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<strong>Richmond</strong><br />

<strong>Wedding</strong><br />

<strong>Guide</strong>


INVESTOR IN PEOPLE<br />

Contents<br />

Congratulations . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .3<br />

Introduction . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .4<br />

<strong>Richmond</strong> Registration Service . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .4<br />

Legal Preliminaries . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .5<br />

Civil Ceremonies . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .5<br />

Religious Ceremonies . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .5<br />

Documents You Need To Produce . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .6<br />

A <strong>Richmond</strong> <strong>Wedding</strong> . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .6<br />

1 Spring Terrace . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .6<br />

Important Information . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .7<br />

Provisional Bookings . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .7<br />

On The Day . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .7<br />

Ceremony . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .8<br />

Music . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .8<br />

Rings . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .8<br />

Vows/Readings . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .8<br />

Video . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .8<br />

Confetti . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .8<br />

Photography . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .9<br />

Dress . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .9<br />

Entrance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .9<br />

Witnesses . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .9<br />

Guests . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .9<br />

Commemorative Certificate . . . . . . . . . . .9<br />

Fees . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .10<br />

Notes . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .10<br />

Advertisers . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .11-20<br />

Readings . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .21-23<br />

Quick Checklist . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .24<br />

Framework <strong>of</strong> Ceremony . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .24<br />

Optional Vows and Promises . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .25<br />

Venues Licensed for<br />

Civil <strong>Wedding</strong> Ceremonies in <strong>Richmond</strong> . . . . . . . . . .26<br />

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Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Thomas Photography<br />

Congratulations!<br />

You have decided to get married.<br />

This brochure has been written to guide you through<br />

the things you need to do next.<br />

Hopefully you will find it straightforward and easy to<br />

understand.<br />

All the staff at 1 Spring Terrace are here to help you<br />

make the best <strong>of</strong> your day and advise you in all aspects<br />

<strong>of</strong> your ceremony.<br />

Whether you are marrying in a religious or a civil<br />

ceremony we will advise and guide you. Please<br />

telephone, fax or e-mail us to clarify any points that<br />

may be worrying you.<br />

Our very warm wishes to you both.<br />

Win Whiting<br />

Superintendent Registrar<br />

Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> M. Fleming<br />

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Introduction<br />

Welcome to <strong>Richmond</strong> <strong>upon</strong> Thames, this most<br />

historic <strong>London</strong> borough.<br />

In 1501, Henry VII named <strong>Richmond</strong> after his favourite<br />

Yorkshire earldom. The gateway to his palace, also<br />

favoured by Elizabeth I still remains on <strong>Richmond</strong> Green.<br />

<strong>Richmond</strong> Bridge is the oldest <strong>London</strong> bridge across<br />

the river Thames and the view from <strong>Richmond</strong> Hill<br />

along the river is protected by an act <strong>of</strong> parliament.<br />

<strong>Richmond</strong> Park, the favourite hunting grounds <strong>of</strong><br />

James 1 and his son Charles, still has large herds <strong>of</strong> red<br />

and fallow deer roaming freely. The park is also home<br />

to the internationally acclaimed Royal Ballet School.<br />

<strong>Richmond</strong> is also home to the Rugby Football Union<br />

headquarters at Twickenham, known throughout the<br />

world as the heart <strong>of</strong> rugby.<br />

Hampton Court Palace, Henry VIII’s favourite home,<br />

with it’s 1000 rooms, formal gardens and world<br />

famous maze is situated within the borough <strong>of</strong><br />

<strong>Richmond</strong>. Nearby Bushy Park is one <strong>of</strong> <strong>Richmond</strong>’s 3<br />

royal parks, the other two being Home Park and<br />

<strong>Richmond</strong> Park.<br />

The Royal Botanic Gardens at Kew contain 40,000<br />

species <strong>of</strong> plants and 9000 trees. The national archive<br />

is also based in Kew where the Public Record Office<br />

holds 900 years <strong>of</strong> historical records including the<br />

Domesday Book.<br />

Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Simon Lewis Photography<br />

Along the river from Kew is Mortlake, the finishing<br />

point <strong>of</strong> the annual University boat race.<br />

<strong>Richmond</strong> <strong>upon</strong> Thames is the only <strong>London</strong> borough<br />

that has the river Thames flowing through its heart<br />

rather than forming a boundary.<br />

As well as being a truly historic wonderland,<br />

<strong>Richmond</strong> is also a modern thriving town with a<br />

bustling town centre, theatres, numerous restaurants,<br />

hotels, galleries and venues <strong>of</strong> all descriptions.<br />

<strong>Richmond</strong> Register Office is a grade II listed building<br />

and boasts the highest tree in the borough.<br />

All in all <strong>Richmond</strong> <strong>of</strong>fers the ideal location for a<br />

wedding. Whether you want a low-key private<br />

ceremony or a more elaborate affair, <strong>Richmond</strong> can<br />

satisfy your needs. We have many licensed venues and<br />

our own lovely Register Office to cater for your<br />

individual needs.<br />

<strong>Richmond</strong><br />

Registration Service<br />

Whatever your needs, the staff at 1 Spring Terrace are<br />

here to help and guide you through every detail to<br />

ensure you have a wonderful, personal day. We will<br />

advise you about music, readings, formats, and<br />

wording. Our large team <strong>of</strong> marriage registrars are<br />

confident and experienced, and expert at putting you<br />

at your ease. We will also <strong>of</strong>fer you an exclusive<br />

<strong>Richmond</strong> certificate to commemorate your day.<br />

<strong>Richmond</strong> Registration Service has achieved both<br />

Charter Mark and Investors in People accreditations.<br />

Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Simon Lewis Photography<br />

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Legal Preliminaries<br />

Civil Ceremonies<br />

You can marry in any Register Office or Licensed Venue<br />

<strong>of</strong> your choice anywhere in England or Wales. At a<br />

Licensed Venue, Registrars from the local Register<br />

Office will attend to conduct and register the ceremony.<br />

The first thing you need to do is decide on a venue. You<br />

then need to check the availability <strong>of</strong> the venue on the<br />

date <strong>of</strong> your choice. If you want to marry at a Licensed<br />

Venue you will also need to check with the local<br />

Register Office to see if the Registrars are available. You<br />

may need to be flexible over the time <strong>of</strong> your ceremony.<br />

Once you have selected your venue and checked the<br />

availability <strong>of</strong> the Registrars you need to ‘give notice’.<br />

This is the term used for the legal preliminaries. Both<br />

parties need to give notice, in person, in the Register<br />

Office <strong>of</strong> the district in which they live. If either one <strong>of</strong><br />

you is subject to immigration control you must both<br />

give your notices in a designated Register Office, this<br />

may not be in your district <strong>of</strong> residence. <strong>Richmond</strong> is<br />

not a designated Register Office. You must be resident<br />

for at least seven days prior to giving notice. You can<br />

attend together but you each need to give your details<br />

individually. Your notices will be displayed on a notice<br />

board in the Register Office for 15 days. You cannot<br />

give any less notice than this. At the end <strong>of</strong> the notice<br />

period the Superintendent Registrar will issue<br />

authorities in respect <strong>of</strong> each notice. If you are<br />

marrying in your own district the Superintendent<br />

Registrar will keep your authorities with your<br />

paperwork. If you are marrying outside your district<br />

you will need to collect your authorities from your<br />

local <strong>of</strong>fice and take them to the <strong>of</strong>fice that will be<br />

dealing with your ceremony. You cannot be married<br />

Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Thomas Photography<br />

without this paperwork. Notice MUST be given at least<br />

16 days before the date <strong>of</strong> the wedding.<br />

You can give your notice up to a year in advance <strong>of</strong> the<br />

day <strong>of</strong> the ceremony.<br />

Notices are ‘venue specific’ - if you change your venue<br />

you must each give fresh notices.<br />

Religious Ceremonies<br />

If you are marrying in a Church <strong>of</strong> England or Church<br />

in Wales you will need to talk to the vicar, he/she will<br />

advise you about what you need to do.<br />

If you are marrying within any other denomination<br />

you will need to give notice (see Civil Ceremonies) at<br />

your local Register Office.<br />

You first need to get permission from the minister or<br />

governing body <strong>of</strong> the Church. Some Churches need<br />

the attendance <strong>of</strong> a Registrar at each ceremony but<br />

some have an ‘authorised person’ who acts in the role<br />

<strong>of</strong> Registrar. If you need the attendance <strong>of</strong> a Registrar<br />

you will need to book them as far in advance as<br />

possible.<br />

When you have given the notice and it has been<br />

displayed on the board you will need to collect your<br />

authorities from the Register Office and deliver them<br />

to the Minister. He/she cannot marry you without<br />

these documents.<br />

Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> The <strong>Richmond</strong> Studio<br />

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Documents You<br />

Need To Produce<br />

When you attend the Register Office to give your notice<br />

you will each need to bring the statutory fee (see p10).<br />

You will also need to bring identification documents<br />

and evidence <strong>of</strong> your nationality. The best document<br />

for this is your passport. If you do not have a passport<br />

you will need to bring your full birth certificate.<br />

If you are subject to immigration control you may also<br />

need a certificate <strong>of</strong> approval from the Home Office.<br />

If you have changed your name by deed poll, change <strong>of</strong><br />

name deed or statutory declaration you will need to<br />

bring it with you.<br />

If you are a widow or widower you will need to bring<br />

the death certificate <strong>of</strong> your late husband/wife.<br />

If you have been divorced you will need to bring your<br />

decree absolute.<br />

If you were divorced outside the UK you will need to<br />

bring your final divorce papers together with an<br />

English translation.<br />

If your last marriage was annulled we may also need to<br />

see your decree nisi.<br />

You must also produce two examples <strong>of</strong> evidence <strong>of</strong><br />

your address.<br />

All the documents you bring must be original,<br />

photocopies are not accepted.<br />

A<br />

<strong>Richmond</strong> <strong>Wedding</strong><br />

Whether you choose one <strong>of</strong> our many Licensed Venues<br />

or 1 Spring Terrace, you can enhance your ceremony<br />

with music, readings and personal vows.<br />

We have a selection <strong>of</strong> music and readings available at<br />

1 Spring Terrace but <strong>of</strong> course you may like to provide<br />

your own.<br />

A civil ceremony can contain no religious connotations<br />

whatsoever and you will need to bear this in mind<br />

when selecting your music and readings.<br />

You will find a list <strong>of</strong> our Licensed Venues at the back<br />

<strong>of</strong> this brochure.<br />

Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Win Whiting<br />

1 Spring Terrace<br />

1 Spring Terrace is set within half an acre <strong>of</strong> grounds<br />

and is a grade two listed building. Our beautiful airconditioned<br />

ceremony room in muted greens and<br />

yellows is the ideal venue for a dignified intimate<br />

ceremony. We can accommodate 40 people and have<br />

beautiful fresh flowers which will enhance your<br />

photographs and atmosphere. We have a comfortable<br />

elegant waiting room with French doors that lead out<br />

to our secluded garden, including the very private<br />

‘secret garden’.<br />

There is a large public car park just 70 yards from the<br />

door and we have a paved front area ideal for ‘confetti<br />

shots’ underneath the highest tree in <strong>Richmond</strong>. We<br />

can also <strong>of</strong>fer you an exclusive <strong>Richmond</strong> certificate to<br />

commemorate your ceremony.<br />

1 Spring Terrace Saturdays<br />

We are delighted to <strong>of</strong>fer enhanced ceremonies on<br />

Saturdays. Each ceremony is afforded a longer time slot<br />

relieving our couples <strong>of</strong> the feeling <strong>of</strong> ‘rush’. Brides can<br />

make a separate entrance, on fathers’ arm perhaps,<br />

couples can have extra readings and spend more time<br />

taking photographs. Fees are paid in advance.<br />

1 Spring Terrace Weekdays<br />

All weekday Spring Terrace ceremonies will follow the<br />

standard Spring Terrace format i.e Bride and Groom<br />

enter the room together, one reading etc. Ceremonies<br />

are set at 30 minute intervals.<br />

1 Spring Terrace Sundays<br />

We <strong>of</strong>fer four ceremonies per day during June, July,<br />

August and September. These ceremonies are very<br />

popular so you need to book early.<br />

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Important<br />

Information<br />

If you are marrying at 1 Spring Terrace but giving<br />

your notice elsewhere you must tell your local Registrar<br />

that the venue is 1 Spring Terrace, <strong>Richmond</strong> not<br />

<strong>Richmond</strong> Register Office!<br />

Provisional Bookings<br />

In <strong>Richmond</strong> you can make a provisional booking for<br />

1 Spring Terrace or Licensed Venue by telephone, letter,<br />

fax or e-mail.<br />

We will then send you information and advise you to<br />

give notice. We will keep the provisional booking for a<br />

limited period. The booking is only confirmed when<br />

you give your notices.<br />

If you give your notices in another district they will<br />

notify us and your booking will be confirmed.<br />

If you do not give notice within the given period we<br />

will cancel your booking.<br />

This is not always the same in other Register Offices<br />

and you may find you need to attend in person to<br />

make a provisional booking, or give your notices<br />

before you make a booking.<br />

On The Day<br />

Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Simon Lewis Photography<br />

Whether you are marrying in a Licensed Venue or at 1<br />

Spring Terrace you will need to see the Registrar prior<br />

to the ceremony. The Registrar will check all your<br />

details and make a note <strong>of</strong> any changes. (You may have<br />

had a birthday, moved house or changed job since you<br />

gave the notice). The Registrar will also ask for each <strong>of</strong><br />

your father’s full names and occupations.<br />

If you are marrying at 1 Spring Terrace on a week day<br />

you will also need to pay the statutory fee. For this<br />

reason we ask you to arrive 15 minutes before the time<br />

<strong>of</strong> your ceremony.<br />

Whilst you are being interviewed your guests will<br />

assemble in the ceremony room to await your arrival.<br />

If you are marrying at a Licensed Venue your fees will<br />

already have been paid. The Registrar will take this<br />

opportunity to double check your ceremony format<br />

such as confirming the names <strong>of</strong> your witnesses,<br />

readers, readings etc.<br />

Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Win Whiting<br />

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Ceremony<br />

The Superintendent Registrar will talk to you before<br />

the ceremony to check your requirements.<br />

You will each need to repeat the declaratory and<br />

contracting words, which have been in use since 1837,<br />

when the Registration Service began. These words are:<br />

“I do solemnly declare that I know not <strong>of</strong> any lawful<br />

impediment why I … may not be joined in matrimony to<br />

…”<br />

and<br />

“I call <strong>upon</strong> these persons here present to witness that I<br />

… do take thee … to be my lawful wedded<br />

husband/wife”<br />

There are shorter versions <strong>of</strong> these words available;<br />

please ask the Superintendent Registrar for further details.<br />

Music<br />

Your music will be playing while your guests are being<br />

seated and when you make your entrance, and again<br />

when you are signing the register, taking photographs<br />

and making your exit. For Spring Terrace ceremonies<br />

your music will need to be contained on one single CD.<br />

Rings<br />

Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Simon Lewis Photography<br />

You can elect to have your wedding ring(s) on a<br />

cushion (at a Licensed Venue), presented by yourselves<br />

or a member <strong>of</strong> your party. Please note: There is no ring<br />

cushion at 1 Spring Terrace.<br />

Vows/Readings<br />

You can include personal vows to each other and also<br />

invite a member <strong>of</strong> your party to give a reading (one<br />

reading at 1 Spring Terrace (but see 1 Spring Terrace<br />

Saturdays and Sundays) and up to three at a venue).<br />

Remember that your reading can have no religious<br />

connotations and cannot be from Khalil Gibran’s<br />

‘The Prophet’.<br />

Our optional vows/promises and a selection <strong>of</strong> readings<br />

are at the end <strong>of</strong> this brochure.<br />

Video<br />

You can ask a member <strong>of</strong> your party to video your<br />

entire ceremony from the moment you make your<br />

entrance. The video will need to be entirely battery<br />

operated and not require any extra lighting. We ask the<br />

video operator to remain in one position throughout<br />

the ceremony and not to move around the room, as<br />

this can be distracting both to the bride and groom as<br />

well as to the guests.<br />

Confetti<br />

We are quite happy with confetti and ask your guests to<br />

throw the confetti at the front <strong>of</strong> the building rather<br />

than in the garden, which we like to keep tidy for the<br />

benefit <strong>of</strong> all our couples. Each Licenced Venue has its<br />

own rules regarding confetti.<br />

Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> The <strong>Richmond</strong> Studio<br />

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Photography<br />

All photographs in 1 Spring Terrace are to be taken at<br />

the end <strong>of</strong> the ceremony rather than during the<br />

ceremony itself. We will give you plenty <strong>of</strong> time to take<br />

all the photographs you want at the end <strong>of</strong> the ceremony.<br />

Dress<br />

There is no dress code for weddings and couples may<br />

choose to wear the full white gowns and morning suits<br />

or even shorts and tee shirts. Most couples however do<br />

dress smartly for the ceremony, as do the Registrars.<br />

Entrance<br />

For 1 Spring Terrace ceremonies, bride and groom<br />

enter the ceremony room together (but see 1 Spring<br />

Terrace Saturdays). For Licensed Venue ceremonies the<br />

bride can make a separate entrance, as well as being<br />

“given away”.<br />

Witnesses<br />

You must provide two credible witnesses who must<br />

both be able to speak and understand English although<br />

English does not have to be their first language. They<br />

can be relatives if you wish. The Registration staff<br />

cannot act as witnesses nor can they provide witnesses<br />

for you. You must arrange for your own witnesses.<br />

Guests<br />

The ceremony room in 1 Spring Terrace has a fire and<br />

safety certificate for a maximum <strong>of</strong> 40 people and we<br />

cannot exceed this. Please ensure your guests are<br />

aware <strong>of</strong> this as we have the comfort and safety <strong>of</strong> your<br />

guests uppermost in our minds at all times. With this<br />

Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Desi Fontaine Studios<br />

in mind we will have to ask extra guests to remain<br />

outside the building as all our corridors and fire exits<br />

must be kept clear at all times.<br />

Commemorative Certificate<br />

Here at <strong>Richmond</strong> we <strong>of</strong>fer an exclusive marriage<br />

certificate incorporating the <strong>Richmond</strong> coat <strong>of</strong> arms<br />

and showing the bride and grooms names, the date<br />

and place <strong>of</strong> the ceremony as well as the witnesses<br />

names. If you would like a commemorative certificate<br />

you must remember to include your witnesses<br />

names with your request.<br />

Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Desi Fontaine Studios<br />

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Fees<br />

Fees for Licensed Venues and Spring Terrace Saturdays<br />

and Sundays need to be paid in advance,<br />

approximately 6 weeks before the ceremony. You can<br />

do this in person or by post. If you are paying by<br />

cheque you will need to send two separate cheques.<br />

One for the ceremony and a separate cheque for your<br />

certificate(s). If you are paying your fees in person you<br />

may also pay by switch or debit card. Unfortunately<br />

this is not possible for postal payments.<br />

Fees for 1 Spring Terrace Monday to Friday ceremonies<br />

are paid on the day <strong>of</strong> the ceremony either by cheque<br />

or cash (see above Saturdays). Unfortunately we<br />

cannot accept credit/debit cards on the day. All<br />

cheques should be made payable to ‘The <strong>London</strong><br />

<strong>Borough</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>Richmond</strong> <strong>upon</strong> Thames’.<br />

From 1st April 2009 – 31st March 2010<br />

Notice <strong>of</strong> Marriage £30.00*<br />

1 Spring Terrace Ceremony<br />

Monday – Thursday £40.00*<br />

Friday £65.00<br />

Saturday £130.00<br />

Sunday/Bank Holiday £230.00<br />

Licensed Venue:<br />

Monday - Friday £285.00<br />

Saturday £330.00<br />

Sunday/Bank Holiday £400.00<br />

Ceremony Booking Fee £25.00<br />

Marriage certificate £3.50*<br />

Commemorative certificate £5.00<br />

* All fees marked are set by the Government and are<br />

subject to change at any time.<br />

Notes<br />

Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Desi Fontaine Studios<br />

The information in this brochure is only intended as a<br />

guide and not a full statement <strong>of</strong> the law. Please telephone<br />

or email the <strong>Richmond</strong> Register Office for any advice.<br />

Book well in advance to secure the date and time you<br />

want. Remember you can book up to a year in advance.<br />

You must give notice at least 16 days before the date <strong>of</strong><br />

the ceremony.<br />

A notice <strong>of</strong> marriage is valid for one year from the date<br />

it is given. You both have to give notice. If you live in<br />

different districts you each have to attend your local<br />

<strong>of</strong>fice. If either one <strong>of</strong> you is subject to immigration<br />

control, you must both give notice at a designated<br />

Register Office.<br />

Make sure your documents are originals not photocopies.<br />

Remember a civil ceremony can have no religious<br />

connotations.<br />

We welcome your comments so please feel free to give<br />

us feedback.<br />

We are constantly trying to improve our services and we<br />

can only do this with your help. Don’t forget we are here<br />

to help you – any queries – please phone or e-mail us.<br />

Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Simon Lewis Photography<br />

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York House<br />

(Licensed for Civil Ceremonies-<strong>Richmond</strong>)<br />

17th Century York House includes<br />

elegant rooms for holding your marriage<br />

and reception, with gardens sweeping<br />

down the River Thames.<br />

York House,<br />

<strong>Richmond</strong> Road, Twickenham,<br />

Middlesex, TW1 3AA.<br />

Tel: 020 8831 6108<br />

Fax: 020 8891 7939<br />

Email: halls@richmond.gov.uk<br />

Web: www.richmond.gov.uk/<br />

york_house_venue_hire<br />

York House<br />

Pembroke Lodge,<br />

<strong>Richmond</strong> Park<br />

Pembroke Lodge, <strong>Richmond</strong> Park<br />

(Licensed for Civil Ceremonies-<strong>Richmond</strong>)<br />

An elegant Georgian Mansion in a unique and very<br />

beautiful setting. At Pembroke Lodge it is the views <strong>of</strong><br />

their guests that matter:<br />

“Quite simply, the best day <strong>of</strong> our lives”<br />

“We could not have wished for a more beautiful setting”<br />

“We received so many compliments from our friends<br />

and family about the venue”<br />

“The staff were so kind and helpful”<br />

“The food was amazing”<br />

“The organisation and execution <strong>of</strong> each stage <strong>of</strong> our<br />

wedding went beautifully”<br />

“A highly pr<strong>of</strong>essional and first class service”<br />

Pembroke Lodge, <strong>Richmond</strong> Park, <strong>Richmond</strong>,<br />

Surrey TW10 5HX.<br />

Tel: 020 8940 8207<br />

Fax: 020 8332 6719<br />

Email: info@pembrokelodge.co.uk<br />

Web: www.pembrokelodge.co.uk<br />

Orleans House Gallery<br />

Orleans House<br />

Gallery<br />

(Licensed for Civil Ceremonies-<strong>Richmond</strong>)<br />

The Baroque Octagon room, built in 1721,<br />

is set in preserved woodlands by the River<br />

Thames and accommodates 60 people.<br />

Orleans House Gallery,<br />

Riverside, Twickenham, Middlesex.<br />

Tel: 020 8831 6000<br />

Fax: 020 8744 0501<br />

Email: galleryinfo@richmond.gov.uk<br />

Web: www.richmond.gov.uk/<br />

orleanshouse<br />

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Bingham<br />

(Licensed for Civil Ceremonies-<br />

<strong>Richmond</strong>)<br />

The Garden Rooms at the Bingham, are<br />

a unique new riverside venue, with a<br />

large terrace leading down to the garden<br />

overlooking the Thames. This Georgian<br />

townhouse combines classic architecture<br />

with a contemporary chic style, a perfect<br />

setting for individual weddings.<br />

Accommodation is in 15 newly designed<br />

bedrooms, fabulous modern British<br />

food and a warm and friendly<br />

atmosphere. They cater for up to 150, for<br />

anything from informal BBQs to more<br />

traditional <strong>Wedding</strong> Breakfasts.<br />

Bingham,<br />

61-63 Petersham Road, <strong>Richmond</strong>,<br />

Surrey TW10 6UT.<br />

Tel: 020 8940 0902<br />

Web: www.thebingham.co.uk<br />

Bingham<br />

Coach & Horses Hotel<br />

Lensbury<br />

Lensbury<br />

(Licensed for Civil Ceremonies-<strong>Richmond</strong>)<br />

Set in 25 acres <strong>of</strong> beautiful grounds on the banks <strong>of</strong> the River<br />

Thames with five function rooms (three licensed for<br />

ceremonies), 150 bedrooms and superb leisure facilities<br />

including an award-winning Spa, it is not hard to see why<br />

this exclusive private members’ club is becoming a much<br />

sought-after venue in the area.<br />

Lensbury prides itself on personalising your event to meet<br />

your every expectation with a caring, friendly and<br />

pr<strong>of</strong>essional team who are flexible in personalising the day<br />

to meet your expectations. Call to find out more!<br />

Lensbury,<br />

Broom Road, Teddington, Middlesex TW11 9NU.<br />

Tel: 020 8614 6450<br />

Fax: 020 8614 6502<br />

Email: banqueting@lensbury.com<br />

Web: www.lensbury.com<br />

Coach and Horses Hotel<br />

(Licensed for Civil Ceremonies-<strong>Richmond</strong>)<br />

Following your civil ceremony in the beautifully light and airy<br />

Atrium, which is licensed for 60 guests, have your photographs<br />

taken with the background <strong>of</strong> the rose garden and hold your<br />

reception in the purpose built Kew Green Suite after arrival<br />

drinks in the lounge or oak panelled bar. Their experienced<br />

chef and catering staff will be pleased to design a menu <strong>of</strong> your<br />

choice and help with suggestions for your evening buffet.<br />

Finish a perfect day with you and your guests staying in the<br />

beautifully appointed bedrooms.<br />

Please speak to the Hotel Manager for complete package details.<br />

Coach and Horses Hotel,<br />

8 Kew Green, Kew, <strong>Richmond</strong>, Surrey TW9 3BH.<br />

Tel: 020 8940 1208 Fax: 020 8948 8787<br />

Email: coachandhorses@youngs.co.uk<br />

Web: www.coachhotelkew.co.uk<br />

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The <strong>Richmond</strong> Gate Hotel<br />

The <strong>Richmond</strong> Gate Hotel<br />

(Licensed for Civil Ceremonies-<strong>Richmond</strong>)<br />

The award winning 2 AA Rosette brigade <strong>of</strong> chefs have<br />

a reputation for fine dining which has made them one<br />

<strong>of</strong> the most popular wedding venues in the area. With<br />

three elegant function rooms and a beautiful airconditioned<br />

conservatory ideal for barbecues and<br />

drinks receptions, <strong>Richmond</strong> Gate Hotel is the perfect<br />

location for the smaller, intimate breakfast for up to<br />

90 guests. At <strong>Richmond</strong> Gate Hotel, the 68 en-suite<br />

bedrooms are all beautifully furnished, with the added<br />

luxury <strong>of</strong> four-poster beds also available.<br />

They pride themselves on ensuring that the entire<br />

planning and detailed arrangements slot into place<br />

with helpful advice and attentive service from the<br />

Hotels experienced staff.<br />

The <strong>Richmond</strong> Gate Hotel<br />

Tel: 020 8940 0061<br />

Email: events.richmondgate@foliohotels.com<br />

Web: www.foliohotels.com/richmondgate<br />

The <strong>Richmond</strong> Hill Hotel<br />

The <strong>Richmond</strong> Hill Hotel<br />

(Licensed for Civil Ceremonies-<strong>Richmond</strong>)<br />

The <strong>Richmond</strong> Hill Hotel is the ideal venue for your<br />

special day, with 14 function rooms catering for all<br />

your wedding requirements from small, intimate Civil<br />

Partnership ceremonies up to large <strong>Wedding</strong><br />

receptions in the grand Ballroom.<br />

There are 149 beautiful en-suite bedrooms all<br />

refurbished to the highest standard, including<br />

magnificent suites. As the day draws to a close and<br />

there is time to reflect, newly-weds can unwind in a<br />

luxuriously furnished bedroom.<br />

They know that your wedding day is one <strong>of</strong> the most<br />

important days <strong>of</strong> your life and at the <strong>Richmond</strong> Hill<br />

Hotel they will pride themselves on ensuring that it<br />

will be one you'll remember forever.<br />

The <strong>Richmond</strong> Hill Hotel<br />

Tel: 020 8940 2247<br />

Email: events.richmondhill@foliohotels.com<br />

Web: www.foliohotels.com/richmondhill<br />

The <strong>Richmond</strong> Gate Hotel<br />

The <strong>Richmond</strong> Hill Hotel<br />

Cedars Health and Leisure Club<br />

Indulge in a range <strong>of</strong> Elemis Spa therapies and let them help you<br />

prepare for your special day. Enjoy an individual treatment or select<br />

from a range <strong>of</strong> Bridal and Hen Party Day Spa packages which<br />

include use <strong>of</strong> the exclusive leisure facilities.<br />

Cedars Health and Leisure Club<br />

Cedars is nestled between its affiliated hotels, the <strong>Richmond</strong> Gate<br />

and the <strong>Richmond</strong> Hill, and guests <strong>of</strong> both hotels enjoy<br />

complimentary use <strong>of</strong> the leisure facilities.<br />

All treatments and packages are available to non-residents and non<br />

members. For bookings and enquiries call 020 8332 1010.<br />

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Ham House and Garden<br />

(Licensed for Civil Ceremonies-<strong>Richmond</strong>)<br />

Ham House and Garden<br />

Situated along a beautiful stretch <strong>of</strong> the River Thames,<br />

Ham House & Garden provide the peace and quiet <strong>of</strong> the<br />

countryside.<br />

Surrounded by 18 acres <strong>of</strong> 17th century formal gardens,<br />

Ham House was built in 1610. Greatly enlarged in the 1670s<br />

it became the favoured residence <strong>of</strong> the Duke and Duchess<br />

<strong>of</strong> Lauderdale. Mostly unchanged, it has for centuries<br />

thereafter been admired by kings, artists and politicians.<br />

In the House itself the magnificent Great Hall can host<br />

ceremonies for up to 60 guests. The Orangery garden is the<br />

ideal setting for a marquee reception while a more intimate<br />

party can be held in the oldest free standing Orangery in<br />

the country.<br />

<strong>Wedding</strong> ceremonies will always take on a special significance<br />

when held at Ham House.<br />

Ham House and Garden, Ham Street, <strong>Richmond</strong> TW10 7RS.<br />

Tel: 020 8439 8230 / 020 8439 8233<br />

Fax: 020 8439 8241<br />

Email: hamhouse@nationaltrust.org.uk<br />

Web: www.nationaltrust.org.uk/hamhouse<br />

Hampton Court House<br />

(Licensed for Civil Ceremonies-<strong>Richmond</strong>)<br />

Hampton Court House is a place <strong>of</strong> dreams. Set in 7<br />

acres <strong>of</strong> magical 18th Century gardens, HCH is a<br />

“hidden secret”.<br />

The gardens are a sensory delight; palm trees rustling in<br />

the breeze, rabbits lazing in the sun, swans gracefully<br />

gliding across the heart shaped lake.<br />

Surrounded on all sides by parkland, they <strong>of</strong>fer total<br />

exclusivity and privacy. Celebrity clients can be assured<br />

<strong>of</strong> absolute confidentiality.<br />

If you want a really special day in a very special place,<br />

call them to arrange a visit and to discuss turning your<br />

fantasy into reality.<br />

Anything is possible at Hampton Court House…<br />

Tel: 020 8614 0857<br />

Email: sarah@hamptoncourthouse.co.uk<br />

Hampton Court House<br />

The White House<br />

(Licensed for Civil Ceremonies-<strong>Richmond</strong>)<br />

Ham House and Garden<br />

This modern venue provides a reasonable priced civil<br />

marriage for 90 guests, which can be followed by a<br />

reception in the large airy hall with stage (seating 220),<br />

staffed bar and catering kitchen for use by your caterers.<br />

Up to 400 can be accommodated using additional<br />

rooms.<br />

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The White House<br />

The building is fully accessible, has a secure grassed<br />

children’s play area with safety surface, a shrub garden<br />

for photographs and 99-space free car park adjacent.<br />

Please contact<br />

The White House,<br />

45 The Avenue, Hampton, TW12 3RN<br />

Tel: 020 8979 1884<br />

Fax: 020 8979 2600


Marble Hill House<br />

(Licensed for Civil Ceremonies-<strong>Richmond</strong>)<br />

In a stunning setting in sweeping parkland beside the River<br />

Thames, this elegant 18 th century villa was once the fashionable<br />

home <strong>of</strong> Henrietta Howard, mistress <strong>of</strong> George II. With<br />

Georgian furnishings and paintings, this lovely house can host<br />

ceremonies and drinks receptions for up to 50 guests.<br />

A mahogany staircase leads up to the elegant first floor<br />

ceremonies’ room, with high south-facing windows. For your<br />

celebration drinks, a columned hall opening onto wooded<br />

grounds overlooking the river is a perfect location – especially<br />

on a summer’s afternoon.<br />

Marble Hill House,<br />

<strong>Richmond</strong> Road, Twickenham, Middlesex TW1 2NL.<br />

Tel: 020 7973 3416<br />

Web: www.english-heritage.org.uk/hospitality<br />

Email: hospitality@english-heritage.org.uk<br />

Marble Hill House<br />

The Great Room<br />

The columned Tetrastyle Hall<br />

Hampton Court Palace<br />

The Britannia Public House<br />

The Britannia is a charming traditional English pub located on<br />

Brewers Lane in the heart <strong>of</strong> <strong>Richmond</strong> between George Street<br />

and the Green. It is within easy walking distance <strong>of</strong> both the<br />

Register Office and the Train and Tube Stations. It boasts a<br />

delightful function room, with its own private bar and secluded<br />

Terrace Garden. It is an ideal venue for engagement parties or<br />

smaller more informal <strong>Wedding</strong> receptions.<br />

They cater for <strong>Wedding</strong> Breakfasts <strong>of</strong> up to 30 people or Buffets<br />

for up to 60, and all their food is prepared daily using fresh<br />

ingredients. Menus available on request. Children welcome.<br />

The Britannia Public House,<br />

5 Brewers Lane, <strong>Richmond</strong>, Surrey TW9 1HH.<br />

Tel: 020 8940 1071<br />

Email: britannia@massivepub.com<br />

The Britannia Public House<br />

Hampton Court Palace<br />

Hampton Court Palace<br />

(Licensed for Civil Ceremonies-<strong>Richmond</strong>)<br />

The majestic palace <strong>of</strong> Hampton Court has echoed with the<br />

sound <strong>of</strong> splendid celebrations and royal feasting for almost<br />

five hundred years. Why not host your own wedding reception<br />

in one <strong>of</strong> the many magnificent rooms?<br />

The Garden Room is an exclusive and enchanting venue for<br />

hosting wedding receptions. Set apart from the day visitors to<br />

the palace, this light and airy 1920s Orangery-style room <strong>of</strong>fers<br />

versatility and the opportunity to have live music and dancing,<br />

still in an amazing historic setting.<br />

Hampton Court Palace, East Molesey, Surrey KT8 9AU.<br />

Tel: 020 3166 6507<br />

Email: hamptoncourtpalaceevents@hrp.org.uk<br />

Web: www.hrp.org.uk<br />

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Grove House<br />

(License pending for Civil Ceremonies)<br />

With beautiful listed grounds including a lake, lily pond and<br />

landscaped gardens, this 18 th Century house <strong>of</strong>fers a magnificent<br />

setting for your wedding day. There are endless opportunities<br />

for lovely wedding photographs. The House can accommodate<br />

up to 120 guests for dining and marquees can be erected in the<br />

stunning grounds.<br />

Please contact them for more information or to arrange<br />

a viewing:<br />

Tel: 020 8392 8100<br />

Email: conferences@roehampton.ac.uk<br />

Parkstead House<br />

(Licensed for Civil Ceremonies with Wandsworth Council)<br />

With spectacular views <strong>of</strong> neighbouring <strong>Richmond</strong> Park from a<br />

Grade I listed Georgian Villa, this venue is truly an elegant and<br />

romantic setting for your wedding day. With sweeping<br />

staircases, courtyards, balconies, vast grounds for marquees and<br />

the grand Manresa Hall with majestic domed ceilings – the<br />

possibilities are endless...<br />

Please contact them on:<br />

Tel: 020 8392 3505<br />

Email: info@parksteadhouse.co.uk<br />

Web: www.parksteadhouse.co.uk<br />

Grove House<br />

WWT <strong>London</strong> Wetland Centre<br />

WWT <strong>London</strong><br />

Wetland Centre<br />

(Civil Ceremonies licence pending-<strong>Richmond</strong>)<br />

Just 25 minutes from Westminster is the <strong>London</strong><br />

Wetland Centre – 100 acres <strong>of</strong> beautiful lakes, pools and<br />

wildlife in Barnes SW13. This combination <strong>of</strong> beautiful<br />

surroundings, central location (Zone 2) and free on-site<br />

parking makes it the ideal venue for wedding and civil<br />

partnership receptions.<br />

All rooms benefit from natural daylight and spectacular<br />

views over the reserve.<br />

Enjoy a glass <strong>of</strong> champagne while watching the sunset<br />

over the water followed by fine food and dancing till late.<br />

WWT <strong>London</strong> Wetland Centre,<br />

Queen Elizabeth’s Walk, Barnes SW13 9WT.<br />

Tel: 0870 141 3744<br />

Email: functions.london@wwt.org.uk<br />

Web: www.wwt.org.uk<br />

WWT <strong>London</strong> Wetland Centre<br />

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Parkstead House


The Dysart Arms<br />

The Dysart Arms<br />

A family owned historic country inn with bar and restaurants,<br />

The Dysart Arms is newly refurbished bringing back to life its<br />

original Arts and Crafts features with a contemporary style.<br />

Surrounded by trees in Petersham village, yet a brief car ride<br />

from the Register Office, their Private Dining Rooms are<br />

beautifully decorated and, with a private balcony overlooking<br />

<strong>Richmond</strong> Park, are a fantastic place to celebrate. There is a<br />

large car park.<br />

Head Chef Andrew Doherty cooks delicate Modern European<br />

cuisine, <strong>of</strong>fering a diverse range <strong>of</strong> dishes and canapés.<br />

Whether it's breakfast, lunch, dinner or all three, The Dysart<br />

Arms is the ideal place to celebrate any special occasion.<br />

The Dysart Arms,<br />

135 Petersham Road, <strong>Richmond</strong>,<br />

Surrey TW10 7AA.<br />

Tel: 020 8940 8005<br />

Email: enquiries@thedysartarms.co.uk<br />

Web: www.thedysartarms.co.uk<br />

Fine Jewellery<br />

Susan Clarke<br />

Susan Clarke<br />

Make the choosing <strong>of</strong> your most important jewellery an<br />

occasion to remember.<br />

Susan Clarke is an established, independent jeweller, located in<br />

the historic and charming Paved Court, just <strong>of</strong>f <strong>Richmond</strong> Green.<br />

They sell all types <strong>of</strong> 18ct gold, platinum and diamond<br />

jewellery, but their reputation is based on their distinctive<br />

collection <strong>of</strong> engagement and wedding rings, designed and<br />

handmade in their workshops, in both classic and imaginative<br />

contemporary styles.<br />

Their pr<strong>of</strong>essional sales staff take pride in providing friendly<br />

and sympathetic guidance in comfortable, attractive surroundings.<br />

They look forward to welcoming you soon.<br />

Susan Clarke - Fine Jewellery, 11 Paved Court,<br />

<strong>Richmond</strong>-Upon-Thames, Surrey, TW9 1LZ.<br />

Tel: 020 8948 6057 Fax: 020 8332 9080<br />

Email: sclarkeltd@onetel.com<br />

Web: www.sclarkeltd.co.uk<br />

On your special day.<br />

Bacco Restaurant<br />

Bacco Restaurant<br />

Celebrate your wedding reception at Vinoteca. You and your<br />

guests can enjoy great food, amazing wine and a truly<br />

memorable experience. There is a private dining space for up to<br />

28 people and let the chef create your own bespoke menu.<br />

For bookings call: 020 8332 0348<br />

Email: bookings@bacco-restaurant.co.uk<br />

Web: www.bacco-restaurant.co.uk<br />

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Simon Lewis Photography<br />

Simon Lewis Photography<br />

Specialising in reportage style photography capturing the<br />

essence and special moments <strong>of</strong> your day, Simon Lewis’ photo<br />

shoots are fun and relaxing, rather than formal and dictatorial.<br />

A member <strong>of</strong> the Association <strong>of</strong> Photographers, he has 27<br />

years pr<strong>of</strong>essional experience and his award winning work<br />

has been exhibited in the UK’s top galleries.<br />

Competitive packages range from small and intimate to the<br />

grandest and most elaborate. He supplies prints <strong>of</strong><br />

outstanding quality in colour, black & white or specialist<br />

sepia effects.<br />

Simon Lewis Photography<br />

Tel: 020 8744 9779<br />

Mob: 07860 23 55 44<br />

Email: mail@simonlewisphotography.com<br />

Web: www.simonlewisphotography.com/weddings<br />

Desi Fontaine Studios<br />

Contemporary wedding photography by an award<br />

winning lady photographer.<br />

Whilst presenting her own individual style, Desi<br />

will adapt to the photographic requirements <strong>of</strong> the<br />

bride and groom in order to create a series <strong>of</strong> images<br />

that reflects the real story <strong>of</strong> their day.<br />

Far from being a pressurised part <strong>of</strong> the wedding<br />

day itself, she will ensure that the photography will<br />

be relaxed and a lot <strong>of</strong> fun while maintaining a high<br />

level <strong>of</strong> pr<strong>of</strong>essionalism.<br />

From the grand affair wedding to the smallest and<br />

most intimate, Desi will present an album <strong>of</strong><br />

photographs to keep alive the memories <strong>of</strong> this<br />

special day.<br />

Desi Fontaine is a Fellow <strong>of</strong> both the Master<br />

Photographers Association and the British Institute<br />

<strong>of</strong> Pr<strong>of</strong>essional Photography.<br />

Desi Fontaine Studios,<br />

The Coach House, 25 Blandford Road,<br />

Teddington TW11 0LF.<br />

Tel: 020 8943 3333<br />

Mob: 07768 516 027<br />

Web: www.desifontaine.co.uk<br />

Desi Fontaine Studios<br />

Thomas Photography<br />

Caroline Thomas is an experienced wedding<br />

photographer. Her enthusiasm and dedication are<br />

exactly what you need to ensure you have<br />

exceptional photographic memories <strong>of</strong> your big day.<br />

Thomas Photography<br />

Caroline will take a range <strong>of</strong> candid and formal<br />

shots in an unobtrusive and pr<strong>of</strong>essional manner.<br />

Her friendly personality will put you and your guests<br />

at ease, capturing the smiles and excitement <strong>of</strong> the<br />

day and resulting in wonderful heart-felt photographs.<br />

Tel: 07790 152 427<br />

Email: thomasphotography@fsmail.net<br />

Web: www.thomasphotography.co.uk<br />

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The Conservatory<br />

Michelle and her team will create the<br />

most wonderful flowers, whether you<br />

choose a small and intimate affair, a<br />

grand and lavish banquet, something<br />

highly traditional or completely<br />

contemporary.<br />

With a love <strong>of</strong> flowers and a friendly<br />

approach The Conservatory will create<br />

floral designs especially for you.<br />

They invite you to view their portfolios<br />

and discuss your ideas, which they will<br />

follow up with a written estimate and<br />

samples, enabling them to provide you<br />

with the perfect flowers for your special<br />

day.<br />

The Conservatory<br />

Tel: 020 8940 2265<br />

Email: michelle@theconservatoryuk.com<br />

Web: www.theconservatoryuk.com<br />

photo by Philip Nash www.nash.net<br />

Pam Wrigley<br />

Make-up Artist/Hair Stylist<br />

Be confident <strong>of</strong> beautiful make-up and hair.<br />

Pam is a fully qualified make-up artist and<br />

hair stylist with over 12 years experience<br />

in both the Fashion and Film industry.<br />

She now specialises in creating beautiful<br />

make-up and hair for weddings. Pam<br />

provides a friendly, helpful and<br />

pr<strong>of</strong>essional service. You can find lots <strong>of</strong><br />

information on her website:<br />

www.weddingmakeupandhair.com<br />

Or contact Pam on 020 8742 1994 or<br />

07720 300062 to arrange your trial run.<br />

The Gift List<br />

John Lewis<br />

Make your wish list come true.<br />

So you've made the decision and set the<br />

date. Whether you're planning a traditional<br />

white wedding or a civil partnership, now<br />

is the fun part - selecting your gifts.<br />

Opening a Gift List at John Lewis is easy<br />

and the service is free. You can register in<br />

person, by calling 020 8547 4560 or<br />

online at johnlewisgiftlist.com<br />

John Lewis,<br />

Wood Street, Kingston <strong>upon</strong> Thames,<br />

Surrey KT1 1TE.<br />

Tel: 020 8547 3000<br />

Web: johnlewis.com/kingston<br />

The Gift List John Lewis<br />

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Body Experience<br />

Body Experience<br />

Body Experience<br />

… a unique Health & Lifestyle Day Spa<br />

Offers you CRESCENDO the ultimate journey for the<br />

Bride-To-Be.<br />

Based on an initial complimentary consultation they will<br />

design a package suited individually to your needs, skin type<br />

and stress levels in order to prepare you for your big day.<br />

They <strong>of</strong>fer a comprehensive range <strong>of</strong> lifestyle solutions from<br />

bridal make-up to facials and body treatments that promote<br />

harmony, balance and well-being.<br />

Coming soon – in May 2008 they will be launching a state <strong>of</strong><br />

the art medi spa <strong>of</strong>fering the latest in skin rejuvenation<br />

treatments for face and body, please inquire for further details.<br />

Hen parties can also be arranged.<br />

Voted one <strong>of</strong> the UK’s top 5 Day Spas by goodspaguide.co.uk<br />

Body Experience,<br />

50 Hill Rise, <strong>Richmond</strong>-Upon-Thames TW10 6UB.<br />

Tel: 020 8334 9999<br />

Email: revive@bodyexperience.co.uk<br />

Web: www.bodyexperience.co.uk<br />

<strong>Wedding</strong> Videography<br />

Confetti TV<br />

As a Master Member <strong>of</strong> the Institute <strong>of</strong> Videography and locally<br />

established for 20 years Confetti TV know that you only have<br />

one chance to get it right. With HD Filming, Broadcast Quality<br />

Editing, DVD Production, Internet Hosting, and iPod<br />

Highlights their experienced team create a bespoke service for<br />

any ceremony.<br />

Contact: Alan Benns<br />

Tel: 020 8943 2666<br />

Email: mail@confettitv.co.uk<br />

Web: www.confettitv.co.uk<br />

Confetti TV<br />

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Readings<br />

An Apache Indian Prayer<br />

May the sun bring you new energy by day;<br />

May the moon s<strong>of</strong>tly restore you by night,<br />

May the rain wash away your worries<br />

And the breeze blow new strength into your being.<br />

All the days <strong>of</strong> your life may you walk gently<br />

through the world and know its beauty.<br />

Now you will feel no rain,<br />

For each <strong>of</strong> you will be shelter for the other.<br />

Now you will feel no cold,<br />

For each <strong>of</strong> you will be warmth for the other.<br />

Now there will be no more loneliness,<br />

For each <strong>of</strong> you will be companion for the other.<br />

Now you are two persons,<br />

But there are three lives before you:<br />

His life, her life, and your life together.<br />

Go now to your dwelling place<br />

To enter into the long days <strong>of</strong> your life together.<br />

May beauty surround you both<br />

In the journey ahead through all the years.<br />

May happiness be your companion<br />

To the place where the river meets the sun,<br />

And may your days together<br />

Be good and long <strong>upon</strong> this earth.<br />

A Marriage, Mark Twain<br />

A marriage makes <strong>of</strong> two fractional lives a whole,<br />

It gives two purposeless lives a work,<br />

and doubles the strength <strong>of</strong> each to perform it.<br />

It gives to two questioning natures a reason for<br />

living and something to live for.<br />

It will give new gladness to the sunshine,<br />

a new fragrance to the flowers, a new beauty to<br />

the earth and a new mystery to life.<br />

A Walled Garden<br />

Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> G. Thorburn<br />

“Your marriage”, he said, “should have within it a secret<br />

and protected place, open to you alone.<br />

Imagine it to be a walled garden, entered by a door to<br />

which only you have the key.<br />

Within this garden you will cease to be a mother, father,<br />

employee, homemaker or any other roles which you fulfil<br />

in daily life.<br />

Here you are yourselves, two people who love each other.<br />

Here you can concentrate on one another’s needs”,<br />

So take my hand and let us go back to our garden.<br />

The time we spend together is not wasted but invested.<br />

Invested in our future and the nurture <strong>of</strong> our love.<br />

Extract from Captain Corelli’s Mandolin<br />

(The advice a father gives his daughter when she is<br />

thinking about marriage) Louis de Berniere<br />

Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like a volcano and<br />

then it subsides. And when it subsides you have to make<br />

a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have<br />

so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you<br />

should ever part. Because this is what love is.<br />

Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not<br />

the promulgation <strong>of</strong> promises <strong>of</strong> eternal passion, it is not<br />

the desire to mate every second minute <strong>of</strong> the day. No,<br />

don’t blush, I am telling you some truths. That is just<br />

being ‘in love’ which any fool can do. Love itself is what<br />

is left over when being ‘in love’ has burned away, and this<br />

is both an art and a fortunate accident.<br />

Your mother and I had it. We had roots that grew towards<br />

each other underground, and when all the pretty<br />

blossom had fallen from our branches we found that we<br />

were one tree not two. But sometimes the petals fall away<br />

and the roots have not entwined. Imagine giving up your<br />

home and your people, only to discover that after six<br />

months, a year, three years, that the trees have no roots<br />

and have fallen over.<br />

Imagine the desolation. Imagine the imprisonment.<br />

Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Simon Lewis Photography<br />

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After the Lunch,<br />

Wendy Cope<br />

On Waterloo Bridge, where we said our goodbyes,<br />

The weather conditions bring tears to my eyes.<br />

I wipe them away with a black woolly glove<br />

And try not to notice I’ve fallen in love.<br />

On Waterloo Bridge I am trying to think:<br />

This is nothing. You’re high on charm and drink.<br />

But the jukebox inside me is playing a song<br />

That says something different and when was it wrong?<br />

On Waterloo Bridge with the wind in my hair<br />

I am tempted to skip. You’re a fool. I don’t care.<br />

The head does it’s best but the heart is the boss –<br />

I admit it before I am halfway across.<br />

I carry your heart with me,<br />

e. e. cummins<br />

I carry your heart with me<br />

(I carry it in my heart)<br />

I am never without it<br />

(anywhere I go you go, my dear;<br />

and whatever is done by only me<br />

is your doing, my darling)<br />

I fear no fate<br />

(for you are my fate, my sweet)<br />

I want no world<br />

(for beautiful you are my world, my true)<br />

and it’s you are whatever a moon has always meant<br />

and whatever a sun will always sing is you<br />

here is the deepest secret nobody knows<br />

(here is the root <strong>of</strong> the root and the sky <strong>of</strong> the sky <strong>of</strong> a<br />

tree called life,<br />

which grows higher than soul can hope or mind can<br />

hide)<br />

and this is the wonder that’s keeping the stars apart.<br />

I carry your heart<br />

(I carry it in my heart)<br />

The First Day, Christina Rossetti<br />

I wish I could remember the first day,<br />

first hour, first moment <strong>of</strong> your meeting me,<br />

If bright or dim the season, it might be<br />

summer or winter for aught I can say,<br />

so unrecorded did it slip away.<br />

So blind was I to see and foresee,<br />

so dull to mark the budding <strong>of</strong> my tree<br />

that would not blossom yet for many a May.<br />

If only I could recollect it, such<br />

a day <strong>of</strong> days! I let it come and go<br />

as traceless as a thaw <strong>of</strong> bygone snow;<br />

It seemed to mean so little, meant so much;<br />

If only now I could recall that touch,<br />

first touch <strong>of</strong> hand in hand – did one but know!<br />

I knew that I had been touched by love<br />

I knew that I had been touched by love the first<br />

time that I saw you, and felt your warmth and<br />

heard your laughter.<br />

I knew that I had been touched by love when I was<br />

hurting from something that happened, and you came<br />

along and made the hurt go away.<br />

I knew that I had been touched by love when I quit<br />

making plans with my friends and starting Dreaming<br />

dreams with you.<br />

I knew that I had been touched by love when suddenly I<br />

couldn’t make any decisions by myself any more, and I<br />

had the strong desire to share everything with you.<br />

I knew that I had been touched by love the first time we<br />

spent alone together, and I knew that I wanted to stay<br />

with you forever because - I had never felt this touched<br />

by love.<br />

Sonnet from the Portuguese,<br />

Elizabeth Barrett Browning<br />

How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.<br />

I love thee to the depth and breadth and height<br />

my soul can reach, when feeling out <strong>of</strong> sight<br />

for the ends <strong>of</strong> being and ideal grace.<br />

I love thee to the level <strong>of</strong> every day’s most quiet<br />

need, by sun and candlelight.<br />

I love thee freely, as men strive for right,<br />

I love thee purely, as they turn from praise.<br />

I love thee with the fervour put to use<br />

In my old griefs and with my childhood’s faith…<br />

I love thee with a love I seemed to lose with my<br />

lost youth,<br />

I love thy breath, smiles, tears <strong>of</strong> all<br />

my life – and if fate choose,<br />

I shall but love thee better after death.<br />

Sonnet 18, William Shakespeare<br />

Shall I compare thee to a summer’s day?<br />

Thou art more lovely and more temperate;<br />

Rough winds do shake the darling buds <strong>of</strong> May,<br />

And summer’s lease hath all too short a date:<br />

Sometimes too the eye <strong>of</strong> heaven shines,<br />

And <strong>of</strong>ten is his golden complexion dimmed;<br />

And every fair from fair sometime declines.<br />

By chance, or nature’s changing course untrimmed:<br />

But thy eternal summer shall not fade.<br />

Nor lose possession <strong>of</strong> that fair thou ow’st<br />

Nor shall death brag thou wander’st in his shade<br />

When in eternal lines to time thou growest.<br />

So long as men can breathe or eyes can see.<br />

So long lives this, and this gives life to thee.<br />

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Marriage joins two people in the circle <strong>of</strong> its<br />

Love, Edmund O’Neill<br />

Marriage is a commitment to life, the best that two<br />

people can find and bring out in each other. It <strong>of</strong>fers<br />

opportunities for sharing and growth that no other<br />

relationship can equal. It is a physical and an emotional<br />

joining that is promised for a lifetime.<br />

Within the circle <strong>of</strong> its love, marriage encompasses all <strong>of</strong><br />

life’s most important relationships. A wife and a<br />

husband are each other’s best friend, confident, lover,<br />

teacher, listener and critic.<br />

Marriage understands and forgives the mistakes life is<br />

unable to avoid. It encourages and nurtures new life,<br />

new experiences and new ways <strong>of</strong> expressing a love that is<br />

deeper than life.<br />

When two people pledge their love and care for each<br />

other in marriage, they create a spirit unique unto<br />

themselves which binds them closer than any spoken or<br />

written words. Marriage is a promise, a potential made in<br />

the hearts <strong>of</strong> two people who love each other and takes a<br />

lifetime to fulfil.<br />

I Promise, Dorothy R. Colgan<br />

I promise to give you the best <strong>of</strong> myself<br />

And to ask no more than you can give.<br />

I promise to respect you as your own person<br />

and to realise that your needs are no less<br />

important than my own.<br />

I promise to share with you my time<br />

and my attention and to bring joy,<br />

strength and imagination to our relationship.<br />

I promise to keep myself open to you,<br />

to let you see through the window <strong>of</strong> my<br />

world into my innermost fears and feelings,<br />

secrets and dreams.<br />

I promise to grow along with you,<br />

to be willing to face changes in order<br />

to keep our relationship alive and exciting.<br />

I promise to love you in good times and in bad,<br />

with all I have to give and all I feel inside<br />

in the only way I know how,<br />

completely and forever.<br />

Flowers, Wendy Cope<br />

Some men never think <strong>of</strong> it,<br />

You did, you’d come along and say<br />

you’d nearly bought me flowers,<br />

but something had gone wrong,<br />

the shop was closed or you had doubts -<br />

The thoughts that minds like ours dream up incessantly,<br />

you thought I might not want your flowers.<br />

It made me smile and hug you then,<br />

Now I can only smile.<br />

But look, the flowers you nearly bought<br />

Have lasted all this while!<br />

<strong>Wedding</strong> Day<br />

Now comes the knitting, the tying,<br />

the entwining into one,<br />

Mysterious involvement <strong>of</strong> two, whole separate people.<br />

Into something altogether strange and changing,<br />

new and lovely.<br />

Nothing can ever be, we will never be, the same again.<br />

Not merged into each other irrevocably, but rather<br />

from now on we go the same way, in the same direction,<br />

agreeing not to leave each other lonely, or discouraged, or<br />

behind.<br />

I will do my best to keep my promises to you and<br />

keep you warm.<br />

And we will make our bed beneath the bright and ragged<br />

quilt <strong>of</strong> all the yesterdays that make us who we are.<br />

The strengths and frailties we bring to this marriage are<br />

the very things that will make us rich indeed.<br />

When you are old, W.B. Yeats<br />

Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Thomas Photography<br />

When you are old and grey and full <strong>of</strong> sleep,<br />

and nodding by the fire, take down this book,<br />

and slowly read, and dream <strong>of</strong> the s<strong>of</strong>t look<br />

Your eyes had once, and <strong>of</strong> their shadows deep;<br />

How many loved your moments <strong>of</strong> glad grace,<br />

And loved your beauty with love false or true,<br />

but one man loved the pilgrim soul in you,<br />

and loved the sorrows <strong>of</strong> your changing face;<br />

Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Win Whiting<br />

And bending down beside the glowing bars,<br />

murmur, a little sadly, how love fled<br />

and paced <strong>upon</strong> the mountains overhead<br />

and hid his face amid a crowd <strong>of</strong> stars.<br />

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Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Thomas Photography<br />

Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Desi Fontaine Studios<br />

Quick Checklist<br />

Check availability and book date.<br />

Give “Notices” – no more than 1 year in<br />

advance, no less than 17 days.<br />

Pay fees – 6 weeks before ceremony for Licensed<br />

Venues and 1 Spring Terrace Saturdays and<br />

Sundays (1 Spring Terrace weekdays – pay on<br />

the day).<br />

Send in the format form (in back <strong>of</strong> brochure)<br />

6 weeks before ceremony.<br />

Commemorative certificate – notify us <strong>of</strong><br />

witnesses names.<br />

Framework <strong>of</strong><br />

Ceremony<br />

Welcome<br />

Registration Address<br />

Reading<br />

Declaratory Words<br />

Contracting Words<br />

Exchange <strong>of</strong> Rings<br />

Vows<br />

Reading<br />

Signing the Register<br />

Ceremony Conclusion<br />

(Only one reading at 1 Spring Terrace on weekdays)<br />

Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Simon Lewis Photography<br />

Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Win Whiting<br />

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Optional Vows<br />

& Promises<br />

You may wish to enhance your ceremony by saying<br />

some vows to one another. Below are options for you<br />

to choose. You do not have to say the same thing to<br />

one another. Please let us know your choices by<br />

including the number(s) on your booking form.<br />

1. I promise to care for you, to remain true to you,<br />

to be your friend and above all to love and<br />

respect you always.<br />

2. I promise to love and care for you and to stand<br />

by your side whatever the future may bring.<br />

3. I promise to share with you all the good times<br />

and the bad times, to be your friend, support<br />

and companion and to love and respect you<br />

always.<br />

Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Simon Lewis Photography<br />

4. I promise to laugh with you in joy, to grieve with<br />

you in sorrow, to be faithful to you and to love<br />

and respect you always.<br />

5. I promise to be there for you when you need me,<br />

to share your worries and your doubts and to<br />

always be the one person you can truly rely on.<br />

6. I promise to be loving, loyal and faithful to you<br />

for the rest <strong>of</strong> our lives.<br />

7. I promise to love and support you, to respect<br />

you as your own person and to cherish you until<br />

the end <strong>of</strong> our days.<br />

8. I promise to love and care for you, cherish and<br />

respect you, and to be there for you when you<br />

need me.<br />

9. I promise to love and care for you through<br />

fortune and misfortune and to be your true<br />

friend always and forever.<br />

If you like the sentiments <strong>of</strong> the above options but do<br />

not wish to say the words, you can respond together<br />

“We Will” to the following paragraph.<br />

In the presence <strong>of</strong> your family and friends do you<br />

promise to love and care for one another, to share the<br />

difficult times as well as the happy times and will you<br />

stay together as a married couple for your entire lives?<br />

Photo courtesy <strong>of</strong> Simon Lewis Photography<br />

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Venues Licensed for<br />

Civil <strong>Wedding</strong> Ceremonies in <strong>Richmond</strong><br />

The Bingham Hotel<br />

61-63 Petersham Road<br />

<strong>Richmond</strong><br />

Tel: 020 8940 0902<br />

Fax: 020 8948 8737<br />

Email:<br />

reservations@binghamhotel.co.uk<br />

Cambridge Cottage,<br />

Kew Green, Kew, <strong>London</strong>, TW9 3AB<br />

Tel: 020 8332 5641<br />

Fax: 020 8332 5632<br />

Email: weddings@kew.org<br />

Carlton Mitre Hotel<br />

Hampton Court Road<br />

Hampton Court<br />

Tel: 020 8979 9988<br />

Fax: 020 8979 9777<br />

Email: mitre@carltonhotels.co.uk<br />

The Coach and Horses<br />

8 Kew Green, Kew<br />

Tel: 020 8940 1208<br />

Fax: 020 8948 8787<br />

Email:<br />

coachandhorses@youngs.co.uk<br />

Ham House<br />

Ham, <strong>Richmond</strong><br />

Tel: 020 8332 6644<br />

Fax: 020 8332 6903<br />

Email:<br />

hamhouse@nationaltrust.org.uk<br />

Ham Polo Club<br />

Petersham Road, <strong>Richmond</strong><br />

Tel: 020 8334 0001<br />

Fax: 020 8948 8443<br />

Email: nick@hunt-kendall.com<br />

Hampton Court House<br />

Hampton Court Road<br />

Hampton Court<br />

Tel: 020 8943 0889<br />

Fax: 020 8977 5357<br />

Email:<br />

sarah@hamptoncourthouse.co.uk<br />

Hampton Court Palace<br />

Hampton Court<br />

Tel: 020 8781 9508<br />

Fax: 020 8977 5357<br />

Email: events@hrp.org.uk<br />

Lensbury<br />

Broom Road, Teddington<br />

Tel: 020 8614 6450<br />

Fax: 020 8614 6502<br />

Email:<br />

conference.reception@lensbury.com<br />

Liongate Hotel<br />

Hampton Court Road<br />

Hampton Court<br />

Tel: 020 8977 8121<br />

Fax: 020 8943 4029<br />

Email:<br />

lionres@dhillonhotels.co.uk<br />

Marble Hill House<br />

<strong>Richmond</strong> Road, Twickenham<br />

Tel: 020 7973 3534<br />

Fax: 020 7973 3443<br />

Email: hospitality@englishheritage.org.uk<br />

Old Sorting Office<br />

19-21 Station Road, Barnes<br />

Tel: 020 8876 9885 or<br />

020 8748 6483<br />

Email: info@osoarts.org.uk<br />

Orleans House Gallery<br />

Riverside, Twickenham<br />

Tel: 020 8831 6000<br />

Fax: 020 8744 0501<br />

Email:<br />

galleryinfo@richmond.gov.uk<br />

Pembroke Lodge<br />

<strong>Richmond</strong> Park, <strong>Richmond</strong><br />

Tel: 020 8940 8207<br />

Fax: 020 8332 6719<br />

Email:<br />

info@pembroke-lodge.co.uk<br />

Petersham Hotel<br />

Nightingale Lane, <strong>Richmond</strong><br />

Tel: 020 8940 7471<br />

Fax: 020 8939 1098<br />

Email: enq@petershamhotel.co.uk<br />

<strong>Richmond</strong> Gate Hotel<br />

<strong>Richmond</strong> Hill, <strong>Richmond</strong><br />

Tel: 020 8940 0061<br />

Fax: 020 8332 0354<br />

Email: events.richmondgate@<br />

foliohotels.com<br />

<strong>Richmond</strong> Hill Hotel<br />

<strong>Richmond</strong> Hill, <strong>Richmond</strong><br />

Tel: 020 8940 2247<br />

Fax: 020 8940 5424<br />

Email: events.richmondhill@<br />

foliohotels.com<br />

<strong>Richmond</strong> Theatre<br />

The Green, <strong>Richmond</strong><br />

Tel: 020 8940 0088<br />

Fax: 020 8948 3601<br />

Email: richmondbox<strong>of</strong>fice@<br />

theambassadors.com<br />

Rugby Football Union Stadium<br />

Rugby Road, Twickenham<br />

Tel: 020 8892 2000<br />

Fax: 020 8892 9816<br />

White House Community<br />

Association<br />

45 The Avenue, Hampton<br />

Tel: 020 8979 1884<br />

Fax: 020 8979 2600<br />

Email: maureen@whcafsnet.co.uk<br />

York House<br />

<strong>Richmond</strong> Road, Twickenham<br />

Tel: 020 8831 6108<br />

Fax: 020 8891 7939<br />

Email:<br />

j.pattenden@richmond.gov.uk<br />

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<strong>Richmond</strong> <strong>upon</strong> Thames Register Office<br />

1 Spring Terrace, Paradise Road, <strong>Richmond</strong>, Surrey TW9 1LW.<br />

Opening Hours 9.00 – 12.00 noon and 1.30 – 4.00 Monday to Friday<br />

Closed Wednesday Afternoon<br />

Tel: 020 8940 2853 / 2651 Fax: 020 8940 8226<br />

Email: register<strong>of</strong>fice@richmond.gov.uk<br />

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