whether you want a low-key private<br />
ceremony or a more elaborate affair, <strong>Richmond</strong> can<br />
satisfy your needs. We have many licensed venues and<br />
our own lovely Register Office to cater for your<br />
individual needs.<br />
<strong>Richmond</strong><br />
Registration Service<br />
Whatever your needs, the staff at 1 Spring Terrace are<br />
here to help and guide you through every detail to<br />
ensure you have a wonderful, personal day. We will<br />
advise you about music, readings, formats, and<br />
wording. Our large team <strong>of</strong> marriage registrars are<br />
confident and experienced, and expert at putting you<br />
at your ease. We will also <strong>of</strong>fer you an exclusive<br />
<strong>Richmond</strong> certificate to commemorate your day.<br />
<strong>Richmond</strong> Registration Service has achieved both<br />
Charter Mark and Investors in People accreditations.<br />
Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Simon Lewis Photography<br />
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Legal Preliminaries<br />
Civil Ceremonies<br />
You can marry in any Register Office or Licensed Venue<br />
<strong>of</strong> your choice anywhere in England or Wales. At a<br />
Licensed Venue, Registrars from the local Register<br />
Office will attend to conduct and register the ceremony.<br />
The first thing you need to do is decide on a venue. You<br />
then need to check the availability <strong>of</strong> the venue on the<br />
date <strong>of</strong> your choice. If you want to marry at a Licensed<br />
Venue you will also need to check with the local<br />
Register Office to see if the Registrars are available. You<br />
may need to be flexible over the time <strong>of</strong> your ceremony.<br />
Once you have selected your venue and checked the<br />
availability <strong>of</strong> the Registrars you need to ‘give notice’.<br />
This is the term used for the legal preliminaries. Both<br />
parties need to give notice, in person, in the Register<br />
Office <strong>of</strong> the district in which they live. If either one <strong>of</strong><br />
you is subject to immigration control you must both<br />
give your notices in a designated Register Office, this<br />
may not be in your district <strong>of</strong> residence. <strong>Richmond</strong> is<br />
not a designated Register Office. You must be resident<br />
for at least seven days prior to giving notice. You can<br />
attend together but you each need to give your details<br />
individually. Your notices will be displayed on a notice<br />
board in the Register Office for 15 days. You cannot<br />
give any less notice than this. At the end <strong>of</strong> the notice<br />
period the Superintendent Registrar will issue<br />
authorities in respect <strong>of</strong> each notice. If you are<br />
marrying in your own district the Superintendent<br />
Registrar will keep your authorities with your<br />
paperwork. If you are marrying outside your district<br />
you will need to collect your authorities from your<br />
local <strong>of</strong>fice and take them to the <strong>of</strong>fice that will be<br />
dealing with your ceremony. You cannot be married<br />
Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Thomas Photography<br />
without this paperwork. Notice MUST be given at least<br />
16 days before the date <strong>of</strong> the wedding.<br />
You can give your notice up to a year in advance <strong>of</strong> the<br />
day <strong>of</strong> the ceremony.<br />
Notices are ‘venue specific’ - if you change your venue<br />
you must each give fresh notices.<br />
Religious Ceremonies<br />
If you are marrying in a Church <strong>of</strong> England or Church<br />
in Wales you will need to talk to the vicar, he/she will<br />
advise you about what you need to do.<br />
If you are marrying within any other denomination<br />
you will need to give notice (see Civil Ceremonies) at<br />
your local Register Office.<br />
You first need to get permission from the minister or<br />
governing body <strong>of</strong> the Church. Some Churches need<br />
the attendance <strong>of</strong> a Registrar at each ceremony but<br />
some have an ‘authorised person’ who acts in the role<br />
<strong>of</strong> Registrar. If you need the attendance <strong>of</strong> a Registrar<br />
you will need to book them as far in advance as<br />
possible.<br />
When you have given the notice and it has been<br />
displayed on the board you will need to collect your<br />
authorities from the Register Office and deliver them<br />
to the Minister. He/she cannot marry you without<br />
these documents.<br />
Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> The <strong>Richmond</strong> Studio<br />
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Documents You<br />
Need To Produce<br />
When you attend the Register Office to give your notice<br />
you will each need to bring the statutory fee (see p10).<br />
You will also need to bring identification documents<br />
and evidence <strong>of</strong> your nationality. The best document<br />
for this is your passport. If you do not have a passport<br />
you will need to bring your full birth certificate.<br />
If you are subject to immigration control you may also<br />
need a certificate <strong>of</strong> approval from the Home Office.<br />
If you have changed your name by deed poll, change <strong>of</strong><br />
name deed or statutory declaration you will need to<br />
bring it with you.<br />
If you are a widow or widower you will need to bring<br />
the death certificate <strong>of</strong> your late husband/wife.<br />
If you have been divorced you will need to bring your<br />
decree absolute.<br />
If you were divorced outside the UK you will need to<br />
bring your final divorce papers together with an<br />
English translation.<br />
If your last marriage was annulled we may also need to<br />
see your decree nisi.<br />
You must also produce two examples <strong>of</strong> evidence <strong>of</strong><br />
your address.<br />
All the documents you bring must be original,<br />
photocopies are not accepted.<br />
A<br />
<strong>Richmond</strong> <strong>Wedding</strong><br />
Whether you choose one <strong>of</strong> our many Licensed Venues<br />
or 1 Spring Terrace, you can enhance your ceremony<br />
with music, readings and personal vows.<br />
We have a selection <strong>of</strong> music and readings available at<br />
1 Spring Terrace but <strong>of</strong> course you may like to provide<br />
your own.<br />
A civil ceremony can contain no religious connotations<br />
whatsoever and you will need to bear this in mind<br />
when selecting your music and readings.<br />
You will find a list <strong>of</strong> our Licensed Venues at the back<br />
<strong>of</strong> this brochure.<br />
Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Win Whiting<br />
1 Spring Terrace<br />
1 Spring Terrace is set within half an acre <strong>of</strong> grounds<br />
and is a grade two listed building. Our beautiful airconditioned<br />
ceremony room in muted greens and<br />
yellows is the ideal venue for a dignified intimate<br />
ceremony. We can accommodate 40 people and have<br />
beautiful fresh flowers which will enhance your<br />
photographs and atmosphere. We have a comfortable<br />
elegant waiting room with French doors that lead out<br />
to our secluded garden, including the very private<br />
‘secret garden’.<br />
There is a large public car park just 70 yards from the<br />
door and we have a paved front area ideal for ‘confetti<br />
shots’ underneath the highest tree in <strong>Richmond</strong>. We<br />
can also <strong>of</strong>fer you an exclusive <strong>Richmond</strong> certificate to<br />
commemorate your ceremony.<br />
1 Spring Terrace Saturdays<br />
We are delighted to <strong>of</strong>fer enhanced ceremonies on<br />
Saturdays. Each ceremony is afforded a longer time slot<br />
relieving our couples <strong>of</strong> the feeling <strong>of</strong> ‘rush’. Brides can<br />
make a separate entrance, on fathers’ arm perhaps,<br />
couples can have extra readings and spend more time<br />
taking photographs. Fees are paid in advance.<br />
1 Spring Terrace Weekdays<br />
All weekday Spring Terrace ceremonies will follow the<br />
standard Spring Terrace format i.e Bride and Groom<br />
enter the room together, one reading etc. Ceremonies<br />
are set at 30 minute intervals.<br />
1 Spring Terrace Sundays<br />
We <strong>of</strong>fer four ceremonies per day during June, July,<br />
August and September. These ceremonies are very<br />
popular so you need to book early.<br />
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Important<br />
Information<br />
If you are marrying at 1 Spring Terrace but giving<br />
your notice elsewhere you must tell your local Registrar<br />
that the venue is 1 Spring Terrace, <strong>Richmond</strong> not<br />
<strong>Richmond</strong> Register Office!<br />
Provisional Bookings<br />
In <strong>Richmond</strong> you can make a provisional booking for<br />
1 Spring Terrace or Licensed Venue by telephone, letter,<br />
fax or e-mail.<br />
We will then send you information and advise you to<br />
give notice. We will keep the provisional booking for a<br />
limited period. The booking is only confirmed when<br />
you give your notices.<br />
If you give your notices in another district they will<br />
notify us and your booking will be confirmed.<br />
If you do not give notice within the given period we<br />
will cancel your booking.<br />
This is not always the same in other Register Offices<br />
and you may find you need to attend in person to<br />
make a provisional booking, or give your notices<br />
before you make a booking.<br />
On The Day<br />
Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Simon Lewis Photography<br />
Whether you are marrying in a Licensed Venue or at 1<br />
Spring Terrace you will need to see the Registrar prior<br />
to the ceremony. The Registrar will check all your<br />
details and make a note <strong>of</strong> any changes. (You may have<br />
had a birthday, moved house or changed job since you<br />
gave the notice). The Registrar will also ask for each <strong>of</strong><br />
your father’s full names and occupations.<br />
If you are marrying at 1 Spring Terrace on a week day<br />
you will also need to pay the statutory fee. For this<br />
reason we ask you to arrive 15 minutes before the time<br />
<strong>of</strong> your ceremony.<br />
Whilst you are being interviewed your guests will<br />
assemble in the ceremony room to await your arrival.<br />
If you are marrying at a Licensed Venue your fees will<br />
already have been paid. The Registrar will take this<br />
opportunity to double check your ceremony format<br />
such as confirming the names <strong>of</strong> your witnesses,<br />
readers, readings etc.<br />
Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Win Whiting<br />
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Ceremony<br />
The Superintendent Registrar will talk to you before<br />
the ceremony to check your requirements.<br />
You will each need to repeat the declaratory and<br />
contracting words, which have been in use since 1837,<br />
when the Registration Service began. These words are:<br />
“I do solemnly declare that I know not <strong>of</strong> any lawful<br />
impediment why I … may not be joined in matrimony to<br />
…”<br />
and<br />
“I call <strong>upon</strong> these persons here present to witness that I<br />
… do take thee … to be my lawful wedded<br />
husband/wife”<br />
There are shorter versions <strong>of</strong> these words available;<br />
please ask the Superintendent Registrar for further details.<br />
Music<br />
Your music will be playing while your guests are being<br />
seated and when you make your entrance, and again<br />
when you are signing the register, taking photographs<br />
and making your exit. For Spring Terrace ceremonies<br />
your music will need to be contained on one single CD.<br />
Rings<br />
Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Simon Lewis Photography<br />
You can elect to have your wedding ring(s) on a<br />
cushion (at a Licensed Venue), presented by yourselves<br />
or a member <strong>of</strong> your party. Please note: There is no ring<br />
cushion at 1 Spring Terrace.<br />
Vows/Readings<br />
You can include personal vows to each other and also<br />
invite a member <strong>of</strong> your party to give a reading (one<br />
reading at 1 Spring Terrace (but see 1 Spring Terrace<br />
Saturdays and Sundays) and up to three at a venue).<br />
Remember that your reading can have no religious<br />
connotations and cannot be from Khalil Gibran’s<br />
‘The Prophet’.<br />
Our optional vows/promises and a selection <strong>of</strong> readings<br />
are at the end <strong>of</strong> this brochure.<br />
Video<br />
You can ask a member <strong>of</strong> your party to video your<br />
entire ceremony from the moment you make your<br />
entrance. The video will need to be entirely battery<br />
operated and not require any extra lighting. We ask the<br />
video operator to remain in one position throughout<br />
the ceremony and not to move around the room, as<br />
this can be distracting both to the bride and groom as<br />
well as to the guests.<br />
Confetti<br />
We are quite happy with confetti and ask your guests to<br />
throw the confetti at the front <strong>of</strong> the building rather<br />
than in the garden, which we like to keep tidy for the<br />
benefit <strong>of</strong> all our couples. Each Licenced Venue has its<br />
own rules regarding confetti.<br />
Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> The <strong>Richmond</strong> Studio<br />
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Photography<br />
All photographs in 1 Spring Terrace are to be taken at<br />
the end <strong>of</strong> the ceremony rather than during the<br />
ceremony itself. We will give you plenty <strong>of</strong> time to take<br />
all the photographs you want at the end <strong>of</strong> the ceremony.<br />
Dress<br />
There is no dress code for weddings and couples may<br />
choose to wear the full white gowns and morning suits<br />
or even shorts and tee shirts. Most couples however do<br />
dress smartly for the ceremony, as do the Registrars.<br />
Entrance<br />
For 1 Spring Terrace ceremonies, bride and groom<br />
enter the ceremony room together (but see 1 Spring<br />
Terrace Saturdays). For Licensed Venue ceremonies the<br />
bride can make a separate entrance, as well as being<br />
“given away”.<br />
Witnesses<br />
You must provide two credible witnesses who must<br />
both be able to speak and understand English although<br />
English does not have to be their first language. They<br />
can be relatives if you wish. The Registration staff<br />
cannot act as witnesses nor can they provide witnesses<br />
for you. You must arrange for your own witnesses.<br />
Guests<br />
The ceremony room in 1 Spring Terrace has a fire and<br />
safety certificate for a maximum <strong>of</strong> 40 people and we<br />
cannot exceed this. Please ensure your guests are<br />
aware <strong>of</strong> this as we have the comfort and safety <strong>of</strong> your<br />
guests uppermost in our minds at all times. With this<br />
Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Desi Fontaine Studios<br />
in mind we will have to ask extra guests to remain<br />
outside the building as all our corridors and fire exits<br />
must be kept clear at all times.<br />
Commemorative Certificate<br />
Here at <strong>Richmond</strong> we <strong>of</strong>fer an exclusive marriage<br />
certificate incorporating the <strong>Richmond</strong> coat <strong>of</strong> arms<br />
and showing the bride and grooms names, the date<br />
and place <strong>of</strong> the ceremony as well as the witnesses<br />
names. If you would like a commemorative certificate<br />
you must remember to include your witnesses<br />
names with your request.<br />
Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Desi Fontaine Studios<br />
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Fees<br />
Fees for Licensed Venues and Spring Terrace Saturdays<br />
and Sundays need to be paid in advance,<br />
approximately 6 weeks before the ceremony. You can<br />
do this in person or by post. If you are paying by<br />
cheque you will need to send two separate cheques.<br />
One for the ceremony and a separate cheque for your<br />
certificate(s). If you are paying your fees in person you<br />
may also pay by switch or debit card. Unfortunately<br />
this is not possible for postal payments.<br />
Fees for 1 Spring Terrace Monday to Friday ceremonies<br />
are paid on the day <strong>of</strong> the ceremony either by cheque<br />
or cash (see above Saturdays). Unfortunately we<br />
cannot accept credit/debit cards on the day. All<br />
cheques should be made payable to ‘The <strong>London</strong><br />
<strong>Borough</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>Richmond</strong> <strong>upon</strong> Thames’.<br />
From 1st April 2009 – 31st March 2010<br />
Notice <strong>of</strong> Marriage £30.00*<br />
1 Spring Terrace Ceremony<br />
Monday – Thursday £40.00*<br />
Friday £65.00<br />
Saturday £130.00<br />
Sunday/Bank Holiday £230.00<br />
Licensed Venue:<br />
Monday - Friday £285.00<br />
Saturday £330.00<br />
Sunday/Bank Holiday £400.00<br />
Ceremony Booking Fee £25.00<br />
Marriage certificate £3.50*<br />
Commemorative certificate £5.00<br />
* All fees marked are set by the Government and are<br />
subject to change at any time.<br />
Notes<br />
Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Desi Fontaine Studios<br />
The information in this brochure is only intended as a<br />
guide and not a full statement <strong>of</strong> the law. Please telephone<br />
or email the <strong>Richmond</strong> Register Office for any advice.<br />
Book well in advance to secure the date and time you<br />
want. Remember you can book up to a year in advance.<br />
You must give notice at least 16 days before the date <strong>of</strong><br />
the ceremony.<br />
A notice <strong>of</strong> marriage is valid for one year from the date<br />
it is given. You both have to give notice. If you live in<br />
different districts you each have to attend your local<br />
<strong>of</strong>fice. If either one <strong>of</strong> you is subject to immigration<br />
control, you must both give notice at a designated<br />
Register Office.<br />
Make sure your documents are originals not photocopies.<br />
Remember a civil ceremony can have no religious<br />
connotations.<br />
We welcome your comments so please feel free to give<br />
us feedback.<br />
We are constantly trying to improve our services and we<br />
can only do this with your help. Don’t forget we are here<br />
to help you – any queries – please phone or e-mail us.<br />
Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Simon Lewis Photography<br />
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York House<br />
(Licensed for Civil Ceremonies-<strong>Richmond</strong>)<br />
17th Century York House includes<br />
elegant rooms for holding your marriage<br />
and reception, with gardens sweeping<br />
down the River Thames.<br />
York House,<br />
<strong>Richmond</strong> Road, Twickenham,<br />
Middlesex, TW1 3AA.<br />
Tel: 020 8831 6108<br />
Fax: 020 8891 7939<br />
Email: halls@richmond.gov.uk<br />
Web: www.richmond.gov.uk/<br />
york_house_venue_hire<br />
York House<br />
Pembroke Lodge,<br />
<strong>Richmond</strong> Park<br />
Pembroke Lodge, <strong>Richmond</strong> Park<br />
(Licensed for Civil Ceremonies-<strong>Richmond</strong>)<br />
An elegant Georgian Mansion in a unique and very<br />
beautiful setting. At Pembroke Lodge it is the views <strong>of</strong><br />
their guests that matter:<br />
“Quite simply, the best day <strong>of</strong> our lives”<br />
“We could not have wished for a more beautiful setting”<br />
“We received so many compliments from our friends<br />
and family about the venue”<br />
“The staff were so kind and helpful”<br />
“The food was amazing”<br />
“The organisation and execution <strong>of</strong> each stage <strong>of</strong> our<br />
wedding went beautifully”<br />
“A highly pr<strong>of</strong>essional and first class service”<br />
Pembroke Lodge, <strong>Richmond</strong> Park, <strong>Richmond</strong>,<br />
Surrey TW10 5HX.<br />
Tel: 020 8940 8207<br />
Fax: 020 8332 6719<br />
Email: info@pembrokelodge.co.uk<br />
Web: www.pembrokelodge.co.uk<br />
Orleans House Gallery<br />
Orleans House<br />
Gallery<br />
(Licensed for Civil Ceremonies-<strong>Richmond</strong>)<br />
The Baroque Octagon room, built in 1721,<br />
is set in preserved woodlands by the River<br />
Thames and accommodates 60 people.<br />
Orleans House Gallery,<br />
Riverside, Twickenham, Middlesex.<br />
Tel: 020 8831 6000<br />
Fax: 020 8744 0501<br />
Email: galleryinfo@richmond.gov.uk<br />
Web: www.richmond.gov.uk/<br />
orleanshouse<br />
Pembroke Lodge, <strong>Richmond</strong> Park 11
Bingham<br />
(Licensed for Civil Ceremonies-<br />
<strong>Richmond</strong>)<br />
The Garden Rooms at the Bingham, are<br />
a unique new riverside venue, with a<br />
large terrace leading down to the garden<br />
overlooking the Thames. This Georgian<br />
townhouse combines classic architecture<br />
with a contemporary chic style, a perfect<br />
setting for individual weddings.<br />
Accommodation is in 15 newly designed<br />
bedrooms, fabulous modern British<br />
food and a warm and friendly<br />
atmosphere. They cater for up to 150, for<br />
anything from informal BBQs to more<br />
traditional <strong>Wedding</strong> Breakfasts.<br />
Bingham,<br />
61-63 Petersham Road, <strong>Richmond</strong>,<br />
Surrey TW10 6UT.<br />
Tel: 020 8940 0902<br />
Web: www.thebingham.co.uk<br />
Bingham<br />
Coach & Horses Hotel<br />
Lensbury<br />
Lensbury<br />
(Licensed for Civil Ceremonies-<strong>Richmond</strong>)<br />
Set in 25 acres <strong>of</strong> beautiful grounds on the banks <strong>of</strong> the River<br />
Thames with five function rooms (three licensed for<br />
ceremonies), 150 bedrooms and superb leisure facilities<br />
including an award-winning Spa, it is not hard to see why<br />
this exclusive private members’ club is becoming a much<br />
sought-after venue in the area.<br />
Lensbury prides itself on personalising your event to meet<br />
your every expectation with a caring, friendly and<br />
pr<strong>of</strong>essional team who are flexible in personalising the day<br />
to meet your expectations. Call to find out more!<br />
Lensbury,<br />
Broom Road, Teddington, Middlesex TW11 9NU.<br />
Tel: 020 8614 6450<br />
Fax: 020 8614 6502<br />
Email: banqueting@lensbury.com<br />
Web: www.lensbury.com<br />
Coach and Horses Hotel<br />
(Licensed for Civil Ceremonies-<strong>Richmond</strong>)<br />
Following your civil ceremony in the beautifully light and airy<br />
Atrium, which is licensed for 60 guests, have your photographs<br />
taken with the background <strong>of</strong> the rose garden and hold your<br />
reception in the purpose built Kew Green Suite after arrival<br />
drinks in the lounge or oak panelled bar. Their experienced<br />
chef and catering staff will be pleased to design a menu <strong>of</strong> your<br />
choice and help with suggestions for your evening buffet.<br />
Finish a perfect day with you and your guests staying in the<br />
beautifully appointed bedrooms.<br />
Please speak to the Hotel Manager for complete package details.<br />
Coach and Horses Hotel,<br />
8 Kew Green, Kew, <strong>Richmond</strong>, Surrey TW9 3BH.<br />
Tel: 020 8940 1208 Fax: 020 8948 8787<br />
Email: coachandhorses@youngs.co.uk<br />
Web: www.coachhotelkew.co.uk<br />
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The <strong>Richmond</strong> Gate Hotel<br />
The <strong>Richmond</strong> Gate Hotel<br />
(Licensed for Civil Ceremonies-<strong>Richmond</strong>)<br />
The award winning 2 AA Rosette brigade <strong>of</strong> chefs have<br />
a reputation for fine dining which has made them one<br />
<strong>of</strong> the most popular wedding venues in the area. With<br />
three elegant function rooms and a beautiful airconditioned<br />
conservatory ideal for barbecues and<br />
drinks receptions, <strong>Richmond</strong> Gate Hotel is the perfect<br />
location for the smaller, intimate breakfast for up to<br />
90 guests. At <strong>Richmond</strong> Gate Hotel, the 68 en-suite<br />
bedrooms are all beautifully furnished, with the added<br />
luxury <strong>of</strong> four-poster beds also available.<br />
They pride themselves on ensuring that the entire<br />
planning and detailed arrangements slot into place<br />
with helpful advice and attentive service from the<br />
Hotels experienced staff.<br />
The <strong>Richmond</strong> Gate Hotel<br />
Tel: 020 8940 0061<br />
Email: events.richmondgate@foliohotels.com<br />
Web: www.foliohotels.com/richmondgate<br />
The <strong>Richmond</strong> Hill Hotel<br />
The <strong>Richmond</strong> Hill Hotel<br />
(Licensed for Civil Ceremonies-<strong>Richmond</strong>)<br />
The <strong>Richmond</strong> Hill Hotel is the ideal venue for your<br />
special day, with 14 function rooms catering for all<br />
your wedding requirements from small, intimate Civil<br />
Partnership ceremonies up to large <strong>Wedding</strong><br />
receptions in the grand Ballroom.<br />
There are 149 beautiful en-suite bedrooms all<br />
refurbished to the highest standard, including<br />
magnificent suites. As the day draws to a close and<br />
there is time to reflect, newly-weds can unwind in a<br />
luxuriously furnished bedroom.<br />
They know that your wedding day is one <strong>of</strong> the most<br />
important days <strong>of</strong> your life and at the <strong>Richmond</strong> Hill<br />
Hotel they will pride themselves on ensuring that it<br />
will be one you'll remember forever.<br />
The <strong>Richmond</strong> Hill Hotel<br />
Tel: 020 8940 2247<br />
Email: events.richmondhill@foliohotels.com<br />
Web: www.foliohotels.com/richmondhill<br />
The <strong>Richmond</strong> Gate Hotel<br />
The <strong>Richmond</strong> Hill Hotel<br />
Cedars Health and Leisure Club<br />
Indulge in a range <strong>of</strong> Elemis Spa therapies and let them help you<br />
prepare for your special day. Enjoy an individual treatment or select<br />
from a range <strong>of</strong> Bridal and Hen Party Day Spa packages which<br />
include use <strong>of</strong> the exclusive leisure facilities.<br />
Cedars Health and Leisure Club<br />
Cedars is nestled between its affiliated hotels, the <strong>Richmond</strong> Gate<br />
and the <strong>Richmond</strong> Hill, and guests <strong>of</strong> both hotels enjoy<br />
complimentary use <strong>of</strong> the leisure facilities.<br />
All treatments and packages are available to non-residents and non<br />
members. For bookings and enquiries call 020 8332 1010.<br />
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Ham House and Garden<br />
(Licensed for Civil Ceremonies-<strong>Richmond</strong>)<br />
Ham House and Garden<br />
Situated along a beautiful stretch <strong>of</strong> the River Thames,<br />
Ham House & Garden provide the peace and quiet <strong>of</strong> the<br />
countryside.<br />
Surrounded by 18 acres <strong>of</strong> 17th century formal gardens,<br />
Ham House was built in 1610. Greatly enlarged in the 1670s<br />
it became the favoured residence <strong>of</strong> the Duke and Duchess<br />
<strong>of</strong> Lauderdale. Mostly unchanged, it has for centuries<br />
thereafter been admired by kings, artists and politicians.<br />
In the House itself the magnificent Great Hall can host<br />
ceremonies for up to 60 guests. The Orangery garden is the<br />
ideal setting for a marquee reception while a more intimate<br />
party can be held in the oldest free standing Orangery in<br />
the country.<br />
<strong>Wedding</strong> ceremonies will always take on a special significance<br />
when held at Ham House.<br />
Ham House and Garden, Ham Street, <strong>Richmond</strong> TW10 7RS.<br />
Tel: 020 8439 8230 / 020 8439 8233<br />
Fax: 020 8439 8241<br />
Email: hamhouse@nationaltrust.org.uk<br />
Web: www.nationaltrust.org.uk/hamhouse<br />
Hampton Court House<br />
(Licensed for Civil Ceremonies-<strong>Richmond</strong>)<br />
Hampton Court House is a place <strong>of</strong> dreams. Set in 7<br />
acres <strong>of</strong> magical 18th Century gardens, HCH is a<br />
“hidden secret”.<br />
The gardens are a sensory delight; palm trees rustling in<br />
the breeze, rabbits lazing in the sun, swans gracefully<br />
gliding across the heart shaped lake.<br />
Surrounded on all sides by parkland, they <strong>of</strong>fer total<br />
exclusivity and privacy. Celebrity clients can be assured<br />
<strong>of</strong> absolute confidentiality.<br />
If you want a really special day in a very special place,<br />
call them to arrange a visit and to discuss turning your<br />
fantasy into reality.<br />
Anything is possible at Hampton Court House…<br />
Tel: 020 8614 0857<br />
Email: sarah@hamptoncourthouse.co.uk<br />
Hampton Court House<br />
The White House<br />
(Licensed for Civil Ceremonies-<strong>Richmond</strong>)<br />
Ham House and Garden<br />
This modern venue provides a reasonable priced civil<br />
marriage for 90 guests, which can be followed by a<br />
reception in the large airy hall with stage (seating 220),<br />
staffed bar and catering kitchen for use by your caterers.<br />
Up to 400 can be accommodated using additional<br />
rooms.<br />
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The White House<br />
The building is fully accessible, has a secure grassed<br />
children’s play area with safety surface, a shrub garden<br />
for photographs and 99-space free car park adjacent.<br />
Please contact<br />
The White House,<br />
45 The Avenue, Hampton, TW12 3RN<br />
Tel: 020 8979 1884<br />
Fax: 020 8979 2600
Marble Hill House<br />
(Licensed for Civil Ceremonies-<strong>Richmond</strong>)<br />
In a stunning setting in sweeping parkland beside the River<br />
Thames, this elegant 18 th century villa was once the fashionable<br />
home <strong>of</strong> Henrietta Howard, mistress <strong>of</strong> George II. With<br />
Georgian furnishings and paintings, this lovely house can host<br />
ceremonies and drinks receptions for up to 50 guests.<br />
A mahogany staircase leads up to the elegant first floor<br />
ceremonies’ room, with high south-facing windows. For your<br />
celebration drinks, a columned hall opening onto wooded<br />
grounds overlooking the river is a perfect location – especially<br />
on a summer’s afternoon.<br />
Marble Hill House,<br />
<strong>Richmond</strong> Road, Twickenham, Middlesex TW1 2NL.<br />
Tel: 020 7973 3416<br />
Web: www.english-heritage.org.uk/hospitality<br />
Email: hospitality@english-heritage.org.uk<br />
Marble Hill House<br />
The Great Room<br />
The columned Tetrastyle Hall<br />
Hampton Court Palace<br />
The Britannia Public House<br />
The Britannia is a charming traditional English pub located on<br />
Brewers Lane in the heart <strong>of</strong> <strong>Richmond</strong> between George Street<br />
and the Green. It is within easy walking distance <strong>of</strong> both the<br />
Register Office and the Train and Tube Stations. It boasts a<br />
delightful function room, with its own private bar and secluded<br />
Terrace Garden. It is an ideal venue for engagement parties or<br />
smaller more informal <strong>Wedding</strong> receptions.<br />
They cater for <strong>Wedding</strong> Breakfasts <strong>of</strong> up to 30 people or Buffets<br />
for up to 60, and all their food is prepared daily using fresh<br />
ingredients. Menus available on request. Children welcome.<br />
The Britannia Public House,<br />
5 Brewers Lane, <strong>Richmond</strong>, Surrey TW9 1HH.<br />
Tel: 020 8940 1071<br />
Email: britannia@massivepub.com<br />
The Britannia Public House<br />
Hampton Court Palace<br />
Hampton Court Palace<br />
(Licensed for Civil Ceremonies-<strong>Richmond</strong>)<br />
The majestic palace <strong>of</strong> Hampton Court has echoed with the<br />
sound <strong>of</strong> splendid celebrations and royal feasting for almost<br />
five hundred years. Why not host your own wedding reception<br />
in one <strong>of</strong> the many magnificent rooms?<br />
The Garden Room is an exclusive and enchanting venue for<br />
hosting wedding receptions. Set apart from the day visitors to<br />
the palace, this light and airy 1920s Orangery-style room <strong>of</strong>fers<br />
versatility and the opportunity to have live music and dancing,<br />
still in an amazing historic setting.<br />
Hampton Court Palace, East Molesey, Surrey KT8 9AU.<br />
Tel: 020 3166 6507<br />
Email: hamptoncourtpalaceevents@hrp.org.uk<br />
Web: www.hrp.org.uk<br />
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Grove House<br />
(License pending for Civil Ceremonies)<br />
With beautiful listed grounds including a lake, lily pond and<br />
landscaped gardens, this 18 th Century house <strong>of</strong>fers a magnificent<br />
setting for your wedding day. There are endless opportunities<br />
for lovely wedding photographs. The House can accommodate<br />
up to 120 guests for dining and marquees can be erected in the<br />
stunning grounds.<br />
Please contact them for more information or to arrange<br />
a viewing:<br />
Tel: 020 8392 8100<br />
Email: conferences@roehampton.ac.uk<br />
Parkstead House<br />
(Licensed for Civil Ceremonies with Wandsworth Council)<br />
With spectacular views <strong>of</strong> neighbouring <strong>Richmond</strong> Park from a<br />
Grade I listed Georgian Villa, this venue is truly an elegant and<br />
romantic setting for your wedding day. With sweeping<br />
staircases, courtyards, balconies, vast grounds for marquees and<br />
the grand Manresa Hall with majestic domed ceilings – the<br />
possibilities are endless...<br />
Please contact them on:<br />
Tel: 020 8392 3505<br />
Email: info@parksteadhouse.co.uk<br />
Web: www.parksteadhouse.co.uk<br />
Grove House<br />
WWT <strong>London</strong> Wetland Centre<br />
WWT <strong>London</strong><br />
Wetland Centre<br />
(Civil Ceremonies licence pending-<strong>Richmond</strong>)<br />
Just 25 minutes from Westminster is the <strong>London</strong><br />
Wetland Centre – 100 acres <strong>of</strong> beautiful lakes, pools and<br />
wildlife in Barnes SW13. This combination <strong>of</strong> beautiful<br />
surroundings, central location (Zone 2) and free on-site<br />
parking makes it the ideal venue for wedding and civil<br />
partnership receptions.<br />
All rooms benefit from natural daylight and spectacular<br />
views over the reserve.<br />
Enjoy a glass <strong>of</strong> champagne while watching the sunset<br />
over the water followed by fine food and dancing till late.<br />
WWT <strong>London</strong> Wetland Centre,<br />
Queen Elizabeth’s Walk, Barnes SW13 9WT.<br />
Tel: 0870 141 3744<br />
Email: functions.london@wwt.org.uk<br />
Web: www.wwt.org.uk<br />
WWT <strong>London</strong> Wetland Centre<br />
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Parkstead House
The Dysart Arms<br />
The Dysart Arms<br />
A family owned historic country inn with bar and restaurants,<br />
The Dysart Arms is newly refurbished bringing back to life its<br />
original Arts and Crafts features with a contemporary style.<br />
Surrounded by trees in Petersham village, yet a brief car ride<br />
from the Register Office, their Private Dining Rooms are<br />
beautifully decorated and, with a private balcony overlooking<br />
<strong>Richmond</strong> Park, are a fantastic place to celebrate. There is a<br />
large car park.<br />
Head Chef Andrew Doherty cooks delicate Modern European<br />
cuisine, <strong>of</strong>fering a diverse range <strong>of</strong> dishes and canapés.<br />
Whether it's breakfast, lunch, dinner or all three, The Dysart<br />
Arms is the ideal place to celebrate any special occasion.<br />
The Dysart Arms,<br />
135 Petersham Road, <strong>Richmond</strong>,<br />
Surrey TW10 7AA.<br />
Tel: 020 8940 8005<br />
Email: enquiries@thedysartarms.co.uk<br />
Web: www.thedysartarms.co.uk<br />
Fine Jewellery<br />
Susan Clarke<br />
Susan Clarke<br />
Make the choosing <strong>of</strong> your most important jewellery an<br />
occasion to remember.<br />
Susan Clarke is an established, independent jeweller, located in<br />
the historic and charming Paved Court, just <strong>of</strong>f <strong>Richmond</strong> Green.<br />
They sell all types <strong>of</strong> 18ct gold, platinum and diamond<br />
jewellery, but their reputation is based on their distinctive<br />
collection <strong>of</strong> engagement and wedding rings, designed and<br />
handmade in their workshops, in both classic and imaginative<br />
contemporary styles.<br />
Their pr<strong>of</strong>essional sales staff take pride in providing friendly<br />
and sympathetic guidance in comfortable, attractive surroundings.<br />
They look forward to welcoming you soon.<br />
Susan Clarke - Fine Jewellery, 11 Paved Court,<br />
<strong>Richmond</strong>-Upon-Thames, Surrey, TW9 1LZ.<br />
Tel: 020 8948 6057 Fax: 020 8332 9080<br />
Email: sclarkeltd@onetel.com<br />
Web: www.sclarkeltd.co.uk<br />
On your special day.<br />
Bacco Restaurant<br />
Bacco Restaurant<br />
Celebrate your wedding reception at Vinoteca. You and your<br />
guests can enjoy great food, amazing wine and a truly<br />
memorable experience. There is a private dining space for up to<br />
28 people and let the chef create your own bespoke menu.<br />
For bookings call: 020 8332 0348<br />
Email: bookings@bacco-restaurant.co.uk<br />
Web: www.bacco-restaurant.co.uk<br />
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Simon Lewis Photography<br />
Simon Lewis Photography<br />
Specialising in reportage style photography capturing the<br />
essence and special moments <strong>of</strong> your day, Simon Lewis’ photo<br />
shoots are fun and relaxing, rather than formal and dictatorial.<br />
A member <strong>of</strong> the Association <strong>of</strong> Photographers, he has 27<br />
years pr<strong>of</strong>essional experience and his award winning work<br />
has been exhibited in the UK’s top galleries.<br />
Competitive packages range from small and intimate to the<br />
grandest and most elaborate. He supplies prints <strong>of</strong><br />
outstanding quality in colour, black & white or specialist<br />
sepia effects.<br />
Simon Lewis Photography<br />
Tel: 020 8744 9779<br />
Mob: 07860 23 55 44<br />
Email: mail@simonlewisphotography.com<br />
Web: www.simonlewisphotography.com/weddings<br />
Desi Fontaine Studios<br />
Contemporary wedding photography by an award<br />
winning lady photographer.<br />
Whilst presenting her own individual style, Desi<br />
will adapt to the photographic requirements <strong>of</strong> the<br />
bride and groom in order to create a series <strong>of</strong> images<br />
that reflects the real story <strong>of</strong> their day.<br />
Far from being a pressurised part <strong>of</strong> the wedding<br />
day itself, she will ensure that the photography will<br />
be relaxed and a lot <strong>of</strong> fun while maintaining a high<br />
level <strong>of</strong> pr<strong>of</strong>essionalism.<br />
From the grand affair wedding to the smallest and<br />
most intimate, Desi will present an album <strong>of</strong><br />
photographs to keep alive the memories <strong>of</strong> this<br />
special day.<br />
Desi Fontaine is a Fellow <strong>of</strong> both the Master<br />
Photographers Association and the British Institute<br />
<strong>of</strong> Pr<strong>of</strong>essional Photography.<br />
Desi Fontaine Studios,<br />
The Coach House, 25 Blandford Road,<br />
Teddington TW11 0LF.<br />
Tel: 020 8943 3333<br />
Mob: 07768 516 027<br />
Web: www.desifontaine.co.uk<br />
Desi Fontaine Studios<br />
Thomas Photography<br />
Caroline Thomas is an experienced wedding<br />
photographer. Her enthusiasm and dedication are<br />
exactly what you need to ensure you have<br />
exceptional photographic memories <strong>of</strong> your big day.<br />
Thomas Photography<br />
Caroline will take a range <strong>of</strong> candid and formal<br />
shots in an unobtrusive and pr<strong>of</strong>essional manner.<br />
Her friendly personality will put you and your guests<br />
at ease, capturing the smiles and excitement <strong>of</strong> the<br />
day and resulting in wonderful heart-felt photographs.<br />
Tel: 07790 152 427<br />
Email: thomasphotography@fsmail.net<br />
Web: www.thomasphotography.co.uk<br />
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The Conservatory<br />
Michelle and her team will create the<br />
most wonderful flowers, whether you<br />
choose a small and intimate affair, a<br />
grand and lavish banquet, something<br />
highly traditional or completely<br />
contemporary.<br />
With a love <strong>of</strong> flowers and a friendly<br />
approach The Conservatory will create<br />
floral designs especially for you.<br />
They invite you to view their portfolios<br />
and discuss your ideas, which they will<br />
follow up with a written estimate and<br />
samples, enabling them to provide you<br />
with the perfect flowers for your special<br />
day.<br />
The Conservatory<br />
Tel: 020 8940 2265<br />
Email: michelle@theconservatoryuk.com<br />
Web: www.theconservatoryuk.com<br />
photo by Philip Nash www.nash.net<br />
Pam Wrigley<br />
Make-up Artist/Hair Stylist<br />
Be confident <strong>of</strong> beautiful make-up and hair.<br />
Pam is a fully qualified make-up artist and<br />
hair stylist with over 12 years experience<br />
in both the Fashion and Film industry.<br />
She now specialises in creating beautiful<br />
make-up and hair for weddings. Pam<br />
provides a friendly, helpful and<br />
pr<strong>of</strong>essional service. You can find lots <strong>of</strong><br />
information on her website:<br />
www.weddingmakeupandhair.com<br />
Or contact Pam on 020 8742 1994 or<br />
07720 300062 to arrange your trial run.<br />
The Gift List<br />
John Lewis<br />
Make your wish list come true.<br />
So you've made the decision and set the<br />
date. Whether you're planning a traditional<br />
white wedding or a civil partnership, now<br />
is the fun part - selecting your gifts.<br />
Opening a Gift List at John Lewis is easy<br />
and the service is free. You can register in<br />
person, by calling 020 8547 4560 or<br />
online at johnlewisgiftlist.com<br />
John Lewis,<br />
Wood Street, Kingston <strong>upon</strong> Thames,<br />
Surrey KT1 1TE.<br />
Tel: 020 8547 3000<br />
Web: johnlewis.com/kingston<br />
The Gift List John Lewis<br />
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Body Experience<br />
Body Experience<br />
Body Experience<br />
… a unique Health & Lifestyle Day Spa<br />
Offers you CRESCENDO the ultimate journey for the<br />
Bride-To-Be.<br />
Based on an initial complimentary consultation they will<br />
design a package suited individually to your needs, skin type<br />
and stress levels in order to prepare you for your big day.<br />
They <strong>of</strong>fer a comprehensive range <strong>of</strong> lifestyle solutions from<br />
bridal make-up to facials and body treatments that promote<br />
harmony, balance and well-being.<br />
Coming soon – in May 2008 they will be launching a state <strong>of</strong><br />
the art medi spa <strong>of</strong>fering the latest in skin rejuvenation<br />
treatments for face and body, please inquire for further details.<br />
Hen parties can also be arranged.<br />
Voted one <strong>of</strong> the UK’s top 5 Day Spas by goodspaguide.co.uk<br />
Body Experience,<br />
50 Hill Rise, <strong>Richmond</strong>-Upon-Thames TW10 6UB.<br />
Tel: 020 8334 9999<br />
Email: revive@bodyexperience.co.uk<br />
Web: www.bodyexperience.co.uk<br />
<strong>Wedding</strong> Videography<br />
Confetti TV<br />
As a Master Member <strong>of</strong> the Institute <strong>of</strong> Videography and locally<br />
established for 20 years Confetti TV know that you only have<br />
one chance to get it right. With HD Filming, Broadcast Quality<br />
Editing, DVD Production, Internet Hosting, and iPod<br />
Highlights their experienced team create a bespoke service for<br />
any ceremony.<br />
Contact: Alan Benns<br />
Tel: 020 8943 2666<br />
Email: mail@confettitv.co.uk<br />
Web: www.confettitv.co.uk<br />
Confetti TV<br />
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Readings<br />
An Apache Indian Prayer<br />
May the sun bring you new energy by day;<br />
May the moon s<strong>of</strong>tly restore you by night,<br />
May the rain wash away your worries<br />
And the breeze blow new strength into your being.<br />
All the days <strong>of</strong> your life may you walk gently<br />
through the world and know its beauty.<br />
Now you will feel no rain,<br />
For each <strong>of</strong> you will be shelter for the other.<br />
Now you will feel no cold,<br />
For each <strong>of</strong> you will be warmth for the other.<br />
Now there will be no more loneliness,<br />
For each <strong>of</strong> you will be companion for the other.<br />
Now you are two persons,<br />
But there are three lives before you:<br />
His life, her life, and your life together.<br />
Go now to your dwelling place<br />
To enter into the long days <strong>of</strong> your life together.<br />
May beauty surround you both<br />
In the journey ahead through all the years.<br />
May happiness be your companion<br />
To the place where the river meets the sun,<br />
And may your days together<br />
Be good and long <strong>upon</strong> this earth.<br />
A Marriage, Mark Twain<br />
A marriage makes <strong>of</strong> two fractional lives a whole,<br />
It gives two purposeless lives a work,<br />
and doubles the strength <strong>of</strong> each to perform it.<br />
It gives to two questioning natures a reason for<br />
living and something to live for.<br />
It will give new gladness to the sunshine,<br />
a new fragrance to the flowers, a new beauty to<br />
the earth and a new mystery to life.<br />
A Walled Garden<br />
Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> G. Thorburn<br />
“Your marriage”, he said, “should have within it a secret<br />
and protected place, open to you alone.<br />
Imagine it to be a walled garden, entered by a door to<br />
which only you have the key.<br />
Within this garden you will cease to be a mother, father,<br />
employee, homemaker or any other roles which you fulfil<br />
in daily life.<br />
Here you are yourselves, two people who love each other.<br />
Here you can concentrate on one another’s needs”,<br />
So take my hand and let us go back to our garden.<br />
The time we spend together is not wasted but invested.<br />
Invested in our future and the nurture <strong>of</strong> our love.<br />
Extract from Captain Corelli’s Mandolin<br />
(The advice a father gives his daughter when she is<br />
thinking about marriage) Louis de Berniere<br />
Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like a volcano and<br />
then it subsides. And when it subsides you have to make<br />
a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have<br />
so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you<br />
should ever part. Because this is what love is.<br />
Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not<br />
the promulgation <strong>of</strong> promises <strong>of</strong> eternal passion, it is not<br />
the desire to mate every second minute <strong>of</strong> the day. No,<br />
don’t blush, I am telling you some truths. That is just<br />
being ‘in love’ which any fool can do. Love itself is what<br />
is left over when being ‘in love’ has burned away, and this<br />
is both an art and a fortunate accident.<br />
Your mother and I had it. We had roots that grew towards<br />
each other underground, and when all the pretty<br />
blossom had fallen from our branches we found that we<br />
were one tree not two. But sometimes the petals fall away<br />
and the roots have not entwined. Imagine giving up your<br />
home and your people, only to discover that after six<br />
months, a year, three years, that the trees have no roots<br />
and have fallen over.<br />
Imagine the desolation. Imagine the imprisonment.<br />
Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Simon Lewis Photography<br />
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After the Lunch,<br />
Wendy Cope<br />
On Waterloo Bridge, where we said our goodbyes,<br />
The weather conditions bring tears to my eyes.<br />
I wipe them away with a black woolly glove<br />
And try not to notice I’ve fallen in love.<br />
On Waterloo Bridge I am trying to think:<br />
This is nothing. You’re high on charm and drink.<br />
But the jukebox inside me is playing a song<br />
That says something different and when was it wrong?<br />
On Waterloo Bridge with the wind in my hair<br />
I am tempted to skip. You’re a fool. I don’t care.<br />
The head does it’s best but the heart is the boss –<br />
I admit it before I am halfway across.<br />
I carry your heart with me,<br />
e. e. cummins<br />
I carry your heart with me<br />
(I carry it in my heart)<br />
I am never without it<br />
(anywhere I go you go, my dear;<br />
and whatever is done by only me<br />
is your doing, my darling)<br />
I fear no fate<br />
(for you are my fate, my sweet)<br />
I want no world<br />
(for beautiful you are my world, my true)<br />
and it’s you are whatever a moon has always meant<br />
and whatever a sun will always sing is you<br />
here is the deepest secret nobody knows<br />
(here is the root <strong>of</strong> the root and the sky <strong>of</strong> the sky <strong>of</strong> a<br />
tree called life,<br />
which grows higher than soul can hope or mind can<br />
hide)<br />
and this is the wonder that’s keeping the stars apart.<br />
I carry your heart<br />
(I carry it in my heart)<br />
The First Day, Christina Rossetti<br />
I wish I could remember the first day,<br />
first hour, first moment <strong>of</strong> your meeting me,<br />
If bright or dim the season, it might be<br />
summer or winter for aught I can say,<br />
so unrecorded did it slip away.<br />
So blind was I to see and foresee,<br />
so dull to mark the budding <strong>of</strong> my tree<br />
that would not blossom yet for many a May.<br />
If only I could recollect it, such<br />
a day <strong>of</strong> days! I let it come and go<br />
as traceless as a thaw <strong>of</strong> bygone snow;<br />
It seemed to mean so little, meant so much;<br />
If only now I could recall that touch,<br />
first touch <strong>of</strong> hand in hand – did one but know!<br />
I knew that I had been touched by love<br />
I knew that I had been touched by love the first<br />
time that I saw you, and felt your warmth and<br />
heard your laughter.<br />
I knew that I had been touched by love when I was<br />
hurting from something that happened, and you came<br />
along and made the hurt go away.<br />
I knew that I had been touched by love when I quit<br />
making plans with my friends and starting Dreaming<br />
dreams with you.<br />
I knew that I had been touched by love when suddenly I<br />
couldn’t make any decisions by myself any more, and I<br />
had the strong desire to share everything with you.<br />
I knew that I had been touched by love the first time we<br />
spent alone together, and I knew that I wanted to stay<br />
with you forever because - I had never felt this touched<br />
by love.<br />
Sonnet from the Portuguese,<br />
Elizabeth Barrett Browning<br />
How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.<br />
I love thee to the depth and breadth and height<br />
my soul can reach, when feeling out <strong>of</strong> sight<br />
for the ends <strong>of</strong> being and ideal grace.<br />
I love thee to the level <strong>of</strong> every day’s most quiet<br />
need, by sun and candlelight.<br />
I love thee freely, as men strive for right,<br />
I love thee purely, as they turn from praise.<br />
I love thee with the fervour put to use<br />
In my old griefs and with my childhood’s faith…<br />
I love thee with a love I seemed to lose with my<br />
lost youth,<br />
I love thy breath, smiles, tears <strong>of</strong> all<br />
my life – and if fate choose,<br />
I shall but love thee better after death.<br />
Sonnet 18, William Shakespeare<br />
Shall I compare thee to a summer’s day?<br />
Thou art more lovely and more temperate;<br />
Rough winds do shake the darling buds <strong>of</strong> May,<br />
And summer’s lease hath all too short a date:<br />
Sometimes too the eye <strong>of</strong> heaven shines,<br />
And <strong>of</strong>ten is his golden complexion dimmed;<br />
And every fair from fair sometime declines.<br />
By chance, or nature’s changing course untrimmed:<br />
But thy eternal summer shall not fade.<br />
Nor lose possession <strong>of</strong> that fair thou ow’st<br />
Nor shall death brag thou wander’st in his shade<br />
When in eternal lines to time thou growest.<br />
So long as men can breathe or eyes can see.<br />
So long lives this, and this gives life to thee.<br />
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Marriage joins two people in the circle <strong>of</strong> its<br />
Love, Edmund O’Neill<br />
Marriage is a commitment to life, the best that two<br />
people can find and bring out in each other. It <strong>of</strong>fers<br />
opportunities for sharing and growth that no other<br />
relationship can equal. It is a physical and an emotional<br />
joining that is promised for a lifetime.<br />
Within the circle <strong>of</strong> its love, marriage encompasses all <strong>of</strong><br />
life’s most important relationships. A wife and a<br />
husband are each other’s best friend, confident, lover,<br />
teacher, listener and critic.<br />
Marriage understands and forgives the mistakes life is<br />
unable to avoid. It encourages and nurtures new life,<br />
new experiences and new ways <strong>of</strong> expressing a love that is<br />
deeper than life.<br />
When two people pledge their love and care for each<br />
other in marriage, they create a spirit unique unto<br />
themselves which binds them closer than any spoken or<br />
written words. Marriage is a promise, a potential made in<br />
the hearts <strong>of</strong> two people who love each other and takes a<br />
lifetime to fulfil.<br />
I Promise, Dorothy R. Colgan<br />
I promise to give you the best <strong>of</strong> myself<br />
And to ask no more than you can give.<br />
I promise to respect you as your own person<br />
and to realise that your needs are no less<br />
important than my own.<br />
I promise to share with you my time<br />
and my attention and to bring joy,<br />
strength and imagination to our relationship.<br />
I promise to keep myself open to you,<br />
to let you see through the window <strong>of</strong> my<br />
world into my innermost fears and feelings,<br />
secrets and dreams.<br />
I promise to grow along with you,<br />
to be willing to face changes in order<br />
to keep our relationship alive and exciting.<br />
I promise to love you in good times and in bad,<br />
with all I have to give and all I feel inside<br />
in the only way I know how,<br />
completely and forever.<br />
Flowers, Wendy Cope<br />
Some men never think <strong>of</strong> it,<br />
You did, you’d come along and say<br />
you’d nearly bought me flowers,<br />
but something had gone wrong,<br />
the shop was closed or you had doubts -<br />
The thoughts that minds like ours dream up incessantly,<br />
you thought I might not want your flowers.<br />
It made me smile and hug you then,<br />
Now I can only smile.<br />
But look, the flowers you nearly bought<br />
Have lasted all this while!<br />
<strong>Wedding</strong> Day<br />
Now comes the knitting, the tying,<br />
the entwining into one,<br />
Mysterious involvement <strong>of</strong> two, whole separate people.<br />
Into something altogether strange and changing,<br />
new and lovely.<br />
Nothing can ever be, we will never be, the same again.<br />
Not merged into each other irrevocably, but rather<br />
from now on we go the same way, in the same direction,<br />
agreeing not to leave each other lonely, or discouraged, or<br />
behind.<br />
I will do my best to keep my promises to you and<br />
keep you warm.<br />
And we will make our bed beneath the bright and ragged<br />
quilt <strong>of</strong> all the yesterdays that make us who we are.<br />
The strengths and frailties we bring to this marriage are<br />
the very things that will make us rich indeed.<br />
When you are old, W.B. Yeats<br />
Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Thomas Photography<br />
When you are old and grey and full <strong>of</strong> sleep,<br />
and nodding by the fire, take down this book,<br />
and slowly read, and dream <strong>of</strong> the s<strong>of</strong>t look<br />
Your eyes had once, and <strong>of</strong> their shadows deep;<br />
How many loved your moments <strong>of</strong> glad grace,<br />
And loved your beauty with love false or true,<br />
but one man loved the pilgrim soul in you,<br />
and loved the sorrows <strong>of</strong> your changing face;<br />
Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Win Whiting<br />
And bending down beside the glowing bars,<br />
murmur, a little sadly, how love fled<br />
and paced <strong>upon</strong> the mountains overhead<br />
and hid his face amid a crowd <strong>of</strong> stars.<br />
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Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Thomas Photography<br />
Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Desi Fontaine Studios<br />
Quick Checklist<br />
Check availability and book date.<br />
Give “Notices” – no more than 1 year in<br />
advance, no less than 17 days.<br />
Pay fees – 6 weeks before ceremony for Licensed<br />
Venues and 1 Spring Terrace Saturdays and<br />
Sundays (1 Spring Terrace weekdays – pay on<br />
the day).<br />
Send in the format form (in back <strong>of</strong> brochure)<br />
6 weeks before ceremony.<br />
Commemorative certificate – notify us <strong>of</strong><br />
witnesses names.<br />
Framework <strong>of</strong><br />
Ceremony<br />
Welcome<br />
Registration Address<br />
Reading<br />
Declaratory Words<br />
Contracting Words<br />
Exchange <strong>of</strong> Rings<br />
Vows<br />
Reading<br />
Signing the Register<br />
Ceremony Conclusion<br />
(Only one reading at 1 Spring Terrace on weekdays)<br />
Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Simon Lewis Photography<br />
Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Win Whiting<br />
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Optional Vows<br />
& Promises<br />
You may wish to enhance your ceremony by saying<br />
some vows to one another. Below are options for you<br />
to choose. You do not have to say the same thing to<br />
one another. Please let us know your choices by<br />
including the number(s) on your booking form.<br />
1. I promise to care for you, to remain true to you,<br />
to be your friend and above all to love and<br />
respect you always.<br />
2. I promise to love and care for you and to stand<br />
by your side whatever the future may bring.<br />
3. I promise to share with you all the good times<br />
and the bad times, to be your friend, support<br />
and companion and to love and respect you<br />
always.<br />
Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Simon Lewis Photography<br />
4. I promise to laugh with you in joy, to grieve with<br />
you in sorrow, to be faithful to you and to love<br />
and respect you always.<br />
5. I promise to be there for you when you need me,<br />
to share your worries and your doubts and to<br />
always be the one person you can truly rely on.<br />
6. I promise to be loving, loyal and faithful to you<br />
for the rest <strong>of</strong> our lives.<br />
7. I promise to love and support you, to respect<br />
you as your own person and to cherish you until<br />
the end <strong>of</strong> our days.<br />
8. I promise to love and care for you, cherish and<br />
respect you, and to be there for you when you<br />
need me.<br />
9. I promise to love and care for you through<br />
fortune and misfortune and to be your true<br />
friend always and forever.<br />
If you like the sentiments <strong>of</strong> the above options but do<br />
not wish to say the words, you can respond together<br />
“We Will” to the following paragraph.<br />
In the presence <strong>of</strong> your family and friends do you<br />
promise to love and care for one another, to share the<br />
difficult times as well as the happy times and will you<br />
stay together as a married couple for your entire lives?<br />
Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Simon Lewis Photography<br />
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Venues Licensed for<br />
Civil <strong>Wedding</strong> Ceremonies in <strong>Richmond</strong><br />
The Bingham Hotel<br />
61-63 Petersham Road<br />
<strong>Richmond</strong><br />
Tel: 020 8940 0902<br />
Fax: 020 8948 8737<br />
Email:<br />
reservations@binghamhotel.co.uk<br />
Cambridge Cottage,<br />
Kew Green, Kew, <strong>London</strong>, TW9 3AB<br />
Tel: 020 8332 5641<br />
Fax: 020 8332 5632<br />
Email: weddings@kew.org<br />
Carlton Mitre Hotel<br />
Hampton Court Road<br />
Hampton Court<br />
Tel: 020 8979 9988<br />
Fax: 020 8979 9777<br />
Email: mitre@carltonhotels.co.uk<br />
The Coach and Horses<br />
8 Kew Green, Kew<br />
Tel: 020 8940 1208<br />
Fax: 020 8948 8787<br />
Email:<br />
coachandhorses@youngs.co.uk<br />
Ham House<br />
Ham, <strong>Richmond</strong><br />
Tel: 020 8332 6644<br />
Fax: 020 8332 6903<br />
Email:<br />
hamhouse@nationaltrust.org.uk<br />
Ham Polo Club<br />
Petersham Road, <strong>Richmond</strong><br />
Tel: 020 8334 0001<br />
Fax: 020 8948 8443<br />
Email: nick@hunt-kendall.com<br />
Hampton Court House<br />
Hampton Court Road<br />
Hampton Court<br />
Tel: 020 8943 0889<br />
Fax: 020 8977 5357<br />
Email:<br />
sarah@hamptoncourthouse.co.uk<br />
Hampton Court Palace<br />
Hampton Court<br />
Tel: 020 8781 9508<br />
Fax: 020 8977 5357<br />
Email: events@hrp.org.uk<br />
Lensbury<br />
Broom Road, Teddington<br />
Tel: 020 8614 6450<br />
Fax: 020 8614 6502<br />
Email:<br />
conference.reception@lensbury.com<br />
Liongate Hotel<br />
Hampton Court Road<br />
Hampton Court<br />
Tel: 020 8977 8121<br />
Fax: 020 8943 4029<br />
Email:<br />
lionres@dhillonhotels.co.uk<br />
Marble Hill House<br />
<strong>Richmond</strong> Road, Twickenham<br />
Tel: 020 7973 3534<br />
Fax: 020 7973 3443<br />
Email: hospitality@englishheritage.org.uk<br />
Old Sorting Office<br />
19-21 Station Road, Barnes<br />
Tel: 020 8876 9885 or<br />
020 8748 6483<br />
Email: info@osoarts.org.uk<br />
Orleans House Gallery<br />
Riverside, Twickenham<br />
Tel: 020 8831 6000<br />
Fax: 020 8744 0501<br />
Email:<br />
galleryinfo@richmond.gov.uk<br />
Pembroke Lodge<br />
<strong>Richmond</strong> Park, <strong>Richmond</strong><br />
Tel: 020 8940 8207<br />
Fax: 020 8332 6719<br />
Email:<br />
info@pembroke-lodge.co.uk<br />
Petersham Hotel<br />
Nightingale Lane, <strong>Richmond</strong><br />
Tel: 020 8940 7471<br />
Fax: 020 8939 1098<br />
Email: enq@petershamhotel.co.uk<br />
<strong>Richmond</strong> Gate Hotel<br />
<strong>Richmond</strong> Hill, <strong>Richmond</strong><br />
Tel: 020 8940 0061<br />
Fax: 020 8332 0354<br />
Email: events.richmondgate@<br />
foliohotels.com<br />
<strong>Richmond</strong> Hill Hotel<br />
<strong>Richmond</strong> Hill, <strong>Richmond</strong><br />
Tel: 020 8940 2247<br />
Fax: 020 8940 5424<br />
Email: events.richmondhill@<br />
foliohotels.com<br />
<strong>Richmond</strong> Theatre<br />
The Green, <strong>Richmond</strong><br />
Tel: 020 8940 0088<br />
Fax: 020 8948 3601<br />
Email: richmondbox<strong>of</strong>fice@<br />
theambassadors.com<br />
Rugby Football Union Stadium<br />
Rugby Road, Twickenham<br />
Tel: 020 8892 2000<br />
Fax: 020 8892 9816<br />
White House Community<br />
Association<br />
45 The Avenue, Hampton<br />
Tel: 020 8979 1884<br />
Fax: 020 8979 2600<br />
Email: maureen@whcafsnet.co.uk<br />
York House<br />
<strong>Richmond</strong> Road, Twickenham<br />
Tel: 020 8831 6108<br />
Fax: 020 8891 7939<br />
Email:<br />
j.pattenden@richmond.gov.uk<br />
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<strong>Richmond</strong> <strong>upon</strong> Thames Register Office<br />
1 Spring Terrace, Paradise Road, <strong>Richmond</strong>, Surrey TW9 1LW.<br />
Opening Hours 9.00 – 12.00 noon and 1.30 – 4.00 Monday to Friday<br />
Closed Wednesday Afternoon<br />
Tel: 020 8940 2853 / 2651 Fax: 020 8940 8226<br />
Email: register<strong>of</strong>fice@richmond.gov.uk<br />
Compiled & published by pineneedle limited tel: 020 8870 0968 sixth edition.