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Tevet –Shevat 5775 February , 2015, Vol 48<br />
<strong>EBJC</strong> <strong>RECORDER</strong><br />
511 Ryders Lane, East Brunswick, NJ 08816<br />
Tel: 732-257-7070 Fax: 732-257-9630 www.ebjc.org
Shabbat Services<br />
YITRO<br />
Friday, February 6 – 5pm<br />
Saturday, February 7 – 9:30 am & 5 pm<br />
MISHPATIM-SHEKALIM<br />
Friday, February 13 – 5:10 pm<br />
Saturday, February 14 – 9:30 am & 5:10 pm<br />
TERUMAH<br />
Friday, February 20 – 5:15 pm<br />
Saturday, February 21 – 9:30 am & 5:15 pm<br />
TETZAVEH-ZACHOR<br />
Friday, February 27 – 5:25 pm<br />
Saturday, February 28 – 9:30 am & 5:25 pm<br />
Friday Shabbat times (candle lighting)<br />
February 6 – 5:01pm<br />
February 13 - 5:10pm<br />
February 20 - 5:18 pm<br />
February 27 - 5:26 pm<br />
<strong>EBJC</strong> Offerings and Fundraisings<br />
Join Men's Club for only $36 contact Gale at (732)<br />
257-7070<br />
Dedication of the second pair of Amir Stained Glass<br />
Panels “Reaching for the Heavens”. $1800 -<br />
$10,000. contact Gale at (732) 257-7070<br />
Mazel Tosses - Delicious wrapped Sunkist Fruit<br />
Gems to be gently tossed at a Bar/Bat Mitvah.<br />
$36/50 tosses contact Lory Pelofsky (732)<br />
254-7851<br />
Buy Script for Shop Rite, Acme & Lox, Stock &<br />
Deli, Sisterhood keeps 4-5%. It costs you nothing.<br />
Contact Carol Weisfelner at (732) 257-<br />
6752<br />
Show your appreciation, honor or comments about<br />
someone in this Recorder for ony $18. Contact<br />
Gale at(732) 257-7070<br />
Advertisers and Sponsors are wanted in the Recorder.<br />
Please contact Gale at (732) 257-7070<br />
College Students—Receive Chanukah and Purim<br />
baskets from <strong>EBJC</strong>. Free—Undergraduates—<br />
$36 Post Graduates. Please contact Trudi<br />
Teicher at (732) 257-7070.<br />
Sisterhood<br />
Beautiful basket of Food Items, matched to your<br />
Simcha with a letter and placement on the Bimah<br />
$150. Contact Gale at (732) 257-7070<br />
JNF Tree Certificates - $15.00 contact Diana Horowitz<br />
at (732) 390-9058<br />
Sponsor or Co-Sponsor a Shabbat Morning Kiddish.<br />
(We all love to eat!) Contact Sylvia<br />
Halpern at (732) 257-7070<br />
<strong>EBJC</strong> has a wonderful Gift shop. Please visit us.<br />
General Tribute Cards—Please call Bernice Bellows<br />
at (732) 254-4103<br />
Bar/Bat Mitzvah tribute cards—please call Beth<br />
Belzer at (732) 238-7924<br />
Decorate your home with a fine work of art -- Don<br />
Bloom's work now on exhibit in the Gallery.<br />
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RABBINIC REFLECTIONS — Share in Shabbat<br />
Annually at this time of the year<br />
our Torah reading cycle brings us<br />
to Mount Sinai. The children of Israel<br />
have first emerged from Egypt<br />
and before their journey is two<br />
months old, they are hearing God<br />
speak to them from the mountain.<br />
Nothing will ever be the same<br />
again.<br />
At Sinai, the People of Israel hear<br />
the voice of God and Moses descends from the mountain<br />
with the Ten Commandments. These ten utterances<br />
have formed the foundation of our faith, and the ultimate<br />
meaning of what it means to be a Jew. Each of<br />
these Commandments is an essential teaching of Judaism<br />
and none can be said to be more important than<br />
another, but of all the Commandments one has defined<br />
Jewish practice throughout the ages. The Fourth Commandment<br />
tells us “Remember the Sabbath Day and<br />
keep it holy,” and throughout history, Jews have been<br />
keeping Shabbat and using it as a standard of their<br />
commitment to God.<br />
While we use the term “Shomer Shabbat,” keeping<br />
Shabbat, as a description of our fidelity to God, it was<br />
the Zionist writer, Ahad Ha’am who wrote, “More than<br />
the Jews have kept Shabbat, Shabbat has kept the<br />
Jews.” Ahad Ha’am recognized that the observance<br />
and the meaning of Shabbat had cemented in the Jewish<br />
people a unique identity. Shabbat helps distinguish<br />
between Jews and non-Jews in a cultural as well as in a<br />
religious sense. He believed that strong senses of Jewish<br />
identify and pride was a direct result of observing<br />
and acknowledging Shabbat as our holy day. What he<br />
recognized over a century ago is even more accurate<br />
today.<br />
In a Jewish world that is that is under siege by the<br />
forces of assimilation and where people are struggling<br />
with purpose and meaning, there is no more important<br />
celebration than Shabbat. The observance and celebration<br />
of Shabbat helps cement our commitment to<br />
God, strengthen our relationship with the Jewish people,<br />
enhance our connection to community and reinvigorate<br />
our bond with our family. We do not keep Shabbat<br />
holy as much as Shabbat keeps us whole!<br />
Shabbat is a foundational element of <strong>EBJC</strong>. From<br />
Kabbalat Shabbat service on Friday evening to Havdalah<br />
on Saturday night, Shabbat is the focal point of our<br />
community. Our mission as Jews must be to enhance<br />
the Shabbat experience for our members and Jews in<br />
our community. To that end we began a program last<br />
month that I call “Share in Shabbat.” It is a Friday night<br />
experience where Shabbat is the theme. We began with<br />
a family style singing service followed by a multigenerational<br />
Shabbat meal. We ate, we sang, we<br />
schmoozed and we played board games. Some played<br />
cards, some played checkers, all celebrated Shabbat in<br />
the spirit of Shabbat.<br />
This month we continue this tradition. Join Elana<br />
and I on Friday Night February 13th, for a singing service<br />
at 6:30 PM and stay for Shabbat dinner, cards,<br />
table games, talk and tea. We will Share in Shabbat as<br />
a community and as we do so we will be uplifted.<br />
For those senior adults who need round-trip transportation,<br />
we are pleased to offer a shuttle bus service<br />
with support of The Wilf Campus For Senior Living and<br />
the Jewish Federation of Middlesex County. Space is<br />
limited on a first-come, first-served basis. Call the <strong>EBJC</strong><br />
office to reserve transportation.<br />
The Talmud tells the story of a Roman official who<br />
was speaking to Rabbi Joshua ben Hanania. He asked<br />
the Rabbi, “Why has the Sabbath dish such a fragrant<br />
odor?” The Rabbi told him, “We have a certain seasoning,<br />
called the Sabbath, which we put into it, and that<br />
gives it a fragrant aroma.”<br />
Indeed Shabbat gives this special aroma and flavor<br />
to our lives. That is why at <strong>EBJC</strong> we are so eager to<br />
Share in Shabbat.<br />
Rabbi Joshua S. Finkelstein<br />
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It never fails. We run an event<br />
and somebody, some people, or<br />
everyone says, how wonderful a<br />
time they had and only if more<br />
people attended. Immediately following<br />
these events people come<br />
up and tell me that they know they<br />
missed something special and they wish they had<br />
attended. Over the last six months we’ve been running<br />
many extraordinary events including Eat!,<br />
Drink! and Play! for Israel, Cory Booker, Dueling<br />
Pianos, and most recently our Multi-Generational<br />
Shabbat just to name a few.<br />
Coming up in February are several not to be<br />
missed events. Starting on Sunday, February 1 st is<br />
the Men’s Club Annual World Wide Wrap featuring<br />
a talk by Yigal and Deena Oren on Israeli current<br />
events. On Sunday February 15 th the Men’s Club<br />
and Social Action are holding a blood drive and a<br />
presentation to the Unsung Heroes of <strong>EBJC</strong>.<br />
Following that presentation that includes a nice<br />
breakfast, I will be holding a parlor meeting to answer<br />
your questions about <strong>EBJC</strong>.<br />
Rabbi Finkelstein, on Sunday, February 22 nd is<br />
leading a group on a kosher tour of New York City<br />
including stops on the Lower East Side, sweet stop<br />
and dinner at a kosher deli, and a tour and prayer<br />
stop at the 9-11 Museum.<br />
The month of February culminates with an event<br />
for the entire family. On February 28 th , <strong>EBJC</strong> will be<br />
presenting a Broadway Review featuring 2 original<br />
cast members from Les Misérables, an ensemble<br />
cast from several Broadway plays and our very own<br />
Jonathan Seltzer who played Billy Elliot. Tickets<br />
are being priced in a family friendly manner; $36<br />
for an individual, $118 for a Family of 4. This is<br />
our winter major fund raising event. We’ll be sending<br />
out an email soon with a URL to the group’s<br />
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President’s Report<br />
publicity video and order information.<br />
Join us for an event or 2 in February and don’t be<br />
one of those people that wish they did something<br />
but never did.<br />
Eric Rabinowitz
PreSchool Press from Lynda Perel<br />
I cannot tell a lie, I love cherry<br />
pie! Our preschoolers will be<br />
baking a cherry pie in honor of<br />
Presidents Day. We will read<br />
books, sing songs, and learn<br />
how someone can become<br />
president of the United States.<br />
Who knows? Maybe one of<br />
our preschoolers will be president one day.<br />
On February 2 nd our students are taking a trip to<br />
the State Theater in New Brunswick. They will see<br />
the show, “Stella the Snow Queen”, based on the<br />
award-winning children's book series by Marie-<br />
Louise Gay. This books tells the endearing story of<br />
two children who spend the day playing in the<br />
snow. Our preschooler not only get the thrill of riding<br />
on a school bus, but they also get to experience<br />
a live show in the theater. To see the expressions<br />
on their faces is priceless.<br />
In honor of Dental Health Month, Dr. Jamie Wasserman<br />
will talk to our preschooler about how to<br />
take care of their pearly whites. Jamie does a<br />
great job talking showing the kids how to take care<br />
of their teeth with felt board stories and demonstrations.<br />
We appreciate her taking time out of her<br />
busy schedule to come and talk to our Nursery<br />
School.<br />
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DIRECTOR’S DRASH from Julie Schwarzwald<br />
"What's in a name? That which we call a<br />
rose, by any other name would smell as<br />
sweet." William Shakespeare may have<br />
been correct, but we also know that<br />
semantics can play a large role in perception.<br />
Hebrew School. Religious<br />
School. Sunday School. Supplementary School. Center<br />
for Jewish Learning. What's in a name? Over the years,<br />
the changes in names for what we call Hebrew School<br />
sometimes have been tied to changes in curriculum and<br />
objectives, and sometimes have been tied to marketing<br />
and public relations. Regardless, the decision of curriculum<br />
and emphasis is an ongoing question for all of us<br />
involved in Jewish education. As the time devoted to<br />
Jewish education declines - from three days a week to<br />
two to only one day a week in some schools - the demand<br />
for these institutions to "teach it all" has increased.<br />
What should our emphasis be?<br />
Hebrew reading - Do we want our children to be<br />
able to decode Hebrew fluently?<br />
Hebrew language - Do we want our children to<br />
understand the meaning of what they are reading?<br />
Conversational Hebrew - Do we want our children<br />
to be able to speak Hebrew fluently?<br />
Prayers - Do we want our children to know the<br />
prayers for Shabbat and holidays and daily worship<br />
and be confident in any shul anywhere in the world?<br />
Israel - Do we want our children to know the<br />
history of the land of Israel? And the geography, and<br />
the major cities, and the culture and national symbols<br />
and anthem?<br />
Holidays - Do we want our children to be knowledgeable<br />
about the history, rituals, traditions, and<br />
blessings associated with Jewish holidays?<br />
Bible - Do we want our children to know the stories<br />
of the Torah and how they communicate our<br />
ancestry and our values?<br />
Ethics - Do we want our children to embody the<br />
ethics and values of Judaism? And what the mitzvot<br />
and commandments are and how to follow them?<br />
God - Do we want our children to develop a personal,<br />
spiritual relationship with God?<br />
Life Cycle - Do we want our children to understand<br />
the Jewish aspects of life cycle events?<br />
The answer, of course, is YES. To all of the above. Moreover,<br />
please don't take more than two hours a week, on<br />
a day that is most convenient to my family, at a reasonable<br />
price that is easily affordable. All understandable,<br />
but highly unlikely, to say the least!<br />
So, it is time to begin a conversation on what our priorities<br />
are. We know that we do not want bar/bat mitzvah<br />
to be the end of Jewish education; we know that we<br />
want our children to be lifelong learners and lifelong<br />
Jews. The Hebrew language is a unifying element among<br />
Jews around the world, as is a knowledge of and comfort<br />
with tefillah/prayer and synagogue rituals. Yet we each,<br />
as adults, approach Judaism in different ways and view it<br />
through different lenses. I look forward to engaging in<br />
this conversation with you over the next few months.<br />
HEBREW SCHOOL HAPPENINGS<br />
Please join us on Sunday, February 1 for the World Wide<br />
Wrap, a chance to learn about and practice putting on<br />
tefillin. This will be a school day for Kitot Vav and Zayin<br />
and their parents, as they join Kita Hei for a special program<br />
with Men's Club. Kitot Gimel and Dalet will build a<br />
pair of tefillin as they learn about the contents.<br />
There will be no school on Sunday, February 15 due to<br />
Presidents Weekend.<br />
Please join Kitot Dalet and Hei as they take part in Shabbat<br />
services on Friday, February 20.<br />
On Sunday, February 22, Kita Vav will go to the Museum<br />
of Jewish Heritage as part of their unit on the Holocaust.<br />
YOUTH NEWS<br />
The new youth lounge in APR 1 is looking spiffy after<br />
USY'ers painted it! We would love to have a refrigerator<br />
there for use by the youth groups and the Hebrew<br />
school. Donations welcome!<br />
Upcoming events:<br />
Chaverim – Mt. Rushmore President Painting, February<br />
24, 6:15-7:30 pm<br />
Kadima – Cupcake Wars, February 3, 6:15-7:45 pm<br />
USY – Israel Night, February 17, 7:00-9:00 pm<br />
For more information about any of these programs, contact<br />
Julie Schwarzwald, Education and Youth Director,<br />
jschwarzwald@ebjc.org.<br />
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East Brunswick Jewish Center<br />
511 Ryders Lane, E Brunswick, NJ 08816<br />
Tel: 732-257-7070 Fax: 732-257-9630<br />
www.ebjc.org<br />
Joshua Finkelstein, Rabbi<br />
732-257-7070<br />
Eric Rabinowitz, President<br />
732-390-9781<br />
Primary Contacts<br />
Mark Benson, Youth Commission 732-432-7693<br />
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Joannie Weinfeld, Youth<br />
Commission 732-390-7794<br />
Steven Albert,Religious chair 732-238-7126<br />
Julie Schwarzwald, Education & Youth Director 732-257-<br />
7070<br />
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Lynda Perel, Nursery School<br />
Director 732-257-7070<br />
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Raymond Sasson, Financial Admin. 732-257-7070<br />
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David Blivaiss, Treasurer<br />
732-238-6780<br />
Cindy Rabinowitz, Sisterhood<br />
President 732-390-9781<br />
Mark Foladare, Men’s Club<br />
President 732-238-4656<br />
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<strong>RECORDER</strong> STAFF<br />
Gale Dillman, Administration<br />
Vicki & Marty Nathanson, Rick Rollman, Joannie<br />
Weinfeld, Madeline Frances<br />
Jay Lopatin, Editor
THE WORLD WIDE WRAP IS FEBRUARY 1, 2015<br />
The Men’s Club has an exciting set of programs planned:<br />
We will have extra tefillin, and congregants, to help anyone attending the morning service, who require assistance<br />
putting on the tefillin. Services begin 8:15 A.M.<br />
There will be a breakfast after Sunday morning services (around 9:00 AM) with Yigal and Deena Oren giving<br />
a presentation and answering questions on Israeli Current Events which includes how Israeli politics will affect<br />
the upcoming election.<br />
Around 10:00 AM - 11:15 there will be a World Wide Wrap program for the 5th - 7th graders. The Mens<br />
Club will assist interested 5th - 7th graders in putting on the tefillin. There will be two or three speakers from<br />
the Shul, who will talk about what it means to them for putting on Tefillin.<br />
For 3rd and 4th graders, there will be an opportunity to build a pair of model tefillin.<br />
Upcoming Mens Club Events<br />
February 1st - World Wide Wrap<br />
February 15th - With Social Action Committee Tri-Synogogue Blood Drive and Unsung Heroes Breakfast<br />
March tbd - Joint Breakfast with Sisterhood - Book and Author<br />
April 19th - Breakfast program on health and medicine<br />
April - Yom Hashoah Yellow candle program<br />
Mens club Basketball - talk to Lloyd Shepetin<br />
Mens Club Softball - talk to Steve Harkavy<br />
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February 2015 Calendar<br />
Broadway Review— Book by Feb 1 and get PREMI-<br />
UM VIP Seating.<br />
Broadway Review— Feb 28 Event<br />
Dalet and Hei Dinner & Service – Feb. 20 – 6:30<br />
pm<br />
Don Bloom— Acclaimed fine artist Don Bloom has<br />
graced our new <strong>EBJC</strong> Gallery with his work.<br />
Egalitarian morning minyan-Feb. 7<br />
Egalitarian mincha minyan –Feb. 21-5:20 pm<br />
Genesis Science – Feb. 2, 9, 16, 23 – 8:30 pm-<br />
Library<br />
Hebrew Class- Feb. 5, 12, 19, 26-7 pm – Library<br />
Israeli Dance – Feb. 2, 9, 16, 23 –7 pm - Kroll ballroom<br />
Lunch and Learn – Feb. 4, 11, 18, 25 - - 12 noon –<br />
Kroll ballroom<br />
Mah Jongg – Feb. 2, 9, 16, 23 – 7:30 pm<br />
Talmud Class-Feb. 4, 11, 18, 25 – 8:30 pm – Library<br />
Ulpan – Feb. 3, 10, 17, 24-7 pm<br />
Youth Group – Feb. 3, 10, 17, 24<br />
a Fashion Show, a craft project, a Spring Sisterhood<br />
Shabbat, and the annual Torah Fund Dinner which<br />
is scheduled for Friday,<br />
May 1 st this year.<br />
There are so many different<br />
and exciting<br />
events happening at<br />
<strong>EBJC</strong>, I hope you will<br />
participate!<br />
Many people make<br />
New Year resolutions.<br />
I<br />
hope that one of them that you make and actually<br />
KEEP is to buy gift cards for ShopRite, ACME, and<br />
LSD from Sisterhood.<br />
Contact Carol 732-257-6752 or email her at<br />
scrip@ebjc.org.<br />
Our Judaica Shop is here for YOU!!! Come in and<br />
see what’s NEW!!! Lory went shopping!!! There are<br />
beautiful gift items for every occasion! Contact Lory<br />
Pelofsky.<br />
Our Mitzvah Baskets are beautiful and our Mazel<br />
Tosses are fun and delicious! Get them for your<br />
next Simcha!<br />
Join Today’s Sisterhood!!!<br />
The order form for Purim is inside this edition of the<br />
Recorder. Please fill it out as soon as possible. As<br />
in the past, the Shalach Manot baskets will be filled<br />
with delicious and fun goodies! It would be a beautiful<br />
mitzvah if you send out a basket to ALL of your<br />
fellow congregants!<br />
Cindy Rabinowitz<br />
cindy.rabinowitz@comcast.net<br />
Look for the following programs and events coming<br />
up in the next few months: A Book and Author program<br />
with our very own congregant Shirley Wachtel,<br />
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Donations<br />
THE CONGREGATION EX-<br />
TENDS MAZEL TOV TO:<br />
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Gloria and Steven Green on the marriage<br />
of their son, Perry Green to<br />
Morgan Zuckerman<br />
Gloria and Jerry Gitlitz on the marriage<br />
of their great nephew, Perry<br />
Green to Morgan Zuckerman<br />
Meri and Marc Pearl on the engagement<br />
of their son, Matthew Pearl to<br />
Karen Stoltz<br />
Sharon Fischer and Paul Fischer on<br />
the engagement of their daughter,<br />
Lital Fischer to Joshua Litwack<br />
Margie and Alan Ferrer on the birth<br />
of twin granddaughters, Kendall Parker<br />
and Kacie Paige<br />
Diana and Sheldon Horowitz on the<br />
birth of a grandson, Michael Orin<br />
Schwanke<br />
Linda and Monte Block on the engagement<br />
of their daughter, Shannon<br />
Block to Bryan Mc Cormick<br />
Sherryl and Mickey Kaufman in honor<br />
of the birth of their grandson, Aaron<br />
Solomon Kaufman<br />
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Allen Bachenheimer for yahrzeit in<br />
memory of his father, Josef<br />
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Allen Bachenheimer for yahrzeit in<br />
memory of his mother, Herta<br />
Bachenheimer<br />
Allen Bachenheimer for yahrzeit in<br />
memory of his father-in-law, William<br />
Shapiro<br />
Doris and David Bagoff for yahrzeit<br />
in memory of his father, Nathan Bagoff<br />
Marlene and Jordan Barth for yahrzeit<br />
in memory of her grandmother,<br />
Rose Itzkowitz<br />
Rochelle and Gary Bennett for yahrzeit<br />
in memory of her mother, Sophie<br />
Zamore<br />
Rochelle and Gary Bennett for yahr-<br />
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Rochelle and Gary Bennett for yahrzeit<br />
in memory of her sister, Harriet<br />
Felsenstein<br />
Rebecca and Charles Breverman for<br />
yahrzeit in memory of his father,<br />
Harry Breverman<br />
Rebecca and Charles Breverman for<br />
yahrzeit in memory of his mother,<br />
Sophia Izenson Breverman<br />
Rebecca and Charles Breverman for<br />
yahrzeit in memory of her father,<br />
David Abraham Dragiff<br />
Judy and Saul Brodman for yahrzeit<br />
in memory of his father, Morris Brodman<br />
Judy and Saul Brodman for yahrzeit<br />
in memory of his mother, Rosalind<br />
Brodman<br />
Myra-Lee Cohen for yahrzeit in<br />
memory of her father, Max Cohen<br />
Estelle Dellaira for yahrzeit<br />
Basya and Alexander Ekshtayn for<br />
yahrzeit in memory of his father,<br />
Yakov Ekshtayn<br />
Basya and Alexander Ekshtayn for<br />
yahrzeit in memory of her mother,<br />
Raissa Novik<br />
Anita and Elliot Freidenreich for yahrzeit<br />
in memory of his father, David<br />
Freidenreich<br />
Isadora Gelb for yahrzeit in memory<br />
of her mother, Mary Wachtell<br />
Sally Godfrey for yahrzeit in memory<br />
of her father-in-law, Reuben Godfrey<br />
Margo and Martin Hecht for yahrzeit<br />
in memory of her father, Arthur Herberg<br />
Margo and Martin Hecht for yahrzeit<br />
in memory of his father, Michael<br />
Hecht<br />
Gloria and Barry Jaslow for yahrzeit<br />
in memory of her father, Max Wolk<br />
Barbara Reed and Michael Kesler<br />
for yahrzeit in memory of his sister,<br />
Luba Perlman<br />
Sydelle and Sherman Kramer for<br />
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yahrzeit in memory of her father,<br />
Arthur Lesser<br />
Alicia and Emil Lax for yahrzeit<br />
Joyce and Neal Leavitt for yahrzeit<br />
Martin Leska for yahrzeit in memory<br />
of Lillian Leska<br />
Linda and Roy Levi for yahrzeit in<br />
memory of his mother, Else Levi<br />
Lynn and Bob Levine for yahrzeit in<br />
memory of his mother, Yvette Levine<br />
Marcia and Roy Meyers for yahrzeit<br />
in memory of Roberta Meyers<br />
Dian and Larry Perkel for yahrzeit in<br />
memory of her brother, Eugene Rose<br />
Cindy and Rick Rollman for yahrzeit<br />
Myra and Paul Rose for yahrzeit in<br />
memory of her sister, Barbara<br />
Dombek<br />
Marilyn and Joe Rosen for yahrzeit in<br />
memory of his mother, Ruth Rosen<br />
Janice and Jerry Saferstein for yahrzeit<br />
in memory of her father, Sidney<br />
Stein<br />
Janice and Jerry Saferstein for yahrzeit<br />
in memory of his mother, Grace<br />
Saferstein<br />
Janice and Jerry Saferstein for yahrzeit<br />
in memory of his uncle, Jack<br />
Saferstein<br />
Phyllis Schneider for yahrzeit in<br />
memory of her father, Louis Saffer<br />
Florence and Irwin Schwartz for yahrzeit<br />
in memory of her father, Hyman<br />
Wexlin<br />
Judy and Ken Streisand for yahrzeit<br />
in memory of her father, Irwin Rothman<br />
Rochelle and Sorin Weissman for<br />
yahrzeit<br />
Carol and Mark Winter for yahrzeit in<br />
memory of her father, Milton Weissman<br />
Yvette Schlussel and Asher Yama for<br />
yahrzeit in memory of his father,<br />
Mordecai Yama<br />
Florence and Steven Winter for yahrzeit<br />
in memory of his father, Nathan<br />
Winter<br />
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Leba and Neal Yolin for yahrzeit in<br />
memory of his sister, Marilyn Epstein<br />
ALIYAH<br />
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Sylvia and Ed Cohen<br />
Sheryl and Glenn Dekhayser for aliyot<br />
Edith and Eugene Foladare<br />
Marla and Marty Genee<br />
Sydney and Larry Kramer<br />
Fran and Joel Shafer<br />
Terri and Jack Silverman<br />
Shirley and Bruce Sommers<br />
Janice and Lewis Stolar in honor of<br />
Janice’s father, William Goldberg’s<br />
85 th birthday<br />
Trudi and Stuart Teicher<br />
GENERAL<br />
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Robyn and Michael Barnett in<br />
memory of Roberta Solomon’s father,<br />
Joseph Einhorn<br />
Rochelle and Gary Bennett for an El<br />
Molay<br />
Rochelle and Gary Bennett for an el<br />
Moley Rachamim<br />
Bobbi and David Blumenthal in<br />
memory of Phyllis Schneider’s husband<br />
and Laura Sucher’s dad, Al<br />
Schneider<br />
Donna and Harvey Goldschmidt in<br />
memory of Phyllis Schneider’s husband<br />
and Laura Sucher’s dad, Al<br />
Schneider<br />
Gloria and Barry Jaslow in memory<br />
of Neil Kosher’s mother, Shirley Kosher<br />
Gloria and Barry Jaslow in honor of<br />
Harvey Goldschmidt receiving the<br />
Man of the Year award from Men’s<br />
Club<br />
Sherry Keller in memory of Phyllis<br />
Schneider’s husband and Laura<br />
Sucher’s dad, Al Schneider<br />
Rosanne and Arthur Kleinman in<br />
memory of Pearl and Fred Efros and<br />
their Holocaust child, Ava Marten<br />
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Rosanne and Arthur Kleinman in<br />
memory of Jessie, Rabbi Irving and<br />
Randi Kleinman<br />
Rosanne and Arthur Kleinman in<br />
memory of Esther Schwartz’ mother,<br />
Paula Kalina<br />
Sydney and Larry Kramer in honor of<br />
the birth of Rosanne and Arthur<br />
Kleinman’s grandson, Harrison<br />
Rand Kleinman<br />
Sydney and Larry Kramer in memory<br />
of Roberta Solomon’s father, Joseph<br />
Einhorn<br />
Sydney and Larry Kramer in honor of<br />
the birth of Sherryl and Mickey kaufman’s<br />
grandson, Aaron Solomon<br />
Kaufman<br />
Vickie and Martin Nathanson in<br />
memory of Phyllis Schneider’s husband<br />
and Laura Sucher’s dad, Al<br />
Schneider<br />
Anita and Herman Price for a<br />
meshuberach<br />
Janice and Jerry Saferstein in<br />
memory of Monte Block’s father,<br />
Jerome Block<br />
Janice and Jerry Saferstein in<br />
memory of Neil Kosher’s mother,<br />
Shirley Kosher<br />
Adela and Raymond Sasson in<br />
memory of Phyllis Schneider’s husband<br />
and Laura Sucher’s dad, Al<br />
Schneider<br />
Amy and Will Schafer in memory of<br />
Phyllis Schneider’s husband and<br />
Laura Sucher’s dad, Al Schneider<br />
Caroline and Fred Steinberg in<br />
memory of Roberta Solomon’s father,<br />
Joseph Einhorn<br />
Ross Teicher in honor of the B’nai<br />
Mitzvah of Jack and Rebecca Rollman<br />
Trudi and Stuart Teicher in honor of<br />
the B’nai Mitzvah of Jack and Rebecca<br />
Rollman<br />
Trudi and Stuart Teicher in memory<br />
of Roberta Solomon’s father, Joseph<br />
Einhorn<br />
Trudi and Stuart Teicher in memory<br />
of Phyllis Schneider’s husband and<br />
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Laura Sucher’s dad, Al Schneider<br />
Carol and Mark Winter in honor of<br />
the birth of Margie and Alan Ferrer’s<br />
granddaughters, Kendall Parker and<br />
Kacie Paige<br />
BLIVAISS SCHOLARSHIP<br />
FUND<br />
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Karen and David Blivaiss for yahrzeit<br />
in memory of his father, Ben Blivaiss<br />
KORN SCHOLARSHIP FUND<br />
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Ellen and Allan Korn in memory of<br />
Phyllis Schneider’s husband and<br />
Laura Sucher’s dad, Al Schneider<br />
Ellen and Allan Korn in memory of<br />
Roberta Solomon’s father, Joseph<br />
Einhorn<br />
FLORENCE ALBERT MEMORI-<br />
AL FUND<br />
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Brenda and Steven Albert in memory<br />
of Phyllis Schneider’s husband and<br />
Laura Sucher’s dad Al Schneider<br />
Brenda and Steven Albert in honor<br />
of Evan Schonfeld’s marriage to Sarah<br />
Trachtenberg<br />
Brenda and Steven Albert in memory<br />
of Neil Kosher’s mother, Shirley Kosher<br />
BIKUR CHOLIM COMMITTEE<br />
<br />
Ira Harkavy in thanks for the Bikur<br />
Cholim visits when he was in the<br />
hospital<br />
THE CONGREGATION EX-<br />
TENDS CONDOLENCES TO:<br />
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Phyllis Schneider on the loss of her<br />
husband, Al Schneider<br />
Laura Sucher on the loss of her father,<br />
Al Schneider<br />
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www.ebjc.org Is Now Better Than Ever<br />
Okay, we know our prior website was long overdue<br />
for an overhaul. And, we’ve done just that.<br />
Thanks to the efforts of many, and particularly<br />
Matt Kaufman, we now have a new website.<br />
We know it’s not complete and there’s a never<br />
ending list of things we want to improve it. But,<br />
here are some immediate things you’ll notice.<br />
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Same URL—we’re still at www.ebjc.org<br />
You can now pay your dues online! You may<br />
use either a credit card or your checking account.<br />
We really prefer a checking account<br />
because last year we paid over $20,000 to<br />
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have preferred to use this money to reduce<br />
our budget deficit.<br />
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You can see the current and prior issues of<br />
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East Brunswick Jewish Center has two cemeteries -<br />
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It is important to look to the future and plan ahead. It<br />
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