The Family Picnic - JFJ Hope Centre
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A Publication From Jewels For Jesus Mission Inc.<br />
October 2005<br />
<strong>The</strong> <strong>Family</strong> <strong>Picnic</strong><br />
<strong>The</strong> smile was never off my face – not<br />
because it was an absolutely gorgeous day in<br />
September, but because of the marvelous<br />
sight of families brought together by God<br />
through Jewels For Jesus. Every child, every<br />
adult has a story. <strong>The</strong> picnic is a time for me<br />
to reflect on those stories, remembering the<br />
hard parts, the puzzling parts, the questioning,<br />
and the resolutions.<br />
Let me take you on a tour. We start at the<br />
entrance to our picnic. I am poised, ready,<br />
with name tags to complete as families come<br />
to the picnic. And here comes a family who<br />
are in the process of working on the adoption<br />
of a toddler – we have been praying for them<br />
and with them in this situation for months –<br />
and here they are with their little one and she<br />
is ready to hit the swimming pool. What a<br />
delight to welcome her to our Jewels picnic.<br />
Walk with me to the court yard. An adoptive<br />
mom and I spend time together remembering<br />
their adoption journey. Now she is looking<br />
for that “listening ear” once again, to pour out<br />
her heart around some special issues they are<br />
facing with their child. Knowing the whole<br />
story, we are able to put things in perspective<br />
and bring hope and encouragement.<br />
Now we are walking over to the table loaded<br />
with salads, hot dogs, hamburgers and<br />
desserts. One little boy takes a new friend by<br />
the hand, showing him the chocolate temptations<br />
that await them, two little guys that share<br />
adoption in their histories. Meanwhile, I’m<br />
having a conversation with an adoptive dad<br />
who is asking<br />
how he can support<br />
the ministry<br />
at Jewels For<br />
Jesus with his<br />
time and expertise.<br />
But the main<br />
action is down by<br />
the pool. <strong>The</strong><br />
children can<br />
hardly wait to<br />
get into the<br />
water. Here’s<br />
one adoptive dad and his son helping a<br />
younger child from another family splash<br />
around in the pool. Over in another corner of<br />
the pool we have an adoptive couple singing<br />
songs to children from several different families.<br />
<strong>The</strong> diving board has a line up of 4 – 8<br />
year olds, chatting and delighting in each others<br />
ability to find a new form of pool<br />
entrance. <strong>The</strong>n look around the edge of the<br />
pool – so many families connecting, talking<br />
about their stories, beaming about their children,<br />
renewing friendships.<br />
I sit and chat with a teen who tells me about<br />
his new school and what that transition has<br />
been like. <strong>The</strong>n I hold a young one and get<br />
a quick cuddle. I sit down beside a mom and<br />
get caught up on her life. And it goes on…<br />
It actually looks like an annual family picnic –<br />
of relatives who haven’t seen each other in<br />
ages but have so much that connects them.
Well, it is a family picnic – the Jewels family<br />
picnic. Not only is there adoption that connects<br />
us, but there is the Lord and the knowledge<br />
that He is the master designer of families.<br />
You are a part of<br />
our Jewels family<br />
as well – you have<br />
connected with us<br />
to support this work<br />
through prayer and<br />
giving, through<br />
your time and<br />
encouragement. Now, sit back and have a<br />
good look at our family picnic photo album.<br />
Marian<br />
Need for an Adoptive <strong>Family</strong><br />
Mary Jane was featured in our April 2003<br />
newsletter. Her grandparents have done a<br />
remarkable job in caring for her special needs<br />
associated with Angelman Syndrome. Mary<br />
Jane is now 2 1 / 2 years old. Her grandparents<br />
hope to find an evangelical Christian family<br />
who would be open to adopting Mary Jane<br />
and allowing them to continue in a supportive<br />
“grandparent” role. For further information,<br />
please contact either Margo or Marian<br />
(905-821-7494).<br />
Do you enjoy working on a team, seeing a<br />
common goal achieved?<br />
We have the goal for you!<br />
Do you have a heart for serving but aren’t<br />
sure where?<br />
We have the place for you!<br />
Have you ever wanted to volunteer on a<br />
team but were afraid to commit to a long<br />
term?<br />
We have the team for you!<br />
Interested? Curious? For more information,<br />
please call Karen at 905-821-7494 or e-<br />
mail to karen.k@jewelsforjesus.net
Circle of<br />
Friends<br />
We are excited to be<br />
launching our 3rd annual<br />
Circle of Friends Fundraising<br />
Campaign. Watch for the<br />
November newsletter for<br />
your donation form and further<br />
details. God has been<br />
richly blessing this yearly<br />
campaign. We encourage<br />
you to participate as this will<br />
be our main fundraising<br />
focus for 2005.<br />
Mission Inc.<br />
6655 Kitimat Road, Unit 5<br />
Mississauga ON L5N 6J4<br />
(905) 821-7494<br />
email: helpline@JewelsForJesus.net<br />
Website: http://www.JewelsForJesus.net<br />
• size 3 – 6X boys and girls winter<br />
clothes (our supplies are very low)<br />
• URGENT: all size of diapers except<br />
size 1<br />
• URGENT: milk based formula<br />
• baby wipes<br />
• paper cutter<br />
• AA battery charger (for use with<br />
our digital camera)<br />
• thank you notes
A Word from Margo<br />
Here I sit, writing my first word to you as<br />
Executive Director. What a journey the Lord<br />
has taken me on. I spent the better part of<br />
the summer feeling an unexpected kinship<br />
with Gideon, that reluctant judge from Judges<br />
6-8. Like Gideon, when I was approached<br />
with the suggestion that God was calling me<br />
to this position, my reaction was less than<br />
enthusiastic. To the person offering this insight<br />
I responded with skepticism, and to God I<br />
responded with an appeal for confirmation –<br />
a sign, some form of clear direction.<br />
After much prayer, advice and clear nudges<br />
from the Lord, I stepped forward only to find<br />
my kinship with Gideon continued. <strong>The</strong>re I<br />
stood, poised to engage in the task ahead,<br />
and the Lord said, “Wait a minute. <strong>The</strong>re’s too<br />
many of you.” <strong>The</strong>n, like Gideon, I watched<br />
as God began to remove soldiers from our<br />
generous ranks. Elizabeth, Heather, Lindsay,<br />
and even our amazing summer student, Bev,<br />
were gone within a matter of weeks. I<br />
thought a lot about poor Gideon. I suspect<br />
the soldiers God removed from his army<br />
weren’t just nameless numbers. <strong>The</strong>y were<br />
friends, brothers, trusted partners in ministry,<br />
just as these dear people were to me. As in<br />
Gideon’s situation, it was obvious that this was<br />
God’s doing. Each staff member had been<br />
called to things and places that were unquestionably<br />
God’s doing. Added to this was a<br />
scarcity of funds. Not only were the ranks of<br />
Jewels being depleted in manpower but the<br />
usual summer downswing in donations, coupled<br />
with the huge increase in ministry opportunities,<br />
had thinned the financial ranks as<br />
well.<br />
What was God’s lesson for Gideon, and me?<br />
It is this: that He is sufficient. Our confidence<br />
must never rest in the strength of our ranks or<br />
our financial reserve. God alone is sufficient<br />
for the victory.<br />
And so, like Gideon, we enter the battle.<br />
Opportunities to engage in ministry are coming<br />
with the speed of the archer’s arrows:<br />
phones ring constantly; there is a continuous<br />
parade of care cupboard clients and clients<br />
looking for help with their unplanned pregnancies,<br />
and little ones in need; opportunities<br />
to educate youth in abstinence, and to train<br />
other pregnancy support centre volunteers<br />
abound. And, as with Gideon, God is providing<br />
the victory. As we move forward in our<br />
own seeming weakness, with our eyes fixed<br />
on our powerful Lord, He is touching lives<br />
through our insufficient efforts and swelling our<br />
ranks with warriors of excellence. With great<br />
joy I introduce our new staff to you. <strong>The</strong> new<br />
partners God has provided come with excellent<br />
credentials, hearts for the Lord, and the<br />
critical skills we need on our team.<br />
Gideon obeyed God’s call, remained faithful<br />
through seemingly bleak times, and watched<br />
as God gave the victory. Now we do the<br />
same. With our eyes on Him we move<br />
ahead in confidence – not confidence in the<br />
team or the resources, but in Him – and look<br />
forward with expectancy to the victories<br />
ahead.<br />
Margo Semple,<br />
Executive Director
Introducing our newest team members:<br />
Karen Kamphuis: Promotions and Outreach<br />
Director<br />
Karen had been asking the Lord where He<br />
wanted to use her experience, training and<br />
gifts. After many years in the corporate world<br />
she felt God calling her to a step of faith, and<br />
big changes. We are grateful for Karen’s obedience<br />
to the Lord and how this has led her to<br />
Jewels. Karen will be<br />
heading up the fund<br />
raising and promotions<br />
projects, working on<br />
creating a solid base for<br />
our Mission and broadcasting<br />
the news of<br />
Jewels.<br />
Staff at Jewels For Jesus<br />
Here’s what Karen<br />
would like you to know:<br />
Many changes in staffing have taken place<br />
over the past few months. Here is a list of<br />
who is on staff and what their role is:<br />
“I am so looking forward to now finally being<br />
part of the team! This journey to become part<br />
of the Jewels team began for me about 18<br />
months ago. I have worked for many years out<br />
in the corporate sector in different sales related<br />
positions, but personally I have been active in<br />
many different areas of service within our church<br />
and our community. This journey began<br />
because I started to feel like there was so much<br />
more I could be doing to use my gifts and abilities<br />
for God where they would make a difference.<br />
Prayer has been a big part of this journey<br />
and God has given many opportunities during<br />
this time for me to use my talents and gifts<br />
to prepare me for this next step. God has<br />
worked to open this door at Jewels and I am<br />
very excited and eager to see how God will<br />
use me and what His plans are for this wonderful,<br />
Godly group of people at Jewels.<br />
“Rob and I have been married for 18 years,<br />
and we have a 13 year old son and a 10 year<br />
old daughter who already are asking at the<br />
dinner table at night, "What exciting things happened<br />
at Jewels today Mom?" "Did you get to<br />
hold any new babies today?" So they too are<br />
excited about this new life change for our family.<br />
I am looking forw a rd to connecting with many of<br />
you as part of the bigger Jewels family. ”<br />
Margo Semple<br />
Marian Boyd<br />
Suzanne Ball<br />
Kelly Cameron<br />
Holly Heise<br />
Andrea White<br />
Pam Poulton<br />
Helen Hancock<br />
Karen Kamphuis<br />
Hedy Bauer<br />
Executive Director, Mission<br />
and Adoption Agency,<br />
and Adoptive <strong>Family</strong><br />
Support Worker<br />
Program Coordinator,<br />
Adoption Agency<br />
Birth Parent Worker<br />
Birth Parent Worker<br />
Birth Parent Worker<br />
Birth Parent Worker<br />
Administrative Assistant-<br />
Adoption<br />
Office Assistant<br />
/Receptionist<br />
Promotion and Outreach<br />
Director<br />
Bookkeeper<br />
Kelly Cameron: Birth Parent Worker<br />
How’s this for the first line of the email I got<br />
from Kelly. “Supporting and encouraging<br />
young parents is my passion! So when I<br />
received your email looking for a Birth Parent<br />
Worker through the CPC I work for I was compelled<br />
to apply.” Kelly’s heart for young people<br />
has shaped her training, education and<br />
experience. She has created and directed a<br />
sexual abstinence program for youth, and her<br />
work at the Crisis Pregnancy <strong>Centre</strong> has given<br />
her broad exposure to the issues faced by birth<br />
parents and their families.<br />
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Here’s what Kelly has to say:<br />
“Hi, I’m Kelly Cameron. I currently reside in<br />
Pickering, ON. I first learned about Jewels For<br />
Jesus at my local crisis pregnancy centre, where<br />
I work part-time. I am excited about coming<br />
on board here at Jewels as I have a passion for<br />
working with young parents.<br />
“I have been blessed with a number of opportunities<br />
to serve young people facing challenging<br />
circumstances. <strong>The</strong>se have included: homeless<br />
youth and youth at-risk of homelessness in<br />
York Region, teen girls struggling with addictions<br />
in a treatment group home in San Jose, CA,<br />
and students at-risk of dropping out of school in<br />
Kingston, ON. I obtained my B.A. (Hons) in<br />
Psychology from Queen’s University.<br />
“I love to travel and have lived in 4 countries.<br />
I look forward to what the Lord’s going to do in<br />
and through me here at Jewels.“<br />
assessment, counseling, and support skills dealing<br />
with families in crisis and life changes.<br />
Here’s a word from Andrea:<br />
“I would just like to take this opportunity to say<br />
hello to everyone and tell you how excited I<br />
am to be starting on this new journey here at<br />
Jewels.<br />
“My name is Andrea White. <strong>The</strong> Lord has<br />
blessed me with a loving and support i v e<br />
husband and a very active toddler at home.<br />
I come to Jewels with a Bachelor of Arts degre e<br />
in Sociology and a Bachelor of Social Wo r k<br />
d e g ree, as well as several years experience<br />
working in child welfare. I want to use the<br />
gifts He has given me to assist and help others.<br />
I believe that it was His work that made me<br />
a w a re of this opportunity at Jewels For Jesus and<br />
that He has called me to this special ministry.<br />
“I am grateful for the many blessings and<br />
opportunities the Lord has given me throughout<br />
my life and most recently for bringing me here<br />
to Jewels. May God bless you and keep you<br />
and your families.”<br />
Kelly and Andrea<br />
Andrea White: Birth Parent Worker<br />
Andrea found us through a friend who receives<br />
our newsletter. Feeling that Andrea would be<br />
a match for the birth parent worker position at<br />
Jewels, she handed the newsletter to her.<br />
Thank you to Andrea’s friend!<br />
Andrea comes to us with extensive education,<br />
training and experience. She has more than<br />
three years experience working in child protection<br />
through CAS where she developed her<br />
Farewell<br />
Our one last goodbye:<br />
Elizabeth<br />
Chotka, one of our<br />
birth parent workers<br />
left us at the end of<br />
the summer. Her husband,<br />
David, started<br />
a new pastorate position<br />
in Alberta at the<br />
beginning of October.<br />
Elizabeth has been a<br />
tremendous partner in the ministry of<br />
Jewels For Jesus and we will miss her.<br />
We pray that the work that she did at<br />
Jewels will have an eternal impact. We<br />
know that she will continue to support us<br />
as one of our faithful prayer warriors.<br />
Thanks Elizabeth.