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Justice Denied

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Abandoned In 1989 Ghulam Mustafa of a rural area in<br />

District Abbottabad, arranged his daughter Zainab’s<br />

marriage to his brother’s son, Shamraiz. Initially they were<br />

happy together. Shamraiz worked at a roadside hotel in the<br />

nearby town of Hassan Abdal in District Attock. They had<br />

two children.<br />

Around 2002, Shamraiz met another woman and married<br />

her in 2007. Zainab was devastated. Ghulam impatiently<br />

argued with his daughter, “men can marry as many times<br />

as they wish.” Zainab continued to live with her husband<br />

for about two years after he remarried, despite his refusal<br />

to provide any support for her or their children. Ghulam<br />

complained to his brother and even tried to bring the<br />

families together to resolve the issue. When that failed, he<br />

approached other local influential people and asked them<br />

to intervene. A jirga was called. Shamraiz was asked to pay<br />

about Rs.2,000-5,000 per month as maintenance to<br />

Zainab.<br />

Ghulam contacted the same jirga and also expanded it by<br />

including people known to his brother, Shamraiz’s father.<br />

The jirga observed that Shamraiz deserves to be severely<br />

penalized. However, in view of biradari considerations and<br />

Shamraiz’s poverty, he was exempted from the payment of<br />

monthly maintenance but was ordered to pay the agreed<br />

dower of Rs.135,000 and return Zainab’s belongings<br />

including her dowry articles. The jirga also ruled that<br />

Shamraiz would have custody of the children. The<br />

children were sent to their father’s home and the dowry<br />

articles were returned to Zainab within a month. However,<br />

the dower amount is still outstanding. There is also intense<br />

acrimony between Ghulam and his brother. It is not clear<br />

whether the jirga will be able to enforce its decisions.<br />

“I did not want the conflict to lead to my daughter’s<br />

separation or divorce, or any acrimony within the family.<br />

So I suggested that the resolution may be a separate house<br />

for Zainab for which I even offered financial support,”<br />

Ghulam said. For about two months, the jirga tried to<br />

enforce its decision, but failed. Shamraiz sent divorce<br />

papers to Zainab.<br />

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