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Boys take a fancy to the guise of girls and copy their gait too. <strong>The</strong>y wear long hair in thefeminine manner.Guardians must not let their children do so.Warn against wicked companions.One of the main causes of deviation among children is an evil company. If the child is slow topick up and lacks proper moral upbringing, the effect of an immoral company is morepronounced.<strong>The</strong>refore, keep your children away from wicked and evil friends so that they remain upright.Warn against immodesty and bad manners.As parents and guardians, it is your duty to tell your children of the damaging results of thesehabits. Some of these are:? lying ? tale bearing ? abusing ? licentiousness ? cigarette smoking ? masturbation ? takingnarcotics ? using intoxicants ? adultery and sodomy.If guardians are lax in supervision, the children will be ruined and there will be no hope ofreforming them.Warn against unlawful acts.Restrain your wards from pursuing the forbidden and unlawful. <strong>The</strong> Ulamªa define harªam(unlawful) as an act whichShari‘ahhas commanded us in strict terms to reject and hasdescribed the doer of it as liable to punishment in this world or the next. Examples ofunlawful acts are murder, adultery, drinking wine, gambling, seizing the property of anorphan or giving less measure while weighing. Guardians must accustom their children at anearly stage to fulfil their duties and to stay away from the unlawful. Teach them theinjunctions of the lawful and the unlawful so that they take these things in their stride and besafe from Hell-Fire.341 [172] Remember, only that is lawful what Allah has allowed and all that isunlawful that He has forbidden. A ruling by man cannot turn the lawful into unlawful or theother way about; a person who holds a contrary opinion is irreligious and an atheist. He whoobeys such a person is also a criminal.342 [173] <strong>The</strong> Jews and Christians delegated power andauthority to their monks and popes to declare the unlawful as lawful and the lawful asforbidden. <strong>The</strong> Noble Qur`ªan has censured these people.343 [174] <strong>The</strong>y hold obedience to these341 [172] ibn Jarªir and ibn Munzir.342 [173] ash-Shªurªa, 42:21.343 [174] at Tawbah, 9:31.

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