The <strong>Autism</strong>newslinkChapter Presidents of ASOBrant & CountyClifford Gowan 519-759-8891CambridgeStacey Del Fabbro 519-653-8056Chatham-KentElizabeth Carnegie 519-358-1823DufferinKim Armstr<strong>on</strong>g 519-941-8863DurhamLeah Myers 1-866-495-4680Grey/BruceJosephine Hutt<strong>on</strong> 519-371-8441Kingst<strong>on</strong>Rob Rowe613-546.6613X388Halt<strong>on</strong>Chuck LearnCecila Vespa 905-631-1233Hamilt<strong>on</strong>-WentworthSherri Houst<strong>on</strong> 905-547-7156Hur<strong>on</strong> PerthKim Souch877-818-8867X277L<strong>on</strong>d<strong>on</strong>Marti Lussier 519-685-8702Metro Tor<strong>on</strong>toLaurie Pearce 416-489-0702Niagara Regi<strong>on</strong>Flavia Orvitz 905-682-2776North Bay & AreaYvette Bellefeuille 705-472-6807OttawaMargaret Buist 613-230-6305Regi<strong>on</strong> d’OttawaHuguette Boisvert-Secretary 613-722-2482Bernard DelislePeelPeterboroughBeverly Randall 705-748-4793Renfrew CountyDiane Fergus<strong>on</strong>-Osterholm 613-687-4301Sarnia/Lambt<strong>on</strong>Dan Fentie 519-332-0333Sault Ste. MarieKim Krumins 705-256-5302SimcoeHelen Aitken705-326-2214X251Sudbury & DistrictSunset CountryKim Cariou 807-548-4926Thunder Bay & DistrictMichelle Murdoch-Gibs<strong>on</strong> 807-622-9713Upper CanadaDarlene Richards 613-774-4822Waterloo CountyLaura CoughlinSarah Camer<strong>on</strong> 519-742-1414West NipissingBill Gingras 705-753-5326Wellingt<strong>on</strong> CountyMarlene Klimkosz 519-993-6699Windsor/EssexAlex Meyer 519-250-1893York Regi<strong>on</strong>Cenza Newt<strong>on</strong> 905-780-1590<strong>Autism</strong> Society <strong>Ontario</strong> is a registered charitable n<strong>on</strong>-profit organizati<strong>on</strong>(#11924 8789 RR0001).Our Visi<strong>on</strong>: Acceptance and opportunities for all individuals with<strong>Autism</strong> <strong>Spectrum</strong> Disorders (ASD). Our Missi<strong>on</strong>: To ensure that eachindividual with <strong>Autism</strong> <strong>Spectrum</strong> Disorder is provided <strong>the</strong> means toachieve quality of life as a respected member of society. The <strong>Autism</strong>Newslink is published four times per year. Subscripti<strong>on</strong> to The <strong>Autism</strong>Newslink is included with ASO membership. Newslink welcomesc<strong>on</strong>tributi<strong>on</strong>s from its readers. Send your articles, reviews, letters,comments, announcements, etc., to Margaret Spoelstra, NewslinkEditor. Inclusi<strong>on</strong>s of informati<strong>on</strong> not directly related to ASO are forinformati<strong>on</strong> <strong>on</strong>ly and individuals, events, <strong>the</strong>rapies, treatments, etc.,are not necessarily endorsed by ASO.<strong>Autism</strong> Society <strong>Ontario</strong>1179A King Street West, Suite 004Tor<strong>on</strong>to, ON M6K 3C5Ph<strong>on</strong>e: 416-246-9592Fax: 416-246-9417mail@autismsociety.<strong>on</strong>.ca6An Interview withPam, by AndreaSwans<strong>on</strong>14Epilepsy in<strong>Autism</strong>, by LyndaBeedham12Inch by Inchby Matt McD<strong>on</strong>ald,with support fromPaul Baines13Jim’s Story,C<strong>on</strong>tinuedby Jeanette HoldenOn <strong>the</strong> CoverThe cover is a partial photo of a painting entitled “Keeping up Appearances” by PEI artist SandiKomst. The painting sits <strong>on</strong> <strong>the</strong> desk of ASO Executive Director, Margaret Spoelstra.O<strong>the</strong>r featuresJennifer’s Story, by Marilyn AtkinsPlanning for a Successful Transiti<strong>on</strong> to Adult Life, by Paul Van de LaarNeeds Analysis for Sec<strong>on</strong>dary Students in Transiti<strong>on</strong>, by Patricia GallinClinical Services for <str<strong>on</strong>g>Adults</str<strong>on</strong>g> with Asperger Syndrome, by J. Dale Munro and Dr. Lillian BurkeWhat a Difference Friendship Makes!, by Nicole BeattyThe <strong>Ontario</strong> Adult <strong>Autism</strong> Research and Support Network,by Elizabeth and Gerald BloomfieldAre You Prepared for an <strong>Autism</strong> Emergency?, by Karyn DumbleTips for Parents and Educators, by Kathryn Everest<strong>Ontario</strong> Human Rights Commissi<strong>on</strong> Presentati<strong>on</strong> to ASO, by Lisa Wils<strong>on</strong>PoemsI Am Building a Bridge, by Elsbeth DodmanEscalated Argument, by Sebastian Murdoch-Gibs<strong>on</strong>Ode to a Planned Child, by Maureen MuellerBook ReviewsThe Road Trip—Life with <strong>Autism</strong>, by Gloria Pears<strong>on</strong>-Vasey and J. Kevin Vasey,Reviewed by Amy BaskinAl Cap<strong>on</strong>e Does My Shirts, by Gennifer Choldenko,Reviews by Aldrin Balisi/Ohmar Rivera and Alexander OrvitzWhat’s not in this issue...Space c<strong>on</strong>straints in this issue did not allow us to print two excellent articlesco-authored by <strong>the</strong> director of Kerry’s Place <strong>Autism</strong> Services, Glenn Rampt<strong>on</strong>,and senior staff member, Gail J<strong>on</strong>es. The articles can be found in <strong>the</strong>irentirety <strong>on</strong> <strong>the</strong> Kerry’s Place <strong>Autism</strong> Services website at www.kerrysplace.com. The titles are Less<strong>on</strong>s Learned in Supporting Individuals with Autistic <strong>Spectrum</strong>disorder with Complex Support Needs and Some Insights in Understanding<strong>the</strong> Support Requirements of Pers<strong>on</strong>s Living With <strong>Autism</strong> <strong>Spectrum</strong> Disorder.Attenti<strong>on</strong> Members/Subscribers: We often reference websites or e-mail addresses in articles toallow you to obtain additi<strong>on</strong>al informati<strong>on</strong>. We recognize that not every<strong>on</strong>e has <strong>the</strong> ability to makec<strong>on</strong>necti<strong>on</strong>s through <strong>the</strong> internet. If you require additi<strong>on</strong>al informati<strong>on</strong> regarding a particulararticle or advertisement, please c<strong>on</strong>tact your local ASO chapter for assistance.ASO Newslink Editor89101116192020231617232122Editing, design and printing services, GEPM Group Inc. www.gepmgroup.com
upfr<strong>on</strong>tDear ASO Membership:This issue marks <strong>the</strong> first occasi<strong>on</strong> thatASO’s Newslink has been dedicatedprimarily to <strong>the</strong> topic of adults <strong>on</strong> <strong>the</strong>autism spectrum in <strong>Ontario</strong>. Certainly it isunderstandable that much media attenti<strong>on</strong>about autism is focused <strong>on</strong> matters that affectchildren, since all our readers know intimately about <strong>the</strong> impactof those early years. One can’t help w<strong>on</strong>der about <strong>the</strong> focus of thatattenti<strong>on</strong> c<strong>on</strong>sidering that people with ASD live out most of <strong>the</strong>irlives in <strong>the</strong>ir adult years. Although we share a variety of viewpointsin this issue, <strong>the</strong> limited research we have about adults with autismand Aspergers does not paint a rosy picture.First of all, where are <strong>the</strong>y? Even without accurate numbersand locati<strong>on</strong>s, studies already c<strong>on</strong>firm that <strong>the</strong> majority of adultswith autism live at home with <strong>the</strong>ir parents, who have <strong>the</strong>ir ownchallenges related to <strong>the</strong> aging process. At ASO, we observe thatparents of adult children tend not to come out to support andinformati<strong>on</strong> meetings any l<strong>on</strong>ger. When we ask why, <strong>the</strong>y stopand slightly shift <strong>the</strong> positi<strong>on</strong> of <strong>the</strong>ir bodies as <strong>the</strong>y organize <strong>the</strong>irthoughts. Their resp<strong>on</strong>ses reflect years of a thousand ph<strong>on</strong>e callsmade, waiting <strong>on</strong> waiting lists <strong>on</strong>ly to discover that if <strong>the</strong>y madeit to <strong>the</strong> top, <strong>the</strong> service no l<strong>on</strong>ger was what <strong>the</strong>y thought <strong>the</strong>y’dsigned up for, or new challenges that had developed for <strong>the</strong>ir childrendered <strong>the</strong>m ineligible for <strong>the</strong> very service that was to help <strong>the</strong>mavoid those difficulties in <strong>the</strong> first place. Those and o<strong>the</strong>r realitiesare punctuated throughout this issue.We observe that parents of adult children are much wiser, but<strong>the</strong>y tell us that <strong>the</strong>y are much more tired. Tired physically, andweary of well-meaning discussi<strong>on</strong>s at countless meetings that offersuggesti<strong>on</strong>s of hope but few tangible opti<strong>on</strong>s. They have heard it all.They have shifted to a different place in <strong>the</strong>ir thinking about <strong>the</strong>irchild <strong>on</strong> <strong>the</strong> spectrum. The language of <strong>the</strong>ir earlier years in livingwith autism (e.g. treatment, cure, fight, disease) has been largelyreplaced by words that describe <strong>the</strong> adult s<strong>on</strong> or daughter. Wordslike “citizen,” “safe and supportive envir<strong>on</strong>ment,” “meaningfulactivities,” “medicati<strong>on</strong>s that actually help,” “real choices” and“people who care without being paid to do so.” Now <strong>the</strong> drivingforce is <strong>the</strong> ticking clock and <strong>the</strong> growing urgency about securingwhat is needed for <strong>the</strong>ir child when <strong>the</strong>y are no l<strong>on</strong>ger here.Part of our current challenge is <strong>the</strong> gap that has grown betweenparents of children and parents of adults <strong>on</strong> <strong>the</strong> spectrum. As acommunity of parents and ASD professi<strong>on</strong>als, we’ve participatedin creating that barrier and we <strong>the</strong> <strong>on</strong>es who can re-establish linesof communicati<strong>on</strong> to streng<strong>the</strong>n our resolve and give voice towhat really matters. A number of initiatives in <strong>Ontario</strong> are worthnoting. One area of change is <strong>the</strong> growing number of articulateself-advocates with ASD. Recent funding announced by MCSS foradults with developmental disabilities is hopeful, but how that willimpact adults with ASD remains to be seen. Several key c<strong>on</strong>ferencesoccurring in <strong>the</strong> next three m<strong>on</strong>ths will solidify plans to moveforward <strong>on</strong> improving choices for adults <strong>on</strong> <strong>the</strong> autism spectrum.We already know what it takes. There’s no time to wait.Margaret Spoelstra, Executive DirectorWhen I was asked to do an articlefor Newslink <strong>on</strong> being a Boardmember, I said sure, I wouldlove to. And <strong>the</strong>n I started to think, Wow!I have been <strong>on</strong> <strong>the</strong> ASO Board for eightyears, and this year I finish my final term. Itmade me stop and think of all <strong>the</strong> changesthat have g<strong>on</strong>e <strong>on</strong> over <strong>the</strong> last eight years, and how far we havecome in <strong>the</strong> more than 30 years we have been established asan associati<strong>on</strong>.I first came to <strong>the</strong> Board in 1998. My aunt, Eleanor Stephen(Ritchie) had called and asked me if I might be interested inrunning for <strong>the</strong> positi<strong>on</strong> of treasurer for ASO that year. I alwayslike to say that it was <strong>the</strong> right “ask” at <strong>the</strong> right time. I saidsure, and went to my first AGM. As I stood for <strong>the</strong> electi<strong>on</strong>, Iwas surprised to find myself standing al<strong>on</strong>e, and winning <strong>the</strong>electi<strong>on</strong> for <strong>the</strong> treasurer’s positi<strong>on</strong>. That was my first step inmy commitment to ASO.Sometimes people ask “why would you want to be <strong>on</strong> a Boardof Directors?” Good questi<strong>on</strong>. I know that when I said yes I feltthat I could possibly do something worthwhile for ASO, andsince I am an accountant it seemed like a great fit. That was <strong>the</strong>first step. The sec<strong>on</strong>d step was being a part of <strong>the</strong> Board. Thatmeant being a participant in <strong>the</strong> decisi<strong>on</strong>s and directi<strong>on</strong>s for ourorganizati<strong>on</strong>. For <strong>the</strong> years that I have been <strong>on</strong> <strong>the</strong> Board, it hasalways been a united group, representing its members and itsorganizati<strong>on</strong> in <strong>the</strong> best way that it can. What more could <strong>on</strong>epossibly ask? Each of <strong>the</strong> Board members that I have served withover <strong>the</strong> years has brought a light to my life and I call <strong>the</strong>m allfriends. What a w<strong>on</strong>derful gift to me!It is very hard to believe that eight years have passed. I havebeen fortunate in that I have served as Treasurer, Vice Presidentand President, and currently sit as Past President. I have enjoyedevery <strong>on</strong>e of <strong>the</strong>se positi<strong>on</strong>s, and was h<strong>on</strong>oured to be ASO’srepresentative in each of <strong>the</strong>se roles.I know that as June draws closer, I am going to be veryemoti<strong>on</strong>al about leaving <strong>the</strong> Board. Putting words down <strong>on</strong>paper to express what I have felt in being a part of <strong>the</strong> directi<strong>on</strong>of ASO and its community is difficult, as it is a part of me. It willc<strong>on</strong>tinue to be a part of my life as I hope to c<strong>on</strong>tinue to work <strong>on</strong>committees, with <strong>the</strong> approval of <strong>the</strong> Board of Directors.I want to take this opportunity to thank all of <strong>the</strong> membersfor <strong>the</strong>ir support and <strong>the</strong>ir dedicati<strong>on</strong> to ASO, and to me as Irepresented <strong>Autism</strong> Society <strong>Ontario</strong>.Christine DadeASO Staff: E<strong>the</strong>l Berry (Manager - Informati<strong>on</strong>, Member & D<strong>on</strong>or Services), Margaret Spoelstra (Executive Director), Karyn Dumble (Chapter Liais<strong>on</strong>/Support Staff), Barbara Worrall (Administrative and Volunteer Staff), B<strong>on</strong>nie McPhail and R<strong>on</strong> Harris<strong>on</strong> (To<strong>on</strong>ies for <strong>Autism</strong> Co-Chairs), Es<strong>the</strong>r Zhou (SeniorBookkeeper), Gayle Height (Interim Senior Bookkeeper), Jean Woolford (Special Projects and Newslink Managing Editor), Anna D<strong>on</strong>ato (To<strong>on</strong>ies for <strong>Autism</strong>Manager), Patricia Gallin (ASO Program Support Coordinator)Board of Directors: Nancy Ambrogio, Leslie Broun, Jane Burke-Roberts<strong>on</strong>, Lynda Clayt<strong>on</strong>, Christine Dade, Claudio Del Duca (President), Linda Gibs<strong>on</strong>,Jane Houlden (Chair, President’s Council), Deborah Kitchen, Ginny Pearce, M<strong>on</strong>ica Richards<strong>on</strong>, Jas<strong>on</strong> Smith, L<strong>on</strong>nie ZwaigenbaumSpring 2006 The <strong>Autism</strong> Newslink