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South Africa News Allen & Sue<br />
In this newsletter we would like to ask<br />
for prayer to insure the continued care<br />
<strong>of</strong> our children in our home without<br />
the fear <strong>of</strong> them being placed elsewhere. We<br />
have just received news from our social worker<br />
that calls for changes in direction for Bezaleel.<br />
Before I begin I’d like to share regarding<br />
God’s goodness to us in terms <strong>of</strong> His prompting<br />
and provision. At the beginning <strong>of</strong> the<br />
year the Lord prompted me to bring our home<br />
into order during the coming year in a practical<br />
sense. I.e. sorting through things, keeping<br />
what we need, giving away what we don’t need<br />
and so on. I was sure it had something to do<br />
with the house. As you know, we were looking<br />
to the Lord for the house we’re living in as<br />
the owners are selling and the ability to purchase<br />
it is beyond our reach. Friends <strong>of</strong> ours,<br />
knowing our plight visited us and said they<br />
have a house that would become available in<br />
about a years time that will meet the needs <strong>of</strong><br />
a large family such as ours. It is still in Springs<br />
which facilitates the continuation <strong>of</strong> visits<br />
for some <strong>of</strong> the children from their dads. We<br />
are very grateful for their faithfulness to the<br />
Lord and we pray His blessing on their lives.<br />
I am humbled by the love <strong>of</strong> our heavenly<br />
Father in a world reeling from one crisis to another,<br />
creating fear and uncertainty around the<br />
world and seeking to encroach on our lives.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Lord in His unfailing character shows<br />
Himself as faithful, true and unchanging. We<br />
serve a God who is the same yesterday, today<br />
and tomorrow, the Alpha and Omega <strong>of</strong><br />
our lives and His world. When change comes<br />
upon us that is beyond our control, we know<br />
we can run to Him who tells us that He has<br />
not given us a spirit <strong>of</strong> slavery leading to fear<br />
again, but a spirit <strong>of</strong> adoption as sons and<br />
we can safely hide under the shadow <strong>of</strong> His<br />
wing. Romans 8:14-25 and Revelation 1:8.<br />
We were informed today that another provision<br />
for childcare, namely Foster Cluster<br />
Care (something we investigated a number <strong>of</strong><br />
years ago when it was still at discussion stages)<br />
has been gazetted and passed into South<br />
African law. It falls somewhere between foster<br />
care and residential care (i.e. children’s<br />
homes or villages). Also leans more to the side<br />
<strong>of</strong> residential care in terms <strong>of</strong> requirements for<br />
registration and services rendered by the department,<br />
or NGO one is working with. Unregistering<br />
<strong>of</strong> such a home also carries with it<br />
a lot <strong>of</strong> red tape. According to South African<br />
law, one can only foster up to six children.<br />
But, because <strong>of</strong> the crisis South Africa faces<br />
with regards to HIV/AIDS, this appeared to<br />
open a window where allowances were made<br />
for some people to foster more than six children.<br />
Besides our three adult children, we<br />
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have one adopted child, eight legal foster children,<br />
two children living with us by private arrangements<br />
(with their respective fathers) and<br />
one child who stays with us on weekdays for<br />
the purposes <strong>of</strong> homeschooling and who goes<br />
home on weekends and school holidays. Now,<br />
because <strong>of</strong> the new law it puts our arrangement<br />
in jeopardy because it places us beyond<br />
the perimeters <strong>of</strong> the new law. We have two<br />
viable choices so as not to lose any <strong>of</strong> the children.<br />
Firstly, to register as a foster cluster care<br />
home or secondly, to adopt some <strong>of</strong> the children<br />
to bring us back under the perimeters <strong>of</strong><br />
the new law. Allen and I believe by the direction<br />
<strong>of</strong> the Lord and among other reasons our<br />
age (getting older has a wonderful way <strong>of</strong> reminding<br />
us how finite we are) have agreed not<br />
to take any more children into care and that<br />
decision has not been an easy one on our part.<br />
<strong>The</strong> children we now have require a tremendous<br />
amount <strong>of</strong> care simply by their number,<br />
homeschooling, their medical conditions and<br />
the very real reality <strong>of</strong> what the future holds<br />
in terms <strong>of</strong> the life expectancy <strong>of</strong> our HIV<br />
positive children. Also the strain from the care<br />
they will need and the heartache if their ARV<br />
treatment fails as well as our commitment to<br />
prepare the children for adult life in a world<br />
where finding ones feet is not always easy. In<br />
discussion with our social worker we believe<br />
it best to adopt the three younger children. We<br />
are not allowed to adopt any <strong>of</strong> our children<br />
who have known living parents, which four<br />
<strong>of</strong> our children do. She has urged us to begin<br />
proceedings as soon as possible and we will<br />
go to children’s court next week to make the<br />
application for adoption. We will cease to receive<br />
the grants for the children but the Lord<br />
has shown His faithfulness to us in the past<br />
and our hope is in Him. We will look to the<br />
Lord in terms <strong>of</strong> adoption <strong>of</strong> the other children<br />
at a later stage.<br />
Thank you for taking the time to read this<br />
and allowing us to share our burden with you.<br />
We cherish your prayers and we know that<br />
within all the changes taking place He is our<br />
Peace and we pray that all things be done for the<br />
children’s sake and to the glory <strong>of</strong> His Name.<br />
Peace I leave with you; My peace I give to<br />
you; not as the world gives, do I give to you. Let<br />
not your heart be troubled, nor let it be fearful.<br />
Yours in Jesus,<br />
Allen and Sue<br />
Peace I leave with you; My peace I give to<br />
you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Do<br />
not let your heart be troubled, nor let it be fearful.<br />
–John 14:27<br />
NASB<br />
Allen and Sue’s granddaughter<br />
giving Ruth a kiss . . . . . !<br />
Your righteousness is like the mountains<br />
<strong>of</strong> God; Your judgments are like a great<br />
deep O Lord, You preserve man and<br />
beast. How precious is Your lovingkindness,<br />
O God! And the children <strong>of</strong> men take<br />
refuge in the shadow <strong>of</strong> Your wings. <strong>The</strong>y<br />
(F)drink their fill <strong>of</strong> the abundance <strong>of</strong><br />
Your house; And You give them to drink<br />
<strong>of</strong> theriver <strong>of</strong> Your delights.<br />
–Psalm 36:7<br />
Rosie and Ruth . . . .<br />
Bezaleel Introduction: Bezaleel is a<br />
family home in the Springs Community<br />
providing permanent care for children<br />
affected and infected with HIV/AIDS<br />
within the context <strong>of</strong> a family. Aims:<br />
(1) To provide a loving environment,<br />
medical care, anti-retroviral treatment<br />
required and an education within the<br />
structure <strong>of</strong> foster parenting; and (2) to<br />
be available for education concerning<br />
HIV/AIDS and provide support to those<br />
interested in fostering children living<br />
with AIDS.