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Called to give evidence<br />

– What would you say<br />

The Newsletter of <strong>District</strong> <strong>73</strong><br />

<strong>Toastmasters</strong> International<br />

Involve • Enthuse • Inspire<br />

d<strong>73</strong>.toastmasters.org.au<br />

Story on page 3<br />

toastmasters.org<br />

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From the Editor’s desk...<br />

They say when you’re on a good thing, stick to it!<br />

This month we have articles from Margaret Addison (Glen<br />

Waverley) and Murray Jorgensen (Curtin GSB club), who have<br />

both been in <strong>Toastmasters</strong> for 28 years. See page 4 and page 8.<br />

Inspiring stuff from people who have been there and done<br />

that.<br />

In news just in, we will be visited next year by International<br />

President Jana Barnhill. She will be the special guest at our<br />

<strong>District</strong> 2009 Convention in Harndorf, South Australia<br />

(page 7).<br />

We all know <strong>Toastmasters</strong> are good at talking. The article on<br />

page 10 helps us with the equally important skill of listening.<br />

Final preparations are now under way for a fabulous <strong>2008</strong><br />

Convention at the York on Lilydale resort in Victoria.<br />

Next month’s issue will bring you all the highlights and photos<br />

of this occasion.<br />

I hope you will be among the people enjoying this fun and<br />

educational event.<br />

See you at Convention!<br />

Michelle<br />

newsletter@d<strong>73</strong>.toastmasters.org.au<br />

The views expressed in Southern Cross are not necessarily those of the Editor,<br />

the <strong>District</strong> Executive, <strong>District</strong> <strong>73</strong> or <strong>Toastmasters</strong> International.<br />

Editor: Michelle Monaghan ACS ALB<br />

PO Box 115, Sandringham, Victoria 3191<br />

(03) 9533 1206<br />

newsletter@d<strong>73</strong>.toastmasters.org.au<br />

Publisher: Mike Helm DTM<br />

(08) 9271 7675<br />

districtgovernor@d<strong>73</strong>.toastmasters.org.au<br />

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In this Issue...<br />

Click on an item below to go to that page<br />

3 Called to give evidence... What would you say<br />

4 <strong>Toastmasters</strong> – My Experience<br />

5 Anyone for Tea<br />

6 What makes TOCC tick<br />

7 International President to visit in 2009<br />

8 A Great Package<br />

8 Magic Maxims<br />

9 Club Rebuilding Opportunities<br />

10 Empower by Listening<br />

11 Eastern Division Contests<br />

12 Welcome to <strong>Toastmasters</strong><br />

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Called to give evidence ...<br />

What would you say by Angela Dodd<br />

Toastmaster Angela Dodd from Tasmania was<br />

called to give evidence before a Parliamentary<br />

enquiry into services for people with disabilities.<br />

This is her story.<br />

I want to share an experience where I realised I coped<br />

well as a result of my time with <strong>Toastmasters</strong>. I was<br />

invited along to give evidence (I guess that’s what<br />

you would call it), at a review by the Government<br />

into the equipment scheme for disabled people<br />

in Tasmania. I was invited and then sent along a<br />

submission.<br />

Angela knew she had just<br />

once chance to get her<br />

message across<br />

They asked me questions and I can honestly say<br />

they really listened to me. I was then asked for a<br />

closing statement and I invited each of them to<br />

come and live a day of my life. I went into detail, at<br />

their request, but basically in the back of my mind<br />

I knew I had to reach them on some level to make<br />

sure they listened. Yes, I left thinking, I forgot to say<br />

that, or I couldn’t think of an example to one of their<br />

questions, but overall, it was fantastic experience.<br />

If my submission doesn’t work in improving the<br />

system, then no-one’s will.<br />

I was very proud of myself! Something that doesn’t<br />

happen too often.<br />

n Angela Dodd is a member of Spirit of Devonport <strong>Toastmasters</strong><br />

Wanted<br />

Speechcraft Administrator<br />

<strong>2008</strong>-2009<br />

and<br />

New Club Co-ordinator<br />

<strong>2008</strong>-2009<br />

An AL or DTM opportuity<br />

After 3 years of working closely with <strong>District</strong><br />

Officers and members of <strong>District</strong> <strong>73</strong> in both of the<br />

above roles, I find due to other commitments<br />

I must hand over both of these exciting roles.<br />

Here is an incredible opportunity to complete your<br />

High Performance Leadership program and achieve<br />

Distinguished Toastmaster!<br />

I turned up and had no idea what to expect as I had<br />

never been through anything like this before. I was<br />

greeted by six politicians, and two of their offsiders,<br />

I had to declare that I would tell the whole truth<br />

and nothing but the truth, and then be recorded as<br />

I made my statement regarding our experience in<br />

this area. I sat there and thought ‘what do I say’<br />

I started by giving a background on Tara and the<br />

emotional issues we face daily, following it up<br />

with how everything works, or does not work.<br />

“Real difficulties can be overcome;<br />

it is only the imaginary ones<br />

that are unconquerable”<br />

– Theodore N. Vail<br />

For further details, please call myself or contact<br />

Bernard Marmion LGET<br />

Marlene Sinclair DTM<br />

Speechcraft Administrator 2007-<strong>2008</strong><br />

New Clubs Co-ordinator 2007-<strong>2008</strong><br />

Ph: 03 9725 9315 (H)<br />

0417 327 989 (Mob)<br />

marlenes.smallfish@bigpond.com<br />

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<strong>Toastmasters</strong> – My Experience by Margaret Addison DTM<br />

In the mid 70’s the<br />

Equal Opportunity<br />

requirements opened<br />

the membership<br />

of <strong>Toastmasters</strong> to<br />

women, although a<br />

few clubs resisted this<br />

for several years. My<br />

club, Glen Waverley<br />

<strong>Toastmasters</strong>, had<br />

been formed at<br />

about the same time.<br />

When I joined in 1980 my first impression was of a<br />

predominantly male, business suited and forty plus<br />

age group. For several years I was one of only about<br />

five female members, supporting them in their<br />

enthusiastic pursuit of educational and leadership<br />

challenges. Like many clubs today, the membership<br />

gradually increased to be an approximately 50-50<br />

balance.<br />

In 1980, and for several years after, <strong>District</strong> <strong>73</strong><br />

was still a Provisional <strong>District</strong> until it reached the<br />

minimum number of clubs required. Soon after<br />

joining I attended what I believe to be <strong>District</strong> <strong>73</strong>’s<br />

first Convention. It was held in a room of an eastern<br />

suburban hotel, with possibly fifty attendees, who<br />

lunched at various local fast food outlets. Over the<br />

years I have enjoyed attending many Conventions<br />

in Melbourne, country Victoria and interstate.<br />

Glen Waverley hosted a Semi Annual Convention at<br />

the Victoria Hotel in the early 1980s. The programme<br />

included the first <strong>District</strong> final of the Evaluation<br />

Contest. Several years ago Glen Waverley hosted an<br />

Annual Convention at Box Hill.<br />

Educational requirements have changed. In my<br />

early days, the Communication and Leadership<br />

Manual for attaining the Competent Toastmaster<br />

(CTM) required the completion of fifteen speeches.<br />

Advanced Toastmaster (ATM) was not divided into<br />

Bronze, Silver and Gold, instead, three Advanced<br />

manuals of five speeches and participation in<br />

Speechcraft and/or Youth Leadership courses<br />

were among the requirements. The attaining of<br />

the Distinguished Toastmaster (DTM) had some<br />

similarities to the present, but required also the<br />

presentation of five speeches to non-<strong>Toastmasters</strong><br />

organisations. Work presentations could not be<br />

included. Before the existence of the Leadership<br />

stream and its educational rewards I know that<br />

many long term members would have earned them<br />

many times over.<br />

Over the years I have enjoyed participating<br />

in Speechcraft and Youth Leadership courses.<br />

Speechcraft has ranged from empowering future<br />

corporate executives, to giving confidence to the<br />

unemployed for coping with job interviews. Youth<br />

Leadership has involved many courses ranging from<br />

catering to the highy competent students in elite<br />

schools to those run by a <strong>Toastmasters</strong> psychologist<br />

for difficult and underprivileged students.<br />

Two unofficial Toastmaster activities which<br />

regretfully have been deleted due to timing and<br />

programming difficulties are the Dramatic Reading<br />

Contest and the Toastmaster Olympics. Both of<br />

these originated in clubs in the former Southern<br />

Division. Both offered entertainment and challenges<br />

of various kinds.<br />

I am asked frequently “Why do you still go to<br />

<strong>Toastmasters</strong>” In my twenty-eight years as a<br />

Toastmaster I have been educated, entertained<br />

and made many friends. My enjoyment continues<br />

as I appreciate the contributions made now by our<br />

younger members and those of various cultural<br />

backgrounds.<br />

I have chosen not to try to name the wonderful<br />

and accomplished <strong>Toastmasters</strong> I have met over<br />

the years because there are too many. I have great<br />

memories of them and the many clubs I have<br />

visited. My message to you is to keep on being a<br />

Toastmaster – the benefits never cease.<br />

n Margaret Addison is <strong>District</strong> <strong>73</strong>’s longest continual member<br />

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Anyone for Tea by Michelle Monaghan ACS ALB<br />

On Friday 14 March <strong>2008</strong>, the charter members<br />

and club sponsors and mentors all celebrated their<br />

response “Yes please” when Tea House <strong>Toastmasters</strong><br />

enjoyed their charter dinner at a Melbourne<br />

restaurant.<br />

Tea House <strong>Toastmasters</strong> is proud to have as its<br />

corporate sponsor the Australian Computer Society<br />

(ACS). Support from ACS is benefitting members of<br />

that Society as they develop their skills through the<br />

<strong>Toastmasters</strong> Program. Members of the ACS have<br />

their fees subsidised.<br />

We meet in the ACS training room in the historic Tea<br />

House opposite Crown Casino in Melbourne. The<br />

grand old building was where the tea shipments<br />

were stored when they arrived by sailing ship.<br />

Vice President Public Relations Pam Barnes works<br />

at ACS and was a past member of <strong>Toastmasters</strong>.<br />

She approached management and then contacted<br />

Marlene Sinclair (Victoria’s New Club Co-ordinator).<br />

The meetings were advertised on the ACS website<br />

and the club grew from there.<br />

Membership is open to the general public. The club<br />

includes a wide variety of nationalities and industries<br />

(not just IT). There is also good participation by men<br />

and women.<br />

Tea House <strong>Toastmasters</strong> meet on the 3rd Tuesday of<br />

each month at 6.00pm for a 6.15pm start.<br />

Visitors are welcome. Please register at least<br />

24 hours prior to a meeting with Pam Barnes<br />

pam.barnes@acs.org.au or 1800 671 003.<br />

n Michelle Monaghan is a mentor of Tea House <strong>Toastmasters</strong><br />

Did you know<br />

Genghis Khan was only 13 years old when he<br />

came to power.<br />

Jupiter spins so fast that there is a new sunrise<br />

every ten hours.<br />

A coffee tree produces only about half a kilogram<br />

of coffee beans per year.<br />

Rembrandt’s favourite meal was simply bread<br />

and cheese.<br />

The only number that scores its own value when<br />

spelled out in Scrabble is “twelve”.<br />

Male zebras have white stripes but female zebras<br />

have black stripes.<br />

If you suffer from eremophobia you are afraid<br />

of solitude.<br />

There are more saunas than cars in Finland.<br />

Edgar Allan Poe was thrown out of the U.S. West<br />

Point military academy for arriving for a<br />

public parade in a white belt and gloves – but<br />

nothing else.<br />

d<strong>73</strong>.toastmasters.org.au<br />

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What makes TOCC tick by Neil Spark<br />

Life ticks away like a clock until you get to 40.<br />

Then, they say, life begins. Advanced Toastmaster<br />

club, Toast of the Country Club (TOCC), recently<br />

celebrated its 40th meeting with a verbal blood<br />

bath, also known as a debate.<br />

it was such a great learning experience, it will be an<br />

annual fixture in the life of TOCC.<br />

The opposing sides passionately debated “that<br />

dredging of Port Phillip Bay is beneficial to<br />

Melbourne”.<br />

Former <strong>District</strong> Governors Judith Talanoa and<br />

Marlene Sinclair along with Past <strong>District</strong> Humorous<br />

Speech contest champion Fred Hill were the<br />

naysayers. Henk Van Den Bergen, Neil Spark and<br />

George Randall were all for the dredge.<br />

Fred, Judith and Marlene dazzled all with their<br />

powerful arguments and excellent teamwork. Neil<br />

Spark won the best speaker prize, a large chocolate<br />

Easter bunny.<br />

Debate evaluator Michael Broberg gave an<br />

excellent assessment of the stoush and declared<br />

the affirmative side the winners.<br />

TOCC is an advanced club for <strong>Toastmasters</strong> with a<br />

CC (or CTM).<br />

Each meeting is full of energy, expertise and<br />

enthusiasm.<br />

If you are looking for something new and want to<br />

learn from some of the highest calibre <strong>Toastmasters</strong><br />

in the <strong>District</strong>, contact either Fred Hill 9794 8508 or<br />

Michael Broberg 9758 3455 to arrange a visit.<br />

TOCC meets every third Thursday in the month at<br />

the Mulgrave Country Club corner Wellington and<br />

Jells Roads at 7.30 for 7.45pm. So if you are in Victoria,<br />

come along and see what makes TOCC tick.<br />

n Neil Spark is President of Toast of the Country Club<br />

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International President to visit in 2009<br />

by <strong>District</strong> <strong>73</strong> Governor, Mike Helm DTM<br />

We have just received the great news that next year’s International President of <strong>Toastmasters</strong>, Jana Barnhill DTM, will be visiting<br />

<strong>District</strong> <strong>73</strong> on 21-24 <strong>May</strong> next year. This will be a wonderful opportunity to showcase the achievements of <strong>District</strong> <strong>73</strong> and to<br />

benefit from <strong>Toastmasters</strong> knowledge and leadership from the top.<br />

The date of next year’s convention has been changed to Friday 22 to Sunday 24 <strong>May</strong> to coincide with our President’s visit.<br />

This has been done at the request of World Headquarters, and in consultation with Nick Nash, Governor of Central Division,<br />

which will host next year’s <strong>District</strong> Convention.<br />

Jana’s visit will follow the visit of this year’s President Chris Ford DTM to <strong>District</strong> 70 (New South Wales) last month and precede<br />

the first <strong>Toastmasters</strong> International convention to be held outside North America, in Sydney in 2010.<br />

Jana is an outstanding speaker and former high level speech contestant. She is also an inspiring leader and has made a great<br />

contribution to the <strong>Toastmasters</strong> Board of Directors. <strong>District</strong> <strong>73</strong> leaders met Jana in Phoenix last August. She is warm and<br />

personable with a good sense of humour. I am sure <strong>District</strong> <strong>73</strong> <strong>Toastmasters</strong> will find Jana an inspiring and engaging honoured<br />

guest.<br />

Jana’s theme for <strong>2008</strong>-2009 is The Courage to Conquer. We will be hearing a lot more about Jana and her inspiring theme over<br />

the coming year.<br />

Plan ahead for this:<br />

For the first time ever outside North America<br />

<strong>Toastmasters</strong> International Convention<br />

11-14 August 2010<br />

in Sydney<br />

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A Great Package by Murray Jorgensen DTM<br />

It is hard to imagine what an isolated group the three<br />

<strong>Toastmasters</strong> clubs in Perth were when I joined the<br />

Banyandah Club in 1980. In the days before e-mail, when<br />

fax messages were just superseding telex messages<br />

(anyone remember them), and when interstate air travel<br />

was quite expensive, only the Area winner of a speech<br />

contest was ever likely to attend a <strong>District</strong> Convention in<br />

Melbourne.<br />

Nevertheless, things changed and, with barely half<br />

a dozen clubs by 1987, WA <strong>Toastmasters</strong> attracted<br />

members from all over Australia and New Zealand to<br />

Perth for one of the last Downunder Conventions. And in 1993, the first nonmetropolitan<br />

club in WA, Mine Host, organised what might have been one of<br />

the most remote <strong>District</strong> Semi Annual Conventions ever, in the gold mining<br />

city of Kalgoorlie. With only very small teams of enthusiastic volunteers, the<br />

committees that organised these very successful conventions highlighted to<br />

me the truth of a quotation attributed to Henry Ford – “Whether you believe<br />

you can do a thing or not, you are right.”<br />

My involvement with <strong>Toastmasters</strong> has continued because I noticed one<br />

very important thing – positive thinking and inspiring ideas are nowhere as<br />

common as they are at a <strong>Toastmasters</strong> meeting or event.<br />

Not only do learning opportunities abound in <strong>Toastmasters</strong>, but recently I had<br />

the fun of participating in a debate on the topic “Does Santa need an MBA”<br />

and then the challenge of evaluating a project speech given by a Japanese<br />

Toastmaster visiting my club.<br />

Learning…fun…challenge… it is still a great package of opportunities with<br />

<strong>Toastmasters</strong>.<br />

Magic Maxims by David Reynolds DTM<br />

Magic Maxims workshop supported by Lieutenant Governor Education<br />

and Training Bernard Marmion and organised by Jacqui Gullick on Saturday<br />

19 April <strong>2008</strong> was a spectacular success, attracting approximately 80 workshop<br />

participants including six non-<strong>Toastmasters</strong>. The major educational<br />

theme of the day was to improve your presentation skills with special guest<br />

speaker Verity Robins presenting: Tap into your Passion, Know your Power and<br />

Present with Purpose.<br />

Other great presenters included Susan Morrison, Andrew Weatherhead,<br />

George Randall, David Reynolds, Judy Murphy, Marlene Sinclair, Bill Farman<br />

and again Marlene Sinclair with friends.<br />

Jacqui is planning on conducting another Magic Maxims next year. So if you<br />

are interested in:<br />

• learning how to conduct successful workshops by gathering a team of<br />

talented people around you; or<br />

• contributing in some way as a presenter; or<br />

• looking for a challenging role for your DTM High Performance Leadership<br />

project –<br />

then this is your opportunity to register your interest with Jacqui at<br />

jjgullick@bigpond.com<br />

n Murray Jorgensen DTM is a member of the City of Perth Club and the Curtin GSB Club.<br />

He was Divisional Lt-Governor West 1985/86 and Division Governor Western Division 2002/03.<br />

Verity Robins<br />

Jacqui Gullick (L) and Marlene Sinclair<br />

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Club Rebuilding Opportunities<br />

by Damian Chong DTM, Lieutenant Governor Marketing<br />

Attention Leaders and Clubs<br />

with 12 or less members.<br />

Every year there are a number of clubs in need<br />

of rebuilding. They need some ideas, alternate<br />

methods, better ways of doing things that may<br />

attract new members and importantly keep them<br />

for longer than six months.<br />

Have a plan to cycle out! Some club leaders are<br />

silent in their struggle, perhaps not knowing there<br />

are alternate ways to inject spark back into the club.<br />

However, some are adamant that nothing is wrong,<br />

“…it is just a normal cycle.”. The answer to that is, “As<br />

long as you have a plan to cycle back out.”<br />

So, if your club qualifies, and the members have<br />

agreed to give <strong>2008</strong>-2009 a good go, to seek<br />

more membership and increase the profile of<br />

<strong>Toastmasters</strong> in your area, then please seek out a<br />

couple of club coaches to help you. Inject an extra<br />

kick of dynamics to your meetings. Work with the<br />

different experiences. Preferably choose coaches<br />

with different backgrounds to give alternate skills<br />

and views.<br />

How do you find coaches Attend Club Officer<br />

Trainings; conventions; workshops; other club<br />

meetings; or contact your Area Governor or <strong>District</strong><br />

Officers. They may be able to put a club coach in<br />

touch with you.<br />

Why volunteer as a club coach As you progress<br />

through the Leadership path of the <strong>Toastmasters</strong><br />

programme, one of the options is to successfully<br />

lead a struggling club back to Distinguished status.<br />

Rebuilding opportunities are an important part<br />

of developing new leaders in our <strong>District</strong>, and the<br />

rewards are great.<br />

What can I do now If you belong to a struggling<br />

club, please have your members consider<br />

appointing a coach(s) and if you would like to gain<br />

your leadership award, consider a role as coach to<br />

rebuild a club.<br />

More reference materials about rebuilding and<br />

club coach programme are available on the TMI<br />

website:<br />

http://www.toastmasters.org/Members/<br />

MembershipBuilding/ClubCoachProgram.aspx<br />

How is your Club tracking<br />

The following clubs have already qualified in this<br />

year’s Distinguished Club program:<br />

Division Area Club Level<br />

Bass 7 Valewood Select Distinguished<br />

Central 18 Speakers on the Terrace Select Distinguished<br />

18 North Adelaide Distinguished<br />

22 Pro Speakers Distinguished<br />

Eastern 15 Kew Select Distinguished<br />

15 Hawthorn Select Distinguished<br />

Metro 23 Business Talk Distinguished<br />

24 National Australia Bank Select Distinguished<br />

25 Post Masters Select Distinguished<br />

Northern 8 Macedon Ranges Distinguished<br />

Perth 13 Curtin GSB Select Distinguished<br />

20 Central Communicators Select Distinguished<br />

30 Durak President’s Distinguished<br />

30 City of Perth Select Distinguished<br />

30 Young Guns Distinguished<br />

Ranges 2 Lilydale Select Distinguished<br />

14 Whitehorse Select Distinguished<br />

Southern 33 Moorabbin Saints Distinguished<br />

Western 28 Victoria Quay President’s Distinguished<br />

Membership<br />

Currently the <strong>District</strong> membership stands at 5389<br />

with 560 members to still renew or join as new<br />

members<br />

Will your club be a Distinguished Club by<br />

30 June<br />

Bernard Marmion<br />

Lieutenant Governor Education and Training<br />

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Empower by Listening by Graham Howes DTM<br />

“The greatest motivational act one person can do for<br />

another is to listen.” – Author unknown<br />

Jill, a manager keen to improve her communication<br />

skills, set a goal for listening. The goal was to “only<br />

acknowledge people after they spoke”. She was<br />

only to say more if asked a question.<br />

Jill soon realised that she was not listening as well<br />

as she thought, noting she was concentrating on<br />

responses, judging, thinking about other things or<br />

bored well before the speaker had finished speaking.<br />

After Jill’s realisation, her focus on keeping a clear<br />

and open mind improved... but it was not easy.<br />

As time went by, her listening skills started to pay<br />

dividends personally and for her team.<br />

Jill shared that by truly listening, her relationships<br />

improved and so too her energy levels. She<br />

explained briefly and passed on a few tips:<br />

Firstly – the relationships improved because<br />

listening shows you care and builds self esteem.<br />

This leads to trust and confidence which empowers<br />

people to take responsibility. This leads to action<br />

which greatly improves relationships.<br />

Secondly – the energy levels improved as Jill was<br />

empowering people. She realised that when people<br />

speak, more often than not they are sharing and not<br />

after solutions, so one can just listen and relax.<br />

Truly listening involves:<br />

• Not asking the speaker if it’s important<br />

• Writing down what’s pressing to help clear your<br />

mind<br />

• Using friendly body language and facial<br />

expressions.<br />

• Not interrupting, consider taking notes however<br />

ask permission<br />

• Avoiding any interruptions and if not possible<br />

inform your colleague<br />

• Selecting a location where the discussion will<br />

not be interrupted. This is a very powerful way of<br />

indicating you intentions. Check if it is alright with<br />

the other person<br />

• Informing your colleague that they have your<br />

attention<br />

• Thanking the speaker for their time and the<br />

information shared<br />

If a response is required, consider:<br />

• Permission to seek clarification or to ask<br />

question(s)<br />

• The language used: ideally use similar words and<br />

phrases shared by your college, ask for clarification<br />

as to whether your understandings are what was<br />

meant<br />

• Respond in a non judgmental manner<br />

• Endeavour to allow your colleague to discover the<br />

best outcome for themself<br />

A few tips for a speaker:<br />

• Assess the best method for all in conveying<br />

your message: i.e. verbal, email or a note etc.<br />

Remember you are after a specific outcome<br />

• Ask the person when would be a good time talk<br />

• What is the best time to approach / ask to speak to<br />

someone, noting 5 minutes from lunch or home<br />

time may inhibit your message being heard<br />

• Be specific<br />

• Be aware of the time<br />

“Courage is what it takes to stand up and speak;<br />

courage is also what it takes to sit down and listen.”<br />

– Winston Churchill<br />

n Graham Howes is a member of Ringwood <strong>Toastmasters</strong><br />

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Eastern Division Contests by Terry Barridge<br />

Vale George O’Brien<br />

International Contest Winner<br />

Verity Robins<br />

Evaluation Contest Winner<br />

Veronica Strangio<br />

Two contest dates were held, to give everyone the<br />

opportunity to experience more of Eastern Division<br />

clubs and their hospitality. Thanks to Eltham<br />

<strong>Toastmasters</strong> for sponsoring the first contest at the<br />

Eltham Bowling Club on 3 March. Due to the high<br />

calibre of speakers, as you would expect at this<br />

level, we were able to have a very enlightening and<br />

evenly fought first contest.<br />

It was a hot evening and to give the speakers<br />

every chance we forfeited having the fans and air<br />

conditioner running. They even stayed off when<br />

our enthusiastic Division Governor decided to<br />

teach us how to line dance while the Judges were<br />

deliberating. Everyone enjoyed participating.<br />

Verity Robins from Doncaster <strong>Toastmasters</strong> was the<br />

winner of the International Contest and Veronica<br />

Strangio, also from Doncaster, won the Evaluation<br />

Contest. Our heartfelt congratulations go to all<br />

the contestants and we wish the very best for our<br />

winners in the <strong>District</strong> contests.<br />

Table Topics Contest Winner<br />

Mary Voice<br />

Again with the generosity of a Division Club, the<br />

Satdy Arvo Communicators, we were able to have<br />

successful Humorous and Table Topics Contests on<br />

17 March. There was very engaging humour from<br />

all contestants even in the Table Topics.<br />

Shelley Arcus from Satdy Arvo won the Humorous<br />

Contest with Mary Voice from Gourmet<br />

<strong>Toastmasters</strong> as the winner of the Table Topics<br />

Contest. We wish the very best results for our<br />

winners in the <strong>District</strong> contests. Congratulations go<br />

to all the contestants and volunteers.<br />

n Terry Barridge is Area Governor for E15<br />

Humorous Contest Winner<br />

Shelley Arcus<br />

<strong>Toastmasters</strong> will be saddened to hear of the passing of<br />

our friend and respected member, George O’Brien from<br />

South Coast Speakers <strong>Toastmasters</strong> Club.<br />

George had been seriously ill for the past week and<br />

passed away in the early hours on 12 April.<br />

He was an inspiration in how he managed the effects<br />

of a stroke suffered some years ago. He joined our<br />

Club in 1996, and held most portfolios including being<br />

President twice and was our Vice President Education<br />

this year. It was George who “single handedly” made<br />

the large wooden box for the Club’s paraphernalia.<br />

As a speaker, George’s legal background was a useful<br />

source of anecdotes, including the times when he<br />

pedaled his bike in the Bendigo district to attend Courts<br />

in Session. His knowledge of meeting procedure was<br />

invaluable at Club level. He will be sadly missed also<br />

for his very warm greeting when we walked into the<br />

hotel prior to <strong>Toastmasters</strong> and his strength of character<br />

during meetings.<br />

To dear Pat and family we offer our sincerest sympathy<br />

in the loss of a loving Husband, Father and mate. Our<br />

thoughts are with you.<br />

David Morris<br />

President South Coast Speakers <strong>Toastmasters</strong> Club<br />

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Welcome to <strong>Toastmasters</strong>...<br />

Club New Member Club New Member Club New Member<br />

ANZ Talk of the Town Oliver Sisson<br />

City of Perth<br />

Ling Liu<br />

Lilydale<br />

Paul G Clarke<br />

Banyandah<br />

Rosalyn Charter<br />

Curtin GSB<br />

Max Boronovskis<br />

Lilydale<br />

Maxwell C Lamb<br />

Banyandah<br />

Camila Rasdien<br />

Diamond Valley<br />

Linda Wilkins<br />

Macedon Ranges<br />

Mark Sach<br />

Banyandah<br />

Rachan Chindarsi<br />

Diamond Valley<br />

Kara Rozitis<br />

Mandjar<br />

Phillip Slater<br />

Banyandah<br />

Chris Danby<br />

Diamond Valley<br />

Frank Scotta<br />

Mandjar<br />

Jane Meiklem<br />

Banyandah<br />

Karima Shelot<br />

Doncaster<br />

John Chambers<br />

Maunsell<br />

Marion Seitz<br />

Bayside<br />

Fiona M Allan<br />

Durack<br />

Janine Hussey<br />

Maunsell<br />

Christopher L Jackson<br />

Berwick<br />

Leigh J Donaldson<br />

Esanda<br />

Andrew G Wilson<br />

Monash<br />

Chathushka L Fonseka<br />

Berwick<br />

Marjorie Ungab Ty<br />

Esanda<br />

Karthik Nair<br />

Moonee Ponds<br />

Karl W Becker<br />

Berwick<br />

Kaye B Ackerman<br />

Esanda<br />

Anne K McNee<br />

Naracoorte<br />

Jennifer Hinze<br />

Berwick<br />

Stephen C Varker<br />

Esanda<br />

Aurelie K Gobber<br />

Naracoorte<br />

Annette Lewis<br />

Berwick<br />

Josh D McKendry-Dow<br />

Essendon<br />

William G Craddock<br />

National Australia Bank Hamish Fawns<br />

BHP Billiton<br />

Leanne Thi Ngoc Nguyen Essendon<br />

Neama Baho<br />

Nillumbik<br />

Amanda J Elliotts<br />

BHP Billiton<br />

Remo Munaretto<br />

Essendon<br />

Elizabeth Klobas<br />

North Adelaide<br />

Brad J English<br />

Boroondara<br />

Sharon Lynch<br />

Five-O-Five<br />

Johanna Cho<br />

North Adelaide<br />

Sze Pheh Yeap<br />

Box Hill<br />

Winnie Zhu<br />

Foothills<br />

Arith Ratnawibhushana<br />

Post*masters<br />

Andy Pan<br />

Brimbank<br />

Phi Hoang Tran<br />

Ford Australia<br />

Brent C Dalton<br />

Power Talk<br />

Todd Sims<br />

Bunbury<br />

Kym McDermott<br />

Frankston<br />

Angus C Searle<br />

Power Talk<br />

Nanda Kishor<br />

Bunbury<br />

Cristiano Carvalho<br />

Frankston<br />

Sandra L Scott<br />

Raconteurs<br />

Michael K Gallasch<br />

Business Talk<br />

Seng Hee Tan<br />

Frankston<br />

Marion A Young<br />

Raconteurs<br />

Gary Badams<br />

Business Talk<br />

Gilbert Ho<br />

Frankston<br />

Geoff Shaw<br />

Riverside<br />

Kathy M Nguyen<br />

Business Talk<br />

Appu Ruby<br />

Frankston<br />

Tracy H Luther<br />

Riverside<br />

Renato Nakagawa<br />

Business Talk<br />

Maxine Williams<br />

Frankston<br />

Melinda J Roth<br />

Riverside<br />

Shane Tapley<br />

Canning Vale<br />

Peter J Jordan<br />

Gateway<br />

Ben Plunkett<br />

RMIT<br />

Chantale M Evertsz<br />

Central Communicators David Stewart<br />

Gateway<br />

Catherine Playmore<br />

RMIT<br />

Cecilie M Corless<br />

Central Communicators Michael Waring<br />

Happy Hour<br />

Gareth D Shaw<br />

RMIT<br />

Mary Tonkovik<br />

Central Communicators Andrew Shepherd<br />

Hawthorn<br />

Jaime C Murcia<br />

RMIT<br />

Vaishali Kame<br />

Central Communicators Peter Langfield<br />

Hawthorn<br />

Renata Mistarz<br />

RMIT<br />

Anhtu Nguyen<br />

Central Communicators Shannon Kiernan<br />

Kew<br />

Jillian K Sutherland<br />

Sandbelt<br />

Frances M Condon<br />

Central Highlands Water Patricia E Stannus<br />

Kew<br />

Claire E Fitzpatrick<br />

South Melbourne<br />

Patrick W M Bulfin<br />

Central Highlands Water Margaret M Laundy<br />

Kew<br />

Helen Boileau<br />

South Melbourne<br />

Kammeron J Crea<br />

Central Highlands Water Joseph P Laundy<br />

Kingston Communicators Amanda D Stanford<br />

South Melbourne<br />

Steven P Crea<br />

Champion<br />

David J Drew<br />

Knox<br />

Joshua L Walsh<br />

Southern Cross<br />

Janet Priest<br />

City of Perth<br />

Aun Ee Lim<br />

Launceston<br />

Andrew Bishop<br />

Speakers on the Terrace Meridienne T Lee<br />

...continued<br />

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Welcome to <strong>Toastmasters</strong>...<br />

Club New Member Club New Member<br />

Subiaco Early Birds<br />

Subiaco Early Birds<br />

Subiaco Early Birds<br />

Subiaco Early Birds<br />

Synergy<br />

Synergy<br />

Talkabout<br />

Talking Blue<br />

Talking Blue<br />

Talking Blue<br />

Talking Blue<br />

Talking Blue<br />

Talking Blue<br />

Talking Blue<br />

Talking Blue<br />

Talking Blue<br />

Talking Blue<br />

Technospeakers<br />

Terrace<br />

The Babylons<br />

The Gavellers<br />

The Gavellers<br />

The Gavellers<br />

Valewood<br />

Valewood<br />

Valewood<br />

Valewood<br />

Valewood<br />

Valewood<br />

Valewood<br />

Valewood<br />

Valewood<br />

Valewood<br />

Jodi M Graham<br />

Lindy J Roberts<br />

Neville R Matheson<br />

Jacinta M Williamson<br />

Michael Sewell<br />

Loc Tuan Tran<br />

Thomas W J Gee<br />

Kumar Raghavan<br />

Nitin Talegaonkar<br />

Suraj Siddique<br />

Arun Gupta<br />

Rodney Monteiro<br />

Fabian Rossi<br />

Leanne Chen<br />

Guru Shetty<br />

Sharlene L Duckham<br />

Matthew Kwan<br />

Kiruthiga Muthukrishnan<br />

Richard Barnsley<br />

Andrew L L Clarke<br />

Lang Baulch<br />

Katie Dale<br />

Hiran Leitan<br />

Sanchitha Rajamanthri<br />

<strong>May</strong>uree Cheewaphongphan<br />

Donna Tai<br />

Katie Ovenden<br />

Margaret Yap<br />

Alex Satianyot<br />

Sridhar Chari<br />

Leanne Beattie<br />

Andrew Pham<br />

Carole Griffin<br />

Victoria Quay<br />

Victoria Quay<br />

Victoria Quay<br />

Victoria Quay<br />

Victoria Quay<br />

Victoria Quay<br />

Victoria Quay<br />

Werribee<br />

Werribee<br />

West End<br />

Williamstown<br />

Williamstown<br />

Young Guns<br />

Young Guns<br />

Colin Jenkins<br />

Naomi Warriner<br />

Roz Antony<br />

Michael Punzet<br />

Saras Rawlings<br />

Marina Callander<br />

Diane Roscoe<br />

Babubhai Patel<br />

Veerasingham Vasanthan<br />

Marina Sucur<br />

Cuc Thi Lam<br />

Daniel S Ellul<br />

Nishant Agarwalla<br />

Sook Ling Fong<br />

“In my twenty-eight years as a<br />

Toastmaster I have been educated,<br />

entertained and made many friends.<br />

Keep on being a Toastmaster – the<br />

benefits never cease.”<br />

– Margaret Addison, Glen Waverley Club<br />

Have an<br />

interesting story<br />

to share<br />

Learnt valuable<br />

lessons worth<br />

telling<br />

Why not tell<br />

all of <strong>District</strong> <strong>73</strong>!<br />

Closing date for submissions to<br />

Southern Cross is the last day of the<br />

month preceding publication<br />

newsletter@d<strong>73</strong>.toastmasters.org.au<br />

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