First Seder - March 25th - Plainview Jewish Center
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PLAINVIEW JEWISH CENTER<br />
5773/2013 MARCH/ADAR/NISAN ISSUE #73<br />
<strong>First</strong> <strong>Seder</strong> - <strong>March</strong> <strong>25th</strong><br />
SISTERHOOD PROGRAM<br />
“The Price is Right”<br />
TUESDAY, MARCH 5TH - 8:15PM<br />
SISTERHOOD NEWS BEGINS ON PAGE 21
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HAMAKOM YINACHEM<br />
Cary Crane on the passing of his father, Herb Crane<br />
MAZEL TOV<br />
Lora and David Zemsky on the engagement of their son, Jason to Miriam Furgiuele,<br />
daughter of Frances and Joseph Furgiuele.<br />
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<strong>Plainview</strong> <strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Center</strong> is a forward-looking, familyfriendly,<br />
Conservative synagogue, which respects and<br />
incorporates traditional <strong>Jewish</strong> values. We are<br />
completely egalitarian and inclusive in all aspects of<br />
synagogue life.<br />
We strive to provide a distinct, positive <strong>Jewish</strong> identity<br />
through worship, life-long education, enrichment, and<br />
community involvement. These practices ensure a<br />
congregation in which every member matters.<br />
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RABBI...........................................................................Steven Conn<br />
RABBI EMERITUS...................................................Julius Goldberg *<br />
CANTOR......................................................................Morris Wolk<br />
PRINCIPAL.................................................................Rachel Ginsburg<br />
PRESIDENT......................................................................Allan Furman<br />
CHAIRMAN OF THE BOARD............................Bruce Elowsky<br />
SISTERHOOD PRESIDENT.....................................Blayne Peltzman<br />
MEN’S CLUB PRESIDENT.......................................Sandy Strenger<br />
FAMILYEDUCATION DIRECTOR......................................Judy Alper<br />
YOUTH DIRECTOR.........................................................Lois Lange<br />
ORBIT EDITORS.......................................................Margie Richter<br />
Shari Roth<br />
Elizabeth Kessler<br />
ORBIT ADVERTISING............................................... Joyce Eckstein<br />
* In Memorian<br />
DEADLINE - FOR- ISSUE DATE<br />
MARCH 1st<br />
WEEKDAY SERVICES<br />
Mon. thru Fri…………… 6:30AM<br />
Mon. thru Thurs…….…...8:00PM<br />
Sun. and Holidays………. 9:00AM<br />
Sun. and Holidays………. 8:00PM<br />
Friday Evening Services -<br />
Check Calendar for Times<br />
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ORBIT<br />
MARCH CALENDAR<br />
Rabbi Steven Conn & Cantor Morris Wolk will officiate at services<br />
The Officers and Board of Trustees Extend a Hearty Mazal Tov to the Families of the Following Simchas<br />
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Friday, <strong>March</strong> 1 st<br />
Shabbat Service……………….......………….....5:30PM<br />
Mishpacha Service/ Charoset Tasting..............7:00PM<br />
Saturday, <strong>March</strong> 2 nd<br />
Shacharit Service………………………...….......9:00AM<br />
Bat Mitzvah: Becky Petrou O’Rourke,<br />
Daughter of Susan Petrou<br />
Granddaughter of Rachel and Edward Petrou<br />
Mincha/Ma’ariv…………………………………….5:30PM<br />
Sunday, <strong>March</strong> 3 rd<br />
Services followed by T/T Breakfast..................9:00AM<br />
Adult B’not Mitzvah Class…………………….....9:15AM<br />
Kadima………………………………………….….5:30PM<br />
USY…………………………….……………..……7:00PM<br />
Monday, <strong>March</strong> 4 th<br />
J-Flex Hebrew High School………………...……6:00PM<br />
Religious School Committee Meeting…..….…..8:15PM<br />
Tuesday, <strong>March</strong> 5 th<br />
Sisterhood Program………………………………8:15PM<br />
Wednesday, <strong>March</strong> 6 th<br />
Bible Class………………..……………………….8:30PM<br />
Thursday, <strong>March</strong> 7 th<br />
BQLI Women’s League <strong>Seder</strong>………………..…6:30PM<br />
Friday, <strong>March</strong> 8 th<br />
Shabbat Service……………..……………..….....5:30PM<br />
Family Friendly Friday Night Service .………....7:00PM<br />
Saturday, <strong>March</strong> 9 th<br />
Shacharit Service…………………..…...…….....9:00AM<br />
Hey Service and Shabbat B’Yachad………….10:30AM<br />
Mincha/Ma’ariv………………………….........….5:15PM<br />
Bar Mitzvah: Philip Roth,<br />
Son of Shari and Eric Roth<br />
Sunday, <strong>March</strong> 10 th<br />
Services followed by T/T………………….……...9:00AM<br />
Zahava Scrapbooking……………………….…….9:00AM<br />
Adult B’not Mitzvah Class………………….…....9:15AM<br />
Rosh Hodesh: It’s a Girl Thing………………..…5:30PM<br />
Tironim.………………………………………....….5:30PM<br />
USY…………………………………………………7:00PM<br />
Monday, <strong>March</strong> 11 th<br />
AARP Driver Safety Program……………………6:30PM<br />
Passsover Workshop....................................8:15PM<br />
Wednesday, <strong>March</strong> 13 th<br />
Lunch and Learn………………………......…....11:00AM<br />
Ritual Committee Meeting……………………….8:15PM<br />
Thursday, <strong>March</strong> 14 th<br />
Board of Trustees Meeting………………...…....8:30PM<br />
Friday, <strong>March</strong> 15 th<br />
Shabbat Service……………..……………..….....6:00PM<br />
Pre-School Shabbat .………………………….....6:00PM<br />
Gimmel Class Service…………………….………7:00PM<br />
Saturday, <strong>March</strong> 16 th<br />
Shacharit Service…………………..…...…..…....9:00AM<br />
Chulent and Learn….…….........……………..…12:00PM<br />
Mincha/Ma’ariv……………………......…..…...….6:30PM<br />
Men’s Club Show: The Music Man…......…….…8:15PM<br />
Sunday, <strong>March</strong> 17 th<br />
Services followed by T/T Breakfast……………....9:00AM<br />
Adult B’not Mitzvah Class…..........………..…....9:15AM<br />
Men’s Club Show: The Music Man………………3:00PM<br />
Kadima………………………………………………5:30PM<br />
USY………………………………………………….7:00PM<br />
Monday, <strong>March</strong> 18 th<br />
J-Flex Hebrew High School………………….……6:00PM<br />
AARP Driver Safety Program………………….….6:30PM<br />
Tuesday, <strong>March</strong> 19 th<br />
Sisterhood Board Meeting………………………..8:30PM<br />
Men’s Club Board Meeting……………………….8:30PM<br />
Wednesday, <strong>March</strong> 20 th<br />
Bible Class….……………………………………...8:30PM<br />
Thursday, <strong>March</strong> 21 st<br />
Youth Committee Meeting……………………..…7:30PM<br />
Strategic Planning Committee Meeting…………8:30PM<br />
Friday, <strong>March</strong> 22 nd<br />
Shabbat Service……………..…….…..…..……..6:00PM<br />
Saturday, <strong>March</strong> 23 rd<br />
Shacharit Service ……………………...……...….9:00AM<br />
Mincha/Ma’ariv……………………………………..6:30PM<br />
Men’s Club Show: The Music Man………………8:15PM<br />
Sunday, <strong>March</strong> 24 th<br />
Services followed by T/T Breakfast………..….…9:00AM<br />
Yom Hashoah Candle Packing…………….…….9:00AM<br />
Men’s Club Show: The Music Man………………3:00PM<br />
Monday, <strong>March</strong> 25 th<br />
Morning Minyan - Siyum for <strong>First</strong>born...............6:00AM<br />
Passover Service.…………………………..……..6:00PM<br />
Tuesday, <strong>March</strong> 26 th<br />
Morning Services (Pesach Day 1)………..…….9:00AM<br />
Passover Service......6:00PM; NO 8:00PM Service<br />
Wednesday, <strong>March</strong> 27 th<br />
Morning Services (Pesach Day 2)…..………….9:00AM<br />
Evening Minyan……..7:00PM; NO 8:00PM Service<br />
Friday, <strong>March</strong> 29 th<br />
Shabbat Service……………..…….………..……..6:00PM<br />
Saturday, <strong>March</strong> 30 th<br />
Shacharit Service ……….......………………...….9:00AM<br />
Mincha/Ma’ariv……………………………….……..6:45PM<br />
Sunday, <strong>March</strong> 31st<br />
Evening Minyan.........7:00PM; No 8:00PM Service<br />
Monday, April 1 st<br />
Morning Service (Pesach 7 th Day)…………….….9:00AM<br />
Evening Minyan…………......………………….… 7:00PM<br />
Tuesday, April 2 nd<br />
Yizkor Only………………………………………....6:30AM<br />
Morning Services and Yizkor……......…………. 9:00AM<br />
Evening Minyan……………………………..……. 7:00PM
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FROM THE RABBI by Rabbi Steven Conn<br />
Much has been written about the demise of the family dinner. A generation<br />
ago, when I was growing up, families would gather around the dinner table<br />
at six o’clock sharp every night and eat whatever mom put on the table. These<br />
days, most families eat in shifts, juggling individual mealtimes around a packed<br />
schedule of afterschool activities, longer work hours and arduous commutes.<br />
We wish we could eat together more often, but, in reality, we are lucky to find<br />
ourselves seated at the same table at the same time once or twice a week.<br />
What is it, exactly, that we miss about family dinners? Certainly not the inevitable squabbling<br />
among siblings, the critiques of our table manners or the threats that had to be made so that we<br />
would eat our vegetables. What we miss, I believe, is a deeper sense of connection; with each other<br />
and especially with our parents. Bruce Feiler, author of the recent book, “The Secrets of Happy<br />
Families,” recently suggested that when it comes to family dinners,<br />
it turns out in many ways that what you talk about at these times of togetherness is<br />
even more important than what you eat. Researchers at Emory gave children a ‘do<br />
you know’ test. Do you know where your grandparents were born? Do you know where<br />
your parents went to high school? Do you know any member of your family who had<br />
an illness or something terrible that happened to them that they overcame? Children<br />
who scored highest on the ‘do you know’ test had higher self-esteem and a greater<br />
sense of control over their lives. The ‘do you know’ test was the single biggest predictor<br />
of emotional health. If you tell your own story to your children — that includes your<br />
positive moments and your negative moments, and how you overcame them — you<br />
give your children the skills and the confidence they need to feel like they can overcome<br />
some hardship that they’ve felt.<br />
Family dinners, Feiler suggests, are important because they give children the chance to get to know<br />
their parents. Family dinners have traditionally been one of the places where parents tell children<br />
their stories. When children talk about their school day, parents tell them about their own experiences<br />
in school. When children talk about their games or their concerts, parents reminisce about their own<br />
childhood activities. Even more important, when children face challenges in school or in their social<br />
lives, when they struggle to figure out what is important, when they experience disappointment, parents<br />
respond with their own stories about struggles and challenges. These stories help teach coping<br />
skills and inspire confidence in children. These stories help children develop a better sense of who<br />
they are and what is important in life.<br />
<strong>Jewish</strong> tradition has always recognized the importance of family dinners. The family dinner is<br />
central to observing Shabbat and the major holidays But the quintessential <strong>Jewish</strong> family dinner is<br />
the Passover seder. The rabbis long ago recognized that, at the Passover seder, too, what we talk<br />
about is more important than what we eat. And what parents should talk about is not just the story of<br />
the liberation from Egypt long ago In fact, the Haggadah also devotes significant space to teaching<br />
parents how to tell their own <strong>Jewish</strong> stories to their children. The instruction takes place in two different<br />
sections of the Haggadah.<br />
In the “Four Children” section, the rabbis reminds us that, around the seder table, we may<br />
have different types of children. For each child, we need to find the appropriate way to tell the the<br />
Passover story. The goal of this storytelling, the rabbis make clear, is not just a history lesson. The<br />
wise child’s question is not “What are the statutes the laws and the ordinances Adonai our God has<br />
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From The Rabbi ( continued from Page 4 )<br />
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commanded?”—but rather “What are the statutes the laws and the ordinances Adonai our God<br />
has commanded you”? In other words, “how are you, my parents a part of the Passover story?<br />
What is your connection—and what should my connection be?” Similarly the rabbis upbraid the<br />
wicked child not for refusing to participate in the seder, but for refusing to consider himself linked<br />
in any way to the Passover story, and all those who came before him.<br />
For the rabbis, the goal of telling the Passover story to our children is to help them understand<br />
how the story of Passover is really our story and how we are personally connected to the<br />
past. The rabbis make this point even clearer a little later in the seder, when they tell us,<br />
In every generation it is a person’s duty to regard himself as though he or she<br />
personally had come out of Egypt, as it is written: “You shall tell your child on that<br />
day: This is on account of what the Lord did for me when I came out of Egypt.” It was<br />
not only our ancestors whom the Holy One redeemed from slavery; we, too, were<br />
redeemed with them, as it is written: “God took us out from there so that God might<br />
take us to the land which God had sworn to our ancestors”.<br />
The Passover seder, then, is about more than just telling the story of the liberation from<br />
Egypt long ago. The Passover seder gives us an invaluable opportunity to tell our children our own<br />
stories as well; the stories of how we personally feel connected and a part of the story of the<br />
<strong>Jewish</strong> people. Our children need to know what our seders were like when we were their age.<br />
They need to hear our memories of Passovers gone-by; the people who sat around the table, the<br />
foods we ate, the songs we sang. Even more important, our children need to hear about the joys<br />
we find in Passover and in <strong>Jewish</strong> life. They also need to hear the stories about the struggles we<br />
may have had as Jews—with discrimination, with faith, with tradition—and how we have overcome<br />
them. They need to understand how we found our place in <strong>Jewish</strong> history and in <strong>Jewish</strong> life<br />
so that they will develop their own sense of deep <strong>Jewish</strong> identity, and the confidence that they, too<br />
will find their place.<br />
Of course, the kind of storytelling our kids need to hear at our seders does not come from<br />
a book. The Passover Haggadah is only a jumping off point, a conversation starter. The most<br />
important storytelling at the seder comes from our hearts. If we are willing to open our hearts at the<br />
seder table and speak about our connection to Judaism, our passions and our struggles, year<br />
after year, our children will come away from the seder table stronger and more confident in their<br />
own connection. Instead of feeling like disconnected from their past, they will have the tools to find<br />
their place in the story of the <strong>Jewish</strong> people. And once they find their place, we can encourage our<br />
children to have their own <strong>Seder</strong>s and family dinners. And at these dinners, they will have the<br />
chance to tell their stories to their own children; so that the chain of our tradition, which reaches all<br />
the way back to Egypt, and runs through <strong>Plainview</strong> and a thousand other cities and towns, will be<br />
extended further into the future, one generation at a time.<br />
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information by mail, fax (516-938-2737) or email (pjcli@optonline.net) so that we may<br />
share your simchas with the congregation.<br />
PLEASE LET OUR CLERGY KNOW!<br />
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Office when you, a family member, or friend are in the hospital and would welcome a visit.<br />
Contact the Temple office at 516-938-8610 ext.0.
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The Cantor’s Note:<br />
Passover Family Values<br />
Despite the myriad preparations, endless food-shopping, hours of cooking<br />
and strict dietary regulations, Passover is a universally beloved holiday.<br />
Elders, parents and children, family and friends, gather round the seder table<br />
to retell the ancient story, sing the traditional songs, enjoy each other’s<br />
company and, perhaps, feast too well on our favorite foods.<br />
As is often the case, there is a Yiddish expression to fit the occasion: “Duhs<br />
beste fun eser makos zaynen di kneydlakh,” The best of the ten plagues are<br />
the matzoh balls.”<br />
It is for all these reasons that I find Passover sedarim so therapeutic. Beyond the obvious sentimental<br />
attraction, the seder gives us a microcosmic view of idealized <strong>Jewish</strong> family life. In a time when<br />
family relationships are being eroded and buffeted from all sides, the seder restores their equilibrium,<br />
shoring them up against society’s centrifugal forces. The seder’s emphasis on the role of children<br />
does not make it childish or trivial, but rather, reinforces the respective roles of a <strong>Jewish</strong> parent and<br />
child. We want our children to ask US the critical questions, to seek information from US, and look<br />
to US for guidance, just as they need US to give answers, dialogue, example and order to their lives<br />
- US, not surrogates, peers, media personalities, or the internet.<br />
Rather than read the parable of the four sons literally as a story of four different children, it is more<br />
realistic to believe that every child is in some way a composite of the four sons. The same child can<br />
be at times loving and obedient or rebellious and aggravating, clever and perceptive or naive and<br />
foolish, genuine and sincere, or deceitful. This is what makes parenting so challenging and so often<br />
frustrating. We struggle to find the correct responses to these contradictions in our children as did<br />
our ancestors in the Hagaddah, sometimes by imposing and sometimes by imploring, at times with<br />
commendation and at times with firm discipline, at times with an explanation, and at other times as<br />
a matter of authority.<br />
The Hagaddah uses the expression “P’Tach Lo,” to “open up” to our children their intellectual and<br />
moral potential, to make our own experiences more accessible to them, and by so doing, showing<br />
that they and we do not exist in separate or parallel worlds.<br />
The seder is truly a ritual which achieves this closeness between the generations. It is a communal<br />
recitation of an ancient story, aspects of which recur in every age, and which affect each generation’s<br />
life experiences in different ways and color their perspectives accordingly.<br />
The seder night becomes a time to share the collective wisdom of two or three generations and<br />
learn from each others’ insights. Perhaps this is the realization of the prophet Malachi’s vision chanted<br />
on the Sabbath before Passover, “and He shall turn the heart of the parents to the children and the<br />
heart of the children to their parents’.<br />
Gerri and I wish a joyous Passover to our <strong>Plainview</strong> <strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Center</strong> family,<br />
Cantor Morris Wolk, D.Mus
PRESIDENT’S MESSAGE by Allan Furman<br />
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On the evening of <strong>March</strong> <strong>25th</strong>, we will begin to celebrate the holiday<br />
of Passover. It is been said that Passover is one of the most celebrated<br />
<strong>Jewish</strong> holidays. Even the least observant Jew will gather with family and<br />
friends to eat a festive meal with Matzo on the table maybe say a few prayers<br />
and remember the Exodus from Egypt. Hopefully most of us at <strong>Plainview</strong><br />
<strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Center</strong> will attend a <strong>Seder</strong> where we will try to follow the Haggadah<br />
and read and understand the meaningful prayer in it. It is a festive time but<br />
it also one of much significance. The section of the Haggadah I find most<br />
significant and the one I always emphasized to my children when they were<br />
young and even today to them and others at my <strong>Seder</strong> is that, “In every<br />
generation one must see oneself as though having personally come forth from Egypt, as it is written,<br />
“And you shall tell your child on that day, “This is done because what the Lord did for me when I came<br />
forth from Egypt.” This tells us that what God did long ago for our forefathers is still meaningful and<br />
important today. It is not just a foot note in history but a key part of what makes us a people today. We<br />
can not forget our history be it the Exodus from Egypt thousands of years ago or the Holocaust which<br />
is still fresh in the minds of many of us. We must teach our children the importance of these events so<br />
they and the world will never forget.<br />
When you are reading this article you should still have time to order Wine for Passover<br />
through the Shul. I want to thank Alan and Carol Hauser for organizing the wine tasting and wine sale.<br />
It is never an easy task, but it was made even more difficult with the snowstorm which required us to<br />
switch dates. I also want to thank everyone who made the Purim celebration a great event.<br />
I look forward to seeing you in Shul on Passover, on Shabbos and at our daily Minyans. Allan<br />
SPECIAL PASSOVER WORKSHIP<br />
WITH RABBI CONN<br />
Monday, <strong>March</strong> 13th at 8:15 PM<br />
“Everything You Always Wanted to Know<br />
About Kosher for Passover”<br />
Come with your questions as we try to separate<br />
law from custom, myth from fact, and piety from<br />
“mishigas” in a down to earth discussion of the ins<br />
and outs of Kosher for Passover.
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Dear Friends,<br />
One small phrase in the Torah is all it took to create the frenzy that is now known as “cleaning for<br />
Pesach”. In the book of Exodus we read, “There shall be no leavened products (chametz) in your homes.” As<br />
far as we know, our ancestors always understood this passage literally. Any leavened product, from Playdo to<br />
bread dough, was to be removed from our homes before sunset on the 15 th of Nisan.<br />
If we are far-sighted planners, we might be able to arrange our menus so that we eat up every last<br />
crumb of chametz before Passover. We certainly can give away un-opened chametz items to Island Harvest<br />
or any other food banks as well.<br />
But most likely, there will be items we cannot use or give away; items that would be very expensive or<br />
inconvenient to replace if we were to throw them out. Rabbis in the Middle Ages recognized this reality, and<br />
created a kind of “legal fiction” to enable us to keep some of our chametz locked away for use after Passover.<br />
This legal fiction, involved transferring authority over all chametz remaining after a certain date to the local<br />
rabbi. The rabbi, in turn, would “sell” the chametz to a non-Jew for a modest down-payment. In theory, the non-<br />
Jew was free to use the chametz during Passover. In fact, the “sold” chametz is separted from Passover food<br />
and placed in a marked and sealed box or cabinet, so that a Jew cannot easily access it, but the non-<strong>Jewish</strong><br />
buyer can easily claim it. Should the buyer fail to pay the full purchase price by the end of Passover, the reaming<br />
chametz reverts to its original owners.<br />
While some may see the Sale of Chametz as a bit far-fetched, I believe it embodies Judaism’s ability to<br />
at once be a livable religion that does not impose unrealistic demands on its adherents, but also a religion that<br />
makes change in an evolutionary, not revolutionary way. I am happy to provide the opportunity for us to sell our<br />
chametz this year.<br />
If you would like to participate n the Sale of Chametz, please fill out the form below and return it to the<br />
PJC office by Sunday <strong>March</strong> 24th. I will be available to personally “buy” chametz at PJC beginning on Monday<br />
<strong>March</strong> 11th. I am usually available after morning minyans Sunday, Monday and Wednesday, on Monday,<br />
Wednesday and Thursday afternoons from 3 - 6PM, and after evening minyans Sunday, Monday, Wednesday,<br />
Thursday and Saturday. Feel free to stop by at other times as well.<br />
Chag Kasher V’samaech, Rabbi Steven Conn<br />
———————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————<br />
Delegation Of Power of Attorney for the Sale of Chametz<br />
Know ye that I the undersigned fully empower and permit Rabbi Steven Conn to act in my place and stead, and<br />
in my behalf to sell all chametz possessed by me (knowingly or unknowingly) as defined by Torah and the<br />
Rabbinic law. And to lease all places wherein Chametz may be found, especially in the premises located at<br />
_______________________________________________________<br />
(address—include all residences and businesses)<br />
Rabbi Conn has the full right to sell and lease by transactions, as he deems fit and proper and for such time<br />
which he believes necessary in accordance with detailed forms as explained in the general authorization<br />
contracts which have been given this year to Rabbi Conn to sell the Chametz. This general authorization is part<br />
of that agreement. Also do I thereby give the said Rabbi Conn full power and authority to appoint a substitute in<br />
his stead with full power to sell and to lease as provided herein. The above given power is in conformity with all<br />
Torah, Rabbinical regulations and laws, and also in accordance with the laws of the State of New York and the<br />
United States. And I do hereby affix my signature on this the ______________________ day of _____________<br />
in the year 2013.<br />
Signature: _____________________________________ Print Name _______________________________<br />
I am pleased to enclose a voluntary donation of $_______ to the PJC Ma’ot Hittim Fund.
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Please join us at our next Mishpacha Service<br />
Friday, <strong>March</strong> 1 st<br />
7:00PM<br />
brought to you by The Express Innovation Team and<br />
The Arthur Gutmanstein Religious School<br />
We welcome parents and children to have the opportunity<br />
to participate in a <strong>Jewish</strong> learning experience together.<br />
This will include an abbreviated service with “hands on” activity,<br />
explanations and text study with transliterations.<br />
All ages invited.<br />
Next Mischpacha Program:<br />
April 15 th<br />
Please RSVP by Thursday, February 27th<br />
so we can prepare refreshments accordingly.<br />
Please reply to: pjcmishpacha@gmail.com.<br />
Children who attend will receive Category A credit;<br />
Mishpacha Service slips will be given out at the service, please fill it out and return it to<br />
the school office.
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<strong>Plainview</strong> <strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Center</strong><br />
95 Floral Drive / <strong>Plainview</strong>, New York 11803<br />
516-938-8610 / pjcfamilyed@gmail.com<br />
Family Friendly Friday<br />
Night Service<br />
NEW<br />
DATE!<br />
Friday, <strong>March</strong> 8th<br />
7:00 PM<br />
Oneg Following Services<br />
Join us for a warm and wonderful service<br />
appropriate for all ages and all people. The Rabbi<br />
and Cantor lead the congregation in melodies that<br />
encourage participation and a feeling of community.<br />
Afterwards, there is a delicious oneg celebrating<br />
special events in our lives. If you would like to<br />
become a sponsor of the oneg, please email Judy<br />
Alper at pjcfamilyed@gmail.com.<br />
Everyone is welcome!
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CONGRATULATIONS!<br />
OUR B’NAI / B’NOT MITZVAH<br />
BECKY PETROU<br />
O’ROURKE<br />
<strong>March</strong> 2, 2013<br />
Becky enjoys ballet, art and spending<br />
time with her family. Her favorite<br />
holidays are Rosh Hashanah and<br />
Passover because she celebrates the<br />
new year and spring with her family.<br />
For her Mitzvah Project, she is going to Ronald<br />
McDonald House of Long Island, which is a homeaway-from-home<br />
for families of seriously ill children. She<br />
will deliver paintings which she created for the families.<br />
PHILIP ROTH<br />
<strong>March</strong> 9, 2013<br />
Philip is the son of Shari and Eric Roth<br />
and has a sister, Lizzy. He is a seventh<br />
grader at POB Middle School.<br />
Philip enjoys computers, video games,<br />
basketball, photography and games.<br />
He loves going away to Camp JORI.<br />
His favorite holiday is Sukkot because he enjoys building<br />
and sharing the Sukkah with friends and family. For<br />
his Mitzvah Project, he is volunteering at the library for<br />
Book Buddies and Game Buddies.<br />
REMEMBER TO PURCHASE CANDY BAGS<br />
FOR YOUR BAR/BAT MITZVAH<br />
THROUGH OUR YOUTH GROUP<br />
CONTACT THE TEMPLE OFFICE: 938-8610<br />
THANK YOU! TODAH RABBAH!<br />
Thanks to everyone who helped make<br />
our Shalach Manot Program such a success!<br />
Thanks for participating either by buying Shalach<br />
Manot bags for family and friends or by helping by<br />
shopping, shlepping, packing, making phone calls<br />
or by just doing whatever was needed!<br />
Shalach Manot Committee of Sisterhood
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Fa mil y Educati on Cor ner by Judy Al per<br />
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Thank you, thank you, thank you! Thank you to everyone who helped make our PJ Library event,<br />
PJ, Purim and Pizza a great success. Thank you to Joyce Eckstein, Rhonnie Diener, Gail Kriss,<br />
Diane Miller and Barbara Rosenberg for all their hard work and thank you to everyone who came. We<br />
look forward to seeing everyone at our next PJ Library event which will celebrate Yom Haatzmaut, Israel<br />
Independence Day. Be on the lookout for flyers announcing the details.<br />
Join us on Friday evening, <strong>March</strong> 8 th at 7pm for our monthly Family Friendly Friday Night Service.<br />
It is a wonderful, warm, welcoming and uplifting service led by Rabbi Conn and Cantor Wolk. Don’t be<br />
surprised if you see people dancing in the aisles! A delicious oneg follows to give you a chance to<br />
speak with friends. By all accounts, this service is a winner! If you would like to be a sponsor of the<br />
oneg, please contact Judy Alper at pjcfamilyed@gmail.com.<br />
Thank you (again!) to all the girls and their mothers who helped package Shalach Manot at the<br />
last Rosh Hodesh: It’s a Girl Thing! The Shalach Manot were given to people in need, many of them<br />
affected by Hurricane Sandy. Thank you, as well to those families who helped sponsor the purchase of<br />
the goodies for the baskets. Our next Rosh Hodesh: It’s a Girl Thing! meeting will be held on Sunday,<br />
<strong>March</strong> 10 th at 5:30pm. We will be celebrating the month of Nisan and creating things for our Passover<br />
seders. All <strong>Jewish</strong> girls whether or not they are PJC members are welcome to join us, RSVP’s are<br />
requested to Judy Alper.<br />
Last, but not least, save Sunday, <strong>March</strong> 17 th at 9am as a date for your 4, 5 or 6 year old to attend<br />
a terrific Aleph Class Passover workshop (all children must be accompanied by an adult). This workshop<br />
is open to the community and is a terrific way for your child/grandchild to learn about the story and<br />
customs of the seder. Please RSVP if you plan to attend.<br />
For further information and/or reservations please email Judy Alper at pjcfamilyed@gmail.com.<br />
We look forward to seeing you at our events!!!<br />
THE BIBLE CLASS<br />
KING DAVID: THE MYTH AND THE MAN<br />
Looking for an hour of action, drama and excitement on Wednesday night? Take in a<br />
classic series that has been delivering the thrills for more than 2000 years. Join Rabbi Conn,<br />
for all the action on selected Wednesday evenings at 8:15 PM.<br />
Rabbi Conn will continue to guide our class through one of the Bible’s most dramatic<br />
stories in the Bible: David’s ascent to the kingship, his breathtaking successes and stunning<br />
failures. Join us for a lively and stimulating discussion of this riveting story. The class meets<br />
in the Kirschner Room (or the small chapel), usually twice a month on the first and third<br />
Wednesday. See the schedule of classes below. Refreshments will be served. Free and<br />
open to all. Bring your own Bible or use the study sheets provided in class. No Hebrew<br />
necessary.<br />
Next Sessions<br />
<strong>March</strong> 6th: II Samuel 16: Absalom, Abasalom Part III<br />
<strong>March</strong> 20th: II Samuel 17: Absalom, Abasalom Part IV
SCHOOL NEWS By Rachel Ginsburg, Principal<br />
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What is so special about the holiday of Passover that children love it so much? I am going to<br />
offer a few suggestions, but I am sure that, if you ask your children, they will have much more to say.<br />
One possible suggestion is that it is a family holiday. All of the family gets together and spends time<br />
together. But, we also do this on other holidays, so “Why is this night different?”<br />
It is different because the children play a big role in the celebration. They ask the “Four<br />
Questions,” they look for the afikomen, they sing special songs, etc. The children’s involvement help<br />
them feel comfortable and interested throughout the evening.<br />
“Shabbat-As-One” on Saturday, <strong>March</strong> 9 th , 2013 will include the Hey Service. Parents, please<br />
put it on your calendar. (This is the class service that we missed due to the snow storm on February<br />
9 th .) There is a class service for the Gimel class on Friday, <strong>March</strong> 15 th at 7:00PM in the Main Sanctuary.<br />
This is a requirement and the Cantor is working very hard with your child(ren). Please make sure that<br />
your child(ren) will attend that evening.<br />
We are planning to offer a family Pesach workshop for our Alef students and their parents on<br />
Sunday, <strong>March</strong> 17 th , 2013 where they will experience the ten plagues and the parting of the Red Sea.<br />
We are also working on getting the Baking Matzo Factory to do a workshop for our Gimel and Daled<br />
students during the last week before Pesach.<br />
It is our custom, every year, to have Passover programs the week before Passover. This year,<br />
the workshop will be offered on Tuesday, <strong>March</strong> 19 th and Wednesday, <strong>March</strong> 20 th , 2013. At the<br />
programs, we will prepare charoset and make arts and crafts such as seder plates and afikomen<br />
bags. The students will pay a Passover trivia game and conduct a model seder.<br />
I want to wish all of the children and their parents a chag kasher v’sameach. Rachel<br />
MARCH 2013 SCHOOL CALENDAR<br />
Mar. 1 (Fri) Mishpacha Service – 7:00 – 8:00 PM<br />
4 (Mon) School Committee Meeting – 8:15 PM in Library<br />
J-Flex (Teen Learning Program) – 6:00 – 8:00 PM<br />
8 (Fri) Family Friendly Service – 7:00 – 8:00 PM<br />
9 (Sat) Hey Service and “Shabbat As One” 10:30AM – 12:00PM<br />
14 (Thurs) CPC Meeting – 7PM<br />
15 (Fri) Gimel (3 rd Grade) Class Service – 7:00 – 8:00 PM – Main Sanctuary<br />
17 (Sun) Alef (1 st Grade) Passover Family Workshop - 9:00AM – 11:00AM<br />
18 (Mon) J-Flex (Teen Learning Program) – 6:00 – 8:00 PM<br />
18 (Mon) Express Innovation Meeting – 8:00PM – Library (Note time change)<br />
19-20 (Tues-Wed) Passover Workshops in Class<br />
23 (Sat) “Shabbat As One” – 10:30AM – 12:00PM<br />
24 (Sun) No School<br />
25 (Mon) <strong>First</strong> <strong>Seder</strong> of Pesach<br />
<strong>March</strong> 24 (Sun) — April 2 (Tues) Passover Vacation – No School or Jr. Congregation
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PJC Youth programs had a great month. PJC USY hosted a dance and we had 50 USYers<br />
from all over Suffolk county. Fun was had by all. At the Mid Winter Kallah, three 8th graders attended<br />
and four USYers attended from PJC. USY is having a fantastic year. Tironim and Kadima<br />
has been having fun with movie night and scavenger hunt around the PJC shul. Come and join us<br />
for some more fun as the year progresses. Hope you all had a great time at the Purim Carnival.<br />
MARCH EVENTS:<br />
<strong>March</strong> 3rd: Tironim & Kadima Bowling @ <strong>Plainview</strong> Lanes from 5:30-7pm,<br />
contact Lois for more information<br />
USY Bowling at <strong>Plainview</strong> Lanes from 7-8:30pm<br />
<strong>March</strong> 10th: Tironim 5:30-7pm Movie Night<br />
USY Cake Boss Contest @ PJC 7-8:30pm<br />
<strong>March</strong> 17th: Kadima - Iron Chef Contest 5:30-7pm<br />
A GREAT TIME WITH USY
A MESSAGE FROM THE WEBMASTER……<br />
Olga Portnoy<br />
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Our new website is not so new anymore, it is four years old. However, the site is changing<br />
on a regular basis: new information comes in, mainly from our publications, Orbit and Hakol,<br />
pictures are regularly sent in by Carol Hauser and Kym Newborn. I also get the “Weekend<br />
Updates”, which come from the PJC Office Secretary, Dorit. Then, I upload them on the website.<br />
Additionally, on our website we have a link to Facebook and to the local <strong>Plainview</strong> news,<br />
“The Patch” which is updated every second and edited by our friend, Joe Dowd (AKA<br />
“Fiorello” and Pseudolos”). There is also a page that links to other useful <strong>Jewish</strong> historical<br />
and informational websites, such as the Jerusalem Post, <strong>Jewish</strong> Theological Seminary, USCJ<br />
and UJA amongst others.<br />
I hope that by now, you have learned to navigate your way around the web and feel<br />
comfortable looking up information and using it as a source of entertainment and backup<br />
information to our different Facebook pages – which are also regularly updated by volunteers<br />
like Kym Newborn, (the great Shofar Master) and Blayne Peltzman, our new and enthusiastic<br />
PJC Sisterhood President.<br />
So you see, I may be the one working the keyboard behind the scenes with the .docs,<br />
.jpegs and .pdfs but it’s a joint effort all around, as is everything that goes on at our Shul.<br />
Some people have asked to volunteer with the “website committee”. The help that I can use<br />
is to just go on the site and send me new suggestions, new “blurbs” or simply a “hey, Olga<br />
there’s something outdated that needs to come off the site”. I am happy to say that most of<br />
the time the site is up-to-date or pretty close.<br />
For those of you who don’t know me, I am a mother of 5 daughters and a grandmother.<br />
I work part time with my husband M Portnoy, CPA, at our Jericho Office. I am also an active<br />
PTA volunteer at Mattlin Middle School and JFK High School. I run pizza sales, Chair<br />
committees, attend endless meetings at both schools and send out communications emails<br />
on a daily basis to hundreds of parents. I am also the backup person at PJC when we send<br />
out the blast emails. And I am on the PJC Sisterhood membership committee this year.<br />
In the near future, I would like to host a workshop for the people that have not mastered<br />
the art of going on the web. If you think you may have an interest in this topic, please email<br />
me at oportnoy@aol.com or admin@plainviewjewishcenter.com or let’s use the old method<br />
of leaving a message at 516-349-1790<br />
In the meantime, it has been my wish for some time to find the following individual:<br />
HELP WANTED AD<br />
A volunteer with technology background, who can take over the Webmaster job at PJC.<br />
Someone who has extra time to dedicate to the beautification and maintenance of the site.<br />
Knowledge of pdfs, docs and jpegs conversion is necessary. Web hosting experience will<br />
make the job easier. Thanks for looking…..approximate amount of hours spent on the upkeep<br />
of the site is at least 4 hours a week, which includes uploading pictures of PJC events.
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PRESCHOOL (AKA TOT) SHABBAT<br />
Please join us for Pre-School (aka Tot) Shabbat: Friday, February 15th<br />
at 6:00PM. Pre-school Shabbat is a half hour of prayers, songs, stories<br />
and fun, followed by a kid-friendly kiddush. Pre-school Shabbat is open to<br />
the entire community—so bring your friends, grandparents, brothers and<br />
sisters to join in on the fun.<br />
PJC 2014 ISRAEL TRIP<br />
Planning for PJC’s 2014 trip to Israel has begun. If you are<br />
interested in participating, and have not already joined our interest<br />
list, please call or email the PJC office at: pjcli@optonline.net. More<br />
information on the planned trip will be available soon.<br />
WE WISH TO THANK AND EXPRESS OUR DEEP APPRECIATION TO<br />
THE FOLLOWING FAMILIES FOR THEIR DONATION TO PJC:<br />
Marlene & Larry Kreditor<br />
Randi & Bruce Lustig<br />
Gladys & Arthur Freilich – In memory of Marvin (Chick) Hershkowitz<br />
Gladys & Arthur Freilich – In memory of Bette Goldberg<br />
Gladys & Arthur Freilich – In memory of Harold Moss<br />
Gladys & Arthur Freilich – In memory of Ivan Mack<br />
Helene Fogel – Rabbi’s Discretionary Fund<br />
Diane & Joe Miller – Prayer Book Fund – In memory of Stuart Lester<br />
Judy & Stephen Berg – Hebrew School Fund – In memory of Jerry Friedland<br />
Susan & Ervi Farkas - Stella Marcus Holocaust Memorial Fund - In honor of<br />
Zelda & Daniel Polofsky’s 80th birthdays<br />
Sharon & Noah Kunoff - Shabbat Dinner Donation<br />
Carol & Melvin Breshin - Shabbat Dinner Donation<br />
Fonda & Samuel Leibowitz - Shabbat Dinner Donation<br />
LUNCH AND LEARN<br />
WEDNESDAY, MARCH 13TH<br />
Join us from 11:00 AM to 12:45 PM for stimulating study, good food and<br />
even better company at our monthly Lunch and Learn with Rabbi Conn. This<br />
month’s session will focus on the <strong>Seder</strong> Plate and how we use food to teach<br />
and create memories.<br />
Suggested donation is $5 per person. Lunch and Learn is usually held<br />
on the second Wednesday of each month. Open to all PJC members and the<br />
community at large.
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Text Study with Rabbi Conn<br />
Most Shabbat Afternoons between<br />
Mincha (Afternoon) and Ma’ariv (evening) services.<br />
Begin the new week with a few minutes of study. This fall, we will focus<br />
on a question from the weekly Torah portion and the answer given by Rashi,<br />
the most famous of all commentators.<br />
Our discussions are always brief, and usually insightful. So join us<br />
for prayer, study and camaraderie as we explore the Torah together.
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WE WISH TO THANK AND EXPRESS OUR DEEP APPRECIATION TO THE FOLLOWING<br />
FAMILIES FOR THEIR GENEROUS CONTRIBUTION TO THE MORNING MINYAN:<br />
Randy & David Goldstein<br />
Gale Pine<br />
Willy Hoenig<br />
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FREE MONEY<br />
Please help our Religious School earn free money<br />
Save Box Tops from General Mills brand items<br />
Either mail or deposit them in the Main or Education Office<br />
Ziploc – Kleenex – Hefty – Cheerios – Scott Paper<br />
Gogurt – Kix – Betty Crocker<br />
and many more !!
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SISTERHOOD NEWS<br />
PRESIDENT’S MESSAGE - Blayne Peltzman<br />
Tov Tov Tov to the Shalach Manot Committee who did such a superb job<br />
this year. It is an enormous undertaking and we at PJC are so blessed to have<br />
devoted women who volunteer their time. A huge todah rabbah to Bunny<br />
Finkelstein, Marion Weisfelner, Sheryl Fischer, Judy Dorosin, Judy Forman,<br />
Margie Richter, Marilyn Cohen, Louise Pollack and Doreen Guzik. Thank you<br />
also to all the women, men and children who helped pack. The smiles on the<br />
children’s faces when they received their Shalach Manot bags after services was priceless!<br />
Another tov, tov, tov to Michele Turk on her fabulous Bingo and Sangria night. A special thank<br />
you to Eugene for the delicious Sangria as well!<br />
Thank you to you, the congregants, for supporting our fundraising efforts. It is because of you<br />
that we were able to send several members of PJC’s USY executive board to the spring Kinnus this<br />
year, fully paid!<br />
Sisterhood has some exciting events coming up and I hope to see you all there! Wishing<br />
everyone a happy, safe and peaceful Pesach filled with love and traditions! Blayne<br />
PROGRAM Doris Cooper - Program Vice President<br />
What are we having at our <strong>March</strong> Passover meeting which is Tuesday evening, <strong>March</strong> 5th? A<br />
game called “The Price is Right”. Our emcee will be Roberta Cohen with Zita Jospa and Rose Weiner<br />
as her assistants. There will be gifts to enhance your Passover seders, and, if you are the bidder<br />
closest to the retail price without going over, you get to take that gift home. If it sounds like fun, smells<br />
like fun and tastes like fun, then it must be fun. Come and be a part of this program. Take a break from<br />
your Passover preparations, support Sisterhood and come on down.<br />
FUND RAISING Michele Turk - Fund Raising Vice President<br />
Thank you very much to everyone who attended and supported our Bingo and Sangria<br />
Fundraiser #2 on February 20 th . It was another successful endeavor and a lot of fun too! I want to<br />
especially thank Elyse Schrage for her donation of lovely jewelry pieces for the Bingo prizes and<br />
Ellen Hayman for helping me recruit new faces! Thank you also to Eugene Brickman for making his<br />
delicious Sangria Cocktail.<br />
An additional note of acknowledgement is sent to all those who shared in the profit of our<br />
“Gold Selling Party.” The jeweler came equipped with cash and accurately weighed and appraised<br />
our gold. We all left with hard cash in our purses and a huge smile! It was an easy and pleasant<br />
fundraiser for the Sisterhood. I’m looking forward to seeing more of you at the next event.<br />
Sisterhood wishes Bunny Finkelstein<br />
a Refuah Shelaymah!
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PJC Sisterhood Z’havah<br />
Pesach Apron Decorating<br />
Join us to personalize your new<br />
Passover apron!<br />
Sunday, <strong>March</strong> 3, 2013<br />
Kirschner Room<br />
9:15-10:45 am<br />
Have some creative fun while noshing with<br />
friends!<br />
Kindly RSVP by 2/20/13<br />
Liz Danziger 935-2894, Shari Kubrick 939-0638
TORAH FUND - Rose Weiner, Torah Fund Coordinator<br />
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Our Torah Fund Kick-Off in January was a huge success. I want to thank everyone<br />
who attended. A big “Thank You” goes to Joyce Rimer for her hospitality and delicious<br />
desserts. A good time was had by all. Please continue to purchase Torah Fund cards and<br />
help support the <strong>Jewish</strong> Theological Seminary.<br />
Rose Weiner, Torah Fund Coordinator<br />
The Torah Fund supports our future rabbis, cantors, teachers and <strong>Jewish</strong><br />
community leaders at the <strong>Jewish</strong> Theological Seminary. The money raised through<br />
our Torah Fund contributions is an important part of fostering and maintaining<br />
the continuity of the <strong>Jewish</strong> conservative movement. You can help in this effort by<br />
making donations to Sisterhood’s Torah Fund or simply purchasing Torah Fund<br />
greeting cards. Occasions such as Mazel Tov, Get Well, Rejoicing with You, New<br />
Baby, and of course Condolences are all available for $4.00 each. The cards can be<br />
purchased at any Sisterhood meeting or event, or they can be mailed to the recipient<br />
for you by contacting:<br />
Rose - 935-0454, Joyce - 433-4826, Barbara - 631-923-0000 or Judi - 433-4099<br />
Welcome a new arrival!<br />
Send one of these beautiful Torah Fund cards today!<br />
The Sisterhood Judaica Shop<br />
has gifts for all your holiday needs. We have a large selection of<br />
seder plates, menorahs, mezuzahs, jewelry and head coverings for<br />
both men and women. Our great holiday serving pieces, including<br />
platters and utensils, are wonderful for celebrating and entertaining<br />
with family and friends.<br />
WHEN YOU THINK GIFTS, THINK SISTERHOOD JUDAICA!<br />
FOR INFORMATION, CALL MICHELE HAIMES @ 516-822-0704.
EDUCATION Sharon Kunoff - Education Vice President<br />
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We always say, when Purim comes, can Pesach be far behind? Even though I am writing this<br />
with almost 2 feet of snow on the ground, by the time you are reading this, Purim will have come and<br />
gone. In fact at this writing, Shoprite has had it’s Passover shelves stocked for over a week already!<br />
The holidays are not as seasonal as usual. The first seder will be on Monday evening, <strong>March</strong> 25 th .<br />
Pesach is always such a nostalgic holiday. There are certain customs that we observe every year but<br />
then someone says or does something differently and new memories are created. We often have<br />
guests who tell us that their family does things differently than our family does. One thing we do differently<br />
is the afikomen search. We have a double search. It works for us!! It is always fun to learn new things<br />
which we sometimes add to our celebrations and sometimes not.<br />
The best thing about the holiday is being together with family, but even when not all the family can<br />
get together, the holiday has it’s special moments. Last Pesach I found particularly heart -warming. We<br />
celebrated with cousins whose two grandchildren are slightly older than ours and the other children<br />
were all quite close in age. All were old enough to be a real part of the seder. At one point some of us<br />
adults looked around and realized that the kids had sort of taken over. They were singing the songs,<br />
using many tunes, all of which they knew well and were having a wonderful time. This year, circumstances<br />
will have us more scattered, but we expect to have some great experiences anyhow. With less family<br />
around, I expect there will be more friends.<br />
Try to think of your favorite Pesach moments and share them at your seder. Ask the others what<br />
they remember and like the best about the holiday. It can lead to interesting discussions and can<br />
involve the children in many ways. Pesach is a time to create memories. It is nice to reinforce them by<br />
remembering!! Spend some time thinking about what you might like to share this year.<br />
Have a sweet and meaningful holiday!! See you in Shul!! Sharon<br />
Sisterhood Special Project - M’yad L’yad by Sharon Kunoff<br />
Fortunately our family came through Sandy with no more than the loss of power that affected<br />
most of us. We were able to send them a small Chanukah package, although a little late. We hope to<br />
make up for it by sending a nice Purim package with gift certificates to enable them to shop for Passover.<br />
By that time, you or your children may know which spring clothes no longer fit your sons or grandsons<br />
and which winter clothes you feel will not fit next year. If you have anything that may fit our family, please<br />
try to get it to me (call at 515-694-1896 or email skunoff@optonline.net) and we will arrange to get it<br />
from you. Cash for gift certificates is always welcome. If you want to purchase the cards yourself, she<br />
shops at Stop and Shop and at Target.<br />
Following is a recap of sizes, but remember, young boys grow, so if you have a size larger you<br />
can send it on. If it doesn’t fit now, it will soon. The mom wears 18, 20, XL or 2X pants and XL dresses.<br />
Her shoe size is 8 ½ or 9 and she enjoys reading romance novels and walking. The dad wears size<br />
small shorts/pants, size 8 shoes and enjoys the computer. Ernesto wears size 6 pants, 8, 10 or medium<br />
shirts and size 12 shoes. He enjoys Thomas trains, Angry birds, Spiderman and Lego. If you have a<br />
child who has outgrown any of these items that are still in good condition, Ernesto would like them. If you<br />
are thinking of winter items, coats, sweaters or hoodies would be nice along with the spring items that<br />
we hope will be needed soon.<br />
Thanks to all of you who keep our family in mind!! It is a wonderful mitzvah and is appreciated!
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BUY JNF TREES FROM SISTERHOOD<br />
THEY CAN BE IN MEMORY OF A LOVED ONE<br />
OR IN HONOR OF A LOVED ONE<br />
OR JUST BECAUSE YOU WANT TO PLANT A TREE IN ISRAEL<br />
JNF TREES ARE $18.00 EACH<br />
PLEASE CONTACT ELYSE SCHRAGE @ 822-7062<br />
HOLOCAUST<br />
SURVIVOR COOKBOOK<br />
Our Sisterhood has added a new item to our list of fund<br />
raising which has already proven to be a great success<br />
for our temple. It is called the “Holocaust Survivor<br />
Cookbook”. It is a beautifully published book containing<br />
129 amazing and miraculous stories of courage & survival<br />
and includes over 250 delicious recipes which were<br />
favorites of these great people and their families. You will<br />
enjoy their recipes, but their stories will never be forgotten.<br />
They are selling for $36.00 and the profits on every book<br />
will be donated strictly to the <strong>Plainview</strong> <strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Center</strong>.<br />
They will be displayed at every Sisterhood meeting. Or,<br />
you can call Marilyn Cohen at 822-4553 to order. This is<br />
a great book to have for your home or for a gift for your<br />
family and friends. This book makes a meaningful gift.<br />
And, as a bonus, you will also be supporting our temple.<br />
MAY WE SERVE YOU<br />
Prayer Book Fund Torah Fund Book of Life JNF Certificates<br />
Diane Miller 935-7732 Rose Weiner 935-0454 Rhoda Meshover 938-8818 Elyse Schrage 822-7062<br />
Judaica Shop Joyce Rimer 433-4826 Cookbook<br />
Michele Haimes 822-0704 Judi Dorosin Barbara Alhadeff 631-923-0000<br />
Mitzvah Committee: Call Temple Office: 938-8610 (Shiva Set-up & Shiva Chairs Available)
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WE WISH TO THANK AND EXPRESS OUR APPRECIATION TO THE FOLLOWING FAMILIES<br />
FOR THEIR GENEROUS CONTRIBUTION TO THE YAHRZEIT & YIZKOR FUND:<br />
Sandy & Jerry Assa<br />
Yolanda Needleman<br />
Carol & Richard Levinson<br />
Marge Felder<br />
Susan & Jeffrey Miller<br />
Sarah & Abraham Gutman<br />
Rhonda & Joel Frank<br />
Rhoda Meshover<br />
Wendy & Barry Shapiro<br />
Randy & David Goldstein<br />
Marsha & Stuart Schwartz<br />
Eileen Glotzer<br />
Rhoda & Jerome Wiener<br />
Ellen & Martin Kirschman<br />
Selma & Herman Bernstein<br />
Janet & Mervin Unger<br />
Helen Fuchs<br />
Eleanore & Lawrence Abrams<br />
Ellen & George Rosenbaum<br />
Linda Sobolow<br />
Claire Pottish<br />
Nancy & Kenneth Maltz<br />
Ellen & Norman Kaufman<br />
Barbara & Bernard Roy Hoffman<br />
Eva & Irwin Sher<br />
Helen & Harvey Rock<br />
Hank Marcus<br />
Louise & Seth Pollack<br />
Alexandra Rosen<br />
Anita & Sheldon Chassen<br />
Rita Gulack<br />
Nanette & Sandy Strenger<br />
Pearl & Martin Plawsky<br />
Shahla & Leon Hezghia<br />
Eileen & Bernard Berman<br />
Ida & Victor Klaynman<br />
Doris & Hy Schoenfeld<br />
Ellen & Steven Haas<br />
Beatrice & Robert Gutman<br />
Mira & Paul Klein<br />
Elaine & Steven Singer<br />
Phyllis & Gerard Levi<br />
Loretta Fleiss<br />
Dorothy & David Stopsky<br />
Louise & Reid Selden<br />
Marcia & Milton Weller<br />
Rona Zemel<br />
Jack Schwartzman<br />
Estelle & Alan Hodes<br />
Philip Brandfon<br />
Laurie & Joel Bates<br />
David A. Miller
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REFUAH SHELAYMAH<br />
Our <strong>Plainview</strong> <strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Center</strong> Family wishes a refuah shelaymah to:<br />
Hank Marcus<br />
Martin Bertisch Zelda King<br />
Sheldon Chassen Marilyn Cohen<br />
Bunny Finkelstein<br />
To our PJC members, if you would like to have a family member<br />
included in this section, please notify the temple office at:<br />
516 938-8610 x101
H a t z i l u , p l e a s e g o t o : www.hatzilurescue.org<br />
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Hatzilu Means Rescue<br />
Hatzilu is reaching out to our community for help. This worthy organization<br />
has been assisting impoverished and needy Jews throughout Nassau County for<br />
many years. Volunteer social workers help elderly Jews obtain the government benefits<br />
to which they are entitled and food is provided to the hungry. Hatzilu maintains the<br />
largest kosher food warehouse in Nassau County and volunteers deliver food to<br />
people who need it desperately. The warehouse is in dire need of canned goods and<br />
nonperishable foods. Donations of these products would help restock the shelves<br />
that are almost bare.<br />
Hatzilu appreciates all money donations as well. A food collection box will be<br />
placed by the main entrance of the synagogue.<br />
Thanks for helping those in need. For further information about<br />
or call 931-2884.<br />
Arlyne Skolnik<br />
HATZILU<br />
IN ORDER TO HELP OUR JEWISH POOR AND ELDERLY,<br />
PLEASE MAKE A DONATION TO HATZILU.<br />
MEN’S CLUB WILL SEND A CERTIFICATE<br />
TO HONOR THE NAME OF MEMORY OF WHO YOU CHOOSE.<br />
THIS IS AN IDEAL WAY TO EXPRESS A “SIMCHA” OR “SYMPATHY”<br />
AND TO HELP OUR FELLOW JEWS.<br />
PLEASE EMAIL STEVE GLASSER AT: STEVETG@AOL.COM<br />
OR CALL HIM AT: 516 938-3069 TO ORDER A CERTIFICATE
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ATTENTION ALL CONGREGANTS:<br />
OUR WEEKDAY EVENING MINYANS<br />
ARE IN NEED OF A FEW GOOD PEOPLE!<br />
WEEKDAY MINYAN IS AT 8PM AND LASTS 15 MINUTES.<br />
ANY DAY YOU CAN COME DOWN<br />
WILL BE GREATLY APPRECIATED.<br />
THANK YOU<br />
PJC BUY A BRICK PROGRAM<br />
Please help us in raising money to upgrade, beautify and maintain<br />
our building and grounds. Our Walkway of Memories will provide a<br />
permanent way to honor or memorialize a family member or friend,<br />
a business or special occasion.<br />
For further information or additional order forms, please call:<br />
Larry Speiller at (516) 938-8610.
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PSSST! IT’S OKAY TO TALK ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE<br />
.<br />
Respecting others’ privacy is an important <strong>Jewish</strong> value. Lashon<br />
HaRa—gossip—is uniformly condemned by our tradition. But there is at<br />
least one exception. When someone is ill or in need of care and support,<br />
it is a mitzvah to tell people who can help.<br />
In our community, the Rabbi and Cantor provide pastoral support to<br />
individuals and families who are suffering illness and those who need<br />
emotional support. The Rabbi also serves as the liaison to our newly<br />
formed Bikur Cholim Committee; which provides additional visits and<br />
support to those who request it.<br />
Please let the Rabbi and Cantor know when someone in our<br />
congregation is ill; or when a family is dealing with a crisis. Only when<br />
they know can they reach out to individuals and families in need. Only<br />
when they know can they mobilize our Bikur Cholim committee to provide<br />
additional support. Don’t worry that they might already have the<br />
information. Don’t worry that you are “bothering” these busy people.<br />
The information you provide will be vital to helping our congregation to<br />
serve the needs of those who need us the most.<br />
Rabbi Conn and Cantor Wolk can be reached at PJC at (516) 938-8610.<br />
Rabbi Conn can be reached by cell at (516) 524-7447<br />
or by email at rabbiconn@plainviewjewishcenter.com.<br />
PLAINVIEW JEWISH CENTER<br />
CEMETERY GROUND<br />
Location: Wellwood Cemetery at Pinelawn, New York<br />
Cost: Single Graves available at $600 each grave.<br />
Family Graves $550 each (minimum of 4 graves).<br />
Terms: 25% down with interest free monthly payments<br />
for a period of up to two (2) years.<br />
Eligibility: Available to PJC Members ONLY.<br />
For information call: JOEL FASS 938-7351