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dharma TALK<br />

who are helping. What is essential is to learn how to do it with<br />

compassion because that amount of violence is part of our legacy,<br />

our heritage. We should make the strong aspiration not to repeat<br />

that kind of action from now on.<br />

But the bombs are not only embedded in the land, they are in<br />

the hearts of many people today. If you look around you see that<br />

many people, even young people, are ready to die and are ready<br />

to punish others.<br />

How to defuse the bomb in the heart of man is very important<br />

work also, how to remove the hate in the hearts of so many people.<br />

So far the war on terrorism has not diminished the number of terrorists.<br />

In fact it has increased the number of terrorists, and each of<br />

them has a bomb inside his or her heart. Terrorists want to die for a<br />

cause, they want to punish others. That is why cultivating compas-<br />

Buddha, to Jesus Christ and all our spiritual ancestors to support<br />

us in this compassionate action. We should think of our children<br />

and their children, and we should clean the Earth and our hearts,<br />

so that our children will have a better place to live.<br />

Thank you for reflecting on this.<br />

An Inoculation of Suffering<br />

A lay woman asks: Dear Thay, dear Sangha: Yesterday you<br />

taught us that we should never give the negative seeds a<br />

chance. I agree with just 90% of that. [laughter] Ten percent<br />

of that is this question: there are young people who grow up<br />

in a very loving and supportive environment but when they<br />

go to big cities or other countries to study or to work, they<br />

will face some really negative pressure and the challenge is<br />

photo by Ton Boelens<br />

sion and helping these people to remove their hatred and anger is<br />

also very important work. That is also to defuse the bombs.<br />

You can see that the situation in the Middle East is very<br />

difficult. Not only are there bombs that explode on the land but<br />

there are bombs in the hearts of very many people. Compassion<br />

is the only answer.<br />

As we help to defuse the bombs, whether in the land or in<br />

the heart, we should keep our compassion alive. I admire those<br />

of us who continue to help removing those death engines from<br />

the soil, but I also urge my friends to practice in order to defuse<br />

the bombs in the hearts of many people around us. We pray to the<br />

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so big that they cannot deal with it. My suggestion is that we<br />

should vaccinate their mind and we should give them a bit<br />

of challenge when they are still young, so that their immune<br />

system is ready. What do you think of this [laughter]<br />

Thay says sometimes that each of us needs a certain dose<br />

of suffering. Remember Suffering can instruct us a lot and help<br />

us cultivate compassion and understanding. So the art is to give<br />

each person an appropriate dose of suffering. [laughter] With too<br />

much suffering people will be overwhelmed and their heart will<br />

be transformed into stone. That is why parents and teachers have<br />

to handle this with care and intelligence.

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