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Birth Defects: No Justification <strong>for</strong> Abortion■ The residents <strong>of</strong> a carefacility <strong>for</strong> people withdisabilities opened my eyesand convicted me that quality<strong>of</strong> life arguments <strong>for</strong> abortionare absolutely wrong.by Heather DisherI was unprepared <strong>for</strong> the scene be<strong>for</strong>eme. To my right, a woman in her 40s satcross-legged on the floor, leaning in<strong>to</strong> theTV screen as she enjoyed her daily car<strong>to</strong>onsand cereal. She gave my class a shywave; we were <strong>to</strong>uring the care facility thatshe had called home <strong>for</strong> many years. Weheard a s<strong>of</strong>t, pitiful cry <strong>of</strong> a newborn as thesix-foot-tall man in the next room had hisdiaper changed. As I examined the homeyenvironment, our guide turned our attention<strong>to</strong> the figure seated in the back <strong>of</strong> theroom. “Sean” was reclined in an easy chair,holding a walkman. He wore headphonesand a dreamy smile. I remember his new,white, unscuffed sneakers and his brownunruly hair. But mostly I remember hiseyes. They weren’t there. I scanned backand <strong>for</strong>th over his face, my mind reelingfrom this revelation. The hollows wherethey should have been were just…blank.Sean’s caregiver explained the cause,I’m sure, but truthfully I don’t remember.Whatever the cause, he was born this■ A wooden spatula gave me asplinter, which made me s<strong>to</strong>pand think about our purposeas <strong>to</strong>ols in <strong>God</strong>’s hands.by Debbie WernerOne morning I was cooking some eggs<strong>for</strong> breakfast. I grabbed my wooden spatulafrom the canister next <strong>to</strong> my s<strong>to</strong>ve soI could flip the eggs. Ouch! A jagged piece<strong>of</strong> the wooden handle unexpectedly gaveme a granddaddy <strong>of</strong> a sliver. After breakfastI put the just washed spatula asideso that the jagged edge could be sandeddown. Utensils aren’t allowed <strong>to</strong> bite backin my household—and I needed <strong>to</strong> fix theproblem.This incident got me thinking abouthow sometimes <strong>God</strong> needs <strong>to</strong> sand downour spiritual, emotional and mentaljagged edges. Sometimes He does thisthrough trials. As anyone who has accidentallycaught some skin while sandpaperingknows, this can hurt. But trials areultimately <strong>for</strong> our benefit as Paul pointedout when he wrote, “No discipline seemspleasant at the time: but painful. Lateron, however, it produces a harvest <strong>of</strong>righteousness and peace <strong>for</strong> those whohave been trained by it” (Hebrews 12:11,New International Version). The key is<strong>to</strong> allow the trials <strong>to</strong> remove things inour lives that make us less usable <strong>to</strong>ols inS<strong>to</strong>ck.Xchng/vivekchugh Thinks<strong>to</strong>ckway, and it was all he had ever known.His legs were twisted inwards and he hadnever walked. His hands were curled anddis<strong>to</strong>rted. He was “pr<strong>of</strong>oundly mentallyretarded.” He could neither bathe nor feedhimself. He was in his mid-20s but hadthe functional capacity <strong>of</strong> an infant.Some advocates <strong>of</strong> abortion would say<strong>God</strong>’s hands.Sometimes <strong>God</strong> sands us down throughinteractions with other people in conversationsor by learning what <strong>to</strong> do or notthat a person like Sean could not possiblyhave any quality <strong>of</strong> life; that it is selfish <strong>to</strong>give birth <strong>to</strong> such a child. What does lifehave <strong>to</strong> <strong>of</strong>fer you if you can’t walk, talk,see, or reason? I can’t speak <strong>for</strong> everyone,but I know a little bit <strong>of</strong> what Sean’s lifewas like.Sean likes music. His “family” at theHow Smooth Are You In <strong>God</strong>’s Hands?We should be helping each other gently smoothout any rough edges, exercising wisdom andkindness as we do so. Any roughness in ourcharacters not only hurts <strong>God</strong>, but those aroundus, including those we love.<strong>to</strong> do by their examples. A proverb speaks<strong>to</strong> this directly: “As iron sharpens iron, soa man sharpens the countenance <strong>of</strong> hisfriends” (Proverbs 27:17). We should becare home brings him new songs <strong>to</strong> listen<strong>to</strong>, but he also has his favorites. Sean likesgoing <strong>to</strong> the movies. He and his housematesgo <strong>to</strong> the theater once or twice amonth. He can’t see the images, but he canhear the music and dialogue, and he likesthe smell <strong>of</strong> popcorn. He is shown loveand affection in every way that he canreceive it, and it showed on his tranquil,joyous face. There are many things that hecan’t do, but still many things that he can.Does Sean matter? Is he important?Does anyone care that he was born? Theanswer is yes. Absolutely yes. In Matthew10:29, <strong>God</strong> shows that all life is precious<strong>to</strong> Him. “What is the price <strong>of</strong> two sparrows—onecopper coin? But not a singlesparrow can fall <strong>to</strong> the ground withoutyour Father knowing it. And the veryhairs on your head are all numbered. Sodon’t be afraid; you are more valuable <strong>to</strong><strong>God</strong> than a whole flock <strong>of</strong> sparrows.”Although you and I lead lives much differentthan Sean’s, we all share the samefuture. When Christ returns, we will allbe judged <strong>for</strong> the choices we are makingnow. What will Sean have <strong>to</strong> answer <strong>for</strong>?No one can know. But I know one thing<strong>for</strong> sure: We will all answer <strong>for</strong> how wetreat people like Sean. For the way we useor abuse our power over the weak, thesmall, and yes, the unborn. UNThis was originally posted <strong>to</strong> UCG.orgas a web-first article on Dec. 7, 2012helping each other gently smooth outany rough edges, exercising wisdom andkindness as we do so. Any roughness inour characters not only hurts <strong>God</strong>, butthose around us, including those we love.Similarly, through Bible study, meditation,prayer and fasting, we can smoothout the rough edges in our own lives. Thisis the ideal way <strong>to</strong> learn and grow since itinvolves the least amount <strong>of</strong> pain. If wedon’t seek <strong>to</strong> learn this way, <strong>God</strong> will finda way <strong>to</strong> finish the work He has started inus (Philippians 1:6) in a more painful way.After all, He doesn’t want <strong>to</strong> have <strong>to</strong> saythis about us: “My people are destroyed<strong>for</strong> lack <strong>of</strong> knowledge. Because you haverejected knowledge, I also will reject youfrom being priest <strong>for</strong> me…” (Hosea 4:6).A useless <strong>to</strong>ol that cannot be fixed shouldand will be thrown away.So what’s the ultimate result if we yield<strong>to</strong> these methods <strong>of</strong> smoothing downthe rough edges in our lives? We becomethe perfect <strong>to</strong>ols that <strong>God</strong> wants us <strong>to</strong>become. We are fully usable <strong>for</strong> the purposeHe has uniquely designed <strong>for</strong> each<strong>of</strong> us. So the next time it feels like <strong>God</strong>is sandpapering my life in some way, I’llhopefully think back <strong>to</strong> this incident andremember that He’s doing it <strong>for</strong> my owngood. <strong>God</strong> doesn’t let His spiritual <strong>to</strong>olsbite back either. UNThis was originally posted <strong>to</strong> UCG.orgas a web-first article on Feb. 19, 20136 UNITED NEWS MARCH-APRIL 2013 <strong>United</strong> <strong>Church</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>God</strong>, an International Association

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