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Trinity People<br />

Testimony<br />

At the ‘Refresh’ meeting in November Angie gave a wonderful testimony of how<br />

God’s love supported and upheld her during a very difficult time in her life, and<br />

continues to do so. Maggie Bruce prompted her with questions. Her testimony<br />

is long, but it would be a shame to omit any of the important steps in her<br />

life, so it’s reproduced here in full. Maggie’s prompts are in italic print.<br />

I have been trying to remember when we first met and think it must have been in<br />

the 1990s. I was working very part time as a community paediatrician in<br />

Crawley, Horsham and EG area and heard via my professional network that a<br />

baby with Down's syndrome had been born into an East Grinstead family. I<br />

subsequently found out that a friend at Trinity called Linda was a neighbour of<br />

the mum and the mum's name was Angie! I think the birth of Megan was a<br />

pivotal moment in your life and the beginning of your God journey - could you tell<br />

us more?<br />

Yes. Megan’s birth in 1990 was very much a pivotal moment and the beginning<br />

of my road back to God. I had been part of a church as a child and I would say I<br />

had a simple childlike faith when I was younger. But as often happens, I reached<br />

my teenage years and refused to go any more. After that I very rarely went to a<br />

church and if I was asked I would say to people, ‘I’m a good person, why do I<br />

need to go to church?’<br />

Lawrence and I married in 1975 and we had two girls who were aged 10 and 8<br />

when Megan came along. In those days there were no blood tests to assess your<br />

risk factor of having a child with Down’s syndrome, only an amniocentesis test<br />

which could be carried out if you were aged 35 or over; I was 34. I had a very<br />

easy pregnancy but Megan showed signs of distress during the labour and had to<br />

be born by emergency caesarean. So a few hours after the birth I was still<br />

groggy from the anaesthetic and they told me they suspected Megan had<br />

Down’s syndrome. I was in total shock and cried almost nonstop; they very<br />

quickly moved me into a private room away from the other mums, which was<br />

helpful in some ways but also made me feel alone and isolated. I had very little<br />

experience of anybody with a learning disability and I was very afraid for the<br />

future.

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