May 2008 - District 73 Toastmasters
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Called to give evidence<br />
– What would you say<br />
The Newsletter of <strong>District</strong> <strong>73</strong><br />
<strong>Toastmasters</strong> International<br />
Involve • Enthuse • Inspire<br />
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From the Editor’s desk...<br />
They say when you’re on a good thing, stick to it!<br />
This month we have articles from Margaret Addison (Glen<br />
Waverley) and Murray Jorgensen (Curtin GSB club), who have<br />
both been in <strong>Toastmasters</strong> for 28 years. See page 4 and page 8.<br />
Inspiring stuff from people who have been there and done<br />
that.<br />
In news just in, we will be visited next year by International<br />
President Jana Barnhill. She will be the special guest at our<br />
<strong>District</strong> 2009 Convention in Harndorf, South Australia<br />
(page 7).<br />
We all know <strong>Toastmasters</strong> are good at talking. The article on<br />
page 10 helps us with the equally important skill of listening.<br />
Final preparations are now under way for a fabulous <strong>2008</strong><br />
Convention at the York on Lilydale resort in Victoria.<br />
Next month’s issue will bring you all the highlights and photos<br />
of this occasion.<br />
I hope you will be among the people enjoying this fun and<br />
educational event.<br />
See you at Convention!<br />
Michelle<br />
newsletter@d<strong>73</strong>.toastmasters.org.au<br />
The views expressed in Southern Cross are not necessarily those of the Editor,<br />
the <strong>District</strong> Executive, <strong>District</strong> <strong>73</strong> or <strong>Toastmasters</strong> International.<br />
Editor: Michelle Monaghan ACS ALB<br />
PO Box 115, Sandringham, Victoria 3191<br />
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Publisher: Mike Helm DTM<br />
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In this Issue...<br />
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3 Called to give evidence... What would you say<br />
4 <strong>Toastmasters</strong> – My Experience<br />
5 Anyone for Tea<br />
6 What makes TOCC tick<br />
7 International President to visit in 2009<br />
8 A Great Package<br />
8 Magic Maxims<br />
9 Club Rebuilding Opportunities<br />
10 Empower by Listening<br />
11 Eastern Division Contests<br />
12 Welcome to <strong>Toastmasters</strong><br />
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Called to give evidence ...<br />
What would you say by Angela Dodd<br />
Toastmaster Angela Dodd from Tasmania was<br />
called to give evidence before a Parliamentary<br />
enquiry into services for people with disabilities.<br />
This is her story.<br />
I want to share an experience where I realised I coped<br />
well as a result of my time with <strong>Toastmasters</strong>. I was<br />
invited along to give evidence (I guess that’s what<br />
you would call it), at a review by the Government<br />
into the equipment scheme for disabled people<br />
in Tasmania. I was invited and then sent along a<br />
submission.<br />
Angela knew she had just<br />
once chance to get her<br />
message across<br />
They asked me questions and I can honestly say<br />
they really listened to me. I was then asked for a<br />
closing statement and I invited each of them to<br />
come and live a day of my life. I went into detail, at<br />
their request, but basically in the back of my mind<br />
I knew I had to reach them on some level to make<br />
sure they listened. Yes, I left thinking, I forgot to say<br />
that, or I couldn’t think of an example to one of their<br />
questions, but overall, it was fantastic experience.<br />
If my submission doesn’t work in improving the<br />
system, then no-one’s will.<br />
I was very proud of myself! Something that doesn’t<br />
happen too often.<br />
n Angela Dodd is a member of Spirit of Devonport <strong>Toastmasters</strong><br />
Wanted<br />
Speechcraft Administrator<br />
<strong>2008</strong>-2009<br />
and<br />
New Club Co-ordinator<br />
<strong>2008</strong>-2009<br />
An AL or DTM opportuity<br />
After 3 years of working closely with <strong>District</strong><br />
Officers and members of <strong>District</strong> <strong>73</strong> in both of the<br />
above roles, I find due to other commitments<br />
I must hand over both of these exciting roles.<br />
Here is an incredible opportunity to complete your<br />
High Performance Leadership program and achieve<br />
Distinguished Toastmaster!<br />
I turned up and had no idea what to expect as I had<br />
never been through anything like this before. I was<br />
greeted by six politicians, and two of their offsiders,<br />
I had to declare that I would tell the whole truth<br />
and nothing but the truth, and then be recorded as<br />
I made my statement regarding our experience in<br />
this area. I sat there and thought ‘what do I say’<br />
I started by giving a background on Tara and the<br />
emotional issues we face daily, following it up<br />
with how everything works, or does not work.<br />
“Real difficulties can be overcome;<br />
it is only the imaginary ones<br />
that are unconquerable”<br />
– Theodore N. Vail<br />
For further details, please call myself or contact<br />
Bernard Marmion LGET<br />
Marlene Sinclair DTM<br />
Speechcraft Administrator 2007-<strong>2008</strong><br />
New Clubs Co-ordinator 2007-<strong>2008</strong><br />
Ph: 03 9725 9315 (H)<br />
0417 327 989 (Mob)<br />
marlenes.smallfish@bigpond.com<br />
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<strong>Toastmasters</strong> – My Experience by Margaret Addison DTM<br />
In the mid 70’s the<br />
Equal Opportunity<br />
requirements opened<br />
the membership<br />
of <strong>Toastmasters</strong> to<br />
women, although a<br />
few clubs resisted this<br />
for several years. My<br />
club, Glen Waverley<br />
<strong>Toastmasters</strong>, had<br />
been formed at<br />
about the same time.<br />
When I joined in 1980 my first impression was of a<br />
predominantly male, business suited and forty plus<br />
age group. For several years I was one of only about<br />
five female members, supporting them in their<br />
enthusiastic pursuit of educational and leadership<br />
challenges. Like many clubs today, the membership<br />
gradually increased to be an approximately 50-50<br />
balance.<br />
In 1980, and for several years after, <strong>District</strong> <strong>73</strong><br />
was still a Provisional <strong>District</strong> until it reached the<br />
minimum number of clubs required. Soon after<br />
joining I attended what I believe to be <strong>District</strong> <strong>73</strong>’s<br />
first Convention. It was held in a room of an eastern<br />
suburban hotel, with possibly fifty attendees, who<br />
lunched at various local fast food outlets. Over the<br />
years I have enjoyed attending many Conventions<br />
in Melbourne, country Victoria and interstate.<br />
Glen Waverley hosted a Semi Annual Convention at<br />
the Victoria Hotel in the early 1980s. The programme<br />
included the first <strong>District</strong> final of the Evaluation<br />
Contest. Several years ago Glen Waverley hosted an<br />
Annual Convention at Box Hill.<br />
Educational requirements have changed. In my<br />
early days, the Communication and Leadership<br />
Manual for attaining the Competent Toastmaster<br />
(CTM) required the completion of fifteen speeches.<br />
Advanced Toastmaster (ATM) was not divided into<br />
Bronze, Silver and Gold, instead, three Advanced<br />
manuals of five speeches and participation in<br />
Speechcraft and/or Youth Leadership courses<br />
were among the requirements. The attaining of<br />
the Distinguished Toastmaster (DTM) had some<br />
similarities to the present, but required also the<br />
presentation of five speeches to non-<strong>Toastmasters</strong><br />
organisations. Work presentations could not be<br />
included. Before the existence of the Leadership<br />
stream and its educational rewards I know that<br />
many long term members would have earned them<br />
many times over.<br />
Over the years I have enjoyed participating<br />
in Speechcraft and Youth Leadership courses.<br />
Speechcraft has ranged from empowering future<br />
corporate executives, to giving confidence to the<br />
unemployed for coping with job interviews. Youth<br />
Leadership has involved many courses ranging from<br />
catering to the highy competent students in elite<br />
schools to those run by a <strong>Toastmasters</strong> psychologist<br />
for difficult and underprivileged students.<br />
Two unofficial Toastmaster activities which<br />
regretfully have been deleted due to timing and<br />
programming difficulties are the Dramatic Reading<br />
Contest and the Toastmaster Olympics. Both of<br />
these originated in clubs in the former Southern<br />
Division. Both offered entertainment and challenges<br />
of various kinds.<br />
I am asked frequently “Why do you still go to<br />
<strong>Toastmasters</strong>” In my twenty-eight years as a<br />
Toastmaster I have been educated, entertained<br />
and made many friends. My enjoyment continues<br />
as I appreciate the contributions made now by our<br />
younger members and those of various cultural<br />
backgrounds.<br />
I have chosen not to try to name the wonderful<br />
and accomplished <strong>Toastmasters</strong> I have met over<br />
the years because there are too many. I have great<br />
memories of them and the many clubs I have<br />
visited. My message to you is to keep on being a<br />
Toastmaster – the benefits never cease.<br />
n Margaret Addison is <strong>District</strong> <strong>73</strong>’s longest continual member<br />
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Anyone for Tea by Michelle Monaghan ACS ALB<br />
On Friday 14 March <strong>2008</strong>, the charter members<br />
and club sponsors and mentors all celebrated their<br />
response “Yes please” when Tea House <strong>Toastmasters</strong><br />
enjoyed their charter dinner at a Melbourne<br />
restaurant.<br />
Tea House <strong>Toastmasters</strong> is proud to have as its<br />
corporate sponsor the Australian Computer Society<br />
(ACS). Support from ACS is benefitting members of<br />
that Society as they develop their skills through the<br />
<strong>Toastmasters</strong> Program. Members of the ACS have<br />
their fees subsidised.<br />
We meet in the ACS training room in the historic Tea<br />
House opposite Crown Casino in Melbourne. The<br />
grand old building was where the tea shipments<br />
were stored when they arrived by sailing ship.<br />
Vice President Public Relations Pam Barnes works<br />
at ACS and was a past member of <strong>Toastmasters</strong>.<br />
She approached management and then contacted<br />
Marlene Sinclair (Victoria’s New Club Co-ordinator).<br />
The meetings were advertised on the ACS website<br />
and the club grew from there.<br />
Membership is open to the general public. The club<br />
includes a wide variety of nationalities and industries<br />
(not just IT). There is also good participation by men<br />
and women.<br />
Tea House <strong>Toastmasters</strong> meet on the 3rd Tuesday of<br />
each month at 6.00pm for a 6.15pm start.<br />
Visitors are welcome. Please register at least<br />
24 hours prior to a meeting with Pam Barnes<br />
pam.barnes@acs.org.au or 1800 671 003.<br />
n Michelle Monaghan is a mentor of Tea House <strong>Toastmasters</strong><br />
Did you know<br />
Genghis Khan was only 13 years old when he<br />
came to power.<br />
Jupiter spins so fast that there is a new sunrise<br />
every ten hours.<br />
A coffee tree produces only about half a kilogram<br />
of coffee beans per year.<br />
Rembrandt’s favourite meal was simply bread<br />
and cheese.<br />
The only number that scores its own value when<br />
spelled out in Scrabble is “twelve”.<br />
Male zebras have white stripes but female zebras<br />
have black stripes.<br />
If you suffer from eremophobia you are afraid<br />
of solitude.<br />
There are more saunas than cars in Finland.<br />
Edgar Allan Poe was thrown out of the U.S. West<br />
Point military academy for arriving for a<br />
public parade in a white belt and gloves – but<br />
nothing else.<br />
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What makes TOCC tick by Neil Spark<br />
Life ticks away like a clock until you get to 40.<br />
Then, they say, life begins. Advanced Toastmaster<br />
club, Toast of the Country Club (TOCC), recently<br />
celebrated its 40th meeting with a verbal blood<br />
bath, also known as a debate.<br />
it was such a great learning experience, it will be an<br />
annual fixture in the life of TOCC.<br />
The opposing sides passionately debated “that<br />
dredging of Port Phillip Bay is beneficial to<br />
Melbourne”.<br />
Former <strong>District</strong> Governors Judith Talanoa and<br />
Marlene Sinclair along with Past <strong>District</strong> Humorous<br />
Speech contest champion Fred Hill were the<br />
naysayers. Henk Van Den Bergen, Neil Spark and<br />
George Randall were all for the dredge.<br />
Fred, Judith and Marlene dazzled all with their<br />
powerful arguments and excellent teamwork. Neil<br />
Spark won the best speaker prize, a large chocolate<br />
Easter bunny.<br />
Debate evaluator Michael Broberg gave an<br />
excellent assessment of the stoush and declared<br />
the affirmative side the winners.<br />
TOCC is an advanced club for <strong>Toastmasters</strong> with a<br />
CC (or CTM).<br />
Each meeting is full of energy, expertise and<br />
enthusiasm.<br />
If you are looking for something new and want to<br />
learn from some of the highest calibre <strong>Toastmasters</strong><br />
in the <strong>District</strong>, contact either Fred Hill 9794 8508 or<br />
Michael Broberg 9758 3455 to arrange a visit.<br />
TOCC meets every third Thursday in the month at<br />
the Mulgrave Country Club corner Wellington and<br />
Jells Roads at 7.30 for 7.45pm. So if you are in Victoria,<br />
come along and see what makes TOCC tick.<br />
n Neil Spark is President of Toast of the Country Club<br />
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International President to visit in 2009<br />
by <strong>District</strong> <strong>73</strong> Governor, Mike Helm DTM<br />
We have just received the great news that next year’s International President of <strong>Toastmasters</strong>, Jana Barnhill DTM, will be visiting<br />
<strong>District</strong> <strong>73</strong> on 21-24 <strong>May</strong> next year. This will be a wonderful opportunity to showcase the achievements of <strong>District</strong> <strong>73</strong> and to<br />
benefit from <strong>Toastmasters</strong> knowledge and leadership from the top.<br />
The date of next year’s convention has been changed to Friday 22 to Sunday 24 <strong>May</strong> to coincide with our President’s visit.<br />
This has been done at the request of World Headquarters, and in consultation with Nick Nash, Governor of Central Division,<br />
which will host next year’s <strong>District</strong> Convention.<br />
Jana’s visit will follow the visit of this year’s President Chris Ford DTM to <strong>District</strong> 70 (New South Wales) last month and precede<br />
the first <strong>Toastmasters</strong> International convention to be held outside North America, in Sydney in 2010.<br />
Jana is an outstanding speaker and former high level speech contestant. She is also an inspiring leader and has made a great<br />
contribution to the <strong>Toastmasters</strong> Board of Directors. <strong>District</strong> <strong>73</strong> leaders met Jana in Phoenix last August. She is warm and<br />
personable with a good sense of humour. I am sure <strong>District</strong> <strong>73</strong> <strong>Toastmasters</strong> will find Jana an inspiring and engaging honoured<br />
guest.<br />
Jana’s theme for <strong>2008</strong>-2009 is The Courage to Conquer. We will be hearing a lot more about Jana and her inspiring theme over<br />
the coming year.<br />
Plan ahead for this:<br />
For the first time ever outside North America<br />
<strong>Toastmasters</strong> International Convention<br />
11-14 August 2010<br />
in Sydney<br />
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A Great Package by Murray Jorgensen DTM<br />
It is hard to imagine what an isolated group the three<br />
<strong>Toastmasters</strong> clubs in Perth were when I joined the<br />
Banyandah Club in 1980. In the days before e-mail, when<br />
fax messages were just superseding telex messages<br />
(anyone remember them), and when interstate air travel<br />
was quite expensive, only the Area winner of a speech<br />
contest was ever likely to attend a <strong>District</strong> Convention in<br />
Melbourne.<br />
Nevertheless, things changed and, with barely half<br />
a dozen clubs by 1987, WA <strong>Toastmasters</strong> attracted<br />
members from all over Australia and New Zealand to<br />
Perth for one of the last Downunder Conventions. And in 1993, the first nonmetropolitan<br />
club in WA, Mine Host, organised what might have been one of<br />
the most remote <strong>District</strong> Semi Annual Conventions ever, in the gold mining<br />
city of Kalgoorlie. With only very small teams of enthusiastic volunteers, the<br />
committees that organised these very successful conventions highlighted to<br />
me the truth of a quotation attributed to Henry Ford – “Whether you believe<br />
you can do a thing or not, you are right.”<br />
My involvement with <strong>Toastmasters</strong> has continued because I noticed one<br />
very important thing – positive thinking and inspiring ideas are nowhere as<br />
common as they are at a <strong>Toastmasters</strong> meeting or event.<br />
Not only do learning opportunities abound in <strong>Toastmasters</strong>, but recently I had<br />
the fun of participating in a debate on the topic “Does Santa need an MBA”<br />
and then the challenge of evaluating a project speech given by a Japanese<br />
Toastmaster visiting my club.<br />
Learning…fun…challenge… it is still a great package of opportunities with<br />
<strong>Toastmasters</strong>.<br />
Magic Maxims by David Reynolds DTM<br />
Magic Maxims workshop supported by Lieutenant Governor Education<br />
and Training Bernard Marmion and organised by Jacqui Gullick on Saturday<br />
19 April <strong>2008</strong> was a spectacular success, attracting approximately 80 workshop<br />
participants including six non-<strong>Toastmasters</strong>. The major educational<br />
theme of the day was to improve your presentation skills with special guest<br />
speaker Verity Robins presenting: Tap into your Passion, Know your Power and<br />
Present with Purpose.<br />
Other great presenters included Susan Morrison, Andrew Weatherhead,<br />
George Randall, David Reynolds, Judy Murphy, Marlene Sinclair, Bill Farman<br />
and again Marlene Sinclair with friends.<br />
Jacqui is planning on conducting another Magic Maxims next year. So if you<br />
are interested in:<br />
• learning how to conduct successful workshops by gathering a team of<br />
talented people around you; or<br />
• contributing in some way as a presenter; or<br />
• looking for a challenging role for your DTM High Performance Leadership<br />
project –<br />
then this is your opportunity to register your interest with Jacqui at<br />
jjgullick@bigpond.com<br />
n Murray Jorgensen DTM is a member of the City of Perth Club and the Curtin GSB Club.<br />
He was Divisional Lt-Governor West 1985/86 and Division Governor Western Division 2002/03.<br />
Verity Robins<br />
Jacqui Gullick (L) and Marlene Sinclair<br />
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Club Rebuilding Opportunities<br />
by Damian Chong DTM, Lieutenant Governor Marketing<br />
Attention Leaders and Clubs<br />
with 12 or less members.<br />
Every year there are a number of clubs in need<br />
of rebuilding. They need some ideas, alternate<br />
methods, better ways of doing things that may<br />
attract new members and importantly keep them<br />
for longer than six months.<br />
Have a plan to cycle out! Some club leaders are<br />
silent in their struggle, perhaps not knowing there<br />
are alternate ways to inject spark back into the club.<br />
However, some are adamant that nothing is wrong,<br />
“…it is just a normal cycle.”. The answer to that is, “As<br />
long as you have a plan to cycle back out.”<br />
So, if your club qualifies, and the members have<br />
agreed to give <strong>2008</strong>-2009 a good go, to seek<br />
more membership and increase the profile of<br />
<strong>Toastmasters</strong> in your area, then please seek out a<br />
couple of club coaches to help you. Inject an extra<br />
kick of dynamics to your meetings. Work with the<br />
different experiences. Preferably choose coaches<br />
with different backgrounds to give alternate skills<br />
and views.<br />
How do you find coaches Attend Club Officer<br />
Trainings; conventions; workshops; other club<br />
meetings; or contact your Area Governor or <strong>District</strong><br />
Officers. They may be able to put a club coach in<br />
touch with you.<br />
Why volunteer as a club coach As you progress<br />
through the Leadership path of the <strong>Toastmasters</strong><br />
programme, one of the options is to successfully<br />
lead a struggling club back to Distinguished status.<br />
Rebuilding opportunities are an important part<br />
of developing new leaders in our <strong>District</strong>, and the<br />
rewards are great.<br />
What can I do now If you belong to a struggling<br />
club, please have your members consider<br />
appointing a coach(s) and if you would like to gain<br />
your leadership award, consider a role as coach to<br />
rebuild a club.<br />
More reference materials about rebuilding and<br />
club coach programme are available on the TMI<br />
website:<br />
http://www.toastmasters.org/Members/<br />
MembershipBuilding/ClubCoachProgram.aspx<br />
How is your Club tracking<br />
The following clubs have already qualified in this<br />
year’s Distinguished Club program:<br />
Division Area Club Level<br />
Bass 7 Valewood Select Distinguished<br />
Central 18 Speakers on the Terrace Select Distinguished<br />
18 North Adelaide Distinguished<br />
22 Pro Speakers Distinguished<br />
Eastern 15 Kew Select Distinguished<br />
15 Hawthorn Select Distinguished<br />
Metro 23 Business Talk Distinguished<br />
24 National Australia Bank Select Distinguished<br />
25 Post Masters Select Distinguished<br />
Northern 8 Macedon Ranges Distinguished<br />
Perth 13 Curtin GSB Select Distinguished<br />
20 Central Communicators Select Distinguished<br />
30 Durak President’s Distinguished<br />
30 City of Perth Select Distinguished<br />
30 Young Guns Distinguished<br />
Ranges 2 Lilydale Select Distinguished<br />
14 Whitehorse Select Distinguished<br />
Southern 33 Moorabbin Saints Distinguished<br />
Western 28 Victoria Quay President’s Distinguished<br />
Membership<br />
Currently the <strong>District</strong> membership stands at 5389<br />
with 560 members to still renew or join as new<br />
members<br />
Will your club be a Distinguished Club by<br />
30 June<br />
Bernard Marmion<br />
Lieutenant Governor Education and Training<br />
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Empower by Listening by Graham Howes DTM<br />
“The greatest motivational act one person can do for<br />
another is to listen.” – Author unknown<br />
Jill, a manager keen to improve her communication<br />
skills, set a goal for listening. The goal was to “only<br />
acknowledge people after they spoke”. She was<br />
only to say more if asked a question.<br />
Jill soon realised that she was not listening as well<br />
as she thought, noting she was concentrating on<br />
responses, judging, thinking about other things or<br />
bored well before the speaker had finished speaking.<br />
After Jill’s realisation, her focus on keeping a clear<br />
and open mind improved... but it was not easy.<br />
As time went by, her listening skills started to pay<br />
dividends personally and for her team.<br />
Jill shared that by truly listening, her relationships<br />
improved and so too her energy levels. She<br />
explained briefly and passed on a few tips:<br />
Firstly – the relationships improved because<br />
listening shows you care and builds self esteem.<br />
This leads to trust and confidence which empowers<br />
people to take responsibility. This leads to action<br />
which greatly improves relationships.<br />
Secondly – the energy levels improved as Jill was<br />
empowering people. She realised that when people<br />
speak, more often than not they are sharing and not<br />
after solutions, so one can just listen and relax.<br />
Truly listening involves:<br />
• Not asking the speaker if it’s important<br />
• Writing down what’s pressing to help clear your<br />
mind<br />
• Using friendly body language and facial<br />
expressions.<br />
• Not interrupting, consider taking notes however<br />
ask permission<br />
• Avoiding any interruptions and if not possible<br />
inform your colleague<br />
• Selecting a location where the discussion will<br />
not be interrupted. This is a very powerful way of<br />
indicating you intentions. Check if it is alright with<br />
the other person<br />
• Informing your colleague that they have your<br />
attention<br />
• Thanking the speaker for their time and the<br />
information shared<br />
If a response is required, consider:<br />
• Permission to seek clarification or to ask<br />
question(s)<br />
• The language used: ideally use similar words and<br />
phrases shared by your college, ask for clarification<br />
as to whether your understandings are what was<br />
meant<br />
• Respond in a non judgmental manner<br />
• Endeavour to allow your colleague to discover the<br />
best outcome for themself<br />
A few tips for a speaker:<br />
• Assess the best method for all in conveying<br />
your message: i.e. verbal, email or a note etc.<br />
Remember you are after a specific outcome<br />
• Ask the person when would be a good time talk<br />
• What is the best time to approach / ask to speak to<br />
someone, noting 5 minutes from lunch or home<br />
time may inhibit your message being heard<br />
• Be specific<br />
• Be aware of the time<br />
“Courage is what it takes to stand up and speak;<br />
courage is also what it takes to sit down and listen.”<br />
– Winston Churchill<br />
n Graham Howes is a member of Ringwood <strong>Toastmasters</strong><br />
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Eastern Division Contests by Terry Barridge<br />
Vale George O’Brien<br />
International Contest Winner<br />
Verity Robins<br />
Evaluation Contest Winner<br />
Veronica Strangio<br />
Two contest dates were held, to give everyone the<br />
opportunity to experience more of Eastern Division<br />
clubs and their hospitality. Thanks to Eltham<br />
<strong>Toastmasters</strong> for sponsoring the first contest at the<br />
Eltham Bowling Club on 3 March. Due to the high<br />
calibre of speakers, as you would expect at this<br />
level, we were able to have a very enlightening and<br />
evenly fought first contest.<br />
It was a hot evening and to give the speakers<br />
every chance we forfeited having the fans and air<br />
conditioner running. They even stayed off when<br />
our enthusiastic Division Governor decided to<br />
teach us how to line dance while the Judges were<br />
deliberating. Everyone enjoyed participating.<br />
Verity Robins from Doncaster <strong>Toastmasters</strong> was the<br />
winner of the International Contest and Veronica<br />
Strangio, also from Doncaster, won the Evaluation<br />
Contest. Our heartfelt congratulations go to all<br />
the contestants and we wish the very best for our<br />
winners in the <strong>District</strong> contests.<br />
Table Topics Contest Winner<br />
Mary Voice<br />
Again with the generosity of a Division Club, the<br />
Satdy Arvo Communicators, we were able to have<br />
successful Humorous and Table Topics Contests on<br />
17 March. There was very engaging humour from<br />
all contestants even in the Table Topics.<br />
Shelley Arcus from Satdy Arvo won the Humorous<br />
Contest with Mary Voice from Gourmet<br />
<strong>Toastmasters</strong> as the winner of the Table Topics<br />
Contest. We wish the very best results for our<br />
winners in the <strong>District</strong> contests. Congratulations go<br />
to all the contestants and volunteers.<br />
n Terry Barridge is Area Governor for E15<br />
Humorous Contest Winner<br />
Shelley Arcus<br />
<strong>Toastmasters</strong> will be saddened to hear of the passing of<br />
our friend and respected member, George O’Brien from<br />
South Coast Speakers <strong>Toastmasters</strong> Club.<br />
George had been seriously ill for the past week and<br />
passed away in the early hours on 12 April.<br />
He was an inspiration in how he managed the effects<br />
of a stroke suffered some years ago. He joined our<br />
Club in 1996, and held most portfolios including being<br />
President twice and was our Vice President Education<br />
this year. It was George who “single handedly” made<br />
the large wooden box for the Club’s paraphernalia.<br />
As a speaker, George’s legal background was a useful<br />
source of anecdotes, including the times when he<br />
pedaled his bike in the Bendigo district to attend Courts<br />
in Session. His knowledge of meeting procedure was<br />
invaluable at Club level. He will be sadly missed also<br />
for his very warm greeting when we walked into the<br />
hotel prior to <strong>Toastmasters</strong> and his strength of character<br />
during meetings.<br />
To dear Pat and family we offer our sincerest sympathy<br />
in the loss of a loving Husband, Father and mate. Our<br />
thoughts are with you.<br />
David Morris<br />
President South Coast Speakers <strong>Toastmasters</strong> Club<br />
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Welcome to <strong>Toastmasters</strong>...<br />
Club New Member Club New Member Club New Member<br />
ANZ Talk of the Town Oliver Sisson<br />
City of Perth<br />
Ling Liu<br />
Lilydale<br />
Paul G Clarke<br />
Banyandah<br />
Rosalyn Charter<br />
Curtin GSB<br />
Max Boronovskis<br />
Lilydale<br />
Maxwell C Lamb<br />
Banyandah<br />
Camila Rasdien<br />
Diamond Valley<br />
Linda Wilkins<br />
Macedon Ranges<br />
Mark Sach<br />
Banyandah<br />
Rachan Chindarsi<br />
Diamond Valley<br />
Kara Rozitis<br />
Mandjar<br />
Phillip Slater<br />
Banyandah<br />
Chris Danby<br />
Diamond Valley<br />
Frank Scotta<br />
Mandjar<br />
Jane Meiklem<br />
Banyandah<br />
Karima Shelot<br />
Doncaster<br />
John Chambers<br />
Maunsell<br />
Marion Seitz<br />
Bayside<br />
Fiona M Allan<br />
Durack<br />
Janine Hussey<br />
Maunsell<br />
Christopher L Jackson<br />
Berwick<br />
Leigh J Donaldson<br />
Esanda<br />
Andrew G Wilson<br />
Monash<br />
Chathushka L Fonseka<br />
Berwick<br />
Marjorie Ungab Ty<br />
Esanda<br />
Karthik Nair<br />
Moonee Ponds<br />
Karl W Becker<br />
Berwick<br />
Kaye B Ackerman<br />
Esanda<br />
Anne K McNee<br />
Naracoorte<br />
Jennifer Hinze<br />
Berwick<br />
Stephen C Varker<br />
Esanda<br />
Aurelie K Gobber<br />
Naracoorte<br />
Annette Lewis<br />
Berwick<br />
Josh D McKendry-Dow<br />
Essendon<br />
William G Craddock<br />
National Australia Bank Hamish Fawns<br />
BHP Billiton<br />
Leanne Thi Ngoc Nguyen Essendon<br />
Neama Baho<br />
Nillumbik<br />
Amanda J Elliotts<br />
BHP Billiton<br />
Remo Munaretto<br />
Essendon<br />
Elizabeth Klobas<br />
North Adelaide<br />
Brad J English<br />
Boroondara<br />
Sharon Lynch<br />
Five-O-Five<br />
Johanna Cho<br />
North Adelaide<br />
Sze Pheh Yeap<br />
Box Hill<br />
Winnie Zhu<br />
Foothills<br />
Arith Ratnawibhushana<br />
Post*masters<br />
Andy Pan<br />
Brimbank<br />
Phi Hoang Tran<br />
Ford Australia<br />
Brent C Dalton<br />
Power Talk<br />
Todd Sims<br />
Bunbury<br />
Kym McDermott<br />
Frankston<br />
Angus C Searle<br />
Power Talk<br />
Nanda Kishor<br />
Bunbury<br />
Cristiano Carvalho<br />
Frankston<br />
Sandra L Scott<br />
Raconteurs<br />
Michael K Gallasch<br />
Business Talk<br />
Seng Hee Tan<br />
Frankston<br />
Marion A Young<br />
Raconteurs<br />
Gary Badams<br />
Business Talk<br />
Gilbert Ho<br />
Frankston<br />
Geoff Shaw<br />
Riverside<br />
Kathy M Nguyen<br />
Business Talk<br />
Appu Ruby<br />
Frankston<br />
Tracy H Luther<br />
Riverside<br />
Renato Nakagawa<br />
Business Talk<br />
Maxine Williams<br />
Frankston<br />
Melinda J Roth<br />
Riverside<br />
Shane Tapley<br />
Canning Vale<br />
Peter J Jordan<br />
Gateway<br />
Ben Plunkett<br />
RMIT<br />
Chantale M Evertsz<br />
Central Communicators David Stewart<br />
Gateway<br />
Catherine Playmore<br />
RMIT<br />
Cecilie M Corless<br />
Central Communicators Michael Waring<br />
Happy Hour<br />
Gareth D Shaw<br />
RMIT<br />
Mary Tonkovik<br />
Central Communicators Andrew Shepherd<br />
Hawthorn<br />
Jaime C Murcia<br />
RMIT<br />
Vaishali Kame<br />
Central Communicators Peter Langfield<br />
Hawthorn<br />
Renata Mistarz<br />
RMIT<br />
Anhtu Nguyen<br />
Central Communicators Shannon Kiernan<br />
Kew<br />
Jillian K Sutherland<br />
Sandbelt<br />
Frances M Condon<br />
Central Highlands Water Patricia E Stannus<br />
Kew<br />
Claire E Fitzpatrick<br />
South Melbourne<br />
Patrick W M Bulfin<br />
Central Highlands Water Margaret M Laundy<br />
Kew<br />
Helen Boileau<br />
South Melbourne<br />
Kammeron J Crea<br />
Central Highlands Water Joseph P Laundy<br />
Kingston Communicators Amanda D Stanford<br />
South Melbourne<br />
Steven P Crea<br />
Champion<br />
David J Drew<br />
Knox<br />
Joshua L Walsh<br />
Southern Cross<br />
Janet Priest<br />
City of Perth<br />
Aun Ee Lim<br />
Launceston<br />
Andrew Bishop<br />
Speakers on the Terrace Meridienne T Lee<br />
...continued<br />
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Welcome to <strong>Toastmasters</strong>...<br />
Club New Member Club New Member<br />
Subiaco Early Birds<br />
Subiaco Early Birds<br />
Subiaco Early Birds<br />
Subiaco Early Birds<br />
Synergy<br />
Synergy<br />
Talkabout<br />
Talking Blue<br />
Talking Blue<br />
Talking Blue<br />
Talking Blue<br />
Talking Blue<br />
Talking Blue<br />
Talking Blue<br />
Talking Blue<br />
Talking Blue<br />
Talking Blue<br />
Technospeakers<br />
Terrace<br />
The Babylons<br />
The Gavellers<br />
The Gavellers<br />
The Gavellers<br />
Valewood<br />
Valewood<br />
Valewood<br />
Valewood<br />
Valewood<br />
Valewood<br />
Valewood<br />
Valewood<br />
Valewood<br />
Valewood<br />
Jodi M Graham<br />
Lindy J Roberts<br />
Neville R Matheson<br />
Jacinta M Williamson<br />
Michael Sewell<br />
Loc Tuan Tran<br />
Thomas W J Gee<br />
Kumar Raghavan<br />
Nitin Talegaonkar<br />
Suraj Siddique<br />
Arun Gupta<br />
Rodney Monteiro<br />
Fabian Rossi<br />
Leanne Chen<br />
Guru Shetty<br />
Sharlene L Duckham<br />
Matthew Kwan<br />
Kiruthiga Muthukrishnan<br />
Richard Barnsley<br />
Andrew L L Clarke<br />
Lang Baulch<br />
Katie Dale<br />
Hiran Leitan<br />
Sanchitha Rajamanthri<br />
<strong>May</strong>uree Cheewaphongphan<br />
Donna Tai<br />
Katie Ovenden<br />
Margaret Yap<br />
Alex Satianyot<br />
Sridhar Chari<br />
Leanne Beattie<br />
Andrew Pham<br />
Carole Griffin<br />
Victoria Quay<br />
Victoria Quay<br />
Victoria Quay<br />
Victoria Quay<br />
Victoria Quay<br />
Victoria Quay<br />
Victoria Quay<br />
Werribee<br />
Werribee<br />
West End<br />
Williamstown<br />
Williamstown<br />
Young Guns<br />
Young Guns<br />
Colin Jenkins<br />
Naomi Warriner<br />
Roz Antony<br />
Michael Punzet<br />
Saras Rawlings<br />
Marina Callander<br />
Diane Roscoe<br />
Babubhai Patel<br />
Veerasingham Vasanthan<br />
Marina Sucur<br />
Cuc Thi Lam<br />
Daniel S Ellul<br />
Nishant Agarwalla<br />
Sook Ling Fong<br />
“In my twenty-eight years as a<br />
Toastmaster I have been educated,<br />
entertained and made many friends.<br />
Keep on being a Toastmaster – the<br />
benefits never cease.”<br />
– Margaret Addison, Glen Waverley Club<br />
Have an<br />
interesting story<br />
to share<br />
Learnt valuable<br />
lessons worth<br />
telling<br />
Why not tell<br />
all of <strong>District</strong> <strong>73</strong>!<br />
Closing date for submissions to<br />
Southern Cross is the last day of the<br />
month preceding publication<br />
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