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Page 40 The OSCAR - OUR 40 th YEAR MAY 2012<br />
Sips from the Poetry Café<br />
My Mom Knows Things!<br />
By: Susan Atkinson<br />
As May approaches there’s lots to<br />
celebrate and lots to be grateful<br />
for. The tulips are popping up, spring<br />
My Mom Knows<br />
Things!<br />
My mom knows when I wear<br />
Socks three days in a row.<br />
And she knows when I play<br />
Without gloves in the snow.<br />
She knows in the morning<br />
When I’m in a rush<br />
I don’t put toothpaste<br />
On my brush.<br />
She knows when I don’t<br />
Wash my face at night.<br />
And she knows when I<br />
Read using only a flashlight.<br />
She knows when my coat<br />
Isn’t done up right<br />
And my laces are knotted<br />
Instead of tied tight.<br />
You may, on occasion,<br />
ask yourself why you<br />
are investing. Why go<br />
is in full swing and Mother’s Day is<br />
just around the corner. For most of<br />
us it really is a time to thank all the<br />
mothers in our lives and to perhaps<br />
remember those who are no longer with<br />
She knows when I’m supposed<br />
To be cleaning my room<br />
I push everything under<br />
The bed with a broom.<br />
She knows when I have<br />
My feet on the couch,<br />
Or my elbows on the table<br />
When I slouch.<br />
She knows when I don’t<br />
Finish my drink<br />
It ends up poured<br />
Down the kitchen sink.<br />
She knows when I don’t<br />
Eat the greens on my plate,<br />
And She knows if I dawdle<br />
We’re bound to be late.<br />
She knows when I haven’t<br />
Combed my hair<br />
Or have done my homework<br />
Without extra care.<br />
She knows when I feed<br />
The dog left over food<br />
And she knows when I’m<br />
mean,<br />
Unkind or rude.<br />
She knows without looking<br />
If I stick out my tongue<br />
Or pull a face<br />
Or do something wrong.<br />
But best of all<br />
My mom always knows<br />
how to help with<br />
my highs and lows.<br />
She knows when to cheer<br />
If I’ve done well<br />
And when to listen<br />
If there’s stuff to tell.<br />
through the fluctuations of the financial<br />
markets, the worry over interest<br />
rate movements, the fears of today<br />
us. I think when we do stop and ponder<br />
the wonderful women in our lives we<br />
marvel at the gift of knowledge they<br />
possess. To me it always seemed that<br />
my mom knew everything and I mean<br />
She knows when I’ve had<br />
A really bad day,<br />
She knows what to do<br />
And just what to say.<br />
She knows if I’m nervous<br />
About something at school.<br />
She knows what’s hip,<br />
What’s in, what’s cool!<br />
She knows what it takes<br />
To make me smile<br />
And she knows I have<br />
My very own style.<br />
She knows how to soothe<br />
And take tears away.<br />
She knows how to teach<br />
And how to play.<br />
She knows the words<br />
To my favourite song.<br />
For Whom Are You Investing?<br />
and the uncertainties of tomorrow?<br />
To answer this question, you may<br />
need to ask yourself one more: For<br />
whom am I investing?<br />
Consider the following:<br />
• You’re investing for yourself. It<br />
sounds selfish, but it’s not. You may<br />
be investing in your Registered<br />
Retirement Savings Plan (RRSP) and<br />
other investment accounts so you<br />
can enjoy a comfortable retirement<br />
lifestyle after working your entire<br />
adult life. But you’re also investing<br />
so you can become financially<br />
independent — free of worries that<br />
you’ll become a burden to your grown<br />
children or other family members. And<br />
given the real possibility of spending<br />
two, or even three decades in an<br />
active retirement, it’s imperative that<br />
you put as much as you can possibly<br />
afford into investment vehicles that<br />
can help you pursue your financial<br />
independence.<br />
• You’re investing for your family. If<br />
you have children or grandchildren,<br />
you may well want to help them pay<br />
for college or university. And, as you<br />
know, post-secondary education has<br />
gotten much more expensive in recent<br />
years, so you’ll need to save and<br />
invest from the time your children are<br />
very young, and you’ll need to choose<br />
the right investment accounts. But<br />
you’ll also need to think about other<br />
family members, too. Have you built<br />
up enough in your retirement accounts<br />
so that the money would be sufficient<br />
to support your surviving spouse<br />
should anything happen to you? Will<br />
you have enough financial resources<br />
to help support your elderly parents<br />
everything – like she really did have<br />
those ‘proverbial’ eyes in the back of<br />
the head! This month I thought it would<br />
be fun to honour that gift with a piece<br />
written from a child’s perspective.<br />
She knows how to help<br />
When things seem wrong.<br />
She knows how to cuddle<br />
If I wake at night,<br />
She knows how to put<br />
A bad dream right.<br />
My mom even knows<br />
my favorite food,<br />
my favourite colour<br />
and my favourite mood.<br />
My mom she knows<br />
Everything you know:<br />
She knows how to support<br />
And give love just so.<br />
To all the moms in the world –<br />
and you know who you are! –<br />
Happy, happy Mother’s Day.<br />
should they require assistance? And<br />
will you be able to leave the type of<br />
legacy you desire? As you can see,<br />
when you’re investing for your family,<br />
you’ve got a lot to consider<br />
.<br />
• You’re investing for your beliefs.<br />
Throughout your working years, you<br />
may try to give as much money as<br />
you can to charitable organizations<br />
whose work you support. Yet you<br />
may wish you could do even more.<br />
And eventually, you may be able to<br />
do more. For example, if you sell an<br />
asset that has appreciated in value,<br />
there will be tax implications. But if<br />
you were to give securities that have<br />
appreciated in value to a charitable<br />
organization, you could avoid taxes<br />
on the appreciated amount, and you<br />
may even get a current income tax<br />
break for your contribution. You<br />
might also want to include charitable<br />
organizations in your estate plans,<br />
after consulting with your attorney or<br />
other estate tax advisor.<br />
As you can see, you’ve got some<br />
“key constituencies” counting on<br />
you. By keeping them in mind, you<br />
should have the motivation you need<br />
to overlook the day-to-day ups and<br />
downs of investing — while you<br />
keep your focus on your important<br />
long-term goals. If you would like<br />
assistance in formulating how to<br />
achieve these goals, please give me a<br />
call at 613-526-3030.<br />
Bob Jamieson, CFP<br />
Edward Jones, Member Canadian<br />
Investor Protection Fund.