Issue 14 - InJoy Magazine

Of generations since, many came with newdreaming in their hearts about relationship andfamily or tribe, already awakened. Kinship beingkey to their orientation so they’re less inclinedto exclusivity in their choice to love others.This in itself raises many questions as to howto be together, and what boundaries if any, dothey draw around sharing sensually or sexually.They aim to build community and find ways tolive and create together. They consider that allpeople deserve love and to belong. Yet there arecomplex issues that come with this requiringresolve.Among the challenges are the unconsciousbeliefs and patterning around hierarchy withinthe principle of equality. And in relation to deepintimate connections there can be fear andavoidance of commitment and co-dependence.Multiple attractions are natural, yet pursuing theurge to merge can trigger pain for all concernedand more karma to rebalance. Exploring thebeauty in those around us, while adhering toideals based on the belief that it should beokay to love and make a lover of more than oneperson.Consequently, if that upsets us then we needto forgive and own the reflection in order totranscend the dynamic so to live and relate fromwholeness. Whilst every path is valid there maybe truth and distortion in the playout.New RelationshipThe astrological grand trine of August 1987 known asthe Harmonic Convergence heralded the great changethat’s undeniably upon us. A time they say that wasto lead us out of the consciousness of war, and intothat of peace.Peace itself begins within every individual and can’t befaked. We need only look at our genetic relationships,and various others with family and friends, workmates, even strangers we encounter, to observe thestruggle that occurs inside us.So here we stand in 2010, together surrendering ourfears & control patterns that have been unconsciouslyrunning our lives. Gradually and emphatically undoingcenturies of tradition worldwide, by reclaiming thetruth of our essential inner genius.Many who belong to the older generation will, withgrace, take their conditioning to the grave with themand never desire or need for it to be any different.On the other side of what we’ve alreadydescribed is relationship and creation utopia!This group is minute in comparison to the othertwo but through each individual’s journey andmastery of self, they are pioneering and pavingthe way for the graceful transition of all others.Love and unity is shared, and most often loversare not!So when the great Mahatma Ghandi proclaimed,“Be the peace you wish to see in the world”, hewas seriously onto every soul’s responsibilityfor it. Do we really have any other choice but tobecome a peace activist on the inside!Illumina Christos © 2010Illumina is a teacher of love,and holds groups andsessions for transformationalrelationship resolution of alltypes and levels of intimacy,including Love & IntimacyRetreats for couples.tantra@thedivineuniversity.comph. message 66801395.www.theilluminedyou.cominjoy10