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WestFriars<br />

Newsletter of the Saint Barbara <strong>Province</strong> of the Franciscans<br />

VOLUME 43, No. 5<br />

september/october 2009<br />

<strong>JUBILARIANS</strong> <strong>ALL</strong>!<br />

"On the morning of July 5, 1959, at Old Mission San Miguel, the Provincial, David<br />

Temple, received a new class of novices.<br />

"On the morning of July 5, 2009, at Mercy Center, Oakland, the five remaining from<br />

that class [in order of age: Jan Honchosky, Louie Vitale, Angelo Cardinalli, Michael<br />

Guinan, and Gino Piccoli] celebrated their golden jubilee.<br />

“Louie presided at the Mass and Mike preached (less than 9 minutes!). Lunch followed<br />

in the dining room with a number of friars from the area. Thanks to the artistry<br />

of Franklin Fong, they each had name tags to keep them from getting confused."<br />

Many thanks – Michael Guinan<br />

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EDITORIAL MUSINGS<br />

No guide book mentions Cliftonville, a quite unpretentious town in Kent, England.<br />

It’s a sort of tired retirement village with a number of less than modest hotels<br />

and boarding houses. Fortunately it does have a train station, encouraging<br />

me to visit St. Anselm’s Institute to visit a Bangladesh priest who was spending<br />

his sabbatical there.<br />

The Institute is actually a renovated small hotel which offers an unique program, going on 20<br />

years now, for bishops, priests and religious. Call it a renewal time or whatever—but apparently<br />

it is quietly known world-wide.<br />

What brings the place to mind is an article written by its director, Fr. Len Kofler, priest and<br />

psychotherapist (The Tablet, 3 July 2009), who candidly admits that “I have spent many years<br />

dealing with my own emotions and helping others to be constructive with theirs.”<br />

He is convinced that not only in the formation years but throughout our lives, “…the emphasis<br />

needs to shift from a mainly intellectual to a more experiential approach,” adding that “we<br />

need a psycho-spiritual integration.”<br />

While heads may nod in approval, he adds a most important zinger: “Spirituality without psychology<br />

is not anchored. Psychology without spirituality is directionless.”<br />

Proof Does anyone remember the tragic fad of “encounter groups” in the 60s and 70s The<br />

damage done to individual friars was absolutely horrific. The great and appalling weakness<br />

was to encourage participants to “let it all hang out,” only to find to their shocked dismay that<br />

there was no one to put Humpty Dumpty together again.<br />

Let’s be real: everyone is “wounded.” Usually the target is the “dysfunctional” (aka crazy)<br />

family history. Let’s be more real: oftentimes the person never realizes the here-and-now but<br />

subconscious effects of past, negative experiences.<br />

Sr. Joan Chittister offers a concrete example:<br />

“People in positions of authority know they aren’t being heard if the people they are trying<br />

to direct turn every conversation into an adolescent struggle with the ghosts of their parents.”<br />

Maybe there was some truth in the story told about Archbishop John J. Cantwell of Los Ange-<br />

continued on next page<br />

WestFriars<br />

Editor: Warren J. Rouse, OFM . Layout, Design & Circulation: Ali Packard<br />

Archives: Timothy Arthur, OFM<br />

Submissions: (E-Mail attachment preferred) Frwarren@serraretreat.com or:<br />

Warren Rouse, OFM PO Box 127 Malibu, CA 90265 Tel: 310.924.2124 Fax: 310.456.9417<br />

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les way back in the 40s. When a prospective<br />

seminarian was proposed, his question was:<br />

“Does he come from good stock” Somehow<br />

the Archbishop was acutely aware that unresolved<br />

family disorders needed first to be recognized<br />

and then healed. Chittister is in tune<br />

with this:<br />

20 years and many clients are grateful proof<br />

of this!<br />

WJR<br />

AWARDS FOR<br />

KEITH DOUGLASS WARNER,<br />

O.F.M.<br />

“We have to learn to take the raw materials of<br />

our lives and turn them into the stuff of sanctity.<br />

We can’t wait for the perfect person or<br />

the perfect environment to call us to spiritual<br />

maturity.” (Emphasis mine.)<br />

Throughout lives we’re called to do our<br />

homework, the painful task of naming and<br />

healing perhaps long-forgotten wounds that<br />

subtly influence us today. As we understandably<br />

and admirably look for help at times, one<br />

may even recall, in very broad terms, that for<br />

a time psychology reigned over spirituality.(<br />

On the other hand, and perhaps in our own<br />

day, there has been a conservative backlash:<br />

spirituality may brush aside and disdain psychology.)<br />

Thus the purpose of St. Anselm’s—and other<br />

institutes—is to help the participants to acquire<br />

deep faith, much confidence and a range<br />

of social skills. But Fr. Kofler has a caveat:<br />

“Secular counselors will not be able to understand<br />

fully the special charism of priests<br />

and Religious, and therefore will not be able<br />

to help them to develop and grow in a holistic<br />

way. Many counselors have no idea what<br />

spirituality is, and therefore cannot tap into<br />

the most important resources of the priestly<br />

and religious vocation.”<br />

What he calls for is the combined skills of<br />

Christian counseling and spiritual direction.<br />

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Congratulations on honors for Care for Creation!<br />

It received the following Catholic Book<br />

Award at the 2009 Catholic Press Association<br />

convention in Anaheim, CA.<br />

• 1st place, Social concerns- Care for<br />

Creation: A Franciscan Spirituality of the<br />

Earth (Ilia Delio, OSF, Keith Douglass Warner,<br />

OFM, and Pam Wood). Judges wrote:<br />

“Anyone concerned about the ecological crisis<br />

has many resources on ‘green’ prayer, theology,<br />

and action steps available to them. Care<br />

for Creation is a welcome addition, though,<br />

because of its delightful, readable content<br />

and format. Firmly grounded in the Franciscan<br />

tradition that sees God’s creation and the<br />

Incarnation as ‘fully and integrally’ related,<br />

the book contains science, theology, practical<br />

advice, and inspiration, For the reader who is<br />

equally devoted to both Jesus and to our fragile<br />

world, this is a gem.”<br />

• 2nd place, Spirituality, soft cover-<br />

Care for Creation: A Franciscan Spirituality<br />

of the Earth (Ilia Delio, OSF, Keith Douglass<br />

Warner, OFM, and Pam Wood). Judges<br />

wrote: “This timely book wonderfully presents<br />

a Franciscan spirituality of creation and<br />

the Incarnation, the implications of St. Francis’s<br />

Canticle of Creation for the contemporary<br />

world, the role of contemplative prayer<br />

in light of global climate change, and the conversion<br />

that is necessary for humanity to face<br />

these challenges.”


2009-2010 Novitiate Class(from left to right) : Regan Chapman (Novice Master);<br />

Michael Minton, Tom Frost (Assistant Novice Master), Phillip Polk and Ryan<br />

Thornton.<br />

MEET THE NOVICES<br />

Phillip Polk, 27, is a member of the San Carlos Apache Nation in San Carlos, AZ. He has<br />

known the Franciscans all his life as a member of St. Charlie’s Apache Catholic Community.<br />

Before entering the formation program, Phillip was a fulltime caregiver for his elderly<br />

grandparents. Phillip also spent a few years as a hotel restaurant manager for a Hilton resort<br />

in Tucson, AZ.<br />

Phillip was drawn to the friars because of their care for the poor and the transparency of the<br />

community. Phillip is looking forward to this year of novitiate to deepen his prayer life and<br />

further his discernment with the friars.<br />

Ryan Thornton, 25, hails from Monrovia, California. He comes to the friars after having<br />

spent a year as a seminarian for the Archdiocese of Los Angeles. Ryan is also a recent graduate<br />

of Harvard and has a special interest in the work of Franciscan philosopher John Duns<br />

Scotus.<br />

Between college and seminary, Ryan spent a year in Ukraine teaching English at a Byzantine<br />

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Catholic Seminary where he was exposed to<br />

the spirituality of the Eastern Rites. As a result,<br />

during novitiate he hopes to explore its<br />

intersection with Franciscan spirituality for<br />

his own development as well as to continue<br />

in discerning God’s ever-unfolding plan.<br />

Michael Minton, 46, is a native of Northwest<br />

Indiana. He has worked supporting and<br />

advocating for people with developmental<br />

disabilities for almost 20 years. He has a<br />

Masters degree in Non-Profit Management<br />

and a BA in Sociology.<br />

His initial exposure to Franciscans began<br />

while in college and came to fruition after<br />

moving to California. He is grateful for this<br />

opportunity to discern his vocation in a more<br />

intense, intimate, and trusting way.<br />

The novitiate team wholeheartedly welcomes<br />

Friar Tom Frost to this community and gives<br />

great thanks to Friar Clifford Herle who<br />

departs after six years.<br />

LETTERS<br />

About Br. Wenceslaus<br />

vocation that unknown to me began that year.<br />

I'm glad that I knew him. Kindly let this be<br />

an item for the next issue of WestFriars. –<br />

Barnabas Hughes, O.F.M.<br />

About Moving<br />

The BIG news for us friars here is the coming<br />

“Changing of the Guard.” Tom Frost is<br />

on his way to San Miguel to help in the novitiate,<br />

and Ignatius has moved into Covered<br />

Wells Village (Tom’s former place) and I’m<br />

scheduled to move to Tularosa, New Mexico,<br />

soon. This will happen when Ponchie Vaquez<br />

is freed up from St. Elizabeth’s by his several<br />

replacements, to take my place on the eastern<br />

side of our San Solano Missions parish—<br />

with a little luck by mid-August. The other<br />

Brothers—Chris Best, Martin Sanabria and<br />

Hajime Okuhara—are due before the end of<br />

August.<br />

I’ve been here for over 18 years now. It’s<br />

absolutely amazing how much stuff has<br />

accumulated in the process! Besides all my<br />

regular work at present, I’m staring at this<br />

Mountain of Stuff which needs to be (a)<br />

sorted, (b) discarded, (c) carried along, and<br />

(d) burned in effigy.<br />

Wency was the first friar that I met, at the<br />

time a tertiary brother and wore the capuche<br />

only in public. It was during <strong>Holy</strong> Week,<br />

1938. My grandmother lived in Santa Barbara<br />

at the Upham Hotel and had invited me to<br />

spend <strong>Holy</strong> Week with her. She showed me<br />

how to walk to the Mission. I did. The Mission<br />

was open. I found the gift shop. And<br />

Wency with his beaming smile welcomed<br />

me like a long lost brother. He never forgot<br />

me. Always the smile, always the cheerful<br />

greeting. His presence did much to foster the<br />

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If I had more time/energy I’d send you a<br />

beautiful reflection on my life and ministry<br />

here…Maybe next time Max Hottle,<br />

O.F.M.


Alfonso Joseph Floyd Lotito<br />

July 28, 1934 – July 14, 2009<br />

In our reflection for this afternoon, as we pay<br />

tribute in sorrow and thanksgiving to our<br />

Brother Floyd, our scripture reading has the<br />

disciples “coming down the mountain” with<br />

Jesus. (Lk. 6.17-21) His disciples follow him<br />

into a large crowd from all over the world.<br />

What do they see in the crowd: the sick, the<br />

lame, the blind, those afflicted with exterior<br />

diseases and internal pains, “those troubled<br />

with unclean spirits.” They see human beings<br />

just like themselves; they see people<br />

who reach out—they want to be healed, to be<br />

recognized, to make contact with God; they<br />

wish to be included; they want bread, they<br />

long to be touched with a blessing. And the<br />

disciples see “power” come out from Jesus’<br />

touch, and the words of blessing, not just<br />

once but many times, every day, every moment,<br />

to each single one:<br />

Blessed are you poor,<br />

the reign of God is yours.<br />

Blessed are you who are hungry,<br />

you shall be filled.<br />

Blessed are you who are weeping,<br />

you shall laugh.<br />

Eventually, later on in their journey, the<br />

disciples will see Jesus give to the people<br />

not just food but the bread of life; they will<br />

watch as he restores them to human dignity,<br />

gives them hope with the promise of justice,<br />

and proclaims with the witness of his own<br />

death and resurrection the victory of life over<br />

death. And the disciples, who have followed<br />

Jesus, not away from the human community<br />

but into it, receive the Lord’s Spirit, take<br />

it into themselves, and his power comes out<br />

from them, and his blessing, and they repeat<br />

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his words: “Blessed are you poor;” and the<br />

disciples proclaim a final justice, “the reign<br />

of God is yours.”<br />

Alfonso Joseph, later Floyd, Lotito was an<br />

exceptional disciple of the Lord. We know<br />

that because he did not flee from nor ignore<br />

the world around him; he followed Jesus<br />

down from the mountain and entered into<br />

the human community of the Tenderloin;<br />

and power came out from him. He blessed<br />

everything in sight: dogs and cats, snakes<br />

and hamsters, parakeets and doves, worms<br />

and lizards, taxi drivers and muni travelers.<br />

He blessed the people in baseball parks and<br />

in neighborhood playgrounds; he blessed<br />

the delegates of the Democratic national<br />

convention and the Sacramento politicians;<br />

he blessed meals for the poor and family<br />

gatherings for the better off; he blessed old<br />

women in their apartments and drug addicts<br />

on the streets; he blessed the people in Pacific<br />

Heights and in the avenues and people<br />

whose home was the street; he blessed friars<br />

in their Redwood city gatherings and lay folk<br />

in their celebrations; he blessed a succession<br />

of San Francisco mayors and the first woman<br />

Speaker of the House.<br />

When you bless someone, you give to them<br />

your vitality, your soul, your wisdom, what<br />

you hope for them; you acknowledge that<br />

they mean something to you; you open for<br />

them the gates of mercy and human dignity.<br />

You touch them with healing power. Our<br />

Lord says in the reading: "Blessed are the<br />

poor."<br />

Several months ago, Floyd, who taught me<br />

dramatic arts and speaking over forty-five<br />

years ago and with whom I had been privileged<br />

to serve on the governing board of the


Franciscan friars, called me up and I came<br />

over to visit him in San Francisco. We had<br />

a breakfast meal together here at St. Boniface<br />

and then went over to his office at St.<br />

Anthony’s. He was getting very frail and<br />

trying to make up his mind whether or not to<br />

move from his homes here on Golden Gate<br />

Avenue. A Franciscan friar and a priest, he<br />

mentioned to me at that time what he considered<br />

to be the two other major blessings<br />

of his own life. He was able to bless because<br />

he had first been blessed.<br />

The first blessing he had received came from<br />

his family.<br />

• Born a son of Joseph, an immigrant<br />

from Bari, Italy, and Filomena, a first generation<br />

American of Calabrian parents, he never<br />

forgot the blessings of his parents’ love. He<br />

grew up with Michael, his brother, whose<br />

premature passing affected him so deeply,<br />

and his two beloved sisters, Madeline and<br />

Frances. When I came over to see him he<br />

spoke to me not so much about his own fears<br />

but about his love for you: he did not want<br />

to leave you.<br />

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• Through his parents,<br />

Alfonso Joseph possessed many<br />

natural blessings from his Creator.<br />

Believe it or not, he was a<br />

gifted track star; later advanced<br />

training would capitalize on<br />

his exceptional public speaking<br />

ability. But there is one<br />

natural blessing to which I want<br />

to call attention, because it so<br />

often misunderstood. It was a<br />

gift which few people have—a<br />

certain naïve innocence, a core<br />

simplicity which allowed him<br />

to ascend to high places, plaster the walls of<br />

his office with pictures of himself with truly<br />

influential people, and tell everyone about it.<br />

Every Italian male, it is said, has two words<br />

inscribed on his license plate: Numero Uno,<br />

and Floyd has sent to his Franciscan superiors<br />

a daily log of his activities every month<br />

for the last thirty years. Yet despite it all, he<br />

remained remarkably unaffected: filled with<br />

blessings, but to himself, still “poor brother<br />

Floyd.” This was not affected; it was rather<br />

God’s gift of Gospel simplicity.<br />

• Floyd was southern Italian to the<br />

core: good food, celebration, hospitality,<br />

an absolute loyalty to a life of relationships<br />

lived within the small orbit of a human family<br />

of six, a Franciscan family, several close<br />

families here in San Francisco, the family of<br />

the Tenderloin. I think it rather typical that<br />

he would die before he would permanently<br />

move. His superiors, including myself,<br />

tried to move him three times; he would not<br />

budge. I used to think it was stubbornness,<br />

and perhaps there was a little Calabrian<br />

there. But I have come to understand it was<br />

so much more. Floyd was not a wanderer<br />

but a family settler—once in San Francisco,


he was here for forty-one years. His baseball<br />

cap and forty-niner jacket testify to that. He<br />

insisted on staying here not because he was<br />

stubborn or because he needed to stay here,<br />

but because he actually loved you and wanted<br />

to be with you. Family was everything.<br />

When Floyd became a Franciscan friar in<br />

1953 and was ordained to the priesthood on<br />

December 17, 1960, he began his life’s work<br />

filled with the wonderful blessings of a deeply<br />

priestly spirit grafted onto a loyal, open,<br />

family oriented, compassionate, and gifted<br />

nature.<br />

Father Floyd Lotito celebrated his 70th birthday, cutting<br />

the first piece of cake and tasting the frosting with<br />

help from Cissie Bonini, manager of his beloved St.<br />

Anthony Dining Room. After cake, he pitched in and<br />

helped serve lunch to more than 2,000 homeless and<br />

needy people in the Tenderloin.<br />

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The second blessing Floyd acknowledged in<br />

our conversation, was the poor. And here I<br />

need not go through his long years at St. Anthony’s<br />

or his work in the Tenderloin. The<br />

staff, the donors, the bread line, the public<br />

media, and, above all, his beloved guests<br />

give great testimony to that. I simply want<br />

to say in tribute that this blessing of the poor<br />

was something that grew in him, and it grew<br />

both through example and through adversity.<br />

If you go into Floyd’s office you will see<br />

there a picture of himself and Father Alfred;<br />

you cannot understand the course of one<br />

life without knowing the course of the other<br />

life. When Alfred emerged, Floyd receded;<br />

where Alfred led, Floyd followed; where<br />

Floyd was acknowledged, Alfred lay hidden;<br />

as Alfred declined, Floyd ascended. Yet<br />

he was not to be the successor. It is a great<br />

testimony to Floyd’s expansive heart that he<br />

not only persevered but flourished. He found<br />

himself blessed by the poor. He was one of<br />

them, a brother to brothers and sisters. They<br />

acknowledged him, opened their hearts to<br />

him, gave him a sense of human dignity, and<br />

touched him with healing power. He would<br />

become their public advocate, their mediator<br />

for justice, they his family. Every time he<br />

signed the head of his “brother” or “sister”<br />

with a cross, he found himself signed with<br />

his own redemption. It was a wondrous<br />

blessing exchanged between equals. If Floyd<br />

was a priest for the poor, the poor were other<br />

Christs for him.<br />

In our last conversation, Floyd mentioned<br />

that he had met the soon to be inaugurated<br />

Barak Obama. As he told it in Lotitoesque,<br />

he more or less bribed one of the Secret<br />

Service men. However he got there, the<br />

two great men stood face to face, the one<br />

ascending to power, the other in all of his


Blessing of the Animals at St.<br />

Boniface on the Feast of St. Francis,<br />

October 4th.<br />

frail dignity. If<br />

there had been<br />

a picture, you<br />

could be sure<br />

that it would<br />

have gone up<br />

on his wall,<br />

and he would<br />

have told us<br />

about it! And<br />

our Joseph<br />

Alfonso Lotito,<br />

our family<br />

man—said<br />

less than ten<br />

words, posed<br />

as a question, not only to the President of the<br />

United States but to all of us: “What are you<br />

going to do for the poor”<br />

Floyd, I think, would want me to conclude<br />

these formal reflections by simply saying to<br />

everyone here on his behalf, “Thank you.”<br />

And on our behalf, may I give to Floyd what<br />

he so deeply gave to us, a blessing. The<br />

sign and the words of this blessing are central<br />

to our Franciscan tradition and they were<br />

treasured by Floyd himself. Alfonso Joseph<br />

Floyd, we who are now poor because of your<br />

absence, sign you, our brother now rich in<br />

life, with the following words:<br />

May the Lord bless you and keep you.<br />

May the Lord let his face shine upon you,<br />

and be gracious to you.<br />

The Lord look upon you kindly and give you<br />

peace.<br />

The Lord bless you. (Num. 6.24-26)<br />

Joseph P. Chinnici, O.F.M.<br />

July 20, 2009<br />

FUNERAL SERMON<br />

Floyd Alfonso Joseph Lotito<br />

74 years of age<br />

56 years as a Friar Minor—Franciscan—<br />

and in 2010 Floyd would have celebrated<br />

50 years as a priest.<br />

Son of Joseph Lotito and Filomena Pirri<br />

Youngest brother of<br />

Michael Lotito (deceased) and<br />

older brother of May and Frances.<br />

Classmate in the Franciscan Order with<br />

Tom Frost, Loren Kerkof,<br />

Ten days ago I returned from Rome to San<br />

Francisco. I was working in the General Curia<br />

near the Vatican for the last six years. One<br />

of the highlights of the six years was that this<br />

year 2009 – all of us, the Capuchins, the Conventuals,<br />

the TORs and ourselves, the Friars<br />

Minor-- together with the Poor Clares,<br />

the Secular Franciscans and all the religious<br />

Brothers and Sisters of the Franciscan Family<br />

celebrated and are continuing to celebrate the<br />

800th anniversary of the actual founding of<br />

the Order.<br />

We had celebrations all over the world and recently<br />

we had a special one in Assisi. –The<br />

late Pope John Paul II would often encourage<br />

us to be with the people and to be friends of<br />

the Poor. Recently, Benedict XVI reminded<br />

us that one of the essential characteristics of<br />

our charism is our life with the poor. We have<br />

been challenged to be "Friends of the Poor".<br />

Whenever I hear those words, I think of numerous<br />

men and women that I have met during<br />

my lifetime -- but the image that comes<br />

to mind most often is that of Floyd Lotito.<br />

Floyd loved the poor and it didn't happen<br />

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overnight-- it took the grace of God, it took<br />

many false starts, it took years of being with<br />

the poor, speaking with them, listening to<br />

them, sharing with them, struggling to understand<br />

their feelings and their plight.<br />

Floyd, with his paradoxes, his brokenness<br />

and his human frailty-- yet with an almost<br />

childlike confidence -- with hours of contemplation<br />

on this Gospel text of Matthew<br />

25 -- Floyd knew the poor; he understood the<br />

poor; he was an advocate for the poor. Indeed,<br />

Floyd was a friend of the poor!<br />

Let me share with you how I think it happened.<br />

Sixty years ago--1949—August: In a dimly<br />

lit corridor of St. Anthony Franciscan Seminary<br />

High School in Santa Barbara, CA, two<br />

young men, 14 years of age, stood in a waiting<br />

line to meet and be interviewed by the Rector<br />

of the Seminiary. We had never met before--<br />

we were new here--we both had gone to other<br />

high schools the year before and we were entering<br />

the seminary as sophomores. We knew<br />

very few people in the place. Floyd was from<br />

Los Angeles and I came from Phoenix.<br />

Little did we realize that 60 years later one of<br />

us would be preaching at the other's funeral.<br />

Last year here at St. Boniface, when I was<br />

close to death with cancer, Floyd anointed<br />

me. As he prayed, we both cried. I felt then<br />

that he would be preaching at my funeral.<br />

During our days of formation in the seminary,<br />

Floyd was a fine student as he possessed a<br />

very clear and strong speaking voice -- he excelled<br />

in public speaking. He took part in almost<br />

all of the class plays and dramas. Floyd<br />

enjoyed being on stage... he was very comfortable<br />

there, very much at ease “on center<br />

stage!”<br />

Floyd made vows, was ordained, taught in<br />

our high schools and returned to the minor<br />

seminary to teach English and public speaking,<br />

drama and forensics. He<br />

coached a debate team that<br />

won many statewide awards.<br />

Father Floyd Lotito and Father Dan Lackie, Franciscan friars from St<br />

Boniface Church in the Tenderloin, leave the field at Pac Bell Park after<br />

blessing the field before the first game.<br />

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Around 1964, the Provincial,<br />

Terence Cronin, another fine<br />

preacher of our <strong>Province</strong>,<br />

recognized Floyd’s talent in<br />

public speaking and assigned<br />

him to study for a master’s<br />

degree in public speaking/<br />

rhetoric at Marquette University<br />

in Milwaukee. While<br />

in the Midwest, Floyd developed<br />

his preaching skill and<br />

he also made a deep, lasting<br />

friendship with a wonderful<br />

Italo-American and Irish-Pol-


ish extended family in Chicago. Floyd kept<br />

contact with them for all these years. They<br />

substituted for his California family when<br />

Floyd received the "Distinguished Alumnus<br />

Award" from Marquette several years ago.<br />

In 1967, Floyd was transferred from Santa<br />

Barbara to the Tenderlion. He was to preach<br />

weekend retreats at the new retreat house, San<br />

Damiano, in Danville, and at St. Francis Retreat<br />

in San Juan Bautista. He would live here<br />

and work at St. Boniface during the week.<br />

(Later he would also teach preaching at the<br />

Franciscan School of Theology in Berkeley).<br />

At St. Boniface he worked closely with Alfred<br />

Boeddeker, the founder of St. Anthony Foundation<br />

-- it was sort of an apprenticeship for<br />

Floyd. A few months later, he was asked to<br />

assist Fr. Alfred.<br />

Floyd worked in the Tenderloin for over forty<br />

years. The Gospel of Matthew which we<br />

just read provides us the scriptural basis for-<br />

Floyd's concern for the poor. The text could<br />

serve as a job description of the Foundation or<br />

its mission statement. "I was hungry, thirsty,<br />

homeless, sick, in prison, a stranger -- a marginalized<br />

person and you took care of me.”<br />

The question, " When, Lord, did I see you"<br />

gives us a glance into Floyd's motivation during<br />

his years at the Foundation, “into what<br />

made him tick." Frequent reflection, contemplation,<br />

conversation about the meaning of<br />

this text strengthened within Floyd a deep,<br />

childhood lesson that he learned from his<br />

mother.<br />

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In a chapter written by House Speaker Nancy<br />

Pelosi in a recently published book about<br />

politicians who are believers, Nancy described<br />

how she once asked Floyd the secret<br />

of his perseverance during the forty plus years<br />

of working with the Foundation. " Don't you<br />

wear out, don't you ever get tired, don't you<br />

ever feel like changing jobs" Floyd answered<br />

her: " As a child and -- yes -- even as an adult,<br />

my mother used to tell me often, 'Son, stay<br />

close to the poor. Love the poor because God<br />

loves the poor!'"<br />

During his years with the Foundation--in<br />

many different positions--Floyd grew to know<br />

the poor and to love the poor. Floyd had many<br />

friends and he loved us all -- he related with<br />

us well, but we always knew that he had preference<br />

for the poor. He was friends of many<br />

archbishops, bishops, other priests, religious<br />

brothers and sisters, rabbis, ministers, government<br />

officials --both local and national--<br />

people of wealth and power in our society and<br />

in our nation -- and ordinary people from all<br />

walks of life. Yet he never lost this friendship<br />

with the poor.<br />

He received awards from the Church, from<br />

U.S. presidents, from mayors, and articles<br />

were written about him in numerous national<br />

publications. He was an author of a couple of<br />

books. He was interviewed and praised by<br />

well known people, he was a friend of news<br />

reporters, a friend of Herb Caen and other<br />

journalists, a friend of all the policemen in the<br />

Tenderloin, a friend of taxi cab drivers whose<br />

cabs he blessed, and of owners of all sorts<br />

of animals whose pets he blessed around the<br />

feast of St. Francis. The text of Matthew 25<br />

came to life in brother Floyd.<br />

Allow me to finish by talking briefly about the<br />

three pillars in Floyd's life that offered him<br />

structure and stability... the three loves in his<br />

life.


He loved his family. His father died when he<br />

was in high school. His family was a significant<br />

priority for Floyd-- his immediate family<br />

was very important to him. He kept contact<br />

with them, spent quality time with them. They<br />

gave him affirmation, warmth and strength.<br />

They loved him very much. I am sure that<br />

May and Frances will tell us that Floyd was<br />

an exemplary, duitiful son, a loving brother, a<br />

devoted uncle and a joyful cousin.<br />

He loved his Franciscan family. He appreciated<br />

the gift of his vocation very much. He<br />

was a vital member of the <strong>Province</strong>. He served<br />

on various committes and administrative positions.<br />

He was especially good as a guardian of<br />

the local community, both here and at St. Anthony's<br />

on Cesar Chavez Street. He took the<br />

responsibility seriously and tried to help us<br />

grow. He would frequently bring in top-notch<br />

guest speakers --experts -- to help us understand<br />

the new changes in the Church and the<br />

world around us. He sponsored many friars’<br />

get-togethers in the Bay Area. For years he<br />

published a monthly newsletter for all the<br />

members of the <strong>Province</strong>. He even sent an extra<br />

copy to me to give to the Minister General<br />

in Rome.<br />

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He loved St. Anthony Foundation and the<br />

fine people of San Francisco. He was grateful<br />

to John Hardin and his staff. The Foundation<br />

over the years offered him a forum for his<br />

ideas, it taught him new skills, gave him new<br />

strategies and insights. It opened many doors<br />

to him, it often challenged Floyd, and it allowed<br />

him to give expression to his love and<br />

concern for the poor in concrete ways.<br />

And you, the dear people of the Tenderloin<br />

and of the city of San Francisco, you affirmed<br />

Floyd, you were patient and understanding<br />

as he grew. You stood by him -- your generous<br />

support and contributions definitely kept<br />

the Foundation alive and flourishing. He was<br />

grateful.<br />

In conclusion, John of the Cross, the Spanish<br />

mystic, once said, "In the evening of our life<br />

we will be judged by Love."<br />

We pray for Floyd at this Mass, as he stands<br />

before the Just Judge, accompanied by all<br />

these Franciscan Saints on the ceiling around<br />

the altar – and many more, all those who love<br />

the poor. Floyd, as you listen to the voice<br />

of God saying, “I was hungry, I was thirsty,<br />

I was homeless….” standing in “center<br />

stage,” you will not have to ask the “when<br />

question.” You learned the answer here on<br />

earth in the Tenderloin.<br />

We rejoice with you, Floyd, as the Lord invites<br />

you, welcomes you. “ Come, enter the<br />

kingdom prepared for you from the foundation<br />

of the world!” Floyd Alfonso Lotito,<br />

may you rest in peace!<br />

Fr. Finian McGinn, O.F.M.<br />

STUDENTS REMEMBER FR.<br />

FLOYD<br />

One of the earlier posts on SASSEM was an<br />

appeal to get back in touch with some of the<br />

older OFMs we knew and loved at St Anthony's<br />

who are now elderly and infirmed.<br />

When word went out about Fr. Floyd's illness,<br />

I began a correspondence with him and<br />

he seemed really moved to get letters from<br />

his old students. I only regret that I didn't go<br />

to see him as I had planned to do. After another<br />

note went out on the Franciscan prayer<br />

list about Fr. Peter recently, I sent off a card<br />

to him as well.


I imagine the pain that many of our brothers<br />

felt from the abuse at St. Anthony's had to<br />

have impacted on friars who were in the Order<br />

at the time. Clem Wehe talked about this<br />

with me a few years back at a SAS reunion.<br />

I know that many friars eventually left out of<br />

frustration, disappointment, disgust perhaps,<br />

others for a variety of personal reasons. But<br />

some very good men who remained watched<br />

as their Order shrunk, faced bankruptcy and<br />

faced great ordeals, many of these caused<br />

by the individuals who brought shame to the<br />

Order.<br />

Fr. Floyd represents the good that attracted<br />

many of us to OFM. Even into his old age<br />

he dedicated himself to selfless giving and<br />

service to the poor and disenfranchised.<br />

May we be inspired by his witness and the<br />

genuine spirit of Francis of Assisi. –Kevin J.<br />

Belton '65<br />

What a nice tribute he got. Did a lot of great<br />

work--especially at the kitchen in SF. Of<br />

course, we knew him as Lumpy Lotito--said<br />

in fond memory. He tried to teach our class<br />

Latin using a new style--speaking it....didn't<br />

really work. Didacus '68<br />

I remember Fr. Floyd from SAS in the early<br />

'60s. Our paths never crossed after that, but I<br />

am heartened that those who knew him well<br />

confirm my positive impressions of him.<br />

Who could forget those coke-bottle glasses<br />

He had a quick wit and wry smile. He was a<br />

warm, caring, and very "Franciscan"<br />

friar. He is missed. Jerry, '65<br />

on national TV. We met in the refectory<br />

sitting in a circle. Fr. Floyd was one of the<br />

few friars who was present. I recall how he<br />

and Fr. Alberic compassionately listened to<br />

the stories shared by former students, their<br />

spouses and even children. I could see the<br />

pain, confusion and shame he felt. His presence,<br />

as well as that of the other friars present,<br />

reinforced my belief that there were, and<br />

still remain, great men among the friars who<br />

continued to live by the teachings of Francis.<br />

Fr. Floyd was such an inspiration to us to develop<br />

our communication skills. He ensured<br />

that the seals from the National Forensic<br />

League and California High School Speech<br />

Association were affixed to my diploma as<br />

they were almost left off. Reading his eulogy<br />

reminds us of the true calling we had<br />

as young men to follow in the footsteps of<br />

Francis as Fr. Floyd did. Ron '70<br />

I have fond memories of Fr. Floyd too. Just<br />

flashed on his attempt to lose weight with the<br />

grapefruit diet! Greg’69<br />

So sad to lose Floyd, he was always a joy to<br />

be around and was truly a brother to his fellow<br />

priests. He just radiated happiness when<br />

you were with him. Whenever our paths<br />

would cross, I always found him truly filled<br />

with "Good News". No wonder the people<br />

of San Francisco loved him so much because<br />

we fellow friars experienced him the same<br />

way. There was no pretense with Floyd; he<br />

lived with his heart wide open. We are all<br />

richer for having known him.<br />

The last time I saw Fr. Floyd was at a SAS<br />

reunion. It was the first time a group of us<br />

met and began to talk about our experiences<br />

shortly after news of the abuse at SAS was<br />

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Kevin, you put it so well that I can only second<br />

your thoughts. And Jerry you are so right<br />

to hold a high opinion of him, his life proved<br />

the soundness of you assumption. He was


simply one of the best. And my dear Vince,<br />

how generous of spirit you are to rise above<br />

it all and realize friars like Floyd and Alberic<br />

represent many more that struggle to serve<br />

faithfully. They are truly worthy of our respect<br />

and our love.<br />

But sadly there will be less laughing and joy<br />

now that Floyd has gone home. But heaven<br />

is surely rocking tonight. Much love. Paz y<br />

Bien. Matt'58.<br />

I am so sorry to hear this. Floyd was a good<br />

person who did a lot of wonderful things at<br />

SAS and beyond. Dr. Arnie Witchel<br />

I have not seen Fr. Floyd for some time, but I<br />

always remember him as an especially loving<br />

and caring Franciscan. In the years when<br />

I left the seminary and we "exes" were persona<br />

non grata around SAS and the mission,<br />

Floyd invited me to his ordination. He was<br />

a good friend at SAS and put that first. Few<br />

men are so easy to love, and few of us love<br />

so unconditionally. Alex ‘54<br />

discard the jar. He was careful to put it on<br />

a different side each day to ease the ache in<br />

his back caused by the uneven load. Because<br />

of its poor performance, the cracked jar felt<br />

inferior to the sound jar. It was ashamed of<br />

how it wasted the efforts of the water bearer.<br />

After years of daily trips to the river, it could<br />

no longer keep silent. One day it said to the<br />

water bearer, “I am so sorry for my flaw. It<br />

is unfair that you work so hard and only get<br />

the result of half as much work because of<br />

my imperfection. You should find another<br />

jar that is as sound as my companion so your<br />

efforts are not wasted.” The water bearer<br />

walked on in silence for awhile and then<br />

said, “You should not compare your work to<br />

the work of the other jar. I need both of you<br />

to accomplish the master’s work. I know of<br />

your imperfection and have put it to good<br />

use."<br />

As they made their way up the mountain path<br />

that day, the water bearer pointed out the<br />

beautiful flowers that grew on each side of<br />

the path. He went on to say:<br />

Funeral Homily<br />

For<br />

EMERY RICHARD TANG, OFM<br />

In China, there is an old story about two<br />

earthen jugs that a water bearer carried to the<br />

master’s house each day. He would loop the<br />

handle of each over a pole across his shoulders,<br />

fill them at the river and carry them up<br />

the mountain path. Now—one of the jars was<br />

badly cracked. It had a crack down one side<br />

that caused it to leak half of its water before<br />

arriving at the master’s house. The defect<br />

was plain to see, but the water bearer did not<br />

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“For many years nothing would grow here.<br />

The soil is dry and no one could take the<br />

time to provide water for plants to grow. But<br />

you have found a way to nourish the flowers<br />

that takes no extra work. You please the<br />

master not only with the water you bring to<br />

his house, but the water you spill along the<br />

way which has given us this garden of beautiful<br />

flowers.”<br />

In the beginning God’s design for all of<br />

creation was as perfect as the sound jar in<br />

our story: there were no cracks in God’s<br />

jar. God’s vision for humankind was perfect<br />

and precious. God did not make suffering,


pain, sickness, and death. God fashioned all<br />

of creation to be life-giving and worthy of<br />

God’s loving touch.<br />

However, weak water bearers came along<br />

and damaged God’s creation just as the<br />

cracked jar had been damaged. What was<br />

once a beautiful piece of pottery now had<br />

a bad crack. Where there was once light<br />

and life, now there was darkness and death.<br />

Where there was once hope and love, now<br />

there was despair and hate. So creation was<br />

damaged and we seem at times to be like that<br />

cracked jar of the water bearer: futile, useless,<br />

and wasting.<br />

But God’s intention did not waver; God’s<br />

intention remained the same. God intended<br />

that our jars would be whole—that our jars<br />

would produce life. God did not make<br />

death. God did not put the crack in the<br />

jars of our life. Nor was God content to sit<br />

back and allow death to have the final word,<br />

to have death drain us of all life. In other<br />

words, no way was the crack in our jars going<br />

to make us useless and wasteful.<br />

Something would have to happen to that<br />

cracked jar to make it a beautiful piece of<br />

pottery again. And so the God-man named<br />

Jesus was born into the world as one of us,<br />

to experience suffering and death from the<br />

inside. But from Jesus’ death, from the crack<br />

in Jesus’ jar, God would fashion something<br />

new for the human race and for all of creation.<br />

Jesus then would use death itself--the<br />

crack in the jar--to give life, everlasting life.<br />

From Jesus’ jar, flowers would be watered<br />

and blossom. So Jesus did not abolish death:<br />

he knew he would die; he knew he had to<br />

die; he was ready to die. And why Because<br />

with his death, death would cease to be the<br />

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enemy. Oh, I do not mean that with Calvary,<br />

on Calvary, death became easy; it did not. I<br />

mean that on Calvary Christ gave death a<br />

new look, a fresh meaning.<br />

What this new meaning is can be said quite<br />

simply: from the death of Jesus Christ, life<br />

was born, not only for him but also for us.<br />

That, which was thought to be useless and<br />

cracked, now gives life. And gardens are<br />

watered and beautiful flowers bloom for all<br />

to enjoy and to praise God.<br />

There is a danger that each of us leave the<br />

jar of our life untouched because we fear the<br />

cracks that are there. We feel that they are<br />

too deep, too wide, too broken. The cracked<br />

jar in the parable felt sorry for the water<br />

bearer because the jar felt it wasn’t doing its<br />

job. If we look at our jars and put them in<br />

the corner to collect dust, then indeed we can<br />

end up being useless; we end up wasting precious<br />

life. But through Jesus God invites each<br />

one of us to use the cracks in our jar to water<br />

the gardens of our lives to create new life, to<br />

create our own garden of flowers. Jesus used<br />

the crack in his jar to create new life and so<br />

he tells us: “Whoever serves me must follow<br />

me and where I am, there will be my servant”<br />

( John 12:26).<br />

Today we come together to praise our God<br />

for Emery Richard Tang’s life and his beautiful<br />

garden. As you well know, Emery was a<br />

master gardener and took great pride in his<br />

flowers. In Emery’s own words:<br />

“The loveliness of flowers in my life is a constant<br />

reminder of God’s marvelous creativity<br />

and never-ending thoughtfulness and care.<br />

Blossoms show me that with each “ohh” and<br />

“ahhh” I breathe, God the unseen is some-


where in the wings, smiling at my pleasure."<br />

(FFJ, p. 71)<br />

We gather then to honor a good man who did<br />

not put his jar aside to collect dust. Rather,<br />

he faithfully and constantly hauled the water<br />

of life so that he could grow beautiful flowers<br />

in his garden, which were only a sign of<br />

God’s tremendous love for each of us.<br />

Emery walked up and down the path of life<br />

for eighty-one years. That is a lot of walking.<br />

Sometimes the walk was easy for him;<br />

sometimes the path was rocky, but he never<br />

gave up; he never quit. He faithfully carried<br />

the jar of water each day of his life—spilling<br />

his life so that his garden could grow. Today<br />

let us look at that garden he watered and<br />

some of the flowers in that garden.<br />

but more importantly, he is at home with his<br />

knowledge; it rests lightly yet securely upon<br />

him. Doesn’t that picture of the wise man of<br />

the Scriptures describe Emery perfectly<br />

It has been this gift of wisdom that has been<br />

the source of all that he has done—whether<br />

it was teaching in a classroom, sitting in a<br />

principal’s office, preaching from the pulpit,<br />

producing communications media, taking a<br />

photo or writing a book, planting a garden—<br />

all of it has been about preaching God’s<br />

Word with wisdom.<br />

In Emery’s own words of wisdom:<br />

On forgiveness: “Those who do not forgive<br />

destroy the bridge over which they may one<br />

day need to pass.” FFJ, p. 118<br />

But first, let me be clear about these flowers<br />

that I will identify. I found these flowers in<br />

his own writings, especially in his last book,<br />

FOOD FOR THE JOURNEY. These are the<br />

flowers that gave him the greatest joy, and he<br />

shared them with us.<br />

The first flower in his garden is the gift<br />

of wisdom. On the occasion of his 50th<br />

Jubilee as a priest, I said in my homily that<br />

of “all the gifts he had received from God<br />

and his parents, the one gift that stands out<br />

is wisdom.” This is the wisdom who hastens<br />

to make herself known to those who<br />

desire her. And God has made his Wisdom<br />

known through Emery’s life and ministry. In<br />

the Scriptures, the wise person is the expert<br />

in the art of good living. Passion does not<br />

sear him; he is self-possessed. Wrath does<br />

not wrack him; he is patient; he is cool He<br />

is a knowledgeable man; he’s mastered a<br />

field, may even have academic knowledge,<br />

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On generosity: “If only there were a simple,<br />

inescapable way to be convinced that sharing<br />

my gifts and goods, not amassing or wasting<br />

them, is the key to the happiness that is so<br />

desirable but so elusive in life.” FFJ, p.54<br />

On life’s accomplishments: “Looked at with<br />

the proper perspective, I’ll never be able to<br />

accomplish all I would like to do, but I know<br />

I have all the time I need to do what God<br />

would have me do.” FFJ, p. 57<br />

Now, in God’s own Word from the Wisdom<br />

of Solomon:<br />

I learned both what is secret and what<br />

is manifest,<br />

for wisdom, the fashioner of all things<br />

taught me. (7: 21-22)<br />

Oh, yes, wisdom is definitely a flower in Emery’s<br />

garden.<br />

The second flower in his garden is the be-


lief that the love of God, the love of others,<br />

and the love of self is the secret of good living.<br />

This belief was not only the heart of his<br />

teaching and preaching, but it was the heart<br />

of who he was as a man, a friar, and a priest.<br />

His message was quite simple: love is doing<br />

good to others. No strings attached. Period.<br />

He encouraged us to do good because we<br />

should want to do good. It is the motive that<br />

counts. And the good must be unilateral—<br />

nothing expected in return--and that is risky<br />

business. Emery challenged us to risk love<br />

because deep down we are all afraid of being<br />

taken. And the basis of this love must be the<br />

love of Christ. He says, “I am convinced that<br />

there is only one truth—the love of Christ.”<br />

And the acceptance of that love requires a<br />

willingness to change: our attitudes, our<br />

prejudices, our opinions, our positions on all<br />

kinds of issues. Yes, love is risky business,<br />

but we should not fear. Emery took great<br />

consolation in St. Paul’s words: “For I am<br />

convinced that neither death, nor life, nor angels,<br />

nor rulers, nor things present, nor things<br />

to come will be able to separate us from us<br />

from the love of God” (Rom 8: 38-39).<br />

approach to being Godlike. The result is that<br />

I share more abundantly in the beatific joy<br />

that is God’s nature.<br />

For Love to be Love, it first of all must be<br />

freely done. It can’t be forced or legislated.<br />

I have to want and choose to do good for<br />

someone, starting with myself. That is the<br />

real power and beauty of love.” FFJ, pp. 95<br />

– 96.<br />

Now in God’s own Word from the Gospel of<br />

John:<br />

“As the Father loves me, so I also love<br />

you. Remain in my love.<br />

This is my commandment: love one<br />

another as I love you” (15:9-12).<br />

Oh, yes. Love is definitely a flower in his<br />

garden.<br />

The third flower I find in his garden is the<br />

commitment to a world in which there is<br />

justice for all. For the Jews of old, NOT to<br />

execute justice was NOT to worship God.<br />

In Emery’s own words of love:<br />

“Love is God, without beginning and without<br />

end. God is all-good, forever pouring out<br />

goodness. God can’t do anything else. It’s<br />

impossible for God to run out of goodness<br />

and to stop giving. Conversely, it’s impossible<br />

for God to do anything which is not good<br />

or which is bad. Love can only do what is<br />

good."<br />

“The amazing fact is that I am made in God’s<br />

image. This means that I am created out of<br />

God’s love in order to love and, of course, to<br />

be loved. The more I love, then, the closer I<br />

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For Emery, NOT to preach justice is NOT to<br />

preach the gospel. In his preaching he would<br />

often point to the violence and division in<br />

Church history and ask, “Is this the result of<br />

Jesus’ coming I guess God is having a hard<br />

time communicating.”<br />

Therefore, he was not afraid to take on the<br />

justice issues of his day: nuclear war, the<br />

death penalty, the homeless and the hopeless,<br />

the senior abused and confused, the teenage<br />

mother hooked on coke and the teenage<br />

boy taking his gun to class, the millions too<br />

discouraged to look for work, the unnumbered<br />

hearts that harbor hate, eyes empty of


hope, stomachs bloated with hunger. Emery<br />

preached not only a gospel of hope to them,<br />

but a gospel of love about them.<br />

One of the most poignant justice-words he<br />

preached was a Telespot produced by Franciscan<br />

Communications. In this short spot,<br />

a finely dressed woman is walking up to a<br />

church in downtown Los Angeles. As she<br />

goes up the steps of the church, she passes a<br />

homeless person sitting there. She turns and<br />

gives a look of disdain. And as she is about<br />

to enter the Church, the picture freezes.<br />

Then comes the voice:<br />

‘If you don’t find God out here, you certainly<br />

won’t find him in there.” You can just picture<br />

Emery saying those words while giving<br />

that look of his that spoke volumes.<br />

Now in God’s own Word from the Gospel of<br />

Matthew:<br />

“And the king will answer them, ‘Truly I tell<br />

you, just as you did it to one of the least of<br />

these who are members of my family, you<br />

did it to me” (25:40).<br />

he prized your friendship by the way he kept<br />

in touch by word and deed.<br />

In Emery’s own words of friendship:<br />

“Without any qualification, my friend is my<br />

life’s most precious treasure. Again and<br />

again, I praise and thank God for so wonderful<br />

a gift: someone who truly cares for<br />

me, anticipating and providing for my needs<br />

and who will stop at nothing to provide for<br />

my well-being, asking nothing in return…<br />

Friendship is a warm blanket of comfort and<br />

security in which I can wrap myself during<br />

conflict and struggle. My friend lends a<br />

sympathetic ear to my travails and comforts<br />

me when I am afflicted by grief. When I embark<br />

on a new endeavor I can always count<br />

on my friend for honest analysis, advice and<br />

support. When I am underway, my friend<br />

stands by me with encouragement and honest<br />

criticism through ups and downs of any<br />

undertaking. If I veer off course or become<br />

distracted, my friend rouses me and straightens<br />

me out.” FFJ, p. 46<br />

Now in God’s own Word from the Gospel of<br />

John:<br />

Oh, yes. Justice is definitely a flower in his<br />

garden.<br />

Finally, the last flower I have identified is<br />

family and friendship. This is really one<br />

flower in his garden. For Emery, if you were<br />

a member of his family, you where his friend<br />

and, if you were his friend, then he considered<br />

you his family.<br />

To Emery’s family: you know how much he<br />

loved you and he knew how much you loved<br />

him. He was always there for you and you<br />

for him. And to his friends: you know how<br />

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“And I will soon show to you and to everyone,<br />

there is no greater love than to lay down<br />

your life for your friend. I have shared all of<br />

this so that you can share in my own infinite<br />

joy, and then, my beloved friend, your joy<br />

will be complete” (15:10-15).<br />

Oh, yes. Family and friendship is definitely<br />

a flower in his garden.<br />

Now these are only some of the flowers in<br />

his garden, watered from Emery’s jar of life.<br />

But those certainly are not the only flowers.


You see, he has a flower for each of you. He<br />

grew it just for you. Today, look at it, appreciate<br />

its beauty, honor it, celebrate and praise<br />

God and Emery for it, and then share your<br />

flower with another.<br />

And for Fr. Emery. Indeed there is much to<br />

mourn as there was much to mourn on Calvary.<br />

We shall have to wait for the resurrection<br />

on the last day before we see that inviting<br />

smile of his, before those sharp eyes look<br />

at us, before we hear that melodious voice<br />

with his words of wisdom and challenge. All<br />

of that is sad—no matter how profound our<br />

faith.<br />

But the thrilling truth remains: Emery is<br />

alive with God. In the presence of God,<br />

there is only God, there is only Love. In the<br />

presence of God, every cracked jar pours<br />

forth the water of life.<br />

And now, finally, in God’s own Word from<br />

St. Paul:<br />

“No eye has ever seen nor ear heard nor has<br />

any mind ever conceived the things God has<br />

prepared for those who love him.” (I Cor<br />

2;9).<br />

And so, Emery, my teacher, my brother and<br />

my friend, rest well as you enjoy the mansion<br />

God has prepared for you. Now it is<br />

time for you to walk in God’s garden where<br />

with each flower God is saying to you, “Emery<br />

Richard Tang, I love you.” AMEN<br />

Melvin A. Jurisich, OFM<br />

Ex. Min. Prov.<br />

St. Bonaventure’s Church<br />

Huntington Beach, CA<br />

And we who remain What of us We have<br />

our memories, of course, and they are precious.<br />

But there is more, much more. Emery<br />

Richard Tang is not merely a memory, he<br />

is part of us. He is built into our lives. His<br />

wisdom and smile, his kindness and love,<br />

his friendship and service—all have seeped<br />

into our lives. Because of him and his life as<br />

a friar and priest, we are more human, more<br />

life-giving, more blessed.<br />

And now, finally, in Emery’s own words:<br />

“And so, in these remaining years my goal<br />

is to accept the challenge to ‘fight the good<br />

fight’ to the end, as Paul urged his friend<br />

Timothy (I Tim 6:12). Then what an enormously<br />

thrilling and wondrous moment it<br />

will be to discover the full answers to life’s<br />

who, what, when, where and why.” FFJ, p. 5<br />

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FR. EMERY REMEMBERED<br />

Sad to read about Fr. Emery’s passing in the<br />

July WestFriars. In the fall of 1944 my father<br />

had to make an unexpected trip from Gallup<br />

to Los Angeles on business. He then took<br />

the train to Santa Barbara to visit me. At the<br />

portals of S.A.S. the first person he met was<br />

Fr. Emery, a 5th year seminarian, to inquire<br />

how to find me. A brief encounter! In his<br />

early 50s, some 50 years after that encounter,<br />

my father, out of the blue, surprised me with<br />

a most pleasant question: “Is that Chinese<br />

still there” My father still remembered our<br />

Viking captain for his graciousness.<br />

My wife met Fr. Emery when we went to the<br />

ordinations of Frs. Barry, Elias and Mario in<br />

December, 1956. She has remembered him


well ever since. In 1993 Fr. Emery sent us a<br />

copy of his Franciscan Life, courtesy of Marvin<br />

and Kathy Woelffer. Since 1996 I began<br />

using his book as my own mini-necrology to<br />

keep the respect of our “risen” Franciscans.<br />

And now Fr. Emery!<br />

My two favorite publications are WestFriars<br />

and Fr. Mel’s “Franciscan Bridges.” I look<br />

forward to them! Arthur Lente, Albuquerque,<br />

NM.<br />

Dear Warren,<br />

Thank you for your well edited WestFriars<br />

and for an opportunity to remember Emery.<br />

He was a life-long friend and inspiration.<br />

The memories stretch far back to those blistering<br />

summer days in Phoenix (you, Warren,<br />

were also there). We were home from St<br />

Anthony's and part of Fr. Brian's "brigade".<br />

We met for Mass, movies and various activities,<br />

including an end-to-summer vacation in<br />

northern Arizona.<br />

After ordination in 1955, I was fortunate to<br />

join Emery, Frs. Ronald and Marion at St.<br />

Elizabeth's in Oakland. As in everything, he<br />

was a gifted teacher--humorous and friendly,<br />

yet mixed wth firmness when needed. His<br />

stage plays and musicals were professionaly<br />

produced and directed--another one of his<br />

many talents.<br />

My wife and I are parishioners at Sts. Simon<br />

and Jude where Emery had been in residence.<br />

It was truly a gift to "catch" him and<br />

visit from time to time. He never lost that<br />

quick wit and ready<br />

smile. Patrick D. O'Connor<br />

THE CHARISM OF<br />

ADMINISTRATION<br />

Administration as a call from God and the<br />

church (and the <strong>Province</strong>) has the potential<br />

to make more out of us. It makes us more<br />

whole, more humble, more courageous.<br />

It expands our vision and our capacity to<br />

love. It marks on us the pattern of Christ,<br />

moving through death to new hope. If we<br />

believe in the future of the Church and society,<br />

the work we undertake is absolutely<br />

essential. It is essential for the institutions<br />

in which we serve. It is essential for the<br />

people of God as a whole. It may even be<br />

essential for us and the working out of our<br />

own salvation. Administration can be a<br />

great spiritual adventure. [Ann M. Garrido<br />

America: July 6-13, 2009]<br />

Pope Benedict XVI<br />

A TRUE PILGRIM<br />

By Father Garret Edmunds, OFM<br />

On Pope Benedict’s last day in the <strong>Holy</strong> Land,<br />

I was assigned the modest task of helping<br />

to facilitate the passage through security of<br />

those guests invited to be part of his visit to<br />

the Church of the <strong>Holy</strong> Sepulchre. There were<br />

about 280 invited guests including clergy, religious<br />

and lay people, and representing both<br />

the local Christian communities and those<br />

who, like the Pope, were visiting the <strong>Holy</strong><br />

Land<br />

At one point, during a lull in the arrival of<br />

the guests, a French journalist asked if he<br />

could interview me. His question was simply,<br />

“What is the significance of the Pope visiting<br />

the <strong>Holy</strong> Sepulchre on the last day of his visit<br />

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to the <strong>Holy</strong> Land” A perfect question for me<br />

since I spend most of my time in the <strong>Holy</strong><br />

Land working with people, like the Pope, who<br />

have come here as pilgrims.<br />

My answer was that for every Christian pilgrim<br />

to the <strong>Holy</strong> Land the culmination of<br />

pilgrimage in this land is the arrival and visit<br />

to the <strong>Holy</strong> Sepulchre or the Basilica of the<br />

Resurrection. In this Church the Pope was,<br />

like countless pilgrims before him, able to remember<br />

Christ’s crucifixion, death, burial and<br />

resurrection and enter more deeply into these<br />

central mysteries of our salvation.<br />

There were for this visit some moments of<br />

public prayer and words spoken by both the<br />

<strong>Holy</strong> Father and the Latin Catholic Patriarch<br />

of Jerusalem, His Beatitude Fouad Twal, to<br />

the invited guests. The Pope was welcomed to<br />

the <strong>Holy</strong> Sepulchre in the traditional Solemn<br />

Entry ceremony by the Franciscan Custos of<br />

the <strong>Holy</strong> Land, Fr. Pierbattista Pizzaballa,<br />

O.F.M. And his entry to the Basilica was accompanied<br />

by singing of the Te Deum by the<br />

Franciscans present. The Franciscans have for<br />

more than 600 years represented the interests<br />

of the world’s Catholic population- we are the<br />

“custodians” of the <strong>Holy</strong> Land – at the <strong>Holy</strong><br />

Sepulchre.<br />

These were the parts of the <strong>Holy</strong> Father’s visit<br />

to the <strong>Holy</strong> Sepulchre the world and guests inside<br />

would have seen, heard and experienced.<br />

But the most important parts of his visit to this<br />

place, which is arguably the holiest site in all<br />

of the Christian world, were quiet and private.<br />

The Pope not once, but thrice went to pray by<br />

himself- in the empty tomb of Christ, in the<br />

Blessed Sacrament Chapel, and at the place<br />

on Calvary where Jesus died.<br />

He was clearly moved by each of these mo-<br />

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ments of personal prayer. At Calvary he even<br />

broke from the well planned program and<br />

asked, like do hundreds of other pilgrims who<br />

visit each day, to light a candle at the place<br />

where Jesus gave up his life for our redemption.<br />

It was an unexpected gesture, spontaneous<br />

on the Pope’s part, and prompted the<br />

question afterwards as to who would have<br />

paid the normal donation to the Greek Orthodox<br />

sacristan responsible for dispensing the<br />

candles.<br />

When in the normal course of my ministry I<br />

am trying to animate the visit of pilgrims to<br />

the <strong>Holy</strong> Sepulchre, I always strongly recommend<br />

that, after they have visited the Church,<br />

they take the time to truly experience this holy<br />

place by spending some time in quiet, personal<br />

prayer. Without doing so the time spent in<br />

the <strong>Holy</strong> Sepulchre is time spent as a tourist.<br />

Including the time for prayer, indeed making<br />

it the priority of a visit to the <strong>Holy</strong> Sepulchre<br />

as did the Pope, is what makes a real pilgrim’s<br />

experience of this holy place.<br />

Following the Pope’s return to Rome on Friday<br />

those whose job it is to do so began their<br />

analysis of his visit. Those who approached<br />

their analysis from a secular or political viewpoint<br />

gave these visits modest marks. There<br />

were no major gaffs, but also no major milestones<br />

on the road to resolving the serious<br />

conflicts that mark the relationships of peoples<br />

in this part of the world. The Pope’s presence<br />

did serve as a focus on the need to rethink the<br />

ways people here and elsewhere view their<br />

neighbor and relate to them, but only time<br />

will tell what fruits that message bears.<br />

To form an option of <strong>Holy</strong> Father’s visit to the<br />

<strong>Holy</strong> Land from this worldly vantage point is<br />

to miss the reason he made this journey. He<br />

came, as he often said, as a pilgrim, represent-


ing the pilgrim Church. He addressed the issues<br />

that affect the lives of all peoples, but he<br />

more importantly reminded those who paid<br />

attention to his words and actions that only by<br />

encountering the transcendent made present<br />

in the incarnate Lord can we hope to continue<br />

to make progress toward the Kingdom of God<br />

- a kingdom of peace, grace and reconciliation.<br />

Pope Benedict XVI was a true pilgrim during<br />

his visit to the <strong>Holy</strong> Land, helping us to<br />

remember that our lives with one another and<br />

with God in this world are a pilgrimage to<br />

the fullness of life God promises in time and<br />

space and in dimensions of being that extend<br />

beyond time and space.<br />

(Reprinted with permission from <strong>Holy</strong> Land<br />

Franciscans, courtesy of Fr. Jeremy Harrington,<br />

O.F.M., Commissary of the <strong>Holy</strong><br />

Land in Washington, D.C.)<br />

OUR MISSIONARIES<br />

DAVID GAA AND BUREAUCRACY<br />

It is the end of July, and I am writing from<br />

Washington, DC, where it is very hot and humid.<br />

I came here at the end of last week for a<br />

new visa for Kazakhstan. I remember writing<br />

for WestFriars last time and at the end of<br />

my letter saying that receiving a new visa<br />

for Kazakhstan was not much of a problem,<br />

while John Gibbons had a much harder time<br />

in Russia.<br />

Well, things have changed. About two weeks<br />

ago, when I was in Kazakhstan, I went to the<br />

immigration police to begin the process of<br />

applying for a new visa and they told me that<br />

I now had to return to my home country to<br />

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receive my visa and not just apply for a new<br />

visa in Kazakhstan like I had for the past 6<br />

years.<br />

The way the system works is that in order to<br />

get anything besides a tourist visa you need<br />

an invitation by a recognized organization<br />

and this is no major hassle since the Diocese<br />

is an inviting organization. Then with a letter<br />

from them you go to the immigration police<br />

who then give you yet another letter that you<br />

then go to the justice department to receive<br />

the visa. The process normally takes just<br />

about a week.<br />

But now everything had changed and I could<br />

not just cross the border into Kyrgyzstan or<br />

go just to Rome, but had to go all the back to<br />

the States. I couldn’t believe it and even the<br />

parish lawyer, the Vatican Embassy or the<br />

Diocese could not budge the police, so off I<br />

went to Washington. This is all very odd as<br />

the new system does not apply to the other<br />

friary located in a different political jurisdiction.<br />

According to the Vatican Embassy the new<br />

visa problems are only affecting the region<br />

where I live and one other region in Southern<br />

Kazakhstan. In all the other regions religious<br />

and priests are not having problems getting<br />

new visas. There really is no real system of<br />

law in Kazakhstan, but the law is just interpreted<br />

by whomever one is dealing with.<br />

Just my luck; so here I sit in Washington DC.<br />

My new visa is supposed to be ready at the<br />

end of the week and then it is back to Kazakhstan<br />

I go.<br />

I am staying at the Commissariat of the <strong>Holy</strong><br />

Land in DC and it is a huge place. Fr. Jeremy<br />

Harrington, who was the visitor to our


<strong>Province</strong>, I guess like 12 years ago, is the<br />

guardian and a very welcoming host. It was<br />

good to see him again. A pleasant surprise is<br />

that I ran into Garrett Edmunds, home from<br />

the <strong>Holy</strong> Land for an operation. He is still<br />

in recovery but is able to sit at meals and we<br />

visit-- he telling me about his work in the<br />

<strong>Holy</strong> Land and I telling him about my life in<br />

Kazakhstan. It was very nice to talk to someone<br />

from the <strong>Province</strong>.<br />

I have been kind of bummed out lately about<br />

this whole visa runaround. John Gibbons still<br />

has it much worse that I do, since he still has<br />

to leave every three months, while I have<br />

to leave just once a year. This week he is<br />

leaving St. Petersburg for Sweden where he<br />

hopes to get yet another three months visa,<br />

but the good news for him is that, after this,<br />

he should be able to receive residence-- or so<br />

he hopes. So John has it worse than I but I<br />

am still very bummed out.<br />

It is part of the problem of working in the<br />

Russian Foundation: the constant hassles<br />

with the visas, documents, permissions and<br />

what not…Sometimes it just gets to be too<br />

much. And the tendency is to just throw<br />

up your hands and say, “ I can’t take it any<br />

longer,” and the return to your home <strong>Province</strong><br />

or go elsewhere. Sometimes, late in the<br />

evening, when I am really tired or it has been<br />

a really bad day, I especially feel this despair.<br />

Muslim neighbors are kind; it is just the government<br />

that is a constant problem. So I try<br />

to live in hope and plug along and figure that<br />

tomorrow just has to be better.<br />

Not much else to report in this letter. Summer<br />

is great in Kazakhstan. It gets really<br />

hot, not quite as hot as it did when I was in<br />

Tucson, but still quite hot. Like Arizona, it is<br />

a dry heat and so it is not too bad. The days<br />

are long and I work in the garden every evening<br />

as it starts to cool down. The markets<br />

become full of fresh fruit and vegetables,<br />

which are really nice to get since in the winter<br />

months it is just impossible to get fresh<br />

produce.<br />

We have our little kids’ summer camp program<br />

and then a week or 10 days retreat<br />

with the youth of the parish and that is about<br />

all for the summer. The college-age young<br />

people come back from the universities they<br />

go to in Poland and Russia to visit with their<br />

families, so it is always nice to see them<br />

again. After they graduate they rarely if ever<br />

come back to Kazakhstan. And that is about<br />

all; life goes on and is mostly very good….I<br />

am thankful that I am optimistic by nature.<br />

Until next time; please keep the Foundation<br />

in your prayers.<br />

But then, on the other hand, I feel very committed<br />

to the young Russians coming to be<br />

friars, and to the struggling Catholic community,<br />

and so I try not to stay in despair but<br />

focus on what is wonderful and good about<br />

my life over here. And there I have much to<br />

be thankful for in our life in the Foundation.<br />

The parish people are great and my local<br />

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TOMMY KING<br />

REPORTS<br />

Even though these are very<br />

tough economic times for<br />

most people, my Franciscan<br />

brothers and many<br />

individuals have been very<br />

generous in their support.<br />

After some encouragement<br />

from my bishop and others<br />

who work with me in<br />

ministry, I made the investment<br />

in April to put a<br />

roof on the parish boat to<br />

protect those who travel in<br />

it from the rain and, most<br />

importantly, the intense tropical sun. It is a<br />

great gift on the regular trips I make to the<br />

north of the parish when I spend three to four<br />

hours traveling. Alleluia! Below is a photo<br />

of the renovated parish boat before I head out<br />

to visit some of the villages with the support<br />

of animators Telma Ruiz and Ivan Rengifo.<br />

Although Mothers Day is very important in<br />

the United States, it is celebrated even more<br />

intensely in Latin America. Where I live,<br />

activities crank up a week before the second<br />

Sunday in May with musical numbers by the<br />

school kids, parades, barbecues and more.<br />

Needless to say, it is very important to honor<br />

all the mothers at Mass that day. Mauro<br />

Ribeiro, a very dedicated animator for many<br />

years in the village of Puerto Enrique, died<br />

suddenly in December. I was able to visit<br />

his village on Mothers Day to honor him and<br />

all the mothers during a Mass in the village<br />

chapel. It is a wonderful faith community<br />

and, fortunately, two other men have volunteered<br />

to serve there as animators. Above<br />

is a photo of me with the mothers of Puerto<br />

Enrique.<br />

As we celebrate the eighth centenary<br />

of the Franciscan Order<br />

this year, it seemed important<br />

to deepen our relationships with<br />

our sisters and brothers in other<br />

Christian churches. I invited<br />

Pascual Vasquez, the pastor from<br />

a Pentecostal church in Tierra<br />

Blanca, and the members of his<br />

church to join us for Mass on<br />

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Trinity Sunday (June 7th).<br />

Pascual read the Gospel and<br />

preached. Our parish community<br />

was very hospitable.<br />

They served refreshments<br />

to our visitors after Mass<br />

as they sang hymns from<br />

their tradition. Pascual said<br />

he wants to invite us to his<br />

church in November. To the<br />

right is a photo is a photo<br />

of members of the two faith<br />

communities who participated<br />

in the reception after<br />

Mass. You can see Pascual<br />

directly under the crucifix holding his Bible.<br />

We only have two seasons in the junglewinter<br />

(mild temperatures with lots of rain)<br />

and summer (hot with less rain). By June we<br />

are in full summer and Gerard is fulfilling<br />

principal’s duties and teaching religion every<br />

day (The school year in Peru is April to December).<br />

Although Gerard is a very efficient<br />

administrator, he clearly is most happy in the<br />

classroom. Below is a photo of him at work<br />

at the beginning of this month. Along with<br />

the attentive students, notice Gerard’s perspiration-filled<br />

shirt and chalk on his pants.<br />

After four years of faithful service, the outboard<br />

motor of the parish broke down just<br />

days before I needed to go the village of San<br />

Lorenzo to celebrate with them the vigil of<br />

the feast of Saints Peter and Paul on June<br />

28th. Fortunately, there was a boat available<br />

to rent. We went in a peke-peke (a canoe<br />

with a motor named for the noise the motor<br />

makes). The six-hour trip in<br />

the tropical sun was much<br />

slower than the parish boat<br />

but, fortunately, it did not rain<br />

going or coming. Alleluia<br />

again! On the next page is a<br />

photo of me with Sr. Guadalupe<br />

and Karen Briones who<br />

joined me on the trip to liven<br />

up the liturgical celebration<br />

with some music.<br />

Thanks again for all of your<br />

prayers and donations! In<br />

these difficult financial times,<br />

I deeply appreciate the sacri-<br />

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small villages on the Tohono<br />

O’odham Nation after 26<br />

years.<br />

Father Tom, who is 78-yearsold,<br />

embodies the gentleness<br />

and humility that are the<br />

characteristics of the Franciscan<br />

Friar. And, characteristically,<br />

Father Tom would just<br />

smile, shake his head and say,<br />

“Oh, boy!” if you were to tell<br />

him that.<br />

fices you are making to financially support<br />

my ministry. God bless you.<br />

TRIBUTE TO<br />

FR. TOM FROST, O.F.M.<br />

Bishop Kicanas, Bishop of Tucson<br />

I am very happy to share with you my visit<br />

on Saturday to the community of Sacred<br />

Heart Mission on the Tohono O’odham Nation.<br />

“A Franciscan Farewell” is the best title<br />

I can think of for this visit, although<br />

some other titles came to mind, such<br />

as, “32 Times around the World” and<br />

“The Many Hats of Father Tom.”<br />

Father Tom greeted me at the<br />

small rectory that is adjacent<br />

to the beautiful stone church of the Sacred<br />

Heart and invited me in. The living room, the<br />

tiny bathroom, the closet size walk-in shower<br />

and the bedroom of his rectory speak volumes<br />

of the life of simplicity that Father Tom<br />

has led these past 26 years.<br />

His bedroom doubles as an office. On a filing<br />

cabinet in the bedroom/office is an old TV<br />

set. Of course, the set doesn’t get any signals<br />

after the change to digital transmission.<br />

The living room is a well-organized conglomeration<br />

of books, boxes and belongings.<br />

The occasion of my visit to the mission,<br />

which is in the small village of<br />

Covered Wells and a nearly two hour<br />

drive from Tucson, was the farewell<br />

Mass and celebration for Father Tom<br />

Frost, O.F.M., who is leaving his<br />

ministry to the people in dozens of<br />

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Every surface has something on it. On the<br />

corner of a cabinet is a stack of five straw<br />

hats that Father Tom has worn over the years<br />

for sun protection. He gave a sixth hat, a gift<br />

years ago from Bishop Moreno, to a visitor<br />

who didn’t have one.<br />

The rectory is cooled by two small wall air<br />

conditioners and is heated by an ancient<br />

wood stove that is by the front door. A PC<br />

tower in front of the stove makes quite a contrast<br />

of technologies.<br />

The community of Sacred Heart is celebrating<br />

its feast day on Saturday, a day after the<br />

Solemnity of the Sacred Heart. Traditionally,<br />

the people celebrate the feast day with a<br />

Mass, procession and a big fiesta. This feast<br />

day, the people have the joy of their traditional<br />

gathering and also the sadness of saying<br />

farewell to Father Tom.<br />

For this special occasion, the people have<br />

erected a big tent, brought all the way from<br />

Tucson, and they have prepared huge pots of<br />

chili, menudo and beans on grills fueled by<br />

mesquite. The sweet pungency of the burning<br />

mesquite and the wafts of smells arising<br />

from the bubbling pots of food are a treat for<br />

the nose!<br />

Father Tom does a few last minute ministries<br />

before the Mass begins: the “ministry” of<br />

moving chairs and the ministry of preparing<br />

the parents of little Kayla, who is going<br />

to be baptized during the Mass. Father Tom<br />

opens what he calls his “suitcase sacristy”<br />

and props it open with a smooth stick that<br />

has served this purpose many, many times.<br />

He removes the implements and cloths for<br />

the Mass, including the beautifully woven<br />

baskets that are so culturally important to the<br />

Tohono O’odham.<br />

Father Tom is not sure how many suitcases<br />

he has gone through over the years;<br />

maybe this suitcase is the third or fourth to<br />

serve as his sacristy. The suitcase is an essential<br />

tool of his ministry. Each week, he<br />

drives hundreds of miles to isolated villages<br />

to say Mass, to administer sacraments and,<br />

for what he says has been the hardest part<br />

of his 26 years of ministry on the Nation, to<br />

comfort grieving families and to bury their<br />

dead. The number of funerals<br />

he has presided at reflects the<br />

toll in the Nation from health<br />

problems such as diabetes and<br />

substance abuse.<br />

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Hundreds of miles each<br />

week for 26 years: more than<br />

200,000 miles in his first<br />

pickup; more than 200,000<br />

miles in his second pickup;


and, in<br />

his third<br />

and current<br />

white<br />

pickup,<br />

more than<br />

400,000<br />

thousand<br />

miles.<br />

That’s<br />

more than<br />

32 times<br />

around<br />

the world!<br />

When<br />

your parish<br />

(San<br />

Solano<br />

Missions parish) is a big as the state of Connecticut,<br />

that’s how much you would drive in<br />

26 years as a parish priest.<br />

Father Tom told me that he changed the oil<br />

for the last time last week on his trusty white<br />

pickup. The pickup will be retired, but not<br />

Father Tom. He is going to be the assistantdirector<br />

of the Franciscan formation house at<br />

San Miguel starting next month. One other<br />

thing about all those miles: Father Tom says<br />

he had driven for 25 years without a collision<br />

with an animal – not a single coyote<br />

or jackrabbit or deer or cow – until<br />

just a few weeks ago. He was on the<br />

road and spotted some cattle on his<br />

left, and while he was keeping his eye<br />

on them and slowing down, a cow<br />

suddenly moved in front of him from<br />

the right, hitting the pickup’s right<br />

headlight and bumper. Father Tom<br />

looked in the rear view mirror and<br />

saw the cow was lying down. “Darn<br />

it,” he thought, “now I am going to<br />

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have to butcher it.” But by the time he turned<br />

around and returned to the spot of the collision,<br />

the cow had disappeared. Father Tom<br />

said he hoped St. Francis had intervened and<br />

that the cow would be OK.<br />

Deacon Alfred Gonzales, Father Tom and I<br />

vested in the church. Sacred Heart truly is a<br />

beautiful church. Your eyes are drawn to the<br />

ceiling made of hundreds of segments of saguaro<br />

cactus ribs. People from many villages<br />

in the Nation were present for Mass, including<br />

the choir from St. Seraphin Mission in<br />

the village of Ak Chin.<br />

Father Tom’s homily was a message about<br />

God’s all encompassing love for us and how<br />

our respect for ourselves and respect for our<br />

brothers and sisters witness to His love. He<br />

concluded his homily by telling the people<br />

that he hoped he had not caused hurt to anyone,<br />

and that if he had caused hurt, he asked<br />

their forgiveness.<br />

The baptism of little Kayla (I think she is<br />

18-months-old) was beautiful to witness.<br />

Father Tom was patient and good humored<br />

as she squirmed, and after Kayla wailed<br />

when he dripped water on her face from a<br />

shell, he told the people that from his time in


the Philippines he learned that when a child<br />

cries during Baptism it means the evil one is<br />

no longer present, so it was a good sign for<br />

Kayla when she cried.<br />

After Communion, Father Tom invited me to<br />

speak, and it was my joy to share these feelings<br />

and thoughts:<br />

“This is the year for priests that Pope Benedict<br />

has asked us to celebrate. How fitting on<br />

this feast of the Sacred Heart, when we begin<br />

the Year for Priests, that we give thanks to<br />

God for a good priest who has been a wise<br />

teacher, a gentle shepherd and a loving father<br />

to his people for 26 years!<br />

“The saint that Pope Benedict has asked us to<br />

remember in this Year for Priests is St. John<br />

Vianney, who is the Curé of Ars, and while<br />

the Curé of Ars, St. John Vianney spent<br />

about 17 hours a day in the confessional.<br />

Father Tom has spent about 17 hours every<br />

weekend traveling from mission to mission,<br />

from church to church, to celebrate the Eucharist<br />

and make the Lord present to us.<br />

“Father Tom, you mentioned in your beautiful<br />

homily on this feast of the Sacred Heart,<br />

that the heart of Jesus reminds us of His<br />

great love for each one of us. That love has<br />

been communicated to us for these 26 years<br />

by a priest named Father Tom Frost, who<br />

came to our community here a much younger<br />

man, but has worked day after day after day<br />

after day bringing God’s love and God’s forgiveness<br />

to God’s people.<br />

“Father Tom, in the name of all of your<br />

people and my own name, we want to express<br />

to you our thanks and our love for you.<br />

A priest, St. John Vianney said, is not a priest<br />

for himself. A priest doesn’t absolve himself;<br />

he doesn’t say Mass for himself; he doesn’t<br />

baptize himself. He does his service for others.<br />

And that’s what Father Tom has been: a<br />

priest for us. For that we are deeply grateful.<br />

“Father Tom, if you might come forward in<br />

front of the altar so that all of us might extend<br />

to you our blessings and best wishes, as<br />

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you have blessed us for these 26 years.<br />

“So, we raise our hands, Father Tom, over<br />

you now and ask God’s blessings: Loving<br />

and gracious God, we ask your choicest<br />

blessings for Father Tom Frost, who<br />

has served so generously and faithfully our<br />

communities here on the Reservation for<br />

26 years. We thank you for his service. We<br />

thank you for his words and his comfort.<br />

We thank you for the forgiveness you have<br />

shown us through him. We thank you for the<br />

love you have given us through him.<br />

“We ask you now, Lord, to bless him and to<br />

fill him with joy and gratitude for 26 years<br />

served so faithfully, so generously and so<br />

well.<br />

“And may the blessings of Almighty God<br />

the Father, the Son and the <strong>Holy</strong> Spirit, come<br />

upon you, Tom, and remain with you forever<br />

and ever.”<br />

And all the people said, “Amen!”<br />

Following the closing prayer, Isidro Lopez,<br />

vice chairman of the Tohono O’odham Nation,<br />

expressed to Father Tom the thanks of<br />

the nation for his ministry. Father Tom related<br />

that when he first arrived in the Nation<br />

he had met a little boy who was just about to<br />

go to school off the Reservation and that the<br />

little boy was Isidro. On behalf of the Nation,<br />

Isidro presented Father Tom with a beautiful<br />

blanket of the Tohono “Man in the Maze”<br />

symbol.<br />

procession with Father Tom.<br />

Truly, what a wonderful way to begin this<br />

Year for Priests!<br />

TRIBUTE TO<br />

FR. MAX HOTTLE, O.F.M.<br />

Bishop Kicanas, Bishop of Tucson<br />

Father Max is leaving after 19 years of ministry<br />

at San Solano Missions Parish on the<br />

Tohono O’odham Nation. It is his hope and<br />

ours that after a year working at a parish in<br />

New Mexico that he will return to continue<br />

his service in the Diocese.<br />

In addition to his service as pastor of San Solano<br />

Missions Parish, Father Max also served<br />

for several years as Vicar Forane of the Pima<br />

West Vicariate.<br />

San Solano Missions Parish is planning a<br />

farewell event for Father Max in August, and<br />

I will write more about him then.<br />

For now, I want you to know just how much<br />

Father Max has brightened our Monday<br />

mornings here at the Pastoral Center these<br />

past few years. Just about every Monday<br />

morning, Father Max makes the drive from<br />

Sells to Tucson to take care of parish business<br />

in person with our staff. And what a joy<br />

those mid-morning encounters have been for<br />

us! Even if he doesn’t have business with<br />

you, he stops to say hello and ask how you<br />

are doing.<br />

Then, it was time for the procession with<br />

the statue of the Sacred Heart. Carrying the<br />

statue were members of the community who<br />

are Samoan. What a beautiful joining of<br />

cultures! It was a joy for me to walk in the<br />

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He has a wonderful sense of humor, and<br />

every conversation with him includes a good<br />

laugh or two. He would tell some of us, “I<br />

don’t know exactly what it is you are doing,<br />

but it looks like you are doing it very well!”


Father Max also has a precise internal clock,<br />

knowing to the second how much<br />

time remains on the parking meter.<br />

RETREAT CENTERS<br />

RETREAT OFFERS<br />

PEACE AND RENEWAL<br />

IN MALIBU’S BACKYARD<br />

By Hannah Klodt<br />

Driven nearly insane by the beach traffic,<br />

paparazzi, and price tags of Malibu, I needed<br />

to get away. But I couldn’t go far. My travel<br />

budget was bankrupt. To my surprise, a nocost<br />

getaway beckoned to me just blocks<br />

from my home.<br />

The Serra Retreat Center sign pointed me to<br />

a side street veering off Pacific Coast Highway.<br />

I followed a winding road through a<br />

neighborhood of Malibu’s wealthiest estates.<br />

Atop the hill, I parked and climbed out of my<br />

car. Isolated 1200 feet high above the roar of<br />

Lamborghinis in central Malibu.<br />

The Serra Retreat Center welcomed me with<br />

silence. A colorful marble plaque offered an<br />

introduction, “Serra Retreat Franciscans”. All<br />

that I knew about the Franciscans was that<br />

each believer pledges to poverty. The Retreat<br />

Center’s calm beauty stunned me. Wideeyed,<br />

I felt like Alice in Wonderland. Hillside<br />

gardens in full-bloom boasted birds of paradise,<br />

organ pipe cactus, and honeysuckle.<br />

The grounds’ well-combed sandy walkways<br />

and gardens were free of weeds, paper, and<br />

debris. They showed a loving care anyone<br />

would long for. I walked beneath eucalyptus<br />

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tree overhangs. I admire the holy statues of<br />

the cross. I basked in the peace that I needed<br />

so badly. Views of the Pacific coastline<br />

soothed me. The cool Malibu breeze caressed<br />

my face. Water gurgling down a stone fountain<br />

urged my soul to throw away my worries.<br />

The longer that I relaxed in nature’s simple<br />

beauty, the deeper a strange irony set in. It<br />

dawned on me that I was experiencing a classic<br />

contrast of the ages: peace and poverty<br />

amid pleasure and plenty. Here in Malibu<br />

where cash reins supreme, there is a retreat<br />

that pledges itself to poverty.<br />

How did this come about I sought the answer<br />

in the office of Fr. Warren, resident<br />

and director of the Serra Retreat Center. He<br />

expressed a disappointment: “ 99-percent of<br />

Malibu residents don’t have the foggiest idea<br />

of what we do [at the Retreat Center]. We<br />

want to provide a place of quiet and reflection<br />

to those who are looking for purpose.”<br />

His words lifted me. This is exactly what<br />

I was looking for; a quite place in a city of<br />

commotion. “We want to provide a place<br />

where people seeking peace and tranquility<br />

can find it,” said Father Warren. “We welcome<br />

everybody at the Retreat Center. Our<br />

only hope is to bring a sense of peace and<br />

relaxation to visitors.”<br />

The path to peace is the labyrinth. The<br />

labyrinth gives visitors a way of physically<br />

tracking their reflection. At first glance, the<br />

labyrinth appears to be a maze of stones<br />

leading to a small, white cross. A nearby sign<br />

explains the purpose of this maze. It indicates<br />

that visitors should walk at their own<br />

paces along the path while reflecting on their<br />

individual spiritual journeys. The labyrinth


serves as a tangible reminder of the importance<br />

of reflection.<br />

Fr. Warren also said, “Our goal here has<br />

been to add value and purpose to the lives of<br />

Malibu residents since the center began. The<br />

struggle to do this is harder today because<br />

the community has changed. The value of<br />

life is tied to the price tag more than ever.”<br />

Only four full-time Franciscans live at the<br />

Retreat Center and care for the 26 acre property.<br />

With a limited maintenance staff, each<br />

of these residents works around the clock<br />

seven days a week. In the midst of Malibu’s<br />

plenty, the four Franciscans face constant<br />

financial frustration.<br />

”We live from hand-to-mouth on a weekly<br />

basis, receiving no funding from the Franciscan<br />

order. When the entire plumbing system<br />

blew last month, the center’s savings dried<br />

up. It’s by God’s grace that the Center affords<br />

to operate,” explains Father Warren.<br />

Income derives largely from groups using<br />

the Center’s facilities for retreats; however,<br />

these groups pay the bare minimum costs of<br />

operating the Center. If a member of a group<br />

cannot afford to attend the conference, the<br />

Center picks up all of the costs.<br />

Originally owned by Malibu pioneer May<br />

Rindge, the Franciscans bought the property<br />

in 1942 and converted the unfinished<br />

50-room mansion into a friary, a spiritual<br />

outpost in the small beach community. It<br />

evolved over the past fifty years into an<br />

isolated place of rest and meditation. Serra<br />

Retreat Center serves as a daily reminder of<br />

the peace that many seek in Malibu.<br />

of its patron, Junipero Serra. A friar, Serra<br />

immigrated to California from Spain in 1749<br />

to develop missions with the nature-oriented<br />

people who had long inhabited the area.<br />

The Franciscan way of life begins with believers<br />

taking a vow of poverty. According<br />

to St. Francis of Assisi, creator of the Franciscan<br />

Order, “Those who embraced this life<br />

gave everything they had to the poor. They<br />

were satisfied with one habit which was<br />

patched inside out, with a cord and trousers.”<br />

Following this vow of poverty, modern Franciscans<br />

serve the community in a variety of<br />

ways, from feeding the homeless to providing<br />

retreat centers across the globe. The Serra<br />

Retreat Center began to grapple with its<br />

identity within the community as the 1950s<br />

saw a growth in population. This growth<br />

ushered in a new reputation for Malibu as a<br />

trendy beach getaway. Malibu was identified<br />

with messages of youth rebellion through<br />

popular movies, music and literature.<br />

The Serra Retreat Center became a less visible<br />

reminder of its spiritual roots, except to<br />

those who knew it existed.<br />

I spent a day at the Retreat Center basking in<br />

nature’s beauty. Isn’t it wonderful that amid<br />

the frenzied city of Malibu, there is a placed<br />

that offers renewal<br />

[ Malibu Surfside News- June 11, 2009]<br />

The Serra Retreat Center carries the name<br />

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SUMMER SEEDS :<br />

SAN DAMIANO RETREAT<br />

Fr. Ray Bucher, O.F.M.<br />

Every year, shortly after Pentecost, I receive<br />

a letter from back east. I await it. I enjoy it.<br />

The letter’s author attended my Pentecost<br />

Mass at The Casa (in Scottsdale, AZ) in<br />

1987, and somehow recorded my homily.<br />

Every year she replays it on Pentecost. (And<br />

every year she draws from it a new inspiration.)<br />

She insists that the <strong>Holy</strong> Spirit keeps<br />

the tape in tiptop shape.<br />

That laudable letter landed on my desk<br />

perched between Aristotle and Augustine.<br />

(Of course Plato is there too, but you all<br />

knew that!) In September, when you’re receiving<br />

this Newsletter, I finished teaching<br />

Classical Philosophy to some of our younger<br />

friars! It’s been 30 years since I’ve taught<br />

any philosophy, and surely new and better<br />

ways of teaching this subject have been introduced.<br />

Fortunately, the subject matter has<br />

remained the same! Since Rome has mandated<br />

that one must acquire 30 units of philosophy<br />

before one can enter priestly studies,<br />

our <strong>Province</strong> wants to give our young men a<br />

head start. Hence, 3 hours of class a day for 2<br />

weeks through the University of San Diego.<br />

on retreat to prepare for their profession of<br />

simple vows. There was a wholesome, joyful,<br />

prayerful presence here. The anticipation<br />

of commitment was palpable. Good job, Br.<br />

Regan and other novice directors.<br />

Secondly, and presently, we had a four-week<br />

retreat for 13 friars preparing for solemn<br />

vows. These men, too, are from around the<br />

country. (The days of one province having<br />

13 candidates for final vows are long gone!)<br />

Here I sense a more mature, sober group of<br />

friars, yet still exuding Franciscan joy.<br />

A wonderful byproduct of these retreats<br />

was the presence of talented retreat masters,<br />

like Sr. Maria Elena Martinez, OSF, Br. Bill<br />

Short, OFM, and Br. Robert Lentz, OFM.<br />

What a summer blessing. Let’s pray for these<br />

men who took their vows, that their commitment<br />

might enhance (unleash) their freedom.<br />

And, let’s pray for the students who took my<br />

philosophy class. (The lucky fellows!) Who<br />

knows—maybe next Pentecost there will be<br />

an additional letter on my desk…thanking<br />

me for a seed planted in a summer lecture—a<br />

seed that somehow started to flower!<br />

RENEWAL CENTER AT<br />

MISSION SANTA BARBARA<br />

It was a joy to have direct contact with our<br />

younger friars. Their enthusiasm is contagious.<br />

Their vitality helps us veterans “…stir<br />

into flame the gift of God (once) bestowed<br />

on us…” (2 Tim 1: 6-7)<br />

Here at San Damiano we recently had the<br />

good fortune to host a number of young<br />

friars. First it was to welcome for a week, 16<br />

novices from around the country. They came<br />

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Sr. Susan Blomstad, O.S.F., Director<br />

[This is the final report from the <strong>Province</strong><br />

retreat centers. – WJR]<br />

Richard McManus arrived at Mission Santa<br />

Barbara as Guardian and Director in July of<br />

2006. After 15 years as Director of St. Francis<br />

Retreat in San Juan Bautista, he brought<br />

with him a passion for retreat ministry and a


commitment to revitalizing the retreat part of<br />

Mission Santa Barbara. However, OMSB is<br />

much more than a retreat center---so he set<br />

out attending to the various entities of this<br />

vast property.<br />

Now, 2 years later, plans and much work are<br />

beginning to bear fruit. In January, 2007,<br />

Sister Susan Blomstad, O.S.F., who has<br />

shared in the retreat ministry with the friars<br />

of this <strong>Province</strong> since 1991 ( Three Rivers,<br />

San Juan and Serra), arrived to direct the<br />

retreat center. That fall the first sponsored<br />

retreats were offered. As expected, the response<br />

was limited in terms of numbers, but<br />

the interest was strong and has continued<br />

to grow. On May 9, 2008, a website was<br />

launched that is particular to the entities at<br />

OMSB beyond the parish. www.santabarbaramission.org<br />

is available for those who<br />

wish to consider coming on retreat and/or accessing<br />

information about the many activities<br />

that take place here.<br />

This year the following retreats are being<br />

offered: A Poetry retreat, a Married Couples<br />

retreat, a Grief retreat, a Women’s Spirituality<br />

retreat, a Silent Advent retreat, and a New<br />

Year’s retreat. In early July a week-long<br />

Sisters’ retreat was offered in Spanish with<br />

Sr. Maria Elena Martinez, O.S.F. as retreat<br />

presenter.<br />

sponsors and leaders has been essential to the<br />

MRC’s continuing commitment to gracious<br />

hospitality.<br />

Marguerite Chatigny and her husband, Mark,<br />

arrived as Covenant Volunteers in September<br />

of 2007. Marguerite is a fantastic office organizer<br />

and has caught on to the whole spirit<br />

of doing hospitable retreat ministry. She and<br />

Mark (who works with revitalizing our Mission<br />

Tour operations) have decided to stay<br />

for another year (and Sr. Susan is very grateful!).<br />

One of the major shifts of late 2006 was the<br />

relocating of all the friars in the Serra Wing.<br />

In the spring of 2007, many hours were spent<br />

cleaning, painting, moving furniture, buying<br />

new beds and transforming the Serra Wing<br />

into a private retreat area. The first guests<br />

were welcomed on June 1, 2007, and since<br />

then the 13 rooms have been used frequently.<br />

There is a unique and special spirit growing<br />

here among those of us who also call this<br />

place home. Come for a visit and enjoy our<br />

hospitality and gracious spirit. We indeed<br />

have a place for you at Mission Santa Barbara!<br />

The hosted groups continue to increase and<br />

have become a steady source of income.<br />

Calls come in weekly with inquiries about<br />

holding events here, most of them spiritual in<br />

nature and theme.<br />

The consistent growth of retreat activity is<br />

not without its challenges. Preliminary work<br />

and frequent communication with retreat<br />

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TURNING PAGES<br />

The British artist, Chris Gollon, was commissioned<br />

(a story in itself) to paint the Stations<br />

of the Cross in the church of St. John<br />

on Bethnal Green in London’s East End.<br />

They are most unusual, perhaps shocking.<br />

The writer, Sara Maitland, is likewise a familiar<br />

name in the UK. Stations of the Cross<br />

contains stories reflective of each painting<br />

reproduced in this short but engrossing book.<br />

In her introduction, Maitland explains why<br />

the traditional number of 14 stations is more<br />

appropriate than those proposed by Benedict<br />

XVI in 2007. The pontiff replaced the nonscriptural<br />

stations with others. But, as she<br />

rightly contends, this sequence destroys the<br />

whole idea of pilgrimage.<br />

She also has something to say about the popular<br />

practice of adding a 15th station (Resurrection):<br />

“The immediate, unbroken move<br />

to a Station of the Resurrection calls into<br />

question the reality of Jesus’ death. It gives,<br />

in an odd sense, credibility to the accusation<br />

that Christianity offers only an escape out of<br />

the pain of the world, rather than a profound<br />

engagement with it.”<br />

sense of the things we have felt and seen”<br />

(emphasis mine).<br />

I realize that this has review has been a bit<br />

lengthy, but the book is unique. One can<br />

omit the well written commentaries, but do<br />

not miss Maitland’s Introduction as well as<br />

Green’s Afterword. And then… ponder these<br />

Stations [Continuum Books. ISBN 978-0-<br />

8264-0568-5]<br />

Probably a good number of friars were not<br />

even born when Vatican II took place and really<br />

don’t appreciate the “before, during and<br />

after.” What Happened at Vatican II by John<br />

O’Malley is simply an amazing, absorbing<br />

and enlightening book that is probably one<br />

of the best written. Jared Wicks says of it: “It<br />

carries the reader deeper into the reality and<br />

outcome of Vatican II than do the other existing<br />

books on the Council.”<br />

The sources are impeccable, the unraveling<br />

of intrigues is fascinating, and the accomplishments<br />

are well delineated. This is truly<br />

a superb book for anyone interested in understanding<br />

how we as a Church are today.<br />

Don’t miss it! [Harvard University Press.<br />

ISBN 978-0-674-03669-2]<br />

Just here it is noteworthy that in St. John’s<br />

the 14th station is not in the front or side of<br />

the church facing the altar. In his splendid<br />

Afterword, Rev. Alan Green, the Team Rector,<br />

states the theology plainly:<br />

“Our stations end with the entombment of<br />

Jesus by the west door of the church. Some<br />

may return to celebrate the resurrection of<br />

Jesus at the altar, but all of us are led from<br />

the journey of the Stations of the Cross out<br />

into Bethnal Green, where we have to make<br />

35<br />

Kathleen Norris sailed into prominence with<br />

The Cloister Walk and Amazing Grace. Now<br />

comes The Noonday Demon which is oddly<br />

subtitled, “A Modern Woman’s Struggle with<br />

Soul-weariness,” giving the impression that<br />

this is a book primarily for women. And it is<br />

not. Obviously well read, Norris calls upon<br />

many literary and ancient writers to describe<br />

that phenomenon that is labeled acedia by<br />

the ancients and may well be classified as<br />

boredom, despair, listlessness—and all the<br />

rest. After studying 3-4 chapters, the reader


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may experience acedia! Why an entire lengthy book requires such attention is puzzling.<br />

However, it is well written and quite anecdotal. The Latins have an expression: “Qui potest<br />

capere, capiat”—a loose translation being: “Be my guest!” [Lion Hudson. ISBN 978-0-<br />

7459-5366-3]<br />

Surely everyone is familiar with William Barclay’s Daily Study Bible, especially the New<br />

Testament volume. (If not—Tsk!Tsk!) Just published, and edited by Philip Law, are the fine<br />

selections, Daily Devotions With William Barclay. The editor has concentrated on the NT<br />

commentaries, aptly extracting the heart of various thoughts and arranged—although this<br />

is immaterial—for each day of the year. Here is a splendid book for meditation and quite<br />

rewarding. It is certainly worth obtaining and the reader will find it most profitable. [Westminster<br />

Press. ISBN 0-664-23270-1]<br />

Not exactly in the category of spiritual reading is You Learn by Living. “Eleven Keys for a<br />

More Fulfilling Life” is authored—brace yourself—by Eleanor Roosevelt (1884-1962), who<br />

wrote these brief essays in 1960. Perhaps the examples are a bit outdated, but her thoughts<br />

are quite relevant and contemporary. She was a great lady in her day and, following her husband’s<br />

death, virtually made a new life for herself in the public forum.<br />

Among the brief subjects—meditations—are intriguing topics; for example, The Difficult<br />

Art of Maturity; Readjustment is Endless; Facing Responsibility. A classic passage about<br />

self-examination: “Some people become so interested, so fascinated, by this voyage of selfdiscovery,<br />

that they don’t come out of it again. They remain completely absorbed in their<br />

self-study.” Well said! Worth reading! [Westminster Press. ISBN 0-664-24494-7]<br />

WJR<br />

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