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Viva Lewes Issue #114 March 2016

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Photo bny Emma Chaplin<br />

my lewes: Michael Richards<br />

Are you local? I was born in the Cotswolds, and<br />

after studying Physics for six years at Oxford, I<br />

came to teach and research at the University of<br />

Sussex in 1964. I lived in Kingston with my first<br />

wife Sue and we brought up our two sons there.<br />

Tell us about your second career. My marriage<br />

broke down in the 1970s and I came to live in<br />

<strong>Lewes</strong> and married Janet, with whom I’d helped<br />

start New Sussex Opera. In 1988 I started a sixyear<br />

training in psychoanalytic psychotherapy and<br />

practiced in <strong>Lewes</strong> for 20 years. Meanwhile, Janet<br />

was running a residential care home, and that<br />

helped fund my six-year gap.<br />

What prompted you to take this path? I think<br />

it was partly reflecting on the failure of my first<br />

marriage. But also, I knew I had taken up physics<br />

because I thought it was safer in that you knew<br />

when you’d got it right. As I became older I was<br />

increasingly attracted to areas where you don’t<br />

have that security. But I feel lucky to have had two<br />

complementary careers.<br />

What has your work taught you about human<br />

nature? That reflecting on our thoughts and actions<br />

enables us to grow. Socrates put it more<br />

harshly: “the unexamined life is not worth living”.<br />

This doesn’t stop us making mistakes but it does<br />

enable us to learn from them.<br />

<strong>Lewes</strong> has a lot of counsellors and psychotherapists.<br />

Why do you think this is? I’ll make<br />

two guesses. The first is that <strong>Lewes</strong> attracts reflective<br />

people who are more likely to seek help in<br />

examining their life. A more cynical thought is<br />

that therapists are like antique dealers: they make<br />

work for each other.<br />

Whom do you admire professionally? Neville<br />

Symington writes eloquently on psychoanalysis<br />

and religion, and as a Christian and ex-psychoanalyst,<br />

I believe passionately that these two can<br />

be integrated. But I don’t spend all my time in a<br />

monk’s cell or an ivory tower. Life without music,<br />

sport, bridge, gardening and being with friends<br />

and family wouldn’t be worth living.<br />

What’s changed about <strong>Lewes</strong> over the years?<br />

I’m not against DFLs, but they have changed the<br />

town. In the 1960s all classes were well represented<br />

and had a voice. Now the chattering class<br />

dominates.<br />

What do you like about <strong>Lewes</strong>? Harveys, twittens,<br />

<strong>Lewes</strong> Patisserie, and the Southdown Club<br />

where I play tennis every week.<br />

What’s your favourite view? The castle from St<br />

Michael’s churchyard.<br />

How would you spend a perfect Sunday?<br />

Church at St Michael’s in the morning. Lunch at<br />

the Cock or the Jolly Sportsman with too much<br />

wine, then recovering by a fire in the afternoon.<br />

Watching telly in the evening. I enjoyed War and<br />

Peace, but even after reading it twice, I still kept<br />

forgetting who everyone is and how they’re related<br />

to each other. Interview by Emma Chaplin<br />

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