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Atighten i the bolt is a mo nkey wrench. Unlike other tools that t are a set size so
they can only work with certain tools or materials, a monke ey wrench i s
adj justable and can be adapted to fit diffe erent sizes.
Are you ever so sure of
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t you fo orget the other person also h as a point
Th he first step to true Netzach, a bette er solution that will work fo or both sides, is through
Ho od, truly understanding the other p erson. Did you know that Ye ehudi co mes from the
wor rd Hod This is because Yidden have
the ability
to recognize truth.
Whe n building a better me, we act like a monkey wrench, adj justing our per rspectives
and mindset to realize the truth in othe rs. This causes them to stop fightin g, as the y
won’t fe eel the need to force us to unders tand them.
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TRUE FOUNDAT TION –
thout a secure foundation, even th e most
a rock soli id foundati ion. The founda ation for
side trusts the other.
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beauti iful building won’t very long. Builders start work by digging deep and building
a true connection with ano other person is by creati ing a safe en nvironment where each
ting the other person.
must be real because if
not
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voice, body
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