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NOVEMBER 2011<br />

We are also Pilgrims<br />

in this land...<br />

Plus:<br />

A Letter to Our Readers pg 3<br />

The First Pilgrims pg 5<br />

WM Prayer Emphasis Program pg 9


Contents November 2011<br />

FEATURES<br />

3 A Letter to Our Readers<br />

<strong>ARP</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> Board Chairman Oran Smith updates readers on<br />

<strong>ARP</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> operations and challenges you to participate in a<br />

promotion to support the denomination’s publication. —Oran Smith<br />

5 The First Pilgrims<br />

This Thanksgiving, we remember their hardships. —Rev. Ray Cameron<br />

6 Moderator’s Focus<br />

Do you want your church to grow?<br />

MINISTRIES<br />

—Rev. Andrew Putnam<br />

7 Synod Emphasis: The Offer of the Free Gospel<br />

Prayers were prayed, the Bible was taught and preached, and people<br />

loved each other...but our church was dying. —Rev. Scott Robar<br />

8 A Pastor’s Perspective<br />

Practical steps toward obedient churchmanship. —Rev. Dean Turbeville<br />

9 2012 Prayer Emphasis Program<br />

Prayer is a developed lifestyle, a cultivated habit binding us to God.<br />

—WM Spiritual Life Chairman Kathy Folks<br />

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Blessed are those whose strength is in<br />

you, whose hearts are set on pilgrimage<br />

(Psalm 84:5).<br />

ISSN 0362—0816<br />

THE ASSOCIATE<br />

REFORMED<br />

PRESBYTERIAN<br />

VOL. XXXVI NO. 9<br />

Delores P. McDonald, Editor<br />

Susan L. Tanner, Assistant Editor<br />

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BOARD OF THE ASSSOCIATE<br />

REFORMED PRESBYTERIAN<br />

Dr. Oran Smith (2013), Chairman; Walter F. Payne<br />

Jr. (2012), Vice Chairman; Rev. Charles Hammond<br />

(2014); Leslie Milling (2013); Joel Reed (2015); Rev.<br />

Sam Roper (2017); Charles Walden (2015); Gail<br />

Fowler (2017); John Wingate (2017); Martha Waldrop<br />

(<strong>ARP</strong> Women’s Ministries representative).<br />

21 Bonclarken<br />

22 Christian Ed Ministries<br />

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EVERY MONTH…<br />

24 Outreach North America<br />

25 World Witness<br />

26 <strong>ARP</strong> Women’s Ministries<br />

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19 Prayer Calendar<br />

28 All in Our Family<br />

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2 THE ASSOCIATE REFORMED PRESBYTERIAN


A Letter to Our Readers<br />

Dear Subscriber,<br />

Because of our strong renewal rates, chances are, you have been with <strong>ARP</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> for some time. During that time,<br />

you have seen lots of changes. As for me, it’s amazing to see the improvement in our denominational magazine since I<br />

first subscribed in 1994. I hope you agree the contrast is like night and day – better design, better organization, more<br />

family life, more reformed theology, and more news than ever from our <strong>Church</strong> make The <strong>ARP</strong> a must for everyone.<br />

But as you may have also noticed, printed publications have really taken a hit lately. This is especially true for newspapers,<br />

but magazines like The <strong>ARP</strong> haven’t escaped unharmed. Folks don’t read as much as they used to. And, some readers<br />

have switched to electronic versions of their favorite publications, or enjoy online content that is not subscription based<br />

(paid), but ad based (free).<br />

At the same time, magazines with over 1,000,000 subscribers do quite well because of the scores of ads they contain.<br />

Unfortunately, another favorite magazine I subscribe to has become mostly advertising.<br />

But here at <strong>ARP</strong> magazine, we don’t publish for advertisers, we publish for you. That’s why I’m taking this unique opportunity<br />

to appeal to you to help us expand our tent.<br />

One of the biggest challenges for any ministry (or business) is finding new customers. The <strong>ARP</strong> is no exception. Producing<br />

a great, inspirational product is only half the job. To be effective, the content must be read. And except for printing,<br />

the cost is the same, whether we have 3,000 subscribers or 10,000.<br />

To help us expand, I have included a handy “Renew Me and Give Three” form on the back of this page.<br />

The deal is simple. If you will renew (or extend) your subscription at the regular rate of $20, we will send the magazine<br />

as a gift from you to three friends for the special rate of $16.50 each. You receive a Christmas present for those who are<br />

so difficult to buy for, and we are introduced to new friends! A good bargain for everyone. We will even send a “Do Not<br />

Open ‘til December 25” card to your friends announcing your gifts.<br />

Of course, you don’t have to give three – you can give two or one...or one each to every member of your Sunday school<br />

class or circle. (If the number reaches 8 or 10, we will make you an even better deal.)<br />

Will you help us reach out...and honor a friend or three...and share the ministry of the <strong>ARP</strong> <strong>Church</strong>?<br />

Your magazine is working harder than ever to inform and inspire you, but we are only partially funded by Synod,<br />

therefore we have taken this unique opportunity in this November issue to ask for you help. We hope you will answer the<br />

call and take this opportunity to share the gift of The <strong>ARP</strong> with you family and friends.<br />

Thank you for your help.<br />

Grace and peace,<br />

Oran P. Smith<br />

Chairman<br />

Board of The <strong>Associate</strong> <strong>Reformed</strong> <strong>Presbyterian</strong><br />

P.S. You will notice fewer magazines in your mailbox in 2012. This is a cost<br />

saving measure we regret. But, based on our staff’s research, our annual subscription<br />

rate for the minimal advertising we carry is still a real bargain, and our new<br />

schedule is more common to magazines. To close the gap, please be sure to provide<br />

us with your email address so we can send you news in between issues of the<br />

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4 THE ASSOCIATE REFORMED PRESBYTERIAN


The First Pilgrims<br />

By Rev. Ray Cameron<br />

I<br />

imagine many know the names<br />

William Bradford and Squanto.<br />

But you may not know their personal<br />

stories, which are both sobering<br />

and encouraging.<br />

William Bradford was the first governor<br />

of Plymouth Plantation, and<br />

was deeply committed to Christ. He<br />

boarded the Mayflower in 1620 with<br />

his wife, Dorothy, and sailed to America<br />

to seek refuge with other likeminded<br />

believers – to worship freely.<br />

Yet Bradford knew what it was to be<br />

a pilgrim without a home at an early<br />

age. His father died when he was oneyear-old.<br />

His grandfather died when<br />

he was six. And his mother died when<br />

he was seven. Under religious persecution<br />

at age 18, he fled his homeland<br />

of England to live in Holland. A few<br />

years later, he married Dorothy, and<br />

they had a son.<br />

When it was time to sail to America,<br />

many agonized over the perilous<br />

journey before them – and their family’s<br />

fate. The Bradfords chose to to<br />

leave their only child, 4-year-old John,<br />

behind – for fear of losing him. After<br />

finally arriving in America, the Mayflower<br />

anchored off Cape Cod. While<br />

Bradford and many of the Pilgrim<br />

men were were off exploring places<br />

to settle, Mrs. Bradford fell overboard<br />

and drowned.<br />

Mr. Bradford remarried two years<br />

later, and had three children. Meanwhile,<br />

his son, John, made a safe journey<br />

to Plymouth to join his father.<br />

Of course, years before Bradford<br />

and the Pilgrims settled in America,<br />

tribes of Native Americans were living<br />

on this land. But in 1608, English<br />

traders kidnapped many of them,<br />

including a 12-year-old boy named<br />

Squanto, sailed to Spain, and sold<br />

them into slavery. A monk took pity<br />

on Squanto and brought him into his<br />

home, where he was taught the Bible<br />

and English. When the monk learned<br />

English ships were sailing to America,<br />

he sent Squanto to live with a family<br />

in England, so he would one day be<br />

able to sail home.<br />

Ten years after he was kidnapped,<br />

Squanto finally arrived home. But he<br />

soon found an epidemic carried by<br />

white men had wiped out his entire<br />

village. Squanto lived nearby with a<br />

neighboring tribe, until he discovered<br />

a group of English families had settled<br />

in the village that was once his home.<br />

But it had been a difficult first winter<br />

and spring for the Pilgrims there, and<br />

many had died.<br />

One can only imagine William<br />

Bradford’s amazement and gratitude<br />

when he heard the kind Indian stranger<br />

say, “Good morning, my name is<br />

Squanto.” Squanto soon taught the<br />

starving Pilgrims how to fish and<br />

plant corn. In his journal, Bradford<br />

would later call Squanto “a special<br />

instrument sent of God for their good<br />

beyond their expectation.”<br />

Children’s author Eric Metaxas<br />

draws a biblical analogy from<br />

Squanto’s life and imagines Bradford’s<br />

conversation with Squanto:<br />

“It is like the story of Joseph, from<br />

our sacred Scriptures... Like you, Joseph<br />

was also taken from his home<br />

and sold as a slave. But God had a<br />

plan for him. Through Joseph, God<br />

was able to save many people from<br />

starving. What man intended for<br />

evil, God intended for good.”<br />

Then Bradford smiled at Squanto<br />

and said, “Perhaps God has sent you<br />

to be our Joseph.”<br />

And you know the rest of the<br />

story: Months later, Bradford, Squanto,<br />

the Pilgrims, and many Indians<br />

would celebrate the first Thanksgiving<br />

together.<br />

This Thanksgiving, as we remember<br />

their hardships, and perhaps bear<br />

our own, might we also draw strength<br />

from their hopeful perseverance, gratitude<br />

to God, and joyful celebration.<br />

For the psalmist reminds us that we<br />

are also pilgrims in this land, and<br />

how blessed are those whose strength is<br />

in you (God), whose hearts are set on pilgrimage.<br />

As they pass through the Valley<br />

of Baka (literally, ‘weeping’), they make it<br />

a place of springs; the autumn rains also<br />

cover it with pools. They go from strength<br />

to strength, till each appears before God<br />

in Zion (Psalm 84: 5-7).?<br />

Ray Cameron is pastor of Lake<br />

Placid (FL) <strong>ARP</strong> <strong>Church</strong>.<br />

NOVEMBER 2011 5


Moderator of Synod<br />

REV. ANDREW K. PUTNAM<br />

Moderator<br />

Do You Want Your<br />

<strong>Church</strong> to Grow?<br />

In considering the challenges before<br />

the <strong>ARP</strong> <strong>Church</strong>, the need for new<br />

mission work and ministry, I have<br />

one important question I want you to seriously<br />

consider: Do you want your church<br />

to grow?<br />

Don’t be too quick to answer. Most<br />

folks would say “yes,” but in truth they<br />

don’t want the church to grow – they just<br />

don’t want it to die. There is a huge difference<br />

between wanting the church to grow<br />

and just not wanting it to die.<br />

If you want the church to grow, you<br />

are willing to see the kind of revival and<br />

growth that we find in the book of Acts,<br />

where thousands were added daily. You<br />

want new folks, that are different than<br />

you, to become involved and active in the<br />

congregation. You are willing to let the<br />

Holy Spirit take over and do some amazing<br />

and radical things in the church.<br />

Growth: Outside Comfort Zone<br />

If you want the church to truly grow,<br />

you are going to be concerned with reaching<br />

the lost, the unchurched, those that are<br />

completely different than you. It will involve<br />

stepping outside your comfort zone,<br />

changing the way you “do” church in many<br />

cases and intentionally being welcoming<br />

and friendly to folks you don’t know.<br />

It may require you to give up a long<br />

held position in the church, so that new<br />

people can get involved (maybe an official<br />

position or just something you’ve always<br />

done). If you want the church to grow, then<br />

the ministry of the church is not about you,<br />

but about others. This does not require giving<br />

up on our theology or watering down<br />

the Scriptures – far from it. We should<br />

preach and live the Word with boldness.<br />

But there is a world of difference between<br />

a book of the Bible like 2nd Timothy,<br />

and the unwritten “book of 2nd opinions.”<br />

The old adage is that there are seven<br />

words you should never say in church:<br />

“We’ve never done it that way before.”<br />

If you want the church to grow, then you<br />

need to turn that phrase into a challenge<br />

to do things new, rather than use it as an<br />

excuse to keep doing the same old thing.<br />

Dying: No Change Necessary<br />

If all you are really concerned about<br />

is whether or not the church is going to<br />

die, all you need to do is figure out how<br />

many folks your church is going to lose in<br />

the coming year, and aim to replace them.<br />

Preferably with folks just like them (who<br />

perhaps tithe more money). If your concern<br />

is that the church doesn’t die, then<br />

the programs and activities at the church<br />

should be designed around your comfort,<br />

your concerns, and your needs only.<br />

Outreach, if any, needs to make you<br />

feel comfortable and good, without causing<br />

you to have to work too hard. The<br />

preaching, while perhaps biblically solid,<br />

shouldn’t cause you any real concern, nor<br />

should it “step on your toes.” Instead, it<br />

should educate and edify, while justifying<br />

your preconceived notions.<br />

<strong>Church</strong>es that don’t really want to grow,<br />

should be more concerned with the comfort<br />

and compatibility of the church members.<br />

They need to make sure that everyone is<br />

getting along and in agreement. There is a<br />

desire to make sure that any new members<br />

(or visitors) fit a certain mold, appear a certain<br />

way, make a certain amount of money,<br />

or hold to a certain theology (before<br />

they become members or involved in the<br />

church). Many times, this pursuit of purity<br />

can occupy the longing for outreach. If you<br />

don’t want the church to die, it will usually<br />

survive for a while, at least for one more<br />

generation. While folks in these churches<br />

may say they want to grow or revive, they<br />

may be the first to complain about funds<br />

going to establish new mission works.<br />

The concepts of revitalization are hard for<br />

them to accept. They don’t want to make<br />

the necessary changes.<br />

Unfortunately, when you look at the<br />

statistics and history of the <strong>ARP</strong> <strong>Church</strong>,<br />

it’s easy to see we have a large number of<br />

churches (new and old) that really don’t<br />

want to grow – they just don’t want to die.<br />

If today’s <strong>ARP</strong> <strong>Church</strong> is going to be<br />

obedient to God’s Word, and if it’s going<br />

to survive, we must change our hearts<br />

about growing the church. We must become<br />

open to the work that the Holy Spirit<br />

can do in our congregations, regardless of<br />

the church’s age or location and we must<br />

pray that the Lord will continue to use the<br />

<strong>Associate</strong> <strong>Reformed</strong> <strong>Presbyterian</strong> <strong>Church</strong><br />

for his glory and honor.?<br />

6 THE ASSOCIATE REFORMED PRESBYTERIAN


Our church was dying...<br />

Synod Emphasis<br />

By Rev. Scott Robar<br />

Only 20 people attended Sunday<br />

morning worship, when<br />

I first came to New Covenant<br />

<strong>ARP</strong> <strong>Church</strong> in Charlotte, NC, in late<br />

2010. We seem to be recovering now;<br />

but we still have a long way to go.<br />

Of those 20 people, three have died,<br />

six have moved away, and one is too<br />

weak to attend. That leaves 10 from<br />

the original group – all white, all except<br />

two are retired, and no children.<br />

New Covenant sits within a neighborhood,<br />

which, according to statistical<br />

information, is 50% black, 35%<br />

white, and 15% “other.” Clearly the<br />

demographics have changed since<br />

the church’s formation in 1967. Some<br />

might think the change in the neighborhood<br />

was brought about by the<br />

decline of the church. Yet, as far as<br />

I can tell, the real problem was that<br />

two dying churches merged in 1967<br />

and continued dying, because meaningful<br />

evangelism and outreach had<br />

never been, nor did it become, part of<br />

the church’s ministry.<br />

Please understand that prayers<br />

were prayed, the Bible was taught<br />

and preached, and people loved<br />

each other. It’s just that all of that<br />

was mainly confined within the<br />

church building on Sunday mornings.<br />

Please also understand that as I<br />

describe what we have done, it is very<br />

clear to us that the Lord is at work in<br />

our midst – apart from Him we can<br />

do nothing.<br />

You will be relieved to know that<br />

there is nothing here that is hard to<br />

grasp – no expensive seminar, no<br />

lengthy study, and no need for a<br />

praise band. Our small church only<br />

has one musician. Our worship<br />

services are unashamedly <strong>Reformed</strong><br />

and traditional.<br />

We’ve more than doubled in size<br />

in 20 months, although we’ve lost 10<br />

of the original group. Now we average<br />

between 35 and 40 in attendance.<br />

Thirteen people are newcomers from<br />

the neighborhood, six more are from<br />

beyond the neighborhood, and 12<br />

more are there because the man of<br />

the house is on staff (which includes<br />

my family). That’s 41 people. Fifteen<br />

of those are children. There had not<br />

been children in the church for many<br />

years. Of the 41 people, 15 are black,<br />

one is Asian, two are Hispanic, and<br />

23 are white. We’re looking like the<br />

neighborhood and we are looking<br />

like heaven (Revelation 5:9).<br />

Cause for Growth<br />

Our turn-around has been aided<br />

greatly by two things – hiring interns<br />

from a nearby seminary and providing<br />

lunches after worship. We pay<br />

$3,000 per year for two interns (<strong>Reformed</strong><br />

Theological Seminary doubles<br />

that money for their tuition), and<br />

we let another intern use the manse<br />

rent-free. Two more seminary-trained<br />

men have also joined us.<br />

Sunday is our big day for “work”<br />

as it is described in Isaiah 58:6-14.<br />

We not only attempt to do the things<br />

listed there; we also hope to receive<br />

those blessings, in the form of personal,<br />

church, and community revival.<br />

The interns teach Sunday school in<br />

rotation. They preach once every two<br />

months. My call is part-time, so this<br />

works out well.<br />

Our lunch provides a perfect opportunity<br />

to get to know people’s<br />

needs – there are plenty! We’re just<br />

loving people – it’s that simple. All<br />

newcomers attend the lunches. After<br />

lunch, the interns and I have a<br />

meeting. We talk about all sorts of<br />

things and pray. Then we listen to<br />

and critique the sermon for the coming<br />

Sunday. Then, some of us go into<br />

the neighborhood knocking on doors,<br />

and others go to a local nursing home<br />

to provide a worship service at 3:30<br />

p.m. Other members join us there.<br />

When a church is dying, some hard<br />

decisions need to be made. We had<br />

to sell our Bonclarken house. We no<br />

longer have a music director or secretary.<br />

However, the New Covenant<br />

congregation has given me what I<br />

asked for – several interns – energetic<br />

young men with servants’ hearts who<br />

are also evangelists.<br />

Most of you reading this are terrified<br />

by the idea of witnessing to<br />

strangers; yet that is no big deal to<br />

most seminarians. If your church is<br />

within an hour of a good seminary,<br />

you really should avail yourselves of<br />

the blessings these interns can bring<br />

to your church. You’ll also be a blessing<br />

to these future pastors, their families,<br />

and the congregations they will<br />

later serve.?<br />

We are looking like the neighborhood<br />

and we are looking like Heaven.<br />

NOVEMBER 2011 7


A Pastor’s Perspective...<br />

<strong>Church</strong>manship is<br />

not penmanship<br />

By Pastor Dean Turbeville, All Saints’<br />

<strong>ARP</strong> <strong>Church</strong>, Charlotte, NC<br />

Many in our churches think<br />

of churchmanship as a<br />

modest and antiquated<br />

virtue, rather like good penmanship<br />

or knowing how to tie a bow tie:<br />

nice enough, but not really important<br />

in life. Others have drunk the<br />

post-modern Kool-Aid and believe<br />

that any concern for the organizational<br />

and procedural life of the<br />

institutional church is not sufficiently<br />

“spiritual” and/or “relational.”<br />

But if our understanding of churchmanship<br />

is taken from the New<br />

Testament, we get a very different<br />

picture. Paul labored heroically to<br />

both establish congregations and<br />

to see that they were organizationally<br />

healthy. The appointment of<br />

qualified leaders, the maintenance of<br />

sound doctrine, and the discipline of<br />

unrepentant sinners in the churches<br />

fill the pages of his epistles.<br />

The unity and doctrinal cohesion<br />

of the early church was secured in a<br />

general assembly of the church’s leadership<br />

in Jerusalem. All of this was<br />

more than just ensuring that things<br />

were done “decently and in order,”<br />

though that was no small concern (1<br />

Corinthians 14:40).<br />

<strong>Church</strong>manship is also a crucible<br />

of the soul and battlefield for the kingdom.<br />

Paul’s language to the Galatians<br />

is almost war-like. And nobody’s<br />

light burned brighter for the maintenance<br />

of the visible church in faithfulness<br />

like Jesus Christ, of whom it was<br />

said, “zeal for the Lord’s House consumes<br />

him (John 2:17).” His clearing<br />

the temple of moneychangers<br />

and his establishing the <strong>Church</strong> as a<br />

confessional institution at the time of<br />

Peter’s declaration of Jesus’ messiahship<br />

are examples of churchmanship<br />

par excellence. His affirmations and<br />

rebukes to the seven churches in the<br />

Revelation are the epitome of lovedriven<br />

churchmanship. And he gives<br />

we who serve him the ministry of the<br />

keys of the kingdom, that we might<br />

continue in his train (Matthew 16:19).<br />

Decades of Neglect<br />

The evangelical Protestant<br />

church’s current low ecclesiology<br />

and contempt for churchmanship are<br />

not only evidence of our superficial<br />

reading of Scripture, but they also<br />

constitute an abandonment of our<br />

reformational heritage. Moreover,<br />

the near-apocalyptic decline in the<br />

corporate life of American denominations<br />

of the <strong>Church</strong> can substantially<br />

be traced to decades of negligent and<br />

gutless churchmanship. When I was<br />

a minister in the PCUSA, I saw constant<br />

evangelical isolationism: “I’ll<br />

just pastor my own church and leave<br />

church politics to those who are interested<br />

in it” (i.e., inevitably liberal<br />

clerics who had little interest in the<br />

ministry of the Word).<br />

And, indeed, I know that I have<br />

often been a lazy churchman myself;<br />

I must repent and embrace the high,<br />

holy and often hard calling of serving<br />

the Head of the <strong>Church</strong> through such<br />

a labor.<br />

So, in good hope, and preaching to<br />

myself first of all, I would urge the following<br />

seven practical steps towards<br />

an obedient churchmanship:<br />

• Show up to your session, presbytery<br />

or General Synod meeting, and<br />

be prepared: read everything sent to<br />

you in advance. We should no more<br />

fail to do this than we would fail<br />

to show up to preach on Sunday or<br />

to be prepared to lead worship. Do<br />

not leave the meeting early for any<br />

light reason.<br />

• Pray as elders for the work of<br />

the courts of the church. And it is an<br />

especially good sign when congregations<br />

actively pray for these meetings<br />

as well. The era of keeping congregations<br />

in the dark about the large<br />

issues in church affairs should end.<br />

• Speak up when you are convicted<br />

about some matter before the<br />

court. Relying on more outspoken<br />

men to speak is a dereliction of duty;<br />

in all likelihood they are only speaking<br />

because they know you will not.<br />

• Both large church officers and<br />

small church officers are presbyters<br />

and should contribute in this way. No<br />

false modesty or unbiblical inferiority<br />

complex should thwart the vows we<br />

all made at our ordination. And the<br />

same can be said for ordained seminary<br />

professors: it is your church too!<br />

• Combine passion for truth with<br />

dignity and respect for the court. Remember<br />

that it is the visible church<br />

which is “the Kingdom of our Lord<br />

Jesus Christ, the house and family of<br />

God, out of which there is no ordinary<br />

possibility of salvation” (Westminster<br />

Confession, Chapter XXV, II).<br />

• Love your fellow presbyters as<br />

brothers, but be willing at any point<br />

to do the right thing for Christ and<br />

the church, even if your best friend<br />

thinks differently.<br />

• Take a multi-generational view of<br />

the church, accepting our role as spiritual<br />

fathers to others. In this way, we<br />

leave a more faithful institution to our<br />

sons who will lead it in the future. It is<br />

hard to think of a better gift we could<br />

give them and others who will make<br />

up the church of the future.<br />

In sum, churchmanship is far more<br />

than a modest virtue. It is for brave<br />

hearts, sanctified minds and loving<br />

spirits. In all of this, may Christ be<br />

glorified, and his church reclaimed<br />

as the “church of the living God, the<br />

pillar and foundation of the truth!”<br />

(1 Timothy 3:15)?<br />

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Prayer Emphasis 2012<br />

Praise, Privilege, Posture, Penitence, Passion, Power,<br />

Priority, Plan, Petition, Perseverance, Promise<br />

“Devote yourselves to prayer, keeping alert in it, with an attitude of thanksgiving” (Colossians 4:2).<br />

Day 1 – Privilege, Posture, Praise<br />

Verse – “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving, let your request be<br />

made known to God” (Philippians 4:6).<br />

Shorter Catechism Q.98 “What is prayer? A. Prayer is an offering up of our desires unto God, for things agreeable to<br />

his will, in the name of Christ, with confession of our sins, and thankful acknowledgment of his mercies.”<br />

<strong>ARP</strong> Psalter with Bible Songs – “O LORD, I Will Exalt You” #30<br />

”Hallelujah, Praise Jehovah” #205<br />

Hymnbook – “Be Thou My Vision” #303<br />

“At the Name of Jesus” #143<br />

Trinity Hymnal – “Holy God We Praise Your Name” #103<br />

“Soldiers of Christ, Arise” #575<br />

This Prayer Emphasis, including scripture references and questions,<br />

is intended to bless, encourage and strengthen our prayer<br />

lives. Prayer is a developed lifestyle, a cultivated habit binding<br />

us to God. Jesus’ fulfillment of the Covenant of Grace is faith’s<br />

foundation, the springboard of our call to prayer.<br />

What is prayer? Prayer is privileged communication with God,<br />

priority responsibility for Christians deepening our relationship<br />

with our Heavenly Father. It is coming to Christ and laying<br />

our requests before Him, seeking Jesus’ face, kneeling to His<br />

Lordship, submitting to God’s will. Jesus is the only way to the<br />

Father (John 14:6) and the sacrifice of the cross the source of<br />

forgiveness to penitent, repentant hearts.<br />

Prayer is hard work that encounters supernatural conflict.<br />

Spiritual warfare causes us to struggle to pray. Satan discourages<br />

at every opportunity. We must be prepared and recognize<br />

the warfare. We should be prayer warriors wearing Ephesians 6<br />

Christian armor with prayer part of our sure defense.<br />

Some of our best lessons on prayer may be a<br />

parent’s example.<br />

Why should I pray? Pray because you are weak and He is strong, our Lord, our Eternal Father, our source for all of life.<br />

Pray because you love God, want to glorify Him and because Jesus told us to pray (Luke 18). James 4:2b says we don’t<br />

have because we don’t ask. Satan uses struggles and trials to discourage us from praying – depression, stress, grief,<br />

exhaustion, inadequacy, lack of eloquence, ill health, or spiritually dryness. Persevere, focusing on the Godhead – eyes<br />

on Jesus (Hebrews 12). Trusting God strengthens faith and fades anxieties.<br />

How do I pray? Reverently approach God, devout in your pleading, coming into God’s holy presence with humility<br />

and thanksgiving – earnestly, fervently, genuinely worshipful. Pray “in Christ” (Ephesians 1; 1 John 5:20), remembering<br />

praise is key in prayer. The process starts within you to rejuvenate and enrich your prayer life, for you must come<br />

confessing your own sinfulness, forgiving others. Heart humility is the right attitude, this “heart posture” is more<br />

important than physical posture.<br />

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The truth of the Gospel should shape our praying. Bible prayers, especially the Psalms, are models for us, reflecting<br />

every aspect of human experience – from utter despair to hopeful elation; fear to rage; doubt to faith; discouragement<br />

and loneliness to love, unity and strength.<br />

What do I pray? Some of our best lessons on prayer may be a parent’s example. Pray for what God lays on your heart,<br />

possibly as The Lord’s Prayer guides – praising God; for His kingdom; that His will be done; for daily provision; for<br />

forgiveness of sins and your forgiveness of others; for protection from sinning and evil, and for His honor and glory.<br />

When? Ephesians 6:18 says “at all times.” Prayer should be a natural part of our lives as is God’s Word (Colossians<br />

3:16-17). Some prayer times are short, others lengthy.<br />

Where do I start? The Puritans said something like, “Pray until you pray.” As you pray more, it becomes more natural.<br />

Jesus begins and ends The Lord’s Prayer with worship, honoring and respecting God who is holy and worthy of<br />

worship. Coming pridefully takes His name in vain. We are sinners so we can only come into God’s presence through<br />

Christ.<br />

Awesome, merciful, loving Father in heaven, hallowed be your holy name. We praise you for who you are, thankful for<br />

our blessings and your easy, strong yoke of help, rest and peace. Renew, refresh, delight and inspire us in your service.<br />

In Christ we pray, Amen.<br />

Quote: “If we never know what it is to commune with God as our Father, we fail to grasp the meaning of what Jesus Christ accomplished<br />

for us” – Derek Thomas.<br />

Pray for: <strong>ARP</strong> pastors, officers and church staffs; The <strong>ARP</strong> Center; Synod, <strong>ARP</strong>WM, government and family leaders.<br />

Verse – “Pray without ceasing” (1 Thessalonians 5:17).<br />

Day 2 – Passion, Power, Pattern, Priority<br />

Catechism Q.99 “What rule hath God given for our direction in prayer? A. The whole word of God is of use to direct<br />

us in prayer; but the special rule of direction is that form of prayer which Christ taught his disciples, commonly called<br />

The Lord’s prayer.”<br />

Psalter – “How Blessed the Man” #166<br />

“Listen to My Words, O LORD” #5<br />

Hymnbook – “Love Divine, All Loves Excelling” #399<br />

“Blessed Assurance, Jesus Is Mine!” #139<br />

Hymnal – “Come, Ye Disconsolate, Where’er Ye Languish” #615<br />

“Come, O Come, Thou Quickening Spirit” #331<br />

Anchored in Christ we won’t drift. Jesus is our lifeline. God is holding us in His loving arms. Prayer draws us close<br />

to God (James 4:8), helps us focus on Him (Philippians 3:10), and is the route to forgiveness (1 John 1:9). Pray with the<br />

saints of the Bible, or use The Lord’s Prayer Jesus gave us, a great prayer and a wonderful model. Make each petition<br />

your own, praying it from your heart in your words or from different translations.<br />

What should I ask? Ask in Jesus’ name (John 16:24) and receive that your joy would be made full. Prayer clarifies our<br />

needs (Colossians 1:9, Philippians 4:6). It allows us to lift up others (Psalm 55:1, Ephesians 6:18). When you feel prayerless,<br />

remember that Jesus the Priest intercedes for you. God always answers rightly, even when He says “wait,” which<br />

can lead to renewed strength as in Isaiah 40:31.<br />

What if I don’t feel like praying? Commit your prayer life to God, cultivating healthy prayer habits. Praying encourages<br />

(Luke 18:1) and comforts (Psalm 4:1). It pleases God (Proverbs 15:8). Jesus made prayer a priority, so passionate in<br />

Gethsemane that He sweated blood. Prioritizing prayer means blessing – and time, sacrifice and discipline.<br />

What if my prayers sound stupid and seem pointless? God knows our hearts and hears the prayers of His children.<br />

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Confess, giving it all to Him, for He cares and wants to hear you ask. Prayer should not be a me-centered list, but<br />

should lift up needs and burdens as you seek God’s will for your life. Philippians 4:6 says, “Be anxious for nothing, but<br />

in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.”<br />

In Matthew 6, Jesus addresses the contrast between lengthy, hypocritical, manpleasing<br />

babbling and genuine heartfelt prayers. He says to “...go into your inner<br />

room, and when you have shut your door, pray to your Father who is in secret...”<br />

and ”...when you are praying do not use meaningless repetition...”<br />

What help can I get? There is no perfect formula, timing, or technique. Consciously<br />

plan to pray, setting goals. What helps you focus – lists, a specific time, a certain<br />

structure or order? For accountability, consider a prayer partner, prayer group,<br />

or being mentored or discipled. Try a prayer journal for writing out your prayers<br />

– and God’s answers.<br />

How can my prayers make a difference? Starting and concluding with worship,<br />

The Lord’s Prayer also emphasizes the priority of God’s kingdom. We should pray<br />

for the lost to come to Christ and the church to grow with the blessing of God’s<br />

truth in its rightful place. That is kingdom praying. In Matthew 6:33, Jesus tells us<br />

not to be anxious “But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness.” Pursuing<br />

the things of God challenges and blesses.<br />

Prayer helps us through all hazards and hurdles to the finish line. God is at the beginning<br />

and end, helping you at every footfall, each uphill and downhill encountered.<br />

The Balm of Gilead will heal all wounds and the crown of righteousness<br />

awaits you.<br />

Jesus is our lifeline.<br />

We believers are not alone. Jesus says (John 8:3), “If you abide in my word, then you are truly disciples of mine; and you<br />

shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.” Hebrews 7:25 reminds us “...he is able to save forever those<br />

who draw near to God through Him since he always lives to make intercession for them.” The Holy Spirit interprets<br />

your prayers into elegant missives to heaven.<br />

Philippians 4:3 says, “I can do all things through Him who strengthens me.” Praise God! We can even pray.<br />

Gracious Triune God, make us Prayer Warriors, passionate about prayer. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.<br />

Quotes: “Prayerlessness is often an index to our ignorance of God“ –D. A. Carson.<br />

Pray for: Christian Education Ministries; Erskine College & Seminary; <strong>ARP</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>; Bonclarken.<br />

Day 3 – Plan, Petition, Perseverance, Promise<br />

Verse – “Evening, morning and noon I will pray” (Psalm 55:17).<br />

Catechism Q. 100 “What doth the preface of the Lord’s prayer teach us? A. The preface of the Lord’s prayer (which is,<br />

Our Father, which art in heaven) teacheth us to draw near to God with all holy reverence and confidence, as children to<br />

a father, able and ready to help us; and that we should pray with and for others.”<br />

Psalter – “But as for Me, I’ll Call on God” #55C<br />

“Answer When I Call” #4<br />

Hymnbook – “Sweet Hour of Prayer” #398<br />

“The <strong>Church</strong>’s One Foundation” #437<br />

Hymnal – “May the Mind of Christ My Savior” #644<br />

“Here, O My Lord, I See Thee Face to Face” #378<br />

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Prayer eloquence is the language of the heart, not the<br />

vocabulary level or melodic quality of your voice. Abraham’s<br />

devotion, Hannah’s earnestness, Daniel’s love for<br />

God, Paul’s diligence, David’s heart, Jacob’s wrestling<br />

with God, Moses’ reliance on God and Elijah’s courage<br />

and passion are examples of genuineness in prayer, but<br />

so is a child’s simple plea to God.<br />

How does prayer communicate? As we learn to listen<br />

to God speak through His Word, guiding us through<br />

the Holy Spirit, we hear truth. Amazingly, in prayer the<br />

sovereign God of creation, timeless ruler of all existence,<br />

is listening to and communicating with us personally<br />

because He loves us. Psalm 62:8 tells us to pour out our<br />

hearts to Him, bringing our joys and sorrows to Him.<br />

Pray to God’s glory and according to God’s will.<br />

How do my prayers relate to God’s will? Prayer leads us initially to the forgiveness Christ offers in salvation and<br />

evolves as we genuinely seek His will in our lives. We should want God’s will and learn about it through preaching and<br />

teaching, earnestly praying for it to be fulfilled, seeking to be obedient to it. God is listening to us and we need to listen<br />

to Him through His Word, His servants, His creation. In Colossians 1:18 Paul prays for the filling “...of the knowledge of<br />

His will in all wisdom and understanding.”<br />

God made the universe from nothing. Mankind also made a contribution – sin. That is all we have to offer God. Be<br />

thankful that Jesus took our sin on Himself. Acknowledge your unworthiness of anything other than hell, telling God<br />

how thankful you are for the gift of eternal life with Him (John 5:24; 6:44, 47; 3:16, 36; 14:6).<br />

What does this mean in my life? God requires obedience. Trusting God is our confidence. We need not be anxious, but<br />

this does not preclude having an orderly plan (1 Corinthians 14:40) and setting biblical goals. The gift of salvation was<br />

costly, but it is also priceless. Praise God He has given it to us through Christ because He is our only hope as this is a<br />

debt we cannot pay. John 3:16-17 engraves it in our memories and hearts.<br />

How do I pray for others? Pray to God’s glory and according to God’s will and as Ephesians 6:18 tells us “With all<br />

prayer and petition pray at all times in the Spirit, and with this in view, be on the alert with all perseverance and petition<br />

for all the saints.”<br />

Can I really do this? Habits can be weights or they can be wings. Seek God’s glory letting His agenda dictate yours,<br />

making His desire your own, His will your purpose and His honor your goal. Make time with God a habit in your life,<br />

and make prayer a priority and a passion of praise. Aim to be like the healthy church in Acts 2:42 “... continually devoting<br />

themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer.” It can start with us.<br />

Be sober-minded, obedient, alert and discerning insofar as you are able. Motives can become selfish and words are inadequate,<br />

but when we humble ourselves before God seeking His will and glory, He is blessed and hears the cry of our<br />

hearts as we kneel at the foot of the cross.<br />

May the Amen of our prayers be a coda of agreement with you, our loving Father in heaven, the ruler of the universe and<br />

gracious King who answers our prayers. Make us people of prayer. In Christ we pray, Amen.<br />

Quotes: “Our prayers must be fervent, of course, and they ought to be frequent, but they do not need to be fancy.” Philip Ryken<br />

Pray for: Missionaries, church planters, youth, children, elderly, & the military.?<br />

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A Devotion From Serenity Acres<br />

By Barbara Thayer<br />

I<br />

never thought tombstones and<br />

memorials could tell a story, until<br />

our recent trip to Europe. We went<br />

to many cathedrals and visited an old<br />

graveyard beside a church. Instead of<br />

listing only a name and the dates of<br />

birth and death, these folks from long<br />

ago wrote about the person who was<br />

buried at the site.<br />

The cemetery at the <strong>Church</strong> of the<br />

Holy Rood Stirling, Scotland<br />

The impressive memorials told of<br />

those who gave their lives for their<br />

beliefs.<br />

In the Cathedral of St. Giles in Edinburgh,<br />

Scotland, there was a tomb<br />

of a man who had served the king,<br />

but was ultimately beheaded for his<br />

<strong>Reformed</strong> faith. Other cathedrals<br />

had memorials to women who were<br />

listed not only as beloved wives but<br />

also as god-fearing women who died<br />

in the faith and touched other lives.<br />

What a beautiful tribute to a life, and<br />

I thought to myself how much I want<br />

that to be said of my life as well.<br />

When we finish this race, what will<br />

be our legacy? Obviously, the graves<br />

of those I observed had made it their<br />

When We Finish Our Race...<br />

life’s ambition to live for Christ, and<br />

to this end we are all called. In his<br />

letter to the Corinthian church, the<br />

Apostle Paul uses an athletic metaphor<br />

to describe how we are to run<br />

with perseverance in our Christian<br />

life: “Do you not know that in a race<br />

all the runners compete, but only one<br />

receives the prize? So run that you<br />

may obtain it. Every athlete exercises<br />

self-control in all things. They do it to<br />

receive a perishable wreath, but we<br />

an imperishable. So I do not run aimlessly;<br />

I do not box as one beating the<br />

air. But I discipline my body and keep<br />

it under control, lest after preaching<br />

to others, I myself should be disqualified”<br />

(I Corinthians 9:24-27).<br />

Paul’s use of this metaphor is effective<br />

in that an athlete has to discipline<br />

himself/herself in order to reach their<br />

goal. It requires perseverance, singlemindedness<br />

and determination. Our<br />

mindset, if we are to make an impact<br />

on our world, is to look only at the<br />

goal of our high calling in Christ.<br />

With every activity we do, we need<br />

to remember our purpose is to glorify<br />

God in word and deed. The people<br />

whose graves I visited lived their<br />

lives in this manner. They made a difference<br />

in their sphere of influence,<br />

and the testimony is written in stone<br />

– literally.<br />

In his letter to Timothy, Paul further<br />

expands on this idea of focusing<br />

on the goal: “I have fought the good<br />

fight, I have finished the race, I have<br />

kept the faith. Henceforth there is laid<br />

up for me the crown of righteousness<br />

which the Lord, the righteous judge,<br />

will award to me on that Day, and not<br />

only to me but also to all who have<br />

loved His appearing” (2 Timothy 4:7-<br />

8). This is the testimony we need to<br />

strive for in our own lives. It’s not<br />

how we built our business, made the<br />

most money, had the biggest house on<br />

the block, or became a famous person.<br />

Instead, we are to reflect the character<br />

of Jesus Christ in our lives so that others<br />

might be drawn to Him.<br />

Key Elements<br />

We run our race well when we do<br />

not neglect three disciplines: fellowship,<br />

Bible study and prayer. These<br />

are the key training elements which<br />

we must embrace in order to face the<br />

challenges that come our way in life.<br />

Training for a race is not easy. No one<br />

said it would be. In fact, Jesus said<br />

we would face tribulations in this<br />

life, but He also told us to be of good<br />

cheer, because He has overcome this<br />

world. With the Holy Spirit as our<br />

trainer, we do have what it takes to<br />

live a legacy before our family, community<br />

and church.<br />

As we lift up our Lord before<br />

others, He will one day lift us up<br />

as well.?<br />

The tombs of a husband and wife in a<br />

chapel wing of the <strong>Church</strong> in Stratford<br />

on Avon<br />

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Give Thanks!<br />

30 days of Gratitude for the Thanksgiving<br />

month of November!<br />

By Jennifer Jordan and family<br />

Materials:<br />

Wood board (although you can use just about any flat surface you want)<br />

Canvas (any color)<br />

Staple gun<br />

Mod Podge<br />

Glue gun<br />

Glue stick<br />

Variety of coordinating scrapbook paper<br />

Different colored thin ribbons (I used brown, green, yellow and orange)<br />

Light-colored Cardstock for writing your “thankful message” on.<br />

30 Coin Envelopes. Mine were 3 3/8” x 6”.<br />

Hole punch<br />

Directions:<br />

• Get a wood board. Mine is a piece of plywood measuring 24” x 28”. Using a staple<br />

gun, attach the canvas to the piece of plywood.<br />

• Take your 30 coin envelopes and cut them down to 3 3/4” tall. Make sure you cut off<br />

the top part that is already open so you still have the pocket to insert your cards in later.<br />

• Use a glue stick to adhere the scrapbook paper to the front of the envelope. I used a<br />

variety of coordinating papers.<br />

• Lay out your cards on your board. I was able to do five rows of six cards each. I<br />

wanted to arrange them first so I could make sure no two matching papers were right<br />

next to each other.<br />

• I then used my Silhouette to cut out the numbers 1-30, but you could use stickers,<br />

stencils, create a Word Document or go online to find some printable numbers to cut out.<br />

• Use Mod Podge to glue on the numbers to the cards and then Mod Podge over the<br />

entire front of the card to cover your scrapbook paper. It makes the card sturdier and<br />

helps it to last for years to come. Be careful not to glue your envelope shut!<br />

• After your Mod Podge is dry, hole punch two small holes in the top of your envelope.<br />

Just hole punch the scrapbook paper side. Take your ribbon and put it through both<br />

holes and tie a knot.<br />

• Use your glue gun to adhere your envelopes to your board. This is where I tried a<br />

few different glues.....learn from my mistakes....the glue gun worked the best by far!!! I<br />

also recommend that you place the hot glue a little bit away from the edges of the envelope.<br />

This allows your cards to go in and out more easily in a later step.<br />

• Use Mod Podge to adhere your “Give Thanks” (or the phrase of your choosing) to<br />

the top of your board. I used my embroidery machine to create the words. Then, Mod<br />

Podge over the whole phrase.<br />

• Cut out light-colored cardstock to slide into your envelopes. Mine ended up being<br />

two light shades that I cut to 3” by 4 1/2”. Place them inside your envelopes.<br />

Each night in November at dinner time, I am going to pull the cardstock out on the<br />

appropriate day and have each person write or say what they are thankful for that day.<br />

When next year rolls around, I’m going to use the same cardstock and have them write<br />

on the back. For the following years, I’m just going to add some more cardstock in the<br />

envelopes.<br />

Stephen and Jennifer Jordan live in Muscle Shoals, AL. Stephen is currently seeking a call.<br />

Their children are Noah, 12, Elijah, 8, Elizabeth, 6 and Phoebe, 2.<br />

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As the leaves fall outside, take advantage of the many opportunities to involve<br />

your kids in ministry and outreach. Here are a few ideas:<br />

Pumpkin Carving Party<br />

Coordinate with other parents in your church to<br />

provide supplies, then invite families in your neighborhood<br />

to a pumpkin carving party at your house. Have<br />

a cookout, a carving contest and maybe a marshmallow<br />

roast. Pass out party favors for kids and parents and<br />

include some church information, a nice handwritten<br />

note of thanks and a candle for their jack-o-lantern.<br />

Leaves of Thanksgiving<br />

This fall, instead of bagging all the leaves covering the<br />

yard, save pretty ones and start a family project. Have each<br />

family member take three leaves and write something they<br />

are thankful for on each one. Collect them in a basket. In the<br />

days leading up to and during Thanksgiving and Christmas,<br />

have a family member read a leaf and lead in prayer. You<br />

might keep this basket year-round as a reminder of God’s<br />

goodness and a conversation piece for guests.<br />

(Ideas from onmission.com)<br />

Leaf Rake Party<br />

Adopt a family - for example, a single mother, elderly couple,<br />

couple with a newborn - in your neighborhood who need<br />

some yard work done and arrange a work day. Involve the<br />

kids. Break out the rakes and blowers and give the kids their<br />

own responsibilities, explaining why you’re doing this work.<br />

“We want to share the love of Christ with this family.” Show<br />

them by example how to share the gospel.<br />

Candy Corn Drop<br />

All you need are some small paper cups<br />

and a few bags of candy corn. First, give<br />

each player a paper cup filled with candy<br />

corns. Have players stand in a line with an<br />

empty paper cup between their feet. Holding<br />

a candy corn to their chin, they have to<br />

try to drop it into the cup by their feet. The<br />

person who drops the most corns into his<br />

or her cup in one minute wins!<br />

(Ideas from www.thebanner.org)<br />

Thanksgiving games<br />

I’m Thankful<br />

Start with the youngest person in your group. That person<br />

says something they are thankful for, like “I’m thankful for<br />

mashed potatoes.” The next person repeats what the first person<br />

says, and add something of their own: I am thankful for mashed<br />

potatoes and a warm bed.” The next person repeats those two<br />

things and adds another: “I’m thankful for mashed potatoes, a<br />

warm bed and my cat.” Keep going until everyone has had a<br />

chance to add something or until someone messes up.<br />

Thankful<br />

Words<br />

Answers from October puzzle:<br />

Down Across<br />

1. God 2. The Lords Prayer<br />

3. Three 4. Everywhere<br />

5. Pray 6. Ten<br />

7. Everything 8. Bible<br />

9. Christ<br />

10. Heaven<br />

Give everybody at your table a pencil and a<br />

piece of paper. Challenge them to see how many<br />

words they can make out of the letters in the words<br />

“Thanksgiving Day.” Words have to be longer than<br />

two letters, and no people names are allowed. Don’t<br />

forget that plurals count as separate words.<br />

Family Memory Verse<br />

Give thanks to the Lord, for he is good; his love endures forever<br />

(Psalm 107:1).<br />

If you or someone in your church<br />

has an idea for The Family Page<br />

please send your ideas to Susan<br />

Tanner at stanner@arpsynod.org<br />

or call 864-232-8297.<br />

NOVEMBER 2011 15


News in Brief<br />

David Sides, French Camp <strong>Church</strong>, Receive Laity Awards<br />

By Delores McDonald<br />

During the Laity in Action Conference Sept. 15 & 16 at Bonclarken, families gathered to hear Dr. John W. P. Oliver speak on the theme,<br />

“Valiant in Battle: Less Heralded Men of God.” Ann Marie Tribble from the Ora <strong>Church</strong> served as music leader with Harriet Linderman<br />

as pianist.<br />

Following Dr. Earl Linderman’s Friday night Psalm Sing, special music was provided<br />

by the Pinecrest <strong>Church</strong> Choir and Veronica Unda. A ladies trio from Reformation <strong>Church</strong><br />

also sang. In special duet by Anne Marie & Kathryn Tribble. Kathryn signed the words.<br />

Missionary Updates<br />

Missionaries Rob & Rachel Turner from Turkey brought an update of their work. Missionary<br />

candidates Mark & Natasha Witte shared their testimony and spoke on their<br />

upcoming work in Mexico. Short-term Mission Coordinator Sheila Osborne provided instruction<br />

for the children in attendance. Following the Friday evening session, the ladies<br />

of the Sandy Plains <strong>Church</strong> hosted a reception in Founders Hall.<br />

John Lutz from the Pisgah <strong>Church</strong> was in his usual place as the sound tech guy. George<br />

and Alita Moser served as conference registrars.<br />

David Sides and wife Betty.<br />

Onesimus Award<br />

David Sides from the New Sterling <strong>Church</strong>, Stony Point, NC, was the recipient of this year’s Onesimus<br />

Award (Slave to Christ). Mr. Sides has been married to his wife Betty for over 55 years. He is an<br />

elder in the New Sterling <strong>Church</strong>. He has taught Sunday school and served as a lay preacher. He has<br />

served First Presbytery as moderator on three occasions and currently serves as reading clerk.<br />

Sides is also a former Moderator of the General Synod. For seven years, he worked for North<br />

Carolina Soil and Water Conservation and lived in Raleigh. A farmer and avid gardener, he is known<br />

throughout the region for his generosity in providing delicious produce to friends and neighbors.<br />

Barnabas Award<br />

The 2011 Barnabas Award was presented to the French Camp (MS) <strong>Church</strong>. Many know of French<br />

Camp and associate it with the boarding school on its campus. However, there is an active <strong>ARP</strong> congregation<br />

there too. Many from the congregation are greatly involved in ministering to the students<br />

at the school. They provide encouragement and mentoring and develop strong personal relationships<br />

with the student body. In the past three years, there has been significant growth in the church. Attendance<br />

of local folks averages 120. When the school is in session,<br />

the students swell the congregation’s attendance with over a 100 more. Located in a rural setting, the<br />

congregation is making a great impact on the community around it.<br />

As the group from French Camp accepted the award, each told of the parts they play in the life of<br />

the church, elder Larry Littlejohn had this to say:<br />

“Each person here today has presented something of the diversity of opportunities which the Lord<br />

gives us there. Our anchor though is neither our rich heritage nor our bright future, which we anticipate.<br />

Our anchor is in the truth of the Word and the person of Jesus.<br />

“Since joining the <strong>ARP</strong>, we have been so blessed to find others of like heart and mind. We have<br />

been encouraged by your testimony and fellowship. Members of the Mississippi Valley Presbytery<br />

joined us in prayer and supported us with their presence when we requested a gracious release with<br />

our property from the PCUSA.<br />

“Now four years later, the French Camp <strong>Church</strong> continues to receive confirmation that we made<br />

the right decision in joining the <strong>ARP</strong>. We have experienced many blessing as a result of our union. One<br />

of the main ones is the emphasis on missions. Teams from our church went to Wales, Austria, Mexico,<br />

Dallas/Fort Worth, and New York this last year.<br />

“Thank you for recognizing what the Lord is doing in our church with this Barnabas Award. We<br />

invite you to come and see firsthand what He is doing to display His glory in French Camp.”<br />

French Camp Pastor Alex Coblentz adds: “We are still astounded and humbled to have received<br />

any recognition at all... It’s not about us! God has been so good to us, and it is we who have been<br />

tremendously encouraged by our new-found brothers and sisters in the <strong>ARP</strong>.?<br />

From left, Turner family, Witte family and<br />

Sheila Osbourne and daughter.<br />

Pastor Alex Coblentz, far left,<br />

and group from French Camp.<br />

16 THE ASSOCIATE REFORMED PRESBYTERIAN


News in Brief<br />

Betty Sides<br />

Receives<br />

Survivor Medal<br />

Betty and David Sides on their recent<br />

trip to Joslin Diabetes Center in Boston,<br />

where Mrs. Sides received the 75-year<br />

survivor medal. Since the program began<br />

in 1970, only 41 medals had been awarded<br />

to individuals who have survived 75<br />

years or more with type 1 diabetes. Mrs.<br />

Sides was the 42nd recipient, and traveled<br />

from Stony Point, NC to receive the<br />

award. During her trip to Joslin, she also<br />

participated in the “50-Year Medalist<br />

Study,” which began in 2005. The study<br />

is looking at how individuals with 50 or<br />

more years of type 1 diabetes may be protected<br />

from developing diabetic complications<br />

including eye, kidney, nerve and<br />

heart diseases.?<br />

Mississippi Valley Presbytery<br />

Fall Stated Meeting, October 3-4, 2011<br />

Providence <strong>Reformed</strong> <strong>Church</strong><br />

Bartlett, TN<br />

• Heard from Rev. Frank van Dalen, about<br />

the work of <strong>ARP</strong> missions throughout<br />

the world.<br />

• Heard from Dr. David Norman about the<br />

work of Erskine College and Seminary<br />

• Elected Mr. Larry Littlejohn, an elder<br />

at the French Camp <strong>Presbyterian</strong><br />

<strong>Church</strong>, as the incoming Moderator<br />

of MVP.<br />

• Heard a sermon by Rev. Matthew Heathman<br />

on 2 Samuel 7:18-20. Rev. Heathman<br />

was also examined by the presbytery<br />

and received a call to the Covington <strong>ARP</strong><br />

<strong>Church</strong> (Covington, TN).<br />

• Heard a report from the Minister and<br />

His Work Committee concerning the<br />

formation of a church in the home of a<br />

minister of the presbytery without the<br />

permission of the presbytery. The minister<br />

repented of his error and asked<br />

the forgiveness of the presbytery, which<br />

was granted.<br />

• Received Rev. Mike Yarman, a retired<br />

U.S. Army chaplain, as a member of the<br />

presbytery.<br />

• Dissolved the pastoral relationship between<br />

Rev. T.J. Gentry and the Covenant<br />

<strong>Reformed</strong> <strong>Presbyterian</strong> <strong>Church</strong>.<br />

• Revised the procedure for churches requesting<br />

loans for purchase of property<br />

from the presbytery.?<br />

Peachtree Corners Helps Stop Hunger<br />

On Sept. 17, members of the<br />

Peachtree Corners <strong>ARP</strong> <strong>Church</strong> joined<br />

the fight to “Stop Hunger Now” by<br />

packaging over 10,000 meals which<br />

will be distributed through school<br />

feeding programs and orphanages<br />

in impoverished areas around<br />

the world.<br />

Each highly nutritious, dehydrated meal package serves six<br />

people and is easily transported, stored for up to five years<br />

and distributed to those in greatest need.<br />

<strong>ARP</strong> minister, Jeff Lewis, helps distribute these and other<br />

types of necessities to the people of Haiti.?<br />

Tennessee-Alabama Presbytery<br />

Fall Stated Meeting, Sept. 17-18, 2011<br />

Hanmaum <strong>ARP</strong> Mission<br />

Madison, AL<br />

• Held a workshop for members conducted by<br />

Steve Brown of the PCA.<br />

• Heard a report from the Muscle Shoals Property<br />

Commission regarding progress in negotiation<br />

for the potential sale of the property in<br />

Muscle Shoals, AL.<br />

• Approved a motion to reserve funds from the<br />

sale of the Muscle Shoals property for use in<br />

new church development.<br />

• Approved a Memorial to the 2012 General<br />

Synod to refer the “Revised Form of Government<br />

Draft 2011” back to the committee of<br />

Synod for further work and to extend the time<br />

for consideration before sending to Presbytery<br />

for ratification.<br />

• Allowed C. F. Edgar to resign from Presbytery’s<br />

Christian Education Committee.<br />

• Named J. Gregory Duke Presbytery’s representative<br />

to the Synod Board of Christian Education<br />

Ministries until 2016, and to chair the<br />

corresponding committee of Presbytery.<br />

• Named Charles W. Bradley as Presbytery’s<br />

representative to the Executive Board of Synod<br />

until 2016.<br />

• Approved a motion that Presbytery continue<br />

supporting the Hanmaum and Riverside Missions<br />

at current levels for one year.<br />

• Directed the Outreach Tennessee Alabama<br />

Committee to identify two locations for potential<br />

church planting efforts and to report the<br />

same at the Spring Stated Meeting 2012.<br />

• Directed the Christian Education Meeting to<br />

plan another workshop to be held in conjunctionwith<br />

a stated meeting of Presbytery.<br />

• Accepted the invitation from the Riverside<br />

<strong>ARP</strong> Mission to host Spring Stated Meeting<br />

for 2013.?<br />

Charles Bradley, Stated Clerk<br />

Tennessee-Alabama Presbytery<br />

NOVEMBER 2011 17


News in Brief<br />

New ministers and new employees attended a 2-day <strong>ARP</strong> Synod orientation<br />

program Sept. 26 & 27 at the <strong>ARP</strong> Center in Greenville, SC.<br />

Front row (left to right): Soon Jeong Hwang, John Lim, Young Bong Choe,<br />

Suk Ho Jin, Jen Rolison, Joseph Rolison; Second row (left to right): Shadrach<br />

Chung, Sam Hoi Jung, Man Soon Park, Melissa Livingston, Cliff Smith, Tobe<br />

Frierson, Myeong-Jin Hwang, Stephen Frey; Back Row (Left to right): Mario<br />

Russo, Derek Thomas, David Earle, Jason Allen, Trey McCurry, David Park,<br />

Judi Hodges; Not pictured: Barney & Tricia Heyward, Brandon Barrett, Scott<br />

Robar, Paul & Mary Robelot, Derek Thomas.<br />

Prosperity Celebrates 189 Years<br />

On September 11, Prosperity, the oldest <strong>Associate</strong> <strong>Reformed</strong><br />

<strong>Presbyterian</strong> <strong>Church</strong> in Alabama, celebrated its 189th anniversary.<br />

Neighbors from the other churches in the Marion Junction community,<br />

and <strong>ARP</strong>s from Camden and Bethel <strong>ARP</strong> congregations, came<br />

together for worship and a bountiful meal.<br />

Coinciding with the national observance of 9/11, Rev. Rabun<br />

Williams’ sermon emphasized that as Christians, we look back on<br />

what God has done and build on it as we look forward with hope<br />

to the Second Coming. Between the final Psalm (Prosperity sings<br />

exclusively the Bible Songs) and benediction, a moment of silence<br />

for those lost in the war on terrorism was observed.<br />

Founded in 1822, just three years after Alabama became a state,<br />

Prosperity is in a yoked pastorate with Camden and Bethel, and has<br />

services on the 2nd Sunday of each month.?<br />

Providence Celebrates<br />

175th Anniversary<br />

Providence <strong>ARP</strong> <strong>Church</strong> in Clinton, SC, began its 175th<br />

Anniversary celebration on Sept. 11, 2011, to the sweet sound<br />

of bagpipes playing Amazing Grace. Bagpiper David McLeod<br />

is the son of Dr. and Mrs. Daryl McLeod of Greenwood,<br />

and great grandson of the late Mr. and Mrs. Lowry Wilson<br />

– longtime members of Providence.<br />

Special music was also presented by seventh generation<br />

members Joseph Stewart and Anna Wages. Former Erskine<br />

President Dr. Randy Ruble was guest minister. Jamey Dagenhart<br />

has served as student supply for the past year.<br />

Following the worship service, more than 100 members, former<br />

members, and guests enjoyed a catered lunch and fellowship.<br />

Guests were invited to participate in a Psalm sing and go<br />

to the historic Providence Cemetery, the site of the first church<br />

building erected in 1836 and located just outside of Clinton.<br />

In commemoration of this historic day, former member and<br />

family historian Jane Todd Presseau compiled and edited a first<br />

supplement to the 1977 History of Providence <strong>ARP</strong> <strong>Church</strong> by<br />

James P. Sloan. The history includes pastors in ministry since<br />

1977, church officers, baptisms, marriages, deaths, new members<br />

and loss of members. A pictorial directory and tributes to<br />

several deceased members are also included.<br />

Also for this special year, Bob Wages of Atlanta designed a<br />

commemorative logo, displayed on an outside banner and used<br />

on bulletin covers.?<br />

Oldest & Youngest Retired Col. Walter B. Todd,<br />

Sr. 95, and Allie Wages, 14 months, held by Ruth<br />

Todd Shealy.<br />

Rev. Rabun Williams (center) is our<br />

interim pastor. Prosperity’s elders<br />

are Bernard Sanderson (left) and<br />

Tom Moore (right).<br />

Dr. Nolon Carter is greeted by Dr. Randy Ruble<br />

after the service.<br />

18 THE ASSOCIATE REFORMED PRESBYTERIAN


November Prayer Calendar<br />

Synod’s Committee on Worship has authorized this calendar for use in private devotions and family altars throughout the denomination.<br />

Scripture readings, memory verses and Westminster Shorter Catechism questions correspond with those used in the Adult Quarterly<br />

Sunday School curriculum published by Christian Education Ministries. In support of the <strong>ARP</strong> denomination, we ask that you include<br />

the churches and individuals listed below in your daily prayers.<br />

MEMORY VERSE<br />

Do not think that I have come to abolish<br />

the Law or the Prophets; I have not come<br />

to abolish them but to fulfill them (Matthew<br />

5:17).<br />

SHORTER CATECHISM<br />

Q.56. What is the reason annexed to the<br />

third commandment?<br />

A. The reason annexed to the third commandment<br />

is, That however the breakers<br />

of this commandment may escape punishment<br />

from men, yet the Lord our God will<br />

not suffer them to escape his righteous<br />

judgment.<br />

1<br />

Psalm<br />

2<br />

James<br />

3<br />

Luke<br />

4<br />

Matthew<br />

5<br />

Luke<br />

6<br />

Matthew<br />

WEEK ONE<br />

32:1-5. Sherwood Forest<br />

<strong>ARP</strong> <strong>Church</strong>, Columbia, SC: Mark<br />

Hering, student supply. Chaplain<br />

Lawrence Hamrick, Jr., Fort Campbell,<br />

KY, army.<br />

5:13-18. Statesville Korean<br />

<strong>ARP</strong> <strong>Church</strong>, Statesville, NC: Rev.<br />

Song Choi, pastor.<br />

6:37-42. Wellspring <strong>Presbyterian</strong><br />

<strong>Church</strong>, Daleville, VA: Rev. David<br />

Blugerman, pastor.<br />

18:21-35. SonLife <strong>Church</strong>,<br />

Jacksonville, FL: Rev. Robert Hovey,<br />

mission developer.<br />

7:40-47. Sandy Plains <strong>ARP</strong><br />

<strong>Church</strong>, Tryon, NC: Rev. James<br />

Mitchell, pastor.<br />

5:17-26. Retired missionaries:<br />

Imogene Covone, Gold Gate, FL;<br />

Kathy Warner, Flat Rock, NC, on their<br />

birthdays.<br />

WEEK TWO<br />

MEMORY VERSE<br />

Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly<br />

Father is perfect (Matthew 5:48).<br />

SHORTER CATECHISM<br />

Q.57. Which is the fourth commandment?<br />

A. The fourth commandment is, Remember<br />

the sabbath-day, to keep it holy. Six<br />

days shalt thou labour, and do all thy work:<br />

but the seventh day is the sabbath of the<br />

Lord they God: in it thou shalt not do any<br />

work, thou, nor thy son, nor thy daughter,<br />

thy manservant, nor thy maid-servant nor<br />

thy cattle, nor thy stranger that is within<br />

thy gates: for in six days the Lord made<br />

heaven and earth, the sea, and all that<br />

in them is, and rested the seventh day:<br />

wherefore the Lord blessed the sabbathday<br />

and hallowed it.<br />

7<br />

8<br />

9<br />

10<br />

11<br />

12<br />

13<br />

Matthew 22:34-40. Shepherd Road<br />

<strong>Presbyterian</strong> <strong>Church</strong>, Lakeland, FL:<br />

Rev. Kent Adrian, pastor.<br />

Deuteronomy 6:1-9. First <strong>ARP</strong><br />

<strong>Church</strong>, Statesville, NC: Charles<br />

Rickert, clerk of session.<br />

Leviticus 19:13-18. Messiah Christian<br />

Fellowship, Asheville, NC: Rev. John<br />

Spence, pastor.<br />

Leviticus 19:33-37. First <strong>Presbyterian</strong><br />

<strong>Church</strong>, Tucker, GA: Rev. Anthony<br />

Locke, pastor.<br />

Ephesians 5:25-33.Travelers Rest <strong>ARP</strong><br />

Mission, Travelers Rest, SC: Rev. William<br />

L. Barron, mission developer.<br />

Titus 2:1-5. Progressive <strong>Presbyterian</strong><br />

<strong>Church</strong>, Princeton, NC: Rev.<br />

Percy Coleman, pastor.<br />

Matthew 5:43-48. Shiloh <strong>ARP</strong><br />

<strong>Church</strong>, Lancaster, SC: Rev. Mark<br />

J. Miller, pastor.<br />

WEEK THREE<br />

MEMORY VERSE<br />

But when you pray, do not be like the<br />

hypocrites, for they love to pray standing<br />

in the synagogues and on the street<br />

corners to be seen by men. I tell you<br />

the truth, they have received their reward<br />

in full (Matthew 6:5).<br />

SHORTER CATECHISM<br />

Q.58. What is required in the fourth commandment?<br />

A. The fourth commandment requireth the<br />

keeping holy to God such set times as he<br />

hath appointed in his word; expressly one<br />

whole day in seven, to be a holy sabbath<br />

to himself.<br />

14<br />

15<br />

16<br />

Genesis 32:6-12. Troy <strong>ARP</strong> <strong>Church</strong>,<br />

Troy, SC: Rev. John Paul Marr, pastor.<br />

Numbers 14:13-19. Prosperity <strong>ARP</strong><br />

<strong>Church</strong>, Marion Junction, AL: Rev.<br />

Rabun Williams, supply.<br />

2 Samuel 7:18-29. Retired minister’s<br />

widow: Martha Morris, Pottsville, AR;<br />

Retired minister: Dr. C.M. Coffey, Davidson,<br />

NC, on their birthdays.<br />

NOVEMBER 2011 19<br />

17<br />

18<br />

19<br />

20<br />

1 Kings 17:17-23. Pressly Memorial<br />

<strong>ARP</strong> <strong>Church</strong>, Statesville, NC: Rev.<br />

Stephen Myers, pastor.<br />

Isaiah 12. Providence <strong>Reformed</strong><br />

<strong>Presbyterian</strong> <strong>Church</strong>, Memphis, TN:<br />

Rev. Joseph Donahue, pastor.<br />

Jeremiah 29:10-14. Retired minister:<br />

Dr. L.M. Allison, Due West, SC, on<br />

his birthday.<br />

Matthew 6:5-15. Reformation <strong>Presbyterian</strong><br />

<strong>Church</strong>, Hendersonville, NC:<br />

Rev. Matthew G. Lucas, pastor. New<br />

Windsor <strong>ARP</strong> <strong>Church</strong>, New Windsor,<br />

MD: Rev. Paul Matthews, pastor.<br />

MEMORY VERSE<br />

But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness<br />

and all these things will be<br />

given to you as well (Matthew 6:33).<br />

SHORTER CATECHISM<br />

Q.59. Which day of the seven hath God<br />

appointed to be the weekly sabbath?<br />

A. From the beginning of the world to the<br />

resurrection of Christ, God appointed the<br />

seventh day of the week to be the weekly<br />

sabbath; and the first day of the week ever<br />

since, to continue to the end of the world,<br />

which is the Christian sabbath.<br />

21<br />

22<br />

23<br />

24<br />

25<br />

26<br />

27<br />

WEEK FOUR<br />

Psalm 37:1-8. Grace Hill <strong>ARP</strong><br />

<strong>Church</strong>, Hillsborough, NC: Rev.<br />

Ross H. Durham, mission developer;<br />

Rev. Stephen Crotts, associate<br />

pastor.<br />

Matthew 13:18-23. Providence <strong>ARP</strong><br />

<strong>Church</strong>, Gastonia, NC: Rev. Gilbert<br />

Rowell, pastor.<br />

Luke 21:29-36. Retired ministers: Dr.<br />

Douglas O. Jones, Flat Rock, NC,<br />

pulpit supply Pinecrest <strong>ARP</strong> <strong>Church</strong>,<br />

Hendersonville, NC; Rev. R. Lionel<br />

Morgan, Huntersville, NC, on their<br />

birthdays.<br />

Matthew 10:24-31. Unity <strong>ARP</strong><br />

<strong>Church</strong>, Piedmont, SC: Rev. Mark<br />

Wright, pastor.<br />

Matthew 10:16-20. Retired minister:<br />

Rev. Bob E. Murdock, Sr., Rock Hill,<br />

SC, on his birthday.<br />

1 Peter 5:6-11. Smyrna <strong>ARP</strong> <strong>Church</strong>,<br />

Smyrna, SC: Ken VanVoorhis, clerk<br />

of session.<br />

Matthew 6:25-34. Thomson <strong>Presbyterian</strong><br />

<strong>Church</strong>, Thomson, GA:<br />

Rev. John D. Cook, pastor.


WEEK FIVE<br />

MEMORY VERSE<br />

Before him all the nations are as nothing;<br />

they are regarded by him as worthless<br />

and less than nothing (Isaiah 40:17).<br />

SHORTER CATECHISM<br />

Q.60. How is the sabbath to be sanctified?<br />

A. The sabbath is to be sanctified by a<br />

holy resting all that day, even from such<br />

worldly employments and recreations as<br />

are lawful on other days; and spending<br />

the whole time in the public and private<br />

exercises of God’s worship, except so<br />

much as is to be taken up in the works<br />

of necessity and mercy.<br />

28<br />

29<br />

30<br />

Psalm 139:1-6, 13-16, 23-24. Retired<br />

missionary: Dr. E. Reynolds Young,<br />

Due West, SC, on his birthday.<br />

Deuteronomy 5:22-27.Lifeline Community<br />

<strong>Church</strong>, Gibsonia, PA: Richard<br />

Doorley, clerk of session.<br />

1 Chronicles 16:28-34. Hanha <strong>Presbyterian</strong><br />

<strong>Church</strong>, Gardena, CA: Rev.<br />

Sung Ku Kim, pastor; Rev. Kye Jong<br />

Chung, associate pastor.<br />

* denotes mission church.<br />

Lessons and/or Readings based on International<br />

Sunday School Lessons. The International Bible<br />

Lessons for Christian Teaching, copyright © 2001<br />

by the Committee on the Uniform Series.<br />

November Events<br />

1 New <strong>Church</strong> Community (NCC) Meeting (ONA)<br />

2-3 Minister & His Work Meeting, 6 p.m., Bonclarken<br />

3-4 Board of Benefits Meeting, 2 p.m. Orientation, 3 p.m.<br />

meeting, Bonclarken<br />

4-6 Catawba Presbytery Middle School<br />

Retreat, Bonclarken<br />

6 Daylight Savings Time Ends<br />

8 Investment Committee, Conference Call, 2 p.m.<br />

9-10 Dunlap Board, 3 p.m., Bonclarken<br />

11 Remembrance Day (Canada); Veterans Day (US)<br />

11-13 First and Second Presbyteries Middle<br />

School Retreat, Bonclarken<br />

14-15 ONA Board Meeting<br />

19 Erskine Homecoming<br />

21-25 Thanksgiving Break, Erskine Seminary<br />

23-27 Thanksgiving Break, Erskine College<br />

24 Thanksgiving Day (US)<br />

24-25 <strong>ARP</strong> Center Offices closed, Thanksgiving Holidays<br />

27 First Sunday of Advent<br />

110 Calvary Home Circle, Anderson, SC 29621<br />

864-296-5437<br />

www.calvaryhome.org<br />

“Providing help and hope to children in need<br />

through the power of Christ”<br />

20 THE ASSOCIATE REFORMED PRESBYTERIAN


A Venture in Faith<br />

By Chip Sherer<br />

PRESIDENT<br />

“Faith Apartments<br />

were so named because<br />

they were just<br />

that – a venture in<br />

faith.” - Jim Brice<br />

I<br />

always appreciate the feedback<br />

from my monthly articles and am<br />

so encouraged by the comments,<br />

letters, and emails that we receive.<br />

The articles which seem to generate<br />

the most response are the articles<br />

that focus on the history of a particular<br />

building or facility. This month I<br />

focus on a very popular housing<br />

facility here at Bonclarken – Faith<br />

Apartments.<br />

Jim Brice served as Bonclarken’s<br />

executive director from 1988 to 2006.<br />

Jim has told me bits of the story of<br />

how Faith Apartments came into being,<br />

but I recently asked him to give<br />

me the whole story. If you have ever<br />

spent a night, weekend, or week in<br />

Faith Apartments, you know them<br />

to be very efficient and comfortable.<br />

How these apartments came into<br />

Bonclarken’s possession is another<br />

example of God’s providence.<br />

In late February 1991, Founders<br />

Hall was almost complete. The goal<br />

of having Founders open for Synod<br />

in June 1991 was on schedule and this<br />

new housing facility was clearly going<br />

to be a fine addition to Bonclarken.<br />

“We were so focused on finishing<br />

Founders that the idea of adding<br />

another housing facility was the last<br />

thing on our minds,” Brice said. “But<br />

God had other plans for us. Ed Cox,<br />

a member of the Peachtree Corners<br />

<strong>Church</strong> and a retired engineer, was<br />

serving as Bonclarken’s representative<br />

with Sherman Construction in the<br />

building of Founders. Ed had just recently<br />

completed his own Bonclarken<br />

house on Dirk Lane.<br />

“Ed received a call from the contractor<br />

who had built his Bonclarken<br />

house. The contractor had a contact<br />

with American Standard Buildings<br />

(ASB), who had just finished a modular<br />

set of six apartment buildings for a<br />

client in Myrtle Beach. The client had<br />

gone out of business and now ASB<br />

was stuck with these apartments...<br />

and they were willing to sell for half<br />

the original price. Would Bonclarken<br />

be interested?”<br />

(A story has circulated that these<br />

apartments were already on their<br />

way to Myrtle Beach when ASB found<br />

out their client was out of business,<br />

but Jim could not verify this interesting<br />

twist.)<br />

“On March 4, 1991, I proposed to<br />

the Bonclarken Board’s Executive<br />

Committee that we buy these apartments.<br />

We anticipated the total cost<br />

Bonclarken’s Faith Apartments<br />

(including furnishings and site preparation)<br />

to be around $300,000, all of<br />

which would have to be borrowed.<br />

The Executive Committee was confident<br />

we could handle the debt and<br />

agreed to recommend it to the full<br />

Board. During a conference call on<br />

March 7, the full Board approved.<br />

“To say this decision was a venture<br />

in faith was an understatement.<br />

I so appreciated the Board’s willingness<br />

to step out in faith so that Faith<br />

Apartments could become a reality.<br />

And not only did we have Founders<br />

Hall ready by Synod, we had Faith<br />

Apartments ready as well.”<br />

I appreciate Jim’s recollection of<br />

this fine story. Was this rapid action<br />

taken by the Bonclarken Board<br />

justified? Twenty years later, Faith<br />

Apartments continue to be one of<br />

our most popular housing facilities.<br />

The Board’s venture in faith in<br />

1991 continues to be a blessing to<br />

Bonclarken today.?<br />

Bonclarken<br />

NOVEMBER 2011 21


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22 THE ASSOCIATE REFORMED PRESBYTERIAN


Erskine community marks new<br />

academic year<br />

DUE WEST, S.C. — “Each one of us is<br />

a tangled web of life experiences, hopes,<br />

dreams, fears, and passions,” Erskine<br />

College and Seminary President Dr. David<br />

Norman told assembled students,<br />

professors, staff members and guests at<br />

the school’s Formal Opening Convocation<br />

Sept. 8. “But God has called us to be<br />

here, right now, together.”<br />

Norman spoke during the worship<br />

service in the Due West <strong>Associate</strong> <strong>Reformed</strong><br />

<strong>Presbyterian</strong> <strong>Church</strong>. Alluding<br />

to Erskine’s mission “to equip students<br />

to flourish,” Norman said rhetoric about<br />

human flourishing is usually “happy and<br />

optimistic” but “can sound a bit fluffy,”<br />

so he took as his topic “The Other Side of<br />

Human Flourishing.”<br />

The president said he believes he did<br />

get one thing right in his first formal<br />

opening address last year—“If we try to<br />

be a community that exists for its own<br />

sake, we are wasting our time.”<br />

Last year Norman laid out his vision<br />

for Erskine, focusing on academic integrity,<br />

financial sustainability, and service<br />

to the poor. This year, spotlighting the<br />

element of service, he said academic communities<br />

“try to offset their elitist tendencies”<br />

by using a system of service to run<br />

alongside the academic program.<br />

But even in such well-intentioned<br />

efforts, real service to the poor is often<br />

replaced by “a self-righteous system of<br />

résumé building” or “some shallow form<br />

of charity that dehumanizes the poor by<br />

putting a thin whitewash over the tomb<br />

of injustice,” the president said.<br />

address some of the bad things we see<br />

around us.”<br />

Norman recounted the story of a<br />

wealthy friend who began to understand<br />

service to the poor in light of Jesus’ call to<br />

“take up your cross.” His comfortable life<br />

was no longer enough. “He began to see<br />

a whole new dimension of Christ’s deep,<br />

authentic, and crazy kind of love.”<br />

Considering how his friend’s lesson<br />

might be applied to Erskine as an “authentically<br />

Christian liberal arts community,”<br />

Norman said his three-word response<br />

would be “I don’t know,” summarizing<br />

about 90 percent of the answer.<br />

“I’m not giving up on an answer,” he<br />

explained. “I really think that ‘I don’t<br />

know’ is the answer. If we can’t admit<br />

that we don’t know, we can never learn<br />

anything. And if we think we have it all<br />

figured out, we are stuck up in our irrelevant<br />

ivory tower again. This is an intellectual<br />

aspect of service to the poor.”<br />

Identify With Poor<br />

Then Norman homed in on his message.<br />

“Here is the really, really beautiful<br />

thing about the other side of human flourishing:<br />

when we identify ourselves with<br />

the poor, we join the community that most<br />

urgently seeks God’s blessing,” he said.<br />

“And whether that community of<br />

seekers is defined in spiritual, physical or<br />

intellectual terms, we recognize our utter<br />

dependence on God and on each other,”<br />

he continued.<br />

Such a community is blessed by<br />

a whole new dimension of love—“that<br />

crazy kind” that Norman’s wealthy<br />

friend discovered.<br />

Taking up the pulpit Bible, Norman<br />

read the account in Luke 18 of “the rich<br />

young ruler” who is seeking eternal life<br />

and says he has kept all the commandments<br />

since his youth. Jesus tells him, “...<br />

sell all that thou hast, and distribute unto<br />

the poor, and thou shalt have treasure in<br />

heaven: and come, follow me.”<br />

Jesus’ response to the man’s unwillingness<br />

to give up his possessions is his famous<br />

description of how difficult it is for<br />

a rich man to enter heaven—“it is easier<br />

for a camel to go through a needle’s eye.”<br />

Norman said the passage that immediately<br />

precedes the story of the rich young<br />

man—“Whosoever shall not receive the<br />

kingdom of God as a little child shall in<br />

no wise enter therein”— represents the<br />

overall principle the story illustrates.<br />

“That is the message I really want to<br />

leave you with today,” Norman said,<br />

speaking especially to students. “Don’t<br />

get too uptight! Have faith. Don’t worry.<br />

Don’t try to prove yourself. Have fun.<br />

Enjoy God. Enjoy each other.”<br />

He added, “Take advantage of the<br />

good things God is doing in, around and<br />

through Erskine. And don’t worry about<br />

the bad stuff. That’s my job!”<br />

Moving toward the conclusion of his<br />

address, the president said there is a line<br />

from the epic poem Idylls of the King by<br />

Alfred, Lord Tennyson that “goes along<br />

with this theme of the joy that comes<br />

through childlike humility.”<br />

The line, etched on one of the walls of<br />

Erskine’s McCain Library, is: “Live pure,<br />

speak true, right wrong, follow the King.<br />

Else, wherefore born?”?<br />

Erskine<br />

Task Force Commissioned<br />

“And that is why, although I talk<br />

about service to the poor a lot, I haven’t<br />

rushed off to start some new program or<br />

system of quick fixes to long-term problems,”<br />

he said.<br />

Instead, a task force commissioned by<br />

the president will offer proposals based<br />

on “their year of listening and learning,”<br />

he said. “I believe that together, if we<br />

are smart about it, we can authentically<br />

Norman speaks during Formal Opening Convocation at Due West <strong>ARP</strong> <strong>Church</strong>.<br />

NOVEMBER 2011 23


Outreach North America<br />

Is God Calling You to Grow and Change?<br />

DR. ALAN J. AVERA<br />

Executive Director<br />

In our From the Field article this<br />

month, Brandon Barrett tells us<br />

about how a phone call from an<br />

old friend became the conduit for a<br />

new call from God.<br />

These kinds of calls do not neces-<br />

sarily come just when we are looking<br />

for a change. Sometimes God knows<br />

we need to grow and stretch in<br />

precisely the ways we had not been<br />

seeking to grow and stretch. Sometimes<br />

God has been preparing us<br />

for exactly the kind of challenge that<br />

only He knew we soon would be<br />

called to face.<br />

From my own experience as a<br />

church planter over 20 years ago, I can<br />

tell my readers that church planting is<br />

not easy. In fact, it is the most difficult<br />

thing I have ever done. Though difficult,<br />

church planting also has been<br />

the most rewarding thing I have ever<br />

done. I grew through the challenges<br />

of church planting in ways I could<br />

never have anticipated.<br />

How is God calling you to grow<br />

and change? If you are a pastor or<br />

seminary student, is God calling<br />

you to the challenging task of multiplying<br />

disciples through planting<br />

new churches? If you are comfortable<br />

in your pew each Sunday, is<br />

there some way God is calling you to<br />

be more active in serving your church<br />

or your community? Perhaps God is<br />

even calling you to help in one of our<br />

new congregations.?<br />

Grace <strong>Presbyterian</strong>–<br />

By Rev. Brandon Barrett<br />

A year ago I answered the phone and<br />

heard the voice of an old friend. Ten years<br />

earlier we had been together, along with our<br />

wives, in a church small group in Chapel Hill,<br />

NC. They were calling to see if I might be interested<br />

in moving to Columbia, SC, where<br />

they now lived, to plant a new church.<br />

I almost laughed. My wife Liz grew up in<br />

Charlotte, NC, where they refer to Columbia<br />

as “the armpit of the South.” We had<br />

never seriously considered church planting.<br />

I was serving as the senior pastor of a PCA<br />

church in Williamsburg, VA – a beautiful<br />

town that had never been called the armpit<br />

of anything. As my friend and I talked, Liz<br />

The Barrett family<br />

looked at me from across the kitchen and reminded me to at least talk and pray about it before<br />

saying no.<br />

That night we had a call from a friend – and the beginning of a new call from God. Over<br />

the next year, we walked through the process of thinking, praying, and interviewing to be<br />

the mission developer for Grace <strong>Presbyterian</strong> <strong>Church</strong> in Northeast Columbia. Through these<br />

months, we often thought of closing the door and staying put in Virginia, but at each point we<br />

simply felt that God had us in the process for a reason and that whatever the outcome would<br />

be, we were to trust Him and His timing. With each visit to Columbia, we found something<br />

strange happening to us – we were feeling that Columbia was our home.<br />

Called to Serve<br />

Through the process, God made it clear that He was calling us to Columbia to help start<br />

this church. Since moving to Columbia in June, we have been at First <strong>Presbyterian</strong> Columbia,<br />

the sponsoring church of this Catawba Presbytery plant. I have been teaching a Sunday School<br />

class, getting to know people, and sharing the vision for this new church that God is creating.<br />

God is faithful. Just as He called us here, He is calling others to be a part of this church.<br />

Recently, we started meeting as a Launch Team: 28 adults and 22 children. We will be<br />

working together to get to know people in Northeast Columbia, learning how to be a church<br />

together, and growing as a team in the mission and vision to which we have been called.<br />

We have a lot to learn about how to reach this part of our city, but there are a few things<br />

we do know: God has called us to be a church committed to reaching the lost and unchurched<br />

and de-churched. We want to be, in the words of another pastor, “sinner-safe” – a church that<br />

welcomes sinners and graciously offers them the words of life.<br />

We want God’s grace toward us to make us gracious towards others.<br />

And we want to live daily in the reality that Christians are people<br />

who have been called into a mission by God – a mission to be his witnesses<br />

wherever we are, making disciples of all nations, to the glory<br />

of God.<br />

We hope to begin public services on Palm Sunday, but we know<br />

that we have to take our time, get to know our city, and love our neighbors.<br />

We will not open our doors until we actually know the people<br />

we hope to reach and are ready to invite them into this community of<br />

God’s people.<br />

Liz and I are finding Columbia to be beautiful in ways we had not<br />

expected. We have been warmly and graciously received here. We are<br />

making good friends, seeing God’s provision at every step, and growing<br />

in our heart to see God’s mission go forward here, in Columbia,<br />

our new home.?<br />

24 THE ASSOCIATE REFORMED PRESBYTERIAN


A NEW FIELD OF SERVICE . . .<br />

BE CAREFUL WHEN YOU VOLUNTEER OTHERS FOR MISSIONS<br />

By Alex and Jamie Pettett<br />

United States – As you may know, we served<br />

in Israel with World Witness from 2006-2009. In<br />

2009, Israel refused to renew our visas. For the<br />

last several years, the government branch in<br />

charge of the long-term visas has been intentionally<br />

weeding out missionaries and Christian<br />

workers in Israel. The Israeli government told<br />

us we had to take a leave for six months from<br />

Israel in order to renew our long-term visa.<br />

While stateside, I was honored to represent<br />

World Witness at the Third International<br />

Congress on World Evangelism in Cape Town,<br />

South Africa. The Congress challenged us to<br />

volunteer our respective agencies and churches<br />

to reach the 600 or so yet unengaged people<br />

groups in the world. An unengaged people<br />

group is one that is unreached (i.e. less than 2%<br />

of the group are evangelical) and has no missionaries<br />

trying to reach it.<br />

In southeastern Turkey, I noticed a group<br />

of Arabs speaking a dialect of Arabic called<br />

“Northern Mesopotamian.” I remembered that Eric and Laurie Meberg were living in that area and may<br />

have encountered this group. So, like a good American, I volunteered the Mebergs to “go get ‘em.”<br />

A few months after returning from Cape Town, the Israeli government issued us a final notice<br />

stating they would not allow us to obtain a long-term visa. We felt the Lord gently and yet with great<br />

finality, telling us to move on. We grieved at the closing of this door and occasionally still feel pangs<br />

of loss. Regardless, the Lord has given us new joy and direction.<br />

He has called us to face our convictions of reaching the unreached and unengaged. And it is by<br />

God’s good grace that He is sending us to the very area I volunteered World Witness to reach almost<br />

one year ago, southeastern<br />

Turkey. Where non-believers<br />

may see ironic justice, we see<br />

perfect providence.<br />

In October, we joined<br />

the Mebergs in Mardin to<br />

spread seed among the unreached<br />

and unengaged of<br />

southeastern Turkey.?<br />

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<strong>ARP</strong> Women’s Ministries<br />

ELAINE REED<br />

President<br />

TEACHABLE MOMENTS<br />

Love the LORD your God with all<br />

your heart and with all your soul and<br />

with all your strength. These commandments<br />

that I give you today are to be on<br />

your hearts. Impress them on your children.<br />

Talk about them when you sit at<br />

home and when you walk along the road,<br />

when you lie down and when you get up.<br />

Tie them as symbols on your hands and<br />

bind them on your foreheads. Write them<br />

on the door frames of your houses and on<br />

your gates (Deuteronomy 6:5-9).<br />

In Deuteronomy Chapter 5, Moses<br />

gathers the children of Israel<br />

and restates the Ten Commandments<br />

for all to hear. As the text continues<br />

into Chapter 6, the Israelites<br />

are challenged to incorporate God’s<br />

laws and precepts daily into their<br />

lives. Parents are to teach their children<br />

the knowledge of God’s will;<br />

demonstrating these instructions are<br />

for all generations. Even today, parents<br />

should take advantage of opportunities<br />

to teach their children about<br />

God and His desire for their lives.<br />

Recently, I was reminded of these<br />

verses as a friend shared a story about<br />

her son. The boy had been playing<br />

with a toy he had made with the help<br />

of his dad. When she entered the<br />

room, she found her son surrounded<br />

by Styrofoam pieces scattered across<br />

the carpet. Imagine the look of disappointment<br />

that must have been<br />

on her face. Immediately, the young<br />

boy realized his actions were wrong<br />

and he sought the forgiveness of<br />

his mother.<br />

As part of his discipline, the boy<br />

vacuumed up the Styrofoam. Once<br />

the living room was restored to its<br />

original condition, the boy picked<br />

up his toy to resume playing. As he<br />

looked at his toy, he realized it was<br />

now disfigured and had been damaged<br />

forever. He was consumed with<br />

guilt and remorse. Repeatedly the<br />

mother attempted to console him.<br />

She gently brushed away his tears<br />

and provided reassuring hugs, but<br />

nothing could change what had happened,<br />

nor could it remove this overwhelming<br />

feeling of remorse.<br />

Lessons Learned<br />

I wonder how God will use this<br />

teachable moment as he grows up.<br />

Will he find himself using this experience<br />

to help a fellow Christian<br />

through a difficult time? After hearing<br />

this story, I recalled several situations<br />

God used to teach me greater lessons.<br />

Some took place when I was a child,<br />

like the time I dropped my baton on<br />

my kitten’s head—literally knocking<br />

it senseless. Others occurred as an<br />

adult, such as hurting someone’s feelings<br />

without realizing it.<br />

As Christians, the Holy Spirit lives<br />

within us. Like a parent, the Spirit<br />

comforts us in our hour of need. When<br />

we are grieved so deeply we can not<br />

find the words to utter, the Spirit intercedes<br />

on our behalf (Romans 8:26-<br />

27). He stirs our conscience when we<br />

sin. He is our Advocate, teaching us<br />

all things and reminding us what has<br />

been revealed in scripture (John 14).<br />

At the point of our effectual calling,<br />

the Spirit united us to Christ by faith<br />

(Westminster Shorter Catechism 30).<br />

It is the same Spirit who raised Jesus<br />

from the dead, who now lives within<br />

those that profess Christ as their Savior<br />

(Romans 8:11). Think of the power<br />

available to us to resist sin if we<br />

would only submit to God’s will.<br />

Is Christianity simply a lifestyle<br />

for Sunday or is it deeper and more<br />

meaningful to our lives? Question<br />

one of the Westminster Shorter Catechism<br />

states it is the chief end of<br />

man “to glorify God, and to enjoy<br />

him forever.”<br />

The Merriam-Webster dictionary<br />

defines forever as a limitless amount<br />

of time. Paul provides a snapshot of<br />

this concept in 1 Corinthians 10:31—<br />

“So whether you eat or drink or whatever<br />

you do, do it all for the glory<br />

of God.” When I fail to glorify God<br />

by my actions, is my heart pricked<br />

with guilt and remorse like the boy<br />

felt when he realized his toy was<br />

damaged forever? I am afraid not often<br />

enough.<br />

As we celebrate Thanksgiving,<br />

may we remember to praise God for<br />

the teachable moments He has used<br />

to mold our lives.?<br />

Volunteers Needed<br />

The 100th Annual Meeting of<br />

<strong>ARP</strong> Women’s Ministries will be<br />

held in 2014. Volunteers are needed<br />

to plan this special event. If<br />

you are interested in sharing your<br />

gifts in support of planning this<br />

event please contact Elaine Reed<br />

<strong>ARP</strong>WM.President@gmail.com or<br />

843-572-6427.<br />

26 THE ASSOCIATE REFORMED PRESBYTERIAN


TIE ONE ON FOR THE GOSPEL!<br />

ELIZABETH M. BURNS<br />

Coordinator<br />

Give me a moment to explain!<br />

Recently I was introduced<br />

to a great idea for reaching<br />

out to neighbors: “Tie One On Day.”<br />

This is the brainchild of EllynAnne<br />

Geisel, whose website (www.apronmemories.com)<br />

has loads of fun facts<br />

and history about aprons.<br />

Geisel’s love of aprons and joy of<br />

Thanksgiving led her to the idea of<br />

reaching out to a neighbor in need.<br />

From her website she says, “Four<br />

years ago I noticed that Thanksgiving<br />

was talked about in terms<br />

more commonly associated with<br />

stress than joy. I remembered my<br />

mother’s absolute love of Thanksgiving<br />

as a day more than anything<br />

else of sharing and gratefulness.<br />

So I created National Tie One On<br />

Day as an annual opportunity to<br />

“give” to Thanksgiving by sharing<br />

our good fortune with someone in<br />

need of a kind gesture.”<br />

The basic idea is simple and requires<br />

only two aprons, a loaf of<br />

bread (or other baked good), and<br />

a note card. You put on one apron,<br />

lay the other apron on a table and<br />

place the loaf of bread in the center.<br />

Write a short note of encouragement<br />

or Scripture; place it in<br />

the pocket of the apron, wrap the<br />

apron up neatly and tie it, if possible.<br />

Then, with your apron on,<br />

walk out your front door to the<br />

front door of the neighbor you<br />

have chosen to receive the apron.<br />

Knock on the door, give them<br />

the gift, say a prayer with them, if<br />

appropriate, and off you go. The<br />

idea from the website is to do this<br />

on the day before Thanksgiving,<br />

which this year would be Wednesday,<br />

Nov. 23. I don’t know how to<br />

make breaking the ice with someone<br />

any easier than this! The opportunities<br />

to use this, I believe,<br />

are endless and don’t have to be<br />

confined just to the day before<br />

Thanksgiving.<br />

I thought of so many other<br />

times you could use this idea: any<br />

holiday of choice; birthdays; anniversaries;<br />

illness; death; new<br />

baby; new neighbor; or, just because.<br />

Now that you’ve met your<br />

neighbor(s), it makes it a bit easier<br />

to speak to them on the street and<br />

to approach them again to invite<br />

them in for tea or a cool drink.<br />

I particularly appreciate the<br />

idea of putting on your own apron<br />

as you do this. Now before you<br />

think aprons are too old fashioned,<br />

let me assure you they are not.<br />

In fact, aprons are very much in<br />

vogue right now. Just go on your<br />

computer and search the word<br />

“apron,” and you will pull up an<br />

avalanche of websites devoted to<br />

aprons – showing them to be very<br />

much in demand.<br />

God’s Servant<br />

But the main reason I appreciate<br />

the apron is because it reminds<br />

me that I am a servant – God’s servant;<br />

a servant to the King. As a<br />

servant, I’m to do the King’s bidding<br />

for His sake, not mine, thus<br />

relieving my “fear” of approaching<br />

the unknown and of being rejected<br />

or ridiculed. I’m sure many of<br />

you have been challenged by our<br />

Moderator, Andy Putnam, through<br />

our focus this year, “The Free Offer<br />

of the Gospel.”<br />

Like me, maybe you’ve been<br />

wondering just how you might<br />

take up this challenge for the sake<br />

of Christ and His Gospel. I believe<br />

God has provided a wonderful<br />

way for women to go boldly forth<br />

with Scripture notes and prayers<br />

of blessing to serve and share<br />

the Bread of Life with those<br />

around us who are lost and hurting<br />

and hopeless.<br />

If you are interested in this for<br />

your women’s ministries, just go<br />

to the website listed above and you<br />

will find everything you need to<br />

get started. Although this is a secular<br />

website, this idea can be fully<br />

wrapped and infused with Christ<br />

and the Gospel. One of the churches<br />

in my area which is involved<br />

in this ministry has set aside two<br />

Saturdays before Thanksgiving to<br />

present ideas on different types of<br />

aprons to use; how to sew your own<br />

apron; how to tailor the apron’s<br />

contents for specific needs, which<br />

could be used any time during the<br />

year; suggested Scriptures; recipes<br />

for different kinds of breads and<br />

appropriate baked goods – along<br />

with tips and coaching for those<br />

not quite sure what to say when<br />

they first knock on someone’s front<br />

door; and even some ideas on how<br />

to follow up with that neighbor.<br />

I thank God for this timely idea<br />

and for the opportunity to serve<br />

others on behalf of our King Jesus.<br />

So join me, won’t you? Together,<br />

let’s Tie One On for the Gospel!?<br />

PLEASE MAKE A NOTE: NEW EMAIL<br />

ADDRESS FOR THE COORDINATOR:<br />

arpwmcoord@arpsynod.org.<br />

<strong>ARP</strong> Women’s Ministries<br />

NOVEMBER 2011 27


All In Our Family<br />

By Sharon Griffin<br />

Personal Mention<br />

BETHANY (SC): Louise Biggers turned 90<br />

on Sept. 10.<br />

CRAIG AVE. TABERNACLE (NC): Bob &<br />

Norma Owens celebrated their 60th wedding<br />

anniversary Sept. 2.<br />

EBENEZER (SC): Rev. & Mrs. Charles<br />

(Mary Alice) Mitchell celebrated their 62nd<br />

wedding anniversary Aug. 25.<br />

FAYETTEVILLE (TN): Drennan Horsley<br />

celebrated her 80th birthday Aug. 25, Alise<br />

Austin, her 90th on Sept. 13, and Martha<br />

Henry, her 80th on Sept. 14.<br />

GASTONIA FIRST (NC): Mary Rose &<br />

Tom Campbell celebrated 54 years of marriage<br />

Sept. 14.<br />

GREENWOOD (SC): Phillips & Elsie Tinkler<br />

marked 64 years of marriage on Aug. 30.<br />

PISGAH (NC): Ed Carson recently completed<br />

50 years of perfect attendance at<br />

Sunday School. Bill Whitesides recently<br />

celebrated his 80th birthday. Matt Faulkner<br />

was selected Most Valuable Player for JV<br />

Baseball at Hunter Huss High School.<br />

RICHLAND (TN): Pat & Ruth Billingsley<br />

celebrated 52 years of marriage Sept. 5.<br />

SEBRING (FL): Seniors who recently<br />

marked special birthdays were: John Denning<br />

(94 years Aug. 23) and Edie Trotter<br />

(93 years on Aug. 31). George & Kathryn<br />

Thompson were married 55 years as of<br />

Aug. 24.<br />

THOMSON (GA): Bill & Lorena Johnson<br />

recently celebrated 54 years of marriage.<br />

WILDHURST (VA): James & Rosalee<br />

Hedrick were married 54 years in Aug.<br />

Marriages<br />

BACK CREEK (NC): Lauren Baucom &<br />

Jeremy Brown, Aug. 20.<br />

BURLINGTON (NC): Bob Hilton & Gwen<br />

Andrews, Sept. 3.<br />

CROWDERS CREEK (NC): Lauren Elizabeth<br />

Elliotte & Daniel David Beech, Aug.<br />

20. Kelly Marie Brooks & Ricky Lee<br />

Hogue, Aug. 20.<br />

FRENCH CAMP (MS): Jenn Barlow & Jason<br />

Geiser, Sept. 2.<br />

UNITY (Lancaster, SC): Noelle Marie Marsh<br />

& Brenner Jackson Hartley, Sept. 10.<br />

Births<br />

AVON PARK (FL): Matt & Dena Soto, a<br />

daughter Alma Gloria, July 19.<br />

BACK CREEK (NC): Erin & Josh Smith, a<br />

son Harrison, July 30.<br />

BETHEL (SC): Doug & Christa Herrera, a<br />

daughter Ana Lynn, Aug. 23.<br />

CENTENNIAL (SC): Jake & Cristina Ramos<br />

Deputy, a son Jacob Dallas, Aug. 15.<br />

CHESTER (SC): Rev. & Mrs. Clint (Patti)<br />

Davis, a daughter Sarah Grace, Aug. 30.<br />

COLUMBIA FIRST (SC): Legare & Tap<br />

Gresham, a son Charles Richard, Aug. 16.<br />

Anna Claire & Jon Dando, a son Charles<br />

Bridges, Aug. 25. Tracy & Rick Folks, a<br />

daughter Sydney Michaela, Aug. 26.<br />

COVINGTON (TN): Mr. & Mrs. Kent Zent,<br />

a daughter Katherine Elizabeth, July 6.<br />

EBENEZER (SC): Garret & Julia Brink, a<br />

daughter Frances Adelaide “Addie,” Sept. 1.<br />

GREENVILLE (SC): Rev. & Mrs. Matt<br />

(Lindsay) Miller, a daughter Elise Noelle,<br />

Aug. 25.<br />

GUM TREE (MS): Mr. & Mrs. Adam Potts,<br />

a son Zane. Mr. & Mrs. Clay Coggins, a<br />

son Todd Kellum. Mr. & Mrs. Raul Cruz, a<br />

daughter Angelina Isabella.<br />

NEELY’S CREEK (SC): Eric & Jennifer<br />

Matthews, a daughter Hollins Gray, July 27.<br />

RIVERSIDE (AL): Nate and Molly Jaeger,<br />

twin boys Tim and Mark on June 21,2011.<br />

Deaths<br />

BARTOW (FL): Francine Barfield Mercer,<br />

91, died Aug. 10.<br />

CRAIG AVE. TABERNACLE (NC):<br />

Armstrong, 85, died July 28.<br />

28 THE ASSOCIATE REFORMED PRESBYTERIAN<br />

Ruth<br />

FROSTPROOF (FL): George Jackson, 66,<br />

deacon, died Aug. 14. Frances “Sweetmama”<br />

Griffin Mulcay, 96, Sunday school<br />

teacher, died Aug. 20.<br />

GREENWOOD (SC): Virginia Dale Puckett<br />

Cheatham, 89, died Aug. 31.<br />

LAKE WALES (FL): Francis “Frank” M.<br />

Coyne, 83, deacon, elder, Elder of Visitation<br />

for 13 years, died Aug. 29.<br />

LAUDERDALE (VA): Vanita Hostetter<br />

Craft, 89, died Aug. 15. William Edward<br />

Johnson, 91, died Sept. 3.<br />

NEW AMITY (NC): Mildred Jenkins Miller,<br />

79, died Aug. 20.<br />

OLD PROVIDENCE (VA): Dennis Woodrow<br />

Conner, 82, died Aug. 7.<br />

ROCK HILL FIRST (SC): Nancy Collins<br />

Orr, 83, died Aug. 8.<br />

SEBRING (FL): John C. Freeland, 91, died<br />

Aug. 12. Dorothy Fisher, 87, died Aug. 26.<br />

STATESVILLE FIRST (NC): Jean Moore<br />

Bradford, Camp Joy attendee for 31 years,<br />

died Aug. 4. Faye West White, 89, died<br />

Aug. 19.<br />

New Communicant<br />

Members<br />

BURLINGTON (NC): Caroline & Reighanna<br />

Bailey, Bennett, Janice, & Kathryn<br />

Richardson, Shauneen Roy, Hannah<br />

Baird, David & Nicole Newton.<br />

CENTENNIAL (SC):<br />

Osborne.<br />

EFFINGHAM (SC): Ernie Davis.<br />

Jason & Ginger<br />

FAITH (Merritt Island, FL): Josiah Soule.<br />

FAYETTEVILLE (TN): Paisley Cowley,<br />

Anna Claire Dickey, Hugh & Beth Dickey,<br />

Caroline Mills, Meg O’Connor, Ashton<br />

Towry.


FROSTPROOF (FL): Danny & Julie Darby.<br />

GOOD NEWS (MD): Tommy Antrim.<br />

GUM TREE (MS): Scotty & Tanya Rudy<br />

and daughter Savannah.<br />

LAKE PLACID (FL): Carmen Bonilla,<br />

Chase Leblanc.<br />

NEELY’S CREEK (SC): Maggie Bowyer,<br />

Beth Dickerson, Chandler Fowler, Grace<br />

Gallagher, David & Courtney Kimball,<br />

Ryan Williams.<br />

NEW AMITY (NC): Kim Morrison.<br />

PISGAH (NC): Haven Jenkins.<br />

REFORMATION (NC): Callie Oldham.<br />

SHERWOOD FOREST (SC): Andrew<br />

MacLeod.<br />

STATESVILLE FIRST (NC): Grace Overcash.<br />

Special Services<br />

COVENANT (Statesville, NC): Homecoming<br />

was held Sept. 18 with Rev. Charles Evans<br />

preaching. The church was 46 years<br />

old on Sept. 12.<br />

FIRST MONROE & REHOBETH (NC): The<br />

churches held a joint picnic on Sunday afternoon,<br />

Sept. 18, at Cane Creek Park. About<br />

70-75 were in attendance for the meal and<br />

recreation. The two churches are about 20<br />

minutes apart from each other in southern<br />

Union County, NC.<br />

PROSPERITY (AL): The church celebrated<br />

its 189th year on Sept. 11 with a special service<br />

and a dinner. Prosperity is the oldest<br />

<strong>ARP</strong> church in Alabama.<br />

SHERWOOD FOREST (SC): Homecoming<br />

was celebrated Sept. 11. Festivities included<br />

lunch and a hymn sing.<br />

UNITY (Lancaster, SC): Homecoming Day<br />

was held Aug. 28 with guest minister Rev.<br />

Bob Elliott. The day included a psalm sing<br />

and a picnic lunch.<br />

Graduations<br />

CENTENNIAL (SC): Whitney Fox, Master’s<br />

degree, Clemson University.<br />

PINECREST (NC): Karla Reese, Master’s<br />

degree, West Carolina University.?<br />

FALL 2011 ARTS CALENDAR<br />

Please join us for the arts at Erskine this season.<br />

Theater Productions<br />

Erskine Players present Shakespeare's The Tempest<br />

November 3 & 4, 7:30 pm<br />

November 5, 2:30 pm<br />

Visual Arts<br />

Art Department Faculty Show<br />

Through December 8<br />

Music<br />

Talich String Quartet<br />

Tuesday, November 15, 7:30 pm<br />

Dr. Craig Cramer, Organist<br />

Thursday, November 17<br />

Masterclass – Choral Hall, 3:30 pm<br />

Recital – First <strong>Presbyterian</strong>, Greenwood, 7:30 pm<br />

Erskine Student Chamber Music Ensembles<br />

Friday, November 18, 8 pm<br />

An Erskine Christmas<br />

Friday, December 2, 8 pm<br />

Saturday, December 3, 6 pm<br />

(Ticketing information: choirs@erskine.edu or 864.379.8728)<br />

Women's Chorale Christmas Program<br />

Tuesday, December 6, 11 am<br />

Music Department Honors Recital<br />

Tuesday, December 6, 7:30 pm<br />

Opera Workshop<br />

Friday-Saturday, January 6 & 7<br />

For more information on arts events, call 864.379.8858<br />

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ANNOUNCEMENTS<br />

Erskine Director of Alumni Affairs Buddy Ferguson announces he will provide<br />

an Erskine representative to speak at your church. “We can come on<br />

a Wednesday or Sunday night, or speak at any other program that fits your<br />

schedule. We are excited to have a chance to meet with <strong>ARP</strong> churches and<br />

share with them about Erskine. Contact Buddy Ferguson, PO Box 608, Due<br />

West, SC 29639. Or call his office: (864) 379-8727. Cell: (864) 378-5836.<br />

Email: ferguson@erskine.edu. See Erskine’s website: www.erskine.edu.<br />

FOR RENT<br />

BONCLARKEN HOME Weekend or weekly rental at 200 Pine Drive: full<br />

kitchen; complete with washer/dryer and dishwasher. Cozily sleeps 10.<br />

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Bill Grier 828-808-1492.<br />

REAL ESTATE<br />

BONCLARKEN - For Sale: Betty Stewart’s home on Bonclarken Lane,<br />

Flat Rock, NC. Two apartments: 1 with 2 bedrooms and 1.5 baths; other<br />

has 3 bedrooms 2.5 baths. Deck, garage, laundry room. 2 lots. Asking<br />

$250,000. Call Roxanne Spencer, 704-860-3384.<br />

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SERVICES NEEDED<br />

MINISTRY OPPORTUNITY - Established congregation located in a growing<br />

population area in Catawba Presbytery is searching for a pastor with a heart for<br />

evangelism and church growth who is interested in a challenging bi-vocational<br />

call. If you feel God is leading you in this direction, contact Stephanie Bishop<br />

at Central Services, The <strong>ARP</strong> Center, by calling 864-232-8297, ext 222 or email<br />

sbishop@arpsynod.org to obtain a Ministerial Data Form.<br />

WOMEN’S MINISTRIES - Looking for adults or teenagers who can provide insight<br />

in using technologies such as: YouTube, Facebook, webcast, etc. Contact Elaine<br />

Reed at <strong>ARP</strong>WM.President@gmail.com if you are willing to provide information.<br />

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Indelible Grace<br />

A portable stage was pieced together and set up over the small hardwood platform that usually holds a pulpit, a few chairs and a baptismal font.<br />

In their places sat a full drum set, guitar amplifiers, and microphone stands. A large screen was mounted in front of the organ pipes. As the band<br />

members settled behind their instruments, more than 300 people filled the pews of First <strong>ARP</strong> <strong>Church</strong> in Rock Hill, SC, and waited in anticipation for<br />

Matthew Smith to strum the first chord of “I Need Thee Today.”<br />

Synod’s Committee on Worship sponsored the Matthew Smith & Indelible Grace concert and hymns seminar to expose <strong>ARP</strong> and other area<br />

churches to new resources that might enrich their worship. “This was a significant step for our denomination,” said Committee member, church<br />

planting resident, and emcee of the Rock Hill event Rev. Andy Stager.<br />

“Just months after the Committee proudly sponsored the 50th Annual Bonclarken Music Conference,<br />

we honored our musical heritage in a brand new way by exploring ways to bring hymnody<br />

into modern musical genres.”<br />

Before the opening song began, Stager welcomed those who came in droves through the back<br />

doors of the sanctuary to hear this collection of “new-old hymns.”<br />

During the pre-concert seminar, Matthew Smith told of his personal spiritual renewal as he<br />

encountered the gospel through hymns for the first time in college. He testified to a major impact<br />

that the resurgence of hymnody is having on a new generation looking for a robust expression of<br />

Christian faith.<br />

“A typical Nashville love song, as well as much current church music, goes straight for the emotions,”<br />

the Nashville songwriter explained. “But hymns engage your intellect, your imagination,<br />

your emotions, and your will – all at once. They put the full beauty of Christ on display.”<br />

The marriage of old hymn texts and new music is proving to be a happy one. In it, believers in<br />

their twenties and thirties find faith challenged, their intellect stoked, their articulation of the faith<br />

made more winsome, and their hearts enlarged with Jesus and his gospel.<br />

Full of word-pictures, hymns like George Mathison’s “O Love That Will Not Let Me Go” invite<br />

The band Indelible Grace draws a large<br />

audience at First <strong>ARP</strong>, Rock Hill (SC).<br />

the church on an ancient journey in which hope thrives in the midst of suffering. “When you sing ‘I trace the rainbow through the rain,’” Smith pointed<br />

out, “you’re singing covenantal truth. You’re preaching the gospel to one another much better than simply saying ‘well, this too shall pass.’”<br />

Area youth groups heard electric guitars and hymns together. Winthrop University students from <strong>Reformed</strong> University Fellowship and Campus<br />

Crusade, area pastors, elders, and church musicians sang old hymns to new melodies. Young and old sang the gospel to one another as the word of<br />

Christ dwelt richly in the air of the sanctuary.<br />

“Judging by the turnout, we seem to have struck a chord,” Stager said of the event. “It delights me to know that our great-grandmothers’ hymnbooks<br />

are in good use.”?<br />

Correction:<br />

At the end of the October magazine feature, A Debtor Nation, on page 7, the concluding line should have been a footnote<br />

appended to an earlier paragraph in the article, and the fourth of five footnotes in all. The article should have concluded with<br />

the previous line: “This is a time for repentance, and let us first of all demand repentance of ourselves. We should not expect<br />

divine blessings to course into the culture until the way is opened by repentance in the church.”<br />

Kerry Jacobs<br />

A Southern Author<br />

Former <strong>ARP</strong> Missionary<br />

Living in Greenville, Mr. Jacobs has been writing<br />

for over ten years. Recently published works<br />

include Honorable Intentions and The Factory.<br />

Honorable Intentions: A saga about a man who<br />

inherits a Charleston plantation only to find<br />

himself a target of those wanting to possess<br />

it. His only route of escape? A time machine.<br />

That’s where the real adventure begins.<br />

The Factory: The economy of the world has<br />

collapsed. Jack, retired former Lt. Colonel<br />

finds a new job at a factory in Atlanta. Little<br />

does he know the world of hurt he’s about to<br />

enter. No rights, little respect. Something’s got<br />

to change.<br />

Published 2010 Published 2011<br />

Available from Amazon.com or kerryjacobs.com<br />

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