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Language & Communication Skills<br />

Nikhil Indrasenan<br />

Business Head – Ma Foi Academy<br />

Why is it difficult to talk with some people and so<br />

easy to talk with others Is communication a skill or an<br />

art Whatever be the type, communication is a<br />

competency every professional has no choice but to<br />

master. To be a good communicator, do we need to have<br />

sound social skills or will language proficiency suffice<br />

Well, both are important.<br />

The four aspects of communication: reading,<br />

listening, speaking and writing are equally essential and<br />

important. In addition to these four dimensions of<br />

language, body language is also a vital aspect. Conversely<br />

body language is known as nonverbal communication.<br />

Almost all job interviews are based on communication<br />

and language competencies. A good presenter can make<br />

an impression, a very positive one at that, even if he/she<br />

does not demonstrate relevant domain knowledge. I have<br />

heard employers state that role-based skills can be<br />

developed but not language skills.<br />

`Give me a candidate who can articulate well and<br />

write with clarity; we can train him in work skills’. With<br />

communication getting briefer and quicker in this age of<br />

speed, written communication, being the most popular<br />

mode of business interaction, needs to be faultless.<br />

Written English requires more care than spoken English.<br />

Usage of simple and plain words instead of fancy phrases,<br />

and short and concise sentences is a pre-requisite of the<br />

global communication work culture. Brevity does not<br />

imply brusqueness or abruptness. On the one hand, we<br />

have to dispense with redundancy in words – we do not<br />

say `endeavour to ascertain and accomplish’; we just say<br />

`try to find out and complete’. Jargon, trendy<br />

buzzwords, sms-ese, acronyms are all, if featured in<br />

written communication, read with impatience and<br />

irritation! Mark Twain said, `I never use a word like<br />

communication needs to be effective and impacting<br />

getting the expected response to achieve results. Spoken<br />

language is critical too, as it involves self confidence, non<br />

verbal skills, active listening, expression and a good<br />

vocabulary. More important, spoken communication<br />

warrants earnestness, without which, the speaker can<br />

sound shallow and pretentious. Spoken language is a habit<br />

and needs to be cultivated consciously. If picked up and<br />

practiced the wrong way, correction and unlearning takes<br />

10<br />

magazine<br />

a long time. The reason why people think they can get<br />

away with improper and incomplete verbal<br />

communication is because the in-person interaction has<br />

other aspects like body signs, expression, gestures,<br />

interruptions, prompting from listener, and so on. While<br />

all these are important for communication, the verbal<br />

skills remain the primary focus. Many errors and gaps<br />

occur in verbal communication. Verbal or speech tics are<br />

those words which are habitually used by the speaker. Do<br />

you recall your student days, when you noted down the<br />

number of times your teacher uttered – you know, do you<br />

understand, okay<br />

Most of us are not aware of our speech tics and we<br />

regularly use them to start a conversation, fill in the gap<br />

and at times, as mere expressions. One of my colleagues<br />

asked another colleague - so, basically, how are you doing<br />

My other colleague replied - thank you, I am naturally<br />

doing well; but, fundamentally you should not be asking<br />

me this, because you see me every day! Verbal tics can<br />

cause not only annoyance but also fatigue to the listener.<br />

The best way to get rid of this habit is to choose someone<br />

who interacts with you closely and have that person give<br />

you instant feedback. Like I said, unlearning or breaking a<br />

long standing habit takes a while, but in due course of time,<br />

with conscious effort, you will have achieved the desired<br />

results. There are other conversational irritants such as the<br />

hemming and hawing; in other words, hesitation and<br />

fumbling in speech. The new age of speed and quickness<br />

has no room for classic meeting addresses such as this: er…<br />

I attended, hmmm, a meeting with the VP, yes, the VP.<br />

Okay And, and I thought hummm I should share what,<br />

uhh what we discussed, so that………. The group members<br />

by that time would have exchanged a few phone messages,<br />

maybe made couple of quick calls and sent out some<br />

emails. And, can we blame them Clarity, articulation,<br />

pace, choice of vocabulary, assertiveness and confidence<br />

are the components that make verbal communication<br />

highly effective and impactful.<br />

A good communicator is a preferred business leader.<br />

Nikhil Indrasenan possesses over 18 yrs of<br />

entrepreneurial and HR experience in recruitment,<br />

consulting & training. He has managed and delivered on<br />

assignments across multiple industries / locations and found<br />

career opportunities for over 5,000 professionals in his tenure.<br />

He currently holds a dual responsibility of Head - Ma Foi<br />

Randstad Academy and Country Manager and Director of<br />

Ma Foi Randstad Sri Lanka.<br />

ICT CONNECT MAGAZ<strong>IN</strong>E

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