Developing a Vietnamese Men's Behaviour Change Program

√ Week 1 (male client)√ Week 15 (male client)√ Week 2 (female partner)Reflections on my/his behaviour - 3My use of these behaviours with my partner/ex-partner (and children if relevant):His use of:NotRelevant(neverhappened)NoticeableChange forthe worseSmallchangefor theworseNo changeat allPhysical violence/abuse √ √√Verbal and emotional abuse √√ √Controlling behaviour √ √√Threatening or intimidating behaviour √Economic violence/abuse√“only whenupset!!”Smallchangefor thebetterNoticeableChangefor thebetter√√ √√Sexual violence/abuse√√ √Speaking respectfully√ √ √Listening respectfully√√ √Compromising and negotiating fairly with my partnerCompromising and negotiating fairly with me regarding arrangements for the childrenTaking responsibility for my behaviourTaking responsibility for his behaviourTrying a solution to a disagreement suggested by my partner/ex-partnerTrying a solution to a disagreement suggested by myself√“only raise voicewhen upset”√ √ √√ √√ √ √Acknowledging and validating my partner’s/ex-partner’s concerns, feelings and point of viewAcknowledging and validating my concerns, feelings and point of view √√ √Respecting my partner’s/ex-partner’s need for personal space and privacyRespecting my need for personal space and privacy √ √ √19