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PLAINVIEW JEWISH CENTER<br />

5773/2013 MARCH/ADAR/NISAN ISSUE #73<br />

<strong>First</strong> <strong>Seder</strong> - <strong>March</strong> <strong>25th</strong><br />

SISTERHOOD PROGRAM<br />

“The Price is Right”<br />

TUESDAY, MARCH 5TH - 8:15PM<br />

SISTERHOOD NEWS BEGINS ON PAGE 21


ORBIT Page 2<br />

HAMAKOM YINACHEM<br />

Cary Crane on the passing of his father, Herb Crane<br />

MAZEL TOV<br />

Lora and David Zemsky on the engagement of their son, Jason to Miriam Furgiuele,<br />

daughter of Frances and Joseph Furgiuele.<br />

PJC MISSION STATEMENT<br />

<strong>Plainview</strong> <strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Center</strong> is a forward-looking, familyfriendly,<br />

Conservative synagogue, which respects and<br />

incorporates traditional <strong>Jewish</strong> values. We are<br />

completely egalitarian and inclusive in all aspects of<br />

synagogue life.<br />

We strive to provide a distinct, positive <strong>Jewish</strong> identity<br />

through worship, life-long education, enrichment, and<br />

community involvement. These practices ensure a<br />

congregation in which every member matters.<br />

<strong>Plainview</strong> <strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Center</strong> - 516-938-8610<br />

ORBIT (USPS 410440) is published monthly from September to June<br />

for $2.00 per annum by the <strong>Plainview</strong> <strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Center</strong> (a religious corporation<br />

under the laws of the State of New York), 95 Floral Drive West,<br />

<strong>Plainview</strong>, New York 11803. WE 8-8610. POSTMASTER: Send address<br />

changes to ORBIT, <strong>Plainview</strong> <strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Center</strong>, 95 Floral Drive<br />

West, <strong>Plainview</strong>, New York 11803<br />

RABBI...........................................................................Steven Conn<br />

RABBI EMERITUS...................................................Julius Goldberg *<br />

CANTOR......................................................................Morris Wolk<br />

PRINCIPAL.................................................................Rachel Ginsburg<br />

PRESIDENT......................................................................Allan Furman<br />

CHAIRMAN OF THE BOARD............................Bruce Elowsky<br />

SISTERHOOD PRESIDENT.....................................Blayne Peltzman<br />

MEN’S CLUB PRESIDENT.......................................Sandy Strenger<br />

FAMILYEDUCATION DIRECTOR......................................Judy Alper<br />

YOUTH DIRECTOR.........................................................Lois Lange<br />

ORBIT EDITORS.......................................................Margie Richter<br />

Shari Roth<br />

Elizabeth Kessler<br />

ORBIT ADVERTISING............................................... Joyce Eckstein<br />

* In Memorian<br />

DEADLINE - FOR- ISSUE DATE<br />

MARCH 1st<br />

WEEKDAY SERVICES<br />

Mon. thru Fri…………… 6:30AM<br />

Mon. thru Thurs…….…...8:00PM<br />

Sun. and Holidays………. 9:00AM<br />

Sun. and Holidays………. 8:00PM<br />

Friday Evening Services -<br />

Check Calendar for Times<br />

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WWW.PLAINVIEWJEWISHCENTER.ORG


ORBIT<br />

MARCH CALENDAR<br />

Rabbi Steven Conn & Cantor Morris Wolk will officiate at services<br />

The Officers and Board of Trustees Extend a Hearty Mazal Tov to the Families of the Following Simchas<br />

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Friday, <strong>March</strong> 1 st<br />

Shabbat Service……………….......………….....5:30PM<br />

Mishpacha Service/ Charoset Tasting..............7:00PM<br />

Saturday, <strong>March</strong> 2 nd<br />

Shacharit Service………………………...….......9:00AM<br />

Bat Mitzvah: Becky Petrou O’Rourke,<br />

Daughter of Susan Petrou<br />

Granddaughter of Rachel and Edward Petrou<br />

Mincha/Ma’ariv…………………………………….5:30PM<br />

Sunday, <strong>March</strong> 3 rd<br />

Services followed by T/T Breakfast..................9:00AM<br />

Adult B’not Mitzvah Class…………………….....9:15AM<br />

Kadima………………………………………….….5:30PM<br />

USY…………………………….……………..……7:00PM<br />

Monday, <strong>March</strong> 4 th<br />

J-Flex Hebrew High School………………...……6:00PM<br />

Religious School Committee Meeting…..….…..8:15PM<br />

Tuesday, <strong>March</strong> 5 th<br />

Sisterhood Program………………………………8:15PM<br />

Wednesday, <strong>March</strong> 6 th<br />

Bible Class………………..……………………….8:30PM<br />

Thursday, <strong>March</strong> 7 th<br />

BQLI Women’s League <strong>Seder</strong>………………..…6:30PM<br />

Friday, <strong>March</strong> 8 th<br />

Shabbat Service……………..……………..….....5:30PM<br />

Family Friendly Friday Night Service .………....7:00PM<br />

Saturday, <strong>March</strong> 9 th<br />

Shacharit Service…………………..…...…….....9:00AM<br />

Hey Service and Shabbat B’Yachad………….10:30AM<br />

Mincha/Ma’ariv………………………….........….5:15PM<br />

Bar Mitzvah: Philip Roth,<br />

Son of Shari and Eric Roth<br />

Sunday, <strong>March</strong> 10 th<br />

Services followed by T/T………………….……...9:00AM<br />

Zahava Scrapbooking……………………….…….9:00AM<br />

Adult B’not Mitzvah Class………………….…....9:15AM<br />

Rosh Hodesh: It’s a Girl Thing………………..…5:30PM<br />

Tironim.………………………………………....….5:30PM<br />

USY…………………………………………………7:00PM<br />

Monday, <strong>March</strong> 11 th<br />

AARP Driver Safety Program……………………6:30PM<br />

Passsover Workshop....................................8:15PM<br />

Wednesday, <strong>March</strong> 13 th<br />

Lunch and Learn………………………......…....11:00AM<br />

Ritual Committee Meeting……………………….8:15PM<br />

Thursday, <strong>March</strong> 14 th<br />

Board of Trustees Meeting………………...…....8:30PM<br />

Friday, <strong>March</strong> 15 th<br />

Shabbat Service……………..……………..….....6:00PM<br />

Pre-School Shabbat .………………………….....6:00PM<br />

Gimmel Class Service…………………….………7:00PM<br />

Saturday, <strong>March</strong> 16 th<br />

Shacharit Service…………………..…...…..…....9:00AM<br />

Chulent and Learn….…….........……………..…12:00PM<br />

Mincha/Ma’ariv……………………......…..…...….6:30PM<br />

Men’s Club Show: The Music Man…......…….…8:15PM<br />

Sunday, <strong>March</strong> 17 th<br />

Services followed by T/T Breakfast……………....9:00AM<br />

Adult B’not Mitzvah Class…..........………..…....9:15AM<br />

Men’s Club Show: The Music Man………………3:00PM<br />

Kadima………………………………………………5:30PM<br />

USY………………………………………………….7:00PM<br />

Monday, <strong>March</strong> 18 th<br />

J-Flex Hebrew High School………………….……6:00PM<br />

AARP Driver Safety Program………………….….6:30PM<br />

Tuesday, <strong>March</strong> 19 th<br />

Sisterhood Board Meeting………………………..8:30PM<br />

Men’s Club Board Meeting……………………….8:30PM<br />

Wednesday, <strong>March</strong> 20 th<br />

Bible Class….……………………………………...8:30PM<br />

Thursday, <strong>March</strong> 21 st<br />

Youth Committee Meeting……………………..…7:30PM<br />

Strategic Planning Committee Meeting…………8:30PM<br />

Friday, <strong>March</strong> 22 nd<br />

Shabbat Service……………..…….…..…..……..6:00PM<br />

Saturday, <strong>March</strong> 23 rd<br />

Shacharit Service ……………………...……...….9:00AM<br />

Mincha/Ma’ariv……………………………………..6:30PM<br />

Men’s Club Show: The Music Man………………8:15PM<br />

Sunday, <strong>March</strong> 24 th<br />

Services followed by T/T Breakfast………..….…9:00AM<br />

Yom Hashoah Candle Packing…………….…….9:00AM<br />

Men’s Club Show: The Music Man………………3:00PM<br />

Monday, <strong>March</strong> 25 th<br />

Morning Minyan - Siyum for <strong>First</strong>born...............6:00AM<br />

Passover Service.…………………………..……..6:00PM<br />

Tuesday, <strong>March</strong> 26 th<br />

Morning Services (Pesach Day 1)………..…….9:00AM<br />

Passover Service......6:00PM; NO 8:00PM Service<br />

Wednesday, <strong>March</strong> 27 th<br />

Morning Services (Pesach Day 2)…..………….9:00AM<br />

Evening Minyan……..7:00PM; NO 8:00PM Service<br />

Friday, <strong>March</strong> 29 th<br />

Shabbat Service……………..…….………..……..6:00PM<br />

Saturday, <strong>March</strong> 30 th<br />

Shacharit Service ……….......………………...….9:00AM<br />

Mincha/Ma’ariv……………………………….……..6:45PM<br />

Sunday, <strong>March</strong> 31st<br />

Evening Minyan.........7:00PM; No 8:00PM Service<br />

Monday, April 1 st<br />

Morning Service (Pesach 7 th Day)…………….….9:00AM<br />

Evening Minyan…………......………………….… 7:00PM<br />

Tuesday, April 2 nd<br />

Yizkor Only………………………………………....6:30AM<br />

Morning Services and Yizkor……......…………. 9:00AM<br />

Evening Minyan……………………………..……. 7:00PM


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FROM THE RABBI by Rabbi Steven Conn<br />

Much has been written about the demise of the family dinner. A generation<br />

ago, when I was growing up, families would gather around the dinner table<br />

at six o’clock sharp every night and eat whatever mom put on the table. These<br />

days, most families eat in shifts, juggling individual mealtimes around a packed<br />

schedule of afterschool activities, longer work hours and arduous commutes.<br />

We wish we could eat together more often, but, in reality, we are lucky to find<br />

ourselves seated at the same table at the same time once or twice a week.<br />

What is it, exactly, that we miss about family dinners? Certainly not the inevitable squabbling<br />

among siblings, the critiques of our table manners or the threats that had to be made so that we<br />

would eat our vegetables. What we miss, I believe, is a deeper sense of connection; with each other<br />

and especially with our parents. Bruce Feiler, author of the recent book, “The Secrets of Happy<br />

Families,” recently suggested that when it comes to family dinners,<br />

it turns out in many ways that what you talk about at these times of togetherness is<br />

even more important than what you eat. Researchers at Emory gave children a ‘do<br />

you know’ test. Do you know where your grandparents were born? Do you know where<br />

your parents went to high school? Do you know any member of your family who had<br />

an illness or something terrible that happened to them that they overcame? Children<br />

who scored highest on the ‘do you know’ test had higher self-esteem and a greater<br />

sense of control over their lives. The ‘do you know’ test was the single biggest predictor<br />

of emotional health. If you tell your own story to your children — that includes your<br />

positive moments and your negative moments, and how you overcame them — you<br />

give your children the skills and the confidence they need to feel like they can overcome<br />

some hardship that they’ve felt.<br />

Family dinners, Feiler suggests, are important because they give children the chance to get to know<br />

their parents. Family dinners have traditionally been one of the places where parents tell children<br />

their stories. When children talk about their school day, parents tell them about their own experiences<br />

in school. When children talk about their games or their concerts, parents reminisce about their own<br />

childhood activities. Even more important, when children face challenges in school or in their social<br />

lives, when they struggle to figure out what is important, when they experience disappointment, parents<br />

respond with their own stories about struggles and challenges. These stories help teach coping<br />

skills and inspire confidence in children. These stories help children develop a better sense of who<br />

they are and what is important in life.<br />

<strong>Jewish</strong> tradition has always recognized the importance of family dinners. The family dinner is<br />

central to observing Shabbat and the major holidays But the quintessential <strong>Jewish</strong> family dinner is<br />

the Passover seder. The rabbis long ago recognized that, at the Passover seder, too, what we talk<br />

about is more important than what we eat. And what parents should talk about is not just the story of<br />

the liberation from Egypt long ago In fact, the Haggadah also devotes significant space to teaching<br />

parents how to tell their own <strong>Jewish</strong> stories to their children. The instruction takes place in two different<br />

sections of the Haggadah.<br />

In the “Four Children” section, the rabbis reminds us that, around the seder table, we may<br />

have different types of children. For each child, we need to find the appropriate way to tell the the<br />

Passover story. The goal of this storytelling, the rabbis make clear, is not just a history lesson. The<br />

wise child’s question is not “What are the statutes the laws and the ordinances Adonai our God has<br />

( continued on page 5 )


From The Rabbi ( continued from Page 4 )<br />

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commanded?”—but rather “What are the statutes the laws and the ordinances Adonai our God<br />

has commanded you”? In other words, “how are you, my parents a part of the Passover story?<br />

What is your connection—and what should my connection be?” Similarly the rabbis upbraid the<br />

wicked child not for refusing to participate in the seder, but for refusing to consider himself linked<br />

in any way to the Passover story, and all those who came before him.<br />

For the rabbis, the goal of telling the Passover story to our children is to help them understand<br />

how the story of Passover is really our story and how we are personally connected to the<br />

past. The rabbis make this point even clearer a little later in the seder, when they tell us,<br />

In every generation it is a person’s duty to regard himself as though he or she<br />

personally had come out of Egypt, as it is written: “You shall tell your child on that<br />

day: This is on account of what the Lord did for me when I came out of Egypt.” It was<br />

not only our ancestors whom the Holy One redeemed from slavery; we, too, were<br />

redeemed with them, as it is written: “God took us out from there so that God might<br />

take us to the land which God had sworn to our ancestors”.<br />

The Passover seder, then, is about more than just telling the story of the liberation from<br />

Egypt long ago. The Passover seder gives us an invaluable opportunity to tell our children our own<br />

stories as well; the stories of how we personally feel connected and a part of the story of the<br />

<strong>Jewish</strong> people. Our children need to know what our seders were like when we were their age.<br />

They need to hear our memories of Passovers gone-by; the people who sat around the table, the<br />

foods we ate, the songs we sang. Even more important, our children need to hear about the joys<br />

we find in Passover and in <strong>Jewish</strong> life. They also need to hear the stories about the struggles we<br />

may have had as Jews—with discrimination, with faith, with tradition—and how we have overcome<br />

them. They need to understand how we found our place in <strong>Jewish</strong> history and in <strong>Jewish</strong> life<br />

so that they will develop their own sense of deep <strong>Jewish</strong> identity, and the confidence that they, too<br />

will find their place.<br />

Of course, the kind of storytelling our kids need to hear at our seders does not come from<br />

a book. The Passover Haggadah is only a jumping off point, a conversation starter. The most<br />

important storytelling at the seder comes from our hearts. If we are willing to open our hearts at the<br />

seder table and speak about our connection to Judaism, our passions and our struggles, year<br />

after year, our children will come away from the seder table stronger and more confident in their<br />

own connection. Instead of feeling like disconnected from their past, they will have the tools to find<br />

their place in the story of the <strong>Jewish</strong> people. And once they find their place, we can encourage our<br />

children to have their own <strong>Seder</strong>s and family dinners. And at these dinners, they will have the<br />

chance to tell their stories to their own children; so that the chain of our tradition, which reaches all<br />

the way back to Egypt, and runs through <strong>Plainview</strong> and a thousand other cities and towns, will be<br />

extended further into the future, one generation at a time.<br />

KEEP US INFORMED!! Got good news? Engagements, marriages, births? Send your<br />

information by mail, fax (516-938-2737) or email (pjcli@optonline.net) so that we may<br />

share your simchas with the congregation.<br />

PLEASE LET OUR CLERGY KNOW!<br />

Current laws prevent hospitals from releasing names of patients. Please call the Temple<br />

Office when you, a family member, or friend are in the hospital and would welcome a visit.<br />

Contact the Temple office at 516-938-8610 ext.0.


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The Cantor’s Note:<br />

Passover Family Values<br />

Despite the myriad preparations, endless food-shopping, hours of cooking<br />

and strict dietary regulations, Passover is a universally beloved holiday.<br />

Elders, parents and children, family and friends, gather round the seder table<br />

to retell the ancient story, sing the traditional songs, enjoy each other’s<br />

company and, perhaps, feast too well on our favorite foods.<br />

As is often the case, there is a Yiddish expression to fit the occasion: “Duhs<br />

beste fun eser makos zaynen di kneydlakh,” The best of the ten plagues are<br />

the matzoh balls.”<br />

It is for all these reasons that I find Passover sedarim so therapeutic. Beyond the obvious sentimental<br />

attraction, the seder gives us a microcosmic view of idealized <strong>Jewish</strong> family life. In a time when<br />

family relationships are being eroded and buffeted from all sides, the seder restores their equilibrium,<br />

shoring them up against society’s centrifugal forces. The seder’s emphasis on the role of children<br />

does not make it childish or trivial, but rather, reinforces the respective roles of a <strong>Jewish</strong> parent and<br />

child. We want our children to ask US the critical questions, to seek information from US, and look<br />

to US for guidance, just as they need US to give answers, dialogue, example and order to their lives<br />

- US, not surrogates, peers, media personalities, or the internet.<br />

Rather than read the parable of the four sons literally as a story of four different children, it is more<br />

realistic to believe that every child is in some way a composite of the four sons. The same child can<br />

be at times loving and obedient or rebellious and aggravating, clever and perceptive or naive and<br />

foolish, genuine and sincere, or deceitful. This is what makes parenting so challenging and so often<br />

frustrating. We struggle to find the correct responses to these contradictions in our children as did<br />

our ancestors in the Hagaddah, sometimes by imposing and sometimes by imploring, at times with<br />

commendation and at times with firm discipline, at times with an explanation, and at other times as<br />

a matter of authority.<br />

The Hagaddah uses the expression “P’Tach Lo,” to “open up” to our children their intellectual and<br />

moral potential, to make our own experiences more accessible to them, and by so doing, showing<br />

that they and we do not exist in separate or parallel worlds.<br />

The seder is truly a ritual which achieves this closeness between the generations. It is a communal<br />

recitation of an ancient story, aspects of which recur in every age, and which affect each generation’s<br />

life experiences in different ways and color their perspectives accordingly.<br />

The seder night becomes a time to share the collective wisdom of two or three generations and<br />

learn from each others’ insights. Perhaps this is the realization of the prophet Malachi’s vision chanted<br />

on the Sabbath before Passover, “and He shall turn the heart of the parents to the children and the<br />

heart of the children to their parents’.<br />

Gerri and I wish a joyous Passover to our <strong>Plainview</strong> <strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Center</strong> family,<br />

Cantor Morris Wolk, D.Mus


PRESIDENT’S MESSAGE by Allan Furman<br />

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On the evening of <strong>March</strong> <strong>25th</strong>, we will begin to celebrate the holiday<br />

of Passover. It is been said that Passover is one of the most celebrated<br />

<strong>Jewish</strong> holidays. Even the least observant Jew will gather with family and<br />

friends to eat a festive meal with Matzo on the table maybe say a few prayers<br />

and remember the Exodus from Egypt. Hopefully most of us at <strong>Plainview</strong><br />

<strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Center</strong> will attend a <strong>Seder</strong> where we will try to follow the Haggadah<br />

and read and understand the meaningful prayer in it. It is a festive time but<br />

it also one of much significance. The section of the Haggadah I find most<br />

significant and the one I always emphasized to my children when they were<br />

young and even today to them and others at my <strong>Seder</strong> is that, “In every<br />

generation one must see oneself as though having personally come forth from Egypt, as it is written,<br />

“And you shall tell your child on that day, “This is done because what the Lord did for me when I came<br />

forth from Egypt.” This tells us that what God did long ago for our forefathers is still meaningful and<br />

important today. It is not just a foot note in history but a key part of what makes us a people today. We<br />

can not forget our history be it the Exodus from Egypt thousands of years ago or the Holocaust which<br />

is still fresh in the minds of many of us. We must teach our children the importance of these events so<br />

they and the world will never forget.<br />

When you are reading this article you should still have time to order Wine for Passover<br />

through the Shul. I want to thank Alan and Carol Hauser for organizing the wine tasting and wine sale.<br />

It is never an easy task, but it was made even more difficult with the snowstorm which required us to<br />

switch dates. I also want to thank everyone who made the Purim celebration a great event.<br />

I look forward to seeing you in Shul on Passover, on Shabbos and at our daily Minyans. Allan<br />

SPECIAL PASSOVER WORKSHIP<br />

WITH RABBI CONN<br />

Monday, <strong>March</strong> 13th at 8:15 PM<br />

“Everything You Always Wanted to Know<br />

About Kosher for Passover”<br />

Come with your questions as we try to separate<br />

law from custom, myth from fact, and piety from<br />

“mishigas” in a down to earth discussion of the ins<br />

and outs of Kosher for Passover.


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Dear Friends,<br />

One small phrase in the Torah is all it took to create the frenzy that is now known as “cleaning for<br />

Pesach”. In the book of Exodus we read, “There shall be no leavened products (chametz) in your homes.” As<br />

far as we know, our ancestors always understood this passage literally. Any leavened product, from Playdo to<br />

bread dough, was to be removed from our homes before sunset on the 15 th of Nisan.<br />

If we are far-sighted planners, we might be able to arrange our menus so that we eat up every last<br />

crumb of chametz before Passover. We certainly can give away un-opened chametz items to Island Harvest<br />

or any other food banks as well.<br />

But most likely, there will be items we cannot use or give away; items that would be very expensive or<br />

inconvenient to replace if we were to throw them out. Rabbis in the Middle Ages recognized this reality, and<br />

created a kind of “legal fiction” to enable us to keep some of our chametz locked away for use after Passover.<br />

This legal fiction, involved transferring authority over all chametz remaining after a certain date to the local<br />

rabbi. The rabbi, in turn, would “sell” the chametz to a non-Jew for a modest down-payment. In theory, the non-<br />

Jew was free to use the chametz during Passover. In fact, the “sold” chametz is separted from Passover food<br />

and placed in a marked and sealed box or cabinet, so that a Jew cannot easily access it, but the non-<strong>Jewish</strong><br />

buyer can easily claim it. Should the buyer fail to pay the full purchase price by the end of Passover, the reaming<br />

chametz reverts to its original owners.<br />

While some may see the Sale of Chametz as a bit far-fetched, I believe it embodies Judaism’s ability to<br />

at once be a livable religion that does not impose unrealistic demands on its adherents, but also a religion that<br />

makes change in an evolutionary, not revolutionary way. I am happy to provide the opportunity for us to sell our<br />

chametz this year.<br />

If you would like to participate n the Sale of Chametz, please fill out the form below and return it to the<br />

PJC office by Sunday <strong>March</strong> 24th. I will be available to personally “buy” chametz at PJC beginning on Monday<br />

<strong>March</strong> 11th. I am usually available after morning minyans Sunday, Monday and Wednesday, on Monday,<br />

Wednesday and Thursday afternoons from 3 - 6PM, and after evening minyans Sunday, Monday, Wednesday,<br />

Thursday and Saturday. Feel free to stop by at other times as well.<br />

Chag Kasher V’samaech, Rabbi Steven Conn<br />

———————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————<br />

Delegation Of Power of Attorney for the Sale of Chametz<br />

Know ye that I the undersigned fully empower and permit Rabbi Steven Conn to act in my place and stead, and<br />

in my behalf to sell all chametz possessed by me (knowingly or unknowingly) as defined by Torah and the<br />

Rabbinic law. And to lease all places wherein Chametz may be found, especially in the premises located at<br />

_______________________________________________________<br />

(address—include all residences and businesses)<br />

Rabbi Conn has the full right to sell and lease by transactions, as he deems fit and proper and for such time<br />

which he believes necessary in accordance with detailed forms as explained in the general authorization<br />

contracts which have been given this year to Rabbi Conn to sell the Chametz. This general authorization is part<br />

of that agreement. Also do I thereby give the said Rabbi Conn full power and authority to appoint a substitute in<br />

his stead with full power to sell and to lease as provided herein. The above given power is in conformity with all<br />

Torah, Rabbinical regulations and laws, and also in accordance with the laws of the State of New York and the<br />

United States. And I do hereby affix my signature on this the ______________________ day of _____________<br />

in the year 2013.<br />

Signature: _____________________________________ Print Name _______________________________<br />

I am pleased to enclose a voluntary donation of $_______ to the PJC Ma’ot Hittim Fund.


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Please join us at our next Mishpacha Service<br />

Friday, <strong>March</strong> 1 st<br />

7:00PM<br />

brought to you by The Express Innovation Team and<br />

The Arthur Gutmanstein Religious School<br />

We welcome parents and children to have the opportunity<br />

to participate in a <strong>Jewish</strong> learning experience together.<br />

This will include an abbreviated service with “hands on” activity,<br />

explanations and text study with transliterations.<br />

All ages invited.<br />

Next Mischpacha Program:<br />

April 15 th<br />

Please RSVP by Thursday, February 27th<br />

so we can prepare refreshments accordingly.<br />

Please reply to: pjcmishpacha@gmail.com.<br />

Children who attend will receive Category A credit;<br />

Mishpacha Service slips will be given out at the service, please fill it out and return it to<br />

the school office.


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<strong>Plainview</strong> <strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Center</strong><br />

95 Floral Drive / <strong>Plainview</strong>, New York 11803<br />

516-938-8610 / pjcfamilyed@gmail.com<br />

Family Friendly Friday<br />

Night Service<br />

NEW<br />

DATE!<br />

Friday, <strong>March</strong> 8th<br />

7:00 PM<br />

Oneg Following Services<br />

Join us for a warm and wonderful service<br />

appropriate for all ages and all people. The Rabbi<br />

and Cantor lead the congregation in melodies that<br />

encourage participation and a feeling of community.<br />

Afterwards, there is a delicious oneg celebrating<br />

special events in our lives. If you would like to<br />

become a sponsor of the oneg, please email Judy<br />

Alper at pjcfamilyed@gmail.com.<br />

Everyone is welcome!


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CONGRATULATIONS!<br />

OUR B’NAI / B’NOT MITZVAH<br />

BECKY PETROU<br />

O’ROURKE<br />

<strong>March</strong> 2, 2013<br />

Becky enjoys ballet, art and spending<br />

time with her family. Her favorite<br />

holidays are Rosh Hashanah and<br />

Passover because she celebrates the<br />

new year and spring with her family.<br />

For her Mitzvah Project, she is going to Ronald<br />

McDonald House of Long Island, which is a homeaway-from-home<br />

for families of seriously ill children. She<br />

will deliver paintings which she created for the families.<br />

PHILIP ROTH<br />

<strong>March</strong> 9, 2013<br />

Philip is the son of Shari and Eric Roth<br />

and has a sister, Lizzy. He is a seventh<br />

grader at POB Middle School.<br />

Philip enjoys computers, video games,<br />

basketball, photography and games.<br />

He loves going away to Camp JORI.<br />

His favorite holiday is Sukkot because he enjoys building<br />

and sharing the Sukkah with friends and family. For<br />

his Mitzvah Project, he is volunteering at the library for<br />

Book Buddies and Game Buddies.<br />

REMEMBER TO PURCHASE CANDY BAGS<br />

FOR YOUR BAR/BAT MITZVAH<br />

THROUGH OUR YOUTH GROUP<br />

CONTACT THE TEMPLE OFFICE: 938-8610<br />

THANK YOU! TODAH RABBAH!<br />

Thanks to everyone who helped make<br />

our Shalach Manot Program such a success!<br />

Thanks for participating either by buying Shalach<br />

Manot bags for family and friends or by helping by<br />

shopping, shlepping, packing, making phone calls<br />

or by just doing whatever was needed!<br />

Shalach Manot Committee of Sisterhood


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Phone: 212-541-4684 Fax: 212-397-4684<br />

www.MTIShows.com


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Fa mil y Educati on Cor ner by Judy Al per<br />

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Thank you, thank you, thank you! Thank you to everyone who helped make our PJ Library event,<br />

PJ, Purim and Pizza a great success. Thank you to Joyce Eckstein, Rhonnie Diener, Gail Kriss,<br />

Diane Miller and Barbara Rosenberg for all their hard work and thank you to everyone who came. We<br />

look forward to seeing everyone at our next PJ Library event which will celebrate Yom Haatzmaut, Israel<br />

Independence Day. Be on the lookout for flyers announcing the details.<br />

Join us on Friday evening, <strong>March</strong> 8 th at 7pm for our monthly Family Friendly Friday Night Service.<br />

It is a wonderful, warm, welcoming and uplifting service led by Rabbi Conn and Cantor Wolk. Don’t be<br />

surprised if you see people dancing in the aisles! A delicious oneg follows to give you a chance to<br />

speak with friends. By all accounts, this service is a winner! If you would like to be a sponsor of the<br />

oneg, please contact Judy Alper at pjcfamilyed@gmail.com.<br />

Thank you (again!) to all the girls and their mothers who helped package Shalach Manot at the<br />

last Rosh Hodesh: It’s a Girl Thing! The Shalach Manot were given to people in need, many of them<br />

affected by Hurricane Sandy. Thank you, as well to those families who helped sponsor the purchase of<br />

the goodies for the baskets. Our next Rosh Hodesh: It’s a Girl Thing! meeting will be held on Sunday,<br />

<strong>March</strong> 10 th at 5:30pm. We will be celebrating the month of Nisan and creating things for our Passover<br />

seders. All <strong>Jewish</strong> girls whether or not they are PJC members are welcome to join us, RSVP’s are<br />

requested to Judy Alper.<br />

Last, but not least, save Sunday, <strong>March</strong> 17 th at 9am as a date for your 4, 5 or 6 year old to attend<br />

a terrific Aleph Class Passover workshop (all children must be accompanied by an adult). This workshop<br />

is open to the community and is a terrific way for your child/grandchild to learn about the story and<br />

customs of the seder. Please RSVP if you plan to attend.<br />

For further information and/or reservations please email Judy Alper at pjcfamilyed@gmail.com.<br />

We look forward to seeing you at our events!!!<br />

THE BIBLE CLASS<br />

KING DAVID: THE MYTH AND THE MAN<br />

Looking for an hour of action, drama and excitement on Wednesday night? Take in a<br />

classic series that has been delivering the thrills for more than 2000 years. Join Rabbi Conn,<br />

for all the action on selected Wednesday evenings at 8:15 PM.<br />

Rabbi Conn will continue to guide our class through one of the Bible’s most dramatic<br />

stories in the Bible: David’s ascent to the kingship, his breathtaking successes and stunning<br />

failures. Join us for a lively and stimulating discussion of this riveting story. The class meets<br />

in the Kirschner Room (or the small chapel), usually twice a month on the first and third<br />

Wednesday. See the schedule of classes below. Refreshments will be served. Free and<br />

open to all. Bring your own Bible or use the study sheets provided in class. No Hebrew<br />

necessary.<br />

Next Sessions<br />

<strong>March</strong> 6th: II Samuel 16: Absalom, Abasalom Part III<br />

<strong>March</strong> 20th: II Samuel 17: Absalom, Abasalom Part IV


SCHOOL NEWS By Rachel Ginsburg, Principal<br />

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What is so special about the holiday of Passover that children love it so much? I am going to<br />

offer a few suggestions, but I am sure that, if you ask your children, they will have much more to say.<br />

One possible suggestion is that it is a family holiday. All of the family gets together and spends time<br />

together. But, we also do this on other holidays, so “Why is this night different?”<br />

It is different because the children play a big role in the celebration. They ask the “Four<br />

Questions,” they look for the afikomen, they sing special songs, etc. The children’s involvement help<br />

them feel comfortable and interested throughout the evening.<br />

“Shabbat-As-One” on Saturday, <strong>March</strong> 9 th , 2013 will include the Hey Service. Parents, please<br />

put it on your calendar. (This is the class service that we missed due to the snow storm on February<br />

9 th .) There is a class service for the Gimel class on Friday, <strong>March</strong> 15 th at 7:00PM in the Main Sanctuary.<br />

This is a requirement and the Cantor is working very hard with your child(ren). Please make sure that<br />

your child(ren) will attend that evening.<br />

We are planning to offer a family Pesach workshop for our Alef students and their parents on<br />

Sunday, <strong>March</strong> 17 th , 2013 where they will experience the ten plagues and the parting of the Red Sea.<br />

We are also working on getting the Baking Matzo Factory to do a workshop for our Gimel and Daled<br />

students during the last week before Pesach.<br />

It is our custom, every year, to have Passover programs the week before Passover. This year,<br />

the workshop will be offered on Tuesday, <strong>March</strong> 19 th and Wednesday, <strong>March</strong> 20 th , 2013. At the<br />

programs, we will prepare charoset and make arts and crafts such as seder plates and afikomen<br />

bags. The students will pay a Passover trivia game and conduct a model seder.<br />

I want to wish all of the children and their parents a chag kasher v’sameach. Rachel<br />

MARCH 2013 SCHOOL CALENDAR<br />

Mar. 1 (Fri) Mishpacha Service – 7:00 – 8:00 PM<br />

4 (Mon) School Committee Meeting – 8:15 PM in Library<br />

J-Flex (Teen Learning Program) – 6:00 – 8:00 PM<br />

8 (Fri) Family Friendly Service – 7:00 – 8:00 PM<br />

9 (Sat) Hey Service and “Shabbat As One” 10:30AM – 12:00PM<br />

14 (Thurs) CPC Meeting – 7PM<br />

15 (Fri) Gimel (3 rd Grade) Class Service – 7:00 – 8:00 PM – Main Sanctuary<br />

17 (Sun) Alef (1 st Grade) Passover Family Workshop - 9:00AM – 11:00AM<br />

18 (Mon) J-Flex (Teen Learning Program) – 6:00 – 8:00 PM<br />

18 (Mon) Express Innovation Meeting – 8:00PM – Library (Note time change)<br />

19-20 (Tues-Wed) Passover Workshops in Class<br />

23 (Sat) “Shabbat As One” – 10:30AM – 12:00PM<br />

24 (Sun) No School<br />

25 (Mon) <strong>First</strong> <strong>Seder</strong> of Pesach<br />

<strong>March</strong> 24 (Sun) — April 2 (Tues) Passover Vacation – No School or Jr. Congregation


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PJC Youth programs had a great month. PJC USY hosted a dance and we had 50 USYers<br />

from all over Suffolk county. Fun was had by all. At the Mid Winter Kallah, three 8th graders attended<br />

and four USYers attended from PJC. USY is having a fantastic year. Tironim and Kadima<br />

has been having fun with movie night and scavenger hunt around the PJC shul. Come and join us<br />

for some more fun as the year progresses. Hope you all had a great time at the Purim Carnival.<br />

MARCH EVENTS:<br />

<strong>March</strong> 3rd: Tironim & Kadima Bowling @ <strong>Plainview</strong> Lanes from 5:30-7pm,<br />

contact Lois for more information<br />

USY Bowling at <strong>Plainview</strong> Lanes from 7-8:30pm<br />

<strong>March</strong> 10th: Tironim 5:30-7pm Movie Night<br />

USY Cake Boss Contest @ PJC 7-8:30pm<br />

<strong>March</strong> 17th: Kadima - Iron Chef Contest 5:30-7pm<br />

A GREAT TIME WITH USY


A MESSAGE FROM THE WEBMASTER……<br />

Olga Portnoy<br />

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Our new website is not so new anymore, it is four years old. However, the site is changing<br />

on a regular basis: new information comes in, mainly from our publications, Orbit and Hakol,<br />

pictures are regularly sent in by Carol Hauser and Kym Newborn. I also get the “Weekend<br />

Updates”, which come from the PJC Office Secretary, Dorit. Then, I upload them on the website.<br />

Additionally, on our website we have a link to Facebook and to the local <strong>Plainview</strong> news,<br />

“The Patch” which is updated every second and edited by our friend, Joe Dowd (AKA<br />

“Fiorello” and Pseudolos”). There is also a page that links to other useful <strong>Jewish</strong> historical<br />

and informational websites, such as the Jerusalem Post, <strong>Jewish</strong> Theological Seminary, USCJ<br />

and UJA amongst others.<br />

I hope that by now, you have learned to navigate your way around the web and feel<br />

comfortable looking up information and using it as a source of entertainment and backup<br />

information to our different Facebook pages – which are also regularly updated by volunteers<br />

like Kym Newborn, (the great Shofar Master) and Blayne Peltzman, our new and enthusiastic<br />

PJC Sisterhood President.<br />

So you see, I may be the one working the keyboard behind the scenes with the .docs,<br />

.jpegs and .pdfs but it’s a joint effort all around, as is everything that goes on at our Shul.<br />

Some people have asked to volunteer with the “website committee”. The help that I can use<br />

is to just go on the site and send me new suggestions, new “blurbs” or simply a “hey, Olga<br />

there’s something outdated that needs to come off the site”. I am happy to say that most of<br />

the time the site is up-to-date or pretty close.<br />

For those of you who don’t know me, I am a mother of 5 daughters and a grandmother.<br />

I work part time with my husband M Portnoy, CPA, at our Jericho Office. I am also an active<br />

PTA volunteer at Mattlin Middle School and JFK High School. I run pizza sales, Chair<br />

committees, attend endless meetings at both schools and send out communications emails<br />

on a daily basis to hundreds of parents. I am also the backup person at PJC when we send<br />

out the blast emails. And I am on the PJC Sisterhood membership committee this year.<br />

In the near future, I would like to host a workshop for the people that have not mastered<br />

the art of going on the web. If you think you may have an interest in this topic, please email<br />

me at oportnoy@aol.com or admin@plainviewjewishcenter.com or let’s use the old method<br />

of leaving a message at 516-349-1790<br />

In the meantime, it has been my wish for some time to find the following individual:<br />

HELP WANTED AD<br />

A volunteer with technology background, who can take over the Webmaster job at PJC.<br />

Someone who has extra time to dedicate to the beautification and maintenance of the site.<br />

Knowledge of pdfs, docs and jpegs conversion is necessary. Web hosting experience will<br />

make the job easier. Thanks for looking…..approximate amount of hours spent on the upkeep<br />

of the site is at least 4 hours a week, which includes uploading pictures of PJC events.


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PRESCHOOL (AKA TOT) SHABBAT<br />

Please join us for Pre-School (aka Tot) Shabbat: Friday, February 15th<br />

at 6:00PM. Pre-school Shabbat is a half hour of prayers, songs, stories<br />

and fun, followed by a kid-friendly kiddush. Pre-school Shabbat is open to<br />

the entire community—so bring your friends, grandparents, brothers and<br />

sisters to join in on the fun.<br />

PJC 2014 ISRAEL TRIP<br />

Planning for PJC’s 2014 trip to Israel has begun. If you are<br />

interested in participating, and have not already joined our interest<br />

list, please call or email the PJC office at: pjcli@optonline.net. More<br />

information on the planned trip will be available soon.<br />

WE WISH TO THANK AND EXPRESS OUR DEEP APPRECIATION TO<br />

THE FOLLOWING FAMILIES FOR THEIR DONATION TO PJC:<br />

Marlene & Larry Kreditor<br />

Randi & Bruce Lustig<br />

Gladys & Arthur Freilich – In memory of Marvin (Chick) Hershkowitz<br />

Gladys & Arthur Freilich – In memory of Bette Goldberg<br />

Gladys & Arthur Freilich – In memory of Harold Moss<br />

Gladys & Arthur Freilich – In memory of Ivan Mack<br />

Helene Fogel – Rabbi’s Discretionary Fund<br />

Diane & Joe Miller – Prayer Book Fund – In memory of Stuart Lester<br />

Judy & Stephen Berg – Hebrew School Fund – In memory of Jerry Friedland<br />

Susan & Ervi Farkas - Stella Marcus Holocaust Memorial Fund - In honor of<br />

Zelda & Daniel Polofsky’s 80th birthdays<br />

Sharon & Noah Kunoff - Shabbat Dinner Donation<br />

Carol & Melvin Breshin - Shabbat Dinner Donation<br />

Fonda & Samuel Leibowitz - Shabbat Dinner Donation<br />

LUNCH AND LEARN<br />

WEDNESDAY, MARCH 13TH<br />

Join us from 11:00 AM to 12:45 PM for stimulating study, good food and<br />

even better company at our monthly Lunch and Learn with Rabbi Conn. This<br />

month’s session will focus on the <strong>Seder</strong> Plate and how we use food to teach<br />

and create memories.<br />

Suggested donation is $5 per person. Lunch and Learn is usually held<br />

on the second Wednesday of each month. Open to all PJC members and the<br />

community at large.


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wine tasting 2013!<br />

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Text Study with Rabbi Conn<br />

Most Shabbat Afternoons between<br />

Mincha (Afternoon) and Ma’ariv (evening) services.<br />

Begin the new week with a few minutes of study. This fall, we will focus<br />

on a question from the weekly Torah portion and the answer given by Rashi,<br />

the most famous of all commentators.<br />

Our discussions are always brief, and usually insightful. So join us<br />

for prayer, study and camaraderie as we explore the Torah together.


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WE WISH TO THANK AND EXPRESS OUR DEEP APPRECIATION TO THE FOLLOWING<br />

FAMILIES FOR THEIR GENEROUS CONTRIBUTION TO THE MORNING MINYAN:<br />

Randy & David Goldstein<br />

Gale Pine<br />

Willy Hoenig<br />

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Please join Sisterhood, other members of PJC<br />

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as an anonymous sponsor of a LI family in need .<br />

All you need do is send a package as few as four(4)<br />

times per year through your local UPS store. M’yad<br />

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are always available<br />

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FREE MONEY<br />

Please help our Religious School earn free money<br />

Save Box Tops from General Mills brand items<br />

Either mail or deposit them in the Main or Education Office<br />

Ziploc – Kleenex – Hefty – Cheerios – Scott Paper<br />

Gogurt – Kix – Betty Crocker<br />

and many more !!


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SISTERHOOD NEWS<br />

PRESIDENT’S MESSAGE - Blayne Peltzman<br />

Tov Tov Tov to the Shalach Manot Committee who did such a superb job<br />

this year. It is an enormous undertaking and we at PJC are so blessed to have<br />

devoted women who volunteer their time. A huge todah rabbah to Bunny<br />

Finkelstein, Marion Weisfelner, Sheryl Fischer, Judy Dorosin, Judy Forman,<br />

Margie Richter, Marilyn Cohen, Louise Pollack and Doreen Guzik. Thank you<br />

also to all the women, men and children who helped pack. The smiles on the<br />

children’s faces when they received their Shalach Manot bags after services was priceless!<br />

Another tov, tov, tov to Michele Turk on her fabulous Bingo and Sangria night. A special thank<br />

you to Eugene for the delicious Sangria as well!<br />

Thank you to you, the congregants, for supporting our fundraising efforts. It is because of you<br />

that we were able to send several members of PJC’s USY executive board to the spring Kinnus this<br />

year, fully paid!<br />

Sisterhood has some exciting events coming up and I hope to see you all there! Wishing<br />

everyone a happy, safe and peaceful Pesach filled with love and traditions! Blayne<br />

PROGRAM Doris Cooper - Program Vice President<br />

What are we having at our <strong>March</strong> Passover meeting which is Tuesday evening, <strong>March</strong> 5th? A<br />

game called “The Price is Right”. Our emcee will be Roberta Cohen with Zita Jospa and Rose Weiner<br />

as her assistants. There will be gifts to enhance your Passover seders, and, if you are the bidder<br />

closest to the retail price without going over, you get to take that gift home. If it sounds like fun, smells<br />

like fun and tastes like fun, then it must be fun. Come and be a part of this program. Take a break from<br />

your Passover preparations, support Sisterhood and come on down.<br />

FUND RAISING Michele Turk - Fund Raising Vice President<br />

Thank you very much to everyone who attended and supported our Bingo and Sangria<br />

Fundraiser #2 on February 20 th . It was another successful endeavor and a lot of fun too! I want to<br />

especially thank Elyse Schrage for her donation of lovely jewelry pieces for the Bingo prizes and<br />

Ellen Hayman for helping me recruit new faces! Thank you also to Eugene Brickman for making his<br />

delicious Sangria Cocktail.<br />

An additional note of acknowledgement is sent to all those who shared in the profit of our<br />

“Gold Selling Party.” The jeweler came equipped with cash and accurately weighed and appraised<br />

our gold. We all left with hard cash in our purses and a huge smile! It was an easy and pleasant<br />

fundraiser for the Sisterhood. I’m looking forward to seeing more of you at the next event.<br />

Sisterhood wishes Bunny Finkelstein<br />

a Refuah Shelaymah!


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PJC Sisterhood Z’havah<br />

Pesach Apron Decorating<br />

Join us to personalize your new<br />

Passover apron!<br />

Sunday, <strong>March</strong> 3, 2013<br />

Kirschner Room<br />

9:15-10:45 am<br />

Have some creative fun while noshing with<br />

friends!<br />

Kindly RSVP by 2/20/13<br />

Liz Danziger 935-2894, Shari Kubrick 939-0638


TORAH FUND - Rose Weiner, Torah Fund Coordinator<br />

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Our Torah Fund Kick-Off in January was a huge success. I want to thank everyone<br />

who attended. A big “Thank You” goes to Joyce Rimer for her hospitality and delicious<br />

desserts. A good time was had by all. Please continue to purchase Torah Fund cards and<br />

help support the <strong>Jewish</strong> Theological Seminary.<br />

Rose Weiner, Torah Fund Coordinator<br />

The Torah Fund supports our future rabbis, cantors, teachers and <strong>Jewish</strong><br />

community leaders at the <strong>Jewish</strong> Theological Seminary. The money raised through<br />

our Torah Fund contributions is an important part of fostering and maintaining<br />

the continuity of the <strong>Jewish</strong> conservative movement. You can help in this effort by<br />

making donations to Sisterhood’s Torah Fund or simply purchasing Torah Fund<br />

greeting cards. Occasions such as Mazel Tov, Get Well, Rejoicing with You, New<br />

Baby, and of course Condolences are all available for $4.00 each. The cards can be<br />

purchased at any Sisterhood meeting or event, or they can be mailed to the recipient<br />

for you by contacting:<br />

Rose - 935-0454, Joyce - 433-4826, Barbara - 631-923-0000 or Judi - 433-4099<br />

Welcome a new arrival!<br />

Send one of these beautiful Torah Fund cards today!<br />

The Sisterhood Judaica Shop<br />

has gifts for all your holiday needs. We have a large selection of<br />

seder plates, menorahs, mezuzahs, jewelry and head coverings for<br />

both men and women. Our great holiday serving pieces, including<br />

platters and utensils, are wonderful for celebrating and entertaining<br />

with family and friends.<br />

WHEN YOU THINK GIFTS, THINK SISTERHOOD JUDAICA!<br />

FOR INFORMATION, CALL MICHELE HAIMES @ 516-822-0704.


EDUCATION Sharon Kunoff - Education Vice President<br />

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We always say, when Purim comes, can Pesach be far behind? Even though I am writing this<br />

with almost 2 feet of snow on the ground, by the time you are reading this, Purim will have come and<br />

gone. In fact at this writing, Shoprite has had it’s Passover shelves stocked for over a week already!<br />

The holidays are not as seasonal as usual. The first seder will be on Monday evening, <strong>March</strong> 25 th .<br />

Pesach is always such a nostalgic holiday. There are certain customs that we observe every year but<br />

then someone says or does something differently and new memories are created. We often have<br />

guests who tell us that their family does things differently than our family does. One thing we do differently<br />

is the afikomen search. We have a double search. It works for us!! It is always fun to learn new things<br />

which we sometimes add to our celebrations and sometimes not.<br />

The best thing about the holiday is being together with family, but even when not all the family can<br />

get together, the holiday has it’s special moments. Last Pesach I found particularly heart -warming. We<br />

celebrated with cousins whose two grandchildren are slightly older than ours and the other children<br />

were all quite close in age. All were old enough to be a real part of the seder. At one point some of us<br />

adults looked around and realized that the kids had sort of taken over. They were singing the songs,<br />

using many tunes, all of which they knew well and were having a wonderful time. This year, circumstances<br />

will have us more scattered, but we expect to have some great experiences anyhow. With less family<br />

around, I expect there will be more friends.<br />

Try to think of your favorite Pesach moments and share them at your seder. Ask the others what<br />

they remember and like the best about the holiday. It can lead to interesting discussions and can<br />

involve the children in many ways. Pesach is a time to create memories. It is nice to reinforce them by<br />

remembering!! Spend some time thinking about what you might like to share this year.<br />

Have a sweet and meaningful holiday!! See you in Shul!! Sharon<br />

Sisterhood Special Project - M’yad L’yad by Sharon Kunoff<br />

Fortunately our family came through Sandy with no more than the loss of power that affected<br />

most of us. We were able to send them a small Chanukah package, although a little late. We hope to<br />

make up for it by sending a nice Purim package with gift certificates to enable them to shop for Passover.<br />

By that time, you or your children may know which spring clothes no longer fit your sons or grandsons<br />

and which winter clothes you feel will not fit next year. If you have anything that may fit our family, please<br />

try to get it to me (call at 515-694-1896 or email skunoff@optonline.net) and we will arrange to get it<br />

from you. Cash for gift certificates is always welcome. If you want to purchase the cards yourself, she<br />

shops at Stop and Shop and at Target.<br />

Following is a recap of sizes, but remember, young boys grow, so if you have a size larger you<br />

can send it on. If it doesn’t fit now, it will soon. The mom wears 18, 20, XL or 2X pants and XL dresses.<br />

Her shoe size is 8 ½ or 9 and she enjoys reading romance novels and walking. The dad wears size<br />

small shorts/pants, size 8 shoes and enjoys the computer. Ernesto wears size 6 pants, 8, 10 or medium<br />

shirts and size 12 shoes. He enjoys Thomas trains, Angry birds, Spiderman and Lego. If you have a<br />

child who has outgrown any of these items that are still in good condition, Ernesto would like them. If you<br />

are thinking of winter items, coats, sweaters or hoodies would be nice along with the spring items that<br />

we hope will be needed soon.<br />

Thanks to all of you who keep our family in mind!! It is a wonderful mitzvah and is appreciated!


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BUY JNF TREES FROM SISTERHOOD<br />

THEY CAN BE IN MEMORY OF A LOVED ONE<br />

OR IN HONOR OF A LOVED ONE<br />

OR JUST BECAUSE YOU WANT TO PLANT A TREE IN ISRAEL<br />

JNF TREES ARE $18.00 EACH<br />

PLEASE CONTACT ELYSE SCHRAGE @ 822-7062<br />

HOLOCAUST<br />

SURVIVOR COOKBOOK<br />

Our Sisterhood has added a new item to our list of fund<br />

raising which has already proven to be a great success<br />

for our temple. It is called the “Holocaust Survivor<br />

Cookbook”. It is a beautifully published book containing<br />

129 amazing and miraculous stories of courage & survival<br />

and includes over 250 delicious recipes which were<br />

favorites of these great people and their families. You will<br />

enjoy their recipes, but their stories will never be forgotten.<br />

They are selling for $36.00 and the profits on every book<br />

will be donated strictly to the <strong>Plainview</strong> <strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Center</strong>.<br />

They will be displayed at every Sisterhood meeting. Or,<br />

you can call Marilyn Cohen at 822-4553 to order. This is<br />

a great book to have for your home or for a gift for your<br />

family and friends. This book makes a meaningful gift.<br />

And, as a bonus, you will also be supporting our temple.<br />

MAY WE SERVE YOU<br />

Prayer Book Fund Torah Fund Book of Life JNF Certificates<br />

Diane Miller 935-7732 Rose Weiner 935-0454 Rhoda Meshover 938-8818 Elyse Schrage 822-7062<br />

Judaica Shop Joyce Rimer 433-4826 Cookbook<br />

Michele Haimes 822-0704 Judi Dorosin Barbara Alhadeff 631-923-0000<br />

Mitzvah Committee: Call Temple Office: 938-8610 (Shiva Set-up & Shiva Chairs Available)


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WE WISH TO THANK AND EXPRESS OUR APPRECIATION TO THE FOLLOWING FAMILIES<br />

FOR THEIR GENEROUS CONTRIBUTION TO THE YAHRZEIT & YIZKOR FUND:<br />

Sandy & Jerry Assa<br />

Yolanda Needleman<br />

Carol & Richard Levinson<br />

Marge Felder<br />

Susan & Jeffrey Miller<br />

Sarah & Abraham Gutman<br />

Rhonda & Joel Frank<br />

Rhoda Meshover<br />

Wendy & Barry Shapiro<br />

Randy & David Goldstein<br />

Marsha & Stuart Schwartz<br />

Eileen Glotzer<br />

Rhoda & Jerome Wiener<br />

Ellen & Martin Kirschman<br />

Selma & Herman Bernstein<br />

Janet & Mervin Unger<br />

Helen Fuchs<br />

Eleanore & Lawrence Abrams<br />

Ellen & George Rosenbaum<br />

Linda Sobolow<br />

Claire Pottish<br />

Nancy & Kenneth Maltz<br />

Ellen & Norman Kaufman<br />

Barbara & Bernard Roy Hoffman<br />

Eva & Irwin Sher<br />

Helen & Harvey Rock<br />

Hank Marcus<br />

Louise & Seth Pollack<br />

Alexandra Rosen<br />

Anita & Sheldon Chassen<br />

Rita Gulack<br />

Nanette & Sandy Strenger<br />

Pearl & Martin Plawsky<br />

Shahla & Leon Hezghia<br />

Eileen & Bernard Berman<br />

Ida & Victor Klaynman<br />

Doris & Hy Schoenfeld<br />

Ellen & Steven Haas<br />

Beatrice & Robert Gutman<br />

Mira & Paul Klein<br />

Elaine & Steven Singer<br />

Phyllis & Gerard Levi<br />

Loretta Fleiss<br />

Dorothy & David Stopsky<br />

Louise & Reid Selden<br />

Marcia & Milton Weller<br />

Rona Zemel<br />

Jack Schwartzman<br />

Estelle & Alan Hodes<br />

Philip Brandfon<br />

Laurie & Joel Bates<br />

David A. Miller


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REFUAH SHELAYMAH<br />

Our <strong>Plainview</strong> <strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Center</strong> Family wishes a refuah shelaymah to:<br />

Hank Marcus<br />

Martin Bertisch Zelda King<br />

Sheldon Chassen Marilyn Cohen<br />

Bunny Finkelstein<br />

To our PJC members, if you would like to have a family member<br />

included in this section, please notify the temple office at:<br />

516 938-8610 x101


H a t z i l u , p l e a s e g o t o : www.hatzilurescue.org<br />

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Hatzilu Means Rescue<br />

Hatzilu is reaching out to our community for help. This worthy organization<br />

has been assisting impoverished and needy Jews throughout Nassau County for<br />

many years. Volunteer social workers help elderly Jews obtain the government benefits<br />

to which they are entitled and food is provided to the hungry. Hatzilu maintains the<br />

largest kosher food warehouse in Nassau County and volunteers deliver food to<br />

people who need it desperately. The warehouse is in dire need of canned goods and<br />

nonperishable foods. Donations of these products would help restock the shelves<br />

that are almost bare.<br />

Hatzilu appreciates all money donations as well. A food collection box will be<br />

placed by the main entrance of the synagogue.<br />

Thanks for helping those in need. For further information about<br />

or call 931-2884.<br />

Arlyne Skolnik<br />

HATZILU<br />

IN ORDER TO HELP OUR JEWISH POOR AND ELDERLY,<br />

PLEASE MAKE A DONATION TO HATZILU.<br />

MEN’S CLUB WILL SEND A CERTIFICATE<br />

TO HONOR THE NAME OF MEMORY OF WHO YOU CHOOSE.<br />

THIS IS AN IDEAL WAY TO EXPRESS A “SIMCHA” OR “SYMPATHY”<br />

AND TO HELP OUR FELLOW JEWS.<br />

PLEASE EMAIL STEVE GLASSER AT: STEVETG@AOL.COM<br />

OR CALL HIM AT: 516 938-3069 TO ORDER A CERTIFICATE


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ATTENTION ALL CONGREGANTS:<br />

OUR WEEKDAY EVENING MINYANS<br />

ARE IN NEED OF A FEW GOOD PEOPLE!<br />

WEEKDAY MINYAN IS AT 8PM AND LASTS 15 MINUTES.<br />

ANY DAY YOU CAN COME DOWN<br />

WILL BE GREATLY APPRECIATED.<br />

THANK YOU<br />

PJC BUY A BRICK PROGRAM<br />

Please help us in raising money to upgrade, beautify and maintain<br />

our building and grounds. Our Walkway of Memories will provide a<br />

permanent way to honor or memorialize a family member or friend,<br />

a business or special occasion.<br />

For further information or additional order forms, please call:<br />

Larry Speiller at (516) 938-8610.


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PSSST! IT’S OKAY TO TALK ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE<br />

.<br />

Respecting others’ privacy is an important <strong>Jewish</strong> value. Lashon<br />

HaRa—gossip—is uniformly condemned by our tradition. But there is at<br />

least one exception. When someone is ill or in need of care and support,<br />

it is a mitzvah to tell people who can help.<br />

In our community, the Rabbi and Cantor provide pastoral support to<br />

individuals and families who are suffering illness and those who need<br />

emotional support. The Rabbi also serves as the liaison to our newly<br />

formed Bikur Cholim Committee; which provides additional visits and<br />

support to those who request it.<br />

Please let the Rabbi and Cantor know when someone in our<br />

congregation is ill; or when a family is dealing with a crisis. Only when<br />

they know can they reach out to individuals and families in need. Only<br />

when they know can they mobilize our Bikur Cholim committee to provide<br />

additional support. Don’t worry that they might already have the<br />

information. Don’t worry that you are “bothering” these busy people.<br />

The information you provide will be vital to helping our congregation to<br />

serve the needs of those who need us the most.<br />

Rabbi Conn and Cantor Wolk can be reached at PJC at (516) 938-8610.<br />

Rabbi Conn can be reached by cell at (516) 524-7447<br />

or by email at rabbiconn@plainviewjewishcenter.com.<br />

PLAINVIEW JEWISH CENTER<br />

CEMETERY GROUND<br />

Location: Wellwood Cemetery at Pinelawn, New York<br />

Cost: Single Graves available at $600 each grave.<br />

Family Graves $550 each (minimum of 4 graves).<br />

Terms: 25% down with interest free monthly payments<br />

for a period of up to two (2) years.<br />

Eligibility: Available to PJC Members ONLY.<br />

For information call: JOEL FASS 938-7351

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