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PSYCHOLOGYOF SEXA MANUAL FOR STUDENTSBYHAVELOCK ELLISEMERSON BOOKS, INC*NEW YORK1960


Copyright, 1Q3.3, ^SS, byHAVELOCK ELLISAll rights reservedTHIRTEENTH PRINTINGSECOND EDITIONPRINTED IN THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA


FOREWORD TO NEW PRINTINGSo SHORT a period has elapsed s<strong>in</strong>ce this manual was writtenthat there are yet no serious changes to make. Wecould not <strong>in</strong>deed expect that on the psychological aspect<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> any such rapid progress is possible as on the biochemicaland genetic aspects. So that I need only here expressmy satisfaction at the cordial reception <strong>of</strong> my bookalike <strong>in</strong> England and the United States, on the medicalside and on the lay side.In view <strong>of</strong> the widely divergent approach to the problem<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> among the psycho-analytic schools, the almost unqualifiedapproval they have shown cannot but be gratify<strong>in</strong>g.My own attitude to the various schools has been one<strong>of</strong> read<strong>in</strong>ess to accept from each any contribution <strong>of</strong> valueit seemed to <strong>of</strong>fer. Such an attitude cannot be altogetheragreeable to mutually hostile schools <strong>of</strong> thought. It is themore notable that they have warmly welcomed this book.Thus on the one hand the late lamented Dr. Eder <strong>in</strong> ahighly eulogistic review <strong>in</strong> the chief Freudian organ, theInternational Journal <strong>of</strong> Psycho-Analysis, only fa<strong>in</strong>tlyOnqualifies his complete agreement on essential po<strong>in</strong>ts.the other hand, the International Journal <strong>of</strong> Individual<strong>Psychology</strong>, the chief organ <strong>of</strong> the Adlerian school, isscarcely less favorable <strong>in</strong> its recognition <strong>of</strong> scientific objectivitycomb<strong>in</strong>ed with sympathetic <strong>in</strong>sight, even though thecritic f<strong>in</strong>ds a "fundamental error" <strong>in</strong> my <strong>in</strong>cidental quotation<strong>of</strong> the ancient say<strong>in</strong>g, "A man is what his <strong>sex</strong> is,"when I should have said, my critic holds> "A man's <strong>sex</strong> iswhat he is/* But I am quite will<strong>in</strong>g so to it.put The real


FOREWORD TO NEW PRINTINGpo<strong>in</strong>t <strong>of</strong> the say<strong>in</strong>g, whichever way one puts it, is merely toaffirm that a man's <strong>sex</strong>ual temperamentis too <strong>in</strong>timateand essential a part <strong>of</strong> him to be viewed with <strong>in</strong>difference.When even the hostile comments <strong>of</strong> my criticsare soharmless I feel that I may cont<strong>in</strong>ue to put forward withconfidence a manual which I sought to make an <strong>in</strong>troductoryguide to the study <strong>of</strong> a supremely important side <strong>of</strong>life.HAVELOCK ELLIS


PREFACEI HAVE frequently been told by readers <strong>of</strong> the seven volumes <strong>of</strong>my Studies <strong>in</strong> the <strong>Psychology</strong> <strong>of</strong> Sex that there is need for asmall book to serve as a concise <strong>in</strong>troduction to Sex <strong>Psychology</strong>.Ord<strong>in</strong>ary medical practitioners and students,, it issaid, are far too overburdened already to be able to masterextensive treatises on an additional subject which is notobligatory. The subject <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> <strong>in</strong> itspsychic and social bear<strong>in</strong>gsis so central, and <strong>of</strong> an importance now so widely recognized,if not <strong>in</strong>deed exaggerated, among the general public,that the medical man <strong>of</strong> today cannot fail to have itbroughtbefore him. He cannot, like his predecessors, conventionallyignore its existence, or feel that its recognition would be resentedas impert<strong>in</strong>ent or <strong>in</strong>decorous. Moreover, a knowledgeconf<strong>in</strong>ed to general anatomy, physiology, and pathologyis nowaltogether <strong>in</strong>adequate.My own op<strong>in</strong>ionis <strong>in</strong> accord with these views. I have <strong>in</strong>deedfelt that medical education displays at this po<strong>in</strong>t avacuum which is altogether lamentable. In my own medicaltra<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g, which began half a century ago, the psychologicalaspects <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> had no existence whatever. For my gynaecologicalteachers the processes<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> <strong>in</strong> health and disease were purelyphysical; the only consideration they <strong>in</strong>troduced which could<strong>in</strong> any way be regarded as psychological <strong>in</strong> its bear<strong>in</strong>g andit stands out <strong>in</strong> memory because so isolated was '.an' unqualifiedwarn<strong>in</strong>g aga<strong>in</strong>st what would now be called contraception.It might be supposed that great progress has been made s<strong>in</strong>cethose remote days. Here and there, no doubt, there has. ButI have no evidence that the progress <strong>in</strong> isany country widespreador pronounced. It is less than twenty-five years s<strong>in</strong>ceFraenkel stated that "most gynaecologists know practically verylittle about <strong>sex</strong>uality," and Van de Velde remarks that thatis still true for the great majority though there are now somehonorable exceptions. I hear from medical students <strong>of</strong> todaythat they receive absolutely no <strong>in</strong>struction <strong>in</strong> the psycho-[vii]


PREFACEphysical processes <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>, their liability to disturbance, ortheir hygiene. Ancient superstitions still prevail<strong>in</strong> our medicalschools, and the medical students <strong>of</strong> today are for themost partstill treated with almost the same misplaced reverenceas the school children <strong>of</strong> a century ago,whom it wassometimes considered <strong>in</strong>decent to <strong>in</strong>struct <strong>in</strong> so <strong>sex</strong>ual a subjectas botany.After long hesitation I have decided to prepare the littlemanual here presented to the reader. There is scarcely needto say that it makes no claim to supplant, or even to summarize,my larger work. It has sometimes been stated thatthose larger volumes deal chiefly with the pathological side<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>. That is an error. I might even claim that my Studiesdiffered from all previous work on the subject by a ma<strong>in</strong>concern with the normal phenomena <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>. The same ma<strong>in</strong>concern is preserved <strong>in</strong> the present book. While my experienceis partly derived from the abnormal persons who havecome to me from widely varied quarters,it is chiefly foundedon my knowledge <strong>of</strong> normal men and women and their problems<strong>in</strong> ord<strong>in</strong>arylife. At the same time I have always soughtto show that no sharp boundary-l<strong>in</strong>e exists between normaland abnormal. All normal persons are a little abnormal <strong>in</strong>one direction or another, and abnormal persons are stillguided by fundamental impulses similar to those felt bynormal persons."The goal <strong>of</strong> scientific <strong>in</strong>quiry," it has been truly said, "isthe representation <strong>of</strong> experimentally demonstrable data withthe aid <strong>of</strong> mathematical symbolism," We are far from thegoal here. In this field we are only <strong>in</strong> the first phase but it isa necessary and helpful phase <strong>of</strong> regard<strong>in</strong>g <strong>sex</strong> psychologyas a department <strong>of</strong> natural history.I make no apology, therefore, for the fact that this littlebook is simple and concise. It may thus <strong>in</strong>deed the betterreach the medical readers and students for whom it is primarily<strong>in</strong>tended. There are certa<strong>in</strong> essentials with which allshould be familiar. I furnish the dues to those who desireto go further and to master problems which still lie ahead,and cannot <strong>in</strong> any case be adequately dealt with <strong>in</strong> an elementarymanual.Those problems stretch afar. Sexual science<strong>sex</strong>ology, as[viii]


PREFACEsome would call it differs, as an em<strong>in</strong>ent German gynaecologist,Max Hirsch, has lately po<strong>in</strong>ted out, from most otherbranches <strong>of</strong> the heal<strong>in</strong>g art by hav<strong>in</strong>g no def<strong>in</strong>itely circumscribedfrontiers. From its center radiate beams not only <strong>in</strong>toall the other departments <strong>of</strong> medic<strong>in</strong>e but also <strong>in</strong>to manyneighbor<strong>in</strong>g regions, some <strong>of</strong> these with no obvious connectionwith medic<strong>in</strong>e. It is even concerned with the whole <strong>of</strong> humanculture. It leads us to tradition and custom. It isaffected bymorals and religion. We may recall the remark <strong>of</strong> Sir JohnRose Bradford that what <strong>in</strong> the wide sense we today call thescience <strong>of</strong> medic<strong>in</strong>e might be summed upas "the naturalhistory <strong>of</strong> man."So it is that, to enter this field effectively, a complex experienceisnecessary, a special tra<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g, a personal disposition. Itis today a field <strong>in</strong>to which many put their foot whose explorationsdo not always, if <strong>of</strong>ten, bear exam<strong>in</strong>ation. One may wellbe doubtful as to one's ability to br<strong>in</strong>g back from that fieldanyth<strong>in</strong>g likely to be <strong>of</strong> help to one's fellows. If I have myselfwaited long before present<strong>in</strong>g, with much hesitation, a manualwhich seems to <strong>of</strong>fer itself as a guide, I do not feel that I havewaited too long.There are many, I might add, who before accept<strong>in</strong>g me as aguide will desire to know what my attitude is towards psychoanalysis,the doctr<strong>in</strong>e which until recently, if not <strong>in</strong>deed still,has aroused so much dispute where questions <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual psychologyarise. I may, therefore, say here at once that as willbe clear <strong>in</strong> due course my attitude has from the first beensympathetic though never that <strong>of</strong> a partisan. A book <strong>of</strong> m<strong>in</strong>e(Studies, Vol. 1) was <strong>in</strong> 1898 the first <strong>in</strong> English to set forththe earliest results reached by Freud, and my attitude to subsequentresults has rema<strong>in</strong>ed the same, always friendly but<strong>of</strong>ten critical. I would like to commend to all readers <strong>of</strong> thepresent book Freud's Introductory Lectures on Psycho-Analysisas not only the most authoritative but probably the best bookfor those who would conf<strong>in</strong>e their firsthand knowledge <strong>of</strong>psycho-analytic literature to a s<strong>in</strong>gle volume; even those whoare opposed to the general doctr<strong>in</strong>e cannot fail to f<strong>in</strong>d here theoutcome <strong>of</strong> much wisdom and experience. If a still brieferstatement is desired itmay be found set forth with the highestcompetence <strong>in</strong> Ernest Jones's little book on Psycho-Analysis.[ix]


PREFACEA more elaborate but lucid and impartial expositionis Structureand Mean<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> Psycho-Analysis by Healy, Bronner, andBowers. While Freud must be recognized as the master <strong>in</strong> thepsycho-analytic field there is no occasion to reject altogetherthose who have separatedthemselves from him to follow theirown paths. They all have hold <strong>of</strong> some aspect <strong>of</strong> the manysidedhuman psyche, and, while avoid<strong>in</strong>g a too <strong>in</strong>discrim<strong>in</strong>atewhatever sound element each haseclecticism, we may acceptto give.The selected bibliographical data furnished at the end <strong>of</strong>each section, it will be remarked, are all English, so as to bewith<strong>in</strong> reach <strong>of</strong> the largest number <strong>of</strong> readers. Many importantworks are only to be found <strong>in</strong> other languages, especiallyGerman. The reader who is acqua<strong>in</strong>ted with those languageswill have no difficulty <strong>in</strong> f<strong>in</strong>d<strong>in</strong>g, through the data herefurnished, such wider literature as he may require.I have to add that <strong>in</strong> the preparation <strong>of</strong> this manual I havemade some use <strong>of</strong> a chapter on "Sexual Problems, Their Nervousand Mental Relations," which I wrote some years ago forthe treatise on The Modern Treatment <strong>of</strong> Nervous and MentalDisease, edited by Dr. William A. White and Dr. SmithEly Jelliffe, and published by Lea & Febiger. I am obligedto the editors and publishers for permission thus to use thischapter. I have also made use <strong>of</strong> my contribution on thepsychology <strong>of</strong> the normal <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse to Dr. Albert Moll'sHandbuch der Sexualwissenschaften, and that on psychopathic<strong>sex</strong>uality to Dr. A. Marie's Traite International dePsychologie Patkologique. It is only necessary to remark <strong>in</strong>conclusion that Sexual <strong>Psychology</strong> as here understood meansthe psychology <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse and not the differentialpsychology <strong>of</strong> the two <strong>sex</strong>es, which is dealt with fully <strong>in</strong> mybook, Man and Woman.HAVELOCK ELLIS


CONTENTSI. INTRODUCTION iII. THE BIOLOGY OF SEX STHE PHYSICAL BASIS OF SEX THE NATURE OFTHE SEXUAL IMPULSE EROGENIC ZONES THEBIOLOGY OF COURTSHIP PREFERENTIAL MAT-ING! THE FACTORS OF SEXUAL SELECTION(l) TOUCH (?) SMELL (g) HEARING (4)VISION.III. THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN YOUTH 88THE FIRST APPEARANCE OF THE SEXUAL IM-PULSE AUTO-EROTISM EROTIC DAY-DREAM-ING EROTIC DREAMS IN SLEEP MASTURBA-TION NARCISSISM EDUCATION IN SEX.IV.SEXUAL DEVIATION AND THE EROTICSYMBOLISMS 147SEXUAL DEVIATION SEXUAL DEVIATION INCHILDHOOD UROLAGNIA AND COPROLAGNIAEROTIC FETICHISM STUFF FETICHISMS ANDEROTIC ZOOPHILIA KLEPTOLAGNIA EXHIBI-TIONISM ALGOLAGNIA (SADISM AND MASO-CHISM) SEXUAL SENILITY THE SOCIAL AT-TITUDE TOWARDS SEXUAL DEVIATIONS.V. HOMOSEXUALITY 218SEXUAL INVERSION THE DIAGNOSIS OF SEX-UAL INVERSION EONISM (TRANSVESTISM ORSEXO-^ESTHETIC INVERSION) THE QUESTIONOF TREATMENT.


CONTENTSVI. MARRIAGE 256INTRODUCTORY (THE PROBLEM OF SEXUALABSTINENCE) THE ADVISABILITY OF MAR-RIAGE SATISFACTION IN MARRIAGE THEMONOGAMIC STANDARD THE CONTROL OFPROCREATION THE PROBLEM OF CHILDLESSMARRIAGE IMPOTENCE AND FRIGIDITY (SEX-UAL HYPOJESTHESIA AND SEXUAL HYPER-^ESTHESIA) CHASTITY THE MENOPAUSE.VII. THE ART OF LOVE323THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN RELATION TO LOVEWHY LOVE IS AN ART.VIII. CONCLUSION353THE DYNAMIC NATURE OF THE SEXUAL IM-PULSE SUBLIMATION.GLOSSARYINDEX367"xiil


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PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXCHAPTER IINTRODUCTIONSEXUAL <strong>Psychology</strong>, normal and abnormal, as well asSexual Hygiene, nowadays attracts a general <strong>in</strong>terest andattention which before the present century was undreamed<strong>of</strong>. The young man <strong>of</strong> todayis sometimes remarkablywell <strong>in</strong>formed <strong>in</strong> relation to the literature <strong>of</strong><strong>sex</strong>, and the young woman <strong>of</strong> today <strong>of</strong>ten approachesthese subjects <strong>in</strong> an <strong>in</strong>quir<strong>in</strong>g spirit and with an absence<strong>of</strong> prudery which would have seemed to her grandmotherabsolutely impious. Until recent years any scientific occupationwith <strong>sex</strong> was usually held to <strong>in</strong>dicate, if not avicious taste, at all events an unwholesome tendency. Atthe present time it isamong the upholders <strong>of</strong> personaland public morality that the workers <strong>in</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual psychologyand the advocates <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual hygiene f<strong>in</strong>d the warmestsupport.It can scarcely be said that until lately the medicalpr<strong>of</strong>ession has taken an active part<strong>in</strong> the extension <strong>of</strong>this movement. The pioneers, <strong>in</strong>deed at first, nearly acentury ago, <strong>in</strong> Germany and Austria, and later <strong>in</strong> othercountries have been physicians, but they were <strong>of</strong>tenlooked at askance by their colleagues. Sexual psychologyand <strong>sex</strong>ual hygiene have formed no part <strong>of</strong> the physician'stra<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g. Indeed scarcely more can be said <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ualphysiology and it is little over twenty years ago that thefirst really scientific and comprehensive manual <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXphysiology (F. H. A. Marshall's) was issued from thepress.Just as the ord<strong>in</strong>ary college manuals have ignored theanatomy and physiology <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> as completely as thoughthis function formed no part whatever <strong>of</strong> animal life, somedical manuals have completely ignored the psychology<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>. It thus comes about that <strong>in</strong> the scientific knowledge<strong>of</strong> these matters, which for the comprehension <strong>of</strong>some cases is vitally important, the isphysician <strong>of</strong>ten lesswell <strong>in</strong>formed than his patient,and not seldom is thevictim <strong>of</strong> false traditions and antiquated prejudices. Religionand morality have been <strong>in</strong>voked <strong>in</strong> behalf <strong>of</strong> silenceon such subjects by those who might have rememberedthat, even from his own standpo<strong>in</strong>t, a great Father <strong>of</strong> theChurch had declared that we should not be ashamed tospeak <strong>of</strong> what God was not ashamed to create.This ignorance may be even more serious when we areconcerned with what was <strong>of</strong>ten referred to with horror as"perversion." Aga<strong>in</strong> and aga<strong>in</strong>, where psychic <strong>sex</strong>ualanomalies are concerned, we f<strong>in</strong>d patients compla<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>gthat their physician has shown no comprehension <strong>of</strong> theirspecial difficulties, either brush<strong>in</strong>g aside the condition as<strong>of</strong> no consequence, or else treat<strong>in</strong>g them as vicious,wicked, It isperhaps disgust<strong>in</strong>g persons.doubtless thepatient's consciousness <strong>of</strong> this attitude <strong>in</strong> his doctor whichleads many physicians, even <strong>of</strong> great experience,to declarethat psycho<strong>sex</strong>ual anomalies are very rare and thatthey scarcely ever meet with them.It may no doubt be ma<strong>in</strong>ta<strong>in</strong>ed that <strong>in</strong> vaguely hold<strong>in</strong>gforth an ideal <strong>of</strong> robust normality, and refus<strong>in</strong>g even tohear <strong>of</strong> any deviation from that ideal, the physicianisstimulat<strong>in</strong>g and <strong>in</strong>spir<strong>in</strong>g his patients to pursue the rightcourse. But it must be po<strong>in</strong>ted out that <strong>in</strong> this respectpsychic health is not different from physical health. An


INTRODUCTIONexact and <strong>in</strong>telligent knowledge <strong>of</strong> the patient's abnormalcondition isnecessary <strong>in</strong> order to restore the normal condition.We cannot br<strong>in</strong>g him to the position where wedesire him to be unless we know where he at present is.Moreover, <strong>in</strong> psychic health, to an even greater extentthan <strong>in</strong> physical health, the range <strong>of</strong> what may be considerednormal variation is very wide. And further, <strong>in</strong>order to ascerta<strong>in</strong> what preciselyis the norm for any given<strong>in</strong>dividual <strong>in</strong> this matter, we must know exactly what is his<strong>in</strong>nate psycho<strong>sex</strong>ual constitution, for otherwise we maybe putt<strong>in</strong>g him on a path which, though normal forothers, is really abnormal for him.It is on these grounds that much facile and conventionaladvice given to psycho<strong>sex</strong>ual patients is misplacedand even mischievous. This holds good, for <strong>in</strong>stance, <strong>of</strong>the advice so <strong>of</strong>ten given to <strong>sex</strong>ually abnormal persons tomarry. Certa<strong>in</strong>ly <strong>in</strong> some cases such advice may be excellent.But it cannot be safely given except with fullness<strong>of</strong> knowledge and with precise reference to the conditions<strong>of</strong> the <strong>in</strong>dividual case. This warn<strong>in</strong>g holds good, <strong>in</strong>deed,<strong>of</strong> all advice <strong>in</strong> the psycho<strong>sex</strong>ual sphere. Sex penetratesthe whole person; a man's <strong>sex</strong>ual constitution is a part <strong>of</strong>his general constitution. There is considerable truth <strong>in</strong>the dictum: 'A man is what his <strong>sex</strong> is/ <strong>No</strong> useful advicecan be given concern<strong>in</strong>g the guidanceand control <strong>of</strong> the<strong>sex</strong>ual life unless this is borne <strong>in</strong> m<strong>in</strong>d. A man may,<strong>in</strong>deed, be mistaken concern<strong>in</strong>g his own <strong>sex</strong>ual nature. Hemay be merely pass<strong>in</strong>g through a youthful and temporaryabnormal stage, to reach eventually a more normal andpermanent condition. Or he may, by some undue reaction,have mistaken a subord<strong>in</strong>ate impulse <strong>of</strong> his naturefor the predom<strong>in</strong>ant impulse, s<strong>in</strong>ce we are all made up <strong>of</strong>various impulses, and the <strong>sex</strong>ually normal man is <strong>of</strong>ten aman who holds <strong>in</strong> control some abnormal impulse. Yet <strong>in</strong>[3]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXthe ma<strong>in</strong> a man's <strong>sex</strong>ual constitution isall-pervad<strong>in</strong>g,deep-rooted, permanent, <strong>in</strong> large measure congenital.At the same time we must be cautious <strong>in</strong> fix<strong>in</strong>g thebarrier between the constitutional and the acquired.Wehave to recognize, on the one hand, that the acquiredmay go much farther back than was once believed, and, onthe other hand, that the constitutional is <strong>of</strong>ten so subtleand so obscure that it rema<strong>in</strong>s undetected. For the mostboth sets <strong>of</strong> factors com-part, as is too <strong>of</strong>ten forgotten,b<strong>in</strong>e: the germ proves active because the soil happens tobe favorable. Here, as elsewhere, the result is not due toseed alone or soil alone, but to their association.Even <strong>in</strong>children <strong>of</strong> the same family the results <strong>of</strong> Mendelian <strong>in</strong>heritancemay br<strong>in</strong>g different seeds <strong>in</strong>to action, and theDirector <strong>of</strong> the London Child Guidance Cl<strong>in</strong>ic has latelypo<strong>in</strong>ted out how the same stress may make one child stealand another abnormally shy.This consideration serves to control the advice whichthe physician may reasonably give <strong>in</strong> psycho<strong>sex</strong>ual cases,and even to restrict the <strong>in</strong>fluence <strong>of</strong> any guidance he may<strong>of</strong>fer. There is another reason why the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse is<strong>in</strong>comparably less amenable to therapeutical <strong>in</strong>fluencethan the other impulse with which it may be compared,the nutritive impulse. Certa<strong>in</strong>ly the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse may,with<strong>in</strong> limits, be guided and controlled at will to a muchgreater extent than some are will<strong>in</strong>g to admit. But the<strong>sex</strong>ual impulse is, to an <strong>in</strong>comparably greater degree thanthe nutritive impulse, held <strong>in</strong> certa<strong>in</strong> paths and shut out<strong>of</strong> other paths, by traditional <strong>in</strong>fluences <strong>of</strong> religion, morality,social convention. There are a few physicians and whohold that these <strong>in</strong>fluences should be ignored. The physicianhas noth<strong>in</strong>g to do with morals or with conventions,they argue; he must consider what is for his patient's goodand advise him accord<strong>in</strong>gly, without any regard to moral[4]


INTRODUCTIONand conventional dictates. That, however, is a shortsightedcourse <strong>of</strong> action which leads to many awkwardpositions, to all k<strong>in</strong>ds <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>consistencies, not seldom to agreater evil than the evil it is sought to cure. For it is thespecial characteristic <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse, as dist<strong>in</strong>ctfrom the nutritive impulse, that its normal gratification<strong>in</strong>volves another person. It leads directly <strong>in</strong>to the socialsphere, <strong>in</strong>to the sphere<strong>of</strong> morals. <strong>No</strong> one isentitled toseek his own good, or can be advised to seek his good, <strong>in</strong>any l<strong>in</strong>e <strong>of</strong> action which <strong>in</strong>volves evil to other persons.<strong>No</strong>r, <strong>in</strong>deed, can the patient's own good, <strong>in</strong> any comprehensiveand rational sense, be found <strong>in</strong> a l<strong>in</strong>e <strong>of</strong> action<strong>in</strong>volv<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>jury to those nearest to him, or a violation <strong>of</strong>his own conscience and convictions. The wise physiciancannot afford to neglect these considerations, even thoughhe may be fully resolved that his advice shall not be basedon mere conventions. They are real and vital considerations,<strong>in</strong>terwoven with the traditional social edifice <strong>in</strong>which we all live, and <strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong>numerable cases they render itimpossible for the physician to follow purely biologicall<strong>in</strong>es <strong>in</strong> fram<strong>in</strong>g his psycho<strong>sex</strong>ual therapeutics. He must<strong>of</strong>ten feel himself helpless because the condition beforehim is largely the result <strong>of</strong> factors over which he has nocontrol, just as he must feel himself helpless with patientswhose condition isma<strong>in</strong>ly the result <strong>of</strong> overwork and underfeed<strong>in</strong>gwhich the conditions <strong>of</strong> their lives have rendered<strong>in</strong>evitable.It may be desirable, at the same time, to po<strong>in</strong>t out that,while the patient's moral situation cannot be ignored,itwould be a mistake to regard the moral situation as absolutelyrigid and unchangeable. Morals are <strong>in</strong> perpetualtransition. Much that isregarded as moral today, or at allevents as permitted, was fifty years ago regarded as immoral,and was not openly permitted. In harmony with[5 ]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXthe change <strong>in</strong> the moral situation, dist<strong>in</strong>guished physicians,with a full sense <strong>of</strong> responsibility, today openlypublish advice <strong>in</strong> matters <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> which not so very longago they could not have ventured to give even <strong>in</strong> private.The physician,alive to the large and splendid part he isentitled to play <strong>in</strong> work<strong>in</strong>g for the welfare <strong>of</strong> the community,and as medical adviser <strong>in</strong> the education <strong>of</strong> thewhole people,takes part<strong>in</strong> this transformation <strong>of</strong> morals.But he has always to consider the specialsituation <strong>of</strong> the<strong>in</strong>dividual patient.Thus it would be a serious mistake to conclude thator re-psycho<strong>sex</strong>ual cases must be viewed pessimistically,garded as belong<strong>in</strong>g to a field with which it is not worthwhile for the physician to concern himself. On the contrary,psycho<strong>sex</strong>ual cases, precisely because they are <strong>in</strong> thepsychic sphere, can be affected by <strong>in</strong>direct <strong>in</strong>fluenceswhich have little effect on the more physical factors odisease, like overwork and underfeed<strong>in</strong>g, which are likewise<strong>of</strong>ten beyond the physician'sdirect reach. It is attimes astonish<strong>in</strong>g to the physician to f<strong>in</strong>d <strong>in</strong> such cases,even when he has seemed to himself most helpless, howgenu<strong>in</strong>ely grateful the patient is for the benefit received.This is not always the result <strong>of</strong> suggestion, but rather <strong>of</strong>the opposite and equally natural process on which Freudhad at the outset based his method <strong>of</strong> psycho-analysisthecathartic process <strong>of</strong> yield<strong>in</strong>g up and br<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong>g to the surfacesuppressed elements <strong>of</strong> consciousness and so reliev<strong>in</strong>gthe tension caused by the suppression. In this very process<strong>of</strong> self-confession, <strong>in</strong> which the physician, even by the <strong>in</strong>telligenceand sympathy he br<strong>in</strong>gs to the task, is reallytak<strong>in</strong>g an active part, an abnormal condition is removed,and while this may not suffice to render the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulsenormal, it certa<strong>in</strong>ly renders it less <strong>in</strong>jurious, and at thesame time restores the whole psychic life to some degree[6]


INTRODUCTION<strong>of</strong> harmonious equilibrium. The religious process, so completelydeveloped <strong>in</strong> Catholicism, <strong>of</strong> confession and absolution,rests psychologically on this same basis, and tends,without doubt, to produce the same beneficial results. Itis noteworthy that many persons, suspect<strong>in</strong>g that they willf<strong>in</strong>d little <strong>in</strong>telligent sympathy from their doctor, spontaneouslytake their <strong>sex</strong>ual anomalies to their m<strong>in</strong>ister,<strong>of</strong> whatever denom<strong>in</strong>ation, for the sake <strong>of</strong> the relief <strong>of</strong>self-confession to one whose function it is to restore andconsole. There is an important field <strong>of</strong> such psychictherapeutics, apart from religious operation and evenapart from hypnotic and other forms <strong>of</strong> suggestion, whichlegitimately belongs to the physician, and will be foundpeculiarly helpful <strong>in</strong> the psycho<strong>sex</strong>ual sphere. It is amongFreud's special merits whatever we may th<strong>in</strong>k <strong>of</strong> thedevelopments <strong>of</strong> which his doctr<strong>in</strong>e proved susceptible <strong>in</strong>his own hands or the hands <strong>of</strong> others that he early recognizedthis special prov<strong>in</strong>ce <strong>of</strong> psycho-therapeutics, andrealized<strong>in</strong> the simile he adopted from the arts <strong>of</strong> pa<strong>in</strong>t<strong>in</strong>gand sculpture that psycho-therapeutics may operatenot only per via di porre, by putt<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>, but also per via,di levare, by tak<strong>in</strong>g out, by remov<strong>in</strong>g unnecessary <strong>in</strong>hibitionsand suppressions and thus restor<strong>in</strong>g the normalrelationships <strong>of</strong> the psychic organism.BIBLIOGRAPHYF. H. A. MARSHALL, The Physiology <strong>of</strong> Reproduction.S. FREUD, Introductory Lectures on Psycho-Analysis.[7 ]


CHAPTER IITHE BIOLOGY OF SEXThe Physical Basis <strong>of</strong> SexREPRODUCTION is so primitive and fundamental a function<strong>of</strong> vital organisms that the mechanism by which it isassured ishighly complex and not yet clearly understood.It is not necessarily connected with <strong>sex</strong>, nor is<strong>sex</strong> necessarilyconnected with reproduction. Yet the full development<strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual apparatus with the related secondary<strong>sex</strong>ual characters, as <strong>of</strong> the body generally, depends on the<strong>in</strong>tegrity <strong>of</strong> the gametes or reproductive cells the ovaprovided by the female and the spermatozoa by the maledur<strong>in</strong>g the whole <strong>of</strong> their course <strong>in</strong> giv<strong>in</strong>g orig<strong>in</strong> to thezygote or fertilized egg, and later on the course <strong>of</strong> thezygote's development. The best authorities hesitate todef<strong>in</strong>e exactly what "<strong>sex</strong>" is, but at all events it is at theoutset conditioned by the chromosome constitution <strong>of</strong> theat first relatively undifferentiated gonad cell. Dur<strong>in</strong>g theprocess <strong>of</strong> cell-division, the conta<strong>in</strong>ed chromat<strong>in</strong> <strong>of</strong> itsnucleus resolves itself <strong>in</strong>to a certa<strong>in</strong> number <strong>of</strong> filament?<strong>of</strong> def<strong>in</strong>ite rod-like shape these be<strong>in</strong>g the chromosomes-which fall <strong>in</strong>to order and are constant <strong>in</strong> number for thespecies to which the cell belongs. Theyare alike <strong>in</strong> allraces <strong>of</strong> man, whether <strong>in</strong> the male or the female, thoughit is the male that is digametic, or, as it is termed, XY,and dist<strong>in</strong>guishable by its smaller size. In mammals generally,<strong>in</strong>deed (it is the reverse <strong>in</strong> birds), the maleelaborates two k<strong>in</strong>ds <strong>of</strong> gametes, X-bear<strong>in</strong>g, and non X-[8]


THE BIOLOGY OF SEXbear<strong>in</strong>g, or Y-bear<strong>in</strong>g, while the female elaborates butone. An X-bear<strong>in</strong>g egg can be fertilized either by anX-bear<strong>in</strong>g sperm, to become XX and female, or a Y-bear<strong>in</strong>gsperm to become XY and male. Therewith we havethe start<strong>in</strong>g-po<strong>in</strong>t <strong>of</strong> the whole process (made clear by theextended and comprehensive <strong>in</strong>vestigations <strong>of</strong> Evans andSwezy) which there is no occasion to follow <strong>in</strong> detail here<strong>in</strong> its variations along, as is now held, Mendelian l<strong>in</strong>es.The Mendelian processes <strong>of</strong> heredity are much morevaried and complicated <strong>in</strong> man than <strong>in</strong> those lower organisms<strong>in</strong> which they were first studied.We have to conclude that <strong>sex</strong> isnormally determ<strong>in</strong>ed atconception, and to put aside all the various devices fordeterm<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g <strong>sex</strong> dur<strong>in</strong>g pregnancy. It is certa<strong>in</strong>ly necessaryto postulate, <strong>in</strong> Crew's words, that "<strong>in</strong> every zygote,be it XX or XY <strong>in</strong> <strong>sex</strong> chromosome constitution, thereare the physical bases <strong>of</strong> developmental impulses whichstrive to impose upon the develop<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>dividual a maletype and a female type <strong>of</strong> differentiation respectively."It is necessary to refer to the recent developments <strong>of</strong>knowledge <strong>in</strong> this field recent as belong<strong>in</strong>g to thepresent century because they happen to be <strong>of</strong> peculiarlyclose relationship to the psychology <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>.At the outset we assume as accepted that when a complex<strong>of</strong> glands to which the testes is central predom<strong>in</strong>ates<strong>in</strong> the organism we have an <strong>in</strong>dividual <strong>of</strong> male <strong>sex</strong>; whena complex <strong>of</strong> glands to which the ovary is central predom<strong>in</strong>ateswe have a female. Thus are secured normallythe primary <strong>sex</strong>ual characters. Associated with them is thedevelopment <strong>of</strong> the respective <strong>sex</strong>ual organs. F<strong>in</strong>ally<strong>sex</strong>ual maturity is established with the full acquisition <strong>of</strong>the manifest secondary characters, with which are associated,as tertiary <strong>sex</strong>ual characters, many differenceswhich are not obvious. All these processesare liable to[ 9]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXone way or another physically, psychically,much variation. The <strong>sex</strong> glands and the secondary <strong>sex</strong>ualcharacters may shift towards an <strong>in</strong>ter-<strong>sex</strong>ual type,which <strong>in</strong>or bothmayapproximate to the opposite <strong>sex</strong>.The syndromes thus observed are, as we now believe, <strong>in</strong>the majority <strong>of</strong> cases traceable either to the stimulat<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong>fluence, or to the defect <strong>of</strong> such <strong>in</strong>fluence, <strong>of</strong> the <strong>in</strong>ternalsecretions the hormones or chemical messengers enter<strong>in</strong>gthe blood from the various ductless glands <strong>of</strong> the body.By over-secretion, under-secretion, or disordered secretion,the physical conformation <strong>of</strong> the body, and the psychicaldisposition and aptitudes, may be modified, and even the<strong>sex</strong> virtually changed. Any dysfunction <strong>of</strong> one isapt tounsettle the balance <strong>of</strong> the others. We are concerned withthe harmonious adjustment <strong>of</strong> many ductless glands.the <strong>in</strong>terpretation <strong>of</strong> the <strong>in</strong>tricate relations thus result<strong>in</strong>gcountries. Newmuch studyis now be<strong>in</strong>g directed <strong>in</strong> manyfacts and new viewpo<strong>in</strong>ts are constantly appear<strong>in</strong>g, andgreat importance now attaches to the activat<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>fluence<strong>of</strong> the anterior lobe <strong>of</strong> the pituitary gland and also to theadrenals, for it isTopossible, as Blair Bell has long held, toregard ovaries, or testes, as "one l<strong>in</strong>k <strong>in</strong> the cha<strong>in</strong> <strong>of</strong>organs such as the pituitary and thyroid which form a1The results are at many po<strong>in</strong>ts stillgametal system.'uncerta<strong>in</strong>. But it is essential to the study <strong>of</strong> the psychology<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> to have some acqua<strong>in</strong>tance with the physiologicaland bio-chemical researches carried on along these l<strong>in</strong>es,*i though it would be out <strong>of</strong> place to deal with them here.They are develop<strong>in</strong>g day by day and the progress <strong>of</strong>knowledge is recorded <strong>in</strong> the current medical journalsand <strong>in</strong> bio-chemical literature.It suffices here to take a survey<strong>in</strong>g glimpse from aboveand to see that the general change effected has been thatwhile previously we regarded the nervous system as[10]the


THE BIOLOGY OF SEXactive agent <strong>in</strong> these processes, we now regard the chemicalendocr<strong>in</strong>e system as even more active, sometimesunder the <strong>in</strong>fluence <strong>of</strong> the nervous system, and frequentlyapart from nervous action, the nerves and nerve centersbe<strong>in</strong>g themselves sometimes subject to chemical regulation.If we follow Langdon Brown, we may say that theendocr<strong>in</strong>es are an elaboration <strong>of</strong> those chemical mechanismsto which animals responded before the nervous systemwas developed. It is an <strong>in</strong>terest<strong>in</strong>g pro<strong>of</strong> <strong>of</strong> theprimitive nature <strong>of</strong> endocr<strong>in</strong>e regulation <strong>of</strong> the organismthat all the hormonic messengers proceed from very ancientand even vestigial structures <strong>in</strong> the body,like thepituitary and the p<strong>in</strong>eal. At the same time we may alsobear <strong>in</strong> m<strong>in</strong>d, as Bolk emphasized some years ago, thatthe stimulation or retardation due to hormonic <strong>in</strong>fluencesis peculiarly <strong>in</strong>fluential <strong>in</strong> develop<strong>in</strong>g the specific humanqualities, and even, as Keith has more recently po<strong>in</strong>tedout, the various racial human characteristics. When thenervous system began to take shape and even to acquiredom<strong>in</strong>ance, it entered <strong>in</strong>to alliance with the preexist<strong>in</strong>gchemical mechanisms, especially throughitslowest level,the visceral nervous system, subdivisible <strong>in</strong>to the sympatheticsystem and the para-sympathetic (or extendedvagus)as tend<strong>in</strong>g to be katabolic and active, is associated withsystem. The sympathetic, which may be regardedthe pituitary, thyroid, and adrenals. The para-sympathetic,which may be regarded as largely anabolic and passive, isassociated with the pancreas and, <strong>in</strong>directly, the parathyroids.These katabolic and anabolic systems are antagonistic,the rhythm <strong>of</strong> life, it has been said, depend<strong>in</strong>gupon their balance. The gonads <strong>in</strong>teract especially withthe sympathetic-endocr<strong>in</strong>e group. The p<strong>in</strong>eal and thymus,though not true endocr<strong>in</strong>e glands (s<strong>in</strong>ce they have no


known secretions),PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXaffect the endocr<strong>in</strong>e system chiefly bya retard<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>fluence on <strong>sex</strong>ual maturity, and a favor<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong>fluence on somatic growth.The ispituitarynow seen to be what has been termed"the leader <strong>of</strong> the endocr<strong>in</strong>e orchestra." Ancient anatomists,view<strong>in</strong>g this small body jo<strong>in</strong>ed by a stalk to thebra<strong>in</strong> above, regarded it as a m<strong>in</strong>iature bra<strong>in</strong> and today thenotion is seen to be not altogether absurd. "Here, <strong>in</strong> thiswell-concealed spot," says Harvey Gush<strong>in</strong>g, "lies the veryma<strong>in</strong>spr<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> primitive existence, vegetative, emotional,and reproductive,on which, with more or less success,Man, chiefly, has come to superimposea cortex <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>hibitions."Evans and Simpson have worked out the relation<strong>of</strong> certa<strong>in</strong> <strong>of</strong> its cells to growth and to <strong>sex</strong>ualdevelopment.The thyroid, aga<strong>in</strong>, which has been termed "the gland<strong>of</strong> creation/' is also essential to reproduction, if, <strong>in</strong>deed,it is not, as has been claimed, essential to all k<strong>in</strong>ds <strong>of</strong>creative activity,artistic and <strong>in</strong>tellectual. Its extract,thyrox<strong>in</strong>e (which can be synthetically prepared) also hasa slow and gradual <strong>in</strong>fluence on general nutrition.Adrenal<strong>in</strong>e (which may also be prepared synthetically)from the suprarenalshas a more rapid <strong>in</strong>fluence on theheart, vessels, liver, salivary glands, <strong>in</strong>test<strong>in</strong>es, pupils, andspleen. While adrenal<strong>in</strong>e has this wide <strong>in</strong>fluence, its secretionitself, as Tournade has shown, is<strong>in</strong>timately dependentupon the nervous system.The endocr<strong>in</strong>e organs may <strong>in</strong>fluence each other. Remov<strong>in</strong>gthe thyroid may lead to pituitary enlargement,though to remove the pituitary at a youthful stage <strong>in</strong> ananimal may arrest the thyroid. The thyroid stimulates thesuprarenals which stimulate the hepatic cells to dischargeglycogen <strong>in</strong>to the blood, and this stimulates the pancreasto <strong>in</strong>creased secretion <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>sul<strong>in</strong>. The anterior part <strong>of</strong> the


THE BIOLOGY OF SEXpituitary, aga<strong>in</strong>, appears to yield three hormones, onewhich promotes growth, one which stimulates the ovaries,caus<strong>in</strong>g maturation <strong>of</strong> the Graafian follicles, which produceoestr<strong>in</strong>, which <strong>in</strong>itiates changes <strong>in</strong> the uterus toreceive the fertilized ovum; while a third hormone leadsto further uter<strong>in</strong>e changes for the fixation <strong>of</strong> the ovum.The second is <strong>of</strong> special practical importance as its presence<strong>in</strong> the ur<strong>in</strong>e is the basis <strong>of</strong> the Zondek-Aschheim test<strong>of</strong> pregnancy.There is a close resemblance between the action <strong>of</strong><strong>in</strong>ternal secretions and drugs. Sharpey-Schafer would restrictthe use <strong>of</strong> the term "hormone to those hav<strong>in</strong>g1 *anexcit<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>fluence, and would term those with an oppos<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong>hibitory <strong>in</strong>fluence "chalones." He would call both together"autacoids," to signify that they are drug-likepr<strong>in</strong>ciples produced by the body itself.It will be seen that we now have to def<strong>in</strong>e physiologicalphenomena<strong>in</strong> terms <strong>of</strong> chemical as well as <strong>of</strong> nervousregulation. We see also that both sets <strong>of</strong> terms, and thechemical perhaps even more than the nervous, lie on theother side <strong>of</strong> psychic phenomena. We have to realize theexistence <strong>of</strong> a large number <strong>of</strong> substances <strong>in</strong> the body,very m<strong>in</strong>ute but very potent hormones and vitam<strong>in</strong>s aswell as the derivative serums and vacc<strong>in</strong>es which mayproperly be termed bio-chemical drugs. Their significanceseems greater the more our rapidly grow<strong>in</strong>g knowledge <strong>of</strong>them extends. But we are not therefore justified <strong>in</strong> import<strong>in</strong>gbio-chemical phraseology <strong>in</strong>to psychology. It haslong been clearly understood that it was a mistake toattempt to <strong>in</strong>troduce histological term<strong>in</strong>ology <strong>in</strong>topsychology. It would be equally a mistake to <strong>in</strong>troducebio-chemical term<strong>in</strong>ology. An emotion rema<strong>in</strong>s an emotion,alike whether a hormone or a chalone has on thephysical side taken part <strong>in</strong> its production.


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXBIBLIOGRAPHYF. A, E. CREW, The Genetics <strong>of</strong> Sexuality <strong>in</strong> Animals,'also Article "Sex" <strong>in</strong> Rose's Outl<strong>in</strong>e <strong>of</strong> Modern Knoiuledge.A. LIPSHUTZ, The Internal Secretions <strong>of</strong>the Sex Glands.JOSEPH NEEDHAM, Chemical Embriology, 3 Vols.F. H. A. MARSHALL, The Physiology <strong>of</strong> Reproduction.H. M. EVANS AND OLIVE SWEZY, "The Chromosomes <strong>in</strong>Man," Memoirs <strong>of</strong> the University <strong>of</strong> California, Vol.IX, 1929.W. BLAIR BELL, "Conservative Gynaecological Surgery,"British Medical Journal, i8th April, 1931.LANGDON BROWN, "Endocr<strong>in</strong>es and Associated Psychoneuroses,"British Medical Journal, 6th Feb., 1932.H. J. BURN, Recent Advances <strong>in</strong> Materia Medica (the biochemicaldrugs) 1931.SIR E. SHARPEY-SCHAFER, "Endocr<strong>in</strong>e Physiology," BritishMedical Journal, 22nd Aug., 1931.The Nature <strong>of</strong> the Sexual ImpulseTurn<strong>in</strong>g from the strictly physiological aspects o theorganic activities that work together to effect <strong>sex</strong>ual development,it is necessary to obta<strong>in</strong> a comprehensive view<strong>of</strong> the biological process <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> as expressed <strong>in</strong> the psychicphenomena with which we are here immediately concerned.There is, <strong>in</strong>deed, no universally accepted theory <strong>of</strong> theprocess on its psychic side. In the old popular belief the<strong>sex</strong>ual impulse is simply the expression <strong>of</strong> a need <strong>of</strong>evacuation, comparable to that experienced periodically<strong>in</strong> the bowels and bladder. That was an <strong>in</strong>accurate andmislead<strong>in</strong>g view; the male semen is not a waste productfor excretion and the female scarcely presents even thesemblance <strong>of</strong> a <strong>sex</strong>ual desire for excretion. A more re-[H]


THE BIOLOGY OF SEXspectable theory sometimes put forward def<strong>in</strong>ed the <strong>sex</strong>ualimpulse as an "<strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct <strong>of</strong> reproduction." There is, however,strictly speak<strong>in</strong>g, no such <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct, nor is it needed<strong>in</strong> bi<strong>sex</strong>ual organisms. All that is needed is the motorimpulse to br<strong>in</strong>g male and female together <strong>in</strong> such a wayas to <strong>in</strong>sure fertilization; that once produced, the future<strong>of</strong> the <strong>of</strong>fspr<strong>in</strong>gis ensured by the stimulus furnished tothe parental impulses; no <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct <strong>of</strong> reproductionis calledfor.In what has perhaps been the most popular manual <strong>of</strong>its subject, Pr<strong>of</strong>essor W. McDougall's Introduction toSocial <strong>Psychology</strong>, no treatment <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> was to be found atall (beyond a reference to the "<strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct <strong>of</strong> reproduction")until the eighth edition appeared <strong>in</strong> 1914 with a supplementarychapter on "the <strong>sex</strong> <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct." It is here def<strong>in</strong>edas a complex, <strong>in</strong>nately organized, psycho-physical disposition,consist<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> three parts, each subserv<strong>in</strong>g one <strong>of</strong> thethree phases that we dist<strong>in</strong>guish <strong>in</strong> every complete mentalor psycho-physical process, namely the cognitive, theaffective, and the conative; three parts which, from thepo<strong>in</strong>t <strong>of</strong> view <strong>of</strong> nervous function and structure, we maycall the afferent or sensory, the central, and the efferentor motor. He po<strong>in</strong>ts out that on the cognitive side thereis <strong>in</strong>volved an <strong>in</strong>nate disposition to perceive or perceptuallydiscrim<strong>in</strong>ate those th<strong>in</strong>gs towards which such reactionsare demanded by the welfare <strong>of</strong> the species; that isto say, an ability to discrim<strong>in</strong>ate the opposite <strong>sex</strong>, with,<strong>in</strong> the higher species,a cha<strong>in</strong> <strong>of</strong> reactions to ensure completeadaptation <strong>in</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual act.McDougall's def<strong>in</strong>ition is, as he himself remarks, thatwhich he would give for all <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>cts, and he def<strong>in</strong>es <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ctsas "certa<strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong>nate specific tendencies <strong>of</strong> the m<strong>in</strong>dthat are common to all members <strong>of</strong> any one species." It is,<strong>in</strong> fact, a generalized statement which scarcely helps us toF'5]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXgrasp what takes place <strong>in</strong> the process <strong>of</strong> bi<strong>sex</strong>ual approximationand union.There is, <strong>in</strong>deed, a tendency, which I have long followed,to discard <strong>in</strong> this connection, so far as possible,the use <strong>of</strong> the word "<strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct/' though Piron and manyothers would still preserve it. It may even be undesirableto use the word "<strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct" at all. The word has, as Bohnremarks, a compromis<strong>in</strong>g history, nor is there any completeagreement as to the sense <strong>in</strong> which it should beused, though, for ord<strong>in</strong>ary purposes, "<strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct" may beregarded as, accord<strong>in</strong>g to the def<strong>in</strong>ition <strong>of</strong> HerbertSpencer, "compound reflex action/' the question as towhether it isaccompanied by consciousness be<strong>in</strong>g regardedas non-essential.It may even be said that biological psychologists generally,and not only those who have been subjected to the<strong>in</strong>fluence <strong>of</strong> Loeb, are <strong>in</strong>cl<strong>in</strong>ed to return to the position <strong>of</strong>Condillac and to drop the use <strong>of</strong> the word "<strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct." It isour bus<strong>in</strong>ess, these <strong>in</strong>vestigators hold, to analyze the automaticpsychic processes we meet with, and we are notcalled upon to <strong>in</strong>crease the difficulties <strong>of</strong> do<strong>in</strong>g so byapply<strong>in</strong>g to them a word with so many varied and unfortunateassociations. We may, therefore, put aside thediscussion <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> as an "<strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct," and certa<strong>in</strong>ly as "an<strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct <strong>of</strong> reproduction," which is but a crude euphemism,for an impulseis not analyzed by merely stat<strong>in</strong>g theend which itmay We <strong>in</strong>directly effect. are solely concernedwith the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse and its analysis.The question <strong>of</strong> the analysis <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse wasplaced upon higher ground when, <strong>in</strong> 1897, Moll set forthhis theory <strong>of</strong> the constitution <strong>of</strong> this impulse. As Mollunderstood it, there are two components <strong>in</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ualimpulse: one which urges to a local genital function,which <strong>in</strong> man is the expulsion <strong>of</strong> semen, and is thus a


THE BIOLOGY OF SEXprocess <strong>of</strong> evacuation comparable to the empty<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> thebladder, and the other which urges each partner to physicaland psychic contact with the other partner. The firstcomponent Moll terms the impulse <strong>of</strong> detumescence, thesecond the impulse <strong>of</strong> contrectation, Both these componentsmay be traced back to the <strong>sex</strong>ual glands, the firstbe<strong>in</strong>g primary and the second secondary, but they aredist<strong>in</strong>ct and each may exist separately. Their union constitutesthe complete normal <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse.Moll's analysis had much to commend it, as a scientificand comprehensive statement, and it has <strong>in</strong> consequencebeen widely accepted. It presents, however, certa<strong>in</strong> difficulties:it is, for <strong>in</strong>stance, less satisfactory when appliedto women than to men, and it has the disadvantage,po<strong>in</strong>ted out by Robert Miiller, Sa<strong>in</strong>t-Paul, and others,that it divides the <strong>sex</strong>ual process. In order to avoid thisand other difficulties, the theory <strong>of</strong> Moll was by me somewhatmodified with the aid <strong>of</strong> the least contested part <strong>of</strong>the Darw<strong>in</strong>ian doctr<strong>in</strong>e <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual selection. If we look <strong>in</strong>tothe <strong>sex</strong>ual process as it exists among animals generally,and among men <strong>in</strong> the savage state, we soon realize that wecannot start with detumescence. Before detumescence cantake place, tumescence must be achieved. In domesticatedanimals and <strong>in</strong> civilized man that is <strong>of</strong>ten an easy process.It is not usually so <strong>in</strong> the natural state. There it is achievedthrough much activity and display on the part <strong>of</strong> themale, and long contemplation and consideration on thepart <strong>of</strong> the female, the part taken by each <strong>in</strong> this processserv<strong>in</strong>g to <strong>in</strong>crease tumescence alike <strong>in</strong> both. "Contrectation,"whether physical or psychic, has at its end theheighten<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> tumescence and may be regarded as part<strong>of</strong> the process.It isdur<strong>in</strong>g the slow process <strong>of</strong> tumescence that <strong>sex</strong>ualselection is decided, the crystallizations <strong>of</strong> love (as


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXStendhal called diem) elaborated, and the <strong>in</strong>dividualerotic symbols, normal or abnormal, determ<strong>in</strong>ed. Yetdetumescence is the end and climax <strong>of</strong> the whole drama;it is an anatomic-physiological process, certa<strong>in</strong>ly, but onethat <strong>in</strong>evitably touches psychology at every po<strong>in</strong>t. It. is,<strong>in</strong>deed, the very key to the process <strong>of</strong> tumescence, andunless we understand and realize very preciselywhat it isthat happens dur<strong>in</strong>g detumescence, our psychologicalanalysis<strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse must rema<strong>in</strong> vague and<strong>in</strong>adequate,Detumescence is normally l<strong>in</strong>ked closely to tumescence.Tumescence is the pil<strong>in</strong>g on <strong>of</strong> the fuel; detumescence isthe leap<strong>in</strong>g out <strong>of</strong> the devour<strong>in</strong>g flame whence islightedthe torch <strong>of</strong> life to be handed on from generation togeneration. The whole process is double and yet s<strong>in</strong>gle;is exactly analogous to that by which a is pile driven <strong>in</strong>tothe earth by the rais<strong>in</strong>g and then the lett<strong>in</strong>g go <strong>of</strong> aheavy weight which falls on to the head <strong>of</strong> the pile. Intumescence the organism is slowly wound up and forceaccumulated; <strong>in</strong> the act <strong>of</strong> detumescence the accumulatedforce is let go, and by its liberation the sperm-bear<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong>strument is driven home. Courtship, as we commonlyterm the process <strong>of</strong> tumescence which takes place when awoman is first <strong>sex</strong>ually approached by a man, is usuallya highly prolonged process. But it isalways necessary toremember that every repetition <strong>of</strong> the act <strong>of</strong> coitus, to benormally and effectively carried out on both sides, demandsa similar double process; detumescence must bepreceded by an abbreviated courtship.This abbreviated courtship, by which tumescence issecured or heightened <strong>in</strong> the repetition <strong>of</strong> acts <strong>of</strong> coituswhich have become familiar, isma<strong>in</strong>ly tactile. Astumescence, under the <strong>in</strong>fluence <strong>of</strong> sensory stimulation,proceeds toward the climax when it gives placeitto de-


centrallyTHE BIOLOGY OF SEXtumescence, the physical phenomena become more andmore acutely localized <strong>in</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual organs. The processwhich was at firstpredom<strong>in</strong>antly nervous and psychic nowbecomes more prom<strong>in</strong>ently vascular. The ancient <strong>sex</strong>ualrelationship <strong>of</strong> the sk<strong>in</strong> asserts itself; there is a markedsurface congestion show<strong>in</strong>g itself <strong>in</strong> various ways. Theface tends to become red, and exactly the same phenomenonistak<strong>in</strong>g place <strong>in</strong> the genital organs; "an erection,"it has been said, "is a blush<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> the penis/' The differenceis that <strong>in</strong> the genital organs this heightened vascularityhas a def<strong>in</strong>ite and specific function to accomplishthe erection <strong>of</strong> the male organ which fits it to enter thefemale parts and that consequently there has been developed<strong>in</strong> the penis that special k<strong>in</strong>d <strong>of</strong> vascular mechanism,consist<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> ve<strong>in</strong>s <strong>in</strong> connective tissue with unstripedmuscular fibers, termed erectile tissue. This process, whichmay be set <strong>in</strong> action either or ,peripherally, isprobably controlled by the sympathetic plexuses <strong>in</strong> thepelvis.It is not only the male who is supplied with erectiletissue which <strong>in</strong> the process <strong>of</strong> tumescence becomes congestedand swollen. The female also <strong>in</strong> the correspond<strong>in</strong>gexternal genital regionis likewise supplied with erectiletissue now also charged with blood, and exhibits the samechanges as have taken place <strong>in</strong> her partner, though theyare not conspicuously visible. In the anthropoid apes, asthe gorilla, the large clitoris and nymphae become prom<strong>in</strong>ent<strong>in</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual excitement, but the lessdevelopment <strong>of</strong>the clitoris <strong>in</strong> women, together with the specificallyhuman evolution <strong>of</strong> the mons veneris and larger lips,renders this <strong>sex</strong>ual turgescence practically <strong>in</strong>visible,though it is perceptible to touch <strong>in</strong> an <strong>in</strong>creased degree<strong>of</strong> spongy and elastic tension. The whole fem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>e genitalcanal, <strong>in</strong>clud<strong>in</strong>g the uterus, <strong>in</strong>deed, is richly supplied with


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXblood-vessels, and iscapable dur<strong>in</strong>g <strong>sex</strong>ual excitement ota high degree <strong>of</strong> turgescence, a k<strong>in</strong>d <strong>of</strong> erection.The process <strong>of</strong> erection <strong>in</strong> woman isaccompanied bythe pour<strong>in</strong>g out <strong>of</strong> fluid which copiously bathes all parts<strong>of</strong> the vulva around the entrance to the vag<strong>in</strong>a. This isa bland, more or lessodorless mucus which, under ord<strong>in</strong>arycircumstances, slowly and imperceptibly suffuses theparts. There is, however, a real ejaculation <strong>of</strong> fluid which,as usually described, comes largely from glands, situatednear the mouth <strong>of</strong> the vag<strong>in</strong>a, which are already able tosecrete at birth. The fluid poured out <strong>in</strong> this mannerwhenever a high degree <strong>of</strong> tumescence is atta<strong>in</strong>ed, andbefore the onset <strong>of</strong> detumescence, performs an importantfunction <strong>in</strong> lubricat<strong>in</strong>g the entrance to the genital canaland so facilitat<strong>in</strong>g the entrance <strong>of</strong> the male organ. Asimilar process takes place dur<strong>in</strong>g parturition when thesame parts are be<strong>in</strong>g stretched for the protrusion <strong>of</strong> thefoetal head. The occurrence <strong>of</strong> the mucous flow <strong>in</strong> tumescencealways <strong>in</strong>dicates that that process is actively affect<strong>in</strong>gthe central <strong>sex</strong>ual organs, and that voluptuous emotionsare present. Hence it is <strong>of</strong> high significance <strong>in</strong> the art <strong>of</strong>love.When erection iscomplete <strong>in</strong> both the man and thewoman the conditions for conjugation have at last beenfulfilled.At this po<strong>in</strong>t, when the woman is a virg<strong>in</strong>, the problem<strong>of</strong> the hymen is encountered. In ancient days,this littleflap <strong>of</strong> tissue the maidenhead as it was suggestivelytermed was frequently regarded as <strong>of</strong> immense significance<strong>in</strong> determ<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g the status <strong>of</strong> a woman. Its presencewas held to decide the moral character <strong>of</strong> an unmarriedwoman. There are reasons now why it cannot reta<strong>in</strong> thatposition, even apart from the fact that the virtue <strong>of</strong> awoman is not now so commonly supposed to rest on a[*>]


THE BIOLOGY OF SEXmerely anatomical foundation. There are many naturalvariations <strong>in</strong> the shape and size <strong>of</strong> the hymen; variousaccidents (as well as virg<strong>in</strong>al masturbation) may cause itsdisappearance; while it may occasionally persist after <strong>in</strong>tercourse,even <strong>in</strong> prostitutes.Its rupture on the first act <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>tercourse isapt to causepa<strong>in</strong> and discomfort. Occasionally its toughness causesthen bedifficulty <strong>in</strong> penetration. A slight <strong>in</strong>cision maynecessary. Graduated pressure, as with the f<strong>in</strong>ger, whichmay be practiced by the woman herself, has also beenrecommended. Among some peoples the <strong>in</strong>sertion <strong>of</strong> thef<strong>in</strong>ger is practiced by mothers on their girl children froman early age, sometimes for hygienic reasons and sometimesto facilitate <strong>in</strong>tercourse <strong>in</strong> future years. There maybe someth<strong>in</strong>g to be said for this practice.In all animals, even those most nearly allied to Man,coitus iseffected by the male approach<strong>in</strong>g the female posteriorly.In man, the normal method <strong>of</strong> male approachisanteriorly face to face the position <strong>of</strong> so-called Venusobversa. While, however, the Venus obversa may be regardedas the specifically human method <strong>of</strong> coitus, thereare modifications <strong>of</strong> it, and other more animal-like methodswhich have been adopted by various peoples asnationalcustoms, and which, therefore, come with<strong>in</strong> thenormal range <strong>of</strong> variation. It is a mistake to regard themas vicious perversions.<strong>No</strong>w a new element comes <strong>in</strong>: muscular action. Withthe onset <strong>of</strong> muscular action, which is largely <strong>in</strong>voluntary,even when it affects the voluntary muscles, detumescenceproper beg<strong>in</strong>s to take place. Hence full purposeful actionis, except by an effort, virtually abolished. We approachthe decisive moment when, under the <strong>in</strong>fluence <strong>of</strong> thestimulus applied to the penis by friction with the vag<strong>in</strong>a,the tension <strong>of</strong> the sem<strong>in</strong>al fluid poured <strong>in</strong>to the urethra[21]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXarouses the ejaculatorycenters located <strong>in</strong> the lower part<strong>of</strong> the sp<strong>in</strong>al cord and also, itappears, <strong>in</strong> die pelvicplexuses, and the bulbo-cavernosus muscle surround<strong>in</strong>gthe urethra responsivelycontracts <strong>in</strong> rhythmic spasms.Then it is that ejaculationoccurs.The phenomena<strong>of</strong> coitus may all be directly or <strong>in</strong>directlyreduced to two groups: the first circulatory andrespiratory, the second motor, thoughit must be borne <strong>in</strong>m<strong>in</strong>d that these are not really separable. The respirationbecomes shallow, rapid, and to some extent arrested. Thisarrest <strong>of</strong> respiration tends to render the blood venous, andthus aids <strong>in</strong> stimulat<strong>in</strong>g the vasomotor centers, rais<strong>in</strong>g theblood-pressure <strong>in</strong> the body generally, and especially <strong>in</strong> theerectile tissues. High blood-pressureis one <strong>of</strong> the mostmarked features <strong>of</strong> the state <strong>of</strong> detumescence; accord<strong>in</strong>gto Poussep there are <strong>in</strong> animals dur<strong>in</strong>g coitus rapid alternations<strong>of</strong> vaso-constriction and vaso-dilatation, both <strong>in</strong>the bra<strong>in</strong> and the vascular system generally. The heartbeatsare stronger and quicker, the surface arteries aremore visible, the conjunctive become more red. At thesame time we f<strong>in</strong>d a general tendency to glandular activ^ity. Various secretions are formed abundantly. Perspirationis copious, with a general activity <strong>of</strong> the sk<strong>in</strong> and itsodoriferous secretions; salivation also occurs. In men,correspond<strong>in</strong>g to the more copious secretion <strong>in</strong> women,there is, dur<strong>in</strong>g the latter stages <strong>of</strong> tumescence, a secretion<strong>of</strong> mucus which appears <strong>in</strong> drops at the urethralorifice and comes from the small glands <strong>of</strong> Littre andCowper which open <strong>in</strong>to the urethra. This phenomenonwas called distillatio by the old theologians, who realizedits significance,as dist<strong>in</strong>ct from semen but an <strong>in</strong>dicationthat the m<strong>in</strong>d was dwell<strong>in</strong>g on voluptuous images; itwasalso known <strong>in</strong> classic times; more recently it has <strong>of</strong>tenbeen confused with semen and has thus sometimes caused


THEEBIOLOGY OF SEXneedless anxiety to nervous persons. There is also an<strong>in</strong>creasedsecretion by the kidneys and probably by theglands throughout the body generally.Detumescence culm<strong>in</strong>ates <strong>in</strong> motor activity. This activityis <strong>of</strong> the essence <strong>of</strong> the impulse <strong>of</strong> detumescence, becausewithout it the sperrn-cells could not be effectivelybrought Into the neighborhood <strong>of</strong> the germ-cell and bepropelled <strong>in</strong>to the womb. This activity is general as wellas specifically <strong>sex</strong>ual. There is a tendency to more or less<strong>in</strong>voluntary movement, without any <strong>in</strong>crease <strong>of</strong> voluntarymuscular po^wer, \vhich is, <strong>in</strong>deed, decreased. The tendencyto diffused activity <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>voluntary muscle is illustratedby the contraction <strong>of</strong> the bladder associated withdetumescence. "While this occurs <strong>in</strong> both <strong>sex</strong>es, <strong>in</strong> menerection usually produces a mechanical impediment toany evacuation <strong>of</strong> the bladder. In women there may benot onlya desire to ur<strong>in</strong>ate but, occasionally, actualur<strong>in</strong>ation. The tendency to trembl<strong>in</strong>g, constriction <strong>of</strong> thethroat, sneez<strong>in</strong>g, emission <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>ternal gas, and the othersimilar phenomena occasionally associated with detumescence,are like\vise due to diffusion <strong>of</strong> the motor disturbance.More important, and more purposive though <strong>in</strong>voluntary,are the specifically <strong>sex</strong>ual muscular movements.From the very "beg<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> detumescence, this muscularactivity makes itself felt. In the male these movements arefairly obvious and fairly simple. It is required that thesemen should be expressed from the vesiculae sem<strong>in</strong>ales,propelled along the urethra, <strong>in</strong> comb<strong>in</strong>ation with theprostatic fluid which is equally essential, and f<strong>in</strong>allyejected with a certa<strong>in</strong> amount o force from the urethralorifice. <strong>No</strong>rmally t<strong>in</strong>der the <strong>in</strong>fluence <strong>of</strong> the stimulationfurnished by the contact and friction <strong>of</strong> the vag<strong>in</strong>a, thisprocess is effectively carried out, ma<strong>in</strong>ly by the rhythmic


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXcontractions <strong>of</strong> the bulbo-cavernosus muscle, and thesemen is emitted <strong>in</strong> a jet.The specifically<strong>sex</strong>ual muscular processis less visible<strong>in</strong> the woman, more obscure, more complex and uncerta<strong>in</strong>.Before detumescence actually beg<strong>in</strong>s there are at<strong>in</strong>tervals <strong>in</strong>voluntary rhythmic contractions <strong>of</strong> the walls<strong>of</strong> the vag<strong>in</strong>a, seem<strong>in</strong>g to have the object <strong>of</strong> at once stimulat<strong>in</strong>gand harmoniz<strong>in</strong>g with those that are about tobeg<strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong> the male organ. It would appear that theserhythmic contractions are the exaggeration <strong>of</strong> a phenomenonwhich is fairly constant, just as slight contraction isnormal and constant <strong>in</strong> the bladder. This vag<strong>in</strong>al contraction,which may become well marked just beforedetumescence, and is due ma<strong>in</strong>ly to the action <strong>of</strong> thesph<strong>in</strong>cter cunni (analogous to the bulbo-cavernosus <strong>in</strong> theismale) only a part <strong>of</strong> the localized muscular process.,The active participation <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual organs <strong>in</strong> woman,to the end <strong>of</strong> direct<strong>in</strong>g the semen <strong>in</strong>to the womb at themoment <strong>of</strong> detumescence, is an ancient belief, and harmonizeswith the Greek view <strong>of</strong> the womb as an animal <strong>in</strong>the body endowed with activity,but precise observation <strong>in</strong>modern times has <strong>of</strong>fered but little confirmation <strong>of</strong> thereality <strong>of</strong> this participation. Such observations as havebeen made have usually been the accidental result <strong>of</strong><strong>sex</strong>ual excitement and orgasm occurr<strong>in</strong>g dur<strong>in</strong>g a gynaecologicalexam<strong>in</strong>ation. So far as the evidence goes, it wouldseem that <strong>in</strong> women, as <strong>in</strong> mares, bitches, and other animals,the uterus becomes shorter, broader, and s<strong>of</strong>terdur<strong>in</strong>g^the orgasm, at the same time descend<strong>in</strong>g lower <strong>in</strong>tothe pelvis, with its mouth open <strong>in</strong>termittently.It would seem probable that <strong>in</strong> this erection, contraction,and descent <strong>of</strong> the uterus, and its simultaneou<strong>sex</strong>pulsion <strong>of</strong> mucus, we have the decisive moment <strong>in</strong> thecompletion <strong>of</strong> detumescence <strong>in</strong> woman, and that the thick[24]


THE BIOLOGY OF SEXmucus, unlike the earlier more limpid secretion, whichwomen are sometimes aware <strong>of</strong> after orgasm, is emittedfrom the womb at this time. Some authorities regarddetumescence <strong>in</strong> women as accomplished <strong>in</strong> the pour<strong>in</strong>gout <strong>of</strong> secretions, others <strong>in</strong> the rhythmic genital contractions,especially at the cervix <strong>of</strong> the womb. The <strong>sex</strong>ualparts may, however, be copiously bathed <strong>in</strong> mucus for an<strong>in</strong>def<strong>in</strong>itely long period before the f<strong>in</strong>al stage <strong>of</strong> detumescenceis achieved, and the rhythmic contractions arealso tak<strong>in</strong>g place at a somewhat early period; <strong>in</strong> neitherrespect is there necessarily any obvious <strong>in</strong>crease at thef<strong>in</strong>al moment <strong>of</strong> orgasm. In women this would seem to bemore conspicuously a nervous manifestation than <strong>in</strong> men.On the subjective side it ispronounced, with its feel<strong>in</strong>g<strong>of</strong> relieved tension and agreeable repose, but on the objectiveside the culm<strong>in</strong>at<strong>in</strong>g moment is <strong>of</strong>ten less easy todef<strong>in</strong>e, and is not <strong>in</strong>variably, as it tends to be <strong>in</strong> men, ageneral motor convulsion.The active part played by the womb <strong>in</strong> detumescencecan no longer be questioned, but it must not be tooassumed that the belief <strong>in</strong> the active movements <strong>of</strong>must therefore be denied. If it is correct,hastily the spermatozoaas some authorities believe, that the spermatozoa may reta<strong>in</strong>their full activity <strong>in</strong> the female organs even for a weekor more (though this is disputed) they have ample time toexert their energies. It must be added, however, that evenif the semen is effused merely at the mouth <strong>of</strong> the vag<strong>in</strong>a,without actual penetration, the spermatozoa are still notentirely without any resource save their own motility <strong>in</strong>the task <strong>of</strong> reach<strong>in</strong>g the ovum. S<strong>in</strong>ce it is not only theuterus which takes an active part <strong>in</strong> detumescence butthe vag<strong>in</strong>a also is <strong>in</strong> active movement, it seems probablethat, at all events <strong>in</strong> some women and under some circumstances,such movement, favor<strong>in</strong>g aspiration toward the[25]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXwomb, may be communicated to the external mouth <strong>of</strong>the vag<strong>in</strong>a. It is also believed by some that, especially <strong>in</strong>women <strong>of</strong> races <strong>of</strong> more primitive type, the vag<strong>in</strong>a maybe capable<strong>of</strong> obey<strong>in</strong>g the same impulse to expel thesemen as to expel the child dur<strong>in</strong>g parturition, and thatthis may be utilized for contraceptive ends. Ow<strong>in</strong>g to thecomb<strong>in</strong>ed activities <strong>of</strong> the semen and vag<strong>in</strong>a dur<strong>in</strong>g<strong>sex</strong>ual excitement, it is possiblefor the semen to reach theuterus even when it has only been effused at the entrance<strong>of</strong> the vag<strong>in</strong>a, and even when the hymenis <strong>in</strong>tact. Thu<strong>sex</strong>tra-vag<strong>in</strong>al effusion <strong>of</strong> semen is not an adequate contraceptivemethod, and consequently, even when a husbandis conv<strong>in</strong>ced that he has had no actual coitus with hiswife, this is not an adequate pro<strong>of</strong>, should pregnancyfollow, that there has been adultery.Even though the specifically <strong>sex</strong>ual muscular process <strong>of</strong>detumescence <strong>in</strong> women as dist<strong>in</strong>guished from the generalmuscular phenomena <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual excitement whichmay be fairly obvious is thus seen to be complex andobscure, detumescence is, <strong>in</strong> both <strong>sex</strong>es, a convulsionwhich dischargesa slowly accumulated store <strong>of</strong> nervousforce. In women, as <strong>in</strong> men, the motor dischargeis directedto a specificend the <strong>in</strong>tromission <strong>of</strong> the semen<strong>in</strong> the one <strong>sex</strong>, its reception <strong>in</strong> the other. In both <strong>sex</strong>esthe <strong>sex</strong>ual orgasm and the pleasure and satisfaction associatedwith it <strong>in</strong>volve, as their most essential element, themotor activity <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual sphere.Although the facial expression, when tumescence iscompleted, may be marked by a high degree <strong>of</strong> energy <strong>in</strong>men and <strong>of</strong> lovel<strong>in</strong>ess <strong>in</strong> women, at the beg<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> detumescencethe features are frequently more discomposed.The dilatation <strong>of</strong> the pupils, the expansion <strong>of</strong> the nostrils,the tendency to salivation and to movements <strong>of</strong> thetongue, all go to make up a picture which <strong>in</strong>dicates an


THE BIOLOGY OF SEXapproach<strong>in</strong>g gratification <strong>of</strong> sensory desires; it is significantthat <strong>in</strong> some animals there is at this moment erection<strong>of</strong> the ears. There is sometimes a tendency to utter brokenor mean<strong>in</strong>gless words. The dilatation <strong>of</strong> the pupils producesphotophobia, and <strong>in</strong> the course <strong>of</strong> detumescencethe eyes are frequently closed from this cause. At the beg<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual excitement, tonicity <strong>of</strong> the eye-musclesseems to <strong>in</strong>crease; the elevators <strong>of</strong> the upper lids contract,so that the eyes look larger and their mobility and brightnessare heightened; with the <strong>in</strong>crease <strong>of</strong> muscular tonicitystrabismus may occur.So pr<strong>of</strong>ound isprocessthe organic convulsion <strong>in</strong>volved by the<strong>of</strong> detumescence that serious effects have sometimesfollowed coitus. Even <strong>in</strong> animals this has been noted.In the human species, especially <strong>in</strong> men probably becausewomen are protected by the greater slowness withwhich detumescence occurs <strong>in</strong> them not only death itself,but numerous disorders and accidents have beenknown to follow immediately after coitus, these resultsbe<strong>in</strong>g ma<strong>in</strong>ly due to the vascular and muscular excitement<strong>in</strong>volved by the process <strong>of</strong> detumescence. Fa<strong>in</strong>t<strong>in</strong>g, vomit<strong>in</strong>g,<strong>in</strong>voluntary ur<strong>in</strong>ation and defaecation, have beennoted as occurr<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> young men after a first coitus.Epilepsy has been not <strong>in</strong>frequently recorded. Lesions <strong>of</strong>various organs, even rupture <strong>of</strong> the spleen, have sometimestaken place. In men <strong>of</strong> mature age the arteries haveat times been unable to resist the high blood-pressure, andcerebral hemorrhage with paralysis has occurred. Inelderly men the excitement <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>tercourse with youngwives or with prostitutes has sometimes caused death.Such results are, however, exceptional. They tend tooccur <strong>in</strong> persons who are abnormally sensitive, or whohave imprudently transgressed the obvious rules <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ualhygiene. Detumescence is so pr<strong>of</strong>oundly natural a process,


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXit is so deeply and <strong>in</strong>timately a function <strong>of</strong> the organism,that it isfrequently harmless even when the bodily conditionis unsound. Its usual results, under favorable circumstances,are entirely beneficial. In men there normallysupervenes, together with the relief from the prolongedtension <strong>of</strong> tumescence, with the muscular repose and fall<strong>in</strong>gblood-pressure, a sense <strong>of</strong> pr<strong>of</strong>ound satisfaction, a glow<strong>of</strong> diffused well-be<strong>in</strong>g, an agreeable lassitude, <strong>of</strong>ten a sense<strong>of</strong> mental liberation from an over-master<strong>in</strong>g obsession.Under reasonably happy circumstances there is no pa<strong>in</strong>,or exhaustion, or sadness, or emotional revulsion. Inwomen the results <strong>of</strong> detumescence are the same, exceptthat the tendency to lassitude is not marked unless the acthas been several times repeated; there is a sensation <strong>of</strong>repose and self-assurance, <strong>of</strong>ten an accession <strong>of</strong> free andjoyous energy. After satisfactory detumescence women mayexperience a feel<strong>in</strong>g as <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>toxication, last<strong>in</strong>g for severalhours, that is followed by no evil reaction.Thus we see that tumescence and detumescence are nottwo dist<strong>in</strong>ct processes but one process with two phases.That process represents Nature's method <strong>of</strong> highly charg<strong>in</strong>gthe organism <strong>in</strong> order to dischargeit <strong>in</strong> the act <strong>of</strong>orgasm which, by liberat<strong>in</strong>g the generative cells and effect<strong>in</strong>gtheir union, achieves the supreme end <strong>of</strong> reproduction,and when that end is <strong>in</strong>hibited, still effects changesthroughout the organism which are physically and psychicallybeneficial.BIBLIOGRAPHYA. MOLL, Sexual Life <strong>of</strong> the Child.HAVELOCK. ELLIS, "Analysis <strong>of</strong> the Sexual Impulse," Vol.Ill, and "The Mechanism <strong>of</strong> Detumescence," Vol. V, <strong>of</strong>Studies <strong>in</strong> the <strong>Psychology</strong> <strong>of</strong> Sex.TH. VAN DE VELDE, Ideal Marriage; Fertility and Sterility<strong>in</strong> Marriage.[28]


THE BIOLOGY OF SEXErogenic Zonesso <strong>in</strong> allThis is the name now given to regions <strong>of</strong> the bodywhich <strong>in</strong> the process <strong>of</strong> tumescence are found to be <strong>sex</strong>uallyhyper-esthetic. Some regions are normallyhealthy persons; other regions <strong>of</strong> the body, <strong>in</strong>deed almostor quite any region <strong>of</strong> the body surface, may be <strong>sex</strong>uallysensitive <strong>in</strong> special cases, the degree <strong>of</strong> such sensitivenessbe<strong>in</strong>g liable to vary at different times and be<strong>in</strong>g naturallygreater when there is a state <strong>of</strong> emotional predisposition.The genital region, the mouth, and <strong>in</strong> woman the nipplesmay be said to be normal erogenic zones. The ears, thenape <strong>of</strong> the neck, the nipples <strong>in</strong> men, the armpits, thef<strong>in</strong>gers, the anus, the thighs are all not uncommon erogeniczones.The conception <strong>of</strong> erogenic zones maybe said to bedeveloped out <strong>of</strong> the ancient view <strong>of</strong> "sympathy." It wasfirst def<strong>in</strong>itely formulated <strong>in</strong> medic<strong>in</strong>e <strong>in</strong> the sphere <strong>of</strong>pathology, as the hysterogenic zones <strong>of</strong> Charcot, certa<strong>in</strong>regions be<strong>in</strong>g found at first ovarian and later morewidely dispersed which were connected, on pressure,with the causation or the arrest <strong>of</strong> spasmodic attacks; butCharcot did not associate them with <strong>sex</strong>ual emotion. In1881, however, Chambard <strong>of</strong> Paris showed that, <strong>in</strong> thenormal condition and especially <strong>in</strong> women, there are onthe surface <strong>of</strong> the sk<strong>in</strong> a certa<strong>in</strong> number <strong>of</strong> regions comparableto the epileptogenic centers, to which the name<strong>of</strong> erogenic centers may be applied, light and rapid excitationshere practiced under certa<strong>in</strong> conditions not onlycaus<strong>in</strong>g voluptuous emotions but prepar<strong>in</strong>g, determ<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g,or accompany<strong>in</strong>g the orgasm. Fer later came on this observation,and not<strong>in</strong>g the analogy<strong>of</strong> the centers to Charcot'shysterogenic zones, which Chambard had apparentlythe nameoverlooked, he termed them "erogenic zones,"[29]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXthey have ever s<strong>in</strong>ce borne. It is now widelyheld thatauto-erotic stageerogenic zones <strong>in</strong> a normal subject are what <strong>in</strong> a pathologicalsubject become hysterogenic zones, so that there ismore than analogy between them. They have been penetrat<strong>in</strong>glystudied by Freud who has described the first or<strong>of</strong> libido as that <strong>in</strong> which the <strong>sex</strong> impulseshave no object,so that their aim isarrested <strong>in</strong> theerogenic zones themselves, while after puberty more truly<strong>sex</strong>ual ends emerge, so that the fore-pleasure, alone ga<strong>in</strong>ed<strong>in</strong> early life, now becomes a step to a further pleasure.Thus viewed, it will be seen, the erogenic zones constitutea legitimate and important part <strong>of</strong> the normal<strong>sex</strong>ual life. They cannot but play their part <strong>in</strong> any educationfor the full gratification <strong>of</strong> love. Every woman hasher own system <strong>of</strong> manifest or latent erogenic zones, andit is the lover's part <strong>in</strong> courtship to discover these zonesand to develop them <strong>in</strong> order to achieve that tumescencewhich is naturally and properly the first stage <strong>in</strong> theprocess <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual union.The organic constitution varies, even though the generalpattern may be the same for all. It is because <strong>of</strong> thesevariations that the factors <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual selection differ foreach. On the tactile foundation the vary<strong>in</strong>g erogenic zonesmay most easily be demonstrated.BIBLIOGRAPHYHAVELOCK ELLIS, "Erogenic Zones" <strong>in</strong> Studies <strong>in</strong> the<strong>Psychology</strong> <strong>of</strong> Sex, Vol. VII.FREUD, Three Contributions to Sexual Theory.The Biology <strong>of</strong> CourtshipCourtship, properly understood, is a biological processwhich may be found throughout the bi<strong>sex</strong>ual animal30.1


THE BIOLOGY OF SEXworld. It represents the psychic aspect <strong>of</strong> the slow atta<strong>in</strong>ment<strong>of</strong> tumescence, the method <strong>of</strong> secur<strong>in</strong>g contrectation.Even among the hermaphroditic slugs an elaboratecourtship is found; each partner slowly follows the other'smovements; they crawl round one another; one rests itsmouth on the caudal end <strong>of</strong> the other; they emit largequantities <strong>of</strong> mucus; f<strong>in</strong>ally the organs <strong>of</strong> generation areprotruded, to twist and curve around each other, assum<strong>in</strong>gbeautiful shapes and tak<strong>in</strong>g on iridescent colors untiltumescence is completed. That is the manifestation <strong>of</strong> aprocess which we may trace throughout Nature, even, <strong>in</strong>its psychic aspects, <strong>in</strong> the highest stages <strong>of</strong> civilization.The phenomena <strong>of</strong> courtship are most conspicuous, andhave been most carefully studied, among various species<strong>of</strong> birds <strong>in</strong> widely different parts <strong>of</strong> the world. The beautifulplumage <strong>of</strong> birds, their song, their self -display, theirparades, their dances, are all(as most authorities nowagree) primarily a part <strong>of</strong> courtship, a method <strong>of</strong> atta<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong> the male himself, and excit<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> the female hedesires for his partner, an adequate stimulation <strong>of</strong> thepair<strong>in</strong>g impulse. The same <strong>in</strong>fluence survives <strong>in</strong> civilization.A Dutchman at the Hague told Hirschfeld thatdur<strong>in</strong>g the Great War, when English troops were frequentlythere, several hundred Dutch girlshad becomemothers through the fasc<strong>in</strong>at<strong>in</strong>g walk <strong>of</strong> the Englishsoldiers; referr<strong>in</strong>g to their special swift and light step.In civilization, <strong>in</strong>deed, ow<strong>in</strong>g to the idleness, luxury,and over-nutrition which make <strong>sex</strong>ual erethism comparativelyeasy, and tumescence sometimes almost constant,the phenomena <strong>of</strong> courtship become less important. Yetthey still prevail, though <strong>in</strong> more varied, delicate, and<strong>of</strong>ten ma<strong>in</strong>ly psychic forms.The phenomena <strong>of</strong> courtship are biologically connectedwith the fact that <strong>in</strong> animals, <strong>in</strong> savage man, to some ex-[31]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXtent perhaps<strong>in</strong> civilized man, and especially<strong>in</strong> women,<strong>sex</strong>uality is periodic, and not constant, <strong>in</strong> its manifestations.If the <strong>sex</strong>ual apparatus were at every moment, <strong>in</strong>both <strong>sex</strong>es, quick to respond to stimulation at once, courtshipwould be reduced to a m<strong>in</strong>imum and the atta<strong>in</strong>ment<strong>of</strong> tumescence would present no difficulties. But for longperiods the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse is quiescent, and courtshipmay be regarded as the psychic aspect <strong>of</strong> the effort bywhich it re-awakens.Most <strong>of</strong> the higher animals have a breed<strong>in</strong>g season onceor sometimes twice a year,<strong>in</strong> spr<strong>in</strong>g or <strong>in</strong> autumn or both.Savage man also sometimes has similar breed<strong>in</strong>g seasons,and <strong>in</strong> widely separated parts <strong>of</strong> the world erotic festivalsare held <strong>in</strong> spr<strong>in</strong>g or at harvest, or both, <strong>sex</strong>ual uniontak<strong>in</strong>g place on these occasions and marriages formed.The periodicity<strong>of</strong> the conception-rate <strong>in</strong> all civilizedcountries, with a tendency to a heighten<strong>in</strong>g<strong>of</strong> the curve<strong>in</strong> spr<strong>in</strong>g and sometimes <strong>in</strong> autumn, seems to be a vestige<strong>of</strong> this primitive breed<strong>in</strong>g season, due tothe same cause,whatever that cause may be. As to the exact nature <strong>of</strong> thecause, there is no agreement. Some (with Durkheim)argue that this and all similar periodicities (as <strong>of</strong> crim<strong>in</strong>alityand suicide) are ma<strong>in</strong>ly due to social causes; others(like Gaedeken) assert that the chemical rays <strong>of</strong> the sun,most powerful <strong>in</strong> spr<strong>in</strong>g, are the true cause; others (asHaycraft) put the phenomenon down to the heat; others,perhaps more plausibly, regard them as largely due to thestimulation <strong>of</strong> the early heat <strong>of</strong> spr<strong>in</strong>g and to the correspond<strong>in</strong>gstimulation <strong>of</strong> the early cold <strong>in</strong> w<strong>in</strong>ter.Of recent years traces <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual periodicity have beenfound among civilized men, quite apart from their relationshipsto women. Sem<strong>in</strong>al emissions dur<strong>in</strong>g sleep <strong>in</strong>persons lead<strong>in</strong>g a cont<strong>in</strong>ent life have furnished the dataon which <strong>in</strong>terest<strong>in</strong>g conclusions have been formed. Julius


Nelson <strong>in</strong>THE BIOLOGY OF SEX1888 brought forward the earliest evidence <strong>in</strong>favor <strong>of</strong> a monthly <strong>sex</strong>ual cycle <strong>in</strong> men <strong>of</strong> a twenty-eightday length. Perry-Coste, on the strength <strong>of</strong> a more prolongedand elaborate <strong>in</strong>vestigation, also found some reasonto accept a menstrual rhythm <strong>of</strong> a strictly lunar character(291/2 days) though the conclusions he drew from his,data have been disputed. Von Romer found ground forbr<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong>g the evidence from <strong>in</strong>voluntary emissions <strong>in</strong>tol<strong>in</strong>e with that from voluntary emissions <strong>in</strong> coitus, byshow<strong>in</strong>gthat the acts <strong>of</strong> coitus <strong>of</strong> an unmarried man fall<strong>in</strong>to a monthly cycle, with two maxima somewhat approximat<strong>in</strong>gto Perry-Coste's; he noted, moreover, that thechief maximum occurs at the time <strong>of</strong> the full moon, andthe secondary maximum at the time <strong>of</strong> the new moon.This would <strong>in</strong>dicate that heightened <strong>sex</strong>ual activity tendsto co<strong>in</strong>cidebe <strong>of</strong>fered)(whatever explanation <strong>of</strong> the co<strong>in</strong>cidence maywith the times when, among primitive peoples<strong>in</strong> many parts <strong>of</strong> the world, erotic festivals are held. Itmust, however, be added, that these conclusions are onlytentative, and the data have been questioned by MunroFox and others.A weekly cycle <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>voluntary <strong>sex</strong>ual activity, with amaximum at or near Sunday,is <strong>of</strong>ten marked. This isprobably due to social causes. The same cannot be said,however, <strong>of</strong> the annual cycle <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>voluntary <strong>sex</strong>ual activitywhich I first showed <strong>in</strong> 1898 and which I have s<strong>in</strong>cebeen able to confirm by additional evidence. This evidenceshows clearly that there are two periods <strong>in</strong> the year<strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>creased spontaneous <strong>sex</strong>ual activity; one <strong>in</strong> earlyspr<strong>in</strong>g and the other <strong>in</strong> autumn; it is <strong>of</strong>ten found that theautumn maximum is the highest.There is no detailed and extensive evidence at presentconcern<strong>in</strong>g the existence <strong>of</strong> any yearly cycle <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>voluntary<strong>sex</strong>ual activity <strong>in</strong> women. It is, however, <strong>in</strong> women,[331


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXas the existence <strong>of</strong> menstruation shows, that <strong>sex</strong>ual periodicityis most normal and pronounced. In this respectwomen are more pr<strong>of</strong>oundly primitive than men. Theorig<strong>in</strong> <strong>of</strong> menstruation has been much discussed. It usedto be thought that lowly organisms liv<strong>in</strong>g with<strong>in</strong> the<strong>in</strong>fluence <strong>of</strong> the tides would show a lunar periodicity.This, however, is seldom found. Shell fish are not usuallyaffected by the moon. In the gulf <strong>of</strong> Suez, however, seaurch<strong>in</strong>s do obey the moon. They <strong>in</strong>crease as she <strong>in</strong>creasesand decl<strong>in</strong>e as she decl<strong>in</strong>es. Their size is due to the roeand they spawnat full moon. So zoologically remote an<strong>in</strong>fluence could not extend to quadrupeds, and amongmammals a menstrual rhythm does not even beg<strong>in</strong> toallied toappear until we reach some <strong>of</strong> the anthropoidsMan. The suggestion <strong>of</strong> Arrhenius (accepted by MunroFox who has specially studied this subject) is that thesource <strong>of</strong> menstrual periodicityis electrical. He has shownthat atmospheric electricity varies <strong>in</strong> a rhythmical manner,with a maximum every 27% days which is the timetaken by the moon to revolve round the earth. He als<strong>of</strong>ound a slight menstrual rhythm <strong>in</strong> the curve <strong>of</strong> births.In the monkeys among whom menstruation beg<strong>in</strong>s toappear, it co-exists with the more primitive seasonal <strong>in</strong>fluence,so that the monkeys which menstruate at approximatelymonthly <strong>in</strong>tervals still only procreate at certa<strong>in</strong>periods <strong>of</strong> the year. A vestige <strong>of</strong> this tendency rema<strong>in</strong>s <strong>in</strong>the human species. It isdur<strong>in</strong>g the oestrus, or "heat,"only that female animals generally allow <strong>in</strong>tercourse. Inwomen, the period <strong>of</strong> maximum <strong>sex</strong>ual desire tends tooccur around menstruation, but, especially <strong>in</strong> civilization,<strong>sex</strong>ual desire is more diffused. The majority <strong>of</strong> the earlierauthorities admitted a heighten<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual emotionbefore or after the menstrual crisis, e.g., Krafft-Eb<strong>in</strong>g, whoplaced it at the post-menstrual period. Otto Adler stated[34]


THE BIOLOGY OF SEXthat <strong>sex</strong>ual feel<strong>in</strong>g is<strong>in</strong>creased before, dur<strong>in</strong>g,and aftermenstruation. Kossmann advised <strong>in</strong>tercourse just aftermenstruation, or even dur<strong>in</strong>g the latter days <strong>of</strong> the flow,as the period when it is most needed. Guyot said that theeight days after menstruation are the period <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ualdesire <strong>in</strong> women. Harry Campbell, who <strong>in</strong>vestigated theperiodicity <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual desire <strong>in</strong> healthy women <strong>of</strong> the work<strong>in</strong>gclasses by <strong>in</strong>quiries made <strong>of</strong> their husbands who werepatients at a London Hospital, found that <strong>in</strong> two-thirds<strong>of</strong> the wives, desire was <strong>in</strong>creased before, dur<strong>in</strong>g or afterthe flow, or at all three times.We now possess the results <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>quiries on a more def<strong>in</strong>itelystatistical basis. Thus Dr. Kathar<strong>in</strong>e Davis, <strong>in</strong> herstudy <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong> life <strong>of</strong> over two thousand women, foundthat maximum <strong>sex</strong>ual desire nearly always fell with<strong>in</strong> theperiod from two days before to a week after menstruation,although, unlike most <strong>in</strong>vestigators, she found that it wasmore <strong>of</strong>ten before than after the menstrual flow (69 to.38 cases) Dr. G. V. Hamilton <strong>in</strong> his exam<strong>in</strong>ation <strong>of</strong> 100married women <strong>of</strong> educated class a small number, butcarefully studied found that 25 had <strong>sex</strong> desire just aftermenstruation only, 14 just before only, 21 just before andjust after, 11 dur<strong>in</strong>g menstruation and just before andjust after, 19 had no periodicity at all, while the rema<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g10 gave no <strong>in</strong>formation.The modesty <strong>of</strong> women, which, <strong>in</strong> its most primitiveform among animals, is based on <strong>sex</strong>ual periodicity, is,with that periodicity, an essential condition <strong>of</strong> courtship.At the outset modesty may be said to be the gesture <strong>of</strong><strong>sex</strong>ual refusal by a female animal who is not yet at theperiod <strong>of</strong> oestrus. Modesty, however, tends to overlap thatperiod, as we should expect with an impulse which isactive dur<strong>in</strong>g the greater part <strong>of</strong> the year, and comb<strong>in</strong>eswith the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse, constitut<strong>in</strong>g coquetry; then thef SS 1


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXfemale alternately approaches and runs away from themile, or runs away from him <strong>in</strong> a circle. While modestyisprimarily the gesture <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual refusal it speedily comb<strong>in</strong>eswith other impulses and may f<strong>in</strong>ally <strong>in</strong> man be saidto comb<strong>in</strong>e the follow<strong>in</strong>g constituents: (i) the primitiveanimal gesture<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual refusal on the part <strong>of</strong> the female,when she is not at that moment <strong>of</strong> her generativelife atwhich she desires die male's advances; (2) the fear <strong>of</strong>arous<strong>in</strong>g disgust, a fear primarily due to the close proximity<strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual center to the po<strong>in</strong>ts <strong>of</strong> exit <strong>of</strong> thoseexcretions which are useless and unpleasant, even <strong>in</strong> manycases to animals; (3) the fear <strong>of</strong> the magic <strong>in</strong>fluence <strong>of</strong><strong>sex</strong>ual phenomena,and the ceremonial and ritual practicesprimarily based on this fear, and ultimately pass<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong>to simple rules <strong>of</strong> decorum which are signsand guardians<strong>of</strong> modesty; (4) the development <strong>of</strong> ornament andcloth<strong>in</strong>g, concomitantly foster<strong>in</strong>g alike the modesty whichwhich seeks*represses male <strong>sex</strong>ual desire and the coquetryto allure it; (5) the conception <strong>of</strong> women as property,impart<strong>in</strong>g a new and powerful sanction to an emotionalready based on more natural and primitive facts.Thus constituted, modesty is a very powerful motiveeven amongst the lowest savages although the forms itassumes vary widely and it rema<strong>in</strong>s powerful also <strong>in</strong>barbarism. At no stage <strong>of</strong> culture does modesty necessarily<strong>in</strong>volve the use <strong>of</strong> garments. Some savages, who arehabitually almost or completely naked, stillexhibit modesty,while <strong>in</strong> modern life new customs <strong>of</strong> completenakedness "nudism/* sun-bath<strong>in</strong>g, the popular GermanNackt-Kultur, etc. leave modesty <strong>in</strong>tact. In civilization,however, itspotency is attenuated. It persists, <strong>in</strong> part as aritual and <strong>in</strong> part as a grace, but it no longer has theirresistible force which it usually possesses among thelower races. Still,<strong>in</strong> any case, modesty rema<strong>in</strong>s from first[36]


THE BIOLOGY OF SEXto last an essential condition <strong>of</strong> courtship. Without thereticences and delays <strong>of</strong> modesty, tumescence could not beadequately aroused <strong>in</strong> either <strong>sex</strong>, nor would the femalehave time and opportunity to test the qualities <strong>of</strong> thecandidates for her favors, and to select the most fitt<strong>in</strong>gmate.BIBLIOGRAPHYHAVELOCK ELLIS, "Analysis <strong>of</strong> the Sexual Impulse," <strong>in</strong>Vol. Ill The Evolution <strong>of</strong> Modesty; "The Evolution <strong>of</strong>Modesty" and "The Phenomena <strong>of</strong> Sexual Periodicity/'<strong>in</strong> Vol. I Studies <strong>in</strong> the <strong>Psychology</strong> <strong>of</strong> Sex, and "TheMenstrual Curve <strong>of</strong> Sexual Impulse" <strong>in</strong> Vol. VII.WALLASCHEK, Primitive Music.COLIN SCOTT, "Sex and Art," American Journal <strong>of</strong> <strong>Psychology</strong>*Vol. VII, <strong>No</strong>. 2.HEAPE, "The Sexual Season <strong>of</strong> Mammals," QuarterlyJournal <strong>of</strong> Microscopical Science, 1900, and "The Proportion<strong>of</strong> the Sexes," Philosophical Transactions <strong>of</strong> theRoyal Society, Series B, Vol. 200, 1909.WESTERMARCK, The History <strong>of</strong> Human Marriage, Vol. I.J. R. BAKER, Sex <strong>in</strong> Man and Animals.ZUCKERMAN, The Social Life <strong>of</strong> Monkeys and Apes.MUNRO Fox, Selene.MAURICE PARMELEE, Nudism <strong>in</strong> Modern Life.Preferential Mat<strong>in</strong>g: The Factors <strong>of</strong> Sexual SelectionThe process <strong>of</strong> tumescence is achieved, directly or <strong>in</strong>directly,by the stimulat<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>fluence <strong>of</strong> impressions receivedthrough the various senses. Contrectation, as Mollterms it, is <strong>in</strong>deed simply the sum <strong>of</strong> the physical andpsychic impressions so received, normally from a person<strong>of</strong> the opposite <strong>sex</strong>. Sexual selection is the choice <strong>of</strong> theperson who most adequately imparts these impressions.seem toIn us<strong>in</strong>g the term "<strong>sex</strong>ual selection" we mayassume a theory <strong>in</strong> the Darw<strong>in</strong>ian doctr<strong>in</strong>e <strong>of</strong> evolution[37]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXwhich, <strong>in</strong> its orig<strong>in</strong>al form, is not always accepted. Wenot to bemust especiallyremember that such selection isreckoned as primarily esthetic. It is not beauty but greatervigor, or greater conspicuousness, that counts. The precisedegree <strong>of</strong> validity which Darw<strong>in</strong>ian <strong>sex</strong>ual selection(even apart from its mis<strong>in</strong>terpretation by Wallace) possessesamong animals generallyis still doubtful even tomany careful students <strong>of</strong> animal life. It is doubtful, <strong>in</strong>other words, how far such <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ctive choice <strong>in</strong> mat<strong>in</strong>g asis so far demonstrable can lead to a biological selection<strong>of</strong> some characters and the rejection <strong>of</strong> other characters, soaffect<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>heritance. The <strong>in</strong>creas<strong>in</strong>g knowledge <strong>in</strong> recentyears <strong>of</strong> the Mendelian factors <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>heritance still furtherobscures the question <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual selection. What we arecerta<strong>in</strong>ly concerned with is Preferential Mat<strong>in</strong>g, whichleaves open the question <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual selection <strong>in</strong> relation toracial <strong>in</strong>heritance. It is not clear that the less preferredare usually shut out from mat<strong>in</strong>g, and those who are excludedaltogether, whether among the lower animals orthe lower human races, seem generally an almost negligiblenumber. Courtship among birds is <strong>of</strong>ten a serious,prolonged, and highly arduous affair. Yet it is still notDarw<strong>in</strong>ian "selection" has beenalways clear that anyachieved. Eliot Howard, a very thorough student <strong>of</strong> birdlife, while not absolutely reject<strong>in</strong>g such "selection," <strong>in</strong> hiswith muchgreat work on British Warblers, yet speakshesitation concern<strong>in</strong>g its extent and significance. Variousother authorities on bird life are equally cautious.For Man <strong>in</strong> the far past preferential mat<strong>in</strong>g may reallyhave rendered it difficult for the less preferred to mate andso pass on their less preferred characters. Among theBabylonian women whose dutyit was once <strong>in</strong> life toprostitute themselves at the shr<strong>in</strong>e <strong>of</strong> Mylitta (though weare not here concerned with a very primitive phase <strong>of</strong>[38]


THE BIOLOGY OF SEXculture) Herodotus mentions that those who were lesscharm<strong>in</strong>g might have to wait three or four years beforethey were chosen by a man. The same <strong>in</strong>fluence has nodoubt largely operated for marriage also <strong>in</strong> the past.Butnearly all women <strong>in</strong> lower stages <strong>of</strong> culture seem sooneror later to become pregnant (some observers have notedsothis <strong>of</strong> even the least attractive women among savages)that, while the delay <strong>in</strong> selection may dim<strong>in</strong>ish the opportunities<strong>of</strong> pass<strong>in</strong>g on the less preferred characters, anyracial selection must be limited.The possibilities <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual "selection" <strong>in</strong> the Darw<strong>in</strong>iansense seem <strong>in</strong>deed to be capable <strong>of</strong> greater and more rapiddevelopment <strong>in</strong> the future. Even <strong>in</strong> our present phase <strong>of</strong>civilization a large number <strong>of</strong> women and men rema<strong>in</strong>unmated, many <strong>of</strong> them because they have failed to evokethe pair<strong>in</strong>g impulse <strong>in</strong> the opposite <strong>sex</strong>. If civilization <strong>in</strong>the future tends to free mat<strong>in</strong>g from the <strong>in</strong>fluence <strong>of</strong> thoseextraneous considerations which today enable the unattractiveand the unfit to pair, and ideals <strong>of</strong> desirabilitybecome a more str<strong>in</strong>gent motive <strong>in</strong> pair<strong>in</strong>g, the process <strong>of</strong>selection which leaves a large number altogether unpairedwould obviously be a strongly directive force <strong>in</strong> humanevolution. "If men wished women to be taller or less emotionalthan they are," remarks Heymans, "there are manytall women and unemotional women whom they couldselect to marry. But it will be long/' he adds, "beforesuch tendencies have free play."It is not possible therefore, at present, to regard Darw<strong>in</strong>ian<strong>sex</strong>ual "selection" as the chisel <strong>in</strong> the hands <strong>of</strong>Nature to mold the liv<strong>in</strong>g be<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> the future <strong>in</strong>to perpetuallynew forms while the refuse isbe<strong>in</strong>g constantlyflung away. With<strong>in</strong> certa<strong>in</strong> limits, as Heymans truly says,the fem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>e type must have a tendency to adaptitself tothe ideals <strong>of</strong> men, and the mascul<strong>in</strong>e type to the ideals <strong>of</strong>[39]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXwomen. But the limits seem uncerta<strong>in</strong> and narrow; wecannot at present regard either <strong>sex</strong> as the absolute creation,through "selection/' <strong>of</strong> the opposite<strong>sex</strong>.It is necessary to make clear this elementary prelim<strong>in</strong>aryconsideration when approach<strong>in</strong>gthe fundamental facts<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual psychology. Even when the term "<strong>sex</strong>ual selection"is used, what we are really concerned with is preferentialmat<strong>in</strong>g as mediated by the vary<strong>in</strong>g attractions <strong>of</strong> thesensory stimuli which evoke courtship.Courtship, we cannot make too clear, by no meansnecessarily <strong>in</strong>volves, as some still believe, a struggle or achoice between rival candidates for a <strong>sex</strong>ual partner. It isjust as pronounced and just as necessary, even though only<strong>in</strong> an abbreviated form, when rivalry is excluded, andthroughout the <strong>sex</strong>ual life. The act <strong>of</strong> union is not accomplished<strong>in</strong> an effective and happy manner except as theclimax <strong>of</strong> an ever fresh courtship. Even <strong>in</strong>vestigators likeEliot Howard who are most <strong>in</strong> doubt as to the significance<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual ''selection" among animals are emphatic <strong>in</strong> their<strong>in</strong>sistence on those elaborate and prolonged phases <strong>of</strong>excitement <strong>in</strong> which courtship consists. For courtshipis<strong>in</strong>volved <strong>in</strong> that whole process <strong>of</strong> tumescence and detumescencewhich isthe foundation <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual life.The senses concerned are touch, smell, hear<strong>in</strong>g, andvision. There seems no good reason to <strong>in</strong>clude taste even<strong>in</strong> abnormal <strong>in</strong>dividuals, when we have elim<strong>in</strong>ated fromwhat are usually considered taste-sensations the large partreally furnished by olfaction through the posterior nares,There isprobably <strong>in</strong>deed good reason why taste propershould not have any share <strong>in</strong> this matter, for taste is theslave <strong>of</strong> the other great primary organic need, the need <strong>of</strong>nutrition, and if taste had also become associated with theprimary need <strong>of</strong> reproduction, <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct might be confusedand the lover might seek to devour his partner rather than[40]


THE BIOLOGY OF SEXto have <strong>sex</strong>ual union with her. There are very few animalsthat eat their partners and then it is usually the femalewho does so, and not until after impregnation has takenplace.(i)TouchTouch isthe primary and most primitive form <strong>of</strong> contrectation.The <strong>sex</strong>ual act itself is essentially an act <strong>of</strong>contrectation, <strong>in</strong> which touch issupreme. Among children,hugg<strong>in</strong>g, kiss<strong>in</strong>g, and embrac<strong>in</strong>g are the ma<strong>in</strong> signs<strong>of</strong> affection <strong>in</strong> general and <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual affection <strong>in</strong> particular.They equally express the elementary desire <strong>of</strong> theadult lover.In this primary impulse, <strong>in</strong>deed, there isnoth<strong>in</strong>g specializedor specific. The sk<strong>in</strong> is the foundation on whichall forms <strong>of</strong> sensory perception have grown up, and as<strong>sex</strong>ual sensibility isamong the most ancient <strong>of</strong> all forms<strong>of</strong> sensibility, it is necessarily, <strong>in</strong> the ma<strong>in</strong>, a modifiedform <strong>of</strong> general touch sensibility. This primitive character<strong>of</strong> the great region <strong>of</strong> tactile sensation, its vagueness anddiffusion, serve to heighten the emotional <strong>in</strong>tensity <strong>of</strong>sk<strong>in</strong> sensations. So that, <strong>of</strong> all the great sensory fields,thefield <strong>of</strong> touch is at once the least <strong>in</strong>tellectual and themost massively emotional. These qualities,as well as its<strong>in</strong>timate and primitive association \\ith the apparatus <strong>of</strong>tumescence and detumescence, make touch the readiestand most powerful channel by which the <strong>sex</strong>ual spheremay be reached.As we might expect, touch is frequently predom<strong>in</strong>ant <strong>in</strong>the courtship <strong>of</strong> the lower animals. Touch determ<strong>in</strong>esmat<strong>in</strong>g among Crabs and Crayfish and is usually the chief<strong>sex</strong>ual sense for Spiders. In Cattle, Deer, Horses, Dogs,etc., lick<strong>in</strong>g is an important part <strong>of</strong> courtship. Neumann,who watched Elephants love-mak<strong>in</strong>g, observed that the


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXmale fondled the female with his trunk, and then, stand<strong>in</strong>gside by side, they crossed trunks, putt<strong>in</strong>g the tips <strong>in</strong>each other's mouths. Human be<strong>in</strong>gs are impelled toanalogous acts. For many people, especiallywomen whohave not become habituated to complete <strong>in</strong>tercourse, closetactile contacts furnish <strong>in</strong> themselves adequate <strong>sex</strong>ualpleasure and satisfaction.The tactile element is <strong>in</strong>deed specially prom<strong>in</strong>ent <strong>in</strong>the emotional life, and notably the <strong>sex</strong>ual life, <strong>of</strong> women.Lillian Mart<strong>in</strong>, <strong>in</strong>vestigat<strong>in</strong>g the esthetic sentiment <strong>in</strong>woman students, observed the prom<strong>in</strong>ence <strong>of</strong> emotions <strong>of</strong>tactile foundation. Pearce Clark described the case <strong>of</strong> anepileptic girl <strong>of</strong> n<strong>in</strong>e who only cared for people whosetouch she liked, and classified her acqua<strong>in</strong>tances by herreaction to their handshakes or kiss. The <strong>sex</strong>ual awaken<strong>in</strong>g<strong>of</strong> girls at puberty shows itself <strong>in</strong> a desire for kissesand caresses rather than for <strong>in</strong>tercourse. Sadger remarksthat "the halo <strong>of</strong> chastity surround<strong>in</strong>g so many younggirls rests on the absence <strong>of</strong> the genital impulse comb<strong>in</strong>edwith strong eroticism <strong>in</strong> the sk<strong>in</strong>, the mucus membranes,and the muscular system." This trait is frequently pronounced<strong>in</strong> women not only at the beg<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> the<strong>sex</strong>ual life but throughout, and even to the climax <strong>of</strong>detumescence. "With all her stra<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g, her wrestl<strong>in</strong>g, andstriv<strong>in</strong>g to break from the clasp <strong>of</strong> his arms/' we read <strong>in</strong>an erotic novel <strong>of</strong> the eighteenth century, "it was visibleshe aimed at noth<strong>in</strong>g more than multiply<strong>in</strong>g po<strong>in</strong>ts <strong>of</strong>touch with him." It was a woman poet, Rene Vivien,who wrote that "the strange and complex art <strong>of</strong> touchequals the dream <strong>of</strong> perfumesand the miracle <strong>of</strong> sound."The <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ctive recognition by women <strong>of</strong> the importance<strong>of</strong> touch <strong>in</strong> love is additional evidence <strong>of</strong> the fact thattouch is really the primary and primitiveerotic sense.The morbid hyper-esthetic anomalies on a tactile[4*]


THE BIOLOGY OF SEXfoundation occur <strong>in</strong> both men and women, such as thestuff-fetishisms (contacts with fur, velvet, silk, etc.)andmay have consequences <strong>of</strong> social importance, such as kleptolagnia;this is found chiefly <strong>in</strong> women. The specialas it is termed, on the other hand,perversion <strong>of</strong> frottage,isonly found <strong>in</strong> a pronounced degree<strong>in</strong> men and consists<strong>in</strong> a desire to br<strong>in</strong>g the clothed body, and usuallythough not exclusively the genital region, <strong>in</strong>to close contactwith the clothed body <strong>of</strong> a woman, and <strong>in</strong> seek<strong>in</strong>gto gratify this passion <strong>in</strong> places <strong>of</strong> publicresort withwomen who are complete strangers. Many women have atsome time, when stand<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> a crowd (as at the back <strong>of</strong>a theater gallery or sometimes even <strong>in</strong> church), becomeunpleasantly aware <strong>of</strong> a deliberate contact <strong>of</strong> this k<strong>in</strong>d.This morbid deviation is <strong>of</strong> medico-legal <strong>in</strong>terest, and itsvictims may be otherwise fairly normal men <strong>of</strong> good socialposition and superior <strong>in</strong>telligence.Ticklishness may here be noted as a k<strong>in</strong>d <strong>of</strong> by-product<strong>of</strong> tactile sensation, founded on reflexes develop<strong>in</strong>g evenbefore birth, which is closely related to <strong>sex</strong>ual phenomena.It is, as it were, a play <strong>of</strong> tumescence, on which laughtercomes as a play <strong>of</strong> detumescence, to disperse undesired<strong>sex</strong>ual emotions <strong>of</strong>ten (as among bashful <strong>sex</strong>-consciousgirls) Ticklishness leads on to the more serious phenomena<strong>of</strong> tumescence, and it tends to die out .afteradolescence, atthe period dur<strong>in</strong>g which <strong>sex</strong>ual relationshipsnormally beg<strong>in</strong>.Such a view <strong>of</strong> ticklishness, as a k<strong>in</strong>d <strong>of</strong> modesty <strong>of</strong> thesk<strong>in</strong>, exist<strong>in</strong>g only to be destroyed,is <strong>in</strong>deed but one <strong>of</strong>its aspects. Ticklishness certa<strong>in</strong>ly arose from a non-<strong>sex</strong>ualstart<strong>in</strong>g-po<strong>in</strong>t, and may well have protective uses, for, asLouis Rob<strong>in</strong>son po<strong>in</strong>ted out, <strong>in</strong> young animals the mostticklish regions are the most vulnerable and those mostneed<strong>in</strong>g protection. Tickl<strong>in</strong>g, however, with<strong>in</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual[43]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXsphere, and <strong>in</strong> those more remote erogenous zones whichare sometimes apt for <strong>sex</strong>ual sensation, acts differently,and this by virtue o what Herrick calls its power <strong>of</strong> summat<strong>in</strong>gsuccessive stimuli, an avalanche-like process bywhich through the excitation <strong>of</strong> cellsperipherala vastnumber <strong>of</strong> cortical cells may be slowly charged with eneigy.It is a process <strong>of</strong> tumescence culm<strong>in</strong>at<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> an act<strong>of</strong> detumescence; which, while outside the <strong>sex</strong>ual sphereit may take the form <strong>of</strong> a muscular reaction or an outburst<strong>of</strong> laughter, with<strong>in</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual sphereits reactions are<strong>sex</strong>ual. All forms <strong>of</strong> amorous contrectation, and especiallythe <strong>sex</strong>ual embrace, have an <strong>in</strong>timate connection with thephenomena <strong>of</strong> ticklishness. That, <strong>in</strong>deed, is the basis <strong>of</strong>Sp<strong>in</strong>oza's famous def<strong>in</strong>ition <strong>of</strong> love: Amor est titillatioquaedam concomitante idea causes externa, for, as Gowerssaid, the <strong>sex</strong>ual act is primarily a sk<strong>in</strong> reflex.It may be worth while to remark that, although tickl<strong>in</strong>g(even if practised by young girls as a source <strong>of</strong> probable<strong>sex</strong>ual pleasure) has become unimportant <strong>in</strong> the eroticlife <strong>of</strong> civilization, it has more significance among somesavage peoples, as formerly <strong>in</strong>deed even <strong>in</strong> Europe. Totickle among some peoples has been to make love, andsometimes, as among the Fuegians, the same word is appliedto the <strong>sex</strong>ual embrace as to tickl<strong>in</strong>g. The Germanword for the clitoris, "Kitzler" or tickler, <strong>in</strong>dicates a similarconnection <strong>of</strong> ideas. The word pruritus was used bythe Romans as a synonym <strong>of</strong> lasciviousness, and it is significantthat localized pruritus occurs <strong>in</strong> zones that are<strong>in</strong> early life auto-erotic and tends to appear at the menopause.In Russia, <strong>in</strong> the eighteenth century, the Czar<strong>in</strong>a,B. Ste<strong>in</strong> states, reta<strong>in</strong>ed at Court <strong>of</strong>ficial foot-ticklerswhose dutyit was to give the Empress pleasure by tickl<strong>in</strong>gher feet and at the same time tell<strong>in</strong>g wanton stories ands<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong>g obscene songs; they also possessed the special privi-[44]


THE BIOLOGY OF SEXlege <strong>of</strong> refresh<strong>in</strong>g the Czar<strong>in</strong>a, when exhausted from excesses,by smack<strong>in</strong>g the Imperial buttocks. This <strong>of</strong>fice was<strong>of</strong> course reserved for ladies <strong>of</strong> aristocratic birth. Thephysiological ground <strong>of</strong> the proceed<strong>in</strong>g lies <strong>in</strong> the factthat, as Fer6 has demonstrated, tickl<strong>in</strong>g is <strong>in</strong> moderationa stimulant <strong>in</strong>creas<strong>in</strong>g energy, though <strong>in</strong> excess it is adepressant.The relationship between ticklishness and <strong>sex</strong>ual feel<strong>in</strong>gis <strong>in</strong>dicated by the experience <strong>of</strong> a lady who statesthat if she is touched <strong>in</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual region when not <strong>in</strong>cl<strong>in</strong>edfor <strong>sex</strong>ual relationships, ticklishness isaroused, butthat when <strong>sex</strong>ual desire arises ticklishness disappears. Itis, we see, a vicarious <strong>sex</strong>ual feel<strong>in</strong>g, or we may say that<strong>sex</strong>ual feel<strong>in</strong>g is a transmuted form <strong>of</strong> ticklishness. In itsorig<strong>in</strong>al aspect a sent<strong>in</strong>el to repel contact, it becomesunder another aspect a m<strong>in</strong>ister to attraction.The <strong>in</strong>timate connection between the sk<strong>in</strong> and the<strong>sex</strong>ual sphereis <strong>in</strong>dicated, not only by the phenomena <strong>of</strong>tickl<strong>in</strong>g, but by the behavior <strong>of</strong> the sebaceous glands,which are the vestiges <strong>of</strong> former hair glands, and survivefrom a period when hair covered the body. The attempts<strong>of</strong> these glands at puberty, or when the <strong>sex</strong>ual system isdisturbed, to produce hairs frequently lead to pimples,and actual hairs <strong>of</strong>ten appear <strong>in</strong> women after the menopause.Thus the hair itself and itsdisturbances are associatedwith the <strong>sex</strong>ual system. Partial baldness or alopecia areata,about theas Sabouraud po<strong>in</strong>ted out, tends to occur with specialfrequency<strong>in</strong> women towards puberty and aga<strong>in</strong>age <strong>of</strong> 50, though <strong>in</strong> men there is no correspond<strong>in</strong>g frequencycurve. It may also occur after suppression <strong>of</strong> themenses, as after ovariotomy, and sometimes even <strong>in</strong> pregnancy.While the <strong>sex</strong>ual embrace itself is,[45]<strong>in</strong> large measure, a


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXspecialized k<strong>in</strong>d <strong>of</strong> sk<strong>in</strong> reflex, between the generalizedsk<strong>in</strong> sensations and the great primary <strong>sex</strong>ual center <strong>of</strong>sensation there are certa<strong>in</strong> secondary <strong>sex</strong>ual centers whichhave already been brought forward <strong>in</strong> their general aspectas to be <strong>in</strong>cluded among erogenic zones.These secondary centers have <strong>in</strong> common the fact thatthey <strong>in</strong>volve the entrances and the exits <strong>of</strong> the body re-that is, where sk<strong>in</strong> merges <strong>in</strong>to mucous membrane,gions,and where, <strong>in</strong> the course <strong>of</strong> evolution, tactile sensibilityhas become highly ref<strong>in</strong>ed. It may, <strong>in</strong>deed, be said generally<strong>of</strong> these frontier regions <strong>of</strong> the body that their contactwith the same or a similar frontier region <strong>in</strong> anotherperson <strong>of</strong> opposite <strong>sex</strong>, under conditions otherwise favorableto tumescence, will tend to produce a m<strong>in</strong>imum andeven sometimes a maximum degree <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual excitation.Contact <strong>of</strong> these regions with each other or with the<strong>sex</strong>ual region itself so closely simulates the central <strong>sex</strong>ualreflex that channels are set up for the same nervous energyand secondary <strong>sex</strong>ual centers are constituted.It isimportant to remember that these phenomena areessentially normal. Many <strong>of</strong> them are commonly spoken<strong>of</strong> as "perversions." In so far, however, as they are aidsto tumescence, they must be regarded as com<strong>in</strong>g with<strong>in</strong>be consideredthe range <strong>of</strong> normal variation. They mayunesthetic, but that is another matter. It has, moreover,to be remembered that esthetic values are changed underthe <strong>in</strong>fluence <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual emotion; from the lover's po<strong>in</strong>t <strong>of</strong>view, many th<strong>in</strong>gsare beautiful which are unbeautifulfrom the po<strong>in</strong>t <strong>of</strong> view <strong>of</strong> him who is not a lover, and, thegreater the degree to which the lover is swayed by hispassion, the greateresthetic standard isthe extent to which his normalliable to be modified. From the non<strong>sex</strong>ualstandpo<strong>in</strong>t, <strong>in</strong>deed, the whole process <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> may[46]


THE BIOLOGY OF SEXbe considered unesthetic, except the earlier stages otumescence.That the utilization <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual excitation obta<strong>in</strong>ablethrough the channels <strong>of</strong> the erogeniczones must be consideredwith<strong>in</strong> the normal range <strong>of</strong> variation, we may observe,<strong>in</strong>deed, among many animals. It isonly when theyare used to procure not merely tumescence, but detumescence,that such excitations can be termed <strong>in</strong> any sense,"perversions," and then they are so only <strong>in</strong> the sameambiguous sense as are the methods <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>tercourse which<strong>in</strong>volve the use <strong>of</strong> checks to prevent fecundation.The kiss is the typical example <strong>of</strong> this group <strong>of</strong> phenomena.We have <strong>in</strong> the lips a highly sensitive frontierregion between sk<strong>in</strong> and mucous membrane, <strong>in</strong> many respectsanalogous to the vulvo-vag<strong>in</strong>al orifice, and re<strong>in</strong>forcible,moreover, by the active movements <strong>of</strong> the stillmore highly sensitive tongue. Close and prolonged contact<strong>of</strong> these regions, therefore, under conditions favorableto tumescence setsup a powerful current <strong>of</strong> nervous stimulation.After those contacts <strong>in</strong> which the <strong>sex</strong>ual regionsthemselves take a direct part, there is no such channelfor direct<strong>in</strong>g nervous force <strong>in</strong>to the <strong>sex</strong>ual sphere as thekiss. This is specially marked for the so-called columb<strong>in</strong>ekiss, widely practised by lovers <strong>in</strong> classic as well as <strong>in</strong>modern times. A form <strong>of</strong> it called maraich<strong>in</strong>age is generallypractised <strong>in</strong> a part <strong>of</strong> France, though some theologianswould regardit as a mortal s<strong>in</strong>. Manifestations resembl<strong>in</strong>gthe kiss are found among various animals lowerthan man, as <strong>in</strong> the palpations <strong>of</strong> the antennae by snailsand <strong>in</strong>sects, the caresses <strong>of</strong> birds by their bills, the lick<strong>in</strong>gand gentle bit<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> dogs, and <strong>of</strong> various animals <strong>in</strong>coitus. In man, the kiss has two elements, one tactile andthe other olfactory, but the tactile element is at oncethe most ancient and <strong>in</strong> Europe the most predom<strong>in</strong>ant[47]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXpart <strong>of</strong> the kiss; the olfactory kiss, however, or smell-kiss,has a much wider distribution over the world than theEuropean (or Mediterranean) tactile kiss; it reaches itsmost complete development among peoples <strong>of</strong> Mongolianrace.While the kiss may be regarded as the typical andnormal erogenic method <strong>of</strong> contrectation for the end <strong>of</strong>atta<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g tumescence, there are others only less important.Any orificial contact between persons <strong>of</strong> opposite <strong>sex</strong>is sometimes almost equally as effective as the kiss <strong>in</strong>stimulat<strong>in</strong>g tumescence; all such contacts, <strong>in</strong>deed, belongto the group <strong>of</strong> which the kiss is the type. Cunnil<strong>in</strong>ctus(<strong>of</strong>ten <strong>in</strong>correctly termed cunnil<strong>in</strong>gus) and fellatio cannotbe regarded as unnatural for they have their prototypicforms among animals, and they are found amongvarious savage races. As forms <strong>of</strong> contrectation and aidsto "tumescence they are thus natural and are sometimesregarded by both <strong>sex</strong>es as qu<strong>in</strong>tessential forms <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ualpleasure, though they may not be considered esthetic.They become deviations, however, and thus liable to betermed "perversions," when they replace the desire forcoitus.The nipples constitute yet another orificial frontierregion which is a highly important tactile <strong>sex</strong>ual focus.The breasts have a special significance among the <strong>sex</strong>ualcenters s<strong>in</strong>ce they primarily exist, not for the lover, butfor the child. This is doubtless, <strong>in</strong>deed, a fundamentalfact on which other erogenic contacts have grown up.The <strong>sex</strong>ual sensitivity <strong>of</strong> lovers to the lips has been developedfrom the sensitivity <strong>of</strong> the <strong>in</strong>fant's lips to contactwith his mother's nipple.As the secret<strong>in</strong>g organs <strong>of</strong> milk, it is essential that theconnection between the <strong>sex</strong>ual organs and the breastsshould be <strong>in</strong>timate, so that the breasts may be <strong>in</strong> a con-[48]


THE BIOLOGY OF SEXdition to respond adequately to the demand <strong>of</strong> the child'sat the earliest moment after birth. Suction <strong>of</strong>suck<strong>in</strong>g lipsthe nipple causes objectively a reflex contraction <strong>of</strong> thewomb. On the subjective side no one seems to havelecorded that the act <strong>of</strong> suckl<strong>in</strong>g tends to produce <strong>in</strong>women voluptuous <strong>sex</strong>ual emotions until Cabanis, <strong>in</strong> theearly n<strong>in</strong>eteenth century, noted that several suckl<strong>in</strong>gwomen had told him that the child <strong>in</strong> suckl<strong>in</strong>g producedsuch 1feel<strong>in</strong>gs. It is easy to see why this normal association<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual emotion with suckl<strong>in</strong>g should have come about,It is essential for the preservation <strong>of</strong> the lives <strong>of</strong> youngmammals that the mothers should have an adequate motive<strong>in</strong> pleasurable sensation for endur<strong>in</strong>gthe trouble <strong>of</strong>suckl<strong>in</strong>g. The most obvious method for obta<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g thenecessary degree <strong>of</strong> pleasurable sensation, beyond the relief<strong>of</strong> the tension caused by the secretion, lay <strong>in</strong> utiliz<strong>in</strong>g thereservoir <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual emotion, with which channels <strong>of</strong> communicationmight already be said to be open, through theaction <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual organs on the breastsdur<strong>in</strong>g pregnancy.It must be added that while the connection betweenthe nipple and the <strong>sex</strong>ual apparatus thus appears to be so<strong>in</strong>timate it isprobably not specific.Kurd<strong>in</strong>ovski found byexperiments on rabbits that the stimulation <strong>of</strong> other orifices,as the ear, will also produce strong contractions <strong>of</strong>the womb. Perhaps any stimulus anywhere applied to theevoke a uter<strong>in</strong>e contraction.periphery may by reflex pathsThis suppositionis <strong>in</strong> relation with the general <strong>sex</strong>ual1 1 should like to po<strong>in</strong>t out, however, that, before Cabanis, C. Bonnet<strong>in</strong> 1764 (<strong>in</strong> his Contemplation de la Nature), had remarked on "thesweet commotion accompanied by a feel<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> pleasure," as support<strong>in</strong>gthe natural affection <strong>of</strong> the mother for the child, "if it is not one <strong>of</strong> thepr<strong>in</strong>cipal causes," while for creatures below the mammals, he added,"we have also to consider the agreeable reciprocal warmth <strong>of</strong> motherand <strong>of</strong>fspr<strong>in</strong>g."[49]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXsensitiveness <strong>of</strong> the sk<strong>in</strong>, and the existence <strong>of</strong> erogeniczones.The importance<strong>of</strong> the erotic <strong>in</strong>terest <strong>in</strong> the breasts is<strong>in</strong>dicated bythe amount <strong>of</strong> attention which has beengiven to the subject by Catholic theologians. A great controversyarose over xnammillary contacts <strong>in</strong> the eighteenthcentury. Em<strong>in</strong>ent Jesuit theologians, but <strong>in</strong> opposition tothe Inquisition and the Church generally, ma<strong>in</strong>ta<strong>in</strong>ed thatto handle the breasts even <strong>of</strong> nuns was venial, providedthere was no depraved <strong>in</strong>tention. In one Jesuit Penitentiaryit was even asserted that to deny the <strong>in</strong>tr<strong>in</strong>sic <strong>in</strong>nocence<strong>of</strong> such acts was dangerously near to an error <strong>in</strong>faith,and only committed by Jansenists.(2)SmellOlfactory sensibility was not at first clearly differentiatedfrom general tactile sensibility. The sense <strong>of</strong> smellwas gradually specialized, and, when taste also began todevelop, a k<strong>in</strong>d <strong>of</strong> chemical sense was constituted. Amongvertebrates smell became the most highly developed <strong>of</strong>the senses; it gives the first <strong>in</strong>formation <strong>of</strong> remote objectsthat concern them, it gives the most precise <strong>in</strong>formationconcern<strong>in</strong>g the near objects that concern them; it is thesense <strong>in</strong> terms <strong>of</strong> which most <strong>of</strong> their mental operationsmust be conducted and their emotional impulses reachconsciousness. For reptiles and later for mammals notonly are all <strong>sex</strong>ual associations ma<strong>in</strong>ly olfactory, but theimpressions received by this sense suffice to dom<strong>in</strong>ate allothers. An animal not only receives adequate <strong>sex</strong>ual excitementfrom olfactory stimuli, but those stimuli <strong>of</strong>tensuffice to counterbalance all the evidence o the othersenses. This is not surpris<strong>in</strong>g when we remember howextensive is the place <strong>of</strong> the olfactory region <strong>in</strong> the bra<strong>in</strong>.The cerebral cortex itself, <strong>in</strong>deed, as Ed<strong>in</strong>ger and Elliot[50]


THE BIOLOGY OF SEXSmith show, was orig<strong>in</strong>ally little more than die receptivecenter for impressions <strong>of</strong> smell and the <strong>in</strong>strument forenabl<strong>in</strong>g that sense to <strong>in</strong>fluence the animal's behavior;and these olfactory impulses reached the cortex directlyand not by pass<strong>in</strong>g through the thalamus. So that, psychologically,smell occupies a unique position. It represents"the germ <strong>of</strong> all the higher psychical powers," or at allevents the cement that b<strong>in</strong>ds them together. In the primitivevertebrates liv<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> the water, smell (whichis thenmore ak<strong>in</strong> to taste than <strong>in</strong> Man and also more affectivethan any other sense) dom<strong>in</strong>ates the whole behavior andis<strong>of</strong> immense biological significance."When we reach the higher apes and Man, all this has<strong>of</strong> an <strong>in</strong>differ-been changed. The sense <strong>of</strong> smell, <strong>in</strong>deed, still persistsuniversally and it is also exceed<strong>in</strong>gly delicate, though<strong>of</strong>ten neglected. It is, moreover, a useful auxiliary. Savagesare <strong>of</strong>ten accused, more or less justly,ence to bad odors. They are <strong>of</strong>ten, however, keenly aliveto the significance <strong>of</strong> smells and their varieties, thoughit does not appear that the sense <strong>of</strong> smell isnotably moredeveloped <strong>in</strong> savage than <strong>in</strong> civilized peoples. Odors alsocont<strong>in</strong>ue to play a part <strong>in</strong> the emotional life <strong>of</strong> man, moreespecially <strong>in</strong> hot countries.Nevertheless both <strong>in</strong> practical life and <strong>in</strong> emotionallife, <strong>in</strong> science and <strong>in</strong> art, smell is, at the best, undernormal conditions, merely an auxiliary, and itsstudy fell<strong>in</strong>to some discredit until Zwaardemaker <strong>of</strong> Utrecht restoredit to its proper position by the <strong>in</strong>vention <strong>of</strong> hisolfactometer <strong>in</strong> 1888 and by the subsequent publication<strong>of</strong> his work on the physiology <strong>of</strong> smell. A few years laterHeyn<strong>in</strong>x <strong>of</strong> Brussels still further developed the subject<strong>of</strong> olfaction, and seek<strong>in</strong>g to put it on a rigid physicalbasis, he setup a spectrum, as it were, for smell, with aclassification dependent on variations <strong>of</strong> wave length.


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXIt would thus be by a moleculo-vibratory, rather than bya chemical, energy that smells activate the affective paths.Other authorities, however, like G. H. Parker, are contentto regard smell as the chief <strong>of</strong> the "chemical" senses, afterwe have separatedthe "mechanical" senses (stimulated bypressure, or sound, or light); the chemical senses datefrom primitive aquatic life and, while dom<strong>in</strong>ated bysmell, would also <strong>in</strong>clude taste, the function <strong>of</strong> the organ<strong>of</strong> Jacobson (open<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>to the nose) , and a commonchemical sense. Even yet, however, it can scarcely be saidthat any large body <strong>of</strong> assured conclusions has beenreached.The sense <strong>of</strong> smell stillrema<strong>in</strong>s close to touch <strong>in</strong> thevagueness <strong>of</strong> its messages though its associations are <strong>of</strong>tenhighly emotional. It is the existence <strong>of</strong> these characteristicsat once so vague and so specific,so useless and so<strong>in</strong>timate which has led various writers to describe thesense <strong>of</strong> smell as, above all others, the sense <strong>of</strong> imag<strong>in</strong>ation.<strong>No</strong> sense has so strong a power <strong>of</strong> suggestion, thepower <strong>of</strong> call<strong>in</strong>g up ancient memories with a wide anddeep emotional reverberation, while at the same time nosense furnishes impressions which so easily change emotionalcolor and tone, <strong>in</strong> harmony with the recipient'sgeneral attitude. Odors are thus specially apt both tocontrol the emotional life and to become its slaves. Underthe conditions <strong>of</strong> civilization the primitive emotionalassociations <strong>of</strong> odor tend to be dispersed, but, on the otherhand, the imag<strong>in</strong>ative side <strong>of</strong> the olfactory sense becomesaccentuated, and personal idiosyncrasies tend to manifestthemselves <strong>in</strong> this sphere.Odors are powerful stimulants to the whole nervoussystem, caus<strong>in</strong>g, like other stimulants, an <strong>in</strong>crease <strong>of</strong> energywhich, if excessive or prolonged, leads to nervou<strong>sex</strong>haustion. Thus, it is well recognized that the aromatics[52]


THE BIOLOGY OF SEXconta<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g volatile oils are antispasmodics and anaesthetics,and that they stimulate digestion, circulation, and thenervous system, <strong>in</strong> large doses produc<strong>in</strong>g depression.Fare's experiments with the dynamometer and the ergographgreatly contributed to def<strong>in</strong>e the stimulat<strong>in</strong>g effects<strong>of</strong> odors.We approach the specifically <strong>sex</strong>ual aspect <strong>of</strong> odor <strong>in</strong>the human species when we note that all men and womenare odorous. This is variously marked amongall races.It is a significant fact, both as regards the ancestral <strong>sex</strong>ualconnections <strong>of</strong> the body odors and their actual <strong>sex</strong>ualassociations today, that, as Hippocrates long ago noted,it is not until puberty that they assume their adult characteristics.The <strong>in</strong>fant, the adult, the aged person, each hashis own k<strong>in</strong>d <strong>of</strong> smell, and, as Mon<strong>in</strong> remarks, itmightbe possible, with<strong>in</strong> certa<strong>in</strong> limits, to discover the age <strong>of</strong> aperson byhis odor. Inboth <strong>sex</strong>es, puberty, adolescence,early manhood and womanhood are marked by a gradualdevelopment <strong>of</strong> the adult odor <strong>of</strong> sk<strong>in</strong> and excreta, <strong>in</strong>general harmony with the secondary <strong>sex</strong>ual developments<strong>of</strong> hair and pigment. Venturi, <strong>in</strong>deed, described the odor<strong>of</strong> the body as a secondary <strong>sex</strong>ual character.As the sole factor <strong>in</strong> human <strong>sex</strong>ual selection olfactionmust be rare, not so much because the impressions <strong>of</strong> thissense are <strong>in</strong>operative, but because agreeable personalodors are not sufficiently powerful, and the olfactory organistoo obtuse, to enable smell to take precedence <strong>of</strong> sight.Nevertheless, <strong>in</strong> many people, certa<strong>in</strong> odors, especiallythose that are correlated with a healthy and <strong>sex</strong>ually desirableperson, tend to be agreeable; they are fortified bytheir association with the loved person, sometimes to anirresistible degree; and their potencyis doubtless <strong>in</strong>creasedby the fact that many odors, <strong>in</strong>clud<strong>in</strong>g some bodilyodors, are nervous stimulants.[53]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXThere seems to be little doubt that an <strong>in</strong>timate relationexists, both <strong>in</strong> men and women, between the olfactorymucous membrane <strong>of</strong> the nose and the whole genitalapparatus, that they frequently show a sympathetic action,that <strong>in</strong>fluences act<strong>in</strong>g on the genital sphere will affect thenose occasionally, <strong>in</strong>fluences act<strong>in</strong>g on the nose reflexlyaffect the genital sphere.In a few exceptional, but still quite normal, peoplesmell would appear to possess an emotional predom<strong>in</strong>ancewhich it cannot be said to possess<strong>in</strong> the average person.These exceptional people are what B<strong>in</strong>et <strong>in</strong> his study <strong>of</strong><strong>sex</strong>ual fetishism called olfactive type; such persons forma group which, though <strong>of</strong> smaller size and less importance,is fairly comparable to the well-known groups <strong>of</strong> visualtype, <strong>of</strong> auditory type, and <strong>of</strong> psycho-motor type. Suchpeople would be more attentive to odors, more moved byolfactory sympathies and antipathies, than are otherpeople. The term "ozolagny" was devised by Kiernan for<strong>sex</strong>ual gratification derived from the sense <strong>of</strong> smell. Manywomen who may be considered normal are <strong>sex</strong>ually excitable(occasionally even to the po<strong>in</strong>t <strong>of</strong> orgasm) byspecial odors, as <strong>of</strong> the general body odor <strong>of</strong> a belovedman (sometimes when blended with that <strong>of</strong> tobacco) orand are some-<strong>of</strong> leather (which is ultimately a sk<strong>in</strong> odor)times overcome by a sudden almost halluc<strong>in</strong>atory recollection<strong>of</strong> the body odor <strong>of</strong> a lover.Even <strong>in</strong> ord<strong>in</strong>ary normal persons, personal odor tendsto play a not <strong>in</strong>considerable part <strong>in</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual attractions and<strong>sex</strong>ual repulsions. This is sometimes termed "olfactionism."The comparative bluntness <strong>of</strong> the sense <strong>of</strong> smell<strong>in</strong> Man, however, makes it difficult for olfactory <strong>in</strong>fluencesto be felt, as a rule, until the prelim<strong>in</strong>aries <strong>of</strong> courtshipare already over; so that smell cannot normally possessthe same significance <strong>in</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual attraction <strong>in</strong> Man that it[54]


THE BIOLOGY OF SEX/possesses <strong>in</strong> the lower animals. With that reservation therecan be no doubt that odor has a certa<strong>in</strong> favorable or unfavorable<strong>in</strong>fluence <strong>in</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual relationships <strong>in</strong> all humanraces from the lowest to the highest. The fact that itmayand that for most people such odors cannot be abe so,matter <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>difference <strong>in</strong> the most <strong>in</strong>timate <strong>of</strong> all relationships,is usually only to be learned casually and <strong>in</strong>cidentally.There can be no doubt, however, that, as Kiernanpo<strong>in</strong>tsout, the extent to which olfaction <strong>in</strong>fluences the<strong>sex</strong>ual sphere <strong>in</strong> civilized man has been much underestimated,though we need not run to the opposite extreme,with Gustav Jager, and regard the <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>cteven <strong>in</strong> Man as ma<strong>in</strong>ly or altogether an olfactory matter.In Man, not onlyis the <strong>sex</strong>ual significance <strong>of</strong> odor altogethermuch less than <strong>in</strong> lower animals, but the focus <strong>of</strong>olfactory attraction has been displacedfrom the <strong>sex</strong>ualIn thisregions themselves to the upper part <strong>of</strong> the body.respect the <strong>sex</strong>ual olfactory allurement <strong>in</strong> man resembleswhat we f<strong>in</strong>d <strong>in</strong> the sphere <strong>of</strong> vision, for neither the <strong>sex</strong>ualorgans <strong>of</strong> man nor <strong>of</strong> woman are usuallybeautiful <strong>in</strong>the eyes <strong>of</strong> the opposite <strong>sex</strong>, and their exhibition is nowhereregarded as a prelim<strong>in</strong>ary stage <strong>in</strong> courtship. Thecareful concealment <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual region has doubtlessfavored this transfer. It has thus happened that when personalodor acts as a <strong>sex</strong>ual allurement it is the armpit,<strong>in</strong> any case normally the chief focus <strong>of</strong> odor <strong>in</strong> the body,which chiefly comes <strong>in</strong>to play, together with the sk<strong>in</strong> andthe hair. We have further to recognize the significant factthat even those personal odors which are chiefly liableunder normal circumstances to come occasionally with<strong>in</strong>the conscious <strong>sex</strong>ual sphere, and <strong>in</strong>deed purely personalodors <strong>of</strong> all k<strong>in</strong>ds, may fail to exert any attraction, butrather tend to cause antipathy,unless some degree <strong>of</strong>[55]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXtumescence has already been atta<strong>in</strong>ed, and even then mayprove repulsive,and so be liable to constitute what maybe an even serious trouble <strong>in</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual relations. That is tosay, our olfactory experiences <strong>of</strong> the human body approximaterather to our tactile experiences <strong>of</strong> it than to ourvisual experiences.Smell with us has ceased to be a lead<strong>in</strong>gchannel <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>tellectual curiosity. Personal odors makean appealthat is ma<strong>in</strong>ly <strong>of</strong> an <strong>in</strong>timate, emotional imag<strong>in</strong>ativecharacter. They are thus liable to arouse whatJames called the anti-<strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct.Among animals, it seems probable, both <strong>sex</strong>es are alike<strong>in</strong>fluenced by odors, for, while it is usually the male whose<strong>sex</strong>ual regions are furnished with special scent glands,when such occur, the peculiar odor <strong>of</strong> the female dur<strong>in</strong>gthe <strong>sex</strong>ual season is certa<strong>in</strong>ly not less efficacious as an allurementtothe male. If we compare the general susceptibility<strong>of</strong> men and women to agreeable odors, apart fromthe question <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual allurement, there can be littledoubt that it is most marked among women. Groospo<strong>in</strong>ted out that even among children little girls are more<strong>in</strong>terested <strong>in</strong> scents than boys, and the <strong>in</strong>vestigations <strong>of</strong>various workers, especially Garb<strong>in</strong>i, have shown that thereis actually a greater power <strong>of</strong> discrim<strong>in</strong>at<strong>in</strong>g odors amonggirls than among boys. In America Alice Thayer showedthat girls are considerably more <strong>in</strong>fluenced by odor <strong>in</strong>their likes and dislikes than are boys. Marro went further,and <strong>in</strong> an extended series <strong>of</strong> observations on girls beforeand after the establishment <strong>of</strong> puberty, he found reasontobelieve that girls acquire an <strong>in</strong>creased susceptibility toodors when <strong>sex</strong>ual life beg<strong>in</strong>s, although they show nosuch <strong>in</strong>creased powers as regards the other senses. It maybe added that some women acquire a special olfactoryhyper-aesthesia dur<strong>in</strong>g pregnancy. Even <strong>in</strong> old age, as Vaschide'<strong>sex</strong>periments showed, women preserve their olfac-[56]


THE BIOLOGY OF SEXtory superiority over men. On the whole, it would appearthat, as Van de Velde and various other gynecologists nowagree, women are more affected, and more frequentlyaffected, than are men by olfactory impressions.S<strong>in</strong>ce there are chemical resemblances and identitieseven <strong>of</strong> odors from widely remote sources, perfumes mayhave the same <strong>sex</strong>ual effects as are more primitively possessedby the body odors. It seems probable that, as hasbeen emphasized by Iwan Bloch, perfumes were primitivelyused by women, not as is sometimes the case <strong>in</strong>civilization, with the idea <strong>of</strong> disguis<strong>in</strong>g any possible naturalodor, but with the object <strong>of</strong> heighten<strong>in</strong>g and fortify<strong>in</strong>gthe natural odor. If the primitive man was <strong>in</strong>cl<strong>in</strong>edto disparage a woman whose odor was slight or imperceptibleturn<strong>in</strong>g away from her with contempt, as thePolynesian turned away from the ladies <strong>of</strong> Sydney: "Theyhave no smell!" women would <strong>in</strong>evitably seek to supplementany natural defects <strong>in</strong> this respect, and to accentuatetheir odorous qualities, <strong>in</strong> the same way as, even <strong>in</strong> civilization,they have sought to accentuate the <strong>sex</strong>ual prom<strong>in</strong>ences<strong>of</strong> their bodies. In this way, we may, as Bloch suggests,expla<strong>in</strong> the fact that until recent times the favoriteodors selected by women have not been the most delicatebut the strongest, the most animal, the most <strong>sex</strong>ual: musk,castoreum, civet, and ambergris. The type among these iscerta<strong>in</strong>ly musk, which, with ambergris,is the chief member<strong>of</strong> L<strong>in</strong>naeus's group <strong>of</strong> Odores ambrosiaceZ; which <strong>in</strong><strong>sex</strong>ual significance, Zwaardemaker remarks, ranks besidethe capryl group, and musk is that odor which is mostfrequentlyfound to resemble the odor <strong>of</strong> the humanbody.The special peculiarity <strong>of</strong> the olfactory group <strong>of</strong> sensations<strong>in</strong> Man is that they manifest the decadence <strong>of</strong> asense which <strong>in</strong> Man's remote ancestors was a chief avenue[57]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEX<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual allurement. In Man, and even tosome degree<strong>in</strong> the apes,this sense has given place to the predom<strong>in</strong>ance<strong>of</strong> vision. Yet it still bathes us <strong>in</strong> a more or less constantatmosphere <strong>of</strong> odors which perpetuallymove us to sympathyor to antipathy; and <strong>in</strong> their f<strong>in</strong>er manifestationswe still do not neglect, but even cultivate them.(3) Hear<strong>in</strong>gThe chief physiologicalfunctions are periodic,and it isnot surpris<strong>in</strong>g that rhythm is deeply impressed on ourorganism. The result is that, whatever lends itself to theneuro-muscular rhythmical tendency <strong>of</strong> the organism,whatever tends still further to heighten and develop thatrhythmical tendency, exerts upon us a decidedly stimulat<strong>in</strong>gand excit<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>fluence. It is not possible to acceptthe view <strong>of</strong> Bucher and Wundt that human song has itschief or exclusive orig<strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong> rhythmical vocal accompanimentsto systematized work, yet rhythm, whether <strong>in</strong> itssimple form or its more developed form as music, is apowerful stimulant to muscular action. There is considerableground for the view <strong>of</strong> the Swedish philologist Sperberthat <strong>sex</strong>uality was the ma<strong>in</strong> source from which speechgenerally was developed. He argues that there are twosituations <strong>in</strong> which an <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ctive cry would arise andevoke response:when the hungry <strong>in</strong>fant cries and is fedby the mother; and when the <strong>sex</strong>ually excited male uttersa call to which the female responds. The second situationis most likely to have been developed first, and therefore<strong>sex</strong>uality is probably the first source <strong>of</strong> speech. This musthave occurred, <strong>in</strong>deed, early <strong>in</strong> vertebrate development.Even a s<strong>in</strong>gle musical note is effective as a physiologicalstimulus, apart from rhythm, as was well shown by F


effortsTHE BIOLOGY OF SEXwith the dynamometer and prolonged work withthe ergograph have alike been found to reveal a stimulat<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong>fluence. With the ergograph Tarchan<strong>of</strong>f foundthat lively music, <strong>in</strong> nervously sensitive persons, will temporarilycause the disappearance <strong>of</strong> fatigue, though slowmusic <strong>in</strong> a m<strong>in</strong>or key had the opposite effect. F6r foundthat discords were depress<strong>in</strong>g; most, but not all major keyswere stimulat<strong>in</strong>g; and most, but not all, m<strong>in</strong>or keys depress<strong>in</strong>g.In states <strong>of</strong> fatigue, however, the m<strong>in</strong>or keyswere more stimulat<strong>in</strong>g than the major, an <strong>in</strong>terest<strong>in</strong>gresult <strong>in</strong> harmony with that stimulat<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>fluence <strong>of</strong> variouspa<strong>in</strong>ful emotions <strong>in</strong> states <strong>of</strong> organic fatigue whichwe encounter when <strong>in</strong>vestigat<strong>in</strong>g sadism. Both the higherand the lower muscular processes, the voluntary and the<strong>in</strong>voluntary, are stimulated by music.Together with this stimulation <strong>of</strong> the neuro-muscularnot be direct there is a con-system which may or maycomitant <strong>in</strong>fluence on the circulation and respiration.have been made on man and animalsMany experimentsbear<strong>in</strong>g on the effects <strong>of</strong> music on the heart and lungs,s<strong>in</strong>ce the Russian physiologist Dogiel found <strong>in</strong> 1880 that<strong>in</strong> animals the force and rapidity <strong>of</strong> the heart were thus<strong>in</strong>creased. Subsequent <strong>in</strong>vestigations have shown clearlythe <strong>in</strong>fluence <strong>of</strong> music on the circulatory and respiratorysystems <strong>in</strong> man as well as <strong>in</strong> animals. That music has anapparently direct <strong>in</strong>fluence on the circulation <strong>of</strong> the bra<strong>in</strong>is shown by the observations <strong>of</strong> Patrizi on a youth who hadreceived a severe wound <strong>of</strong> the head which had removeda large portion <strong>of</strong> the skull wall. The stimulus <strong>of</strong> melodyproduced an immediate <strong>in</strong>crease <strong>in</strong> the afflux <strong>of</strong> blood tothe bra<strong>in</strong>.It is not surpris<strong>in</strong>g that music should also, <strong>in</strong>directly,<strong>in</strong>fluence various viscera and their functions. It affectsthe sk<strong>in</strong>, <strong>in</strong>creas<strong>in</strong>g the perspiration; it may produce a[59]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXtendency to tears; it sometimes causes a desire to ur<strong>in</strong>ate,or even actual ur<strong>in</strong>ation. In dogsit has been shown thatauditory stimulation <strong>in</strong>creases the consumption <strong>of</strong> oxygenand the elim<strong>in</strong>ation <strong>of</strong> carbonic acid. Among many animals<strong>of</strong> various classes, more especially<strong>in</strong>sects and birds,there can be little doubt that the attraction <strong>of</strong> music isstill supported and developed on the basis <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual attraction,the musical notes <strong>of</strong> one <strong>sex</strong> serv<strong>in</strong>g as a <strong>sex</strong>uallure to the other <strong>sex</strong>. The evidence on this po<strong>in</strong>t was<strong>in</strong>vestigated by Darw<strong>in</strong> on a wide basis. It has been questioned,some writers preferr<strong>in</strong>g,like Hudson, to adopt theview <strong>of</strong> Herbert Spencer that the s<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> birds is dueto "overflow <strong>of</strong> energy," the relation between courtshipand s<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong>g be<strong>in</strong>g merely "a relation <strong>of</strong> concomitance."This view is no longer tenable; whatever the preciseorig<strong>in</strong> <strong>of</strong> the musical notes <strong>of</strong> animals may be, there cannow be little doubt that musical sounds, and, amongbirds, s<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong>g, play a large part <strong>in</strong> courtship. Usually,it would appear,it is the performance <strong>of</strong> the male thatattracts the female; it isonly among simple and primitivemusicians, like some <strong>in</strong>sects, that the female thus attractsthe male. Even the fact that it isnearly always one <strong>sex</strong>only that is thus musically gifted alone <strong>in</strong>dicates the<strong>sex</strong>ual solution <strong>of</strong> this problem.The males <strong>of</strong> many species <strong>of</strong> mammals use their vocalpowers chiefly, and sometimes exclusively, dur<strong>in</strong>g thebreed<strong>in</strong>g season. Among the higher apes <strong>in</strong>deed the voiceis the chief <strong>in</strong>strument <strong>in</strong> court<strong>in</strong>g, as well as be<strong>in</strong>g ageneral method <strong>of</strong> giv<strong>in</strong>g vent to excitement. Darw<strong>in</strong>po<strong>in</strong>ted this out, and from a different standpo<strong>in</strong>t, F6r,<strong>in</strong> study<strong>in</strong>g the pathology <strong>of</strong> the human <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct,stated that he knew <strong>of</strong> no detailed observations show<strong>in</strong>gthe existence <strong>of</strong> any morbid <strong>sex</strong>ual perversions based onthe sense <strong>of</strong> hear<strong>in</strong>g.f6o]


THE BIOLOGY OF SEXS<strong>in</strong>ce not only <strong>in</strong> the animals nearly related to Man,but <strong>in</strong> man himself, the larynx and the voice undergo amarked <strong>sex</strong>ual differentiation at puberty, it is easy to believethat the change has an <strong>in</strong>fluence on <strong>sex</strong>ual selectionand <strong>sex</strong>ual psychology. At puberty there israpid developmentalike <strong>of</strong> the larynx itself and the vocal cords, whichbecome larger and thicker, while the voice deepens. Allthese changes are slight <strong>in</strong> girls, but pronounced <strong>in</strong> boys,whose voices are said to "break" and then become lowerby at least an octave. The fem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>e larynx at puberty only<strong>in</strong>creases <strong>in</strong> the proportion <strong>of</strong> five to seven, but the mascul<strong>in</strong>elarynx <strong>in</strong> the proportion<strong>of</strong> five to ten. The directdependence <strong>of</strong> this change on the general <strong>sex</strong>ual developmentis shown not merely byits occurrence at puberty,but by the fact that <strong>in</strong> eunuchs <strong>in</strong> whom the testicles havebeen removed before puberty the voice reta<strong>in</strong>s its childlikequalities.Bear<strong>in</strong>g this <strong>in</strong> m<strong>in</strong>d we may attach considerable importanceto the voice and to music generally as a method <strong>of</strong><strong>sex</strong>ual appeal. On this po<strong>in</strong>t we may agree with Moll,"that <strong>sex</strong>ual stimulation throughthe ears isgreaterthanis usually believed," though I consider that it is greateron women than on men, as we should expect, the causebe<strong>in</strong>g that, as Robert Miiller remarks, a woman's voicereta<strong>in</strong>s child-like qualities,and is therefore less specificallyfem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>e than a man's voice isspecifically mascul<strong>in</strong>e.Men are, <strong>in</strong>deed, <strong>of</strong>ten able to associate many <strong>of</strong> theirearliest ideas <strong>of</strong> love <strong>in</strong> boyhood with women s<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong>g orplay<strong>in</strong>g; but <strong>in</strong> these cases it will be found that the fasc<strong>in</strong>ationwas romantic and sentimental, and not specificallyerotic, while <strong>in</strong> adult life the music which <strong>of</strong>tenseems to us to be most def<strong>in</strong>itely <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong> its appeal reallyproduces this effect <strong>in</strong> part from association with thestory, and <strong>in</strong> part from the <strong>in</strong>tellectual realization <strong>of</strong> the[61]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXcomposer's effort to translate passion<strong>in</strong>to esthetic terms;the actual effect <strong>of</strong> the music is not <strong>sex</strong>ual, and it can wellbe believed that the results <strong>of</strong> experiments as regards the<strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>fluence <strong>of</strong> the Tristan music on men under the<strong>in</strong>fluence <strong>of</strong> hypnotism have been, as reported, negative.The music <strong>of</strong> less important composers, however, especiallyMassenet, has been found to have a def<strong>in</strong>ite <strong>sex</strong>ualeffect. Helmholtz went too far <strong>in</strong> stat<strong>in</strong>g that the expression<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual long<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> music is identical with that <strong>of</strong>religious long<strong>in</strong>g.Ferd mentions the case <strong>of</strong> a young man <strong>in</strong> hospital withacute arthritis who compla<strong>in</strong>ed <strong>of</strong> pa<strong>in</strong>ful erections wheneverhe heard through the door the very agreeable voice<strong>of</strong> the young woman (<strong>in</strong>visible to him) who super<strong>in</strong>tendedthe l<strong>in</strong>en. But such phenomena do not appear tobe common, or, at all events, very pronounced.So far asmy own <strong>in</strong>quiries go, only a small proportion <strong>of</strong> menwould appear to experience def<strong>in</strong>ite <strong>sex</strong>ual feel<strong>in</strong>gs onlisten<strong>in</strong>g to music.The reasons which make itimprobable that men shouldbe <strong>sex</strong>ually attracted through hear<strong>in</strong>g render itprobablethat women should be so attracted. The change <strong>in</strong> thevoice at puberty renders the deeper mascul<strong>in</strong>e voice acharacteristic secondary <strong>sex</strong>ual attribute <strong>of</strong> man, while thethe male that isfact that, among mammals generally, it ismost vocal and that chiefly, or even sometimes exclusively,at the rutt<strong>in</strong>g seasonrenders it antecedently likelythat among mammals generally, <strong>in</strong>clud<strong>in</strong>g the humanspecies,there is <strong>in</strong>the female an actual or latent susceptibilityto the <strong>sex</strong>ual significance <strong>of</strong> the male voice, a susceptibilitywhich, under the conditions <strong>of</strong> human civilization,may be transferred to music generally. Music is forwomen, as the Goncourts have expressed it, "la messe de6*


THE BIOLOGY OF SEX1'amour." It isnoteworthy that <strong>in</strong> novels written bywomen there is a frequent attentiveness to the qualities <strong>of</strong>the hero's voice and to its emotional effects on thehero<strong>in</strong>e, while <strong>in</strong> real life women <strong>of</strong>ten fall <strong>in</strong> love with aman's voice, sometimes even before they have seen him.Vaschide and Vurpas have po<strong>in</strong>ted out that,absence <strong>of</strong> specific localized <strong>sex</strong>ual effects,even <strong>in</strong> thethe physiologicaleffects <strong>of</strong> music on women closely resemble those <strong>of</strong><strong>sex</strong>ual excitement. Most normal educated women areliable to experience some degree <strong>of</strong> def<strong>in</strong>ite <strong>sex</strong>ual excitementfrom music, though not always from the same k<strong>in</strong>d<strong>of</strong> music. In neuropathic subjects the <strong>in</strong>fluence may occasionallybe more pronounced, and <strong>in</strong> some morbid subjects(Vaschide and Vurpas remark) <strong>sex</strong>ual relations cannottake place unless aided by music.It is significant that the evolution <strong>of</strong> puberty tends tobe accompanied by a marked <strong>in</strong>terest <strong>in</strong> musical and otherk<strong>in</strong>ds <strong>of</strong> art. The majority <strong>of</strong> young people <strong>of</strong> educatedclass, and especially girls, feel an impulse to art about theperiod <strong>of</strong> puberty, last<strong>in</strong>g a few months, or at most a yearor two. Accord<strong>in</strong>g to one series <strong>of</strong> observations, nearly 5<strong>in</strong> 6 showed an <strong>in</strong>creased and passionate love for music,the curve culm<strong>in</strong>at<strong>in</strong>g at the age <strong>of</strong> 15 and fall<strong>in</strong>g rapidlyafter 16.(4) VisionTo a large extent vision has slowly superseded the othersenses and become the ma<strong>in</strong> channel by which we receiveour impressions. Its range is practically <strong>in</strong>f<strong>in</strong>ite; it isaptfor either abstract or <strong>in</strong>timate uses. It furnishes the basison which a number <strong>of</strong> arts make their appeal, while it isalso the sense on which we chiefly rely <strong>in</strong> exercis<strong>in</strong>g theanimal function <strong>of</strong> nutrition. It is not surpris<strong>in</strong>g thatfrom the viewpo<strong>in</strong>t <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual selection vision should be[63]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXthe supreme sense. The love-thoughts <strong>of</strong> men have alwaysbeen a perpetualmeditation on beauty.The orig<strong>in</strong> <strong>of</strong> our ideas o beauty is a question whichbelongs to esthetics, not to <strong>sex</strong>ual psychology,and it is aquestion on which estheticians are not altogether <strong>in</strong> agreement.We need not here be concerned to make any def-whether our ideals <strong>of</strong><strong>in</strong>ite assertion on the question<strong>sex</strong>ual beauty have developed under the <strong>in</strong>fluence <strong>of</strong>more general and fundamental laws, or whether <strong>sex</strong>ualideals themselves underlie our more general conceptions<strong>of</strong> beauty. Practically, so far as man and his immediateancestors are concerned, the <strong>sex</strong>ual and the extra-<strong>sex</strong>ualfactors <strong>of</strong> beauty have been <strong>in</strong>terwoven from the first.The <strong>sex</strong>ually beautiful object must have appealed to fundamentalphysiological aptitudes <strong>of</strong> reaction; the generallybeautiful object must have shared <strong>in</strong> the thrill whichthe specifically <strong>sex</strong>ual object imparted. There has been an<strong>in</strong>evitable action and reaction throughout. Just as we f<strong>in</strong>dthat the <strong>sex</strong>ual and non-<strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>fluences <strong>of</strong> agreeableodors throughout nature are <strong>in</strong>extricably m<strong>in</strong>gled, so itis with the motives that make an object beautiful to oureyes. In elaborate descriptions <strong>of</strong> beautiful <strong>in</strong>dividuals itis the visible elements that are <strong>in</strong> most cases emphasized.The richly laden word beautyis a synthesis <strong>of</strong> compleximpressions obta<strong>in</strong>ed through a s<strong>in</strong>gle sense.If we survey broadly the ideal <strong>of</strong> fem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>e beauty setdown by the peoples <strong>of</strong> comparatively uncivilized lands,it is <strong>in</strong>terest<strong>in</strong>g to note that they all conta<strong>in</strong> many featureswhich appeal to our civilized esthetic taste,and many <strong>of</strong>them, <strong>in</strong>deed, conta<strong>in</strong> no features which obviously clasheven be said that thewith our canons <strong>of</strong> taste. It mayideals <strong>of</strong> some savages affect us more sympathetically thansome <strong>of</strong> the ideals <strong>of</strong> our own medieval ancestors. Thisfact, that the modern European, whose culture may be


THE BIOLOGY OF SEXsensitive to estheticsupposed to have made him especiallybeauty, is yet able to f<strong>in</strong>d beauty among even the women<strong>of</strong> savage races, <strong>in</strong>dicates that, whatever modify<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>fluencesmay have to be admitted, beauty is to a largeextent an objective matter. This is confirmed by the factthat the men <strong>of</strong> the lower races sometimes admire Europeanwomen more than women <strong>of</strong> their own race.It isprobably a significant fact, <strong>in</strong>deed, that we mayf<strong>in</strong>d a similar element throughout the whole animatedworld. The th<strong>in</strong>gs that to man are most beautiful throughoutNature are those that are <strong>in</strong>timately associated with,or dependent upon, the <strong>sex</strong>ual processand the <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct.This is the case <strong>in</strong> the plant world. It is so throughoutmost <strong>of</strong> the animal world, and, as Poulton, <strong>in</strong> referr<strong>in</strong>gto this <strong>of</strong>ten unexpla<strong>in</strong>ed and <strong>in</strong>deed unnoticed fact,remarks, "the song or plume which excites the mat<strong>in</strong>gimpulse <strong>in</strong> the hen is also <strong>in</strong> a high proportion <strong>of</strong> casesmost pleas<strong>in</strong>g to man himself."In the constitution <strong>of</strong> our ideals <strong>of</strong> mascul<strong>in</strong>e and fem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>ebeauty it was <strong>in</strong>evitable that the <strong>sex</strong>ual charactersshould from an early period <strong>in</strong> the history <strong>of</strong> Man forman important element. From a primitive po<strong>in</strong>t <strong>of</strong> viewa <strong>sex</strong>ually desirable and attractive woman is one whose<strong>sex</strong>ual characters are either naturally prom<strong>in</strong>ent or artificiallyrendered so; that is to say, she is the womanobviously best fitted to bear children and to suckle them.Similarly, mascul<strong>in</strong>e beauty for a woman embodies thequalities best fitted for an effective mate and protector.To a certa<strong>in</strong> extent the primary <strong>sex</strong>ual characters are thusobjects <strong>of</strong> admiration among savage peoples. In the primitivedances <strong>of</strong> many peoples, <strong>of</strong>ten <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual significance,the display <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual organs on the part <strong>of</strong> both menand women is sometimes a prom<strong>in</strong>ent feature. Even downto medieval times <strong>in</strong> Europe the garments <strong>of</strong> men some-[65]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXtimes emphasized the <strong>sex</strong>ual organs. In some parts <strong>of</strong> theworld, also, the artificial enlargement <strong>of</strong> the female <strong>sex</strong>ualorgans (labia majora and m<strong>in</strong>ora and clitoris) is practiced,and thus enlarged they are considered an importantattraction.Any <strong>in</strong>sistence on the naked <strong>sex</strong>ual organs as objects <strong>of</strong>attraction is, however, usually conf<strong>in</strong>ed to peoples <strong>in</strong> a lowstate <strong>of</strong> culture, though it may be noted that <strong>in</strong> Japaneseerotic pictures the <strong>sex</strong>ual organs <strong>of</strong> both <strong>sex</strong>es are <strong>of</strong>tenexaggerated. Much more widespread is the attempt tobeautify and to disguise the <strong>sex</strong>ual organs by tattoo<strong>in</strong>g,by adornment, and by strik<strong>in</strong>g peculiarities <strong>of</strong> cloth<strong>in</strong>g.The tendency for beauty <strong>of</strong> cloth<strong>in</strong>g to be accepted as asubstitute for beauty <strong>of</strong> body appears early <strong>in</strong> the history<strong>of</strong> mank<strong>in</strong>d, and, as we know, tends to be absolutely accepted<strong>in</strong> civilization. Hence our realities and our traditionalideals are sometimes hopelessly at variance. Ourartists are themselves equally ignorant and confused, and,asallStratz repeatedly showed, they constantly reproduce <strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>nocence the deformations and pathological characters<strong>of</strong> defective models.One <strong>of</strong> the ma<strong>in</strong> primitive purposes <strong>of</strong> adornment andcloth<strong>in</strong>g among savages, however, is not to conceal thebut to draw attention to it and to render it morebody,attractive. With this we have to recognize the magical<strong>in</strong>fluence <strong>of</strong> both adornment and mutilation as a methodo guard<strong>in</strong>g and <strong>in</strong>sulat<strong>in</strong>g dangerous bodily functions.The two motives are largely woven together. The <strong>sex</strong>ualorgans beg<strong>in</strong> to become sacred, <strong>in</strong>deed, and the <strong>sex</strong>ualfunctions to take on a religious character, at an earlyperiod<strong>in</strong> culture. Generation,the reproductiveforce <strong>in</strong>Nature, was realized by primitive man to be a conception<strong>of</strong> the firstmagnitude, and among its chief symbols heexalted the <strong>sex</strong>ual organs which thus atta<strong>in</strong>ed to a solem-[66]


THE BIOLOGY OF SEXnity scarcely favorable to purposes <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual allurement.Phallus-worship may almost be said to be a universalphenomenon; it is found even among races <strong>of</strong> high culture,among the Romans <strong>of</strong> the Empire and the Japanesetoday.Apart from the religious and magical properties sowidely accorded to the primary <strong>sex</strong>ual characters, there areother reasons why they should not <strong>of</strong>ten have ga<strong>in</strong>ed orlong reta<strong>in</strong>ed any great importance as objects <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ualallurement. They are unnecessary and <strong>in</strong>convenient forthis purpose. Even among animals, ithappens with extremerarity that the primary <strong>sex</strong>ual characters are renderedattractive to the eye <strong>of</strong> the opposite <strong>sex</strong>, thoughthey <strong>of</strong>ten are to the sense <strong>of</strong> smell. The <strong>sex</strong>ual regionsconstitute a peculiarly vulnerable spot, even specially so<strong>in</strong> Man, and the need for their protection conflicts withthe prom<strong>in</strong>ent display required for <strong>sex</strong>ual allurement.This end is more effectively atta<strong>in</strong>ed by concentrat<strong>in</strong>gthe chief signs <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual attractiveness on the upper andmore conspicuous parts <strong>of</strong> the body. It is a method alreadywell-nigh universal even among the lower animals.At the same time, even if not esthetically beautiful, it isfundamentally necessary that the <strong>in</strong>tromittent organ <strong>of</strong>the male and the receptive canal <strong>of</strong> the female should reta<strong>in</strong>their primitive characteristics. They cannot, therefore,be greatly modified by <strong>sex</strong>ual or natural selection,and the primitive character they are thus compelled toreta<strong>in</strong>, however <strong>sex</strong>ually desirable and attractive they maybecome to the opposite <strong>sex</strong> under the <strong>in</strong>fluence <strong>of</strong> emotion,cannot easily be regarded as beautiful from the po<strong>in</strong>t<strong>of</strong> view <strong>of</strong> esthetic contemplation. Under the <strong>in</strong>fluence <strong>of</strong>art there is a tendency for the <strong>sex</strong>ual organs to be dim<strong>in</strong>ished<strong>in</strong> size, and under civilization the artist neverchooses to give an erect organ to his representations <strong>of</strong>[67]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXideal mascul<strong>in</strong>e beauty. It is ma<strong>in</strong>ly because the anestheticcharacter <strong>of</strong> a woman's <strong>sex</strong>ual region is almost imperceptible<strong>in</strong> any ord<strong>in</strong>ary and normal position<strong>of</strong> the nudebody that the fem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>e form is generally considered amore esthetically beautiful object <strong>of</strong> contemplation thanthe mascul<strong>in</strong>e. Apart from this character we are bound,from a strictly esthetic po<strong>in</strong>t <strong>of</strong> view, to regard the maleform as at least equally beautiful. The female form, moreover,<strong>of</strong>ten over-passes swiftly the climax <strong>of</strong> its beauty.With the growth <strong>of</strong> culture the very methods whichhad been adopted to call attention to the <strong>sex</strong>ual organswere reta<strong>in</strong>ed by a further development for the purpose<strong>of</strong> conceal<strong>in</strong>g them. Even from the first the secondary<strong>sex</strong>ual characters have been a far more widespread method<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual allurement than the primary <strong>sex</strong>ual characters,and <strong>in</strong> the most civilized countries today theystill constitutethe most attractive <strong>of</strong> such methods to the majority<strong>of</strong> the population.It is the ma<strong>in</strong> secondary <strong>sex</strong>ual characterswhich usually present themselves as beautiful <strong>in</strong>well-developed persons.Among these secondary<strong>sex</strong>ual characters most <strong>of</strong> the<strong>in</strong>digenous peoples <strong>of</strong> Europe, Asia, and Africa regardthe large hips and buttocks <strong>of</strong> women as an importantfeature <strong>of</strong> beauty. This character represents the most decidedstructural deviation <strong>of</strong> the fem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>e type from themascul<strong>in</strong>e, a deviation demanded by the reproductivefunction <strong>of</strong> women, and <strong>in</strong> the admiration it arouses<strong>sex</strong>ual selection is thus work<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> a l<strong>in</strong>e with naturalselection, though, except <strong>in</strong> a moderate degree, it has notusually been regarded as at the same time <strong>in</strong> a l<strong>in</strong>ewith the claims <strong>of</strong> purely esthetic beauty. But apart fromthese high claims, nearly everywhere large hips and buttocksare regarded as a mark <strong>of</strong> beauty, and the averageman is <strong>of</strong> this op<strong>in</strong>ion even <strong>in</strong> the most esthetic countries.[68]


THE BIOLOGY OF SEXThe contrast <strong>of</strong> this exuberance with the more closel)knit male form, the force <strong>of</strong> association, and the unquestionablefact that such development is the conditionneeded for healthy motherhood, has served as a basis foran ideal <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual attractiveness, while broad hips, which<strong>in</strong>volve a large pelvis, are necessarily a characteristic <strong>of</strong>the highest human races, because the races with the largestheads must be endowed also with the largest pelves.It can scarcely be an accidental co<strong>in</strong>cidence that it isprecisely among people <strong>of</strong> black race, those with the smallestpelvis, that we f<strong>in</strong>d a simulation <strong>of</strong> the large pelvis <strong>of</strong>the higher races admired and cultivated <strong>in</strong> the form <strong>of</strong>steatopygia. This is an enormously exaggerated development<strong>of</strong> the subcutaneous layer <strong>of</strong> fat which normallycovers the buttocks and upper parts <strong>of</strong> the thighs <strong>in</strong>woman, and <strong>in</strong> this extreme form constitutes a k<strong>in</strong>d <strong>of</strong>natural fatty tumor. True steatopygia only exists amongBushman and Hottentot women, and among the peopleswho are by blood connected with them. An unusual development<strong>of</strong> the buttocks is,other African peoples. Sometimes admiration for thischaracteristic is associated with admiration for markedobesity generally, and itmay be noted that a somewhatgreater degree <strong>of</strong> fatness may also be regarded as a fem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>esecondary <strong>sex</strong>ual character. This admiration is speciallymarked among several <strong>of</strong> the black peoples <strong>of</strong> Africa.An occasional extension <strong>of</strong> the idea <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual beauty asassociated with developed hipsis found <strong>in</strong> the tendencyhowever, found among many(which existed at one time <strong>in</strong> medieval Europe) to regardthe pregnant woman as the physically most beautiful type.Only second to the attraction <strong>of</strong> the fem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>e pelvis,and <strong>in</strong> civilization usually higher, we must place thebreasts. Among Europeans, <strong>in</strong>deed, the importanceregion is<strong>of</strong> thisso highly esteemed that even when the genera][69]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXrule aga<strong>in</strong>st the exposure <strong>of</strong> the body was most str<strong>in</strong>gent,a European lady <strong>in</strong> full dress was still allowed more orless to uncover the breasts. Savages, on the contrary, donot usually show any great admiration for this part <strong>of</strong>the body. Various savage peoples even regard the development<strong>of</strong> the breasts as ugly and adopt devices for flatten<strong>in</strong>gthem. The feel<strong>in</strong>g that prompts this ispractice notunknown <strong>in</strong> modern Europe, while <strong>in</strong> medieval Europe,<strong>in</strong>deed, the generalideal <strong>of</strong> fem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>e slenderness was opposedto developed breasts, and the garments tended tocompress them. But <strong>in</strong> a high degree <strong>of</strong> civilization thisfeel<strong>in</strong>g is unknown, as, <strong>in</strong>deed, it is unknown to mostbarbarians. The admiration accorded to developed breastsand pelvis is evidenced by the practice <strong>of</strong> tighten<strong>in</strong>g thewaist girth,embodied <strong>in</strong> the ancient corset. This practicehas sometimes been almost universalamong peoples <strong>of</strong>not unknown among other races.white race and isAnother prom<strong>in</strong>ent secondary <strong>sex</strong>ual character, belong<strong>in</strong>gto man, and, unlike the breasts and hips, not obviouslyan <strong>in</strong>dex <strong>of</strong> functional <strong>sex</strong>ual activity, is the beard.This may be regarded as a purely <strong>sex</strong>ual ornament comparableto the somewhat similar growths on the heads <strong>of</strong>male animals. The cultivation <strong>of</strong> the beard variesmanyat different periods <strong>of</strong> culture, and belongs peculiarly tobarbarous peoples who sometimes regardit as sacred. Incivilization, it tends to lose this significance, and its valueas a <strong>sex</strong>ual ornament is dim<strong>in</strong>ished or lost altogether.This was so even <strong>in</strong> ancient civilizations. Thus <strong>in</strong> earlyRome beards and long hair were worn, but not <strong>in</strong> laterRome, when epilation <strong>of</strong> the pubes also became commonfor women, while beards, considered as <strong>in</strong>dications <strong>of</strong>gravity and wisdom, were usually reserved for philosophers.In Greek statues the pubes <strong>of</strong> women is usuallyhairless but this does not <strong>in</strong>dicate a general custom <strong>in</strong> real[70]


THE BIOLOGY OF SEXlife, and the vase pa<strong>in</strong>t<strong>in</strong>gs frequently show pubic haireven for women who were hetairae, while Helen <strong>of</strong> Troy,regarded as a type <strong>of</strong> beauty, is also so represented. Thecustoms <strong>of</strong> different peoples, and <strong>of</strong> the same people atdifferent periods, with reference to the estimation <strong>of</strong> hair(which has been discussed at length by Stoll) differswidely. Sometimes it has been held <strong>in</strong> the highest honorfor men, and as a mark <strong>of</strong> supreme beauty <strong>in</strong> women, atother times so far as possible suppressed, and cut, shaved,or epilated.A ma<strong>in</strong> reason for thishas been the close association<strong>of</strong> the hairy system with <strong>sex</strong>, comb<strong>in</strong>ed with the realizationthat, unlike the pelvis and the breasts, the hair nolonger has def<strong>in</strong>ite biological value. It is thus a field <strong>in</strong>which likes and dislikes have free play to create theirfashions. The ascetic religious elements have notably beenan <strong>in</strong>fluence unfavorable to hair, even <strong>in</strong> ancient Egypt,for, as Remy de Gourmont has remarked, "the immorality<strong>of</strong> the liv<strong>in</strong>g form resides especially <strong>in</strong> the pilous system."It was thus <strong>in</strong>evitable that the <strong>in</strong>fluence <strong>of</strong> Christianityshould have been aga<strong>in</strong>st hair, especially <strong>in</strong> old daysaga<strong>in</strong>st beards which were denounced by monkish writers,and later aga<strong>in</strong>st the pudendal hair which <strong>in</strong> Victoriantimes it was considered "disgust<strong>in</strong>g" to represent <strong>in</strong> pictures.Thus religion fostered what were considered theref<strong>in</strong>ements <strong>of</strong> civilization, and we see at present a widespreadtendencywomen toto remove the beard <strong>in</strong> men and <strong>in</strong>epilate the armpits and sometimes the pubes,as well as to m<strong>in</strong>imize the hair generally.On the whole, however, there isgood reason for assum<strong>in</strong>ga certa<strong>in</strong> fundamental tendency whereby the mostvarious peoples <strong>of</strong> the world, at all events through theirmost <strong>in</strong>telligent members, recognize and accept a commonideal <strong>of</strong> beauty, so that to a certa<strong>in</strong> extent beauty may


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXbe said to have an objectivelyesthetic basis. This esthetichuman ideal is variously modified <strong>in</strong> different countries,and even <strong>in</strong> the same country at different periods, by atendency, prompted by a <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse which is notnecessarily <strong>in</strong> harmony with esthetic canons, to emphasizeor to repress one or other <strong>of</strong> the prom<strong>in</strong>ent secondary<strong>sex</strong>ual characters.Another tendency which is apt to an even greater extentto limit the cultivation o the purely esthetic ideal <strong>of</strong>beauty is the <strong>in</strong>fluence <strong>of</strong> national or racial type.To therace the woman who most com-the mostaverage man <strong>of</strong> everypletely embodies the type <strong>of</strong> his race is usuallybeautiful, and even mutilations and deformations <strong>of</strong>tenhave their orig<strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong> the effort to accentuate the racialand con-type. Eastern women possess by nature largespicuous eyes, and this characteristic they seek still furtherto heighten byart. The A<strong>in</strong>u are the hairiest <strong>of</strong> races,and there is noth<strong>in</strong>g which they consider so beautiful ashair.It is difficult to be <strong>sex</strong>ually attracted to persons whoare fundamentally unlike ourselves <strong>in</strong> racial constitution.Thus it frequently happens that this admiration for ourown racial characteristics leads to the idealization <strong>of</strong> featureswhich are far removed from esthetic beauty. Thefirm and rounded breast is certa<strong>in</strong>ly a feature <strong>of</strong> beauty,but among many <strong>of</strong> the black peoples <strong>of</strong> Africa the breastsfall at an early age, and here we sometimes f<strong>in</strong>d that thehang<strong>in</strong>g breast is admired as beautiful.To make the analysis <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual beauty fairly completemust be added at least one other factor: the <strong>in</strong>fluence <strong>of</strong><strong>in</strong>dividual taste. Every <strong>in</strong>dividual, at all events <strong>in</strong> civilization,with<strong>in</strong> certa<strong>in</strong> narrow limits builds up a fem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>eideal <strong>of</strong> his own, <strong>in</strong> part on the basis <strong>of</strong> his special organizationand its demands, <strong>in</strong> part on the actual accidental


THE BIOLOGY OF SEXattractions he has experienced. It isunnecessary to emphasizethe existence <strong>of</strong> this factor, which has always to betaken <strong>in</strong>to account <strong>in</strong> every consideration <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual selection<strong>in</strong> civilized man. But its variations are numerous, and<strong>in</strong> impassioned lovers it may even lead to the idealization<strong>of</strong> features which are <strong>in</strong> reality the reverse <strong>of</strong> beautiful.We here approach the field <strong>of</strong> morbid <strong>sex</strong>ual deviations.It is thus that we have to recognize another factor <strong>in</strong>the constitution <strong>of</strong> the ideal <strong>of</strong> beauty, one perhaps exclu*sively found under civilized conditions: the love <strong>of</strong> theunusual, the remote, the exotic. It iscommonly statedthat rarity is admired <strong>in</strong> beauty. This isnot strictly true,except as regards comb<strong>in</strong>ations and characters which varyonly <strong>in</strong> a slight degree from the generally admired type."Jucundum nihil estquod non reficit variatas" accord<strong>in</strong>gto an ancient say<strong>in</strong>g. The greater nervous restlessness andsensitivity <strong>of</strong> civilization heightens this tendency, which isnot <strong>in</strong>frequently found also among men <strong>of</strong> artistic genius.In every great center <strong>of</strong> civilization the national ideal<strong>of</strong> beauty tends to be somewhat modified <strong>in</strong> exotic directions,and foreign ideals, as well as foreign fashions, becomepreferred to those that are native.Beauty, if thus the chief, is not the sole, element <strong>in</strong> the<strong>sex</strong>ual appeal <strong>of</strong> vision. In all parts <strong>of</strong> the world this hasbeen well understood, and <strong>in</strong> courtship, <strong>in</strong> the effort toarouse tumescence, the appeals to vision have been multipliedand at the same time aided by other secondaryappeals.Thus we have scoptophilia (mixoscopia) or the <strong>sex</strong>ualexcitement aroused by the sight <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual scenes, or evensimply <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual organs <strong>of</strong> the opposite <strong>sex</strong>. To someextent this is entirely normal, its shamefaced manifestationsbe<strong>in</strong>g simply due to the rigid conventional secrecy<strong>in</strong> which the naked body is held. Many estimable men[73]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXhave <strong>in</strong> youth sought secret opportunities <strong>of</strong> watch<strong>in</strong>gestimable womenwomen <strong>in</strong> their bedrooms and manylooked through the keyholes <strong>of</strong> men's bedrooms, thoughthey would not like to acknowledgethis. It is <strong>in</strong>deed acommon habit for landladies and servant-girls to fix theireyes at the keyholes <strong>of</strong> rooms where are couples whomwho cultivate thisthey suspect may be lovers. The personsmixoscopia recklessly are commonly termed "peepers."These manifestations have sometimes attracted the attention<strong>of</strong> the police, notably <strong>in</strong> Paris, and women I knowhave detected men watch<strong>in</strong>g them through the skylightat the back <strong>of</strong> public conveniences <strong>in</strong> the TuileriesGardens.In another form we have the <strong>sex</strong>ual attraction <strong>of</strong> pictures,not necessarily lascivious <strong>in</strong> character, <strong>of</strong> eroticscenes, and the <strong>sex</strong>ual attraction <strong>of</strong> statues. This is on theone hand the psychologicalsource <strong>of</strong> what is commonlycalled pornography (<strong>in</strong>correctly s<strong>in</strong>ce it has no specialconnection with brothels) and on the other hand <strong>of</strong> the<strong>sex</strong>ual deviation known as Pygmalionism from the classicstory <strong>of</strong> Pygmalion fall<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> love with the statue he hadhimself made. While the <strong>in</strong>terest <strong>in</strong> erotic scenes and <strong>in</strong>erotic picturesis natural and normal, when it does notbecome an absorb<strong>in</strong>g passion, Pygmalionismis morbidbecause the adored objectis an end <strong>in</strong> itself. Pygmalionismhas chiefly been observed <strong>in</strong> men, but Hirschfeldmentions a lady, mov<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> the best social circles, who wasobserved <strong>in</strong> a museum lift<strong>in</strong>g the fig-leaffrom classicstatues, and cover<strong>in</strong>g the place beneath with kisses. Theerotic attraction <strong>of</strong> picturesis now ma<strong>in</strong>ly manifested, andon the widest scale, through the c<strong>in</strong>ema, the <strong>in</strong>fluencebe<strong>in</strong>g the more powerful because <strong>of</strong> the mov<strong>in</strong>g and lifelikenature <strong>of</strong> the pictures presented. Very many people,especially young women, go even<strong>in</strong>g after even<strong>in</strong>g to the[74]


THE BIOLOGY OF SEXc<strong>in</strong>ema to gaze <strong>in</strong> a state <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual excitement at an adoredhero,perhaps liv<strong>in</strong>g thousands <strong>of</strong> miles away, whom <strong>in</strong>real life they will never see.An important secondary appeal to vision associated withmovement is that which takes the form <strong>of</strong> danc<strong>in</strong>g. Herewe have what Sadger has called muscle erotism, and Healydescribes as muscle and jo<strong>in</strong>t pleasure comb<strong>in</strong>ed with"sk<strong>in</strong> erotism." In danc<strong>in</strong>g there is spectacle comb<strong>in</strong>edwith muscular action, each becom<strong>in</strong>g under some conditionsa <strong>sex</strong>ual stimulus, and the spectacle sometimes moreso than the exercise. Among many savage races danc<strong>in</strong>g is<strong>of</strong>ten a highly important method <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual selection, theskilful and athletic dancers rightly warrant<strong>in</strong>g fem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>echoice. The question <strong>of</strong> the wholesome or unwholesome<strong>in</strong>fluence <strong>of</strong> danc<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> civilization has sometimes beendebated. Some years ago, Brill <strong>in</strong>vestigated this po<strong>in</strong>t <strong>in</strong>New York, among 342 men and women (friends, patients,and others whose answers could be relied on) enthusiasts,for the "new" dances, about two-thirds <strong>of</strong> them men andone-third women. He sent out these questions: (i)Dothe newyou ever become <strong>sex</strong>ually excited when danc<strong>in</strong>gdances? (2)Do you become excited when watch<strong>in</strong>gthem? (3)Do you have the same experiences danc<strong>in</strong>g orwatch<strong>in</strong>gthe old dances?To the first question 14 men and 8 women repliedyes; to the second 16 men and 29 women; to the third 11men and 6 women. Those who said "yes" to the secondquestion <strong>in</strong>cluded all who replied similarly to the firstand third. Relatively to the total number there is a veryslight excess <strong>of</strong> affirmative answers among the women;all <strong>of</strong> this group were known to Brill and regarded byhim as <strong>sex</strong>ually hyperesthetic. The great majority assertthat they are merely conscious <strong>of</strong> a sense <strong>of</strong> exhilarationand well-be<strong>in</strong>g. The question whether the "new" dances[75]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXact as gross <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>citors can be emphatically answered<strong>in</strong> the negative.Brill justly concludes that both k<strong>in</strong>ds <strong>of</strong>dances are outlets for <strong>sex</strong>ual tension, only differ<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>degree, and for nervous and hyperchondriacal women<strong>of</strong>ten <strong>of</strong> great benefit. Even when danc<strong>in</strong>g becomes anepidemic not <strong>in</strong> itself desirable, it still deserves to bebetween thecultivated <strong>in</strong> so far as it acts as a compromisetwo oppos<strong>in</strong>g streams <strong>of</strong> desire and repression, and servesas a safety valve for repressed tension.It must be added f<strong>in</strong>ally, that while beauty is primarilya quality<strong>of</strong> woman, be<strong>in</strong>g as such a perpetual meditation<strong>of</strong> men and even for women still a fem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>e qualitywhich they admire the normal woman experiences nocorrespond<strong>in</strong>g cult for the beauty <strong>of</strong> man. The perfection<strong>of</strong> the body <strong>of</strong> man is not beh<strong>in</strong>d that <strong>of</strong> woman, butthe study <strong>of</strong> it only appeals to the artist or the esthetician;it arouses <strong>sex</strong>ual enthusiasm almost exclusively <strong>in</strong> themale <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>vert. Whatever may be the case among animals,or even among savages, <strong>in</strong> civilization the man whois most successful with women is not usually the mosthandsome man, and may be the reverse <strong>of</strong> handsome."It is passion" Stendhal remarks, "which we demand;beauty only furnishes probabilities." Women admire aman's strength, physical or mental, rather than his beauty.The spectacle <strong>of</strong> force, while it rema<strong>in</strong>s with<strong>in</strong> the field<strong>of</strong> vision, really br<strong>in</strong>gs to us, although unconsciously,impressions that are correlated with another sense that<strong>of</strong> touch. We <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ctively and unconsciously translatevisible energy <strong>in</strong>to energy <strong>of</strong> pressure. In admir<strong>in</strong>gstrength we are really admir<strong>in</strong>g a tactile quality which hasbeen made visible. It may therefore be said that, whilethrough vision men are <strong>sex</strong>ually affected ma<strong>in</strong>ly by themore purely visual quality <strong>of</strong> beauty, women are morestrongly affected by visual impressions which express qual-[76]


THE BIOLOGY OF SEXities belong<strong>in</strong>g to the more fundamentally <strong>sex</strong>ual sense <strong>of</strong>touch.In a woman the crav<strong>in</strong>g for visual expression <strong>of</strong> pressureenergy is much more pronounced and predom<strong>in</strong>ant than<strong>in</strong> a man. It is not difficult to see why this should be so,even without fall<strong>in</strong>g back on the usual explanation that<strong>sex</strong>ual selection implies that the female shall choose themale who will be the most likely father <strong>of</strong> strong childrenand the best protector <strong>of</strong> his family. The more energeticpart <strong>in</strong> physical love belongs to the man, the more passivepart to the woman; so that, while energy <strong>in</strong> a woman isno <strong>in</strong>dex to effectiveness <strong>in</strong> love, energy <strong>in</strong> a man furnishesa seem<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>dex to the existence <strong>of</strong> the primaryquality <strong>of</strong> energy which a woman demands <strong>of</strong> a man <strong>in</strong>the <strong>sex</strong>ual embrace. It may be a fallacious <strong>in</strong>dex, for muscularstrengthis not necessarily correlated with <strong>sex</strong>ualvigor and <strong>in</strong> its extreme degree appears to be more correlatedwith its absence. But it furnishes "the probability1<strong>of</strong> passion/ and <strong>in</strong> any case it still rema<strong>in</strong>s a symbol whichcannot be without itseffect. We must not, <strong>of</strong> course, supposethat these considerations are always or <strong>of</strong>ten presentto the consciousness <strong>of</strong> the maiden who "blush<strong>in</strong>gly turnsfrom Adonis to Hercules/ 'but the emotional attitude isrooted <strong>in</strong> more or less unerr<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>cts. In this way ithappensthat even <strong>in</strong> the field <strong>of</strong> -visual attraction <strong>sex</strong>ualselection <strong>in</strong>fluences women on the underly<strong>in</strong>g basis <strong>of</strong>the more primitive sense <strong>of</strong> touch, the fundamentally <strong>sex</strong>ualsense.The <strong>sex</strong>ual enjoyment aroused by the spectacle <strong>of</strong> graceful,skilful, or athletic movement was by Fr6 termedex-ergophily, and <strong>in</strong> a pronounced degreeit is specially hibited by women, and is dist<strong>in</strong>ct from the more morbidpleasure occasionally aroused by scenes <strong>of</strong> horror andcase <strong>of</strong> extremecruelty. F6r brought forward a typical[77]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXergophily <strong>in</strong> a young married woman who was unableto respond to the affection <strong>of</strong> her husband though shehad no compla<strong>in</strong>tto make <strong>of</strong> him. She was a delicate childand at the age <strong>of</strong> four was taken to see a travel<strong>in</strong>g countrycircus company; she was so impressed and excited by thejuggl<strong>in</strong>g performance with balls <strong>of</strong> a little girl scarcelyolder than herself that she felt strange warm sensations<strong>in</strong> the genital region followed by a k<strong>in</strong>d <strong>of</strong> spasm andwetted herself. (When such a spasm occurs <strong>in</strong> early lifedetumescence may take the form <strong>of</strong> ur<strong>in</strong>ation.) Afterthat the little juggler became a day-dream with her, andsometimes a sleep<strong>in</strong>g dream, followed by the same sensationsand micturition. After puberty at 14 she saw at acircus an elegant and accomplished athlete who produced<strong>in</strong> her the same effects, and then the little juggler andthe athlete alternated <strong>in</strong> her dream. At 16 after a moun-and awoketa<strong>in</strong> excursion and a rich meal she fell asleepwith the vision <strong>of</strong> the athlete and a powerful orgasm, but,to her satisfaction, no ur<strong>in</strong>ation (detumescence hav<strong>in</strong>gceased to be vesical). She came to live <strong>in</strong> Paris, and soonall skilful or energetic mascul<strong>in</strong>e activities, <strong>in</strong> theaters,workshops, etc., proved sources <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual pleasure. Marriagemade no difference, though later she came to anexplanation with her husband. In m<strong>in</strong>or degree, ergophilymay be considered normal.To sum up,itmay be said that beauty is not, as somehave supposed, a mere matter <strong>of</strong> caprice.It rests <strong>in</strong> parton (i)an objective basis <strong>of</strong> esthetic nature which holdsall its variations together and leads to a remarkable approximationamong the ideals <strong>of</strong> fem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>e beauty cherishedby the most <strong>in</strong>telligent men <strong>of</strong> all races. But beyondthis general objective basis we f<strong>in</strong>d that (2) the specificcharacters <strong>of</strong> the race or nation tend to cause divergence<strong>in</strong> the ideals <strong>of</strong> beauty, s<strong>in</strong>ce beauty is <strong>of</strong>ten held to con-


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXpreponderant element has to be recognized <strong>in</strong> the shape<strong>of</strong> a regard for strength and vigor. This is not purely avisual character, but a tactile pressurecharacter translated<strong>in</strong>to visual terms.To state the <strong>sex</strong>ual ideal is not, however, by any meansto state the complete problem <strong>of</strong> human <strong>sex</strong>ual selection.The ideal that is desired and sought is, <strong>in</strong> a large measure,not the outcome <strong>of</strong> experience; it is not even necessarilythe expression <strong>of</strong> the <strong>in</strong>dividual's temperament and idiosyncrasy.It may be largely the result <strong>of</strong> fortuitous circumstances,<strong>of</strong> slight chance attractions <strong>in</strong> childhood, <strong>of</strong> acceptedtraditions consecrated by romance. In the actualcontacts <strong>of</strong> life the <strong>in</strong>dividual may f<strong>in</strong>d that his <strong>sex</strong>ualimpulse is stirred by sensory stimuli which are other thanthose <strong>of</strong> the ideal he had cherished and may even be thereverse <strong>of</strong> them.Beyond this also, we have reason for believ<strong>in</strong>g that factors<strong>of</strong> a still more fundamentally biological character,to some extent deeper even than all these psychic elements,enter <strong>in</strong>to the problem <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual selection. Certa<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>dividuals, apart altogether from the question <strong>of</strong> whetherthey are ideally or practicallythe most fit mates, displaya greater energy and achieve a greater success than others<strong>in</strong> secur<strong>in</strong>g partners. These <strong>in</strong>dividuals possess a greaterconstitutional vigor, physical or mental, which conducesto their success <strong>in</strong> practical affairs generally, and probablyalso heightens their specifically philogamic activities.Thus, the problem<strong>of</strong> human <strong>sex</strong>ual selection is <strong>in</strong>the highest degree complicated. When we gather togethersuch scanty data <strong>of</strong> precise nature as are at present available,we realize that, while generally harmoniz<strong>in</strong>g withthe results which the evidence not <strong>of</strong> a quantitative naturewould lead us to accept, their precise significanceis notat present altogether clear. It would appear on the whole[80]


THE BIOLOGY OF SEXthat <strong>in</strong> choos<strong>in</strong>g a mate we tend to seek parity <strong>of</strong> racialand anthropological characters together with disparity <strong>of</strong>secondary <strong>sex</strong>ual characters and complementary psychiccharacters.It isa variation, but a slight variation, that we seek.BIBLIOGRAPHYDARWIN, Descent <strong>of</strong> Man.PYCRAFT, The Courtship <strong>of</strong> Animals.HAVELOCK ELLIS, Man and Woman; Studies <strong>in</strong> the <strong>Psychology</strong><strong>of</strong> Sex; Vol. IV, "Sexual Selection <strong>in</strong> Man/'WESTERMARCK, The History <strong>of</strong> Human Marriage, Vol. I.CRAWLEY, The Mystic Rose, edited by Besterman.ALEXANDER STONE, The Study <strong>of</strong> Phallicism.A. A. BRILL, "The Psychopathology <strong>of</strong> the New Dances,"New York Medical Journal, 25th April, 1914.


CHAPTER IIITHE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN YOUTHThe First Appearance <strong>of</strong>the Sexual Impulsehad no existence at all. That belief was not so com-to ma<strong>in</strong>-IT used to be believed that <strong>in</strong> childhood the <strong>sex</strong> impulsemon as some have supposed. But if it is possibleta<strong>in</strong> that the <strong>sex</strong> impulse has no normal existence <strong>in</strong> earlylife, then every manifestation <strong>of</strong> it at that period must be"perverse," and even Freud, who regards <strong>in</strong>fantile <strong>sex</strong>ualityas normal, also regards it as "perverse/ 7as he phrasesit, "polymorph-perverse." In any discussion <strong>of</strong> the matter,however brief, it is essential to clear upthis confusion.It must be said at the outset that what may fairly betermed manifestations <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse even whenwe do not adopt a wide extension <strong>of</strong> the term "<strong>sex</strong>ual"are undoubtedly much more frequent than was formerly<strong>in</strong> theirsupposed. There is also a much greater rangeforce, their precocity,and their nature than has been commonlysuspected.Even <strong>in</strong> the primary and <strong>in</strong>itial aptitude <strong>of</strong> the genitalorgans for <strong>sex</strong>ual stimulation there is a fundamental range<strong>of</strong> variation. The aptitude <strong>of</strong> some <strong>in</strong>fants at an early ageto manifest genital reactions, which were usually regardedas reflex signs <strong>of</strong> irritation, was long ago a familiar observation.Such manifestations do not persist <strong>in</strong> memory, sothat we have no direct evidence as to whether or not they<strong>of</strong> both <strong>sex</strong>es can recallare pleasurable, but many personsagreeable sensations connected with the genital organs <strong>in</strong>[8*1


THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN YOUTHchildhood; they are not (as is sometimes imag<strong>in</strong>ed) repressed;what is repressed, and usually <strong>in</strong>deed not experienced,is the impulse to mention them to grown-up persons,and they are commonly not mentioned to any one.But they tend to persist <strong>in</strong> memory because they standout <strong>of</strong> relation to ord<strong>in</strong>ary experience and <strong>in</strong> strik<strong>in</strong>g contrastto it.Def<strong>in</strong>ite <strong>sex</strong>ual self-excitement has long been known tooccur at an early age. Early <strong>in</strong> the n<strong>in</strong>eteenth centuryvarious authors <strong>in</strong> France and elsewhere Marc, Fonssagrives,Perez, etc. gave cases <strong>of</strong> children <strong>of</strong> both <strong>sex</strong>eswho masturbated from the age <strong>of</strong> three or four. Robiefound that <strong>in</strong> boys the first <strong>sex</strong> feel<strong>in</strong>gs occur between theages <strong>of</strong> 5 and 14, <strong>in</strong> girls between 8 and 19; <strong>in</strong> both boysand girls these first manifestations more frequently appeardur<strong>in</strong>g the later than the earlier years. Hamilton, <strong>in</strong> hismore carefully detailed <strong>in</strong>quiry, has found that 20 percent, males and 14 per cent, females f<strong>in</strong>d pleasure <strong>in</strong> their<strong>sex</strong> organs before the age <strong>of</strong> six. Kathar<strong>in</strong>e Davis, compar<strong>in</strong>ggroups <strong>of</strong> men and women, found that 20.9 per cent,boys began to masturbate up to and <strong>in</strong>clud<strong>in</strong>g the age <strong>of</strong>11, and 49.1 per cent, girls, though dur<strong>in</strong>g the next threeyears the percentage <strong>of</strong> boys was much <strong>in</strong> excess <strong>of</strong> thegirls. It is a mistake to suppose that all children experience,or are capable <strong>of</strong> experienc<strong>in</strong>g, genital excitementor pleasurable <strong>sex</strong>ual sensations. Crucial cases occur <strong>in</strong>which the child, <strong>in</strong>nocently led away by another childwho gives assurance that friction will favor the development<strong>of</strong> the penis <strong>in</strong> size, will <strong>in</strong> this <strong>in</strong>nocence sedulouslytry to procure the supposed benefit but without atta<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong> any degree either genital reaction or sensory pleasure,although <strong>in</strong> due course at puberty, if not before, the organbecomes fully excitable. There is thus a wide range <strong>of</strong>genital and <strong>sex</strong>ual aptitude <strong>in</strong> childhood. How far the[83]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXdifferences are due to def<strong>in</strong>itely different hereditary antecedentsit is not always easy to say. On the whole it wouldappear, as we should expect, that the child <strong>of</strong> sound andexcitable <strong>in</strong> childhood, andsolid ancestry is less <strong>sex</strong>uallythe child <strong>of</strong> more unsound heredity or <strong>of</strong> hyper<strong>sex</strong>ualparents more precociously excitable. This is def<strong>in</strong>itelysuggested by Dr. Hamilton's <strong>in</strong>quiries which <strong>in</strong>dicate thatthe later <strong>sex</strong> life beg<strong>in</strong>s the more satisfactory marriageturns out.The subject becomes more complex when we go beyondlocalized genital phenomena <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>. And here we en*counter the libido <strong>of</strong> the psycho-analysts. In early daysthat met with violent opposition when applied to <strong>in</strong>fancyand childhood, nor can it be said that the opposition hasbeen entirely overcome. It is now recognized, however,that much depends on the way <strong>in</strong> which we def<strong>in</strong>e theterm libido. Like many Freudian terms, it was not happilychosen, and it is not easy to dissociate it from the Englishterm 'libid<strong>in</strong>ous/' Jung, the most dist<strong>in</strong>guished psychoanalystoutside the Freudian school, dissociates libido, <strong>in</strong>deed,from any special connection with <strong>sex</strong> and takes it<strong>in</strong> a wide sense as "psychic energy** correspond<strong>in</strong>g to the"elan vital" <strong>of</strong> Bergson, or, <strong>in</strong> English, "vital urge," whichis the term some people would like to use, for there isno doubt that we cannot dissociate the term "libido" fromdef<strong>in</strong>itely <strong>sex</strong> energy. Freud has wavered <strong>in</strong> his view <strong>of</strong>libido and itsdevelopment. As he remarks <strong>in</strong> his illum<strong>in</strong>at<strong>in</strong>gessay on the "Infantile Organization <strong>of</strong> theLibido" (1923), at one time he emphasized its early pregenitalorganization, though later he came to accept aclose approximation <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>uality <strong>of</strong> childhood to adult<strong>sex</strong>uality. But the <strong>in</strong>fantile genital organization, he goeson to say, really <strong>in</strong>volves the primacy <strong>of</strong> the phallus, whichhe regards as the only genital organ recognized <strong>in</strong> child-[84]


THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN YOUTHhood. At the same time he speaks <strong>of</strong> a "pre-genital" phaseand asserts that "not until puberty does the polarity <strong>of</strong><strong>sex</strong>uality co<strong>in</strong>cide with male and female/' Some have de-


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXFreud remarks) essentially an impulse <strong>of</strong> curiosity, whichsome mothers unfortunately repress and so drive <strong>in</strong> andunduly emphasize. Here are the most "curious" parts <strong>of</strong>the body, the parts (with f<strong>in</strong>gers and toes) that for achild are most like playth<strong>in</strong>gs. This <strong>in</strong>terest may lead onto pleasurable sensation, but for most children it wouldappear that what may be regarded as <strong>sex</strong>ual sensation isoutside the genital sphere, be<strong>in</strong>g <strong>sex</strong>ual sensation <strong>of</strong> thethreshold, that is to say sensation <strong>of</strong> a k<strong>in</strong>d that would<strong>in</strong> an adult lie on the threshold <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual sphere andlead up to it (thus legitimately belong<strong>in</strong>g to the art olove)The difference is that such sensations <strong>in</strong> the child,.while pleasurable, do not usually pass over the threshold<strong>of</strong> the actual <strong>sex</strong>ual sensation.Such phenomena are <strong>in</strong> the first place most usually<strong>in</strong> the oral region. This we should expect, as the mostacute pleasure <strong>of</strong> the <strong>in</strong>fant could scarcely failto be derivedfrom the sensitive lips <strong>of</strong> the mouth <strong>in</strong> contact withthe milk-yield<strong>in</strong>g nipple <strong>of</strong> the mother. S<strong>in</strong>ce the nioutliis an erogenic or <strong>sex</strong>ually stimulat<strong>in</strong>g zone <strong>in</strong> adult lifewe cannot be surprised that it should be a pleasure-centeron the <strong>sex</strong>ual threshold even <strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong>fancy. Thumb-suck<strong>in</strong>gsometimes becomes a substitute for nipple-suck<strong>in</strong>g whenit is unatta<strong>in</strong>able or outgrown; it is held by some althoughthe op<strong>in</strong>ion is disputed by numerous authoritiesthat <strong>in</strong> predisposed children this may be a k<strong>in</strong>d <strong>of</strong> masturbationand later lead on to ord<strong>in</strong>ary masturbation. It is apractice found among a considerable and vary<strong>in</strong>g proportion<strong>of</strong> young children <strong>of</strong> both <strong>sex</strong>es and may even beg<strong>in</strong>immediately after birth.Only second to the emergence <strong>of</strong> the oral center isprobablythe anal center. As long as the motions are passedautomatically and without restra<strong>in</strong>t there is little opportunityfor the anal region to become a pleasure center.[86]


THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN YOUTHBut as soon as any restra<strong>in</strong>t is imposed gratification <strong>in</strong>the dischargesis certa<strong>in</strong> to be felt and the pleasurable sensitivity<strong>of</strong> the anus is liable to become developed;it is<strong>of</strong>ten <strong>in</strong> later years an erogenic zone, though not so <strong>of</strong>tenor so pr<strong>of</strong>oundly as the oral region <strong>in</strong> the adult. It is heldby some psycho-analysts that at an early age there is <strong>in</strong>some subjects a tendency to reta<strong>in</strong> the feces with apleasure aim, and that such a tendency is significant forlater psychic development; this, however, has been deniedthe discharge itself,by others as not easy to prove. Much the same may besaid <strong>of</strong> the ur<strong>in</strong>ary discharge, though here the pleasure,alike <strong>in</strong> the <strong>in</strong>fant and the adults, is more exclusively <strong>in</strong>and some observers note that the <strong>in</strong>fantmay f<strong>in</strong>d pleasure <strong>in</strong> bestow<strong>in</strong>g this discharge on aspecially preferred person, though it is quite likely thatthis is <strong>of</strong>ten a mis<strong>in</strong>terpretation <strong>of</strong> the facts, and that thedischarge <strong>of</strong> ur<strong>in</strong>e <strong>in</strong> the <strong>in</strong>fant under the <strong>in</strong>fluence <strong>of</strong>pleasurable emotion may be no more <strong>in</strong>tentional than itis <strong>in</strong> the adult woman <strong>in</strong> whom it occasionally occurs byreflex action, and to her great vexation, dur<strong>in</strong>g the <strong>sex</strong>ualorgasm. Hamilton remarks that 21 per cent, men and16 per cent, women admit be<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>terested <strong>in</strong> ur<strong>in</strong>e orplay<strong>in</strong>g with it <strong>in</strong> early life, and exactly the same percentageas regards feces.On the psychic side there is even less doubt <strong>of</strong> theliability <strong>of</strong> children to experience emotions which mayfairly be called <strong>sex</strong>ual than there is on the physical side.Many years ago Sanford Bell showed, on a collective basis,the frequency <strong>of</strong> these manifestations, which al 1have hadoccasions to observe sometimes. His report mayread with pr<strong>of</strong>it.He had studied the question for fifteenyears, both <strong>in</strong> and out <strong>of</strong> schools, and personally observed800 cases, while he had obta<strong>in</strong>ed records <strong>of</strong> 1,700 otherstill becases (thus 2,500 <strong>in</strong> all)from 360 other observers <strong>of</strong>


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXwhom only five could recall no experience<strong>of</strong> that k<strong>in</strong>dfrom their own childhood, a fact which <strong>in</strong>dicates thatit is a mistake to suppose that repression <strong>of</strong> such earlyexperiences is common; when repressionoccurs it is evidentlyabnormal and probably due to <strong>in</strong>born peculiarities.Bell found that emotion <strong>of</strong> this k<strong>in</strong>d may be witnessedas early as the middle <strong>of</strong> the third year, and that <strong>in</strong> thenature <strong>of</strong> its manifestations there tend to be several stages<strong>of</strong> which the first usually cont<strong>in</strong>ues to the age <strong>of</strong> eight,and the second to the age <strong>of</strong> fourteen. In the first stage theboy is usually more modest and less aggressive than thegirl. The emotion is detected by a number <strong>of</strong> little signswhich it is difficult to avoid assign<strong>in</strong>g to <strong>sex</strong> orig<strong>in</strong>. Atendency to hug and kiss common isbut does not alwaysoccur, and there isfrequentlya desire to conceal theemotion from its object and from any one else. While someform <strong>of</strong> touch contact isfrequently sought it is not generallyspecifically <strong>sex</strong>ual, and when it is Bell was <strong>in</strong>cl<strong>in</strong>edto regard the case as precocious. The erethism, as he wellremarks, is not usually (thoughitmay be)the <strong>sex</strong> organs, but it is distributed throughoutmanifested <strong>in</strong>the entirebody, especially the vascular and nervous systems. Spr<strong>in</strong>gis the period <strong>of</strong> the year when these manifestations aremost likely to occur.Students <strong>of</strong> childhood, psycho-analytic and others, haves<strong>in</strong>ce confirmed and elaborated these observations. Freudhas aga<strong>in</strong> and aga<strong>in</strong> dealt with the matter, and OskarPfister, <strong>in</strong> his extensive and discursive work on love <strong>in</strong>children and its defects <strong>of</strong> development, comes to theconclusion that there is an amaz<strong>in</strong>g and unsuspected multiplicity<strong>of</strong> manifestations <strong>in</strong> the love sentiments <strong>of</strong>children.It is, as already <strong>in</strong>dicated, characteristic <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual orpseudo-<strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>terests <strong>of</strong> children that they should[88]


THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN YOUTHma<strong>in</strong>ly fall outside the sphere which for the adult is that<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> proper, partly because on the physical side thegenital centers are stillundeveloped and partly becauseon the psychic side the opposite <strong>sex</strong> has not yet usuallyacquired the def<strong>in</strong>ite significance which after pubertysooner or later it possesses.An <strong>in</strong>terest<strong>in</strong>g and <strong>of</strong>ten overlooked trait <strong>of</strong> childish<strong>sex</strong>uality is algolagnia, or a pleasurable <strong>in</strong>terest <strong>in</strong> pa<strong>in</strong>,this <strong>in</strong>clud<strong>in</strong>g pleasure <strong>in</strong> the witness<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> pa<strong>in</strong>, the <strong>in</strong>flict<strong>in</strong>g<strong>of</strong> pa<strong>in</strong>, or the experienc<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> it. Various adultto these manifestations suchnames are commonly appliedas "cruelty," "sadism," "masochism," etc., and this isprobably<strong>in</strong>evitable because it is only so that adults can expla<strong>in</strong>to themselves these manifestations <strong>of</strong> the childish psyche.But they are mislead<strong>in</strong>g and unfortunate for they are faraway from the aims <strong>of</strong> childhood. The child has not, for<strong>in</strong>stance, yet formulated the humanely adult notion <strong>of</strong>"cruelty," and when we remember that even for manyadults it has no clear existence we cannot be surprisedthat it is alien to the children who amiably and pleasantlywitness the suffer<strong>in</strong>gs <strong>of</strong> the lower animals and <strong>of</strong>tenthemselves <strong>in</strong>crease or cause them. Children are at workor, if you wish, at play <strong>in</strong> the exercise-ground <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>quisitivereason and as yet undifferentiated emotion: thefossilized rules <strong>of</strong> adult morality are here misplaced. It isthe function <strong>of</strong> education, <strong>in</strong> the proper sense <strong>of</strong> that term(for the fallacy that education means putt<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> and notto helpbr<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong>g out is still common among the ignorant) ,the child to educe <strong>in</strong> due course the activities <strong>of</strong> later life,and to make clear to him, as soon as his comprehensionpermits, that his own early unrestra<strong>in</strong>ed impulses do notwork <strong>in</strong> the adult world. The fact that we are here primarilyconcerned with exercises <strong>in</strong> the field <strong>of</strong> emotion,only <strong>in</strong>cidently liable to reach the threshold <strong>of</strong> pa<strong>in</strong>, is[89]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXshown <strong>in</strong> the child's equal or greater lik<strong>in</strong>g to suffer its<strong>in</strong>fliction. Games <strong>of</strong> "punishment" with much reciprocalsmack<strong>in</strong>g have always been privately popular among children<strong>of</strong> both <strong>sex</strong>es, perhaps especially girls, the hair-brush<strong>of</strong>ten be<strong>in</strong>g used for this purpose. Self-flagellation is alsosometimes practised,and even after puberty,when thegenital centers are fully active, may be jit adopted byeither <strong>sex</strong> to heighten the solitary pleasure <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ualimpulse <strong>in</strong> the absence <strong>of</strong> a person <strong>of</strong> the opposite <strong>sex</strong>.Day-drearns<strong>of</strong> torture are a not uncommon source <strong>of</strong>pleasure even among young children, and at a rather laterage one has heard <strong>of</strong> Foxe's Book <strong>of</strong> Martyrs prov<strong>in</strong>g asource <strong>of</strong> thrill<strong>in</strong>g delight. Sometimes the child experiencesan irresistible impulse to <strong>in</strong>flict pa<strong>in</strong> on himselfand <strong>of</strong>ten on his penis, which <strong>in</strong>dicates that, even if nota source <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual excitement <strong>in</strong> the adult sense, thepenis is already a center <strong>of</strong> emotional <strong>in</strong>terest. Such factsrecall the castration-complex to which some psycho-analystsattach enormous importance. A str<strong>in</strong>g may bestrongly tied round the penis; or it may even be violentlystruck; and the case has lately been recorded <strong>of</strong> a girl <strong>of</strong>n<strong>in</strong>e who tied a thread round her clitoris and was unableto remove it,so that surgical <strong>in</strong>terference became necessary.Sensation and emotion are still <strong>in</strong> a comparativelydiffused and as it were uncrystallized form. As the realization<strong>of</strong> pa<strong>in</strong> is so early necessary <strong>in</strong> life for self-preservationit is <strong>in</strong>evitable that pa<strong>in</strong>ful emotions should be those <strong>in</strong>which the stillvague pleasure impulses tend to take shape.all beHamilton found that among his subjects, who maysaid to be <strong>of</strong> high character and culture, only 49 per cent,men and 68 per cent, women never experience pleasure <strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>flict<strong>in</strong>g pa<strong>in</strong>; while nearly 30 percent, <strong>of</strong> both menand women had had pleasure <strong>in</strong> experienc<strong>in</strong>g pa<strong>in</strong>.How far we are here from adult isdevelopments shown[901


THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN YOUTHby the now well recognized fact that neither similarity <strong>of</strong><strong>sex</strong> nor closeness <strong>of</strong> blood relationship provides any bar tothese manifestations. The adult who succeeds <strong>in</strong> discern<strong>in</strong>gthe occurrence <strong>of</strong> such manifestations beg<strong>in</strong>s to talksolemnly and pedantically <strong>of</strong> "homo<strong>sex</strong>uality" and "<strong>in</strong>cest"and the "(Edipus complex," without realiz<strong>in</strong>g theabsurdity he isperpetrat<strong>in</strong>g. He would <strong>in</strong>deed be speak<strong>in</strong>gquite rationally if he were deal<strong>in</strong>g with the like phenomena<strong>in</strong> his own grown-up world. There can T)e nohomo<strong>sex</strong>uality when there is yet no conception <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>uality,and no <strong>in</strong>cest before the barriers <strong>of</strong> relationship areknown. As a dist<strong>in</strong>guished psycho-analyst, Dr. Jelliffe hassaid <strong>of</strong> 'this manner <strong>of</strong> label<strong>in</strong>g the impulsive activity <strong>of</strong>childhood, "express<strong>in</strong>git <strong>in</strong> terms <strong>of</strong> conscious adultactivity is nonsense." Even apart from <strong>sex</strong>, the best psychologists<strong>of</strong> childhood (like Stern <strong>in</strong> his <strong>Psychology</strong> <strong>of</strong>Early Childhood) are try<strong>in</strong>g to make clear that we mustnot measure children by our psychic powers, but learn tounderstand their different natures. Until we have realizedthis, until we have cleared away the elaborate structure<strong>of</strong> childhood <strong>sex</strong>uality erected on the adult pattern byadults who seem to have lost all memory <strong>of</strong> youth, we shallwander among va<strong>in</strong> shadows <strong>in</strong> this field. Here certa<strong>in</strong>lyis a k<strong>in</strong>gdom <strong>of</strong> knowledge <strong>in</strong>to which only those canenter who become as little children.At this po<strong>in</strong>t it is necessary to refer to a psychologicaltrait to which psycho-analysts, above all Freud, who firstcalled attention to it, have <strong>in</strong> the past,and to some extentfor what we hereby mean psychologicallyissimplystill, attached supreme importance: the so-called CEdipuscomplex. It is not, on the surface, quite happily so called,an attraction<strong>of</strong> love (a "wish to marry") the parent <strong>of</strong> opposite<strong>sex</strong>, on the part<strong>of</strong> the young child, with a correspond<strong>in</strong>gjealousy <strong>of</strong> the parent <strong>of</strong> the same <strong>sex</strong>. Whereas <strong>in</strong>


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXthe myth OEdipus experienced no such feel<strong>in</strong>gs,but wascompelled by the oracle and the gods to marry his motherand kill his father unwitt<strong>in</strong>gly, <strong>in</strong> spite <strong>of</strong> all his ownstruggles to avoid these crimes; but this opposition Freudexpla<strong>in</strong>s away by say<strong>in</strong>g that oracle and gods were a glorifiedembodiment <strong>of</strong> the Unconscious. Freud's (Edipuscomplex, when he first put it forward some thirty yearsago certa<strong>in</strong>ly <strong>in</strong> an <strong>in</strong>cautious way and with a misapplieduse <strong>of</strong> the word "<strong>in</strong>cest" was, as he frequently stated,greeted with horror and execration. That attitude, to one<strong>of</strong> his strong and combative temperament, merely arouseda more emphatic assertion <strong>of</strong> the doctr<strong>in</strong>e. In some degree,<strong>in</strong> some form or another, even an <strong>in</strong>verted form, the CEdipuscomplex, Freud declared, "is a regular and very importantfactor <strong>in</strong> the mental life <strong>of</strong> the child." He went onto f<strong>in</strong>d that "it does not seem impossible" that the CEdipuscomplex is the source <strong>of</strong> all perversions and also "theactual nucleus <strong>of</strong> the neuroses." Rank, at the time closelyassociated with him, showed with the help <strong>of</strong> his wideliterary culture how frequently and variously this motivehad entered dramatic poetry. F<strong>in</strong>ally <strong>in</strong> 1913, <strong>in</strong> Totemand Taboo, Freud developed a conception <strong>of</strong> the CEdipuscomplex as ly<strong>in</strong>g at the root <strong>of</strong> primitive morality, furnish<strong>in</strong>gthat sense <strong>of</strong> guilt which to Freud seems "theultimate source <strong>of</strong> religion and morality," the earliestform <strong>of</strong> Kant's categorical imperative, and the first embodiment<strong>of</strong> the great cosmic figures, which, beg<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g asParents became God, Fate, Nature, what we will.But the psycho-analystswho have thus placed theCEdipus complex at the foundation <strong>of</strong> a large part <strong>of</strong>human culture have failed to realize that that complexcan only be associated, if at all, with a particular familyconstitution, and that the family, far from hav<strong>in</strong>g onlyone s<strong>in</strong>gle form <strong>of</strong> constitution, has varied widely. A[9*]


THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN YOUTHpatriarchal family, such as we have had dur<strong>in</strong>g historicaltimes <strong>in</strong> the parts <strong>of</strong> Europe best known to us, is essentialfor an CEdipus complex. But that is far from be<strong>in</strong>g a k<strong>in</strong>d<strong>of</strong> family always and everywhere known. The substance<strong>of</strong> the familyisbiological but its forms are sociallymolded. This is made clear by Mal<strong>in</strong>owski (who startedwith a bias favorable to psycho-analysis) <strong>in</strong> his book Sexand Repression <strong>in</strong> Savage Society. The complexes whichare supposed to mold culture could only have arisenunder culture, and cultures are <strong>of</strong> various k<strong>in</strong>ds. <strong>No</strong>r canwe accept a "primeval horde equipped with all the bias,maladjustments and ill-tempers <strong>of</strong> a middle-class Europeanfamily and then let loose <strong>in</strong> a prehistoric jungle."Every type <strong>of</strong> civilization cannot but have a special type<strong>of</strong> complex as itsnecessary by-product.The CEdipus complex, further, rests on the belief thatthere is a strong natural human tendency, appear<strong>in</strong>g atthe earliest age, to <strong>sex</strong> love towards near relations whichcan only be overcome by stern laws and severe repressions.It isagreed by all authorities that the free exercise <strong>of</strong><strong>in</strong>cestuous impulsesis<strong>in</strong>compatible with a family order,and that on such a basis no developed culture would belikely to arise. But authorities differ as to the naturalor unnatural character <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>cestuous impulses. Westermarckheld orig<strong>in</strong>ally that there is a def<strong>in</strong>ite natural <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ctaverse to <strong>in</strong>cest; Freud holds that there is from<strong>in</strong>fancy a strong natural <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct to <strong>in</strong>cest; Mal<strong>in</strong>owskidoes not accept the aversion to <strong>in</strong>cest as natural but asscheme <strong>of</strong> cultural<strong>in</strong>troduced by culture, "a complexreactions." The position I have long held largely harmonizesthese oppos<strong>in</strong>g views. There is a <strong>sex</strong>ual attractiontowards persons with whom there is close contact, suchpersons be<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong>ten relations, and the attraction be<strong>in</strong>gtherefore termed "<strong>in</strong>cestuous." But this is a weak attrac-[93]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXtion under normal circumstances (there are always exceptions)and is quickly overcome when a fasc<strong>in</strong>at<strong>in</strong>g newobject <strong>of</strong> desire from outside his own circle strikes theyoung beholder. There is no anti-<strong>in</strong>cestuous <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct, nonatural aversion, but a deep stirr<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ctneeds a strong excitement, and for this a new object isrequired, not one that has become commonplace by familiarity.This is a view to which Westermarck shows himselffavorable <strong>in</strong> the later edition o his great work on marriageand had previously been accepted by Crawley, aswell as by Heape. It is clear to any one who grasps thephysiology <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual process and the psychology <strong>of</strong>courtship. A typical illustration may be quoted fromRestif de la Bretonne's autobiography, Monsieur Nicolas,a precious document for erotic psychology. We here learnhow an extremely precocious child was from the age <strong>of</strong>four <strong>in</strong> some degree <strong>sex</strong>ually excitable by his female companionsand playmates, though he received their caresseswith much shyness. It was not till the age <strong>of</strong> eleven thathe became highly aroused, even to the extent <strong>of</strong> atta<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>gcoitus, and los<strong>in</strong>g all his early shyness, and this was witha girl who was a stranger and belong<strong>in</strong>g to another village.Many bad theories might have been avoided had thispsychological fact been clearly understood. There is no"aversion to <strong>in</strong>cest," but under natural conditions a deep<strong>sex</strong>ual attraction requires a powerful stimulus, and thiscannot normally arise out <strong>of</strong> familiarity.Various objections have been brought aga<strong>in</strong>st my statement<strong>of</strong> the psychological basis <strong>of</strong> exogomy, but they aredue to misunderstand<strong>in</strong>gs and also a failure to allow formany highly relevant considerations. Some critics havebeen misled by too exclusively th<strong>in</strong>k<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> the conditionsamong civilized man and domesticated animals. Somehave failed to see that there is no question <strong>of</strong> absolute <strong>in</strong>-[94]


THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN YOUTHdifference to the <strong>sex</strong>ual stimulus <strong>of</strong> familiar persons whichmay easily exist and sometimes <strong>in</strong>deed is peculiarly strong.Others have rightly <strong>in</strong>sisted that <strong>in</strong>cest isunlikely toproduce the best <strong>of</strong>fspr<strong>in</strong>g or to result <strong>in</strong> domestic peace,and that exogomy is a highly important factor <strong>in</strong> socialevolution. These <strong>in</strong>fluences may very well be responsiblefor the <strong>in</strong>cest-taboo and rema<strong>in</strong>ed responsible for ma<strong>in</strong>ta<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>git. But they could hardly have arisen except uponthe foundation and by the support <strong>of</strong> the undoubtedpsychic tendency to which I have called attention. Social<strong>in</strong>stitutions are never unnatural <strong>in</strong> orig<strong>in</strong>; they can onlyarise on a natural basis. In primitive life, moreover, wef<strong>in</strong>d, as Crawley po<strong>in</strong>ts out, a naive desire to assist Nature,as it were, by add<strong>in</strong>g to what is normal the categoricalimperative <strong>of</strong> custom and law.Today we may look back serenely on the CEdipus complexand the ferocious reactions it seems to have evoked.are viewed directly and simply, withoutWhen the factsany attempt to make them look either terrify<strong>in</strong>g or grandiloquent,or to generalize them <strong>in</strong>to universal doctr<strong>in</strong>es, itis easy to discover the very natural fact that the youngboy is attracted to his mother (the correspond<strong>in</strong>g phenomenonis the attachment <strong>of</strong> the young girl to herfather) and is jealous at first <strong>of</strong> what distracts his mother'sattention away from him. Jealousyis an entirely naturalprimitive emotion; every dog is <strong>in</strong>cl<strong>in</strong>ed to growl at aseem<strong>in</strong>g attempt to share his bone; any cat may be displeasedat the effort <strong>of</strong> a strange cat to share her plate.Many <strong>of</strong> us even the most normal and least neuroticcan recall, or have been told, that <strong>in</strong> early childhood wedisapproved at first <strong>of</strong> the appearance <strong>of</strong> a baby brotheror sister. But we can also recall that <strong>in</strong> a very short timewe were completely reconciled to the new phenomenonand were even proud to assist <strong>in</strong> lov<strong>in</strong>gly tend<strong>in</strong>g it.[95]Any


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXfeel<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> hostility to the father seldom, under normalconditions, entered at any The stage. reason is fairlyobvious. The babyis new and arouses new feel<strong>in</strong>gs; thefather has been there from the first; noth<strong>in</strong>g occurs tochange the attitude towards him; he isaccepted as amatter <strong>of</strong> course.But, we see also, the situation is undoubtedly favorableto morbid and emotional developments <strong>in</strong> constitutionallyneurotic subjects, especially under the <strong>in</strong>fluence <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>judiciousparental behavior, such as favoritism or carelessneglect. We may then have the whole cha<strong>in</strong> <strong>of</strong> manifestationsdescribed by psycho-analysts. It is necessary to bealive to these possibilities,and prepared to unravel such acase fearlessly, for the path <strong>of</strong> psychology cannot be followedexcept with courage. But it is not necessary to generalizefrom a s<strong>in</strong>gle case or even from many cases.Andit is fatal to all sound conclusions to set out with a predeterm<strong>in</strong>edpattern and to attempt to fit every case onto it.All this is now becom<strong>in</strong>g clearer and isbeg<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g to beadmitted even by psycho-analysts.Thus Rank, who wasso active <strong>in</strong> develop<strong>in</strong>g the conception <strong>of</strong> the (Edipuscomplex <strong>in</strong> its early stages, twenty years later, <strong>in</strong> his suggestivework on Modern Education remarks that "the(Edipus complex, as the attraction to the parent <strong>of</strong> theopposite <strong>sex</strong> and jealousy <strong>of</strong> the parent<strong>of</strong> the same <strong>sex</strong>,is not so clearly found <strong>in</strong> practiceas mythology representsit and as Freud at first believed," add<strong>in</strong>g that it has notbeen easily possible even for psycho-analyststo ma<strong>in</strong>ta<strong>in</strong>it. Elsewhere Rank observes that the famous "mothercomplex" is not so much a real fixation <strong>of</strong> the child onthe mother as merely a sign <strong>of</strong> the prevalence today <strong>of</strong> thebelief <strong>in</strong> the <strong>in</strong>fluence <strong>of</strong> the mother <strong>in</strong> the child's education.[963


THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN YOUTHThe castration-complexis associated by psycho-analystswith the (Edipus complex, Freud regard<strong>in</strong>g it as primarilya reaction to <strong>in</strong>timidation <strong>in</strong> the field <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>, and any restra<strong>in</strong>ton <strong>in</strong>fantile activity be<strong>in</strong>g ultimately ascribed tothe father. It sometimes happens that mothers and nurses,see<strong>in</strong>g the young child handl<strong>in</strong>g his penis, playfullythreaten to cut it <strong>of</strong>f, and the child may possibly take thethreat seriously, especially if he observes that his sisterhas no penis; while the little girl may feel it a deprivationto lack an organ her brother possesses. It is not easy toassert that those feel<strong>in</strong>gs count for much <strong>in</strong> ord<strong>in</strong>ary children,though Freud has gone so far as to claim, not onlythat the castration-complex may play a large part <strong>in</strong> theformation <strong>of</strong> neuroses but even <strong>in</strong> the formation <strong>of</strong> character<strong>in</strong> the healthy child. That the castration complex is<strong>in</strong>fluential <strong>in</strong> some neurotic persons there can be nodoubt. Some persons <strong>of</strong> keen <strong>in</strong>telligence but neuroticdisposition, when able to review their early development,have found much significance <strong>in</strong> the <strong>in</strong>fluence upon them<strong>of</strong> foolish nurses <strong>in</strong> arous<strong>in</strong>g a castration complex.The def<strong>in</strong>ite manifestation that has always most prom<strong>in</strong>entlyattracted attention <strong>in</strong> connection with this aspect<strong>of</strong> early life is that which from old time has been termed"masturbation." Here it is convenient and possibly legitimateto speak <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>uality, althoughit is not strictly correctfor we are concerned with an act which may, and<strong>of</strong>ten does, beg<strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong> a merely generalized and <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ctivesearch for pleasurable sensations. But s<strong>in</strong>ce it is an actthat is not conf<strong>in</strong>ed to early life but may occur at any age,<strong>of</strong>ten <strong>in</strong> connection with the most developed ideas <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>,it would be hypercritical to attempt to draw a l<strong>in</strong>e <strong>of</strong> dist<strong>in</strong>ction.The ancient and common name <strong>of</strong> the act <strong>in</strong>dicates themeans <strong>of</strong> theexcitation <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual zone <strong>in</strong> either <strong>sex</strong> by[973


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXhand. But commonly and quite <strong>in</strong>evitably, the word isemployed to cover all methods by which friction can beemployed to produce pleasurable sensations <strong>in</strong> the genitalsphere.<strong>No</strong> doubt the hand is the most frequent <strong>in</strong>strumentand that which, <strong>in</strong> the absence <strong>of</strong> mental <strong>in</strong>hibitionsand physical impediments, is most naturally employed.But there are many other ways: <strong>in</strong> boys, games, sports,gymnastics, even the accidental pressure <strong>of</strong> the clothesmay suffice, especially under condition <strong>of</strong> general erethism,to produce erection and even orgasm, frequently to thesurprise, and sometimes the alarm or the horror, <strong>of</strong> thesubject to whom this experience comes; states <strong>of</strong> tensionand apprehension,and spectacles arous<strong>in</strong>g emotions <strong>of</strong>horror or <strong>of</strong> pleasure, may produce the same results, aswell as actual experience <strong>of</strong> a similar k<strong>in</strong>d, such as thepunishment <strong>of</strong> whipp<strong>in</strong>g, the classical example <strong>of</strong> this be<strong>in</strong>gthe experience <strong>of</strong> young Rousseau at the hands <strong>of</strong> hisgoverness, which had, as he believed, a permanent <strong>in</strong>fluenceon his highly sensitive psychic disposition. In girls,the action <strong>of</strong> the hands, though as <strong>in</strong> boysit is the mostcommon method, is even less essential; a casual contact <strong>of</strong>the <strong>sex</strong>ual parts may prove pleasurable even <strong>in</strong> the firstchildhood and be one <strong>of</strong> a girl's earliest memories; later,contact and friction with external objects may be <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ctivelysought; small girls will, without concealment,rub themselves aga<strong>in</strong>st the corner <strong>of</strong> a chair, or the handle<strong>of</strong> a chest <strong>of</strong> drawers; young women will develop and cont<strong>in</strong>uea similar habit and even be able to excite themselvesaga<strong>in</strong>st the leg <strong>of</strong> a table at public restaurants. Withoutany extraneous help at all, it is sometimes possible for agirl to obta<strong>in</strong> excitement and orgasm by rubb<strong>in</strong>g thethighs together,or, when <strong>in</strong> a favorable emotional state,by press<strong>in</strong>g them tightly together. And, as <strong>in</strong> boys, thesame results may occur almost or quite spontaneously,T98]


THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN YOUTHunder the <strong>in</strong>fluence <strong>of</strong> excit<strong>in</strong>g spectacles or seductivethoughts. This, we see, ishardly dist<strong>in</strong>guishable fromwhat may happen, <strong>in</strong> a normal manner, between twolovers.In boys who have had no earlier spontaneous impulses<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual activity and no <strong>in</strong>itiation from companions, thefirst orgasm usually occurs at puberty dur<strong>in</strong>g sleep, withor without dreams, sometimes caus<strong>in</strong>g the boy muchanxiety or shame, until <strong>in</strong> the course <strong>of</strong> years he learnsto accept it as the almost <strong>in</strong>evitable accompaniment <strong>of</strong>adult life when it isbe<strong>in</strong>g lived cont<strong>in</strong>ently. In girls, however,it is not <strong>in</strong>evitable under similar conditions. It israre (asI have frequently po<strong>in</strong>ted out though the statementhas not always been accepted) for girls to have theirfirst experience <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual excitement (with or withoutorgasm) <strong>in</strong> sleep, and the supposition that they commonlydo isdue to ignorance. The boy awakes <strong>sex</strong>ually <strong>in</strong> sleep,spontaneously. The girl must be actively awakened, byothers or herself, though after that, even if itmay notoccur until long after she has reached adult age, she willbe liable to experience the most vivid erotic dreams. Weprobably have here an <strong>in</strong>terest<strong>in</strong>g psychic <strong>sex</strong>ual difference,the greater <strong>sex</strong>ual activity <strong>of</strong> the male, the greater<strong>sex</strong>ual quiescence <strong>of</strong> the female, which does not, however,mean superior <strong>sex</strong>uality <strong>of</strong> the male, or <strong>in</strong>ferior <strong>sex</strong>ualneeds <strong>of</strong> the female; itmay be <strong>in</strong>deed the reason why thegirl is more liable to hysterical and other nervous symptoms,if we regard these as manifestations <strong>of</strong> latent <strong>sex</strong>ualenergy.Robie, <strong>in</strong> America, among a large number <strong>of</strong> persons<strong>of</strong> both <strong>sex</strong>es found few or none who had not had experience<strong>of</strong> masturbation or other form <strong>of</strong> auto-erotic activityat some period <strong>of</strong> their lives and <strong>of</strong>ten before the age <strong>of</strong>eight. His observations were not always very precise. Dr.[99]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXKathar<strong>in</strong>e Davis, who gave specialattention to this po<strong>in</strong>t,found, among 1,000 American college women above theage <strong>of</strong> 22 that 60 per cent, gave def<strong>in</strong>ite histories <strong>of</strong> masturbation.She <strong>in</strong>vestigated the whole question, perhapswith more thoroughness and <strong>in</strong> greaterdetail than anyother worker. Among unmarried college women graduatesshe found that 43.6 per cent, began the practice fromthe 3rd to the loth years <strong>in</strong>clusive; 20.2 per cent, from11 to 15 <strong>in</strong>clusive; 13.9 per cent, from 16 to 22 <strong>in</strong>clusive;15.5 per cent, from 23 to 29 <strong>in</strong>clusive. Compar<strong>in</strong>g herresults with those <strong>of</strong> other <strong>in</strong>vestigators deal<strong>in</strong>g with menthe results are as follows:MenWomenUp to and <strong>in</strong>clud<strong>in</strong>g 11 yrs 20.9 49.1Up to and <strong>in</strong>clud<strong>in</strong>g 12-14 yrs 44.3 14.6Up to and <strong>in</strong>clud<strong>in</strong>g 15-17 yrs 30.3 6.2Up to 18 yrs. and over 4.5 30.1These results carry weight because the groups <strong>in</strong>cludeabout 500 men to about 900 women. They show, to anunexpected degree, that girls masturbate early more <strong>of</strong>tenthan boys, and that dur<strong>in</strong>g adolescence it is the boys wholargely predom<strong>in</strong>ate, while after adult age is reached, aswe should anticipate, women are <strong>in</strong> a large majority.Dr. Hamilton, <strong>in</strong> his careful study <strong>of</strong> 100 married menand 100 married women <strong>of</strong> good social stand<strong>in</strong>g, foundthat 97 per cent, <strong>of</strong> the men and 74 per cent, <strong>of</strong> thewomen had at some period masturbated. These resultsare fairly <strong>in</strong> accordance with the more general conclusion<strong>of</strong> Moll, whose work on The Sexual Life <strong>of</strong> the Child(1908) was the earliest comprehensive study <strong>of</strong> the subjectand is stillamong the most judicious. Moll remarks, however,that masturbation is not as common as is sometimessupposed <strong>in</strong> Germany, and I may add that it seems not so[100]


THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN YOUTHcommon <strong>in</strong> Englandor even <strong>in</strong> France asthe Americanpercentage might lead us to anticipate.It will be seen that these manifestations extend far beyondthe classic conception <strong>of</strong> ' 'masturbation" <strong>in</strong> its literaland commonly accepted sense, which cannot really be saidto constitute a separate group for it blends with the largergroup without def<strong>in</strong>ite frontiers.<strong>of</strong> manifestations as aWhen we thus view this groupwhole it is seen why we cannot properly term them "perverse/'They are natural; they are the <strong>in</strong>evitable result<strong>of</strong> the action <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse when work<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> theabsence <strong>of</strong> the object <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual desire, occurr<strong>in</strong>g, undersuch conditions, even <strong>in</strong> some <strong>of</strong> the lower animals; andthey are emphatically natural when they occur beforeadult age. It is natural also that they should occur <strong>in</strong>adult age when the <strong>sex</strong>ual urge seems irresistible andwhen normal <strong>sex</strong>ual approaches are undesired or undesirable,although, it must be added, it isequally naturalwhen, under such circumstances, they are <strong>in</strong>hibited or repressedby other considerations which may seem <strong>of</strong> asuperior order.It is <strong>in</strong>structive to explore the attitude towards prepubertaland youthful <strong>sex</strong>uality <strong>in</strong> different stages <strong>of</strong> cultureand different periods <strong>of</strong> history. When we are concernedwith an impulse so primitive and fundamental asthat <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> we cannot decide what is "natural" and whatis "perverse" merely by the standard set up <strong>in</strong> accordancewith shift<strong>in</strong>g fashions <strong>of</strong> thought, the religious or socialcustoms <strong>of</strong> one particular age. Least <strong>of</strong> all can it be saidthat the age we are ourselves emerg<strong>in</strong>g from, with itspeculiar and highly colored views <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>, furnishes anyuniversal standard.Let us, for <strong>in</strong>stance, turn to almost the only race <strong>of</strong> aculture outside our own traditions, which has yet been[101]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXstudied with scientific care, the Trobrianders <strong>of</strong> NewGu<strong>in</strong>ea, as represented <strong>in</strong> Mal<strong>in</strong>owski's Sexual Life <strong>of</strong>Savages. Children <strong>in</strong> the Trobriand Islands possess afreedom and <strong>in</strong>dependencewhich extends to <strong>sex</strong>ual matters.<strong>No</strong> special precautionsare taken, or would easilybe possible, to prevent children see<strong>in</strong>g their parents <strong>in</strong><strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>tercourse or from hear<strong>in</strong>g discussion <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ualmatters, though their elders th<strong>in</strong>k highly <strong>of</strong> children whodo not repeat what they may thus hear or see. On fish<strong>in</strong>gexpeditions, when girls follow their fathers, it is usual forthe men to remove the pubic fig-leaf, so that the shape<strong>of</strong> the male body is never a mystery for the girls. Bothboys and girls receive <strong>in</strong>struction <strong>in</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual matters fromslightly older companions, and from an early age playat <strong>sex</strong> games, which enable them to ga<strong>in</strong> some knowledge<strong>of</strong> these matters and to gratifynatural curiosity, evento obta<strong>in</strong> a certa<strong>in</strong> amount o pleasure; the hand and themouth are commonly used for genital manipulations <strong>in</strong>these games. Little girls usually beg<strong>in</strong> to play at <strong>sex</strong> atfour or five years, and real <strong>sex</strong> life may beg<strong>in</strong> from betweenthe age <strong>of</strong> six or eight, while for the boys it beg<strong>in</strong>sbetween ten and twelve. The ord<strong>in</strong>ary round gamesplayed by boys and girls <strong>in</strong> the center <strong>of</strong> the village haveat times a strong flavor <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>. The grown-ups regard allthese manifestations as natural, and see no reason to scoldor <strong>in</strong>terfere. <strong>No</strong> harm comes <strong>of</strong> it, not even illegitimatechildren, though how this is prevented rema<strong>in</strong>s a mystery.The young Trobrianders palliate crude <strong>sex</strong>uality by thehelp <strong>of</strong> a poetic <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct, and show <strong>in</strong>deed, Mal<strong>in</strong>owskiremarks, "a great sense <strong>of</strong> the s<strong>in</strong>gular and the romantic<strong>in</strong> their games.' 'There are, however, widely different attitudes towards<strong>sex</strong> even <strong>in</strong> the same part <strong>of</strong> the world and among peoplenot very widely separated <strong>in</strong> culture and race. Margaret[102]


THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN YOUTHMead, <strong>in</strong> Grow<strong>in</strong>g up <strong>in</strong> New Gu<strong>in</strong>ea, describes theManus people <strong>of</strong> the Admiralty Islands to the <strong>No</strong>rth <strong>of</strong>New Gu<strong>in</strong>ea as extremely puritanic. They regard <strong>sex</strong>with aversion and excretions with disgust, repress<strong>in</strong>g andthe maximumavoid<strong>in</strong>g their manifestations and seek<strong>in</strong>g<strong>of</strong> secrecy. The children, though carefully tra<strong>in</strong>ed <strong>in</strong> physicalrespects, are otherwise treated with extreme <strong>in</strong>dulgenceand left free;but <strong>sex</strong>ual manifestations, <strong>in</strong>clud<strong>in</strong>gmasturbation, are slight and <strong>in</strong>frequent, because there arefew opportunities for isolation. There seemed to be much<strong>sex</strong>ual frigidity, and the married women do not admitpleasure <strong>in</strong> married life and seek to avoid <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>tercourse,nor are there any signs <strong>of</strong> romantic affection.Another picture <strong>of</strong> youthful <strong>sex</strong> life outside our ownculture, though this time not untouched by our civilization,is presented by Margaret Mead <strong>in</strong> Com<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> Age <strong>in</strong>Samoa. Here our civilization has had a considerable dissolv<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong>fluence on the old Samoan culture, so that whatmight seem a new and artificial culture has grown up andwith considerable rapidity. Yet it has grown up naturallyon what is evidently the foundation <strong>of</strong> the old Samoanculture, deprived <strong>of</strong> all but the m<strong>in</strong>imum <strong>of</strong> its taboosand restrictions, and it seems to work beneficially. Smallboys and girls tend to avoid each other, not by externalcommand but by custom and <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct; yet from the earliestage, ow<strong>in</strong>g to the general absence <strong>of</strong> privacy, they beg<strong>in</strong>to be familiar with the essential facts <strong>of</strong> life and death,<strong>in</strong>clud<strong>in</strong>g the details <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> and <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>tercourse. Theyalso have an <strong>in</strong>dividual <strong>sex</strong> life from childhood; nearlyevery little girl masturbates from the age <strong>of</strong> six or seven,more or less <strong>in</strong> secret, the boys also, but more usually <strong>in</strong>groups, and casual homo<strong>sex</strong>ual practices are common; onthe part <strong>of</strong> grow<strong>in</strong>g girls or women work<strong>in</strong>g together suchcasual relationships are regarded as[ 10 3]"a pleasantand nat-


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXural diversion, just t<strong>in</strong>ged with the salacious." Such "perversions"are neither banned nor cultivated <strong>in</strong>to <strong>in</strong>stitutions;they are simply the sign <strong>of</strong> the recognition <strong>of</strong> a widerange <strong>of</strong> normality, and public op<strong>in</strong>ion, while view<strong>in</strong>gattention to the details <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> as unseemly, does not regardthem as wrong. It is claimed by Margaret Mead that theSamoans by this system "legislate a whole field <strong>of</strong> neuroticpossibility out <strong>of</strong> existence"; there is no neurosis,no frigidity,no impotence. Facility <strong>of</strong> divorce makes unnecessaryan unhappy marriage(though adultery does notnecessarily destroy marriage) , and economic <strong>in</strong>depend-,ence <strong>of</strong> the wife places her on the same level as thehusband.When we turn to the European tradition, and to thesources <strong>of</strong> our modern civilization, the earliest referencesto these manifestations show no clearly implied disapprovalor at the most an occasional touch <strong>of</strong> contempt, andthere is even <strong>in</strong> Greek literature an association <strong>of</strong> masturbationwith gods. In historical times we f<strong>in</strong>d that admiredphilosophers <strong>of</strong> the Cynic school boasted <strong>of</strong> the advantages<strong>of</strong> satisfy<strong>in</strong>g <strong>sex</strong>ual needs <strong>in</strong> a solitary manner. InRome there appears to have been a considerable amount<strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>difference to these matters, and even <strong>in</strong> the ChristianChurch, for over a thousand years, there were so manyextravagant <strong>sex</strong>ual excesses to combat that the spontaneoussolitary manifestations <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> scarcely attractedattention. It was not till the Reformation and at firstma<strong>in</strong>ly <strong>in</strong> Protestant countries, though the movementquickly spread to France and other Catholic countries,that moralists and physicians began to be much troubledabout masturbation. This was <strong>in</strong> the eighteenth century.At the same time opportunity was furnished to quacks to<strong>of</strong>fer more or less fanstastic remedies for the evils whichwere beg<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g to be attributed to "self-abuse." Even[104]


THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN YOUTHuntil the end <strong>of</strong> the last century serious physicians frequentlytook for granted that some grave result or othermight be <strong>in</strong>duced by masturbation.It was dur<strong>in</strong>g the second half <strong>of</strong> the n<strong>in</strong>eteenth century,when a new biological conception, under the <strong>in</strong>spiration<strong>of</strong> Darw<strong>in</strong> was slowly permeat<strong>in</strong>g medic<strong>in</strong>e, that the idea<strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>fantile and youthful "perversion" began to be underm<strong>in</strong>ed;on the one hand the new scientific study <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>,started by the pioneer<strong>in</strong>g work <strong>of</strong> Krafft-Eb<strong>in</strong>g at the end<strong>of</strong> the third quarter <strong>of</strong> die century, showed how commonare such so-called "perversions" <strong>in</strong> early life while, on theother hand, the conception <strong>of</strong> evolution began to make itclear that we must not apply developed adult standards toundeveloped creatures, what is natural at one stage notnecessarily be<strong>in</strong>g natural at the previous stage.An early representative <strong>of</strong> these <strong>in</strong>fluences was theItalian psychiatrist Silvio Venturi, who belonged to thePositivist school which sought <strong>in</strong> Italy to fertilize medic<strong>in</strong>ewith the new biological and social conceptions; he published<strong>in</strong> 1892 his elaborate study, Le Degenerazioni Psicosessuali,a<strong>sex</strong>hibited <strong>in</strong> the <strong>in</strong>dividual and <strong>in</strong> social history,a work where<strong>in</strong> various large and fruitful conceptionswere thrown out. Venturi regarded <strong>sex</strong>ual developmentas a slow process, not properly to be termed "<strong>sex</strong>ual"until puberty, yet made up <strong>of</strong> separate factors which beganat the beg<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> life their separate development(<strong>in</strong>fantile erections be<strong>in</strong>g such a factor and the later eroticsensibility <strong>of</strong> the lips be<strong>in</strong>g similarly developed <strong>in</strong> earlylife by non-erotic exercise) before they comb<strong>in</strong>e, afterpuberty, to constitute what may properly be termed <strong>sex</strong>uality,or, as Venturi, <strong>in</strong>sist<strong>in</strong>g on the psychic elementtermed it, amore. Masturbation (onanism, as Venturialways terms it)isregarded as "the germ <strong>of</strong> what laterwill be love." It appears <strong>in</strong> early youth, hav<strong>in</strong>gits rudi-


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXmentary roots <strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong>fancy, simply as a physical pleasure,without erotic imagery, as the satisfaction <strong>of</strong> an unknownand <strong>in</strong>determ<strong>in</strong>ate organic need, certa<strong>in</strong>ly <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual nature,but appear<strong>in</strong>gto consciousness more like the action<strong>of</strong> scratch<strong>in</strong>g a sensory surface that itches, though thepsychic condiment <strong>of</strong> forbidden fruit may be added to itsenjoyment.The act is gradually complicated by psychicelements and genu<strong>in</strong>ely erotic stimuli which slowly approximateit to an act <strong>of</strong> coitus with an halluc<strong>in</strong>atorymate, and it thus passes almost <strong>in</strong>sensibly <strong>in</strong>to adult <strong>sex</strong>uallove, so disappear<strong>in</strong>g, or else <strong>in</strong> a more retarded way whichvaries with the <strong>in</strong>dividual. Its elements, however, such asthose that are fetichistic, are reta<strong>in</strong>ed, by arrest <strong>of</strong> development,as Venturi states (follow<strong>in</strong>g Lombroso and <strong>in</strong>accordance with the views <strong>of</strong> today), to constitute -what<strong>in</strong> adult age, when carried so far as to replace the normalaim <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>, is described as a perversion. As Freud subsequentlyexpressed it: "Perverted <strong>sex</strong>uality is noth<strong>in</strong>g but<strong>in</strong>fantile <strong>sex</strong>uality"; that is to say what is normal <strong>in</strong> thechild may become abnormal when it occurs <strong>in</strong> the adult.Masturbation, thus, Venturi concludes, far from be<strong>in</strong>gthe vice combated by teachers and moralists, is "the naturalpassage by which is reached the warm and generouslove <strong>of</strong> youth and later the calm and positive matrimoniallove <strong>of</strong> maturity.1 'BIBLIOGRAPHYA. MOLL, The Sexual Life <strong>of</strong> the Child.SANFORD BELL, "The Emotion <strong>of</strong> Love between theSexes;" American Journal <strong>of</strong> <strong>Psychology</strong>, July, 1902.OSKAR PFISTER, Love <strong>in</strong> Children.KATHARINE B. DAVIS, Factors <strong>in</strong> the Sex Life <strong>of</strong> Twenty"two Hundred Women.G. V. HAMILTON, A Research <strong>in</strong> Marriage.MALINOWSKI, Sexual Life <strong>of</strong> Savages.[106]


THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN YOUTHMARGARET MEAD, Grow<strong>in</strong>g up <strong>in</strong> New Gu<strong>in</strong>ea.Com<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> Age <strong>in</strong> Samoa.FREUD, Introductory Lectures on Psycho-analysis.ERNEST JONES, Papers on Psycho-analysis.Auto-erotismIn consider<strong>in</strong>g even the earliest phenomena <strong>of</strong> childhoodwe have already reached the manifestations coveredby the term auto-erotism. I devised this term, "autoerotism,"<strong>in</strong> 1898 for those spontaneous solitary <strong>sex</strong>ualphenomena <strong>of</strong> which genital excitement dur<strong>in</strong>g sleep maybe said to be the type. The term, is now generally used,though not always <strong>in</strong> the exact sense <strong>in</strong> which I def<strong>in</strong>ed it,but sometimes only to connote <strong>sex</strong>ual activity directedtowards the self. That isunduly to narrow the term down,and it is not <strong>in</strong> accordance with the usual sense <strong>of</strong> theauto-group <strong>of</strong> terms; thus automatic action does not meanaction towards, but by, the self, without direct externalimpulse. If we narrow the term auto-erotic we have noterm left to <strong>in</strong>dicate the whole group.By "auto-erotism," therefore, I mean the phenomena<strong>of</strong> spontaneous <strong>sex</strong>ual emotion generated <strong>in</strong> the absence<strong>of</strong> an external stimulus proceed<strong>in</strong>g directly or <strong>in</strong>directlyfrom another person. In a wide sense, which cannot bewholly ignored here, auto-erotism may be said to <strong>in</strong>cludethose transformations <strong>of</strong> repressed <strong>sex</strong>ual activity whichare a factor <strong>of</strong> some morbid conditions (as probably <strong>in</strong>hysteria)as well as <strong>of</strong> the normal manifestations <strong>of</strong> artand poetry, and, <strong>in</strong>deed, more or lesslife.color the whole <strong>of</strong>Auto-erotism <strong>in</strong> the largest sense, says Dick<strong>in</strong>son, <strong>in</strong>cludesany self-love <strong>in</strong> any self-expression, not merely thevictims <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual deviation, but the scientist, the explorer,the sportman, the mounta<strong>in</strong>-climber.[107]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXSuch a def<strong>in</strong>ition excludes the normal <strong>sex</strong>ual excitementaroused by the presence <strong>of</strong> a beloved person <strong>of</strong> theopposite <strong>sex</strong>; it also excludes the perverted or deviated<strong>sex</strong>uality associated with an attraction to a person <strong>of</strong>the same <strong>sex</strong>; it further excludes the manifold forms <strong>of</strong>erotic fetichism, <strong>in</strong> which the normal focus <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ualattraction is displaced, and voluptuous emotions are onlyaroused by some object which to the ord<strong>in</strong>ary lover isonly <strong>of</strong> subord<strong>in</strong>ate importance. The auto-erotic fieldrema<strong>in</strong>s extensive; it more especially <strong>in</strong>cludes (i) eroticday-dream<strong>in</strong>g; (2) erotic dreams <strong>in</strong> sleep; (3) narcissism,' 1<strong>in</strong> which erotic emotion isgenerated by self-contemplation;and (4) masturbation, <strong>in</strong>clud<strong>in</strong>g not only self-excitementby the hand but by a great variety <strong>of</strong> method<strong>sex</strong>ert<strong>in</strong>g a direct <strong>in</strong>fluence on the <strong>sex</strong>ual organs and othererogenous centers, even methods which are <strong>in</strong>itiated centrally.BIBLIOGRAPHYHAVELOCK ELLIS, Studies <strong>in</strong> the <strong>Psychology</strong> <strong>of</strong> Sex, Vol. I,"Auto-erotism."Erotic Day-Dream<strong>in</strong>gThis (whichis also termed phantasy)and important form <strong>of</strong> auto-erotism, besides be<strong>in</strong>g sometimesthe early stage <strong>of</strong> masturbation. The day-dream wasis a very commonlong s<strong>in</strong>ce studied <strong>in</strong> its chief form, <strong>in</strong> the "cont<strong>in</strong>uedstory," by Mabel Learoyd, <strong>of</strong> Wellesley College. The cont<strong>in</strong>uedstory is an imag<strong>in</strong>ed narrative, more or less pecu-1 Some <strong>of</strong> Freud's followers (though not Freud himself) would conf<strong>in</strong>ethe use <strong>of</strong> the term "auto-erotism" to this particular form. I regardthis as illegitimate. In all forms <strong>of</strong> auto-erotism the subject f<strong>in</strong>ds satisfaction<strong>in</strong> his own self-excitement, without the presence <strong>of</strong> anotherperson be<strong>in</strong>g necessary, but his <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse is by no means necessarilydirected towards himself.


THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN YOUTHliar to the <strong>in</strong>dividual, by whom itis cherished with fondness,and regarded as an especially sacred mental possession,to be shared only, if at all, with very sympathiz<strong>in</strong>gfriends. It is commoner among girls and young womenthan among boys and young men: among 352 persons <strong>of</strong>both <strong>sex</strong>es, 47 per cent, among the women and only 14per cent, among the men, had any cont<strong>in</strong>ued story. Thestart<strong>in</strong>g-po<strong>in</strong>t is an <strong>in</strong>cident from a book, or, more usually,some actual experience, which the subject develops: thesubject is nearly always the hero or the hero<strong>in</strong>e <strong>of</strong> thestory. The growth <strong>of</strong> the story is favored by solitude, andly<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> bed before go<strong>in</strong>g to sleep is the time speciallysacred for its cultivation. G. E. Partridge well describedthe physical accompaniments <strong>of</strong> day-dream<strong>in</strong>g, especially<strong>in</strong> <strong>No</strong>rmal School girls between sixteen and twenty-two.Pick recorded more or less morbid cases <strong>of</strong> day-dream<strong>in</strong>g,usually with an erotic basis, <strong>in</strong> apparently hysterical men.(more than two-thirdsAmong nearly 1,500 young peoplegirls and women) studied by Theodate Smith, cont<strong>in</strong>uedstories were found to be rare only one per cent. Healthyboys, before fifteen, had day-dreams <strong>in</strong> which sports, athletics,and adventure had a large part; girls put themselves<strong>in</strong> the place <strong>of</strong> their favorite hero<strong>in</strong>es <strong>in</strong> novels. Alterseventeen, and earlier <strong>in</strong> the case <strong>of</strong> girls, day-dreams <strong>of</strong>love and marriage were found to be frequent. Thoughby no means easy to detect, these elaborate and more orless erotic day-dreams are everywhere not uncommon <strong>in</strong>young men and especially <strong>in</strong> young women. Each <strong>in</strong>dividualhas his own particular dream, which is alwaysvary<strong>in</strong>g and develop<strong>in</strong>g, but, except <strong>in</strong> very imag<strong>in</strong>ativepersons, to no great extent. Such a day-dream is <strong>of</strong>tenfounded on a basis <strong>of</strong> pleasurable personal experience,and develops on that basis.<strong>in</strong>volve an element <strong>of</strong>It mayperversity, even though that element f<strong>in</strong>ds no expression[109]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEX<strong>in</strong> real life. It is, <strong>of</strong> course, fostered by <strong>sex</strong>ual abst<strong>in</strong>ence.Most usually there is little attempt to realize it. It doesnot necessarily lead to masturbation, thoughit sometimescauses some <strong>sex</strong>ual congestion or even spontaneous <strong>sex</strong>ualorgasm.The day-dreamis a strictly private and <strong>in</strong>timate experience,not only from its very nature, but also becauseit occurs <strong>in</strong> images which the subject f<strong>in</strong>ds great difficulty<strong>in</strong> translat<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>to language, even when will<strong>in</strong>g to do so.In other cases it is elaborately dramatic or romantic <strong>in</strong>character, die hero or hero<strong>in</strong>e pass<strong>in</strong>g through manyexperiences before atta<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g the erotic climax <strong>of</strong> the story.This climax tends to develop <strong>in</strong> harmony with the subject'sgrow<strong>in</strong>g knowledge or experience; at first merely akiss, it may develop <strong>in</strong>to any ref<strong>in</strong>ement <strong>of</strong> voluptuousThe gratification. day-dream may occur alike <strong>in</strong> normaland abnormal persons. Rousseau, <strong>in</strong> his Confessions, describessuch dreams, <strong>in</strong> his case comb<strong>in</strong>ed with masochismand masturbation. Raffalovich refers to the process bywhich <strong>in</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>verts the vision <strong>of</strong> a person <strong>of</strong> the same<strong>sex</strong>, perhaps seen <strong>in</strong> the street or the theater, is evoked <strong>in</strong>solitary reveries, produc<strong>in</strong>g a k<strong>in</strong>d <strong>of</strong> "psychic onamsm,"whether or not it leads on to physical manifestations.Although day-dream<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> this k<strong>in</strong>d has until recenttimes been little studied, s<strong>in</strong>ce it loves secrecy and solitude,and has seldom been counted <strong>of</strong> sufficient <strong>in</strong>terest forscientific it is<strong>in</strong>quisition, really a process ^ f considerableimportance, and occupies a large part <strong>of</strong> the auto-eroticfield. It is frequently cultivated by ref<strong>in</strong>ed and imag<strong>in</strong>ativeyoung men and women who lead a chaste life andwould <strong>of</strong>ten be repelled by masturbation. In such persons,under such .circumstances, it must be considered as strictlynormal, the <strong>in</strong>evitable outcome <strong>of</strong> the play <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ualimpulse. <strong>No</strong> doubt itmay <strong>of</strong>ten become morbid, and is[no]


THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN YOUTHnever a healthy process when <strong>in</strong>dulged <strong>in</strong> to excess, as it isliable to be by ref<strong>in</strong>ed young people with artistic impulses,to whom it is <strong>in</strong> the highest degree seductive and<strong>in</strong>sidious. Though the day-dream is far from always coloredby <strong>sex</strong>ual emotion, yetit is a significant <strong>in</strong>dication<strong>of</strong> its really <strong>sex</strong>ual orig<strong>in</strong> that, as I have been <strong>in</strong>formedby persons <strong>of</strong> both <strong>sex</strong>es, even <strong>in</strong> these apparently non<strong>sex</strong>ualcases it frequently ceases on marriage.The importance <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> day-dreams is well brought outby Hamilton's careful <strong>in</strong>quiries. He found that 27 percent, men and 25 per cent, women were able to say positivelythat they had <strong>sex</strong>ual day-dreams before know<strong>in</strong>ganyth<strong>in</strong>g about <strong>sex</strong> matters; many others were uncerta<strong>in</strong>,while 28 per cent, men and 25 per cent, women had <strong>sex</strong>day-dreams before puberty. Only i per cent, men and 2per cent, women had no <strong>sex</strong> day-dreams after puberty, and57 per cent, men and 51 per cent, women said that aftereighteen and before marriage <strong>sex</strong> day-dreams occupied them<strong>in</strong>d a good deal; 26 per cent, men and 19 per cent,women (all married)still f<strong>in</strong>d <strong>sex</strong> day-dreams sufficientlyabsorb<strong>in</strong>g to <strong>in</strong>terfere with work.Day-dream<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong>ten plays an important part <strong>in</strong> thelives and activities <strong>of</strong> persons constitutionally predisposedto become artists, and especially,as is easy to understand,novelists, so that while <strong>in</strong> ord<strong>in</strong>ary persons too absorbeda concentration <strong>in</strong> phantasy carried on <strong>in</strong>to adult-life isundoubtedly unwholesome, because it leads away fromreal life, <strong>in</strong> these personsit f<strong>in</strong>ds as it were a way backto reality <strong>in</strong> the creation <strong>of</strong> art forms. Freud has suggestedthat the artist may be constitutionally endowed with aspecially strong capacity for sublimation, and aptitude forrepression, so that he can br<strong>in</strong>g his phantasy <strong>in</strong>to so stronga stream <strong>of</strong> pleasure that, for a time at least, repressionsare outbalanced and dispelled.[111]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXBIBLIOGRAPHYG. E. PARTRIDGE, "Reverie," Pedagogical Sem<strong>in</strong>ary, April,1898.THEODATE SMITH, ''The <strong>Psychology</strong> <strong>of</strong> Day Dreams/*American Journal <strong>of</strong> <strong>Psychology</strong>, Oct., 1904.The World <strong>of</strong> Dreams.HAVELOCK ELLIS,S. FREUD, Introductory Lectures on Psycho-Analysis.W. McDouGALL, Outl<strong>in</strong>e <strong>of</strong> Abnormal <strong>Psychology</strong>.J. VARENDONCK, The <strong>Psychology</strong> <strong>of</strong> Day Dreams.HAVELOCK ELLIS, Studies <strong>in</strong>VII, "The History <strong>of</strong> Florrie."the <strong>Psychology</strong> <strong>of</strong> Sex, Vol.Erotic Dreams <strong>in</strong>SleepThe psychological significance <strong>of</strong> dreams has alwaysbeen recognized, however variously it has been understoodand <strong>in</strong>terpreted. In the early traditions <strong>of</strong> mank<strong>in</strong>d wef<strong>in</strong>d dreams treated seriously, as hav<strong>in</strong>g a magical, religious,or prophetic bear<strong>in</strong>g; theyreta<strong>in</strong> this <strong>in</strong> civilizedfolklore, while among many savage races <strong>of</strong> today dream<strong>in</strong>gis regarded as highly significant. With the rise <strong>of</strong> modernscientific psychology dream<strong>in</strong>g speedily came underconsideration for more or less serious study and from1various viewpo<strong>in</strong>ts. In recent times this study has becomemore elaborate, and <strong>in</strong> psycho-analysis especially,as we know, the phenomena <strong>of</strong> dream<strong>in</strong>g are regarded ascarry<strong>in</strong>g great weight.While the general prevalence <strong>of</strong> dream<strong>in</strong>g is accepted,there has not always, however, been complete agreementthat it is a normal and constant and therefore completelyhealthy and natural phenomenon, Freud even regard<strong>in</strong>g1 Freud, who does not however claim a scholarly knowledge <strong>of</strong> theliterature, has under-rated the amount <strong>of</strong> psychological attention givento dream<strong>in</strong>g, and even speaks as though it had been a common beliefthat "dream<strong>in</strong>g is not a mental but a somatic phenomenon," a statementwhich is mean<strong>in</strong>gless.[112]


THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN YOUTHit as at once both neurotic and healthy. It seems mostreasonable to regard it as entirely natural. Animals dream,and we may sometimes note that a sleep<strong>in</strong>g dog imitatesthe movements <strong>of</strong> runn<strong>in</strong>g; savage races dream, and whilethere are a great number <strong>of</strong> people who are not conscious<strong>of</strong> dream<strong>in</strong>g, they <strong>of</strong>ten f<strong>in</strong>d traces <strong>of</strong> dreams when theybeg<strong>in</strong> to give attention to the matter; we may well believethat their mental activity dur<strong>in</strong>g sleep is usually at so lowan ebb that it leaves no memory on awaken<strong>in</strong>g.There has been the same difference <strong>of</strong> op<strong>in</strong>ion regard<strong>in</strong>gerotic dreams, accompanied or not by orgasm, asregard<strong>in</strong>g dreams generally. That under conditions <strong>of</strong><strong>sex</strong>ual abst<strong>in</strong>ence <strong>in</strong> healthy <strong>in</strong>dividuals there tend to besome auto-erotic manifestations dur<strong>in</strong>g wak<strong>in</strong>g-life, boththeory and a careful study <strong>of</strong> the facts lead us to believe.There can be no doubt, however, that, under the sameconditions, the occurrence <strong>of</strong> the complete orgasm dur<strong>in</strong>gsleep with, <strong>in</strong> men, sem<strong>in</strong>al emissions, is altogether normal.In many parts <strong>of</strong> the world, <strong>in</strong>deed, such manifestationsare attributed to the excitation <strong>of</strong> demons. TheCatholic Church has attributed serious importance to theimpurity <strong>of</strong> what it termed pollutio, while Luther alsoseems to have regarded erotic dreams as a k<strong>in</strong>d <strong>of</strong> diseasedemand<strong>in</strong>g at once the medic<strong>in</strong>e <strong>of</strong> marriage. Even somedist<strong>in</strong>guished medical authorities (notably Moll andEulenburg) have put nocturnal sem<strong>in</strong>al emissions on thesame level as the nocturnal emission <strong>of</strong> ur<strong>in</strong>e or as vomit<strong>in</strong>g,and it cannot be denied that under primitively naturalconditions there is justification for this view.S<strong>in</strong>ce, however, some degree <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual abst<strong>in</strong>ence ismore or less <strong>in</strong>evitable under our social conditions, mostauthorities are <strong>in</strong>cl<strong>in</strong>ed to regard the nocturnal phenomenawhich result from that abst<strong>in</strong>ence as fairly normal;they are only concerned as to itsfrequency.Cs]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXdeclared that he had never known celibate menPagetwho had not such emissions from once or twice a weekto every three months, both extremes be<strong>in</strong>g with<strong>in</strong> thelimits <strong>of</strong> good health, while Brunton regarded once afortnight or once a month as about the usual frequency,at these periodsthe emissions <strong>of</strong>ten follow<strong>in</strong>g two nights<strong>in</strong> succession, and Rohleder stated that they may normallyoccur for several nights <strong>in</strong> succession. Hammond consideredalso that they occur about once a fortnight. This wasalso found the most usual frequency among over two thousandMoscow students <strong>in</strong>vestigated by Tchlen<strong>of</strong>f. Ribb<strong>in</strong>gregarded ten to fourteen days as the normal <strong>in</strong>terval, andHamilton found from a week to a fortnight the most frequent<strong>in</strong>terval (19 per cent, cases) . Lowenfeld put thenormal frequency at about once a week; this seems nearthe truth as regards many fairly healthy young men andit corresponds with the exact records <strong>of</strong> several healthyyoung adults which I have obta<strong>in</strong>ed. It occasionally happens,however, that nocturnal emissions are entirely a"bsent(Tchlen<strong>of</strong>Fs <strong>in</strong>vestigations seem to show their absence<strong>in</strong> about ten per cent, but Hamilton <strong>in</strong> only 2 percent.) In other . fairly healthy young men they seldomoccur except at times <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>tellectual activity or <strong>of</strong> anxietyand worry.<strong>No</strong>cturnal emissions are usually, though not <strong>in</strong>variably,accompanied by dreams <strong>of</strong> a voluptuous character <strong>in</strong>which the dreamer becomes conscious <strong>in</strong> a more or lessfantastic manner <strong>of</strong> the more or less <strong>in</strong>timate presence orcontact <strong>of</strong> a person <strong>of</strong> usually the opposite <strong>sex</strong>. It wouldseem, as a general rule, that the more vivid and voluptuousthe dream, the greateris the physical excitement andthe greater also the relief experienced on awaken<strong>in</strong>g.Sometimes the erotic dream occurs without any emission,and not <strong>in</strong>frequently the emission takes place after theC4]


THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN YOUTHdreamer has awakened. Occasionally the approach<strong>in</strong>gorgasm is repressed <strong>in</strong> the half wak<strong>in</strong>g state; this is termedby Nacke pollutio <strong>in</strong>terruptsA wide and comprehensive <strong>in</strong>vestigation <strong>of</strong> eroticdreams was carried out by Gual<strong>in</strong>o, <strong>in</strong> northern Italy,based on <strong>in</strong>quiries among 100 normal men doctors,teachers, lawyers, etc. who had all had experience <strong>of</strong>the phenomena. Gual<strong>in</strong>o shows that erotic dreams, withemissions (whether or not sem<strong>in</strong>al) beg<strong>in</strong> somewhatearlier than the period <strong>of</strong> physical development as ascerta<strong>in</strong>edby Marro for youths <strong>of</strong> the same part <strong>of</strong> northernItaly. Gual<strong>in</strong>o found that all his cases had had eroticdreams at the age <strong>of</strong> seventeen; Marro found 8 percent, <strong>of</strong> youths still <strong>sex</strong>ually undeveloped at that age,and while <strong>sex</strong>ual development began at thirteen years,erotic dreams began at twelve. Their appearance was preceded,<strong>in</strong> most cases for some months, by erections. In 37per cent, <strong>of</strong> the cases there had been no actual <strong>sex</strong>ualexperiences (either masturbation or <strong>in</strong>tercourse) ; <strong>in</strong> 23per cent, there had been masturbation; <strong>in</strong> the rest, someform <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual contact. The dreams are ma<strong>in</strong>ly visual,tactual elements com<strong>in</strong>g second, and the dramatis personais usually either an unknown woman (27 per cent, cases) ,or one only known by sight (56 per cent.), and <strong>in</strong> themajority is, at all events <strong>in</strong> the beg<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g, an ugly orfantastic figure, becom<strong>in</strong>g more attractive later <strong>in</strong> life,but never identical with the woman loved dur<strong>in</strong>g wak<strong>in</strong>glife. This, as Gual<strong>in</strong>o, Lowenfeld, and others have po<strong>in</strong>tedout, accords with the general tendency for the emotions<strong>of</strong> the day to be latent <strong>in</strong> sleep.The emotional state <strong>in</strong> thepubertal stage, apart from pleasure, was anxiety (37 percent.) desire , (17 per cent.),fear (14 per cent.). In theadult stage, anxiety and fear receded to 7 per cent, and 6per cent, respectively. Thirty-three <strong>of</strong> die subjects, as a["5]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXresult <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual or general disturbances, had had nocturnalemissions without dreams; these were always found exhaust<strong>in</strong>g.In more than 90 per cent, erotic dreams werethe most vivid <strong>of</strong> all dreams. In 34 per cent, <strong>of</strong> cases theytended to occur very soon after <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>tercourse. Innumerous cases they were peculiarly frequent (even three<strong>in</strong> one night) dur<strong>in</strong>g courtship, when the young man was<strong>in</strong> the habit <strong>of</strong> kiss<strong>in</strong>g and caress<strong>in</strong>g his betrothed, butthey ceased after marriage. It was not noted that position<strong>in</strong> bed or a full bladder exerted any marked <strong>in</strong>fluence<strong>in</strong> the occurrence <strong>of</strong> erotic dreams; repletion <strong>of</strong> the sem<strong>in</strong>alvesicles isregardedas the ma<strong>in</strong> factor.It has been noted by many (Lowenfeld, etc.) thatpeople seldom dream erotically <strong>of</strong> the persons whom theyare <strong>in</strong> love with, even after fall<strong>in</strong>g asleep th<strong>in</strong>k<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> thebeloved. This has been attributed, no doubt rightly, tothe exhaustion and repose <strong>of</strong> the acute emotion dur<strong>in</strong>gsleep; it is well known, also, that we seldom dream <strong>of</strong> thegriefs <strong>of</strong> the day though very<strong>of</strong>ten <strong>of</strong> its trivial details.It has also been noted by many (Stanley Hall, etc.)that<strong>in</strong> erotic dreams, not only <strong>in</strong>dividuals who are quite <strong>in</strong>differentto the dreamer when awake, but very trifl<strong>in</strong>gpersonal details or imag<strong>in</strong>ed contacts, will suffice to produceorgasm.The diagnostic value <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual dreams, as an <strong>in</strong>dication<strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual nature <strong>of</strong> the subject when awake, has beenemphasized by various writers (Moll, Nacke, etc.). Sexualdreams tend to reproduce, and even to accentuate, thosecharacteristics which make the strongest <strong>sex</strong>ual appeal tothe subject when awake. At the same time, thisgeneralstatement has to be qualified, more especially as regards<strong>in</strong>verted dreams. In the first place, a young man, howevernormal, who is not familiar with the fem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>e body whenawake, is not likely to see it when asleep, even <strong>in</strong> dreams


THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN YOUTH<strong>of</strong> women; <strong>in</strong> the second place, the confusions and comb<strong>in</strong>ations<strong>of</strong> dream imagery <strong>of</strong>ten tend to obliterate <strong>sex</strong>ualdist<strong>in</strong>ctions, however free from perversion the subjectmay be. It thus sometimes happens that people who areperfectly normal may have abnormal dreams, and <strong>in</strong> afew cases the erotic dreams <strong>of</strong> normal persons are habituallyabnormal without the existence <strong>of</strong> any ground forbeliev<strong>in</strong>g that this is due to a real or even latent deviation.It is sometimes important to bear this <strong>in</strong> m<strong>in</strong>d.There seem to be, generally speak<strong>in</strong>g, certa<strong>in</strong> differences<strong>in</strong> the manifestations <strong>of</strong> auto-erotism dur<strong>in</strong>g sleep<strong>in</strong> men and women which are probably not without psychologicalsignificance. In men the phenomenon is fairlysimple; it usually appears about puberty, cont<strong>in</strong>ues at<strong>in</strong>tervals <strong>of</strong> vary<strong>in</strong>g duration dur<strong>in</strong>g <strong>sex</strong>ual life providedthe <strong>in</strong>dividual is liv<strong>in</strong>g chastely; and is generally, thoughnot always, accompanied by erotic dreams which lead upto the climax, its occurrence be<strong>in</strong>g, to some extent, <strong>in</strong>fluencedby a variety <strong>of</strong> circumstances: physical, mental, oremotional excitement, alcohol taken before retir<strong>in</strong>g, position<strong>in</strong> bed (as ly<strong>in</strong>g on the back) , the state <strong>of</strong> thebladder, sometimes the mere fact <strong>of</strong> be<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> a strangebed, and to some extent apparently by the existence <strong>of</strong>a fairlymonthly and yearly rhythms. On the whole, it isdef<strong>in</strong>ite and regular phenomenon which usually leaveslittle conscious trace on awaken<strong>in</strong>g, beyond <strong>in</strong> some casesa headache. In women,a sense <strong>of</strong> fatigue and, occasionally,however, the phenomena <strong>of</strong> auto-erotism dur<strong>in</strong>g sleepseem to be much more irregular, varied, and diffused. Itseems to be the exception for girls to experience def<strong>in</strong>itelyerotic dreams about the period <strong>of</strong> puberty or adolescence.the rule <strong>in</strong> a chaste youth for the orgasm thusWhile it isto manifest itself (Hamilton found it to beg<strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong> 51 percent, between is and 15), it is the exception <strong>in</strong> a chaste


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXgirl.As po<strong>in</strong>ted out when deal<strong>in</strong>g with early manifestations<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>, it is not until the orgasm has been def<strong>in</strong>itelyproduced <strong>in</strong> the wak<strong>in</strong>g state under whatever conditionsit may have been produced that <strong>in</strong> women it beg<strong>in</strong>s tooccur dur<strong>in</strong>g sleep, and even <strong>in</strong> a strongly <strong>sex</strong>ual womanliv<strong>in</strong>g a repressed life it is <strong>of</strong>ten <strong>in</strong>frequent or absent (<strong>in</strong>60 per cent, accord<strong>in</strong>g to Hamilton) . In women, who havebecome accustomed to <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>tercourse, erotic dreams<strong>of</strong> fully developed character occur, with complete orgasmand accompany<strong>in</strong>g relief as may occasionally be the case<strong>in</strong> women who are not acqua<strong>in</strong>ted with actual <strong>in</strong>tercourse;some women, however, even when familiar withactual coitus, f<strong>in</strong>d that <strong>sex</strong>ual dreams, though accom*panied by emissions, are only the symptom <strong>of</strong> desire anddo not producerelief.One <strong>of</strong> the most <strong>in</strong>terest<strong>in</strong>g and important charactersby which the erotic dreams <strong>of</strong> women and, <strong>in</strong>deed, theirdreams generally differ from those <strong>of</strong> men is <strong>in</strong> thetendency to evoke a repercussion on the wak<strong>in</strong>g life, atendency more rarely noted <strong>in</strong> men's erotic dreams, andthen only to a m<strong>in</strong>or extent. This is common, even <strong>in</strong>healthy and normal women, and i<strong>sex</strong>aggerated <strong>in</strong> neuroticsubjects, by whom the dream may even be <strong>in</strong>terpretedas a reality, and so declared on oath, a fact <strong>of</strong>practical importance, s<strong>in</strong>ce it may lead to unfoundedaccusations <strong>of</strong> assault under anesthesia.The tendency <strong>of</strong> the auto-erotic phenomena <strong>of</strong> sleep tobe manifested with such energy as to flow over <strong>in</strong>to thewak<strong>in</strong>g life, and <strong>in</strong>fluence conscious emotion and action,is especially seen <strong>in</strong> hysterical women, <strong>in</strong> whom it has,therefore, chiefly been studied. Sante de Sanctis, Gilles dela Tourette, etc., have emphasized the <strong>in</strong>fluence <strong>of</strong> dreamson the wak<strong>in</strong>g life <strong>of</strong> the hysterical, and the special <strong>in</strong>fluence<strong>of</strong> erotic dreams, to which, doubtless, we must refer


THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN YOUTHthose conceptions <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>cubi and succubi which played soimportant a part <strong>in</strong> the demonology <strong>of</strong> the Middle Ages.Such erotic dreams <strong>of</strong> the hysterical are by no meansalways, or even usually, <strong>of</strong> a pleasurable character. Insome cases the illusion <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>tercourse even provokesacute pa<strong>in</strong>. This was affirmed by the witches <strong>of</strong> oldand is also found today. Sometimes this is largely theresult <strong>of</strong> a conflict <strong>in</strong> consciousness with a merely physicalimpulse which isstrong enough to assert itself <strong>in</strong> spite <strong>of</strong>the emotional and <strong>in</strong>tellectual abhorrence <strong>of</strong> the subject.It isthus but an extreme form <strong>of</strong> the disgust which all<strong>sex</strong>ual physical manifestations tend to <strong>in</strong>spire <strong>in</strong> a personwho is not <strong>in</strong>cl<strong>in</strong>ed to respond to them. Somewhat similarpsychic disgust and physical pa<strong>in</strong> are produced <strong>in</strong> theattempts to stimulate the <strong>sex</strong>ual emotions and organswhen these are exhausted by exercise. It is quite probable,however, that there is a physiological, as well as a psychic,factor <strong>in</strong> this phenomenon, and Sollier, <strong>in</strong> his elaboratestudy <strong>of</strong> the nature and genesis <strong>of</strong> hysteria, by <strong>in</strong>sist<strong>in</strong>g onthe capital importance <strong>of</strong> the disturbance <strong>of</strong> sensibility <strong>in</strong>hysteria, and the def<strong>in</strong>ite character <strong>of</strong> the phenomenabetween anesthesia and normalproduced <strong>in</strong> the passagesensation, helped to reveal the mechanism <strong>of</strong> this feature<strong>of</strong> auto-erotic excitement <strong>in</strong> the hysterical.<strong>No</strong> doubt there has been a tendency to exaggerate theunpleasant character <strong>of</strong> the auto-erotic phenomena <strong>of</strong>hysteria. That tendency was an <strong>in</strong>evitable reaction aga<strong>in</strong>stan earlier view, accord<strong>in</strong>g to which hysteria was littlemore than an unconscious expression <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual emotionsand as such was unscientifically dismissed withoutany careful <strong>in</strong>vestigation. We may agree with Freud thatthe <strong>sex</strong>ual needs <strong>of</strong> the hysterical are just as <strong>in</strong>dividualand various as those <strong>of</strong> normal women, but that theysuffer from them more, largely through a moral struggle


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXwith their own <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>cts, and the attempt to put them <strong>in</strong>tothe background <strong>of</strong> consciousness. In many hysterical andpsychically abnormal women, auto-erotic phenomena, and<strong>sex</strong>ual phenomena generally, may be highly pleasurable,though such persons are <strong>of</strong>ten quite <strong>in</strong>nocent <strong>of</strong> anyknowledge <strong>of</strong> the erotic character <strong>of</strong> the experience.BIBLIOGRAPHYHAVELOCK ELLIS, "Auto-erotism** and "The Phenomena<strong>of</strong> Sexual Periodicity" <strong>in</strong> Studies <strong>in</strong> the <strong>Psychology</strong> <strong>of</strong>Sex, Vol. I, and "The Synthesis <strong>of</strong> Dreams" <strong>in</strong> Vol. VII;also The World <strong>of</strong> Dreams.STANLEY HALL, Adolescence.S. FREUD, The Interpretation <strong>of</strong> Dreams.MasturbationMasturbation, which has already been discussed <strong>in</strong> deal<strong>in</strong>gwith the <strong>sex</strong>ual phenomena <strong>of</strong> childhood, means, <strong>in</strong>the strict sense, the use <strong>of</strong> the hand to procure <strong>sex</strong>ualexcitement on the subject himself. In a wider sense, it isapplied to all forms <strong>of</strong> self-excitation adopted for thisend, and it is even possible to speak illogically <strong>of</strong> "psychicmasturbation" <strong>in</strong> which the excitation isbrought about bythought unaided by any physical act. The term "onanism"is sometimes applied <strong>in</strong> the same sense, but without justifications<strong>in</strong>ce the device <strong>of</strong> Onan was not <strong>in</strong> any sensean act <strong>of</strong> masturbation but simply coitus <strong>in</strong>terruptus.Hirschfeld has devised die term "ipsation," dist<strong>in</strong>guish<strong>in</strong>git from "auto-erotism," as be<strong>in</strong>g gratification on the<strong>in</strong>dividual's own body as a physical object, and not as apsychic object.Masturbation, <strong>in</strong> the wider sense, is an almost universalphenomenon among animals and man <strong>in</strong> all parts[120]<strong>of</strong> the


THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN YOUTHworld. It is so widespread that we cannot, strictly, speak<strong>of</strong> it as "abnormal." It is a phenomenon which lies on theborderland between the normal and the abnormal, and isliable to occur whenever any restra<strong>in</strong>t is placed on thenatural exercise <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual function.Amonganimals <strong>in</strong> the domesticated and isolated stateand sometimes also <strong>in</strong> the wild state thoughthis is lesseasy to observe various forms <strong>of</strong> spontaneous solitaryexcitement occur, both <strong>in</strong> males and females, sometimesby flapp<strong>in</strong>g the penis aga<strong>in</strong>st the abdom<strong>in</strong>al walls, andfrequently (especially <strong>in</strong> females) by rubb<strong>in</strong>gthe <strong>sex</strong>ualamong the people <strong>of</strong> nearly every raceparts aga<strong>in</strong>st external objects.In the human species, similar phenomena are by nomeans found <strong>in</strong> civilization alone. They have doubtlessbeen highly developed under the conditions <strong>of</strong> civilizationbut it isby no means true that (as Mantegazza thought)masturbation is one <strong>of</strong> the moral characteristics <strong>of</strong> Europeans.It is found<strong>of</strong> which we have <strong>in</strong>timate knowledge, however naturalthe conditions they live under, and among some it is practicedwith frequency, and isby both <strong>sex</strong>es generally recognizedas a custom <strong>in</strong> early life.We may even f<strong>in</strong>d amongpeoples <strong>of</strong> a somewhat low state <strong>of</strong> culture the use by thewomen <strong>of</strong> artificial ref<strong>in</strong>ements for masturbation, notablythe artificial phallus, which is also used <strong>in</strong> Europe today,though not among the general population.On the other hand, the use, or rather abuse, <strong>of</strong> theord<strong>in</strong>ary objects and implements <strong>of</strong> daily life <strong>in</strong> obta<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>gauto-erotic satisfaction, among the ord<strong>in</strong>ary population <strong>in</strong>civilized modern lands, has reached an extent and varietywhich can only be feebly estimated by the occasionalresult<strong>in</strong>g mischances which reach the surgeon's hands.Thus vegetables and fruits (especially the banana) arefrequently used by women but they are unlikely tolead


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXto any dangerous results and so their use rema<strong>in</strong>s undetected.A vast number <strong>of</strong> objects have, however, beenremoved from the vag<strong>in</strong>a and urethra by surgical <strong>in</strong>terference;among the commonest may speciallybe namedpencils, seal<strong>in</strong>g wax, cotton reels, hair p<strong>in</strong>s, glass stoppers,candles, corks, and tumblers. N<strong>in</strong>e-tenths <strong>of</strong> the foreignbodies found <strong>in</strong> the female vag<strong>in</strong>a and urethra are due tomasturbation. The age at which they are found is chieflybetween seventeen and thirty. Hairp<strong>in</strong>s have been found<strong>in</strong> the female bladder with special frequency, because theuretha is normally a highly erogenous <strong>sex</strong>ual center andtends to "swallow" what is <strong>in</strong>troduced <strong>in</strong>to it, while theshape <strong>of</strong> the hair-p<strong>in</strong> (which used to be the implementmost easily available to a woman <strong>in</strong> bed) specially lendsitself to disappearance <strong>in</strong> this way.Another class <strong>of</strong> objects used for masturbation does notcome under the surgeon's notice: the external objectswith which the <strong>sex</strong>ual region may be brought <strong>in</strong> contact.The garments worn, chairs, tables, and other articles <strong>of</strong>furniture come under this head. Reference may also bemade to the <strong>sex</strong>ual excitement which may occur, accidentallyor <strong>in</strong>tentionally, <strong>in</strong> the gymnasium (as <strong>in</strong> climb<strong>in</strong>gpoles) or when rid<strong>in</strong>g, or cycl<strong>in</strong>g, or us<strong>in</strong>g the' treadle,sew<strong>in</strong>g-mach<strong>in</strong>e, or by the <strong>in</strong>fluence <strong>of</strong> tight-lac<strong>in</strong>g. <strong>No</strong>ne<strong>of</strong> these sources <strong>of</strong> exercise or compression,it must beadded, is necessarily a cause <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual excitement.This group <strong>of</strong> forms <strong>of</strong> auto-erotic excitement merges<strong>in</strong>to the form <strong>of</strong> thigh-friction, by which the more or lessvoluntary pressure and friction <strong>of</strong> the thighs is brought tobear on the <strong>sex</strong>ual region. This is sometimes practiced bymen and is fairly common among women. It is even found<strong>in</strong> female <strong>in</strong>fants. It is a widespread practice,and <strong>in</strong> somecountries (as Sweden)it is stated to be the commonestform <strong>of</strong> masturbation <strong>in</strong> women.


THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN YOUTHMasturbation may also be exercised by apply<strong>in</strong>g frictionor other stimulation to out-ly<strong>in</strong>g erogenous zones, asbyflagellation or urtication <strong>of</strong> the nates, or rubb<strong>in</strong>g thebreasts and nipples. Almost every part <strong>of</strong> the body may<strong>in</strong>deed, <strong>in</strong> exceptional cases, become erogenous and bemanipulated for the sake <strong>of</strong> the voluptuous sensationsaroused.There is yet another class <strong>of</strong> auto-erotic cases <strong>in</strong> which<strong>sex</strong>ual excitement occurs spontaneously when the thoughtsare turned to voluptuous subjects, or even non-voluptuoussubjects <strong>of</strong> an emotional nature, or when <strong>sex</strong>ual excitementis deliberately aroused (Hammond's "psychiccoitus") by direct<strong>in</strong>g the imag<strong>in</strong>ation on the act <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual<strong>in</strong>tercourse with an attractive person <strong>of</strong> the opposite <strong>sex</strong>.These auto-erotic manifestations merge <strong>in</strong>to the eroticday-dream<strong>in</strong>g which has already been considered. Dr.Davis found that read<strong>in</strong>g books that suggest <strong>sex</strong>ualthought isa most frequent cause <strong>of</strong> masturbation, spoon<strong>in</strong>gto a much smaller extent, and danc<strong>in</strong>gstill less.If we proceed to <strong>in</strong>vestigate precisely the exact extent,degree, and significance <strong>of</strong> the auto-erotic phenomena o.fwhich masturbation is the type, we are met by manydifficultiesand considerable differences <strong>of</strong> op<strong>in</strong>ion.With regard to their occurrence among males, the balance<strong>of</strong> reliable op<strong>in</strong>ion is <strong>in</strong> favor <strong>of</strong> masturbation hav<strong>in</strong>gbeen practiced at some time <strong>in</strong> life though <strong>in</strong> many casesvery rarely or for a very brief periodby over 90 percent, <strong>in</strong>dividuals. Thus <strong>in</strong> England, Dukes, the experiencedphysician to Rugby school, states that from 90to 95 per cent, <strong>of</strong> all boys at board<strong>in</strong>g-school masturbate.In Germany, Julian Marcuse, on the basis <strong>of</strong> hi<strong>sex</strong>perience, concludes that n<strong>in</strong>ety-two per cent, male <strong>in</strong>dividualshave masturbated <strong>in</strong> youth, and Rohleder putsthe proportion somewhat higher. In America Seerly found


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXthat among 125 academic students only about 6 per cent,assured him that they had never masturbated, and Brockman,even among theological students, found that 56per cent, stated, without be<strong>in</strong>g asked, that they practicedmasturbation. Tchlen<strong>of</strong>f among Moscow students foundthat 60 per cent, acknowledged, spontaneously, thatthey had masturbated. Such spontaneously <strong>of</strong>fered <strong>in</strong>formationnecessarily <strong>in</strong>dicates a really much greater frequencys<strong>in</strong>ce many <strong>in</strong>dividuals are far too ashamed <strong>of</strong> thepractice to acknowledge it.As to whether masturbation is more common <strong>in</strong> one <strong>sex</strong>than the other op<strong>in</strong>ion formerlyvaried and the chiefauthorities were about equally divided, though among thegeneral public it was usuallyconsidered more common <strong>in</strong>The question may now, however, beboys than <strong>in</strong> girls.considered <strong>in</strong> the light <strong>of</strong> def<strong>in</strong>ite statistics, to which referencehas already been made <strong>in</strong> discuss<strong>in</strong>g the first appearance<strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse. The <strong>sex</strong>ual distribution <strong>of</strong>masturbation has been somewhat obscured by the tendencyto concentrate attention on a particularset <strong>of</strong> autoeroticphenomena. We must group and divide our factsrationallyif we wish to command them. If we conf<strong>in</strong>e ourattention to very young children, the evidence shows thatthe practiceis more common <strong>in</strong> females, and such a resultis <strong>in</strong> harmony with the fact that precocious puberty ismost <strong>of</strong>ten found <strong>in</strong> female children, which is, <strong>in</strong> manycases, associated with precocity<strong>in</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual habits. In pubertyand adolescenceoccasional or frequent masturbation iscommon <strong>in</strong> both boys and girls, though, I believe, lesscommon than is sometimes supposed:it is difficult to saywhether it is more prevalent among boys or girls; one is<strong>in</strong>cl<strong>in</strong>ed to conclude that it prevails more widely amongtraditions and their more activeboys. It is true that boys' life keep the tendency <strong>in</strong> abeyance, while <strong>in</strong> girls there is


THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN YOUTHmuch less frequently any restra<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>fluence <strong>of</strong> correspond<strong>in</strong>gcharacter; but, on the other hand, the <strong>sex</strong>ualimpulse, and consequently the tendency to masturbation,tend to be aroused later, and less easily, <strong>in</strong> girlsthan <strong>in</strong>boys. After adolescence there can be little doubt thatmasturbation is more common <strong>in</strong> women than <strong>in</strong> men.Men have, by this time, mostly adopted some method <strong>of</strong><strong>sex</strong>ual gratification with the opposite <strong>sex</strong>; women are to alarger extent shut out from such gratification; moreover,while <strong>in</strong> rare cases women are <strong>sex</strong>ually precocious, it more<strong>of</strong>ten happens that their <strong>sex</strong>ual impulses only ga<strong>in</strong>strength and self-consciousness after adolescence haspassed. In many cases masturbation is occasionally (especiallyabout the period <strong>of</strong> menstruation) practiced byactive, <strong>in</strong>telligent, and healthy women, who otherwise leada chaste life. This is specially the case as regards youngand healthy women who, after hav<strong>in</strong>g normal <strong>sex</strong>ual relationships,have been compelled for some reason or otherto break them <strong>of</strong>f and lead a lonelylife. But we have toremember that there are some women, evidently with aconsiderable degree <strong>of</strong> congenital <strong>sex</strong>ual hypo-esthesia (nodoubt, <strong>in</strong> some respect or another below the standard <strong>of</strong>normal health), <strong>in</strong> whom the <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct has neverbeen aroused, and who not only do not masturbate, butdo not show any desire for normal gratification; while <strong>in</strong>a large proportion <strong>of</strong> other cases the impulse isgratifiedpassively <strong>in</strong> other ways. The auto-erotic phenomena whichtake place <strong>in</strong> this way, spontaneously, by yield<strong>in</strong>g torevery, with little or no active <strong>in</strong>terference, certa<strong>in</strong>ly occurmuch more frequently <strong>in</strong> women than <strong>in</strong> men.Until recent years there has been a wide difference otop<strong>in</strong>ionas to the results <strong>of</strong> masturbation. While a fewauthorities considered that it had no special evil resultsbeyond such as might equallyfollow from excessive coitus,


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXthe great majorityattributed to masturbation; even whennot excessive, an enormous variety <strong>of</strong> serious morbid conditionsfrom <strong>in</strong>sanity downwards. A more temperate viewnow It is prevails. generallybelieved that masturbationmay, <strong>in</strong> special cases, lead on to various undesirable results,but it is no longer held that, even when practiced toexcess, it can, <strong>in</strong> healthy and sane <strong>in</strong>dividuals (suppos<strong>in</strong>gthat such are likely to practiceit to excess),produce thehighly morbid states once supposedto be a common consequence.It appears to have been largely due to Gries<strong>in</strong>ger, <strong>in</strong>that we owe the first au-the middle <strong>of</strong> the last century,thoritative appearance <strong>of</strong> a saner, more discrim<strong>in</strong>at<strong>in</strong>gview regard<strong>in</strong>g the results <strong>of</strong> masturbation. Although still<strong>in</strong> histo some extent fettered by the traditions prevalentday, Gries<strong>in</strong>ger saw that it was not so much masturbationitself as the feel<strong>in</strong>gs aroused <strong>in</strong> sensitive m<strong>in</strong>ds by thesocial attitude towards masturbation which producedevileffects, and a hidden strife between shame, repentance,good <strong>in</strong>tentions, and the irritation which impels to theact. He added that there are no specific signs <strong>of</strong> masturbation,and concluded that it is <strong>of</strong>tener a symptom than acause. The general progress<strong>of</strong> educated op<strong>in</strong>ions s<strong>in</strong>cethatdate has confirmed and carried forward the resultscautiously stated by Gries<strong>in</strong>ger. This dist<strong>in</strong>guished alienistthought that, when practiced<strong>in</strong> childhood, masturbationmight lead to <strong>in</strong>sanity. Berkhan, <strong>in</strong> his <strong>in</strong>vestigation <strong>of</strong>the psychoses <strong>of</strong> childhood, found that <strong>in</strong> no s<strong>in</strong>gle ca<strong>sex</strong>vas masturbation a cause. Vogel, Uffelmann, Emm<strong>in</strong>ghaus,and Moll, <strong>in</strong> the course <strong>of</strong> similar studies, all cameto almost similar conclusions. It isonly on a congenitallymorbid nervous system, Emm<strong>in</strong>ghaus <strong>in</strong>sisted, that masturbationcan produce any serious results. Kiernan statesthat the supposed results <strong>of</strong> masturbation are due to either[126]


THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN YOUTHhebephrenia or hysteria <strong>in</strong> which an effect is taken for thecause. Christian, dur<strong>in</strong>g twenty years' experience <strong>in</strong> hospitals,asylums, and private practice <strong>in</strong> town and country,found no seriously evil effects from masturbation. Hethought, <strong>in</strong>deed, that itmay be a more serious evil <strong>in</strong>women than <strong>in</strong> men. But Yellowlees considers that <strong>in</strong>women "it is possibly less exhaust<strong>in</strong>g and <strong>in</strong>jurious than<strong>in</strong> the other <strong>sex</strong>," which was also the op<strong>in</strong>ion o Hammond,as well as <strong>of</strong> Guttceit, though he found that womenpushed the practice much further than men, and Nacke,who gave special attention to this po<strong>in</strong>t, could not f<strong>in</strong>dthat masturbation is a def<strong>in</strong>ite cause <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>sanity <strong>in</strong> women<strong>in</strong> a s<strong>in</strong>gle case. Koch also reached a similar conclusion,as regards both <strong>sex</strong>es, though he admitted that masturbationmay cause some degree <strong>of</strong> psychopathic deterioration.Even <strong>in</strong> this respect, however, he po<strong>in</strong>ted out that whenpracticed <strong>in</strong> moderation it is not <strong>in</strong>jurious <strong>in</strong> the certa<strong>in</strong>and exceptionless way <strong>in</strong> which it is believed to be <strong>in</strong>many circles, while it is the people whose nervous systemsare already <strong>in</strong>jured who masturbate most easily and practiceit more immoderately than others; the chief source <strong>of</strong>the evil is self-reproach and the struggle with the impulse.Maudsley, Marro, Spitzka, and Schule still recognized aspecific "masturbatory <strong>in</strong>sanity," but Krafft-Eb<strong>in</strong>g longs<strong>in</strong>ce rejectedit and Nacke decidedly opposedit. Kraepel<strong>in</strong>stated that excessive masturbation can only occur <strong>in</strong>a dangerous degree <strong>in</strong> predisposed subjects; so, also, Foreland Lowenfeld, as at an earlier period, Trousseau. Recentauthorities may, <strong>in</strong>deed, be said to be almost unanimous<strong>in</strong> reject<strong>in</strong>g masturbation as a cause <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>sanity.The testimony <strong>of</strong> expert witnesses with regard to the<strong>in</strong>fluence <strong>of</strong> masturbation <strong>in</strong> produc<strong>in</strong>g other forms <strong>of</strong>psychoses and neuroses is becom<strong>in</strong>g equally decisive.S<strong>in</strong>ce West, many years ago, it isgenerally accepted that[127]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXamong children idiocy, convulsions, epilepsy, hysteria,etc., are not due to masturbation, as an efficient cause:though it has been believed by a few that hysteria andepilepsy might be thus <strong>in</strong>duced. Leyden, among the causes<strong>of</strong> diseases <strong>of</strong> the sp<strong>in</strong>al cord, <strong>in</strong>cluded no form <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ualexcess."In moderation," Erb remarked, "masturbation isnot more dangerous to the sp<strong>in</strong>al cord than natural coitus,and has no bad effects; it makes no difference whetherthe orgasm is effected normally or <strong>in</strong> solitude/' This isalso the op<strong>in</strong>ion <strong>of</strong> Toulouse, <strong>of</strong> Furbr<strong>in</strong>ger, <strong>of</strong> Curschmann,and most other authorities.It is, however, perhaps go<strong>in</strong>g too far to assert that masturbationhas no more <strong>in</strong>juriouseffect that coitus. If the<strong>sex</strong>ual orgasm were a purely physiological phenomenon,this position would be sound. But the <strong>sex</strong>ual orgasm isnormally bound up with a mass <strong>of</strong> powerful emotionsaroused by a person <strong>of</strong> the opposite <strong>sex</strong>. It is <strong>in</strong> the joycaused by the play <strong>of</strong> these emotions, as well as <strong>in</strong> thedischarge <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual orgasm, that the satisfaction <strong>of</strong>coitus resides. In the absence <strong>of</strong> the desired partner theorgasm, whatever relief it may give, must be followed bya sense <strong>of</strong> dissatisfaction, perhaps <strong>of</strong> depression, even <strong>of</strong>exhaustion, <strong>of</strong>ten <strong>of</strong> shame and remorse. Practically, also,there is more probability<strong>of</strong> excess <strong>in</strong> masturbation than<strong>in</strong> coitus, though whether, as some have asserted, masturbation<strong>in</strong>volves a greater nervous effort than coitus ismore doubtful. It thus seems somewhat mislead<strong>in</strong>g toassert that masturbation has no more <strong>in</strong>jurious effect thancoitus. But <strong>in</strong> a moderate form it is,the same level as <strong>sex</strong>ual excitement <strong>in</strong> sleep.Forel held, much onReview<strong>in</strong>g the general question <strong>of</strong> the supposed gravesymptoms and signs <strong>of</strong> masturbation, and its perniciousresults, we may reach the conclusion that <strong>in</strong> the case <strong>of</strong>moderate masturbation <strong>in</strong> healthy, well-born <strong>in</strong>dividuals,


THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN YOUTHno seriously pernicious results necessarily follow. Withregard to the general signs o masturbation, <strong>of</strong> which aconclude thatvast number have been alleged, we maythere are none which can be regarded as reliable.We may conclude f<strong>in</strong>ally that the oppos<strong>in</strong>g views on thesubject may be simply expla<strong>in</strong>ed by the fact that thewriters on both sides have ignored or <strong>in</strong>sufficiently recognizedthe <strong>in</strong>fluence <strong>of</strong> heredity and temperament. Theyhave done precisely what many unscientific writers on<strong>in</strong>ebriety have cont<strong>in</strong>ued to do unto the present day, whendescrib<strong>in</strong>g the terrible results <strong>of</strong> alcohol without po<strong>in</strong>t<strong>in</strong>gout that the chief factor <strong>in</strong> such cases has not been thealcohol, but the organization on which the alcohol acted.While we may thus dismiss the extravagant views widelyheld dur<strong>in</strong>g the past century, concern<strong>in</strong>g the awful results<strong>of</strong> masturbation, as due to ignorance and false tradition,aided by the efforts <strong>of</strong> quacks, it must be po<strong>in</strong>ted out thateven <strong>in</strong> healthy or moderately healthy <strong>in</strong>dividuals, anyexcess <strong>in</strong> solitary self-excitement may still produce resultswhich, though slight, are yet harmful. The sk<strong>in</strong>, digestion,and circulation may all be disordered; headache andneuralgia may occur; and, as <strong>in</strong> normal <strong>sex</strong>ual excess or<strong>in</strong> undue frequency <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual excitement dur<strong>in</strong>g sleep,there is a certa<strong>in</strong> general lower<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> nervous tone. Probablythe most important <strong>of</strong> the comparatively frequentassociated conditions this also aris<strong>in</strong>g usually on a morbidsoilis "neurasthenia" with its manifold symptoms.In some cases it would seem that masturbation, whenpracticed <strong>in</strong> excess,especially if begun before the age <strong>of</strong>puberty, leads to <strong>in</strong>aptitude for coitus, as well as to <strong>in</strong>differenceto it, and sometimes to undue <strong>sex</strong>ual irritability,<strong>in</strong>volv<strong>in</strong>g premature emission and practical impotence.Dick<strong>in</strong>son states that the most consistently "frigid" womenare the auto-erotic. This is, however, the exception,


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXespecially if the practice has not been begun until afterpuberty. In women an important occasional result <strong>of</strong>masturbation <strong>in</strong> early life is an aversion for normal coitus<strong>in</strong> later life. In such cases some peripheralirritation orabnormal mental stimulus tra<strong>in</strong>s the physical orgasm torespond to an appeal which has noth<strong>in</strong>g whatever to dowith the fasc<strong>in</strong>ation normally exerted by the opposite <strong>sex</strong>.At puberty, however, the claim <strong>of</strong> passion and the realcharm <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> beg<strong>in</strong> to be felt, but, ow<strong>in</strong>g to the physical<strong>sex</strong>ual feel<strong>in</strong>gs hav<strong>in</strong>g been tra<strong>in</strong>ed <strong>in</strong>to an abnormalchannel, these new and more normal <strong>sex</strong> associationsrema<strong>in</strong> <strong>of</strong> a purely ideal and emotional character, withoutthe strong sensual impulses with which under healthyconditions they tend to be more and more associated aspuberty passeson <strong>in</strong>to adolescence or mature adult life.In this way <strong>in</strong> some women, <strong>of</strong>ten highly <strong>in</strong>tellectualwomen, a precociou<strong>sex</strong>cess <strong>in</strong> masturbation has been ama<strong>in</strong> cause, not necessarily the sole efficient cause, <strong>in</strong> produc<strong>in</strong>ga divorce <strong>in</strong> later life between the physicalsensuous impulses and the ideal emotions. When earlymasturbation is a factor <strong>in</strong> develop<strong>in</strong>g <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>version itusually operates <strong>in</strong> this manner, the repulsion for normalcoitus help<strong>in</strong>g to furnish a soil on which the <strong>in</strong>verted impulsemay develop unimpeded.It isimportant to realizethat the possible evil results are exceptional. Dr. Kathar<strong>in</strong>eDavis <strong>in</strong> her extensive <strong>in</strong>vestigation,which is the most<strong>of</strong> masturbation <strong>in</strong> womenelaborate and valuable studywe possess,found when compar<strong>in</strong>g the group <strong>of</strong> happilymarried women with the group <strong>of</strong> the unhappily unmarried,that the number <strong>in</strong> each group <strong>of</strong> those who beforemarriage had engaged <strong>in</strong> masturbation or other similar<strong>sex</strong> play (not <strong>in</strong>clud<strong>in</strong>g <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>tercourse) was almostidentical.


THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN YOUTHOn the psychic sidethe most frequent and the mostcharacteristic result <strong>of</strong> persistent and excessive masturbationseems tobe a morbid heighten<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> self-consciousnesswithout any coord<strong>in</strong>ated heighten<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> self-esteem.a desirable andThe man or woman who is kissed bydesired person <strong>of</strong> the opposite <strong>sex</strong> feels a satisfy<strong>in</strong>g sense<strong>of</strong> pride and elation, which must always be absent fromthe manifestations <strong>of</strong> auto-erotic activity. This must be so,even apart from the masturbator's consciousness <strong>of</strong> thegeneral social attitude toward his practices and his dread<strong>of</strong> detection, for that may also exist as regards normalcoitus without any correspond<strong>in</strong>g psychic effect. The masturbator,if his practice is habitual, is thus compelled tocultivate an artificial consciousness <strong>of</strong> self-esteem, and mayshow a tendency to mental arrogance. Self-righteousnessand religiosity constitute, as it were, a protection aga<strong>in</strong>stthe tendency to remorse. A morbid mental soil is, <strong>of</strong>course, requiredfor the full development<strong>of</strong> these characteristics.The habitual male masturbator, it must beremembered, is <strong>of</strong>ten a shy and solitary person; <strong>in</strong>dividuals<strong>of</strong> this temperament are especially predisposed toexcesses <strong>in</strong> all the manifestations <strong>of</strong> auto-erotism, whilethe yield<strong>in</strong>g to such tendencies <strong>in</strong>creases the reserve andthe horror <strong>of</strong> society, at the same time produc<strong>in</strong>g a certa<strong>in</strong>suspicion <strong>of</strong> others. In some extreme cases there nois,doubt, as Kraepel<strong>in</strong> believed, some decrease <strong>of</strong> psychiccapacity, an <strong>in</strong>ability to grasp and coord<strong>in</strong>ate externalimpressions, weakness <strong>of</strong> memory, deaden<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> emotions,or else the general phenomena <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>creased irritability,lead<strong>in</strong>g on to neurasthenia.adolescence <strong>in</strong>In either <strong>sex</strong> auto-erotic excesses dur<strong>in</strong>gwhatever absenceyoung men and women <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>telligence<strong>of</strong> gross <strong>in</strong>jury there may be still <strong>of</strong>ten encourage a


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXcerta<strong>in</strong> degree <strong>of</strong> psychic abnormality, and tend to fosterfalse and high-strungideals <strong>of</strong> life. Kraepel<strong>in</strong> referred tothe frequency <strong>of</strong> exalted enthusiasms <strong>in</strong> masturbation,and Anstie long ago remarked on the connection betweenmasturbation and prematurefalse work <strong>in</strong> literature andart. It may be added that excess <strong>in</strong> masturbation hassometimes occurred <strong>in</strong> men and women whose work <strong>in</strong>literature and art cannot be described asfalse.premature andIt must always be remembered, however, that, while thepractice <strong>of</strong> masturbation may be harmful <strong>in</strong> its consequences,also, <strong>in</strong> the absence <strong>of</strong> normal <strong>sex</strong>ual rela-it istionships, frequently not without goodresults. In themedical literature <strong>of</strong> the last hundred years a number <strong>of</strong>cases have been <strong>in</strong>cidentally recorded <strong>in</strong> which thepatients found masturbation beneficial, and such casesmight certa<strong>in</strong>ly have been enormously <strong>in</strong>creased if therehad been any open-eyed desire to discover them. We mustrecognize that masturbation is, <strong>in</strong> the ma<strong>in</strong>, practiced forits sedative effect on the nervous system. In normal persons,well past the age <strong>of</strong> puberty, and otherwise lead<strong>in</strong>ga chaste life masturbation would be little practiced exceptfor the physical and mental relief it br<strong>in</strong>gs.These considerations led the late Dr. Robie, on thestrength <strong>of</strong> considerable cl<strong>in</strong>ical -experience <strong>in</strong> the UnitedStates, to go beyond the simple recognition <strong>of</strong> the substantialharmlessness <strong>of</strong> active auto-erotic practices,and<strong>in</strong>. his Rational Sex Ethics (1916) and later books actuallyto recommend them, especiallyto women, as <strong>of</strong> therapeuticvalue <strong>in</strong> nervous conditions and salutary to health,much on the same level as normal <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>tercourse.This doctr<strong>in</strong>e needs .much qualification. In its extremeform it is far too simple-m<strong>in</strong>ded a solution <strong>of</strong> the diffi-


THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN YOUTHculties <strong>in</strong>volved. Such a recommendation may be just asundesirable as the old-fashioned recommendations <strong>of</strong>prostitution or <strong>of</strong> cont<strong>in</strong>ence. The self-gratification <strong>of</strong>shut-<strong>in</strong> solitude may not be an improvement on the eagerand active desires <strong>of</strong> the unsatisfied. The physician's attitudeshould be one <strong>of</strong> sympathetic comprehension, butonly the <strong>in</strong>dividual himself can decide what course <strong>of</strong>action best suits his temperament and circumstances.More reasonable, therefore, than the attitude <strong>of</strong> Robieisthat <strong>of</strong> Wolbarst who, while hold<strong>in</strong>g that masturbationshould not be actually encouraged, considers that a po<strong>in</strong>tmay be reached when the impulse should not be restra<strong>in</strong>ed,and quotes a Ch<strong>in</strong>ese proverb, that "It is betterto satisfy the body than to discolor the m<strong>in</strong>d." We shouldavoid any harsh condemnation <strong>of</strong> the practice when it isadmitted, especially when there is self-condemnation. Atthe same time, he properly adds, it is not possible to commendthose "moralists" who approve <strong>of</strong> masturbation asa method <strong>of</strong> preserv<strong>in</strong>g an imag<strong>in</strong>ary "virtue." There ismore real virtue <strong>in</strong> cherish<strong>in</strong>g the natural impulse to<strong>sex</strong>ual love and <strong>in</strong> adventurously fac<strong>in</strong>gthe natural desiresborn <strong>of</strong> that impulse.We have to recognize that we are concerned with amanifestation which belongs to a vast group <strong>of</strong> autoeroticphenomena, and that, <strong>in</strong> some form or another,such manifestations are <strong>in</strong>evitable. It is our wisest courseto recognize this <strong>in</strong>evitableness <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual and transmuted<strong>sex</strong>ual manifestations under the perpetual restra<strong>in</strong>ts <strong>of</strong>civilized life, and, while avoid<strong>in</strong>g any attitude <strong>of</strong> excessive<strong>in</strong>dulgence or <strong>in</strong>difference, to avoid also any attitude<strong>of</strong> horror, for our horror not only leads to the facts be<strong>in</strong>geffectually veiled from our sight, but itself serves to manufactureartificially evils that may be greater.


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXBIBLIOGRAPHYHAVELOCK ELLIS, "Auto-erotism" <strong>in</strong> Studies <strong>in</strong> the <strong>Psychology</strong><strong>of</strong> Sex, Vol. I.A. MOLL, The Sexual Life <strong>of</strong> the Child.STANLEY HALL, Adolescence.FREUD, Three Contributions to Sexual Theory.KATHARINE DAVIS, Factors <strong>in</strong> the Sex Life <strong>of</strong> Twenty TwoHundred Women.G. V. HAMILTON, A Research <strong>in</strong> Marriage.NORTHGOTE, Christianity and Sex Problems.WOLBARST, Children <strong>of</strong> Adam.NarcissismThis condition may best be regarded as a form <strong>of</strong> autoerotism,as <strong>in</strong>deed its extreme and most highly developedpsychic form. It is a conception which has assumed ratherdifferent shapes at the hands <strong>of</strong> different psychologists <strong>of</strong><strong>sex</strong>, so that a brief sketch <strong>of</strong> its history may be desirable.Forty years ago it had no def<strong>in</strong>ite existence for science,though long clearly traceable <strong>in</strong> fiction and poetry, whileits central situation was symbolized <strong>in</strong> classic Greek daysby the figure <strong>of</strong> Narcissus. Here and there, <strong>in</strong>deed, psychiatristsnoted such a condition as a symptom <strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong>dividualcases, but <strong>in</strong> 1898, when first putt<strong>in</strong>g forward a sketch (<strong>in</strong>the Alienist and Neurologist] <strong>of</strong> auto-erotism, I concludedby describ<strong>in</strong>g, with a case, as its extreme form, the Narcissus-liketendency sometimes found, more especiallyperhaps <strong>in</strong> women, for the <strong>sex</strong>ual emotions to be absorbed,and <strong>of</strong>ten entirely lost, <strong>in</strong> self-admiration. Thispaper was at once summarized <strong>in</strong> Germany by Dr. Nackewho translated my "Narcissus-like tendency" as '^Narcismus,"express<strong>in</strong>g his agreement, and call<strong>in</strong>g this "the mostclassical form" <strong>of</strong> what I termed auto-erotism, though, headded (which I had not done) , that there would be actual


THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN YOUTH<strong>sex</strong>ual orgasm accompany<strong>in</strong>g the Narcissism; this cannotbe accepted. Rohleder observed <strong>in</strong> men some pronouncedcases <strong>of</strong> this condition which he called "automono<strong>sex</strong>ualism,"which isalso the term used by Hirschfeld. Then <strong>in</strong>1910 Freud adopted from Nacke the name and conception<strong>of</strong> Narcissism, regard<strong>in</strong>g it, however, simply as a stage <strong>in</strong>the development <strong>of</strong> mascul<strong>in</strong>e <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>version, the subjectbe<strong>in</strong>g supposed to identifyhimself with a woman(usually his mother) and so to acquire self-love. In 1911Otto Rank, tak<strong>in</strong>g up the matter from my treatment <strong>of</strong> it,developed it on generally Freudian l<strong>in</strong>es, tend<strong>in</strong>g also toshow, not merely that it was, as I had <strong>in</strong>cluded it, with<strong>in</strong>the normal range <strong>of</strong> variation, but a fairly ord<strong>in</strong>ary stage<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual development. Rank's study evidently impressedFreud who <strong>in</strong> 1914 accepted and emphasized Rank's view,stat<strong>in</strong>g positively that there is a primaryNarcissism <strong>in</strong>every <strong>in</strong>dividual, the libid<strong>in</strong>al complement to the egoism<strong>of</strong> the <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct <strong>of</strong> self-preservation,and that itmay sometimesdom<strong>in</strong>ate object-choice, various alternatives thenaris<strong>in</strong>g, accord<strong>in</strong>g as a person loves (a)what he is himself,(b) what he once was, (c) what he wanted to be, or(d) some one who was once part <strong>of</strong> himself. It is at thispo<strong>in</strong>t that the conception <strong>of</strong> Narcissism rema<strong>in</strong>s mostsuitable for ord<strong>in</strong>ary use.Freud himself has at some po<strong>in</strong>ts modified his view andat others further extended it, while numerous psycho-analysts,both <strong>of</strong> the Freudian and other schools, have carriedit to an extreme po<strong>in</strong>t, consider<strong>in</strong>g religions and philosophiesas expressions <strong>of</strong> Narcissism, while f<strong>in</strong>ally it hasbeen suggested (by Ferenczi) that Nature herself <strong>in</strong> theprocess <strong>of</strong> evolution is guided by Narcissistic motives.Evidence for Narcissism has also been found (as by R6-heim) among savages and <strong>in</strong> folk-lore; the work <strong>of</strong> Sir


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXJames Frazer, as Rank firstpo<strong>in</strong>ted out, here furnish<strong>in</strong>gmuch material for psychologicaluse.HAVELOCK ELLIS, Studies <strong>in</strong>I and VII.BIBLIOGRAPHYthe <strong>Psychology</strong> <strong>of</strong> Sex, Vols.S. FREUD, Three Contributions to Sexual Theory, andCollected Papers, Vol. IV.J. HARNIK, "The Developments <strong>of</strong> Narcissism <strong>in</strong> Manand Woman," Int. Jour. Psycho-analysis, Jan., 1924.Education <strong>in</strong>SexWhen we survey the manifestations <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>fancy andchildhood, we see that <strong>in</strong> relation to <strong>sex</strong> they may sometimesbe apparently non-existent, when present are usuallynot to be ex-vague, and when def<strong>in</strong>ite are frequentlypla<strong>in</strong>ed <strong>in</strong> the way they would be expla<strong>in</strong>ed i occurr<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong> an adult.The result has been, as we know, that putt<strong>in</strong>g asidethose persons, now grow<strong>in</strong>g few <strong>in</strong> number, who wereonce horrified at the suggestion <strong>of</strong> anyth<strong>in</strong>g <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong> the<strong>in</strong>fantile psyche even good observers have varied <strong>in</strong> theirattitude and policy with regard to <strong>sex</strong> <strong>in</strong> early life. Thereare those who feel unable to recognize any genu<strong>in</strong>e <strong>sex</strong>ualmanifestations, at an early age, <strong>in</strong> healthy normal children;there are those who recognizeit allthe time, alike<strong>in</strong> sound and <strong>in</strong> neurotic children, though f<strong>in</strong>d<strong>in</strong>g thatits manifestations vary and change; there are those, itmayperhaps be added, who even admitt<strong>in</strong>g the presence <strong>of</strong><strong>sex</strong>ual signs, regard them as not normal for the stage <strong>of</strong>childhood. That, at all events, is the later op<strong>in</strong>ion <strong>of</strong> Rank<strong>in</strong> his work on Modern Education. "Sexuality is not naturalto the child/' he observes; "it might rather be con-


THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN YOUTHceived <strong>of</strong> as the <strong>in</strong>dividual's natural enemy, aga<strong>in</strong>st whichhe defends himself, from the beg<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g, with his wholepersonality." Such a view at all events harmonizes with acommon attitude <strong>in</strong> culture, even <strong>in</strong> primitive culture,whether or not we are entitled to pushit back to childhood.The proper attitude towards <strong>sex</strong>uality <strong>in</strong> the child is,therefore, one <strong>of</strong> watchful hygiene, which must always beunobtrusive. The childish erotic impulses are <strong>of</strong>ten unconscious,and noth<strong>in</strong>gisga<strong>in</strong>ed by render<strong>in</strong>g them consciousor by concentrat<strong>in</strong>g attention on them. It isnecessary to guard aga<strong>in</strong>st the child do<strong>in</strong>g any manifest<strong>in</strong>jury to himself or others. It also seems desirable <strong>in</strong> somecases to warn the mother not only aga<strong>in</strong>st too great ananxiety to punish a child exhibit<strong>in</strong>g these manifestations,but also aga<strong>in</strong>st any excess <strong>of</strong> physical tenderness whichmay unduly arouse the emotions <strong>of</strong> susceptible children.It is above all necessary to cultivate an understand<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong>the child's nature. Adults are prone to attribute their ownfeel<strong>in</strong>gs to children. Many acts <strong>of</strong> children, which toadults appear to reveal vicious <strong>sex</strong>ual motives, <strong>of</strong>ten haveno <strong>sex</strong>ual motive at all, but spr<strong>in</strong>g merely from the playimpulse or from the desire for knowledge. This fallacyhasdoubtless been favored <strong>in</strong> recent years by unguardedadherents <strong>of</strong> psycho-analytic doctr<strong>in</strong>es.It is unfortunate that the students <strong>of</strong> childhood have<strong>of</strong>ten been people who have ga<strong>in</strong>ed their knowledge fromthe study <strong>of</strong> neurotic subjects."All the general conclusionsderived from the study <strong>of</strong> the present day type <strong>of</strong>neurotic," Otto Rank remarks <strong>in</strong> his Modern Education,"must be received with great caution, for under other conditionsMan reacts differently." He adds that the presentday child cannot be compared with primitive Man and


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXthat it may perhaps be best that education should not betoo def<strong>in</strong>ite.It is now held by the best authorities that the <strong>sex</strong>ualguidance <strong>of</strong> children should beg<strong>in</strong>, so far as its elementsare concerned, at a very early age, and that a wise andtender mother is the ideal person to perform this reallymaternal duty. It may, <strong>in</strong>deed, be added that only amother can perform it rightly, and the tra<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> mothersis an essential condition for the wholesome development<strong>of</strong> children. There is danger, it is sometimes said, thatchildren's m<strong>in</strong>ds will be artificially concentrated on <strong>sex</strong>ualsubjects, <strong>of</strong> which otherwise they might rema<strong>in</strong> blissfullyunconscious. It isimportant, however, to remember thenatural operations<strong>of</strong> a child's m<strong>in</strong>d. A child's desire toknow where babies come from is not a symptom o <strong>sex</strong>ualconsciousness, it is a natural desire to discover an importantscientific fact. Aga<strong>in</strong>, at a little later age, the desireto know and see how the bodies <strong>of</strong> persons <strong>of</strong> the opposite<strong>sex</strong> are made is equally <strong>in</strong>nocent and natural. It is theforced and unreasoned suppression <strong>of</strong> these natural curiosities,and not their gratification,which favors anunhealthy <strong>sex</strong>ual consciousness. The child secretly concentrateshimself on the solution <strong>of</strong> these mysteries onlybecause any open attempt to solve them is on every handrebuffed.There should be noth<strong>in</strong>g formal or special about theknowledge <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> imparted by the mother to her child.When the relation between mother and child is naturaland <strong>in</strong>timate every function must from time to time comeup for consideration, and the sensible mother will dealwith each as it arises, though without carry<strong>in</strong>g her <strong>in</strong>formationfurther than the child's curiosity at the timedemands. Sex and excretion will be dealt with assimplyas anyth<strong>in</strong>g else, and neither with the slightest sign <strong>of</strong>


THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN YOUTHrepulsion or <strong>of</strong> disgust.Servants and nurse-maids havefrequently been apt not only to treat <strong>sex</strong> with reprehensionbut excretion with disgust. The wholesome motherfeels no disgust for her child's excretions, and that attitudeisimportant, for as the organs <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> and <strong>of</strong> excretionare on the surface so closely adjo<strong>in</strong>ed any attitude <strong>of</strong>disgust towards one is likely to embrace the other. It issometimes said that the right attitude to <strong>in</strong>culcate is thatboth sets <strong>of</strong> organs alike are neither "disgust<strong>in</strong>g" nor"sacred." But, <strong>in</strong> one way or another, it has soon to bemade clear that, while both sets <strong>of</strong> organs are natural andneither disgust<strong>in</strong>g, there is an immense difference <strong>in</strong> theirultimate significance, and that what proceeds from <strong>sex</strong>may be so tragic for the <strong>in</strong>dividual and so fateful for t5erace that, even if we reject the word "sacred" for <strong>sex</strong>, wemust f<strong>in</strong>d some other word <strong>of</strong> equal poignancy.The value <strong>of</strong> early <strong>sex</strong> <strong>in</strong>struction for after life is shownby Dr. Kathar<strong>in</strong>e Davis's extensive <strong>in</strong>vestigation amongmarried women. When divided <strong>in</strong>to two groups, accord<strong>in</strong>gas they regarded themselves as happily or unhappily married,it was found that 57 per cent, <strong>of</strong> the happy grouphad received some general <strong>sex</strong> <strong>in</strong>struction <strong>in</strong> early life, butonly 44 per cent, <strong>of</strong> the unhappy group. Dr. G. V. Hamil-which are based on much smaller data, doton's results,not entirely agree, but he found the significant fact thatthe best source <strong>of</strong> early <strong>sex</strong> <strong>in</strong>struction for girls was themother; 65 per<strong>in</strong>struction were <strong>in</strong> the groupcent, <strong>of</strong> married women who received suchwhose <strong>sex</strong>ual relations are"adequate," but less than 35 per cent, <strong>in</strong> the "<strong>in</strong>adequate"group; when the early <strong>in</strong>formation came from contemporariesor obscene talk, the percentage for the adequategroup fell to 54, and the married life <strong>of</strong> the small groupwho had received <strong>in</strong>struction from father or brother wasunsatisfactory.1*991


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXThe po<strong>in</strong>tsto be atta<strong>in</strong>ed are that the child's simpleand natural questionsshould be answered simply andnaturally when theyfirst beg<strong>in</strong> to be asked, so that histhoughts may not be arrested, and emotion generated, bythe creation <strong>of</strong> a mystery. It is by wait<strong>in</strong>g too late thatmischief is liable to be caused. As regards the naked body,similarly, much morbid curiosity may be aroused <strong>in</strong> thechild who isgrow<strong>in</strong>g up without ever see<strong>in</strong>g the nakedbodies <strong>of</strong> children <strong>of</strong> the opposite <strong>sex</strong>, and the suddencasual sight<strong>of</strong> naked adults, for the first time, may sometimesproduce a pa<strong>in</strong>ful shock. It is desirable that childrenshould be familiar with the sight <strong>of</strong> each other's nakedbodies, and some parents also adopt the plan <strong>of</strong> themselvesbath<strong>in</strong>g naked with their children when the latterare still very young. Various risks are thus avoided, whilesuch simplicityand openness tend to delay the development<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual consciousness, and to <strong>in</strong>hibit the development<strong>of</strong> undesirable curiosities. It may even happen thatwith his nakedthe little boy who is brought up familiarlylittle sister never even so much as discovers that there isany <strong>sex</strong>ual difference <strong>of</strong> physical conformation. All the<strong>in</strong>fluences that delay precocious<strong>sex</strong>ual consciousness are<strong>of</strong> good augury for future development; the wise <strong>sex</strong>ualhygienist realizes that this end cannot be atta<strong>in</strong>ed by theartificial creation <strong>of</strong> mysteries.But we must always bear <strong>in</strong> m<strong>in</strong>d that the attitudetowards the child which isnow becom<strong>in</strong>g recognized aswisest is not yet firmly established. If it is true, as hasbeen lately said, that the child has to create his parents <strong>in</strong>accordance with his own needs, it is also true that thesituation thus presentedis not easy to adjust on the basis<strong>of</strong> our ancient traditions <strong>of</strong> which the existence mustalways be recognized, so that the child's is far lesspositionsimple than it used to be. It is <strong>in</strong>deed today peculiarly[140]


THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN YOUTHdifficult. He is no longer subjected to a generally acceptedand rigidly fixed collective method <strong>of</strong> education, while heis still too undeveloped to assume the self-discipl<strong>in</strong>e <strong>of</strong> theadult. "The child <strong>of</strong> today/' Rank remarks, "has to passthrough a more critical childhood than perhaps the child<strong>of</strong> any earlier period <strong>in</strong> the history <strong>of</strong> Man."We must not, therefore, be surprisedif, even undergenerally improved conditions, we still encounter the"difficult" or "problem" child. Both heredity and environmentstill tend to the occasional production <strong>of</strong> suchchildren. The more enlightened views now beg<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g toprevail will <strong>of</strong>ten prove a sufficient guide <strong>in</strong> deal<strong>in</strong>g withthese cases without resort to special expert assistance, butnot always. We may, therefore, view with satisfaction thegrow<strong>in</strong>g tendency to view such "problem children" not, asformerly, merely "naughty" or "vicious," but as propersubjects for the comb<strong>in</strong>ed attentions <strong>of</strong> the physician, thepsychologist, the psychiatrist,and the social worker. Thedesirability <strong>of</strong> special Child Guidance Cl<strong>in</strong>ics with thisend <strong>in</strong> view is becom<strong>in</strong>g constantly more recognized s<strong>in</strong>ce<strong>in</strong> 1909, with the aid <strong>of</strong> the <strong>in</strong>spiration and public-spiritedgenerosity<strong>of</strong> Mrs. W. F. Dummer, the Juvenile PsychopathicInstitute, with Dr. William Healy as Director, was<strong>in</strong>stituted <strong>in</strong> Chicago, becom<strong>in</strong>g established <strong>in</strong> 1914 as adepartment <strong>of</strong> the Juvenile Court. This may be said to bethe orig<strong>in</strong> <strong>of</strong> the movement <strong>in</strong> favor <strong>of</strong> Child GuidanceCl<strong>in</strong>ics. As they have s<strong>in</strong>ce developed theyconsist essentially<strong>of</strong> a team <strong>of</strong> three persons, psychiatrist, psychologist,that a doctorand social worker. It may sometimes happenwith a special personal equipmentfor such cases may,more simply and conveniently, comb<strong>in</strong>e these three functions<strong>in</strong> himself, but the requirementsare seldom comb<strong>in</strong>ed,nor can the ord<strong>in</strong>ary doctor <strong>of</strong>ten f<strong>in</strong>d time forsuch special work. It is probable, therefore, that these


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXcl<strong>in</strong>ics will cont<strong>in</strong>ue to develop, though not <strong>in</strong> connectionwith any special school <strong>of</strong> thought or practice, whichwould be undesirable. The New York Institute for ChildGuidance has been planned on a large scale. The LondonChild Guidance Cl<strong>in</strong>ic was established <strong>in</strong> 1930.The <strong>in</strong>vestigations <strong>in</strong>voked by Child Guidance maylead us to a deeper knowledge <strong>of</strong> human types.What isnow called "Constitutionology" the study <strong>of</strong> the specialpsycho-physical types <strong>in</strong>to which human be<strong>in</strong>gs tend t<strong>of</strong>all proved attractive to physicians at an early period, forsuch a studyis obviously <strong>of</strong> high importance both formedic<strong>in</strong>e and for life. It isonly <strong>in</strong> recent years, however,that the data have come <strong>in</strong>to existence for plac<strong>in</strong>g sucha study on a sound basis. It may <strong>in</strong>deed be said that itwas only with the publication<strong>in</strong> 1921 <strong>of</strong> the epoch-mark<strong>in</strong>gbook <strong>of</strong> Pr<strong>of</strong>essor Kretschmer, Physique and Character,that constitutionology has been placed on agenu<strong>in</strong>ely scientific foundation, thoughit is still at anearly stage and cont<strong>in</strong>uously develop<strong>in</strong>g.Looked at broadly, <strong>sex</strong>ual enlightenment and educationpossess today a deeper significance than they have everpossessed before. Sexual <strong>in</strong>itiation at puberty has alwayshad a well recognized racial importance. In central Africa,as we know, and <strong>in</strong> many other parts <strong>of</strong> the world amongthe peoples we choose to regard, more or less <strong>in</strong>accurately,as "primitive," such <strong>in</strong>itiation is at once a sacred rite anda practical preparation for adult life. The child may be,and theand <strong>of</strong>ten is, already familiar with <strong>sex</strong> as play,grown-up people <strong>of</strong>ten treat such play with <strong>in</strong>dulgence.But at itpuberty becomes a more serious matter. Theclaims <strong>of</strong> the community and the race have to be considered;the youth or girl has to be fitted <strong>in</strong>to his or hersocial place <strong>in</strong> the group, and for this what may be termeda moral education is necessary. It is <strong>of</strong>ten short and sharp,


THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN YOUTHperhaps with some physical mutilation or severe abst<strong>in</strong>enceor isolation, while the elders impart <strong>in</strong>struction <strong>in</strong>the duties <strong>of</strong> life and reveal the sacred mysteries <strong>of</strong> thetribe. Thereafter the child becomes a man or a woman,and takes on new privileges, new duties, new responsibilities.It is an admirable system: noth<strong>in</strong>g better couldwell be devised under more or less primitive conditions<strong>of</strong> life. It has been unfortunate that <strong>in</strong> Christendom therelics <strong>of</strong> such systems had so far decayed as to become<strong>in</strong>significant, or for the most part to disappear.Today we are wak<strong>in</strong>g up to that loss and striv<strong>in</strong>g torepair it. But we can no longer build up any system on thesame l<strong>in</strong>es, and before build<strong>in</strong>g at all we have to considerthe nature <strong>of</strong> the phase <strong>of</strong> civilization out <strong>of</strong> which weare pass<strong>in</strong>g.In that phase the <strong>in</strong>sistence was all on the <strong>in</strong>tellect andthe methods <strong>of</strong> teach<strong>in</strong>g which carried weight, or acquiredwide popularity, were methods <strong>of</strong> educat<strong>in</strong>g the <strong>in</strong>telligence.But the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse which yetis the ma<strong>in</strong>foundation <strong>of</strong> social as well as personal life is not easilybrought <strong>in</strong>to the sphere <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>telligence. So it has comeabout that our educational systems have, even up to thepresent, almost completely excluded the irrational element<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>; they have had little <strong>in</strong> common with those admirable,and, so far as the conditions allowed, completeschemes <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>itiation which prevailed <strong>in</strong> earlier ages <strong>of</strong>the world, the ages <strong>in</strong> which Man learned to become Man.Education with us has not been an education for life, butonly for a part <strong>of</strong> life, especially the money-earn<strong>in</strong>g part.This has been associated with <strong>in</strong> various stages anddegrees an <strong>in</strong>difference, dislike, even contempt for thatpart <strong>of</strong> life which is based on the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse, s<strong>in</strong>ce itfailed to come <strong>in</strong>to the sphere <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>telligence with whichour educational activities were concerned. It is a familiar


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXfact that, among the products <strong>of</strong> our educational system,the more clever <strong>in</strong>dividuals that is to say those whosenarrow abilities are concentrated on the cultivation <strong>of</strong><strong>in</strong>telligence <strong>of</strong>ten adopt a sneer<strong>in</strong>g or cynical attitudewhere matters <strong>of</strong> love and <strong>sex</strong> are concerned. That is thenatural outcome <strong>of</strong> their school tra<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g, althoughIt wasnot a designed outcome. It was certa<strong>in</strong>ly not the usualoutcome <strong>of</strong> the ancient methods <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>itiation <strong>in</strong>to life. Inbuild<strong>in</strong>g up our new system we have, therefore, to avoidthe peril <strong>of</strong> the systems from which we immediatelyproceed.But there isanother po<strong>in</strong>t and one at which we mustavoid the example <strong>of</strong> primitive societies: that is to say <strong>in</strong>delay<strong>in</strong>g <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>itiation to puberty. The work <strong>of</strong> thepsycho-analysts has made widely known the fact, whichthough previously known was not fully grasped <strong>in</strong> its fullsignificance, that <strong>sex</strong>uality is far from beg<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g only atpuberty. The racial bear<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>uality beg<strong>in</strong>s at puberty,but its personal bear<strong>in</strong>g which is <strong>in</strong>directly racial mayand <strong>of</strong>ten does beg<strong>in</strong> much earlier, even <strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong>fancy.A practicalresult <strong>of</strong> this fact is that the first <strong>in</strong>itiation<strong>in</strong> <strong>sex</strong>, s<strong>in</strong>ce it is called for <strong>in</strong> early childhood, is takenout <strong>of</strong> the hands <strong>of</strong> the community which <strong>of</strong> old conductedthe puberty <strong>in</strong>itiations, and placed <strong>in</strong> the hands<strong>of</strong> the parents. Under these conditions it is not a formaland conscious <strong>in</strong>itiation, but a slow, natural and almostimperceptible process under the guidance <strong>of</strong> a parent,usually the mother, who is freed from the taboos and<strong>in</strong>hibitions which formerly made it difficult for adults torecognize the existence <strong>of</strong> the phenomena <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> wheretheir children were concerned, or to speak <strong>of</strong> themnaturally.In the schools, concomitantly and as the child develops,we may reasonably expect to see an elementary tra<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g[H4]


THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN YOUTH<strong>in</strong> biology, cover<strong>in</strong>g the ma<strong>in</strong> facts <strong>of</strong> human life <strong>in</strong>clud<strong>in</strong>g,though with no undue <strong>in</strong>sistence, <strong>sex</strong>given toall boys and girls. As a dist<strong>in</strong>guished biologist, RugglesGates, has said: "Every schoolboy and girl should, as anessential part <strong>of</strong> their education, receive some <strong>in</strong>structionregard<strong>in</strong>g the nature, structure, and action <strong>of</strong> plant andanimal organisms, as well as their relationships and re^actions upon each other. They should know someth<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong>heredity, and realize that every organism <strong>in</strong>herits andtransmits itsgenetic peculiarities, down to the f<strong>in</strong>estdetails <strong>of</strong> difference."That education, as it develops, leads upto a racial<strong>in</strong>itiation correspond<strong>in</strong>g to the rites <strong>of</strong> more primitivepeoples. It is along these biological l<strong>in</strong>es that we reacHthe modern conception <strong>of</strong> that aspect <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> which theancients regarded as sacred, for we must not, I would sayonce more, accept the notion <strong>of</strong> those foolish though wellmean<strong>in</strong>gpeople who wish to br<strong>in</strong>g up children to regard<strong>sex</strong>uality as commonplace, on the same level as nutritionand excretion. Along the l<strong>in</strong>e <strong>of</strong> biology it is easy to understandthat <strong>sex</strong> is much more than that; it is not merelythe channel along which the race is ma<strong>in</strong>ta<strong>in</strong>ed and Builtup,it is the foundation on which all dreams <strong>of</strong> the futureworld must be erected. There are other and more personalbutends to which the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse may be directed,there isalways this solid central fact.The other ends also rema<strong>in</strong> important. The <strong>in</strong>differenceand even contempt with which our educational systemshave treated the impulse <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> have blunted the farspread<strong>in</strong>gmotive powers <strong>of</strong> that impulse. Yet they haveat the same time rendered more urgent the need to cherishand develop the energies that reside <strong>in</strong> the impulse <strong>of</strong><strong>sex</strong>. Intelligence alone, <strong>in</strong>dispensable as it always rema<strong>in</strong>s,is sterile;it has no vital and penetrat<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>fluence <strong>in</strong> the


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXorganism. But amid the steriliz<strong>in</strong>g tendencies <strong>of</strong> our lifethe impulse <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> still rema<strong>in</strong>s unimpaired, however con^cealed or despised.It is even, perhaps, as Otto Rank hastermed it, "the last emotional resource which the exaggeratedrationalization <strong>of</strong> our education has left us."Here, alike <strong>in</strong> its natural manifestations and <strong>in</strong> its sublimationsfor the two go together and neither canflourish with the complete suppression <strong>of</strong> the other wepossess a great hope for our future civilization*BIBLIOGRAPHYA. MOLL, The Sexual Life <strong>of</strong> the Child,HAVELOCK ELLIS, Studies <strong>in</strong> the <strong>Psychology</strong> <strong>of</strong> Sex> especiallyVols. I and VI; also "The New Mother" <strong>in</strong> MoreEssays <strong>of</strong> Love and Virtue.STANLEY HALL, Adolescence.MARY CHADWICK, Difficulties <strong>in</strong> Child Development(deal<strong>in</strong>g especially with the mistakes <strong>of</strong> parents <strong>in</strong>br<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong>g up their children) .OTTO RANK, Modern Education: A Critique <strong>of</strong> Its FundamentalIdeas, 1932.W. HEALY, The Individual Del<strong>in</strong>quent, 1915.BERNARD HART, "Work <strong>of</strong> a Child Guidance Cl<strong>in</strong>ic,"British Medical Journalj igth Sept., 1931.KRETSCHMER, Physique and Character.WINIFRED DE KOK., Guid<strong>in</strong>g Your Child through the FormativeYears.K. DE' SCHWEINITZ, Grow<strong>in</strong>g Up: The Story <strong>of</strong> How WeBecome Alive, Are Born and Grow Up.


CHAPTER IVSEXUAL DEVIATION AND THE EROTICSYMBOLISMSSexual DeviationsIT was formerly taken for granted by all writers on thelife <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> that there is but one pattern for that life, andthat any stray<strong>in</strong>g from that one pattern was not "normal.'*This was assumed and never discussed. There seemedeven to be no need to def<strong>in</strong>e precisely what this s<strong>in</strong>glepattern was; every one was supposed to know <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ctively.As soon as we beg<strong>in</strong> to <strong>in</strong>quire <strong>in</strong>to the actual and <strong>in</strong>timatefacts <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual life, however, we see that thisancient and traditional assumption was mistaken. So farfrom there be<strong>in</strong>g only one pattern <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>-life, it would benearer the truth to say that there are as many patterns asthere are <strong>in</strong>dividuals. At the least there are a number <strong>of</strong>types <strong>of</strong> patterns to one or other <strong>of</strong> which the <strong>in</strong>dividualtends more or less, never exactly, to approximate. Thishas been visible to me ever s<strong>in</strong>ce Ibegan to study <strong>sex</strong>ualpsychology, and I have sought to make clear that here, aselsewhere <strong>in</strong> nature, we have to admit a wide limit <strong>of</strong>variations fall<strong>in</strong>g with<strong>in</strong> the normal range. Today this isgradually be<strong>in</strong>g recognized by experienced observers. Toquote but one dist<strong>in</strong>guished gynecologist, Dick<strong>in</strong>son expresses"a grow<strong>in</strong>g skepticism about a fixed pattern <strong>of</strong><strong>sex</strong>."In order to rema<strong>in</strong> with<strong>in</strong> the normal range, all variationsmust at some po<strong>in</strong>t <strong>in</strong>clude the procreative end for


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXwhich <strong>sex</strong> exists. To exclude procreation is perfectly legitimate,and under some circumstances morally imperative.But <strong>sex</strong>ual activities entirely and by preference outsidethe range <strong>in</strong> which procreation isconsidered abnormal; they are deviations.possible may fairly beSexual deviations were formerly called "perversions."That word arose at a time when <strong>sex</strong>ual anomalies wereuniversally regarded as s<strong>in</strong>s or crimes, at the least as vices.It is still used by those whose ideas are rooted <strong>in</strong> traditions<strong>of</strong> the past which they cannot outgrow. In earlieryears I have myself used it, though under protest, andwith explanations <strong>of</strong> what I thereby meant. I now realizethat (asDick<strong>in</strong>son also has po<strong>in</strong>ted out) the time hascome to avoid the word, so far as possible, altogether.Even <strong>in</strong> the orig<strong>in</strong>al Lat<strong>in</strong>, peruersus sometimes conveysa moral judgment;it dates from days anterior to thescientific and medical approach to <strong>sex</strong>ual matters, whichis concerned to understand <strong>sex</strong>ual anomalies, and if necessaryto treat them, but not to condemn them. To reta<strong>in</strong>here a word which belongs to a totally different order<strong>in</strong>troduces confusion, even apart from the undoubted andfact that it has unfortunate results onhighly importantthose persons who are told that they have been guilty o"perversion." The term is completely antiquated andmischievous, and should be avoided.The term "displacement" has sometimes been used to<strong>in</strong>dicate an unusual fixation <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse. Sucha term has the advantage <strong>of</strong> be<strong>in</strong>g morally neutral, butas it <strong>in</strong>volves a static conception <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse,which is really dynamic and liv<strong>in</strong>g and liable to change,it is less satisfactory than "deviation" which is a termreta<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g dynamic force.For a long time past I have used the term "symbolism* *for many, or most, <strong>sex</strong>ual deviations. By "erotic symbol-[148]


SEXUAL DEVIATIONism" (or more narrowly, erotic fetichism)is meant acondition <strong>in</strong> which the psychological <strong>sex</strong>ual process iseither abridged or deviated <strong>in</strong> such a way that some specialpart <strong>of</strong> the process, or some object or action normally onitsmarg<strong>in</strong> or even outside it altogether, becomes, <strong>of</strong>tenat an early age, the chief focus <strong>of</strong> attention. What isthe normal lover <strong>of</strong> secondary importance, or even <strong>in</strong>different,thus becomes <strong>of</strong> primary importance, and mayproperly be said to be the symbol <strong>of</strong> the whole <strong>sex</strong>ualprocess.Looked at broadly, all the <strong>sex</strong>ual deviations are examples<strong>of</strong> erotic symbolism, for <strong>in</strong> every case it will befound that some object or act that for the normal humanbe<strong>in</strong>g has little or no erotic value has assumed such value;that is to say, it has become a symbol <strong>of</strong> normal love.Moreover, erotic symbolism comes <strong>in</strong>to play even <strong>in</strong> themore ref<strong>in</strong>ed forms <strong>of</strong> normal love, for these <strong>in</strong>volve atendency to concentrate amorous attention on somespecial po<strong>in</strong>ts <strong>in</strong> the beloved person, such po<strong>in</strong>ts be<strong>in</strong>gthemselves unimportant but acquir<strong>in</strong>g a symbolic value.When we thus use the term "symbolism" <strong>in</strong> its moreancient sense and applyit <strong>in</strong> the erotic field to deviationswhich were formerly called <strong>in</strong>discrim<strong>in</strong>ately "perversions,"it is seen to go beyond the more narrow significanceassigned to it <strong>in</strong> psycho-analytic literature. Thehas <strong>in</strong> viewpsycho-analyst, when us<strong>in</strong>g the term, ma<strong>in</strong>lya certa<strong>in</strong> psychological mechanism which is <strong>of</strong>ten undoubtedlyoperative. "The essential function <strong>of</strong> all forms<strong>of</strong> symbolism/' says Ernest Jones, "is to overcome the<strong>in</strong>hibition that ish<strong>in</strong>der<strong>in</strong>g the free expression <strong>of</strong> a givenfeel<strong>in</strong>g-idea," That isundoubtedly one way, and an <strong>in</strong>terest<strong>in</strong>gway, <strong>in</strong> which a symbol may function; but we mustnot <strong>in</strong>cautiously attribute it to all forms <strong>of</strong> symbolism.To take a highly typical symbol: the flag is for die patriotto


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXthe symbol <strong>of</strong> his country, but his devotion to it is not thethe sailorconquest <strong>of</strong> an <strong>in</strong>hibition, and when <strong>in</strong> old daysnailed the flag to the mast <strong>in</strong> battle it was certa<strong>in</strong>ly notbecause he feared to give free expressionto his love forhis country. A fundamental significance <strong>of</strong> the symbol is(as this example <strong>in</strong>dicates) that it gives concrete shape toa more abstract feel<strong>in</strong>g-idea. When a lover concentrateshis attention on some special feature <strong>of</strong> his mistress or herbelong<strong>in</strong>gs her hair or her hand or her shoes he is notovercom<strong>in</strong>g an <strong>in</strong>hibition; he isbr<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong>g to a more manageableconcrete focus the diffused emotions which hefeels for the beloved's whole personality.There is neverthelessa specialclass <strong>of</strong> symbols by which an <strong>in</strong>directrepresentation replaces someth<strong>in</strong>g hidden which is thereal motive force, because it has characteristics <strong>in</strong> commonwith it and can thus give a satisfaction which is reallyEven ifimparted by the hidden th<strong>in</strong>g it represents.psycho-analysts have sometimes exaggerated the extent <strong>of</strong>this class <strong>of</strong> it existssymbolisms, and must not be overlooked.The extent <strong>of</strong> erotic symbolism is seen when we attemptto group and classify the phenomena which may bebrought under this head. Such phenomena may be con-on the basis <strong>of</strong>veniently arranged <strong>in</strong> three great classes,the objects which arouse them.i. PARTS OF THE BODY (A), <strong>No</strong>rmal: Hand, foot,breasts, nates, hair, secretions and excretions, odor(ophresiolagnia) . (B) Abnormal: Lameness, squ<strong>in</strong>t<strong>in</strong>g,.pitt<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> smallpox, etc., Paidophilia, or the <strong>sex</strong>ual love<strong>of</strong> children, 1presbyophilia, or the love <strong>of</strong> the aged, and1 Paidophilia is sometimes regarded as a separatedeviation. Medicolegallyit is convenient so to regard it I am, however, <strong>in</strong>cl<strong>in</strong>ed to agreewith Leppmann, who has carefully studied <strong>sex</strong>ual outrages on children,that, psychologically, there is no def<strong>in</strong>ite deviation on a congenital basis<strong>in</strong>volv<strong>in</strong>g an exclusive <strong>sex</strong>ual attraction to unripe girls. It may easily


SEXUAL DEVIATIONnecrophilia, or the attraction for corpses, may be <strong>in</strong>cludedunder this head, as well as the excitement caused by animals(erotic zoophilia).2. INANIMATE OBJECTS (A) Garments: Gloves, shoes.and stock<strong>in</strong>gs and garters, aprons, handkerchiefs, underl<strong>in</strong>en.(B) Impersonal . Objects: Here may be <strong>in</strong>cludedall the various objects that may accidentally acquire thepower <strong>of</strong> excit<strong>in</strong>g <strong>sex</strong>ual feel<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> auto-erotism. Pygmalionism(iconolagnia) or the <strong>sex</strong>ual attraction <strong>of</strong> statues,mayalso be <strong>in</strong>cluded.3. ACTS AND ATTITUDES (A). Active: Whipp<strong>in</strong>g,cruelty, exhibitionism, mutilation and murder. (B), Passive:Be<strong>in</strong>g whipped, experienc<strong>in</strong>g cruelty. Personal odorsand the sound <strong>of</strong> the voice may also be <strong>in</strong>cluded underthis head. (C).Scoptophilia or Mixoscopia or voyeurism:<strong>in</strong>clud<strong>in</strong>g objects and scenes found to be <strong>sex</strong>ually stimulat<strong>in</strong>g;the vision <strong>of</strong> climb<strong>in</strong>g, sw<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong>g, etc.; the acts <strong>of</strong>ur<strong>in</strong>ation and defecation (urolagnia and coprolagnia);the coitus <strong>of</strong> animals.It will be seen that there is a vast range <strong>of</strong> k<strong>in</strong>d anddegree <strong>in</strong> the deviations <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse. At one endwe f<strong>in</strong>d the <strong>in</strong>nocent and amiable attraction which hismistress's glove or slipper may possessfor the lover anattraction which has been felt by the f<strong>in</strong>est and sanestm<strong>in</strong>ds and at the other end the random murderous outrages<strong>of</strong> a Jack the Ripper. But we have to remember thatthere is at no po<strong>in</strong>t any def<strong>in</strong>ite frontier, and that by<strong>in</strong>sensible gradations the systematic arrangement <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ualdeviations can be seen to pass from the harmless maniato the murderous outrage. So that even when we are notbe associated with impotent senility. Otherwise it occurs either as anoccasional luxurious specialty <strong>of</strong> a few over-ref<strong>in</strong>ed persons, or, morecommonly, as part <strong>of</strong> a general <strong>in</strong>discrim<strong>in</strong>at<strong>in</strong>g <strong>sex</strong>ual tendency <strong>in</strong> theweak-m<strong>in</strong>ded. So far as it has any psychological def<strong>in</strong>ition, it may perhapsbest be regarded as resembl<strong>in</strong>g the symbolisms.


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXdeal<strong>in</strong>g with the crim<strong>in</strong>al or medico-legal field, but arema<strong>in</strong>ly concerned with the psychology<strong>of</strong> the normal <strong>sex</strong>-we cannot avoid the consideration <strong>of</strong> deviations, forlife,at one end they all come with<strong>in</strong> the normal range.Most <strong>of</strong> the extremes <strong>of</strong> symbolism are chiefly found <strong>in</strong>men. They are so rare <strong>in</strong> women that Kraff t-Eb<strong>in</strong>g stated,even <strong>in</strong> the late editions <strong>of</strong> his Psychopathia Sexualis, thathe knew <strong>of</strong> no cases <strong>of</strong> erotic fetichism <strong>in</strong> women. Theydo, however, occur occasionally, even <strong>in</strong> well-markedforms. In its normal form erotic symbolism is undoubtedlyquite common <strong>in</strong> women, and, as Moll po<strong>in</strong>ts out, eventhe generalfasc<strong>in</strong>ation exerted on women by the soldier'suniform isprobably due to the action <strong>of</strong> a symbolism <strong>of</strong>But it also occurs <strong>in</strong> abnormal forms. There iscourage.<strong>in</strong>deed one form <strong>of</strong> erotic fetichism Kleptolagnia orerotic kleptomaniawhich <strong>in</strong> its typical form, occurs almostexclusively <strong>in</strong> women.BIBLIOGRAPHYHAVELOCK ELLIS, Studies <strong>in</strong> the <strong>Psychology</strong> <strong>of</strong> Sex, especiallyVols. Ill and V.G. V. HAMILTON, A Research <strong>in</strong> Marriage.R. L. DICKINSON, A Thousand Marriages.KRAFFT-EBING, Psychopathia Sexualis.THOINOT AND WEYSSE, Medico-Legal Aspects <strong>of</strong> MoralOffenses.ERNEST JONES, "The Theory <strong>of</strong> Symbolism," Papers onPsycho-Analysis, Chap. VIII.S. HERBERT, The Unconscious <strong>in</strong> Life and Art.Sexual Deviations <strong>in</strong> ChildhoodWhen we took a wide survey <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual phenomena<strong>of</strong> childhood and adolescence we saw that it is not easy,once we have put aside our religious, ethical, or social


SEXUAL DEVIATIONpre-judgments, to <strong>in</strong>troduce the idea <strong>of</strong> "perversion."Biologically, many th<strong>in</strong>gs are natural that are outside ourconventions, while ethnographically and historically thereis no uniformity <strong>in</strong> conventions. I f<strong>in</strong>d it quite impossible,therefore, and even mischievous, to describe the child<strong>in</strong> the term that was once frequently employed by Freudas "polymorph-perverse," though the term has s<strong>in</strong>ce beenmore or less supplanted, as Jelliffe po<strong>in</strong>ts out, by "autoerotic,"or, as some would prefer, "pre-genital." For, asFreud himself has more recently seen, the barriersgradually built up by development and education do notyet exist for children. There cannot therefore be anyquestion <strong>of</strong> "perversion," for that would be to judgethem precisely <strong>in</strong> the way <strong>in</strong> which Freud himself saysthey should not be judged "by the moral and legalcodes <strong>of</strong> mature and fully responsible persons." The impression<strong>of</strong> "polymorphous perversity" is merely superficial;it is(as I have frequently had occasion to po<strong>in</strong>tout) the k<strong>in</strong>d <strong>of</strong> "perversity" which an ignorant observermight f<strong>in</strong>d <strong>in</strong> the twisted fronds <strong>of</strong> young ferns. The con*ditions <strong>of</strong> life demand that twisted shape <strong>in</strong> the youngwould be if thegrow<strong>in</strong>g th<strong>in</strong>gs, and the real "perversity"young th<strong>in</strong>g were to exhibit the shape <strong>of</strong> that which isfully grown.It is necessary to emphasize this po<strong>in</strong>tfor even wouldbepioneers and pedagogues <strong>of</strong> what is sometimes called"<strong>sex</strong>ology" are <strong>of</strong>ten entangled <strong>in</strong> the meshes <strong>of</strong> the past.The extravagant horror <strong>of</strong> "perversity," the mania forf<strong>in</strong>d<strong>in</strong>g and dwell<strong>in</strong>g on "perversions" <strong>in</strong> the young, isitself the most perverse <strong>of</strong> perversions. It is seldom found,so far as is yet known, among any people liv<strong>in</strong>g a sane andreasonably natural life, whether we turn to the savages <strong>of</strong>today or to the races <strong>of</strong> classic civilizations <strong>in</strong> which wehave our own roots.We may <strong>in</strong>deed say as much <strong>of</strong> the


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXsame tendency when directed aga<strong>in</strong>st adults. The so-called"perversions" <strong>of</strong> childhood persist<strong>in</strong> some form or otherand <strong>in</strong> some vary<strong>in</strong>g degree when the child isgrown up,for, as Jelliffe remarks, "very few people are really grownup." The difference is that there is now super-added theadult act <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>tercourse adequate to <strong>in</strong>sure, if necessary,the consummat<strong>in</strong>g union <strong>of</strong> sperm-cell and germ-cell. Butthe "perversions"<strong>of</strong> childhood and adolescence may rema<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong> due subord<strong>in</strong>ation as part <strong>of</strong> the play-function <strong>of</strong><strong>sex</strong>, a legitimateand even desirable part <strong>of</strong> the art <strong>of</strong> loveare with<strong>in</strong> theand the technique <strong>of</strong> impregnation. Theylegitimate range <strong>of</strong> variations. It is only, if ever, allowableto call them perversionswhen so magnified as to replacethe desire for the central act <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> union and when theyhave dim<strong>in</strong>ished or abolished the ability to effect it.It thus comes about that we have speciallyto avoidspeak<strong>in</strong>g about "perversions" <strong>in</strong> early life. The child'sm<strong>in</strong>d does not work <strong>in</strong> quite the same way as the adultm<strong>in</strong>d; what is "natural" <strong>in</strong> one phaseis not necessarily soat an earlier phase <strong>of</strong> development. So that it is not alwayseasy either for the child to understand the operations <strong>of</strong>the adult's m<strong>in</strong>d, or the adult the child's. It is unfortunatethat adults do not more vividly realize what theywere themselves as children. Many <strong>of</strong> us, however, canrecall how misunderstood we sometimes were, and howtreated. That is liable tounjustly we were <strong>in</strong> consequencehappen even <strong>in</strong> matters where children and adults havemuch <strong>in</strong> common and is, therefore, still more likely tohappen <strong>in</strong> the field <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> where they have so little <strong>in</strong>common.Yet we must not conclude that <strong>sex</strong>ual anomalies do notoccur <strong>in</strong> early life. It is, however, much more a questiona question <strong>of</strong> degree rather<strong>of</strong> quantity than <strong>of</strong> quality,than <strong>of</strong> k<strong>in</strong>d. Whether <strong>of</strong> k<strong>in</strong>d or <strong>of</strong> degree we can rarely


SEXUAL DEVIATIONerr <strong>in</strong> attribut<strong>in</strong>g them to an unsound heredity. When thechild exhibits latent transformations <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse,likely to be harmful to himself or others such as algolagniacarried to the po<strong>in</strong>t <strong>of</strong> bloodshed or that form <strong>of</strong>theft I term kleptolagnia we cannot be concerned witha child <strong>of</strong> sound heredity, and all our care is demanded<strong>in</strong> devis<strong>in</strong>g appropriate conditions for deal<strong>in</strong>g with thecase, either therapeutic or hygienic. For we must alwaysremember that, <strong>in</strong> approach<strong>in</strong>g such conditions, there aresome persons, who, by a peculiar twist <strong>of</strong> m<strong>in</strong>d, seem <strong>in</strong>-<strong>of</strong> humancapable <strong>of</strong> appreciat<strong>in</strong>g the hereditary factorsactions, while others, by an equally peculiar but opposedtwist <strong>of</strong> m<strong>in</strong>d, seem <strong>in</strong>capable <strong>of</strong> appreciat<strong>in</strong>g die acquiredfactors <strong>of</strong> human action. Both these k<strong>in</strong>ds <strong>of</strong> peopledo useful work <strong>in</strong> the direction along which their l<strong>in</strong>e <strong>of</strong>vision extends. But each alone is <strong>in</strong>capable <strong>of</strong> reach<strong>in</strong>g asane and balanced picture <strong>of</strong> the whole mechanism <strong>of</strong>life. We need to comb<strong>in</strong>e their two l<strong>in</strong>es <strong>of</strong> vision <strong>in</strong> orderreally to see the object, and so be enabled to seek thecure for an anomaly <strong>in</strong> so far as it isacquired and tosecure the right conditions for it <strong>in</strong> so far as it is <strong>in</strong>bornand constitutional.There are two k<strong>in</strong>ds <strong>of</strong> anomaly we may<strong>of</strong>ten f<strong>in</strong>d <strong>in</strong>the early <strong>sex</strong> life, but with a tendency, under unfavorableconditions, to persist <strong>in</strong> adult life: the tendency to defectand the tendency to excess hypo-conditions and hyperconditions.Both k<strong>in</strong>ds <strong>of</strong> anomaly are specially liable tooccur <strong>in</strong> a civilization like our own, where the stimulationsto <strong>sex</strong>ual activity and the restrictions on that activityboth external and <strong>in</strong>ternal are alike so powerful. Theanomalies by defect(the hypo-esthesias and hypo-excitabilities)are less serious <strong>in</strong> early life than those by excess(the hyper-esthesias and hyper-excitabilities) for they maysimply <strong>in</strong>dicate a development which is slow but quite


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXlikely to proceed vigorouslywhen adult life is reached.It may even be more likely to turn out happily, perhapsvigorously, when it is late. This is significantly suggestedby Hamilton's <strong>in</strong>quiries: he found that the later <strong>sex</strong>ualcuriosity arises the more satisfactory (as shown by adequateorgasm which he regardsas the most convenienttest)married life is likely to be. It is thus that we mayprobably expla<strong>in</strong> one <strong>of</strong> the most curious and unexpected<strong>of</strong> Hamilton's results: the women who were shocked orfrightened wlien theyfirst learned the facts <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> show adecidedly more satisfactory married <strong>sex</strong>-life (nearly 65per cent, with adequate orgasm) than those who werepleased, <strong>in</strong>terested, or gratified when theyfirst learnedthe facts <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>. The children who were gratified were,we may assume, those with an already developed <strong>sex</strong> life,the children who were shocked, those with an undeveloped<strong>sex</strong> life. So that this result, far from be<strong>in</strong>g reallyanomalous, is <strong>in</strong> l<strong>in</strong>e with the result that the childrenwith no early <strong>sex</strong> curiosity have eventually the most satisfactorymarried life. Sexual precocity, while by no meansnecessarily <strong>of</strong> evil omen, is less promis<strong>in</strong>g for future welfarethan its absence. It may be added that Dr. Kathar<strong>in</strong>eDavis did not f<strong>in</strong>d any markedly greater proportion <strong>of</strong>later happ<strong>in</strong>ess <strong>in</strong> girls who had not masturbated or had<strong>sex</strong>ual play <strong>in</strong> childhood, as compared to those who hadhad such early <strong>sex</strong> experience. Dick<strong>in</strong>son and Pearsonstate that there is a real difference <strong>in</strong> the way <strong>of</strong> betterhealth among those women who keep on with the habit <strong>of</strong>masturbation than with those who dropit after early life;this might be considered due to greater health and vigor<strong>in</strong> those who cont<strong>in</strong>ue the habit. They also state that thereis no appreciable difference <strong>in</strong> health between those whobeg<strong>in</strong> to masturbate early and those who start after


eighteen, which isSEXUAL DEVIATIONnot a conclusion we can unreservedlyaccept.As regards the treatment <strong>of</strong> defects and excesses <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>uality<strong>in</strong> the young, the question <strong>of</strong> the defects is <strong>in</strong> anycase simple. The evidence seems, as we have seen, to <strong>in</strong>dicatethat it is more likely than not to be a satisfactorystate <strong>in</strong> the years before puberty, provided always that itoccurs naturally, and has not been produced artificially,or merely superficially, by unwholesome external conditions,whether physical or psychic. The anomalies by excessare so numerous and <strong>of</strong>ten so complex that each hasto be considered by A itself. wise physicianis here required,familiar with children and their difficulties. Informer days such physicians can scarcely be said to havehad any existence; they are very far <strong>in</strong>deed from be<strong>in</strong>gnumerous today; but there isgood reason to hope that,along the l<strong>in</strong>es <strong>of</strong> child-study and child-guidance that arenow be<strong>in</strong>g developed, the wise treatment <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual anomalies<strong>of</strong> childhood and youth will no longer be so rarelyfound.But for the ma<strong>in</strong> partit is <strong>in</strong> the home that childguidance must beg<strong>in</strong> and, for most children, end. And it isthe mother though there is an important place for thefather even <strong>in</strong> the guidance <strong>of</strong> girlswho is the naturallyelect child guide. <strong>No</strong>wadays motherhood is a serious vocation,to which not all women are called. It is a discipl<strong>in</strong>ewhich makes many demands, and women may be thankfulif, <strong>in</strong> a world rapidly becom<strong>in</strong>g over-filled, it is reallytrue that the Napoleons <strong>of</strong> the future will no longerclamor so loudly at the marriage bed for cannon fodder.It is few mothers, but the best, that humanity now needs.That, we may be sure, will eventually mean a revolution<strong>in</strong> our <strong>sex</strong> life, a revolution beg<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g, as any such revolutionmust beg<strong>in</strong>, <strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong>fancy.


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXThe mothers <strong>of</strong> the immediate past,from this po<strong>in</strong>t<strong>of</strong> view, may roughly be divided <strong>in</strong>to two classes: a major*ity who, from ignorance or timidity, almost altogether ignored<strong>sex</strong> <strong>in</strong> their children an attitude which <strong>of</strong>tenturned out well and a m<strong>in</strong>ority who suffered from theevils <strong>of</strong> half-knowledge and displayed a nervous anxietyand apprehensionover this matter which by no meansalways proved beneficial. Today the new mother, liv<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong> a world <strong>in</strong> which a more wholesome atmosphere beg<strong>in</strong>sto prevail<strong>in</strong> relation to <strong>sex</strong>, islearn<strong>in</strong>g by herself toassume an attitude towards her children which is differentfrom that <strong>of</strong> either <strong>of</strong> these two classes. She is alert and<strong>in</strong>formed, but at the same time not over eager to <strong>in</strong>terfereeven with those manifestations concern<strong>in</strong>g the nature andtendency <strong>of</strong> which she may not feel fully assured. She isrealiz<strong>in</strong>g sometimes almost <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ctively that her childhas various phases to pass through before reach<strong>in</strong>g fulldevelopment, that too great an anxiety to<strong>in</strong>terfere evenmore mis-with activities that seem undesirable may be yetchievous than the activities themselves, and that the ma<strong>in</strong>th<strong>in</strong>g is to understand the child, to w<strong>in</strong> his confidence,and so to become a trusted adviser <strong>in</strong> his difficulties. This<strong>in</strong>tuition, it may be remarked, is sound. Those who are<strong>in</strong>timately acqua<strong>in</strong>tedwith children and <strong>in</strong>fants are awarethat, for <strong>in</strong>stance, confirmed masturbation prolonged <strong>in</strong>towhose mothers have fromadult life may occur <strong>in</strong> subjectsthe first been energetically attempt<strong>in</strong>g to combat thehabit, or that thumb-suck<strong>in</strong>g, which some regard as tend<strong>in</strong>gto pass <strong>in</strong>to masturbation, may be practiced with obviousenjoyment from earliest <strong>in</strong>fancy and later slowlydisappear, if not <strong>in</strong>terfered with, without be<strong>in</strong>g replacedby more def<strong>in</strong>itely <strong>sex</strong>ual modes <strong>of</strong> enjoyment.When we turn from the home to the school difficultiesare <strong>in</strong>creased s<strong>in</strong>ce the school, <strong>in</strong> which many children are


SEXUAL DEVIATIONmiscellaneously crowded together away from the guidance<strong>of</strong> those who know and love them best, is necessarily anunnatural state <strong>of</strong> life <strong>in</strong> which the possibilities <strong>of</strong> evilare multiplied. Elizabeth Goldsmith (<strong>in</strong> Sex <strong>in</strong> Civilization)tells <strong>of</strong> a school where "we have come to the conclusionthat it ischild <strong>in</strong> hisdesirable not to curb the youngmasturbatory activity, to study the whole child's adjustmentand put the emphasis on his be<strong>in</strong>g a healthy, outgo<strong>in</strong>gactive child, satisfied <strong>in</strong> his relationships and activities."That "emphasis" is urgent and we are not told theresults <strong>of</strong> this policy. <strong>No</strong> doubt it is still too early to speakdef<strong>in</strong>itely; we must wait until the adult can look back onhis own early life. It ishardly a policy that can be carriedout auspiciously without a considerable degree <strong>of</strong> well<strong>in</strong>formedawareness.The usual policy <strong>in</strong> schools has been, as we know, tocultivate bl<strong>in</strong>dness, and when, by chance, a culprit isdiscoveredto "make an example <strong>of</strong> him."(Thisis illustrated<strong>in</strong> Hugh de Sel<strong>in</strong>court's novel, One Little Boy, <strong>in</strong> whichWhile thethe whole questionisadmirably presented.)auto-erotic practices <strong>of</strong> girls, though widely varied, areusually carried on very secretly, and <strong>of</strong>ten more or lessunconsciously, boys are <strong>in</strong>cl<strong>in</strong>ed to be less secretive; <strong>in</strong>large schools are sometimes found masturbation clubs,secret societies <strong>of</strong> which <strong>of</strong> course the teachers rarely suspectthe existence. In such centers there are usually exceptionalboys <strong>of</strong> congenital hyper-<strong>sex</strong>ual temperament <strong>of</strong>the k<strong>in</strong>d who when they become conspicuous are nowtermed "problem children." As their morbidity is <strong>of</strong>tenassociated with force <strong>of</strong> character they tend to exert anundue <strong>in</strong>fluence on companions who are <strong>of</strong> more normaltemperament but still at an impressionable age. Whenmany children are brought together this careful "elim<strong>in</strong>ation<strong>of</strong> the problemcases is an essential condition if free-


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXdom for natural isdevelopment to be allowed. The results<strong>of</strong> experimental attempts have shown that otherwiseall sorts <strong>of</strong> bad habits, hygienic and other, quite apartfrom the sphere <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>, are encouraged, and the strong areable to exert their youthful impulses <strong>of</strong> cruelty, naturalor morbid, <strong>in</strong> persecut<strong>in</strong>g the weak. Thus those who cultivatethe ideal <strong>of</strong> allow<strong>in</strong>g the child to pass unimpededthrough his own natural stages <strong>of</strong> development encounterthe difficulty that they must not only restra<strong>in</strong> their ownimpulse <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>terference but that they must be careful toremove other <strong>in</strong>fluences which impede or distort naturaldevelopment. The treatment, which sometimes <strong>in</strong>volvesthe segregation <strong>of</strong> these "problem children/' must alwaysbe highly <strong>in</strong>dividualized, s<strong>in</strong>ce cases endlessly vary, andcall for a high degree <strong>of</strong> specialized skill; and while <strong>in</strong>such children an abnormal <strong>sex</strong> element is frequently tobe detected, their peculiarities <strong>of</strong> behavior, which are<strong>of</strong>ten <strong>of</strong> an anti-social character, extend far beyond the<strong>sex</strong>ual sphere.For ord<strong>in</strong>ary children, however, it rema<strong>in</strong>s true thatthe responsibility must <strong>in</strong>evitably rest <strong>in</strong> the first placeon the parents and especially the mother. That is whymotherhood can no longer be regarded as a merely animalfunction, but has become a vocation demand<strong>in</strong>g enlightenedand tra<strong>in</strong>ed <strong>in</strong>telligence, and not to be exercised bywomen who are not called to itby natural aptitude <strong>of</strong>m<strong>in</strong>d as well as <strong>of</strong> body. The evil <strong>in</strong>fluence <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>competent,careless, or foolish parents, is now becom<strong>in</strong>g generallyrecognized. Even parents who would object to beclassed under any <strong>of</strong> these heads are constantly liable,when absorbed <strong>in</strong> their own occupations or carried awayby vary<strong>in</strong>g moods <strong>of</strong> the moment, to alternate betweenunreasonable severity and equally unreasonable <strong>in</strong>dul-[160]


SEXUAL DEVIATIONgence, and so to call out highly critical reactions <strong>in</strong> theirchildren who sit <strong>in</strong> judgment over them, for children arehypercritical <strong>of</strong> their parents, <strong>in</strong> an egoistic anxiety thattheir parents should be models <strong>of</strong> perfection."The people who best discipl<strong>in</strong>ed children and taughtthem self-control/' Pr<strong>of</strong>essor W<strong>in</strong>ifred Cullis remarkedat a meet<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> the Parents' Association <strong>in</strong> London, "wereother children." This is a wise observation so long as it istaken <strong>in</strong> connection with the considerations here broughtforward. Life must be lived with our equals and we cannotlive without discipl<strong>in</strong>e and control. There must alwaysbe repression <strong>in</strong> life, <strong>in</strong> the sense <strong>of</strong> an <strong>in</strong>hibition <strong>of</strong>impulses and a subord<strong>in</strong>ation <strong>of</strong> some natural possibilities.There is no room <strong>in</strong> social life for unrestra<strong>in</strong>ed license;as Freud well says, <strong>in</strong> the admirable twenty-seventhlecture <strong>of</strong> his Lectures on Psycho-Analysis, "free liv<strong>in</strong>gis itself a repression," for it crushes the half <strong>of</strong> our impulsesand the most human half, <strong>in</strong> which ultimately ourhapp<strong>in</strong>ess must ma<strong>in</strong>lylie. It is better that elders shouldnot be the imposers <strong>of</strong> discipl<strong>in</strong>e and control, but ratherthe guides and referees when difficulties arise. From theearliest age there beg<strong>in</strong>s the formation <strong>of</strong> self-discipl<strong>in</strong>eand self-control, and it may most naturally and mostwholesomely arise <strong>in</strong> that life among equals for which alleducation that is worth anyth<strong>in</strong>gis the tra<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g ground.BIBLIOGRAPHYA. MOLL, The Sexual Life <strong>of</strong> the Child.S. FREUD, Three Contributions to Sexual Theory.STANLEY HALL, Adolescence.HAVELOCK. ELLIS, "Sexual Education," Studies <strong>in</strong> the <strong>Psychology</strong><strong>of</strong> Sex, Vol. VI.WILLIAM and DOROTHY THOMAS, The Child <strong>in</strong> America:Behavior Problems and Programs.O. RANK, Modern Education.


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXUrolagnia and CoprolagniaThe most usual erotic symbolisms<strong>in</strong> childhood arethose o the scatologic group, the significance <strong>of</strong> which has<strong>of</strong>ten been emphasized by Freud and others. The channels<strong>of</strong> ur<strong>in</strong>ation and defecation are so close to the <strong>sex</strong>ualcenters that the <strong>in</strong>timate connection, physical and psychic,between the two groups is easily understood. Ur<strong>in</strong>ationand defecation are processes which <strong>in</strong> any case could notfail to <strong>in</strong>terest the youthful m<strong>in</strong>d, for they gratify thechildish impulse to make th<strong>in</strong>gs, and are thus a rudimentaryform <strong>of</strong> the artistic impulse,at the same time amanifestation <strong>of</strong> power. Hamilton found that 2 1per cent,cent, <strong>of</strong> his married women<strong>of</strong> his married men and 16 perhad <strong>in</strong> childhood had fecal and ur<strong>in</strong>ary <strong>in</strong>terests, andscatological fancies or play. These functions also appearto absorb someth<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> the nervous energy which latergoes <strong>in</strong>to the <strong>sex</strong>ual channel; <strong>in</strong> young girls,and occasionally<strong>in</strong> women, when tumescence has occurred, detumescencemay take the form <strong>of</strong> a spasmodic and <strong>in</strong>voluntaryemission <strong>of</strong> ur<strong>in</strong>e. There isprobably a connection betweennocturnal enuresis and <strong>sex</strong>ual activity, sometimesmasturbation. Freud believes that retention <strong>of</strong> the contents<strong>of</strong> the bowels for the sake <strong>of</strong> pleasurable<strong>sex</strong>ual sensationsmay occur <strong>in</strong> childhood; and it is certa<strong>in</strong> that even<strong>in</strong> later life the contents <strong>of</strong> the bladder are sometimes reta<strong>in</strong>edfor the same reason.Children not unusually believethat the <strong>sex</strong>ual acts <strong>of</strong> their elders have some connectionwith ur<strong>in</strong>ation or defecation, and the mysterywith which the excretory acts are surrounded helps tosupport this theory. An <strong>in</strong>terest <strong>in</strong> these functions is notuncommonly prolonged beyond the age <strong>of</strong> puberty, especially<strong>in</strong> girls, but it tends to die out, sometimes with afeel<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> shame at the attention bestowed on it, as the[162]


SEXUAL DEVIATION<strong>in</strong>terest <strong>in</strong> <strong>sex</strong> matters develops. Occasionally it persists<strong>in</strong> the adult <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse; more commonly perhaps,there is a more or less forced repression<strong>of</strong> the <strong>in</strong>fantilescatologic <strong>in</strong>terests which may then play the part attributedto them by Freud. But up to puberty, scatologic <strong>in</strong>terestsmay be regarded as normal; at thisagethe childhas still much <strong>in</strong> common with the primitive m<strong>in</strong>d, which,as mythology and folk-lore show, attributes great importanceto the excretory functions. We may regard these<strong>in</strong>terests as merely a phase <strong>in</strong> normal development. Inso far as they persist <strong>in</strong> adult life they rema<strong>in</strong> normally<strong>in</strong> the background, with a certa<strong>in</strong> range <strong>of</strong> variation, andstill able to exercise, at all events as regards ur<strong>in</strong>ation,a legitimate part <strong>in</strong> the play-function<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>.Extreme cases have been described, notably <strong>of</strong> thecoprolagnic or coprophilic tendency. In such a case (onewas recorded <strong>in</strong> full detail by Moll) an <strong>in</strong>terest <strong>in</strong> thewhole process <strong>of</strong> defecation and itsproduct may be sodeveloped that it replaces all normal <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>terests. Inm<strong>in</strong>or degrees <strong>of</strong> this tendency, we have anal erotism(supposed to be associated with early constipation or theimpulse to restra<strong>in</strong> evacuation to procure pleasure) ; ithas speciallybeen explored by psycho-analysts,who regardit as based on a primary tendency <strong>of</strong> childhood, which,when after childhood it is repressed, may lead to psychicand whentraits <strong>of</strong> orderl<strong>in</strong>ess, frugality, even st<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong>ess;not repressed lead to other psychictraits the reverse <strong>of</strong>these. This is a matter for further <strong>in</strong>vestigation. Hamiltontook it <strong>in</strong>to consideration, and found ten persons (n<strong>in</strong>eanal erotism butwomen and one man) who denied earlyhad early constipation and showed <strong>in</strong> an unusually largeproportion st<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong>ess, orderl<strong>in</strong>ess, sadism, masochism,hoard<strong>in</strong>g, and extravagance; but these results were tooconfused and contradictory to support speculations as to


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXthe precise relationship <strong>of</strong> early constipationto adultpsychic traits.After childhood coprolagniais not usually associatedwith urolagnia, although the association may be found <strong>in</strong>slight forms. The extreme forms <strong>of</strong> coprolagnia are <strong>in</strong>men, but urolagnia, while more frequent <strong>in</strong> both <strong>sex</strong>es,is specially frequent, though <strong>of</strong>ten only <strong>in</strong> a slight degree,<strong>in</strong> women. It is doubtless encouraged by the close andobvious connection <strong>of</strong> the ur<strong>in</strong>ary function with the<strong>sex</strong>ual organ, as well as by actual nerve connections.and women will sometimes seek to rival theYoung girlsattitude <strong>of</strong> the other <strong>sex</strong> <strong>in</strong> ur<strong>in</strong>ation, a rivalry possiblefor many who are still young and have not borne children,as maternity enfeebles the expulsive muscular force.There is no necessary homo<strong>sex</strong>ual tendency here <strong>in</strong>volved.Considerable importance has sometimes been attachedto what Sadger has termed "urethral erotism," or ur<strong>in</strong>aryerotism, us<strong>in</strong>g the term widely, to cover not only theurethra and the ur<strong>in</strong>e, but the whole peripheral ur<strong>in</strong>aryapparatus from the bladder to the urethral orifice. It isclaimed that this k<strong>in</strong>d <strong>of</strong> erotism <strong>in</strong> early life may presentthe type <strong>of</strong> the later <strong>sex</strong>ual life when by what may seema natural transition erotism is transferred to the morestrictly <strong>sex</strong>ual sphere and its secretion; and, correspond<strong>in</strong>gly,ur<strong>in</strong>ary irregularities may become sem<strong>in</strong>al irregularities.It has further been argued that such urethralerotism may extend to the highest psychic sphere, s<strong>in</strong>ce itis <strong>in</strong> regulation <strong>of</strong> the ur<strong>in</strong>ary as well as bowel functionsthat duty first appears to the <strong>in</strong>fant.A tendency for bed-wett<strong>in</strong>g to be associated with <strong>sex</strong>ualityhas long been noted. Enuresis and urethral erotismhave by Freud and some other psycho-analysts been associatedwith psychic traits <strong>of</strong> ambition and aggressiveness.This supposition may have started <strong>in</strong> the fact that a special


SEXUAL DEVIATIONur<strong>in</strong>ary <strong>in</strong>terest <strong>in</strong> girls can manifest itself as rivalry withthe ur<strong>in</strong>ary function <strong>in</strong> boys. There seems, however, noreal and frequent association <strong>of</strong> ur<strong>in</strong>ary erotism with suchrivalry which, also, is common enough <strong>in</strong> those completelydevoid <strong>of</strong> such erotism.I have been accustomed to apply the term Und<strong>in</strong>ismto the frequent presence <strong>of</strong> an early <strong>in</strong>terest <strong>in</strong> water<strong>in</strong> general, and the ur<strong>in</strong>ary function <strong>in</strong> particular, persist<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong> later life. This <strong>in</strong>terest, not amount<strong>in</strong>g to adef<strong>in</strong>ite deviation <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse, or becom<strong>in</strong>g asubstitute for it, is common, especially <strong>in</strong> women, amongwhom its presence may be accounted for by various circumstances<strong>of</strong> their life, perhaps now becom<strong>in</strong>g less prevalentby changed social conditions, but there always rema<strong>in</strong>sa closer association between <strong>sex</strong>ual emotion andur<strong>in</strong>ation <strong>in</strong> women than <strong>in</strong> men, <strong>in</strong> whom the sem<strong>in</strong>aland ur<strong>in</strong>ary functions <strong>of</strong> expulsion are <strong>in</strong> general mutuallyexclusive. The love <strong>of</strong> water generallyis also associatedwith a greater tendency <strong>in</strong> women than <strong>in</strong> men t<strong>of</strong><strong>in</strong>d pleasure <strong>in</strong> tactile associations.BIBLIOGRAPHYHAVELOCK ELLIS, Studies <strong>in</strong>V; also "Und<strong>in</strong>ism," Studies <strong>in</strong> the <strong>Psychology</strong> <strong>of</strong> Sex,Vol. VII.ERNEST JONES, Papers on Psycho-Analysis, "Anal Eroticism,"Chs. XXX and XL.the <strong>Psychology</strong> <strong>of</strong> Sex, VoLErotic FetichismThe most typical <strong>of</strong> the erotic symbolismsis constitutedby erotic fetichism, a term devised by B<strong>in</strong>et <strong>in</strong> 1888. Evenan erotic symbolism such as exhibitionism may be fetichistic,and every fetich is a symbol. The number <strong>of</strong> objects


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXnot only parts <strong>of</strong> the body but <strong>in</strong>animate th<strong>in</strong>gs whichmay acquire special erotic significance is practically <strong>in</strong>f<strong>in</strong>ite.There is <strong>in</strong>deed noth<strong>in</strong>g that may not take on suchsignificance. That is why the legal attempt to suppress"obscenity," regarded (accord<strong>in</strong>g to the judicially recognizeddef<strong>in</strong>ition) as a tendency to "deprave and corruptthose whose m<strong>in</strong>ds are open to such immoral <strong>in</strong>fluences,"iscompletely unworkable. Thus Dr. Jelliffe's patient,Zenia X, wrote that <strong>sex</strong> symbols became <strong>in</strong>sistent at theage <strong>of</strong> thirteen and fourteen: "From this time on, thoughmore fully <strong>in</strong> later years s<strong>in</strong>ce the struggle has been moreconsciously <strong>sex</strong>ual and thus more violent, I have beensurrounded by symbols, particularly <strong>of</strong> the phallus: agarden hose <strong>in</strong> use or a jet <strong>of</strong> water, pears particularly orother elongated fruits, long pendant catk<strong>in</strong>s, the pistil<strong>in</strong> the center <strong>of</strong> a flower, a stick or stick-shaped objectthrust <strong>in</strong>to a round hole, the lobe <strong>of</strong> the ear with whichIhave toyed s<strong>in</strong>ce birth, my teeth, and my tongue whichthe others,I have nervously pressed aga<strong>in</strong>st them until weary, af<strong>in</strong>ger which seem<strong>in</strong>gly <strong>in</strong> order to suppress a sudden<strong>sex</strong>ual thought I have many times po<strong>in</strong>ted before me andthen <strong>in</strong> quick correction have drawn <strong>in</strong> and folded with<strong>in</strong>the thumb which aga<strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong>voluntarily <strong>in</strong> a repressiveeffort is folded close with<strong>in</strong> the f<strong>in</strong>gers, certa<strong>in</strong>letters <strong>of</strong> the alphabet. These are some <strong>of</strong> the symbolswhich have beset me on every hand, thrust<strong>in</strong>g themselvescont<strong>in</strong>ually before me, to rem<strong>in</strong>d me <strong>of</strong> the phallus or<strong>of</strong> the actual contact <strong>of</strong> the organs male and female."The manifold complexity <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual symbols is aga<strong>in</strong>brought out <strong>in</strong> a case described by Marc<strong>in</strong>owski, a highly<strong>in</strong>telligent married woman <strong>of</strong> 27, who was neurotic withslight germs <strong>of</strong> morbid deviation. The symbols were aptto occur <strong>in</strong> her dreams which she was skilful <strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong>terpret<strong>in</strong>g:ships <strong>in</strong> haven were <strong>of</strong>ten the symbol <strong>of</strong> coitus,[166]


SEXUAL DEVIATIONas was sail<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> a ship; water was the symbol <strong>of</strong> themother's body (connected with early ideas that the bladderwas associated with coitus); to die (be<strong>in</strong>g self-abandonment)is to be <strong>in</strong> love; a knife is a phallic symbol;worms and snakes are small mascul<strong>in</strong>e organs; the horseand the dog are <strong>sex</strong>ual symbols (she had once kissed adog's penis) as are doves; a , railway eng<strong>in</strong>e (attractive toher from childhood)is a symbol <strong>of</strong> the penis, as is also atree and a banana; to kill equals coitus (she had sometimeshad sadistic fancies);many fish are symbols <strong>of</strong>coitus; ra<strong>in</strong>, ur<strong>in</strong>e, and tears are symbols <strong>of</strong> semen; want<strong>in</strong>gto ur<strong>in</strong>ate is for her a form <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual excitement.Most <strong>of</strong> these symbols are liable to occur anywhere andto anyone. The necessary conditions for a symbol to becomea fetich seem to be a special predisposition, no doubtusually <strong>of</strong> neuropathic nature, though this is by no meansalways obvious, and a strong impression by which theobject is poignantly presented to consciousness at a moment<strong>of</strong> strong <strong>sex</strong>ual excitement, this event <strong>of</strong>ten occurr<strong>in</strong>gbefore or about puberty. The accidental associationwithout the predisposition will scarcely suffice to evoke afetich (except <strong>in</strong> slight degree), for such accidental associationsare constantly occurr<strong>in</strong>g. Hirschfeld has arguedthat a fetich is frequently the real expression <strong>of</strong> the <strong>in</strong>dividual'sspecial temperament. The soldier's red coat actslike a fetich on the servant girl because it is a symbol<strong>of</strong> the martial and virile character which appeals to her,and itmay well be that <strong>in</strong> many less obvious cases thefetich really expresses ideals based on <strong>in</strong>dividual idiosyncrasy.But <strong>in</strong> most cases this cannot be proved, and is<strong>of</strong>ten <strong>in</strong>deed scarcely susceptible <strong>of</strong> pro<strong>of</strong> on account <strong>of</strong>the neutral character <strong>of</strong> the fetich. A boy admires awoman who one day ur<strong>in</strong>ates <strong>in</strong> his presence so that hecatches a glimpse <strong>of</strong> her abundant pubic hair, and such


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXhair henceforth becomes an almost <strong>in</strong>dispensable fetichto him; a youth is ly<strong>in</strong>g on the floor when a charm<strong>in</strong>g girlplayfully places her foot on him, cont<strong>in</strong>u<strong>in</strong>g to play withhim thus until <strong>sex</strong>ual excitement occurs, and he becomesa lifelong foot-fetichist.Such fetichisms are, <strong>in</strong> a slight degree, entirely normal.Every lover becomes speciallyattracted to some <strong>in</strong>dividualfeature <strong>of</strong> the beloved or to some <strong>of</strong> the various articlesthat come <strong>in</strong> contact with her. But this tendency becomesabnormal when it is exclusive or generalized, and it becomesa def<strong>in</strong>ite deviation when the fetich itself, even <strong>in</strong>the absence <strong>of</strong> the person, becomes completely adequatenot only to arouse tumescence, but to evoke detumescence,so that there is no desire at all for <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>tercourse.In milder though def<strong>in</strong>itely abnormal cases, the subjecthimself devises the appropriate treatment by tak<strong>in</strong>g carethat his fetich is set, as it were, <strong>in</strong> the ante-chamber tocourtship, so that it shall not cause any arrest or deviation<strong>of</strong> the emotions it arouses. In more serious cases the fetichist<strong>of</strong>ten derives so much gratification from his perversion,and f<strong>in</strong>ds this gratificationso easy, that he has no wish tobecome normal. In some cases fetichism leads to variousanti-social <strong>of</strong>fences, especiallyto the theft <strong>of</strong> the desiredfetich, such as shoes, handkerchiefs, or wear<strong>in</strong>g apparel.Without lead<strong>in</strong>g to crim<strong>in</strong>al actions it may prove annoy<strong>in</strong>gfrom the undue <strong>sex</strong>ual excitement caused, as <strong>in</strong> thecase <strong>of</strong> a young woman for whom eyeglasses or spectacleswere a fetich, and who experienced excitement whenevershe saw them worn, even by a woman. In such cases hypnotismwas formerly resorted to, sometimes with success.There are certa<strong>in</strong> forms <strong>of</strong> erotic fetichism which areapt to be complicated <strong>in</strong> their psychological bear<strong>in</strong>gs.This isnotably the case as regards foot-fetichism, which,


SEXUAL DEVIATIONunder the conditions <strong>of</strong> civilization whereby the foot isusually seen clothed, becomes shoe-fetichism. There wouldseem to be an almost natural basis for foot-fetichism <strong>in</strong>the tendency to a worldwide association <strong>of</strong> the foot withthe <strong>sex</strong>ual organs. Even among the Jews the "foot" wasused as a euphemism for the <strong>sex</strong>ual organs, and we read,for <strong>in</strong>stance, <strong>in</strong> Isaiah <strong>of</strong> "the hair <strong>of</strong> the feet/' mean<strong>in</strong>gthe pubic hair. In widely separated parts <strong>of</strong> the world,moreover, the foot has been a center <strong>of</strong> modesty. It wasso even <strong>in</strong> Spa<strong>in</strong>, and Peyron noted <strong>in</strong> 1777 that the fem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>ecustom <strong>of</strong> conceal<strong>in</strong>g the feet was only then pass<strong>in</strong>gout <strong>of</strong> fashion, and "a woman who shows her feet is nolonger ready to give her favors," as, itmay be added, shewas also <strong>in</strong> classic Rome. Even for the normal lover thefoot is one <strong>of</strong> the most attractive parts <strong>of</strong> the body. StanleyHall found that among the parts specified as mostadmired <strong>in</strong> the other <strong>sex</strong> by young men and women whoanswered a questionnaire the feet came fourth (after theeyes, hair, stature, and size). Other observers, however,like Hirschfeld, have found the hand a much more frequentfetich than the foot. Infants are peculiarly <strong>in</strong>terested<strong>in</strong> the foot, primarily <strong>in</strong> their own. Moreover, <strong>in</strong>many parts <strong>of</strong> the world, notably Ch<strong>in</strong>a, some parts <strong>of</strong>Siberia, as well as ancient Rome and medieval Spa<strong>in</strong>, acerta<strong>in</strong> degree <strong>of</strong> foot-fetichism has been recognized.It is not usual for the normal lover, <strong>in</strong> most civilizedcountries today, to attach primary importance to the foot,such as he frequently attaches to the eyes. In a small butnot <strong>in</strong>considerable m<strong>in</strong>ority <strong>of</strong> persons, however, the footor the shoe becomes the most attractive part <strong>of</strong> a woman,and <strong>in</strong> some morbid cases the woman herself isregardedas a comparatively unimportant appendage to her foot orher shoes. Restif de la Bretonne furnishes an <strong>in</strong>terest<strong>in</strong>gexample <strong>of</strong> foot-fetichism <strong>in</strong> a writer <strong>of</strong> considerable im-


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXportance; <strong>in</strong> his case the fetichism was well marked, butit was never extreme, and the shoe, however attractive,was not an adequate substitute for the woman.Eccentric as foot-fetichism may appear, it is thus simplythe reemergence, by a pseudo-atavism or arrest <strong>of</strong> development,<strong>of</strong> a mental or emotional impulse which wasprobably experienced by our forefathers, and is <strong>of</strong>tentraceable among young children today. The occasional reappearance<strong>of</strong> this bygone impulse and the stability whichit may acquire are thus conditioned by the sensitive reactiono an abnormally nervous and usually precociousorganism to <strong>in</strong>fluences which, among the average and ord<strong>in</strong>arypopulation <strong>of</strong> Europe today, are either never feltor quickly outgrown, or strictly subord<strong>in</strong>ated <strong>in</strong> thehighly complex crystallizationswhich the course <strong>of</strong> loveand the process <strong>of</strong> tumescence create with<strong>in</strong> us. An <strong>in</strong>terest<strong>in</strong>gcase was elaborately psycho-analyzed byL. B<strong>in</strong>swanger:Gerda, as a child, had acquired the habit <strong>of</strong> sitt<strong>in</strong>gon her heels with her shoe pressed aga<strong>in</strong>st the vulvaand anus. This would cause excitement <strong>in</strong> these erogeniczones and she would f<strong>in</strong>d pleasure <strong>in</strong> ur<strong>in</strong>at<strong>in</strong>g (perhapsas a form <strong>of</strong> detumescence) The shoe became her friend.and lover and darl<strong>in</strong>g, to be carefully protected andguarded from the eyes <strong>of</strong> others. The foot and especiallythe shod foot became blended with all her <strong>sex</strong>ual ideas,the representative o the phallus, and even, as amongprimitive peoples, the symbol <strong>of</strong> all fertility. On thisfoundation phobias and other symptoms <strong>in</strong> time developed,to some extent overly<strong>in</strong>g and dim<strong>in</strong>ish<strong>in</strong>g the orig<strong>in</strong>almanifestations.It may be added that this isby no means true <strong>of</strong> footfetichismonly. In some other fetichisms a seem<strong>in</strong>gly congenitalpredispositionis even more marked. This is notonly the case as regards hair-fetichism, fur-fetichism, etc.[170]


SEXUAL DEVIATIONIn many cases <strong>of</strong> fetichisms <strong>of</strong> all k<strong>in</strong>ds not only is thereno record <strong>of</strong> any commencement <strong>in</strong> a def<strong>in</strong>ite episode (anabsence which may be accounted for by the suppositionthat the orig<strong>in</strong>al <strong>in</strong>cident has been forgotten), but itwould seem <strong>in</strong> some cases that the fetichism developedvery slowly. In this sense, although we cannot speak <strong>of</strong>foot-fetichism as strictly atavism, itmay be seen to ariseon a congenital basis. We may, with Gamier, regard thecongenital element as essential.This congenital element <strong>of</strong> erotic symbolism is worthother form <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual devia-not<strong>in</strong>g because more than anytion the fetichisms are those which are least clearly conditionedby <strong>in</strong>born states <strong>of</strong> the organism and most frequentlyaroused by seem<strong>in</strong>gly accidental associations orshocks <strong>in</strong> early life. Inversion is sometimes so fundamentally<strong>in</strong>gra<strong>in</strong>ed <strong>in</strong> the <strong>in</strong>dividual's constitution that itarises and develops <strong>in</strong> spite <strong>of</strong> the strongest <strong>in</strong>fluences <strong>in</strong>a contrary direction. But a fetichism, while it tends tooccur <strong>in</strong> sensitive, nervous, timid, precocious <strong>in</strong>dividualsthat is to say, <strong>in</strong>dividuals <strong>of</strong> more or less neuropathicheredity can usually, though not always, be traced to adef<strong>in</strong>ite start<strong>in</strong>g po<strong>in</strong>t <strong>in</strong> the shock <strong>of</strong> some <strong>sex</strong>ually emotionalepisode <strong>in</strong> early life.Associations <strong>of</strong> this k<strong>in</strong>d may occur <strong>in</strong> the early experiences<strong>of</strong> even normal persons. The degree to which theywill <strong>in</strong>fluence the subsequent life and thought and feel<strong>in</strong>gdepends on the degree <strong>of</strong> the <strong>in</strong>dividual's morbid emotionalreceptivity, or the extent to which he is hereditarilysusceptible <strong>of</strong> abnormal deviation. Precocity is undoubtedlya condition which favors such deviation; a child whois precociously and abnormally sensitive to persons <strong>of</strong> theopposite <strong>sex</strong> before puberty has established the normalchannels <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual desire, is peculiarly liable to becomethe prey <strong>of</strong> a chance symbolism. All degrees <strong>of</strong> such sym-


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXholism are possible.While the average <strong>in</strong>sensitive personmay fail to perceive them at all, for the more alert andimag<strong>in</strong>ative lover they are a fasc<strong>in</strong>at<strong>in</strong>g part <strong>of</strong> the highlycharged crystallization <strong>of</strong> passion.A more nervously exceptionalperson, when once such a symbolism has becomefirmly implanted, may f<strong>in</strong>d it an absolutely essentialelement <strong>in</strong> the charm <strong>of</strong> a beloved and charm<strong>in</strong>g person.F<strong>in</strong>ally, for the <strong>in</strong>dividual who is thoroughly unsoundthe symbol becomes generalized; a person is no longerdesired at all, be<strong>in</strong>g merely regarded as an appendage <strong>of</strong>the symbol, or be<strong>in</strong>g dispensed with altogether; thesymbol is alone desired, and is fully adequate to impartby itself complete <strong>sex</strong>ual gratification. While it may beconsidered a morbid state to demand a symbol as an almostessential part <strong>of</strong> the charm <strong>of</strong> a desired person, itonly <strong>in</strong> the f<strong>in</strong>al condition, <strong>in</strong> which the symbol becomesall-suffic<strong>in</strong>g, that we have a completely morbid variation.In the lesscomplete forms <strong>of</strong> symbolismit is still thewoman who is desired, and the ends <strong>of</strong> procreation mayand the merebe served; when the woman isignoredsymbol is an adequate and even preferred stimulus todetumescence the pathologicalcondition becomes complete.Krafft-Eb<strong>in</strong>g regarded shoe-fetichism as, <strong>in</strong> large measure,a more or less latent form <strong>of</strong> masochism, the foot orthe shoe be<strong>in</strong>g the symbol <strong>of</strong> the subjection and diehumiliation which the masochist feels <strong>in</strong> the presence <strong>of</strong>the beloved object. Moll, more correctly, states that theconnection is"very frequent." This was also the op<strong>in</strong>ion<strong>of</strong> Gamier, who was, however, careful to po<strong>in</strong>t out thatthere are many cases <strong>in</strong> which no such connection can betraced.While we may properly admit the frequencyis<strong>of</strong> the connectionwe must be cautious <strong>in</strong> mak<strong>in</strong>g any general at^


SEXUAL DEVIATIONtempt to amalgamate masochism and foot-fetichism. In thebroad sense <strong>in</strong> which erotic symbolismis here understood,both masochism and foot-fetichism may be coord<strong>in</strong>atedas symbolisms; for the masochist his self-humiliat<strong>in</strong>g impulsesare the symbol <strong>of</strong> ecstatic adoration; for the footfetichisthis mistress's foot or shoe is the concentratedsymbol <strong>of</strong> all that is most beautiful and elegant and fem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>e<strong>in</strong> her personality. But if <strong>in</strong> this sense they are coord<strong>in</strong>ated,they <strong>of</strong>ten rema<strong>in</strong> entirely dist<strong>in</strong>ct. Masochism,<strong>in</strong>deed, merely simulates foot-fetichism; for the masochistthe boot is not strictly a symbol, it is only an <strong>in</strong>strumentwhich enables him to carry out his impulse; the true<strong>sex</strong>ual symbol for him is not the boot, but the emotion<strong>of</strong> self-subjection. For the foot-fetichist, on the other hand,the foot or the shoe is not a mere <strong>in</strong>strument, but a truesymbol, the focus <strong>of</strong> his worship, an idealized object whichhe is content to contemplate or reverently touch. He himselfusually has no impulse to any self-degrad<strong>in</strong>g action,nor the slightest emotion <strong>of</strong> subjection. It be notedmaythat <strong>in</strong> the typical case <strong>of</strong> foot-fetichism which is presentedto us <strong>in</strong> the person <strong>of</strong> Restif de la Bretonne hethe woman for whomrepeatedly speaks <strong>of</strong> "subjugat<strong>in</strong>g"he feels this fetichistic adoration, and mentions that evenwhen still a child he especially admired a delicate andbecause she seemed to himfairy-like girl <strong>in</strong> this respecteasier to subdue. His attitude throughout life was activeand mascul<strong>in</strong>e, not masochistic.In determ<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g whether we are concerned with a case<strong>of</strong> fetichism or <strong>of</strong> masochism, it is necessary to take thesubject's whole mental and emotional attitude <strong>in</strong>to consideration.The same act may have a different significance<strong>in</strong> different persons. Krafft-Eb<strong>in</strong>g believed that the desireto be trodden on is absolutely symptomatic <strong>of</strong> masochism.That is not the case. The desire to be trodden on may be


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXfound as an erotic symbolism,associated with footfetichism,and not <strong>in</strong>volv<strong>in</strong>g any desire to be subjugated.That was clearly seen <strong>in</strong> a very pronounced case I haverecorded <strong>in</strong> a man <strong>in</strong>ow dead, whom I knew, a man <strong>of</strong>masterful and enterpris<strong>in</strong>g disposition and with no desirefor subjugation. In a rather similar case more recentlyrecorded by Marchand and Fuller they po<strong>in</strong>t out thatthere were no <strong>in</strong>dications <strong>of</strong> masochism. Even when amasochistic tendency appears, that may be merely secondary,a parasitic growth on the symbolism.This desire to be trodden on sometimes experienced byfoot-fetichists is itself <strong>in</strong>terest<strong>in</strong>g because it shows howthe narrower attraction <strong>of</strong> fetiches tends to be merged <strong>in</strong>the wider attraction <strong>of</strong> erotic symbols; the foot is morethan a mere material object to be idolized when it belongsto a beloved person.It is a center <strong>of</strong> force, an agentfor exert<strong>in</strong>g pressure; and thus it furnishes a po<strong>in</strong>t <strong>of</strong>departure not only for the static erotic fetich, but for thedynamic erotic symbolization. The energy <strong>of</strong> its movementsbecomes a substitute for the energy <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ualorgans themselves. Here we have a symbolism which isaltogether different from that fetichism which adores adef<strong>in</strong>ite object; it is a dynamic symbolism f<strong>in</strong>d<strong>in</strong>g its gratification<strong>in</strong> the spectacle <strong>of</strong> movements which ideally recallthe fundamental rhythm and pressure reactions <strong>of</strong> the<strong>sex</strong>ual process.The same tendencyis well illustrated by acase observed by Charcot and Magnan, <strong>in</strong> which a footfetichistwas specially excited by the act <strong>of</strong> hammer<strong>in</strong>g anail <strong>in</strong>to a woman's shoeevidently a symbol <strong>of</strong> coitus.BIBLIOGRAPHYFREUD, Three Contributions to Sexual Theory.HAVELOCK ELLIS, Studies <strong>in</strong> the <strong>Psychology</strong> <strong>of</strong> Sex. Vols.Ill and V.E'W]


SEXUAL DEVIATIONStuff-Fetichisms and Erotic ZoophiliaIT is now necessary, without entirely leav<strong>in</strong>g the field<strong>of</strong> fetichism, to touch on a special group <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual symbols<strong>in</strong> which the association <strong>of</strong> contiguity with the humanbody is usually absent: the various methods by which animals,or animal products, or the sight <strong>of</strong> animal copulation,may arouse <strong>sex</strong>ual desire <strong>in</strong> human persons. Here' weencounter a symbolism ma<strong>in</strong>ly founded on association byresemblance; the animal <strong>sex</strong>ual act recalls the human<strong>sex</strong>ual act; the animal becomes the symbol <strong>of</strong> the humanbe<strong>in</strong>g.The group <strong>of</strong> phenomena we are here concerned with<strong>in</strong>cludes several sub-divisions. There is, first, the more orless <strong>sex</strong>ual pleasure sometimes experienced, especially byyoung persons, <strong>in</strong> the sight <strong>of</strong> copulat<strong>in</strong>g animals. Thishas been termed Mixoscopic Zoophilia;it falls with<strong>in</strong> the<strong>of</strong> normal variation. Then we have the cases <strong>in</strong>rangewhich the contact <strong>of</strong> animals, strok<strong>in</strong>g, etc., produces<strong>sex</strong>ual excitement or gratification; this is a <strong>sex</strong>ual fetichism<strong>in</strong> the narrow sense, and isby KrafEt-Eb<strong>in</strong>g termedZoophilia Erotica. We have, further, the class <strong>of</strong> cases <strong>in</strong>which a real or simulated <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>tercourse with animalsis desired. Such cases do not <strong>in</strong>volve fetichism <strong>in</strong> thenarrow sense, but they come with<strong>in</strong> the sphere <strong>of</strong> eroticsymbolism, as here understood. This class falls <strong>in</strong>to twodivisions: one <strong>in</strong> which the <strong>in</strong>dividual is fairly normal,but belongs to a low grade <strong>of</strong> culture; the other <strong>in</strong> whichhe may belong to a more ref<strong>in</strong>ed social class, but a psychopathiccondition is present. In the first case we may properlyapply the simple term bestiality (it is called sodomy<strong>in</strong> some countries, but this is <strong>in</strong>correct as well as confus<strong>in</strong>g,and to be avoided) , <strong>in</strong> the second case it may


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXperhapsbe better to use the term Zooerastia, proposed byKrafft-Eb<strong>in</strong>g.Among children, both boys and girls,it is common t<strong>of</strong><strong>in</strong>d that the copulation<strong>of</strong> animals is a mysteriously fasc<strong>in</strong>at<strong>in</strong>gspectacle.It is <strong>in</strong>evitable that this should be so,for the spectacleis more or less clearly felt to be therevelation <strong>of</strong> a secret which has been concealed fromthem. It is, moreover, a secret <strong>of</strong> which they feel <strong>in</strong>timatereverberations with<strong>in</strong> themselves, and even <strong>in</strong> perfectly<strong>in</strong>nocent and ignorant children the sight may produce anobscure <strong>sex</strong>ual excitement. It would seem that this occursmore frequently <strong>in</strong> girlsthan <strong>in</strong> boys. Even <strong>in</strong> adultage, it may be added, women are liable to experience thesame k<strong>in</strong>d <strong>of</strong> emotion <strong>in</strong> the presence <strong>of</strong> such spectacles.In the sixteenth century, both <strong>in</strong> England and France,the ladies <strong>of</strong> royal and aristocratic circles would almostopenly go to enjoy such spectacles. In more modern timessuch sights are regarded as both prurient and morbid, andfor ill-balanced m<strong>in</strong>ds no doubt are so.While the contemplation <strong>of</strong> animal coitus is an easily<strong>in</strong>telligible and <strong>in</strong> early life, perhaps, an almost normalsymbol <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual emotion, there is another sub-division<strong>of</strong> this group <strong>of</strong> animal fetichisms which forms a naturaltransition from the fetichisms which have their center <strong>in</strong>the human body: the stuff-fetichism or the <strong>sex</strong>ual attractionexerted by various tissues, perhaps always <strong>of</strong> animalorig<strong>in</strong>. Here we are <strong>in</strong> the presence <strong>of</strong> a somewhat complicatedphenomenon. In part we have, <strong>in</strong> a considerablenumber <strong>of</strong> cases, the <strong>sex</strong>ual attraction <strong>of</strong> fem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>e garments,for all such tissues are liable to enter <strong>in</strong>to thedress. In part, also, we have a <strong>sex</strong>ual deviation <strong>of</strong> tactilesensibility, for <strong>in</strong> a considerable proportion <strong>of</strong> these casesit is the touch sensations which are potent <strong>in</strong> arous<strong>in</strong>gthe erotic impulse. But <strong>in</strong> part, also, it would seem, we


SEXUAL DEVIATIONhave here the conscious or sub-conscious presence <strong>of</strong> ananimal fetich, and it is notable that perhapsall thesestuffs, and especially fur, which isby far the commonest <strong>of</strong>the groups, are dist<strong>in</strong>ctively animal products. We may per-the fetich <strong>of</strong> fem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>e hair a much morehaps regardimportant and common fetich, <strong>in</strong>deed, than any <strong>of</strong> thestuff-fetichisms as a l<strong>in</strong>k <strong>of</strong> transition. Hair is at oncean animal and a human product, while it may be separatedfrom the body and possesses the qualities <strong>of</strong> a stuff.Krafft-Eb<strong>in</strong>g remarks that the senses <strong>of</strong> touch, smell, andhear<strong>in</strong>g, as well as sight, seem to enter <strong>in</strong>to the attractionexerted by hair.As a <strong>sex</strong>ual fetich hair belongs strictly to the group <strong>of</strong>parts <strong>of</strong> the body; but s<strong>in</strong>ce it can be removed from thebody and is <strong>sex</strong>ually effective as a fetich <strong>in</strong> the absence<strong>of</strong> the person to whom it belongs, it is on a level with thegarments which may serve <strong>in</strong> a similar way, with shoesor handkerchiefs or gloves. Psychologically, hair-fetichismpresents no special problem, but the wide attraction <strong>of</strong>hair it is <strong>sex</strong>ually the most generally noted part <strong>of</strong> thefem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>e body after the eyes and the peculiar facilitywith which when plaited itmay be removed have longrendered hair-fetichism a condition <strong>of</strong> special medicolegal<strong>in</strong>terest.The hair-despoiler (Coupeur des nattes or Zopfab-have dim<strong>in</strong>-schneider) however modern fashions may ,ished his activities, might formerly have been found <strong>in</strong>any civilized country, though the most carefully studiedcases occurred <strong>in</strong> Paris. Such persons are usually <strong>of</strong> nervoustemperament and bad heredity;the attraction <strong>of</strong>hair occasionally develops <strong>in</strong> early life; sometimes themorbid impulse only appears <strong>in</strong> later life after fever. Thefetich may be either flow<strong>in</strong>g hair or braided hair, but isusually one or the other, and not both. Sexual excitement['77]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXand ejaculation may be produced <strong>in</strong> the act <strong>of</strong> touch<strong>in</strong>gor cutt<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong>f the hair, which issubsequently, <strong>in</strong> manycases, used for masturbation. As a rule the hair-despoileris a pure fetichist, no element <strong>of</strong> sadistic pleasure enter<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong>to his feel<strong>in</strong>gs.The stuff-fetiches are most usually fur and velvet; feathers,silk, and leather also sometimes exert<strong>in</strong>g this <strong>in</strong>fluence;they are all, it will be noted, animal substances.The most <strong>in</strong>terest<strong>in</strong>gisprobably fur, the attraction <strong>of</strong>which is not uncommon <strong>in</strong> association with passive algolagnia.As Stanley Hall showed, the fear <strong>of</strong> fur, as wellas the love <strong>of</strong> it, is by no means uncommon <strong>in</strong> childhood;it may appear <strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong>fancy and <strong>in</strong> children who have nevercome <strong>in</strong> contact with animals. It is noteworthy that <strong>in</strong>most cases <strong>of</strong> uncomplicated stuff-fetichism the attractionapparently arises on a congenital basis, as it appears <strong>in</strong>persons<strong>of</strong> nervous or sensitive temperament at an earlyage and without be<strong>in</strong>g attached to any def<strong>in</strong>ite or causative<strong>in</strong>cident. The <strong>sex</strong>ual excitation is nearly always producedby touch rather than by sight. If the specific <strong>sex</strong>ualsensations may be regarded as a special modification oticklishness, the erotic symbolisjn <strong>in</strong> the case <strong>of</strong> these stufffetichismswould seem to be a more or less congenitaldeviation <strong>of</strong> ticklishness <strong>in</strong> relation to specificanimal contacts.A further degree <strong>of</strong> deviation <strong>in</strong> this direction isreached <strong>in</strong> erotic zoophilia, as exemplified <strong>in</strong> a case recordedby Krafft-Eb<strong>in</strong>g. In this case a congenital neuropath,<strong>of</strong> good <strong>in</strong>telligence but delicate and anemic, withfeeble <strong>sex</strong>ual powers, had a great love <strong>of</strong> domestic animals*especially dogs and cats, from an early age; when pett<strong>in</strong>gthem he experienced <strong>sex</strong>ual emotions, although he was<strong>in</strong>nocent <strong>in</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual matters. At puberty he realized thenature <strong>of</strong> his feel<strong>in</strong>gs and tried to break himself <strong>of</strong> his


SEXUAL DEVIATIONhabits. He succeeded, but then began erotic dreams accompaniedby images <strong>of</strong> animals, and these led to masturbationassociated with ideas <strong>of</strong> a similar k<strong>in</strong>d. At the sametime he had no wish for any sort <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>timate <strong>in</strong>tercoursewith animals, and was <strong>in</strong>different as to the <strong>sex</strong> <strong>of</strong> theanimals which attracted him; his <strong>sex</strong>ual ideas were normal.Such a case seems to be one <strong>of</strong> fetichism on a tactilebasis, and thus forms a transition between the stuff-fetichismsand the complete perversiontowards animals.<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual attractionKrafft-Eb<strong>in</strong>g considered that this is radically dist<strong>in</strong>ctfrom erotic zoophilia. This view cannot be accepted. Bestialityand zooerastia merely present <strong>in</strong> a more markedand pr<strong>of</strong>oundly perverted form a further degree <strong>of</strong> thesame phenomenon which we meet with <strong>in</strong> erotic zoophilia;the difference is that they occur either <strong>in</strong> more <strong>in</strong>sensitiveor <strong>in</strong> more markedly psychopathic persons. It is, however,somewhat doubtful whether we can always or even usuallydist<strong>in</strong>guish between zooerastia and bestiality, for it seemsprobable that <strong>in</strong> most cases <strong>of</strong> ord<strong>in</strong>ary bestiality someslight traces <strong>of</strong> mental anomaly might be found, if suchcases always were, as they should be, properly <strong>in</strong>vestigated.As Moll remarks, it is <strong>of</strong>ten hardly possible to draw asharp l<strong>in</strong>e between vice and disease.We here reach the grossest and most frequent perversion<strong>in</strong> the group: bestiality or the impulse to atta<strong>in</strong><strong>sex</strong>ual gratification by <strong>in</strong>tercourse, or other close contact,with animals. In seek<strong>in</strong>g to comprehendthis deviation itis necessary to divest ourselves <strong>of</strong> the attitude toward animalswhich is the <strong>in</strong>evitable outcome <strong>of</strong> ref<strong>in</strong>ed civilizationand urban life. Most <strong>sex</strong>ual deviations, if not <strong>in</strong> largemeasure the actual outcome <strong>of</strong> civilized life, easily adjustthemselves to it.Bestiality (except <strong>in</strong> one form to benoted later) is, on the other hand, the <strong>sex</strong>ual anomaly <strong>of</strong>


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXdull, <strong>in</strong>sensitive, and unfastidious peasants. It flourishesamong primitive peoples and rural communities. It is thevice <strong>of</strong> the clodhopper who is unattractive to women or<strong>of</strong> culture it is not a<strong>in</strong>apt to court them. In some stagesvice at all. Thus, when <strong>in</strong> Sweden at the end <strong>of</strong> the thirteenthcentury it was first made an <strong>of</strong>fense by the Swedishpagan prov<strong>in</strong>cial laws, it was still only as an <strong>of</strong>fense aga<strong>in</strong>stthe owner <strong>of</strong> the animal, who was entitled to compensation.Among still simpler peoples such as the Salish <strong>of</strong>British Columbia, animals are regarded as no lower <strong>in</strong> thescale <strong>of</strong> life than human be<strong>in</strong>gs, and <strong>in</strong> some respectssuperior,so that there is noplace for our conception <strong>of</strong>"bestiality."Three conditions have favored the extreme prevalence<strong>of</strong> bestiality: (i) primitive conceptions <strong>of</strong> life whichbuilt up no great barrier between man and the other animals;(2) the extreme familiarity which necessarily existsbetween the peasant and his beasts, <strong>of</strong>ten comb<strong>in</strong>ed withseparation from women; (3) various folk-lore beliefs suchas the efficacy <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>tercourse with animals as a cure forvenereal disease,etc.Bestiality <strong>in</strong> the country is far from <strong>in</strong>frequent. Forthe peasant, whose sensibilities are uncultivated and whomakes but the most elementary demands from a woman,the difference between an animal and a human be<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>this respect scarcely seems to be very great. "My wife wasaway too long/' a German peasant expla<strong>in</strong>ed to the magistrate,"and so I went with my sow/* It is certa<strong>in</strong>ly anexplanation that to the peasant, ignorant <strong>of</strong> theologicaland juridical conceptions, must <strong>of</strong>ten seem natural andsufficient. Bestiality thus resembles masturbation andother manifestations <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse which may bepracticed merely faute de mieux, and not as, <strong>in</strong> the strictsense, deviations <strong>of</strong> the impulse. In this wayit is found


SEXUAL DEVIATIONamong soldiers at the front compelled to live an abst<strong>in</strong>entlife; and the goat has been mentioned <strong>in</strong> this connectionboth <strong>in</strong> medieval days and among the troops <strong>of</strong> the GreatWar.But it isby no means only their dulled sensibilities, orthe absence <strong>of</strong> women, which accounts for the frequency<strong>of</strong> bestiality among peasants. A highly important factor isA large number <strong>of</strong> animals have been recorded astheir constant familiarity with animals. It is scarcely surpris<strong>in</strong>gthat peasants should sometimes regard animalsas be<strong>in</strong>g not only as near to them as their fellow humanbe<strong>in</strong>gs, but even nearer.employed<strong>in</strong> the gratification <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual desire at some periodor <strong>in</strong> some country, by men and sometimes by women.Domestic animals are naturally those which most frequentlycome <strong>in</strong>to question, and there are few ifany <strong>of</strong>these which can altogether be excepted. The sow is one<strong>of</strong> the animals most frequently abused <strong>in</strong> this manner.Cases <strong>in</strong> which mares, cows, and donkeys figure constantlyoccur, as well as goats and sheep. Dogs, cats, andrabbits are heard <strong>of</strong> from time to time. Hens, ducks, andespecially <strong>in</strong> Ch<strong>in</strong>a, geese are not uncommonly employed.The Roman ladies were said to have had an abnormalaffection for snakes. The bear and the crocodile are alsomentioned.The social and legal attitude towards bestiality has reflected<strong>in</strong> part the frequency with which it has been practiced,and <strong>in</strong> part the disgust mixed with mystical andsacrilegious horror which it has aroused. It has sometimesbeen met merely by a f<strong>in</strong>e, and sometimes the <strong>of</strong>fenderand his <strong>in</strong>nocent partner have been burnt together. Inthe middle ages and later itsfrequency is attested by thefact that it formed a favorite topic with preachers <strong>of</strong> thefifteenth and sixteenth centuries. It is significant that it


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXwas thought necessary to fix the periods <strong>of</strong> penance whichshould be undergone respectively by bishops, priests, anddeacons who might be guilty o bestiality.The extreme severity which was frequently exercisedtoward those guilty <strong>of</strong> this <strong>of</strong>fense, was doubtless <strong>in</strong> largemeasure due to the fact that bestiality was regarded as ak<strong>in</strong>d <strong>of</strong> sodomy, an <strong>of</strong>fense which was viewed with amystical horror, apart altogether from any actual social orpersonal <strong>in</strong>jury it caused. The Jews seem to have feltthis horror; it was ordered that the s<strong>in</strong>ner and his victimshould both be putto death. In the middle ages, especially<strong>in</strong> France, the same rule <strong>of</strong>ten prevailed. Men andsows, men and cows, men and donkeys were burnt together.At Toulouse a woman was burnt for hav<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>tercoursewith a dog. Even <strong>in</strong> the seventeenth century alearned French lawyer justified such sentences. It seemsprobable that even today, <strong>in</strong> the social and legal attitudetowards bestiality, sufficient regard is not paid to the factthat this <strong>of</strong>fense is usually committed either by personswho are morbidly abnormal or who are <strong>of</strong> so low a degree<strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>telligence that theyborder on feeblem<strong>in</strong>dedness.Moreover, it has to be remembered that, except <strong>in</strong> theoccasional cases which <strong>in</strong>volve cruelty to animals, or areunited with sadism, bestiality isnot a directly anti-socialact at all; so long as there is no cruelty, it is, Forel remarks,"one <strong>of</strong> the most harmless <strong>of</strong> the pathological aberrations<strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse."BIBLIOGRAPHYKRAFFT-EBING, Psychopathia Sexualis.W. HOWARD, "Sexual Perversion/' Alienist and Neurologist,Jan., 1896.FOREL, The Sexual Question.THOINOT and WEYSSE, Medico-Legal Moral Offenses.


SEXUAL DEVIATIONKleptolagniaThe ancient term (it dates from the eighteenth century)"Kleptomania/ 1 orig<strong>in</strong>ally put forward as a "monomania,"has never been generally accepted <strong>in</strong> medic<strong>in</strong>eand has usually been denied altogether <strong>in</strong> law. When usedit was generally meant to <strong>in</strong>dicate simply a more or lessirresistible impulse to theft, an obsession for which thereis no conscious motive and which the subject (usuallya woman) struggles aga<strong>in</strong>st; it was regarded as most nearlyallied with manic-depressive <strong>in</strong>sanity. The tendency nowis to allow it to drop out <strong>of</strong> use. When a "morbid impulse"isbrought forward <strong>in</strong> court as a defense for theft it is tooeasy for the magistrate to retort: "That is what I am hereto cure." But there is a fairly def<strong>in</strong>ite condition, not avague obsession but due to precise and traceable causes,which cannot so be dismissed, and comes before us hereas with<strong>in</strong> the sphere <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> psychology. This is the so-called"erotic kleptomania" for which the best name is probably"kleptolagnia." That name (to <strong>in</strong>dicate the association <strong>of</strong>theft with <strong>sex</strong>ual feel<strong>in</strong>g, <strong>in</strong> analogy with "algolagnia") ,was devised by the psychiatrist Kiernan <strong>of</strong> Chicago about1917. I adopted it at once and have ever s<strong>in</strong>ce regarded itas the most suitable name for this condition. (Similarly"pyrolagnia" may be used for the rare condition <strong>of</strong> "eroticpyromania.") The condition itself seems to have been firstrecorded by Lacassagne <strong>of</strong> Lyons <strong>in</strong> 1896.Kleptolagnia may be said to arise on the wide basis oalgolagnia, that is to say the association <strong>of</strong> pa<strong>in</strong>, here <strong>in</strong>the form <strong>of</strong> anxiety, with <strong>sex</strong>ual emotion. It had beenvaguely touched on by various observers, who had notclearly understood it before French psychiatrists (such asDepouy <strong>in</strong> 1905) described def<strong>in</strong>ite cases. They showedthat the mental process <strong>in</strong>volved was really the process <strong>of</strong>


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEX<strong>sex</strong>ual tumescence and detumescence symbolically transformed<strong>in</strong>to an obsessive impulse, an impulse accompaniedby resistance and struggle, to seize secretly some more orless worthless object frequently a piece <strong>of</strong> silk or otherstuff which could be, as the subject already knew, used tosecure <strong>sex</strong>ual excitement culm<strong>in</strong>at<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> an act <strong>of</strong> theftwhich corresponded to, and was sometimes actually accompaniedby, <strong>sex</strong>ual detumescence and emotional relief. N<strong>of</strong>urther value was attached to the stolen object, which wasconcealed or thrown away by the subject, usually a womanand <strong>of</strong>ten <strong>in</strong> good circumstances. She may not be clearlyaware <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual source <strong>of</strong> her behavior, and, if conscious,would not as a rule spontaneously avow it. We seethat kleptolagniais not truly a form <strong>of</strong> kleptomaniathough it used to be confused with it, for kleptomania istheoretically regarded as motiveless and irresistible, while<strong>in</strong> kleptolagnia there is a def<strong>in</strong>ite motive, whether or notconscious, though that motive is not really theft, andthe act is not irresistible but carried out with reasonableprecaution at a suitable moment. The subject, though<strong>of</strong>ten or always neurotic, is not necessarily highly psychopathic.We are not <strong>in</strong> the presence <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>sanity, and kleptolagniais not to be put with the now almost ext<strong>in</strong>ct "kleptomania,"but under <strong>sex</strong>ual psychology;itmay be regardedas a morbid form <strong>of</strong> erotic fetichism.There are other less common comb<strong>in</strong>ations <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ualimpulse with theft which, though allied, must be dist<strong>in</strong>guishedfrom kleptolagnia as here understood. Onesuch condition was specially described by Stekel <strong>in</strong> 1908and isput forward as a psychoanalytic explanation <strong>of</strong>"kleptomania" generally. The theft here is not erotic, thatis,it is not a method <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual gratification, and is not thetheft <strong>of</strong> a fetich, but <strong>of</strong> any object appear<strong>in</strong>gto <strong>of</strong>fer<strong>sex</strong>ual suggestion. It is a substitute for <strong>sex</strong>ual gratification,[184]


SEXUAL DEVIATIO<strong>No</strong>ccurr<strong>in</strong>g especially <strong>in</strong> women with repressed emotionsdue to the impotency <strong>of</strong> their husbands. Stekel putit forwardas an explanation <strong>of</strong> all kleptomania, an explanationwhich falls if we dismiss the entity <strong>of</strong> "kleptomania."Another dist<strong>in</strong>ct comb<strong>in</strong>ation <strong>of</strong> theft with <strong>sex</strong>ualemotion has been described and clearly demonstrated byHealy. These cases occur <strong>in</strong> youths as well as girls whoare led <strong>in</strong>to <strong>sex</strong>ual temptations which appear so abhorrentand wicked to them that they yield to what seems the lessabhorrent temptation to steal. The mental process here isthe reverse <strong>of</strong> that found <strong>in</strong> kleptolagnia, for the theft isnot a real or symbolic gratification <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual desire,an escape from it.BIBLIOGRAPHYHAVELOCK ELLIS, Studies <strong>in</strong>VII, "Kleptolagnia/'HEALY, Mental Conflicts and Misconduct.STEKEL, Peculiarities <strong>of</strong> Behaviour.butthe <strong>Psychology</strong> <strong>of</strong> Sex, Vol.ExhibitionismAnother symbolistic manifestation <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse,serious <strong>in</strong> adult life, may occur <strong>in</strong>nocently, and notabnormally, <strong>in</strong> childhood. This is exhibitionism. Severalwriters have po<strong>in</strong>ted out that at puberty, and even <strong>in</strong>adolescence, an impulse <strong>of</strong> ostentation extend<strong>in</strong>g to thedevelop<strong>in</strong>g organs<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> (<strong>in</strong>girls more especiallyto thebreasts) is not uncommon. It is a common <strong>in</strong>fantiletendency which seems perfectly natural. Freud refers tothe exhilaration even very young children experience <strong>in</strong>nakedness; they love to dance about naked before go<strong>in</strong>gto bed, <strong>of</strong>ten rais<strong>in</strong>g their little garments, even beforestrangers, a rem<strong>in</strong>iscence, as Freud views it, <strong>of</strong> a lost Paradisiacalstate, to become later <strong>in</strong> exhibitionists a morbid


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXobsession, and <strong>of</strong>ten even normally re-asserted afterpuberty <strong>in</strong> a def<strong>in</strong>ite though restra<strong>in</strong>ed form. Putnamthought that the frequency with which we dream <strong>of</strong> be<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong> an <strong>in</strong>sufficiently dressed state reveals a latent exhibitionism,though this view I cannot accept: it is overlookedthat dur<strong>in</strong>g sleep we actually are <strong>in</strong> such a state. Sometimes<strong>in</strong> childhood it is a mutual practice (even to theage <strong>of</strong> twelve)as a manifestation <strong>of</strong> simple <strong>in</strong>terest <strong>in</strong> the<strong>sex</strong>ual organs; it is <strong>of</strong>ten also due to an impulse <strong>of</strong> mischiefor rebellion, though, when persistent, it may have anobscure <strong>sex</strong>ual cause, and be the sign <strong>of</strong> an irritationdesir<strong>in</strong>g unknown relief, a k<strong>in</strong>d <strong>of</strong> vicarious masturbation,to be dealt with <strong>in</strong> the same manner as ord<strong>in</strong>ary masturbation.In adults exhibitionism is more def<strong>in</strong>itely a symbol<strong>of</strong> coitus, and its forms fall <strong>in</strong>to several groups.First described and named by Lasgue <strong>in</strong>1877, Exhibitionismis thus a form <strong>of</strong> erotic symbolism <strong>in</strong> which anadequate equivalent <strong>of</strong> coitus is found <strong>in</strong> the simple act<strong>of</strong> deliberately exhibit<strong>in</strong>g the <strong>sex</strong>ual organ to persons <strong>of</strong>the opposite <strong>sex</strong>, usually by preference to young and presumably<strong>in</strong>nocent persons, <strong>of</strong>ten children. It would appearto be a not <strong>in</strong>frequent phenomenon, and most women,once or more <strong>in</strong> their lives, especially when young, haveencountered a man who has thus deliberately exposedhimself before them. It is <strong>in</strong>deed the commonest <strong>sex</strong>ual<strong>of</strong>fense, and <strong>No</strong>rwood East found that <strong>of</strong> 291 <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>of</strong>fendersreceived for trial or on remand at Brixton Prisonas many asit101 were cases <strong>of</strong> "<strong>in</strong>decent exposure," thoughmust be added that <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>of</strong>fenders were, altogether,only about 4 per cent <strong>of</strong> the total number <strong>of</strong> prisoners.The exhibitionist, though <strong>of</strong>ten a young and apparentlyvigorous man, is satisfied with the mere act <strong>of</strong> selfexhibitionand the emotional reaction which that actproduces;he seldom makes demands on the woman to[186]


SEXUAL DEVIATIONwhom he exposes himself; he seldom speaks, he makes noeffort to approach her; as a rule, he fails even to displaythe signs <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual excitation. He seldom masturbates; hisdesires are completely gratified by the act <strong>of</strong> exhibitionand by the emotional reaction he supposes that it arouses<strong>in</strong> the woman. He departs satisfied and relieved.Various classifications <strong>of</strong> exhibitionism have been putforward; thus Maeder recognized three forms: (i) the<strong>in</strong>fantile, to gaze and to be gazed at be<strong>in</strong>g normal <strong>in</strong> childhood;(2) the senile, which is a method <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual excitement<strong>in</strong> the impotent; and (3) exhibitionism as a method<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>vitation, which may occur <strong>in</strong> fairly normal persons<strong>of</strong> defective virility. This classification may not becomplete, but it rightly <strong>in</strong>sists on the element <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ualweakness, which is significant <strong>in</strong> exhibitionism, and onthe fact that the aberration has a normal basis <strong>in</strong> the commonactions <strong>of</strong> childhood. Krafft-Eb<strong>in</strong>g divided exhibitionists<strong>in</strong>to four cl<strong>in</strong>ical groups: (i) acquired states <strong>of</strong>mental weakness with cerebral or sp<strong>in</strong>al disease cloud<strong>in</strong>gconsciousness and at the same time caus<strong>in</strong>g impotence;(2) epileptics <strong>in</strong> whom the act is an abnormal organic impulseperformed <strong>in</strong> a state <strong>of</strong> imperfect consciousness;(3) a somewhat allied group <strong>of</strong> neurasthenic cases; (4)periodical impulsive cases with deep hereditary ta<strong>in</strong>t. Thisclassification is not altogether satisfactory. <strong>No</strong>rwood Eastfor practical purposes divided exhibitionists <strong>in</strong>to two ma<strong>in</strong>groups: the psychopathic (about two-thirds <strong>of</strong> the wholewith "visionaries" and mental defectives predom<strong>in</strong>at<strong>in</strong>g) ,and the depraved (who have a vicious motive and <strong>in</strong>cludethe rema<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g one-third) Most cases fall <strong>in</strong>to one or other.<strong>of</strong> two mixed groups (i) cases <strong>in</strong> which there is more orless congenital abnormality, but otherwise a fair or evencomplete degree <strong>of</strong> mental <strong>in</strong>tegrity; they are usuallyyoung adults, they are more or less conscious <strong>of</strong> the end[187]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXthey wish to atta<strong>in</strong>, and it is <strong>of</strong>ten only with a severestruggle that they yield to their impulses; (2) cases <strong>in</strong>which the beg<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>gs <strong>of</strong> mental or nervous disorder oralcoholic degeneration have dim<strong>in</strong>ished the sensibility <strong>of</strong>the higher centers; these subjects are sometimes old men(clergymen, etc.) whose lives have been absolutely correct;they are <strong>of</strong>ten only vaguely aware <strong>of</strong> the nature <strong>of</strong>the satisfaction they are seek<strong>in</strong>g, and frequently no struggleprecedes the manifestation; with rest and restorativetreatment the health may be improved and the acts cease.It is <strong>in</strong> the first class <strong>of</strong> cases alone that there is a developed<strong>sex</strong>ual anomaly. In the cases <strong>of</strong> the second class thereis a more or less def<strong>in</strong>ite <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>tention, but it isonlyjust conscious, and the emergence <strong>of</strong> the impulse is duenot to its strength but to the weakness, temporary or permanent,<strong>of</strong> the higher <strong>in</strong>hibit<strong>in</strong>g centers. Of this alcoholis a common cause, either by caus<strong>in</strong>g real mental confusionor by liberat<strong>in</strong>g latent tendencies; <strong>No</strong>rwood East remarksthat the decreased consumption <strong>of</strong> alcohol <strong>in</strong> Englandhas been accompanied by decrease <strong>in</strong> the number <strong>of</strong>convictions for <strong>in</strong>decent exposure (<strong>in</strong> England and Wales<strong>in</strong> 1913 866 men were so convicted, <strong>in</strong> 1923 and among alarger population only 548) .Epileptic cases, with loss <strong>of</strong> consciousness dur<strong>in</strong>g the act,can only be regarded as present<strong>in</strong>g a pseudo-exhibitionism.They are not so common as is sometimes supposed; <strong>No</strong>rwoodEast found none <strong>in</strong> a series <strong>of</strong> 150 cases (thoughepileptics were among them) and remarks that <strong>in</strong> his experiencethese cases are not as frequent as they are dramatic.It isundoubtedly true that cases <strong>of</strong> real or apparentexhibitionism may occur <strong>in</strong> epileptics as was clearly shownby Pelanda <strong>in</strong> Verona many years ago. We must not, however,too hastily conclude that because these acts occur <strong>in</strong>epileptics they are necessarily unconscious acts. When the[188]


SEXUAL DEVIATIONact <strong>of</strong> pseudo-exhibitionism is truly epileptic,it has nopsychic <strong>sex</strong>ual content, and it will certa<strong>in</strong>ly be liable tooccur under all sorts <strong>of</strong> circumstances, when the patientisalone or <strong>in</strong> a miscellaneous concourse <strong>of</strong> people. It correspond<strong>sex</strong>actly to the cases <strong>in</strong> which epileptics sometimescarry out the act <strong>of</strong> ur<strong>in</strong>ation, dur<strong>in</strong>g a psychic attack,<strong>in</strong> an apparently purposive but really unconscious manner.Such an act is automatic, unconscious, and <strong>in</strong>voluntary;the spectators are not even perceived; it cannot be an act<strong>of</strong> exhibitionism, for the act <strong>of</strong> exhibition implies deliberateand conscious <strong>in</strong>tention. Whenever, on the otherhand, the place and the time are evidently chosen deliberatelya quiet spot, the presence <strong>of</strong> only one or two youngwomen or children it is difficult to admit that we are <strong>in</strong>the presence <strong>of</strong> a fit <strong>of</strong> epileptic unconsciousness, evenwhen the subjectis known to be epileptic.Exclud<strong>in</strong>g these epileptic pseudo-exhibitionists, who,from the legal po<strong>in</strong>t <strong>of</strong> view, are clearly irresponsible, itmust still be remembered that <strong>in</strong> exhibitionism there isusually either a high degree <strong>of</strong> mental abnormality on aneuropathic basis, or else actual disease. This is true toa greater extent <strong>in</strong> exhibitionism than <strong>in</strong> almost any otherform <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual perversion. <strong>No</strong> subject <strong>of</strong> exhibitionismshould be sent to prison without expert medical exam<strong>in</strong>ation.Hirschfeld believes that the exhibitionist is nevermentally normal. In some cases the impulse to exhibitionismmay be overcome or may pass away. This result ismore likely to come about <strong>in</strong> those cases <strong>in</strong> which exhibitionismhas been largely conditioned bychronic alcoholismor other <strong>in</strong>fluences tend<strong>in</strong>g to destroy the <strong>in</strong>hibit<strong>in</strong>gand restra<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g action <strong>of</strong> the higher centers, which may beand treatment. When it occurs <strong>in</strong>overcome by hygieneyouth it tends to be spontaneously outgrown, as <strong>in</strong> theyouthful Rousseau who records that as a boy he once or


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXtwice displayed his nates to girls at a distance. When travel<strong>in</strong>gthrough Moravia many years ago I noted a youngwoman who had been bath<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> a stream near the railwayl<strong>in</strong>e and as the tra<strong>in</strong> passed turned her back to it andraised her chemise. (Here we have to bear <strong>in</strong> m<strong>in</strong>d theancient method <strong>of</strong> exorcism by display<strong>in</strong>g the nates, laterdegenerat<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>to a way <strong>of</strong> show<strong>in</strong>g contempt especiallypracticed by women.) True exhibitionism is rare <strong>in</strong> thefemale except <strong>in</strong> childhood. As Douglas Bryan puts it,women <strong>in</strong> exhibitionism treat the whole body as a penisto be exposed.Exhibitionism is an act which, on the face <strong>of</strong> it, mayseem nonsensical or mean<strong>in</strong>gless, but it iswildly extravagantto regard it as necessarily an <strong>in</strong>explicable act <strong>of</strong> madness,such as it was once, if not still, frequently treatedboth by writers on <strong>in</strong>sanity and on <strong>sex</strong>ual perversion, eventhough <strong>in</strong> its extreme form it may be associated witheither.We must regard exhibitionism as fundamentally a symbolicact based on a perversion <strong>of</strong> courtship. The exhibitionist,if a male, displays the organ <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> to a fem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>ewitness, and <strong>in</strong> the shock <strong>of</strong> modest <strong>sex</strong>ual shame by whichshe reacts to that spectacle he f<strong>in</strong>ds a gratify<strong>in</strong>g similitude<strong>of</strong> the normal emotions <strong>of</strong> coitus. He feels that he haseffected a psychic defloration.Exhibitionism is thus analogous, and <strong>in</strong>deed related, tothe impulse felt by many persons to perform <strong>in</strong>decorousacts or tell <strong>in</strong>decent stories before young and <strong>in</strong>nocentpersons <strong>of</strong> the opposite <strong>sex</strong>. This also is a k<strong>in</strong>d <strong>of</strong> exhibitionism,the gratification it causes ly<strong>in</strong>g exactly, as <strong>in</strong>physical exhibitionism, <strong>in</strong> the emotional confusion whichit is felt to arouse, though we cannot accept the view <strong>of</strong>Nacke that exhibitionism issimply a form <strong>of</strong> sadism andthe satisfaction felt only due to the horror aroused. The[190]


SEXUAL DEVIATIONtwo k<strong>in</strong>ds <strong>of</strong> exhibitionism may be comb<strong>in</strong>ed <strong>in</strong> the sameperson.It is <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>terest to po<strong>in</strong>t out that the <strong>sex</strong>ual symbolism<strong>of</strong> active flagellation is very closely analogous to this symbolism<strong>of</strong> exhibitionism. The flagellant approaches awoman with the rod (itself a symbol <strong>of</strong> the penis and<strong>in</strong> some countries bear<strong>in</strong>g names which are also appliedto that organ) to <strong>in</strong>flict on an <strong>in</strong>timate part <strong>of</strong> her bodythe signs <strong>of</strong> blush<strong>in</strong>g and the spasmodic movements whichare associated with <strong>sex</strong>ual excitement, while at the sametime she feels, or the flagellant imag<strong>in</strong>es that she feels, thecorrespond<strong>in</strong>g emotions <strong>of</strong> delicious shame. It is an evencloser mimicry <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual act than the exhibitionistatta<strong>in</strong>s, for the latter fails to secure the consent <strong>of</strong> thewoman nor does he enjoy any <strong>in</strong>timate contact with hernaked body. The difference is connected with the fact thatthe active flagellant isusually a more virile and normalperson than the exhibitionist. There is, however, onlyanalogy here and not identity; we must not regard theexhibitionist (as is sometimes done) as a sadist. In themajority <strong>of</strong> cases the exhibitionist's <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse isfeeble, and he may even be suffer<strong>in</strong>g from an early stage<strong>of</strong> general paralysis,senile dementia, or other enfeebl<strong>in</strong>gcause <strong>of</strong> mental disorganization, such as chronic alcoholism.Sexual feebleness is further <strong>in</strong>dicated by the fact thatthe <strong>in</strong>dividuals selected as witnesses are frequently merechildren.Psychologicallythe exhibitionist's act is not so <strong>in</strong>explicableas on the surface it may appear. He is usually ashy and timid person,sometimes <strong>of</strong> rather <strong>in</strong>fantile constitution;and his act is a violent reaction aga<strong>in</strong>st his disposition.Fetichists are also apt to be similarly shy andreserved, and Hirschfeld has <strong>in</strong>sisted that there is frequentlyan element <strong>of</strong> fetichism <strong>in</strong> the exhibitionist. He


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXwould <strong>in</strong>deed recognize two factors as present<strong>in</strong> all thesecases: (i)an endogenous and neurotic, and (s>)an exogenousfactor which is usually fetichistic. It is never theface that excites the exhibitionist but, much more usually,the legs,which iswhy, Hirschfeld believes, the spectacle<strong>of</strong> children and schoolgirls so <strong>of</strong>ten <strong>in</strong>duces these acts, asthey are most likely to display naked legs.The reaction aroused by the act may fall<strong>in</strong>to one <strong>of</strong>three groups: (i) the girlisfrightened and runs away;(2) she is<strong>in</strong>dignant and abuses the culprit; (3) she isthe last re-pleased or amused, and laughs or smiles. It isaction which affords the exhibitionist most satisfaction.cases <strong>in</strong> which <strong>sex</strong>ual gratificationisIt seems probable that a form <strong>of</strong> erotic symbolism somewhatsimilar to exhibitionism is to be found <strong>in</strong> the rarederived from throw<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong>k, acid, or other defil<strong>in</strong>g liquids on women's whitedresses. Moll, Tho<strong>in</strong>ot, Hirschfeld, and others have recordedcases <strong>of</strong> this k<strong>in</strong>d. Tho<strong>in</strong>ot considers that <strong>in</strong> thesecases the fleck is the fetich. That is an <strong>in</strong>correct account<strong>of</strong> the matter. The white garments <strong>in</strong> most cases probablyconstitute the primary fetich, but that fetich becomesmore acutely realized, and at the same time both partiesare thrown <strong>in</strong>to an emotional state which to the fetichistbecomes a mimicry <strong>of</strong> coitus, by the act <strong>of</strong> defilement. Wemay perhaps connect with this phenomenonthe attractionwhich muddy shoes <strong>of</strong>ten exert over the shoe fetichist.Restif de la Bretonne associated his love <strong>of</strong> neatness <strong>in</strong>women with his attraction to the feet, the part, he remarks,least easy to keep clean.Gamier applied the term sadi-fetichism to active flagellationand many similar manifestations such as we arehere concerned with, on the ground that they are hybridswhich comb<strong>in</strong>e the morbid adoration for a def<strong>in</strong>ite objectwith the impulse to exercise a more or less degree <strong>of</strong> vio-


SEXUAL DEVIATIONlence. From the standpo<strong>in</strong>t <strong>of</strong> the conception <strong>of</strong> eroticsymbolism I have adopted there is no need for this term.There is here no hybrid comb<strong>in</strong>ation <strong>of</strong> two unlike mentalstates. We are simply concerned with states <strong>of</strong> eroticsymbolism, more or less complete, more or less complex.The conception <strong>of</strong> exhibitionism as a process <strong>of</strong> eroticsymbolism <strong>in</strong>volves a conscious or unconscious attitude <strong>of</strong>attention <strong>in</strong> the exhibitionist's m<strong>in</strong>d to the psychic reaction<strong>of</strong> the woman toward whom his displayisdirected.He seeks to cause an emotion which, probably <strong>in</strong> mostcases, he desires should be pleasurable. But from one causeor another his f<strong>in</strong>er sensibilities are <strong>in</strong>hibited or <strong>in</strong> abeyance,and he is unable to estimate accurately either theimpression he is likely to produce or the general results<strong>of</strong> his action, or else he is moved by a strong impulsiveobsession which overpowers his judgment. In many caseshe has good reason for believ<strong>in</strong>g that his act will be pleasurablerather than the reverse, and frequently f<strong>in</strong>ds complacentwitnesses among low-class servant girls, etc.But the exhibitionist usually wishes to produce morethan a mere titillated amusement; he seeks a powerfuleffect which must be emotional whether or not it is pleasurable.There is sometimes an evident effort on the part<strong>of</strong> a weak, va<strong>in</strong>, and effem<strong>in</strong>ate man to produce a maximum<strong>of</strong> emotional effect. The attempt to heighten theemotional shock is also seen <strong>in</strong> the fact that the exhibitionistmay choose a church as the scene <strong>of</strong> his exploits, notdur<strong>in</strong>g service, for he always avoids a concourse <strong>of</strong> people,but perhaps towards even<strong>in</strong>g when there are only a fewkneel<strong>in</strong>g women scattered through the edifice. The churchis chosen, from no impulse to commit a sacrilegious outragewhich, as a rule, the exhibitionist does not feel hisact to be but because it really presents the conditionsmost favorable to the act and the effects desired, "just


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXwhat is necessary/' as one such said, "for an exchange <strong>of</strong>impressions." "What are they th<strong>in</strong>k<strong>in</strong>g? What do they sayto each other about me? Oh! how I should like to know!"A patient <strong>of</strong> Garnier's, who haunted churches for this purpose,made the significant statement: "Why do I like go<strong>in</strong>gto churches? I can scarcely say. But I know that it is onlythere that my act has its full importance. The woman is <strong>in</strong>a devout frame <strong>of</strong> m<strong>in</strong>d, and she must see that such an act<strong>in</strong> such a placeisnot a joke <strong>in</strong> bad taste or a disgust<strong>in</strong>git isobscenity; that if I go there it is not to amuse myself;more serious than that! I watch the effect produced on thefaces <strong>of</strong> the ladies to whom I show my organs. I wish tosee them express a pr<strong>of</strong>ound joy, I wish, <strong>in</strong> fact, that theymay be forced to say to themselves: How impressive Natureis when thus seen!" It is clear that we have here atrace <strong>of</strong> the same feel<strong>in</strong>g which <strong>in</strong>spired ancient phallicworship, a feel<strong>in</strong>g which is, <strong>in</strong>deed, sometimes found today,as Stanley Hall and others have po<strong>in</strong>ted out, <strong>in</strong> youthsat adolescence, as well as <strong>in</strong> women, thoughit is normallyunder restra<strong>in</strong>t and merely exists as a certa<strong>in</strong> pride <strong>in</strong> thepossession <strong>of</strong> the fully developed male or female attributes.That is why exhibitionism is <strong>in</strong> its most nearly normalforms a youthful manifestation. <strong>No</strong>rwood East found thatasmany as 57 <strong>of</strong> his 150 cases, over one-third, were below25 years <strong>of</strong> age, the number gradually dim<strong>in</strong>ish<strong>in</strong>g at successivelater ages, while the great majority <strong>of</strong> the wholenumber are unmarried. That also iswhy so important agroup (40 <strong>in</strong> <strong>No</strong>rwood East's cases) can be termed "visionaries."That is to say they are cultivat<strong>in</strong>g youthful fantasies<strong>of</strong> abnormal courtship, though, as East remarks, "<strong>in</strong>not a few one is rem<strong>in</strong>ded <strong>of</strong> the courtships <strong>of</strong> the farmyardand the love-antics and 'show<strong>in</strong>g<strong>of</strong>f'<strong>in</strong>dulged <strong>in</strong> bycerta<strong>in</strong> animals."It isby a pseudo-atavism that this phallicism is openly


SEXUAL DEVIATIONmanifested by the exhibitionist. There is no true emergence<strong>of</strong> an ancestrally <strong>in</strong>herited <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct, but, by theparalysis or <strong>in</strong>hibition <strong>of</strong> the f<strong>in</strong>er and higher feel<strong>in</strong>gscurrent <strong>in</strong> civilization, the exhibitionist is placed on thesame mental level as the man <strong>of</strong> a more primitive age, andhe thus presents the basis on which the impulses belong<strong>in</strong>gto a lower culture may naturally take root and develop.When the hereditary neuropathic disturbance is not toopr<strong>of</strong>ound there is <strong>of</strong>ten, under favorable conditions, agratify<strong>in</strong>g and complete return to normal conduct.It will be seen that the exhibitionist is but carry<strong>in</strong>g onestage further as so <strong>of</strong>ten happens with <strong>sex</strong>ual deviationsa <strong>sex</strong>ual manifestation which has a primitive foundation,and with<strong>in</strong> duly controlled limits and under properconditions might even be considered legitimate. He is<strong>of</strong>ten simply a too reckless narcissist. But under our presentday social conditions his conduct, however natural atits roots, cannot be tolerated; itmaylead to nervous orhysterical symptoms <strong>in</strong> the <strong>in</strong>nocent girl who issubjectedto it; and the <strong>in</strong>terference <strong>of</strong> the police is rightly called for.But what is to be done with the exhibitionist when heisbrought before the magistrate? As <strong>No</strong>rwood East states,<strong>in</strong> a large proportion <strong>of</strong> cases the courts now themselvescall for a report on the mental state. The problem has becomea difficult one with the more <strong>in</strong>telligent view <strong>of</strong><strong>sex</strong>ual deviations which istend<strong>in</strong>g to prevail. A small punishmenthas no effect; a severe would be unjust andequally <strong>in</strong>effective; unless the <strong>of</strong>fender is well-to-do he cannotbe sent to an <strong>in</strong>stitution for expert <strong>in</strong>vestigation andtreatment. Imay here quote a letter from a friend who isa magistrate and a man <strong>of</strong> dist<strong>in</strong>guished ability. "At quartersessions yesterday there was a case <strong>of</strong> a man, a laborer,who had been repeatedly convicted <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>decent exposure.The sentence was six months' hard labour. The difficulty


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXseems to be tw<strong>of</strong>old. One, there is, so far as we know, noplace where such a man can be sent for detention andtreatment, and two, as the prisondoctor would only saythe man was sub-normal and would not certify, we hadno power over him. The result is that a healthy man <strong>of</strong> 38,who may well live to be 68, will <strong>in</strong> six months be let looseand as likely as not repeat his <strong>of</strong>fense. He had a very goodwere much concerned aboutarmy record. Other justicesthe case and I was cheered to notice that the feel<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> theBench was much aga<strong>in</strong>st send<strong>in</strong>g such a man to prison.The only alternative was to release him. Happily we arepast the stage <strong>of</strong> flogg<strong>in</strong>g which is <strong>of</strong> course provided forunder the Statute and would certa<strong>in</strong>ly have been <strong>in</strong>flictedtwo or three years ago."Another magistrate,who is a physician and psycho-therapist,writes to me <strong>in</strong> this connection: "I have seen a goodmany such cases on the Bench; they are very sad <strong>in</strong>deed.Some I have managed to get <strong>of</strong>f; others had to take theirpunishment 'accord<strong>in</strong>g to the law/ There is no doubt thatthe majority need psycho-therapeutic treatment, be<strong>in</strong>gmental cases rather than crim<strong>in</strong>al <strong>of</strong>fenders. Many aregenu<strong>in</strong>ely horrified at their own practise which theystrenuously try to control. Much propaganda is necessaryto effect a change <strong>in</strong> the conventional outlook."With regard to the therapeutic treatment, I should liketo po<strong>in</strong>t out that it is most likely to prove effective ifcarried out <strong>in</strong> connection with a sun-bath<strong>in</strong>g camp onnudist l<strong>in</strong>es <strong>of</strong> the k<strong>in</strong>d now becom<strong>in</strong>g widely recognizedand accepted. If the exhibitionist is <strong>of</strong>ten simply a narcissist<strong>of</strong> unusually pronounced type, present<strong>in</strong>g impulseswhich are not necessarily anti-social, and <strong>in</strong>deed, undersome conditions socially recognizable, to give him an opportunityfor their legitimate manifestation is to conferupon him a new power <strong>of</strong> self-control. An exhibitionist


SEXUAL DEVIATIONwho isencouraged to practice nudity among men andwomen who, be<strong>in</strong>g themselves completely nude, accepthim as a matter <strong>of</strong> course is at once to gratify his narcissisticdesires so far as they are <strong>in</strong>nocent and to deprive them<strong>of</strong> their morbid <strong>in</strong>tensity. If his impulses cannot be rerstra<strong>in</strong>ed with<strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong>nocent limits, he faces the certa<strong>in</strong>ty thathe will be deprived <strong>of</strong> the privilege conferred uponA him.wholesome and socializ<strong>in</strong>g channel isprovided for animpulse which otherwise becomes isolat<strong>in</strong>g and degrad<strong>in</strong>g.The first advice to give to an exhibitionist who has notyet attracted the attention <strong>of</strong> the police is that he shouldnever go out alone. Hirschfeld, who recognizes the importance<strong>of</strong> this rule, remarks that the advice isalways taken<strong>in</strong> good part, for the exhibitionist tends to be <strong>in</strong> terror <strong>of</strong>arrested andhis own impulses. When he is actuallythe sensible and humanebrought before the magistrate,course on a first <strong>of</strong>fense is to dismiss him with a warn<strong>in</strong>gon condition that he seeks medical advice. In many largetowns there are now special cl<strong>in</strong>ics which are at the disposal<strong>of</strong> magistrates, police surgeons, and social workersat a negligible cost, and these should be <strong>of</strong>tener used. Onthe second <strong>of</strong>fense there should be compulsory detentionfor at least a month <strong>in</strong> a Home for exam<strong>in</strong>ation and treatment.This is <strong>in</strong> l<strong>in</strong>e with the op<strong>in</strong>ion <strong>of</strong> Forel that exhibitionistsare not dangerous, and (unless when weakm<strong>in</strong>ded)should not be deta<strong>in</strong>ed for more than a shortperiod for treatment <strong>in</strong> a Mental Home.BIBLIOGRAPHYKRAFFT-EBING, Psychopathia Sexualis.HAVELOCK ELLIS, Studies <strong>in</strong> the <strong>Psychology</strong> <strong>of</strong> Sex, Vol. V,"Erotic Symbolism."W. NORWOOD EAST, "Observations on Exhibitionism,'*Lancet, Aug. 23, 1924.


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXAlgolagnia(Sadism and Masochism)Algolagnia is a convenient term (devised by Schrenck-<strong>No</strong>tz<strong>in</strong>g) to <strong>in</strong>dicate the connection between <strong>sex</strong>ual excitementand pa<strong>in</strong>, without reference to its precise differentiation<strong>in</strong>to active and passive forms. The active formis commonly called sadism^ after the Marquis de Sade(1740-1814), who illustrated it slightly <strong>in</strong> his life andlargely <strong>in</strong> his books. The passive form is called masochism,after the Austrian novelist Sacher-Masoch (1836-1895),who has repeatedly described this <strong>sex</strong>ual deviation, whichhe himself manifested, <strong>in</strong> his novels. Sadism is generallydef<strong>in</strong>ed as <strong>sex</strong>ual emotion associated with the wish to <strong>in</strong>flictpa<strong>in</strong>, physical or moral, on the object <strong>of</strong> the emotion.Masochism is <strong>sex</strong>ual emotion associated with the desire tobe physically subjugated and morally humiliated by theperson arous<strong>in</strong>g the emotion. When fully developed, theactions which constitute the algolagnia whether activeor passive, whether real, simulated, symbolic, or only imag<strong>in</strong>edconstitute <strong>in</strong> themselves an adequate gratification<strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse, and, <strong>in</strong> the last degree, ensure detumescencewithout the need for coitus.The desirability <strong>of</strong> us<strong>in</strong>g the term algolagnia is shownby the existence <strong>of</strong> manifestations <strong>in</strong> this group which donot conveniently fall with<strong>in</strong> the sphere <strong>of</strong> either sadism ormasochism. Thus Krafft-Eb<strong>in</strong>g and Moll refused to acceptpassive flagellation as masochistic, regard<strong>in</strong>g it as simply aphysical stimulant; so itmay be; but <strong>in</strong> many cases it isdef<strong>in</strong>itely masochistic, active flagellation def<strong>in</strong>itely sadistic.In either case there is an association <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual emotionwith pa<strong>in</strong>. Thus the term "algolagnia" conveniently coversphenomena which are not always easy tounder sadism or masochism.<strong>in</strong>clude eitherDef<strong>in</strong>itionally this merg<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> sadism with masochism is


SEXUAL DEVIATION<strong>in</strong>convenient, but psychologicallyit is sound. Masochism,as Freud put it, is sadism turned round on to the self. That<strong>in</strong>deed is the chief ground on which it is desirable togroup sadism and masochism together under one head<strong>in</strong>g.Cl<strong>in</strong>ically, they <strong>of</strong>ten exist separately, but there is no clearl<strong>in</strong>e <strong>of</strong> demarcation between them, and thoughitmay berare to f<strong>in</strong>d an element<strong>of</strong> sadism <strong>in</strong> the pure masochist,it is common to f<strong>in</strong>d an element <strong>of</strong> masochism <strong>in</strong> the sadist.Even de Sade himself was not a pure sadist, but had<strong>in</strong> him dist<strong>in</strong>ct elements <strong>of</strong> masochism clearly revealed <strong>in</strong>his works. The active and passive elements may be closelyunited, if not really identical. Thus a subject <strong>of</strong> ma<strong>in</strong>lyactive algolagnia, for whom the whip is a stimulat<strong>in</strong>gfetich, writes: "My reaction is to the active side <strong>of</strong> the act.I have developed a slight <strong>in</strong>terest for the passive side, butam conv<strong>in</strong>ced that this depends upon a semi-sub-conscious<strong>in</strong>version or transference <strong>of</strong> the act, so that, though appliedto me, it isimag<strong>in</strong>ed sub-consciously as applied by me tosomeone else." It is <strong>in</strong>terest<strong>in</strong>g to note, also, that whilethe masochist may sometimes seem mascul<strong>in</strong>e and robust<strong>in</strong> general temperament, the sadist is frequently a timid,delicate, and fem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>e personality. Thus Riedel, a sadistyouth studied by Lacassagne (and f<strong>in</strong>ally sent to an asylum)who killed another boy, had voluptuous ideas <strong>of</strong>blood from the age <strong>of</strong> four and liked to play at kill<strong>in</strong>g,was <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>fantile physical development, very timid anddelicate, modest (so that he could not ur<strong>in</strong>ate <strong>in</strong> the presence<strong>of</strong> another person), very religious, hat<strong>in</strong>g obscenityand immorality, and with a pleasant childlike face andexpression. But the love <strong>of</strong> blood and murder was anirresistible obsession, and its gratification produced immenseemotional relief. Another sadistic French youth,studied by A. Marie (and also sent to an asylum) was <strong>of</strong>similar temperament, very timid, easily blush<strong>in</strong>g, unable099]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXto look even children <strong>in</strong> the eye, or to make advances towomen, or to ur<strong>in</strong>ate <strong>in</strong> the presence <strong>of</strong> others.Hirschfeld has sought to overcome some <strong>of</strong> the difficultiessurround<strong>in</strong>g the def<strong>in</strong>ition <strong>of</strong> sadism and masochismby <strong>in</strong>troduc<strong>in</strong>g the term metatropism, mean<strong>in</strong>g thereby ak<strong>in</strong>d <strong>of</strong> reversed or exchanged <strong>sex</strong>ual attitude, the mantak<strong>in</strong>g on and exaggerat<strong>in</strong>g the normal fem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>e attitude<strong>of</strong> the woman, and the woman tak<strong>in</strong>g on and exaggerat<strong>in</strong>gthe normal mascul<strong>in</strong>e attitude <strong>of</strong> the man. So that sadism<strong>in</strong> a man would merely be a heighten<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> the normalmale <strong>sex</strong>ual attitude, and masochism <strong>in</strong> a woman a heighten<strong>in</strong>g<strong>of</strong> the normal female <strong>sex</strong>ual attitude, both sadismand masochism becom<strong>in</strong>g totally different conditions accord<strong>in</strong>gas they occur <strong>in</strong> a man or <strong>in</strong> a woman. Mascul<strong>in</strong>esadism and fem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>e masochism are thus for Hirschfeldsimply hyperesthetic or erotomanic excesses <strong>of</strong> the normal<strong>sex</strong>ual impulse, while <strong>in</strong> the opposite <strong>sex</strong> they becomecomplete metatropic deviations from normality. This conceptionhas not, however, been generally accepted. It awkwardlycomplicates the matter; it is based on a conception<strong>of</strong> normal <strong>sex</strong>uality which not all will accept; Hirschfeld<strong>of</strong>ten the reversehimself admits that the sadistic man is<strong>of</strong> virile, and the masochistic man the reverse <strong>of</strong> fem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>e<strong>in</strong> temperament, so that the ismetatropic conception butlamely applicable.It still seems most convenient to speak<strong>of</strong> algolagnia, with its two opposite but <strong>of</strong>ten related forms<strong>of</strong> sadism and masochism, whether we are concerned withmen or women.A difficulty has been created out <strong>of</strong> the experienc<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong>pa<strong>in</strong> as pleasure. In algolagnia, however, it is not the pa<strong>in</strong>itself which is pleasure but the <strong>sex</strong>ual emotion which itarouses. Algolagnic subjects are usually to be regarded asunder-<strong>sex</strong>ed rather than over-<strong>sex</strong>ed, they present the reverse<strong>of</strong> the hyperesthetic or the <strong>sex</strong>ually athletic state.[200]


SEXUAL DEVIATIONThey need therefore a stronger than normal stimulus toarouse <strong>sex</strong>ual activity. Strong sensations and strong emotions,even those <strong>of</strong> the most unlikely k<strong>in</strong>d, such as anxietyand grief, are able to act as <strong>sex</strong>ual stimuli, and so to producepleasure though <strong>in</strong> themselves pa<strong>in</strong>ful. Cullerre hasbrought forward a number <strong>of</strong> cases, mostly <strong>in</strong> personsmanifest<strong>in</strong>g symptoms <strong>of</strong> nervous exhaustion, both menand women, <strong>of</strong>ten highly moral people, <strong>in</strong> whom fits <strong>of</strong>anxiety and dread, sometimes <strong>of</strong> a religious character, term<strong>in</strong>ated<strong>in</strong> spontaneous orgasm or masturbation. Thewidely extended implications <strong>of</strong> this fundamental psychologicalfact are taken advantage <strong>of</strong>, consciously or unconsciously,by the algolagnic subject to re<strong>in</strong>force hisfeeble <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse.It must further be remembered that <strong>in</strong> a mild degreepa<strong>in</strong> (with the associated emotions <strong>of</strong> shock, anxiety, disgust,contempt, etc.) whether witnessed <strong>in</strong> others or ex-,perienced <strong>in</strong> themselves, can for many people, especiallyif neurotically disposed, evoke a pleasurable psychic statewithout be<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>tense enough to stimulate actually <strong>sex</strong>ualsensations. The natural reaction to pa<strong>in</strong> is pathetic or sympathetic;one is sorry for it <strong>in</strong> oneself, one is, to a les<strong>sex</strong>tent that varies with the affective nearness, sorry for it<strong>in</strong> others. But a certa<strong>in</strong> element <strong>of</strong> pleasure or satisfactionis also possible. The classic expression <strong>of</strong> this is the passage<strong>in</strong> Lucretius (Book II) concern<strong>in</strong>g the feel<strong>in</strong>gs <strong>of</strong> the manand it is <strong>in</strong>-safe on shore who witnesses others drown<strong>in</strong>g,terest<strong>in</strong>g to see how Lucretius expla<strong>in</strong>ed it; "It is sweetto contemplate from the shore the peril <strong>of</strong> the unhappysailor struggl<strong>in</strong>g with death, not that we take pleasure <strong>in</strong>the misfortunes <strong>of</strong> others, but that it is consol<strong>in</strong>g to viewevils we are not experienc<strong>in</strong>g." On newspaper placardsthere is no more frequent, and therefore presumably allur<strong>in</strong>g,adjective than "amaz<strong>in</strong>g," and the "amaz<strong>in</strong>g" usually[201]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEX<strong>in</strong>volves an element <strong>of</strong> pa<strong>in</strong> or shock. The Grand Guignoltype <strong>of</strong> play always f<strong>in</strong>ds fasc<strong>in</strong>ated spectators for its horrors,and it is noteworthy that the novels <strong>in</strong> which pa<strong>in</strong>fulsituations are made amus<strong>in</strong>g, and pathetic figures ridiculous,are frequently the popular works <strong>of</strong> writers <strong>of</strong> highability. It is evident that <strong>in</strong> a mild degree an element <strong>of</strong>what may be termed non-<strong>sex</strong>ual sadism and masochism(what the Germans term Schadenfreude) i fairly widespreadamong the general population.When we bear these considerations <strong>in</strong> m<strong>in</strong>d we mayunderstand how it is that the sadist is by no means necessarilyimpelled by the desire to be cruel. It is emotion thathe is concerned to arouse, as well as to feel, more thanpa<strong>in</strong>. This is, for <strong>in</strong>stance, illustrated by the active algolagnicsubject already quoted, a man <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>tellectualhabits and not extremely sadistic: "The actual act <strong>of</strong>iswhipp<strong>in</strong>g the source <strong>of</strong> the fasc<strong>in</strong>ation. There is absolutelyno desire to humiliate the subject. She must feelpa<strong>in</strong>, but only as an expression <strong>of</strong> the vigour <strong>of</strong> the whipp<strong>in</strong>g.The <strong>in</strong>fliction <strong>of</strong> pa<strong>in</strong> itself gives me no pleasure; onthe contraryit is a source <strong>of</strong> repugnance to me. Apartfrom this <strong>sex</strong>ual anomaly, I have a great dislike <strong>of</strong> cruelty.I have only once killed an animal and remember it withregret"Our attention is apt to be fixed on the presence <strong>of</strong> pa<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong> algolagnia because we fail to realize all the psychicphenomena <strong>in</strong>volved. It is as though a musical <strong>in</strong>strumentwere sensitive: the supposition would be reasonable that amusical performance is the <strong>in</strong>fliction <strong>of</strong> pa<strong>in</strong>, and weshould certa<strong>in</strong>ly have would-be scientific and analyticalpeople conclud<strong>in</strong>g that the pleasure <strong>of</strong> music is the pleasure<strong>of</strong> giv<strong>in</strong>g pa<strong>in</strong>, and that the emotional effect <strong>of</strong> musicis due to the pa<strong>in</strong> thus <strong>in</strong>flicted.Algolagnia covers some <strong>of</strong> the most extravagant mani-[202]


SEXUAL DEVIATIONfestations <strong>of</strong> the abnormal <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse. Sadism leadsto the most violent outrages aga<strong>in</strong>st human nature; masochismto the most fantastic humiliations <strong>of</strong> human nature.It is, therefore, important to remember that both sadismand masochism are based on normal human impulses;they are the extreme term <strong>of</strong> tendencies which <strong>in</strong> a slightdegree are strictly with<strong>in</strong> the biological sphere.The normal basis <strong>of</strong> algolagniaiscomplex and manifold.There are especially two elements to be borne <strong>in</strong>m<strong>in</strong>d <strong>in</strong> this connection: (i) pa<strong>in</strong>, <strong>in</strong>flicted or suffered,is a by-product <strong>of</strong> the process <strong>of</strong> courtship, alike <strong>in</strong> thelower animals and <strong>in</strong> man; (2) pa<strong>in</strong>, more especially <strong>in</strong>enfeebled nervous conditions, congenital or acquired, isnervous stimulant, whether suffered or <strong>in</strong>flicted, and iscapable <strong>of</strong> act<strong>in</strong>g powerfully on the <strong>sex</strong>ual centers. If westeadily bear <strong>in</strong> m<strong>in</strong>d these two fundamental factors wehave little <strong>in</strong> difficulty comprehend<strong>in</strong>g the mechanism <strong>of</strong>the algolagnic processes, various as they are <strong>in</strong> form, andwe have the clew to their psychology. Every algolagnicform <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse is either a hypertrophied manifestation(sometimes perhaps atavistic <strong>in</strong> character) <strong>of</strong>some primitive phase <strong>of</strong> courtship, or it is the attempt <strong>of</strong>an enfeebled organism to secure a powerful aphrodisiacalaid to the atta<strong>in</strong>ment <strong>of</strong> tumescence.All love, as the old English writer, Robert Burton longs<strong>in</strong>ce said, is a k<strong>in</strong>d <strong>of</strong> slavery. The lover is his mistress'sservant; he must be ready to undertake all sorts <strong>of</strong> risks, toencounter many dangers, to fulfill many unpleasant du-her favor. Romanticties, <strong>in</strong> order to serve her and to ga<strong>in</strong>poetryis full <strong>of</strong> evidence <strong>of</strong> this attitude <strong>of</strong> the lover. Thefurther back we go among savages, towards primitive conditions,the more marked, on the whole, becomes thissubjection <strong>of</strong> the lover <strong>in</strong> courtship and the severity <strong>of</strong> thetrials he must undergo to w<strong>in</strong> his mistress's favor. Among[203]a


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXanimals, the same th<strong>in</strong>gis witnessed <strong>in</strong> a still cruder form;the male must exert his energies <strong>in</strong> the highest to w<strong>in</strong> thefemale and he <strong>of</strong>ten returns maimed and bleed<strong>in</strong>g fromcontests with a successful rival. Alike to suffer pa<strong>in</strong> andto <strong>in</strong>flict pa<strong>in</strong> is an <strong>in</strong>cidental if not essential part <strong>of</strong> courtship.The female, on her part, is <strong>in</strong>extricably mixed up <strong>in</strong>the same process, either by sympathetic or reciprocal <strong>in</strong>fluences.And if <strong>in</strong> the process<strong>of</strong> courtship the wooer isher slave and she isable to view with pleasure the suffer<strong>in</strong>gsshe is the cause <strong>of</strong>, alike to successful and unsuccessfulwooers, she <strong>in</strong> turn becomes subjugated to her mateand later to her <strong>of</strong>fspr<strong>in</strong>g, receiv<strong>in</strong>g her full share <strong>of</strong> thepa<strong>in</strong> which the <strong>sex</strong>ual process <strong>in</strong>volves. Sometimes even<strong>in</strong> the course <strong>of</strong> courtship the female suffers pa<strong>in</strong>, asamong many birds when the male at mat<strong>in</strong>g time falls <strong>in</strong>toa state <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual frenzy, and the more passivefemale suffers:thus the chaff<strong>in</strong>ch is a rough wooer, though as thefemale becomes submissive he is said to become gentle andconsiderate. The love-bite, aga<strong>in</strong>, is an animal as well ashuman device, and horses, donkeys, etc., gentlybite thefemale before coitus.That the <strong>in</strong>fliction <strong>of</strong> pa<strong>in</strong> is a sign <strong>of</strong> love is a widespreadidea both <strong>in</strong> ancient and modern times.makes a woman say:"He who has not ra<strong>in</strong>ed blows on hismistress and torn her hair and her garmentsis not yet <strong>in</strong>love." The same idea, that for a man to beat his sweetheartis an appreciated sign <strong>of</strong> love, occurs <strong>in</strong> one <strong>of</strong> Cervantes'sExemplary <strong>No</strong>vels, "R<strong>in</strong>conete and Cortadillo."And a patient <strong>of</strong> Janet's said <strong>of</strong> her husband: "He does notknow how to make me suffer a little. One cannot love aman who does not make one suffer a little." Reversely,Millamant says <strong>in</strong> Congreve's Way <strong>of</strong> the World, "One'scruelty is one's power."But algolagnic manifestations are more than a mere


atavistic exaggerationSEXUAL DEVIATION<strong>of</strong> normal manifestations <strong>of</strong> courtship.They are, especially <strong>in</strong> organically feeble organisms,the manifestation <strong>of</strong> an <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ctive attempt to re-<strong>in</strong>forcethe <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse. The <strong>in</strong>cidental emotions <strong>of</strong> courtship,viz.; anger and fear, are themselves stimulants to <strong>sex</strong>ualactivity.It thus becomes possible to <strong>in</strong>voke angeror fearartificially <strong>in</strong> order to strengthen a fail<strong>in</strong>g <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse.the actionThe most convenient method <strong>of</strong> do<strong>in</strong>g this is by<strong>of</strong> pa<strong>in</strong>: if the pa<strong>in</strong>is<strong>in</strong>flicted we are <strong>in</strong> the presence <strong>of</strong>sadism, if suffered <strong>in</strong> the presence <strong>of</strong> masochism, if simplywitnessed we are <strong>in</strong> an <strong>in</strong>termediate stage which may bet<strong>in</strong>ged with either sadism or masochism accord<strong>in</strong>g to thedirection <strong>of</strong> the sympathies <strong>of</strong> the algolagnic spectator.From this po<strong>in</strong>t <strong>of</strong> view the sadist and the masochist alikemerely use pa<strong>in</strong> as a method <strong>of</strong> draw<strong>in</strong>g on a great reservoir<strong>of</strong> primitive emotion, which imparts energy to afeeble <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse.When we understand the foundations on which algolagnicdeviations rest, we see that they have only an accidentaland not an essential association with cruelty. It isnot the desire to be cruel which impels the sadist, howevercruel he may be <strong>in</strong> actual fact. He wishes to arouse hisown flagg<strong>in</strong>g emotions, and <strong>in</strong> order to do so he <strong>in</strong> manycases arouses the emotions <strong>of</strong> his victim; the most potentmethod <strong>of</strong> do<strong>in</strong>g so he knows <strong>of</strong> is to give her pa<strong>in</strong>. But hefrequently desires that she shall feel this pa<strong>in</strong> as pleasure.Even <strong>in</strong> the sphere <strong>of</strong> normal love a man will <strong>of</strong>ten <strong>in</strong>flictsmall pa<strong>in</strong>s or hardships on the woman he loves, and allthe time be anxious that she should likethem, or evenexperience pleasure <strong>in</strong> them. The sadist merely goes a stepfurther, and (as <strong>in</strong> one recorded case) sticks p<strong>in</strong>s <strong>in</strong>to thegirl while <strong>in</strong>sist<strong>in</strong>gthat she shall all the time wear a smil<strong>in</strong>gface; it is not his wish to be cruel, he would prefer togive pleasure, though he is content with the mere appear-


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXance <strong>of</strong> the victim's pleasure.Even when the sadist goesso far as to kill his victim he is moved not by the desire tothe emotionalcause death, but to shed blood, so secur<strong>in</strong>gstimulus which isimparted almost universally by the spectacle<strong>of</strong> shed blood, and Leppmann has acutely observedthat <strong>in</strong> sadistic crimes it is usual to f<strong>in</strong>d the wound <strong>in</strong> thoseparts <strong>of</strong> the body, like the neck or the abdomen, whichwill lead to the maximum shedd<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> blood.Similarly the masochist has no wish to suffer cruelty.In that slight degree <strong>of</strong> passive algolagnia which Krafft-Eb<strong>in</strong>g, Moll, and others regard as simply a heighteneddegree <strong>of</strong> a normal attitude and entitle "<strong>sex</strong>ual subjection''(Horigheif),there need be no serious violence,either physical or psychic, but only a complacent accept'ance <strong>of</strong> the capricesand dom<strong>in</strong>ation <strong>of</strong> the beloved person.There is no clear l<strong>in</strong>e <strong>of</strong> demarcation between <strong>sex</strong>ualsubjection and masochism apart from the important factthat <strong>in</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual subjection the normal impulse to coitus rema<strong>in</strong>s,while <strong>in</strong> masochism it tends to be replaced by theperverse impulse and the masochist reta<strong>in</strong>s the samepleasure, and even <strong>in</strong> many cases ecstasy, as he experiencesthe manifold ill-treatment he desires. This ill-treatmentmay <strong>in</strong>volve the reality, or the simulacrum, <strong>of</strong> a greatmany actions: b<strong>in</strong>d<strong>in</strong>g and fetter<strong>in</strong>g, trampl<strong>in</strong>g, semistrangulation,the performance <strong>of</strong> menial duties and taskscommonly felt to be disgust<strong>in</strong>g by the beloved person,verbal abuse, etc. For the masochist such acts have becomethe equivalent <strong>of</strong> coitus, and the idea <strong>of</strong> cruelty, and <strong>in</strong>most cases even pa<strong>in</strong>, never enters. If we bear this <strong>in</strong> m<strong>in</strong>dthe elaborate hypotheses which some psychologists (evenFreud) have <strong>in</strong>geniously constructed to expla<strong>in</strong> masochismare seen to be completely unnecessary.The manifestations <strong>of</strong> masochism, from their nature, are<strong>of</strong> little social significance and <strong>in</strong>volve comparatively little[206]


SEXUAL DEVIATIONdanger to the community. It has thus come about that,though algolagnic phenomena <strong>of</strong> this k<strong>in</strong>d may be tracedfar back <strong>in</strong> the history <strong>of</strong> civilization, masochism was notregarded as a def<strong>in</strong>ite perversion until Krafft-Eb<strong>in</strong>g presentedhis masterly exposition <strong>of</strong> its characteristics <strong>in</strong> hisPsychopathic, Sexualis. Sadism, closely related as it is tomasochism on the biological and psychological sides, has avery different social and medico-legal significance. Thoughat one end its variations range from so <strong>in</strong>nocent and normala manifestation as the love-bite, they extend to themost serious and dangerous anti-social acts as illustratedby the notorious case <strong>of</strong> "Jack the Ripper,"the extremetype <strong>of</strong> a group <strong>of</strong> cases, not so very uncommon, which <strong>in</strong>volvewound<strong>in</strong>g from erotic motives, though by no meansalways murder. (This class <strong>of</strong> cases was especially studiedby Lacassagne.) In another important group <strong>of</strong> cases,schoolmasters, mistresses, and other persons <strong>in</strong> authorityover children and servant girls torture their charges fromsadistic motives.Sadism ismanifested both by men and women. Masochismis more especially found <strong>in</strong> men; this may be <strong>in</strong> partbecause <strong>in</strong> women a certa<strong>in</strong> degree <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual subjection,the primary stage <strong>of</strong> masochism, may fairly be regarded asalmost normal, and <strong>in</strong> part because (asMoll po<strong>in</strong>ted out)masochism be<strong>in</strong>g largely due to an attempt to atta<strong>in</strong> asubstitute or a stimulus for an enfeebled potency, women,who are normally more passive <strong>in</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual act, do notrequire it.Sadism and masochism, as has already been said, do notexhaust the manifestations <strong>of</strong> algolagnia. In the largesense, algolagnia is a great sub-division <strong>of</strong> erotic symbolism,and it <strong>in</strong>cludes all the cases <strong>in</strong> which <strong>sex</strong>ual pleasureor <strong>in</strong> simula-is associated, actively or passively, <strong>in</strong> realitytion or <strong>in</strong> imag<strong>in</strong>ation, with pa<strong>in</strong>, anger, fear, anxiety,


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXshock, constra<strong>in</strong>t, subjection, humiliation, and allied psychicstates; for all these states <strong>in</strong>volve recourse to a greatreservoir <strong>of</strong> primitiveemotion which may be utilized tore<strong>in</strong>force the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse. It is <strong>in</strong> this way that flagellationwhether <strong>in</strong>flicted, suffered, witnessed or thoughtabout may <strong>in</strong> some predisposed persons act as a <strong>sex</strong>ualstimulant from almost the earliest age. In most cases bothphysical and psychic elements enter <strong>in</strong>to the <strong>in</strong>fluence,and an important and extensive group <strong>of</strong> algolagnic casesis thus formed. In other cases the mere spectacle <strong>of</strong> variousevents which produce an emotional shock such as anearthquake, or a bull-fight, or even the death and funeral<strong>of</strong> relations act erotically apart from any def<strong>in</strong>ite sadisticor masochistic attitude <strong>in</strong> the subject <strong>of</strong> the emotions.Looked at broadly, the sphere <strong>of</strong> algolagnia is thus verylarge. There are, moreover, certa<strong>in</strong> groups <strong>of</strong> cases whichlie on its frontier though they may perhaps more accuratelybe classed with erotic fetichism. Gamier attemptedto set up a group <strong>of</strong> "sadi-fetichistic" cases; but a casewhich he brought forward scarcely seems to prove thecontention for it belongs to the class <strong>of</strong> foot-fetichism.Abraham, while admitt<strong>in</strong>g dim<strong>in</strong>ished <strong>sex</strong>ual activity,thought this need not be primary, but sometimes due tosuppression or paralysis <strong>of</strong> an orig<strong>in</strong>ally strong libido. Hereferred to the suggestion <strong>of</strong> Freud that osphresiolagniaand coprolagnia may sometimes play a part <strong>in</strong> the genesis<strong>of</strong> foot fetichism, these elements later reced<strong>in</strong>g as unesthetic,the visual pleasure rema<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g.An occasional comb<strong>in</strong>ation <strong>of</strong> algolagnia and fetichismis termed corset-fetichism. Here the corset is a k<strong>in</strong>d <strong>of</strong>fetich, but its attraction is associated with pressure sensationsand the attraction <strong>of</strong> fetters. Karl Abraham elaboratedthe rather complex case <strong>of</strong> a male student <strong>of</strong> 22 wh<strong>of</strong>oot-fetichism and corset-fetichism and the at-presented


SEXUAL DEVIATIONtraction <strong>of</strong> a fetter<strong>in</strong>g pressure as well as osphresiolagniaor the love <strong>of</strong> agreeable body odors, this last be<strong>in</strong>g regardedas the orig<strong>in</strong>al manifestation and shown <strong>in</strong> relationto the subject's mother. There was also anal and urethralerotism. As <strong>in</strong> a case <strong>of</strong> a girl already mentioned, the subject<strong>in</strong> early life would sit on his heel pressed to the anus.There were eonist tendencies and he desired to be awoman <strong>in</strong> order to lace himself tightly and wear uncomfortableand polished high heel shoes. The subject beganto fetter himself at puberty <strong>in</strong> an old corset <strong>of</strong> hismother's, and there was no accidental association found toaccount for the fetichisms.Necrophily, or vampyrism, the <strong>sex</strong>ual attraction <strong>of</strong>corpses, is, aga<strong>in</strong>, a phenomenon <strong>of</strong>ten <strong>in</strong>cluded undersadism. In such cases, there is, strictly, no pa<strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong>flicted orsuffered, so that we are not here concerned with sadismor masochism, but, <strong>in</strong> so far as the <strong>sex</strong>ual stimulation maybe said to be due to the emotional shock <strong>of</strong> the contactwith a dead body, these cases come under the broad def<strong>in</strong>ition<strong>of</strong> algolagnia. Occasionally, they may be said to belongmore accurately to the group <strong>of</strong> erotic fetichism.When, however, we <strong>in</strong>vestigate these cases <strong>in</strong> their cl<strong>in</strong>icalaspects they are generally found to be <strong>in</strong> a high degreepsychopathic, or mental feebleness is present; they areusually dull-witted and <strong>in</strong>sensitive persons, not <strong>in</strong>frequentlyanosmic (as <strong>in</strong> the typical "vampire du Muy"recorded by Epaulard) ; they are men whom women reject,and their resort to corpsesis almost a k<strong>in</strong>d <strong>of</strong> masturbation,or at all events comparable to bestiality. The cases<strong>in</strong> which the corpseis not only violated but mutilated, as<strong>in</strong> the famous old case <strong>of</strong> Sergeant Bertrand, have sometimesbeen termed necro-sadism. There is <strong>of</strong> course hereno real sadism <strong>in</strong> the narrow sense; Bertrand began withphantasies <strong>of</strong> ill-treat<strong>in</strong>g women, later imag<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g that the[209]


women were corpses;PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXthe sadistic ideas were <strong>in</strong>cidents <strong>in</strong>the emotional evolution, the object throughout be<strong>in</strong>g notto <strong>in</strong>flict cruelty but to procure strong emotion; any mutilationis carried out <strong>in</strong> order to <strong>in</strong>crease the emotionalexcitement. Such cases are highly abnormal.BIBLIOGRAPHYKRAFFT-EBING, Psychopathia Sexualis.HAVELOCK ELLIS, Studies <strong>in</strong> the <strong>Psychology</strong> <strong>of</strong> Sex, Vol.Ill, "Love and Pa<strong>in</strong>."STANLEY HALL, "A Study <strong>of</strong> Fears," American Journal <strong>of</strong><strong>Psychology</strong>, 1897 and 1899.W. A. F. BROWNE, "Necrophilism," Journal <strong>of</strong> MentalScience, Jan. 1875.FREUD, "The Economic Problem <strong>in</strong> Masochism," CollectedPapers, Vol. II and "Inst<strong>in</strong>cts and their Vicissitudes,"ib.j Vol. IV.Sexual SenilityThere Is a frequent well marked tendency <strong>in</strong> women toan eruption at the menopause <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual desire, the lastflar<strong>in</strong>g up <strong>of</strong> a dy<strong>in</strong>g fire, which may easily take on amorbid form.Similarly <strong>in</strong> men when the approach <strong>of</strong> age beg<strong>in</strong>s tobe felt the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse may become suddenly urgent.In this <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ctive reaction it may tend to roam, normallyor abnormally, beyond legitimate bounds. This tendencyis by no means conf<strong>in</strong>ed to men who have been lovers <strong>of</strong>women <strong>in</strong> youth; it is sometimes most conspicuous <strong>in</strong>those men who <strong>in</strong> earlier life have been severely restra<strong>in</strong>edby moral considerations and now act from a sort <strong>of</strong> subconsciousimpulse to make upfor lost time before it istoo late. It is the experience <strong>of</strong> most women that <strong>sex</strong>ualattempts on them <strong>in</strong> early life the most dar<strong>in</strong>g and, itmust be added, <strong>of</strong>ten the most successful attempts have[2101


SEXUAL DEVIATIONbeen made not by young men, whose attitude towards thewomen who attract them tends to be more respectful andeven reverential, but by elderly married men, <strong>of</strong>ten bythose whose character and position rendered such attempt<strong>sex</strong>tremely unlikely.Apart from senility there seems (as Leppmann longs<strong>in</strong>ce concluded) to be no congenital perversion directedtowards children. There may exceptionally be a repressedsubconscious impulse towards unripe girls,but the chiefcont<strong>in</strong>gent before old age is furnished by the weakm<strong>in</strong>ded.It has to be recognized that with the advance <strong>of</strong> agethere is not only the liability to this eruption <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ualactivity but also the development <strong>of</strong> a certa<strong>in</strong> egotism andcallousness which facilitates its manifestations. This is <strong>in</strong>other respects beneficial because it protects enfeebled oldage from the risks <strong>of</strong> strong emotion, but it is liable toabuses <strong>of</strong> which the most dangerous occur if there arisesan efflorescence <strong>of</strong> activity <strong>in</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual sphere.This late exacerbation <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>uality becomes still moredangerous if it takes the form <strong>of</strong> an attraction to girls whoare no more than children, and to acts <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>decent familiaritywith children. There is normally an attraction, <strong>of</strong> amore or less <strong>sex</strong>ual character, on the part <strong>of</strong> the elderlytowards the young; it is a counterpart <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual attraction<strong>of</strong>ten felt by young girls towards elderly men and bytowards adult women. But <strong>in</strong> old men the attractive-boysness <strong>of</strong> the young may take on an abnormal and mischievousform ow<strong>in</strong>g to the senile decl<strong>in</strong>e <strong>of</strong> potency whichrenders mere <strong>sex</strong>ual contacts au adequate gratification.The older the man the more easily he is satisfied and theless compunction he appears to f<strong>in</strong>d <strong>in</strong> seek<strong>in</strong>gsuch satisfaction,so that <strong>in</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual assaults, as Brouardel long agoshowed, the average age <strong>of</strong> the victim regularly decreases[*"]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXas the average age <strong>of</strong> the perpetrator <strong>in</strong>creases. So long asthe physicalstate is fairly sound and the mental statefairly <strong>in</strong>tact, such impulses,when they occur, are doubtlesseasily restra<strong>in</strong>ed, and we are not called upon to regardtake <strong>in</strong> the fresh-as morbid the pleasure which the agedness <strong>of</strong> the young. But with physical irritation, such asmay arise from an enlarged prostate, and with psychic loss<strong>of</strong> control from <strong>in</strong>cipient mental decay, there is risk thatthe barriers may be removed, and the man become adanger to himself and to others. It is <strong>in</strong> this way sometimesthat senile dementia beg<strong>in</strong>s to declare itself before <strong>in</strong>tellectualfailure is obvious.It was formerly thought (as by Krafft-Eb<strong>in</strong>g and Lepp^mann) that <strong>of</strong>fenses aga<strong>in</strong>st children occur <strong>in</strong> old menmentally sound as a simple result <strong>of</strong> "satiety" <strong>in</strong> normal<strong>sex</strong>ual relationships, but this is doubtful. Hirschfeld <strong>in</strong> hiswide experience has never seen a child violator who wasmentally sound. There should certa<strong>in</strong>ly always be a carefulpsychiatric <strong>in</strong>vestigation.BIBLIOGRAPHYKRAFFT-EBING, Psychopathia Sexualis.THOINOT & WEYSSE, Medico-Legal Aspects <strong>of</strong> MoralOffenses.The Social Attitude TowardsSexual Deviations,"The pathology <strong>of</strong> love is a Hell <strong>of</strong> which the gate mustde Gourmont <strong>in</strong> hisnever be opened," said RemyPhysique de I'Amour. That melodramatic declarationcould only have been made by a philosopher <strong>of</strong> love,however admirable on his own l<strong>in</strong>es, who was withoutscientific tra<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g, and it is surpris<strong>in</strong>g to f<strong>in</strong>d it endorsedby a gynecologist like Van de Velde. It is a great th<strong>in</strong>g,


SEXUAL DEVIATIONas Aristotle said, to be a master <strong>of</strong> metaphor, and here aGate <strong>of</strong> Hell is the wrong metaphor. We are not here onthe stage <strong>of</strong> a div<strong>in</strong>e comedy such as Dante presented, but<strong>in</strong> the realm <strong>of</strong> biology, where the physiologicalis for everpass<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>to the pathological, and blend<strong>in</strong>g with it almostimperceptibly, without the open<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> any gate.The elements<strong>of</strong> pathology are already to be found <strong>in</strong> the physiological,and pathological processes are still follow<strong>in</strong>g thelaws <strong>of</strong> physiology. Every normal man <strong>in</strong> matters <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>,when we exam<strong>in</strong>e him carefully enough,is found to showsome abnormal elements, and the abnormal man is merelymanifest<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> a disordered or extravagant shape somephase <strong>of</strong> the normal man. <strong>No</strong>rmal and abnormal, taken<strong>in</strong> the mass, can all be plotted as variations <strong>of</strong> differentdegree on the same curve. The lov<strong>in</strong>g woman whoexclaims: "I could eat you!" is connected by l<strong>in</strong>ks, each<strong>in</strong> itself small, with Jack the Ripper. We all possess with<strong>in</strong>us, <strong>in</strong> a more or less developed form, the germs <strong>of</strong>atrocities.It is not, therefore, because it is "abnormal" that a<strong>sex</strong>ual act becomes reprehensible. That view once prevailed.A narrow conception <strong>of</strong> what is "natural" washeld; everyth<strong>in</strong>g else was "unnatural" and to be vituperated,if not to be punished, even severely punished, for itwas perhaps a crime, almost certa<strong>in</strong>ly a s<strong>in</strong>.<strong>No</strong>w that our knowledge <strong>of</strong> what is "natural" hasgrown, and the existence <strong>of</strong> endless variations <strong>in</strong> naturehas to be admitted, a different conception is tend<strong>in</strong>g toprevail.We f<strong>in</strong>d that we have to discrim<strong>in</strong>ate. The questionis no longer: Is the act abnormal? It becomes: Is theact <strong>in</strong>jurious? Society isnot concerned with the varieties<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual couples, but with the question <strong>of</strong> determ<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>gthose variations which <strong>in</strong>flict <strong>in</strong>jury. That question is <strong>of</strong>some importance s<strong>in</strong>ce it is believed by experienced physi-


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXcians that many "perversions,"as such variations <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ualactivity are still usually called, have become more commonNumerous causes may contribute todur<strong>in</strong>g recent years.this result. In part, significance is attached to a dim<strong>in</strong>ution<strong>of</strong> prostitution,and to a greater repugnance to <strong>in</strong>tercoursewith prostitutes, with the substitution <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual gratifica-or fears <strong>of</strong>tion with women who, through moral scruplespregnancy, are unwill<strong>in</strong>g to permit actual <strong>in</strong>tercourse.In addition there isprobably to be considered a greaterdegree <strong>of</strong> ref<strong>in</strong>ement <strong>in</strong> the advance <strong>of</strong> civilization, whichleads lovers to f<strong>in</strong>d pleasure <strong>in</strong> ways which among primitivefolk, or even between themselves <strong>in</strong> the absence <strong>of</strong>passionate love, might appear disgust<strong>in</strong>g. There are, <strong>of</strong><strong>sex</strong>ual feel<strong>in</strong>g,course, also, those who by some deep-rooted deviation <strong>of</strong>such as <strong>in</strong>version or masochism or fetichism,can only f<strong>in</strong>d <strong>sex</strong>ual satisfaction possiblewhen thestimulus reaches them through some abnormal channel.Even here what we call a "perversion," when not carriedto an extreme po<strong>in</strong>t, is, as Wolbarst states, "<strong>of</strong>ten found asa normal constituent <strong>in</strong> the lives <strong>of</strong> normal <strong>in</strong>dividuals."Freud, <strong>in</strong>deed, has said, and probably with truth, thatthere is"perversity"no healthy person <strong>in</strong> whom some such element <strong>of</strong>does not sometimes occur.The conclusion we are today slowly reach<strong>in</strong>gis thatthe abnormal gratification <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse, howeverunusual or even repugnant it may seem, calls for no condemnationor <strong>in</strong>terference, except <strong>in</strong> two classes <strong>of</strong> cases,the one affect<strong>in</strong>g medic<strong>in</strong>e, and the other the law. Thatis to say, <strong>in</strong> the first class, the subject <strong>of</strong> the abnormalactivity may be <strong>in</strong>jur<strong>in</strong>g his health, <strong>in</strong> which case he needsmedical or psycho-therapeutic treatment. Or, <strong>in</strong> the secondcase, he may be <strong>in</strong>jur<strong>in</strong>g the health or the rights <strong>of</strong> hispartner or <strong>of</strong> a third party, <strong>in</strong> which case the law isentitled to <strong>in</strong>terfere. There are a number <strong>of</strong> various ways


SEXUAL DEVIATION<strong>in</strong> which this may happen, while there are also variousways <strong>in</strong> which <strong>in</strong> different countries the law reacts, or, <strong>in</strong>the op<strong>in</strong>ion <strong>of</strong> some, should react, to the <strong>in</strong>jury <strong>in</strong>flicted.Such <strong>in</strong>juries are the seduction <strong>of</strong> a m<strong>in</strong>or, the <strong>in</strong>jury toconjugal rights by adultery, the conveyance <strong>of</strong> a venerealdisease by <strong>in</strong>tercourse, the <strong>in</strong>fliction <strong>of</strong> what on the objectiveside (even if not so <strong>in</strong>tended) is cruelty to obta<strong>in</strong><strong>sex</strong>ual gratification, etc. On many <strong>of</strong> these questions thereis general agreement. A matter on which there is still widedifference <strong>of</strong> op<strong>in</strong>ion, and <strong>in</strong> different countries <strong>of</strong> practice,is with regard to homo<strong>sex</strong>uality with the manifestations<strong>of</strong> which we shall be concerned <strong>in</strong> the next chapter.Homo<strong>sex</strong>uality has always and everywhere existed. It isone <strong>of</strong> the <strong>in</strong>ter<strong>sex</strong>ual conditions with<strong>in</strong> the natural and<strong>in</strong>evitable range <strong>of</strong> variations. Apart from that, and apartalso from be<strong>in</strong>g based on the relative <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>difference<strong>of</strong> early life, it has <strong>in</strong> some lands and <strong>in</strong> some cultures beenpopular as a fashion or cherished as an ideal. It cannot beeradicated either by legal enactments, however severe, orby social reprehension. In the early Christian centuries,after the State had, with Constant<strong>in</strong>e, been captured forthe new religion, homo<strong>sex</strong>uality was the object <strong>of</strong> ferociousdecrees, and <strong>in</strong> France, even to the eve <strong>of</strong> the Revolution,pederasts were occasionally burnt. After the Revolution,however, with the Code Napoleon,all acts<strong>of</strong> simple homo<strong>sex</strong>uality carried out <strong>in</strong> private by consent<strong>in</strong>gadults ceased to be punishable, though still severelypunished if effected <strong>in</strong> public or with a m<strong>in</strong>or. Thatrule is now followed <strong>in</strong> those lands which have been <strong>in</strong>fluencedby the Code Napoleon. In other countries, however,and notably <strong>in</strong> England and the United States, the ancientharsh attitude still persists and it seems difficult to modifythe old laws; all that has so far been done is, <strong>in</strong> somedegree, to refra<strong>in</strong> from carry<strong>in</strong>g them out.


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXThere is much still to be effected by the growth, whichwe are bound to expect, <strong>of</strong> a more enlightened attitude <strong>in</strong>from the consideration that <strong>sex</strong>ual acts andsociety. Apartattitudes, when not made a cause <strong>of</strong> public <strong>of</strong>fense, are forthe persons concerned, and no one else, to decide, we haveto remember that such acts and attitudes are largely theoutcome <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>nate constitution. When so-called or seem<strong>in</strong>gcongenital cases <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual deviation come before the physician,a difficultproblem is sometimes presented. Shall heendeavor to make the patient "normal" when for him"normality" may be what for a genu<strong>in</strong>ely normal personwould be unnatural and a "perversion." I agree withWolbarst that "we may possibly f<strong>in</strong>d ourselves on thecorrect road if we act on the theory that any <strong>sex</strong>ual deviationwhich has always given satisfaction without <strong>in</strong>juryto a particular <strong>in</strong>dividual must be considered normal forthat <strong>in</strong>dividual," thoughit must be added that our attitudewill be modified if at the same time <strong>in</strong>juryis <strong>in</strong>flictedon some other <strong>in</strong>dividual. We are not called upon toattempt the fruitless task <strong>of</strong> drastic suppression, althoughwe should facilitate the medical, or even surgical, treatment,<strong>of</strong> those who wish to escape from what they mayf<strong>in</strong>d a burden, congenital or acquired, too heavy to beborne. We must aim not only to be just, but also to besympathetic.The greater tolerance <strong>in</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual matters now seen to bedesirable is not alone a matter <strong>of</strong> justice to those personswho vary from the norm. It has weight <strong>in</strong> the whole socialconstitution and adds a new stability to the moral system.<strong>No</strong>t onlyis it a hopeless task to deal with <strong>sex</strong>ual varietiesas immoralities or crimes, but the moral systemistherebydiscredited by its failures, and the prevalence <strong>of</strong> varietiesrecognized as regards alcohol) , prohibitionsis fostered, for <strong>in</strong> such matters, as we know (itis now wellare maters16]


SEXUAL DEVIATIONments. Licht, the historian <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual manifestations <strong>in</strong>Greece, has po<strong>in</strong>ted out the rarity <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual perversions(homo<strong>sex</strong>uality not be<strong>in</strong>g so regarded but as a normalsupplement to marriage) <strong>in</strong> Greece. The reason was, heremarks, that for the Greeks <strong>sex</strong>ual matters were outsidemorals (except where children or violence were <strong>in</strong>volved) ,which was concerned only with <strong>in</strong>justice, <strong>of</strong>fenses aga<strong>in</strong>stthe State, and crimes. Where normal relationships arefree, variations are not artificially fostered, and, if theyoccur, tend to pass unperceived. "It may sound paradoxical,but it is true," Wolbarst states, "that the spread <strong>of</strong><strong>sex</strong>ual perversion <strong>in</strong> American communities <strong>in</strong> recentyears has been very largely fostered and abetted, unwitt<strong>in</strong>gly<strong>of</strong> course, by moral agencies."We cannot expect or desire to return to Greek morality,and its ideal <strong>of</strong> "the beautiful alike <strong>in</strong> body and soul"may be out <strong>of</strong> our reach. But there can be little doubtthat we shall gradually break down the false notions andthe rigid attempts at legal and social prohibitions whichhave caused so much trouble and confusion <strong>in</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ualhistory <strong>of</strong> our recent past. In so do<strong>in</strong>g we shall purify omspiritual atmosphere and strengthen our moral code by remov<strong>in</strong>gfrom it prescriptions which were merely a sourceo weakness.BIBLIOGRAPHYHAVELOCK ELLIS, Studies <strong>in</strong> the <strong>Psychology</strong> <strong>of</strong> Sex, Vol. II,"Sexual Inversion."W. McDouGALL, Outl<strong>in</strong>e <strong>of</strong> Abnormal <strong>Psychology</strong>.A. L. WOLBARST, "Sexual Perversions: their Medical andSocial Implications," Medical Journal and Record, July,1931.HANS LIGHT, Sexual Life <strong>in</strong> Ancient Greece.[217]


CHAPTER VHOMOSEXUALITYSexualInversionWHEN the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse is directed towards persons <strong>of</strong>the same <strong>sex</strong> we are <strong>in</strong> the presence <strong>of</strong> an aberration variouslyknown as "<strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>version/' "contrary <strong>sex</strong>ual feel<strong>in</strong>g/'"uranism," or, more generally, "homo<strong>sex</strong>uality/* asopposed to normal hetero<strong>sex</strong>uality. "Homo<strong>sex</strong>ual! ty" isthe best general term for all forms <strong>of</strong> the anomaly, <strong>in</strong> dist<strong>in</strong>ctionfrom normal hetero<strong>sex</strong>uality, while "<strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>version"is best reserved for apparently congenital and fixedforms. It is the most clearly def<strong>in</strong>ed <strong>of</strong> all <strong>sex</strong>ual deviations,for it presents an impulse which is completely andfundamentally transferred from the normal object to anobject which is normally outside the sphere <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ualdesire, and yet possesses all the attributes which <strong>in</strong> otherrespects appeal to human affection. It is a highly abnormalaberration, and yet it seems to supply a greater satisfactionthan any other aberration can furnish. It is probably thischaracteristic <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>version which renders it so important.This importance is manifested <strong>in</strong> three ways:(i) its wide diffusion and the large place it has played <strong>in</strong>various epochs <strong>of</strong> culture; (2)itsfrequency <strong>in</strong> civilizationtoday, and (3)the large number <strong>of</strong> dist<strong>in</strong>guished personswho have manifested the aberration.The fundamental and what may be called"natural"basis <strong>of</strong> homo<strong>sex</strong>uality is manifested by its prevalenceamong animals. It is common among various mammals,


HOMOSEXUALITYand, as we should expect, is especially found among thePrimates most nearly below Man. G. V. Hamilton, study<strong>in</strong>gmonkeys and baboons, states that "the immature malemonkey typically passes through a period dur<strong>in</strong>g which heis overtly and almost exclusively homo<strong>sex</strong>ual, and that thisperiod is term<strong>in</strong>ated at <strong>sex</strong>ual maturity by an abruptturn<strong>in</strong>g to hetero<strong>sex</strong>ual ways." Zuckerman has closely observedthe homo<strong>sex</strong>ual behavior <strong>of</strong> baboons and chimpanzees,sometimes f<strong>in</strong>d<strong>in</strong>git more pronounced <strong>in</strong> the femalesthan <strong>in</strong> the males, and he is even <strong>in</strong>cl<strong>in</strong>ed to assimilatehomo<strong>sex</strong>ual and hetero<strong>sex</strong>ual behavior among the apes,f<strong>in</strong>d<strong>in</strong>g no pronounced differences.Among many savage and barbarous peoples homo<strong>sex</strong>ualityhas been conspicuous and sometimes treated withreverence. This was so even among the ancient civilizationson which our own is founded. It was known to theAssyrians, and the Egyptians, nearly four thousand yearsago, attributed paederasty to their gods Horus and SetIt has been associated not only with religion but withmilitary virtues, and was <strong>in</strong> this way cultivated among theancient Carthag<strong>in</strong>ians, Dorians, and Scythians, as it waslater by the <strong>No</strong>rmans. Among the ancient Greeks, f<strong>in</strong>ally,it was idealized not merely <strong>in</strong> association with militaryvirtue, but with <strong>in</strong>tellectual, aesthetic, and even ethicalqualities, and was by many regarded as more noble thannormal hetero<strong>sex</strong>ual love. After the com<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> Christianityit still held itsground, but it fell <strong>in</strong>to disrepute, while as apsychological anomaly consist<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> an idealization <strong>of</strong> persons<strong>of</strong> the same <strong>sex</strong> even apart from homo<strong>sex</strong>ual acts itwas forgotten or unknown. It was only recognized afterJust<strong>in</strong>ian's time as sodomy, that is to say as a vulgar vice,or rather as a crime, deserv<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> the most severe secularand ecclesiastical penalties, even burn<strong>in</strong>g at the stake.In the Middle Agesit isprobable that <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>version["91


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXflourished not only <strong>in</strong> camps but also <strong>in</strong> cloisters, and it isconstantly referred to <strong>in</strong> the Penitentials. It is not, however,until the Renaissance that it plays a conspicuous part<strong>in</strong> the world; Lat<strong>in</strong>i, Dante's teacher, was <strong>in</strong>verted, andDante refers to the frequency <strong>of</strong> this perversion amongmen <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>tellect and fame. The dist<strong>in</strong>guished Frenchhumanist Muret was from this cause <strong>in</strong> danger <strong>of</strong> deaththroughout his life; Michaelangelo, the greatest sculptor<strong>of</strong> the Renaissance, cherished homo<strong>sex</strong>ual ideals and passions,although there is no reason to suppose that he hadphysical relations with the men he was attracted to; Marlowe,one <strong>of</strong> the chief poets <strong>of</strong> the Renaissance <strong>in</strong> England,was clearly <strong>of</strong> the same way <strong>of</strong> feel<strong>in</strong>g, as also, there isground for believ<strong>in</strong>g, was Bacon.It is quite true that the <strong>in</strong>vert seldom places himselfunder a physician's hands. He usually has no wish to behe isdifferent from what he is, and as his <strong>in</strong>telligence is generallyquite up to the average level, if not above it,careful to avoid discovery and seldom attracts the attention<strong>of</strong> the police. In this way the prevalence <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>versionis unknown to those who do not know where to look forit or how to detect it. In Germany Hirschfeld, whoseknowledge <strong>of</strong> homo<strong>sex</strong>uality is unrivaled, has shown thata large number <strong>of</strong> separate estimates among differentclasses <strong>of</strong> the population reveal a proportion <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>vertedand bi<strong>sex</strong>ual persons vary<strong>in</strong>g between one and five percent. In England my own <strong>in</strong>dependent observations,though <strong>of</strong> a much less thorough and extensive character,<strong>in</strong>dicate a similar prevalence among the educated middleclass, while among the lower social classes homo<strong>sex</strong>ualityis certa<strong>in</strong>ly not rare, and even if not <strong>in</strong>nate there <strong>of</strong>tenappears to be among them a remarkable absence <strong>of</strong> repulsionto homo<strong>sex</strong>ual relations; <strong>in</strong>verts have referredmanyto this po<strong>in</strong>t. Among women, though less[220]easy to detect,


HOMOSEXUALITYless common thanhomo<strong>sex</strong>uality appears to be scarcelyamong men, <strong>in</strong> this respect unlike nearly all other aberrations;the pronounced cases are, <strong>in</strong>deed, perhaps lessfrequently met with than among men, but less markedand lessdeeply rooted cases are probably more frequentthan among men. Some pr<strong>of</strong>essions show a higher proportion <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>verts than others. Inversion is not specially prevalent among scientific and medical men; it is more fre>quent among literary and artistic people, and <strong>in</strong> the dramaticpr<strong>of</strong>ession it is <strong>of</strong>ten found. It is also specially commonamong hairdressers, waiters, and waitresses* Artisticaptitude <strong>of</strong> one k<strong>in</strong>d or another, and a love <strong>of</strong> music, arefound among a large proportion <strong>of</strong> educated <strong>in</strong>verts, <strong>in</strong>my experience as much as sixty-eight per cent.In America among the educated and pr<strong>of</strong>essional classes,M. W. Peck among 60 college men <strong>in</strong> Boston, represent<strong>in</strong>gall departments <strong>of</strong> the University and College life, found7 who were def<strong>in</strong>itely homo<strong>sex</strong>ual, six <strong>of</strong> them admitt<strong>in</strong>gadult overt experiences. Two others were clearly thoughunconsciously homo<strong>sex</strong>ual; he considers that 10 per centcollege men are homo<strong>sex</strong>ual, whether or not there areovert practices. G. V. Hamilton found that only 44 <strong>of</strong> his100 married men could deny all memory <strong>of</strong> homo<strong>sex</strong>ualplay <strong>in</strong> early life; while 46 men and 23 women owned t<strong>of</strong>riendship with their own <strong>sex</strong> <strong>in</strong>volv<strong>in</strong>g stimulation <strong>of</strong>the <strong>sex</strong>ual organs. Kathar<strong>in</strong>e Davis found that 31.7 percent women admitted "<strong>in</strong>tense emotional relations withother women," and 57.5 per cent unmarried women admittedhomo<strong>sex</strong>ual play <strong>in</strong> childhood, 48.2? per cent <strong>of</strong>them dropp<strong>in</strong>git after adolescence.The importance <strong>of</strong> homo<strong>sex</strong>uality is, aga<strong>in</strong>, shown bythe prevalence <strong>of</strong> homo<strong>sex</strong>ual prostitution. This has beenspecially studied <strong>in</strong> Berl<strong>in</strong> where the police tolerate it, onthe same basis as female prostitution,<strong>in</strong> order to be able[221]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXto control and limit its manifestations. Hirschfeld considersthe number <strong>of</strong> male prostitutes<strong>in</strong> Berl<strong>in</strong> to be abouttwenty thousand; more recently and more cautiouslyWerner Picton estimates it as six thousand. More thanone third are judged to be psychopathic, less than a quarter<strong>of</strong> them to be homo<strong>sex</strong>ual themselves. Unemploymentis a commonly assigned cause, as <strong>of</strong> female prostitution,but probably various other elements enter <strong>in</strong>to the causation.Although <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>version is thus so important a phenomenonit is only <strong>in</strong> recent times that it has receivedscientific study, or even recognition. This first took place<strong>in</strong> Germany, At the end <strong>of</strong> the eighteenth century twocases were published<strong>in</strong> Germany <strong>of</strong> men show<strong>in</strong>g a typicalemotional <strong>sex</strong>ual attraction towards their own <strong>sex</strong>. Butalthough Hossli, Caspar, and especially Ulrichs (who <strong>in</strong>ventedfor it the term "uranism") further prepared theway, it was not until 1870 that Westphal published a detailedhistory <strong>of</strong> an <strong>in</strong>verted young woman, and clearlyshowed that the case was congenital and not acquired, sothat it could not be termed a vice, and was also, thoughneurotic elements were present, not a case <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>sanity.From that moment the scientific knowledge <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>versionrapidly<strong>in</strong>creased. Krafft-Eb<strong>in</strong>g, who was the firstgreat cl<strong>in</strong>ician <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>version, brought together alarge number <strong>of</strong> cases <strong>in</strong> his Psychopathia Sexualis, whichwas the earliest scientific book deal<strong>in</strong>g with abnormal <strong>sex</strong>ualityto attract general attention. Moll, with a more criticalm<strong>in</strong>d than was Krafft-Eb<strong>in</strong>g's, and a wider scientificculture, followed with an admirable treatise on <strong>sex</strong>ual<strong>in</strong>version. Then Magnus Hirschfeld, with an unrivaledand most sympathetic personal knowledge <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>verts,greatly contributed to our knowledge, and his book, DerHomo<strong>sex</strong>ualitat (1914), not yet translated <strong>in</strong>to English.


HOMOSEXUALITYis an encyclopedia <strong>of</strong> the whole subject. In Italy, wherethe term "<strong>in</strong>versione sessuale" seems tohave orig<strong>in</strong>ated,cases were from an early period brought forward by Ritti,Tamassia, Lombroso, and others. In France, where Charcotand Magnan first took up this study <strong>in</strong> 1882, a series<strong>of</strong> dist<strong>in</strong>guished <strong>in</strong>vestigators, <strong>in</strong>clud<strong>in</strong>g Fere, S&ieux,and Sa<strong>in</strong>t-Paul (writ<strong>in</strong>g under the pen-name <strong>of</strong> "Dr.Laupts") have elucidated our knowledge <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>version.In Russia Tarnowsky first <strong>in</strong>vestigated the phenomena.In England, John Add<strong>in</strong>gton Symonds, son <strong>of</strong> a dist<strong>in</strong>guishedphysician and himself a brilliant man <strong>of</strong> letters,privately published two notable pamphlets, one on <strong>sex</strong>ual<strong>in</strong>version <strong>in</strong> ancient Greece and another on the modernproblem <strong>of</strong> homo<strong>sex</strong>uality, Edward Carpenter (also atfirst privately) pr<strong>in</strong>ted a pamphlet on die subject andlater a book (first published <strong>in</strong> German) on The IntermediateSex. Raffalovich published a notable book <strong>in</strong>French, and my own book on <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>version was publishedfirst <strong>in</strong> Germany (Das Kontrdre GeschlechtsgefilhL1896) and then <strong>in</strong> England and America, where also, at,an earlier date, Kiernan and Lydston had given attentionto the facts and theory <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>version. The mostnotable recent book (1932) is Maran6n's, translated fromthe Spanish.The amount <strong>of</strong> study lately devoted to the subject hasnot yet resulted <strong>in</strong> complete unanimity. The first and mostfundamental difficulty lay <strong>in</strong> decid<strong>in</strong>g whether <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>versionis congenital or acquired. The prevail<strong>in</strong>g op<strong>in</strong>ion,before Krafft-Eb<strong>in</strong>g's <strong>in</strong>fluence began to be felt, was thathomo<strong>sex</strong>uality is acquired, that it is, <strong>in</strong>deed, simply a"vice," generally the mere result <strong>of</strong> masturbation or <strong>sex</strong>ualexcesses hav<strong>in</strong>g produced impotence <strong>in</strong> normal coitus, orelse (with B<strong>in</strong>et and Schrenck-<strong>No</strong>tz<strong>in</strong>g)that it is theresult <strong>of</strong> suggestion <strong>in</strong> early life.Krafft-Eb<strong>in</strong>g accepted


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXboth the congenital and the acquired varieties <strong>of</strong> homo<strong>sex</strong>uality,and the subsequent tendency has been towardsm<strong>in</strong>imiz<strong>in</strong>g the importance <strong>of</strong> acquired homo<strong>sex</strong>uality.This tendency was well marked <strong>in</strong> Moll's treatise. Hirschfeldand Maranon consider that there is always a congenitalelement <strong>in</strong> homo<strong>sex</strong>uality, and Bloch, Aletr<strong>in</strong>o,etc., separated <strong>of</strong>f the non-congenital homo<strong>sex</strong>ual personswho, for some reason or another, <strong>in</strong>dulge <strong>in</strong> homo<strong>sex</strong>ualpractices, as belong<strong>in</strong>g to a group <strong>of</strong> "pseudo-homo<strong>sex</strong>uality";this was also the view <strong>of</strong> Nacke who consideredthat we have to dist<strong>in</strong>guish not between congenital andacquired <strong>in</strong>version, but between true and false, and whoregarded homo<strong>sex</strong>uality appear<strong>in</strong>g late <strong>in</strong> life as notacquired, but "retarded" or delayed homo<strong>sex</strong>uality on abasis. Some authorities who started with thecongenitalold view that <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>version is exclusively or chiefly anacquired condition (like Nacke and Bloch) later adoptedthe more modern view. Many psycho-analysts still cherishthe belief that homo<strong>sex</strong>uality is always acquired, but as atthe same time they also recognize that it is frequentlyconstitutional, the differ-fixed, and therefore presumablyence <strong>of</strong> op<strong>in</strong>ion becomes unimportant.Another fundamental po<strong>in</strong>t <strong>in</strong> regard to which op<strong>in</strong>ionhas changed is the question as to whether <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>version,even if congenital, should be considered a morbid or "degenerate"state. On this matter Krafft-Eb<strong>in</strong>g at first rangedhimself with the ancient view and regarded <strong>in</strong>version asthe manifestation <strong>of</strong> a neuropathic or psychopathic state,but <strong>in</strong> his latest writ<strong>in</strong>gs he judiciously modified this positionand was content to look on <strong>in</strong>version as an anomalyand not a disease or a "degeneration." This is the direction<strong>in</strong> which modern op<strong>in</strong>ion has steadily moved. Inverts maybe healthy, and normal <strong>in</strong> all respects outside their specialaberration. This has always been my own standpo<strong>in</strong>t,[224]


HOMOSEXUALITYthough I regard <strong>in</strong>version as frequently <strong>in</strong> close relationto m<strong>in</strong>or neurotic conditions. We may agree with Hirschfeld(who f<strong>in</strong>ds hereditary ta<strong>in</strong>t <strong>in</strong> not more than 25 percent <strong>in</strong>verts) that even if there is a neuropathic basis <strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>version the morbid element is usuallyWe small.are thus brought to what may be regarded as thefundamental basis <strong>in</strong> biological constitution on which,when we go outside the psychological field, homo<strong>sex</strong>ualitycan be said to rest. It may seem easy to say that there aretwo def<strong>in</strong>itely separated dist<strong>in</strong>ct and immutable <strong>sex</strong>es, themale that bears the sperm-cell and the female that bearsthe ovum or egg. That statement has, however, long ceasedto be, biologically, strictly correct. We may not knowexactly what <strong>sex</strong> is; but we do know that it is mutable,with the possibility <strong>of</strong> one <strong>sex</strong> be<strong>in</strong>g changed <strong>in</strong>to theother <strong>sex</strong>, that its frontiers are <strong>of</strong>ten uncerta<strong>in</strong>, and thatthere are many stages between a complete male and acomplete female. In some forms <strong>of</strong> animal life, <strong>in</strong>deed,it is not easy to dist<strong>in</strong>guish which is male and whichfemale. In all these cases <strong>sex</strong> may be regarded as one <strong>of</strong>the devices (for there are other devices <strong>in</strong> Nature) forsecur<strong>in</strong>g reproduction, though we are justified <strong>in</strong> study<strong>in</strong>gthe phenomena <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> apart from the question <strong>of</strong> reproduction.However true itmay be that reproduction isNature's primary aim, it is equally true that <strong>sex</strong>ual reproductionisonly one <strong>of</strong> several devices for atta<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g thatendẆe are bound to assume that <strong>in</strong> every <strong>sex</strong>-chromosome,whether XX or XY, resides the physical basis<strong>of</strong> an impulsewhich tends to impose the male type or the female<strong>in</strong>dividual. When two <strong>in</strong>dividualstype on the develop<strong>in</strong>g<strong>of</strong> different races, as <strong>of</strong> some moths (<strong>in</strong> which the phenomenahave been specially studied) are bred together,the <strong>of</strong>fspr<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong>ten ceases to be normal, and the male <strong>of</strong>f-[225]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXspr<strong>in</strong>g may show a tendency <strong>in</strong> the direction <strong>of</strong> femaleness,or, under other circumstances, the female <strong>of</strong>fspr<strong>in</strong>gshow a tendency to maleness, the stra<strong>in</strong> thus able to givean impress be<strong>in</strong>g termed "strong" and the other "weak."Here we see already, <strong>in</strong> a low zoological form, the condition<strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>ter-<strong>sex</strong>uality which when we proceed to Man andenter the psychological field has sometimes been considered(though <strong>in</strong>correctly)to constitute an "<strong>in</strong>termediate"<strong>sex</strong>. It is, more strictly, the result <strong>of</strong> a quantitative disharmonybetween the male and female <strong>sex</strong>-determ<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>gfactors. Be<strong>in</strong>g part <strong>of</strong> the hereditary constitution <strong>of</strong> the<strong>in</strong>dividual, it is <strong>in</strong>born, likely to become more pronouncedas development proceeds, and, <strong>in</strong> the higher mammals, tomanifest itself <strong>in</strong> the psychic sphere.When deal<strong>in</strong>g with moths, it is found that this <strong>in</strong>ter<strong>sex</strong>uality,more simple than when occurr<strong>in</strong>g higher <strong>in</strong> thezoological scale, may be produced by mix<strong>in</strong>g differentraces <strong>of</strong> the same species. When we approach nearer toMan, the forms <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>ter<strong>sex</strong>uality differ, are less pronounced,or not at all, <strong>in</strong> the external physical aspect, andare due less to mixture <strong>of</strong> different races than to varied<strong>in</strong>dividual deviations from the normal, while sometimesat all stages external factors may be <strong>in</strong>fluential.We beg<strong>in</strong> to come closer to the actual mechanism bywhich <strong>in</strong>ter<strong>sex</strong>uality isproduced when we turn aga<strong>in</strong> tothe action <strong>of</strong> the hormones. We may view these as tak<strong>in</strong>gup the guidance <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong> process after the <strong>in</strong>fluence <strong>of</strong>1the <strong>in</strong>itial <strong>sex</strong>-chromosomes, XX or XY, has been ex-hausted. The somatic, or general, tissues <strong>of</strong> the body possessthe potency <strong>of</strong> develop<strong>in</strong>g the characters <strong>of</strong> either <strong>sex</strong>under the stimulus <strong>of</strong> the special complex <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>-hormoneswhich they receive. The ovary, <strong>in</strong>deed, it is believed, doesnot at any early stage exert any marked <strong>in</strong>fluence upon thesoma, the female development be<strong>in</strong>g seem<strong>in</strong>gly <strong>in</strong>nate,[226]


HOMOSEXUALITYthough the developed female <strong>sex</strong>-equipment depends onthe <strong>sex</strong>-hormones for its ma<strong>in</strong>tenance. Male differentiation,on the other hand, requires the male testicular hormonefor itsdevelopment. Thus the female, it is held, representsthe neutral form which the soma assumes <strong>in</strong> theabsence <strong>of</strong> the male <strong>sex</strong> hormone. When the male hormoneappears later than usual some form <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>ter<strong>sex</strong>uality thusresults, and the later its appearance the more femalenessthere is <strong>in</strong> the result. "The degree <strong>of</strong> abnormality," asCrew puts it, "will be determ<strong>in</strong>ed by the time at whichthe male <strong>sex</strong>-hormone becomes operative." That helps toexpla<strong>in</strong> why an <strong>in</strong>dividual who appears female <strong>in</strong> earlylife assumes male characters at <strong>sex</strong>ual maturity.To the adrenal cortex is specially attributed the formation<strong>of</strong> a hormone which exerts a mascul<strong>in</strong>iz<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>fluence<strong>in</strong> the same direction as that <strong>of</strong> the testes. This result,"virilism" as it is now sometimes termed (formerly"adreno-genital syndrome") , is associated with hypertrichosisand <strong>in</strong> males with precocious <strong>sex</strong>ual and somaticdevelopment, while <strong>in</strong> females there is atrophy <strong>of</strong> theuterus, with changes <strong>in</strong> the ovaries, under-development <strong>of</strong>the labia and overgrowth <strong>of</strong> the clitoris, atrophy <strong>of</strong> themammae, narrow<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> the hips, broaden<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> the shoulders,with either marked muscular development or adiposity.There are disturbances <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual function and evencomplete sterility. Four types <strong>of</strong> virilism have been described,depend<strong>in</strong>g on the time <strong>of</strong> onset: (i) Congenitaltype (with fem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>e pseudo-hermaphroditism, the <strong>sex</strong>ualglands rema<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g female while the secondary <strong>sex</strong> charactersare male) ; (2) Puberty type (beg<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g near puberty,with hirsutism and menstrual disturbances predom<strong>in</strong>at<strong>in</strong>g); (3) Adult type (rather similar but less marked) ;(4) Obstetrical type (after the menopause with obesity,excess or loss <strong>of</strong> hair, psychic disturbances and asthenia).[227]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXThe exact method <strong>in</strong> which the adrenal hormone acts isstilla matter <strong>of</strong> dispute.When we deal with homo<strong>sex</strong>uality we are still<strong>in</strong>ter<strong>sex</strong>ual sphere,and we are no doubt still<strong>in</strong> thelargely concernedwith the action <strong>of</strong> the hormones, but we are <strong>in</strong> apsychic sphere where physical syndromes are usually difficultto trace. There is no doubt that <strong>in</strong> a slight degree,and occasionally <strong>in</strong> a marked degree, theystill exist, butthey are unimportant, though many years ago Weil andothers have sought to demonstrate the presence <strong>of</strong> slightbut measurable physical differentia <strong>of</strong> congenital orig<strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong>the homo<strong>sex</strong>ual. Apart from such measurable differences,there can be little doubt that certa<strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong>dividuals, <strong>in</strong> organicconstitution, and probably as a result <strong>of</strong> unusualhormonic balance, possess a special aptitude to experienceThere<strong>sex</strong>ual satisfaction with persons <strong>of</strong> their own <strong>sex</strong>.are a larger number, as is well known, presumably normal,both <strong>in</strong> Man and among lower animals, who when deprived<strong>of</strong> the presence <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>dividuals <strong>of</strong> the opposite <strong>sex</strong>can f<strong>in</strong>d temporary <strong>sex</strong>ual satisfaction <strong>in</strong> their own <strong>sex</strong>.It may seem hazardous to assert that every <strong>in</strong>dividual ismade up <strong>of</strong> mixed mascul<strong>in</strong>e and fem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>e elements,variously comb<strong>in</strong>ed, and that the male <strong>in</strong>vert is a personwith an unusual proportion <strong>of</strong> female elements, the female<strong>in</strong>vert a person with an unusual proportion <strong>of</strong> male elements;it is a schematic view which will scarcely accountaltogether for the phenomena. But when we put asideoccasional homo<strong>sex</strong>uality <strong>in</strong> presumably normal persons,we seem justified <strong>in</strong> look<strong>in</strong>g upon <strong>in</strong>version as a con-an anom-genital anomalyor, to speak more accurately,aly based on congenital conditions which if it is pathological,is only so <strong>in</strong> Virchow's sense that pathology is thescience not <strong>of</strong> diseases but <strong>of</strong> anomalies, so that an <strong>in</strong>vertedperson may be as healthy as a color-bl<strong>in</strong>d person.[228]


HOMOSEXUALITYCongenital <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>version is thus ak<strong>in</strong> to a biologicalvariation. It is a variation doubtless due to imperfect<strong>sex</strong>ual differentiation, but <strong>of</strong>ten hav<strong>in</strong>g no traceable connectionwith any morbid condition <strong>in</strong> the <strong>in</strong>dividual himself.This view <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>version now tends to prevail andhas ga<strong>in</strong>ed much force recently. But itmaybe traced someway back. Ulrichs, so long ago as 1862, declared that <strong>in</strong>versionis "a species <strong>of</strong> hermaphroditism." Kiernan <strong>in</strong> America<strong>in</strong> 1888 <strong>in</strong>sisted on the significance <strong>of</strong> the fact that theancestors <strong>of</strong> the human species were orig<strong>in</strong>ally bi<strong>sex</strong>ual;Chevalier <strong>in</strong> 1893 put forward a theory <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>version basedon foetal bi<strong>sex</strong>uality. Letamendi <strong>of</strong> Madrid <strong>in</strong> 1894 setforth a theory <strong>of</strong> panhermaphroditism accord<strong>in</strong>g to whichthere are always latent female germs <strong>in</strong> the male, andlatent male germs <strong>in</strong> the female. F<strong>in</strong>ally, about 1896,Krafft-Eb<strong>in</strong>g, Hirschfeld, and I(all,it seems, more or less<strong>in</strong>dependently) adopted a somewhat similar explanation.The prevalence <strong>of</strong> these general views <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>versionhas <strong>in</strong>fluenced the cl<strong>in</strong>ical classification <strong>of</strong> itsvarieties.Krafft-Eb<strong>in</strong>g accepted four different varieties <strong>of</strong>congenital <strong>in</strong>version and four different varieties <strong>of</strong> theacquired form. Moll rejectedthis elaborate classification,as itrecogniz<strong>in</strong>g only psycho<strong>sex</strong>ual hermaphroditism (or,is now usually termed, bi<strong>sex</strong>uality) and complete <strong>in</strong>version.This corresponds to the division now recognized bymost authorities. That is to say that when we have putaside the people who are exclusively attracted to the opposite<strong>sex</strong>, we have those who are exclusively attracted to thesame <strong>sex</strong>, and those who are attracted to both <strong>sex</strong>es. Whenwe go beyond this simple and elementary classification weencounter an endless number <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>dividual variations butthey do not easily admit <strong>of</strong> be<strong>in</strong>g arranged <strong>in</strong> def<strong>in</strong>itegroups. Even the bi<strong>sex</strong>ual class is not rigidly uniform, for


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXit certa<strong>in</strong>ly conta<strong>in</strong>s many <strong>in</strong>dividuals who are congenital<strong>in</strong>verts with an acquired hetero<strong>sex</strong>uality.When we consider well-marked cases <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>versionwe f<strong>in</strong>d certa<strong>in</strong> characteristics which frequently tend torecur. While a considerable proportion (<strong>in</strong> my experienceover fifty per cent) belong to reasonably healthy families,<strong>in</strong> about forty per cent there is <strong>in</strong> the family some degree<strong>of</strong> morbidity or abnormality eccentricity, alcoholism,neurasthenia or nervous disease<strong>of</strong> slight or greater degree.The heredity <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>version is well-marked, though ithas sometimes been denied; sometimes a brother andsister, a mother and son, an uncle and nephew, are both<strong>in</strong>verted even unknown to each other; I f<strong>in</strong>d this familyor hereditary <strong>in</strong>version <strong>in</strong> thirty-five per cent cases, andvon Romer has found exactly the same proportion. It isalone sufficient to show that <strong>in</strong>version may be <strong>in</strong>born.The general personal health is <strong>in</strong> about two-thirds <strong>of</strong> thecases good and sometimes very good; among the rema<strong>in</strong>derthere is <strong>of</strong>ten a tendency to nervous trouble or to a moreor less unbalanced temperament; only a small proportion(about eight per cent <strong>in</strong> my experience) are markedlymorbid.In the great majority the <strong>in</strong>verted tendency appears <strong>in</strong>early life, <strong>of</strong>ten at puberty, but frequently there are <strong>in</strong>dications<strong>of</strong> it before puberty. Sexual precocity appears to bemarked <strong>in</strong> a large proportion and there is <strong>of</strong>ten a tendencyto <strong>sex</strong>ual hyperaesthesia. Many <strong>in</strong>verts describe themselvesas "sensitive" or "nervous/* The <strong>in</strong>fluence <strong>of</strong> suggestioncan be not <strong>in</strong>frequently traced, but <strong>in</strong> these cases there isusually also evidence <strong>of</strong> predisposition. Masturbation hasbeen practiced <strong>in</strong> a large proportion <strong>of</strong> cases, but masturbationis also common among the hetero<strong>sex</strong>ual and thereis no reason to suppose that it is a factor <strong>in</strong> the causation<strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>version. The erotic dreams <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>verts are usually <strong>in</strong>-


HOMOSEXUALITYverted, but this isby no means <strong>in</strong>variably the case, andeven <strong>in</strong>verts who appear to be such congenitally sometimeshave normal dreams, just asnormal persons occasionallyhave homo<strong>sex</strong>ual dreams.The satisfaction <strong>of</strong> the <strong>in</strong>verted <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse iseffected <strong>in</strong> a variety <strong>of</strong> ways. Among my cases nearlytwenty per cent had never had any k<strong>in</strong>d <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual relationship.In thirty to thirty-five per cent the <strong>sex</strong>ual relationshiprarely goes beyond close contact, or at mostmutual masturbation. In the others <strong>in</strong>ter-crural connectionor occasionally fellatio is the method practiced. Inwoman gratification is obta<strong>in</strong>ed by kiss<strong>in</strong>g, close contact,mutual masturbation, and <strong>in</strong> some cases cunnil<strong>in</strong>ctus,which isusually active rather than passive. The proportion<strong>of</strong> male <strong>in</strong>verts who desire pcedicatio (more <strong>of</strong>ten activethan passive) is not large. Hirschfeld places it at eight percent cases; I have found it to be nearer fifteen per cent.In male <strong>in</strong>verts there is a frequent tendency to approximateto the fem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>e type and <strong>in</strong> female <strong>in</strong>verts to themascul<strong>in</strong>e type; this occurs both <strong>in</strong> physical and <strong>in</strong> psychicrespects, and though it may be traced <strong>in</strong> a considerablenumber <strong>of</strong> respects it isby no means always obtrusive.Some male <strong>in</strong>verts, however, <strong>in</strong>sist on their mascul<strong>in</strong>ity,feel more like a man or like a woman. Amongwhile many others are quite unable to say whether theyfemale <strong>in</strong>verts,there is usually some approximation to the mascul<strong>in</strong>eattitude and temperament though this isby no meansalways conspicuous. Various m<strong>in</strong>or anomalies <strong>of</strong> structureor function may occur <strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong>verts. The <strong>sex</strong>ual organs <strong>in</strong>both <strong>sex</strong>es are sometimes overdeveloped or, perhaps moreusually, underdeveloped, <strong>in</strong> a slight approximation to the<strong>in</strong>fantile type; gynecomastyis at times observed; <strong>in</strong> womenthere may be a somewhat mascul<strong>in</strong>e development<strong>of</strong> thelarynx, as well as some degree <strong>of</strong> hypertrichosis. (Mara-


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXnon f<strong>in</strong>ds that male traits tend to appear on the right side<strong>of</strong> the body, female on the left.)Male <strong>in</strong>verts are sometimesunable to whistle. In both <strong>sex</strong>es a notable youthfulness<strong>of</strong> appearance is <strong>of</strong>ten preserved <strong>in</strong>to adult age.The love <strong>of</strong> green (which is normally a preferred colorchiefly by children and especially girls) is frequently observed.A certa<strong>in</strong> degree <strong>of</strong> dramatic aptitude is not uncommon,as well as some tendency to vanity and personaladornment, and occasionally a fem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>e love <strong>of</strong> ornamentand jewelry. Many <strong>of</strong> these physical and psychic characteristicsmay be said to <strong>in</strong>dicate some degree <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>fantilism,and this is <strong>in</strong> agreement with the view <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>version whichtraces it to a fundamental bi<strong>sex</strong>ual basis, for the furtherback we go <strong>in</strong> the life-history <strong>of</strong> the <strong>in</strong>dividual the nearerwe approach to the bi<strong>sex</strong>ual stage.Morally, <strong>in</strong>verts usually apply to themselves the normalcode, and seek to justify their position. Those who fightaga<strong>in</strong>st their <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>cts, or permanently disapprove <strong>of</strong> theirown attitude, or even feel doubtful about it, are a smallm<strong>in</strong>ority, less than twenty per cent. This is why so few<strong>in</strong>verts seek medical advice. They are fortified <strong>in</strong> their selfjustificationby the fact that not only <strong>in</strong> France but <strong>in</strong>several other countries (Italy, Belgium, Holland, etc.)which have been <strong>in</strong>fluenced by the Code Napoleon homo<strong>sex</strong>ualpractices per se are not touched by the law providedthere has been no violence, no outrage on a m<strong>in</strong>or,and no <strong>of</strong>fense aga<strong>in</strong>st public decency. England and theUnited States are probably the chief countries <strong>in</strong> whichthe ancient ecclesiastical jurisdiction aga<strong>in</strong>st homo<strong>sex</strong>ualitystill reta<strong>in</strong>s an <strong>in</strong>fluence. In these countries, however,the law <strong>in</strong> this matter causes much difficulty and dispute;it is difficult to decide what homo<strong>sex</strong>ual actions amountto a crim<strong>in</strong>al <strong>of</strong>fense; it isonly<strong>in</strong> a few cases that theculprits are detected, or even sought, for, as a rule, the


HOMOSEXUALITYpolice carefully avoid pursu<strong>in</strong>g their traces; and there isnot the slightest reason to suppose that the countrieswhich legislate aga<strong>in</strong>st <strong>in</strong>version possess a smaller, oreven less prom<strong>in</strong>ent, proportion <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>verts. In France, for<strong>in</strong>stance, under the ancient monarchy, when an <strong>in</strong>vert was,accord<strong>in</strong>g to the law, liable to be burned, <strong>in</strong>version wassometimes fashionable and conspicuous; at the present daythe reverse is the case. In view <strong>of</strong> these facts there is todaya movement, which f<strong>in</strong>ds support alike <strong>in</strong> medical and <strong>in</strong>legal quarters, <strong>in</strong> favor <strong>of</strong> abolish<strong>in</strong>g the punishment <strong>of</strong>homo<strong>sex</strong>ual acts except when the circumstances underwhich the acts are committed give them an anti-socialcharacter. It is a powerful argument <strong>in</strong> favor <strong>of</strong> suchabolition that it at once puts a stop to the movement <strong>of</strong><strong>of</strong> homo-agitation, and the tendency to the glorification<strong>sex</strong>uality which is undesirable and even <strong>in</strong> many respectsharmful prevail<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> those countries which still regardhomo<strong>sex</strong>uality as a crime.BIBLIOGRAPHYHAVELOCK ELLIS, Studies <strong>in</strong> the <strong>Psychology</strong> <strong>of</strong> Sex, Vol. II,Sexual Inversion.F. A. E. CREW, Art: "Sex" <strong>in</strong> Outl<strong>in</strong>e <strong>of</strong> Modern Knowledge.G. MARA&6N, The Evolution <strong>of</strong> Sex and Inter<strong>sex</strong>ualConditions.M. W. PECK, "The Sex Life <strong>of</strong> College Men," Journal <strong>of</strong>Nervous and Mental Diseases, Jan., 1925.G. V. HAMILTON, A Research <strong>in</strong> Marriage.K. B. DAVIS, Factors <strong>in</strong> the Sex Life <strong>of</strong> Twenty-Two HundredWomen.L. R. BROSTER, "A Review <strong>of</strong> Sex Characters," BritishMedical Journal, 2 May, 1931.WERNER PICTON, "Male Prostitution <strong>in</strong> Berl<strong>in</strong>," HowardJournal, 1931.[233]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXItThe Diagnosis <strong>of</strong> Sexual Inversionhas already been remarked that the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulsetends to be more diffused <strong>in</strong> children than itsubsequentlybecomes <strong>in</strong> adults. Probably as a result <strong>of</strong> this diffusion,it is not so precisely focused on <strong>in</strong>dividuals <strong>of</strong> the opposite<strong>sex</strong>. Max Dessoir went so far as to say that up to the age<strong>of</strong> fourteen or fifteen <strong>in</strong> both boys and girls the <strong>sex</strong>ual<strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct isnormally undifferentiated. More recently Freud(follow<strong>in</strong>g William James and others) has repeatedlystated that <strong>in</strong> allyoung subjects there is normally a homo<strong>sex</strong>ualstreak. Theoretically that view is entirely sound.S<strong>in</strong>ce every <strong>in</strong>dividual conta<strong>in</strong>s the physical germs <strong>of</strong> theopposite <strong>sex</strong>, it is reasonable to suppose that he should alsoconta<strong>in</strong> the psychic germs, and s<strong>in</strong>ce <strong>in</strong> childhood his own<strong>sex</strong>ual characters, physically and psychic are still undeveloped,we should expect the opposite traits to be relativelyprom<strong>in</strong>ent.The appearance <strong>of</strong> a homo<strong>sex</strong>ual tendency <strong>in</strong> early lifeharmonizes with the results <strong>in</strong>dependently reached by thephysiologists. Thus Heape concludes that the evidenceshows that "There is no such th<strong>in</strong>g as a pure male orfemale animal; ... all animals conta<strong>in</strong> the elements <strong>of</strong>both <strong>sex</strong>es <strong>in</strong> some degree/7Some <strong>of</strong> the reasons for thisconclusion are fairly obvious and it has long been recognizedas the most reasonable explanation <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>version.It isquite <strong>in</strong>telligible that the I tent <strong>sex</strong>ual elementshould more easily come to the surface <strong>in</strong> early life whenthe dom<strong>in</strong>ant <strong>sex</strong>ual element is still too undeveloped tobe able to suppress it. "I have never," wrote Freud <strong>in</strong>1905, "yet come through a s<strong>in</strong>gle psycho-analysis <strong>of</strong> a manor a woman without hav<strong>in</strong>g to take <strong>in</strong>to account a veryconsiderable current <strong>of</strong> homo<strong>sex</strong>uality." If we may acceptthis statement by so penetrat<strong>in</strong>g and experienced[234]an <strong>in</strong>-


HOMOSEXUALITYvestigator as true for the morbid subjects <strong>of</strong> psychoanalysis,it must be added that for more normal persons,between whom and those who become patients there isno clear l<strong>in</strong>e <strong>of</strong> demarcation, this current may be veryslight and not to be detected after adolescence.The acceptance <strong>of</strong> the homo<strong>sex</strong>ual current does nottherefore <strong>in</strong>volve the belief <strong>in</strong> a completely undifferentiatedstate <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse <strong>in</strong> early life. In some largeschools, it is true (notably <strong>in</strong> some <strong>of</strong> the large EnglishPublic Schools frequented by boys <strong>of</strong> upper social class) ,homo<strong>sex</strong>uality is known to flourish, aided, it would seem,by a k<strong>in</strong>d <strong>of</strong> tradition. But these appear to be exceptions.<strong>of</strong> us are unable to recall from the memories <strong>of</strong>Manyschool life and early associations anyclear evidence <strong>of</strong> theexistence <strong>of</strong> homo<strong>sex</strong>ual attractions, such rare <strong>sex</strong>ual attractionsas existed be<strong>in</strong>g exclusively towards the opposite<strong>sex</strong>.It rema<strong>in</strong>s true that a certa<strong>in</strong> liability to more or lessromantic homo<strong>sex</strong>ual affection is found among boys, whilegirls,much more frequently, cherish enthusiastic devotionsfor other girls somewhat older than themselves, andvery <strong>of</strong>ten for their teachers. Even, however, when theseemotions are reciprocated, and even when they lead todef<strong>in</strong>ite <strong>sex</strong>ual manifestations and gratification, they mustnot too hastily be taken to <strong>in</strong>dicate either a vice call<strong>in</strong>g fortreatment. Insevere punishment or a disease demand<strong>in</strong>gthe great majority <strong>of</strong> these cases we are simply concernedwith an <strong>in</strong>evitable youthful phase.In deal<strong>in</strong>g, therefore, with such manifestations, whichare <strong>in</strong> most cases purely sentimental, and with only avague sensual t<strong>in</strong>ge, though they sometimes take crudeand even cruel shapes, it isimportant to realize that weare probably <strong>in</strong> the presence <strong>of</strong> an early stage <strong>of</strong> what maybe a more or less normal development. Much <strong>in</strong>jury may[235]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXbe done to a boy's nervous and mental character,to saynoth<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> his future reputation, by the over-hasty assumptionthat such manifestations are diseased or vicious. Theycan adequately be dealt with, when they need to be dealtwith at all, by a k<strong>in</strong>dly teacher or guardian, who <strong>in</strong> thecourse <strong>of</strong> impart<strong>in</strong>g general <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>formation <strong>in</strong>culcates<strong>in</strong> the boy self-respect and regard for the welfare <strong>of</strong> others.In girlsthese manifestations usually escape serious treatment,partly because they are so common, and partly becausewomen, more <strong>of</strong>ten than men, are disposed to viewthem <strong>in</strong>dulgently, if not <strong>in</strong>deed sometimes to share them.It rema<strong>in</strong>s, however, <strong>of</strong> considerable importance to dist<strong>in</strong>guishbetween these temporary manifestations <strong>of</strong> homo<strong>sex</strong>ualityand the congenital <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>version which islikely to <strong>in</strong>dicate a permanent life-long direction <strong>of</strong> the<strong>sex</strong>ual impulse and ideals. In some children the <strong>sex</strong>ualimpulse, far from be<strong>in</strong>g either undifferentiated or directeddirected towards thetowards the opposite <strong>sex</strong>, is def<strong>in</strong>itelysame <strong>sex</strong> from the first. A diagnosis <strong>of</strong> congenital <strong>in</strong>versioncannot, however, always be made with certa<strong>in</strong>ty until theperiod <strong>of</strong> adolescence is entirely completed. A ref<strong>in</strong>ed andwith aesthetic tastes, at<strong>in</strong>tellectual youththe University,for <strong>in</strong>stance, surrounded by attractive and congenial persons<strong>of</strong> his own <strong>sex</strong>, may rema<strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong>different to women andcont<strong>in</strong>ue to cherish ardent sentimental friendships andadmirations, reach<strong>in</strong>g the conclusion that he must be an<strong>in</strong>vert by nature. Yet, when he leaves the University forhe shares the com-the world, he discovers that, after all,mon passions <strong>of</strong> ord<strong>in</strong>ary humanity. It is not, <strong>in</strong>deed, untilthe age <strong>of</strong> twenty-five has been reached or even later, thatwe can be fairly sure that homo<strong>sex</strong>ual impulses are not aphase <strong>of</strong> normal development. Even after maturity haslong been reached the homo<strong>sex</strong>ual impulse may veer[236]


HOMOSEXUALITYtowards the hetero<strong>sex</strong>ual, or else become genu<strong>in</strong>ely bi<strong>sex</strong>ual.But at a much earlier period it may be possible to seegood reason to consider that we are deal<strong>in</strong>g with a congenital<strong>in</strong>vert. If we f<strong>in</strong>d unusual <strong>sex</strong>ual precocity comb<strong>in</strong>edwith complete <strong>sex</strong>ual concentration on the same <strong>sex</strong>without any <strong>sex</strong>ual attraction to the opposite <strong>sex</strong>, thoughwith perhaps an attraction to fem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>e <strong>in</strong>terests and avocations,and if the family history shows a considerabletendency to nervous abnormality or to eccentricity, wemay suspect, although we cannot be certa<strong>in</strong>, that we aredeal<strong>in</strong>g with a certa<strong>in</strong> type <strong>of</strong> congenital <strong>in</strong>vert.In other cases, however, the homo<strong>sex</strong>ual tendency maynot appear until late <strong>in</strong> life. It was formerly taken forgranted that <strong>in</strong> these cases the condition isacquired andnot congenital; this is, however, today disputed by manywho regard these cases as due to the late development <strong>of</strong>a really <strong>in</strong>born tendency, retarded congenital <strong>in</strong>version.In this way it comes about that we have to dist<strong>in</strong>guishbetween true congenital <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>version (early or retarded)bi<strong>sex</strong>ual attraction <strong>in</strong> which the <strong>in</strong>dividual's <strong>sex</strong>ualimpulse goes out towards <strong>in</strong>dividuals <strong>of</strong> both <strong>sex</strong>es,(most though not all <strong>of</strong> these cases be<strong>in</strong>g apparently <strong>in</strong>vertswho have acquired normal habits), and the largeand vague class <strong>of</strong> the pseudo-homo<strong>sex</strong>uals, whose perversityis due either to temporary circumstances (asamong sailors) to senile impotency, or to a deliberate,search for abnormal sensations. Even <strong>in</strong> pseudo-homo<strong>sex</strong>ualitywe have to recognize, accord<strong>in</strong>g to the prevail<strong>in</strong>gview, that the homo<strong>sex</strong>uality rests on a natural germ<strong>in</strong>albasis, and cannot therefore be regarded as completely acquired,but is the development <strong>of</strong> a latent aptitude.Sexual <strong>in</strong>version has high significance <strong>in</strong> part becauseit tends to occur <strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong>dividuals who are above the[237]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXaverage <strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong>tellect and character, even when we putaside many notable monarchs, statesmen, poets, sculptors,pa<strong>in</strong>ters, composers, scholars, etc., both past and present.That isperhaps a reason why they are not easily recog-have never seennized. Many physicians believe that theyan <strong>in</strong>vert; even so experienced an alienist as Sir GeorgeSavage once stated that he scarcely ever met with <strong>in</strong>version.The experience <strong>of</strong> another dist<strong>in</strong>guished alienist is<strong>in</strong>structive. Nacke at one time, never hav<strong>in</strong>g to his knowledgemet an <strong>in</strong>vert, wrote to Hirschfeld, whose experience<strong>in</strong> this field is wider than that <strong>of</strong> any other physician,ask<strong>in</strong>g for an <strong>in</strong>vert to be sent to his house. Great wasNacke's surprise when the visitor proved to be a man hewas already well acqua<strong>in</strong>ted with, a near connection <strong>of</strong>his own by marriage. It isnot usually until some circumstancehas opened our eyes that we beg<strong>in</strong>to discover that<strong>in</strong> every social environment <strong>in</strong>verts are to be found. It is,however, only those <strong>of</strong> the lowest, most degenerate, andsometimes mercenary class who are will<strong>in</strong>g to betray theirpeculiarity. The suicides and mysterious disappearanceswhich occur from time to time among highly placed persons,<strong>of</strong>ten <strong>of</strong> great ability, are frequently connected witheven after their fate has overtaken them,<strong>in</strong>version, thoughthe cause <strong>of</strong> it <strong>of</strong>ten rema<strong>in</strong>s a mystery to the generalpublic. These persons have probably never confided <strong>in</strong> aphysician. They realize that it would be futile, that theaverage physician is quite unprepared to deal with theircase, if, <strong>in</strong>deed, he would not be shocked or disgusted.A physician, a man <strong>of</strong> high character and <strong>in</strong>telligence.,who is himself a congenital <strong>in</strong>vert, though his moral traditionshave not allowed him to seek the satisfaction <strong>of</strong> hisimpulses, writes as follows regard<strong>in</strong>g his education at aworld-renowned medical center: "The first reference bear<strong>in</strong>gdef<strong>in</strong>itely on the subject <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual perversion was[238]


HOMOSEXUALITYmade <strong>in</strong> the class <strong>of</strong> medical jurisprudence where certa<strong>in</strong><strong>sex</strong>ual crimes were alluded to, very summarily and <strong>in</strong>adequatelybut noth<strong>in</strong>g was said <strong>of</strong> the existence <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual<strong>in</strong>version as the normal condition <strong>of</strong> certa<strong>in</strong> unhappypeople, nor was any dist<strong>in</strong>ction drawn between the variousnon-normal acts, which were all classed together as manifestations<strong>of</strong> the crim<strong>in</strong>al depravity <strong>of</strong> ord<strong>in</strong>ary or <strong>in</strong>sanepeople. To a student beg<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g to be acutely consciousthat his <strong>sex</strong>ual nature differed pr<strong>of</strong>oundly from that <strong>of</strong> hisfellows noth<strong>in</strong>g could be more perplex<strong>in</strong>g and disturb<strong>in</strong>g,and it shut me up more completely <strong>in</strong> my reserve thanever. It was still more unfortunate that neither <strong>in</strong> the class<strong>of</strong> systematic medic<strong>in</strong>e nor <strong>in</strong> the course <strong>of</strong> the lectureson cl<strong>in</strong>ical medic<strong>in</strong>e was there the slightest allusion to thesubject. All sorts <strong>of</strong> rare diseases some <strong>of</strong> which I havenot met with <strong>in</strong> twenty-one years <strong>of</strong> busy practice werefully discussed, but we were left entirely ignorant <strong>of</strong> asubject so vitally important to me personally, and, as itseems to me, to the pr<strong>of</strong>ession to which I aspired." Thisabsence <strong>of</strong> reference to <strong>sex</strong>ual problems<strong>in</strong> the medicalteach<strong>in</strong>g has probably been the experience <strong>of</strong> most <strong>of</strong> us,though such defective teach<strong>in</strong>g has usually been less unfortunatefor the student personally than for those whomhe might have been enabled to help. Fortunately this is astate <strong>of</strong> th<strong>in</strong>gs which will now rapidly cease to exist.It isnot, however, only among the people who are <strong>in</strong>other respects obviously exceptional, whether "degenerates'*or men <strong>of</strong> genius though among these <strong>in</strong>deed itseems to be peculiarly prevalent that <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>version isfound. It is also found among a fair proportion <strong>of</strong> theapparently average population, among people who are<strong>in</strong>dist<strong>in</strong>guishable from the average. Inverts are sometimesreferred to, even by physicians, as an "effem<strong>in</strong>ate" class.That is scarcely the case. A certa<strong>in</strong> group <strong>of</strong> them may[*39]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEX<strong>in</strong>deed be so styled, they are physically and mentallyflabby, self-conscious, va<strong>in</strong>, fond <strong>of</strong> jewelry and adornment;these men have the <strong>in</strong>cl<strong>in</strong>ations <strong>of</strong> the prostituteand <strong>in</strong> some cases actually become male prostitutes. Butthey are not more typical <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>version than the femaleprostitute, actual or temperamental, is typical <strong>of</strong> womanhood.A large number <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>verts, <strong>in</strong>deed, are unusuallyref<strong>in</strong>ed, sensitive, or emotional, but the same may be said<strong>of</strong> many slightly neurotic people who are not homo<strong>sex</strong>ual.Others, both men and women, are not obviously dist<strong>in</strong>guishedby any special character which could reasonablyIt issuggest an abnormal direction <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse.this fact which accounts for so many people believ<strong>in</strong>g thatthey have never come across an <strong>in</strong>vert, while yet the proportion<strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>verts <strong>in</strong> the general population has by carefuland well-<strong>in</strong>formed <strong>in</strong>vestigation been found so considerableas to be at least well over one per cent.It seems probable, as already po<strong>in</strong>ted out, that the prevalence<strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>version varies but very slightly <strong>in</strong> differentcountries, though <strong>in</strong> certa<strong>in</strong> special regions <strong>of</strong> SouthernEurope it is said to be considerable, perhaps ow<strong>in</strong>g to thespecial habits or traditions <strong>of</strong> the people. It is sometimessaid by people <strong>of</strong> various countries that <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>versionis not so prevalent <strong>in</strong> their land as it is abroad. But theyspeak <strong>in</strong> ignorance <strong>of</strong> the real facts. The apparent variationsare merely superficial and mostly due to the socialand legal attitude towards <strong>in</strong>version which prevails <strong>in</strong> acountry. This does not mean that it flourishes where thelaws are lenient, for the existence <strong>of</strong> harshly repressive lawsmay merely serve to arouse an enthusiastic propagandafor their abolition which calls attention to the prevalence<strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>version. Homo<strong>sex</strong>uality isthe most prevalent<strong>of</strong> allthe <strong>sex</strong>ual deviations, for though the erotic symbolisms,[240]


HOMOSEXUALITY<strong>in</strong> a slight and undeveloped degree, are probably morecommon, they are not nearly so <strong>of</strong>ten met with <strong>in</strong> a fullydeveloped degree as is <strong>in</strong>version. This prevalenceis stillfurther emphasized by the energy and character, <strong>in</strong> many<strong>of</strong> the subjects <strong>of</strong> the anomaly.cases,It is the gradual recognition <strong>of</strong> the prevalence<strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>versionamong people <strong>of</strong> ord<strong>in</strong>ary normal <strong>in</strong>telligenceandconduct which has modified the op<strong>in</strong>ions <strong>of</strong> alienists concern<strong>in</strong>gthe nature <strong>of</strong> this and, <strong>in</strong>deed, other <strong>sex</strong>ual anomalies.In medieval and earlier days homo<strong>sex</strong>uality, <strong>in</strong> itsonly recognizable shape as sodomy and tribadism, was as<strong>in</strong> and a crime, <strong>of</strong>ten expiated at the stake; it cont<strong>in</strong>uedto be regarded only as a manifestation <strong>of</strong> disgust<strong>in</strong>g depravityuntil well on <strong>in</strong> the n<strong>in</strong>eteenth century; then therewas a tendency to look on it as a sign <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>sanity, or at allevents <strong>of</strong> degeneracy. That view isnow out <strong>of</strong> date, as is<strong>in</strong>evitable when we f<strong>in</strong>d that such deviations and the likeoccur <strong>in</strong> mentally capable and morally well-conducted andself-controlled people, many <strong>of</strong> whom are by no meansovermastered or obsessed by their impulses and some <strong>of</strong>whom have never yielded to them at all. Occasional homo<strong>sex</strong>ualityis a tendency to which Man iseverywhere liable<strong>in</strong> common with that part <strong>of</strong> the animal world to whichhe is most nearly allied. Congenital <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>version is ananomaly, an <strong>in</strong>born variation <strong>of</strong> which we are beg<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>gto understand the causes; it is, even when extreme, onlypathological <strong>in</strong> the same sense as color-bl<strong>in</strong>dness or alb<strong>in</strong>ismor transposition <strong>of</strong> the viscera is pathological.BIBLIOGRAPHYMOLL, The Sexual Life <strong>of</strong> the Child.HAVELOCK ELLIS, Studies <strong>in</strong> the <strong>Psychology</strong> <strong>of</strong> Sex, Vol. II,"Sexual Inversion."FREUD, Collected Papers, Vol. III.


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXKATHARINE DAVIS, Factors <strong>in</strong> the Sex Life <strong>of</strong> Twenty-TwoHundred Women.EDWARD CARPENTER, The Intermediate Sex.Eonism (Transvestismor Sexo-dEsthetic Inversion)This is a condition, not to be identified with homo<strong>sex</strong>ualitythoughit sometimes tends to be associated with it,<strong>in</strong> which the subject more or less identifies himself orherself with the opposite <strong>sex</strong>, not merely <strong>in</strong> dress, but <strong>in</strong>general tastes,<strong>in</strong> ways <strong>of</strong> act<strong>in</strong>g, and <strong>in</strong> emotional disposition.The identification usually falls short <strong>of</strong> the opposite<strong>sex</strong>'s <strong>sex</strong>ual attitude; the normal hetero<strong>sex</strong>ual attitude isfrequently pronounced, yet it may be convenient to <strong>in</strong>troducethe consideration <strong>of</strong> it here.It is rather a puzzl<strong>in</strong>g condition to def<strong>in</strong>e and to label.it aside for furtherI met with it many years ago and putconsideration. Meanwhile Hirschfeld <strong>in</strong> Germany, whowas already a lead<strong>in</strong>g authority on homo<strong>sex</strong>uality, became<strong>in</strong>terested <strong>in</strong> this condition, which he recognized as dist<strong>in</strong>ctfrom <strong>in</strong>version and called "transvestism." He madeit the chief subject <strong>of</strong> several books. In my own first study<strong>of</strong> the condition (1913) I called it "<strong>sex</strong>o-aesthetic <strong>in</strong>version/'a sort <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>version <strong>of</strong> tastes. Both these namesare unsatisfactory; "transvestism" is altogether <strong>in</strong>adequate,s<strong>in</strong>ce a long<strong>in</strong>g to wear the garments <strong>of</strong> the other <strong>sex</strong> isonly one <strong>of</strong> the traits exhibited, and <strong>in</strong> some cases it isscarcely or not at all found, while "<strong>sex</strong>o-assthetic <strong>in</strong>version"may wrongly suggest that we are here concernedwith homo<strong>sex</strong>uality, though that is usually not present."Eonism" is the name I f<strong>in</strong>ally devised (1920) for thiscondition. It has been accepted by many and stillseemsthe most convenient term, and adequately descriptive.Like "sadism" and "masochism," it is derived from a well-[*4]


HOMOSEXUALITYknown person who exhibited the anomaly <strong>in</strong> a typicalform, the Chevalier d'Eon de Beaumont (1728-1810), aBurgundian <strong>of</strong> good family, employed as a French diplomaticagent under Louis XV and f<strong>in</strong>ally dy<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> Londonwhere he was generally regarded as a woman, though theautopsy revealed him as a normal male. A less known personage,also French, the Abb de Choisy (1644-1724),andalso <strong>of</strong> aristocratic family, is <strong>in</strong> some aspects an even moretypical example <strong>of</strong> Eonism, and he wrote his ownmemoirs, which reveal him, as from other sources he isalso known, as a man <strong>of</strong> urbane and sociable temper, generallypopular <strong>in</strong> spite <strong>of</strong> his anomaly, ref<strong>in</strong>ed, amiable,and rather fem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>e, a devoted admirer <strong>of</strong> women, withrather less than the average degree <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual passion butthe father <strong>of</strong> at least one child,a man <strong>of</strong> genu<strong>in</strong>e <strong>in</strong>tellectualability,the esteemed friend <strong>of</strong> many<strong>of</strong> the bestpeople <strong>of</strong> his day. He became a dist<strong>in</strong>guished ecclesiastic,the historian <strong>of</strong> the Church, and the Doyen <strong>of</strong> the FrenchAcademy. Among notable women <strong>of</strong> analogous temperamenthave been Lady Hester Stanhope, and also JamesBarry, who spent a long' and dist<strong>in</strong>guished life <strong>in</strong> mascul<strong>in</strong>egarments and became Senior Inspector-General <strong>of</strong>the English Army Medical Department. There is no reasonto suppose that either <strong>of</strong> these women was homo<strong>sex</strong>ual.Eonism is a remarkably common anomaly; <strong>in</strong> my ownexperience it comes next <strong>in</strong> frequency to homo<strong>sex</strong>uality'among <strong>sex</strong>ual deviations. In ord<strong>in</strong>ary life the subjects presentno startl<strong>in</strong>gly unusual traits and may seem quiteord<strong>in</strong>arily mascul<strong>in</strong>e, but sometimes sensitive and reserved,<strong>of</strong>ten devoted to their wives, but seldom <strong>of</strong> vigorous<strong>sex</strong>ual temperament. Their secret ideals are usuallyunsuspected, even by those nearest to them. <strong>No</strong>t all <strong>of</strong>them desire to adopt cross-dress<strong>in</strong>gEdward (as Carpenter


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXtermed it), but when they do, it is with complete suc-and with a m<strong>in</strong>ute and almost <strong>in</strong>-cess, very skillfully,st<strong>in</strong>ctive adoption <strong>of</strong> little fem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>e ways, which, theyfeel, come to them naturally. Though they do not <strong>of</strong>tendesire <strong>in</strong>verted <strong>sex</strong>ual relationships, male Eonists sometimesfeel an almost passionate long<strong>in</strong>g for a woman'<strong>sex</strong>periences, <strong>of</strong> pregnancy and motherhood. In mentalability they are above the average and may atta<strong>in</strong> dist<strong>in</strong>ctionas authors or otherwise.Eonism is to be classed among the transitional or<strong>in</strong>termediate forms <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>uality. But it is not easy toexpla<strong>in</strong> its precise orig<strong>in</strong>. We may agree with Kiernanthat there is sometimes an arrest <strong>of</strong> development, similar,as I have suggested, on the physical side, to eunuchoidism,to which <strong>in</strong>deed it sometimes seems related. We may thusprobably <strong>in</strong>voke some defective endocr<strong>in</strong>e balance, andthereby see an open<strong>in</strong>g, with better knowledge, for readjustment<strong>of</strong> the normal balance.On the psychic side, as I view it, the Eonist is embody<strong>in</strong>g,<strong>in</strong> an extreme degree, the aesthetic attribute <strong>of</strong> imitation<strong>of</strong>, and identification with, the admired object. Itis normal for a man to identify himself with the womanhe loves. The Eonist carries that identification too far,stimulated by a sensitiveand fem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>e element <strong>in</strong> him-associated with a rather defective virile <strong>sex</strong>-self which isuality on what may be a neurotic basis. An abnormalchildhood, with too close attachment to the mother, whomay herself be rather abnormal, seems sometimes to encouragethe appearance <strong>of</strong> Eonism. Fenichel considers thatthe specific factor <strong>of</strong> Eonism is a castration complex; hewould, however, say much the same <strong>of</strong> all<strong>sex</strong>ual deviations,so that we are not thereby carried far; while headmits that this view will not apply to female Eonists.[244]


HOMOSEXUALITYHAVELOCK ELLIS, Studies <strong>in</strong>BIBLIOGRAPHYthe <strong>Psychology</strong> <strong>of</strong> Sex, Vol.VII, "Eonism."HOMBERG & JOUSSELIN, D'Eon de Beaumont: His Life andTimes.O. FENICHEL, "The <strong>Psychology</strong> <strong>of</strong> Transvestism," InternationalJournal <strong>of</strong> Psycho-analysis, April, 1930.FLUGEL, The Philosophy <strong>of</strong> Clothes.The Question <strong>of</strong> TreatmentA condition so uniqueas that <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>version raisesspecial problems. On the one hand there is the similitude<strong>of</strong> a complete variation comb<strong>in</strong>ed <strong>in</strong> many cases with astate <strong>of</strong> general good health. Yet we are not <strong>in</strong> the presence<strong>of</strong> a specifichuman mutation. The variation affects a specialfunction, even though it happens to be a functionwith a widely pervad<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>fluence on the whole organism.It isonly a variation <strong>in</strong> the sense that color-bl<strong>in</strong>dness is avariation. Oswald Schwartz <strong>in</strong> a recent search<strong>in</strong>g study(though tend<strong>in</strong>g to be metaphysical)still <strong>in</strong>sists that wemust regard homo<strong>sex</strong>uality as morbid, though he is carefulto def<strong>in</strong>e "morbidity" as "the <strong>in</strong>subord<strong>in</strong>ation <strong>of</strong> anorgan to the functional law <strong>of</strong> the organism," generallydue, he holds, to a reta<strong>in</strong>ed <strong>in</strong>fantility, so that "morbidity"here has much the same def<strong>in</strong>itional value as Virchow's"pathological." We are not here far from the position <strong>of</strong>Freud that predisposition and experience are <strong>in</strong>dissolublyl<strong>in</strong>ked, or from those authorities who hold that allgenu<strong>in</strong>ehomo<strong>sex</strong>uality has an <strong>in</strong>nate basis, while acquired forms,due to external pressure, are only pseudo-homo<strong>sex</strong>uality.We are not here primarily concerned with therapeuticalconsiderations. They have been fully discussed by Maran6nand others. But the question <strong>of</strong> treatment has con-!>45]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXstantly come to the front <strong>in</strong> connection with homo<strong>sex</strong>ualstates, whether or not <strong>in</strong>nate <strong>in</strong>version is suspected. Andhas not yet come <strong>in</strong>to common practice.as the proposed treatment is usually psycho-therapeuticwe are bound to discuss its psychological advisability.I put aside the question <strong>of</strong> surgical treatment as thatLipschiitzmentionsthe case <strong>of</strong> a homo<strong>sex</strong>ual man who after transplantation<strong>of</strong> the testicle <strong>of</strong> a normal man became hetero<strong>sex</strong>ualand with<strong>in</strong> a year felt able to marry. We need a muchlarger number <strong>of</strong> observations than are at present availablebefore com<strong>in</strong>g to conclusions as to the possibility anddesirability <strong>of</strong> such a proceed<strong>in</strong>g. More considerationsthan are at first obvious need to be regarded. At one timethe necessity <strong>of</strong> attempt<strong>in</strong>g some such treatment <strong>in</strong> allcases was taken for granted. That is not so now, thougheven yet some authorities are <strong>in</strong> favor <strong>of</strong> this courseeven <strong>in</strong> cases <strong>of</strong> clearly congenital <strong>in</strong>version, where thepatient is anxious for the attempt to be made. If, however,we are clearly <strong>in</strong> the presence <strong>of</strong> a deeply rooted and completecase <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>version even the attempt at a radical unsettlement<strong>of</strong> the organized habits, conceptions, and ideals,<strong>in</strong>volv<strong>in</strong>g a violation <strong>of</strong> the <strong>in</strong>dividual's fundamental nature,should not be made without careful consideration.It must be remembered that, when we are deal<strong>in</strong>g with areally fixed condition, all normal methods <strong>of</strong> treatmentbecome difficult.Hypnotic suggestion, which was formerlyfound useful <strong>in</strong> many cases <strong>of</strong> the most various k<strong>in</strong>ds <strong>of</strong><strong>sex</strong>ual anomalies, is <strong>of</strong> comparativelylittle service <strong>in</strong> welldeveloped congenital deviations. It cannot even easily beapplied, for the subject resists the suggestion, just as thenormal subject usually resists under hypnotism the suggestionto commit a crime. Schrenck-<strong>No</strong>tz<strong>in</strong>g, many yearsago when <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>version was not commonly regarded as<strong>in</strong>nate, expended great time and trouble <strong>in</strong> treat<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>-[246]


HOMOSEXUALITYverts by hypnotism, aided by visits to the brothel, andbelieved that he had been successful. But an appearance osuccess when success ismerely shown by the ability toeffect <strong>in</strong>tercourse with the opposite <strong>sex</strong>, is admitted to bepossible, with much good will on the patient's part; it byno means follows that the ideals and impulses have beenreally and permanently turned <strong>in</strong>to a new or even desirablechannel; the result may merely be, as one such patientexpressed it, that masturbation per vag<strong>in</strong>am has beenachieved.The psycho-analytic method <strong>of</strong> Freud has also been employedtherapeutically <strong>in</strong> these cases, and for this methodalso some success has been claimed. There is now, however,a tendency among psycho-analysts to recognize thatwhen the state <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>version is fixed (whether or not it isregarded as <strong>in</strong>nate) it is useless to apply psycho-analysis<strong>in</strong> the expectation <strong>of</strong> a change <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual direction. I haveknown many homo<strong>sex</strong>ual persons who have subjectedthemselves to psycho-analysis. Some stopped the treatmentat the outset; some considered that there had been little orno effect <strong>of</strong> any k<strong>in</strong>d; some found dist<strong>in</strong>ct benefit, ma<strong>in</strong>ly,and self-however, through the <strong>in</strong>creased self-knowledgerealization thus obta<strong>in</strong>ed rather than by any change <strong>in</strong> thedirection <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse; I do not know <strong>of</strong> anycases <strong>in</strong> which a complete and permanent transformation<strong>of</strong> homo<strong>sex</strong>uality <strong>in</strong>to hetero<strong>sex</strong>uality was achieved. Moll'sassociational therapy may perhaps be said to constitute athird psycho-therapeutical method call<strong>in</strong>g for notice <strong>in</strong>this connection, though it represents no new departure <strong>in</strong>manner <strong>of</strong> application. It is, however, sound <strong>in</strong> theoryand practicable, and consists <strong>in</strong> f<strong>in</strong>d<strong>in</strong>g a bridge by which<strong>in</strong>to asso-the subject's perverted desires may be broughtciation with normal ends. Thus, if the subjectis attractedto boys he may be led to cultivate an attraction for boyish[247]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXwomen. It was already known that the <strong>in</strong>vert is affected bysuch considerations as these. Thus one <strong>of</strong> my subjects wholeads a healthy and active life, is mascul<strong>in</strong>e <strong>in</strong> habits,represses his homo<strong>sex</strong>ual desires, and would like to marryand have a son, made various fruitless attempts at coitus.Later at Malta at a public dance, he met an Italian girlwho <strong>in</strong>vited him to her home: "She had a very slim boyishfigure and a boyish face and hardly any breasts. I went toher flatby appo<strong>in</strong>tment and found her dressed <strong>in</strong> a man'spyjamas. I felt decidedly attracted, but even then wasunable to play the man's part. I came away, however,without the usual feel<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> repulsion and on return<strong>in</strong>gthe next night the result to my great delight was satisfactory.I went on several occasions before leav<strong>in</strong>g Malta,but although attracted by this girl I never really enjoyedthe act and as soon as it was over had a desire to turn myback. S<strong>in</strong>ce then I have had <strong>in</strong>tercourse with about adozen girls.But it isalways an effort and leaves a feel<strong>in</strong>g<strong>of</strong> repulsion. I have come to the conclusion that for menormal <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>tercourse isonly an expensive and dangerousform <strong>of</strong> masturbation." But that is the best thatpsycho-therapeutics can generally hope to achieve.It must be added that all these methods, even <strong>in</strong> so faras they can be said to atta<strong>in</strong> success at all, when appliedto deeply rooted cases <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>version, at best, for the mostpart, lead to a condition <strong>of</strong> bi-<strong>sex</strong>ual attraction, by whichthe patientis enabled to f<strong>in</strong>d gratification with persons <strong>of</strong>either <strong>sex</strong>. This artificial shift<strong>in</strong>g or loosen<strong>in</strong>ganchorage <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse<strong>of</strong> theis not favorable to stability<strong>of</strong> character nor to any high morality. <strong>No</strong>r is italtogether a matter <strong>of</strong> congratulation to render an <strong>in</strong>vertcapable <strong>of</strong> procreation. The <strong>of</strong>fspr<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> an <strong>in</strong>vert unitedto a sound partner have, <strong>in</strong>deed, a fair chance <strong>of</strong> turn<strong>in</strong>gout satisfactorily, but the risks are too serious to enable[348]


HOMOSEXUALITYus to say that they may be lightly run. When an <strong>in</strong>vert ispr<strong>of</strong>oundly dissatisfied with his condition and keenlyanxious to become normal it is not easy to resist theattempt to render him normal. But it is not possible totake a sangu<strong>in</strong>e view either o the prospects <strong>of</strong> success or"the results <strong>of</strong> success when it is achieved.There may still be ample room for treatment, even whenno direct attempt is made to suppress the <strong>in</strong>verted tendencyand the cheerful and easy-go<strong>in</strong>g view (which I haveseen advocated)isadopted <strong>of</strong> regard<strong>in</strong>g homo<strong>sex</strong>uality asmerely "a form <strong>of</strong> bad manners." The <strong>in</strong>vert is, <strong>in</strong> a considerableproportion <strong>of</strong> cases, generally and sometimes<strong>sex</strong>ually, what used to be termed neurasthenic; <strong>in</strong> somecases he is<strong>sex</strong>ually hyperaesthetic with the irritable weaknesswhich commonly accompanies hyperaesthesia; he is<strong>of</strong>ten sensitive and emotional, sometimes liable to panics<strong>of</strong> apprehension or anxiety <strong>in</strong> connection with his abnormality.In such cases the ord<strong>in</strong>ary treatment <strong>of</strong> the conditionis <strong>in</strong>dicated, whether by sedatives, such as the bromides,or <strong>in</strong> some cases, tonics. Electricity, balneo-therapy,physical exercises, wholesome occupation, change <strong>of</strong> air,etc. all the ord<strong>in</strong>ary methods <strong>of</strong> combat<strong>in</strong>g nervous exhaustionmay prove beneficial <strong>in</strong> deal<strong>in</strong>g with forms <strong>of</strong><strong>sex</strong>ual deviation. Many <strong>in</strong>verts are little worried by theexistence <strong>of</strong> their <strong>sex</strong>ual anomaly so long as they are <strong>in</strong>good health, so that it is on this ground alone highly necessaryto apply any special medical treatment that may berequired and to <strong>in</strong>sist on the cultivation <strong>of</strong> hygiene. The<strong>in</strong>version will not thus be removed, but with <strong>in</strong>telligentcomprehension and sympathy the anxiety it causes may beallayed, its excesses may be restra<strong>in</strong>ed, and it may bebrought under rational self-control. This is <strong>in</strong> most casesall that is necessary, and <strong>in</strong> many all that is desirable.The question <strong>of</strong> marriage sometimes arises <strong>in</strong> the case[ 2 49]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEX<strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>verts, althoughit is most usually settled withoutreference to the physician. As a method <strong>of</strong> treatment,whether the patientis a man or a woman, marriage mustcerta<strong>in</strong>ly be rejected, absolutely and unconditionally. Itmay perhaps enable the <strong>in</strong>vert to become bi<strong>sex</strong>ual if the<strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct has not already taken on this double aspect,but the chances that it will abolish the <strong>in</strong>verted impulse,unless it isalready on the way to do so when the marriagetakes place, are <strong>of</strong> the smallest. On the contrary,marriage, by the difficulties and the disgust which itmayforce the <strong>in</strong>verted partner to contend with, sometime<strong>sex</strong>acerbates the <strong>in</strong>version. Cases have occurred where itwas not until shortly after an apparently happy marriagethat an <strong>in</strong>vert has recklessly placed himself with<strong>in</strong> theclutches <strong>of</strong> the law. In or out <strong>of</strong> marriage, normal <strong>sex</strong>ual<strong>in</strong>tercourse cannot be regarded as a remedy for <strong>in</strong>version,least <strong>of</strong> all <strong>in</strong> the form <strong>of</strong> prostitution, which tends topresent women <strong>in</strong> the aspect which is most repulsive tothe <strong>in</strong>vert. Platonic friendship with a ref<strong>in</strong>ed and <strong>in</strong>telligentperson <strong>of</strong> the opposite <strong>sex</strong> is more attractive and morehelpful, and if the Platonic friend is <strong>of</strong> a type which <strong>in</strong>the same <strong>sex</strong> would appeal to the <strong>in</strong>vert there is more likelihood<strong>of</strong> the relationship serv<strong>in</strong>g as a method <strong>of</strong> associationaltherapeutics than when the question <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual<strong>in</strong>tercourse is directly approached. The <strong>in</strong>vert whoseanomaly is based on an <strong>in</strong>nate predisposition tends to bean <strong>in</strong>vert all through, and any <strong>in</strong>fluences that modify hispsychic state must be gradual and manifold.While <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>tercourse, <strong>in</strong> or out <strong>of</strong> marriage, mustnever be regarded as a therapeutic method it is not necessaryto conclude that here and the same is true <strong>of</strong> otherpr<strong>of</strong>ound <strong>sex</strong>ual deviations marriage is always to beprohibited. It is not unusual to f<strong>in</strong>d <strong>in</strong>verts marry<strong>in</strong>g.But it is desirable that such marriages should not be made[250]


HOMOSEXUALITY<strong>in</strong> the dark or with illusory hopes. The conjugal partnershould not be too young, and should be accurately <strong>in</strong>formedbeforehand as to the precise condition <strong>of</strong> affairs(most bi<strong>sex</strong>ual persons are predom<strong>in</strong>antly homo<strong>sex</strong>ual) ,cannot experience with a person <strong>of</strong> the opposite <strong>sex</strong> that<strong>in</strong>timate unreserve and emotional extravagance which are<strong>of</strong> the essence <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual love, and though potency isand the probable prospects. Unions so formed sometimesprove tolerable and even happy, should the couple be congenialto each other. But it must always be rememberedthat the chances <strong>of</strong> complete <strong>sex</strong>ual satisfaction on eitherside are small. The <strong>in</strong>vert, unless genu<strong>in</strong>ely bi<strong>sex</strong>ualpossibleitmay only be secured by imag<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g that the partneris <strong>of</strong> the same <strong>sex</strong> or even by concentrat<strong>in</strong>g the thoughtson some attractive <strong>in</strong>dividual <strong>of</strong> the same <strong>sex</strong>. This state <strong>of</strong>th<strong>in</strong>gs fails to give great satisfaction to the <strong>in</strong>verted partner,while the other partner, even if not clearly conscious<strong>of</strong> the imperfect character <strong>of</strong> the relationship, <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ctivelyfeels some degree <strong>of</strong> dissatisfaction and depression, if notrepulsion. A union <strong>of</strong> this k<strong>in</strong>d is <strong>of</strong>ten more happy whenthe attempt to secure <strong>sex</strong>ual satisfaction is excluded, andthe relationshipis based on the satisfaction <strong>of</strong> other <strong>in</strong>terestscommon to both partners.Whether <strong>of</strong>fspr<strong>in</strong>g should be one <strong>of</strong> these <strong>in</strong>terests isserious question which it is not always easy to decide resolutely<strong>in</strong> the negative. Certa<strong>in</strong>ly it may be laid down as ageneral rule that it is not desirable a person constitutionallypredisposed to homo<strong>sex</strong>uality should procreate. When,however, the <strong>in</strong>verted partneris otherwise healthy, andbelongs to a fairly sound family, and the other partnerisentirely sound and normal, there is a reasonable hopethat the children may turn out fairly well. Children areafrequently desired by the <strong>in</strong>vert; they also form a consolationfor the other partner and may serve to consolidate the


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXunion. But a marriage <strong>of</strong> this k<strong>in</strong>d is <strong>of</strong>ten unstable; thereis a prospect <strong>of</strong> separation or <strong>of</strong> alienation <strong>of</strong> the partners,so that the risks <strong>of</strong> an unsatisfactory home life for thechild are considerable.Much the best result seems to be atta<strong>in</strong>ed for thecongenital <strong>in</strong>vert, as modern society isconstituted, when,while reta<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g his own ideals, or <strong>in</strong>ner <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>cts, he re-to become normal andsolves to forego alike the attemptthe attempt to secure the grosser gratification<strong>of</strong> his abnormaldesires, even though f<strong>in</strong>d<strong>in</strong>g occasional auto-eroticnot rarerelief <strong>in</strong>evitable, however unsatisfactory. This is<strong>in</strong> persons <strong>of</strong> f<strong>in</strong>e character. One such, who had somehomo<strong>sex</strong>ual experiencesbefore the age <strong>of</strong> n<strong>in</strong>eteen butnot s<strong>in</strong>ce, writes: "Occasionally I go for several monthswithout masturbat<strong>in</strong>g and f<strong>in</strong>d that when I do this mym<strong>in</strong>d seems more self-satisfied though I develop a moreuncontrolled desire for mascul<strong>in</strong>e love, and my best menfriends would be surprised to know that I am a sentimentalist<strong>in</strong> regard to them. Only to myself do I appearnormal. I believewhat I am. To my friends I am <strong>sex</strong>uallythat there is noth<strong>in</strong>g about me to suggest to the most discrim<strong>in</strong>at<strong>in</strong>gobserver that I have a passion so generallyassociated with degenerates. I do not feel a degenerate.I have never felt ashamed <strong>of</strong> my desires, though I wouldbe ashamed for people to know, as then I would losecaste."Another man, who has never had any homo<strong>sex</strong>ual relations,a naval <strong>of</strong>ficer liv<strong>in</strong>g an active life, has found considerablesatisfaction <strong>in</strong> non-<strong>sex</strong>ual friendships. He writes:"I am not <strong>in</strong> any way effem<strong>in</strong>ate and by my own choice Ihave led a hard and <strong>of</strong>ten dangerous life. My desire forthe companionship <strong>of</strong> men who have a <strong>sex</strong>ual attractionfor me is very great and the happiest days <strong>of</strong> my life havebeen spent <strong>in</strong> the companionship <strong>of</strong> such. My desires are


HOMOSEXUALITYnot only <strong>sex</strong>ual but composed <strong>of</strong> about 50 per cent <strong>of</strong> thedesire for complete mental harmony which accompaniessuch attraction. Fear <strong>of</strong> los<strong>in</strong>g this has kept me from evermak<strong>in</strong>g advances, and I imag<strong>in</strong>e that with a male prostitutesuch harmony would be impossible. I have got overmy shame at be<strong>in</strong>g different from other men and lookupon my condition as natural for myself."For some, no doubt, this is scarcely possible,and formany it <strong>in</strong>volves pa<strong>in</strong>ful struggle and impaired vitalenergy for the tasks <strong>of</strong> life. But <strong>in</strong> a large proportion <strong>of</strong><strong>in</strong>verts the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse, althoughitsabnormality maycause it to be unduly present to consciousness and the prohibition<strong>of</strong> gratification artificially emphasize the need forit, is not really strong. It may f<strong>in</strong>d a largemeasure <strong>of</strong>satisfaction <strong>in</strong> a Platonic friendship with a congenial person<strong>of</strong> the same <strong>sex</strong>. Such friendship may be fortified by astudy<strong>of</strong> the ideals thatare <strong>in</strong>culcated <strong>in</strong> the writ<strong>in</strong>gs <strong>of</strong>Plato himself and the Greek poets who were touched byhomo<strong>sex</strong>ual emotions; such modern writers as Walt Whitmanand Edward Carpenter and Andre Gide may also benamed.It must, further, be remembered that the <strong>in</strong>verted<strong>sex</strong>ual impulse is peculiarly apt for the ends <strong>of</strong> sublimation.Freud considers that sublimation <strong>in</strong> the direction <strong>of</strong>friendship and comradeship and esprit de corps and thelove <strong>of</strong> mank<strong>in</strong>d <strong>in</strong> general may be developed after hetero<strong>sex</strong>ualimpulses are established. But to wait for that mustusually be the postponement <strong>of</strong> sublimation until (accord<strong>in</strong>gto the ancient phrase) the Greek Kalends. Fortunatelywe may <strong>of</strong>ten witness what may fairly be calledsublimation tak<strong>in</strong>g place at a much earlier stage and <strong>in</strong>persons <strong>in</strong> whom the homo<strong>sex</strong>ual impulse can be consideredfixed. It has <strong>of</strong>ten happened that <strong>in</strong>verts have devotedthemselves with ardor to valuable social and philanthropic[253]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXwork for the benefit <strong>of</strong> the young <strong>of</strong> their own <strong>sex</strong>, andfound joy and satisfaction <strong>in</strong> the task.A man <strong>of</strong> Quaker antecedents, belong<strong>in</strong>g to a family<strong>in</strong>clud<strong>in</strong>g many members display<strong>in</strong>g both nervous tendenciesand dist<strong>in</strong>guished mental ability which he himselfshares, has homo<strong>sex</strong>ual impulses to which he has neveryielded except <strong>in</strong> a very slight degree, and is married,although his hetero<strong>sex</strong>ual impulses are not strong. Hewrites: "The bi<strong>sex</strong>ual seems to love all mank<strong>in</strong>d <strong>in</strong>stead <strong>of</strong>only one person; perhapsit is a noble and more usefulk<strong>in</strong>d <strong>of</strong> devotion. To reproduce one's life through scientificpapers <strong>of</strong> orig<strong>in</strong>ality seems more useful to-day than toadd to the spawn<strong>in</strong>g which one sees on every hand." <strong>No</strong>t<strong>in</strong>frequently the homo<strong>sex</strong>ual tendency passes <strong>in</strong>to a religiousrather than a scientific channel. A correspondent,who has much studied Dante and regards himself as bi<strong>sex</strong>ual<strong>in</strong> tendency, writes: "I th<strong>in</strong>k a close correlationexists between <strong>sex</strong> and religion. The <strong>in</strong>verts I know well(four males)are all devout believers. I am myself a server<strong>in</strong> the Church <strong>of</strong> England. On my personal theory theessence <strong>of</strong> love is unselfish devotion, and I believe thatservice is the only key to genu<strong>in</strong>e happ<strong>in</strong>ess. Invert or no,one must refuse admission to some thoughts, howeverloudly they knock. I can see a wealth <strong>of</strong> beauty <strong>in</strong> bothboys and girls, but I utilize the <strong>in</strong>spiration <strong>in</strong> my religionand daily work, and try not to be unduly sentimental. Ihave passed the stormiest po<strong>in</strong>t <strong>in</strong> my psychic development.Perhaps one day I shall meet the right girl and havethe joy <strong>of</strong> be<strong>in</strong>g myself the father <strong>of</strong> boys."It istrue that these motives only appeal to the superiorsuch form a considerable<strong>in</strong>vert. But, itmay be repeated,to feel atproportion <strong>of</strong> the whole group. They are aptfirstare homeless wanderers <strong>in</strong> a universe thatthat theywas not made for them. It is worth while by <strong>in</strong>creas<strong>in</strong>g[254]


HOMOSEXUALITYtheir knowledge to <strong>in</strong>crease also their happ<strong>in</strong>ess and theirusefulness, so enabl<strong>in</strong>g them to feel that for them also,even as they are, there is still a place <strong>in</strong> the world, and<strong>of</strong>ten even an enviable place.BIBLIOGRAPHYHAVELOCK ELLIS, Studies <strong>in</strong> the <strong>Psychology</strong> <strong>of</strong> Sex, Vol. II.EDWARD CARPENTER, The Intermediate Sex and also MyDays and Dreams (autobiography) .Edward Carpenter; In Appreciation, Edited by G* Beith.


IntroductoryCHAPTER VIMARRIAGE(The Problem <strong>of</strong> Sexual Abst<strong>in</strong>ence)MARRIAGE <strong>in</strong> the biological sense, and even to someextent <strong>in</strong> the social sense, is a <strong>sex</strong>ual relationship entered<strong>in</strong>to with the <strong>in</strong>tention <strong>of</strong> mak<strong>in</strong>g it permanent, evenapart from whether or not it has received the sanction <strong>of</strong>the law or the Church. But before enter<strong>in</strong>g on its considerationit may be desirable to touch on the problem <strong>of</strong><strong>sex</strong>ual abst<strong>in</strong>ence, and the troubles, real or alleged, thatmay be associated with it.This problem has passed through several phases. A centuryago it scarcely came before the physician, and if itdid, all he could legitimately say was that for men <strong>sex</strong>ualabst<strong>in</strong>ence outside marriage was moral and <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>tercourseimmoral (though left privately free), while forwomen, who had no recognized <strong>sex</strong>ual needs, the questioncould not arise. Then, with<strong>in</strong> the lifetime <strong>of</strong> many <strong>of</strong> us,with the emergence <strong>of</strong> new social conditions and a somewhatmore open attitude towards them, the physicianbegan to be approached and he was asked to proclaimgeneral pr<strong>in</strong>ciples <strong>in</strong> this matter for the world at large.This demand led to the formulation <strong>of</strong> various vaguepropositions concern<strong>in</strong>g the harmlessness <strong>of</strong> cont<strong>in</strong>ence,which meant noth<strong>in</strong>g and might be used <strong>in</strong> senses not <strong>in</strong>tendedby the formulators; they could, for <strong>in</strong>stance, bequoted with much satisfaction by those persons who advocatedno <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>tercourse except for the production <strong>of</strong>[256]


MARRIAGEchildren, that is to say, perhaps two or three times <strong>in</strong> alifetime. <strong>No</strong> doubt cont<strong>in</strong>ence <strong>in</strong> the use o the muscularand glandular system generallyis not <strong>in</strong>jurious to health;cont<strong>in</strong>ence likewise <strong>in</strong> the use <strong>of</strong> the specifically <strong>sex</strong>ualmuscles and glandsisequally not <strong>in</strong>jurious to health.Such frivolous exercises <strong>in</strong> verbal juggl<strong>in</strong>g were, however,felt to be rather beneath the dignity <strong>of</strong> the medical pr<strong>of</strong>ession,and more suitably left to the charlatans who takeadvantage <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual ignorance and prejudices <strong>of</strong> themultitude. The physicianis called to deal with the manifoldcases<strong>of</strong> liv<strong>in</strong>g men and women, not with abstractformulas. This is now realized, and s<strong>in</strong>ce less rigidnotions <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual morality now prevail it is possible todeal more variously with the result<strong>in</strong>g problems.The difficulties and dangers <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual abst<strong>in</strong>ence have<strong>in</strong> the past been both under-estimated and over-estimated.On the one hand it was emphatically stated, always bythose who were over-burdened by the moral <strong>in</strong>terestswhich they conceived to be at stake, that such difficultiesand dangers are negligible. On the other hand were thosewho, partly by reaction aga<strong>in</strong>st this extreme view andpartly by ancient tradition, went to the other extreme,and declared that various forms o <strong>in</strong>sanity, as well as <strong>of</strong>nervous disorder, were due to <strong>sex</strong>ual abst<strong>in</strong>ence. Thereseems no ground to believe that any serious psychosis orneurosis is caused by <strong>sex</strong>ual abst<strong>in</strong>ence alone <strong>in</strong> congeni-is due to thetally sound persons. The belief that itmayfamiliar confusion between the "post hoc" and the "propterhoc"; similarly when <strong>in</strong>sanity occurs <strong>in</strong> a person whohas led a life <strong>of</strong> unbridled <strong>sex</strong>ual license, we are not entitledto put down his <strong>in</strong>sanity to the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse."The majority <strong>of</strong> those who compose our society," saidFreud <strong>in</strong> 1908, "are constitutionally unfit for the task <strong>of</strong>abst<strong>in</strong>ence," but he adds the significant remark, which we


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXshould always bear <strong>in</strong> m<strong>in</strong>d, that it is <strong>in</strong> the presence <strong>of</strong> adisposition to neurosis that abst<strong>in</strong>ence proves most troublesome,especiallyas lead<strong>in</strong>g to anxiety neurosis, while<strong>in</strong> his later Introductory Lectures he states that "we mustbeware <strong>of</strong> over-estimat<strong>in</strong>g the importance <strong>of</strong> abst<strong>in</strong>ence<strong>in</strong> affect<strong>in</strong>g neurosis; only a m<strong>in</strong>ority <strong>of</strong> pathogenic situationsdue to privation and the subsequent accumulation<strong>of</strong> Libido thereby <strong>in</strong>duced can be relieved bythe k<strong>in</strong>d <strong>of</strong><strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>tercourse that isprocurable without any difficulty."S<strong>in</strong>ce Freud has never under-estimated the importance<strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse <strong>in</strong> life his testimony onthis po<strong>in</strong>t is <strong>of</strong> peculiar value. Reference may also bemade to the fact that, as has been po<strong>in</strong>ted out by Lowenfeld,who has studied the matter <strong>in</strong> a judicial spirit on abasis <strong>of</strong> wide experience, Catholic priests usually enjoyexcellent health <strong>in</strong> nervous respects and seldom suffer fromabst<strong>in</strong>ence, this be<strong>in</strong>g probably due, Lowenfeld remarks,to be<strong>in</strong>g brought up to their pr<strong>of</strong>ession from youth.We have always to remember that the whole art <strong>of</strong>liv<strong>in</strong>g lies <strong>in</strong> a f<strong>in</strong>e balance <strong>of</strong> expression and repression.For repression understood <strong>in</strong> the wide sense and notmerely <strong>in</strong> the special sense sometimes given to it byispsycho-analystsas central a fact <strong>of</strong> life as expression.We are constantly at the same time both repress<strong>in</strong>g someimpulses and express<strong>in</strong>g other impulses. There is nonecessary penalty <strong>in</strong> the repression, for it is essential toexpression. It is far from be<strong>in</strong>g an unfortunate <strong>in</strong>fluencepeculiar to civilization; it is equally marked <strong>in</strong> primitivestages <strong>of</strong> human life. It is even easily to be observedamong animals. So natural a process can be noth<strong>in</strong>g butwholesome <strong>in</strong> the ma<strong>in</strong>, even althoughit must be frequentlyliable to maladjustments, especially <strong>in</strong> those <strong>in</strong>dividualswho are not constitutionally organized for thetask <strong>of</strong> atta<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g harmonious balance.C25&]


But it isMARRIAGEnot therefore to be denied that the difficultieso <strong>sex</strong>ual abst<strong>in</strong>ence, even though they do not <strong>in</strong>volveany great risk to life or to sanity, are still very real toto cause m<strong>in</strong>ormany healthy and active persons.* It is aptdisturbances <strong>of</strong> physical well-be<strong>in</strong>g, and on the psychicside much mental worry and a constantly recurr<strong>in</strong>g strugglewith erotic obsessions, an unwholesome <strong>sex</strong>ual hyperaesthesiawhich, especially <strong>in</strong> women, <strong>of</strong>ten takes the form<strong>of</strong> prudery. A student, for <strong>in</strong>stance, who lives chastely,who is ambitious, vho wishes to put all his best energies<strong>in</strong>to his studies, may endure great anxiety and mentaldepression from this struggle.Many young women, also,actively engaged <strong>in</strong> various k<strong>in</strong>ds <strong>of</strong> work, suffer similarly,and are sometimes thereby stimulated to a feverishactivity <strong>in</strong> work and physical exercise which usuallybr<strong>in</strong>gs no relief. One is sometimes, <strong>in</strong>deed, <strong>in</strong>cl<strong>in</strong>ed toth<strong>in</strong>k that women have suffered more from this causethan men, not (asFreud believes) that sublimation isspecially difficult for women, or because their <strong>sex</strong>ual impulsesare stronger, but because men have been and areeven still, more easily able to form <strong>sex</strong>ual relationshipsoutside marriage, while the spontaneous orgasms which<strong>in</strong> chaste men normally give relief dur<strong>in</strong>g sleep are <strong>in</strong>women who have had no <strong>sex</strong>ual experiences comparativelyrare, even when <strong>sex</strong>ual desire is strong. It is <strong>of</strong>ten thesuperior women who suffer most from this cause and theyare precisely the women who are most anxious to concealthe factf*This has long been held by all competent authorities. Thus Nacke,a cautious and critical writer, stated over twenty years ago that theop<strong>in</strong>ion that <strong>sex</strong>ual abst<strong>in</strong>ence has no bad effects is not today held bya s<strong>in</strong>gle authority on questions <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>. The fight is concerned with thequantity and quality <strong>of</strong> the bad effects, which Nacke believed never tobe <strong>of</strong> a gravely serious character.<strong>in</strong> this way; they fre-fl hear from many women who suffer acutelyquently write from a distance or conceal their real names. One lady[259]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXIt may be <strong>in</strong>terest<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong> this connection to considerthe answers given by over a thousand women to the question<strong>in</strong> Dr. Kathar<strong>in</strong>e Davis's questionnaire: Do you believe<strong>sex</strong> <strong>in</strong>tercourse necessary for complete physical andmental health? It must <strong>of</strong> course be borne <strong>in</strong> m<strong>in</strong>d thatthe replies to this question cannot be always, even if generally,based strictly on physiological and psychologicalconsiderations. We have <strong>in</strong>evitably to recognize the <strong>in</strong>fluence<strong>of</strong> moral, social, and conventional ideas. Still it isto know how educated American women,<strong>in</strong>terest<strong>in</strong>gbrought up <strong>in</strong> the early twentieth century, privately regardthis matter. It was found that 38.7 per cent (394<strong>in</strong> number) answered <strong>in</strong> the affirmative, a few emphatically,a large number with specific qualification,and some<strong>of</strong> them only dubiously. There rema<strong>in</strong>ed a majority <strong>of</strong>61.2 (622 <strong>in</strong> number) who replied <strong>in</strong> the negative, someemphatically and a few dubiously. Some <strong>of</strong> the womenanswer<strong>in</strong>g affirmatively qualified their reply by say<strong>in</strong>g"especially for men," or "for mental health," or "for acomplete life," or "for some types."Of those who answerednegatively, many qualified by say<strong>in</strong>g "not necessarybut normal/' or "but desirable," or "not for completemental health," or "no, but difficult," or "no, but peoplewho do not have it seem harsh and shrivelled up." It isfrom whom I heard several times (who happened, without know<strong>in</strong>g it,to be well known to a friend <strong>of</strong> my own) is fairly typical: middle-aged,robust, well-developed and handsome, highly <strong>in</strong>telligent, has <strong>in</strong>dependentmeans and <strong>of</strong>ten lives abroad; has never had any <strong>sex</strong>ual relationships.Though enjoy<strong>in</strong>g good health on the whole, some slight disturbances(notably a mental shock at sixteen which dim<strong>in</strong>ished menstruation)have stimulated <strong>sex</strong>ual activity to an abnormal degree. There is constant<strong>sex</strong>ual desire and all the physical and mental methods <strong>of</strong> deal<strong>in</strong>g withit which she can adopt are fruitless to relax this perpetual tension. Hercharacter and traditions render any irregular gratification impossible,and prevent her even referr<strong>in</strong>g to her condition, while the occasionalmasturbation which she has been compelled to resort to at the monthlyperiods br<strong>in</strong>gs no relief but only remorse.[260]


MARRIAGEa significant commentary that, <strong>of</strong> those who believed <strong>sex</strong><strong>in</strong>tercourse unnecessary for health, 59.5 more than halfpracticed masturbation. It may not be surpris<strong>in</strong>g that<strong>of</strong> those who replied affirmatively a larger proportionIt is(76.0 per cent.) acknowledged the same practice.natural to f<strong>in</strong>d that <strong>of</strong> those answer<strong>in</strong>g affirmatively alarger proportion than <strong>in</strong> the negative group had knowledge<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>tercourse.Those who belittle the difficulties <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual abst<strong>in</strong>encemay do well to consider the experience <strong>of</strong> the early Christianascetics <strong>in</strong> the desert, as described, for <strong>in</strong>stance, <strong>in</strong>the Paradise <strong>of</strong> Palladius. These men were vigorous andresolute, they were wholeheartedlydevoted to the ideals<strong>of</strong> asceticism, they were liv<strong>in</strong>g under the best possiblecircumstances for cultivat<strong>in</strong>g such ideals, and their regimewas austere to a degree that is for us impossible andalmost <strong>in</strong>conceivable. Yet there was noth<strong>in</strong>g that troubledthem so much as <strong>sex</strong>ual temptation, and thistrouble tosome degree persisted throughout life.It may be added that another fact should warn usaga<strong>in</strong>st any facile acceptance <strong>of</strong> mere platitudes<strong>in</strong> deal<strong>in</strong>gwith this question. I refer to the fact that, putt<strong>in</strong>gaside altogether the experiences <strong>of</strong> ancient ascetics andcom<strong>in</strong>g down to the present day, all careful <strong>in</strong>vestigationshows that the proportion <strong>of</strong> persons, even among physicians,who really live cont<strong>in</strong>uously <strong>in</strong> true <strong>sex</strong>ual abst<strong>in</strong>ence,that is without any manifestation <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual activity,is really very small.* It is only considerable whenwe leave out <strong>of</strong> account the imperfect forms <strong>of</strong> normal<strong>sex</strong>ual gratification <strong>in</strong>volved <strong>in</strong> flirt<strong>in</strong>g, etc., the abnormal*Meirowsky <strong>of</strong> Cologne, by <strong>in</strong>quiries among eighty-six physicians,found that only one had never had <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>tercourse before marriage,In English speak<strong>in</strong>g lands the proportion may well be smaller, but onthe other hand the proportion adopt<strong>in</strong>gauto-erotic practices probablylarger.[261]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXforms <strong>of</strong> the impulse, and its various auto-erotic manifestations.Rohleder, an experienced physician<strong>in</strong> thisfield, believed some years ago that, when we thus widelylook at the matter, there is no such th<strong>in</strong>g as <strong>sex</strong>ual abst<strong>in</strong>ence,the genu<strong>in</strong>e cases <strong>in</strong> which <strong>sex</strong>ual phenomenafail to appear be<strong>in</strong>g simply cases <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual anaesthesia.The seem<strong>in</strong>g variations which we f<strong>in</strong>d would thus ma<strong>in</strong>lybe due to national differences <strong>in</strong> tradition which <strong>in</strong> somecountries favor, <strong>in</strong> effect, resort to prostitution, and, <strong>in</strong>others, resort to masturbation. There are, <strong>in</strong>deed, twoschools <strong>of</strong> physicians<strong>in</strong> this matter, one <strong>of</strong> which sternlyreprobates any <strong>in</strong>dulgence <strong>in</strong> the unmanly habit <strong>of</strong> masturbation,but iscomparatively lenient to prostitution;while the other severely condemns any resort to the dangerousand immoral practice <strong>of</strong> prostitution, but is comparativelylenient to masturbation. Such considerations asthese may pr<strong>of</strong>itably be borne <strong>in</strong> m<strong>in</strong>d when we attemptto treat, or to palliate, the manifestations <strong>of</strong> unsatisfied<strong>sex</strong>ual activity, such as local congestion, <strong>in</strong>somnia, irritability,depression, headache, vague hystericaland nervoussymptoms. When the result<strong>in</strong>g troubles def<strong>in</strong>itely approachthe borderland <strong>of</strong> the psychoses it isusually found thatother co-operativecauses must be taken <strong>in</strong>to account, andhere psycho-analysts have sought out many devious paths<strong>in</strong> the Unconscious. Below the age <strong>of</strong> 24, as Lowenfeldf<strong>in</strong>ds, men seldom suffer from abst<strong>in</strong>ence, and even laterrarely to a degree requir<strong>in</strong>g medical aid. It is a bad constitutionwhich makes abst<strong>in</strong>ence a cause <strong>of</strong> nervous trouble,and this, as Freud, Lowenfeld and others found,usually <strong>in</strong> both <strong>sex</strong>es takes the form <strong>of</strong> anxiety neurosis.For the most part, however, as so <strong>of</strong>ten <strong>in</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ualfield, treatment has usually resolved itself largely <strong>in</strong>tohygiene, which, to be effective, must beg<strong>in</strong> earlier thanthe conditions it is meant to combat: a simple life, pla<strong>in</strong>[262]


MARRIAGEfood, cold bath<strong>in</strong>g, the absence <strong>of</strong> luxury, avoidance <strong>of</strong>all strong physical or mental excitations, no evil companionship,abundant occupation and ample exercise <strong>in</strong>the open air, etc. The child who, be<strong>in</strong>g well born, is thusbred from his earliest years however will<strong>in</strong>g we may beto accept, <strong>in</strong> the abstract, the doctr<strong>in</strong>e <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>fantile <strong>sex</strong>ualityhas a fair chance, <strong>in</strong> the absence <strong>of</strong> unavoidableaccidents, <strong>of</strong> prolong<strong>in</strong>g <strong>sex</strong>ual unconsciousness, eventhough <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>struction may have been imparted, for along time. But when once the organic <strong>sex</strong>ual impulseshave become irresistibly present to consciousness, all theseexcellent rules <strong>of</strong> regimen are no longer so effectual asthey are sometimes represented to be. They are good t<strong>of</strong>ollow, <strong>in</strong> any case, and they are not sometimes withouteffect <strong>in</strong> subdu<strong>in</strong>g the activity <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse, butwe must not expect from them what they cannot give.Healthy physical moderate exercise, so far from repress<strong>in</strong>g<strong>sex</strong>ual desire, much more <strong>of</strong>ten, both <strong>in</strong> men and women,acts as a stimulant to evoke it, and only has a subdu<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong>fluence when carried to an unhealthy and immoderateexcess produc<strong>in</strong>g exhaustion. Mental work, likewise, sometimeseven when <strong>of</strong> a purely abstract nature, is liable tocause <strong>sex</strong>ual excitement. It is, <strong>in</strong>deed, obvious that therules <strong>of</strong> general hygiene, be<strong>in</strong>g conducive to vigor, cannotfail to impart vigor <strong>in</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual sphere; we cannot takemeasures to generate vigor <strong>in</strong> the system, and then impedeits overflow <strong>in</strong>to <strong>sex</strong>ual channels.We may,it is true, transmute <strong>sex</strong>ual energy <strong>in</strong>to othermore spiritual forms; but only a small proportion <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ualenergy can thus be sublimated; as Freud well says,itis with <strong>sex</strong>ual energy <strong>in</strong> the human organism as it is withheat <strong>in</strong> our mach<strong>in</strong>es, only a certa<strong>in</strong> proportion can betransformed <strong>in</strong>to work. Certa<strong>in</strong>ly we may resort to drugs,<strong>of</strong> which the bromides are the most generally employed,[263]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXand probably the most effective. Such resort isperhapsespecially beneficial <strong>in</strong> nervous and over-excitable personswhose <strong>sex</strong>ual erethism is not the outcome <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual vigor.In robust and temperamentally <strong>sex</strong>ual personsthe bromidesare <strong>of</strong>ten useless unless pushed to an extent productiveo a general deaden<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> the f<strong>in</strong>er activities.This isnot a satisfactory method <strong>of</strong> deal<strong>in</strong>g with a greatnatural impulse capable <strong>of</strong> f<strong>in</strong>e uses. We have to recognizethe limitations <strong>of</strong> our powers <strong>in</strong> this field, refra<strong>in</strong>from platitudes <strong>in</strong> the face <strong>of</strong> difficulties which the socialenvironment <strong>of</strong>ten renders <strong>in</strong>evitable, and leave to thethose diffi-patient himself the responsibility <strong>of</strong> solv<strong>in</strong>gculties.There are <strong>in</strong>deed some physicians who boldly declarethat <strong>in</strong> this matter we must ourselves assume an unlimitedresponsibility. A patient comes say, a Catholic priest ora married woman with an impotent husband clearlysuffer<strong>in</strong>g from nervous troubles as a result <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual abst<strong>in</strong>ence.It is our duty, they say, to these patients, firmlyto recommend <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>tercourse. I do not th<strong>in</strong>k so.Apartfrom the fact that the physician obviously cannot guaranteethe purity <strong>of</strong> the drug he isprescrib<strong>in</strong>g, apart als<strong>of</strong>rom the immorality <strong>of</strong> recommend<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> private a course<strong>of</strong> action entirely opposed to that which, <strong>in</strong> all probability,he implicitly or explicitly recommends <strong>in</strong> public, thephysician who gives advice outside his own strictly medicalsphereis bound to consider the wider effects <strong>of</strong> thatadvice on the patient himself. Ifas <strong>in</strong> the <strong>in</strong>stances mentionedsuch advice leads a man <strong>in</strong>to conduct antagonisticto his pr<strong>of</strong>essional character, or leads a woman to placeherself <strong>in</strong> a pa<strong>in</strong>ful social position, the results, even tohealth, may be worse than those <strong>in</strong>volved by the struggleto repress <strong>sex</strong>ual desire; one struggle has merely givenplace to another and perhaps more serious struggle. The[264]


MARRIAGEphysician would do well, when he goes beyond the purelymedical sphere <strong>in</strong> this matter, to conf<strong>in</strong>e himself to a clear,wide, and impartial presentment <strong>of</strong> the issues that arebefore the patient, leav<strong>in</strong>g to the patient himself the responsibility,which must rightly belong to him, <strong>of</strong> select<strong>in</strong>gthe solution. The physician's part here is that <strong>of</strong> ajudge charg<strong>in</strong>g the jury; he must clear up the issues butnot pronounce the verdict. In so do<strong>in</strong>g he may at thesame time br<strong>in</strong>g his patient to a calmer and more rationalattitude, and will perhaps prevent a rash attemptto cut the knot which it seems impossible to untie.<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual abst<strong>in</strong>-The conventional remedy for the illsence certa<strong>in</strong>ly also the best when it can be carried outunder good conditions is a fitt<strong>in</strong>g marriage.BIBLIOGRAPHYWALLIS BUDGE, The Paradise <strong>of</strong> the Fathers.HAVELOCK ELLIS, Studies <strong>in</strong> the <strong>Psychology</strong> <strong>of</strong> Sex, Vol. VI.FREUD, "Civilized Sexual Morality and Modern Nervousness/'Collected Papers, Vol. II.K. B. DAVIS, Factors <strong>in</strong> the Sex-Life <strong>of</strong> Twenty-two HundredWomen.The Advisability <strong>of</strong> MarriageThe physicianisnowadays consulted much more frequentlythan used to be the case concern<strong>in</strong>g the desirability<strong>of</strong> a marriage when there appears some ground foranxiety as to the results <strong>of</strong> the union on the couple ortheir <strong>of</strong>fspr<strong>in</strong>g. Moreover, the op<strong>in</strong>ion <strong>of</strong> the physician onsuch matters is now taken more seriously than itformerlywas. It is necessary, therefore, <strong>in</strong> such cases to avoid platitudes,which under the circumstances may be <strong>in</strong>considerate,and to give, so far as possible, a deliberate and circumspectop<strong>in</strong>ion. The scientific material on which such[265]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXan op<strong>in</strong>ion can properly be based is for a large number<strong>of</strong> cases still imperfect and only now beg<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g to be coord<strong>in</strong>ated,so that this whole subject belongs largely to afuture, perhaps not remote, when it may be possible t<strong>of</strong>orecast the probable results <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual unions with muchmore precision than can now be done. At present,asKar<strong>in</strong> Horney also concludes <strong>in</strong> study<strong>in</strong>g this question,even psycho-analysis (<strong>in</strong> which nevertheless she has muchfaith) will not furnish the <strong>in</strong>sight necessary to enable usto prophesy concern<strong>in</strong>g the future <strong>of</strong> a marriage. Moreover,the subject is,for the most part, outside the scope<strong>of</strong> the present chapter. There are, however, a few po<strong>in</strong>ts<strong>in</strong> regard to which some <strong>in</strong>dications may here be given.A simple case which not <strong>in</strong>frequently occurs isthat <strong>of</strong>the youth or girl who suddenly overwhelms relations andfriends by announc<strong>in</strong>g an <strong>in</strong>tention to enter on a marriagewhich is flagrantly unsuitable, although it may notobviously clash with any eugenic pr<strong>in</strong>ciple. The physicianis appealed to <strong>in</strong> order to ward <strong>of</strong>f the dreaded marriageand is sometimes expected to declare that the imprudentlover is not mentally sound. That is a matter for <strong>in</strong>vestigation,but it may be said that <strong>in</strong> most cases <strong>of</strong> this k<strong>in</strong>d,while there may be a slightly neurotic heredity, the aberration,if it is an aberration, so little overpasses physiologicallimits that it cannot safely be combated on thesegrounds. The Romeo and Juliet lovers who disregard thesocial barriers which oppose their union are overcomeby a temporary exaltation, but they are not <strong>in</strong>sane, except<strong>in</strong> the sense <strong>in</strong> which Burton <strong>in</strong> his Anatomy <strong>of</strong> Melancholycopiously argued that all lovers are <strong>in</strong>sane. In mostcases <strong>of</strong> this k<strong>in</strong>d we are concerned with young peoplewho have not yet emerged from the storm and stressperiod <strong>of</strong> adolescence, and <strong>in</strong> whom the sudden eruption<strong>of</strong> the new erotic life produces an almost physiological[266]


MARRIAGEdisturbance <strong>of</strong> mental balance which will speedily rightitself and never occur aga<strong>in</strong>. A typical case which sometimesoccurs is that <strong>of</strong> a chaste and upright youth who,hav<strong>in</strong>g accidentally been brought <strong>in</strong>to close contact witha prostitute, forms the design <strong>of</strong> marry<strong>in</strong>g her, <strong>in</strong> such acase the obscure prompt<strong>in</strong>gs <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse be<strong>in</strong>gmore or less disguised by the idea <strong>of</strong> redeem<strong>in</strong>g a womanwho seems never to have had a fair chance. <strong>No</strong>w it not<strong>in</strong>frequently happens that marriage with a prostitute turnsout well when it is the result <strong>of</strong> deliberate choice by amature and experienced man who clearly realizes whathe is do<strong>in</strong>g. But that is not likely to happen <strong>in</strong> the case<strong>of</strong> an ignorant youth bl<strong>in</strong>ded bythe exaltation <strong>of</strong> his feel<strong>in</strong>gs.In these cases the best method <strong>of</strong> prevent<strong>in</strong>g theunion is to temporize. Severe opposition will merely serveto <strong>in</strong>crease the exaltation and lead to rash steps whichwill precipitate the dreaded marriage. By contriv<strong>in</strong>g toobta<strong>in</strong> delay, and <strong>in</strong> the meanwhile secur<strong>in</strong>g for the youthample opportunity to see and study his beloved, he maybe brought to view her <strong>in</strong> someth<strong>in</strong>g the same light as hisfriends. In the case <strong>of</strong> a girl who contemplates a rashmarriage, it may <strong>of</strong>ten be possible to remove her <strong>in</strong>to adifferent environment <strong>in</strong> which new <strong>in</strong>terests and relationshipswill gradually be formed. Sometimes a youngwoman will, for a time, contemplate marriage with an attractiveman <strong>of</strong> lower social class. Such a union should bestrongly discouraged, however little value we may attachto class feel<strong>in</strong>g, for it isvery unlikely to work out, and thewoman who has had such an idea never repents abandon<strong>in</strong>git. Lady Chatterley can never be the happy wife <strong>of</strong> herpeasant lover. The unions which are the speedy result <strong>of</strong>a sudden <strong>in</strong>fatuation so <strong>of</strong>ten produce a cha<strong>in</strong> <strong>of</strong> disastrousresults that it isalways legitimate <strong>in</strong> such cases to<strong>in</strong>troduce obstacles tend<strong>in</strong>g to cause delay, even though it


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXis true that Absence is "the mother <strong>of</strong> ideal beauty," andthat many a lover thus frustrated cherishes the belief thathe or she thus missed happ<strong>in</strong>ess <strong>in</strong> life. The experience<strong>of</strong> Dickens, who when rejected by the girlhe admired <strong>in</strong>youth came to regard her as the supreme embodiment <strong>of</strong>perfect womanhood and molded his hero<strong>in</strong>es <strong>in</strong> herimage, only to be repelled and disgusted when he at lastmet her aga<strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong> the flesh, is an experience which has<strong>of</strong>ten been repeated <strong>in</strong> the lives <strong>of</strong> lessdist<strong>in</strong>guished persons.These are specialdifficulties which may not <strong>of</strong>tencome under our notice. But whenever the question <strong>of</strong> marriagearises at all there is at some po<strong>in</strong>t or another a problemto be solved, and such problems are more and morefrequently brought before the physician. They can onlybe slightly touched on here, and it is scarcely necessaryto say that there is seldom any def<strong>in</strong>ite and positive formulato be applied. Each case has to be considered <strong>in</strong>dividually,and the most desirable solution <strong>of</strong> one may bethe most undesirable <strong>of</strong> another. It isprobable that <strong>in</strong>the future all great centers <strong>of</strong> city life will possess Institutions(<strong>of</strong> which the Sexual Institute <strong>of</strong> Berl<strong>in</strong> may beregarded as the pioneer) at which advice may be obta<strong>in</strong>edconcern<strong>in</strong>g all the various problems <strong>of</strong> marriage.The question <strong>of</strong> age may arise, the question <strong>of</strong> healthand heredity, the question <strong>of</strong> physical exam<strong>in</strong>ation, thequestion <strong>of</strong> preparedness or <strong>of</strong> preparation for marriage,the question <strong>of</strong> delayed procreation, and the highly importantquestion <strong>of</strong> compatibility, physical or psychic, onwhich so <strong>of</strong>ten the happ<strong>in</strong>ess <strong>of</strong> marriage rests.As regards the desirable age <strong>of</strong> marriage for maritalhapp<strong>in</strong>ess, as well as for the production <strong>of</strong> the best childrenthere is considerable difference <strong>of</strong> op<strong>in</strong>ion, and atpresent few adequately conv<strong>in</strong>c<strong>in</strong>g data on a broad basis.[268]


MARRIAGEHart and Shields <strong>in</strong> Philadelphia, measur<strong>in</strong>g satisfaction<strong>in</strong> marriage by appearances <strong>in</strong> the Domestic RelationsCourt, found results opposed to early marriage, while Patterson,also <strong>in</strong> Philadelphia, failed to f<strong>in</strong>d a significantlylarger proportion <strong>of</strong> marital difficulties when marriagetook place under 20 years <strong>of</strong> age than <strong>in</strong> later marriage.Dick<strong>in</strong>son and Lura Beam found that the average age <strong>of</strong>wives who could be regarded as "adjusted without compla<strong>in</strong>t"was some years over the average age, and <strong>in</strong> consider<strong>in</strong>gthe length <strong>of</strong> married life <strong>of</strong> those couples whoeventually separated or divorced it was not found to beshortest <strong>in</strong> those who married youngest. Those who marrylater are <strong>in</strong> the best position to know their own deepestneeds and to form sound judgments, but at the same timethey have <strong>of</strong>ten acquired psychic habits and physicaltroubles which render mental adjustment difficult whilethe young girl is not only more adjustable psychicallybut usually much more apt physically for coitus, and eventhan iscommonlyfor maternity, supposed. The questionis <strong>in</strong>deed not entirely <strong>of</strong> age but also <strong>of</strong> character, <strong>in</strong>telligence,and experience; the average age <strong>of</strong> marriage isprobably at present quite as high as is desirable, and <strong>of</strong>tentoo high. Burgdorferisemphatically on the side <strong>of</strong> earlymarriage, while Hagen and Max Christian conclude thatfrom the eugenic standpo<strong>in</strong>t a man should marry at 25and a woman earlier,courageously fac<strong>in</strong>g whatever difficultiesmay arise later. In Germany, where the age for menit wasis around 29 and for women 25, a few centuries agounder 19 for men and under 15 for girls.At whatever age marriage takes place, it is highly desirable,and ought <strong>in</strong>deed to be considered necessary, thatfull medical exam<strong>in</strong>ation <strong>of</strong> each party should be madefrom the po<strong>in</strong>t <strong>of</strong> view <strong>of</strong> marital relationships and parenthood.This should be made at an early stage, and[269]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXbefore the proposed marriage is made known to any widecircle <strong>of</strong> friends. It must <strong>of</strong> course <strong>in</strong>clude gynecologicalexam<strong>in</strong>ation <strong>of</strong> the woman and genito-ur<strong>in</strong>ary exam<strong>in</strong>ation<strong>of</strong> the man. It has been argued that such certificatesshould be compulsory and some attempts have been made<strong>in</strong> that direction. But such an exam<strong>in</strong>ation is so highlydesirable for the welfare <strong>of</strong> both parties, even apart fromall eugenic considerations with which we are not hereprimarily concerned, that no couple propos<strong>in</strong>g to marryshould wait for compulsion.There is another k<strong>in</strong>d <strong>of</strong> preparation for marriage, <strong>of</strong>an even more essential nature, which can only be madeThat is an exam<strong>in</strong>a-by the couple themselves <strong>in</strong> private.tion <strong>in</strong>to their own knowledge and feel<strong>in</strong>gs with regardto the <strong>in</strong>timate relationship they are propos<strong>in</strong>g to <strong>in</strong>itiate.What does each know about the anatomy and physiology<strong>of</strong> the other's body, and his or her own, and what aretheir emotional reactions to these matters? It has too <strong>of</strong>tenhappened that, as Dick<strong>in</strong>son and Lura Beam put it,"theyoung husband f<strong>in</strong>ds her 'too sacred* to consider her <strong>in</strong>nermechanism, or the wife th<strong>in</strong>ks <strong>of</strong> herself as a tree witha solid trunk. The knowledge <strong>of</strong> anatomy <strong>of</strong> some <strong>of</strong> themiscomparable with that <strong>of</strong> the early Persians." What,above all, are their feel<strong>in</strong>gs about <strong>in</strong>timacy <strong>in</strong> marriedlove? There are husbands as well as wives who dread anyprivate touch; there are husbands and wives who havenever been <strong>in</strong> the bath-room together, because <strong>of</strong> someterror either on his part or on hers. But there can neverbe any real confidence and trust, never any real marriageunion, without the possibility <strong>of</strong> a complete <strong>in</strong>timacy welcometo both. As Kathar<strong>in</strong>e Davis found, the percentage<strong>of</strong> happy marriages among women who were, <strong>in</strong> one wayor another adequately prepared, was very much largerthan among those who were not thus prepared.[*7]


MARRIAGEIt is not <strong>of</strong> course only on the <strong>sex</strong>ual side that thismutual knowledgeis needed. Marriageis much more thana <strong>sex</strong>ual relationship. There are many marriages nowadays,and not always the least happy provided there is fullmutual understand<strong>in</strong>g, <strong>in</strong> which no <strong>sex</strong>ual relationshipever takes place.It is, as so many <strong>in</strong>vestigations show,compatibility which is the chief clue to satisfaction <strong>in</strong> marriage.There are many temperaments which, howeverestimable <strong>in</strong> themselves, will not suit each other. Thismust be tested before marriage,it cannot safely be lefttill after. It isnecessary for the couple to live together forconsiderable periods under some <strong>of</strong> the ord<strong>in</strong>ary aswellas extraord<strong>in</strong>ary stresses <strong>of</strong> life <strong>in</strong> order for each to observethe other's reactions, not merely to each other forsuch reactions are too <strong>of</strong>ten liable to be modified aftermarriage but to outsiders. Such a noviciate, which theCatholic Church wisely regards as necessary before tak<strong>in</strong>gthe veil for the cloister, isequally necessary before tak<strong>in</strong>gthe veil before the altar <strong>of</strong> marriage, whether or not itiscarried so far as actual <strong>sex</strong> relationships.<strong>No</strong>t onlyiscompatibility <strong>of</strong> temperament, which by nomeans <strong>in</strong>volves identity <strong>of</strong> temperament but may even<strong>in</strong>volve the opposite provided there isharmony, called for<strong>in</strong> marriage. A harmony <strong>of</strong> tastes and <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>terests isalso<strong>in</strong> the highest degree desirable. A difference <strong>of</strong> temperamentas <strong>of</strong> extrovert with <strong>in</strong>trovert may be harmoniousand complementary, and much more satisfactory to bothparties than a tendency to identity <strong>of</strong> reaction. But a harmony,not necessarily an identity, <strong>of</strong> tastes and <strong>in</strong>terestsis essential to a complete marriage union. Thus a distastefor music is not easily associated with a devotion to music;a difference <strong>in</strong> politicalideals may not always be overbalancedby <strong>sex</strong>ual compatibility; and where there arepronounced differences <strong>of</strong> religious conviction (such as[271]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXRoman Catholicism and Evangelical Protestantism)marriageshould be def<strong>in</strong>itely discouraged. The wife is todayno longer a purely domestic creature, with no <strong>in</strong>terestsoutside the home, and it is not easy to imag<strong>in</strong>e a satisfactorymarriage <strong>in</strong> which there is no general agreement concern<strong>in</strong>gthe larger movements <strong>of</strong> social life <strong>in</strong> the world,whatever difference there must <strong>in</strong>evitably be concern<strong>in</strong>gmatters <strong>of</strong> method and detail.It must always be remembered that all counsel concern<strong>in</strong>gthe advisability <strong>of</strong> a particular marriage is simply anattempt to foretell someth<strong>in</strong>g which cannot be known beforehandwith certa<strong>in</strong>ty. The couple, especially ifyoung,will not be tomorrow altogether the same as today. AsExner well puts it, "psychologic marriage, marriage as ais an achievement betweencreative personal relationship,mates and is not necessarily entered <strong>in</strong>to at the wedd<strong>in</strong>g."It is <strong>of</strong>ten a very slow achievement, years <strong>of</strong> gradual progressmay be needed before a relationship which can becalled marriage <strong>in</strong> the full and deep sense is reached. Itnever be reached at all.mayThere are many persons who, for some personal reason,cannot be advised to marry. Others for hereditary andeugenic reasons may be permitted to marry but not toprocreate; <strong>in</strong> such cases by far the best method <strong>of</strong> contraceptionis sterilization <strong>of</strong> the husband.BIBLIOGRAPHYMAYO FOUNDATION LECTURES, 1923-4, Our Present Knowledge<strong>of</strong> Heredity.LEONARD DARWIN, Eugenic Reform.K. B. DAVIS, Factors <strong>in</strong> the Sex Life <strong>of</strong> Twenty-two HundredWomen.DICKINSON and LURA BEAM, A Thousand Marriages.MRS. HAVELOCK ELLIS, "A <strong>No</strong>viciate for Marriage," TheNew Horizon <strong>in</strong> Love and Life.


MARRIAGEEXNER, The Sexual Side <strong>of</strong> Marriage.R. L. DICKINSON, Premarital Exam<strong>in</strong>ation.LOPEZ DEL VALLE, "Pre-Marital Medical Exam<strong>in</strong>ation/World's Health, Sept. 1927.Satisfaction <strong>in</strong> MarriageIn old times marriage was regarded as a sacred duty,appo<strong>in</strong>ted div<strong>in</strong>ely or by the State. We do not marry forourselves, said Montaigne. The question <strong>of</strong> satisfactionhardly entered, though it was assumed that happ<strong>in</strong>essattended the fulfillment <strong>of</strong> an orda<strong>in</strong>ed duty, except forpersons who were exceptional and perverse. That was theview sanctified alike by religion and by art; reputablenovels <strong>of</strong> love ended <strong>in</strong> the unquestioned bliss <strong>of</strong> life-longunion, and the Church romantically refused to admit thatthe end could be otherwise. Such a view is now antiquated;real facts, partly because the facts had previously beendisguised, and partly because the conditions now haveit was bound not to be <strong>in</strong> accordance with theactually become more complex. Today many have goneto the opposite extreme <strong>of</strong> op<strong>in</strong>ion and declared that, farfrom yield<strong>in</strong>g life-long bliss, marriage hardly ever leads toeven moderate satisfaction and happ<strong>in</strong>ess."Spiritual disappo<strong>in</strong>tment and physical deprivation becomethe fate <strong>of</strong> most marriages/' declared Freud <strong>in</strong> 1908,and aga<strong>in</strong>, "a girl must be very healthy to 'stand* marriage/*Numberless statements by less em<strong>in</strong>ent writerscould be quoted to the same effect.It is to be noted, however, that all such expressions conveypersonal impressions, which are notoriously liable tobe unreliable <strong>in</strong> scientific matters and are never placed ona statistical basis. Moreover, they do not co<strong>in</strong>cide with thepersonal impression <strong>of</strong> other experienced observers. The


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXevils <strong>of</strong> marriage, as we have known it, alike for husbandand wife and children, however for a large part easily preventable,are frequent and undoubted. Yet, as Exnerpo<strong>in</strong>ts out, there is no need to be unduly pessimisticabout marriage, and there would be still less if societydid not so <strong>of</strong>ten disturb the vision <strong>of</strong> the young and misguidetheir first steps. As the same writer well says, a highrate <strong>of</strong> dissatisfaction is not an unmitigatedevil. It meansa high ideal and a desire to atta<strong>in</strong> it, for marriage is reallyan achievement. That, <strong>in</strong>deed, is a po<strong>in</strong>t <strong>of</strong>ten overlooked.In our civilization, possibly <strong>in</strong> any civilization, marriage<strong>in</strong> any full sense <strong>of</strong> the term cannot be reached at a bound.Consider<strong>in</strong>g the frequent extraord<strong>in</strong>ary ignorance alike <strong>of</strong>self and <strong>of</strong> the partner with which marriageisapproached,it would be strange if true marriage were not difficult toachieve. There are Karen (as Horney puts it), even onthe strictly personal side, at least three aspects o marriage:(i) the physical relationship, (2) the psychic relationship,and (3) what may be called the associational<strong>of</strong> a life encountered <strong>in</strong> common. It is almostrelationship<strong>in</strong>evitable that, with so <strong>in</strong>adequate a preparation, the difficultiesmet are <strong>of</strong>ten but slowly conquered, until f<strong>in</strong>ally,though perhaps after many years, a real and true marriageis atta<strong>in</strong>ed. Even when, as isundoubtedly <strong>of</strong>ten the case,the marriage rema<strong>in</strong>s imperfect, we f<strong>in</strong>d on deeper <strong>in</strong>sight,<strong>in</strong> most cases, that many compensations have beenachieved. In no field more than <strong>in</strong> marriage does theEmersonian doctr<strong>in</strong>e <strong>of</strong> compensation hold good.To obta<strong>in</strong> a fairly clear vision <strong>of</strong> the facts a methodical<strong>in</strong>vestigation over a wide field is necessary. Even then anonly fa<strong>in</strong>tly approximate result is possible. Many peopleare unwill<strong>in</strong>g to admit, even to themselves, still less toothers, that marriage is for them a failure. Others, on thecontrary, <strong>in</strong> the thick <strong>of</strong> the <strong>in</strong>evitable little worries and[*74]


MARRIAGEirritations <strong>of</strong> marriage, lose sight <strong>of</strong> the central facts whichcan only be seen when one stands some way <strong>of</strong>f and looksat one's life as a whole; they are temptedto admit a failurewhere at another moment they would claim a greatsuccess. There is a yet more fundamental source <strong>of</strong> difficulty.So few peopleare aware <strong>of</strong> the nature <strong>of</strong> the satisfactionthat may reasonably be found <strong>in</strong> marriage. Theyfail to realize that marriage is but life <strong>in</strong> m<strong>in</strong>iature, andthat if married life were all easy and all pleasant, it wouldbe but a feeble image <strong>of</strong> the world and would fail to yieldthe deepest satisfaction that the world can give to thosewho have drunk deeply <strong>of</strong> life.We must, therefore, at least make the attempt to putthe question on a statistical basis, even though we cannotsecure an absolutely precise answer. Kathar<strong>in</strong>e Davis,assum<strong>in</strong>g (though the statement may need some qualification)that "the <strong>sex</strong> relationship <strong>in</strong>disputably plays themajor part" <strong>in</strong> marriage, found that among one thousandpresumably normal married women 872unequivocallyaffirmed that their married lives were happy; 116 wereeither partially or totally unhappy, <strong>in</strong>compatibility be<strong>in</strong>gthe chief cause; only 12 failed to answer.Dick<strong>in</strong>son, among his gynecological patients who cannotbe assumed to be so normal as Kathar<strong>in</strong>e Davis's subjects,found a somewhat smaller proportion <strong>of</strong> satisfiedwomen; he concludes that 3 <strong>in</strong> 5 among one thousandpatients were "adjusted," <strong>in</strong> the sense <strong>of</strong> be<strong>in</strong>g at least"without compla<strong>in</strong>t" <strong>of</strong> their married life. In compositionthe two groups <strong>of</strong> "adjusted" and "maladjusted" were notmarkedly different; they were <strong>of</strong> similar social and economicstatus; at some period about two-thirds <strong>in</strong> both<strong>of</strong> auto-eroticclasses had had considerable experiencepractices; the adjusted were slightly more fertile than theother group; but the chief general difference seems to be


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXthat the outlook on life <strong>of</strong> the adjusted was more objectivethan that <strong>of</strong> the maladjusted; they were less self-centeredand less troubled by mental conflicts. Yet he found a maladjustedgroup <strong>of</strong> one hundred wives "socially normal,"with ''better than the average educational and economicstandard/' and <strong>in</strong> typical cases they were f<strong>in</strong>e, well-dressed,sometimes beautiful or bra<strong>in</strong>y women; 13 <strong>of</strong> them haddef<strong>in</strong>itely undesirable characters, and 19 came near to"pr<strong>of</strong>ound total disturbance/' They do not, however,greatly vary from the adjusted group <strong>in</strong> social and educationalstand<strong>in</strong>g or <strong>in</strong> health, while the general externals<strong>of</strong> personality and environment are the same. The prevalence<strong>of</strong> auto-erotic practices before marriage had beenalmost the same, and <strong>sex</strong> was by no means always the beg<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g<strong>of</strong> the maladjustment, which was <strong>of</strong>ten due to<strong>in</strong>compatibility. The chief difference <strong>in</strong> the groups wasthe presence or absence <strong>of</strong> "mental conflict." We see here<strong>in</strong>structively how complexis <strong>of</strong>ten this question <strong>of</strong>"adjustment."G. V. Hamilton among his smaller number <strong>of</strong> subjects,but <strong>of</strong> both <strong>sex</strong>es and all presumably normal, one hundredmarried men and one hundred married women,made a most elaborate <strong>in</strong>vestigation <strong>in</strong>to their degree <strong>of</strong>satisfaction <strong>in</strong> marriage, with fourteen grades <strong>of</strong> happ<strong>in</strong>ess,accord<strong>in</strong>g to the number <strong>of</strong> po<strong>in</strong>ts to be assigned toeach person. He found that husbands are def<strong>in</strong>itely moresatisfied with marriage than are wives. In the highestgrades (7 to 14) there were 51 men and only 45 women,leav<strong>in</strong>g 49 men but 55 women <strong>in</strong> the lower grades <strong>of</strong>satisfaction. Hamilton states that the result correspondswith his def<strong>in</strong>ite impression from personal contact that"the women, taken as a whole, had been more seriouslydisappo<strong>in</strong>ted with their marriages than had the men/'It cannot be said that this conclusion should cause sur-[276]


MARRIAGEprise and it seems to agree with my own experience. Tosome extent it lies <strong>in</strong> the relationship <strong>of</strong> the two <strong>sex</strong>es tomarriage. To a woman marriage means more than toman, because <strong>in</strong> the care <strong>of</strong> husband and child and householdit necessarily absorbs a larger part <strong>of</strong> her be<strong>in</strong>g, sothat if there is a sense <strong>of</strong> disappo<strong>in</strong>tment that disappo<strong>in</strong>tmentis more serious. A man is more detached from homeand family because his life is usuallyso much outside.Home occupies a smaller section <strong>of</strong> his field <strong>of</strong> activity;it constitutes a haven <strong>of</strong> rest. A woman, on the other hand,must <strong>of</strong>ten feel that marriage is her whole life, and deeperproblems are thus stirred with<strong>in</strong> her. This br<strong>in</strong>gs us toDick<strong>in</strong>son's significant observation that the ma<strong>in</strong> differencebetween the adjusted wives and the maladjustedwives is that the former are more objective, and lesstroubled by mental conflicts. They are, <strong>in</strong> other words,more like the average husbands.But the discontent with marriage which we so <strong>of</strong>tenf<strong>in</strong>d among wives, even though more or less below thesurface, has a real foundation. It is associated with thenew and larger claims on life which the women <strong>of</strong> recentgenerations have more and more taken, not content liketheir mothers to accept as natural and <strong>in</strong>evitable the predom<strong>in</strong>ance<strong>of</strong> men and their own place <strong>of</strong> subjection. Thereligious and social aspects <strong>of</strong> the world have changed forwomen without <strong>in</strong> any correspond<strong>in</strong>g degree chang<strong>in</strong>g formen, because the change has for women been <strong>in</strong> largemeasure socially recognized and legally registered. Thebut little. So that when atraditions <strong>of</strong> men have changedwoman enters marriage she isapt to become aware <strong>of</strong> adiscrepancy which tends to become a mental conflictwith<strong>in</strong> herself. There are many women old-fashionedromantically m<strong>in</strong>ded women brought up away from menas well as more modern girls who realize even dur<strong>in</strong>g thea


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXfor thehoneymoon the nature <strong>of</strong> man and <strong>of</strong> marriagefirst time and acquire a dissatisfaction which may neverbe entirely outgrown.There is, as I have <strong>in</strong>dicated, a stilldeeper ground forthisdiscontent with marriage. The changes <strong>in</strong> the externalorder <strong>of</strong> marriage dur<strong>in</strong>g recent times have too <strong>of</strong>tenleft out <strong>of</strong> sight the fundamental facts <strong>of</strong> the relationship<strong>of</strong> marriage. They have concentrated attention on its moreexternal features and they have made itappear that happ<strong>in</strong>ess<strong>in</strong> marriage depends on an easy readjustment <strong>of</strong>the external order. Above all, they have tended to put out<strong>of</strong> sight the fact, much better realized <strong>in</strong> old days, thatsuch a relationship, penetrat<strong>in</strong>g so deeply <strong>in</strong>to the spirit,can never be save for the most shallow-spirited personswithout difficulty and trouble. The old conception <strong>of</strong> the<strong>in</strong>evitable pa<strong>in</strong>s <strong>of</strong> marriage is out <strong>of</strong> date. But they rema<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong> new shapes and are <strong>of</strong> the nature <strong>of</strong> the relationship.Divorce may be no cure at all, even when we admitthat there should be the greatest possible freedom fordivorce. We constantly see people who divorce but are noIt is not marriage that washappier <strong>in</strong> a second marriage.wrong; it was themselves that were wrong. Count Keyserl<strong>in</strong>g,<strong>in</strong> a subtle and penetrat<strong>in</strong>g analysis <strong>of</strong> the marriageproblem, describes marriage as "an <strong>in</strong>terpolar tension";there is a unity constituted by two foci: the two are heldtogether by a tension "a tragic tension" he elsewherecalls it which cannot be abolished if the relationshipisto rema<strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong>tact. Such a relationshipis a symbol<strong>of</strong> lifeitself, and, as <strong>in</strong> life generally, it is essential to its joy. Sothat no ascetic emphasis on pa<strong>in</strong> or trouble for their ownsake ishere implied. As the poet-prophet Kahlil Gibranaga<strong>in</strong> and aga<strong>in</strong> asserts, joy and sorrow are <strong>in</strong>separable."Is not the cup that holds your w<strong>in</strong>e the very pot that wasburned <strong>in</strong> the potter's oven?" Long before that was said[278]


MARRIAGEthe wise Montaigne, <strong>in</strong> the essay "On some l<strong>in</strong>es <strong>of</strong> Virgil"which conta<strong>in</strong>s so many memorable say<strong>in</strong>gs, had recalledthe fact that the same muscles with which we weepare those with which we laugh.BIBLIOGRAPHYR. L. DICKINSON and LURA BEAM, A Thousand Marriages.G. V. HAMILTON, A Research <strong>in</strong> Marriage.K. B. DAVIS, Factors <strong>in</strong> the Sex Life <strong>of</strong> Twenty-two HundredWomen.EXNER, The Sexual Side <strong>of</strong> Marriage.HAVELOCK ELLIS, "The History <strong>of</strong> Marriage/' Vol. VII <strong>of</strong>Studies <strong>in</strong> the <strong>Psychology</strong> <strong>of</strong> Sex and Little Essays <strong>of</strong>Love and Virtue.COUNT KEYSERLING, "Correct Statement <strong>of</strong> Marriage Problem,"<strong>in</strong> The Book <strong>of</strong> Marriage.The Monogamic StandardUntil modern times monogamy has been regarded asthe only legitimate form <strong>of</strong> marriage for our Westerncivilization. Indeed that has for the most part beenassumed and taken for granted without discussion; anyexceptional person who disputed this dogma, or even discussedit, was regarded, and usually <strong>in</strong> fact was, a crank,a negligible eccentric, if not someth<strong>in</strong>g much worse.Today the question <strong>of</strong> the form <strong>of</strong> marriage cannot thusbe taken for granted and dismissed, as a matter that hasfor ever been fixed by religious, ethical, legal, and socialregulations. Those who discuss it are no longer alwaysnegligible persons. So that any one who now concerns himselfwith the psychology <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> must be prepared to holdan op<strong>in</strong>ion on <strong>sex</strong> relationships <strong>in</strong> regard to monogamy.As a pioneer <strong>in</strong> the movement to br<strong>in</strong>g our monogamicmarriage system <strong>in</strong>to the field <strong>of</strong> discussion we may well[279]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXregard James H<strong>in</strong>ton. It was half a century and more ago,though his arguments on the matter were not clearly publishedto the world until some forty years later. H<strong>in</strong>tondelayed any full public presentation <strong>of</strong> his criticism <strong>of</strong>Western monogamy until he had mastered the subject,and before then he died. He was not a man who could beput aside as abnormal or eccentric. He was a dist<strong>in</strong>guishedLondon physician and a philosophic th<strong>in</strong>ker as well, <strong>in</strong>close touch with the scientific activities <strong>of</strong> his day, widely<strong>in</strong>terested <strong>in</strong> general social questions, and <strong>in</strong> daily contactwith life. The masses <strong>of</strong> manuscript he left beh<strong>in</strong>d areshapeless and unsystematic, but have made it possible togather the general drift <strong>of</strong> his criticisms <strong>of</strong> monogamyand the conventional social systemassociated with it. Heconsidered that no real monogamy existed, and that <strong>in</strong>Western Society, as he knew it, there are fewer men whoare genu<strong>in</strong>ely monogamic than are to be found <strong>in</strong> Easternpolygamic societies. Monogamy, as established, is, he held,an essentially selfish and unsocial <strong>in</strong>stitution, and is responsiblefor prostitution. We arrived at ittoo soon, forit is a mistake to convert an ideal, however good, prematurely<strong>in</strong>to a universal legal form. The result has beenthat, though ostensibly exist<strong>in</strong>g to avert licentiousness, ithas called out more license than a polygynywould haveled to. So it seemed to him that our marriage system isrotten,and rapidly break<strong>in</strong>g up. What we need, he believed,isa fluid order <strong>in</strong> our <strong>sex</strong> system, not rigid andseemed desirable,unmodifiable, but permitt<strong>in</strong>g, when itthe union <strong>of</strong> one man with two women, though alwaysleav<strong>in</strong>g the order adjustableservice.to the claims <strong>of</strong> humanIn more recent days, a rather similar thesis, though<strong>of</strong>ten on different grounds and seldom or ever with thesame concentrated <strong>in</strong>tensity as by H<strong>in</strong>ton, has been put


MARRIAGEforward from time to time. Simultaneously,it must beadded, our marriage system actually has undergone modifications.If we compareits state today with the conditions<strong>in</strong> H<strong>in</strong>ton's time, many changes may be observed,and <strong>of</strong>ten <strong>in</strong> the direction he desired. Divorce is easier;women have ga<strong>in</strong>ed greater legal and social <strong>in</strong>dependence;illegitimacy is viewed with somewhat less severity, themethods <strong>of</strong> birth control have become widely known, and<strong>in</strong> all civilized coun-greater freedom between the <strong>sex</strong>es istries admitted.At the same time, <strong>in</strong> the exact and precisesense <strong>of</strong> theterm, monogamy is today as firmlyestablished as it hasever been, and even more so. By impart<strong>in</strong>g to it a greaterflexibility we to a considerable extent relieve it <strong>of</strong> theabuses to which <strong>in</strong> the former more rigid form it wassubject.Confusion has been <strong>in</strong>troduced, it must be made clear,by us<strong>in</strong>g the word "monogamy" <strong>in</strong> the wrong sense. Itis, for <strong>in</strong>stance, common to say that one <strong>sex</strong> is more"monogamic" than the other <strong>sex</strong>, especiallythat men are"polygarnic" while women are "monogamic." Strictlyspeak<strong>in</strong>g, such statements are mean<strong>in</strong>gless. At the outsetit is obvious that s<strong>in</strong>ce the <strong>sex</strong>es are born nearly equal<strong>in</strong> number (with at the start a preponderance <strong>of</strong> males)the natural order <strong>in</strong> a civilized society cannot work outas two wives for every male, and <strong>in</strong> the societies whichrecognize polygamy it is only practiced by a small wealthyclass. But it is <strong>in</strong>correct to assert that <strong>in</strong> our civilizationmen (rare exceptions aside) ever desire two wives,whether <strong>in</strong> the same home or <strong>in</strong> separate homes; thereare various considerations <strong>of</strong> different orders which makesuch an arrangement undesirable for the majority <strong>of</strong>men; while, for a woman, to carry on two families, with[281]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXseparate fathers, is still more impracticable;she is necessarily"monogamic."In fact, that is the wrong word to use. The people whodiscuss whether men are more "polygamic" than women,really mean more poly-erotic.That is to say, not whetherbut more <strong>sex</strong>ual freedom. Tothey desire more marriagessay that a man is monogamic still leaves open the question<strong>of</strong> whether he is mono-erotic or poly-erotic,and if itis decided that he is poly-erotic, that by no means implieseither that he ispolygamic, or that he is promiscuous,which <strong>in</strong>volves <strong>in</strong>discrim<strong>in</strong>ate <strong>sex</strong>ual attraction withoutselection, a state <strong>of</strong> th<strong>in</strong>gs not found, save occasionally <strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>sanity. Much confused and futile discussion has beencaused by this ignorant misuse <strong>of</strong> terms.It would seem that most persons, women as well as men,are monogamic and poly-erotic. That is to say they onlydesire one permanent marriage, but they do not f<strong>in</strong>d thatthat relationship stands <strong>in</strong> the way <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual attraction toone or more other persons, though the attraction thusaroused may be felt to be <strong>of</strong> a different nature to thatexperienced for the permanent partner, and it may provequite possible to hold such attractions more or less <strong>in</strong>control. There appears to be no <strong>sex</strong>ual difference <strong>in</strong> thismatter. Women are fully as well able as men to experienceaffection for more than one person <strong>of</strong> the opposite <strong>sex</strong>,though on account <strong>of</strong> the deeper significance <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> forwomen they may be <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ctively more fastidious thanmen <strong>in</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual choice, and on account <strong>of</strong> social and otherconsiderations more reticent and cautious than men <strong>in</strong>manifest<strong>in</strong>g or <strong>in</strong> yield<strong>in</strong>g to their affections.While, however, this seems the most frequent type <strong>of</strong><strong>sex</strong>ual attraction, there are other types and endless <strong>in</strong>dividualvariations. We must not assume that one special type<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual pattern is <strong>in</strong>variably <strong>of</strong> higher moral character


MARRIAGEand social value than the other types* Blonsky <strong>in</strong> SovietRussia has discussed the two chief types <strong>of</strong> women (ma<strong>in</strong>lyamong teachers) which he terms the monandric and thewith one man and the other who tends to formpolyandric types, the first only drawn <strong>in</strong>to serious relationshipnumerous relationships with men, either successively orsimultaneously, though <strong>of</strong> course there are <strong>in</strong>termediategroups between the two marked types. Blonsky f<strong>in</strong>ds thatthe monandric woman, not only <strong>in</strong>dividually but socially,tends to be superior to the polyandric woman, who ismore egoistic and assertive and more liable to unduenervosity, while the monandric women, who are twice asnumerous, are more devoted to duty, better balanced,more capable organizers and more successful <strong>in</strong> social contacts.These conclusions <strong>of</strong> Blonsky's doubtless have truthfor the average, outside as well as <strong>in</strong>side Russia, but wemust beware <strong>of</strong> generaliz<strong>in</strong>g too positively,and there arewomen <strong>of</strong> polyandric type for whom far more is to be saidthan Blonsky seems will<strong>in</strong>g to admit. Exactly the sameconclusions may be applied to men.This is not a matter <strong>in</strong> which we are called upon to giveadvice. In matters <strong>of</strong> social morality, <strong>in</strong>dividuals arebound to take the responsibility for their own actions.But it is desirable for the psychologist to be able to view<strong>in</strong>telligently the psychic reaction occurr<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> the communities<strong>of</strong> today <strong>in</strong> which he lives. In this matter weundoubtedly witness a process <strong>of</strong> change, thoughit isalarmists would make itmuch less extreme than manyout to be.The "polygamy" which some people view today withconsternation is mostly, as some one has improperly termedit, merely a "consecutive polygamy/' due to an <strong>in</strong>creasedtendency to divorce. That is to say, it is simply an enlargement<strong>of</strong> the familiar monogamy. For the rest it is a recog-[283]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXnition <strong>of</strong> the claim <strong>of</strong> variety <strong>in</strong> erotic affection. Everyman and every woman, however monogamic where thecentral affections are concerned, iscapable <strong>of</strong> a more orless erotically colored affection for other persons,as werecognize today more frankly than it has been recognized<strong>in</strong> the past. The adjustments thus rendered necessary callfor a generous and large-hearted understand<strong>in</strong>g on thepart <strong>of</strong> all the persons concerned, with mutual consideration,an equable sense <strong>of</strong> justice,and the conquest <strong>of</strong>those vestiges <strong>of</strong> primitive jealousy without which nowholesome civilized life can harmoniously be carried on.But marriage <strong>in</strong> its ma<strong>in</strong> l<strong>in</strong>es rema<strong>in</strong>s today, and islikely to rema<strong>in</strong>, <strong>in</strong> the same form as we have alwaysknown it. To give it greater flexibility, to br<strong>in</strong>g to it af<strong>in</strong>er <strong>in</strong>telligence, and to accord a greater sympathyto itsvary<strong>in</strong>g needs, so far from destroy<strong>in</strong>g it, is to imparta firmer stability.to itMarriage, we must never forget as too <strong>of</strong>ten happensis more than an erotic union. To the truly "ideal"marriage there goes not only an erotic harmony, but aunion <strong>of</strong> many-sided and ever deepen<strong>in</strong>g non-erotic affection,a community <strong>of</strong> tastes and feel<strong>in</strong>gs and <strong>in</strong>terests, alife <strong>in</strong> common, a probability <strong>of</strong> shared parenthood, and<strong>of</strong>ten an economic unity. The erotic element tends tobecome lessprom<strong>in</strong>ent as the marriage <strong>in</strong> other respectsbecomes a closer bond. It may even disappear altogetherand the marriage rema<strong>in</strong> unshakeably firm <strong>in</strong> mutualdevotion.BIBLIOGRAPHYWESTERMARCK, The History <strong>of</strong> Human Marriage.HAVELOCK ELLIS, Studies <strong>in</strong>the <strong>Psychology</strong> <strong>of</strong> Sex, Vols.VI and VII.HAVELOCK ELLIS, Little Essays <strong>of</strong> Love and Virtue andMore Essays <strong>of</strong> Love and Virtue.


MARRIAGEV. F. CALVERTON, The Bankruptcy <strong>of</strong> Marriage.MRS. HAVELOCK ELLIS, James H<strong>in</strong>ton: A Sketch.The Control <strong>of</strong> ProcreationKeyserl<strong>in</strong>g has remarked that those who are not ableto accept the relationship <strong>of</strong> marriage <strong>in</strong> its fundamentalsense would be well advised to avoid marriage and adoptsome other form <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual relationship.Apart from that solution, however, there is one po<strong>in</strong>twhich must nowadays always be held <strong>in</strong> m<strong>in</strong>d when weare consider<strong>in</strong>g marriage from the eugenic standpo<strong>in</strong>t <strong>in</strong>relation to the probable quality <strong>of</strong> the <strong>of</strong>fspr<strong>in</strong>g. Formerlymarriage and procreation were one and <strong>in</strong> aim<strong>in</strong>divisible. To recommend marriage meant to permitprocreation; to advise aga<strong>in</strong>st procreation meant to prohibitmarriage, and permanently to impair the happ<strong>in</strong>ess<strong>of</strong> the lives thus condemned to solitude, as well as <strong>in</strong>directlyto encourage prostitution or other undesirablemethods <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual relief. This necessity no longer existsamong the educated classes <strong>in</strong> any civilized country. Contraception,the use <strong>of</strong> a variety <strong>of</strong> methods to permit<strong>in</strong>tercourse while avoid<strong>in</strong>g conception whether or notit receives formal public approval has become so generalthat the discussion <strong>of</strong> its desirability no longer subservesany useful purpose. It exists on a large scale even <strong>in</strong> countrieswhere the law forbids its dissem<strong>in</strong>ation, and evenamong the adherents <strong>of</strong> creeds which disapprove <strong>of</strong> it.Thus we have nowadays to dist<strong>in</strong>guish between thedesirability <strong>of</strong> marriage and the desirability <strong>of</strong> procreation,the latter question <strong>in</strong>volv<strong>in</strong>g not only regard to theprobable <strong>in</strong>terests <strong>of</strong> the couple themselves, especially thewife, but also to the probable <strong>in</strong>terests <strong>of</strong> the <strong>of</strong>fspr<strong>in</strong>g.It is an undoubted advantage to be able to deal separately[285]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXwith the issues <strong>in</strong>volved. <strong>No</strong>r can it even be said that anyrevolutionary change has hereby taken place.It has longbeen customary <strong>in</strong> certa<strong>in</strong> serious eventualities to enjo<strong>in</strong>abst<strong>in</strong>ence from procreation for the future. It is only onestep further to utter this <strong>in</strong>junctionat the outset <strong>of</strong> marriage.It is well known that neuropathic persons tend tobe attracted to each other. This is part <strong>of</strong> a general tendency<strong>of</strong> people to be attracted to their like, now knownto prevail over the attraction to opposites, which was onceis moreimag<strong>in</strong>ed to be the rule; homogamy, that is to say,prevalent than heterogamy. The crav<strong>in</strong>g for opposite qualitiesis conf<strong>in</strong>ed to the sphere <strong>of</strong> the secondary <strong>sex</strong>ualcharacters, a very mascul<strong>in</strong>e man be<strong>in</strong>g attracted to a veryfem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>e woman and vice versa, but it fails, as a generalrule, to extend beyond that sphere.This fact has a bear<strong>in</strong>g on the advice we may be calledupon to give to neuropathic persons who contemplatemarriage. Sensitive, <strong>in</strong>telligent, ref<strong>in</strong>ed, as such a person<strong>of</strong>ten is, the neuropath f<strong>in</strong>ds an answer<strong>in</strong>g sympathy <strong>in</strong> afellow neuropath, while the healthy normal person mayseem irritat<strong>in</strong>gly dull and <strong>in</strong>sipid. In the same way thenormal person f<strong>in</strong>ds the morbid and capricious temperament<strong>of</strong> the neuropath uncomfortable and unattractive.It is, therefore, somewhat futile to adopt the commonadvice furnished by the text-books that the neuropathshould marry, if at all, a robustly normal person, withsound heredity. The advice is not even theoretically correctwhen we bear Mendelian conditions <strong>in</strong> m<strong>in</strong>d. Butit is unpractical because it overlooks the fact that theaff<strong>in</strong>ity between the normal and the morbid isnot strongand that the chances <strong>of</strong> such a union prov<strong>in</strong>g satisfactoryare not large. These chances are not considerable even <strong>in</strong>the case <strong>of</strong> two pronounced neuropathic people whomarry each other, and such people may well be advised[286]


MARRIAGEnot to marry at all, alike for the sake <strong>of</strong> themselves and<strong>of</strong> their partners, however difficult the problem <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ualgratification may be to them <strong>in</strong> the unmarried state; thereasons aga<strong>in</strong>st marriage <strong>in</strong> the case <strong>of</strong> such persons becomeall the more emphaticif there is a highly developed<strong>sex</strong>ual deviation which the partner may not be able togratify. But for the milder neuropathic cases these objectionshave less force, while the attraction is <strong>of</strong>ten so strongthat oppos<strong>in</strong>g advice has but a small chance <strong>of</strong> be<strong>in</strong>gaccepted. In such cases the necessity <strong>of</strong> dist<strong>in</strong>guish<strong>in</strong>gbetween procreation and marriage becomes str<strong>in</strong>gent.The necessity <strong>of</strong> birth control is now generally recognized,not only by those who do not desire to have childrenbut by those who do. The reason is that, both forthe sake <strong>of</strong> the mother and for the health and well-be<strong>in</strong>g<strong>of</strong> the <strong>of</strong>fspr<strong>in</strong>g, it is desirable that births should be properlyspaced, allow<strong>in</strong>g at the least an <strong>in</strong>terval <strong>of</strong> two yearsbetween births, while there are various legitimate reasons,economic or other, why those who marry early do not seetheir way to become parents immediately. The child,therefore, however much desired, should come at a timewhen the parents are best able to receive it and to carefor it. Moreover, the day <strong>of</strong> large families is over. Alikefor the sake <strong>of</strong> the family, and for the <strong>in</strong>terests <strong>of</strong> thenation and the race, an average <strong>of</strong> between two and threefor each married couple suffices, and under the hygienicconditions <strong>of</strong> civilization isample to keep up the number<strong>of</strong> the population. When, for any good reason, such asthe health <strong>of</strong> the mother or the existence <strong>in</strong> either parent<strong>of</strong> a bad heredity which should not be carried on, conceptioncannot be allowed, then strict birth control iscompulsory.We are not here concerned with methods <strong>of</strong> birth control.The literature <strong>of</strong> this subject[287]is now extensive,


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXthough there is still dispute regard<strong>in</strong>g the best methods,and even the best (sterilization apart), whichever theymay be, are not always reliable. Fortunately birth controlcl<strong>in</strong>ics are ris<strong>in</strong>g up rapidly<strong>in</strong> various countries, and heremay be obta<strong>in</strong>ed practical help and advice, to the absence<strong>of</strong> which failure is <strong>of</strong>ten due among those who possessimperfect knowledge, though even with the best knowledgeit is frequently difficult to ma<strong>in</strong>ta<strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong>variably thecare necessary for success. It is true that the most ancientand common <strong>of</strong> all methods <strong>of</strong> contraception, coitus <strong>in</strong>terruptus,or the method <strong>of</strong> Onan, requires no appliancesand is practiced without advice; and it is fairly certa<strong>in</strong>.But though not so generally harmful as is sometimes supposed,it is frequently unsatisfactory, for <strong>in</strong> most men it<strong>in</strong>volves undue haste, which isunpleasant for the husbandand apt to be <strong>in</strong>adequate for the wife who may needsatisfaction afterwards.A common problemis <strong>in</strong>deed presented by <strong>in</strong>terruptedcoitus. This practice is held by the best authorities to bethe commonest <strong>of</strong> allmethods <strong>of</strong> preventive <strong>in</strong>tercourse.It is also no doubt the most ancient and is referred to <strong>in</strong>the book <strong>of</strong> Genesis as be<strong>in</strong>g adopted by Onan <strong>in</strong> orderto avoid conception. Its popularity is due to its simplicity;it requires no forethought or preparation and it costsnoth<strong>in</strong>g. But there can be no doubt that, <strong>in</strong> relation tothe well-be<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> the nervous system, the practice is sometimesopen to question. It is quite true that <strong>in</strong> deal<strong>in</strong>gwith a practice so extremely prevalent, it is not enoughto say that it is <strong>of</strong>ten found <strong>in</strong>jurious. But it is clear that,<strong>in</strong> a certa<strong>in</strong> proportion <strong>of</strong> cases, whether a large or asmall proportion,various m<strong>in</strong>or nervous conditions, <strong>in</strong>dicat<strong>in</strong>gnervous irritability,<strong>in</strong> the woman, the man, orboth, seem to be traceable to <strong>in</strong>terrupted <strong>in</strong>tercourse. It iseasily <strong>in</strong>telligible that this should be specially so as regards[288]


MARRIAGEwomen. Husbands do not always display the considerationnecessary to ensure orgasm <strong>in</strong> their wives, and s<strong>in</strong>ceorgasm is normally slower <strong>in</strong> women than <strong>in</strong> men it isobvious that, <strong>in</strong> the absence <strong>of</strong> such consideration, withdrawalmust frequently take place before the orgasm hasoccurred <strong>in</strong> the wife, who isthus left <strong>in</strong> a state <strong>of</strong> acutenervous dissatisfaction and irritability. But the anxiousapprehension and attention to his own state <strong>in</strong>volved onthe husband's part by premature withdrawal and the jarcaused by the sudden break<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong>f <strong>of</strong> the act at its culm<strong>in</strong>at<strong>in</strong>gmoment cannot fail sometimes to be <strong>in</strong>juriousto him. It is necessary to be alive to the possible existence<strong>of</strong> this practice, and to suspend it if the symptoms seemto depend on it. For a large number <strong>of</strong> people, there canbe no doubt, <strong>in</strong>terrupted coitus is unsuited and shouldgive place to some better method <strong>of</strong> preventive <strong>in</strong>tercourse.Interrupted <strong>in</strong>tercourse should not be persisted <strong>in</strong>unless it can be so carried out, by mutual sympathy andcooperation, that no shock or apprehension is caused tothe husband, and that the wife receives due satisfaction;the latter po<strong>in</strong>t may be achieved by delay<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>tercourseuntil tumescense is well advanced and she is approach<strong>in</strong>gthe orgasm.The opposite practice <strong>of</strong> prolonged or reserved coitus,with or without ultimate orgasm, has nowadays numerousadvocates and a considerable body <strong>of</strong> practical adherents,not so many as <strong>in</strong>terrupted coitus because it is less easyto carry out. It was the ord<strong>in</strong>ary practice <strong>of</strong> the OneidaCommunity, and was later advocated <strong>in</strong> Dr. Alice Stockham'swell-known book, Karezza. There can be no doubtthat prolonged <strong>in</strong>tercourse is highly agreeablewoman partner, and without the slightest evil results;to theshe is left entirely free and is not precluded from experienc<strong>in</strong>gthe orgasm at its own good time. All women wh<strong>of</strong>or


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXhave had experience <strong>of</strong> this method seem to approve <strong>of</strong> it.Some doubts, however, have been expressed as to itseffects on the men who practiceit. There is reason toth<strong>in</strong>k that <strong>in</strong> some cases greatly prolonged coitus may producesome <strong>of</strong> the same nervous results, though usually <strong>in</strong>a milder degree, as <strong>in</strong>terrupted coitus. But <strong>in</strong> a large proportion<strong>of</strong> cases this is certa<strong>in</strong>ly not the case. The practiceis not usually easy except for men with sound and wellbalancednervous systems, and such persons do not usuallyseem to be conscious <strong>of</strong> any evil results from the practice,provided <strong>of</strong> course that it is not carried to excess.When contraceptionfails either ow<strong>in</strong>g to carelessnessor the use <strong>of</strong> an unsuitable method a serious situationmay sometimes arise. But there is noth<strong>in</strong>g to be done. Itis still a crim<strong>in</strong>al <strong>of</strong>fense to aid a woman to procure abortionfor personal, social,or even eugenic considerations.Women seldom understand this illegality, and cannot understandwhy, if poor, they are compelled to take <strong>in</strong>juriousdrugs <strong>in</strong> va<strong>in</strong>, or, if better <strong>of</strong>f, be obliged (if English) togo abroad for the operation. When women have more<strong>in</strong>fluence than at present <strong>in</strong> effect<strong>in</strong>g legislative changesthere can be no doubt that the legal prohibition <strong>of</strong> abortion,which is based on grounds that are now antiquated,will be modified. And it will become clearly establishedthat this is a personal question with which the law is notentitled to <strong>in</strong>terfere. If <strong>in</strong>advisable, it is for the doctor,not the policeman, to <strong>of</strong>fer an op<strong>in</strong>ion. There is alreadya movement <strong>in</strong> this direction <strong>in</strong> various countries, and<strong>in</strong> Soviet Russia, although abortion isiscarried out with due medical precautions <strong>in</strong> the hospi-pend<strong>in</strong>g a more widespread popular enlightenmenttals,not encourageditwith extended facilities for contraception.The prevention <strong>of</strong> conception <strong>in</strong>volves so much careand precaution that <strong>of</strong> recent years an alternative and


MARRIAGEmore reliable method <strong>of</strong> atta<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g that end has receivedan <strong>in</strong>creased degree <strong>of</strong> favor: the method <strong>of</strong> sterilization.Bythis method all risks are elim<strong>in</strong>ated. It can now beeffected, simply and harmlessly, without removal <strong>of</strong> the<strong>sex</strong>ual glands, by vasectomy <strong>in</strong> men and ligature and section<strong>of</strong> the Fallopian tubes <strong>in</strong> women. As a method <strong>of</strong>treat<strong>in</strong>g any psychic condition its value is dubious, and<strong>in</strong> itsifperformed compulsorily it may be perniciousmental effects; but, adopted voluntarily, as a method <strong>of</strong>prevent<strong>in</strong>g conception, its advantages seem to be great,while it abolishes the need for those preventive precautionswhich most people, quite legitimately, regard withdisfavor.* It is scarcely necessary to add that sterilization,be<strong>in</strong>g a permanent contraceptive measure, should not beadopted without due consideration.It is sometimes imag<strong>in</strong>ed, even by medical men, thatsterilization is at present illegal. There is no sound groundfor this belief. The Eugenics Society has <strong>in</strong> Englandattempted to put forward a Parliamentary Bill to furthersterilization, not, however (assome have supposed) tomake it legal (for it is already carried out) but to br<strong>in</strong>g,its benefits with<strong>in</strong> the reach <strong>of</strong> defectives and among thepoorer class. The benefits have sometimes been questioned,even, it must be said with regret, <strong>in</strong> the medicalpr<strong>of</strong>ession.But there can be no reasonable doubt that,whatever the exact proportion<strong>of</strong> defective children born<strong>of</strong> defective parents,sterilization would here be personsonally,socially, and eugenically helpful, althoughit could* In one <strong>of</strong> the earliest cases known to me, an American p&ysician, <strong>in</strong>good health and with a family <strong>of</strong> several children which he had nowish to <strong>in</strong>crease, submitted to vasectomy <strong>in</strong> order to avoid the .rout<strong>in</strong>e<strong>of</strong> preventive precautions which was repugnant to himself and his wife.The pa<strong>in</strong> and discomfort <strong>of</strong> the operation were not sufficient to <strong>in</strong>terferewith his ord<strong>in</strong>ary <strong>of</strong>fice work, and the result proved entirely satisfactoryto both partners. It rema<strong>in</strong>ed so several years later,when lastheard <strong>of</strong>. There was no loss <strong>of</strong> potency or <strong>of</strong> desire. This case maynow be regarded as fairly typical.


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXnot be possible <strong>in</strong> this way to elim<strong>in</strong>ate the mentally unfitelement <strong>in</strong> the population.It would only be a beg<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g.In regard to this subject there is still much need forthe spread <strong>of</strong> enlightenment.An equally common problemispresented with regardto the frequency <strong>of</strong> coitus. Very widely divergent viewsare dogmatically set forth on this po<strong>in</strong>t. Some personsconsider it normal and necessary to have <strong>in</strong>tercourse everynight, and they cont<strong>in</strong>ue this practice for many years withno obvious bad results. Others assert that <strong>in</strong>tercourseshould never be practiced except for the end <strong>of</strong> procreation,which might mean only two or three times <strong>in</strong> a lifetime,and they argue that such a practiceis alone naturaland moral. It is undoubtedly true that this is the only end<strong>in</strong> the <strong>in</strong>tercourse <strong>of</strong> animals, but <strong>in</strong> determ<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g what isnatural for man we are not entitled to consider the practice<strong>of</strong> the animals belong<strong>in</strong>g to remote genera. We haveto consider the general practice<strong>of</strong> the human specieswhich by no means shows so narrowly exclusive an aim<strong>in</strong> procreation, although unspoiled uncivilized peoples areon the whole (contrary to a common assumption) muchmore <strong>sex</strong>ually abst<strong>in</strong>ent than civilized peoples. But evenif it were not so we are quite justified <strong>in</strong> depart<strong>in</strong>g, if weth<strong>in</strong>k fit, from the habits <strong>of</strong> the lower races. Certa<strong>in</strong>ly the<strong>sex</strong>ual organs were developed for procreation, not for the<strong>sex</strong>ual gratification <strong>of</strong> the <strong>in</strong>dividual; certa<strong>in</strong>ly also thehands were developed to serve nutrition, not to play onthe piano or the viol<strong>in</strong>. But if the <strong>in</strong>dividual can f<strong>in</strong>d joyand <strong>in</strong>spiration <strong>in</strong> us<strong>in</strong>g his organs for ends they were notmade for, he isfollow<strong>in</strong>g a course <strong>of</strong> action which,whether or not we choose to call it "natural," is perfectlyand moral. Those who advocate imitation <strong>of</strong>justifiablethe lower animals by conf<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>tercourse to the"natural" end <strong>of</strong> procreation, are also bound to imitate


MARRIAGEthe lower animals by, for <strong>in</strong>stance, discard<strong>in</strong>g the "unnatural"use <strong>of</strong> cloth<strong>in</strong>g. Human art legitimately comes<strong>in</strong>to human activities, but it <strong>in</strong>troduces no real conflictwith Nature."This is an artWhich does mend Nature, changeit rather, butNature."The art itself isPutt<strong>in</strong>g aside all dubious theories, it must be recognized,from a practical standpo<strong>in</strong>t, that the natural range<strong>of</strong> variation as regards frequency <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>tercourse is verywide, and it is necessary to f<strong>in</strong>d out <strong>in</strong> each <strong>in</strong>dividualcase what frequency best suits each <strong>of</strong> the partners, andhow any discrepancy, if it exists, can be harmonized.Luther's dictum <strong>of</strong> twice a week commends itself to many,but it seems best to lay stress on the advantages <strong>of</strong> chastity(a very different th<strong>in</strong>g from <strong>sex</strong>ual abst<strong>in</strong>ence) and onthe disadvantages <strong>of</strong> render<strong>in</strong>g <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>tercourse a frequentand spiritless rout<strong>in</strong>e. There are sometimes advantages<strong>in</strong> a certa<strong>in</strong> irregularity, an unusually speedy repetitionbe<strong>in</strong>g followed by a long <strong>in</strong>termission; this repetitionmay easily occur at the woman's desire, just aftermenstruation. As desire isusually more irregular andmore capricious <strong>in</strong> the woman than <strong>in</strong> the man it is thewife who may properly be regarded asthe law-giver <strong>in</strong>this matter and the husband may f<strong>in</strong>d his advantage <strong>in</strong>accord<strong>in</strong>g her this privilege. But, it may be repeated, itis <strong>in</strong> any case better to space out the acts <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>tercourserather than to multiply their frequency. Its benefits, bothphysical and spiritual, tend to be lost by frequent repetition.Sexual union can only become the f<strong>in</strong>e ecstasy it israre.capable <strong>of</strong> becom<strong>in</strong>g when it isThe cultivation <strong>of</strong> coitus as a frequent habit is alsoundesirable because it renders very difficult the long <strong>in</strong>-


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXtermission which may be necessary dur<strong>in</strong>g absence, illness<strong>of</strong> one <strong>of</strong> the partners, or the period (amonth or sixweeks) follow<strong>in</strong>g childbirth. The question<strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>tercoursedur<strong>in</strong>g pregnancy is difficult. The physician is usuallyreluctant to give advice <strong>in</strong> this matter on account <strong>of</strong> thedomestic difficulties that may arise. It is largely,no doubt,a question <strong>of</strong> the predispositionto abortion, which variesgreatly; some women, it has been said, will abort ifyousneeze <strong>in</strong> their presence,while others will not abort ifyou throw them out <strong>of</strong> the fifth floor w<strong>in</strong>dow. Where thetendency exists, it is certa<strong>in</strong> that <strong>sex</strong>ual abst<strong>in</strong>ence shouldbe enjo<strong>in</strong>ed. It is also desirable that it should be cultivated,<strong>in</strong> any case, dur<strong>in</strong>g the latter months <strong>of</strong> pregnancy.But it seems necessary to exercise a certa<strong>in</strong> amount <strong>of</strong>circumspection <strong>in</strong> recommend<strong>in</strong>g abst<strong>in</strong>ence dur<strong>in</strong>g thewhole <strong>of</strong> pregnancy.A sympathetic and <strong>in</strong>telligent couplecan <strong>of</strong>ten f<strong>in</strong>d their own solution <strong>of</strong> the difficulty, andthere is not much risk <strong>of</strong> a habit <strong>of</strong> masturbation undersuch circumstances. But the physicianwho enjo<strong>in</strong>s <strong>sex</strong>ualabst<strong>in</strong>ence dur<strong>in</strong>g pregnancy may sometimes f<strong>in</strong>d that hehas evoked difficulties it may be beyond his power toremove.We are not here primarily concerned with the regulation<strong>of</strong> the conditions <strong>of</strong> procreation, nor with the optimumnumber <strong>of</strong> children for a normally healthy couple.It is widely held that, unless when marriage occurs at anunusually late age, conception should not be allowed tooccur at too early a period after marriage. Under presentsocial conditions, that danger, however, is small. <strong>No</strong>r isit by any means so <strong>in</strong>jurious as isfrequently supposed fora young woman to bear a child. Thus at the Ed<strong>in</strong>burghObstetrical Society recently (8 June, 1932) Miller gavethe results <strong>of</strong> 174 cases <strong>of</strong> pregnancy and labor <strong>in</strong> girls<strong>of</strong> 17 years <strong>of</strong> age and below at the Royal Maternity Hos-[294]


MARRIAGEpital. The spontaneous deliveries were 85 per cent, andonly <strong>in</strong> 8 cases was any <strong>in</strong>tervention necessary for disproportion,while the still-birth and neo-natal death-ratewas 6.5 per cent as aga<strong>in</strong>st 11.8 for all children born <strong>in</strong>the Hospital. Difficulty and danger are much greater forelderly women. Whatever the age at which childbirth beg<strong>in</strong>s,it is most certa<strong>in</strong>ly desirable, <strong>in</strong> the <strong>in</strong>terests <strong>of</strong>mother and children alike, as well as <strong>of</strong> the husband andfather, that an <strong>in</strong>terval <strong>of</strong> at least two years should elapsebetween pregnancies. The optimum average number <strong>of</strong>children, under modern conditions, alike for the familyand for the ma<strong>in</strong>tenance <strong>of</strong> the population,is betweentwo and three. Formerly, under bad social conditions andwith a high mortality, the number was higher. Eugenicconsiderations will here, as social enlightenment advances,become more and more <strong>in</strong>fluential, some families will besmaller, and others may legitimately be larger.In consider<strong>in</strong>g the attitude towards procreation and thefrequency with which, under present conditions, contraceptionis demanded, a question arises to which, f<strong>in</strong>ally,reference may here be made. S<strong>in</strong>ce most contraceptivemethods <strong>in</strong>volve either the avoidance <strong>of</strong> contact <strong>of</strong> thesperm with the vag<strong>in</strong>a or at all events its speedy removal,are the benefits <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>tercourse for the woman thus dim<strong>in</strong>ished?This question <strong>in</strong>volves <strong>in</strong> the first place the problem<strong>of</strong> the uter<strong>in</strong>e and vag<strong>in</strong>al absorptive capacity.It is aquestion which has sometimes been made prom<strong>in</strong>ent byopponents <strong>of</strong> contraception anxious to f<strong>in</strong>d usefully <strong>of</strong>fensiveweapons. There can be no doubt that the vag<strong>in</strong>alwalls are absorptive, as is the bladder <strong>in</strong> which <strong>in</strong>jectedpoisons have provedfatal to animals <strong>in</strong> a few m<strong>in</strong>utes.This was formerly <strong>of</strong>ten denied, as by Rohleder. But ithas s<strong>in</strong>ce been repeatedly demonstrated. Thus G. D. Rob<strong>in</strong>sonand Loeser, both <strong>in</strong> the same year[295]1925 though <strong>in</strong>


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXfound that the human vag<strong>in</strong>a woulddifferent countries,absorb a number <strong>of</strong> drugs, such as potassium iodide andsodium salicylate, rapidly,and qu<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>e and cane sugarslowly, the presence <strong>of</strong> these substances <strong>in</strong> the ur<strong>in</strong>e be<strong>in</strong>gdemonstrated. Loeser found mercuric chloride and iod<strong>in</strong>ethe most rapidly absorbed substances. But some substancesare with difficulty absorbed, or not at all, and states <strong>of</strong>health and age also affect the result, young healthy womenabsorb<strong>in</strong>g most readily. It is, further, demonstrated thatthe spermatozoa also are really absorbed, and can producea ferment <strong>in</strong> the blood, apparently able to break up thetesticular proteids. This was shown <strong>in</strong> 1913 by the important<strong>in</strong>vestigation <strong>of</strong> E. Waldste<strong>in</strong> and R. Ekler <strong>in</strong>Vienna on rabbits. Later <strong>in</strong> 1921 the experiments <strong>of</strong>Dittler, <strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong>ject<strong>in</strong>g semen <strong>in</strong>to the blood <strong>of</strong> female rab-<strong>in</strong>dicated that they were thereby rendered immunebits,<strong>of</strong> semen <strong>in</strong> coitus.The male ejaculate iscomposed <strong>of</strong> an admixture <strong>of</strong> theto the fertiliz<strong>in</strong>g effectssecretions <strong>of</strong> various glands: the testes, the vesiculae sem<strong>in</strong>ules,the prostate, and Cowper's gland. Kohlbrugge askedlong ago whether coitus iscomparable to an <strong>in</strong>jection <strong>of</strong>serum. As Arthur Thomson more precisely asked, <strong>in</strong>1922: Is any change effected <strong>in</strong> the female by the act <strong>of</strong><strong>in</strong>sem<strong>in</strong>ation apart from the specific act <strong>of</strong> fertilization?Still more def<strong>in</strong>itely, are the beneficial effects on a woman<strong>of</strong> an act <strong>of</strong> coitus due, not to its functional effectivenessand resultant psychic exhilaration, but to the physicalstimulation <strong>of</strong> substances conta<strong>in</strong>ed <strong>in</strong> the semen?The doubt <strong>in</strong> answer<strong>in</strong>g that questionis due to thedifficulty <strong>of</strong> separat<strong>in</strong>g the psychic results from the possiblephysical results. Zoth and Pregl found reason, as farback as 1896, work<strong>in</strong>g with the ergograph and mak<strong>in</strong>gcontrol observations with glycer<strong>in</strong>e to elim<strong>in</strong>ate the <strong>in</strong>fluence<strong>of</strong> suggestion, to conclude that orchitic extract ex-


MARRIAGEerted a stimulat<strong>in</strong>g effect, and retarded fatigue. We maycerta<strong>in</strong>ly believe that the semen may be absorbed naturally<strong>in</strong> coitus, even apart from the evidence alleged byVan de Velde that the breath after recent coitus maysometimes exhale an odor <strong>of</strong> semen. (Ican recall as a boyread<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> a German monk who was able to detect byodor a woman who had been unchaste.)Error has crept <strong>in</strong> by assum<strong>in</strong>g too easily that, ifsuchabsorption is possible, we must necessarily attribute to itthe beneficial results <strong>of</strong> coitus. It has been fortified by theundoubted fact that <strong>in</strong> contraceptive <strong>in</strong>tercourse the beneficialresults have not always followed. It would seem,however, that the ma<strong>in</strong> question here is whether the actwas felt to be gratify<strong>in</strong>g and satisfactory. There cannot bethe slightest doubt that, even with absence <strong>of</strong> contactwith the semen, coitus can be completely pleasurable andentirely beneficial <strong>in</strong> its results. There may be furtherbenefits proceed<strong>in</strong>g from the semen itself, but there areother ways <strong>of</strong> secur<strong>in</strong>g them and not all contraceptivemeasures <strong>in</strong>volve absence <strong>of</strong> contact with the semen. It isone <strong>of</strong> the numerous advantages <strong>of</strong> sterilization as a contraceptivemeasure that it allows complete freedom for theeffusion <strong>of</strong> semen. Even at the worst, as Killick Millardhas observed, many an over-burdened wife and motherwill gladly forgo these additional benefits for herself solong as she is able to escape from the evils <strong>of</strong> excessivematernity and at the same time be able to satisfy herhusband.BIBLIOGRAPHYG. V. HAMILTON, A Research <strong>in</strong> Marriage.R. L. DICKINSON, A Thousand Marriages.MARGARET SANGER, The New Motherhood.MICHAEL FIELDING, Parenthood: Design or Accident? AManual <strong>of</strong> Birth Control.


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXJ. F. COOPER, Technique <strong>of</strong> Contraception.M. C. STOPES, Contraception: Its Theory, History andPractice.A. KONIKOW, Contraception.Some More Medical Views on Birth Control, Edited by<strong>No</strong>rman Haire.CARR-SAUNDERS, The Population Problem.LANCELOT HOGBEN, Genetic Pr<strong>in</strong>ciples <strong>in</strong> Medic<strong>in</strong>e andSocial Science.LEONARD DARWIN, Eugenic Reform.GOSNEY AND POPENOE, Sterilization for Human Betterment.HAVELOCK ELLIS, Studies <strong>in</strong> The <strong>Psychology</strong> <strong>of</strong> Sex, Vol.VI, and More Essays <strong>of</strong> Love and Virtue.The Eugenics Review.The Journal <strong>of</strong> Social Hygiene.The Problem <strong>of</strong> Childless MarriageWhen we have put aside those married couples whohave decided on mature consideration that it is best forthem, whether temporarily or permanently, not to havechildren, and also those who, be<strong>in</strong>g childless but desir<strong>in</strong>gchildren, have good reason to hope that by medical orout that wish,surgical treatment they may be able to carrya m<strong>in</strong>oritystill rema<strong>in</strong>s who have become conv<strong>in</strong>ced thatthey will never be able to have a child but who still desireone. What are they to do?This situation ought <strong>in</strong>deed seldom to arise. If there isa strong wish for children it ishighly desirable that bothparties should submit themselves to medical <strong>in</strong>vestigationbefore marriage, if only to ascerta<strong>in</strong> that there is a fairprobability <strong>of</strong> successful conception and parturition. Thiscannot, however, be more than a probability, as issufficientlyevidenced by the cases <strong>in</strong> which a couple cannotproduce the child they are eager for, though, after divorceF2Q81


MARRIAGEand subsequent remarriage, they both become parents.Conditions, also, which could not be known or foreseenbefore marriage, may afterwards be found and preventconception. There rema<strong>in</strong> four possible solutions all <strong>of</strong>which have their psychic aspects.this solution(1) To accept the situation. For manymay prove the best. While most people, and certa<strong>in</strong>lymost women, at some time desire children, the desire isby no means always permanent.It is realized that thereare also other th<strong>in</strong>gs <strong>in</strong> life. It is at the same time recognizedthat at the present time the world is not perish<strong>in</strong>gfor lack <strong>of</strong> children. It may also be found that the pathchosen <strong>in</strong> life has proved so exact<strong>in</strong>g and absorb<strong>in</strong>g thatit is not justifiable, especially for a woman, to undertakealso the duties <strong>of</strong> motherhood, which is itself, if adequatelyperformed, for some years <strong>of</strong> life equivalent to apr<strong>of</strong>ession, and even an exact<strong>in</strong>g and absorb<strong>in</strong>g one. Perhaps,also, there are no special aptitudes for such a vocation,or there is present the consciousness <strong>of</strong> an unsatisfactoryhereditary constitution which it may not bedesirable to pass on. But the <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>cts <strong>of</strong> parenthood maybe <strong>in</strong> large measure sublimated; the maternal <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct maybe directed to social ends. Instead <strong>of</strong> be<strong>in</strong>g the physicalno benefit toparents <strong>of</strong> children who may perhaps br<strong>in</strong>gthe world or to themselves, it is possible to expend theenergies thus liberated <strong>in</strong> far-reach<strong>in</strong>g activities <strong>of</strong> unquestionedbenefit. Many women have atta<strong>in</strong>ed em<strong>in</strong>ence, aswell as satisfaction, <strong>in</strong> such ways and performedsocialservices <strong>of</strong> immense value.(2) To seek divorce. This may be a legitimate solution<strong>of</strong> the difficulty for those couples who regard children as<strong>of</strong> the first importance. But, even apart from the difficultyunder most legal systems <strong>of</strong> obta<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g divorce honestly onsuch grounds,it is not a solution to be welcomed. It is("2991


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXpossible to approve <strong>of</strong> facility for divorce as an abstractpr<strong>in</strong>ciple and yet to deprecate resort to it. Moreover, asecond marriage may prove even more unfortunate thanthe first and equally unfruitful. Divorce is,further, at thebest a confession <strong>of</strong> failure <strong>in</strong> the most vital <strong>of</strong> personalmatters, and even at the worst there are probably bonds<strong>of</strong> union between the partners which cannot easily betreated as <strong>of</strong> no account because there do not happen tobe children. Married people who wish for divorce becausethey have no children usually, if the full truth wereknown, wish to be divorced because they feel <strong>in</strong>compatible.So that for them the problem<strong>of</strong> childlessness isreally part <strong>of</strong> a larger problem.(3)To adopt a child. This is the solution which mostreadily presents itself, and with sound judgmentit worksadmirably, all the more s<strong>in</strong>ce now, at all events <strong>in</strong> England,it can be put on a firm legal basis. The marriageisnot broken but probably strengthened, and a real child isfor whom the wife can be a mother <strong>in</strong> all butprovidedthe physical sense. There is even an element <strong>of</strong> socialservice <strong>in</strong>volved, for the reasonable prospect <strong>of</strong> a happyfuture is bestowed upon a child who might otherwisehave proved a burden not only to its parents but to itselfand to the community. To many women, even with a fulland <strong>in</strong>tellectual life, the adopted child has proved anunspeakable bless<strong>in</strong>g and a constant source <strong>of</strong> happ<strong>in</strong>ess.There are obvious precautions to be taken if childadoptionis to prove successful. <strong>No</strong>t only must the childbe taken when quite young, but the transfer must beabsolute and complete. The chief questionis <strong>of</strong> health andheredity. To neglect consideration <strong>of</strong> the child's parentageand ancestry may lead to bitter results. A child shouldnever be adopted until all the ascerta<strong>in</strong>able facts <strong>of</strong> its[3oo]


MARRIAGEhistory have been carefully considered with the physician'said.(4) To have a child by a union outside marriage. Thisis the most difficult <strong>of</strong> all the solutions. It is sometimescontemplated but can only be carried out under exceptionalcircumstances. The difficulty arises from the factthat the consent isrequired <strong>of</strong> three persons, each <strong>of</strong>whom can scarcely fail to view the matter differently fromthe others, and all <strong>of</strong> whom must feel that they are act<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong> a way which a large portion <strong>of</strong> the social group theybelong to would disapprove. The conditions for satisfactoryachievement are so rare that it isunpr<strong>of</strong>itable to discussthis solution, and it would be impossible to recommendit.It is true that there are two modifications <strong>of</strong> this solution:one, altogether to be disapproved,when the wifetakes the matter <strong>in</strong>to her own hands, without consult<strong>in</strong>gher husband, and another, which is the most practicableform <strong>of</strong> this solution, by artificial <strong>in</strong>sem<strong>in</strong>ation. It has<strong>of</strong>ten failed and it presents obvious disagreeable features.But it is practicable, and is from time to time carried outsuccessfully. The technique has recently been discussed byVan de Velde.BIBLIOGRAPHYVAN DE VELDE, Fertility and Sterility <strong>in</strong> Marriage.Impotence and Frigidity (Sexual Hypoasthesia andSexual Hyperasthesia)The limits with<strong>in</strong> which the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse may varyboth as regards its strength and the age at its first appearanceand f<strong>in</strong>al disappearance are wide. In this matterMan differs from nearly all lower animals (except some


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEX<strong>of</strong> the higher apes) , <strong>in</strong> whom the impulse is closely connectedwith the procreativelife and is mostlythose times when it would be useless.absent atIf <strong>in</strong> childhood it isprobable that <strong>sex</strong>ual feel<strong>in</strong>g, except<strong>in</strong> its pre-genital forms, is usually absent, and, even whenlatent, not easily aroused, yet manifestations <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ualimpulse, as we know, both on the physical and the psychicside, are <strong>in</strong> ord<strong>in</strong>ary healthy children by no means sorare that we can regard them as abnormal. At the otherend <strong>of</strong> life there are likewise no def<strong>in</strong>ite frontiers to thepsychic <strong>sex</strong>ual life. In women, the ismenopause notalways, or even usually, accompanied by the disappearance<strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse, and <strong>in</strong> men <strong>sex</strong>ual desire, andeven <strong>sex</strong>ual potency, are <strong>of</strong>ten found at an advanced age.There is the same k<strong>in</strong>d <strong>of</strong> variation <strong>in</strong> the strength <strong>of</strong>the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse.If we seek to measure it <strong>in</strong> cont<strong>in</strong>entyoung men by the frequency <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>voluntary sem<strong>in</strong>al emissionsdur<strong>in</strong>g sleep, it is found that while, <strong>in</strong> some, suchemissions occur two or three times a week, without produc<strong>in</strong>gany seriously exhaust<strong>in</strong>g effect, <strong>in</strong> others they onlyoccur once or twice a month, and <strong>in</strong> some <strong>in</strong>dividualsnever occur at all. If, aga<strong>in</strong>, we seek to measure it by thefrequency <strong>of</strong> coitus <strong>in</strong> those liv<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual relationship,it is found that while <strong>in</strong> some cases coitus takes placehabitually every night dur<strong>in</strong>g a long period <strong>of</strong> years withoutany obvious <strong>in</strong>jury, <strong>in</strong> other cases even once a monthis felt as the limit beyond which excess lies. Individualvariations, even with<strong>in</strong> what may fairly be considered astate <strong>of</strong> tolerable general health, are wide, and no generalrules can be laid down.Complete <strong>sex</strong>ual anaesthesia (or anhedonia, as Ziehentermed it)<strong>in</strong> men is, however, extremely rare. Hypoaesthesia,or hyphedonia, that is a relative frigidityand <strong>in</strong>differenceto <strong>sex</strong>ual excitation is, however, common <strong>in</strong>[302]


MARRIAGEmen, much commoner than is sometimes supposed. Insome cases, <strong>in</strong>deed, it isapparent rather than real, and isdue to the concealed, or even merely latent and unconscious,existence <strong>of</strong> an abnormal direction <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ualimpulse, more especially to an unrealized homo<strong>sex</strong>ual impulse.In many cases frigidity may be merelythe result <strong>of</strong>the exhaustion <strong>of</strong> excessive masturbation. In yet othercases it isthe accompaniment <strong>of</strong> a strenuous development<strong>of</strong> other activities, psychic or physical, which use up allthe superfluous energy <strong>of</strong> the organism, though <strong>in</strong> some<strong>of</strong> these we must probably admit that the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulsewas feeble at the outset. In others, aga<strong>in</strong>, it is due to ak<strong>in</strong>d <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>fantilism, and is then a form <strong>of</strong> retarded development.In civilization the strenuous demands <strong>of</strong> life and themore or less unnatural conditions under which the <strong>sex</strong>ualimpulse develops comb<strong>in</strong>e to produce a frequent <strong>in</strong>ability,relative or absolute, to secure potency <strong>in</strong> coitus. Hamiltonfound that only 55 per cent <strong>of</strong> his husbands and 38 percent <strong>of</strong> his wives, all belong<strong>in</strong>g to what we must regard asthe most civilized stratum <strong>of</strong> the community, regardedtheir potency as normal; and while there were a certa<strong>in</strong>number <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>conclusive answers among both men andwomen, the proportion <strong>of</strong> both husbands and wives whoconsidered their <strong>sex</strong>ual potency below normal was decidedlyhigher than <strong>of</strong> those who thought it was above, aresult <strong>in</strong> contradiction <strong>of</strong> the common belief that bothmen and women are disposed to exaggerate their own <strong>sex</strong>qualities. It is also noteworthy that the number <strong>of</strong> husbandswho thought their wives under<strong>sex</strong>ed was about thesame as <strong>of</strong> wives who thought their husbands under<strong>sex</strong>ed.Hamilton found, further, that 41 cent husbands ad-permitted that there was, or had been, a difficulty <strong>in</strong> secur<strong>in</strong>gpotency, while 24 per cent wives (not,it must be'[303]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXremembered, necessarily wives <strong>of</strong> the husbands exam<strong>in</strong>ed)regarded their husbands' potency as defective. It may benoted, however, that both the husbands and the wiveswho regarded themselves as below the average <strong>in</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ualis<strong>in</strong>deed a common experience and maydesire presented a higher percentage <strong>of</strong> fairly to highlysatisfactory marriages compared to those who rate themselvesas equal to or above the average <strong>in</strong> <strong>sex</strong> desire. Thiswell be rememberedby those who look upon marriage as a ma<strong>in</strong>ly <strong>sex</strong>ualrelationship and imag<strong>in</strong>e that a high degree <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ualactivity is essential to happ<strong>in</strong>ess <strong>in</strong> marriage. Dick<strong>in</strong>son'sgynecological explorations, only <strong>in</strong>directly concerned withhusbands, seem to show that about 6 per cent <strong>of</strong> themwere impotent.We have to bear <strong>in</strong> m<strong>in</strong>d that both excess and defect<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual feel<strong>in</strong>g may cooperate to produce <strong>sex</strong>ual impotence.It is an important consideration s<strong>in</strong>ce one <strong>of</strong> thegreat nervous terrors surround<strong>in</strong>g marriage <strong>in</strong> somemen's m<strong>in</strong>ds a terror which may also occur apart altogetherfrom marriage as well as <strong>in</strong> later stages <strong>of</strong> the stateis connected with the doubt as to potency. A comparativeabsence <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual power and <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse, from onecause or another, is more common <strong>in</strong> men than is some*times recognized. The number <strong>of</strong> marriages, <strong>in</strong>deed, isbyno means small <strong>in</strong> which from this cause conjugal relationsare not effected, and such unions are by no means.always below the average <strong>in</strong> happ<strong>in</strong>ess. But the suspicionthat he isimpotent although such <strong>sex</strong>ual quiescence isa goal which others are va<strong>in</strong>ly long<strong>in</strong>g to atta<strong>in</strong> causesthe average man extreme anxiety, so that he ispreparedto adopt any course <strong>of</strong> treatment and <strong>of</strong>ten to resort toany <strong>of</strong> the quacks who are prepared to trade on these terrors.A temporaryloss <strong>of</strong> potency under a high emotionalstra<strong>in</strong> may easilyoccur and is not[304]<strong>of</strong> any serious import.


MARRIAGENervous and <strong>in</strong>experienced men are specially liable to it.Montaigne long ago po<strong>in</strong>ted out <strong>in</strong> his essay on the force<strong>of</strong> imag<strong>in</strong>ation that it ismerely due to fear, and he sagaciouslydescribed how, by <strong>in</strong>genious methods <strong>of</strong> neutraliz<strong>in</strong>gthe fear, potency is perfectly restored.In some cases, however, the defect <strong>of</strong> potency rests onan acquired habit <strong>of</strong> the nervous system, that is to say, weare confronted not by psychic impotence but by neurasthenicimpotence. Chastity, masturbation, <strong>sex</strong>ual excesssuch are the causes commonly arraigned for such a defect<strong>in</strong> potency. Moreover, the conditions <strong>of</strong> civilization arevery favorable to a general nervous excitability, an overhastyreaction to stimuli, which on the <strong>sex</strong>ual side tendto produce an abbreviation <strong>of</strong> tumescence and a prematuredetumescence unfavorable to the satisfactory accomplishment<strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual act.I agree with Freud and others that the frequency <strong>of</strong>premature ejaculation is very great, though I do not agreewith Lowenfeld <strong>in</strong> attribut<strong>in</strong>g this <strong>in</strong> 75 per cent cases tomasturbation. In a certa<strong>in</strong> proportion, no doubt, this playsan important part, but even an extreme degree <strong>of</strong> masturbationhas sometimes no serious effects on potency,while <strong>in</strong> any case it is so frequent that considerable cautionmust be exercised <strong>in</strong> assert<strong>in</strong>g that it is the cause <strong>of</strong>anyth<strong>in</strong>g. Usually, it is probable, we must regard neurasthenicimpotence as <strong>in</strong> part a special manifestation<strong>of</strong> the general tendency to quick and sensitive reactionswhich marks all urban life under modern conditions(manifested <strong>in</strong> women by the tendency for pregnancy tocome to a term<strong>in</strong>ation before full term) and <strong>in</strong> ,part asthe result <strong>of</strong> ungratified desire dur<strong>in</strong>g the period <strong>of</strong> adolescence,and beyond, lead<strong>in</strong>g to prolonged tumescencenot followed byits natural relief even <strong>in</strong> masturbation,[305]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXand a consequent impairment <strong>of</strong> the vascular mechanism<strong>of</strong> detumescence.In most cases there is only a relative defect <strong>of</strong> potency.Erection more or less completely occurs and is followed,though too rapidly, by ejaculation. The subject may notBut we cannot doubtbe conscious that anyth<strong>in</strong>g is wrong.counts for much <strong>in</strong>that this defect <strong>of</strong> mascul<strong>in</strong>e potencythe prevalence <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual frigidity among women.When the loss <strong>of</strong> ispower more absolute whether dueto temporary psychic impotence or to real enfeebl<strong>in</strong>g conditionsthe subjectis <strong>of</strong>ten alarmed, even very alarmed.Under the <strong>in</strong>fluence <strong>of</strong> his nervous terror we <strong>of</strong>ten f<strong>in</strong>d aman constantly brood<strong>in</strong>g over his own <strong>sex</strong>ual powers, constantlytry<strong>in</strong>g to arouse them, constantly, ifperhaps, he isunmarried, mak<strong>in</strong>g appo<strong>in</strong>tments with prostitutes,to meetwith frequent disappo<strong>in</strong>tment.*We thus have two classes <strong>of</strong> cases, those <strong>of</strong> psychic impotenceand those <strong>of</strong> what may perhaps still be termedneurasthenic impotence. In the former, the mechanism <strong>of</strong>detumescence is <strong>in</strong>tact but its action is <strong>in</strong>hibited by psychictension; the treatment, therefore, simply consists <strong>in</strong>remov<strong>in</strong>g the psychic <strong>in</strong>hibition by allay<strong>in</strong>g the subject'sdoubts and suspicions. In the cases <strong>of</strong> neurasthenic impotence,the mechanism <strong>of</strong> detumescence is not <strong>in</strong>hibitedbut, on the contrary, more or less enfeebled, and the treatmentis less promis<strong>in</strong>g, though it is usually quite possible,if not to restore the impaired mechanism, at all events tom<strong>in</strong>imize the results <strong>of</strong> the impairment. In all these casesthe ma<strong>in</strong> po<strong>in</strong>tis to allay the patient's terror, turn his*It is scarcely necessary to say that <strong>in</strong> the case <strong>of</strong> a chaste andref<strong>in</strong>ed man impotence with a prostitute proves noth<strong>in</strong>g. Moll mentionsthe case <strong>of</strong> a man who, never hav<strong>in</strong>g had <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>tercourse, visiteda prostitute before marriage, on the advice <strong>of</strong> a friend, to ascerta<strong>in</strong>if he was potent. He was quite impotent. But he married and wasentirely potent with his wife*[306]


MARRIAGEthoughts out <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual channels, and ensure the practice<strong>of</strong> a sound hygiene. Drugs are not here considered, andthey are <strong>of</strong> secondary value though much advertised.Some have been found useful <strong>in</strong> some cases, but it rema<strong>in</strong>sdoubtful whether they have any considerable real somatic<strong>in</strong>fluence on the condition; while a drug like nux vomica,notwithstand<strong>in</strong>g its strong excit<strong>in</strong>geffect on the <strong>sex</strong>ualsystem, and the sp<strong>in</strong>al cord generally, and its value as atonic, is worse than useless when over-excitability alreadyexists. The patient should be forbidden to attempt coitusand should especially be discouraged from mak<strong>in</strong>g suchattempts with prostitutes. Prolonged suspense and expectationis the worst prelude to coitus, especially <strong>in</strong> thesecases, and all acute mental activity and emotional worryare unfavorable. A sensible and tactful wife is the physician'sbest assistant. The famous case <strong>of</strong> Rousseau is <strong>in</strong>this matter <strong>in</strong>structive. He was a man <strong>of</strong> extremely sensitiveand erethic temperament, psychic and physical;emotions responded to a touch, and his <strong>sex</strong>ual impulsereflected this high nervous irritability. With a prostitute,or with a woman for whom he felt ardent passion, he wasan <strong>in</strong>effective lover. But with Thrse, with whom helived <strong>in</strong> calm and constant companionship, he was seem<strong>in</strong>glypotent, and, if his own honest belief is correct, hewas the father <strong>of</strong> numerous children. In these erethiccases everyth<strong>in</strong>g that allays genital excitability is favorable;thus it is that after prolonged <strong>sex</strong>ual abst<strong>in</strong>ence thefirst ejaculation may be premature, but the second atta<strong>in</strong>the normal result; the <strong>in</strong>terval, <strong>of</strong> course, varies with the<strong>in</strong>dividual <strong>sex</strong>ual constitution, and while itmay be lessthan half an hour <strong>in</strong> one person,it may be several days<strong>in</strong> another. It may also be recommended not to attempt<strong>in</strong>tercourse on retir<strong>in</strong>g to bed, but only after a period <strong>of</strong>rest and sleep, or <strong>in</strong> the early morn<strong>in</strong>g, a time which some[307]his


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXauthorities advise as generally the best. With mental peaceand rational hygiene fairly satisfactory results may bereached <strong>in</strong> these cases.This <strong>in</strong>dicates that <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>capacity is largely a matter<strong>of</strong> personal and social adaptation. In most cases if thesubject had been from youth <strong>in</strong> a natural and wholesomerelationship with <strong>in</strong>dividuals <strong>of</strong> the opposite <strong>sex</strong> the difficultyor <strong>in</strong>capacity for harmonious union with a congenialmember <strong>of</strong> that <strong>sex</strong> would not arise, and there would belittle tendency to nervous terror, immature timidity, oraggressive frigidity <strong>in</strong> approach<strong>in</strong>g a <strong>sex</strong>ually desirableperson. We are justified <strong>in</strong> believ<strong>in</strong>g that <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>competenceis, to a large extent, a special manifestation <strong>of</strong><strong>in</strong>complete social adaptation. We must not ignore theconstitutional factors, which may, for <strong>in</strong>stance, <strong>in</strong>volvea homo<strong>sex</strong>ual tendency, nor physical defects or weaknesswhich calls for the surgeon's aid. But the wise surgeonhimself admits that when he has done his best there <strong>of</strong>tenrema<strong>in</strong>s much for the psychologist and psycho-therapist.We seem justified <strong>in</strong> believ<strong>in</strong>g that the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulseis never so feeble that it cannot, at times, under favorableconditions, become <strong>in</strong> some degree manifest. Krafft-Eb<strong>in</strong>gaccepted the existence <strong>of</strong> complete <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>capacity <strong>in</strong>rare <strong>in</strong>stances, but he brought forward no observations <strong>of</strong>his own <strong>in</strong> evidence, only a case <strong>of</strong> Legrand du Saulle's <strong>in</strong>which sem<strong>in</strong>al emissions had still taken place and one <strong>of</strong>Hammond's <strong>in</strong> which there had even been transitory erections.These cases were undoubtedly marked by a considerabledegree <strong>of</strong> hypoaesthesiabut the def<strong>in</strong>ite <strong>sex</strong>ualmanifestations they yet exhibited prevent us from accept<strong>in</strong>gthem as examples <strong>of</strong> complete <strong>sex</strong>ual anaesthesia.It seems equally doubtful whether complete <strong>sex</strong>ualanaesthesia can exist <strong>in</strong> women. There can <strong>in</strong>deed be nodoubt as to the extreme frequency <strong>of</strong> hypoaesthesia, or, as[308]


MARRIAGEit is usually termed, frigidity, which has <strong>in</strong>deed been estimatedI do not know by what method as occurr<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>nearly seventy percent <strong>of</strong> women. Such wild statementsmust be put aside.Among his one hundred normal marriedwomen <strong>of</strong> the educated class Hamilton could onlyf<strong>in</strong>d one case <strong>of</strong> actual frigidity <strong>in</strong> the sense <strong>of</strong> persistentabsence <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual desire and <strong>sex</strong>ual feel<strong>in</strong>g; although afew women were only able to respond to auto-erotic orhomo<strong>sex</strong>ual stimuli. In a long chapter on this subject <strong>in</strong>One Thousand Marriages Dick<strong>in</strong>son po<strong>in</strong>ts out that"frigidity" is not to be regarded as a fixed state or a def<strong>in</strong>itecongenital condition. Its causes are multiple: <strong>in</strong>physique, temperament, education, habit (<strong>in</strong>clud<strong>in</strong>g ignoranceand auto-erotic practices),the husband's <strong>in</strong>adequacy,etc. The most consistently "frigid/' he remarks,are the auto-erotic; yet, strictly speak<strong>in</strong>g, the auto-eroticare not frigid at all, and may be highly sensitive to those<strong>sex</strong>ual stimuli which appeal to them.The chief reason why women are considered "frigid"lies less <strong>in</strong> themselves than <strong>in</strong> men. It is evident throughoutthat while <strong>in</strong> men the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse tends to developspontaneously and actively, <strong>in</strong> women, however powerfulit may be latently and more or less subconsciously, itsactive manifestations need <strong>in</strong> the first place to be calledout. That, <strong>in</strong> our society, is normally the husband's functionto effect. It is his part to educate his wife <strong>in</strong> the life<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>; it is he who will make <strong>sex</strong> demands a consciousdesire to her. If he, by his ignorance, prejudice, impatience,or lack <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>sight,fails to play his natural part,his wife may, by no defect <strong>of</strong> her own, be counted as"frigid." It so happens that, dur<strong>in</strong>g a long period fromwhich we are only now beg<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g to emerge, when all <strong>sex</strong>knowledge was suppressed or treated as unworthy <strong>of</strong> consideration,a large proportion<strong>of</strong> men were unable to[39]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXbecome good lovers and a large proportion<strong>of</strong> womenconsequently rema<strong>in</strong>ed "frigid."to be apparently frigidThere are thus many reasons why women should tendunder the conditions <strong>of</strong> civilization,s<strong>in</strong>ce these conditions <strong>in</strong>volve pr<strong>of</strong>ound ignorance<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual matters <strong>in</strong> both <strong>sex</strong>es, bad education, prudery,and an abnormally late age for the commencement <strong>of</strong><strong>sex</strong>ual relationships.But when it is asserted that an absolute<strong>sex</strong>ual anaesthesia is common <strong>in</strong> women it is necessaryto remember that the questionis much more difficultand complicated <strong>in</strong> women than <strong>in</strong> men. Moreover, <strong>in</strong>women we have to dist<strong>in</strong>guish between the presence <strong>of</strong>libido and the presence <strong>of</strong> pleasure <strong>in</strong> coitus. The first<strong>of</strong> these may be present <strong>in</strong> the absence <strong>of</strong> the second, andeven when both are absent it cannot be affirmed that <strong>sex</strong>ualanaesthesia exists. It isperhaps significant that Hamil-<strong>of</strong> womenton found that a high proportion (55 per cent)with <strong>in</strong>ferior capacity for orgasm yet rateabove the average <strong>in</strong> <strong>sex</strong> desire.themselves asCases occur <strong>in</strong> which awoman is frigid with a succession <strong>of</strong> men but at last, perhaps<strong>in</strong> late middle age, the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse arises. Even ifit never occurs at all <strong>in</strong> coitus itmay be manifested <strong>in</strong>other forms, not merely <strong>in</strong> deviated activities, but alsothrough the medium <strong>of</strong> outly<strong>in</strong>g erogenous zones which<strong>in</strong> women are far more numerous than <strong>in</strong> men, and farmore apt to be stimulated.Thus it is much more difficult <strong>in</strong> a woman than <strong>in</strong> aman to affirm the presence <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual anaesthesia. All wecan say <strong>in</strong> a particular case is that we have not yet discoveredthe form <strong>in</strong> which the woman's <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse ismanifested, or may <strong>in</strong> the future be manifested. EvenOtto Adler, who was confident concern<strong>in</strong>g the frequency<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual anaesthesia <strong>in</strong> women, when he wished to br<strong>in</strong>gforward a f<strong>in</strong>al pro<strong>of</strong> <strong>of</strong> the existence <strong>of</strong> the "femme dc


glace,"MARRIAGEthe woman <strong>of</strong> "pure psychic <strong>sex</strong>ual anaesthesia,"went back to the case <strong>of</strong> a woman who died more than acentury before he was born and <strong>of</strong> whom no medical historyexists,Madame de Warens. Moreover, he relied onthe narrative <strong>of</strong> Rousseau, who was by no means an accomplishedlover, and he overlooks the recorded statement<strong>of</strong> M. de Warens that his wife was hysterical, a state, aswe now know, lead<strong>in</strong>g to many subtle transformations <strong>of</strong>the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse which cannot be traced <strong>in</strong> the absence<strong>of</strong> a detailed medical history. We must be cautious <strong>in</strong>accept<strong>in</strong>g any <strong>of</strong> the alleged cases <strong>of</strong> complete <strong>sex</strong>ualanaesthesia <strong>in</strong> women. It is doubtful whether such a casehas ever existed.The existence <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual hyperaesthesia <strong>in</strong> both <strong>sex</strong>es is,under the conditions <strong>of</strong> civilization, even commoner thanhypoaesthesia, and is likewise largely due to those conditions.They tend to <strong>in</strong>crease the excitations <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> while atthe same time they impede the channels <strong>of</strong> its expression.A certa<strong>in</strong> degree <strong>of</strong> hyperaesthesia is normal <strong>in</strong> courtship;<strong>in</strong> animals this manifests itself <strong>in</strong> the extreme excitementa constant brood-they show at this period and <strong>in</strong> man by<strong>in</strong>g on the charms <strong>of</strong> the beloved. Under the <strong>in</strong>fluence <strong>of</strong><strong>sex</strong>ual abst<strong>in</strong>ence, also, hyperaesthesia usually occurs, anderotic excitation is found <strong>in</strong> objects and actions whichhave no normal relationship to the <strong>sex</strong>ual sphere. When<strong>sex</strong>ual hyperaesthesia goes beyond these limits it is abnormaland isusually associated with neurotic conditions.Abnormal <strong>sex</strong>ual hyperaesthesia by no means <strong>in</strong>dicatesany excess <strong>of</strong> genital force. The man <strong>of</strong> abnormal genitalforce, the <strong>sex</strong>ual athlete, as Benedikt termed him, is notmarked by hyperaesthesia; strength requires repose, andthe sensations <strong>of</strong> the hyperaesthetic enjoy little repose. Theappearance <strong>of</strong> genital force <strong>in</strong> hyperaesthesia is ma<strong>in</strong>ly a


PSYCHOLOGY fJ FSEXsemblance, though it <strong>of</strong>ten suffices to delude the subjectthe aff<strong>in</strong>ities <strong>of</strong> hyperaesthesiaare with weakness.<strong>of</strong> it;Abnormal <strong>sex</strong>ual hyperaesthesia may occur before pubertyas well as <strong>in</strong> old age. It probably plays an importantpart <strong>in</strong> the constitution <strong>of</strong> various deviations, for it isonly when an abnormal <strong>sex</strong>ual excitation co<strong>in</strong>cides withan abnormal state <strong>of</strong> hyperaesthesiathat there is any likelihood<strong>of</strong> a perverse<strong>sex</strong>ual association be<strong>in</strong>g formed.When <strong>sex</strong>ual hyperaesthesia exists, anyth<strong>in</strong>g connectedwith persons <strong>of</strong> the opposite <strong>sex</strong>, or even any non-<strong>sex</strong>ualobject or action which seems to show analogies to <strong>sex</strong>ualobjects and acts, arouses <strong>sex</strong>ual associations and produces<strong>sex</strong>ual feel<strong>in</strong>gs. Any part <strong>of</strong> the body, the garments evenapart from the wearer, any unusual attitude or posture,however apart from <strong>sex</strong>ual ends, the coitus o animalsand even <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>sects, anyth<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> nature or <strong>in</strong> art whichrecalls the penis or the vulva or the act <strong>of</strong> coitus, all becomenot merely <strong>sex</strong>ual symbols, as they normally may,but are apt actively to arouse <strong>sex</strong>ual emotions. In suchgeneral <strong>sex</strong>ual hyperaesthesiathere is no choice and allsuggestions are liable to be aroused <strong>in</strong>discrim<strong>in</strong>ately. Butthe soil is thus furnished on which particular fetichismsmay take root and flourish, though this is not usually theway <strong>in</strong> which fetichisms arise. It may be added that <strong>sex</strong>ualhyperaesthesia may exist <strong>in</strong> a disguised form, and evenwithout the active participation <strong>of</strong> the subject. Pruderyis a form <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual hyperaesthesia. The exaggerated horror<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual th<strong>in</strong>gs, as well as the exaggerated love <strong>of</strong> them,alike rest on a basis <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual hypersesthesia.Sexual hyperaesthesia, while it is abnormal, and apt tobe associated with neuropathic conditions, isby no meansnecessarily a manifestation <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>sanity; it can be restra<strong>in</strong>edand concealed, and it is more or less under the control<strong>of</strong> the will. In its more extreme degrees, however, when


MARRIAGEthe motor and impulsive elements become pronounced,the power <strong>of</strong> control tends to be lost. In the extreme degreewe may thus have what is termed satyriasis <strong>in</strong> menand nymphomania <strong>in</strong> women.BIBLIOGRAPHYHAVELOCK ELLIS, Studies <strong>in</strong> the <strong>Psychology</strong> <strong>of</strong> Sex, Vol.Ill, "The Sexual Impulse <strong>in</strong> Women."HAMILTON, A Research <strong>in</strong> Marriage.DICKINSON, A Thousand Marriages.STEKEL, Frigidity <strong>in</strong> Woman.ChastityWhen we speak <strong>of</strong> abst<strong>in</strong>ence we have <strong>in</strong> m<strong>in</strong>d a negativestate, that is to say the mere repression <strong>of</strong> a naturalimpulse. Such a repression has its motive <strong>in</strong> causes frequentlycauses <strong>of</strong> a low order outside the impulse itself,and <strong>in</strong> opposition to it. That iswhyit is liable to beharmful. It can never be <strong>in</strong> itself a virtue, thoughitmaybe the outcome <strong>of</strong> other motives which <strong>in</strong> themselves maybe associated with virtues. Asbe termed virtues or mayFlaubert wrote to George Sand, <strong>in</strong> an <strong>in</strong>terest<strong>in</strong>g discussion<strong>of</strong> this question <strong>in</strong> their correspondence,it is theeffort that is good, not the abst<strong>in</strong>ence <strong>in</strong> itself. Chastity,however, stands on a different level.Chastity does not necessarily <strong>in</strong>volve abst<strong>in</strong>ence. It hassometimes been used as synonymous with absolute <strong>sex</strong>ualabst<strong>in</strong>ence, but it is not desirable to encourage that debaseduse <strong>of</strong> the term. It may be better def<strong>in</strong>ed as selfcontrolwith<strong>in</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual sphere. That is to say that,though it may sometimes <strong>in</strong>volve abst<strong>in</strong>ence, it may also<strong>in</strong>volve <strong>in</strong>dulgence,its essence ly<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> the acceptance <strong>of</strong>a deliberate and harmonized exercise <strong>of</strong> the psychic im-


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXThus understood it is notpulses. a negative state, but anactive virtue. I once overheard a girl <strong>of</strong> about fourteenreproach<strong>in</strong>g a companion <strong>of</strong> about the same age for greed<strong>in</strong>ess:"You have never learnt self-restra<strong>in</strong>t!" 'It's not necessary,"replied the other. "It's not necessary," retortedthe first, "it's nice." That girlwould <strong>in</strong> later life have nodifficulty <strong>in</strong> understand<strong>in</strong>g chastity. It is the manifestation<strong>of</strong> temperance, <strong>of</strong> the Greek sophrosyne,<strong>in</strong> the sphere<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>.Chastity is a virtue <strong>in</strong>dependent <strong>of</strong> all creeds and religions.It is true that <strong>in</strong> many parts <strong>of</strong> the world there havebeen religious sanctions to hold lust <strong>in</strong> check. That is tosay that the exercise <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual activity outside certa<strong>in</strong> prescribedlimits has been held to be a "s<strong>in</strong>." It was <strong>in</strong>evitablethat religious communities, Christian or other, shouldtake this attitude. But, on a purely human basis, chastityhas been and still rema<strong>in</strong>s a virtue.Among savages, <strong>in</strong> many parts <strong>of</strong> the world, young childrenare freely allowed to play at <strong>sex</strong> and even to practiceit. That <strong>in</strong>dicates that there is no abstract prohibition <strong>of</strong><strong>sex</strong>ual activity.But, as soon as the child approached puberty,even <strong>in</strong> what we consider the primitive m<strong>in</strong>d, a newattitude towards <strong>sex</strong> seems necessary: an attitude <strong>of</strong> control.Among peoples<strong>of</strong> low culture it is common to f<strong>in</strong>d<strong>sex</strong>ual activity hedged <strong>in</strong> by a great number <strong>of</strong> limitations,quite apart from the formal Christian prohibitions<strong>of</strong> "fornication" and "adultery." And these limitationsare for a large part conducive to the highestimation <strong>of</strong><strong>sex</strong>, not only through the avoidance <strong>of</strong> it when its exerciseisregarded as dangerous but by prescription whenthat <strong>in</strong>fluence isregarded as beneficial, and by associat<strong>in</strong>gits manifestations with sacred festivals. This k<strong>in</strong>d <strong>of</strong> control,this regulated exercise accepted as good, we mayproperly call chastity, and it may be regarded as already[314]


MARRIAGEbuilt <strong>in</strong>to the structure <strong>of</strong> savagelife. A tissue <strong>of</strong> uses,<strong>of</strong>ten fanciful though even then still help<strong>in</strong>g to ennobleits exercise have been popularly or traditionally assignedto chastity among lower as well as higher races,"Yet, toa remarkable degree/' as Crawley well po<strong>in</strong>ted out, "atleast <strong>in</strong> primitive sociology, these uses, whatever theirpopular explanations, harmonize with biological facts,and the value <strong>of</strong> the explanations consists <strong>in</strong> hav<strong>in</strong>gassisted the plastic nervous organism <strong>of</strong> man towards selfcontrol,<strong>in</strong>telligent liv<strong>in</strong>g, and general <strong>in</strong>dividual andsocial efficiency." If carried too far, as Crawley also po<strong>in</strong>tedout, dis<strong>in</strong>tegration tends to follow; but the ma<strong>in</strong> processcont<strong>in</strong>ues, hav<strong>in</strong>g as its goal, "after many experiments,slowly but surely, a scientific development <strong>of</strong> that primalnatural chastity with which man's <strong>sex</strong>ual history began."That fundamental fact tends to be obscured preciselybecause <strong>of</strong> the extremes, referred to by Crawley, to whichthe conception <strong>of</strong> chastity has sometimes been carried byreligious creeds and social conventions. This has been wellillustrated dur<strong>in</strong>g recent centuries <strong>in</strong> our own civilization.When chastity is transformed <strong>in</strong>to a mere compulsoryabst<strong>in</strong>ence it ceases to be either natural, or a virtue,or beneficial. Its essential character is lost sight <strong>of</strong>. It isthen denounced as "unnatural," and regarded as the concomitant<strong>of</strong> an outworn religious creed or an effete politicalhierarchy. Thus it is that among ourselves the decay<strong>of</strong> ancient artificialrestrictions <strong>in</strong> the sphere <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> hassometimes led to the other extreme equally unnaturaland undesirable <strong>of</strong> license and promiscuity as an ideal,if not even a practice.Such violent oscillations <strong>of</strong> the just balance <strong>of</strong> chastitymay take a considerable time to reach equilibrium, s<strong>in</strong>ceany sudden rebound leads to another bound. We mayobserve this difficulty <strong>in</strong> Soviet Russia. In old Russia there[315]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXwas much conventional restra<strong>in</strong>t and beneath it muchconcealed license, each tend<strong>in</strong>g to produce its consequentreaction. The immediate effect <strong>of</strong> the liberation effectedby the Revolution was largely <strong>in</strong> the direction <strong>of</strong> license.To some extent that seems still to be felt, especially bythose who regard restra<strong>in</strong>t and regulation as bourgeoistraits. But the ma<strong>in</strong> tendency now is a reaction aga<strong>in</strong>stlicense. Members <strong>of</strong> the Communist Party are expelledfor their private <strong>sex</strong>ual behavior, as much as for politicalbad behavior. The situation resembles that <strong>in</strong> eighteenthcentury Calv<strong>in</strong>ist Geneva, for Russian Marxism is as rigidand as austere as Calv<strong>in</strong>ism. "Frivolity, promiscuity, libert<strong>in</strong>ism,rape (which may <strong>in</strong>clude several marriages <strong>in</strong>quick succession) ," we are told, "are frowned on and theirperpetrators expelled from the Party because such behaviorbetrays the social purposes <strong>of</strong> the Party."These oscillations are the more or less unfortunate exaggeration<strong>of</strong> a virtue which is still to be cherished. It isnot only demanded for the sake <strong>of</strong> ma<strong>in</strong>ta<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g the vigorousactivity <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual function but also for ma<strong>in</strong>ta<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>gits human dignity. Beyond that, it is essential to anygracious art <strong>of</strong> love, which is,as it has been put, "the art<strong>of</strong> touch<strong>in</strong>g the th<strong>in</strong>gs <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> with hands that remembertheir aptness for all the f<strong>in</strong>e ends <strong>of</strong> life."BIBLIOGRAPHYA. E. CRAWLEY, art. "Chastity," Hast<strong>in</strong>gs' Encyclopedia<strong>of</strong> Religion and Ethics,HAVELOCK ELLIS, Studies <strong>in</strong>the<strong>Psychology</strong> <strong>of</strong> Sex, Vol.VI, Chap. V, "The Function <strong>of</strong> Chastity."MARGARET MEAD, Grow<strong>in</strong>g Up <strong>in</strong> New Gu<strong>in</strong>ea.MALINOWSKI, Sex and Repression <strong>in</strong> Savage Society.


MARRIAGEThe MenopauseThe menopause cannot fail to constitute a psychologicalepoch <strong>in</strong> marriage, even though its importance was formerlyexaggerated. <strong>No</strong>wadays the pendulum has swungtowards the opposite extreme. Various medical womennow declare that the attribution <strong>of</strong> ailments to the climactericismerely an "obsession" and that they rarely f<strong>in</strong>ddue to this cause.any symptoms directlyYet we have here a phenomenon which cannot be withoutdirect psychological significance for the woman herselfand an <strong>in</strong>direct bear<strong>in</strong>g on her family and social life.It marks the end <strong>of</strong> her reproductive phase just as pubertymarked its beg<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g.The menopause, climacteric,* or "change <strong>of</strong> life," as itis variously termed, is the <strong>in</strong>volutional period <strong>of</strong> the reproductive<strong>sex</strong>ual system, and occurs between wide limits<strong>of</strong> age, 35 to 55, but most commonly between 45 to 50,and iscompleted with<strong>in</strong> two 'or three years; it is said nowto occur on the average some five years later than wasthe average <strong>of</strong> half a century ago. It is associated withchanges <strong>in</strong> the functional activity <strong>of</strong> the endocr<strong>in</strong>e glands,and also <strong>in</strong> the autonomic nervous system, with consequentemotional, vasomotor, and nervous symptoms, <strong>of</strong>which palpitations and flush<strong>in</strong>g are found specially unpleasantand are due not so much to heightened bloodpressure as to oscillations <strong>in</strong> that pressure. We are nothere called upon to consider the possible <strong>in</strong>itial causes<strong>of</strong> these changes. Maran6n long s<strong>in</strong>ce advocated a pluriglandulartheory <strong>of</strong> the menopause, fundamentally <strong>in</strong> theovaries, thyroid, and suprarenals, and secondarily <strong>in</strong> the*The menopause is sometimes dist<strong>in</strong>guished from the climacteric,the former as the time when menstruation ceases, and the latter as thelater period <strong>of</strong> the cessation <strong>of</strong> ovulation.[317]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXhypophysis. FitzGibbon regards it as an apparently spontaneousatrophy <strong>of</strong> the genital organs liable to producetox<strong>in</strong>s, whence a tra<strong>in</strong> <strong>of</strong> symptoms such as flush<strong>in</strong>g, etc.,which may be elim<strong>in</strong>ated <strong>in</strong> severe cases by removal <strong>of</strong> thewomb; but as flush<strong>in</strong>gs and allied symptoms may occurto a pronounced degree after the womb is removed, onaccount <strong>of</strong> disease, at an earlier age, this view seemsdubious at the best.Although slight emotional and physical disturbances arealmost <strong>in</strong>variable at this period, many women, even those<strong>of</strong> unstable nervous disposition, pass through this stage <strong>of</strong>transition with no serious trouble, though a few are liableto some degree <strong>of</strong> breakdown, physical or mental.On the psychic side it is <strong>in</strong>evitable that the "change <strong>of</strong>life," the realization <strong>of</strong> the fact which she has perhapstried to postpone that she is no longer young, shouldmake a deep impression on a woman. The end <strong>of</strong> thereproductive life, moreover, appears as the end <strong>of</strong> thewhole <strong>sex</strong>ual life, though that is by no means actuallyThe woman awakes with a start to the fact thatthe case.what seems the chief period <strong>of</strong> life is rapidly slipp<strong>in</strong>g awayfrom her. There is thus sometimes a sudden <strong>in</strong>creased<strong>sex</strong>ual activity, with occasionally an unwonted tendencyto be attracted to some new man and to make advancesto him. In unmarried women who have lived respectableand conventional lives the same tendencies occasionallyappear and are more apt to be accompanied by <strong>in</strong>dications<strong>of</strong> mental unbalance. All such manifestations are familiarlyknown and their frequency <strong>of</strong>ten exaggerated.Yet we have to recognize that the period <strong>of</strong> the menopausemay sometimes be marked by such disturbances <strong>in</strong>the <strong>sex</strong>ual psychic life,exacerbation <strong>of</strong> desireespeciallya f<strong>in</strong>al flare <strong>of</strong> the generative flameperhaps accompaniedby various caprices and suspicions and occasionally by


MARRIAGEactual deviations <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse. In marriedwomen the results are <strong>of</strong>ten aggravated by the fact thatthe husband is at this time beg<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g to lose <strong>sex</strong>ual power,and his affection for his wife has entered <strong>in</strong>to a stage <strong>of</strong>peaceful affection render<strong>in</strong>g it difficult for him to respondto her renewed ardor, which thus tends to go <strong>in</strong>to otherdirections and perhaps to assume the form <strong>of</strong> jealousy. Sothat on the psychic side a number <strong>of</strong> unamiable traitsmaydevelop as well as pa<strong>in</strong>ful troubles on the physical side.But on both sides, when these become at allare due not directly to the menopausegrave, theybut to the liberationat this period <strong>of</strong> tendencies alreadyorganism.It isimportant to make clear that not onlylatent <strong>in</strong> theare suchsymptoms not essentially <strong>in</strong>herent <strong>in</strong> the menopause itselfbut that this time <strong>of</strong> life naturally br<strong>in</strong>gs with it manycompensat<strong>in</strong>g advantages." Among countless numbers <strong>of</strong>women/' as W. J. Field<strong>in</strong>g remarks, "the climacteric hasbeen the beg<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> a golden period <strong>of</strong> achievement.<strong>No</strong>r is there any reason why women, normally constituted,should lose their <strong>sex</strong>ual charms at this time. As amatter <strong>of</strong> fact, many women are more attractive at fiftythan they were at twenty-five; and if their personality hasbeen developed and enriched by the pass<strong>in</strong>g years, theymay be more charm<strong>in</strong>g at sixty than they were at thirty."H<strong>of</strong>statter remarks that there become visible not onlysome physical male characteristics but what he terms "asurpris<strong>in</strong>g approximation to mascul<strong>in</strong>e habits and ways <strong>of</strong>thought: clarity, objectivity, a sense for conceptions <strong>of</strong>abstract justice, toleration, bus<strong>in</strong>ess aptitude, generalsocial as well as political aptitudes/'While recogniz<strong>in</strong>gthese as possible psychic accompaniments <strong>of</strong> the postmenstruallife it is not necessary to call them mascul<strong>in</strong>e.They are non-<strong>sex</strong>ual aptitudes, by no means so common


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEX<strong>in</strong> the male <strong>sex</strong> as some might desire. For many marriedcouples, however, itmay be said that it is only after thewife's menopause that marriage is f<strong>in</strong>ally achieved <strong>in</strong> itsfull sense as a happy and harmonious fellowship, eventhough it may sometimes seem to recall that <strong>of</strong> brotherand sister. There is no doubt about the <strong>in</strong>creased <strong>in</strong>tellectualactivity <strong>of</strong> women at this age and the activecareers <strong>of</strong> many women <strong>of</strong> dist<strong>in</strong>ction may only be said tohave begun after the <strong>sex</strong>ual reproductive period was over.There are, <strong>in</strong>deed, some women who at this time use their<strong>in</strong>creased activities <strong>in</strong> striv<strong>in</strong>g to <strong>in</strong>terfere with the activities<strong>of</strong> their grow<strong>in</strong>g-up children, especially to dom<strong>in</strong>atetheir daughters, if unmarried and still with<strong>in</strong> the homecircle;many lives have thus been blighted, and k<strong>in</strong>dlybut firm rebellion is here necessary; for if some suffer<strong>in</strong>gis <strong>in</strong>evitable it is better that the old should suffer thanthe young. But the wholesomely cultivated woman, while<strong>of</strong>ten devoted to her grandchildren, exercises her liberatedmaternal energies <strong>in</strong> the larger social world, which<strong>of</strong>fersendless scopefor wide moral and other activities.It is a debated question how far there can be said to beIf soany period <strong>in</strong> men correspond<strong>in</strong>g to the menopause.it is certa<strong>in</strong>ly vague, as <strong>in</strong>deed is sufficiently <strong>in</strong>dicated bythe fact that the sperm-secret<strong>in</strong>g function has no necessaryf<strong>in</strong>al term and may be cont<strong>in</strong>ued to advanced old age,even <strong>in</strong> one reported case to the age <strong>of</strong> 103. There are,however, times <strong>in</strong> a man's life when <strong>in</strong> some cases arecognition <strong>of</strong> a sudden turn <strong>in</strong> the road enters consciousnesswith disturb<strong>in</strong>g effect. S<strong>in</strong>ce Kurt Mendel calledattention to the po<strong>in</strong>t, such a phenomenon, correspond<strong>in</strong>gto the menopause <strong>in</strong> women, has been widely recognized,though Krafft-Eb<strong>in</strong>g and others have denied it. But even<strong>in</strong> ancient days a "grand climacteric" was recognized andplaced at the age <strong>of</strong> 63. We cannot, however, speak strictly


MARRIAGE<strong>of</strong> a "male menopause." On this ground Maran6n prefersthe term "critical age/' mean<strong>in</strong>g thereby a stage <strong>of</strong> organicevolution, hav<strong>in</strong>g permanently at its center the ext<strong>in</strong>ctionor dim<strong>in</strong>ution <strong>of</strong> active genital life, although this is notthe axis on which itturns. The biological foundation isgenital decadence with changed neuro-endocr<strong>in</strong>e reactions.Kenneth Walker would place the age <strong>of</strong> this change atabout 55 to 60, Rank<strong>in</strong> between 57 and 63, Max Marcusebetween 45 and 55 and even at 40. In many cases, I wouldsay, such a period occurs even near the age <strong>of</strong> 38. Theman suddenly realizes that the period <strong>of</strong> expand<strong>in</strong>g powerhas reached its limits, even that there is a comparativefailure <strong>of</strong> power, this also manifest<strong>in</strong>g itself <strong>in</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ualsphere, and by a sudden revulsion <strong>of</strong> feel<strong>in</strong>g he may beg<strong>in</strong>to feel that he is no longer a young man but an old man.Such a recognition with advance <strong>of</strong> age may <strong>in</strong>volve notonly the liability to an eruption <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual activity butalso the development <strong>of</strong> a certa<strong>in</strong> egotism and callousnesswhich facilitates its manifestations; this is on the wholebeneficial, because it protects enfeebled old age from therisks <strong>of</strong> strong emotion, but it is liable to abuses <strong>of</strong> whichthe most dangerous occur should there be an efflorescence<strong>of</strong> activity <strong>in</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual sphere. In abnormal cases theremay be exhibitionism, the <strong>sex</strong>ual attraction to young girls,or, sometimes, tak<strong>in</strong>g a homo<strong>sex</strong>ual turn ("retardedhomo<strong>sex</strong>uality") to , boys. The dist<strong>in</strong>guished German novelistThomas Mann has dealt <strong>in</strong> Der Tod <strong>in</strong> Venedig withthis theme, which he has himself stated to be an illustration<strong>of</strong> the pathological male climacteric. Hirschfeldbelieves that this phenomenon is speciallymarked <strong>in</strong> unmarriedmen and widows, and Max Marcuse <strong>in</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ually<strong>in</strong>adequate men.The wider psychic aspects <strong>of</strong> this male climacteric arefrequently said to <strong>in</strong>clude that loss <strong>of</strong> youthful aggressive-


. OnPSYCHOLOGY OF SEXness and audacity, and the tendency to social and politicalconservatism, which is everywhere regarded as characteristic<strong>of</strong> old age, though there are notable exceptions to thistendency.the whole, s<strong>in</strong>ce the reproductivelife <strong>in</strong> men is <strong>of</strong>so much less <strong>in</strong>tensity than <strong>in</strong> women, the male climactericis a somewhat vague and comparatively unimportantperiod. Still it may <strong>in</strong>duce a number <strong>of</strong> m<strong>in</strong>or psychictraits <strong>of</strong> disagreeable character irritability, meanness,miserl<strong>in</strong>ess, etc. correspond<strong>in</strong>g to traits found <strong>in</strong> womenat the same period. It may also lead to a wider and calmeroutlook on life, the psychic changes <strong>in</strong>volved, however,be<strong>in</strong>g more endogenous, more with<strong>in</strong>, on account <strong>of</strong> thenormally greater activity <strong>of</strong> men <strong>in</strong> the world, than withwomen. There may be, as Rank<strong>in</strong> put it,"a new lease <strong>of</strong>life," even though on a plane <strong>of</strong> lessened activities, modifiedambitions, and a chastened philosophy.BIBLIOGRAPHYF. H. A. MARSHALL, The Physiology <strong>of</strong> Reproduction.G. MARANON, The Climacteric.KENNETH WALKER, "The Accidents <strong>of</strong> the Male Climacteric,"British Medical Journal, 9 Jan. 1932.W. J. FIELDING, Sex and the Love-Life.W. GALLICHAN, The Critical Age <strong>of</strong> Women.


CHAPTER VIITHE ART OF LOVEThe Sexual Impulse<strong>in</strong> Relation to LoveTHERE are many ways <strong>of</strong> regard<strong>in</strong>g "marriage." In abald and abstract elementary form itbe def<strong>in</strong>ed asmaycohabitation." Under civilized conditions it be-'legalizedcomes a more complex part <strong>of</strong> the mores or moral customs(morality be<strong>in</strong>g essentially custom) <strong>of</strong> a country, and isthen a contract, and, as Max Christian puts it, "not onlya contract to exercise and ma<strong>in</strong>ta<strong>in</strong> a <strong>sex</strong>ual relationshipbut also a true life community with economic and psychicfoundations and moral (that is to say social) obligations.Yet more <strong>in</strong>timately, however, it is the association by freechoice <strong>of</strong> two persons who suit each other, with the object<strong>of</strong> f<strong>in</strong>d<strong>in</strong>g an unhamperedfield <strong>of</strong> exercise for all thevaried manifestations <strong>of</strong> love."By a common euphemism the word "love" is used tocover any manifestation <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse. That is,needless to say, <strong>in</strong>correct. We must dist<strong>in</strong>guish betweenlust f or the physiological <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse, and love, or thatimpulse <strong>in</strong> association with other impulses.There is no verbal agreement as to the best def<strong>in</strong>ition<strong>of</strong> the dist<strong>in</strong>ction between love and lust. It may, <strong>in</strong>deed,be said that many <strong>of</strong> the def<strong>in</strong>itions <strong>of</strong>fered may be acceptedas express<strong>in</strong>g some part <strong>of</strong> the dist<strong>in</strong>ction. Lovemay be regarded, roughly speak<strong>in</strong>g, as a synthesis <strong>of</strong> lustand friendship. Or look<strong>in</strong>g at the matter physiologically,we may say, with Forel, that love is the <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct as[3*3]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXmanifested through the cerebral centers. Or, with Kant,we may say that love is the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse released fromitsbondage to periodicity and made permanent throughthe help <strong>of</strong> the imag<strong>in</strong>ation. Pfister, after devot<strong>in</strong>g a longchapter to various def<strong>in</strong>itions <strong>of</strong> love, concludes that itmay best be def<strong>in</strong>ed as "a feel<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> attraction and a sense<strong>of</strong> self-surrender, aris<strong>in</strong>g out <strong>of</strong> a need, and directedtowards an object that <strong>of</strong>fers hope <strong>of</strong> gratification."an <strong>in</strong>adequate def<strong>in</strong>ition, and so are most <strong>of</strong> such def<strong>in</strong>i*tions.It isWhile love apparently becomes <strong>in</strong> its most developedforms a completely altruistic impulse, it spr<strong>in</strong>gs out <strong>of</strong> anegoistic impulse and even when it <strong>in</strong>volves self-sacrificethere is still an egoistic gratification. Freud, among others,has <strong>in</strong>sisted <strong>in</strong> his Introductory Lectures on this egoisticsource (even stat<strong>in</strong>g elsewhere, about the same time, that"love is primarily Narcissistic") although recogniz<strong>in</strong>g that,love later becomes detached from its source. Putt<strong>in</strong>g asidethe specifically <strong>sex</strong>ual element, the mother, as Freud andothers hold, is the child's first real Zow-object, althoughlater, <strong>in</strong> subjects who are not neurotic, this primary loveobjectfalls <strong>in</strong>to the background, with the naturally grow<strong>in</strong>gprom<strong>in</strong>ence <strong>of</strong> other love-objects.In develop<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>to love, the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse, which atthe outset ispredom<strong>in</strong>antly egoistic, becomes also consciouslyaltruistic. There are, under normal and naturalconditions, altruistic elements from the outset <strong>of</strong> its <strong>sex</strong>ualdevelopment. Without consideration for the other partner,even among animals, courtship fails, and coitus cannottake place. But with the development <strong>of</strong> love thisaltruistic element becomes conscious and highly developed;it may even lead to the complete subord<strong>in</strong>ation <strong>of</strong>the egoistic element.This process by which love isdeveloped may be said to[324]


THE ART OF LOVEbe double. In partit is due to the irradiation <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual<strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct through the whole organism, tak<strong>in</strong>g longer nervouscircuits and suffus<strong>in</strong>g regions which are outside the<strong>sex</strong>ual sphere so long as the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse atta<strong>in</strong>s its endsspeedily and without impediments. In partit is due t<strong>of</strong>usion with other psychic elements <strong>of</strong> a more or less alliedcharacter.At an early stage after full <strong>sex</strong>ual development love isre<strong>in</strong>forced by the allied emotions derived from the relationship<strong>of</strong> parents to <strong>of</strong>fspr<strong>in</strong>g. The woman's <strong>sex</strong>ual loveis thereafter m<strong>in</strong>gled with the tenderness and patiencewhich have been evoked by her children, and a man'swith the guard<strong>in</strong>g and protect<strong>in</strong>g elements <strong>in</strong>volved <strong>in</strong>the paternal relationship. Sexual love thus becomes, <strong>in</strong>marriage, part <strong>of</strong> the structure <strong>of</strong> society, while <strong>in</strong> some<strong>of</strong> its highest manifestations it may be allied with theimpulses <strong>of</strong> religion and the impulses <strong>of</strong> art. In thiswomen seem <strong>of</strong>ten to have been pioneers. Letourneaupo<strong>in</strong>ted out that <strong>in</strong> various parts <strong>of</strong> the world womenhave taken a lead<strong>in</strong>g part <strong>in</strong> creat<strong>in</strong>g erotic poetry, andsometimes seem even to have monopolized the emotion<strong>of</strong> love. In this connection itmay be mentioned thatamong primitive peoples suicide from erotic motives seemsto occur chiefly among women.It must, however, be remembered that the evolution <strong>of</strong>love from lust has proceeded but a little way among manylower human races, and is <strong>in</strong>deed rudimentary among alarge number <strong>of</strong> persons <strong>in</strong> civilization. While 'lust" isknown all over the world, and there are everywhere wordsto designate it, "love" is not universally known, and <strong>in</strong>many languages there are no words for "love." The failuresto f<strong>in</strong>d love are <strong>of</strong>ten remarkable and unexpected.We may also f<strong>in</strong>d it where we least expect it. Sexual desirebecame "idealized" even by some animals, especially birds,[3*5]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXfor when a bird p<strong>in</strong>ed to death for the loss <strong>of</strong> its mate thiscannot be due to the uncomplicated <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>, butmust <strong>in</strong>volve the <strong>in</strong>terweav<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> that <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct with theother elements <strong>of</strong> life to a degree which is rare evenamong the most civilized men. Some savage races seem tohave no fundamental notion <strong>of</strong> love, and (like the AmericanNahuas) no primary word for it, while, on the otherhand, <strong>in</strong> Quichua, the language <strong>of</strong> the ancient Peruvians,there are nearly six hundred comb<strong>in</strong>ations <strong>of</strong> the verbmunay> to love.Br<strong>in</strong>ton long s<strong>in</strong>ce remarked that the words for love<strong>in</strong> some American Indian languages reveal four ma<strong>in</strong>ways <strong>of</strong> express<strong>in</strong>g the conception: (i) <strong>in</strong>articulate cries<strong>of</strong> emotion; (2) assertions <strong>of</strong> sameness or similarity; (3)assertions <strong>of</strong> conjunction or union; (4) assertions <strong>of</strong> aBr<strong>in</strong>ton adds that "these same no-wish, desire, long<strong>in</strong>g.tions are those which underlie the majority <strong>of</strong> the words<strong>of</strong> love <strong>in</strong> the great Aryan family <strong>of</strong> languages." The remarkablefact emerges, however, that the peoples <strong>of</strong>Aryan tongue were slow <strong>in</strong> develop<strong>in</strong>g their conception <strong>of</strong><strong>sex</strong>ual love, while the American Mayas, go<strong>in</strong>g beyond thepeoples <strong>of</strong> early Aryan culture, possessed a radical wordfor the joy <strong>of</strong> love which was <strong>in</strong> significance purelypsychic.Even the Greeks were late <strong>in</strong> develop<strong>in</strong>g any ideal <strong>of</strong><strong>sex</strong>ual love. True love for the Greeks was nearly alwayshomo<strong>sex</strong>ual. The Ionian lyric poets <strong>of</strong> early Greece regardedwoman as only an <strong>in</strong>strument <strong>of</strong> pleasure and thefounder <strong>of</strong> the family. Theognis compares marriage tocattle-breed<strong>in</strong>g; Alcman, when he wishes to be complimentaryto the Spartan girls, speaks <strong>of</strong> them as his "femaleboy-friends." -^Eschylus makes even a father assume thathis daughters will misbehave if left to themselves. Thereisno <strong>sex</strong>ual love <strong>in</strong> Sophocles, and <strong>in</strong> Euripides it isonly[326]


THE ART OF LOVEthe women who fall <strong>in</strong> love. In Greece <strong>sex</strong>ual love, downto a comparatively late period, was looked down on, andheld to be unworthy <strong>of</strong> public discussion and representation.It was <strong>in</strong> Magna Graecia, rather than <strong>in</strong> Greece itself,that men took <strong>in</strong>terest <strong>in</strong> women, and it was not untilthe Alexandrian period, and notably <strong>in</strong> Asclepiades, asBenecke ma<strong>in</strong>ta<strong>in</strong>ed, that the love <strong>of</strong> women was regardedas a matter <strong>of</strong> life and death. Thereafter the conception<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual love <strong>in</strong> its romantic aspects appears <strong>in</strong> Europeanlife. With the Celtic story <strong>of</strong> Tristram, as Gaston Parisremarks, it f<strong>in</strong>ally appears <strong>in</strong> the Christian Europeanworld <strong>of</strong> poetry as a ma<strong>in</strong> po<strong>in</strong>t <strong>in</strong> human life, a greatmotive force <strong>of</strong> conduct. But such romantic conceptionsstill failed to penetrate the European masses who cont<strong>in</strong>uedto regard "love" as a crude act <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>tercourse.When, however, love isfully developedit becomes anenormously extended, highly complex emotion, and lust,even <strong>in</strong> the best sense <strong>of</strong> that word, becomes merely a coord<strong>in</strong>atedelement among manyother elements. HerbertSpencer, <strong>in</strong> an <strong>in</strong>terest<strong>in</strong>g passage <strong>of</strong> his Pr<strong>in</strong>ciples <strong>of</strong><strong>Psychology</strong>, has analyzed love <strong>in</strong>to as manyas n<strong>in</strong>e dist<strong>in</strong>ctand important elements: (i) the physical impulse<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>; (2) the feel<strong>in</strong>g for beauty; (3) affection; (4)admiration and respect; (5) love <strong>of</strong> approbation; (6)self-esteem; (7) proprietary feel<strong>in</strong>g; (8) extended liberty<strong>of</strong> action from the absence <strong>of</strong> personal barriers; (9) exaltation<strong>of</strong> the sympathies. "This passion," he concludes,"fuses <strong>in</strong>to one immense aggregate most <strong>of</strong> the elementaryexcitations <strong>of</strong> which we are capable." Even this comprehensiveanalysis omits the element <strong>of</strong> love, already mentioned,based on the parental impulse, yet that is a highlyimportant element; when the specifically <strong>sex</strong>ual element<strong>in</strong> the conjugal relationship has fallen <strong>in</strong>to the back-


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXground the emotional tone <strong>of</strong> the husband's love for hiswife, and still more that <strong>of</strong> the wife for her husband,becomes easily that <strong>of</strong> love for a child. Every analysis <strong>of</strong>love serves to show that, as Crawley remarked, "love isdifficult to def<strong>in</strong>e as life itself, and probably for the samereasons. In all itsforms love plays a part <strong>in</strong> society onlyless important than that <strong>of</strong> the <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct to live. It br<strong>in</strong>gstogether the primal elements <strong>of</strong> the family, it keeps thefamily together, and it unites <strong>in</strong> a certa<strong>in</strong> fellow-feel<strong>in</strong>gall members <strong>of</strong> a race or nation."Even so brief a discussion <strong>of</strong> love may serve to <strong>in</strong>dicatethat it is foolish for even the most superficial th<strong>in</strong>ker toimag<strong>in</strong>e that we are here concerned with a romantic illusionthat may be dismissed, or, as some would-be analystslike to imag<strong>in</strong>e,a mere transformation <strong>of</strong> hate. It is true,asthat, as Ibsen said, "no word is so full <strong>of</strong> falsehood andfraud as the little word 'love* has become today." Yet theth<strong>in</strong>g the word stands for rema<strong>in</strong>s, and the extent <strong>of</strong> theabuse <strong>of</strong> "love" is the measure <strong>of</strong> its <strong>in</strong>estimable values,for it isonly gold and diamonds and the most preciousth<strong>in</strong>gs that lend themselves to the abuse <strong>of</strong> imitation <strong>in</strong>pa<strong>in</strong>t and paste and cheap alloys and substitutes <strong>of</strong> everysort. There can be no self without others and the crav<strong>in</strong>gfor others, and we cannot put aside others and the emotionswhich others excite without first putt<strong>in</strong>gaside theself. So that, properly speak<strong>in</strong>g, love is <strong>in</strong>volved <strong>in</strong> life,and if love is an illusion then life itself is an illusion.When, <strong>in</strong>deed, we consider further, how love is boundup with the race as well as the <strong>in</strong>dividual, and with endsnot only natural but such as we term spiritual,it seems,as Boyce Gibson puts it, "the great transform<strong>in</strong>g and <strong>in</strong>clusiveagency, the ultimate virtue <strong>of</strong> all life." So that,as it has been said, "Love is the supreme virtue/' and[3*8]


THE ART OF LOVE"Virtue is love," or, as the early Christian epistolist soughtto express it, "God is love."BIBLIOGRAPHYWESTERMARCK, History <strong>of</strong> Human Marriage;ib. TheOrig<strong>in</strong> and Development <strong>of</strong> the Moral Ideas.HAVELOCK ELLIS, "Sex <strong>in</strong> Relation to Society," Studies <strong>in</strong>the <strong>Psychology</strong> <strong>of</strong> Sex, Vol. VI.EDWARD CARPENTER, Love's Com<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> Age.ELLEN KEY, Love and Marriage.BOYCE GIBSON and A. E. CRAWLEY, Articles, "Love" and"Primitive Love," <strong>in</strong> Hast<strong>in</strong>gs' Encyclopedia <strong>of</strong> Religionand Ethics.FREUD, Psychoanalysis for Teachers and Parents.OSKAR PFISTER, Love <strong>in</strong> Children and Its Aberrations.Why Love Is an ArtLove has been def<strong>in</strong>ed (as by Boyce Gibson) as a "sentiment"and a "passion," this vary<strong>in</strong>g with the po<strong>in</strong>t <strong>of</strong>view. In either case it is a stable and complex organization<strong>of</strong> the emotional life, but when regarded as a sentimentit is a more <strong>in</strong>tellectual, ref<strong>in</strong>ed, and subtle emotionalfeel<strong>in</strong>g, and when regarded as a passion it is anemotional complex <strong>of</strong> predom<strong>in</strong>antly forceful k<strong>in</strong>d, a"passion" be<strong>in</strong>g def<strong>in</strong>ed by A. F. Shand as "an organisedsystem <strong>of</strong> emotions and desires," that is, more than a systemonly <strong>of</strong> emotions. In every passion, however, a system<strong>of</strong> self-control tends to arise, by whatever mechanism wemay consider that it works, whereby its <strong>in</strong>tensity is moreor less effectively regulated. By reason <strong>of</strong> its systematiccharacter and its unify<strong>in</strong>g pr<strong>in</strong>ciple, it is possibleto regardthe passion <strong>of</strong> love as "stable, regulative, <strong>in</strong>clusive,and <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct with a pr<strong>of</strong>ound rationality." But for its normaldevelopmentand at this po<strong>in</strong>t we discern the pathwith which we are here ma<strong>in</strong>ly concerned the essential[329]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXcondition is (as Boyce Gibson aga<strong>in</strong> states) joy <strong>in</strong> its object,even though that condition <strong>of</strong> joy <strong>in</strong>evitably <strong>in</strong>volvespa<strong>in</strong> and the possibility <strong>of</strong> sorrow, these emotions be<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong>deed cooperative and <strong>in</strong>terpenetrat<strong>in</strong>g;sorrow thusenters with joy to strengthen the passionthis<strong>of</strong> love. It isbycomplexity and <strong>in</strong>clusiveness that love may become<strong>in</strong> a supreme and unique sense the master passion.We have not <strong>in</strong>deed, even at that po<strong>in</strong>t, reached the fullsignificance <strong>of</strong> love <strong>in</strong> the large sense. The "master passion"may still be merely an enlarged egoism, an "goismea deux," and, therefore, however still justifiable,notgreatly more enlarg<strong>in</strong>g and ennobl<strong>in</strong>g than simple egoism.Love thus understood may be a source for the generation<strong>of</strong> energy, but if the two generat<strong>in</strong>g partners expend itmerely on each other the energy is largely wasted. Loveis one <strong>of</strong> the supreme th<strong>in</strong>gs that make life worth while,but, as Bertrand Russell well po<strong>in</strong>ts out, the love <strong>of</strong> twopeople for each other is too circumscribed to be by itselfthe ma<strong>in</strong> purpose <strong>of</strong> a good life. There must be purposeswhich stretch out beyond the <strong>in</strong>dividual couple <strong>in</strong>to thegreat world outside and <strong>in</strong>to the future, purposes, maybe,which can never be achieved but are always grow<strong>in</strong>g."It isonly when love is l<strong>in</strong>ked to some <strong>in</strong>f<strong>in</strong>ite purpose <strong>of</strong>this k<strong>in</strong>d that it can have the seriousness and depth <strong>of</strong>which it is capable/'There rema<strong>in</strong>s a primary condition <strong>of</strong> love which, wesee, the moralists admit, even if somewhat slurr<strong>in</strong>g overthe details: joy <strong>in</strong> its object. There it is that we areto love as an art.broughtThere was a time, and not so long ago, when the consideration<strong>of</strong> love as an art found no place either <strong>in</strong> manuals<strong>of</strong> psychology or <strong>of</strong> morals. It was left to the poets,who were quite content that it should be regarded as arather illegitimate subject. That was so when Ovid wrote[330]


THE ART OF LOVEthose poetic treatises on the Art <strong>of</strong> Love which rema<strong>in</strong>edfamous, and sometimes <strong>in</strong>famous, for more than fifteencenturies, and so it still was <strong>in</strong> Christendom. It was notproper or respectable or moral to treat <strong>sex</strong>ual love, eithersocially or <strong>in</strong> literature, as anyth<strong>in</strong>g but a duty. It is sometimessaid that, for modern times, the first beg<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>gs <strong>of</strong>the art <strong>of</strong> love were discovered <strong>in</strong> France <strong>in</strong> the twelfthcentury, but it rema<strong>in</strong>ed a rather illegitimate art.Today the situation is different. To regard love as anart iscommonly justified, and moralists themselves arenot beh<strong>in</strong>dhand <strong>in</strong> ma<strong>in</strong>ta<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g that justification. Theyrecognize that duty alone is no longer an adequate motivefor fidelity <strong>in</strong> marriage, and that to enlarge the basis <strong>of</strong>love, to multiply the motives that make mutual affectionattractive, by convert<strong>in</strong>g love <strong>in</strong>to an art, is to deepenthe foundations <strong>of</strong> a marital union and to fortify its morality.We are not here directly concerned with morality,but we are entitled to allow for its claims.Attempts to recognize this art date some time back <strong>in</strong>modern civilization. Ambroise Par, a great pioneer <strong>in</strong>surgery, advised a considerable degree <strong>of</strong> love-play as adesirable prelim<strong>in</strong>ary to coitus. More recently Fiirbr<strong>in</strong>ger,<strong>in</strong> his treatise on <strong>sex</strong>ual hygiene <strong>in</strong> marriage, consideredthat the physician should be competent to expound to hispatient the technique o conjugal <strong>in</strong>tercourse. To returnto France, the land with which the art <strong>of</strong> love seems <strong>in</strong> thefirst place especially associated, it was <strong>in</strong> 1859 that Dr.Jules Guyot produced his Brdviaire de I'Amour Expdrimentalewhich most admirably presented the ma<strong>in</strong> po<strong>in</strong>ts<strong>in</strong> the art <strong>of</strong> love, and was much later (1931) <strong>in</strong> parttranslated <strong>in</strong>to English under the title <strong>of</strong> A Ritual forMarried Lovers.At this po<strong>in</strong>t we are brought back to the characteristics<strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse <strong>in</strong> women, and to that <strong>sex</strong>ual cold-


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXness which has been commonly regarded as so frequent <strong>in</strong>women. For it is by the recognition <strong>of</strong> these characteristicsthat the art <strong>of</strong> love has been stimulated, and that the elementaryfact becomes clear that throughout the animalworld courtship tends to be an art.Sexual frigidity,it has become recognized, producesdomestic<strong>in</strong>felicity, suffer<strong>in</strong>g to the wife, and disappo<strong>in</strong>tmentto the husband who istempted to seek more congenialrelationships elsewhere. In such cases there is either defectivedesire for <strong>sex</strong>ual union or defective pleasure <strong>in</strong>union, and commonly both, and either may callfor theexercise <strong>of</strong> art <strong>in</strong> love.In the biological game <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> the female normally playsthe more passive part,and <strong>in</strong> civilized women this relativepassivity is re<strong>in</strong>forced not only by Nature but by our conventions.It is true that the doctr<strong>in</strong>e alike <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual activity<strong>of</strong> the male and the <strong>sex</strong>ual passivity <strong>of</strong> the femaleneeds to be qualified.It is fundamental, and constitutes,as is too <strong>of</strong>ten forgotten, the deep foundation for far^reach<strong>in</strong>g psychologicaldifferences between men andwomen. As Douglas Bryan po<strong>in</strong>ts out, <strong>sex</strong>ual tension <strong>in</strong>the two <strong>sex</strong>es, be<strong>in</strong>g opposite and complemental, cannotfail to lead to different feel<strong>in</strong>gs and reactions <strong>in</strong> each <strong>sex</strong>:the excitablepenis produc<strong>in</strong>g impulses <strong>of</strong> propulsivity,activity, mastery, etc., and the excitable vag<strong>in</strong>a impulses<strong>of</strong> receptivity, passive submission, etc. That is to say wehave here the essence <strong>of</strong> what we call "mascul<strong>in</strong>ity," andthe essence <strong>of</strong> what we call "fem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>ity." But, as DouglasBryan also po<strong>in</strong>ts out, before this stage is reached, <strong>in</strong> theearlier phase <strong>of</strong> courtship,the parts are <strong>in</strong> some degreereversed; the male must be to some extent submissive, andthe female to some extent active. The <strong>sex</strong>ual centers aremore numerous and more diffused <strong>in</strong> women, so that theimpulse is more easily dispersed and gratified <strong>in</strong> remote[33*]


THE ART OF LOVEand unconscious channels, while at the same time old traditionstaught women to repress as disgust<strong>in</strong>g and s<strong>in</strong>fulthe manifestations <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse. It thus happensthat <strong>in</strong> women more than <strong>in</strong> men the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse tendsto be driven below the surface, to seek an outlet <strong>in</strong> remoteand <strong>of</strong>ten unconscious paths, this <strong>in</strong>deed be<strong>in</strong>g the greatfact on which Freud seized. But notwithstand<strong>in</strong>g the specialcharacteristics <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse <strong>in</strong> women thereisno good reason to suspect frigidity among women liv<strong>in</strong>gunder fairly natural conditions. Even among the poor<strong>in</strong> civilization (putt<strong>in</strong>g aside a certa<strong>in</strong> proportion <strong>of</strong> domesticservants who even still sometimes live, like domesticanimals, under artificial conditions) there are, as it is said,no "old maids/' and this suggests, without actually prov<strong>in</strong>g,that there is no defect <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse. But thecivilized woman, under the comb<strong>in</strong>ed <strong>in</strong>fluences <strong>of</strong> Nature,art, convention, morality, and religion,has <strong>of</strong>tentended to come <strong>in</strong>to her husband's hands, usually at arather late adult age, <strong>in</strong> a condition <strong>in</strong>apt for the conjugalembrace, which, if the bridegroom is lack<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> skill orconsideration, may cause her suffer<strong>in</strong>g or disgust, or merelyleave her <strong>in</strong>different.there are various conditions <strong>in</strong> the womanCerta<strong>in</strong>lyherself which <strong>in</strong> this circumstance may need direct attention.Masturbation and homo<strong>sex</strong>ual practices have frequentlyrendered normal <strong>in</strong>tercourse difficult or repulsive.The <strong>sex</strong>ual organs may be <strong>in</strong> a disordered condition, per-Sometimes there is ahaps <strong>in</strong>creased by neglect. tendencyto vag<strong>in</strong>ismus. In such cases the gynecologist's aid is requiredand itmay that with his aid the naturalhappen<strong>sex</strong>ual feel<strong>in</strong>gs quickly and satisfactorily develop and theorgasm is enabled to take place. But the ma<strong>in</strong> part <strong>of</strong> thetask <strong>in</strong> cur<strong>in</strong>g <strong>sex</strong>ual anaesthesia <strong>in</strong> a woman must usuallyrest with her husband. He isby no means always equipped[333]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXfor this treatment. One fears that there is still too muchthat <strong>in</strong> this matter the husbandtruth <strong>in</strong> Balzac's say<strong>in</strong>gis sometimes like an orang-outang with a viol<strong>in</strong>. Theviol<strong>in</strong> rema<strong>in</strong>s "anaesthetic/' but it isprobably not theviol<strong>in</strong>'s fault. This isby no means to say that husbandsare consciously or <strong>in</strong>tentionally brutal. Certa<strong>in</strong>ly muchbrutality may be exercised by a husband <strong>in</strong> sheer ignorance,from a sense <strong>of</strong> conjugal duty. But <strong>of</strong>ten the <strong>in</strong>expertnessis comb<strong>in</strong>ed with a real desire to be considerate.The sad th<strong>in</strong>g is,<strong>in</strong>deed, that the awkward husband is,<strong>in</strong> a great proportion <strong>of</strong> cases, awkward simply because heis virtuous and high-m<strong>in</strong>ded, has tried to live a life <strong>of</strong>chastity before marriage, and has never learned to knowthe nature and needs <strong>of</strong> women. It is quite true that thevery happiest marriages, marriages <strong>of</strong> life-long devotionon each side, have sometimes been made by two youngone but each other.people who have never known anyBut this <strong>in</strong>nocence is a two-edged sword, and <strong>in</strong> manycases it is the other way that it cuts. Then the man whohas faithfully lived by the rules <strong>of</strong> the morality he wasbrought up <strong>in</strong> may f<strong>in</strong>d that he has thus wrecked his ownIt must be added thatdomestic happ<strong>in</strong>ess and his wife's.the man whose pre-marital experiences have been conf<strong>in</strong>edto prostitutes is <strong>of</strong>ten by no means any better equipped,and either thoughtless crudity, or an exaggerated considerationfor his wife's"purity," may prove equally unfortunate.It must be admitted that the husband's task is <strong>of</strong>tendifficult. The difficulty is <strong>in</strong>creased by the late age atwhich <strong>in</strong> civilization a woman enters the state <strong>of</strong> marriageafter a long period <strong>of</strong> years <strong>in</strong> which she has presumablybeen lead<strong>in</strong>g a life <strong>of</strong> chastity. Dur<strong>in</strong>g those long yearsthere has been, we know, a constant generation <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ualenergy which must be consumed along some channel or[334]


THE ART OF LOVEother. The woman has acquired habits and fallen <strong>in</strong>torout<strong>in</strong>es; her whole nervous system has been molded andhardened. Even on the physical side <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>, the organs areby no means always so ready to respond normally to theexercise <strong>of</strong> their natural functions. The difficulties <strong>of</strong> lateprimiparity are paralleled by those <strong>of</strong> the late <strong>in</strong>itiation<strong>of</strong> coitus. It is a mistake to suppose that early adolescenceis an unfavorable age for coitus and <strong>in</strong>volves a k<strong>in</strong>d <strong>of</strong>violation; on the contrary, all the evidence goes to showthat the young adolescent girl is more apt for the <strong>in</strong>itiation<strong>of</strong> coitus than the adult woman. The reasons for thedelay <strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong>itiat<strong>in</strong>g coitus are not based on natural factsbut on our civilized traditions. It is quite true that Naturehas aimed through the course <strong>of</strong> zoological evolution atthe delay <strong>of</strong> maturity, but that end iseffected by mak<strong>in</strong>gpuberty late, and <strong>in</strong> the human species pubertyisverylate. The demands <strong>of</strong> civilization make it desirable thatwe should postpone the relationships between the <strong>sex</strong>esto a still later period, but <strong>in</strong> so do<strong>in</strong>git is <strong>in</strong>evitable thatwe should lay up for ourselves many troubles which onlyart can redress.It is thus certa<strong>in</strong>ly true that we cannot regulate the<strong>sex</strong>ual life <strong>of</strong> man without consider<strong>in</strong>g that <strong>of</strong> woman.true that if we wish to un-But it is yet more emphaticallyderstand the psychological life <strong>of</strong> the woman on the <strong>sex</strong>side we must keep one eye on the man.There are several reasons whyit is essential to understandthat the <strong>sex</strong> life <strong>of</strong> woman islargely conditioned bythe <strong>sex</strong> life <strong>of</strong> man. They have already been touched onbut we need to recall them when consider<strong>in</strong>g the significance<strong>in</strong> <strong>sex</strong> psychology <strong>of</strong> the art <strong>of</strong> love. In the first placewhile it has been argued and even with a measure <strong>of</strong>truththat <strong>in</strong> this matter the woman dom<strong>in</strong>ates and thatthe man ismerely a playth<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> her hands, that is not[335]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXthe fundamental fact. Ultimately, throughout the zoologicalseries we belong to and most <strong>of</strong> the others, <strong>in</strong> <strong>sex</strong> themale is the more active, the female the more passive agent.Anatomically, if not physiologically,the male is the giver,the female the receiver. The psychological relationshipcannot fail to be essentially a reflection <strong>of</strong> this fact, eventhough, under vary<strong>in</strong>g circumstances, it may be departedfrom without disturb<strong>in</strong>g the general norm <strong>of</strong> nature.In the second place, apart from the natural animal relationship,all our traditions <strong>in</strong> the recognizable historicpast are based on the dom<strong>in</strong>ance <strong>of</strong> the man <strong>in</strong> the establishment<strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual relationship, and the assumptionthat the chief if not the sole part perta<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>gthe <strong>sex</strong>ual life isto woman <strong>in</strong>that <strong>of</strong> the child-bearer, any erotic partexercised by her be<strong>in</strong>g a more or less illegitimate by-play.and been estab-Our social <strong>in</strong>stitutions have grown uplished on this male dom<strong>in</strong>ance and this commonly receivedassumption: marriage, the legal headship <strong>of</strong> thehusband with the legal irresponsibility <strong>of</strong> the wife, andoutside marriage the recognition <strong>of</strong> prostitution with asole view to the assumed needs <strong>of</strong> the man alone and not<strong>of</strong> the woman. We know that <strong>in</strong> all these matters bothsocial op<strong>in</strong>ion and law are chang<strong>in</strong>g, but ancient <strong>in</strong>stitutions,and still more the feel<strong>in</strong>gs and op<strong>in</strong>ions rooted <strong>in</strong>them, can only change slowly, and even <strong>in</strong> a state <strong>of</strong> transitionwe are stillpr<strong>of</strong>oundly <strong>in</strong>fluenced by the past.There is a further important consideration, proceed<strong>in</strong>gfrom those that go before, though belong<strong>in</strong>g more <strong>in</strong>timatelyto the fem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>e psychological sphere. Modestyboth what may be termed natural modesty, which is moreor less shared with the lower animals, and artificial modesty,which depends on social fashion and iseasily modifiableis more especially a fem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>e trait. Here is notthe place to show that this is so, or to deal with the[336]


THE ART OF LOVEnumerous qualifications that must be made to the statement.In the ma<strong>in</strong> it is not doubtful, and it is closely connectedwith the more passive part <strong>in</strong> <strong>sex</strong> activity playedgenerally by the female <strong>in</strong> nature, and fortified by oursocial traditions. (But how modifiable ismodesty mayclearly be seen by the <strong>in</strong>creas<strong>in</strong>g number <strong>of</strong> societies establishedfor die practice <strong>of</strong> what is termed "Nudism"whereby men and women <strong>in</strong> a completely unclothed stateare enabled to meet socially without any embarrassment.)The modifications tak<strong>in</strong>g place <strong>in</strong> our traditions have nothere yet produced any pronouncedeffects. They have <strong>in</strong>deedtended to produce <strong>in</strong> women a disharmony betweenthe manifest and latent elements <strong>of</strong> consciousness. Thewoman is free to know what she latently feels and desires,but she is not yet usually free to manifest these feel<strong>in</strong>gsand desires. The result is that we have today a far largerbody <strong>of</strong> women who def<strong>in</strong>itely know what they want, butdef<strong>in</strong>itely know also that to make that clear would causemisunderstand<strong>in</strong>g, if not repulsion, <strong>in</strong> the very men whoare <strong>in</strong> need <strong>of</strong> that knowledge. So we are always broughtback to men.-Even these considerations may suffice to suggest that weare <strong>in</strong> the presence <strong>of</strong> two different and sometimes conflict<strong>in</strong>gideals <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual sphere <strong>of</strong> women. There is one,very ancient <strong>in</strong> our civilization, accord<strong>in</strong>g to which maternityis the central fact <strong>in</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual life <strong>of</strong> women,a fact we cannot dispute, while outside that fact, the<strong>sex</strong>ual sphereisma<strong>in</strong>ly regarded as man's concern; womanhav<strong>in</strong>g no <strong>sex</strong>ual impulses (if any at all)which do nottend to motherhood, is thus by nature monogamous, whileman, not be<strong>in</strong>g anchored to home and child, but with awider scope <strong>of</strong> psychic variation, isby nature polygamous;so that, while the <strong>sex</strong>ual problem for women is simple andobvious, for men it is more complex. That, one may al-[337]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXmost certa<strong>in</strong>ly say, is the theory which has been regardedas natural and wholesome from classic times almost toour own, whether or not the actual facts fitted <strong>in</strong>to it.Less than a hundred years ago the English surgeon Actonwrote a book which until near the end <strong>of</strong> last century wasthe standard authority on <strong>sex</strong>ual questions, and he stated<strong>in</strong> it that to attribute <strong>sex</strong>ual feel<strong>in</strong>gs to women was "a vileaspersion," while at the same period, <strong>in</strong> another standardmedical work, it was laid down that only "lasciviouswomen" showed any physical signs <strong>of</strong> pleasure when <strong>in</strong>the embrace <strong>of</strong> their husbands. And these statements, <strong>of</strong>an <strong>in</strong>conceivable absurdity, were generally accepted.Today we see aris<strong>in</strong>g another ideal, which is, we probablyhave to recognize, not only <strong>in</strong> accordance with ourgrow<strong>in</strong>g tendency to place the two <strong>sex</strong>es on the same level,but also more <strong>in</strong> accordance with the natural facts. Evenoutside the field here under consideration, we do not drawdo not <strong>in</strong>volve two different sortsthe sharp l<strong>in</strong>e <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual dist<strong>in</strong>ction which was formerlyaccepted We recognize differences that are <strong>in</strong>deed fundamental,and endless <strong>in</strong> number, but they are subtle differences.They <strong>of</strong> humannature. They represent the same human nature withthe same vary<strong>in</strong>g tendencies. These tendencies may <strong>in</strong> themale lead more <strong>of</strong>ten to modifications <strong>in</strong> one direction and<strong>in</strong> the female more <strong>of</strong>ten <strong>in</strong> the other, but the humannature still reta<strong>in</strong>s essentially the same common characteristics.We have already come <strong>in</strong> contact with the old dictum,endlessly repeated, that man ispolygamous and womanmonogamous, and seen how far that dictum is true andhow far it is false. The fundamental fact that <strong>in</strong> naturethe <strong>sex</strong> act has weightier consequences for a woman thanfor a man renders her <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ctively slower and more carefulthan * man <strong>in</strong> select<strong>in</strong>g a mate. This difference has[338]


THE ART OF LOVEalways been pronounced. Yet there is a large m<strong>in</strong>ority<strong>of</strong> women, <strong>in</strong>different to the question <strong>of</strong> maternity, whocan form a relationship <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> as easily as the average man,while women generally are just as sensitive as men to theclaim <strong>of</strong> variety, and just as able if not better able tolove two persons at the same time. The custom <strong>of</strong> establish<strong>in</strong>ghard and fast oppositions between "man" and"woman/* <strong>in</strong> this field as <strong>in</strong> others, will not bear seriousconsideration, though it is not yet ext<strong>in</strong>ct. Women, liketheir brothers, had fathers, and however numerous them<strong>in</strong>or dist<strong>in</strong>ctions between mascul<strong>in</strong>e nature and fem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>enature, they <strong>in</strong>herit the same fundamental humannature. It is, as we see, the existence <strong>of</strong> two different idealsbelong<strong>in</strong>g to two different stages <strong>of</strong> culture which isma<strong>in</strong>ly responsible for an artificial opposition. It is theclash between these ideals which we witness <strong>in</strong> our phase<strong>of</strong> transition today.That is why we should attribute importance to all preciseand statistical studies, on a large scale, <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ualsituation <strong>in</strong> women, whether normal women or women belong<strong>in</strong>gto special groups, as compared with men. Merepicturesque general statement, the dogmatic generalizations<strong>of</strong> psycho-analysts and others <strong>in</strong>evitably colored bythe prejudices and the necessarily limited experiences <strong>of</strong>the man or woman mak<strong>in</strong>g them, are no longer <strong>of</strong> much<strong>in</strong>terest, and, fortunately, are no longer required. Precisegroups <strong>of</strong> data are now be<strong>in</strong>g accumulated. It is <strong>in</strong>deedonly today that they have become available, and that wepossess valuable statistical <strong>in</strong>vestigations by competentlytra<strong>in</strong>ed hands, such as those by Kathar<strong>in</strong>e B. Davis, R. L.Dick<strong>in</strong>son, and G. V. Hamilton.Does the seem<strong>in</strong>g greater passivity<strong>of</strong> women meanany fundamental psychic difference <strong>of</strong> feel<strong>in</strong>gs or physicaldifference <strong>of</strong> needs? A convenient measurement for[339]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXtest<strong>in</strong>g this po<strong>in</strong>t, thoroughly explored alike by Hamilton,Davis, and Dick<strong>in</strong>son, is the relative prevalence <strong>of</strong>auto-erotic manifestations <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse. Whenan auto-erotic act occurs <strong>in</strong> either <strong>sex</strong> we are justified <strong>in</strong>accept<strong>in</strong>g even though we may refuse to believe that theimpulse was absolutely irresistible the presence <strong>of</strong> anactive <strong>sex</strong>ual desire. Our <strong>in</strong>vestigators differ, as we mightexpect, <strong>in</strong> the figure they present, and it has to be rememberedthat their subjects, not be<strong>in</strong>g bound to answer thequestions, sometimes preferred to pass them over, andsome may consider that the women were specially likelyto do so. It is therefore significant to f<strong>in</strong>d how frequently,as has already been po<strong>in</strong>ted out <strong>in</strong> Chapter III, they admittedactive auto-erotism. Thus Dick<strong>in</strong>son found that70 per cent, <strong>of</strong> average women belong<strong>in</strong>g to all classe<strong>sex</strong>perienced <strong>sex</strong>ual impulses <strong>of</strong> sufficient strength, andusually, it is evident, with considerable frequency, to <strong>in</strong>ducethem to resort to solitary gratification. Kathar<strong>in</strong>eDavis, among 1,000 unmarried women college graduatesfound that 65 per cent, <strong>of</strong> those answer<strong>in</strong>g the questionacknowledged that they had practiced masturbation, abouthalf <strong>of</strong> these admitt<strong>in</strong>g that they still do so, the generalhealth <strong>of</strong> those who still carry on auto-erotic practices be<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong> a larger percentage <strong>of</strong> cases "excellent or good"than among either those who have given them up or thosewho have never practiced them, s<strong>in</strong>ce a vigorous <strong>sex</strong>ualimpulse is the efflorescence <strong>of</strong> vigorous health. Hamilton,deal<strong>in</strong>g with persons <strong>of</strong> position and ability above theaverage and all married, found that only 26 per cent,women stated positively that they had never masturbated,and he observed the tendency (which I have myself longs<strong>in</strong>ce noted) for women, after childhood is passed, tobeg<strong>in</strong> the practice later <strong>in</strong> life than men, for only i percent, men began after the age <strong>of</strong> 25, but 6 per cent, women.[340]


THE ART OF LOVEThe practiceVarious <strong>in</strong>terest<strong>in</strong>g po<strong>in</strong>ts came out clearly.had not generally been taught, as is so commonly supposedto be the rule. In by far the larger proportion <strong>of</strong> cases,<strong>of</strong> both <strong>sex</strong>es, it was discovered by the <strong>in</strong>dividual spontaneously.It is significant that while 17 per cent, men and42 per cent, women state that they have not masturbateds<strong>in</strong>ce marriage, the number <strong>of</strong> women who state that theyhave done so "frequently" s<strong>in</strong>ce marriage is nearly aslarge as <strong>of</strong> men and <strong>in</strong>cludes nearly half the women who doit at all after marriage, the <strong>in</strong>frequent practice be<strong>in</strong>gmuch more common among the men. That would seem to<strong>in</strong>dicate that while <strong>in</strong> married men it isma<strong>in</strong>ly due toabsence from home, or other extraneous cause, <strong>in</strong> marriedwomen it expresses the greater <strong>in</strong>cidence on them <strong>of</strong> dissatisfaction<strong>in</strong> marriage. It is further to be noted that afar larger proportion <strong>of</strong> men than <strong>of</strong> women consider thatthe practice has been physically or mentally <strong>in</strong>jurious.Hamilton was the only <strong>in</strong>vestigator <strong>of</strong> the three whowas able to approach directly the question <strong>of</strong> the relativesatisfaction <strong>in</strong> marriage experienced by husbands andwives, s<strong>in</strong>ce his husbands and wives were comparable,equal <strong>in</strong> number and <strong>in</strong>vestigated <strong>in</strong> precisely the samemanner. He made fourteen grades <strong>of</strong> satisfaction <strong>in</strong> marriage,and when the results were tabulated itthat 51 per cent <strong>of</strong> the husbands had atta<strong>in</strong>ed to the seventhhighest degree <strong>of</strong> satisfaction, but only 45 per cent,was found<strong>of</strong> the wives. The women, taken as a group, had beenmore seriously disappo<strong>in</strong>ted <strong>in</strong> their marriages than hadthe men. Kathar<strong>in</strong>e Davis confirmed this, though onlyable to make the comparison <strong>in</strong>directly, by f<strong>in</strong>d<strong>in</strong>g that thewives reported a larger proportion <strong>of</strong> husbands who weresatisfied by marriage than they themselves showed. Myobservations though lessprecise, both as regards English[341]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXand American marriages, are <strong>in</strong> harmony with these. Thedifference may not be great but it is recognizable.It isbecom<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>creas<strong>in</strong>gly evident that there is no special<strong>sex</strong>ual psychology <strong>of</strong> woman. That was a notion orig<strong>in</strong>atedby ascetics and monks, though it has taken a longtime to fall <strong>in</strong>to discredit. Differences there are, and alwaysmust be. So longoody they cannot be alike <strong>in</strong> spirit.as men and women are not alike <strong>in</strong>But these differences,on the psychological side, are not <strong>of</strong> substance. We seenow that, essentially, men and women are <strong>of</strong> the same<strong>sex</strong>ual composition, and the old notion that such a beliefwas "derogatory" to woman is for us merely moonsh<strong>in</strong>e.We see also, that,ma<strong>in</strong>ly, no doubt, as a result <strong>of</strong> thewomentraditional ignorance and prejudice <strong>of</strong> the past,suffer more than men from the conditions <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ualsituation. Apart from general expressions <strong>of</strong> satisfactionor <strong>of</strong> dissatisfaction <strong>in</strong> marriage, which seem always toshow a less amount <strong>of</strong> satisfaction <strong>in</strong> marriage on the part<strong>of</strong> wives although <strong>in</strong> old days it used to be said thatmarriage was magnanimously devised by men for the benefit<strong>of</strong> women the more precise gynecological evidencepo<strong>in</strong>ts <strong>in</strong> the same direction. Thus Dick<strong>in</strong>son records 175cases <strong>of</strong> dyspareunia, that is to say more or less pa<strong>in</strong> anddiscomfort <strong>in</strong> the physical relationship <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>, and 120cases <strong>in</strong> which there was <strong>in</strong> that relationship some degree<strong>of</strong> frigidity or <strong>sex</strong>ual coldness, which <strong>in</strong> the act <strong>of</strong> unionmust practically amount to dyspareunia. In the case <strong>of</strong>husbands both these conditions have practically no existence(their counterpart be<strong>in</strong>g an impotency which is apurely negative condition) so that here ,aga<strong>in</strong> we have animportant disadvantage on the side <strong>of</strong> women.How far is this fem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>e disadvantage rooted <strong>in</strong> thenature <strong>of</strong> th<strong>in</strong>gs, and how far <strong>in</strong> circumstances which wecan control? There is someth<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> both. That is to say[342]


THE ART OF LOVEthat physiological and psychological adjustment to the<strong>sex</strong>ual relationship is under normal conditions less easilymen. That is a natural disad-achieved by women than byvantage but one that may be naturally overcome. Theproblem before us concerns the fact that this partly naturaldisadvantage has been more acutely felt <strong>in</strong> recent timesthan, so far as we know, it has ever been felt <strong>in</strong> human historybefore. "Why should not husbands be taught more?"asked one <strong>of</strong> Dr. Davis's subjects as she reviewed her ownpa<strong>in</strong>ful experiences. And what these experiences may havebeen we gather from the nature <strong>of</strong> the answers given bythe married women to the question concern<strong>in</strong>g their firstreaction to marriage: "amused/* "astonished," "bewildered,""disappo<strong>in</strong>ted," "frightened," "<strong>in</strong>dignant," "resigned,""shocked," "stunned," while 173 merely "took itas a matter <strong>of</strong> fact." Naturally such answers came <strong>in</strong> amuch larger proportion from the women who enteredmarriage <strong>in</strong> ignorance <strong>of</strong> all that it meant, and we arebrought at the end to the po<strong>in</strong>t at which we started.Formerly there was a k<strong>in</strong>d <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual adjustment, at allevents on the surface, because women were tra<strong>in</strong>ed beforehand,by a closer relationship to the life <strong>of</strong> their age,to know and "to expect what they actually found on marriage.In more recent times, if not still, they have beentra<strong>in</strong>ed, rightly or wrongly, if tra<strong>in</strong>ed at all, to expectwhat they did not f<strong>in</strong>d. That is to say, that there has beena revolution quietly go<strong>in</strong>g on <strong>in</strong> the status <strong>of</strong> woman and<strong>in</strong> every field <strong>of</strong> women's activity, not directly touch<strong>in</strong>gthe <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse but from every side hav<strong>in</strong>g an undesignedrepercussion on that impulse. <strong>No</strong> correspond<strong>in</strong>grevolution has taken place <strong>in</strong> the status and activities <strong>of</strong>men and hence an <strong>in</strong>evitable lack <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual adjustment.S<strong>in</strong>ce we cannot expect, nor even desire, the effects <strong>of</strong>the fem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>e revolution to be undone, the present <strong>sex</strong>ual[343]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXsituation isnew husband isrequired to meet the new wife.All life, as I have <strong>of</strong>ten had occasion to po<strong>in</strong>t out, isart.ma<strong>in</strong>ly one with which men have to deal. AThe statement has been denied bythose who haveconfused art with aesthetic sensibility, which isquite anothermatter. All mak<strong>in</strong>g and do<strong>in</strong>g is <strong>of</strong> the nature <strong>of</strong>art, which is not conf<strong>in</strong>ed to man's activities alone, andmay even be said to be unconsciously true <strong>of</strong> all Nature.To say that life is art ought, <strong>in</strong>deed, to be a mere truism,and would be so if it were not so <strong>of</strong>ten denied or <strong>in</strong>differ-Asently ignored, even by those who pr<strong>of</strong>ess to accept it.it is, one istempted to say that if life is art, life ismostlybad art.There isperhaps no field <strong>of</strong> life <strong>in</strong> which one may bemore tempted thus to qualify the statement than <strong>in</strong> that<strong>of</strong> love. It is <strong>of</strong>ten said that it is the male rather than thefemale who reveals <strong>in</strong> Nature the stronger impulse to art,and there is no doubt that this is so <strong>in</strong> various zoologicalgroups (it is only necessary to th<strong>in</strong>k <strong>of</strong> birds) but such a,generalization could hardly have been reached, as regardsmodern man <strong>in</strong> the field <strong>of</strong> love, by read<strong>in</strong>g the resultsrecorded <strong>in</strong> the pages <strong>of</strong> Hamilton and Davis and Dick<strong>in</strong>son.This is unfortunate, because love, considered as thepsychic side <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual relationship, is life itself, the gesturewithout which, so far as we are concerned, life wouldcease. We can see today and coldly enumerate all thecauses which led to the art <strong>of</strong> love fall<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>to reprobation,neglect, and contempt: religious, moral, spiritual, aestheticcauses. We can also see today on how shallow a foundationall those causes worked. That vision is a necessary conditionfor the improvement <strong>of</strong> our art. We know that it isalready becom<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>fluential, even though not always <strong>in</strong>accordance with right knowledge. Some, <strong>in</strong>deed, havesoughtnot as had once <strong>of</strong>ten been done by unreason<strong>in</strong>g[344]


THE ART OF LOVE<strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct but on pr<strong>in</strong>ciple to elim<strong>in</strong>ate any problems here<strong>in</strong>volved by reduc<strong>in</strong>g <strong>sex</strong>ual activity to a mere rout<strong>in</strong>e,<strong>in</strong>volv<strong>in</strong>g no deeper thought than is <strong>in</strong>volved by eat<strong>in</strong>gand dr<strong>in</strong>k<strong>in</strong>g, or a mere amusement like danc<strong>in</strong>g or tennis.But, as an acute exponent and critic <strong>of</strong> modern fashions<strong>in</strong> life and love, Aldous Huxley, has truly remarked, follow<strong>in</strong>gRobert Burns: "<strong>No</strong>th<strong>in</strong>g is more dreadful than acold unimpassioned <strong>in</strong>dulgence. And love <strong>in</strong>fallibly becomescold and unimpassioned when it is lightly made."Moreover, it must be added, we do not really touch thewith, or with-problem <strong>of</strong> the adjustment <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>es by thus reduc<strong>in</strong>glove. We were far from Nature when, <strong>in</strong> the days now pass<strong>in</strong>gaway, we made the <strong>sex</strong>ual act a duty,out, throw<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> sentiment and romance but we areequally far away if we make it a rout<strong>in</strong>e or an amusement.<strong>No</strong>t only <strong>in</strong> civilized man, but <strong>in</strong> the physiological facts<strong>of</strong> Nature, even go<strong>in</strong>g beyond the mammals, we are hereconcerned with an act which normally evokes resistances,and demands for itscompletely satisfactory achievementboth passion and art. If we seek to disregard that essentialfact, one way or another we <strong>in</strong>evitably suffer.We are thus led to emphasize the therapeutic importance<strong>of</strong> the art <strong>of</strong> love. In old days not only would suchemphasis have been impossible but the whole idea wouldnot have been <strong>in</strong>telligible. The art <strong>of</strong> love <strong>in</strong> this connectioncould be ignored or spurned, partly because the eroticneeds <strong>of</strong> the wife were never considered, partly becausethe erotic needs <strong>of</strong> the husband, it was generally conceded,could be gratified <strong>in</strong> silence outside marriage. But alongboth these l<strong>in</strong>esour attitude has now changed. We aretend<strong>in</strong>g to concede to women the same erotic privilegesas to men; we are also tend<strong>in</strong>g to aspire after a monogamywhich, unlike our present system, may eventuallybe realand not nom<strong>in</strong>al only. Thus it comes about that today the[345]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXcultivation <strong>of</strong> the art <strong>of</strong> love is <strong>in</strong>separably associated withthe cultivation <strong>of</strong> monogamy, because without it any satisfactorymarriage, as we now understand marriage, isscarcely practicable, while even with it marriage may stillfull <strong>of</strong> difficulties.proveIn its f<strong>in</strong>est and subtlest manifestations the art <strong>of</strong> loveisthe outcome <strong>of</strong> a man's or a woman's most <strong>in</strong>timatepersonality. But <strong>in</strong> its lower rangesit is an extension <strong>of</strong><strong>sex</strong>ual hygiene and comes properly with<strong>in</strong> the sphere <strong>of</strong>the physician who is called upon to givevarious difficult situations which mayadvice <strong>in</strong> thearise <strong>in</strong> marital life.Our advocates <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual hygiene still too <strong>of</strong>ten ignore thismatter, but such an attitude cannot be ma<strong>in</strong>ta<strong>in</strong>ed and is<strong>in</strong>deed rapidly break<strong>in</strong>g down. It is no longer possible toassert that a knowledge <strong>of</strong> the methods <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual courtshipand <strong>in</strong>tercourse comes by Nature. As Paget remarkedmany years ago, it is certa<strong>in</strong> that <strong>in</strong> civilization suchknowledge has to be taught. It may be added that the sameis even true, to a large extent, <strong>of</strong> uncivilized races, andtra<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> these matters ispart<strong>of</strong> the serious <strong>in</strong>itiation<strong>of</strong> life among various peoples. Moreover, it is not sufficientlyrealized that among peoples liv<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> natural conditionsgreat attention is <strong>of</strong>ten paid to the prelim<strong>in</strong>aries<strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>tercourse, and a considerable variety <strong>of</strong> methods <strong>of</strong><strong>in</strong>tercourse prevails.Both these po<strong>in</strong>ts are highly important.The prolongation <strong>of</strong> the prelim<strong>in</strong>ary courtship beforethe act is necessary on the physical side,<strong>in</strong> order toensure tumescence; it isnecessary on the psychic sidebecause without it the ideal element <strong>of</strong> love, which isessential to real marriage, cannot well be developed. Therecognition that a number <strong>of</strong> methods <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>tercourse, farfrom be<strong>in</strong>g vicious "perversions," come with<strong>in</strong> the normalhuman range <strong>of</strong> variation isrequired because it is <strong>of</strong>tenfound that when one method is unsuitable to secure grati-[346]


THE ART OF LOVEfication another method proves more successful. Sometimesyears elapse before the conditions and the methodare found which alone render coitus agreeable or eventolerable to a woman. Due attention to the prelim<strong>in</strong>arycourtship <strong>of</strong> the act <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>tercourse and to the method mostsuitable for adoption suffices to cure the majority <strong>of</strong> cases<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual frigidity <strong>in</strong> women.These th<strong>in</strong>gs, as we are now beg<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g to learn, cannotwisely be neglected by the physician. The <strong>sex</strong>ual gratification<strong>of</strong> the woman is even a part <strong>of</strong> the act <strong>of</strong> fecundation,for her share <strong>in</strong> that act is not purely passive. Adist<strong>in</strong>guished gynecologist <strong>of</strong> an earlier generation, MatthewsDuncan, placed stress on this need <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual pleasure<strong>in</strong> the woman <strong>in</strong> order to ensure fecundation, and Kischwith other later authorities have confirmed that doctr<strong>in</strong>e.It cannot be essential when we th<strong>in</strong>k <strong>of</strong> the vast number<strong>of</strong> children who have certa<strong>in</strong>ly been conceived withoutpleasure on the mother's part. But Kisch found thatdyspareunia (by which he means absence <strong>of</strong> gratification <strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>tercourse) was with remarkable frequency associatedwith sterility; he found it <strong>in</strong> 38 per cent, cases <strong>of</strong> sterility,but neglects to state its average frequency.The elementary fact, to which reference has here so<strong>of</strong>ten been made, is that courtshipis a natural and evenessential prelim<strong>in</strong>ary to everyact <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>tercourse.Usuallyit is for the male to take the <strong>in</strong>itiative <strong>in</strong> this,when he div<strong>in</strong>es that the right moment has come (forhe must not expect the woman to tell him this)and totake the most active part, although there isnoth<strong>in</strong>g reallyabnormal <strong>in</strong> his partner's assumption <strong>of</strong> the more activepart, and the art <strong>of</strong> love can scarcely be exercised whenthe female is merely passive. On the purely physical side,it is not until, by the prelim<strong>in</strong>ary play <strong>of</strong> courtship, thewoman's genital regionis bathed <strong>in</strong> the glandular secretion[347]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXliberated by emotions <strong>of</strong> pleasure that <strong>in</strong>tercourse is eitherpleasurable or <strong>of</strong>ten even easy, so that, sometimes, artificialsubstitutes, which should not be needed, are recommendedto replace the natural lubricant.All this, though <strong>of</strong>ten ignored <strong>in</strong> civilization, is wellunderstood among peoples <strong>in</strong> a less "advanced*' stage. Thusamong the Melanesians <strong>of</strong> British New Gu<strong>in</strong>ea, we aretold, there was much freedom <strong>in</strong> select<strong>in</strong>g partners (solong as the rules <strong>of</strong> totem and blood-relationship wereobserved) but no ,question <strong>of</strong> marriage arose until afterseveral months <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>timacy. In some districts a customexists by which a boy may sleep with a girl for the night,hold<strong>in</strong>g her <strong>in</strong> his arms and caress<strong>in</strong>g the upper part <strong>of</strong>her body. Sexual connection seldom occurred; if it didmarriage usually followed. With such a system theelementary pr<strong>in</strong>ciples, at all events, <strong>of</strong> the art <strong>of</strong> love are<strong>in</strong>volved.In the course <strong>of</strong> any prelim<strong>in</strong>ary courtship before <strong>in</strong>tercourseit is natural and desirable that more or less contact,pressure, or friction should be exerted on the clitoris,which is from the first the chief focus <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual sensation<strong>in</strong> women. It is sometimes said by psycho-analysts that thisisonly true for an early age, and that with adolescence<strong>sex</strong>ual sensation isnormally, if not constantly, transferredfrom the clitoris to the vag<strong>in</strong>a. It is difficult to account forthe orig<strong>in</strong> <strong>of</strong> this notion which seems to have been devised<strong>in</strong> the study, and might easily have been dispelled by alittle actual knowledge <strong>of</strong> women. The clitoris is a normalfocus <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual sensation and tends so to cont<strong>in</strong>ue, frequentlyas the chief if not the only focus. That with the<strong>in</strong>itiation <strong>of</strong> adult <strong>in</strong>tercourse the vag<strong>in</strong>a should also becomea focus <strong>of</strong> pleasurable sensation is natural, but itis <strong>in</strong>correct to speak <strong>of</strong> any "transfer." As so authoritativea gynecologist as Dick<strong>in</strong>son truly states, "a large proportion[348]


THE ART OF LOVE<strong>of</strong> women have orgasm only from pressure<strong>in</strong> the clitorisregion, and this isperfectly normal."With regard to posture <strong>in</strong> coitus, it is sometimes assumedthat there isonly one right, proper, and normalposture, with the fem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>e partner sup<strong>in</strong>e, and that anyother postureis unnatural, if not <strong>in</strong>deed "vicious." Thatis a mistake. The custom most usual <strong>in</strong> one particularphase <strong>in</strong> human history, or among one particular race, isnot to be taken as a rule for other times and other peoples.The oldest picture <strong>of</strong> coitus we possess<strong>of</strong> the palaeolithicrepresents the manSolutrian age and found <strong>in</strong> Dordogneas sup<strong>in</strong>e while the woman squats. At the present timemany different customs as regards posture prevail amongdifferent peoples, and many peoples admit variouspostures. Van de Velde remarks, as regards Europeans,that husbands seldom realize that the monotony <strong>of</strong> themarriage-bedif such it is found to be may be relievedby variations that come with<strong>in</strong> the normal range; andeven if they do realize this possibility they <strong>of</strong>ten put it<strong>in</strong>dignantly aside as "licentious."There is, <strong>in</strong>deed, more than this to be said. In manycases it may merely be a question <strong>of</strong> select<strong>in</strong>g an agreeablevariation, but <strong>in</strong> other cases the questionis more urgentFor some women there are postures, sometimes thosemost usually adopted which may provedifficult or <strong>in</strong>tolerable,while another and perhaps more unusual postureproves easy and pleasurable.Tak<strong>in</strong>g <strong>sex</strong>ual relationships <strong>in</strong> the widest sense, but stillon the physical side, it isimportant always to bear <strong>in</strong>m<strong>in</strong>d that whatever gives satisfaction and relief to bothparties is good and right, and even <strong>in</strong> the best sense normal,provided (as is not likely to happen <strong>in</strong> sound andhealthy persons) no is<strong>in</strong>jury effected. Fellatio and curtnil<strong>in</strong>ctus(the impulse to either <strong>of</strong> which frequently[349]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEX<strong>in</strong> men and women who never heardarises spontaneously<strong>of</strong> such practices) are perhaps the chief <strong>of</strong> these contacts.It i<strong>sex</strong>tremely common, I f<strong>in</strong>d, for nervous or scrupulouspersons to <strong>in</strong>quire whether this, that, or the other unusualmethod <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual gratification iswrong or <strong>in</strong>jurious. Ashock is <strong>of</strong>ten thus caused, for we seem to be <strong>in</strong> thepresence <strong>of</strong> someth<strong>in</strong>g which is "unassthetic." It seems tobe forgotten that not even the most recognized methods<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>tercourse can well be described as "aesthetic."It is not understood that here, amid the most <strong>in</strong>timatemysteries <strong>of</strong> love, we are <strong>in</strong> a region where the cold andabstract viewpo<strong>in</strong>ts either <strong>of</strong> science or <strong>of</strong> aesthetics areout <strong>of</strong> place unless qualified by more specially humanemotions. To the rigid formalist <strong>in</strong> these matters, well<strong>in</strong>tentioned but ignorant, we may gently recallthe endlesslywise words <strong>of</strong> Shakespeare: "Love talks with betterknowledge and knowledge with dearer love."It may be added that <strong>of</strong> the 100 married women <strong>in</strong>vestigatedby Hamilton presumably normal and healthywomen and <strong>of</strong> good social position he found that thirteenhad had experience <strong>of</strong> fellatio, cunnil<strong>in</strong>ctus, or both, but<strong>in</strong> no case could any ill effects be discovered. "<strong>No</strong> <strong>sex</strong>play is psychologically taboo," Hamilton reasonably concludes,while mak<strong>in</strong>g certa<strong>in</strong> reservations, <strong>of</strong> which themost important are that no <strong>in</strong>jury to physical structureis <strong>in</strong>volved and that there are no serious guilt reactions.That isimportant. Hamilton states that he has elsewheremet with a series <strong>of</strong> cases <strong>of</strong> naive persons who had <strong>in</strong>nocentlypractised some such "perversion," without know<strong>in</strong>ghow formidable and objectionable it appeared tomany, whereupon "the shock <strong>of</strong> suddenly acquir<strong>in</strong>g abelief that they had been engaged <strong>in</strong> a loathsome and pervertedpractice appeared to precipitate serious paranoidsymptoms." <strong>No</strong>th<strong>in</strong>g could better show how urgent it[350]is


THE ART OF LOVEto spread abroad more sensible notions on these matters.A woman should be "assured/' as Dick<strong>in</strong>son, a wise andexperienced gynecologist, declares, "that there isnoth<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong> the fullest sweep <strong>of</strong> passion that is not compatible withher highest ideals <strong>of</strong> spiritual love, and that all mutual<strong>in</strong>timacy <strong>of</strong> behavior isright between husband and wife/'In a simple <strong>in</strong>troductory manual we are not called uponto consider the art <strong>of</strong> love <strong>in</strong> detail. But itmay be wellto say that that art is far from be<strong>in</strong>g conf<strong>in</strong>ed to thephysical aspects <strong>of</strong> love. There is here an art, and a difficultart, even when physical love is not directly concerned,or when it has fallen <strong>in</strong>to the background, orwhen physical relationships do not take place at all. Therecognition <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>dividual freedom, the allowance fordifference <strong>of</strong> tastes and <strong>of</strong> disposition even when there is afundamental unity <strong>of</strong> ideals, the perpetual call for mutualconsideration, the acceptance <strong>of</strong> the other's faults andweaknesses with the acknowledgment <strong>of</strong> one's own, andthe problem <strong>of</strong> overcom<strong>in</strong>g that jealousy which becauseit is rooted <strong>in</strong> Nature every one has <strong>in</strong> some form andat some time to meet all these difficulties and the likeexist even apart from <strong>sex</strong> <strong>in</strong> the narrow sense. Yet theyare a large part, even the largest part, <strong>of</strong> the art <strong>of</strong> love.Every failure here may become a source <strong>of</strong> misery or <strong>of</strong>weakness <strong>in</strong> the whole art <strong>of</strong> liv<strong>in</strong>g.We have, it becomes clear, to take a wide view <strong>of</strong> themarital relationship, before we can grasp all the factorsthat constitute it <strong>in</strong> any completesense. The satisfaction<strong>of</strong> all these factors is essential to <strong>in</strong>dividual well-be<strong>in</strong>g,and, <strong>in</strong> addition to therapeutic importance, possesses socialsignificance as a guarantee <strong>of</strong> the probable permanence<strong>of</strong> the union. "It is not the physician's bus<strong>in</strong>ess to comeforward with proposals <strong>of</strong> reform/' said Freud <strong>in</strong> 1908.That notion now belongs to the past,as Freud himself


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXseems to have realized,for s<strong>in</strong>ce then he has meditatedover some <strong>of</strong> the largest questions <strong>of</strong> life.Today we maysay explicitly, even if we thereby reverse the primitive conception<strong>of</strong> medical art, that it is no longer the physician'sbus<strong>in</strong>ess to preserve evils <strong>in</strong> order to t<strong>in</strong>ker at them. Inevery department <strong>of</strong> medic<strong>in</strong>e and now at last <strong>in</strong> the most<strong>in</strong>timate <strong>of</strong> all it is our bus<strong>in</strong>ess so to adjust the conditions<strong>of</strong> life that, if possible, the evils may not arise. Thereis no field <strong>in</strong> which it is more necessary than <strong>in</strong> that nowbefore us for the physician to acquire a wider knowledgeor to exercise a f<strong>in</strong>er <strong>in</strong>telligence.BIBLIOGRAPHYJULES GUYOT, A Ritual for Married Lovers (Part translation<strong>of</strong> Breviaire de I'Amour Experimental by GertrudeM. P<strong>in</strong>chot).HAVELOCK ELLIS, "The Art <strong>of</strong> Love," Studies <strong>in</strong> the<strong>Psychology</strong> <strong>of</strong> Sex, Vol. VI; also Vol. III.HELENA WRIGHT, The Sex Factor <strong>in</strong> Marriage.VAN DE VELDE, Ideal Marriage.EXNER, The Sexual Side <strong>of</strong> Marriage.W. F. ROBIE, The Art <strong>of</strong> Love.R. L. DICKINSON, Premarital Exam<strong>in</strong>ation as Rout<strong>in</strong>e PreventiveGynecology.DOUGLAS BRYAN, "Bi<strong>sex</strong>uality," International Journal <strong>of</strong>Psycho-Analysis, April, 1930.KISCH, Sexual Life <strong>of</strong> Woman.C. G. SELIGMAN, The Melanesians <strong>of</strong> British New Gu<strong>in</strong>ea.[352]


CHAPTER VIIICONCLUSIONThe Dynamic Nature <strong>of</strong> The Sexual ImpulseUNDER the ord<strong>in</strong>ary conditions o social life, as we knowit <strong>in</strong> civilization, there are three ma<strong>in</strong> channels alongwhich we may direct the energy o the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse:(i) We may avoid all overt manifestations, leav<strong>in</strong>g theimpulse to expend its dynamic energy along whateverpaths, normal or abnormal, the organism may lend itselfto; (2)We may be content with temporary or merelycasual <strong>sex</strong>ual relationships, <strong>of</strong> which prostitutionis thefamiliar type; (3) We may enter on marriage, that is tosay, a <strong>sex</strong>ual relationship set up with the <strong>in</strong>tention <strong>of</strong>,possible, mak<strong>in</strong>g it permanent, and <strong>in</strong>volv<strong>in</strong>g a community<strong>of</strong> more than <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>terests. There can be nodoubt whatever that whatever one's religion or moralpr<strong>in</strong>ciples may be or even <strong>in</strong> the absence <strong>of</strong> any thisthird condition, even <strong>in</strong> the absence <strong>of</strong> children, leads tothe richest and deepest life experience.But while it is the best path, it is without doubt adifficult path. Indeed, as we have seen, the whole path <strong>of</strong><strong>sex</strong>ual activity, and not only for the neuropathic but evenfor the normal, is. beset with perils. This is <strong>in</strong> part due tothe comparatively late period at which the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse,as compared to the other impulses, undergoes full development,even though it may beg<strong>in</strong> early, <strong>in</strong> part to theperiodic and violent nature <strong>of</strong> the impulse, and <strong>in</strong> part,not the least part, to the rigid rules which religion, morals,[353]if


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXlaw, and convention have comb<strong>in</strong>ed to lay down <strong>in</strong> thesphere <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>. A wise and watchful ishygiene here for evernecessary, and is the more imperative because, when it isdefective, we are <strong>of</strong>ten faced by situations which it is notalways altogether with<strong>in</strong> the sphere <strong>of</strong> medic<strong>in</strong>e to treat.We have to regard the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse as a force, generated,we are now becom<strong>in</strong>g accustomed to th<strong>in</strong>k, by powerfulferments, spr<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong>g up from with<strong>in</strong> and capable <strong>of</strong> tak<strong>in</strong>gon endless forms, healthy and morbid, normal and abnormalforms that are sometimes scarcely recognizable as<strong>sex</strong>ual at all, and which, while we can to some extent controlor guide, we can never altogether repress. Thisdynamic conception <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse has long beenvaguely perceived; Anstie used it, half a century ago, toexpla<strong>in</strong> some forms <strong>of</strong> what was later called neurasthenia;James H<strong>in</strong>ton developed it more especially <strong>in</strong> its moralaspects; it underlies the conception <strong>of</strong> auto-erotism; ithas been worked out with endless subtlety by Freud.I have referred to <strong>sex</strong>ual energy as "a force generatedby powerful ferments." That is vague; if we now try todef<strong>in</strong>e it more precisely than was attempted at the outset,we may perhaps say that the erotic personality rests ona triangular association between the cerebrum, the endocr<strong>in</strong>esystem, and the autonomic nervous apparatus.This lastcomponent has not come conspicuously to thefront, but itsimportance may here be <strong>in</strong>dicated. It isconstituted by the digestive, circulatory, respiratory, andur<strong>in</strong>ary systems, the secretory glands and their ganglionicnervous systems. This apparatus thus regulates what maybe considered the fundamental function <strong>of</strong> liv<strong>in</strong>g. It islargely responsible for sett<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> action what Kempf,who has ma<strong>in</strong>ly <strong>in</strong>sisted on the significance <strong>of</strong> the autonomicfactor for behavior, calls the acquisitive and avertivecompulsions to action <strong>in</strong> relation to the environment.[354]


CONCLUSIONThe animals with primeval autonomic systems which felttensions <strong>of</strong> distress sought to protect themselves, and bysurviv<strong>in</strong>g through the relief <strong>of</strong> these tensions transmittedthem to higher organisms. We are thus helped to br<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong>to l<strong>in</strong>e somatic causation and psychic causation andto understand the <strong>in</strong>dividual work<strong>in</strong>g as a unit. We arefurther helped to greater precision <strong>in</strong> the conception<strong>of</strong> the conations and desires, the libido if we prefer toterm it, or the Schopenhaurian Will to which the philosophers<strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse are apt to appeal. AsCarlyle long ago wrote: "Perhaps the notablest God wehear tell <strong>of</strong> is one <strong>of</strong> whom Grimm the German Etymologistf<strong>in</strong>ds trace: the God Wi<strong>in</strong>sch or Wish."With his usual powers <strong>of</strong> lum<strong>in</strong>ous expression, Freudlong s<strong>in</strong>ce (1912) set forth the vary<strong>in</strong>g conditions underwhich the difficulties <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual life may lead to nervousdisorder, and his exposition is the more important s<strong>in</strong>cemay be held to stand <strong>in</strong>dependently <strong>of</strong> many psycho-itanalytic doctr<strong>in</strong>es which are <strong>in</strong> dispute. Freud himselfadmitted that it is unsatisfactory as a cl<strong>in</strong>ical classification<strong>of</strong> cases s<strong>in</strong>ce the same case may exhibit the various conditionsat different times, or even to some extent at thesame time; but it is useful <strong>in</strong> help<strong>in</strong>g us to a knowledge<strong>of</strong> those conditions. Four types thus become recognizable,(i)The simplest and most obvious <strong>sex</strong>ual occasion <strong>of</strong>neurotic disorder an occasion to which most people are<strong>in</strong> some degree liable is that <strong>of</strong> denial; the subjectishere quite healthy so long as his need <strong>of</strong> love is satisfied<strong>in</strong> a real object <strong>in</strong> the outer world; and only becomesobject without any ade-neurotic when deprived <strong>of</strong> thisquate compensation; under these circumstances there aretwo possibilities <strong>of</strong> preserv<strong>in</strong>g health <strong>in</strong> spite <strong>of</strong> the denial<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual needs: either the psychic tension isdirected towardsactivity <strong>in</strong> the practical world and f<strong>in</strong>ally f<strong>in</strong>ds a[355]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXreal satisfaction <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual desire, or, such satisfaction be<strong>in</strong>grenounced, the <strong>in</strong>hibited desires are sublimated <strong>in</strong>toenergy which is directed to non-erotic ends. In this processthere is a possibility <strong>of</strong> what C. G. Jung termed <strong>in</strong>troversion,that is to say, the <strong>in</strong>hibited <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse <strong>in</strong>stead<strong>of</strong> be<strong>in</strong>g sublimated may be turned from real channels<strong>in</strong>to imag<strong>in</strong>ative channels where it occupies itself withdream-wishes. (2)In the cases <strong>of</strong> the second type the<strong>in</strong>dividual becomes morbid, not through any change <strong>in</strong>the outer world replac<strong>in</strong>g satisfaction bythe need forrenunciation, but by his own <strong>in</strong>ner efforts to atta<strong>in</strong> satisfaction<strong>in</strong> the outer world. The subject becomes disorderedby the <strong>in</strong>ner difficulties which he f<strong>in</strong>ds <strong>in</strong> adapt<strong>in</strong>g himselfto the real world and by his efforts to atta<strong>in</strong> a normalmethod <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual satisfaction which he is still unfitted for.(3) The next class <strong>of</strong> cases, <strong>in</strong> which various disordersoccur through <strong>in</strong>hibition <strong>of</strong> development, is really anextreme group <strong>of</strong> the second class, and there is no theoreticalground for consider<strong>in</strong>g them separately, the <strong>sex</strong>ualfixed on <strong>in</strong>fantile aims which nosatisfaction rema<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>glonger accord with the <strong>in</strong>dividual stage <strong>of</strong> development,and the conflict arises <strong>in</strong> the effort to subdue the outgrown<strong>in</strong>fantile impulses which still seek gratification. (4)In thefourth class <strong>of</strong> cases we f<strong>in</strong>d <strong>in</strong>dividuals who were formerlyhealthy becom<strong>in</strong>g morbid without any change <strong>in</strong> theirrelation to the external world. But, on more careful exam<strong>in</strong>ation,it is found that there has been, <strong>in</strong> consequence<strong>of</strong> biological changes such as the atta<strong>in</strong>ment <strong>of</strong> a certa<strong>in</strong>period <strong>of</strong> life (puberty or the menopause) , a change <strong>in</strong>the amount <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual desire, this alone serv<strong>in</strong>g to destroythe balance <strong>of</strong> health and to <strong>in</strong>troduce the conditions forthe occurrence <strong>of</strong> neurosis. The <strong>in</strong>hibition <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ualimpulse through the external <strong>in</strong>ability for its satisfactionhere becomes pathogenic; the amount <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual desire is[356]


CONCLUSIONnot <strong>in</strong>deed measurable, it is a relative changethat causes the trouble, and the subject f<strong>in</strong>ds himself<strong>in</strong> amountoverburdened <strong>in</strong> the struggle with this relatively changedamount.this ab-Although it has no objective cl<strong>in</strong>ical validity, stract analytical classification may be said to sum up convenientlythe various conditions with which we have beendeal<strong>in</strong>g. It <strong>in</strong>dicates the l<strong>in</strong>es on which the treatment <strong>of</strong><strong>sex</strong>ual disturbances <strong>in</strong> the nervous and psychic sphere, andstill more the hygiene <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual life, most properlylie.However sound the <strong>in</strong>dividual's constitution may be,the <strong>in</strong>evitable difficulties <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual life, and its constantreadjustments to <strong>in</strong>ner and outer changes <strong>in</strong> the conditions,<strong>in</strong>volve difficulties <strong>of</strong> the k<strong>in</strong>d we have dealt with.These difficulties are emphasized when there is an <strong>in</strong>heritedmorbid predisposition. The <strong>sex</strong>ual impulseis aforce, to some extent an <strong>in</strong>calculable force, and thestruggle <strong>of</strong> the man to direct that force, when he and itare both constantly chang<strong>in</strong>g, and the conditions underwhich they move are also chang<strong>in</strong>g, is <strong>in</strong>evitably attendedwith peril,even when the impulseis normal or at allevents seek<strong>in</strong>g to be normal.The conditions are still further complicated when theimpulse is abnormal, that is to say when it is not merelyundue <strong>in</strong> amount or pass<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>to undue channels, butwhen it has def<strong>in</strong>itely taken on an abnormal form, a formwhich may sometimes be congenital, <strong>in</strong> so far as the forms<strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse can ever be said to be congenital.It will have become fairly clear that while we set outwithout def<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g too precisely what we mean by "<strong>sex</strong>," orwhat Freud calls "libido," the term grows wider as weexam<strong>in</strong>e it.Freud himself has been led to an ever wider[357]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXconception <strong>of</strong> "libido,'* and some <strong>of</strong> those psycho-analyststo an extreme <strong>in</strong>who were at first his disciples even gom<strong>in</strong>imiz<strong>in</strong>g what is ord<strong>in</strong>arily understood as the impulse<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>; similarly F. L. Wells would substitute "hedonic"for "erotic" and "auto-hedonic" for "auto-erotic." Thisenlargement <strong>of</strong> libido is (as Cyril Burt has po<strong>in</strong>ted out)<strong>in</strong> accordance with the general tendency <strong>of</strong> psychology,which now seems to regard the <strong>in</strong>nate tendencies we <strong>in</strong>heritfrom our animal ancestors as merely specific differentiations<strong>of</strong> a s<strong>in</strong>gle life-impulse. And McDougall, en^larg<strong>in</strong>g his earlier more rigid delimitation <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>cts,is now almost <strong>in</strong>cl<strong>in</strong>ed to unify them as part <strong>of</strong> "the greatpurpose which animates all liv<strong>in</strong>g be<strong>in</strong>gs, whose end wecan only dimly conceive and vaguely describe as the perpetuationand <strong>in</strong>crease <strong>of</strong> life."It is,<strong>in</strong> his much<strong>in</strong>deed, <strong>in</strong>terest<strong>in</strong>g to note that Jung criticized enlargement <strong>of</strong> the connotation <strong>of</strong> "libido," beyondthe earlier Freudian exclusively <strong>sex</strong>ual sense, wasreally return<strong>in</strong>g to the orig<strong>in</strong>al classical sense <strong>of</strong> "passionor desire <strong>in</strong> general." It thus comes <strong>in</strong>to l<strong>in</strong>e withSchopenhauer's "Will" and Bergson's "dan vital," andBurt is able to def<strong>in</strong>e it as general conative energy proceed<strong>in</strong>gfrom all the <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>cts.If we are to use the word "<strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct," let it be added,it seems best to regard an <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct as more primitive andfundamental than emotion, and not, as has sometimesbeen done, to regard emotional qualities as a central part<strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct. Where "<strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>cts" are concerned, we are perhapsjustified (with Garnett) <strong>in</strong> consider<strong>in</strong>g ourselves <strong>in</strong>the presence <strong>of</strong> conational rather than emotional systems.The associated impulseis that <strong>of</strong> a fundamental conation.Freud once suggested (<strong>in</strong> 1918) that the <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ctivefactor <strong>in</strong> lifemayform the nucleus <strong>of</strong> that sublim<strong>in</strong>al[358]


CONCLUSIONportion <strong>of</strong> the psyche to which as the " Unconscious" he attachesso potent an <strong>in</strong>fluence. This would be a primitivek<strong>in</strong>d <strong>of</strong> mental activity, overlaid by human reason, correspond<strong>in</strong>gto the <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ctive knowledge possessed by animals.Repression, says Freud, would be the return to this<strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ctive stage, and man would be pay<strong>in</strong>g for his ownnew acquisitions by a liability to neurosis.We are aga<strong>in</strong> brought tobalance <strong>of</strong> ex-that rhythmicpression and repression which is so dom<strong>in</strong>ant a feature<strong>in</strong> our civilized life, but is also to be seen <strong>in</strong> all animallife. As I have already po<strong>in</strong>ted out, psycho-pathologists,<strong>in</strong> accordance with their own special experiences, aretoo <strong>of</strong>ten tempted to see here ma<strong>in</strong>ly a possibility <strong>of</strong>neurotic disorder.With<strong>in</strong> the normal range, and <strong>in</strong> the sound organism,the play <strong>of</strong> expression and repression, it is essential tounderstand, is harmless and wholesome, even essential toariy developed form <strong>of</strong> life. To hold that the Unconsciousis always, or even <strong>of</strong>ten, <strong>in</strong> disharmony with the Consciousis a distortion <strong>of</strong> the facts. He is <strong>in</strong>deed an unfortunateperson whose Unconscious isalways out <strong>of</strong> harmony withhis Conscious. A verylittle consideration shows that, formost <strong>of</strong> us, it is not so. We have only to appeal to dreamswhich furnish the most familiar revelation <strong>of</strong> the Unconscious.It must be with<strong>in</strong> the experience <strong>of</strong> most normalpeople that dreams perpetually br<strong>in</strong>g back to us, with evena heightened beauty or tenderness, the facts and emotions<strong>of</strong> our conscious wak<strong>in</strong>glife. Dreams are sometimes arevelation <strong>of</strong> concealed disharmonies. They are also themost brilliant pro<strong>of</strong> we possess <strong>of</strong> unsuspected harmoniesbetween our conscious and unconscious lives. We are tooapt to be content with the superficial aspect <strong>of</strong> dreams, andfailto see their latent and more significant content.[359]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXBIBLIOGRAPHYE. J. KEMPF, The Autonomic Factors <strong>in</strong> Personality.McDoucALL, <strong>Psychology</strong>: the Study <strong>of</strong> Behaviour.C. BURT, Eugenics Review, Jan., 1918.FREUD, Collected Papers, Vol. Ill, "An Infantile Neurosis."C. G. JUNG, <strong>Psychology</strong> <strong>of</strong> the Unconscious.SublimationThe balance <strong>of</strong> expression and repression, howeverfairly ma<strong>in</strong>ta<strong>in</strong>ed on the whole <strong>in</strong> a healthy organism,can seldom be achieved without difficulties, and <strong>in</strong> anunsound organism such difficulties are apt to be disastrous.A remedy commonly put forth is sublimation. It is usually<strong>of</strong>fered too easily and too cheaply. There has, <strong>in</strong>deed, <strong>of</strong>tenbeen a tendency to believe that the stresses <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> canreadily be put aside. For some persons they may, but, aswe know, for many, even with the best will <strong>in</strong> the world,it is not so. Neither muscular exertion nor mental distractionhere proves effective. The games <strong>in</strong> which schoolmastersseem to have faith do not arrest <strong>sex</strong>ual activity,unless carried to an extreme and harmful degree. Atschool, it has been said, the best athletes are usually themost prom<strong>in</strong>ent rakes. We have, however, to form as clearan idea as possible <strong>of</strong> what it is we are seek<strong>in</strong>g to do. If,as Garnett believes, we must dist<strong>in</strong>guish between <strong>sex</strong> asan <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct and <strong>sex</strong> as an appetite (he considers that Freudaroused whentends to confuse them) the <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct is onlythe opportunity <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual satisfaction ispresented, and itmay be possible to avoid such opportunity. But <strong>sex</strong> asan appetite, receiv<strong>in</strong>g its impulses not from without butfrom with<strong>in</strong>, still rema<strong>in</strong>s. We are here concerned, asErnest Jones would put it, not so much with <strong>sex</strong> <strong>in</strong> thenarrow sense but with "the <strong>in</strong>dividual biological com-[36o]


CONCLUSIONponents <strong>of</strong> the <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct, i.e. with the various <strong>in</strong>fantiletendencies that later on form the bases <strong>of</strong> erotic desire aswell as <strong>of</strong> many other (non-<strong>sex</strong>ual) <strong>in</strong>terests ... aspecific transference <strong>of</strong> energy from one given field <strong>of</strong><strong>in</strong>terest to another/' It is important, at the same time, toremember that it is not usually <strong>in</strong> early life that thisproblem arises. Matsumato po<strong>in</strong>ted out that the fact thatthe <strong>in</strong>terstitial cells <strong>of</strong> the testes pass <strong>in</strong>to a rest<strong>in</strong>g stagesoon after birth, not to become active until after puberty,does not <strong>in</strong>dicate the presence <strong>of</strong> strong <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>terests<strong>in</strong> early life (though, it must be added, we do notpositively know all the sources <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse),while <strong>in</strong> women such <strong>in</strong>terests are frequently either latentor widely diffused, not to become acute sometimes untiltowards the age <strong>of</strong> thirty. Yet, sooner or later, we mayexpect this problem <strong>of</strong> sublimation to arise, and moreurgently <strong>in</strong> the best constituted natures.Plato said that love was a plant <strong>of</strong> heavenly growth.If we understand this to mean that a plant, hav<strong>in</strong>gitsroots <strong>in</strong> the earth, may put forth "heavenly" flowers, themetaphor has a real and demonstrable scientific truth.It is a truth which the poets have always understood andtried to embody. Dante's Beatrice, the real Florent<strong>in</strong>e girlwho becomes <strong>in</strong> imag<strong>in</strong>ation the poet's guide <strong>in</strong> Paradise,typically represents the process by which the attraction <strong>of</strong><strong>sex</strong> may be transformed <strong>in</strong>to a stimulus to spiritual activities.The precise formulation <strong>of</strong> this doctr<strong>in</strong>e has been tracedback not only to Plato but to the more scientific Aristotle.Less<strong>in</strong>g understood that philosopher's doctr<strong>in</strong>e <strong>of</strong> katharsisas "a conversion <strong>of</strong> passion or emotion <strong>in</strong> general <strong>in</strong>tovirtuous dispositions." But that seems scarcely correct, forit was simply the alleviation brought by emotional discharges<strong>of</strong> pity or fear which Aristotle seems to have had


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEX<strong>in</strong> m<strong>in</strong>d, and, as Garnett rightly po<strong>in</strong>ts out, the mere"dra<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong>f" o emotion is not sublimation.It is not until the com<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> Christianity that the idea<strong>of</strong> sublimation, even as a concrete image, beg<strong>in</strong>s to takedef<strong>in</strong>ite shapes. It istraced back to an early Father <strong>of</strong> theEgyptian Desert, Abba Macarius the Great, sometimes regardedas "the first scientific mystic <strong>of</strong> Christendom"; andEvelyn Underbill <strong>in</strong> The Mystic Way expounds his psychologicalview <strong>of</strong> a gradual transformation <strong>in</strong> the substance<strong>of</strong> the soul(which he did not regard as absolutelyimmaterial) <strong>in</strong>to an ever less dense and more pure spiritualityunder the <strong>in</strong>fluence <strong>of</strong> the Div<strong>in</strong>e Fire. "Likemetals," he said, "which, cast <strong>in</strong>to the fire, lose their naturalhardness, and the longer they rema<strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong> the furnaceare more and more s<strong>of</strong>tened by the flame." The pa<strong>in</strong>fulfire becomes heavenly light, and for Macarius light andlife are identical. Here we have, as def<strong>in</strong>itely as possible,our modern conception <strong>of</strong> sublimation. Macarius was thefriend <strong>of</strong> St. Basil, who was <strong>in</strong> the ma<strong>in</strong> stream <strong>of</strong> Christiantradition, and this idea constantly recurs <strong>in</strong> the laterChristian mystics and is the foundation <strong>of</strong> St. Cathar<strong>in</strong>e<strong>of</strong> Genoa's doctr<strong>in</strong>e <strong>of</strong> Purgatory the fire <strong>of</strong> purgatoryburn<strong>in</strong>g away the rust <strong>of</strong> s<strong>in</strong>.Later it appears, apart from any religious doctr<strong>in</strong>e,under the def<strong>in</strong>ite name <strong>of</strong> "sublimation," <strong>in</strong> the poetsand still later <strong>in</strong> the moralists. To sublimate is to br<strong>in</strong>ga substance by heat from what we usually regard as itsgrosser,more "material" and sordid form, to a state <strong>of</strong>vapor which we usually regard as more exalted and ref<strong>in</strong>ed.The poets seized on this process as symboliz<strong>in</strong>g whattakes place <strong>in</strong> the human spirit,and they frequently usedthe idea <strong>in</strong> the early seventeenth century. Thus Davies <strong>in</strong>his "Immortality <strong>of</strong> the Soul" sang <strong>of</strong> turn<strong>in</strong>g "Bodiesto spirits by sublimation strange." Prose writers, religious[36*]


CONCLUSIONand other, seized on the conception. Jeremy Taylor spoke<strong>of</strong> "sublimat<strong>in</strong>g marriage <strong>in</strong>to a sacrament* ';Shaftesbury,<strong>in</strong> 171 1, <strong>of</strong> the orig<strong>in</strong>al pla<strong>in</strong> pr<strong>in</strong>ciples <strong>of</strong> humanity be<strong>in</strong>g"by a sort <strong>of</strong> spiritual chemistry sublimated" to higherforms, and still later, <strong>in</strong> 1816, Peacock, reach<strong>in</strong>g nearerto our use <strong>of</strong> the idea, referred to"that enthusiastic sublimationwhich is the source <strong>of</strong> greatness and energy."Schopenhauer subsequently attached importance to theconception.In the field <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual psychology, "sublimation" isunderstoodto imply that the physical <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse, orlibido <strong>in</strong> the narrow sense, can be so transformed <strong>in</strong>tosome impulse <strong>of</strong> higher psychic activity that it ceases to beurgent as a physical need. The conception is now widelycurrent <strong>in</strong> popular psychology. Those who adopt it, however,do not always seem to realize that this process <strong>of</strong>"sublimation" is even <strong>in</strong> its orig<strong>in</strong>al imagery a process<strong>in</strong>volv<strong>in</strong>g much expenditure <strong>of</strong> force, and <strong>in</strong> itsmetaphoricaland spiritual form far easier to talk about than toachieve. That itstands for a real psychic transformation<strong>of</strong> physical impulses, by which the grosser physical desiresare lifted on to a plane where their keenness is lost <strong>in</strong> thegratification <strong>of</strong> desires which correspond tothe physicalbut are more, as we say, "spiritual" <strong>in</strong> nature, may beaccepted. But that transformation, though possible, isnoteasy nor <strong>of</strong> swift atta<strong>in</strong>ment, and perhaps only possible atall for those natures which are <strong>of</strong> f<strong>in</strong>er than averagenervous texture. Thus, Hirschfeld, who prefers to Speak<strong>of</strong> "<strong>sex</strong>ual equivalents,"is cautious <strong>in</strong> admitt<strong>in</strong>g sublimation,and denies that the <strong>sex</strong>ually abst<strong>in</strong>ent yield <strong>in</strong>tellectualproducts <strong>in</strong> art or science superior to those yielded<strong>in</strong> men <strong>of</strong>by persons not <strong>sex</strong>ually abst<strong>in</strong>ent. It is onlyreligion, and <strong>in</strong> those engaged <strong>in</strong> strenuous motor activ-that Hirschfeld would clearly admit sublimation.ities,[363]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXFreud, however, recognizes sublimation, and is evenprepared to assert that civilization itself may be regardedas a k<strong>in</strong>d <strong>of</strong> sublimation <strong>of</strong> <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ctive forces which <strong>in</strong>cludethe <strong>sex</strong>ual. He po<strong>in</strong>ts out that the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulses areexceptionally, as he would say, "plastic"; that they can bemoulded <strong>in</strong>to different shapes and even directed towardsdifferent objects.He remarks that artists are <strong>of</strong>ten, it isprobable, endowed with a specially powerful capacity forsublimation.Psycho-analysts <strong>in</strong> recent years have been concerned toexpla<strong>in</strong> and def<strong>in</strong>e "sublimation" <strong>in</strong> very precise ways, aswell as to dist<strong>in</strong>guish it from other processes with whichitmight be confused. Edward Glover has, for example,discussed this matter <strong>in</strong> a lengthy and elaborate manner.His treatment <strong>of</strong> the question will chiefly appeal to thosewho are <strong>in</strong>terested <strong>in</strong> "metapsychology" (which mayroughly be described as the metaphysics <strong>of</strong> psychology) ,but his ma<strong>in</strong> conclusion is that, though the conception <strong>of</strong>sublimation is still surrounded by some confusion, andwe cannot attempt any b<strong>in</strong>d<strong>in</strong>g formulations, it is legitimateto make use <strong>of</strong> the term.For ord<strong>in</strong>ary practical purposes, no doubt, we may rema<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong> ignorance <strong>of</strong> the nature <strong>of</strong> the exact change <strong>in</strong>when sublimation occurs. It hasenergy which takes placeto be recognized that the process is largely below the level<strong>of</strong> consciousness, and that, however readily the will goeswith it, the will cannot suffice to accomplish it. Also, it isobviously necessarynot to confuse sublimation with asimple displacement <strong>of</strong> unchanged <strong>sex</strong>ual activity <strong>in</strong>toanother channel, or with the substitution <strong>of</strong> a morbidsymptom. It is <strong>in</strong>volved <strong>in</strong> the whole conception <strong>of</strong> sublimationthat the change is <strong>in</strong>to a form more precious; ahigher cultural level is necessarily <strong>in</strong>volved. The victim<strong>of</strong> kleptolagnia who displaces <strong>sex</strong>ual activity <strong>in</strong>to theft hasF364]


CONCLUSIONnot achieved sublimation. It would not be necessary tostate this if tne notion had not been foolishly put forward.By some psycho-analysts, carry<strong>in</strong>g on the suggestion <strong>of</strong>Freud that all civilization may be regarded as a sublimation<strong>of</strong> libido, the idea has been pushed to extremelengths. Thus, the Swiss school <strong>of</strong> analysts (notably asonce represented by Maeder) have emphasized sublimationas help<strong>in</strong>g to constitute a k<strong>in</strong>d <strong>of</strong> psycho-synthesis,and even a k<strong>in</strong>d <strong>of</strong> religion, the soul be<strong>in</strong>g led, as Dantewas <strong>in</strong> his great poem, through Hell and Purgatory toParadise, the physician as guide play<strong>in</strong>g the part <strong>of</strong> Virgil.The Italian psycho-therapeutist Assagioli more temperatelyattaches high value to sublimation when there isa contrast and conflict between excessive <strong>sex</strong>ual energyand the obstacles to its normal gratification. He does notdesire to expla<strong>in</strong> all the highest psychic faculties as simplythe product <strong>of</strong> the more elementary impulses, and, putt<strong>in</strong>gaside the efforts <strong>of</strong> direct psycho-analytic treatment, heattaches importance to auto-sublimation. He does not regardit as less real because we cannot register it on arevolv<strong>in</strong>g cyl<strong>in</strong>der and show a graphic curve, and herightly po<strong>in</strong>ts out that to ga<strong>in</strong> the benefits <strong>of</strong> sublimationit is necessary to put aside the notion that <strong>sex</strong> is bestialand shameful, and "repression" therefore required. The<strong>sex</strong>ual excitation may be <strong>in</strong>tense but it may at the sametime be l<strong>in</strong>ked on to higher emotional and spiritual activities,and especially, he holds, by a complete change <strong>of</strong>occupation, to some creative work, for artistic creation isdeeply but obscurely related to the process <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual sublimation.(Hirschfeld has referred to genus and genius ashav<strong>in</strong>g the same root.) Assagioli <strong>in</strong>vokes Wagner's Tristanas a marvelous example <strong>of</strong> sublimation s<strong>in</strong>ce it was clearlyfilled with the fire and passion <strong>of</strong> itscomposer's ungratifiedlove for Mathilde Wesendonck.[365]


PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXAssagioli's advice may help to br<strong>in</strong>g home to us the limits<strong>of</strong> sublimation. Accord<strong>in</strong>g to the second law <strong>of</strong> thermodynamics,"no mach<strong>in</strong>e converts nor can convert <strong>in</strong>towork all the heat received; only a small part <strong>of</strong> this heatis transformed <strong>in</strong>to work; the rest is expelled <strong>in</strong> the form<strong>of</strong> degraded heat." When we deal with sublimation weare treat<strong>in</strong>g the organism dynamically, and we must beprepared to accept and allow for a certa<strong>in</strong> amount <strong>of</strong><strong>sex</strong>ual energy "expelled <strong>in</strong> the form <strong>of</strong> degraded heat/*whatever the form may be. Even Dante had a wife andfamily when he wrote the Div<strong>in</strong>e Comedy.As Freud truly says <strong>in</strong> his Introductory Lectures: "Themeasure <strong>of</strong> unsatisfied Libido that the average humanbe<strong>in</strong>g can take upon himself is limited. The plasticity andfree mobility <strong>of</strong> the Libido is not by any means reta<strong>in</strong>edto the full <strong>in</strong> all <strong>of</strong> us; and sublimation can never dischargemore than a certa<strong>in</strong> proportion <strong>of</strong> Libido, apartfrom the fact that many people possess the capacity forsublimation only <strong>in</strong> a slight degree." So that, on the onehand, the possibility <strong>of</strong> sublimation, its value, and itsfarreach<strong>in</strong>gsignificance must always be held <strong>in</strong> m<strong>in</strong>d, on theother hand it must also always be remembered that, even<strong>in</strong> the process <strong>of</strong> sublimation, a portion <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulsewill be left, either to be dispersed <strong>in</strong> wholesome butmore primitive ways or else to seek a channel <strong>in</strong> neurotictransformations.BIBLIOGRAPHYFREUD, Introductory Lectures.ERNEST JONES, Papers on Psycho-Analysis.S. HERBERT, The Unconscious <strong>in</strong> Life and Art.A. C. GARNETT, The M<strong>in</strong>d <strong>in</strong> Action.EDMUND GLOVER, "Sublimation, Substitution and SocialAnxiety," International Journal <strong>of</strong> Psycho-Analysis,July, 1931,[366]


GLOSSARYAlgolagnia. The association <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual pleasure withpa<strong>in</strong>, whether given or received.Anhedonia. A term devised by Ziehen for <strong>sex</strong>ual frigidity.Auto-erotism. The spontaneous manifestations <strong>of</strong> the<strong>sex</strong>ual impulse not directed towards a <strong>sex</strong>ual object(or, as frequently understood by psycho-analysts, directedtowards the subject himself).Auto-hedonia. See Auto-erotism.Chalone. A hormone with an <strong>in</strong>hibitory action.Chromosomes. The rod-like filaments <strong>in</strong>to which thechromat<strong>in</strong> <strong>of</strong> the nucleus <strong>of</strong> the reproductive cell breaksup <strong>in</strong> the course <strong>of</strong> development.Coitus <strong>in</strong>terruptus. Sexual <strong>in</strong>tercourse brought to anend by withdrawal when emission is about to occur.Coitus reservatus. Sexual <strong>in</strong>tercourse prolonged by controlover the act <strong>of</strong> sem<strong>in</strong>al emission, which may takeplace after withdrawal or not at all.Contrectation. The term devised by Moll for the prelim<strong>in</strong>aryapproaches <strong>of</strong> courtship needed to producetumescence.Coprolagnia. Also Coprophilia. The association <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ualpleasure with defecation or with the faeces.Cunnil<strong>in</strong>ctus. Also but <strong>in</strong>correctly Cunnil<strong>in</strong>gus. Theapposition <strong>of</strong> the mouth to the female genital organs.Detumescence. The stage <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual excitement, follow<strong>in</strong>gtumescence, dur<strong>in</strong>g which the orgasm occurs.Endrocr<strong>in</strong>ology. The science <strong>of</strong> the endocr<strong>in</strong>es or hormones,products <strong>of</strong> the various ductless glands which<strong>in</strong>fluence the whole organism.Enuresis. Bed-wett<strong>in</strong>g, now frequently regardedas hav<strong>in</strong>ga <strong>sex</strong>ual association.Eonism* The impulse to assume the dress, habits, andways <strong>of</strong> feel<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> the opposite <strong>sex</strong>.[367]


GLOSSARYErogenic or Erotogenic zones. Regions <strong>of</strong> the bodywhich, habitually or occasionally, prove <strong>sex</strong>ually excitable.Erotic symbolism. A deviation by which some object oridea normally on the verge or outside <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ualprocess becomes its chief focus.Exhibitionism. The impulse to expose a part <strong>of</strong> thebody, especially the genital region, with some consciousor unconscious <strong>sex</strong>ual motive.Fellatio. Apposition <strong>of</strong> the mouth to the male genitalorgans.Fetich. Some object to which a special <strong>sex</strong>ually excit<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong>fluence is attached.Frottage. Sexual pleasure derived from rubb<strong>in</strong>g aga<strong>in</strong>stsome part <strong>of</strong> the body <strong>of</strong> another person.Gamete. The reproductivecell.Gonad. The relatively undifferentiated reproductivecell.Hetero<strong>sex</strong>ual. The normal <strong>sex</strong>ual attachment to a person<strong>of</strong> opposite <strong>sex</strong>.Homogenic. A substitute for the term Homo<strong>sex</strong>ual proposedby Edward Carpenter.Homo<strong>sex</strong>ual. The general term for <strong>sex</strong>ual attraction toa person <strong>of</strong> the same <strong>sex</strong>.Hormones. The <strong>in</strong>ternal secretions <strong>of</strong> the ductlessglands which act as "chemical messengers."Hyphedonia. A little-used term for relative <strong>sex</strong>ual frigidity.Karezza. See Coitus reservatus.Kleptolagnia. The association <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual excitement withthe act <strong>of</strong> theft.Libido. The term selected by Freud to <strong>in</strong>dicate the energy<strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse manifest<strong>in</strong>g itself <strong>in</strong> variousforms, and subsequently used by some authors to covervital energy <strong>in</strong> general without special reference to the<strong>sex</strong>ual impulse.Masochism. Sexual pleasure experienced <strong>in</strong> be<strong>in</strong>g hurt,humiliated, or dom<strong>in</strong>ated.Metatropism. A term proposed by Hirschfeld for a re-[368]


GLOSSARYversed <strong>sex</strong>ual attitude, a man assum<strong>in</strong>g that <strong>of</strong> awoman, or a woman that <strong>of</strong> a man.Mixoscopia. Sexual pleasure experienced <strong>in</strong> pry<strong>in</strong>g atsights <strong>of</strong> a <strong>sex</strong>ual nature, sometimes termed voyeurism.Mixoscopic zoophilia. Sexual pleasure <strong>in</strong> the spectacle<strong>of</strong> animals copulat<strong>in</strong>g.Narcissism. Auto-erotic self-admiration, regarded eitheras a phase <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual development or (<strong>in</strong> an extremeform) as a <strong>sex</strong>ual deviation.Necrophilia. The <strong>sex</strong>ual attraction <strong>of</strong> corpses; vampirism.Oedipus complex. Early attachment to the mother accompaniedby jealous hostility to the father, whichFreud orig<strong>in</strong>ally regarded as a general psychic phenomenonwith far-reach<strong>in</strong>g significance.Osphresiolagnia. Or Ozolagnia. Sexual pleasure arousedby body odors.Paedicatio. Sodomy, <strong>sex</strong>ual connection by the anus,whether active or passive.Paidophilia. Or Paiderastia. Sexual attraction to theyoung, not necessarily associated with physical relationship.Pyrolagnia, Or Erotic pyromania. Sexual pleasure arousedby conflagrations.Sadism. Sexual pleasure experienced <strong>in</strong> hurt<strong>in</strong>g, humiliat<strong>in</strong>g,or subjugat<strong>in</strong>g the object <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual attraction.Scatologic. Referr<strong>in</strong>g to the excretions.Scoptolagnia. An alternative and perhaps preferableterm for Mixoscopia.Stuff-fetichisms. Sexual fetiches constituted by variousfabrics, such as silk, velvet, etc.Tribadism. The ancient term for female <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>versionwhich was believed to <strong>in</strong>volve an attempt at physical<strong>in</strong>tercourse.Transvestism.Hirschfeld's term for Eonism, which really<strong>in</strong>volves more than cross-dress<strong>in</strong>g.Tumescence. The prelim<strong>in</strong>ary stage <strong>of</strong> orgasm <strong>in</strong>volv<strong>in</strong>gengorgement <strong>of</strong> vessels, and lead<strong>in</strong>g on to detumescence.Und<strong>in</strong>ism. Sexual pleasure associated with water andspecially apt to be connected with the act <strong>of</strong> ur<strong>in</strong>ation.Uranism. The term for homo<strong>sex</strong>uality devised by Ulrichs.[369]


GLOSSARYUrolagnia. Sexual pleasure associated with ur<strong>in</strong>ation.Venus obversa. The normal face-to-face posture <strong>in</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual<strong>in</strong>tercourse.Zooerastia. The desire for real or simulated <strong>in</strong>tercoursewith animals.Zygote. The fertilized egg.[370-*


INDEXAbortion, 290.Abraham, K., 208.Abst<strong>in</strong>ence, 256 et seq.f 313.Adler, Otto, 34, 310.Adoption, child, 300.Adrenals, II, 12.jEschylus, 326.Alcman, 326.Algolagnia, 89, 198 et seq.Alopecia areat a, 45.Anal erotism, 82, 163.Anti-<strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct, 56.Apes, courtship among, 60.Aristotle, 361.Arrhenius, 34.Art & Sex, <strong>in</strong>, 365.Art <strong>of</strong> love, 323 et seq.Assagioli, 365.Associational therapy, 247.Auto-erotism, 107, 340,Autonomic system, 354.Bacon, 220.Balzac, 334.Barry, James, 243,Basil, St., 362.Beam, L., 269, 270.Beard, the, 70.Beauty, orig<strong>in</strong> <strong>of</strong> the idea <strong>of</strong>,Bell, Blair, 10.Bell, Sanford, 87Bergson, 84, 358.Berkhan, 126.Bestiality, 179.B<strong>in</strong>et, 54> *65*B<strong>in</strong>swanger, L., 170*64.[371]Birds, courtship among, 31, 38,60, 6 5.Birth control, see Contraception.Bloch, L, 57, 224.Blonsky, 283.Bohn, 1 6.Bonnet, C., 49.Breasts, the, 48, 69.Breed<strong>in</strong>g season, 32.Brill, 75-Br<strong>in</strong>ton, 114, 326.Brown, Langdon, 11.Bryan, Douglas, 190, 332.Biicher, 58.Burgdorfer, 269.Burt, C, 358.Burton, Robert, 203 r266.Cabanis, 49.Campbell, Harry, 35.Carlyle, 355.Carpenter, Edward, 223, 243, 253.Castration-complex, 97.Cathar<strong>in</strong>e <strong>of</strong> Genoa, St., 362.Cathartic process, 6,Cervantes, 204.Chambard, 29.Charcot, 29, 174.Chastity, 313 et seq.Chevalier, 229.Child Guidance Cl<strong>in</strong>ics, 4, 141.Childhood, <strong>sex</strong> <strong>in</strong>, 82 et seq.Choisy, Abbe de, 243.Christian, M., 127, 269, 323.Chromosomes, 8, 225.Clarke, Pearce, 42.


INDEXClement <strong>of</strong> Alexandria, 2.Durckheim, 32.Dukes, 123.35i, 354, 357, 358, 359, 360,Dummer, Mrs. W. F. 141. 366.Climateric, male, 320 et seq. Dyspareunia, 342.Clitoris, 19, 44, 90, 34&Coitus, 21 et seq. t 349.East, <strong>No</strong>rwood, 186, 187, 188,Coitus <strong>in</strong>terruptuSj I2O, 288.194, 195-Coitus reservatus, 289.Ed<strong>in</strong>ger, 50.Congreve, 204.Education, 89, 136 et seq.Constitutionology, 142.Ekler, R., 296.Contraception, 26, 285 et seq. Elephants, courtship <strong>of</strong>, 41.Contrectation, 17.Emm<strong>in</strong>ghaus, 126.Coprolagnia, 162.Enuresis, 164.Courtship, 18, 30 et seq, 40, 203,346.Eonism, 242.Epaulard, 209.Crawley, 94, 95, 3*5, 328.Epilation, 71.Crew, 9.Epilepsy, 187, 188,Cruelty, 202, 205.Erb, 128.Cullerre, 201.Erection, 19, 20.Cullis, W., 161.Ergophily, 77.Cunnil<strong>in</strong>ctus, 48, 231, 349, 350. Erogenic zones, 29, 46.Curschmann, 128.Eulenburg, 113.Cush<strong>in</strong>g, Harvey, 12.Euripides, 326.Evans, 9, 12.Danc<strong>in</strong>g, 75.Dante, 361, 366.Exhibitionism, 185 et seq.Exogamy, 94.Darw<strong>in</strong>, 38, 60, 105.Davies, 362.Fellatio, 48, 231, 349 350-Davis, K. B., 35, 83, 100, 123, Fenichel, 244.130, 139, 156, 221, 260, 270, Fere, 29, 45, 53, 59, 60, 62, 77,275, 339, 341, 343-223.Day-dream<strong>in</strong>g, 108 et seq.Fetichism, 149 et seq., 165 et seq.Depouy, 183.Field<strong>in</strong>g, W. J., 319,Dessoir, Max, 234.FitzGibbon, 318.Detumescence, 17 et seq.Flagellation, 191.Dickens, 268.Dick<strong>in</strong>son, 107, 147, 156, 269, 270,Flaubert, 313.Fonssagrives, 83.275, 277, 304, 309, 339* 342, Foot-tickler, <strong>of</strong>ficial, 44.348.Fox, Munro, 33, 34.Distillatio, 22Freud, 6, 7, 84, 85, 86, 91, 92, 96,Dittler, 296.97, 108, <strong>in</strong>, 112, 119, 135, 153,Divorce, 299.161, 162, 164, 185, 199, 206,Dogiel, 59.214, 234, 247, 253, 258, 259,Dreams, 99, 112 et seq., 186, 359. 262, 263, 273, 305, 324, 333,


Frigidity, 301, 332.Frottage, 43.Fiirbr<strong>in</strong>ger, 128, 331.Fuller, 174.Fur-fetichism, 178.Gaedefccn, 32.Gametes, 8.Garb<strong>in</strong>i, 56.Garnett, 358, 360, 362.Gamier, 171, 172, 192, 194, 208.Gates, Ruggles, 145.Gibson, Boyce, 330.Gide, Andre, 253.Gilles de la Tourette, 118.Glover, E., 364.Goldsmith, E., 159.Goncourts, the, 62.Gourmont, Remy de, 212.Greek erotism, 104, 326.Gries<strong>in</strong>ger, 126.Groos, 56*Gual<strong>in</strong>o, 115.Guttceit, 127.Guyot, 331.Gynecomasty, 231.Hair despoilers, 177.Hair-fetichism, 177.Hair-p<strong>in</strong>s <strong>in</strong> bladder, 122.Hall, Stanley, 116, 169, 178, I94Hamilton, G. V., 35, 83, 84, 87,90, 100, ill, 114, n8, 139, 156,162, 163, 219, 221, 276, 303,309, 3io, 334, 350.Hammond, 114, 123, 127, 308.Hart, 269.Haycraft, 32.Healy, 75, H^ 185.Heape, 2, 34, 94-Hear<strong>in</strong>g, 58 et seq.Helmholtz, 62.Herodotus, 39.Herrick, 44.INDEX[373]Heterogamy, 286.Heymans, 39,Heyn<strong>in</strong>x, 51.H<strong>in</strong>ton, James, 280, 354.Hippocrates, 253.Hirschfeld, 31, 74, 167, 169, 189,191, 192, 197, 200, 212, 220,222, 229, 231, 238, 363, 365.H<strong>of</strong>statter, 319.Homogamy, 286.Homo<strong>sex</strong>uality, 218 et seq.Hormones, 10, 13, 227.Horney, Kar<strong>in</strong>, 266, 274.Howard, Eliot, 38, 40.Hudson, W. H., 60.Huxley, Aldous, 345.Hymen. 20.Hypnotism, 246*Hysteria, 118.Hysterogenic zones, 30.Iconolagnia, 151.Impotence, 301 et seq.Incest, 93.Insem<strong>in</strong>ation, artificial, 301,Inst<strong>in</strong>ct, the def<strong>in</strong>ition <strong>of</strong>, 16,Inter-<strong>sex</strong>uality, 227.Introversion, 356.Inversion, <strong>sex</strong>ual, 218 et seq.Ipsation, 120.Jager, 55.James, W., 56Janet, 204.Jealousy, 95.Jelliffe, 91, 153, 154, 166.Jones, Ernest, 85, 149, 360.Jung, 84, 356, 358.Kahlil, Gibran, 278.Kant, 324.Karezza, 289.Katkarsis, 361.Kempf, 354.


Keyserl<strong>in</strong>g, 278, 285.Kiernan, 54, 55, 126, 183, 239,244.Kisch, 347.Kiss, the, 47.Kleptolagnia, 43, 152, 183.Kleptomania, 183.Koch, 127.Kossmann, 35.Kraepel<strong>in</strong>, 127, 131, 132.Kraflt-Eb<strong>in</strong>g, 34, 105, 127, 152,172, 173, 175, 176, 177, 178,198, 206, 207, 212, 222, 223,224, 229, 308, 320.Kretschmer, 142.Kurd<strong>in</strong>owski, 49.Lacassagne, 183, 199, 207.Larynx at puberty, 61.Lasegue, 186.Lat<strong>in</strong>i, 220.Learoyd, 108.Legrand du Saulle, 308.Leppmann, 150, 206, 211, 212.Less<strong>in</strong>g, 361.Letamendi, 229.Libido, 84, 357, 3^5-Loeser, 295.Lowenfeld, 114, 115, 116, 127,258, 262, 305.Lombroso, 106.Love as an art, 323 et seq.Love <strong>in</strong> children, 88.Love-bite, 204.Lucretius, 201.Luther, 113, 293.Macarius the Great, 362.Maeder, 187, 365.Magnan, 174.Mal<strong>in</strong>owski, 93, 102.Mann, Thomas, 321.Mantegazza, 121.Maraich<strong>in</strong>age, 47.INDEX[374]Maranon, 223, 224, 245, 317, 321.Marc, 83.Marchand, 174.Marc<strong>in</strong>owski, 166.Marcuse, 321.Marie, A., 199.Marriage, 265 et seq.Marro, 56, 115, 127.Marshall, F. H. A., 2.Mart<strong>in</strong>, L., 42.Masochism, 173, 198 et seq.Massenet, 62.Masturbation, 83, 97 et seq. f I2(,et seq., I59 230, 305, 34O.Matsumato, 361.Maudsley, 127.McDougall, 15, 558,Mead, M., 103.Meirowsky, 261.Mendel, K., 320.Mendelism, 4, 9.Menopause, 317 et seq.Menstruation, 34.Metatropism, 200.Michelangelo, 220.Millard, Killick, 297.Mixoscopia, 73, 151.Mixoscopic zoophilia, 175.Modesty, 35, 336.Moll, 16, 61, 100, 113, 116, 126,152, 163, 172, 179, 192, 198,206, 207, 222, 224, 229, 247,306.Mon<strong>in</strong>, 53.Mons Venerls, 19.Mono-erotism, 282.Monogamic standard, 279, 338.Montaigne, 273, 279, 305.Morality, 5.,Muller, R,, 17, 61.Muret, 220.Muscle erotism, 75.Music, 58 et seq.Musk, 57.


Mylitta, 38.Mysticism, 362.Nacke, 116, 127, 134, 135, 190,224, 238, 259-Narcissism, 134.Necrophilia, 151, 209.Necro-sadism, 209.Nelson, J., 33.Neumann, 41.Nipples, the, 48.<strong>No</strong>cturnal emissions, 113 et seq*<strong>No</strong>se, the, 54.<strong>No</strong>viciate for marriage, 271.Nudism, 36, 337-Obscenity, 166.QEdipus-complex, 91, 95 et seq.Olfactionism, 54.Onan, 120, 288.Oral erotism, 86.Osphresiolagnia, 150, 208.Ovid, 330.Ozolagny, 54.Paedication, 231.Paget, 346.Paidophilia, 150.Pa<strong>in</strong> as a stimulant, 205.Palladius, 261.Para-sympathetic system, 1 1.Parathyroid, II.Pare, A., 331.Paris, G., 327.Parker, G. H., 52.Partridge, 109.Patrizi, 59.Patterson, 269.Peacock, 363.Pearson, 156.Peck, M., 221,Pelanda, 188.Penis, the, 85, 90, 97-Perez, 83.INDEX[375]Perfumes, 57.Periodicity <strong>in</strong> <strong>sex</strong>, 32.Perry-Coste, 33.Perversion, 2, 21, 46, 82, 101, 148153, 154, 214, 216, 350.Peyron, 169.Pfister, 88, 324-Phallicism, 67, 194.Physician, his place, 6, 351.Pick, 109.Picton, Werner, 222.Pieron, 16.P<strong>in</strong>eal, n.Pituitary, II, 12.Plato, 253, 361.Pollutio, 113.Poly-erotism, 282, 338.Polygamy, 281 et seq.Polymorph-perversity, 153.Poulton, 65.Precocity, 156, 171.Preferential mat<strong>in</strong>g, 37.Pregl, 296.Presbyophilia, 150.Problem children, 159.Prostitution, 334, 353.Pruritus, 44.Psychic coitus, 123.Puberty <strong>in</strong>itiation, 142.Putnam, 186.Pygmalionism, 74, 151.Pyrolagnia, 183.Raffalovich, no, 223.Rank, 92, 96, 135, 136, 137, H*146.Rank<strong>in</strong>, 321.Reproduction, mechanism <strong>of</strong>, 8.Restif de la Bretonne, 94, 165173, 192.Ribb<strong>in</strong>g, 114.Riedel, 199.Robie, 83, 99, 132, 133-Rob<strong>in</strong>son, G. D., 295.


INDEXRob<strong>in</strong>son, Louis, 43.R5mer, Von, 33, 230.Rohleder, 114, 123, I35 295.Roman erotism, 104.Rousseau, 98, no, 189, 37> 3"-Russell, Bertrand, 330,Saboureau, 45.Sade, Marquis de, 199.Sadi-fetichism, 208.Sadism, 198 et seq.Sa<strong>in</strong>t-Paul, 17, 223.Samoans, 103.Sante de Sanctis, 118.Savage, Sir G., 238^Scatologic <strong>in</strong>terests, 112.Schopenhauer, 356, 358, 363.Schrenck-<strong>No</strong>tz<strong>in</strong>g, 246,Schiile, 127.Schwartz, O., 245.Scoptophilia, 73, 151.Sebaceous glands, 45.Seerly, 123.Sel<strong>in</strong>court, Hugh de, 159.Senility, <strong>sex</strong>ual, 210.Sexual selection, 37.Shaftesbury, 363.Shakespeare, 350.Sharpey-Schafer, 13.Shields, 269.Simpson, 12.Sk<strong>in</strong> erotism, 75.Smell, 50 et seq.Smith, Elliot, 50.Smith, Theodate, 109.Sodomy, 219.Sollier, 119.Soviet Russia, 283, 290, 315.Spencer, Herbert, 16, 60, 327.Sperber, 58.Sp<strong>in</strong>oza, 44.Spitzka, 127.Stanhope, Lady Hester, 243.Steatopygia, 69,Ste<strong>in</strong>, B., 44.Stekel, 184.Sterility, 347.Stendhal, 18, 76.Sterilization, 291.Stockham, Alice, 289.StufE-fetichism, 175.Sublimation, 360 et $eq.Suckl<strong>in</strong>g, 49.Suggestion, 6.Swezy, 9.Symbolism, 148 et seq.Symonds, J. A., 223.Sympathetic system, n.Tactile element <strong>in</strong> <strong>sex</strong>, 41 et'Tarchan<strong>of</strong>F, 59.Taylor, Jeremy, 363.Tchlen<strong>of</strong>f, 114, 124.Thayer, A., 56.Theognis, 326.Thigh friction, 122.Tho<strong>in</strong>ot, 192.Thomson, Arthur, 296.Thymus, n.Thyroid, n, 12.Ticklishness, 43.Touch, 41 et seq.Toulouse, 128.Tournade, 12.Transvestism, 242.Trobrianders, 102.Trousseau, 127.Tumescence, 17 ei seq,Uffelmann, 126.Ulrichs, 222, 229.Unconscious, the, 359.Underbill, Evelyn, 362.Und<strong>in</strong>ism, 165.Uranism, 222,Urethral erotism, 164.Urolagnia, 87, 162*[376]


INDEXVag<strong>in</strong>al absorption, 295.Vag<strong>in</strong>ismus, 333.Van de Velde, 59, 212, 297, 301,349-Vaschide, 56, 63.Venturi, 53, 105, 106.Venus obverse, 21.Virchow, 228.Virilism, 227.Vision, 63 et seq.Vogel, 126.Voyeurism, 73, 151.Vurpas, 63.Wagner, 62, 365.Waldste<strong>in</strong>, E., 296.Walker, K., 321.Wallace, A., 38-Warens, Madame de, 311.Wells, F. L., 358.West, 127.Westermarck, 93, 94.Westphal, 222.Whitman, Walt, 253.Wolbarst, 133, 214, 216, 217.Wundt, 58.Yellowlees, 127.Zondek-Aschheim test, 13, 57cZooerastia, 176.Zoophilia, 151, 175, 178.Zoth, 296.Zuckerman, 219.Zwaardemaker, 5I[377]

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