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<strong>February</strong> <strong>2013</strong><br />

Helping people meet Jesus, become like Him and be equipped to impact the local and global community<br />

Coming in <strong>February</strong><br />

Official Opening <strong>of</strong> the <strong>York</strong>ie Play Centre<br />

Induction <strong>of</strong> Ben Dainton as Youth Pastor<br />

Careforce Lifekeys<br />

and much more...


A word from our Senior Pastor<br />

Hi, and welcome to the <strong>February</strong> edition <strong>of</strong> <strong>The</strong> <strong>Vine</strong>, our<br />

monthly church magazine. We trust that you have a great<br />

time with us as we worship our awesome God together.<br />

Here at <strong>York</strong> <strong>St</strong>reet we are a large regional church that is ALL<br />

ABOUT LIFE.<br />

This month there are many things happening in the life <strong>of</strong> the<br />

church so please take the time to read through <strong>The</strong> <strong>Vine</strong> and<br />

if you have any questions or comments then don’t hesitate to<br />

contact our church <strong>of</strong>fice on <strong>of</strong>fice@yorkst.com.au or check<br />

out our web page www.yorkst.com.au or Facebook Page<br />

http://facebook.com/yorkstc<strong>of</strong>c for more information.<br />

Matthew 6:33-34 (NIV)<br />

33<br />

But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all<br />

these things will be given to you as well. 34 <strong>The</strong>refore do not<br />

worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself.<br />

Each day has enough trouble <strong>of</strong> its own.<br />

On Sunday 6th January, the first Sunday <strong>of</strong> the<br />

year, I preached a message about not worrying<br />

and encouraged people to seek God first in all that<br />

we do in <strong>2013</strong>. (If you missed the message then<br />

download it from our webpage or iTunes). As many<br />

<strong>of</strong> our ministries within the church commence for<br />

<strong>2013</strong> I want to remind us all that we are all about<br />

Jesus.<br />

As a church we are about LIFE, helping people<br />

meet Jesus, become like him and impact the world.<br />

If we are to continue to do this then the focus must<br />

be on Jesus and not upon ourselves. We must<br />

seek God first in all that we do. So let us all not only<br />

remember but apply these words from Hebrews<br />

12:1-2 (NIV) 1 … let us throw <strong>of</strong>f everything that<br />

hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let<br />

us run with perseverance the race marked out for<br />

us. 2 Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and<br />

perfecter <strong>of</strong> our faith...<br />

Launching <strong>2013</strong><br />

On Sunday <strong>February</strong> 3rd we will commission our<br />

Pastoral Care team led by Heather Gordon and<br />

Rob Petty. <strong>The</strong> Pastoral Care team has already<br />

been working hard visiting the shut ins, connecting<br />

with people who haven’t been at church for a while<br />

or who are sick, doing hospital visitations as well<br />

as running a number <strong>of</strong> church and communion<br />

services at nursing homes around Ballarat. This is<br />

the outworking <strong>of</strong> 1 Corinthians 12 as people play<br />

their part by being the hands, feet and mouth <strong>of</strong><br />

Jesus.<br />

Also as part <strong>of</strong> the launching <strong>of</strong> <strong>2013</strong> we will<br />

<strong>of</strong>ficially open the <strong>York</strong>ie Play Centre as well as hear<br />

about some <strong>of</strong> the exciting things planned for <strong>2013</strong>.<br />

Please mark <strong>February</strong> 3rd in your diary as this is a<br />

Sunday you won’t want to miss.<br />

2.


<strong>St</strong>aff Changes in <strong>2013</strong><br />

It is with sadness that we announced in January<br />

that Angela Oliver has resigned from her role<br />

in Music and Creative<br />

Ministries. Angela is due<br />

to give birth around April/<br />

May and will conclude her<br />

ministry with us at the end<br />

<strong>of</strong> March. As a church we<br />

celebrate with Leigh and<br />

Angela and pray for them.<br />

Personally I want to thank Angela for being a key<br />

part <strong>of</strong> the ministry team and for the impact she has<br />

had upon the music ministry. I ask that you join us<br />

in praying for a new person to take on the role (see<br />

advertisement in <strong>The</strong> <strong>Vine</strong>).<br />

We also welcome Ben Dainton to the role <strong>of</strong> Youth<br />

Engagements<br />

Congratulations to<br />

Car Parking<br />

“May we all continue to seek<br />

God in all that we do as He<br />

leads and guides us...”<br />

Pastor. Ben is continuing in his theological studies<br />

and will work with us at the church for two days a<br />

week overseeing our youth ministry. Blake Moore<br />

will continue to work with Ben but will be stepping<br />

back from youth ministry<br />

to focus upon being the<br />

Associate Pastor, taking<br />

on more responsibility<br />

and overseeing Careforce<br />

Lifekeys and Small Groups.<br />

May we all continue to<br />

seek God in all we do as He leads and guides us as<br />

many <strong>of</strong> the ministries <strong>of</strong> the <strong>Church</strong> recommence<br />

for <strong>2013</strong>.<br />

Blessings<br />

Tim Clark<br />

Senior Pastor<br />

Chantelle Ten Hoopen and Luke Cutler<br />

and<br />

Charlie Harrison (Colette and Greg’s Daughter) and Andrew Parker<br />

who became engaged last month.<br />

Thank you to those who are parking in the<br />

main car park at the rear <strong>of</strong> the church. If<br />

you are a regular attendee to the church<br />

then we have been asking that you park<br />

in the Main Car Park at the rear <strong>of</strong> the<br />

church. <strong>The</strong> entrance to the car park<br />

is <strong>of</strong>f Joseph <strong>St</strong>reet. This allows anyone<br />

who is new to the church to be able to<br />

park in the front car park <strong>of</strong>f <strong>York</strong> <strong>St</strong>reet.<br />

A gentle reminder for everyone using the<br />

church building, please use our church<br />

car park at all times, and if both the main<br />

car park at the rear <strong>of</strong> the church and<br />

the front car park are full then please fill<br />

the car parks on the church side <strong>of</strong> <strong>York</strong><br />

<strong>St</strong>reet before parking on the neighbours’<br />

side. Where possible please avoid parking<br />

on the neighbours’ side <strong>of</strong> <strong>York</strong> <strong>St</strong>reet.<br />

3.


What is happening on Sundays?<br />

<strong>February</strong><br />

Sunday 3rd <strong>February</strong><br />

THEME: Launch the Year <strong>2013</strong><br />

SPEAKER: Tim Clark<br />

BIBLE READING: Matthew 11:25-30<br />

Official opening <strong>of</strong> the <strong>York</strong>ie Play Centre<br />

and commissioning <strong>of</strong> the Pastoral Care<br />

Team<br />

Sunday 10th <strong>February</strong><br />

THEME: Baggage <strong>of</strong> Fear and Anxiety<br />

SPEAKER: Blake Moore<br />

BIBLE READING: Philippians 4:4-9<br />

6pm - Youth Take Over Service and<br />

commissioning <strong>of</strong> Ben Dainton as Youth<br />

Pastor!<br />

If you are on twitter you can follow the church at<br />

<strong>York</strong><strong>St</strong><strong>Church</strong>. We will endeavour to keep you up<br />

to date with what’s happening at the church as well<br />

as with other information, photos, comments and<br />

quotes.<br />

Sunday 17th <strong>February</strong><br />

THEME: Baggage <strong>of</strong> Bitterness and Anger<br />

SPEAKER: Tim Clark<br />

BIBLE READING: Ephesians 4:17-32<br />

Sunday 24th <strong>February</strong><br />

THEME: Baggage <strong>of</strong> Guilt and Choices<br />

SPEAKER: Tim Clark<br />

BIBLE READING: John 16:5-16<br />

Sunday <strong>February</strong><br />

3rd we will see the<br />

commissioning <strong>of</strong> our<br />

<strong>York</strong> <strong>St</strong>reet <strong>Church</strong> <strong>of</strong><br />

<strong>Christ</strong> Pastoral Care Team<br />

consisting <strong>of</strong> the Visitor Team and coordinator as<br />

well as our church service Welcomer Team leaders<br />

for <strong>2013</strong>. <strong>The</strong>se fellow congregation members are<br />

involved in the care, follow up and assistance to our<br />

congregation members and guests. We thank God<br />

for these committed people <strong>of</strong> faith in action.<br />

4.<br />

<strong>York</strong> <strong>St</strong>reet <strong>Church</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>Christ</strong> has a new<br />

Facebook page. We have been using the <strong>York</strong><br />

<strong>St</strong>reet <strong>Church</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>Christ</strong> Group Page (which we<br />

will be removing soon) but are transitioning to<br />

<strong>York</strong> <strong>St</strong>reet <strong>Church</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>Christ</strong> Facebook. We will<br />

endeavour to keep you up to date with what’s<br />

happening at the church as well as include other<br />

information, photos, comments and quotes. So<br />

please go to the link and like…<br />

http://facebook.com/yorkstc<strong>of</strong>c


A message from the new Youth Pastor<br />

Switch Youth! What an honour<br />

it is to be your Youth Pastor this<br />

year.<br />

I’m excited as I look forward to seeing God do<br />

some amazing things throughout the next 12<br />

months, as his Holy Spirit moves and as we come<br />

to know <strong>Christ</strong> in a deeper way.<br />

Firstly, I want to thank Tim and Blake for the strong<br />

impact and encouragement they have given me<br />

over the past 2 years <strong>of</strong> working here. It has been a<br />

blessing to be treated as part <strong>of</strong> the team from day<br />

one, and I am humbled by this responsibility I have<br />

been given.<br />

I pray this year will see the Youth Ministry continue<br />

to grow, not just in numbers, but in spiritual<br />

growth, lives changed, with more and more <strong>of</strong> the<br />

youth coming to know <strong>Christ</strong> on a personal level!<br />

Top 10 Questions with Aimee Heyhorn<br />

1. What is your favourite food?<br />

Prawns<br />

2. What is your favourite TV show or movie?<br />

<strong>The</strong> people who have seen my dvd collection<br />

will understand that I don’t just have one<br />

favourite.<br />

3. Who is in your family?<br />

Ross (dad), Robyn (mum), Ashley (older<br />

brother) and Adam (younger brother)<br />

4. Which church service do you attend?<br />

6pm<br />

5. How long have you been involved at <strong>York</strong><br />

<strong>St</strong>reet?<br />

Since the start <strong>of</strong> <strong>February</strong> last year<br />

6. What is your favourite Bible verse?<br />

Hebrews 11:1 “To have faith is to be sure <strong>of</strong><br />

things we hope for, to be certain <strong>of</strong> the things<br />

we cannot see.” I love the way that it<br />

describes faith. It acts as a reminder <strong>of</strong> how<br />

my faith should be; sure and certain.<br />

7. What do you do for leisure or what are<br />

your hobbies?<br />

Reading, walking with my dog, watching<br />

movies<br />

This year is going to be jam packed with heaps <strong>of</strong><br />

fun throughout each term, as well as times for us<br />

to come together, worship and talk about what it<br />

means for us as youth (I’m still one at heart) to live<br />

for <strong>Christ</strong> in all our lives.<br />

Some <strong>of</strong> these big events include: <strong>The</strong> Eastern<br />

Beach Trip on 2nd <strong>February</strong>, <strong>St</strong>ate Youth Games<br />

Launch Party on March 15th, <strong>St</strong>ate Youth Games<br />

7th-10th June and our annual<br />

Youth Camp happening<br />

November 15th – 17th down at<br />

Anglesea!!<br />

So all youth from Year 6-12 get<br />

along to Switch Youth <strong>2013</strong>, I’m<br />

hoping it may just change your<br />

life!<br />

Ben<br />

8. If you could change one thing in the world<br />

what would you change?<br />

That there would be no mosquitoes<br />

9. Who is your favourite Bible character, and<br />

why?<br />

Rahab. She is a great example <strong>of</strong> someone<br />

who has complete faith in God.<br />

10. What do you like the most about <strong>York</strong><br />

<strong>St</strong>reet?<br />

I like how welcoming the ministry team and<br />

congregation are. You can really see that <strong>York</strong><br />

<strong>St</strong>reet is very much like one big family.<br />

5.


<strong>February</strong> for Families<br />

3rd <strong>February</strong><br />

“Who is God?” Where did God come from?<br />

Psalm 90:1-2, Exodus 3:1-14<br />

10th <strong>February</strong><br />

“Who is God?” Who made you and why?<br />

Psalm 139:13-14, 1 Cor 1:9, Rev 21:3<br />

<strong>February</strong> 3rd is the kick <strong>of</strong>f date for the <strong>2013</strong> <strong>York</strong>ie<br />

Kids program AND the GRAND OPENING <strong>of</strong> the<br />

17th <strong>February</strong><br />

“Who is God?” How did God make the world?<br />

Genesis 1 – 2:1, Isaiah 45:18<br />

24th <strong>February</strong><br />

“Who is God?” Is there only one God?<br />

Mark 1:10-11, Isaiah 9:6<br />

6.<br />

Following the <strong>of</strong>ficial opening in the main service,<br />

we welcome all primary school age kids to join us in<br />

the new meeting rooms, Rooms 1 & 2, beside the<br />

<strong>York</strong>ie Play Centre. <strong>The</strong> preschool children will meet<br />

in the Kinder rooms under the leadership <strong>of</strong> Meg<br />

Bond and the Creche will continue to operate in the<br />

Creche room with Desley Hopkins.<br />

Please note that a <strong>York</strong>ie Kids information desk is<br />

set up in the foyer for all those new to <strong>York</strong> <strong>St</strong>reet.<br />

<strong>York</strong>ie Kids leaders will be available at the desk to<br />

assist and guide all newcomers and visitors.<br />

During the term the <strong>York</strong>ie Kids will be exploring<br />

some <strong>of</strong> the BIG questions <strong>of</strong> life beginning with,<br />

“Who is God?”<br />

Memory Verse:<br />

“Lord, from the very beginning<br />

you have been like a home to us.<br />

Before you created the world and<br />

the mountains were made,<br />

from the beginning to the end you<br />

are God.”<br />

Psalm 90: 1 – 2 (NIRV)<br />

DATES TO REMEMBER:<br />

<strong>February</strong> 3<br />

Official <strong>York</strong>ie Play Centre Opening!<br />

<strong>2013</strong> Kids’ <strong>Church</strong> begins<br />

March 3<br />

Family Picnic<br />

March 24<br />

End <strong>of</strong> term for Kids’ <strong>Church</strong><br />

March 29<br />

Good Friday<br />

March 31<br />

Easter Sunday


<strong>York</strong>ie Play Centre<br />

MOPS<br />

*NEWS***NEWS***NEWS***NEWS*<br />

Yes it’s true... January can be a bit quiet in Ballarat!<br />

With lots <strong>of</strong> people away on holidays or just kicking<br />

back, keeping cool and taking things a bit more<br />

slowly.<br />

However, not so here at <strong>York</strong>ie on Wednesdays...<br />

During January parents and grandparents, aunts<br />

and uncles have taken the opportunity to bring the<br />

kids along for a play in the new <strong>York</strong>ie Play Centre.<br />

Word is spreading and each week has been busier<br />

than the one before with adults able to relax, have<br />

a c<strong>of</strong>fee and a chat whilst the children play safely.<br />

What a great opportunity to connect with people!<br />

And that is exactly what the Play Centre is all about,<br />

people!<br />

Our Play Centre is a tool for us to use to help<br />

people meet Jesus, become like him and be<br />

equipped to impact the local and global community.<br />

We want to use the Play Centre to not only support<br />

our existing ministries to families, such as MOPS,<br />

Mainly Music, the work at Canadian Lead Primary<br />

School and our own Kinder, but to develop new<br />

ways <strong>of</strong> reaching out to our community with the<br />

love <strong>of</strong> Jesus. We want to see people connecting<br />

with each other, with the church (us) and, most <strong>of</strong><br />

all, with <strong>Christ</strong>. What a privilege we have... and a<br />

responsibility!<br />

Over the next few months we will be experimenting<br />

and implementing different ways we can use the<br />

<strong>York</strong>ie Play Centre for the Kingdom! We welcome<br />

your suggestions/new ideas. Please speak to or<br />

email Colette at Harrison.Colette@yorkst.com.au.<br />

And a BIG THANK YOU to Alan Pegg, and to<br />

Maree, for volunteering your time so the Play Centre<br />

could be open all day on Wednesdays. <br />

This year at MOPS we are diving into a new theme<br />

called “PLUNGE” focused on 1 Peter 4:8-11 “Most<br />

<strong>of</strong> all, love each other as if your life depended on it.<br />

Love makes up for practically anything. Be quick<br />

to give a meal to the hungry, a bed to the homeless<br />

– cheerfully. Be generous with the different things<br />

God gave you, passing them around so all get in<br />

on it: if words, let it be God’s words; if help, let it be<br />

God’s hearty help. That way, God’s bright presence<br />

will be evident in everything through Jesus, and he’ll<br />

get all the credit as the One mighty in everything –<br />

encores to the end <strong>of</strong> time. Oh, yes!” (<strong>The</strong> Message)<br />

<strong>The</strong> emphasis is on relationships and hope<br />

and as a MOPS team we aim to provide an<br />

atmosphere where all areas <strong>of</strong> relationships can be<br />

strengthened. We hope to provide MOPS mums<br />

with encouragement, knowledge and confidence in<br />

their mothering journey and to realise that the most<br />

important relationship they can know is with Jesus<br />

<strong>Christ</strong>.<br />

We have some amazing topics and events planned<br />

for this year based on our PLUNGE theme which<br />

we hope will cover the emotional, physical and<br />

spiritual needs <strong>of</strong> each mum and it is our privilege to<br />

serve God in this way. We have an amazing group<br />

<strong>of</strong> <strong>Christ</strong>ian mums on team who are already doing<br />

an incredible job to make this year at MOPS one to<br />

remember.<br />

As a church please be praying for our team and our<br />

mentors as we put together our program this year.<br />

Pray for our carers who volunteer their time each<br />

fortnight and pray that the MOPS ministry here at<br />

<strong>York</strong> <strong>St</strong>reet continues to work in the lives <strong>of</strong> all the<br />

mothers <strong>of</strong> pre-schoolers we encounter.<br />

Thank you for your support,<br />

Jenny Fulcher<br />

7.


Top 10 Questions with Colette Harrison<br />

“but those who hope in<br />

the LORD will renew their<br />

strength. <strong>The</strong>y will soar on<br />

wings like eagles; they will<br />

run and not grow weary, they<br />

will walk and not be faint.”<br />

Isaiah 40:31<br />

8.<br />

1. What is your favourite food?<br />

Freshly baked bread, oh and cheese... Yum!<br />

2. What is your favourite TV show or movie?<br />

Just saw Les Misérables, was my favourite<br />

musical and is now my favourite movie!<br />

3. Who is in your family?<br />

My handsome husband Greg, two unique<br />

and awesome children Ben (25), Charlotte<br />

(23), my lovely Mum, Pip (<strong>of</strong> undisclosed age)<br />

and, in <strong>2013</strong>, a son-in-law, Andrew!<br />

4. Which church service do you attend?<br />

8.45am and 10.30am<br />

5. How long have you been involved at <strong>York</strong><br />

<strong>St</strong>reet?<br />

Since August 2012 [Colette moved from<br />

Melbourne and began working as our<br />

Children’s Pastor at this time.]<br />

6. What is your favourite Bible verse?<br />

So many favourites... so difficult to choose<br />

but I particularly love Isaiah 40:31<br />

“but those who hope in the LORD will renew<br />

their strength. <strong>The</strong>y will soar on wings like<br />

eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they<br />

will walk and not be faint.”<br />

7. What do you do for leisure or what are<br />

your hobbies?<br />

I love being active and enjoying God’s beautiful<br />

creation... and sharing a good c<strong>of</strong>fee <strong>of</strong><br />

course!<br />

8. If you could change one thing in the world<br />

what would you change?<br />

It’s a rather big one... that all people would<br />

hear, know and respond to the love <strong>of</strong> God<br />

demonstrated on the cross!<br />

9. Who is your favourite Bible character, and<br />

why?<br />

Have to say I love Peter! A spontaneous,<br />

outspoken, optimistic, self-reliant, hotheaded,<br />

impetuous, tactless at times,<br />

cowardly, bo<strong>of</strong>head!!! How <strong>of</strong>ten does God<br />

chose the most unlikely <strong>of</strong> people (like you<br />

and me) to enter into a unique personal<br />

relationship with him and to further his<br />

purposes! I love how God transformed his<br />

weakness into strength, through the work <strong>of</strong><br />

the Holy Spirit...Wow!<br />

10. What do you like the most about <strong>York</strong><br />

<strong>St</strong>reet?<br />

<strong>The</strong> people <strong>of</strong> course... oh and Polly’s c<strong>of</strong>fee!<br />

Kids Hope Training<br />

Wednesday 6th <strong>February</strong><br />

At Canadian Lead Primary School<br />

Otway <strong>St</strong>reet South<br />

9:10 am (9:20 start) – finish by 3pm<br />

BYO Lunch, Morning tea provided<br />

Contact Chris Barlow for further<br />

details


MUSIC ALL IN<br />

All musicians, vocalists,<br />

tech/data/sound people<br />

– PLEASE ATTEND! We<br />

are having an ALL IN<br />

Sunday 3 Feb 1-4pm<br />

where all people who<br />

are involved in music<br />

ministry gather together<br />

as we look to the new<br />

year!<br />

<strong>The</strong>re will be a BBQ<br />

lunch after the 10.30am<br />

service. You are<br />

welcome to join us for<br />

the BBQ before the<br />

ALL IN.<br />

Position Vacant<br />

<strong>York</strong> <strong>St</strong>reet <strong>Church</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>Christ</strong><br />

Music & Creative Ministries<br />

2 days per week<br />

A detailed job and person specification is available from the <strong>Church</strong> Office<br />

<strong>of</strong>fice@yorkst.com.au or ph: 03 5331 1079<br />

Applications close 5pm Monday 4 th March, <strong>2013</strong><br />

Please send applications to:<br />

Tim Clark, Senior Pastor<br />

410 <strong>York</strong> <strong>St</strong>, Ballarat, Vic, 3350<br />

<strong>of</strong>fice@yorkst.com.au<br />

Careforce Lifekeys - Term 1, <strong>2013</strong> - Courses<br />

Search For Life<br />

Tuesdays - 5 <strong>February</strong>-9 April<br />

7:30pm-10pm<br />

Cost $50 which includes all course material and tea/c<strong>of</strong>fee<br />

Everyone needs to understand the power <strong>of</strong> our internal cry for acceptance, value and belonging.<br />

Everyone needs to understand the cause <strong>of</strong> our most basic struggles and find a solution to them. Without<br />

insight and answers to the human dilemma individuals resort to inadequate and destructive patterns <strong>of</strong><br />

behaviour to address feelings <strong>of</strong> low self esteem, inadequacy, emptiness and insecurity. This program<br />

identifies the cause <strong>of</strong> so many human tensions and introduces participants to the healing power <strong>of</strong> truth in<br />

a caring and safe environment.<br />

Previous Participants’ Feedback<br />

‘I’ve been a <strong>Christ</strong>ian for four years but feel only now through this course do I actually understand the Good<br />

News.”<br />

“I finally understand why I act the way I do!”<br />

“A real eye opener! <strong>The</strong> re-awakening <strong>of</strong> the Holy Spirit’s power in my life.”<br />

“Great! And to unchurched people it would come across as: Pastor, you’re real and not false, I can stay<br />

and listen without feeling Bible-bashed, but not only that, I can see how much Jesus cares.”<br />

Applications are now available at the information desk and close on Sunday 27 January, <strong>2013</strong>. Please<br />

speak to Blake Moore for further information.<br />

9.


Compassion in Times <strong>of</strong> Crisis<br />

CHEPSTOWE CARNGHAM<br />

BUSH FIRE UPDATE<br />

During the days <strong>of</strong> 8 January to<br />

15 January <strong>2013</strong>, the Ballarat<br />

Victorian Council <strong>of</strong> <strong>Church</strong>es<br />

(VCC) Emergencies Ministry<br />

Ballarat Area Team has been<br />

involved in Personal Support<br />

activities within our communities<br />

in response to the Chepstowe<br />

Carngham Bush Fire.<br />

Members <strong>of</strong> the Ballarat team were deployed at<br />

short notice on Tuesday evening 8 January to<br />

provide Personal Support activities on behalf <strong>of</strong> the<br />

Ballarat City Council/Pyrenees Shire at the Ballarat<br />

Relief Centre for bush fire evacuees. Wednesday<br />

saw two team members dispatched to Beaufort to<br />

assist with Pyrenees Shire Recovery Teams whilst<br />

another team <strong>of</strong> two attended the CFA Public<br />

Meeting at Snake Valley Hall to provide Personal<br />

Support to bush fire victims and residents.<br />

Wednesday evening we were asked by the<br />

Department <strong>of</strong> Human Services (DHS) Emergency<br />

Management Coordinator Grampians Region to<br />

provide two Personal Support workers per day<br />

for at least three days to man the Snake Valley<br />

Temporary Recovery Office and to provide personal<br />

support to residents attending the <strong>of</strong>fice as part <strong>of</strong><br />

the assistance provided by the Pyrenees Shire and<br />

DHS. We had team members at Snake Valley until<br />

completion <strong>of</strong> this tasking on Tuesday 15 January<br />

<strong>2013</strong>.<br />

VCC Emergencies Ministry (VCC EM) Ballarat Team<br />

has received feedback from the DHS Grampians<br />

Emergency Manager that he was very impressed<br />

with the efforts, performance and quality <strong>of</strong> the<br />

people in the VCC EM Ballarat team over the past<br />

days <strong>of</strong> service in the Relief Centre and Recovery<br />

functions. <strong>The</strong> Victorian <strong>St</strong>ate Manager for VCC EM<br />

has also <strong>of</strong>fered his congratulations to the team.<br />

<strong>The</strong>se comments have been passed on to the VCC<br />

EM Ballarat team members.<br />

What’s next? Well, WE NEED YOU! To join us in this<br />

ministry <strong>of</strong> being the Master’s hands and feet in the<br />

Emergency Space to assist our communities when<br />

they are involved in an emergency.<br />

COME AND JOIN US!<br />

We are conducting VCC EM Personal Support<br />

Accreditation Training here at <strong>York</strong> <strong>St</strong> <strong>Church</strong> <strong>of</strong><br />

<strong>Christ</strong> as follows:<br />

Dates: Friday 15 <strong>February</strong> &<br />

Saturday 16 <strong>February</strong> <strong>2013</strong><br />

Time:<br />

9.30am to 4.30pm<br />

Contact: Rob Petty on 0407 891 281<br />

or the <strong>York</strong> <strong>St</strong> <strong>Church</strong> Office 5331 1079.<br />

<strong>The</strong> aim <strong>of</strong> Personal Support is to make contact with affected individuals and communities and to provide<br />

information, reconnect affected persons with social supports, and support the emotional, psychological<br />

and spiritual recovery <strong>of</strong> those affected.<br />

Eureka Men’s Ministry<br />

10.<br />

COME ON MATE!<br />

WE CAN DO IT TOGETHER<br />

Coming Soon<br />

Fathered by God Series<br />

Learning, Friendship, Fun, Food<br />

See Rob Petty 0407 891 281


Kindgom Assignment Update<br />

When I was entrusted with God’s $100 I considered<br />

what my sphere <strong>of</strong> influence is. As I had started a<br />

new job in Colac in 2012, my thoughts turned to<br />

what was possible<br />

there. Trinity College<br />

Colac is a co-ed<br />

Catholic secondary<br />

college with a low<br />

comparative socioeconomic<br />

rating.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re is a very strong<br />

Social Justice group<br />

operating in the<br />

school and they hold regular fund-raising activities.<br />

In May, the Social Justice group was encouraging<br />

college support for the Live Below <strong>The</strong> Line Appeal.<br />

After prayerful consideration I spoke with<br />

the Social Justice Coordinator, the Director<br />

<strong>of</strong> Faith and Mission and the leader <strong>of</strong> the<br />

<strong>St</strong>udent Representative Council and explained<br />

the Kingdom Assignment. <strong>The</strong>y were very<br />

overwhelmed when I explained that $100<br />

<strong>of</strong> God’s money would be donated to assist<br />

the cause, provided that the money grew<br />

and the message <strong>of</strong> God’s love was spread.<br />

<strong>The</strong> students on the SRC and Social Justice<br />

committees knew why the $100 was donated.<br />

On the Live Below <strong>The</strong> Line Day at school,<br />

the 760 students came dressed in OP Shop<br />

clothes. Soup with a bread roll was the only<br />

food sold from the canteen at both recess and<br />

lunch times. This was so that the students<br />

would understand that millions <strong>of</strong> people have<br />

a lack <strong>of</strong> choice and <strong>of</strong>ten go through their<br />

lives hungry.<br />

We wrote a letter to the provider <strong>of</strong> the soup<br />

powder, explaining that $100 was being<br />

donated to pay for the soup powder, so that<br />

the sales <strong>of</strong> the soup would be clear pr<strong>of</strong>it to<br />

be donated to the rural Papua New Guinea<br />

village <strong>of</strong> Yangis. This community was then<br />

able to re-open their primary school and<br />

build a secondary school for children. It is<br />

well known that educating the females in<br />

developing countries contributes significantly<br />

to the breaking <strong>of</strong> the cycle <strong>of</strong> poverty.<br />

<strong>The</strong> food company added to the cause by<br />

donating additional soup powder to be used on and<br />

beyond the Live Below <strong>The</strong> Line Day.<br />

Sales <strong>of</strong> the soup contributed to raising $1,500<br />

on the day and left<br />

over soup powder<br />

continued to be<br />

made up and sold<br />

at the canteen for<br />

several months and<br />

donated back into<br />

the Social Justice<br />

funds.<br />

<strong>The</strong>y were very overwhelmed when I<br />

explained that $100 <strong>of</strong> God’s money<br />

would be donated to assist the cause,<br />

provided that the money grew and the<br />

message <strong>of</strong> God’s love was spread.<br />

It is difficult to give an exact figure for how much the<br />

$100 was increased by, but it was at least four-fold.<br />

Regards, Fiona Bell<br />

11.


What’s Happening<br />

Pre-Schoolers<br />

Children<br />

<strong>York</strong>ie Kids operates during our<br />

10.30am service during school<br />

terms.<br />

Please see page 6 for more<br />

information about topics for<br />

<strong>February</strong>.<br />

<strong>The</strong> first MOPS session for <strong>2013</strong><br />

will be held on Wednesday 13th<br />

<strong>February</strong> from 9.15am-11.30am.<br />

Cost is $5 each session (less for<br />

health care card holders) and the<br />

first time is free.<br />

Youth<br />

New mums are always welcome!<br />

Mainly Music is on Thursday<br />

mornings during school terms<br />

from 10.30am-11.30am.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re are information brochures<br />

available on the information desk.<br />

Alternatively you can speak to<br />

Brenda, Alisa, Kirsty or Colette<br />

for more information.<br />

If you are interested in becoming<br />

involved in this ministry please<br />

speak to Brenda Peralta or<br />

contact Colette at the church<br />

<strong>of</strong>fice.<br />

12.<br />

WILDSIDE & DETOUR<br />

Saturday 2nd <strong>February</strong><br />

Eastern Beach<br />

Cost $20 for transport and food<br />

RSVP essential<br />

Friday 15th <strong>February</strong><br />

Brown Hill Pool<br />

Cost $5<br />

4pm-8pm<br />

YEAR 7 & 8 GIRLS<br />

More details coming soon...<br />

YEAR 9 & 10 GIRLS<br />

More details coming soon...<br />

LADS SUNDAY ARVO GROUP<br />

(Grade 6 - Year 10 Lads)<br />

Sundays 10th & 24th <strong>February</strong><br />

4pm @ <strong>York</strong>ie<br />

Cost $3 (includes tea)<br />

VCE GROUP<br />

23 Manneville <strong>St</strong>reet, Wendouree<br />

More details to come...


Music<br />

What’s Happening<br />

Young Adults Prime Time (age 55+)<br />

Musicians<br />

More details coming soon...<br />

Prayer<br />

Join us on Monday 25th<br />

<strong>February</strong> for our monthly night<br />

<strong>of</strong> prayer and worship starting at<br />

7.30pm.<br />

Once again there will be two<br />

ways <strong>of</strong> praying on the night.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re will be an opportunity to<br />

“Be <strong>St</strong>ill” and pray in quiet space<br />

with others, and there will be an<br />

opportunity to sing praises to<br />

God in worship and prayer.<br />

This will be an awesome night <strong>of</strong><br />

drawing near to God. Plan today<br />

to be there.<br />

Prime Timers will enjoy a meal<br />

at <strong>York</strong> <strong>St</strong>reet <strong>Church</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>Christ</strong><br />

on Tuesday 26th <strong>February</strong>. <strong>The</strong><br />

lunch will begin at 12.30pm.<br />

Please bring a salad to share.<br />

All welcome.<br />

Handicrafts<br />

ART AND CRAFT COMPANY<br />

Art and Craft Company are a<br />

group <strong>of</strong> craft-loving people who<br />

meet for a day <strong>of</strong> fun, fellowship<br />

and craft each Friday at the<br />

church from 10am until 2pm.<br />

Please see Jan or Harold Howlett<br />

for more information.<br />

Men<br />

Musicians - please<br />

note!<br />

If you are unable to fulfil your role<br />

on the roster please contact the<br />

person leading that day. Any<br />

changes to the roster will be<br />

updated online and can be found<br />

on the website.<br />

WEDNESDAY:<br />

• 7pm -<br />

SUNDAY:<br />

• 8am -<br />

• 4pm -<br />

REHEARSAL FOR<br />

THE 10:30 SERVICE*<br />

REHEARSAL FOR<br />

THE 8:45 SERVICE*<br />

REHEARSAL FOR<br />

THE 6pm SERVICE<br />

(*EXCEPT VAL’S TEAMS<br />

WHO REHEARSE ON THE<br />

WEDNESDAY NIGHT AT<br />

8.30PM)<br />

MMMA<br />

More Mature Monday Afternoons<br />

(MMMA) will be held @ <strong>York</strong>ie<br />

from 1.30pm to 2.45pm during<br />

<strong>February</strong> as follows:<br />

Monday 4th <strong>February</strong><br />

Games afternoon - Scrabble,<br />

Word Bluff<br />

Monday 18th <strong>February</strong><br />

Prayer<br />

Bible <strong>St</strong>udy (John 9 - A blind<br />

beggar)<br />

Coming Soon<br />

Fathered by God Series<br />

Learning, Friendship, Fun, Food<br />

See Rob Petty 0407 891 281<br />

MUSIC ALL IN<br />

All musicians, vocalists, tech/<br />

data/sound people – PLEASE<br />

ATTEND! We are having an ALL<br />

IN Sunday 3 Feb 1-4pm where<br />

all people who are involved in<br />

music ministry gather together as<br />

we look to the new year!<br />

<strong>The</strong>re will be a BBQ lunch after<br />

the 10.30am service. You are<br />

welcome to join us for the BBQ<br />

before the ALL IN.<br />

13.


<strong>February</strong> 2012<br />

Sunday Monday Tuesday Wednesday<br />

3<br />

Launch the Year<br />

Official opening <strong>of</strong> the<br />

<strong>York</strong>ie Play Centre<br />

Commissioning <strong>of</strong> the<br />

Pastoral Care Team<br />

Music All In<br />

4<br />

MMMA<br />

5<br />

Careforce Lifekeys<br />

6<br />

Worship Practice<br />

10<br />

11<br />

12<br />

13<br />

Baggage <strong>of</strong> Fear and<br />

Anxiety<br />

Lads’ Sunday Arvo Group<br />

Youth Takeover Service<br />

@ 6pm<br />

Elders’ Meeting<br />

Careforce Lifekeys<br />

OFFICE CLOSED<br />

MOPS<br />

Worship Practice<br />

17<br />

18<br />

19<br />

20<br />

Baggage <strong>of</strong> Bitterness<br />

and Anger<br />

MMMA<br />

Kirralee <strong>Church</strong> Service<br />

Worship Practice<br />

Food Sunday<br />

Careforce Lifekeys<br />

24<br />

25<br />

26<br />

27<br />

Baggage <strong>of</strong> Guilt and<br />

Choices<br />

Prayer and Worship Night<br />

Prime Time Lunch<br />

MOPS<br />

Lads’ Sunday Arvo Group<br />

Elders’ Meeting<br />

Careforce Lifekeys<br />

Worship Practice<br />

14.<br />

DIRECT DEBIT FORMS AND OFFERING ENVELOPES AVAILABLE<br />

To assist you in your tithing and giving to the work <strong>of</strong> the Kingdom we have direct debit<br />

available along with new financial year <strong>of</strong>fering envelopes. As a church we encourage you to<br />

consider using either <strong>of</strong> these resources to assist you in your tithing. A brochure is available<br />

at the information desk explaining how to use the direct debit option. <strong>The</strong> <strong>of</strong>fering envelopes<br />

are also available on the information desk in the church foyer.


Thursday Friday Saturday<br />

5 16<br />

72<br />

7<br />

Mainly Music<br />

14<br />

Mainly Music<br />

21<br />

Mainly Music<br />

28<br />

Mainly Music<br />

Art & Craft Group<br />

8<br />

Art & Craft Group<br />

15<br />

Art & Craft Group<br />

Emergencies Ministry<br />

Training<br />

Switch Youth @ Brown<br />

Hill Pool<br />

22<br />

Art & Craft Group<br />

Switch Youth @ Eastern<br />

Beach<br />

12 9<br />

13 16<br />

Emergencies Ministry<br />

Training<br />

14 23<br />

19<br />

Need More<br />

Info?<br />

Resource Desk/<br />

Information Boards<br />

Located at the back <strong>of</strong><br />

the auditorium you will<br />

find extra information<br />

about many <strong>of</strong> the<br />

upcoming events.<br />

www.yorkst.com.au<br />

Our website is your<br />

online resource for up<br />

to date information.<br />

Contact us<br />

Call the <strong>of</strong>fice on 5331<br />

1079 between 9am-<br />

3pm or email us at<br />

<strong>of</strong>fice@yorkst.com.au<br />

for more information.<br />

Regular Service<br />

Times<br />

Traditional Service @<br />

8.45am<br />

Family Service<br />

(including <strong>York</strong>ie Kids)<br />

@ 10.30am<br />

Worship Service @<br />

6pm<br />

FOOD SUNDAY<br />

will be held Sunday 17th <strong>February</strong><br />

Donations <strong>of</strong> non-perishable food items are gratefully<br />

received.<br />

Just drop them into the shopping trolley in the foyer.<br />

15.


Missions<br />

<strong>The</strong>n Jesus came to them and said, “All authority in heaven and on earth has been<br />

given to me. <strong>The</strong>refore go and make disciples <strong>of</strong> all nations, baptizing them in the<br />

name <strong>of</strong> the Father and <strong>of</strong> the Son and <strong>of</strong> the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey<br />

everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end<br />

<strong>of</strong> the age.” Matthew 28:18-20<br />

Welcome to World Missions! God has a part for you to play in His mission to spread<br />

the hope <strong>of</strong> the Gospel and help build His <strong>Church</strong> world-wide. When you share the<br />

hope <strong>of</strong> the Gospel, when you pray, provide financial support, encourage through<br />

correspondence or provision, or work to plant churches, you are playing your part in<br />

world mission and the great commission.<br />

ANDY & RACHEL - INDIA<br />

Happy New Year! We just thought we would write<br />

to you now that we are at the 6 month mark <strong>of</strong><br />

our time in India to let you know how we are going<br />

and what we have encountered in our time here.<br />

Our first month was full on as we adapted to the<br />

change, the culture and the monsoon. At the same<br />

time we felt wonderfully welcomed by Woodstock<br />

and they really helped to make our transition a<br />

lot smoother. Dealing with tummy bugs and the<br />

monsoon mold at the same time was definitely a<br />

challenge.<br />

nineteen consists <strong>of</strong> four <strong>Christ</strong>ians (one Catholic),<br />

two Buddhists, three Sikhs, nine Hindus and one<br />

16.<br />

Working at Woodstock has been great. I simply<br />

cannot relate to you enough about what an<br />

amazing ministry opportunity we have here. I know<br />

that in our mission statement we outlined what<br />

we would be doing here at the school, but our<br />

expectations have been surpassed! My class <strong>of</strong>


agnostic. Many <strong>of</strong> these kids come from highly<br />

influential families from all over India and other parts<br />

<strong>of</strong> Asia. I get to share the bible with them every<br />

day! On Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays I teach<br />

them Religious Education and this is very much<br />

<strong>Christ</strong>ian based. Over the last semester I have been<br />

able to share with them how God has made each<br />

one <strong>of</strong> us and given us gifts and talents that we can<br />

use for His glory and more recently how the bible<br />

reveals to us God’s plan for humanity. Awesome<br />

stuff! <strong>The</strong> best part is that they are super receptive.<br />

A few in particular have had their hearts prompted<br />

and s<strong>of</strong>tened by God.<br />

Rach will be teaching Grade 6 R.E. next<br />

semester which is a huge blessing and another<br />

wonderful ministry opportunity. She has also<br />

been coordinating and supervising Woodstock’s<br />

Samvedna Program which is a disability project<br />

that Nathan helped to set up in the area. It involves<br />

Rach taking students out to poor villages and<br />

helping disabled kids with activities, occupational<br />

therapy and games. <strong>The</strong> students are from<br />

both <strong>Christ</strong>ian and non-<strong>Christ</strong>ian homes and for<br />

many it is their first hands-on experience <strong>of</strong> both<br />

poverty and disability. It is a real faith in action<br />

program and it is all based on the compassion<br />

and empathy <strong>of</strong> Jesus. After each session the<br />

students reflect on their time and study a bible<br />

passage to help them understand how God loves<br />

ALL people and why he requires us to look after<br />

these precious people. Rach has also made some<br />

great relationships with other “hillside mums” (all her<br />

MOPS experience coming in very handy!) and has<br />

had some great conversations with some who are<br />

really seeking. Please pray that these relationships<br />

will be strengthened and that these ladies will be<br />

responsive to the Good News that Rach shares<br />

with them.<br />

As you may recall the other aspect to our ministry<br />

is linking up with small <strong>Christ</strong>ian schools in the<br />

Himalayan foothills and providing teaching training<br />

and support for them. <strong>The</strong>se <strong>Christ</strong>ian schools are<br />

attractive to many families because they provide<br />

an “English Medium” education. This means that<br />

even some <strong>of</strong> the most staunchly Hindu parents are<br />

willing to send their kids to these schools that are<br />

the only <strong>Christ</strong>ian witness in these communities.<br />

Two weeks ago we were able to meet up with<br />

one <strong>of</strong> these schools in a place called Uttarkashi<br />

to scope out needs and assess what we might<br />

be able to contribute. <strong>The</strong> result: a definite<br />

opportunity to do some teacher training next year!<br />

We also met up with a principal, Brother Francis<br />

<strong>of</strong> Sparsh Academy, who has undergone a lot <strong>of</strong><br />

persecution from elements <strong>of</strong> the community that<br />

he is witnessing to. He is also very keen for us to<br />

do some work with his staff, although he is mindful<br />

<strong>of</strong> further persecution if it is seen that the white<br />

<strong>Christ</strong>ians have come out to help “<strong>Christ</strong>ianise” the<br />

students. Pray for Francis and his ministry.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re are a few more ministry opportunities that we<br />

hope to get involved with in the New Year, including<br />

a Compassion project in Dehradun (capital city <strong>of</strong><br />

our state, about an hour away) that provides food,<br />

after school care and tuition for slum kids. It would<br />

be great if some <strong>York</strong>ie people could get involved<br />

in sponsoring more <strong>of</strong> these kids from this slum<br />

through Compassion!<br />

As a family we are travelling along really well. We<br />

have been so blessed to have had visits from TJ<br />

(Tamara Jolly) and Mel Hill over the last month!<br />

Mel has been awesome – such a great babysitter<br />

and the kids (especially Levi) adore her. Josh and<br />

Samuel are both enjoying school, Samuel especially<br />

because he has a lot <strong>of</strong> other boys in his class with<br />

whom he has become great mates. Joshy only has<br />

two other boys in his class and they are not really<br />

kindred spirits which is hard for him. We are praying<br />

for some more boys <strong>of</strong> like mind to join his class<br />

next year. Levi just continues on his merry way and<br />

is the biggest celebrity in the school.<br />

We have enjoyed reading “<strong>The</strong> <strong>Vine</strong>” and it is great<br />

to see the playground up and in use! <strong>The</strong> boys will<br />

definitely enjoy playing on it when we come back<br />

for <strong>Christ</strong>mas this time next year. Wishing you all<br />

a (belated) Merry <strong>Christ</strong>mas and a wonderful New<br />

Year filled with God’s grace and favour. <strong>St</strong>ay in<br />

touch!<br />

Love from,<br />

<strong>The</strong> Francis Family.<br />

17.


MEL HILL<br />

I have just returned from my adventures to lndia and Thailand. What an absolute<br />

blessing it was to spend 5 weeks with Andy, Rachel and their family. <strong>The</strong>y both<br />

definitely made my experiences so much easier and more encouraging. <strong>The</strong>y have<br />

also inspired me so much for future mission trips (longer term ones potentially).<br />

So my time away was different from what I had<br />

expected. My plan was to head over to lndia and<br />

be able to use my nursing skills in some practical<br />

ways; but never having been in a developing<br />

country or on a short term mission trip before<br />

I didn’t really know what to expect. lndia was<br />

crazy. <strong>The</strong>re were people everywhere. It was dirty<br />

and there were absolutely NO road rules! Luckily<br />

first impressions are not always fully true. Once<br />

I met Andy at the airport and we headed up to<br />

Mussoorie my feelings for the country began to<br />

change. I began to absolutely love it and really<br />

began to have a heart for my brothers and sisters<br />

there. We headed out to Uttakashi (a village about<br />

5 hours drive away) and spent some time at the<br />

HIM <strong>Christ</strong>ian Academy. We were even honoured<br />

guests at their <strong>Christ</strong>mas celebration concert. This<br />

was such an amazing experience. Being able to<br />

capture the dream for these children, to watch<br />

them learn and dance and share the good news <strong>of</strong><br />

Jesus was so beautiful!<br />

I spent some time checking out the local hospital<br />

in Mussoorie (LCH) too. <strong>The</strong> thing that struck me<br />

most about this hospital was their incredible love for<br />

God and how they used that in their care. <strong>The</strong>y held<br />

a worship service at the beginning <strong>of</strong> the day, then<br />

went around and sung to the patients, then prayed<br />

for them. This is amazing! My best experience <strong>of</strong><br />

a hospital yet! This is something that would never<br />

happen in a hospital in Melbourne (where I will<br />

be working this year) and something that l found<br />

incredibly powerful and special! I can’t wait to one<br />

day be part <strong>of</strong> a place that nurses like this!<br />

I was also able to head out to a few villages to<br />

spend time with a local Sampan health worker and<br />

with an O.T. (Melinda). <strong>The</strong>se were both incredible<br />

experiences. This was the place that broke my<br />

heart. Seeing these families in so much need and<br />

hearing their incredible stories then having to just<br />

walk away because there was nothing that I could<br />

do then and there. It’s also so amazing to see their<br />

incredible generosity, they have so little yet they give<br />

so much!<br />

I changed my flights at the last minute and headed<br />

to Thailand to help out with the kids’ program at<br />

the Pioneers conference. This was an incredible<br />

blessing to me. I was able to meet some amazing<br />

people, such servant hearts and so ready and<br />

willing to give it all for God! So inspiring and<br />

encouraging! I was overwhelmingly blessed<br />

by being able to serve and love these beautiful<br />

children! <strong>The</strong>se friends will remain in my prayers<br />

and one day (soon I hope) I will be able to visit them<br />

again, to encourage and support them. I was able<br />

to spend some time just relaxing and soaking up<br />

God, soaking up the environment that I was in and<br />

just continuing to be blessed by his enormous and<br />

amazing art work that surrounded me!<br />

Be blessed,<br />

Melanie Hill<br />

Overseas Mission <strong>of</strong>fering for <strong>February</strong> (placed in the Missions envelopes) will go<br />

towards the work <strong>of</strong> the Francis Family unless otherwise stated.<br />

18.<br />

Thank you for your valuable contribution to the work <strong>of</strong> the Francis Family and for<br />

partnering with those from <strong>York</strong> <strong>St</strong>reet <strong>Church</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>Christ</strong> serving overseas.


BAYNES: Benin, Africa<br />

Hello Folks!<br />

Well a lot has been happening...<br />

<strong>The</strong> CFL (Liwietari Vocational Centre) started<br />

their school year in October. I (Johann) have<br />

been teaching English weekly, with discipleship/<br />

biblical courses in rotation with two others, my dad<br />

Gordon, and Pastor Rene. <strong>The</strong>re are 23 students<br />

learning Engineering and Construction alongside<br />

biblical studies. I enjoy the students, especially the<br />

3rd/4th year group whom I know. <strong>The</strong> others are<br />

new to me and seem quite enthusiastic. Among the<br />

first year group for biblical studies are two Muslim<br />

students, which has been quite interesting! Heini,<br />

the director <strong>of</strong> the CFL, has taken on board a few<br />

Catholic and Muslim students (all are required<br />

to take biblical studies). This has made it harder<br />

in some aspects as we cannot teach on certain<br />

subjects in depth, but it gives students a great<br />

opportunity to go through the Bible and share the<br />

gospel with those who don’t know Jesus, or who<br />

believe that Mary is our intercessor instead <strong>of</strong> <strong>Christ</strong><br />

(Catholicism in Benin is also very syncretistic).<br />

However we’ll see how it works out having non-<br />

<strong>Christ</strong>ian students and it hopefully won’t be a<br />

source <strong>of</strong> contention in the work place, or be a<br />

point <strong>of</strong> discouragement for new believers (i.e.<br />

a Muslim becoming a <strong>Christ</strong>ian in front <strong>of</strong> other<br />

Muslims can be a challenge).<br />

I have also been involved in overseeing the work<br />

program for the CL (Liwietari Centre). <strong>The</strong> work<br />

program includes maintenance, construction, field<br />

work, tree planting (yes we are still planting trees,<br />

every year!) and beautification <strong>of</strong> the Centre. I have<br />

also been involved with evangelism and preparing<br />

for seminars next year. Meanwhile Kristie is enjoying<br />

her role as mother and wife. Most days she is with<br />

the children, her ministry is vital as she teaches the<br />

boys and nourishes us with her faith in the Lord and<br />

yummy home baked pies! She still has moments<br />

<strong>of</strong> adjustment here but has found her time here<br />

much more enjoyable especially now that she can<br />

communicate more in French and has another<br />

missionary lady friend with whom she can talk<br />

about similar things. (<strong>The</strong>re is one other missionary<br />

family in our town with 3 young children nearly all<br />

the same ages as our boys.) In the photo Kristie is<br />

sitting with Priscille, who is a 13 year old new Mum<br />

who comes to visit with her baby. <strong>The</strong> boys are also<br />

doing well although recently they all had a fever but<br />

recovered quickly! We thank the Lord that they have<br />

had good health and are growing well!<br />

Some things have been stirring in my heart and<br />

also stirring around us. You may have heard <strong>of</strong><br />

problems in northern Nigeria. Well Benin is right<br />

next door and we live in the North. <strong>The</strong>re is a very<br />

real concern that some <strong>of</strong> these Muslim extremists<br />

and the occasional <strong>Christ</strong>ian agitator will come<br />

and cause serious problems. (As a centre we are<br />

preparing for some seminars to teach <strong>Christ</strong>ians<br />

what to do during persecution.)<br />

Pray for our protection from those who would seek<br />

trouble with us. Pray for us, as we have recently<br />

had some issues with theft. Pray that we would be<br />

alive, alert, awake and enthusiastic for the Lord!<br />

For those <strong>of</strong> you unsure <strong>of</strong> your way <strong>of</strong> life, you feel<br />

empty where you are at, maybe it’s time to let go<br />

and start serving the Lord. <strong>The</strong> harvest is great but<br />

the workers are few! <strong>The</strong> Lord knows your fears<br />

but he will never leave you nor forsake you. And<br />

whatever we leave behind because <strong>of</strong> the Lord,<br />

how much more will we gain in this life and the life<br />

to come (Mathew 19:29).<br />

Well our greatest love and hopes for all <strong>of</strong> you. May<br />

God bless you as you seek to follow Him.<br />

Love from the Bayne Family - Johann, Kristie,<br />

Enoch, Zion and <strong>St</strong>efan.<br />

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Missions continued...<br />

Going out:<br />

Liam O’Brien:<br />

Left Thursday 10th January for his year-long<br />

involvement with the Submerge course with Urban<br />

Neighbours <strong>of</strong> Hope (UNOH). UNOH is partnered<br />

by <strong>Church</strong>es <strong>of</strong> <strong>Christ</strong>. UNOH workers covenant<br />

with God and each other to live out their passion<br />

for loving God and neighbours. <strong>The</strong>y focus on<br />

releasing neighbourhoods from urban poverty and<br />

grow through equipping each other, neighbours and<br />

the broader church to radically follow Jesus and join<br />

God’s Kingdom. <strong>The</strong>y seek to live amongst, love<br />

and inspire those facing poverty to be all they can<br />

be in <strong>Christ</strong>.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Bartlett Family:<br />

Left for Lilongwe, Malawi on Monday 14th January<br />

to continue their work with Ears Inc.<br />

Kerry Jenkins:<br />

Left Boxing Day for Cambodia with YWAM: Youth<br />

With A Mission.<br />

Returned:<br />

Bec Howlett:<br />

We welcome Bec home from her 6 month mission<br />

trip with Hands at Work in Africa. We hope to have<br />

Bec share some <strong>of</strong> her African experience with us<br />

very soon.<br />

Nathan Grills:<br />

Returned from yet another stint in India to share<br />

<strong>Christ</strong>mas with his family here in Ballarat.<br />

Mel Hill:<br />

Returned from spending time with Nathan Grills, the<br />

Francis Family and Sampan in India.<br />

Lydeamore Family:<br />

Returned to Atherton in Northern Queensland,<br />

continuing their work with MAF.<br />

Some are called to go and some are called to send.<br />

Who will go and who will send?<br />

Those called to go cannot go unless they are sent and<br />

those called to send cannot send if no one will go.<br />

Nurse Manager - Residential Aged Care<br />

Looking for a change?<br />

<strong>The</strong> Halls Creek Peoples <strong>Church</strong> is a small, mainly<br />

Aboriginal <strong>Church</strong>, looking for an experienced<br />

Nurse Manager to oversee the resident care in their<br />

30 bed aged care facility in the remote Kimberley<br />

region <strong>of</strong> Western Australia.<br />

<strong>The</strong> position will suit a committed <strong>Christ</strong>ian with<br />

20.<br />

Aged Care Management Experience, enthusiasm<br />

in ministry and a desire to work alongside the<br />

Management Committee.<br />

For an information package please contact;<br />

Graham or Jodi Thompson<br />

0418 907524 – 59 Marx Hill Rd, Bellingen NSW<br />

2454 – thomo.7@bigpond.com


Name Badges<br />

Ballarat <strong>Church</strong>es <strong>of</strong> <strong>Christ</strong><br />

Opportunity Shop<br />

John<br />

JOHN SMITH<br />

Please remember, if you would like<br />

to order a name badge the forms are<br />

available on the information desk in<br />

the foyer <strong>of</strong> the church.<br />

<strong>The</strong> cost <strong>of</strong> the name badges is $10<br />

each and they come with either a<br />

magnetic or pin clasp.<br />

‘<strong>The</strong> Cottage’ - 30 Eastwood <strong>St</strong>reet<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Church</strong>es <strong>of</strong> <strong>Christ</strong><br />

Opportunity Shop in ‘<strong>The</strong><br />

Cottage’ at 30 Eastwood<br />

<strong>St</strong>reet is open for business.<br />

Opening hours are:<br />

Tuesday, Wednesday and<br />

Friday afternoons<br />

1pm-5pm<br />

Donations <strong>of</strong> clean quality items for resale may be made<br />

through the Ministry Office, Ballarat Central <strong>Church</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>Christ</strong>,<br />

Tel. 5333 4396<br />

Thank you<br />

I want to express my great appreciation <strong>of</strong> the<br />

kindnesses shown to me by many people from <strong>York</strong><br />

<strong>St</strong>reet this year.<br />

From July to recently I have had 2 major operations<br />

and have been hospitalised four times. <strong>The</strong>re were<br />

days when the only visitor I had in hospital was a<br />

person from <strong>York</strong> <strong>St</strong>reet and those same people<br />

continued to visit me in my home and help me in<br />

various ways. Other people from <strong>York</strong> <strong>St</strong>reet did<br />

many kind things for me and everyone kept me in<br />

their prayers. Many times I would have been happy<br />

to have just died and for many weeks I could not<br />

pray.<br />

I normally never miss a day to communicate with<br />

God through our Lord Jesus. I knew he was<br />

always with me during the tough times when I could<br />

no longer pray at all. When one is very ill there<br />

comes a time when the joys <strong>of</strong> this earth don’t<br />

seem to be worth the intense misery <strong>of</strong> living. At<br />

these times those <strong>of</strong> us who are fortunate enough<br />

to be aware <strong>of</strong> God’s presence can always know<br />

that if we recover, life can be good and if we do not<br />

recover, we go straight into the arms <strong>of</strong> our God.<br />

How fortunate we are!<br />

I believe at this point that God has chosen to<br />

restore me to health and I hope I can continue to<br />

live a happy and useful life.<br />

My thanks in particular are to Linda and Mark<br />

Pearse, Heather Gordon, Betty Veal, Russell<br />

Mitchell and to Tim and Blake who never stopped<br />

praying for me.<br />

Gwendoline Blake<br />

21.


Accommodation for <strong>St</strong>udents<br />

Can you help?<br />

Sam, a 19 year old man actively involved in the Ararat <strong>Church</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>Christ</strong>, is seeking mid-week<br />

accommodation in the Ballarat area this year. He is enrolled at ACU studying nursing/para medicine.<br />

Sam is 19 and has his own car. Ideally, he is looking for a small unit or similar. Sam has been raised in a<br />

<strong>Christ</strong>ian family & is a non smoking, non drinking, quietly spoken young man.<br />

If you may be able to help would you please contact the church <strong>of</strong>fice for further details.<br />

Can you help?<br />

Kelson Holt, an 18 year old man who currently attends Glen Waverley Anglican <strong>Church</strong> (GWAC) in<br />

Melbourne’s Eastern Suburbs where he is involved on the music team, is looking for somewhere to live.<br />

Kelson is moving to Ballarat to go to Uni (UB), studying Education.<br />

Kelson is looking for meals and accommodation during the week and is planning to go home on<br />

weekends. He will also be relying on public transport.<br />

If you may be able to help would you please contact the church <strong>of</strong>fice for Kelson’s email address.<br />

Can we help?<br />

ACCOMMODATION IN MELBOURNE’S EAST - LARGE RENOVATED HOME.<br />

INVITING MATURE YOUNG CHRISTIANS TO SHARE HOME.<br />

Large, comfortable, furnished, recently renovated and well-appointed family home in a quiet street in<br />

Melbourne’s East. Now ready - just waiting for the right people!<br />

Inviting expressions <strong>of</strong> interest and applications from young <strong>Christ</strong>ian students and/or working people who<br />

would like to start or be part <strong>of</strong> a new household.<br />

THE HOME:<br />

* Generously sized bedrooms – several ‘master bedroom’ size!<br />

* Attractive. Mixture <strong>of</strong> carpet & polished boards.<br />

* Several living areas including a huge Billiard Room with a 9’x 4’6” Table!<br />

* Generous kitchen and Huge Laundry.<br />

* Two bathrooms, two toilets and a third shower.<br />

* ‘In Ground’, Solar Heated Swimming Pool in lovely garden & BBQ area for relaxing Summer Enjoyment!<br />

* Gas Cooking and Gas Hot Water.<br />

* Gas Central Heating and Air Conditioned for comfort.<br />

* Off <strong>St</strong>reet Parking available.<br />

THE LOCATION:<br />

* About 100 metres from the bus to both Monash & Deakin Universities plus links to train and tram<br />

services.<br />

* Only three minutes walk to the newly renovated ‘Forest Hill Chase’ Shopping Complex...<br />

Please contact the <strong>Church</strong> Office for more information (ph: 5331 1079, email: <strong>of</strong>fice@yorkst.com.au).<br />

22.


BOOKS, BOOKS, BOOKS<br />

(Oh, and some DVDs)<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>York</strong> <strong>St</strong>reet <strong>Church</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>Christ</strong> Library is now <strong>of</strong>ficially open for<br />

business and can be found in the Cafe area.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re are books and some DVDs in categories such as Biography, <strong>Christ</strong>ian life,<br />

Marriage, Parenting, Fiction and many more.<br />

Instructions for borrowing are simple and are found on the side <strong>of</strong> the<br />

bookcases.<br />

Material for <strong>The</strong> <strong>Vine</strong><br />

Do you have something you would like to include in the March edition <strong>of</strong> <strong>The</strong> <strong>Vine</strong>?<br />

Please send it to the church <strong>of</strong>fice no later than Thursday 14th <strong>February</strong>, <strong>2013</strong>.<br />

We ask that material for the <strong>February</strong> <strong>Vine</strong> Update be at the church <strong>of</strong>fice by Wednesday <strong>February</strong> 6th.<br />

Please note that while we do our best, we cannot guarantee all material submitted will be included.<br />

23.


FEARFULLY AND WONDERFULLY MADE<br />

BREATH and SPIRIT<br />

Did you know that right now as you read this<br />

article you could be breathing in a molecule<br />

<strong>of</strong> air that once travelled through the lungs<br />

<strong>of</strong> Jesus? Scientists have estimated that 325<br />

decillion molecules (32,500,000,000,000,000,00<br />

0,000,000,000,000) passed through Jesus’ lungs<br />

during his lifetime.<br />

Dr. Martin <strong>St</strong>. Maurice concluded that there is a<br />

possibility that we could be breathing the same<br />

molecules <strong>of</strong> air today that Jesus breathed. He<br />

wrote, “...All <strong>of</strong> these individual molecules are<br />

constantly rearranged and recycled through<br />

biochemical and geochemical processes, so you<br />

aren’t breathing in the exact same gas molecules<br />

that dinosaurs and Julius Caesar, or Jesus, once<br />

breathed....Very little carbon, oxygen or nitrogen<br />

is lost to outer space. It’s certainly possible to<br />

imagine a scenario where you breathe in a molecule<br />

<strong>of</strong> oxygen gas and in one <strong>of</strong> your cells it gets<br />

combined with carbon from last night’s cupcake<br />

to make carbon dioxide. Your exhaled molecule<br />

<strong>of</strong> carbon dioxide is taken up by a young oak tree<br />

and, with the help <strong>of</strong> sunlight, the carbon gets<br />

converted into a molecule <strong>of</strong> cellulose that gets<br />

locked into that tree’s biomass for years. Eventually,<br />

over hundreds <strong>of</strong> years, that tree will grow, die<br />

and decompose. As it decomposes, that atom<br />

<strong>of</strong> carbon is released back to the atmosphere as<br />

carbon dioxide and is used to generate oxygen<br />

through photosynthesis. That newly formed<br />

molecule <strong>of</strong> oxygen might be available to your<br />

great-great grandchild. It’s not the same molecule<br />

<strong>of</strong> oxygen that you breathed in years before, but it<br />

could be traced back to atoms that once passed<br />

through your body”<br />

What is the significance <strong>of</strong> this to us as <strong>Christ</strong>ians<br />

today? My answer is: ‘absolutely nothing’! Just<br />

because we share an air molecule with Jesus does<br />

not somehow connect us to Jesus in any spiritual<br />

way. Something more fascinating to consider<br />

though is this: what if Jesus could really breathe on<br />

us today as he breathed on his disciples? What did<br />

it mean for them to receive the Holy Spirit? What<br />

does it mean for us to receive the Holy Spirit today?<br />

24.<br />

Misunderstanding about the Spirit’s role had led to<br />

much confusion and extremism in the early <strong>Church</strong>.<br />

So much so, that Paul felt the need to devote three<br />

whole chapters <strong>of</strong> his Letter to the Corinthians to<br />

correct the many wrong beliefs and practices that<br />

had crept into the <strong>Church</strong>. His teaching is timeless,<br />

and we do well to read his Letter again today so<br />

that we can clearly understand that the Holy Spirit<br />

has come, not to divide, but to unite the <strong>Church</strong><br />

and to assure that the work <strong>of</strong> God continues<br />

according to the Father’s will.<br />

In the insect world <strong>of</strong> termites we find an unlikely<br />

analogy <strong>of</strong> the Holy Spirit. Here in Australia we<br />

find some giant termite mounds that have been<br />

constructed by these amazing little creatures.<br />

Termites are acknowledged as the master<br />

architects <strong>of</strong> the creature world and are able to<br />

construct perfectly engineered towers with gold star<br />

rated HVAC air conditioning systems that operate<br />

without power or moving parts, and service some<br />

3 million termites per colony. Dr Brand uses this<br />

analogy and quotes from Lewis Thomas, “When<br />

three or four termites are collected together in a<br />

chamber, they wander about aimlessly, but when<br />

more termites are added, they begin to build. It is<br />

the presence <strong>of</strong> termites in sufficient numbers at<br />

close quarters that produces the work. <strong>The</strong>y pick<br />

up each other’s faecal pellets and stack them in<br />

neat columns, and when the columns are precisely<br />

the right height, the termites reach across and turn<br />

the perfect arches that form the foundation <strong>of</strong> the<br />

termitarium. No single termite knows how to do any<br />

<strong>of</strong> this, but as soon as there are enough termites....<br />

they become flawless architects...building an<br />

immensely complicated structure with its own airconditioning<br />

and humidity control.”<br />

Here we have an analogy <strong>of</strong> the <strong>Church</strong> working<br />

together as a community. “In 2 Corinthians 13:14,<br />

one <strong>of</strong> the few verses to name all the members<br />

<strong>of</strong> the Trinity, Paul gives his benediction, ‘May the<br />

grace <strong>of</strong> our Lord Jesus <strong>Christ</strong>, and the love <strong>of</strong><br />

God, and the fellowship <strong>of</strong> the Holy Spirit be with<br />

you all.’ In a neat summary <strong>of</strong> the essence <strong>of</strong> the<br />

triune God, he does not say ‘the power <strong>of</strong> the Holy


Spirit’ or ‘the wisdom <strong>of</strong> the Holy Spirit’ or ‘the<br />

purity <strong>of</strong> the Holy Spirit,’ but rather ‘the fellowship’<br />

<strong>of</strong> the Holy Spirit... <strong>The</strong> Holy Spirit is God’s way <strong>of</strong><br />

establishing his presence here on earth by knitting<br />

together all the members <strong>of</strong> his Body-the <strong>Church</strong>.<br />

Community is the key word. <strong>The</strong> Spirit does not<br />

approach me as an individual soul; rather he<br />

connects me to the whole Body. Each individual<br />

cell awakens to the conscious reality <strong>of</strong> the larger<br />

whole” - the <strong>Church</strong>. (In the Likeness <strong>of</strong> God. Dr<br />

Paul Brand and Philip Jancey).<br />

<strong>The</strong> Letters <strong>of</strong> John give us a unique insight into<br />

the role <strong>of</strong> the Holy Spirit in the <strong>Church</strong> today. John<br />

gives the Spirit the unusual title <strong>of</strong> “Paraclete.” He<br />

alone uses this word, and he uses it only five times.<br />

But each time he uses it, it is in reference to one<br />

<strong>of</strong> the fives ways that the<br />

Holy Spirit motivates us as<br />

members <strong>of</strong> the <strong>Church</strong>.<br />

<strong>The</strong> great Bible teacher<br />

Sidlow Baxter once spoke<br />

about how the Holy Spirit<br />

enables us to stand up<br />

against the forces <strong>of</strong> evil.<br />

He spoke about how in<br />

our fight with the devil we<br />

might receive a few ‘black eyes’ – five in fact! He<br />

listed these as, Ignorance, Isolation, Impotence,<br />

Indifference and Imperfections. <strong>The</strong> devil wants to<br />

Isolate us as <strong>Christ</strong>ians, keep us Ignorant <strong>of</strong> the<br />

Lord’s teaching, make us Impotent in our ministry,<br />

cause us to despair over the world’s Indifference to<br />

the Gospel message, and discourage us because<br />

<strong>of</strong> our Imperfections. But with the Holy Spirit in<br />

our lives we are not Isolated, because he comes<br />

along side <strong>of</strong> us, (John 14:26) we are not Ignorant<br />

because he will speak to us and instruct us along<br />

the way, (John 14:26) we are not Impotent because<br />

he will enable us to exercise our faith in the most<br />

effective ways, (John 15:26) we do not despair<br />

over the Indifference <strong>of</strong> this world, because it is his<br />

work- not ours-to convince and convict the world<br />

<strong>of</strong> sin and righteousness, (John 16:8) and we do<br />

not despair because <strong>of</strong> our Imperfections, because<br />

when we do sin, we have an Advocate with the<br />

Father who is Jesus. (1 John 2:1.) Significantly in<br />

this last reference to the Paraclete in 1 John 2:1<br />

the word “Paraclete” refers to Jesus and not the<br />

Holy Spirit. When it comes to our sin, Jesus, the<br />

Righteous One will stand alongside <strong>of</strong> us before the<br />

“<strong>The</strong> Holy Spirit is God’s way<br />

<strong>of</strong> establishing his presence here<br />

on earth by knitting together<br />

all the members <strong>of</strong> his Body-the<br />

<strong>Church</strong>.”<br />

Father and tell him that our sins are forgiven!<br />

So – back to our earlier question - what did it mean<br />

for the disciples when Jesus breathed on them and<br />

said, “Receive the Holy Spirit?” (John 20:22) To<br />

appreciate this event we need to understand the<br />

symbolism <strong>of</strong> breath as it is used in the Bible. It was<br />

the breath <strong>of</strong> God by which man became a living<br />

soul at the beginning <strong>of</strong> creation. It was the breath<br />

<strong>of</strong> God which inspired men to prophesy and to pen<br />

the words we now have as the Bible. When Ezekiel<br />

saw the valley <strong>of</strong> dry bones that symbolized a<br />

lifeless, captive nation <strong>of</strong> Israel, he prophesised that<br />

God, in fulfilment <strong>of</strong> his promise to Abraham, Jacob,<br />

Isaac, Moses, David and others, would reconnect<br />

those bones, and breathe life back into the nation.<br />

It is the Spirit who anointed Jesus after his baptism<br />

at the beginning <strong>of</strong> his<br />

ministry. At Pentecost the<br />

Holy Spirit audibly and<br />

visibly came upon and<br />

transformed the lives <strong>of</strong><br />

the disciples and people<br />

who were followers <strong>of</strong><br />

Jesus. Dr Brand and<br />

Philip Jancey write: “<strong>The</strong><br />

Holy Spirit...allows the<br />

reality <strong>of</strong> God’s own self to establish a presence<br />

inside each one <strong>of</strong> us...” It is the Holy Spirit who<br />

connects us once and for all with God and with<br />

Jesus. But the most historic moment in <strong>Christ</strong>ian<br />

history was some days before Pentecost, when<br />

Jesus breathed on a very ordinary bunch <strong>of</strong> guys,<br />

and said, “Receive the Holy Spirit.” In that moment<br />

He passed on his baton to them, and the <strong>Church</strong><br />

was born <strong>of</strong> the Spirit. That same Spirit is his gift to<br />

us today.<br />

We might pray in the words <strong>of</strong> the hymn: “Breathe<br />

on me breath <strong>of</strong> God, fill me with life anew, that I<br />

may love what you do love, and do what you would<br />

do”.<br />

(This is the final article in this series <strong>of</strong> Fearfully and<br />

Wonderfully Made)<br />

Ray Veal.<br />

[All scripture quotations, unless otherwise indicated, are<br />

taken from the Holy Bible, New International Version®,<br />

NIV®. Copyright ©1973, 1978, 1984, 2011 by Biblica,<br />

Inc. Used by permission <strong>of</strong> Zondervan. All rights reserved<br />

worldwide. www.zondervan.com]<br />

25.


Introducing Salt and Pepper for <strong>2013</strong><br />

Beginning in March <strong>2013</strong> the Salt and Pepper<br />

articles will walk step by step through the core<br />

beliefs <strong>of</strong> our <strong>Christ</strong>ian faith. Subjects discussed will<br />

include: beliefs about God, Jesus, the <strong>Church</strong> and<br />

what it teaches and why it is here, the Holy Spirit<br />

and knowing God’s will. One article will cover what<br />

we believe as <strong>Church</strong>es <strong>of</strong> <strong>Christ</strong>. <strong>The</strong>se articles will<br />

seek to answer the core questions that people have<br />

been asking for centuries. What is the meaning <strong>of</strong><br />

life? What does it mean to be a <strong>Christ</strong>ian in this 21st<br />

century? Now that I believe how do I live in the here<br />

and now? Hence the series title, Beyond Belief. My<br />

aim is to write an easy to read owner’s manual to<br />

describe what <strong>Christ</strong>ianity is all about.<br />

Ray Veal.<br />

Article for Parents<br />

“Losing it” with Young People: Four things to do When we <strong>St</strong>uff it Up<br />

interact with young people get lost in the midst <strong>of</strong> all<br />

<strong>of</strong> these pressures and we start yelling, not caring,<br />

ignoring, demanding, dominating and forgetting.<br />

What to do next? Here are four ideas that can turn<br />

the negatives into positives.<br />

I had a strong response to my blog post last<br />

week about not being a perfect parent. People’s<br />

comments made me think more about the issue.<br />

Here’s my thoughts: most <strong>of</strong> us know how we want<br />

to interact with the young people in our lives. We<br />

want to be kind, patient, respectful and empathic.<br />

We want to listen carefully, respectfully teach them<br />

skills without taking away their independence,<br />

sympathise with their struggles without rescuing<br />

them and be gentle with them even when they are<br />

angry.<br />

But then life gets in the way. It’s 7.30am on<br />

Monday morning and we have a million things to<br />

get done before everyone leaves for school/work.<br />

It’s last lesson on Friday and it’s been a really,<br />

really hard week – and there are still reports and<br />

paperwork to do all weekend. <strong>The</strong>re’s sickness,<br />

financial stress, other kids in the family, relationship<br />

issues – and all <strong>of</strong> our own stuff overwhelms<br />

us. Our good intentions about how we treat and<br />

1. <strong>The</strong> most important first step is an apology.<br />

It doesn’t have to be a long grovelling speech, a<br />

simple “sorry guys, I was a bit impatient there”<br />

or “I probably shouldn’t have jumped in before I<br />

really understood what you were saying” is <strong>of</strong>ten<br />

all that’s needed. But it is needed. Furthermore,<br />

not only is an apology necessary, it is an incredibly<br />

powerful learning tool. Every time we apologise to<br />

a young person, it sends three vital messages: 1.<br />

All humans make mistakes and it’s okay to make<br />

mistakes, 2. it’s important to make amends when<br />

you make mistakes, and 3. I respect you as having<br />

important rights and want to try to avoid acting<br />

unfairly towards you. <strong>The</strong>se three messages can<br />

have a strong impact on young people at times.<br />

<strong>The</strong> value <strong>of</strong> an apology is almost worth stuffing up<br />

for!<br />

2. It is <strong>of</strong>ten extremely valuable to share our<br />

struggles with young people when we stuff up. It<br />

is important young people know the pressures<br />

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we are under. We can say things like, “I don’t<br />

know how to handle this situation”, “I feel really<br />

disappointed that I couldn’t help you learn that<br />

previously and I’m taking that out on you”, “I feel<br />

stressed about life in general at the moment and<br />

don’t have the energy to be as kind as I want”, “I<br />

am worried that other people will think badly <strong>of</strong><br />

you” or “I let you do that because I was tired but I<br />

probably shouldn’t have for your sake long term”.<br />

Sharing our struggles helps young people know<br />

what is going on, and helps them understand our<br />

reactions are not just about them. HOWEVER, and<br />

this is an extremely important point – we must be<br />

careful that we “own” our own struggles with caring<br />

for young people. This is<br />

about our journey and we<br />

need to make that clear. So<br />

when we share what we are<br />

worried/stressed/frustrated<br />

about we should make<br />

sure it is sharing rather than<br />

blaming or lecturing. Our<br />

sharing should not send the<br />

message “see how much<br />

stress you put me under”<br />

or “so therefore you should jolly well be more<br />

considerate”.<br />

3. Once the mistakes have been made, it’s vital<br />

to step back and look at what went wrong and<br />

why. This is so that we can prepare in advance<br />

for difficult times. We all know that there are times<br />

which are going to be harder than others when<br />

interacting with young people. Frankly, I do pretty<br />

pathetic parenting before 7am. When things do<br />

go wrong, it helps us identify times we know are<br />

likely to continue to be difficult. We should be<br />

mentally putting flags on these times – whether it<br />

be last lesson on a certain day, preparing for tea,<br />

late at night, or whenever our willpower and energy<br />

are at their lowest. Once we have identified<br />

those times, we need to be honest about the fact<br />

however good our intentions are. We are likely to<br />

get impatient, give in or do other kind <strong>of</strong> ineffective<br />

“Teaching/parenting/caring<br />

well is a marathon not a sprint.<br />

Mistakes are part <strong>of</strong> the process,<br />

and help us care more effectively<br />

for young people than if we<br />

hadn’t made the mistake in the<br />

first place.”<br />

caring at those times. <strong>The</strong>refore, we should<br />

consider whether we can change things around so<br />

we are not setting ourselves up for failure at those<br />

times. We could set up guidelines that we simply<br />

don’t do certain things at that time, for example,<br />

we might say we don’t have conversations or<br />

make decisions at that time <strong>of</strong> day, we might<br />

not deal with behaviour problems until the next<br />

morning, we might have a rule that we eat before<br />

we talk, do low intensity teaching/caring at certain<br />

lessons – or something similar. Of course we need<br />

to make sure we organise alternative times when<br />

we are fresher to do these things rather than just<br />

avoiding them entirely. It is not always possible to<br />

avoid interactions entirely.<br />

but sometimes a bit <strong>of</strong><br />

preplanning/having rules<br />

<strong>of</strong> thumb/policies about<br />

certain times can help.<br />

4. Finally, next time we<br />

should be reminding<br />

ourselves to breathe.<br />

When we know we are<br />

stressed, frustrated or<br />

worried and simply have<br />

to deal with young people – one quick and easy<br />

thing to do is: Breathe deeply before we speak.<br />

<strong>The</strong> positives in taking a deep breath are more than<br />

an old wive’s tale. When we breathe deeply, we<br />

make physical changes in our brain. We redirect<br />

brain activity away from the “fight/attack/defend”<br />

centres and toward to “careful thought” centres.<br />

This then helps us react more thoughtfully – and in<br />

line with our intentions.<br />

We will all ineffectively deal with young people at<br />

times. Teaching/parenting/caring well is a marathon<br />

not a sprint. Mistakes are part <strong>of</strong> the process, and<br />

help us care more effectively for young people than<br />

if we hadn’t made the mistake in the first place.<br />

Kirrilie Smout<br />

Used by permission <strong>of</strong> Kirrilie Smout.<br />

All rights reserved.<br />

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28.<br />

SOAP<br />

S is for scripture O is for observation<br />

A is for application P is for prayer<br />

FEBRUARY<br />

1 Gen 38 - 40; Matt 25<br />

2 Gen 41 - 43; Matt 26:1-35<br />

3 Gen 44 - 46; Matt 26:36-75<br />

4 Gen 47 - 48; Matt 27:1-31<br />

5 Gen 49 - 50; Matt 27:32-66<br />

6 Exodus 1 - 3; Matt 28<br />

7 Exodus 4 - 6; Acts 1<br />

8 Exodus 7 - 9; Acts 2<br />

9 Exodus 10 - 12; Acts 3<br />

10 Exodus 13 - 15; Acts 4<br />

11 Exodus 16 - 18; Acts 5<br />

12 Exodus 19 - 20; Acts 6<br />

13 Exodus 21 - 23; Acts 7<br />

14 Exodus 24 - 26; Acts 8<br />

15 Exodus 27 - 29; Acts 9<br />

16 Exodus 30 - 32; Acts 10<br />

17 Exodus 33 - 35; Acts 11<br />

18 Exodus 36 - 38; Acts 12<br />

19 Exodus 39 - 40; Acts 13<br />

20 Psalm 90; Acts 14<br />

21 Lev 1 - 3; Acts 15:1-22<br />

22 Lev 4 - 6; James 1<br />

23 Lev 7 - 9; James 2<br />

24 Lev 10 - 12; James 3<br />

25 Lev 13 - 15; James 4<br />

26 Lev 16 - 18; James 5<br />

27 Lev 19 - 21; Acts 15:23-41<br />

28 Lev 22 - 24; Gal 1:1-10<br />

If you miss a day, don’t attempt to “catch up” the<br />

reading. Jump forward to the current one.<br />

Remember, it’s not about “achieving a devotion”,<br />

it’s about developing a healthy habit <strong>of</strong> spending<br />

regular time with the Lord.<br />

Having said that, if you commit yourself to using<br />

SOAP on a daily basis there is no doubt that your<br />

life will be revolutionised.<br />

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Tim Clark Clark.Tim@yorkst.com.au<br />

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Angela Oliver Oliver.Angela@yorkst.com.au<br />

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Ben Dainton Dainton.Ben@yorkst.com.au<br />

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