Justice Denied
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Abandoned In 1989 Ghulam Mustafa of a rural area in<br />
District Abbottabad, arranged his daughter Zainab’s<br />
marriage to his brother’s son, Shamraiz. Initially they were<br />
happy together. Shamraiz worked at a roadside hotel in the<br />
nearby town of Hassan Abdal in District Attock. They had<br />
two children.<br />
Around 2002, Shamraiz met another woman and married<br />
her in 2007. Zainab was devastated. Ghulam impatiently<br />
argued with his daughter, “men can marry as many times<br />
as they wish.” Zainab continued to live with her husband<br />
for about two years after he remarried, despite his refusal<br />
to provide any support for her or their children. Ghulam<br />
complained to his brother and even tried to bring the<br />
families together to resolve the issue. When that failed, he<br />
approached other local influential people and asked them<br />
to intervene. A jirga was called. Shamraiz was asked to pay<br />
about Rs.2,000-5,000 per month as maintenance to<br />
Zainab.<br />
Ghulam contacted the same jirga and also expanded it by<br />
including people known to his brother, Shamraiz’s father.<br />
The jirga observed that Shamraiz deserves to be severely<br />
penalized. However, in view of biradari considerations and<br />
Shamraiz’s poverty, he was exempted from the payment of<br />
monthly maintenance but was ordered to pay the agreed<br />
dower of Rs.135,000 and return Zainab’s belongings<br />
including her dowry articles. The jirga also ruled that<br />
Shamraiz would have custody of the children. The<br />
children were sent to their father’s home and the dowry<br />
articles were returned to Zainab within a month. However,<br />
the dower amount is still outstanding. There is also intense<br />
acrimony between Ghulam and his brother. It is not clear<br />
whether the jirga will be able to enforce its decisions.<br />
“I did not want the conflict to lead to my daughter’s<br />
separation or divorce, or any acrimony within the family.<br />
So I suggested that the resolution may be a separate house<br />
for Zainab for which I even offered financial support,”<br />
Ghulam said. For about two months, the jirga tried to<br />
enforce its decision, but failed. Shamraiz sent divorce<br />
papers to Zainab.<br />
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