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my husband who has supported me in giving me space to be me and reach my aspirations.<br />

SG: Do you have any particular thoughts on counselling as it has developed<br />

VC: Perhaps what I am seeing since I first started is a less rigid aspect. When we first started training<br />

there seemed to be more demarcation in how one is ‘supposed’ to do it. Now I can see more flexibility in<br />

the stance a counsellor takes and it can be changed according to the needs of the client as well as from<br />

session to session. On the other hand, the aspect of counsellor/client relationship has increased in importance<br />

and is continuously being backed by research. The idea of supervision was not given so much<br />

importance either.<br />

SG: Any regrets<br />

VC: I have had a very satisfying life in all areas so not many. Through <strong>MACP</strong> contact with some top people<br />

in counselling has been enriching both personally and professionally. Of course the academic training<br />

that is being offered makes me wish it had come before. I feel I still have things to offer but lack the energy<br />

sometimes to follow through.<br />

The Value of Counselling with Elderly Individuals<br />

Populations are ageing worldwide (Myers, 1990).<br />

Lower birth rates together with a lengthening of the<br />

life span are two major contributing factors to the<br />

forecast of an ever-increasing greying population<br />

(Lanzieri, 2011). Given these predictions, the probability<br />

that counsellors will progressively encounter<br />

more elderly persons and their families as clients, is<br />

practically inevitable (Myers & Harber, 2004). Nonetheless,<br />

it appears that the counselling profession<br />

worldwide has been slow in responding to the<br />

needs of ageing individuals (Myers, 1984). Children,<br />

adolescents and adults, receive much attention in<br />

this line of work, however care and consideration<br />

is very rarely given to the ageing population and<br />

very often overlooked in this field (Orbach, 2003).<br />

Louisellle Grech - Vice-Secretary<br />

counsellors and therapists too have the tendency<br />

to perceive older clients as excessively rigid, and<br />

unwilling or unable to change. Of significant impediment<br />

is also the counsellor’s own dread and<br />

trepidation of their individual personal ageing process<br />

or of that of their loved ones (Yalom, 2008).<br />

Besides, the likelihood that many in the current cohort<br />

of elderly persons have been brought up with<br />

the belief that difficulties need to be resolved personally,<br />

does not make them receptive and amenable<br />

to seek support (Blando, 2011; Myers, 1990).<br />

These arguments, together with a lack of recognition<br />

and acknowledgement from academia, may<br />

very generally account for this lacuna within the<br />

realm of counselling (Maples, 2007; Myers, 1990).<br />

According to literature, the reasons for this exclusion,<br />

so to speak, may be various (Blando, 2011; Cohen,<br />

1977; Gay, 1988: Maples, 2007; McDonald & Haney,<br />

1988; Myers, 1990; Orbach, 2003). Freud himself, for<br />

instance, believed that therapy was not suitable for<br />

clients over the age of 50, since, in his opinion, they<br />

lacked mental elasticity, and consequently, were not<br />

considered as educable (Gay, 1988: Orbach, 1996).<br />

The notion that you can’t teach an old dog new tricks<br />

seems to have significantly influenced and reinforced<br />

negative perceptions and stereotypes - namely, that offering<br />

counselling or therapy to an elderly population<br />

is basically an unproductive endeavour, an absolute<br />

waste of time and energy (McDonald & Haney, 1988).<br />

Consistent with this idea, Cohen (1977) implied that<br />

<strong>MACP</strong> <strong>Newsletter</strong> - July 2013<br />

Yet new scientific breakthroughs in the last decades<br />

have, in effect, have demonstrated and established<br />

the malleability, adaptability and resilience of even<br />

the very old brain, expounding its ability for plasticity<br />

and thereby generating opportunities for positive<br />

change even throughout adult life (Cohen, 2005;<br />

Guns, 2008; Hof & Mobbs, 2009; Tyler et al., 2010).<br />

Additionally, literature based on numerous studies,<br />

has confirmed that counselling and therapy with<br />

elderly clients is not only effective, but worthwhile<br />

and valuable (Blando, 2011; Cohen, 2005; Haight<br />

& Gibson, 2005; Hill & Brettle, 2005; Knight, 2004;<br />

Kunz & Gray Soltys, 2007; Maples, 2007; Myers,<br />

1984; Myers, 1990; Myers & Harper, 2004; Myers,<br />

Poidevant & Dean, 1991). A psychoanalytic ap<br />

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