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“...<strong>the</strong>re are<br />
lots <strong>of</strong> ancient<br />
tree circles,<br />
used by <strong>the</strong><br />
Druids. We<br />
were driving<br />
past one. He<br />
stopped <strong>the</strong> car<br />
and <strong>the</strong> next<br />
thing I knew<br />
he’d dragged<br />
me out, into<br />
<strong>the</strong> trees.”<br />
www.jesus.org.uk<br />
– physically.”<br />
As Jacqui talks, <strong>the</strong> room seems to darken.<br />
She tells me how, over <strong>the</strong> months, Dan<br />
used <strong>the</strong> ritual as a pretext to try and push<br />
Jacqui to have sex with him. As Jacqui<br />
resisted (“I was married and just saw it as<br />
wrong”) things “started to get nasty”. Dan<br />
became threatening, cornering Jacqui when<br />
he knew she was on her own. Jacqui decided<br />
she “wanted out” <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> coven.<br />
“It was about this time, just when things<br />
were getting really heavy, that I found <strong>the</strong><br />
<strong>Jesus</strong> Fellowship’s glass mug,” recalls<br />
Jacqui, smiling faintly. “It reminded me; like<br />
a message, almost. I got in touch again, after<br />
many years, via <strong>the</strong> <strong>Jesus</strong> <strong>Army</strong> forum on<br />
<strong>the</strong> web.”<br />
Meanwhile, things got heavier and<br />
heavier with Dan.<br />
“It was early February. I remember it had<br />
been snowing. Dan had given me an ultimatum<br />
to do what he wanted by a particular<br />
pagan festival called Imbolc. I’d dropped<br />
<strong>the</strong> kids <strong>of</strong>f to school and Dan turned up in<br />
<strong>the</strong> car and I got in; a great mistake.”<br />
Jacqui takes a deep breath. “Round where<br />
we lived <strong>the</strong>re are lots <strong>of</strong> ancient tree circles,<br />
used by <strong>the</strong> Druids. We were driving past<br />
one. He stopped <strong>the</strong> car and <strong>the</strong> next thing I<br />
knew he’d dragged me out, into <strong>the</strong> trees.”<br />
Her description <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> rape that followed<br />
is muffled by tears; Jacqui’s horror <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />
memory is palpable.<br />
“I couldn’t tell anyone. I couldn’t report<br />
it to <strong>the</strong> police. It’s difficult to explain, <strong>the</strong><br />
whole coven secrecy thing. I’d taken various<br />
oaths...” Jacqui’s voice is very quiet. She<br />
adds: “And, for me, it was like <strong>the</strong> pact <strong>of</strong><br />
silence I’d experienced as a child about <strong>the</strong><br />
abuse. I guess I’d been <strong>the</strong>re before.”<br />
Trapped in silence, Jacqui was sure about<br />
one thing: she wanted to get right out <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />
coven. But who to turn to? Jacqui’s recently<br />
renewed friendship with people in <strong>the</strong> <strong>Jesus</strong><br />
Fellowship, via <strong>the</strong> web forum, became a<br />
lifeline.<br />
“Eventually, I went to stay at a <strong>Jesus</strong><br />
Fellowship house for a few days. I didn’t<br />
say much about what I was going through,<br />
but <strong>the</strong> friendship really helped – and I was<br />
finding my way to real faith in <strong>Jesus</strong>” Jacqui<br />
says. “It was at that time that I found out<br />
about Jimmy’s affair as well – so I certainly<br />
needed support!”<br />
Her friends in <strong>the</strong> <strong>Jesus</strong> Fellowship,<br />
toge<strong>the</strong>r with a determination to stay<br />
strong “for my kids” gave Jacqui fight. After<br />
a number <strong>of</strong> o<strong>the</strong>r threatening incidents<br />
involving Dan, she decided to take action:<br />
she told Dan she was going to <strong>the</strong> police.<br />
Not long after that Jacqui heard he was<br />
moving away. The nightmare was coming<br />
to an end.<br />
“I still had threatening and abusive messages<br />
online for a while after Dan moved,”<br />
remembers Jacqui, “but from <strong>the</strong>n on I<br />
became much more involved with <strong>the</strong> <strong>Jesus</strong><br />
<strong>Army</strong>. I was getting stronger in myself.”<br />
Slowly Jacqui found herself getting restored<br />
and healed – and deepening in faith<br />
towards <strong>Jesus</strong>. “I don’t trust quick, sudden<br />
dramatic changes” she says. “They can be<br />
quickly, suddenly reversed!<br />
“But I found that <strong>Jesus</strong> is a friend; a friend<br />
who is for you even if you mess up.” In early<br />
2006, Jacqui was baptised as a Christian.<br />
“It felt like I’d come through <strong>the</strong> wilderness<br />
and out <strong>the</strong> o<strong>the</strong>r side.” Jacqui smiles. “Now<br />
I had a new chance to get life <strong>the</strong> right way<br />
round!”<br />
I ask her what her message is to those<br />
who might be trapped in similar occult or<br />
abusive situations. “Get out <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> secrecy”<br />
she replies, “whatever has happened. And<br />
whatever you’ve done, <strong>the</strong>re’s always room<br />
for you with God.”<br />
What a lovely woman I think, as I reach<br />
for yet ano<strong>the</strong>r choc biscuit.<br />
JL<br />
Names have been changed<br />
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