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The Practice of Prayer byThich Nhat Hanh - The Mindfulness Bell

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Tributes to Jim<br />

Dear Jim, We were contemporaries, close to the same<br />

age, survivors <strong>of</strong> the Vietnam era, and coordinators <strong>of</strong><br />

our respective Sanghas, so you will probably appreciate the<br />

line from the James Taylor song that has been running<br />

through my head: "Just yesterday morning, they let me<br />

know you were gone."<br />

I opened <strong>The</strong> <strong>Mindfulness</strong> <strong>Bell</strong> to the second page and<br />

saw your sweet face. I said tomyself, "<strong>The</strong>re's my friend,<br />

Jim." As Ibegan toread the caption, I had already assumed<br />

your picture was there because you had accepted aposition<br />

atPlum Village; your devotion to the practice and the fact<br />

that you were fluent in Vietnamese made it seem logical.<br />

<strong>The</strong>n the waves <strong>of</strong> feelings when I read <strong>of</strong> your death—<br />

sorrow for me and your family; joy that you had time tosay<br />

good-bye to your dear wife and that you moved on in the<br />

state <strong>of</strong> awareness that I know you had achieved.<br />

We were brought together for only one week out <strong>of</strong> our<br />

lives but Ifeel I was able to develop an appreciation for the<br />

person you were. I will always remember how sweet you<br />

were to me. As coleaders <strong>of</strong> a small group atThich <strong>Nhat</strong><br />

<strong>Hanh</strong>'s retreat in California last September, I was in awe<strong>of</strong><br />

your accomplishments and your level <strong>of</strong> practice. Yet you<br />

treated me as an equal because I happened to be comfortable<br />

with leading group discussion.<br />

It's funny what we remember. I was so proud that your<br />

current pr<strong>of</strong>ession was a bus driver. Though I own a car and<br />

am a product <strong>of</strong> the American car culture, Ifrequently take<br />

the bus. Thay reminds us in the Fourth Precept how powerful<br />

our words can be: "Knowing that words can create<br />

happiness or suffering." I have seen this to be especially true<br />

when it comes to bus drivers. A happy hello versus snarling<br />

because a passenger is confused about the fare or the route<br />

can set the tone for someone's whole day. When I would get<br />

on the bus in the morning, I would periodically picture you<br />

bestowing compassion on some confused rider. It just made<br />

me feel better to know you were out there.<br />

I'll never be able to be in a small group at a retreat with<br />

Thich <strong>Nhat</strong> <strong>Hanh</strong> again without thinking about you. And as<br />

the song continues, "I always thought that I'd seeyou, one<br />

more time again."<br />

Ah, Impermanence!<br />

—Rosemary Donnell<br />

Imet Jim in the summer <strong>of</strong> 1994 at Plum Village for the<br />

Fragrant Mountain Ordination. As roommates in thedark<br />

room above the library in the Lower Hamlet, Jim indeed<br />

lived up to his Dharma name, "True Great Illumination."<br />

<strong>The</strong> light <strong>of</strong> his smile and gentle spirit touched my life aswe<br />

prepared to take the Fourteen Precepts. As I return to Plum<br />

Village this fall, the spirit <strong>of</strong> Jim will illuminate many<br />

precious moments for myself and others who were fortunate<br />

enough to be warmed by his spirit and light.<br />

—Jerry Braza<br />

Jimand Artie Fauss<br />

O<br />

n the day <strong>of</strong> Jim's memorial service, the comfortable<br />

warmth <strong>of</strong> the day pressed on every side—a harbinger<br />

<strong>of</strong> the summer heat to come. Spring flowers rose from the<br />

earth, reaching for the sun and the blue sky. A Buddhist bell<br />

was invited to sound its clear message. Nearby, the river<br />

flowed deeply and slowly—meandering in that vast transitional<br />

expanse between the foothills and the sea. Songbirds,<br />

mostly hidden in trees, added their voices and music as if to<br />

celebrate their lives,the lives <strong>of</strong> the people gathering in this<br />

idyllic spot, and that <strong>of</strong> our friend, Jim Fauss.<br />

While this peaceful scene was unfolding, two seemingly<br />

incongruous things were occurring at the same time. Every<br />

few minutes, a loud, shrill animal noise pierced the almoststill<br />

surroundings, perhaps in celebration <strong>of</strong> life. At the same<br />

time, snow-like wisps <strong>of</strong> white material were gently flying<br />

through the warm air. Some were searching for a place to<br />

land, others were content to drift aimlessly on. Ihad<br />

forgotten about Cottonwood trees and their ability to<br />

generate these wintry signs in May—a subtle reminder, that<br />

the winter <strong>of</strong> our lives is not far removed from the spring.<br />

Many beautiful and loving words were said about Jim<br />

that afternoon. Family and friends remembered, and tears<br />

were s<strong>of</strong>tly shed. I had not known Jim very well before this<br />

day, but at its conclusion I felt a genuine kinship to this<br />

spiritual being. I particularly liked what Maxine had to say<br />

about him. She considered their friendship cemented by a<br />

mutual love <strong>of</strong> intense valley heat. Six days later, at the<br />

Vietnam veterans' workshop, she looked up into the<br />

heavens and said that Jim must be up there directing the<br />

weather to provide this beautiful, soon-to-be hot day for his<br />

friends to celebrate life and to remember him.<br />

—Bill Boykin

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