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Child protection for Young People - Sport Across Staffordshire

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KEY CONTACTS<br />

All sports organisations should have a designated child<br />

<strong>protection</strong>/welfare officer who you can talk to. They are<br />

the first point of contact if you have any concerns.<br />

If you want to talk over any concerns with someone<br />

outside your club/organisation you can contact the NSPCC<br />

Helpline, <strong>Child</strong>Line.or the <strong>Child</strong> Protection in <strong>Sport</strong> Unit<br />

For more resources and in<strong>for</strong>mation on child <strong>protection</strong> and<br />

sport in general visit the <strong>Sport</strong> <strong>Across</strong> Staf<strong>for</strong>dshire and Stokeon-Trent<br />

website www.sportacrossstaf<strong>for</strong>dshire.co.uk<br />

SAFESPORT<br />

CHILD PROTECTION<br />

FOR YOUNG PEOPLE AND CHILDREN<br />

Other Useful Contacts<br />

GETTING HELP<br />

Tell an adult you trust as soon as possible. This could<br />

be: a parent or someone else in your family; another<br />

member of staff at the sports club or sports session;<br />

a teacher or school counsellor; your doctor or school<br />

nurse, or a member of <strong>Sport</strong> <strong>Across</strong> Staf<strong>for</strong>dshire staff<br />

Contact one of the child <strong>protection</strong> helplines listed<br />

overleaf. They will know who can help you in your area<br />

Your local sports development team will have a child<br />

<strong>protection</strong> officer whose details are listed overleaf. You<br />

can tell them about your worries<br />

Make sure you are not alone again with the person who<br />

has tried to harm you.<br />

REMEMBER YOUR RIGHTS<br />

NSPCC<br />

web: nspcc.org.uk | email: help@nspcc.org.uk<br />

tel: 0207 825 2500<br />

<strong>Child</strong> Protection Helpline | tel: 0808 800 5000<br />

<strong>Child</strong> Protection in <strong>Sport</strong> Unit<br />

web: thecpsu.org.uk | email: cpsu@nspcc.org.uk<br />

tel: 0116 234 7278<br />

<strong>Child</strong>line | tel: 0800 1111<br />

Helpline | tel: 0808 800 5000<br />

Local Social Services First Response Team<br />

Staf<strong>for</strong>dshire | tel: 01785 354030<br />

Stoke on Trent | tel: 01782 330221<br />

Police<br />

Southern Area <strong>Child</strong> Protection Team | tel: 01785 235 350<br />

Northern Area <strong>Child</strong> Protection Team | tel: 01785 234 992<br />

ONLY In emergency dial 999<br />

The NSPCC and the <strong>Sport</strong> <strong>Across</strong> Staf<strong>for</strong>dshire partnership<br />

believes that children have the right to enjoy sporting<br />

activities in safety. The work of the <strong>Child</strong> Protection in<br />

<strong>Sport</strong> Unit is based on the United Nations Convention on<br />

the Rights of the <strong>Child</strong>. This Convention spells out how<br />

people should treat you. If you would like to know more,<br />

see what the Convention says about your rights on the<br />

following website www.thecpu.org.uk<br />

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DON’T LET ANYONE SPOIL THE FUN<br />

WHAT IS CHILD ABUSE?<br />

CHILD ABUSE IN SPORT<br />

<strong>Sport</strong> is fun… it gives you the opportunity to make<br />

new friends, try out new activities and amaze yourself<br />

with what you can do!<br />

However, <strong>for</strong> a few children the fun is spoilt by adults<br />

and other young people who do or say things during<br />

sporting activities that hurt or frighten them. What<br />

these children are experiencing may be abuse. They<br />

may feel they have no-one to talk to about it, or that<br />

no-one will listen to them or believe what they say.<br />

IS SOMETHING WORRYING YOU?<br />

If you think that you may be being abused, or if you’re not<br />

sure but feel worried and frightened, this section will:<br />

Help you understand what child abuse is<br />

Explain what to do if you are being abused or are worried<br />

about someone at your sports club, or sports session<br />

Tell you about some special helplines that will listen to<br />

you and give advice<br />

Give you links to other websites that have helpful advice<br />

<strong>Child</strong> abuse is when an adult harms a child or young<br />

person. There are four main types of abuse:<br />

Physical Abuse… this includes being called names all the<br />

time, being threatened or being made to feel small.<br />

Sexual Abuse… this includes being touched in a way you<br />

don’t like by an adult or young person, being <strong>for</strong>ced to have<br />

sex, or being made to look at sexual pictures or videos.<br />

[For some disabled children, it includes if a person<br />

helping them to use the toilet touched them more than<br />

was needed].<br />

Neglect… is when a child is not looked after properly,<br />

including having no place to stay, or not enough food to<br />

eat, or clothes to keep them warm. It also includes if the<br />

child is not given medical care when they need it, including<br />

medication.<br />

[For some disabled children, it could include if their carer<br />

took away the things they needed <strong>for</strong> everyday life - like<br />

their wheelchair or communication board. Or, if they did<br />

not help a disabled child who needed help using the toilet].<br />

Bullying and racism are also <strong>for</strong>ms of abuse… Bullying<br />

includes hitting or threatening a child with violence, taking<br />

their things, calling them names or insulting them, making<br />

them do things they won’t want to do, and deliberately<br />

humiliating or ignoring them.<br />

ABUSE IS NEVER YOUR CHOICE<br />

AND NEVER YOUR FAULT<br />

Abuse creates all sorts of confusing feelings and emotions,<br />

including feeling frightened, alone, confused, angry,<br />

unloved, guilty or ashamed. Often a child may not realise<br />

that what is making them feel so bad is really abuse. Or<br />

he or she may know it’s abuse and is wrong, but feel that<br />

somehow it’s their fault. It is very important to remember<br />

that the abuse is not your choice and is not your fault.<br />

Here are some things young people have told us about<br />

abuse they’ve experienced:<br />

“…that’s what hurt me most, that people knew it was happening<br />

and they all didn’t do anything about it, and when<br />

they had the chance to do something about it they still<br />

didn’t …”<br />

“…even when you said “no” he kept on at me, so eventually<br />

you just gave up and got it over with.”<br />

“The coach has all the power over you, he decides what<br />

events you enter, what training you do, everything”<br />

DON’T KEEP IT TO YOURSELF<br />

If you think you are being abused, or have been in the<br />

past, it’s really important to tell an adult you trust. This<br />

isn’t easy. You may feel worried about what will happen<br />

if you do. Here are some other reasons why you may not<br />

want to tell anyone:<br />

The abuser may have told you to keep quiet and not to<br />

talk to anybody.<br />

They may have threatened you about what might happen<br />

to you or your place in the team if you tell.<br />

They may have made threats about your friends or family.<br />

They may have said “No-one will believe you” or “Noone<br />

will do anything if you tell”.<br />

You may feel guilty that you didn’t stop the abuse.<br />

The person may be someone who everyone in your<br />

sport looks up to - perhaps including your parents.<br />

You may not want to let your parents down.<br />

You may even think the problem will go away if you ignore<br />

it.<br />

Don’t let any of these things stop you getting help. By<br />

telling someone, you can stop the abuse. You’ll also be<br />

helping to protect other children from the abuser.<br />

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