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PLAINVIEW JEWISH CENTER<br />

5772/<strong>2012</strong> APRIL/NISAN/IYAR ISSUE #64<br />

THERE IS NO<br />

SISTERHOOD MEETING THIS MONTH<br />

SISTERHOOD NEWS BEGINS ON PAGE 17


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MAZEL TOV<br />

Alice and Steve Glasser on the birth of their granddaughter Emma Sally Forchheimer,<br />

daughter of Debbie and Adam Forchheimer<br />

Ida and Murray Kleiner on the birth of their grandson Gabriel Marc Kleiner,<br />

son of Rachel and Steven Kleiner<br />

HAMAKOM YINACHEM<br />

Elise Pearl on the passing of her mother, Lillian Carmen<br />

Michael Prospect on the passing of his father, Larry Prospect<br />

WE WISH TO THANK AND EXPRESS OUR DEEP APPRECIATION TO THE FOLLOWING<br />

FAMILIES FOR THEIR GENEROUS CONTRIBUTION TO THE MORNING MINYAN:<br />

Myrna & Martin Kanner<br />

Linda & Allan Furman<br />

Eileen & Edward Fleischman<br />

Charlotte & Jack Weingarten<br />

Susan Kopech & Donald Lubowich<br />

Rhoda Meshover<br />

Caryn & David Nazarieh<br />

Zita & Richard Jospa<br />

Sheila & Stephen Taub<br />

Irving Weingarten<br />

Shahla & Leon Hezgia<br />

Gaye & David Miller<br />

Pearl & Martin Plawsky<br />

Randy & David Goldstein<br />

KEEP US INFORMED!! Got good news? Engagements, marriages, births? Send your information<br />

by mail, fax (516-938-2737) or email (pjcli@optonline.net) so that we may share your simchas with the<br />

congregation.<br />

PLEASE LET OUR CLERGY KNOW!<br />

Current laws prevent hospitals from releasing names of patients. Please call the Temple Office when<br />

you, a family member, or friend are in the hospital and would welcome a visit. Contact the Temple office<br />

at 516-938-8610 ext.0.<br />

<strong>Plainview</strong> <strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Center</strong> - 516-938-8610<br />

ORBIT (USPS 410440) is published monthly from September to June<br />

for $2.00 per annum by the <strong>Plainview</strong> <strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Center</strong> (a religious corporation<br />

under the laws of the State of New York), 95 Floral Drive West,<br />

<strong>Plainview</strong>, New York 11803. WE 8-8610. POSTMASTER: Send address<br />

changes to ORBIT, <strong>Plainview</strong> <strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Center</strong>, 95 Floral Drive<br />

West, <strong>Plainview</strong>, New York 11803<br />

RABBI...........................................................................Steven Conn<br />

RABBI EMERITUS...................................................Julius Goldberg *<br />

CANTOR......................................................................Morris Wolk<br />

PRINCIPAL.................................................................Rachel Ginsburg<br />

PRESIDENT............................................................Shea Z. Lerner<br />

CHAIRMAN OF THE BOARD............................Allan Furman<br />

SISTERHOOD PRESIDENT.....................................Doreen Guzik<br />

MEN’S CLUB PRESIDENT.......................................Sandy Strenger<br />

FAMILYEDUCATION DIRECTOR......................................Judy Alper<br />

YOUTH DIRECTOR.........................................................Lois Lange<br />

ORBIT EDITORS.......................................................Margie Richter<br />

Shari Roth<br />

Elizabeth Kessler<br />

ORBIT ADVERTISING............................................... Joyce Eckstein<br />

* In Memorian<br />

DEADLINE - FOR- ISSUE DATE<br />

APRIL 1st<br />

WEEKDAY SERVICES<br />

Mon. thru Fri…………… 6:30AM<br />

Mon. thru Thurs…….…...8:00PM<br />

Sun. and Holidays………. 9:00AM<br />

Sun. and Holidays………. 8:00PM<br />

Friday Evening Services -<br />

Check Calendar for Times<br />

WE’RE ON THE WEB:<br />

WWW.PLAINVIEWJEWISHCENTER.ORG


ORBIT<br />

APRIL CALENDAR<br />

Page 3<br />

Rabbi Steven Conn & Cantor Morris Wolk will officiate at services<br />

The Officers and Board of Trustees Extend a Hearty Mazal Tov to the Families of the Following Simchas<br />

Sunday, <strong>April</strong> 1 st<br />

Services followed by T/T….…………… 9:00AM<br />

Blood Drive…........……..…...…..………9:00AM<br />

Adult Bat Mitzvah Class……......…….....9:15AM<br />

Passover Wine Sale Pickup…..…...…10:00AM<br />

Monday, <strong>April</strong> 2 nd<br />

J-Flex Hebrew HS……..………………..6:00PM<br />

Friday, <strong>April</strong> 6 th<br />

Early Shabbat Service……..…….……..6:00PM<br />

Saturday, <strong>April</strong> 7 th<br />

Shacharit Service……………..………...9:00AM<br />

Mincha ………………..……………..…12:30PM<br />

Sunday, <strong>April</strong> 8th<br />

Yom Tov Services 2 nd Day Pesach....….9:00AM<br />

Tuesday, <strong>April</strong> 10 th<br />

Men’s Club Meeting..…….....……….… 8:15PM<br />

Wednesday, <strong>April</strong> 11 th<br />

Board of Directors Meeting....…...….….8:30PM<br />

Friday, <strong>April</strong> 13 th 7 th Day Pesach<br />

Yom Tov Services ……............................9:00AM<br />

Early Shabbat Service…..……………...6:00PM<br />

Saturday, <strong>April</strong> 14 th - 8 th Day Pesach<br />

Shacharit Service with Yizkor......…….....9:00AM<br />

Mincha/Maariv………...….……..……….7:15PM<br />

Sunday, <strong>April</strong> 15 th<br />

Services followed by T/T…………..........9:00AM<br />

Kadima….…………………...……..……5:30PM<br />

USY………………..……………………..7:00PM<br />

Monday, <strong>April</strong> 16 th<br />

J-Flex Hebrew HS………..……………..6:00PM<br />

Religious School Committee Mtg.….... .8:15PM<br />

Tuesday, <strong>April</strong> 17 th<br />

Sisterhood Board Meeting….….…...….8:15PM<br />

Wednesday, <strong>April</strong> 18 th<br />

Lunch and Learn.………………..……..11:00AM<br />

Yom Hashoah Program………………....7:00PM<br />

Friday, <strong>April</strong> 20 th<br />

Early Shabbat Service………...…… …..6:00PM<br />

Pre-School Shabbat………...… ……..…6:00PM<br />

Saturday, <strong>April</strong> 21 st<br />

Shacharit Service………..…………..…...9:00AM<br />

Learning Service………..……………....10:30AM<br />

Mincha/Maariv…………….……......….….7:00PM<br />

Bar Mitzvah: Justin Kimmel<br />

Son of Jill and Joseph Kimmel<br />

Sunday, <strong>April</strong> 22 nd<br />

Services followed by T/T…………...…..…9:00AM<br />

Adult Bat Mitzvah Class…...……………..9:15AM<br />

Tironim……………...……………………...5:30PM<br />

USY……………………...…………...…….7:00PM<br />

Tuesday, <strong>April</strong> 24 th<br />

Men’s Club Board Meeting……………….8:15PM<br />

Wednesday, <strong>April</strong> 25 th<br />

Bible Study…………………................……8:30PM<br />

Ritual Committee Meeting…............…..…8:30PM<br />

Thursday, <strong>April</strong> 26 th<br />

Congregation Meeting…..............……..…8:15PM<br />

Friday, <strong>April</strong> 27 th<br />

Early Shabbat Service……..................…..6:00PM<br />

Kindergarten/1 st Grade Shabbat Service.7:00PM<br />

Saturday, <strong>April</strong> 28 th<br />

Shacharit Service…………………....…...9:00AM<br />

Aufruf: Eric Farkas<br />

Son of Susan and Ervi Farkas<br />

and Jessica Levy<br />

Daughter of Valerie and Ed Levy<br />

Mincha/Ma’ariv……................................….7:30PM<br />

Sunday, <strong>April</strong> 29 th<br />

Services followed by T/T…................….…9:00AM<br />

Adult Bat Mitzvah Class…..................……9:15AM<br />

Rosh Chodesh: It’s a Girl Thing…......….5:30PM<br />

Kadimah………..………………………….5:30PM<br />

USY……………………...…………...…….7:00PM<br />

LUNCH AND LEARN - WEDNESDAY, APRIL 18TH<br />

Join us from 11:00 AM to 12:45 PM for stimulating study, good food and even better company<br />

at our monthly Lunch and Learn with Rabbi Conn. This month, we will be discussing “From Yom<br />

Hashoah to Yom HaAtzmaut: The Story of the Modern Jew as Told by the <strong>Jewish</strong> Calendar.”<br />

Suggested donation is $5 per person. Lunch and Learn is usually held on the second Wednesday of<br />

each month. Open to all PJC members and the community at large.


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FROM THE RABBI by Rabbi Steven Conn<br />

Most <strong>Jewish</strong> worship services divide us into leaders and followers.<br />

Cantors and rabbis lead, people in the congregation “participate.” The Passover<br />

Seder, however, is different. Sure, someone usually directs the Seder and helps<br />

move things forward. But at a good Seder, everyone pitches in: sharing insights,<br />

leading songs, and reading parts of the Haggadah. The more everyone<br />

contributes, the more enjoyable the Seder.<br />

Even at the best Seders, though, there is one part that no one ever wants: the wicked child.<br />

Soon after the four questions, we read the passage that begins: “The Torah speaks of four kinds of<br />

children: wise, wicked, simple and one who does not know how to ask a question.” The Haggadah<br />

then goes on to describe each of these children, the questions they might ask, and the answers we<br />

ought to give. At our family Seders when I was a child, we always went around the table, taking turns<br />

reading from the Haggadah. Even as the youngest child began to ask the four questions, we were<br />

already trying to calculate who would get stuck reading the part of the wicked son. It was not<br />

uncommon for one of us to suddenly develop a desire to help out in the kitchen or sit next to Grandma<br />

in order to evade the dreaded assignment.<br />

With all the effort that went into avoiding association with the wicked child, we might think that<br />

the wicked child’s crime would be something particularly embarrassing or repulsive. Was the child<br />

called wicked because he pulled the wings off flies, or beat up other kids and stole their lunch<br />

money, or burned down the house playing with matches? Not at all. The Haggadah calls the child<br />

wicked for doing nothing more than asking a simple question: “What does this service (this Passover<br />

ritual) mean to you?” Incredible. How, we might ask, could anyone condemn a child for merely<br />

asking a question?<br />

The answer, the Haggadah tells us, lies not with the act of questioning—the wise son and the<br />

simple son have questions too. Rather, it is the attitude behind the question that betrays the child’s<br />

wickedness. “Saying this” the Haggadah continues, “he excludes, and by excluding himself from the<br />

group, he denies a basic principle of our faith.” The Haggadah imagines that the child asks his<br />

question in a mocking tone—”what does this whole Passover ritual thing mean to you anyway—it<br />

certainly doesn’t mean anything to me.” By asking this question, the child places himself deliberately<br />

outside the <strong>Jewish</strong> community. He makes himself into a dispassionate, even cynical observer. And<br />

if there is one thing that our tradition cannot tolerate, it is a Jew who so loses his connection to his<br />

people and his heritage that he becomes an enemy. And for this reason, the Haggadah concludes,<br />

“if he had been in Egypt (with the Israelite slaves at the time of the exodus), he would not have been<br />

redeemed.”<br />

With the story of the four children, the Haggadah reminds us that asking questions can be an<br />

important part of our religious development—as long as these questions arise out of our passion for<br />

Judaism. To live and to grow <strong>Jewish</strong>ly, we must always be partisans, must always look at Judaism<br />

as our “home team.” To appreciate the beauty and value of <strong>Jewish</strong> life, we must identify ourselves<br />

always as part of the community. And being part of the community means not only feeling <strong>Jewish</strong> in<br />

our hearts, but also taking part in those rituals and ceremonies that bind us together as Jews.<br />

Like so many of our rituals, the Passover Seder helps bind us together as a community. By<br />

performing the rituals of the Seder, we link ourselves to other Jews in our city and all over the world<br />

who are doing the very same thing. Even if we personally question the value or meaning of these<br />

rituals, we perform them for the sake of being part of the community. As Rabbi Shlomo Riskin points<br />

out in his Haggadah commentary, the <strong>Jewish</strong> attitude toward ritual has always been, as the Israelites<br />

( continued on page 5 )


From The Rabbi ( continued from Page 4 )<br />

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Blood Drive Appeal for Spencer Reis<br />

SPENCER REIS Needs Blood & Platelets. Spencer is currently a patient at<br />

Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer <strong>Center</strong> in New York City. His treatment requires<br />

regular blood and platelet transfusions. Spencer and his family would<br />

deeply appreciate your donation of blood and/or platelets and requests you ask<br />

others you know to donate. Donations not used by Spencer will be released for<br />

use by other patients many of whom are children.<br />

To benefit Spencer Reis, all designated donations must be made in<br />

the Blood Donor Room of Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer <strong>Center</strong>. Please<br />

visit www.mskcc.org/blooddonations for complete information about donor<br />

eligibility and the donation process for blood or platelets.<br />

For answers to questions and to schedule an appointment that is convenient<br />

for you please Contact: Joe Licata - 212-639-8177 - Manager,<br />

Blood Donor Program: licataj@mskcc.org<br />

Blood Donor Room – 212-639-76481250 First Avenue (between 67 th /68 th<br />

Streets) NYC - Schwartz Building lobby. Open Every Day: Fri, Sat, Sun,<br />

Mon: 8:30am - 3:00pm. Tues, Wed, Thurs: 8:30am - 7:00pm. The process<br />

for donating whole blood takes approximately 1 hour. The process for<br />

donating platelets takes about 2 ½ hours. Appointments are necessary.<br />

All blood types are acceptable. FREE Donor Parking - Somerset Parking<br />

Garage, 1365 York Avenue –entrance on NW corner of 72 nd Street.<br />

Thank you!<br />

affirmed at Mount Sinai, “we will do and we will understand.” Appreciation of the meaning of rituals<br />

comes from experience. Once we have experienced a <strong>Jewish</strong> ritual as a partisan, we may find that<br />

our questions are answered. At the very least, we will find that our questions become better informed<br />

and more sympathetic.<br />

What is true for the Passover Seder is true for other rituals as well. Rituals create community;<br />

rituals give us a common standard of practice that unites us with other Jews. As a congregation, we<br />

are dedicated to building and strengthening our <strong>Jewish</strong> community. Rituals play an important part.<br />

Whether it is the observance of Shabbat, kashrut or the holidays, we as a congregation have to set<br />

standards that will bring together a wide range of people in our community. These standards may not<br />

match those of the individual members of our community. And that’s okay. As a congregation, we<br />

need to provide our members with an opportunity to “do and to understand.” By modeling the correct<br />

<strong>Jewish</strong> rituals, we provide <strong>Jewish</strong> experiences that we hope will promote individual spiritual growth.<br />

No doubt, the rituals we observe will raise questions for some of us. And that, too, is okay. As long as<br />

we question from within the <strong>Jewish</strong> community, with a passion for Judaism in our hearts, the results<br />

will be help all of us to become better Jews and more active participants in <strong>Jewish</strong> life throughout the<br />

year.


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The Cantor’s Note:<br />

SHARING THE BREAD OF AFFLICTION<br />

At an important moment toward the beginning of the seder ritual we<br />

hold up the matzot and declare, “This is the bread of affliction which our<br />

ancestors ate in Egypt. Let all who hunger come and eat.” This passage is<br />

traditionally understood to be an invitation to the less fortunate and lonely<br />

members of the community to share our sedarim.<br />

I would like to offer another interpretation born out of the experiences I have shared with<br />

members of our congregational family over the course of almost four decades. It is also very<br />

much in the spirit of <strong>Jewish</strong> tradition. Well fed people can still suffer from emotional hungers.<br />

The expression, “bread of affliction” may be considered as a metaphor for the misfortunes and<br />

tragedies which befall human beings in their lifetimes. Caring compassionate people who offer<br />

a helping hand and a shoulder to cry on provide reassurance that we are not alone in devastating<br />

situations. Even the best friends cannot, of course, undo what has occurred or alter the unalterable,<br />

but good people can help us bear our troubles just by their presence. Thus, <strong>Jewish</strong> tradition asks<br />

us to share the “bread of affliction,” that we may ease the heavy burden of sorrow which afflicts<br />

grieving fellow human beings.<br />

Many years ago I received a beautiful letter which I saved and from which I will share<br />

excerpts. It came from a woman who was motivated to recite Kaddish for her deceased father<br />

for the prescribed eleven months. Her family was affiliated with a Reform congregation which<br />

does not have a daily minyan, and so, she became a regular at our <strong>Plainview</strong> <strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Center</strong><br />

evening minyan. She wrote:<br />

Since returning after the end of the shiva period, I have prayed at, at least,<br />

five other Conservative synagogues. None of them on Long Island has<br />

demonstrated the spirit of Klal Yisrael and glowed with the menshlichkeit<br />

and decency of <strong>Plainview</strong> <strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Center</strong>. You should be very proud of your<br />

congregants. Your evening minyan attendees have made me feel welcome<br />

and a part of your community at this most difficult time. The comfort I have<br />

found at your synagogue cannot be overstated or measured.<br />

Creating a caring congregation – these words are part of our synagogue’s mission<br />

statement. They are more than just lovely words because of the big hearts and good souls<br />

behind them. It is the people of <strong>Plainview</strong> <strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Center</strong> who forged the bonds of friendship,<br />

compassion, and love which so moved this one mourner, and, undoubtedly, countless others like<br />

her.<br />

May God help us to bring healing for the “bread of affliction.” May we and our families<br />

celebrate a sweet Passover in happiness and good health.<br />

Cantor Morris Wolk D. Mus.


PRESIDENT’S MESSAGE by Shea Z. Lerner<br />

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“Let me tell you the one thing I have against<br />

Moses. He took us forty years into the desert in order<br />

to bring us to the one place in the Middle East that has<br />

no oil!” - Golda Meir<br />

Pesach is here! If wandering for 40 years wasn’t enough, all the<br />

cleaning, shlepping and preparing is. It’s a good thing many of you purchased<br />

wine from our Annual fundraiser to take the edge off of theon-going<br />

preparations. Wine pick up will be on <strong>April</strong> 1 st , no fooling! A special<br />

L’chaim to Doreen Guzik, for assuming leadership of the sale on such short<br />

notice!<br />

I hope you had the opportunity to attend the Patio Players production of, A Funny Thing<br />

Happened On The Way To The Forum. Once again, our performance group went above and<br />

beyond the curtain call of duty to make us laugh and have a great time. Robert Cohen, Mark Lord,<br />

Joe Ferrante, the entire cast and crew should be commended for this professional production.<br />

<strong>April</strong> is another program filled month with much to offer. To start, come on down and save a<br />

life at the annual Family Education Lazar Lachter Memorial Blood Drive. There is no greater mitzvah<br />

and a wonderful way to commemorate the memory of Lazar, one of the most philanthropic and<br />

devoted members this shul has ever had. Many of you recall that Lazar was our weekly usher and<br />

happy face.<br />

With spring, comes Yom Hashoah. This year, PJC is proud to welcome Mr. Bernard Gotfryd,<br />

the former Photographic Editor for Newsweek magazine, and one who personally witnessed first<br />

hand the Nazi atrocities by smuggling out photos of the final solution to the Polish underground, for<br />

the world to see. It is important that we all attend, especially our children. No one is too young or old<br />

to hear eyewitness accounts of the destruction that befell our people, just a short historical time ago.<br />

Unfortunately, those first hand witnesses are dwindling in numbers and there are those out there<br />

who proclaim the Holocaust was a fictional event. This is our chance of ensuring that the memory of<br />

six million will never be in vain. Yasher Koach to the Yom Hashoah committee co-chaired by Nanette<br />

and Sandy Strenger. Kudos to Bob Friedman for his efforts and Mark Hochberg for securing Mr.<br />

Gotfryd. One cannot overlook the efforts of Tom Atlas and his Men’s Club crew who distribute the<br />

Memorial Candles to be lit for this event.<br />

For those of you actively involved in Little League sports, keep an eye out for the two teams<br />

PJC is sponsoring. One is in the Solomon Schechter Day School League, the other, is in the<br />

<strong>Plainview</strong> Little League. Who knows, the next Art Shamsky, Sandy Koufax or Hank Greenberg may<br />

be amongst us.<br />

Our fundraising is on-going. Look for emails/regular mail announcing our Journal Dinner<br />

Dance Honorees. In the meantime, we are selling Shop Rite Cards like mad. Since we are all<br />

shopping for the holiday, why not purchase these cards to be used? PJC receives 2% for every<br />

card purchased and we now accept debit and credit cards. Feel free to order them over the phone<br />

from our office; the cards will be waiting for you when needed. Wishing you a Zissen Pesach.<br />

With Love, Shea ( szlerner@optonline.net )


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<strong>Plainview</strong> <strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Center</strong> Blood Drive<br />

Sunday, <strong>April</strong> 1st, 9:00am ~ 1:30pm<br />

Youth Lounge<br />

Your donation will help to save up to THREE lives. Our community<br />

hospitals need your help. Please share this lifesaving gift!<br />

Thank You for Caring!<br />

Eligibility Criteria:<br />

· Bring ID with signature or photo.<br />

· Minimum weight 110 lbs.<br />

· Age 16 – 75<br />

16 year olds must have parental permission.<br />

Age 76 and over need doctor’s note<br />

· Eat well (low fat) & drink fluids<br />

· No tattoos for past 12 months<br />

For questions concerning medical eligibility call 1-800-688-0900.<br />

For more information or to schedule an appointment, please contact:<br />

Judy Alper PJCfamilyed@gmail.com; or 938-8610 ext. 112


Dear Friends,<br />

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SALE OF CHAMETZ<br />

One small phrase in the Torah is all it took to create the frenzy that is now known as “cleaning for<br />

Pesach.” In the book of Exodus we read, “There shall be no leavened products (chametz) in your homes.” As<br />

far as we know, our ancestors always understood this passage literally. Any leavened product, from Play Doh<br />

to bread dough, was to be removed from our homes before sunset on the 15 th of Nisan.<br />

If we are far-sighted planners, we might be able to arrange our menus so that we eat up every last<br />

crumb of chametz before Passover. We certainly can give away un-opened chametz items to Island Harvest<br />

or any other food banks as well.<br />

But most likely, there will be items we cannot use or give away; items that would be very expensive or<br />

inconvenient to replace if we were to throw them out. Rabbis in the Middle Ages recognized this reality, and<br />

created a kind of “legal fiction” to enable us to keep some of our chametz locked away for use after Passover.<br />

This legal fiction, involved transferring authority over all chametz remaining after a certain date to the local<br />

rabbi. The rabbi, in turn, would “sell” the chametz to a non-Jew for a modest down-payment. In theory, the<br />

non-Jew was free to use the chametz during Passover. In fact, the “sold” chametz is separated from Passover<br />

food and placed in a marked and sealed box or cabinet, so that a Jew cannot easily access it, but the non-<br />

<strong>Jewish</strong> buyer can easily claim it. Should the buyer fail to pay the full purchase price by the end of Passover,<br />

the reaming chametz reverts to its original owners.<br />

While some may see the Sale of Chametz as a bit far-fetched, I believe it embodies Judaism’s ability<br />

to at once be a livable religion that does not impose unrealistic demands on its adherents, but also a religion<br />

that makes change in an evolutionary, not revolutionary way. I am happy to provide the opportunity for us to<br />

sell our chametz this year.<br />

If you would like to participate in the Sale of Chametz, please fill out the form below and return it to the<br />

PJC office by Thursday <strong>April</strong> 5th. I will be available to personally “buy” chametz at PJC beginning on Monday<br />

March 26 th . I am usually available after morning minyans Sunday, Monday and Wednesday, on Monday,<br />

Wednesday and Thursday afternoons from 3:00-6:00 PM, and after evening minyans Sunday, Monday,<br />

Wednesday, Thursday and Saturday. Feel free to stop by at other times as well.<br />

Chag Kasher V’samaech, Rabbi Steven Conn<br />

__________________________________________________________________________________________________<br />

Delegation Of Power of Attorney for the Sale of Chametz<br />

Know ye that I the undersigned fully empower and permit Rabbi Steven Conn to act in my place and<br />

stead, and in my behalf to sell all chametz possessed by me (knowingly or unknowingly) as defined by<br />

Torah and the Rabbinic law. And to lease all places wherein Chametz may be found, especially in the<br />

premises located at _______________________________________________________<br />

(address—include all residences and businesses)<br />

Rabbi Conn has the full right to sell and lease by transactions, as he deems fit and proper and for<br />

such time which he believes necessary in accordance with detailed forms as explained in the general<br />

authorization contracts which have been given this year to Rabbi Conn to sell the Chametz. This general<br />

authorization is part of that agreement. Also do I thereby give the said Rabbi Conn full power and authority<br />

to appoint a substitute in his stead with full power to sell and to lease as provided herein. The above given<br />

power is in conformity with all Torah, Rabbinical regulations and laws, and also in accordance with the laws<br />

of the State of New York and the United States. And I do hereby affix my signature on this the<br />

______________________ day of _____________ in the year <strong>2012</strong>.<br />

Signature: __________________________________ Print Name______________________________<br />

I am pleased to enclose a voluntary donation of $_______ to the PJC Ma’ot Hittim Fund.


ORBIT<br />

PJC YOM HASHOAH PROGRAM <strong>2012</strong><br />

Bernard Gotfryd, Photographer & Author<br />

Wednesday, <strong>April</strong> 18th at 7pm<br />

Page 10<br />

This year we are honored to have as our keynote<br />

speaker Bernard Gotfryd, world renowned photographer and<br />

author of, “Anton the Dove Fancier and Other Tales of the<br />

Holocaust”. Mr. Gotfryd was born in Radom, Poland where<br />

he decided at an early age to become a photographer. He<br />

was hired as an apprentice at a family friend’s photography<br />

studio shortly after World War II broke out, during which time<br />

he linked himself with the Polish resistance. He secretly acquired pictures of Nazi<br />

and Gestapo atrocities which were obtained from rolls of film dropped for<br />

processing and delivered them to the resistance until he was discovered in October<br />

of 1943 and deported to the Maidanek extermination camp. By the time of the<br />

Liberation in May of 1945, he had survived six different concentration camps. He<br />

emigrated to the United States two years later .<br />

Following his military service as a United States Army combat photographer,<br />

he embarked upon a 30-year career as a photojournalist for Newsweek, establishing<br />

himself as a world renowned photographer whose works have been exhibited widely.<br />

It was while working for Newsweek, covering the Holocaust<br />

Survivors Gathering in Washington, D.C., in <strong>April</strong> 1983, that he was<br />

moved to write about his own experiences. First published in<br />

Newsweek, his stories were eventually published as a collection, titled<br />

“Anton the Dove Fancier and Other Tales of the Holocaust”. Since<br />

his retirement Mr. Gotfryd has been writing and lecturing about his<br />

experiences.<br />

Our Yom Hashoah program will also include lighting of memorial candles by<br />

our own honored Survivors of the Shoah, selected readings by our Hebrew School<br />

Students, as well as the moving reading of the names of those martyrs lost in the<br />

Shoah from our Book of Remembrance.<br />

Please make every effort to attend with your family.<br />

For information, contact Sandy Strenger, PJC Yom Hashoah Chair, 516 642 - 9273


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“GET OUT THE HAMETZ!!”<br />

Don’t throw it out<br />

Donate it to the poor!<br />

- Turn your Passover cleaning into a chance to help others.<br />

- PJC is now collecting your non-perishable, unopened “hametz”<br />

- The food we collect will be distributed by the Hatzilu Rescue<br />

organization to the <strong>Jewish</strong> poor who live right here on Long Island.<br />

- Look for our “donation” bin in the PJC Lobby.<br />

- Please bring in all donations by Thursday <strong>April</strong> 5th.<br />

If you have any questions, feel free to e-mail Arlyne Skolnik at:<br />

Skully531@optonline.net<br />

NOTE: We can only accept non-perishable food.


PJC YOUTH CORNER<br />

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Youth group is having a fantastic year. Thank you for all who helped at the Purim Carnival. We<br />

had a great turnout and fun was had by all. Hope to see all of you at our end of the year events. USY will<br />

be going on a mystery bus ride on <strong>April</strong> 22. This will be an all day event and a lot of fun. Can’t wait to<br />

report back where we went and what we did in the next article. Tironim and Kadima will be ending with<br />

a BBQ and fun and exciting program on <strong>April</strong> 29. Don’t miss Adventureland on May 6th, more information<br />

to follow. Any questions, please contact Lois D. Lange @ 516-426-6283 or lois_lange@yahoo.com<br />

<strong>April</strong> 22 - USY Mystery Bus Ride, for more information contact Lois<br />

<strong>April</strong> 29 - Tironim and Kadima BBQ and Kickball 5:30-7pm<br />

USY BBQ 7-8:30pm<br />

May 6 - Adventureland: more information to follow. This event for all groups<br />

Family Education Corner by Judy Alper<br />

Start off this wonderful month of <strong>April</strong> by helping others. Roll up your sleeve and raise your arm<br />

to volunteer and help us out on Sunday, <strong>April</strong> 1 st from 9:00-1:30pm at the annual Lazar Lachter <strong>Plainview</strong><br />

<strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Center</strong> Blood Drive. Without a doubt your kindness and generosity can help save a life. We<br />

are looking forward to increasing our usual amount of donors, so if you have been thinking about<br />

donating or want to do a very special mitzvah (that perhaps only your blood type can do!) please email<br />

us as soon as possible to set up a convenient appointment time for you (pjcfamilyed@gmail.com).<br />

On Sunday, <strong>April</strong> 22nd, from 11:15 – 1:00pm, we will be having our very popular Shema Pillow<br />

Workshop/ Aleph Family Ed Workshop. All Aleph students are required to attend and we will be<br />

creating a very special pillowcase to remind all our children how wonderful it is to say the Shema<br />

Prayer each night. Save the date on your calendar for this wonderful workshop. Parents are required<br />

to attend, but you wouldn’t want to miss out on all the creativity! We look forward to seeing all Aleph<br />

students and their parents there.<br />

For older girls, we will be having our Rosh Hodesh: It’s a Girl Thing! meeting on Sunday, <strong>April</strong><br />

29th, from 5:30-7:00pm. We will be celebrating the <strong>Jewish</strong> month of Iyar. This will be our 2 nd to last<br />

meeting, so don’t miss out on all the fun! RSVP’s are necessary.<br />

I would like to take this opportunity, on behalf of the Family Education Committee to wish everyone<br />

a happy and kosher Passover.


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CONGRATULATIONS!<br />

OUR B’NAI / B’NOT MITZVAH<br />

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JUSTIN KIMMEL<br />

<strong>April</strong> 21, <strong>2012</strong><br />

Justin is the son of Jill and Joseph Kimmel and has a sister, Jennifer. He is a<br />

seventh grader at POB Middle School. Justin enjoys playing baseball and volleyball<br />

and studying English in school. His favorite holidays are Chanukah and<br />

Passover. For his mitzvah project, he is collecting baseball caps for Lids for<br />

Kids. The caps are for children with cancer.<br />

REMEMBER TO PURCHASE CANDY BAGS<br />

FOR YOUR BAR/BAT MITZVAH<br />

THROUGH OUR YOUTH GROUP<br />

CONTACT THE TEMPLE OFFICE: 938-8610<br />

HI. MY NAME IS JUSTIN KIMMEL. FOR MY<br />

MITZVAH PROJECT, I AM COLLECTING<br />

NEW BASEBALL CAPS TO BE GIVEN<br />

TO KIDS WITH CANCER. PLEASE<br />

HELP BY BRINGING IN CAPS<br />

TO THE TEMPLE OFFICE.<br />

THANK YOU.<br />

LIDS FOR KIDS


SCHOOL NEWS By Rachel Ginsburg, Principal<br />

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In the Haggadah, we are told that, “even if we were all wise, all men of understanding, all sages<br />

and well versed in the Torah, it would still be our duty to tell the story of the Exodus From Egypt.” Why<br />

are we thus commanded?<br />

The answer is that every time a story is told, we can discover a new angle in it, then apply it to<br />

our lives. There are so many themes in the Pesach story that I am sure each one of you can find<br />

something new to develop at your own family Seder. Here are some ideas to think about:<br />

1. What does chametz (leavened bread) present on a spiritual level? Could it symbolize the<br />

arrogance, self-indulgence and conceited nature that we should eradicate from our very beings?<br />

2. Seder means “Order” and sure enough, the evening ritual seeks to impose a sense of order in the<br />

chaos of the exodus period with its plagues, revolt and stunning miracles. Think why do we need<br />

order in our lives?<br />

3. Why should we be empathetic with the weak, oppressed and discriminated minorities in our days?<br />

4. What can the account of the four sons teach us about raising our own children?<br />

5. Does the body language of reclining during the Passover meal convey something of the freedom<br />

our ancestors experienced when they were redeemed from centuries of Egyptian bondage?<br />

6. The green vegetables on the Seder plate are symbols of our hope for better things to<br />

come. How can the world be improved?<br />

I hope that this Pesach you will not run through the Haggadah by rote so that you can get to the<br />

matzoh ball soup more quickly. Rather, take the time to discuss and develop things because that is<br />

what the Haggadah prompts us to do.<br />

Your annual Passover programs will take place on Tuesday and Wednesday, <strong>April</strong> 3rd and 4th.<br />

At that time we shall design delectable Passover food. Toward the middle of <strong>April</strong>, we plan to have a<br />

Yom Hashoah (Holocaust Memorial Day) service where students of Daled and Hey will be part of the<br />

service instead of attending regular Hebrew School that day. We will also have a special program for<br />

Israeli Independence Day on Wednesday, <strong>April</strong> 25 th .<br />

I want to wish all parents and children Chag Kahser v’sameach. Enjoy the holiday!<br />

RELIGIOUS SCHOOL CALENDAR<br />

APRIL 2 (Mon) J-Flex (Teen Learning Program) – 6:00 - Library<br />

3 (Tues) & 4 (Wed) Passover School Program<br />

6 –15 (Fri thru Sun) Passover Vacation – No School or Junior Congregation<br />

16 (Mon) School Resumes<br />

J-Flex (Teen Learning Program) – 6:00PM - Library<br />

School Committee Meeting – 8:15PM - Library<br />

18 (Wed) Eve of Yom Hashoah - Daled & Hey students are required to attend the<br />

7PM Memorial ceremony in the evening instead of regular classes.<br />

20 (Fri) Preschool Shabbat– 6:00-6:30 PM<br />

22 (Sun) Alef Family Workshop – 11:15 AM – 1:00 PM<br />

(Instead of Regular Class for Alef Students). Attendance Required<br />

25 (Wed) Israeli Memorial Day-Program in School<br />

26 (Thurs) Israeli Independence Day<br />

27 (Fri ) Kindergarten/Sunday School Class Service & FFFNS - 7:00 – 8:00 PM


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PJC WOULD LIKE TO THANK SISTERHOOD<br />

FOR THE DONATION OF<br />

5 MEZUZOT AND KOSHER SCROLLS<br />

FOR OUR SYNAGOGUE DOORS<br />

LEARNING SERVICE:<br />

Saturday morning, <strong>April</strong> 21st - (Last service of the Season)<br />

Do you wish you better understood the Saturday morning service? Are you<br />

interested in participating more actively, but need some help getting started? Would<br />

you like it to go at a slower pace and be able to interrupt and ask questions? Then<br />

join us at <strong>Plainview</strong> <strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Center</strong> on selected Saturday mornings at 10:30 am for a<br />

special “Learning Service.” The service will be held in the Small Chapel. Lisa Hadar<br />

will lead the prayers and discussion. Following services join the rest of the<br />

congregation for a special kiddush. Open to all PJC members and the community at<br />

large.<br />

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FREE MONEY<br />

Please help our Religious School earn free money<br />

Save Box Tops from General Mills brand items<br />

Either mail or deposit them in the Main or Education Office<br />

Ziploc – Kleenex – Hefty – Cheerios – Scott Paper<br />

Gogurt – Kix – Betty Crocker<br />

and many more !!


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ShopRite Food Certificates<br />

are always available<br />

at the Temple office<br />

Remember, by supporting the<br />

Food Certificate Program,<br />

you support PJC!<br />

** Food Certificates may be purchased by credit card in the temple office **


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SISTERHOOD NEWS<br />

PRESIDENT’S MESSAGE - Doreen B. Guzik<br />

Passover begins the evening of <strong>April</strong> 6th and it commemorates the<br />

deliverance of the Israelites from Egypt. It is celebrated as the “Season of<br />

our Freedom”. On the first two nights we have a Seder, which means ‘order’.<br />

We read from the Haggadah which tells the story of our miraculous path to<br />

freedom. We also eat unleavened bread, matzo, to commemorate the haste in which the Israelites<br />

had to flee their bondage from Egypt. We retell the story of our release from slavery during the<br />

Seders so we always remember the hardship the Israelites endured and that we should be<br />

thankful for the freedom we have. It is the time of year that we come together with family and<br />

friends. At your Seder, remember those who are no longer with us. Bring together everyone by<br />

telling a story that evokes fond memories of a past Seder or event while eating your festive<br />

meal. In this way we can all bring true meaning to this wonderful holiday.<br />

I am so happy to announce that this year’s very deserving recipient of our Woman of<br />

Achievement Award is Marilyn Cohen. She is always happy and willing to help out with any<br />

task large or small. Marilyn is truly one of our most dedicated members. So remember to mark<br />

your calendars for May 23rd for Torah Fund’s Women of Achievement dinner. Look out for<br />

information about attending this wonderful evening where Marilyn will be one of the honorees.<br />

This year Dix Hills <strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Center</strong> will be hosting this event. Let us show support for Marilyn<br />

and Sisterhood by attending the dinner.<br />

I would like to wish everyone a Happy Passover. Doreen Guzik<br />

SISTERHOOD JUDAICA SHOP<br />

The Sisterhood Judaica Shop has gifts for all your holiday<br />

needs. We have a large selection of seder plates,<br />

menorahs, mezuzahs, jewelry and head coverings for both<br />

men and women. Our great holiday serving pieces,<br />

including platters and utensils, are wonderful for<br />

celebrating and entertaining with family and friends.<br />

WHEN YOU THINK GIFTS, THINK SISTERHOOD JUDAICA!


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TORAH FUND - Rose Weiner, Torah Fund Coordinator<br />

The Torah Fund supports our future rabbis, cantors, teachers and <strong>Jewish</strong><br />

community leaders at the <strong>Jewish</strong> Theological Seminary. The money raised<br />

through our Torah Fund contributions is an important part of fostering and<br />

maintaining the continuity of the <strong>Jewish</strong> conservative movement. You can help<br />

in this effort by making donations to Sisterhood’s Torah Fund or simply<br />

purchasing Torah Fund greeting cards. Occasions such as Mazel Tov, Get Well,<br />

Rejoicing with You, New Baby, and of course Condolences are all available for<br />

$4.00 each. The cards can be purchased at any Sisterhood meeting or event, or<br />

they can be mailed to the recipient for you by contacting:<br />

Rose - 935-0454, Joyce - 433-4826 or Judi - 433-4099<br />

wish someone you care about<br />

a return to good health


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TODAH RABBAH!<br />

Many thanks to all the members of PJC, Men’s Club and Sisterhood who supported and<br />

participated in Sisterhood’s Shalach Manot project. Our success is due to all of you who supported<br />

this. We hope you enjoyed sending and receiving Shalach Manot and participating in this mitzvah.<br />

Thanks and kudos also to the tireless efforts of all the Sisterhood women on the Shalach Manot<br />

committee who have worked hard on this “labor of love” for months. This is Sisterhood’s largest<br />

undertaking each year and it truly takes a “village” to accomplish this – the end result being all the<br />

beautiful bags that we all see in the lobby on Purim and get to take home or bring to our friends and<br />

family.<br />

Special thanks to my core committee- Marilyn Cohen, Sheryl Fischer and Marion Weisfelner.<br />

Todah Rabbah to Doreen Guzik, our President, who took over organizing and sending out the College<br />

Purim Kits this year. Special thanks to Marilyn Cohen for sending out all the Purim Greeting cards to<br />

those who do not live nearby.<br />

Thanks also to many others who in one way or another helped by either: shopping, schlepping,<br />

planning or packing. They are (in no special order): Judy Forman, Louise Pollack, Dvorah Lumerman,<br />

Judi Dorosin, Lilly Elman, Lee Hauptman, Matt Eckstein, Rhonnie Diener, Rose Weiner, Rayna Herman,<br />

Sarah Stone, Blayne Peltzman, Eleanor Abrams, Illyse Conn, Yoni Conn, Carol Breshin, Ellen Hayman,<br />

Cara Hayman, Carol Hauser, Marissa Hauser, Michele Haimes, Gladys Freilich, Stacy Meyerson,<br />

Debbie Siegel, Jay Goldberg, Beverly Kepke, Elieen Fonfa, Allison Galub, David Galub, Jodi Schinz,<br />

Alyssa Finkelstein-Beitler, Debra Finkelstein-Levy, Rhoda Meshover, Elise Epstein, Elise Smith, Diane<br />

Miller, Gail Kaden, Cheryl Dender, Sheila Hoffstatter, Ida Kleiner, Margie Richter, Elyse Schrage, Debbie<br />

Zaglin, Cindy Getzoff, Lynn Lederkramer, Joyce Rimer, Zita Jospa, Allison Graubart, Olga Portnoy and<br />

Sharon Kunoff.<br />

I also want to thank Dorit Mass, the office secretary and our wonderful custodians, Freddy,<br />

Jonny and Bob.<br />

Hopefully I have not left anyone out but please forgive me if I have.<br />

On behalf of the Shalach Manot Committee,<br />

Bunny Finkelstein, Chairman<br />

Sisterhood Special Project - M’yad L’yad by Sharon Kunoff<br />

Sisterhood is constantly looking for clothing, staples and cash for our family.<br />

Your donations have enabled us to send a small package for of gift cards and<br />

goodies for Purim. By the time you receive this we expect to have sent out a larger<br />

package for Pesach (depending on your response to our March article which you<br />

should have read recently), but we always have room to store items for the next time.<br />

You can contact me at skunoff@optonline.net or leave a note in the Sisterhood box<br />

at PJC. Thank you for your help and Hag Sameah!!


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PLAINVIEW JEWISH CENTER<br />

SISTERHOOD<br />

PRESENTS<br />

FASHION SHOW <strong>2012</strong>!<br />

MAY 15TH AT 7:30PM<br />

ENJOY AN EVENING OF FASHION<br />

WITH FASHIONS FROM<br />

ALTA MODA by JOSEPHINE<br />

BUFFET DINNER & LOTS OF RAFFLE PRIZES<br />

COME SEE YOUR FRIENDS MODEL!<br />

$36 Per Person (Sisterhood Members)<br />

$40 (Non Sisterhood Members)<br />

SEND IN YOUR RESERVATION TODAY!<br />

NO CHECKS WILL BE ACCEPTED AFTER MAY 4th!!<br />

RESERVATIONS REQUIRED!!<br />

CALL DVORAH FOR MORE INFO 931-0596<br />

SEND CHECKS TO: PJC SISTERHOOD<br />

95 FLORAL DR. PLAINVIEW, NY 11803<br />

————————————————————————————————————————————————————————<br />

FASHION SHOW <strong>2012</strong><br />

NAME:______________________________<br />

PHONE:__________________<br />

AMOUNT ENCLOSED:______________<br />

I’D LIKE TO BE SEATED WITH:____________________________________


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BUY JNF TREES FROM SISTERHOOD<br />

THEY CAN BE IN MEMORY OF A LOVED ONE<br />

OR IN HONOR OF A LOVED ONE<br />

OR JUST BECAUSE YOU WANT TO PLANT A TREE IN ISRAEL<br />

JNF TREES ARE $18.00 EACH<br />

PLEASE CONTACT ELYSE SCHRAGE @ 822-7062<br />

HOLOCAUST<br />

SURVIVOR COOKBOOK<br />

Our Sisterhood has added a new item to our list of fund<br />

raising which has already proven to be a great success<br />

for our temple. It is called the “Holocaust Survivor<br />

Cookbook”. It is a beautifully published book containing<br />

129 amazing and miraculous stories of courage & survival<br />

and includes over 250 delicious recipes which were<br />

favorites of these great people and their families. You will<br />

enjoy their recipes, but their stories will never be forgotten.<br />

They are selling for $36.00 and the profits on every book<br />

will be donated strictly to the <strong>Plainview</strong> <strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Center</strong>.<br />

They will be displayed at every Sisterhood meeting. Or,<br />

you can call Marilyn Cohen at 822-4553 to order. This is<br />

a great book to have for your home or for a gift for your<br />

family and friends. This book makes a meaningful gift.<br />

And, as a bonus, you will also be supporting our temple.<br />

MAY WE SERVE YOU<br />

Prayer Book Fund Torah Fund Book of Life JNF Certificates<br />

Diane Miller 935-7732 Rose Weiner 935-0454 Rhoda Meshover 938-8818 Elyse Schrage 822-7062<br />

Judaica Shop Joyce Rimer 433-4826 Cookbook<br />

Michele Haimes 822-0704 Judi Dorosin Barbara Alhadeff 935-3510<br />

Mitzvah Committee: Call Temple Office: 938-8610 (Shiva Set-up & Shiva Chairs Available)


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REFUAH SHELAYMAH<br />

Our <strong>Plainview</strong> <strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Center</strong> Family wishes a refuah shelaymah to:<br />

Spencer Reis Stuart Raskin<br />

Martin Bertisch Zelda King<br />

Sheldon Chassen Ivan Mack<br />

Stephen Finkelstein Barbara Greenberg<br />

To our PJC members, if you would like to have a family member<br />

included in this section, please notify the temple office at:<br />

516 938-8610 x101


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Israel Affairs by Sharon Kunoff<br />

It is hard to believe that it is time for the <strong>April</strong> column. So, first, I hope you all enjoyed a festive<br />

Purim with your families at the PJC and are now all ready for Pesach. With all the educational activities<br />

at PJC: the Sisterhood Women’s Seder in March, the Model Seders and studies your Religious school<br />

students attended, and information gleaned at other study sessions there should be very interesting<br />

discussions around the many Seder tables in the <strong>Plainview</strong>-Old Bethpage area this year. If when you are<br />

reading this you find you will be alone this year, please let someone at PJC know. A place will be found<br />

for you at one of the local tables !! Hag Pesach Sameah.<br />

Noah and I completed a 3+ week road trip to Florida to visit friends and family, with various stops<br />

along the way, returning home with the deadline for this article looming. Fortunately, The New Israel<br />

Fund, one of the Israeli organizations that we support had taken a closer look at the Guttman <strong>Center</strong><br />

Survey I mentioned last month, and came up with some interesting facts that did not appear in the general<br />

media. The first headline that intrigued me in the New Israel Fund newsletter was: Can you believe it?<br />

Israel has more Conservative and Reform Jews than Haredis? Of course I was very happy to hear this.<br />

And I realized that this is another case of the squeaky wheel getting the attention. They certainly make a<br />

lot of noise with stoning people who they feel are not observing Shabbat properly, beating up women<br />

who put on Tefillin, boxing in the Women’s area on the wall so that it is amazing that air can penetrate,<br />

and trying to enforce the rule that was found unconstitutional by the Israeli Supreme court, relegating<br />

women to the back of the bus.<br />

According to statistics from the Guttman <strong>Center</strong> as reported by Rabbi Schmuel on<br />

<strong>Jewish</strong>Journal.com, Question number 157 asked: “How would you define yourself religiously?” and the<br />

options were: Haredi, Haredi-Leumi (Zionist ultra-Orthodox), Dati-Leumi (Zionist-Orthodox), Conservative,<br />

Reform, Other, Do not belong to any stream. This question was not included in the final report but the raw<br />

data for all questions in now available on line and Rabbi Rosner found the answers to this one worth<br />

reporting. It turns out that half of Israelis (50 percent) do not belong to any stream. These are the more<br />

than 40 percent of the self-defined “secular” and probably some “traditional” Israelis as well. The surprising<br />

number is the combined number of “liberal” religious Israelis: 8 percent. Haredi,7%: Haredi-Leumi, 2%:<br />

Dati-Leumi, 22%: Conservative, 4%: Reform, 4: Other,12: No stream, 50: Total, 100%<br />

Rabbi Rosner then pondered what this really means or can mean to the non Orthodox groups, the<br />

Masorti (conservative) and the Reform. He compared data with the last time such a survey was done<br />

and found the number of Masorti and Reform has increased. The question was worded somewhat<br />

differently then, but it is most likely that the number has really grown. While still small, the percent has<br />

almost doubled. Independent information also leads to that conclusion as the number of Israeli Masorti<br />

congregations has increased from about 40 to 60 in the last 5 years. The congregations aren’t large, but<br />

in Tel Aviv and Herzeliya on Shabbat mornings 2 years ago, we attended morning services of over 20<br />

people each, in Herzeliya the Shabbat before Pesach and in Tel Aviv, during Pesach and also on the<br />

final day of the holiday. The main Masorti shul in Jerusalem on the first day of Pesach had many more<br />

attendees but it caters to tourists, the others are neighborhood congregations.<br />

One comment Rabbi Rosner noted after speaking to Professor Tamar Hermann, the academic<br />

supervisor of the Guttman <strong>Center</strong>, was that she believes that many of the Israelis who defined themselves<br />

as “Conservative” and “Reform” were really “Israelis with strong religious sense that do not see themselves<br />

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identifying with the Orthodox establishment.” I think that is really how observant Conservative and Reform<br />

Jews in this country feel too, they are observant, but not in the Orthodox sense. They follow the rules of<br />

their movement to the best of their ability.<br />

Summarizing, a few other conclusions: We shouldn’t panic over the what is perceived as a<br />

strengthening of the Israeli Haredi community because maybe, just maybe, it is just them panicking over<br />

our success!! If Israeli moderates are tired of hearing that the moderate streams have no way of<br />

succeeding in Israel – here’s a window of opportunity, opened wide. It is the time for our movement in<br />

Israel to seize it. Having many self-defined Conservative and Reform Israelis is probably nice, but it will<br />

not be truly important if the number of practicing Conservative and Reform Israelis doesn’t significantly<br />

grow. Finally, dividing Israelis into “religious” and “secular” with some “traditionalists” in the middle is<br />

losing relevance. There’s an important silent center of moderates that needs to be heard. Maybe some<br />

of them are sending their kids to Tali schools and are meeting like minded others and will start talking.<br />

We know there is unrest about the way marriages must be performed currently in Israel. Now we hope<br />

these same people will realize that affiliating with a movement will encourage their voices to be heard<br />

and they can do something about it. There is strength in numbers !! Talk to your friends and relatives in<br />

Israel. Maybe even we can make a difference !!<br />

THE BIBLE CLASS<br />

KING DAVID: THE MYTH AND THE MAN<br />

Looking for an hour of action, drama and excitement on Wednesday night? Take in a<br />

classic series that has been delivering the thrills for more than 2000 years. Join Rabbi Conn,<br />

for all the action on selected Wednesday evenings at 8:15 PM.<br />

Rabbi Conn will continue to guide our class through one of the Bible’s most dramatic<br />

stories in the Bible: David ascent to the kingship, his breathtaking successes and stunning<br />

failures. Join us for a lively and stimulating discussion of this riveting story. The class meets<br />

in the Library, usually twice a month on the first and third Wednesday. Refreshments will be<br />

served. Free and open to all. Bring your own Bible or use the study sheets provided in<br />

class. No Hebrew necessary.<br />

Next Session: May 2nd<br />

II Samuel 2 - Long Live the King? Civil War in Israel<br />

Text Study with Rabbi Conn<br />

Most Shabbat Afternoons between<br />

Mincha (Afternoon) and Ma’ariv (evening) services.<br />

Begin the new week with a few minutes of study. This fall, we will focus on a question<br />

from the weekly Torah portion and the answer given by Rashi, the most famous of all<br />

commentators. Our discussions are always brief, and usually insightful. So join us for prayer,<br />

study and camaraderie as we explore the Torah together.


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MEN’S CLUB by Stephen Taub<br />

Men’s Club once again thanks all those who supported the Patio Players’ show, A Funny<br />

Thing Happened on the Way to the Forum. This year’s show was once again a big success. We<br />

would like to thank all those who participated, including those who performed as well as the many<br />

anonymous people behind the scenes, as well as those who donated equipment, time and elbow<br />

grease.<br />

Make sure you check your mailbox for your Yom Hashoah Yahrzeit candle. This is one among<br />

many annual Men’s Club contributions to the Temple. You can help us defray some of the costs of<br />

purchasing the candles and boxes and mailing them by sending a donation. All money that exceeds<br />

our costs will go to the Long Island Holocaust Museum. And don’t forget to light them on the<br />

evening of <strong>April</strong> 18th before you head over to PJC for our annual Yom Hashoah program.<br />

Also, sometime during the week of May 22-24, Men’s Club will be hosting what we hope will<br />

become an annual golf outing. It will take place at North Shore Towers. Watch Hakol, <strong>Orbit</strong> and your<br />

e-mails for further details and the exact date, time and price.<br />

PRESCHOOL (AKA TOT) SHABBAT<br />

FRIDAY APRIL 20TH AT 6:00 PM<br />

Please join us for Pre-School (aka Tot) Shabbat. Pre-school Shabbat is a half hour of prayer,<br />

songs, stories and fun, followed by a kid-friendly kiddush and social time. It is designed for kids 0-6,<br />

but older siblings are welcome to join us as well. Pre-school Shabbat offers a great way for kids and<br />

parents and/or grandparents to share a lively Shabbat experience.<br />

Please tell your friends about this wonderful program. Pre-School Shabbat is open to the<br />

entire community. All are welcome!<br />

Institute for Adult <strong>Jewish</strong> Studies by Sharon Kunoff<br />

The Institute of <strong>Jewish</strong> Studies will be starting its 50 th season this coming October. The Institute<br />

got its start when four congregations, including PJC got together to establish a world class program of<br />

<strong>Jewish</strong> Studies for its members. We have been going strong ever since. Right now we are in the<br />

planning stages for next year. A broad outline of our year follows:<br />

Program <strong>2012</strong>-2013 — Academic Year 5773: Mark the following Monday Evenings in your Calendar:<br />

First Lecture - October 15, <strong>2012</strong><br />

Classes and Lectures - October 22 thru December 10, <strong>2012</strong><br />

Surprise Event - December 17, <strong>2012</strong><br />

Winter Series - January 7 thru Jan 28, 2013<br />

We are in the process of choosing our speakers. <strong>Plainview</strong> has always been a big part of this<br />

process, but our involvement has been wavering. All planning meetings will be on Monday evenings<br />

at Midway, usually one per month through June and then one or two more before the sessions start in<br />

October. The future meetings dates will be announced. For questions, please contact me at:<br />

skunoff@optonline.net. It would be nice to see some of you. It is a good committee which does good<br />

work.<br />

Have a happy Passover!!


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WE WISH TO THANK AND EXPRESS OUR DEEP APPRECIATION TO<br />

THE FOLLOWING FAMILIES FOR THEIR DONATION TO PJC:<br />

Eleanor & Melvin Tanenbaum<br />

Mr. & Mrs. Milton Greenwald<br />

Ann & Martin Block – Cantor’s Discretionary Fund<br />

in honor of Steve Finkelstein’s 70 th birthday<br />

Stanley Roth – Prayer BookFund<br />

Hank Marcus – Men’s Club – in memory of Arnie Cooper<br />

In memory of Arnie Cooper:<br />

Diane & Joe Miller<br />

Barbara Miller<br />

Ilene & Jay Pachtman<br />

Lori & Izzy Fleiss<br />

Beverly Pollock<br />

Libby Saks<br />

Linda & David Ginsburg<br />

Fonda & Samuel Leibowitz<br />

Mary & Cristina Wanek<br />

Pearl & Harris Sanders<br />

Rhoda Meshover<br />

Audrey & Larry Leventhal<br />

Rabbi’s Discretionary Fund – in memory of Arnie Cooper;<br />

Rhona & Richard Liptzin<br />

Dolores & Edward Lubitch<br />

Diana & Len Lerner<br />

Cantor’s Discretionary Fund – in memory of Arnie Cooper:<br />

Phyllis Sarrel<br />

Phyllis & Ivan Mack


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WE WISH TO THANK AND EXPRESS OUR APPRECIATION TO THE FOLLOWING FAMILIES<br />

FOR THEIR GENEROUS CONTRIBUTION TO THE YAHRZEIT & YIZKOR FUND:<br />

Zahava & Shalom Waldman<br />

Sylvia Landau<br />

Metty Kavadlo<br />

Melvin Tanenbaum<br />

Dawn & Richard Bloom<br />

Philip Seydel<br />

Sally Antman Gleicher<br />

Carol & Melvin Breshin<br />

Larry A. Lachter<br />

Marcia Weller<br />

Doris & Hy Schoenfeld<br />

Rita Galack<br />

Mady Rosenthal<br />

Randy & David Goldstein<br />

Helen R. Rudowsky<br />

Estelle & Alan Hodes<br />

Rhoda Meshover<br />

Ellen & Steven Haas<br />

Harriet & Stuart Sherman<br />

“TO SAVE ONE LIFE,<br />

IS TO SAVE THE WORLD”<br />

Mishnah Sanhedrein<br />

The Gift of Life organization is one of North America’s public bone<br />

marrow, stem cell and umbilical cord blood registries. Through its lifesaving<br />

work, Gift of Life is a world leader helping children and adults<br />

find the matches they need.<br />

Right now, there are at least 30,000 children and adults suffering<br />

from leukemia and other blood related diseases. Bone marrow<br />

donations are the key to survival.<br />

If you would like to consider being tested or making a<br />

contribution, please visit www.giftoflife.org. Thank you for your support,<br />

generosity, and the love in your hearts!<br />

M’yad L’yad (Helping Hands)<br />

Please join Sisterhood, other members of PJC<br />

and many others on Long Island<br />

as an anonymous sponsor<br />

of a LI family in need .<br />

All you need do is send a package<br />

as few as four(4) times per year through your local UPS store.<br />

M’yad L’yad will pay the shipping cost.<br />

For more information, call:<br />

Marilyn or Marty Leibowitz at 822-6965.


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Hatzilu Means Rescue<br />

Hatzilu is reaching out to our community for help. This worthy organization<br />

has been assisting impoverished and needy Jews throughout Nassau County for<br />

many years. Volunteer social workers help elderly Jews obtain the government benefits<br />

to which they are entitled and food is provided to the hungry. Hatzilu maintains the<br />

largest kosher food warehouse in Nassau County and volunteers deliver food to<br />

people who need it desperately. The warehouse is in dire need of canned goods and<br />

nonperishable foods. Donations of these products would help restock the shelves<br />

that are almost bare.<br />

Hatzilu appreciates all money donations as well. A food collection box will be<br />

placed by the main entrance of the synagogue.<br />

Thanks for helping those in need. For further information about<br />

Hatzilu, please go to: www.hatzilurescue.org or call 931-2884.<br />

Arlyne Skolnik<br />

HATZILU<br />

IN ORDER TO HELP OUR JEWISH POOR AND ELDERLY,<br />

PLEASE MAKE A DONATION TO HATZILU.<br />

MEN’S CLUB WILL SEND A CERTIFICATE<br />

TO HONOR THE NAME OF MEMORY OF WHO YOU CHOOSE.<br />

THIS IS AN IDEAL WAY TO EXPRESS A “SIMCHA” OR “SYMPATHY”<br />

AND TO HELP OUR FELLOW JEWS.<br />

PLEASE EMAIL STEVE GLASSER AT: STEVETG@AOL.COM<br />

OR CALL HIM AT: 516 938-3069 TO ORDER A CERTIFICATE


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ATTENTION ALL CONGREGANTS:<br />

OUR WEEKDAY EVENING MINYANS<br />

ARE IN NEED OF A FEW GOOD PEOPLE!<br />

WEEKDAY MINYAN IS AT 8PM AND LASTS 15 MINUTES.<br />

ANY DAY YOU CAN COME DOWN<br />

WILL BE GREATLY APPRECIATED.<br />

THANK YOU<br />

PJC BUY A BRICK PROGRAM<br />

Please help us in raising money to upgrade, beautify and maintain<br />

our building and grounds. Our Walkway of Memories will provide a<br />

permanent way to honor or memorialize a family member or friend,<br />

a business or special occasion.<br />

For further information or additional order forms, please call:<br />

Larry Speiller at (516) 938-8610.


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PSSST! IT’S OKAY TO TALK ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE<br />

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Respecting others’ privacy is an important <strong>Jewish</strong> value. Lashon<br />

HaRa—gossip—is uniformly condemned by our tradition. But there is at<br />

least one exception. When someone is ill or in need of care and support,<br />

it is a mitzvah to tell people who can help.<br />

In our community, the Rabbi and Cantor provide pastoral support to<br />

individuals and families who are suffering illness and those who need<br />

emotional support. The Rabbi also serves as the liaison to our newly<br />

formed Bikur Cholim Committee; which provides additional visits and<br />

support to those who request it.<br />

Please let the Rabbi and Cantor know when someone in our<br />

congregation is ill; or when a family is dealing with a crisis. Only when<br />

they know can they reach out to individuals and families in need. Only<br />

when they know can they mobilize our Bikur Cholim committee to provide<br />

additional support. Don’t worry that they might already have the<br />

information. Don’t worry that you are “bothering” these busy people.<br />

The information you provide will be vital to helping our congregation to<br />

serve the needs of those who need us the most.<br />

Rabbi Conn and Cantor Wolk can be reached at PJC at (516) 938-8610.<br />

Rabbi Conn can be reached by cell at (516) 524-7447<br />

or by email at rabbiconn@plainviewjewishcenter.com.<br />

PLAINVIEW JEWISH CENTER<br />

CEMETERY GROUND<br />

Location: Wellwood Cemetery at Pinelawn, New York<br />

Cost: Single Graves available at $550 each grave.<br />

Family Graves $500 each (minimum of 4 graves).<br />

Terms: 25% down with interest free monthly payments<br />

for a period of up to two (2) years.<br />

Eligibility: Available to PJC Members ONLY.<br />

For information call: JOEL FASS 938-7351

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