Developing a Vietnamese Men's Behaviour Change Program

Reflections on my/his behaviour - 5√ Week 1 (male client)√ Week 15 (male client)√ Before Week 1 (female partner) IO in placeMy use of these behaviours with my partner/ex-partner (and children if relevant):His use of:Physical violence/abuseNotRelevant(neverhappened)Noticeablechangefor theworseSmallchangefor theworseNochangeat allSmallchangefor thebetterNoticeableChangefor the better√ √√Verbal and emotional abuse√ √√Controlling behaviour√√ √Threatening or intimidating behaviour√ √√Economic violence/abuse√ √ √Sexual violence/abuse√ √√Speaking respectfully√ √ √Listening respectfully√ √Compromising and negotiating fairly with my partnerCompromising and negotiating fairly with me regarding arrangements for the children √ √ √Taking responsibility for my behaviourTaking responsibility for his behaviour √Trying a solution to a disagreement suggested by my partner/ex-partnerTrying a solution to a disagreement suggested by myself √√yesandno√√√“I haven’t comeacrossed to this”Acknowledging and validating my partner’s/ex-partner’s concerns, feelings and point of viewAcknowledging and validating my concerns, feelings and point of view √ √Respecting my partner’s/ex-partner’s need for personal space and privacyRespecting my need for personal space and privacy√ √21