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CONGREGATIONAL CARE<br />
<strong>St</strong>ephen Ministers Know ~ HOLIDAYS CAN BE DIFFICULT<br />
When our lives are touched with loss, whether it’s due to the death of a loved one, job loss, divorce or other<br />
circumstances, celebrating the holidays may seem impossible or at least very difficult. Thanksgiving and<br />
Christmas are just around the corner. If you are grieving a loss, try adopting some of the following suggestions.<br />
SUGGESTIONS FOR COPING WITH THE HOLIDAYS<br />
aAsk God for strength and peace.<br />
aDevelop a plan for the holidays. Be aware that the stress may affect you emotionally, cognitively and physically.<br />
aLet others know what you need and want. People often want to be helpful, but they can’t read your mind.<br />
Help them be supportive.<br />
aDon’t try to please everyone. Just say “no” if you don’t want to do something.<br />
aLet go of the “shoulds” like Christmas cards. Be aware of expectations you place on yourself and let go of those<br />
things that could be difficult for you.<br />
aAdapt cherished traditions rather than ignoring them all together.<br />
aDo something for someone else. Invite others who are alone to join you or volunteer somewhere.<br />
aAttend church at a different time and day and come early to meditate and pray.<br />
aMerry & Happy are probably not going to be part of your vocabulary. Decide on an<br />
appropriate response now, before you’re faced with it.<br />
aShop early or online. Gift cards can ease the stress of finding just the right gift.<br />
aAllow time for yourself but be careful not to become isolated.<br />
aKnow that whether bidden or not, God is present with you.<br />
Get in on the Action — SPRING 2012 INTERVIEWS BEGINNING NOW!<br />
EVER THOUGHT ABOUT BECOMING A STEPHEN MINISTER<br />
Your <strong>St</strong>ephen Leader team at <strong>St</strong>. Paul’s will be training another class of <strong>St</strong>ephen Ministers in the spring.<br />
<strong>St</strong>ephen Ministers work alongside our clergy to care, encourage, and provide emotional and spiritual<br />
support to people who are going through a difficult time, such as divorce, grief, hospitalization,<br />
unemployment, terminal illness, relocation, chronic illness, or loneliness.<br />
Currently Serving:<br />
Frank Harvey<br />
Sue Hinson<br />
Bill Maloney<br />
Dave McBee<br />
Cindy McBee<br />
Bonnie Severt<br />
Suzanne Smaltz<br />
Debby Walasek<br />
YOUR GIFTS PACKAGE<br />
If you have gifts for caring, encouragement, and listening, please begin to prayerfully consider whether you<br />
might want to be part of this exciting ministry. Exceptional training materials equip you to do an excellent job<br />
as a <strong>St</strong>ephen Minister as well as to improve the quality of all your own relationships. If you think you might be<br />
interested, talk with one of our <strong>St</strong>ephen Leaders: Carolyn Chapman 330-604-1094 or The Rev. Robbin Harvey<br />
330-836-4495 or one of our <strong>St</strong>ephen Ministers.<br />
V Nov/Dec Spotlight: Flower Delivery Ministry<br />
After services, altar flowers are separated and arranged in small containers to be delivered to<br />
members of the parish who have had a death in the family, are in the hospital, in a nursing<br />
home, or are unable to come to church. Be the one to bring sunshine into someone’s life!<br />
Volunteer to deliver flowers once a month. Call Chris Williams at 330-864-2476.<br />
Page 7 † The Messenger † Nov/Dec 2011