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The Practice of Prayer byThich Nhat Hanh - The Mindfulness Bell

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Tapestry <strong>of</strong> <strong>Prayer</strong><br />

by SusanMurphy<br />

Since 1982,1 have been practicing Buddhist meditation<br />

and Christian contemplative prayer. Both have been<br />

very meaningful in my own spiritual formation, and Ihave<br />

come to recognize both traditions as my spiritual roots. This<br />

integration has deepened so that they have truly become one<br />

fabric, one tapestry. For me, contemplative prayer isan<br />

awareness <strong>of</strong> spacious presence. Many <strong>of</strong> the meditation<br />

practices in <strong>The</strong> Miracle <strong>of</strong> <strong>Mindfulness</strong> have counterparts<br />

in Christian prayer. For example, "phrase and breath" can be<br />

done as "centering prayer," in which a word is given in<br />

receptive silent prayer and then is repeated silently with the<br />

breath.<strong>The</strong> mindfulness practice on those who are suffering<br />

is similar to intercessory prayer, in which we open our<br />

hearts in compassion to others and <strong>of</strong>fer ourselves tobe<br />

available to relieve their suffering. During times when my<br />

mind is going too quickly or is insistently preoccupied, I<br />

find counting the breath to be very helpful.<br />

As a Quaker, I have been inspired by the similarities<br />

between Quaker and Buddhist practice, especially the<br />

Quaker queries and the Buddhist precepts. In addition to<br />

individual contemplative prayer and "practicing the presence"<br />

in daily life, Quakers also come together as acommunity,<br />

sitting in silence, during which we are receptive to the<br />

"presence in the midst." If someone is moved to do so,they<br />

may stand and speak. If not, we simply sit in prayerful<br />

receptiveness, listening to what is given in the spirit. This<br />

experience <strong>of</strong> collective contemplative prayerfulness isat<br />

theheart <strong>of</strong> Quaker faith and practice and is the foundation<br />

for community discernment. It provides guidance for taking<br />

compassionate action in the world. Thay <strong>of</strong>ten speaks <strong>of</strong> the<br />

peace, joy, stability, and compassion which are natural<br />

outcomes <strong>of</strong> our meditation practice. Quakers also recognize<br />

that sitting in the divine presence results in the "fruits <strong>of</strong> the<br />

spirit": love, joy, peace, patience, and gentleness.<br />

It is not cultural context or external form that brings us<br />

to the deep center, to that place <strong>of</strong> peace, joy, compassion,<br />

wisdom, and discernment, but rather a very intimate<br />

attention to the most simple presence.<br />

Susan Murphy, True Good Birth, is a member <strong>of</strong> the Palo<br />

Alto Friends' Meeting and facilitatesthe Friends' <strong>Mindfulness</strong><br />

Sangha.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Dawn<br />

by Webb Batchelor<br />

Ihave been very bitter for many years <strong>of</strong> my life because<br />

<strong>of</strong> serious disappointments and difficulties. For almost 60<br />

years, it has seemed that pain, fear, and sorrow will go on<br />

forever. Yesterday I was in a wretched, miserable state <strong>of</strong><br />

mind. I saw no escape, no relief, and what felt like "eternal<br />

damnation." My only hope was to embark on mindful<br />

walking, as taught by Thich <strong>Nhat</strong> <strong>Hanh</strong>. Fortunately Ihad<br />

done it many times before, so it was easy. After 45 minutes,<br />

I began to feel some peace and joy. Over and over again,<br />

Thich <strong>Nhat</strong> <strong>Hanh</strong>'s guidelines have worked for me like a<br />

happiness pill when I feel depressed, scared, or angry. Iam<br />

wise enough to know that beer drinking only makes my life<br />

worse, and I have not drunk for ten years. Instead <strong>of</strong> buying<br />

a 12-pack <strong>of</strong> beer when I feel horrible, all I need to do is get<br />

a Thich <strong>Nhat</strong> <strong>Hanh</strong> book and follow the easy instructions!<br />

When Ifeel doomed to hell, I have to be attracted into<br />

doing what is good. Forcing myself just doesn't work.<br />

When Igave up beer drinking because it was obvious it was<br />

destroying me, immediately I saw AA as a pleasant substitute.<br />

I suspect that I saw the pleasant substitute first, then<br />

quit drinking. Soon I discovered books and developed a<br />

growing interest in Buddhism, until I became really hooked,<br />

and now Buddha has another tired old fish in his net.<br />

Everyone has the right to believe that, in a miserable<br />

night, dawn will inevitably come, and can come at any time.<br />

Misery and despair are caused by confusion, so we need<br />

calmness to clear up the confusion and see properly. If we<br />

are told by someone with wisdom, "Hey, pal, it's going to<br />

beall right," or "God will bring you through all this to the<br />

Promised Land <strong>of</strong> sunshine in your soul," then we can relax<br />

and be attracted to good action. It's like being told that the<br />

train we are on is taking us to a good place. <strong>The</strong>n we can<br />

breathe a sigh <strong>of</strong> relief and be mindful <strong>of</strong> the scenery<br />

passing by. When I first came across Thich <strong>Nhat</strong> <strong>Hanh</strong>'s<br />

books, Iknew that Ihad found someone who really understood.<br />

Through his teachings, I have realized that many<br />

people have it harder than I do, so Ican turn my attention to<br />

whatever can be accomplished that would benefit those<br />

most in need. I want to be afriend to anyone who wants me<br />

as a friend. I have realized that life is worth living.<br />

Jesus, Buddha, and other great teachers certainly have<br />

greater love, understanding, and clarity than I, so in spite<strong>of</strong><br />

the doubts inmy raving mind, if they tell a dying man that<br />

there is good news for everyone, I will believe them.<br />

Webb Batchelor lives with his wife in Keister, Minnesota.<br />

He has been sober forthe last ten years.<br />

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