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forfeited the $800 registration fee. “I<br />

didn’t reverse my decision with the Ironman<br />

corporation in hopes that the event<br />

might change and take place on Sunday.”<br />

Weighing In<br />

Alicia and her small family weren’t<br />

the only ones affected by her qualifying<br />

for <strong>Kona</strong>—or by her decision not to participate.<br />

Some friends sent money to<br />

help with the trip’s expenses, which<br />

would likely be at least $3,000. Several<br />

shared their opinions. Some were solicited<br />

and welcome, some were not.<br />

The Trotts requested a meeting with<br />

their pastor, Mark Pekar. Pekar was<br />

respectful of their situation. He was<br />

also helpful, telling them, “If there<br />

wasn’t a struggle, there wouldn’t have<br />

been growth. That’s where growth<br />

comes from. And if there wasn’t that<br />

temptation, there wouldn’t have been a<br />

learning experience for you.”<br />

Says Trott, “That was true. And I blogged<br />

about that, too. I wanted to be real with<br />

everyone who was reading my blog. I had a<br />

friend who flew to Lake Placid to watch<br />

me, and who started collecting an impressive<br />

sum of money to fund my trip to<br />

<strong>Kona</strong>. I knew I had to let my friend know<br />

what my decision was as soon as possible<br />

so she could return any collected funds to<br />

the generous givers. I thought, I’ve really got<br />

to make sure I do the right thing; got<br />

to really listen to God and what He’s<br />

telling me.”<br />

Alicia felt pulled in different<br />

directions as she contended<br />

with her triathlon community,<br />

her family, and her church<br />

family. The triathlon community<br />

knew how hard—how<br />

almost impossible—it is to<br />

qualify for <strong>Kona</strong>. “They think<br />

<strong>Kona</strong> is the ultimate,” explains<br />

Trott, “and so many of them<br />

have been trying for years to qualify.<br />

Some of them were upset with me, and<br />

[refuse to] talk to me. I joined the group<br />

and did this training, and they knew I<br />

was a churchgoer—they knew I was a<br />

<strong>Christ</strong>ian. People would say things during<br />

the training, kind of slamming that a<br />

little bit, but it didn’t bother me much.<br />

And then just to see the success I experienced,<br />

even though they never saw me<br />

train on Sabbath; I just hope that they<br />

connect the blessings as being from God.<br />

I don’t know if they do, but I hope so.”<br />

Church members also voiced their<br />

opinions. Alicia was surprised when<br />

some she thought would have been<br />

encouraging her not to do it were urging<br />

her to compete at <strong>Kona</strong> on a Sabbath.<br />

“We also had people upset at us, believing<br />

that we were considering it,” says<br />

Trott, “people who said they wouldn’t<br />

support us at all if we went. They were<br />

there to offer their opinion—and act as<br />

my conscience—because they were concerned<br />

about my salvation. Some of this<br />

was short and abrupt—and hurtful.”<br />

The Ultimate Achievement<br />

“Qualifying for <strong>Kona</strong> is the ultimate<br />

achievement in triathlon,” Trott says. “You<br />

can’t really go any further unless you<br />

become pro and you start winning multiple<br />

Ironman World Championships. There<br />

is no higher race or bigger race. <strong>Kona</strong> is the<br />

Olympics of triathlon. Similar to the World<br />

Series of baseball.” And even though Alicia<br />

hadn’t invested as much money as some in<br />

this purported “rich man’s sport,” with<br />

expensive equipment, health club memberships,<br />

and coaches, she and her family<br />

had invested much in time and energy.<br />

While Trott was able to come to the decision<br />

not to race on Sabbath rather quickly,<br />

the disappointment and the hurt she experienced<br />

took longer to resolve.<br />

Alicia went to church on October 13,<br />

2012. “This is the day Alicia would have<br />

been running, and she’s grieving,” said<br />

Rick Trott, her father-in-law. “It was the<br />

right decision, but she’s still grieving.”<br />

“I definitely shed a lot of tears,” agrees<br />

Trott, “but when I look back, it all starts<br />

to make sense. Even the harsh words<br />

from some people really helped me listen<br />

to the small voice that convicted me<br />

to make the decision [not to race].” Trott<br />

describes being at church that day, reading<br />

the Bible, and praying. “I was thinking<br />

about <strong>Kona</strong>. But I was still so<br />

grateful for my decision. I didn’t have<br />

one regret and didn’t desire to be there.”<br />

Trott is circumspect: “If it was on Sunday,<br />

yes, if things could have been different,<br />

yes. But having seen my influence on<br />

people, having the weight on my shoulders<br />

of having influenced them differently—that<br />

would have been horrible.”<br />

Not only did Alicia share her decision—and<br />

her faith—with those she met<br />

and with those who read her blog; but<br />

she was able to share her experience during<br />

a church service a few weeks before<br />

the race day. After Alicia briefly explained<br />

the situation and the decision, church<br />

members presented her with flowers<br />

and a personalized card. The woman who<br />

had been interviewing Alicia during the<br />

service concluded with a request, saying,<br />

“Church family, repeat after me, ‘Alicia,<br />

we hold you in the highest esteem, and<br />

we support your decision.’ ”<br />

“I told them, ‘This is more meaningful<br />

than the medal I got!’ ” remembers Trott.<br />

“Hearing the whole church say that in<br />

“People can be wonderful,<br />

they can be great influences,<br />

but in the end a person has<br />

to look to God.”<br />

unison to me, I was just like Lord, how<br />

much support can I feel! And ultimately,<br />

even though there were some who said<br />

some things that hurt, ultimately I<br />

focused on that support. I came into my<br />

own that day. I walked out of that church<br />

just feeling so proud and so blessed to be<br />

part of that family—a family where I’d<br />

grown up, was baptized, and married.”<br />

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